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when only one still feels love and the ending isnt in sight

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like you live 1/2 way around the world from the 1 you love. Kind of where i'm at right now...it sucks...it really fucking sucks...

know how you feel

It was a good game and Turkey gave it their all. Now we get to delight in watching Russia beat Germany.

There's no way that Russia is going to beat Spain.

Aye... tis one truism I know.... sometimes, love is just not enough.

TNT

welcome back TNT you were missed:) kisss

no not missed

Why thank you .. but being back it probably a bit of an exaggeration. I was passing and felt to comment. Not often there is anything to comment on but this was an interesting post :)

Still it is flattering to be remembered when there are so many who are forgotten. After all who can remember the members with no names anyway? :)

Thanks once again.


TNTOPSDGTEE

That reply would have been so much nicer if you had just stopped at "thank you."

Actually, it would have been much better if you had just stopped...

I dunno, nothing ever changes. Ingrates or inmates wherever you go.

TNTIFWTYFWBF

ingrates? you did something they needed to appreciate?

Sure I did war. I kept it a lot shorter than usual. Didn't you notice? ;)


TNTDRCASWGAFA

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I understand Jells. And such a situation is one instance of tragedy. It is painful and oh so human. There's a wonderful Italian film, "A Brief Vacation," (Director:? Vittorio de Sica?) that tells a story of two people who love each other, but whose life circumstances make it impossible for them to be together. Although there is "no happy ending," it is a beautiful film. Hollywood's "happy ending" formula might provide a moment of escape for its viewers, but as art it fails on some many levels.

"Roman Holiday" was a "hollywood" film without the happy ending qnd that film is from 1957?

True, and many others besides Roman Holiday. I didn't say all Hollywood films have a happy ending, but as a general rule they do. The founders of the Hollywood studios readily admitted that their primary objective was to "entertain" the movie going public, to allow people a momentary escape from life's day to day cares, to make them "feel good," by creating an ideal world in which the good guys always win and people live happily ever after.

By comparison, European filmmakers viewed the new medium as an art. And just as there are exceptions to the general rule about Hollywood, there are exceptions to the European model. In fact, the exceptions in both cases are seen more frequently today, given that media conglomerates are now global and their main objective is--to use that hackneyed phrase--the "bottom line." So, if violence and sex, or maudlin romantic comedies is the formula for a blockbuster, then that's what comes out of the studio. Art films continue to be made, but there is only a small audience for such films.

$2.00/min for open chat in friends and family????? Must be the best host here to get that. Or is that simply a sign of how lonely us members are? :(( Anyway, it is obvious how you can pay for your vacation, lol.

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Women obviously have more to offer than just their bodies. But most guys, at least at first, come here to see a woman's body, not for nice conversation. And once things cross the line from sex to nice conversation and money is still involved, then the member is basically paying to talk to a friend. Therefore, I stand by my comment that her being able to charge such a high price just for conversation demonstrates how lonely members are.

But hey, if she can get $2.00/min for just chatting, why not? Maybe she offers good advice and is a good listener. I really don't know. In any event, once I view a host as a friend, I don't typically pay to see her very much and chat with her on yahoo. If she is willing to do this, then I know I have a friend. If not, then I know that I am just a customer and not to let feelings get involved. I do, however, help friends when they need to reach their quota to get paid and other things, but that is being a friend, not a customer. And of course, some friendships are just casual and others closer. It depends upon the host and the member.

The more shown the higher the pay.....in general.

Can't afford your rate per minute....but here is a few cents worth...."have a nice summer". While on vacation ponder either lowering your price or moving to adult.

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ThanKs!

maya miss you too, hope your coming back soon.

THOMAS HOWS U??:pMISS UR KISS:)))IF U STILL MISS ME IM OVER THERE<<<<<:)))

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Missing you too Maya sexy lady - hurry back! kisses

ILL DONT BE BACK....:((BUT I MISS TO TALK WITH U ALL...I HOPE U DOING GOOD:)

1. A type of wireless technology that always you easily to link various items such as a a headset for a mobile phone with a mobile phone, a mobile phone and a laptop, a stereo and headphones, et cetera. The range is about 10 metres/30 feet.

2. The resulting blue discoloration of one's left incisor if he does not treat his blue-balls within 30 minutes. Often can be avoided by visiting a host on CC.

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What I liked about it was that it wasn't just a remake but a complete retelling. I would've liked it more if Vincent Price was given a cameo in the remake, or maybe David Heddison, the actor who played "The Fly" in the classic version.

1986 version for me. jeff goldblum breaking arms, vomiting on his food, and eventually turning into a mutated piece of insect machinery was more to my liking. also, i enjoyed watching geena davis ride him like a cowgirl (typical cc member response).

I like them both, treat them as different movies. I rememeber flies gave me the creeps for some time after seeing the 1st film. Goldblum always good whatever he does.

Yeah I liked it. I often think how cool would it be to be able to transport a CC girl right to my bedroom until I think we my luck she would wind up with the body of a fly.

helps if YOU remember the hosts name mike ;)

they have names?
are they nice names?

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ahhh its not a jealously thing its just fun,, so dont take it so serious,,, well sometimes, maybe you should take it serious some host here are so sweet and dont flirt with so many members here,,, so mike good luck on the one that someday will catch your breath and only flirt with you---what in the hell am im trying to say here--

it might explain smthg about jealousy....but your reply has nothing to do with the question.

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Remember this is a business. Hosts are simply trying to retain you as a loyal "customer," and a little 'guilt-tripping' is only one of the ways to keep you faithful. So, it would appear the psychology of the 'virtual' world mimics the real world. Just don't confuse the two.

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do we need to say "bye" too?

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nope
im not sayin the H word

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Hi

Please give me a list of those hosts that have such a childish attitude about who should say hello first when entering their rooms. I would like to know which ones to avoid.

I sometimes say hello first in rooms, and sometimes I do not. It depends whether me or the host types faster.

But, by the way, when I answer the door at my house, I usually say hello first. When I enter a restaurant, the hostess says hello first. When I go to the store to spend money, the salespeople say hello first. Et cetera.

So if there is going to be a rule, when person A goes to person B's home or place of business, person B should say hello first, not person A. For CC, that would mean the host says hello first, but again, I just type hello automatically. Sometimes the host is first, sometimes I am. Who the F**K cares???

In terms of yahoo, to answer your question, again WHO THE F**K CARES??? People are coming and going all the time on the yahoo list. Are you supposed to keep track of who signed in first? If I see a friend sign in, I will often greet them with a hello, but sometimes I do not see them sign in or am busy, so they greet me first. And sometimes (oh my, please forgive me for this, lol), I might not be in the mood to say hello and do nothng until they say something to me.

I think what is really behind your question, if I would guess, is that you always need to say hello first to your host "friends". If that is the case, then one of two things is going on. Either 1) your host "friends" are always too busy to pay attention to their yahoo when you sign in or 2) your host "friends" are not really your friends and while they will chat in hopes you will enter their video or simply because they have nothing better to do, they really don't give a damn about you. Take your pick, but I think you can tell that I would be more likely to go with option 2.

Real friends would not worry about who says hello first. The issue is what happens after the hello. I would note that some of my host friends, that really are my friends and that never expect me to enter video, are often too busy to say hello or are away from their computer a lot. Of course, I tend to be closer to the ones that make more time for me and able to chat with me. And in time, it is obvious that which are better friends than others.

Just do what you would do in real life. Some friendships are closer than others.

You'll have to check the forum archives to see who said the member should say hello first

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A member who just sits in a host's room is definitely being an idiot.

The host under my proposed rule (NOT that there should EVER be a rule) should say hello first, but perhaps she is busy in another video session so the member should just say hello.

There is no reason for the host not to just say hello if she is not busy in video, and there is no reason for the member not to just say hello.. I just automatically type hello, how are you? and just wait for an answer. Usually, the host and I end up doing this at exactly the same time. I never knew it was a starring game to see who blinks first.

How about the most normal and mature person says hello first?

You really need to get out more :p

Please enlighten me as to why I need to get out more. Although I think every member on CC probably should heed this advice. :p

I'd like to answer but I can't, as the whole point is the subject doesn't warrant so many words being expended on it; so to answer would only be to compound the fault...oh damn, I guess I just have :-)

In that case, I agree with you. But it seems like you need to get out more as well.

Oh crap. It sounds like I am one step away from asking you out.... I do need to get out more!

Since time began women do not like to make the first move. I think it is polite for the man to say hi first. Would it kill you?

Actually, women like more guys who are cocksure and don't supplicate like little weinies.
Any real man here won't have the patience to be ignored, he'll just move on to more pleasant women who know that they should thank God for his manly, studly company and give him a great big "hello" the second he comes into chat to discuss the details of his paying to spend time with her in video.

Margaret, Welcome back from the grave. I had no idea you were so cynical. But I guess now that you are dead you can be purely objective and not have to worry about your editors. This site has long needed the insights of a seasoned anthropologist. :)

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I would rather hear a host scream my name 1000000000 times but hello works for me too. :P

steve sooooooooooooooooooooooooo many times?

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Holy poop!
Is this some kind of high-falooting country club or a porn site?
If I knew how to treat ladies right, I would have no need to be on such a site!
Jeez Luize! :D

Appears everyone is ignoring the Yahoo part of the question ^^shrugs^^

It seems to be a distinction without a difference. Is there some other protocol or code of etiquette on Yahoo?

Well I am still relatively new here but I feel the Gentleman should greet the young lady and respond accordingly to her conversation. Also I feel its inappropriate to enter a chat and say nothing....if you have nothing to say why enter right? So just one man's opinion....say hello guys and show these kind ladies all the respect we can....have fun everyone!

"as far as i am concerned,since you come to my room and want to talk to me you should be the one to initiate the conversation"

The very fact that you have a room is an invitation for us to enter so you should be the one to greet us once we accept your invitation. But at least you acknowledge you are willing to make the first move. Apparently, that is too much for some hosts and members here. :p

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Lady Alpha, I think you've hit on the most salient feature of this question. It seems to me the usual courtesies we extend to one another in the 'real' world ought to apply to the 'virtual' world. No doubt there will be some cultural differences, as you point ought about manners in the Anglo-Saxon world (though you did not specify your comparison. The Mediterranean world? The Slavic World?)

For my part, I think if a guest enters a host’s room it is his obligation to say hello first, but the host may elect to do so. To say a guest ought to remain silent until greeted is absurd. It would be like a stranger knocking on someone's door and saying nothing to the person opening the door. The person opening the door may indeed elect to speak first, but it seems self-evident that the party doing the knocking should state his business. Likewise with regard to telephone etiquette. The obligation is on the caller to state his business and identify himself even if the initial "hello" comes from the person answering. That is why we find it a breach of etiquette when we answer the phone and the stranger says, "Who's this?" To this I always reply, "Excuse me, but you are calling me. Who is THIS?"

I admit this whole business can become a bit too rarefied and I can understand objection, as if your suggestion for adhering to a code of manners was rather like the “country club” etiquette. But I think he misses your point.

In the end, the most important thing is not who speaks first, but that we treat each other with courtesy.

The issue is the first "hello", not who has the obligation to pick up the conversation after that.

When I answer my door at home, I say "Hi", and if it is not someone I know, I say "Hi. How can I help you?" This is just common sense and has nothing to do with what country one is from. Would it be better to just open the door and say nothing? It is no different than when one answers the phone. You always say "hello". It is AFTER the initial hello that the person entering the room, knocking on the door, or calling on the phone, has an obligation to "state his business". But the first hello should come from the person being approached, not the approacher. Of course, as I have said, when I go into a chatroom, I just say hello and don't worry about any of this since it is all stupid lol.

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I think most people try to make sure their status message is set to "busy" if they're busy, "Away", if they're away, etc...

dont try and rationalize with that girl

that 'tactic' numero uno....in the chathost manual of flirtation!!!

as for me - here, i dont mind saying hi first, i never know if man is more shy then me:) so i like to give him some courage if possible:); but at yahoo its like im bothering him:( and i dont have that much self-esteem to say hi first - i rather do it through my status msg:) and hope man that like to talk to me will respond by "hi":)

hmmmmm, doesnt the title chat "HOST"imply who should be doing the greeting?

anyway; in yahoo,I prefer to announce myself.

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I like it!!!! lol

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Yes you are right BUT where is the question u wanted to ask?????

Chathost are no different from members.. They cum then they go.. :-

i missed the ''?"
my answer would be...
hosts vs members...
for a host, this is work in a way, they work (give showings/modeling) for some pretty rude bosses (member) , so in time they find better work.
as for members, this is a hobby and once one finds a hobby they enjoy , they stick with it longer.

For the girls this is a short and temporary part of their lives. They work here for a single goal. To make money for school or starting their life away from home. Their life moves on eventually. They graduate. They marry. They get tired of working overnight and dealing with old jerks. For members they are typically in the latter part of their life. They come here because they want to not because they have to. The changing variety in girls in stimulating. The one truth is they are making new 18 years old girl fresh every day. Members stay until they run out of credit, get caught by a wife, or just get mentally tired of the charade. But that can take years.

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You're not an idiiot. Maybe uneducated, but not an idiot.... well, except for the smoking thing. :p

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The main reason they come and go is that it provides funds for their educational needs. In that respect its usually a temporary job until they graduate.

Until they graduate? I know a lot of hosts with degrees AND other jobs.

The main reason that they work here is that they can make a lot of money, and in many countries, a lot more money here than they can in a normal job. You might be surprised to learn what some of these women make. In fact, if you did know, you might want to go marry them for their money instead of the general belief that a host wants to marry a member for his. :p

The main word was "usually". There is no disputing the benefits of staying beyond graduation. But, eventually they move on. For some, this could be a life long job true. For most not. Check the average age of hosts.

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Age referred to not many older hosts.

i know one particular host that said...trying to get sympathy...i'm only here for short time...LOL...4 years...and counting later...she's still around. some r too lazy to depart...money is to intoxicating...and they don't mind showing to all the world. i don't know that i'd marry any of them for love...money...desperation or whatever.

The age on the profile is usually not the real age. My current gf on another site has her age as 20 on her profile but tells me she is 22. Another girl I know has 24 on her profile & will be 28 in a few weeks

The age question was mostly to emphasize that most leave permanently after graduation. Most girls here are in their twenties.

G/F...??? What exactly does that mean here??? Talk about a non-starter.

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she might have taken a holiday after winning the competition:D

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Sure, she loves to answer any email or yahoo especially when you are a friend, Ooops! I meant a viewer with very good wallet. Hahahahaha!

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I tried to reach her through other channels and no answer. Just wonder if anyone know what up w her. Seem no one know. I will try to be patient until she return.

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Same question was asked by him or someone else around the time of the last contest. She finally decided to grace CC with her presence the last two days of the contest even though she was a cover girl. Let me apologize for not bowing down before her.

Personally, I am tired of hearing about her. Just send her an email as was suggested. And by the way, some hosts that actually care about their members, leave notes in their forums when they take a leave away from CC to let the members know. You notice that enough of them say "I'm back" in the general forum after they are away to get business so a good host would also let you know she is leaving (unless a personal emergency, of course). If she is not doing that, then this is all you need to know about what she feels about her "fans".

If you are so in need of a host, may I recommend the following (in no particular order).

1. NightofAkina
2. Casablancka
3. SweetFlo
4 annabunny
5. Wanda22
6. Ass4Cum
7. BarbaraRio
8. LovelyJasmin
9. TheCharming
10. MyBeauty4u
11. Lightshy
12. LatinRose18
13, DreamComeTru
14, Wanted827369
15. LovelyKarla
16.. monallisa
17. Y0URDIAM0ND
18. 1LittleAngel
19. XextasyX
20. BacktoBest

I would gladly spend my money on any of these hosts before spending $2,50/min on the host at issue. She is beautiful, but her show seemed boring to me and overpriced. But to each his own...

to bad enough doesnt understand all he is asking is where his fav gal is ,maybe he enjoys spending 2.50 a min .for her.at least he doesnt have 10 are 15 gals he spends on like u do lol u go tiger

Mine is just a list of hosts that I have enjoyed in the past. I do not see all of these hosts on a regular basis. Some I just chat with and some I ask for shows, depending upon my mood. And while I understand he is just asking where this one host is, this question is a recurring theme around here ,and I find it annoying.

P.S. Roaaaaaaaaaaaaarrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!!! :p

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Considering that these hosts are from all over the world, it would probably be a little difficult to be the boss of all of them.... although I sure would like to try, lol.

The point is, ENOUGH ALREADY with dwelling on this host. There are plenty of others. I just recommended some that I have enjoyed in the past. Others also come to mind. I just went with the first 20 to make the point that there are plenty of alternatives.

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I would second NightofAkina and Wanda22. The two of them are outstanding and very good hosts.

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cared once - she wrecked that soon enough. she is expert with being a FALSE freind. Money hungry player.

i was a fan once, she agreed to send me her toenail clippings and when i received them i made a heart shaped memorial from the clippings for her. only later did i hear that they weren't her toenail clippings but her boyfriends. Yuukkkk!

I think I'll throw my pubic hair cusion out :(

the black one?

i got the "REAL" blond one.......HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH

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But not rude!

Why?

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but you can leave your hat on.......

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women with NO Panties MMMMMMMMMMM :D

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Nah, gfs too;)

That is okay with me

If you take your shirt off, then you simply MUST wear your socks on your hands.

please no

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... maybe i was just too subtle

memorex is the worst. all my video copies suck. sony is best.

i've had great luck with Maxell. never any problems.

Sony or Verbatim, no bothers with any of those makes.

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wow...things happen.....congrats Roger and jenyy:-)))))

herfe's hoping they're as happy as you and erling cathy.........lol

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where r u hiding shari ????

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You and your romanian lover also, it was confirmed:D and everyone knows. Btw, congrats!

thx..just hope i dont get hammered for this..u know how some in forums can be....but yes..its true

yes yes..its true...its a mystical bond between man and machine..oops wait that is from transformers..lol

but seriously...yes...she very special to me..all happened so fast...but i guess things happen when u are not looking

love u panda

panda?

yes..its a nic b2..u know about nics..lol

good luck obi and lusty--hmmm now i have to watch what i type in chat room,, but anyway best of luck and relationship to continue on

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OMP will u stop hanging about in a place like this, when i c ur cute ass so high ready 4 my big hands i cant help myself xxxxxxxxx

if i fall in love with a host and she loves me will i get free video's ???

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:O U squirt Cath ????

Ur not the only one like that cute butt JJ...lol

another chat couple ,comm chat is turning into the dating game.

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Congrats, obi and Lusty.
Thomas, comchat has been a dating room for years. :D

Players will be happy to hear they have less talents as their opponent. Football can't be reduced to a game between coaches.
In my eyes the russian team had much more individual talents as the dutch one. The weakness of the russian team is their lack of scoring capacity. With the chances they had they should have with 4-1 or 5-1 after 90 minutes. On the other hand this was the stronghold of the dutch team. In the preliminaries they played a lot of bad matches, but they managed to win them with 1-0. Their match against France had a bit the same scenario.

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Happy Birthday sweet Lady. Wish u a great day:-))

Happy Birthday naty.i hope that your day is filled with the same joy,happines & warmth that your prescence gives to others. :--) p.s hope you got your cake & cream!

happy birthday sweety...take care..sorry that i forgot

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hope its a gr8 evening naty klem

Happy birthday sweety!!!!!!!! Have a good one!!!!

happy birthday sweet naty and many more to come---your are a very beautiful, lovely, sexy, sweet, kind, caring woman. You always bring a smile to the chat room and wish your special day a good one-happy birthday.

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Heyyyyyyy Happy belated birthday.....keep that naughty look in your eye bb....cooooooool

How selfish. You don't love your children?

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the man is prob married to,hes just wanting sex with u and then dump u on the street,stay with your hubby and kids

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If I learned something in life is that we only got one to live.. You can't sacrifice you're life for another, you deserve you're chance to be happy !! You're husband has his parents to take care of himself, you've been with him for 4 years since he had the accident, you have tried you're best to be a good wife and to the right thing but you have to think about yourself too. If you're completly sure that this guy you met in cc loves you and he would take care of you and do whatever possible to make you happy, you should try to make it work with him. Be completly honest about you're husband's situation, having kids, talk about all the implications with him and start by being 100 % honest with each other. Try to have an honest conversation with you're husband too and tell him exactly how you feel. I wish you the best of luck !! Kisses !

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if mother had ever done what you're considering doing to your husband and the father of your children, i think i wouldn't like her very much.

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Dear Eve, I believe you are making the right decision, and I applaud you for it. After all, you must live with whatever you decide, for the rest of your life. The man you meet outside your marriage should understand that too; if he truly wants to have a relationship with you, he must be patient and understanding of your situation, as complicated as it may be.

The sad truth is your husband probably won't live a full life, because his condition will likely compromise his health.

I truly wish you the best, and my earnest sympathies for the burdens you bear and loneliness you feel...

how about - u ask your NEW man to move to your city - if its true love, that may work for a start to see what life has there for both of you and your family, and you still stay loyal to yourself and your family; in your case i wouldnt consider cheating if you give best from yourself to both parties - your family and new man - till things clear up; then after, life always finds the best solution for us, have some trust; im not for drastic measures and lack of patience, but im also not for sacrificing your life for the life of others - we all have our lessons to live and in my opinion the main lesson we all have is to "make ourselves happy" and if we do so, we can make others happy - by being miserable we dont do anyone a favore; my mother always told me she didnt leave my father couse of me, and trust me, i never had any benefits from that, but on the contrary, ive spend all my life feeling bad couse my mother was unhappy, trying to do things that would make her happy and at least not being "one more trouble for her"- on the other hand, if its only about lack of sex?!! then i think you should sit and think what is it exactly that you lack and try to find some solution together with your husband - he is the part of that area of your life even if he can not perform- although i have no idea what state he is in - sorry but you didnt give enough information for that so i can not give you some other opinion i may have; anyway, I wish you all the luck and god help you - u r in very difficult situation there, but as you may know by now, this life is about difficult situations not about easy ones:(, good thing is, we are never alone as we think we are, help always come in some way:)

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ca he not get viagra or similar products . you both need see urologist for advices in this area

There is something suspect about the cc guy wanting you to get a divorce. I think it is highly insensitive and inconsiderate of him to insist this of you, if he does in fact insist.

If you had no children you could make a decision based soley on your needs, feelings and circumstances. You have kids. Your personal happiness, comfort or future is less important. Any decision you make should be strictly based on what is best for their future. If you wanted to have freedom you shouldn't have had children.

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And why is that? Because you spend half your life watching soap operas? Because you think love can conquer all? Because you think that a woman's obligation to small innocent children is secondary to her own sexual happiness? Give me a break. Old fashioned....just common sense, human decency and what is morally and humanly right. Go back to listening to love songs and crying crocodile tears. The children's tears are real.

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Didn't you say in your wedding vows " . . . for better or for worse, in sickness and health. . . ." This is what it means. Please dont leave ur husband , your love, and your children.

Your husband is your lover - dont go to another man. Speak to your husband about ur sexual needs. Come to some solution. Maybe he can 'help' you in some way. Did you consider making hot shows for him and letting him tell how he would satisfy you? Can he control how you touch yourself in front of him? Remote control vibrator maybe. Dont give up!

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i don't understand why people bother getting married anymore. if the institution of marriage is something that you don't respect, don't enter into it!

DO WHAT'S BEST FOR YOUR CHILDREN!!!!

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Are there not "vows" you agree to when you get married?? In sickness and in health? She said: "she loves her husband". I agree she should not be a slave to your hubby...but wow...it seems selfish to be thinking about destroying a family for a functioning penis!!! ;))

If Eve a real person? She says she misses sex, she loves new man, she loves present man. She mentioned her children, but she doesn't mention their future. She didn't mention she love her children neither. A mother doesn't think like that. I think it is all fake.

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Eve, this is a tough situation indeed, but as others have said you took a vow to love your husband in sickness and in health. Imagine how you would feel if you were in your husband's place... already feeling like he is not a man because he is invalid and cannot support his family and he is unable to sexually satisfy his wife who he loves... and then to have his wife take another lover and take his children away from him.... i do not think you are an evil person or trying to be cruel.... but you must admit if you were in his place, it would destroy you emotionally if he did the things to you that you are considering doing. You had 13 good years of marriage with him before this happened... is it right to turn your back on him when he needs you most... to leave him and have sex with another man... to take his children away.... simply because his penis has not worked for the past 4 years? Is sex all that a marriage is really about... or is it something more profound than that? I think you know in your heart that it is wrong and that it would be wrong to have other lovers. Deep down in your heart you know that... and you know that is not how you would want to be treated if you were in his place. Yes your relationship has changed because of his accident but that does not mean it has to be over or that you will never have happiness again together. You also did not say how severe his accident was... only hinted that he only lays in bed and is unable to get an erection... has he lost all use of his arms and legs... is he still able to speak? If he can still use his hands and his tongue than there still ways he can give you pleasure and I am sure he wants to.... but probably feels like you are not interested in him anymore or that you are ashamed of him. And have the doctors confirmed that his penis does not work because of the physical injuries he sustained from the accident? Is it possible that his erectile disfunction is caused by emotional issues... such as depression from thoughts that you are no longer attracted to him or want him sexually anymore... or from feeling like he is not a man because he cannot work and support his family? Those kind of thoughts... guilt... deep depression and emotional issues can play a major role in impotency. Perhaps it would be worth while for him to see a phsychiatrist to see if he can help your husband. With your love and support he might regain at least some erectile function. Anyway.. yes the relationship between you and your husband has changed... and that may mean it will be less sexual... but that doesn't mean it has to be less loving. The accident damaged his body... but he is still the man you married... he still has the same heart... he is still the man that loves you. Anyway if you want to talk more about it feel free to send me a ccmail, i would be happy to talk to you about it and offer you more advice or suggestions that might help.

Very well said captaincaveman.

Eve, I have to say that no one ever wishes that their husband or wife will ever be in a very bad accident like your husband is in. But in my mind, when you said your wedding vows, you both agreed in sickness and in health. Unfortunately now you have to deal with your husband's sickness. I think you have to remember that he is your husband and just because he can't please you due to his impotence, I bet he can still please you sexually if you talk to him and express how you feel. I bet there is still love between you both, and even through rough times, love does persevere if both people truly love each other. You both just have to find a way to get through this. Communication is key and in times like this, is most critical for a relationship to last. Just find a good time to talk to your husband and tell him how you feel and just listen to what he has to say also. Just because he can't get it up, doesn't mean he can't please you anymore. You just have to be open to the idea of sexual pleasure through other means and experiment. You didn't mention if he has lost his fingers or his tongue. If he hasn't, he can definitely give you oral sex.

I wish you the best and good look in talking to your husband first about how you feel and what you want from him. I would recommend that route first before going off and having sex with another guy.

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Eve, My heart aches for you. The commitment you have to your family is wonderful and I understand your need for sex and cuddles. You are a woman in the prime of your life and you have needs. Sometimes life just plain sucks. My advice to you is to have an affair. If your husband is understanding, tell him and it might deepen your relationship. If you think he would not cope then don't tell him. You will need to keep it as your secret. Either way, have the affair and learn to live a little and have some fun. It will put a spring back in your step and your children will have a happier mother and everything that goes with it. What-ever happens, don't feel guilty. Life is a tough journey that each of us travels alone and we must do what feels right for ourselves.

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Truly superb! Russia, you were the best! Damn and I'm of Dutch descent but there is no doubt Holland were outplayed all the way. Congrats all my Russian friends. :-)))

its cool .. gives the english some respect back knowing we were knocked out of qualifying by a worthy team :D

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Ye, orange country, sorry but we are just....BETTAAAAAA))) Ok who's next?))))))

OMG i really cant believe it, ppl were dancing on tables in the sport bar....And u will never believe whats happening on the streets now!!!!!!!!

ur dancing naked in the street?

In ur dreams-maybe

dreams..hmmm..maybe nightmares???? :p

yawn

i know stupid comment sorry

Its okay shy.
Monika is just tired
from all of the celebrating! :D

its not about you bb...

we dancing dressed:)) we drink beer and sing songs:))
My congrats to all russians!!!

Arshavin, what a player. He's amazing.

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Pavluchenko, Torbinskiy, Arshavin, Akinfeev!!!!!!!!Just the best!! Well all our guys are FREAKING AMAZING!!!!!!!!!!

Im sad and take a beer.

Congrats Russia.
Well done.

Please beat the Germans ;)

Hey! WTF?!

Congratulations Russia for an outstanding win!!!!!

Unfortunately you're right. But they where better tonight so they deserve it.

How brilliant for Russia

I don't think Guus Hiddink will be welcome in Holland anymore

I think they will not let him in anymore)))))But he is very welcome to live here in Russia!!!!!!!!!! Ppl where yelling "WE WANT GUUS AS OUR PRESIDENTTTTTTTTTTT")))))))))

Ah just read on the net. Before the game, he said in the interview :"I wanna be the betrayer of the year in Holland")))))))

I've heard it too, he got what he wished for then :)
We love Guus anyway. A little less tonight, but I'm sure now we're out we all want Guus to go to the final with Russia.

Awww thats so sweet really))))) And Guus ye-he is amazing)))One of the best in the world) We are so lucky to get him))

It is not Guus but the players who won the game. Guus just did its job like Van Basten did its job. They are all highly skilled but they don't make the difference. By the way, the dutch team have a fantastic goal keeper, otherwise it could have been 8-1 after 90 minutes.

So what r u saying? That Coach isnt important? Ofc he is! He builds the stragedy, and style of a game. Ofc our guys are very talented, but they also need a good coach to see each of them, to find out their best features and teach players how to use what they have.

guus gets them fitter & harder than they even knew,.like a 3 week boot camp.he did it with south korea & australia..he has an island & free flights from them.what will russia give him i wonderoh h:--)

Hahahahahaa that was good. Yeaaaaaa Holland goes home :D:D:D:D

Congrats Russia

You deserve it.

Guus Hiddink is always welcome in Holland.

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Cant believe it...

eu is having a tough month first ireland sticks to them and turkey sure is trying:P

what a thriller. congratulations for Turkey.
but.... what do you want to say, anon? For this european championship Ireland didn't get through preliminaries and Turkey is an european country like all other participants.

was a joking reference to ireland voting against the EU constitution or chsrter whatever it was.and meant in fun not mean spirited before all the euros take offense

Awfull game !!!

Germany will win from Turkey 2

Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm... turkey........

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Congratualtions Turkey!!!

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whats your nick canım?

we love too canım

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if it's not,maybe we could make a porn version.we need a female lead,anyone interested?

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Sounds like a female version of the Corsican Bros

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lmao CBT :--)

thanks i know who i wont visit with my money

Wanda is a a sexy articulate (both linguitically and phsically) and fun host who is well worth spending some money on. Her profile gives details over what she will and will not do in her shows. The main thing she does not do is full on masturbation, this also means not using toys. Aprt from that almost anything within CC rules, is OK. As she is not in IA she does not get naked immediately but she is not a staller. Welcoming suggestions does not mean she has to follow every one of them.

Your right but my point was and is that she doesn't even welcome them....its the rules the way they are and if you don't like it the go away....not very open

you would of had trouble visiting me anyway.visiting times are very rigid & you must be accompanied by a minder,that is if i'm not on my meds.it's nice to know you were considering a visit & don't worry i will be better soon,if only the voices in my head would let me sleepppppppppp!! :--)

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he's from jersey? enough said

you mean he's the son of a cow?now that's udderly ridiculous war :--)

No, I am not from Jersey...its where I am currently employed which is temporary and so is my stay in jersey.....You people judge and you don't know the facts

They don't even know if you're from the Isle of Jersey, UK or New Jersey, USA, and most probably don't even now that they're two. :p

the other one is New Yersey, like New York is in US and York in UK

judged? haven't
yet

Wanda is an ouystanding individual. I did not get the same feeling from reading the profile, because I get the feeling of a very honest host who tells a member up front what she will do. She will do just as she says.. I really respect her and what she does. Wanda, keep doing what you do.

She's a good host. She is also very honest and direct. She can be moody, but even then, she is very direct about what she will and will not do so you can save your money and come back later. I appreciate her approach, and we get along fine.

I agree Wanda is beautiful, sexy, articulate and all what you have said is nice about her....all I am saying is run your room as you wish just a little less like a military bootcamp

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One thing I will say about Wanda is she has got just about the best pair of boobs I've ever seen in my life.

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