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WHY it hurts so much??
my bf and i broke up 4 months ago he did it wth no explanation and it hurts so much even now just like in the first day,,i cant get over this even if i tried so hard i just cant help it,mostly hurts the idea of him beeing with another woman and heaving sex with her even if i ve never seen him with and he never admited he dates another woman but i am 1oo% sure he does my intuition tells me because he changed all his feelings for me he doesnt even want see me as friends anymore and i did not do anything t him but damn love hurts so much....even now after 4 months,THEY SAY TIME HEAL EVERYTHING is not true time doesnt heal,i live a nightmare everyday of my life ever since i m alone without him for 4 months now and i still belive this is a bad dream only and i will wake up one day and we ll be together again....pls share ur opinions pls!
RE: WHY it hurts so much??
4 months isn't that long to get over a relationship and I assure that eventually time will heal and you'll meet someone else who will steal your heart away and then your ex bf will just be a memory (hopefully a happy one). Of course the idea of him being with someone else will hurt as he was someone who you loved but it is probably for the best that he does not want you even as a friend as that may help you get over him quicker and save you the pain of seeing him with his new gf.
Unfortunately there is nothing else I can do apart from give you a virtual hug and hope your nightmare ends soon.
Unfortunately there is nothing else I can do apart from give you a virtual hug and hope your nightmare ends soon.
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4 months not enough...you suggest 4 years? Why not 40? lol I assure you that after this post she will loose all her pain!Time is not measured by passed hours or days.. Time is measured by acts .. Posting the problem here was an act, reading the replies is another act. Time is sharing. CC members chathosts and guests (as I) we contribute in delighting her pain. Good luck Juliette!
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Honey..Men cheat for the same reason dogs lick their balls.. CUZ THEY CAN)) And if he left u with no explanation-means he is an a**hole. Cuz if he respects u and ur feelings-he must explain. But anyway. He doesnt worth even ur finger, and trust me, as soon as u realize it-u will see him crying and moaning at ur door, beggin to take him back. Happened to me many times.Cuz men are like this. They dont want us when we suffer and cry,but when we are confident and dont give a damn-they realize that they need us and that they made a mistake. Too late tho. Im sure ull get over him, there are so many nice guys around, waiting for u. U just need to take a closer look;) Good luck and cheer up))
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These comments are about as useful as a chocolate teapot ! Are you really so stupid ? or just act this way ? or just live such an empty meaningless existence..........
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If my advice is about as useful as a chocolate teapot, then dont YOU use it.
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I wasnt using your advice just advising Juliette to ignore the advice of someone who is bitter . I dont think you are qualified to give relationship advice ..... a string of b/f's and a love of c**k does not make you qualified :)))))))))
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she is right
thats always happens to me
men likes strong woman men needs strong woman men wants smth that pushing them away
because they like to conquer
thats always happens to me
men likes strong woman men needs strong woman men wants smth that pushing them away
because they like to conquer
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I think Juliette will do well without ur advice. And for sure im much more qualified than u. AS for my bfs-did u count them or what? Did u hold the candle? Dont think so. So...Talk to the hand)))
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what advice did u give? none, just took a cheap shot at someone who did offer advice that doesn't happen to be far from the truth
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Well cheap shot or not , its not far from the truth .
Not all girls live in MB's kind of world , nor are they so bitter and not all want advice at brainless , moronic level ..... so lick my balls and talk to my hand :-))))))
As regards advice , there is plenty of other good advice here , the only opinion that matters is Juliette's and I hope there is some she can use .
Not all girls live in MB's kind of world , nor are they so bitter and not all want advice at brainless , moronic level ..... so lick my balls and talk to my hand :-))))))
As regards advice , there is plenty of other good advice here , the only opinion that matters is Juliette's and I hope there is some she can use .
RE: WHY it hurts so much??
Its better to live in REAL world and give usefull advice than see life through pink glasses. My world isnt bitter its just real and i can see that i know some things for sure better than u, professor. Btw u dunno me, u dunno the world i live in, u dunno a damn abt me. So leave ur comments to urself. All i said was that Juliette shud stop crying and suffer over the exbf. Stop waiting for him. And the most important thing-she shud smile, ciz someone will fall in love with her smile for sure. Men are attracted to strong and positive girls. Not the ones who depends on them and live only for them.
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I like girls who depend on me. It' s a turn on. Submissive, dependent girls get me going....preferably if they have big tits and want sex all the time too.
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Well the words you use now are not what you initially said and I agree dont cry over him , be strong and confident and forget about him . Its better if u dont make reference to dogs balls , the finger , he will come begging for u back etc and so on . Maybe you are not bitter but your first comment suggested you was .......
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Jeez.....who does ever take this place serious????It was a joke, just a quote from sex and the city show! Jeez...And i used ))))after the phrase abt balls, so go buy urself glasses and some sense of humour too! Abt begging-guys DO beg, DO ask to please take them back, they DO rush back when they see that the girl is pretty fine and got over them and forgot them. And this is reality nowdays. Not my fault u know.
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Just when you phrase yourself better you go back to your own mindless style again in an instant ........ Not all men beg , not all men chase to get a woman back when they break up .......some men are glad to move on and glad to see the girl got over them and wish them well so its not all black and white MB . Just for the record and so I understand YOUR experience , how many men broke up with you , of those , how many came back begging ?
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None of ur business;) Get a life urself and start gaining YOUR OWN experience instead of studying mine:) Good luck with that:))))))))
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If people need to gain their own experience, stop painting all men with the same vile brush of bile and passing it off as advice for others.
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Had to be some male abuse in your bg. You gotta a whole lot of pissed off energy inside you. Better see some anger management therapist before its too late and you cut some dudes nuts off in the middle of the night.
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Btw , I do have a sense of humour , I'm exchanging comments with u aint I ? :-))))))) :P
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Nah ure not exchanging comments with me, ure just being annoying like a fly. None was talking to u and my message was for Juliette only. But u decided that its ur business and that u cant miss a chance to bite my arse. Well-whatever. U can sit in ur anonimous hole where the sun never shines and write ur lame comments as much as u wanna. I cant care less and this is getting really annoying. Yawn. Ciao
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your a silver tongue devil with an angry axe to grind...pity the poor guy that hooks up with ur arse...as u put it.
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:-)))))))))))) , okay , I am finished , I had my fun . I have a lot of experience thats why I felt the need to pull your chain ..........it worked....... as regards that men sleep around because they can , well not all do and women always have the right to say NO and a smart woman will know what are a mans motivations .
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Monika, I agree with everything that you say, but I also would like to say that it can happen with women as well as men. It has happened to me. Juliette, it will take a while to recover from the incident, but you can and you will. Remember, that it was probably for the best if the relationship is not a relarionship of trust and love. You will not forget, but move on with your life. Please realize that there is another guy who will love and cherish you somewhere and you will find him.
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This says more about the kind of men that you have relationships with than men in general.
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All what you have said shows that you are a sensitive and romantic person who opened her heart for a big love but the guy turned out to be a fake. Do you know how to get over him? Ask yourself: "Why did he left me when I loved him so much? Why did he left me when I was ready to give him the world? How come that he did not assess me and did not see how wonderful I was? If he did not see what a great person I am it means he is an idiot! If he is an idiot, why am I crying about him? He is not worth it!!" Then smile, get dressed, meet your friends, do your favorite things, and the realization of the fact that You are The One who a man can only dream about should make all your nightmares go away. And you know why? Because You "ARE" wonderful... Save your big love for the RIGHT man ;)
Good luck :D
Good luck :D
RE: WHY it hurts so much??
Well now you know what love is ........ the fact he broke up with no explanation could be him being a coward or sparing your feelings . As it is most definitely over I wouldnt want to be friends .... it would make it very hard to move on with your life . Better a clean break , trust me . As regards your life now , you have to be a little selfish and think only of yourself . The pain you feel , if you think about it , wont go away and in fact will feel worse ....... you have to learn to let go . Whenever he comes into your mind try to think of something else , keep yourself busy , distract yourself and spend a lot of time with friends as good friends are a big help . Try to think in a positive way about yourself , about life , your future , what you want ....... think about what you have learned from the relationship and try and take some positives . Whatever you do dont allow your feelings to fester , to walk around like your life has just been put on stop and certainly dont allow yourself to become bitter and twisted like MB . Good luck , you will be okay .
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you should not live in that moment...yes time passes and you never forget how you are hurt , but in time a smell a song can bring long forgotten happy moments back.....Love and Hate...to words different words that can change position very quickley.
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Ok Juliette, last time it happened to me i lost 5 kilos from refusing to eat, and it took me 6 months to really forget him. The advices above are good, go out and try to have fun, find a sexy guy and have sex. Sex is great, especially when its better than what you had before:) I personally felt better being angry, on the situation and him, really pissed off. That made me see what i value, how many good things i have to offer and what a loser he is; then its important to tell urself, it is not your fault that he left. Now look at yourself in the mirror, start loving urself again and ..wait, time really helps! Trust us kisss
just wonderin about escorts
what does it actually means?
does it means she ll meet up for sex or it s only like pay her to have a meal and take her out and stuff????
does it means she ll meet up for sex or it s only like pay her to have a meal and take her out and stuff????
RE: just wonderin about escorts
The term escort is usually used as a polite way to say prostitute and therefore sex will be on offer. However if you mean the escorts category on this site then I doubt many of them will even meet you for a meal as, to most girls, it is just another category on cc.
RE: just wonderin about escorts
but how about the uk hosts?wy choose that categ if it s just as any other one?do they not meet u?for meal?sex?etc?
RE: just wonderin about escorts
Why not ask them directly?
I concur with opinions that for most girls it's just another category, and as it is not quite crowded, at times "a little shy", "not so shy" or others have a try there after waiting in vain...
I concur with opinions that for most girls it's just another category, and as it is not quite crowded, at times "a little shy", "not so shy" or others have a try there after waiting in vain...
RE: just wonderin about escorts
Just another category to fuel the fantasy of members with little or no relevance to real life. Hosts sometimes like it because they have fewer competition and it gives members an unrealistic hope of hooking up with someone outside of CC and the right to spend a fortune persuing that false assumption. Its all about vid minutes.
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Don't take everything so literally. By this logic, the girls in "make new friends" really want to be your friend and the ones in "longterm or marriage" are really looking for a husband...yeah right. Like INYF said...just another category.
RE: just wonderin about escorts
As is usual with these discussions there is truth on all sides. Many hosts regard Escorts & Massage as just another category but there are/have been some genuine ones. Ebonyboobs and Sexytinyxxx are two examples. The only thing to do is to ask the girls. If they are in that category it is a legitinate question.
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You buy her dinner - dont forget to bring candles and flowers and at the end she wont have sex with u so u can travel back home again muahhhhhhhhhhhhh :-)
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If you visit a prostitute, do you take flowers and candles with you?
I Heard some people bring wine, thats already funny, but flowers and candles and expect some romance? -Thats just ridiculous lol =)
Think of how many men been inside them lol.
I Heard some people bring wine, thats already funny, but flowers and candles and expect some romance? -Thats just ridiculous lol =)
Think of how many men been inside them lol.
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Escorts are human beings too. An escort will often appreciate some extra attention such as flowers and chocolate. If you want to be totally practical bringing a small gift like that may get you a more enjoyable night than simply giving her extra money. Also some clients like the girfriend experience. Giving gifts is all part of the fantasy.
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a prostitute that kisses?? very unusual...did u know the mouth is more intimate than the pussy?? It happened to me...with a "g/f"...i met here...that's when I knew for certain she was in it for the money!!
Crime prevention
This is completely off the grid for discussion on a site like CC but I have two suggestions on crime prevention . These are light hearted but with some touch of seriousness -
1. Many of the worst criminals in society have the XXY genes unlike most men who are XY or women YY . These people have a pre-disposition to crime and no real moral compass . I think everyone should be tested for these genes and if found , action taken to help prevent them committing the worst crimes in society eg some kind of drug treatment to null the effects of XXY etc.
2. This one I will explain in a true story ' When I was in my early 20's and without a gf at that time , I could be obnoxious , aggressive , moody and pretty horrible ........... one night after a few drinks I came home and was like that with my parents ......... mom went to bed and I was left with my father ......... a big , powerful man ....... after being obnoxious for a time he finally stood up and with his arms down by his side me made his hands into two fists .......... I thought shit , here it comes I am going to get a good beating and I deserve it ....... so sitting there in my chair and shitting myself my father slowly walked over to me and placed his two fists on either arm of the chair and looked me in the eyes and said .... son you know what you need ...... i trembled and replied ...... what ? ....... he looked at me and said .......you need to get laid , I broke out laughing and he did as well .............................. it was true i needed to get laid .
The point I am making is this ............ take the young , aggressive , moody young men in our society and rather than just lock them up , take them to a brothel , get them laid and 8 times out of 10 they will be better for it and less likely to cause trouble .
Maybe we could have government owned brothels . It will be good for the girls , keep them off the streets , be clean and hygienic and will perform a necessary service for those male members of society who need it and can be used to calm angry young men :-))))
1. Many of the worst criminals in society have the XXY genes unlike most men who are XY or women YY . These people have a pre-disposition to crime and no real moral compass . I think everyone should be tested for these genes and if found , action taken to help prevent them committing the worst crimes in society eg some kind of drug treatment to null the effects of XXY etc.
2. This one I will explain in a true story ' When I was in my early 20's and without a gf at that time , I could be obnoxious , aggressive , moody and pretty horrible ........... one night after a few drinks I came home and was like that with my parents ......... mom went to bed and I was left with my father ......... a big , powerful man ....... after being obnoxious for a time he finally stood up and with his arms down by his side me made his hands into two fists .......... I thought shit , here it comes I am going to get a good beating and I deserve it ....... so sitting there in my chair and shitting myself my father slowly walked over to me and placed his two fists on either arm of the chair and looked me in the eyes and said .... son you know what you need ...... i trembled and replied ...... what ? ....... he looked at me and said .......you need to get laid , I broke out laughing and he did as well .............................. it was true i needed to get laid .
The point I am making is this ............ take the young , aggressive , moody young men in our society and rather than just lock them up , take them to a brothel , get them laid and 8 times out of 10 they will be better for it and less likely to cause trouble .
Maybe we could have government owned brothels . It will be good for the girls , keep them off the streets , be clean and hygienic and will perform a necessary service for those male members of society who need it and can be used to calm angry young men :-))))
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I'm not sure what kind of girls you hang out with but where I come from they have XX chromosomes. Perhaps your dad getting you laid was actually a worse punishment than beating you up.
Question
do you feel the same, people are people, no matter what you say or do, people are either going to be nice, happy, sad, rude, etc....people are people. Now my point is sitting here behind a computer watching people type words in a chat room, it amazes me what they type and how they express their self, hmmm if you was a man or woman, come on really would you like this person to be like this in your life or you still just make believing that this is just a fantasy. After watching some people type stuff in a chat room, it makes me think people are crazier in the fantasy world more then the normal real world. I can go on and on about this subject, but, I think you get my point, so my question is : What type of man or woman do you really like to spend the rest of your life with.
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the type guy of who will spend hours in my video chat, who will realise that i'm nothing more than a companion-for-hire, and who will not hassle me about my 'real' feelings for him.
to find that type of guy to share my life on cc with would be a gift from god.
to find that type of guy to share my life on cc with would be a gift from god.
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People are so different, you are right;)
The most important in a person (both men and women) is to be able to see the world "right," to be fair, to treat others without having a bias opinion, to be compassionate and understanding, and to have a big heart. Oh, and of course one should be intelligent, smart, funny, and there should be some chemistry between a man and a woman... All these should create a true love story...
Oh boy... Good luck to all of us :D
The most important in a person (both men and women) is to be able to see the world "right," to be fair, to treat others without having a bias opinion, to be compassionate and understanding, and to have a big heart. Oh, and of course one should be intelligent, smart, funny, and there should be some chemistry between a man and a woman... All these should create a true love story...
Oh boy... Good luck to all of us :D
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Well same question goes for both sexes. Some men here too would never find an ideal woman out of all the working girls on this site..We are all different.
Come on girls .............
Is it so bad being a little bit of a pervert ?? My great love Dick194 ( btw shes a woman ........ but has testicle and penis envy ) calls me a pervert in joking but she uses it as an insult ........ I call her a pervert and she wears it as a badge of honour :-)) I think there are various degrees of perversion and that most people if not all in some way are a little bit perverted .......... it would be boring otherwise anyway . So come on girls .......... give the perverts a break :-)) and to Dick194 , I still love you baby despite all the insults , i know to you they are like pet names for me after all you cant call me honey , sweety , sugar etc as you feel sick doing it and i do hearing it :-)))
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interesting choice of names that you expect anybody to believe that's what your foolishness here is about. it was pretty funny though. television sitcoms could use a few inventive writers like you
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Its a big off for me when a woman calls me Hun , Sugar , Sweety , darling , pumpkin etc. , its so superficial .... I would rather be called perv :-))) and I hate hearing it with others ........puke ! I am glad the 194's are growing in number ........... I love you all so so much :-))) , one question where is Prick194 ?
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I don't know where the hell Prick194 is, but here i am, love you all, God bless everyone, may joy and peace rule the world.
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Someone looking for me ? here i am, sorry im late...i was busy installing my tent on the beach and picking some flowers to put them in my hair.Also my gf kept me very busy, we were making love not war, and i always get stuck in her long gipsy skirt when i try to find my way between her legs.This time i just ripped off the skirt...but got stuck in the thick dark forrest if you know what i mean ;) .Peace...burp...love you all...
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i'm here lover but i rather thought you could use a rest after the workout i gave u last night
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Im so dissapointed and depressed...nobody ask about me, always about Prick194 and Dick194...as always the bad guys get all the attention... sniff...im going in my corner to lick my balls and my wounded ego.
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ohhh come on , that such lazy writing be more original ...:-)))
I would have said he's in the oval office sleeping or
He's in the oval office staring and wondering about the big red button that says ' do not press '
or Laura doesnt allow allow him to speak to strangers or
He's running the burmese governments relief effort
or well any number of choices ......... :-)))
I would have said he's in the oval office sleeping or
He's in the oval office staring and wondering about the big red button that says ' do not press '
or Laura doesnt allow allow him to speak to strangers or
He's running the burmese governments relief effort
or well any number of choices ......... :-)))
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i puked the second time, the first time was very funny but as usual they wear out a good thing in a hurry around here
Friday Night Question
To both members and hosts.
You go out for a night out and meet someone who you truly believe is someone famous that you fancy like mad. He/she plays along with and you have a great night and then go home together and have even better sex. In the morning you realise that it is in fact just someone who is a lookalike.
Would you feel cheated or just thrilled you had a great night and great sex with someone you fancied ?
You go out for a night out and meet someone who you truly believe is someone famous that you fancy like mad. He/she plays along with and you have a great night and then go home together and have even better sex. In the morning you realise that it is in fact just someone who is a lookalike.
Would you feel cheated or just thrilled you had a great night and great sex with someone you fancied ?
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I wouldnt mind to reapeat it)) And no i wudnt feel like cheated or something))Had a great time so-why regret?))
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If i truly believed he was someone famous i really fancied, I don't think i would hurry jumping in bed with the guy, I would be much more interested to find out as much as I could about who he really is, as a person. I never had sex as soon as I met someone, because for me, good quality sex involves a lot of factors, and good looks are not one of them.
But if theoretically i would have ended up spending the night with the guy, feeling as good as you described, I would be more than happy to do it again, and I would use his resemblance to someone famous as future Roleplay subject;)
But if theoretically i would have ended up spending the night with the guy, feeling as good as you described, I would be more than happy to do it again, and I would use his resemblance to someone famous as future Roleplay subject;)
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i'd think
ha so, it wasn't the friday night project then
For some reason I thought straight away about justin lee colins, i quite like him but not sure if enough to sleep with him lol.
Bet he wouldn't sleep with me either LOL but for the record my man has a 6-pack whereas JLC has a beer gut :)))
ha so, it wasn't the friday night project then
For some reason I thought straight away about justin lee colins, i quite like him but not sure if enough to sleep with him lol.
Bet he wouldn't sleep with me either LOL but for the record my man has a 6-pack whereas JLC has a beer gut :)))
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Okay instead of a celebrity just imagine that it was me you thought you were having sex wth and then you found out it wasn't :P
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didn't read her reply lol
you all know we are joking
I have no idea who you are, you may be a stunner
you all know we are joking
I have no idea who you are, you may be a stunner
i
would keep the fantasy going thinking to myself she is still the actress i adore and she is playing the part of a normal person.
RE: Friday Night Question
geezzzz...I just realize my wife of 10 years is not really catherine zeta-jones!!
are you looking for a wealthy man??
hosts look for rich man to marry ? how important is for u ? tell true.
RE: are you looking for a wealthy man??
Have I ever said I like poor guys? :))) And what if YOU worked, too, for the trips, beauty centers, clothes etc and not expect it all from someone else like a leech? It's not that difficult trust me;-P
RE: are you looking for a wealthy man??
You want a man like your father. Dammit why couldn't your father have been a rude, uncouth, poor,ugly man with no personality or ambition :(
RE: are you looking for a wealthy man??
taking p a collection for you two to get a room already....lol
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with those limited superficial interests, an interesting companion might be difficult to come by - I have money but am not impressed by women who are impressed by it.
RE: are you looking for a wealthy man??
Nice reply, ro-host.
I'm not a wealthy man, just comfortably compensated and comfortable in my own skin. I've been around enough wealth to see how complicated it can make life, and how many wealthy people climb over the backs of others to get there. Fine for others; not for me. I would rather eat peanuts in a bar in my jeans with you. :-)
I'm not a wealthy man, just comfortably compensated and comfortable in my own skin. I've been around enough wealth to see how complicated it can make life, and how many wealthy people climb over the backs of others to get there. Fine for others; not for me. I would rather eat peanuts in a bar in my jeans with you. :-)
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And I'll buy the peanuts!
I'm not a cheapskate, I do have some self-respect... :-)
I'm not a cheapskate, I do have some self-respect... :-)
RE: are you looking for a wealthy man??
This is me and i use this name in the forums:) We are different persons, so dont worry:)
RE: are you looking for a wealthy man??
I have lots of money, but if a woman wants to use me for it then she should be at least a 9.5 on the looks scale. As you are only a 7, I've lost interest.
But...wait.....How's your cooking, cleaning and ironing? I could sack the maid.
But...wait.....How's your cooking, cleaning and ironing? I could sack the maid.
RE: are you looking for a wealthy man??
Money gives a lot of freedom but money cannot buy love. Do you suggest that a chathost working here and showing her body for money is able to get married to somebody because he makes more money than she does? Why did this kind of thought come to your mind? Or do you ask us (as representatives of females of the planet) in general? It is a strange question to me...
RE: are you looking for a wealthy man??
It always cracks me up when a girl is so obvious after a man with some money .......... despite all the obvious comments posted the truth of life is that there are far far more girls wanting a man with money than there are men with money . If you are a man with money girls are like buses , another one will be along soon and there are so many who are prepared to do what it takes to get their man . In the country where I live there so so many girls after the rich bf and its the same the world over .......... all I am saying is if you are a beautiful girl dont expect or set this as your main goal in life ......... you will just end up disappointed :-))) and the other truth is happiness is what you make it ......... and many of the richest men are also the meanest ( how else do you think they have it ??? )
RE: are you looking for a wealthy man??
In my experience if a man has money to throw around it is because of the following -
1. He's throwing around borrowed or other peoples money.
2. He made it too easily .
3. He made it illegally .
4. Both 2 and 3
5. He made it by stepping over many others and showing the morals and principles of a rattle snake .
If a man has had to make his money the hard way he will likely -
1. Be older as it takes time .
2. Already be married and unlikely to fire off his wife as this means splitting that hard earned money in two
3. Will happily jump into bed with some eager young thing but theres no way hes leaving the woman he met when he had no money for a gold digger as this could mean he loses all his money very quickly .
4. May have a mistress but this is a dangerous game and could lead to a number of scenarios .
5. Be wise enough , smart enough and cute enough to string along virtually any young woman who wants to get close to his wallet and so get whatever he wants from her and she is more likely to believe the bullshit as hey , if she doesnt its over and no more wallet to cuddle upto .
6. Is unlikely to want to hook up with a girl who has no work ambition , is lazy , spends money freely , wont do anything in the home , cant cook etc as this goes against everything he has had to do to make money in the first place and there no free lunches .......... unless ......... hes had a brain bypass and all controls have been handed to Mr Penis .
1. He's throwing around borrowed or other peoples money.
2. He made it too easily .
3. He made it illegally .
4. Both 2 and 3
5. He made it by stepping over many others and showing the morals and principles of a rattle snake .
If a man has had to make his money the hard way he will likely -
1. Be older as it takes time .
2. Already be married and unlikely to fire off his wife as this means splitting that hard earned money in two
3. Will happily jump into bed with some eager young thing but theres no way hes leaving the woman he met when he had no money for a gold digger as this could mean he loses all his money very quickly .
4. May have a mistress but this is a dangerous game and could lead to a number of scenarios .
5. Be wise enough , smart enough and cute enough to string along virtually any young woman who wants to get close to his wallet and so get whatever he wants from her and she is more likely to believe the bullshit as hey , if she doesnt its over and no more wallet to cuddle upto .
6. Is unlikely to want to hook up with a girl who has no work ambition , is lazy , spends money freely , wont do anything in the home , cant cook etc as this goes against everything he has had to do to make money in the first place and there no free lunches .......... unless ......... hes had a brain bypass and all controls have been handed to Mr Penis .
RE: are you looking for a wealthy man??
dont agree with last part. some who divorce get rich by not having a wife in later life. lol
RE: are you looking for a wealthy man??
Fair comment and I suppose you could add , because never got married and had kids . The truth is like the girls who seek out a professional footballer husband etc. ............ there arent many rich men around to get your hands on but plenty of girls .
RE: are you looking for a wealthy man??
You know what I am thinking...After reading all these posts, I thought: "What's the heck? Why not?" Any suggestions depending on the size of your salary?" LOLOLOLOLOLOL :D
RE: Visa for UK
yes, and the day after you have made the document attesting your money in the account, you may withdraw it and use it to pay for the trip or pay it back to your generous sponsor :-)
RE: Visa for UK
I suggest you check out the home office website.
And make sure you don't apply if you are not 100% you will get it, chances to be refused one are very high and it will be even more diffucult to get one if you were refused beforehand.
And make sure you don't apply if you are not 100% you will get it, chances to be refused one are very high and it will be even more diffucult to get one if you were refused beforehand.
RE: Visa for UK
You should always make first meeting on your homeground, in a public place. If he is really interested in you, he should have no problem with that. Also, assuming you are from Russia or like that, it is very difficult to get visa if you haven't plenty of money or he signs a paper that he will pay any expenses caused by you.
Are individual ratings seen by Chathosts?
I was curious to know if a chathost knows who gave them what ratings?
Very curious to know.
Very curious to know.
RE: Are individual ratings seen by Chathosts?
it used to...but not anymore as camcontacts have removed the feature
RE: Are individual ratings seen by Chathosts?
no
thats was before but now nobody know who give an rating
thats was before but now nobody know who give an rating
RE: Are individual ratings seen by Chathosts?
there is no way i would ever put up a personal profile of myself. and if would be required i would quit first. viewers are not the performers. worst idea i ever heard.
RE: Are individual ratings seen by Chathosts?
In my opinion, viewers should have profiles too and we should be able to rate and review them too. So if you want to rate you have to put a short review as well. This is how it works on another site and I think it's great!
RE: Are individual ratings seen by Chathosts?
i'm afraid that this site would dry up rather quickly if that were the case.
RE: Are individual ratings seen by Chathosts?
LOL. :D
The air of entitlement here is hysterically thick.
I get the feeling that a lot of the people here who are working their way through university aren't studying business classes.
The air of entitlement here is hysterically thick.
I get the feeling that a lot of the people here who are working their way through university aren't studying business classes.
RE: Are individual ratings seen by Chathosts?
dry up?
I doubt it
traffic there is brilliant and they give 70% payout too.
I doubt it
traffic there is brilliant and they give 70% payout too.
RE: Are individual ratings seen by Chathosts?
That "other site" has reviews of members because they are "punters" using the services of prostitutes and the rating system works as a safeguard for the prostitute's safety.
Here you're separated by computers and cables and a lot safer. There's no reason for it. I would guess maybe 1 in 100 viewers would want this feature if it was available. Most aren't here to join a community and as they are the ones shelling out the money and not earning it, they have more of a right to their anonymity!
Here you're separated by computers and cables and a lot safer. There's no reason for it. I would guess maybe 1 in 100 viewers would want this feature if it was available. Most aren't here to join a community and as they are the ones shelling out the money and not earning it, they have more of a right to their anonymity!
RE: Are individual ratings seen by Chathosts?
hey ---bad idea and crazy idea--if cc allows a host to rate a member, I better be getting a check in the mail for my commission, I'm not the one making money here, the host are. I'm the one spending the money,, so no ratings and hell no also of having a member to have a profile here. This is a cyber fantasy sex site, not a dating site, they have a lot of them already, and if that is your game, please feel free to join one of them.
RE: Are individual ratings seen by Chathosts?
a dam good thing u hosts arent running this website. u would lose half the members in the first month. seems u dont have enough info on us. lol. since we dont have viewers notes, it be better if we could write fuller description of our experience with hosts or why we give one star (like other sites to use yure argument). duh.
RE: Are individual ratings seen by Chathosts?
Chase Profile: Category-Instant Action--well maybe some dungeon
Country-Somewhere in the States
Local Time: central
Options: hmmm
Viewer Rating: 10--wishing
Age: 99
Last On-Line: Today
Sex: Yes love sex (only with females)
Orientation: Straight
Ethic: Red
Hair: Yes Hairy
Build: Muscle Man
Eyes: Blue
Hair Length: To my ears
Languages: Dirty
Special: You name it
Schedule: Ah when i feel like it---Turn-Ons: mmm a sexy woman with eyes that roll up and say hey babe whats that in your pocket, is that a pocket knife or are you glad to see me and a smile that say hello hun come see me and lets dance. Turn Offs: hmmm---a woman that chats to much and not enough loving. What I expect from your show: mmm, your attention on my strong muscle lean mean machine body.Why I am I here: hmmm,,, you tell me, your the host.
Country-Somewhere in the States
Local Time: central
Options: hmmm
Viewer Rating: 10--wishing
Age: 99
Last On-Line: Today
Sex: Yes love sex (only with females)
Orientation: Straight
Ethic: Red
Hair: Yes Hairy
Build: Muscle Man
Eyes: Blue
Hair Length: To my ears
Languages: Dirty
Special: You name it
Schedule: Ah when i feel like it---Turn-Ons: mmm a sexy woman with eyes that roll up and say hey babe whats that in your pocket, is that a pocket knife or are you glad to see me and a smile that say hello hun come see me and lets dance. Turn Offs: hmmm---a woman that chats to much and not enough loving. What I expect from your show: mmm, your attention on my strong muscle lean mean machine body.Why I am I here: hmmm,,, you tell me, your the host.
RE: Are individual ratings seen by Chathosts?
more like. she only goes topless, show was good or bad, etc worth returning?
RE: how often wank a guy per week..?
I am 50 and wank 2 times everyday. Once in the morning and once at night :-P
RE: how often wank a guy per week..?
i am 51 and i have 2 gfs who take care of this for me lol.i might need a new kitty before long though lol
RE: how often wank a guy per week..?
why you ask,,, are you thinking some wank more than others or afraid your wanking to much or not enough---
RE: how often wank a guy per week..?
I'm 23 and i wank, on average, 2 times a day. Of course, some days i may go for a Full House, and do it four times. Five times is a bit over the top.
Somedays i just don't. But i can't remember when was the last time i didn't wank for over 3 days straight. Perhaps when i was in the hospital...
Somedays i just don't. But i can't remember when was the last time i didn't wank for over 3 days straight. Perhaps when i was in the hospital...
RE: how often wank a guy per week..?
Wow... to see how men take such good care of their prostates.
RE: dialing uk
Dial 011 44 then the number. Best buy a calling card from worldphonecard.com or us 1010 dialing. Google 10 10 international dialing to get codes and prices.
RE: dialing uk
....and make sure you leave off the first '0' of the UK number after dialing +44.
e.g 01703 etc... becomes 44 1703 etc
e.g 01703 etc... becomes 44 1703 etc
New crop...
It is that time of year for new girls to try their hand at CC. I see a few new faces but not the usual flood of new girls. Is the economy so good that hotties are passing on CC or am I too early for school to be over and the newbies to start working?
RE: Funny how
You only want those that don't chase BECAUSE they don't chase. And if they did start chasing......you wouldn't want them anymore.
RE: Funny how
if you chase perfection, you often catch excellence, and after 3 years of chasing I found that this woman had the same taste as I did, we both are crazy about women
RE: NEED HELP!
I'm not sure you'll attract much sympathy on part of viewers - some are quick to shout girls are just scammers...
Apparently, your boyfriend doesn't want to work with you to sort out the problems, and probably he spent most of the money you earned here... It may be painful to hear, but you better let him go and tell him to settle his own money problems himself, if he prefers another girl just out of this reason. And work hard here, difficult to help you in any other way as you cannot be recognised... Good luck!
Apparently, your boyfriend doesn't want to work with you to sort out the problems, and probably he spent most of the money you earned here... It may be painful to hear, but you better let him go and tell him to settle his own money problems himself, if he prefers another girl just out of this reason. And work hard here, difficult to help you in any other way as you cannot be recognised... Good luck!
hmm
let him go.
i dont understand you. he left you and go back to his xgf,okay. think of all reasons why he is bad for you. like hottie says work long hours make more money if possible, and remember when you do have money he will come back to you.
or go beat the xgf take all her money:D
i dont understand you. he left you and go back to his xgf,okay. think of all reasons why he is bad for you. like hottie says work long hours make more money if possible, and remember when you do have money he will come back to you.
or go beat the xgf take all her money:D
RE: BIG LOVE
Everyone has trouble with money at some point in their lives. Next to sex or a lack of it it is the biggest reason that couples break up. If you are thinking you want a permanent relationship with this guy and he is not willing to do whatever it takes to help resolve the money problem then he is not the man for you. Dump him now before you are married and kids and he decides to leave because money is tight. I think all you CC girls should move in together and become lesbians. You would be happy, rich and you would avoid the endless stream of loser guys you seem to attract.
Q for chathosts
I'm just wondering, why is it that so many chathosts don't want to chat, to be friendly, to take time to flirt with a guy and make him interested to meet her in vid??? If all I wanted was to jump into a sex show without being interested in the woman, I'd just go see a pre-recorded video. I can't tell u how many chat rooms i have left because the "chat"host won't chat!!! I won't visit one that won't .. but will visit vid if the "chat"host engages in friendly chat.
RE: Q for chathosts
I guess you had some bad luck, dont take it personal. Maybe the girls were after a hard vid, or very tired. I know i have my moments too, but i am always talkative and friendly. But if i am very tired and the guy entering the chat is a friend, i tell him im not up for a quality conversation, i prefer show. So in a way i und the girls.... move on and try other girl when it happens to u again. Kiss n good luck, maybe u come to my chat tooo :D
RE: Q for chathosts
Time is money. They may be speaking with other more promising members and better to devote their time to them. It is the middle of the night for many hosts. They are tired and if they think you are not video material they don't want to go to the trouyble. They are talking in English. Not their first language. That is tough to do. Why do that if you just want to shoot the breeze? Lots of reasons. Some are just not sociable and are reacting to members who just want them to quickly strip. This is a job. Not everyone at any job is customer oriented 100% of the time.
RE: Q for chathosts
thx for all ur responses, I do understand chathosts don't wanna talk for long times with someone who won't go to vid ... and I dont' do that. But if a girl will talk to me 5 or 10 min. and is nice and charming, i usually do go to vid. It just seems more and more chathosts say "come to vid" before u can even ask their name. I'll try others until I find those who like to know the "member" a little more than just a nameless face with a $$$ stamped on it. :))
RE: Q for chathosts
friendly chat?????u gotta be kidding man this is a paid site go to yahoo messenger for a nice genuine "friendly" chat :PPPPPPPP
RE: Q for chathosts
I'm more than happy to chat in videochat. I'd even swap few sentences with regular viewers in free chat. Got one guy, he's been a regular since about 5 years. Always cum while im showing him my cameltoe in cottom panties. He comes to free chat and asks me to put a colour he fancies, i go grab some panties and he comes in videochat for about 10 minutes he cums and leaves. This is the perfect use of free chat. But some pathetic worm coming for a first time, wasting my time for more than 2 minutes I rather have not in videochat at all, cause by the time he enters I already don't like him and am put off to perform. Free chat should be limited to a max of 3-4 minutes or the feature completely removed.
RE: Q for chathosts
you really want free text removed? r we supposed to guess what u will deliver? amazing answer. typical.
RE: Q for chathosts
I think you'll find the host said free chat should be limited to 3-4 minutes and if not removed. Her 3-4 minutes should be plenty of time to determine what she will do for you in show.
Joke
A taxi passenger tapped the driver on the shoulder to ask him a question.
The driver screamed, lost control of the car, nearly hit a bus, went up on the footpath, and stopped centimetres from a shop window.
For a second everything went quiet in the cab, then the elderly driver turned and said 'look son, don't ever do that again, you scared the daylights out of me!'
The passenger apologized and said, 'I didn't realize that a little tap would scare you so much.'
The driver replied, 'Sorry, it's not really your fault. I just retired and today is my first day as a cab driver...
I've been driving a hearse for the last 45 years.'
The driver screamed, lost control of the car, nearly hit a bus, went up on the footpath, and stopped centimetres from a shop window.
For a second everything went quiet in the cab, then the elderly driver turned and said 'look son, don't ever do that again, you scared the daylights out of me!'
The passenger apologized and said, 'I didn't realize that a little tap would scare you so much.'
The driver replied, 'Sorry, it's not really your fault. I just retired and today is my first day as a cab driver...
I've been driving a hearse for the last 45 years.'
Flying penis
Russian chess legend Garry Kasparov has an amazing ability to predict the next move of his opponent.
But even his brilliant mind couldn't have foreseen a flying penis interrupting him mid-speech.
The political activist and noted Kremlin critic was addressing opposition forces when a radio-controlled penis with testicles started buzzing around the room.
The sex toy — which was attached to a helicopter blade — hovered around for about 20 seconds before one of Kasparov's minders swatted it out of the air.
The Moscow Times reported the erotic aircraft was being controlled by "pro-Kremlin Young Russia activists".
Kasparov later saw the stunt's funny side, remarking that it was "below the belt".
It's not the first time a machine has troubled the chess champion.
He was involved in a much publicised running battle with chess program Deep Blue in the '90s.
The IBM-designed machine famously defeated Kasparov in a six-game match in 1997.
The Russian demanded a rematch, but IBM decided to retire the program while it was on top.
But even his brilliant mind couldn't have foreseen a flying penis interrupting him mid-speech.
The political activist and noted Kremlin critic was addressing opposition forces when a radio-controlled penis with testicles started buzzing around the room.
The sex toy — which was attached to a helicopter blade — hovered around for about 20 seconds before one of Kasparov's minders swatted it out of the air.
The Moscow Times reported the erotic aircraft was being controlled by "pro-Kremlin Young Russia activists".
Kasparov later saw the stunt's funny side, remarking that it was "below the belt".
It's not the first time a machine has troubled the chess champion.
He was involved in a much publicised running battle with chess program Deep Blue in the '90s.
The IBM-designed machine famously defeated Kasparov in a six-game match in 1997.
The Russian demanded a rematch, but IBM decided to retire the program while it was on top.
RE: any fans?
well, im kinda confused ... cos the Biondo guys are damn great ! ( the hairy one is yummy ;)) ) amazing song as well :P but..but...hmmm
RE: any fans?
have you heard the song of malta...vodka
sounds nice,good song too and singer has good voice
sounds nice,good song too and singer has good voice
RE: any fans?
I would like to say sorry for the irish entry....lickey we were not allowed the shame ...we were so bad this year and for the past 4.....next year we will win
Love is in the air
I think i found my one and only, jeez... wtf... exactly when i thought it will never happen anymore,that im a lame loser who will never get to find the soulmate.Dear chathost and members and Cc team, i also love you all and i want to anounce that me aka Dick194 and Ass194 are the new couple on CC.We are both full of love, understanding, patience and compassion for everybody...i am so enthusiastic i just had to share with you all...now i will take off as i cant wait to penetrate my beloved Ass194.His mind and soul i mean...Peace, God bless you all, make love not war and thousands sweet kisses for everybody...love is in the air...na-na-na-na-na...love is in the air......
RE: Love is in the air
Thank you my dear :)))) i promise that when i will have my first comedy show you will be special guest having a seat in the first line.Thank you for helping me find my path.I will follow your suggestion about becoming a comedian, wish me luck...i bet you are already praying for my success .Piss!ooops, i ment Peace !
RE: Love is in the air
ok grandpa- you got your attention now, whats next? i suggest you to call your doc or eventually to get a grip on reality- here is noone interested on men with such a mental issue- amen!
RE: Love is in the air
Speak for yourself!
I think it's sweet and I'm glad that Dick had the balls to make such a public proclamation of his love for Ass.
God bless you, Dick! :)
I think it's sweet and I'm glad that Dick had the balls to make such a public proclamation of his love for Ass.
God bless you, Dick! :)
RE: Love is in the air
Ohhh Dick ..........I am so thrilled and so happy you are right behind me , I will always bend over or get down on my knees for you and you know it ........ :-)) You are so happy and full of enthusiasm and never let me down , when I want you , you are always there upright waiting for me , you are not one of these limp weak types ........ and you are so gentle with me and never cause me any pain ........ . I wanna clear my passage and sing with you too , I will do the low notes , you can do the high notes and we will make sweet harmonious music together , kiss , kiss , kisss
To all........
I would like to say I love CC , all the girls and members . I understand you all and you are all so wonderful , I have never met such interesting people from so many places .... in particular i love daveyravey , chickybluey and monyboney and so so many other people i just cant name them all . I would especially like to thank CC for giving me the opportunity to express myself when no one else in my life gives a damn about what i think . Doctor Johnson summed it up best when he said better to be a boil on the ass of society and express myself than be a boil on the ass of society and sat on :-)