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CC as anti-relationship site???

I was reading the members' forum and this is what I have found - that CC is an anti-relationship site and that a genuine relationship cannot possibly happen here! This is bullshit ... CC IS a wonderful place where a true love story can be in the condition if:
a) the member does not start his conversation with: "Do you think you could marry a member?"
b) the chathost does not tell the member that she is in love with him in a week after they had some "fun."
If to allow the relationship develop in a natural way and both can meet in real life after, let's say 6 months of talking on CC, everything can happen!! ;)
The hope dies the last and good luck to all of us :D
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RE: CC as anti-relationship site???

What about asking "Do you think you could have sex with a member ?". Does that still keep me in the game ? :P

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truly a game at best...percentages say...not a good risk or bet to find true love and lasting relationship. nobody seems to get it ! its based from the beginning on a monetary factor plus how do you begin to trust (way deep inside) that fact that you came here and she shows to all men. I think that thought along (for both of u) would eventually eat away at any chance of a long term relationship. yes yes...there may be short term exception...but very few indeed.

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Let alone love, can a woman even simply respect a man who feels he has to pay for her attention?
And can a guy ever really respect a woman if he feels that she's only giving him the time of day because he's paying for it?

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RE: CC as anti-relationship site???

"Can a woman even simply respect a man who feels he has to pay for her attention?"
- Yes, but it depends on a man. On CC it is like in the real world, and you do not respect any men in the real life, do you?
"Can a guy ever really respect a woman if he feels that she's only giving him the time of day because he's paying for it?"
I am afraid your question sounds a bit different in your head: Can a guy ever really respect a woman he is paying for?"
Well, ask this question to yourself. If a person deserves all respect in this world, and she has her own reasons to keep this job (maybe she supports her family), why not to respect her?
Does it make YOU a better person just because YOU are paying, for example? Why are YOU better? Because you are the boss who has the money?
You are both on CC with the difference that YOU ARE PAYING.
P.S.
Do not throw a stone if you have a sin, sugar ...

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Of course, respect is a two-way street. Cases of family support are probably no particularly common but do exist. That doesn't necessarily justify this line of work. The motivations are more greed oriented mixed with fun, youthful self-indulgence, lack of real career ambition and on a more profound level cases of abuse. Some of this applies to both hosts and members.

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RE: CC as anti-relationship site???

yes...and the mass-killer had a reason to kill...reasons...do not make things right !...the right reasons (choices) r the most difficult to endure and don't give an 'instant fix'...but in the long run...usually r the right thing to do. BUT...who here on this site...and in this age demographic...has patience?? Everybody wants it NOW.

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True. That is a real concern ... with some hosts.

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<< If to allow the relationship develop in a natural way and both
<< can meet in real life after, let's say 6 months of talking on CC,
<< everything can happen!! ;)

How about 6 months of talking on YahooIM.
I'm not sure how much of a "natural way" it is considered to pay a per minute charge for 6 months to get to know my future ex-wife and mother of our 19 children. ;)

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Blue Moon....you saw me standing alone....without a dream in my heart....and ....without a love of my own

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haha. ok. I was looking at the initial meeting of interested partys taking place here. :P
How about this?
I become a host too and I visit her for three months, then she comes to my video chat for three months... We could alternate visits so no one feels cheated if we find out our love is not to be and ends after four months of video courtship. :D

The real question is: Does true love transcend a monthly credit card bill at 21% average interest even with no annual fees?

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it won't work. she will never visit you. not in the DNA.

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First of all i just want to state that i never ever went to my loved pay video.
Second is that as soon as we were pronounced couples, we made a deal that she quit the site and becomes MY WOMAN and not your internet share woman.
3: I never expected this to happen, i never came here to find love But it happened and im happy. :)

I consider this a normal story and wish everybody success in true love.. Even if you found it in the last place you expected (cc).

OR am i really that odd one out?

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First of all i just want to state that i never ever went to my loved pay video.
Second is that as soon as we were pronounced couples, we made a deal that she quit the site and becomes MY WOMAN and not your internet share woman.
3: I never expected this to happen, i never came here to find love But it happened and im happy. :)

I consider this a normal story and wish everybody success in true love.. Even if you found it in the last place you expected (cc).

OR am i really that odd one out?

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Love is just as real here as anywhere.......heartache is also just as real

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you r the odd man out. u even posted it twice so maybe you're feeling left out? ;)

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Yeah you are.

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Let's ask a question: "Why does a chathost work here?" Any chathost will answer you: "because I need money and in my country, it is not easy to make as much money as I can make here" or "I am studying and this is the best money I can make" etc.
Why does a member come here? "To relax, to cum, to have a fun chat" and of course, he is sure that there can be nothing serious about this paid conversation because at any second, he can click on "end of session" and that's all. Some can say that it's secure sex and no obligations.
Thus, when a member comes to see a girl he is sure that nothing serious can happen because of multiple reasons. But just because YOU don't plan it, it's not guaranteed that love will not take place...and you know WHY?
Because if you are a good guy who has a heart capable for love and you respect a woman in general, then you are able to understand the reasons why this girl is working on CC.
About "talking for free in Yahoo"- Neither you, nor a chathost is obliged to talk to each other at the beginning of your relationship. It is up to you both to establish the moment to move on and to keep in touch in a more personal way (through yahoo or msn).
You have to keep in mind that despite the fact how much you would not like her to get naked and to do shows, she still needs money. Thus, until you both decide to get married, she can work there.
Not all chathosts work at home - most of the girls are in studios and the only access to the Internet and the computer is when they are at "work." The boss of the studio may not like her chathosts wasting internet on some guy just because he feels like talking in yahoo.
Guys, before judging any situation and anybody, please, think about the problem "deeper." it's very easy to judge somebody having a bias opinion. But... does it make YOU a better person after all?
Best regards to all,
a happily married chathost to my ex- member ;)

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Im tired of the default excuse...for excess...that I can't make money in my poor country! BS! Lots of people make good money they just might have to work for it in an edeavor where you don't have to spread your legs. Lack of ambition lack of purpose and laziness keep many hosts hooked on this 'gravy-train'. Its a fantasy world and those that come here live in a fantasy world. (memebers and hosts) Nothing 'grown-up' about this form of distraction. Its addictive and destructive for everyone and eventually the consequences will come due.

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Never a truer word spoken

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I would love to tell you few words as you deserve, but im sure my post will be censored, for some reasons- lmao.
If is BS why dont you try and go to romania for ex and live there for few months? Im sure you wont survive with their salary, paying your rent, bills and eventually to take care of your kids. Alot of ppl make good money as long they are doing compromises, and working here is one of the options. If you going to judge their work, i assure you there is noone happy to "spread their legs" for you any other man on net, they do that because they need, but living in a rich country and having a decent salary would get you blind to others , less lucky than you are. Get a damn grip on reality and look at their pics! Most of them are beautiful woman who would never talk to you even, in real life. Working on an adult site doesnt make them less decent than your fat wife whos spending your money on beauty salons, tring to look better. These girls work hard for their money and have to deal with people like you wich isnt easy. You arent good enough to judge anyone here, you`re nothing better WAKE UP!!
As for me, i respect and appreciate any host here, they are victims of their gouverments. I would make any of them my wife and i would be proud of that!
I love you girls, all of you:)

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....excuses....excuses...

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Yes, I know a host who got a regular job in her home city in Russia. Her first day, boss pressured her to sleep with him. She refused, she got sacked! :-((

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each one of your rationalizations...happen here in the west...girls have to deal with sexual harrassment in the workplace everyday...for that matter...i know stories of studio bosses screening potential hosts for sex. if you need that much money to live then maybe you expect too much in the new eastern euro consumer economy which is driven by high levels of corruption. so what to do? if you take the easy way out in life u will always fall back here...if you say no to corrupt boss eventually u might find employment that u can feel good about.

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See where you're coming from 'hmm' yet I've been there. Local mafioso knocking on the door at 1am asking for $300 towards Business Celebration Day - to a woman of 23 looking after her sick mother, her only income non-adult in CC. However desparate, some women just can't bring themselves to offer sex for money, even in virtual. Disabled guy in flat below burned to death - he couldn't switch off the gas because no home help available. You and me, we never experience that, we rich (by comparison) Westerners.

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sounds like these poor girls live in absolute shit holes. i sure feel sorry for them.

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yes, we can tell

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so are we supposed to feel sorry for the miserable living conditions of these hosts or not?

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that is some of the most pathetic tripe ever to appear in the forums and that's saying a lot.....congratulations

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What if you move to a place cheaper? or find a room mate.

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good guys, capable of love and possessing a deep respect for women actually come here?
regardless, i think you're describing the kind of guy chicks always say they want but are wired never to really want.
but hey, as long as they keep hope alive and keep paying for it, eh, babe?:))

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I have met a lot of good guys here and I am sure that a lot of girls also met a bunch of good people on CC. Right, girls?

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and luckily for you none of them posts as lol

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ChaChing's opinion

Again after reading the members' forum...
ChaChing's story about a girl who was ready to have sex for 1 million pounds is a very good example of a man's point of view who disrespects women in general. "We've established that part" - talking about his disrespect for the girl who would have sex for money...
CC is the same, I guess, for many who come here to J**k off. They "know better" what a sort of a girl is here if she can do it for money...
Isn't it, guys?
CC is not a place for you to judge anybody. It is a great place to communicate for people and to get naughty.
It's a place for fulfilling one's fantasies which may not be possible to happen in real life.
CC is a great place for everybody to be nice and to enjoy the conversation.
CC is a place where we should respect each other because nobody makes anybody be here- it is a place for GROWN-UPS who are open-minded and who are able to enjoy sex and life!
CC ***CAN*** be a place for many people to GROW UP and to use their analytical thinking instead of having bias opinions about other people and things that they do not understand.
Grow up, use this chance, because eventually it will make YOU a better person and YOU will enjoy your life more than now...

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Well, do keep us informed ;)

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"about relationship- i love one member who now telling me to come F**k in thailand and if he really really like this experience, , he may even marry me in some years.I feel gifted.And priveleged.Maybe that's my destiny."

too fucking funny:))

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sounds like ur meeting nick194........good luck

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The great strength of CC is that it is flexible enough to be anything a member wants it to be. I've used this site for love affairs in real and for mindless sex, from non-adult to instant action, all categories have their particular appeal.

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yes...that would be a sense-able approach. however, what gets me is the high propensity for members/hosts to regard this as a dream date...lasting relationship...site. its money-driven and relationships r not...for the most part...nutured in that sort of environment.

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Exactly)))) And if you want to be respected, try to respect others too, especially who is more vulnurable, like girls working here. It is hard enough to overcome lots of barriers to do this job in a "nice" way, so being compassionate and respectful has not hurt anybody yet.
Best regads to all,
the still amused hostess...

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RE: CC as anti-relationship site??? - yesssss

i think it is, since some host told me it was forbidden to exchange e-mail addresses, read it somewhere.. she said.

Since then, i realized exchanging $ with her must be forbidden ...must be written in same place she read that....

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MagicGarden ( xxNICExx HappyGirly 001Confety 18Confety)

Deceives members - keep Away! DANGER
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RE: MagicGarden ( xxNICExx HappyGirly 001Confety 18Confety)

seen her a few times and she has always made it clear to me that she doesn't show. the only thing i object to is that she jumps around from non adult to glamour and based on what she shows in non adult should ban her from there.

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RE: MagicGarden ( xxNICExx HappyGirly 001Confety 18Confety)

She shows. For certain people, or those with big wallets.
She has a "toy" also.

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RE: MagicGarden ( xxNICExx HappyGirly 001Confety 18Confety)

What you were expecting in Glamour? Go to not so shy and get a woman who like to play , there are so many beautiful hosts around!

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RE: MagicGarden ( xxNICExx HappyGirly 001Confety 18Confety)

well i finally looking in not so shy lately. agree glamour is mainly a waste.

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RE: MagicGarden ( xxNICExx HappyGirly 001Confety 18Confety)

Oh no she's not still pulling the emoticon instead of saying no "scam" is she :(

Or has she moved onto some new, even more trivial, "scam" ?

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RE: MagicGarden ( xxNICExx HappyGirly 001Confety 18Confety)

Don't be so naive and speak so, when your uninformed.

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RE: MagicGarden ( xxNICExx HappyGirly 001Confety 18Confety)

How can I be informed when people post such ridiculous complaints with no details. As for being naive I'm not the one getting deceived by hosts.

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RE: MagicGarden ( xxNICExx HappyGirly 001Confety 18Confety)

She showed breast - and more. . . . All I wanted, she showed. Seen her special toy also, in adult category. I agree with first post - she is not honest.

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RE: MagicGarden ( xxNICExx HappyGirly 001Confety 18Confety)

I think if that were true you wouldn't be complaining. But it's a fantasy site so fill your boots.

Anyway I will continue to ignore complaints that read like they were written by a schoolboy in a sulk.

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RE: MagicGarden ( xxNICExx HappyGirly 001Confety 18Confety)

Good job of ignoring - u cannot stop commenting here!
You like to see your name in lights?
Your thoughts are more important than others?

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RE: MagicGarden ( xxNICExx HappyGirly 001Confety 18Confety)

I meant ignore the advice contained in the post rather than the post itself. I feel it s my duty to reply to the "adults" who complain about nothing on these forums.

I wouldn't mind if my name was in lights but would prefer to see it on the winning lottery cheque.

Well my thoughts are certainly more important than yours but not as important as those of any blonde host with huge breasts who is giving me her thoughts on the best way for me to get into her knickers.

I hope that answered all your questions to your complete satisfaction but if not feel free to post again. If I'm not to busy annoying somebody in another post I assure you I will answer.

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RE: MagicGarden ( xxNICExx HappyGirly 001Confety 18Confety)

ur not informed coz you dont know that it was "complaint about nothing" . so you really dont know what ur talking about here.
move on to the strap on fetish post and try your luck there . . .

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Huh?! Get a life!

You're forgetting a few things here:
#1 You're not being 'forced' into any hostess' room...you have a choice..."read the rules" for each category.
#2 You're here to satisfy your prurient interest. Paying for a service does not give you the right to force your self-serving interests upon ANYONE....when you don't like the hostess...click "End the Session".
#3 The girls are here to earn a living. Each will do her best to honor the stipulation of the category at the very least. If the hostess violates the rules, she gets BANNED and, therefore, loses her ability to earn money for her own support.
#4 If you are the same individual who has "flooded" Olya's forums as well as the Discussion Forums with your blather, think about what you are doing the next time you decide to launch a personal attack against someone because you are misinformed.
You going to do this for every hostess you visit when she "does not meet your expectations"?
#5 If you gave Olya a hard time when you visited her room she shoulda gave you 'the boot'. GET A LIFE.

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RE: Huh?! Get a life!

I wonder why she has/had 5 different nicknames then...

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Sooo....why not??

Many girls have several nicknames and so what? It really doesn't matter...maybe it is refreshing for them, maybe to reinvent themselves. For whatever the reason, it is not important.

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RE: Sooo....why not??

As guest I cannot make video, Olya had once forgotten to close guests.. I had a nice chat with MagicGarden. She has great personality, well informed, sensual and knows well how to earn her expenses and live her life! She delights ... she is great!

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You forgot one item. :P

Olya's a beautiful woman and I too have enjoyed time with her........:o)

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RE: She has more than 5 screenNames, and other S_i_t_e_s too

She is a deceiver. She does not keep her word or promises. She lies. She tells lies to get money. She is a cheat.

Oly changes category faster than corn thru a gooose.

I agree about what was said earlier concerning her hubby too.

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U tell him Gioconda....

too bad the girls don't know his nickname....:P

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Back off dude and..........

stop the nonsense. U are the deceiver here.

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RE: Back off dude and..........

Dude open ur eyes and you will see that poster is accurate.

Dont know what was written about her husband , seems to have been deleted / sensored

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RE: strap-on fetish???

yeah,already have 2 blokes who r up 4 it...lookin forwad to that

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RE: strap-on fetish???

Count me in, or rather into! :--))

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Ice fetish

I have an icefetish : I get a serious kick out of having my body and especially my belly iced very intense with large iceblocks.
My question to the chathosts : Any dominant women/mistresses that are open for my icefetish and willing/able to help me ice my belly beyond all limits ?
If so,please let me know. I then would love to meet you online in your chatroom..
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An ice fetish? That's hot!

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sounds cold to me lol

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Why only dominant/Mistresses? :P There are other chathosts who are able for an erotic show.... :P

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Many of the girls here would stick an icicle up their butt while you spit out shaved ice if it meant more video minutes for them. Anything is game here. Why even ask? You pay...you play.

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RE: Ice fetish

Aren't we the stickler for details. It was a satire not an actual response. I would suggest decaf coffee for you.

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I agree

Hehe, you just took the words from my mouth.Everytime someone makes a satire here and speaks with tongue in cheeck this girl jumps with an answer that makes me think either she is on her period, either she drinks too much coffee, either she is constipated.Amen.

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RE: Ice fetish

this is what I call a good black humour ;)

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RE: Ice fetish

Thats actually a pretty tame fetish. Try icing ur balls a few hours instead lol

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RE: Ice fetish

i have a different ice fetish, i like to have a melting contest with hosts, we shove identical sized ice cubes up our bungholes and see whose melts first! :--))

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Ohhhh Gioconda, dont play coy! We have played this game together! I won! :--))

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I know a certain award winning host who made a ice dildo and shoved it into her pussy for me. It was amazing thing to see. She is great!!

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what if

hosts in escorts would meet up?Would you pay to take them out to wine and dine them?Would you expect sex?I assume wineing and dineing and paying for it is a bit better then just chat like someone said in make new friends.You can have same conversation with someone paying same sort of money ,but live for real.
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i would

not mind taking them out in such a situation, if that is in place of rate per minute. i would not expect sex, if it happened ok but it isnt my intention or goal.

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RE: i would

ofc pay you extra for that :D

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RE: what if

If I spent the time, effort and money to travel to meet a girl in the Escort category it would be under the assumption that sex would be involved. I am also certain the escort would agree to the arrangement only if there was money involved. On the other hand it is a lot cheaper to hook up with some hot looking escorts in the USA.

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RE: what if

To me an escort is used in a situation or event where a male or female needs to have a companion to be a part of that event. That does not mean that in real life, that the resulting activity will lead to sex. Sometimes at some activites it is expected that a significant other is susposed to be brought to that event.. The problem occurs when there is no signifcant other; therefore, an escort is hired to accompnay the hirer to the event to be a part of the activity.
That said, I do think that the category in camcontacts is just another category. To me it is one that can be used for just companionship,but can lead to virtual sex if it is desired by both host and member. It should not be visited if you always expect virtual sex, but want that avenue to be left open.

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RE: what if

the fact that it's escort & MASSAGE implies more

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RE: what if

anon, you are right...I just basically looked at the excort part

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RE: what if

I'd say most men expect sex. I'm on some other website full with real escort girls and get offers for 140-200 pounds for an hour every day. Somehow I don't think it's worth having sex with a stranger. There was some very polite guy that so wanted to meet up and said he'd book me thru the site which means already paid and when we meet if i decide not to go ahead he'd still buy me a dinner. So I guess there are cases where some of the 2 people decide not go ahead and involve sex. Not sure about the feedback he'd leave after that, cause he can create a full review about the meeting in the website.
If men didn't expect sex I'd move to escort category straight away as I really enjoy meeting people in real. Yea, why not move and see for myself actually. I've always wanted to try....

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I agree with you, Milena - if it is only about escorting and being fun, I would move there too)))))))) But something tells me that "sex" would be expected ... So, nope- I stay where I am. ;)

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Ok I was out for few hours in the afternoon so maybe made 5 or 6 online in total this is the result. There was one offer of 120pounds per hour, one 160, few were in only for the cam show, oh and one person in free chat asked me if i'd pay him to f@ck me LOLOL

25/May/2008 20:50:34 11:25 1.00 CamContacts 11.36
25/May/2008 20:38:20 10:57 1.44 CamContacts 15.80
25/May/2008 20:05:32 18:51 1.00 CamContacts 18.76
25/May/2008 19:55:10 01:00 1.00 CamContacts 1.00
25/May/2008 19:37:54 03:40 1.00 CamContacts 3.65
25/May/2008 13:06:56 02:30 0.80 CamContacts 1.99
25/May/2008 13:05:15 38:48 0.80 CamContacts 30.88

I'm ok with it actually. Gonna stick in the category for a week. I'm curious :)))

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LOL Smart Girl!!! :D Hm,,, damn, I should move there too :P ))))))))))

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RE: what if

I always ecxpect get pussy after dinner wherever i am.

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RUSSIA FIRST AS ALWAYS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

YAHOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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RE: RUSSIA FIRST AS ALWAYS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

was all political voting from countries that were in the USSR....no competition really

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RE: RUSSIA FIRST AS ALWAYS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Why didnt they vote before then?And why using ur sophisticated and very strange logic Russia doesnt win every year?If there r politicians and recources question only?And btw just to let u know Russian doesnt have great relations with Baltic countries but they did vote for us.

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RE: RUSSIA FIRST AS ALWAYS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

There is nothing strange in his logic. For the first time there were 43 countries participating, with a vast number of them beeing from the former USSR. If you payed attention, you could easily see them voting for each other, just like the scandinavian and even the former yugoslavian did (and these were at war not too long ago). All for geo-political reasons.

I'm not saying the song is bad, because it isn't, but it's not winning material.

PS: The ukrainian singer would make a killing here, and i would definitely be broke :D

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RE: RUSSIA FIRST AS ALWAYS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

From http://entertainment.timesonline.co.uk/tol/arts_and_entertainment/music/article3999488.ece

“Eurovision was intended to bring us all together, but instead it makes it manifestly clear how far apart we are,” said Wogan.

Is there any evidence to support this controversial claim? Well, yes there is, according to Derek Gatherer, an aptly named academic who has been gathering together recent voting patterns in the contest for analysis.

Gatherer identified three blocs that account for about a third of all votes. The biggest is what he calls the Balkan bloc: 11 countries that include Turkey, Albania, various bits that used to be Yugoslavia, Greece, Cyprus, Bulgaria and Hungary. Next is the Eastern bloc of eight countries, including Russia, Poland and Ukraine. (Given the degree to which some of the countries within the Balkan and Eastern blocs hate each other, perhaps Eurovision does indeed break down barriers.)

“The period since the mid-1990s has seen the emergence of large geographical voting blocs from previously small voting partnerships,” Gatherer revealed in a paper pithily entitled Comparison of Eurovision Song Contest Simulation with Actual Results Reveals Shifting Patterns of Collusive Voting Alliances.

“On at least two occasions the outcome of the contest has been crucially affected by voting blocs. The structure of these blocs implies that a handful of centrally placed countries have a higher probability of being future winners.”

Although the eight Nordic and Baltic states form a so-called Viking Empire, there is no western European bloc for the UK to belong to. You will not find the Belgians voting for an Irish turkey.

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Oh come on....Yawn

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You honestly couldn't see any bias in the voting?

That's hilarious!

Every time an Eastern country came up, I got their scoring correct. Not always 10 and 12 points the right way round, but always the right countries.

The same applied to Scandinavia.

It's the Eurovision vote for your neighbour/political ally/ex political-ally contest.

The songs are all crap - the only entertainment is in the comically predictable voting.

Unfortunately, owing to things like the Iraq war and the perceived USA-buddy-buddy tactics of Britain, no one votes for them any more. I'm not saying the song was good, but NONE of the songs were good and in the span of things Britain's entry did not deserve to come last.

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8 points of 14 that UK got came from Ireland. Those two are always friendly to each other in this even though they come with crap songs like UK had yesterday. My guess is that nations that come from same part of the contenent have similar taste in music. The same thing goes with the food. Its not about politcs only, its about that sometimes the nations who lay near each other know the performer or actually like the song. Then we have also voting that is easy to predict, like that Poland and Latvia get high points from Ireland because a lot of people from Latvia and Poland live in Ireland and ofcourse they vote for theyr country even though the song is bad. I am sure that people from Latvia did support theyr national football team in Euro 2004 even though they were crap and many teams much better than they were.

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The funny thing is also about this Sweden song that this song was in second place in Sweden but jury let it through to eurovision:) This Carola woman who is some eurovision legend who won some years ago was just suposed to be in this competition. Its a bad rule that the people can vote for song 1--9 and then the jury can vote one more. I belive that Russia deserve this win, they get votes from almost all 43 nations. Maybe not from the nordic countrys who seem to be occupied to be the only ones to give each other votes, i think that Denmark only got votes from Sweden, Norway and Iceland:)

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were they all members of USSR or of the warsaw block...there is a difference and theres no reason that either would vote for the russian in that kind of contest for political reasons....weak logic

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I didn't think your song was the best but congratulations.

I must admit I think it is a disgrace that the UK got 14 points. We didn't deserve any :P

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lol MARILOU I assure you I am not jealous I just don't agree with you that the Russian song was the best. It's probably more to do with an age thing than jealousy :P

But it was still so much better than the UK's song.

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Ad usual, too many countries voting in a "political" way and communities of migrated people voting massively for their country of origin, but Russia got votes from so many countries, congrat!

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all nonsense, best performance won

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Russia first as always ? .......I think thats a bit of a sweeping statement and incredibly conceited , but congratulations on winning something which is of zero importance , is biased as hell and in the scheme of great things to win means diddly squat .......... Yawn ....... I think I will go and scratch my ass to celebrate :))))))))))))

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Did that Finnish GWAR cover band enter the contest again?

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I don't like him either...:lol :D

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congrats...you won but...i think ..well to me the best song was Israle.......i am Irish and am sooo glad our song was not allowed in...also Ireland won it 7 times...so we are the real winners.....i kno wi sound like such a looser ;-)

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??????we won it 7 times we hold the record for most wins?...just thought Israle was a better song?

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Congratulations russia :-)

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If its all about politcs, why havent Russia won before? He win big time, last 5 votes did not matter because he allready won. Maybe if UK or Germany want to win this they should try to send real artists to the eurovision instead of some pop idol winners that are shit. If you look at the people that for example Russia and Georgia sent this year. Its famous people, big names. I think the reason that Amy Winehouse or some big name in Uk wont compete is that they are affraid of loosing to Latvian pirates, Greece Britney Spears lookalike or Israel ladyboy:)

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Well..to win at sports and pop music is great of course...but I'd still prefer Russia to win at other much more important "fields". For example, the highest level of living...etc. Oh yes, it is because I am that old generation of sceptics, I know..lol

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SAD PEOPLE

COME ON PEOPLE!!!! ARE NOT YOU SICK OF CRITISIING AND BEiNg SO ANGRY??? AND TO ALL ENGLISH GUYS - ARE YOU NOT IN THE MOOD JUST TO SAY CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!! INSTEAD OF SAYING ALL THIS SHIT. RIDICULOUS!!! GROW UP PEOPLE!!!

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ok, you right, congratulations!

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I thought Russians where all about chess champions and great literature and ballet and caviar.
I have to say that I'm greatly disappointed about the level of apparent Russian enthusiasm over such a steaming pile of crap as Eurovision.

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Yes, Roman empirors used to consider people would be happy if they had "panem and circenses": bread and circus games. History has perhaps some lessons to teach...

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UK should send Leona Lewis.

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Leona is a worldwide star now ....but even she couldn't win against the rigged voting. Actually I think that is what makes the show ... Wogan's sarcasm and wit is priceless

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Will be nice when homophobic Russia/Moscow has to host one of the biggest gay events in Europe. LOL!

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WHY it hurts so much??

my bf and i broke up 4 months ago he did it wth no explanation and it hurts so much even now just like in the first day,,i cant get over this even if i tried so hard i just cant help it,mostly hurts the idea of him beeing with another woman and heaving sex with her even if i ve never seen him with and he never admited he dates another woman but i am 1oo% sure he does my intuition tells me because he changed all his feelings for me he doesnt even want see me as friends anymore and i did not do anything t him but damn love hurts so much....even now after 4 months,THEY SAY TIME HEAL EVERYTHING is not true time doesnt heal,i live a nightmare everyday of my life ever since i m alone without him for 4 months now and i still belive this is a bad dream only and i will wake up one day and we ll be together again....pls share ur opinions pls!
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4 months isn't that long to get over a relationship and I assure that eventually time will heal and you'll meet someone else who will steal your heart away and then your ex bf will just be a memory (hopefully a happy one). Of course the idea of him being with someone else will hurt as he was someone who you loved but it is probably for the best that he does not want you even as a friend as that may help you get over him quicker and save you the pain of seeing him with his new gf.

Unfortunately there is nothing else I can do apart from give you a virtual hug and hope your nightmare ends soon.

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Four months is not enough. Try four years. All will be well.

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4 months not enough...you suggest 4 years? Why not 40? lol I assure you that after this post she will loose all her pain!Time is not measured by passed hours or days.. Time is measured by acts .. Posting the problem here was an act, reading the replies is another act. Time is sharing. CC members chathosts and guests (as I) we contribute in delighting her pain. Good luck Juliette!

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Honey..Men cheat for the same reason dogs lick their balls.. CUZ THEY CAN)) And if he left u with no explanation-means he is an a**hole. Cuz if he respects u and ur feelings-he must explain. But anyway. He doesnt worth even ur finger, and trust me, as soon as u realize it-u will see him crying and moaning at ur door, beggin to take him back. Happened to me many times.Cuz men are like this. They dont want us when we suffer and cry,but when we are confident and dont give a damn-they realize that they need us and that they made a mistake. Too late tho. Im sure ull get over him, there are so many nice guys around, waiting for u. U just need to take a closer look;) Good luck and cheer up))

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These comments are about as useful as a chocolate teapot ! Are you really so stupid ? or just act this way ? or just live such an empty meaningless existence..........

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RE: WHY it hurts so much??

If my advice is about as useful as a chocolate teapot, then dont YOU use it.

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I wasnt using your advice just advising Juliette to ignore the advice of someone who is bitter . I dont think you are qualified to give relationship advice ..... a string of b/f's and a love of c**k does not make you qualified :)))))))))

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she is right
thats always happens to me
men likes strong woman men needs strong woman men wants smth that pushing them away
because they like to conquer

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I think Juliette will do well without ur advice. And for sure im much more qualified than u. AS for my bfs-did u count them or what? Did u hold the candle? Dont think so. So...Talk to the hand)))

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what advice did u give? none, just took a cheap shot at someone who did offer advice that doesn't happen to be far from the truth

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Well cheap shot or not , its not far from the truth .

Not all girls live in MB's kind of world , nor are they so bitter and not all want advice at brainless , moronic level ..... so lick my balls and talk to my hand :-))))))

As regards advice , there is plenty of other good advice here , the only opinion that matters is Juliette's and I hope there is some she can use .

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Its better to live in REAL world and give usefull advice than see life through pink glasses. My world isnt bitter its just real and i can see that i know some things for sure better than u, professor. Btw u dunno me, u dunno the world i live in, u dunno a damn abt me. So leave ur comments to urself. All i said was that Juliette shud stop crying and suffer over the exbf. Stop waiting for him. And the most important thing-she shud smile, ciz someone will fall in love with her smile for sure. Men are attracted to strong and positive girls. Not the ones who depends on them and live only for them.

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I like girls who depend on me. It' s a turn on. Submissive, dependent girls get me going....preferably if they have big tits and want sex all the time too.

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Well the words you use now are not what you initially said and I agree dont cry over him , be strong and confident and forget about him . Its better if u dont make reference to dogs balls , the finger , he will come begging for u back etc and so on . Maybe you are not bitter but your first comment suggested you was .......

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Jeez.....who does ever take this place serious????It was a joke, just a quote from sex and the city show! Jeez...And i used ))))after the phrase abt balls, so go buy urself glasses and some sense of humour too! Abt begging-guys DO beg, DO ask to please take them back, they DO rush back when they see that the girl is pretty fine and got over them and forgot them. And this is reality nowdays. Not my fault u know.

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Just when you phrase yourself better you go back to your own mindless style again in an instant ........ Not all men beg , not all men chase to get a woman back when they break up .......some men are glad to move on and glad to see the girl got over them and wish them well so its not all black and white MB . Just for the record and so I understand YOUR experience , how many men broke up with you , of those , how many came back begging ?

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None of ur business;) Get a life urself and start gaining YOUR OWN experience instead of studying mine:) Good luck with that:))))))))

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If people need to gain their own experience, stop painting all men with the same vile brush of bile and passing it off as advice for others.

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Had to be some male abuse in your bg. You gotta a whole lot of pissed off energy inside you. Better see some anger management therapist before its too late and you cut some dudes nuts off in the middle of the night.

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Btw , I do have a sense of humour , I'm exchanging comments with u aint I ? :-))))))) :P

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Nah ure not exchanging comments with me, ure just being annoying like a fly. None was talking to u and my message was for Juliette only. But u decided that its ur business and that u cant miss a chance to bite my arse. Well-whatever. U can sit in ur anonimous hole where the sun never shines and write ur lame comments as much as u wanna. I cant care less and this is getting really annoying. Yawn. Ciao

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your a silver tongue devil with an angry axe to grind...pity the poor guy that hooks up with ur arse...as u put it.

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and you wish you could be so lucky

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:-)))))))))))) , okay , I am finished , I had my fun . I have a lot of experience thats why I felt the need to pull your chain ..........it worked....... as regards that men sleep around because they can , well not all do and women always have the right to say NO and a smart woman will know what are a mans motivations .

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Monika, I agree with everything that you say, but I also would like to say that it can happen with women as well as men. It has happened to me. Juliette, it will take a while to recover from the incident, but you can and you will. Remember, that it was probably for the best if the relationship is not a relarionship of trust and love. You will not forget, but move on with your life. Please realize that there is another guy who will love and cherish you somewhere and you will find him.

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This says more about the kind of men that you have relationships with than men in general.

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All what you have said shows that you are a sensitive and romantic person who opened her heart for a big love but the guy turned out to be a fake. Do you know how to get over him? Ask yourself: "Why did he left me when I loved him so much? Why did he left me when I was ready to give him the world? How come that he did not assess me and did not see how wonderful I was? If he did not see what a great person I am it means he is an idiot! If he is an idiot, why am I crying about him? He is not worth it!!" Then smile, get dressed, meet your friends, do your favorite things, and the realization of the fact that You are The One who a man can only dream about should make all your nightmares go away. And you know why? Because You "ARE" wonderful... Save your big love for the RIGHT man ;)
Good luck :D

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Well now you know what love is ........ the fact he broke up with no explanation could be him being a coward or sparing your feelings . As it is most definitely over I wouldnt want to be friends .... it would make it very hard to move on with your life . Better a clean break , trust me . As regards your life now , you have to be a little selfish and think only of yourself . The pain you feel , if you think about it , wont go away and in fact will feel worse ....... you have to learn to let go . Whenever he comes into your mind try to think of something else , keep yourself busy , distract yourself and spend a lot of time with friends as good friends are a big help . Try to think in a positive way about yourself , about life , your future , what you want ....... think about what you have learned from the relationship and try and take some positives . Whatever you do dont allow your feelings to fester , to walk around like your life has just been put on stop and certainly dont allow yourself to become bitter and twisted like MB . Good luck , you will be okay .

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you should not live in that moment...yes time passes and you never forget how you are hurt , but in time a smell a song can bring long forgotten happy moments back.....Love and Hate...to words different words that can change position very quickley.

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Ok Juliette, last time it happened to me i lost 5 kilos from refusing to eat, and it took me 6 months to really forget him. The advices above are good, go out and try to have fun, find a sexy guy and have sex. Sex is great, especially when its better than what you had before:) I personally felt better being angry, on the situation and him, really pissed off. That made me see what i value, how many good things i have to offer and what a loser he is; then its important to tell urself, it is not your fault that he left. Now look at yourself in the mirror, start loving urself again and ..wait, time really helps! Trust us kisss

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the russian one was actually crap...only reason they gettin high points so far is coz of the old iron curtain ;)

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just wonderin about escorts

what does it actually means?
does it means she ll meet up for sex or it s only like pay her to have a meal and take her out and stuff????
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The term escort is usually used as a polite way to say prostitute and therefore sex will be on offer. However if you mean the escorts category on this site then I doubt many of them will even meet you for a meal as, to most girls, it is just another category on cc.

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but how about the uk hosts?wy choose that categ if it s just as any other one?do they not meet u?for meal?sex?etc?

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Why not ask them directly?
I concur with opinions that for most girls it's just another category, and as it is not quite crowded, at times "a little shy", "not so shy" or others have a try there after waiting in vain...

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Just another category to fuel the fantasy of members with little or no relevance to real life. Hosts sometimes like it because they have fewer competition and it gives members an unrealistic hope of hooking up with someone outside of CC and the right to spend a fortune persuing that false assumption. Its all about vid minutes.

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Don't take everything so literally. By this logic, the girls in "make new friends" really want to be your friend and the ones in "longterm or marriage" are really looking for a husband...yeah right. Like INYF said...just another category.

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RE: just wonderin about escorts

As is usual with these discussions there is truth on all sides. Many hosts regard Escorts & Massage as just another category but there are/have been some genuine ones. Ebonyboobs and Sexytinyxxx are two examples. The only thing to do is to ask the girls. If they are in that category it is a legitinate question.

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You buy her dinner - dont forget to bring candles and flowers and at the end she wont have sex with u so u can travel back home again muahhhhhhhhhhhhh :-)

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RE: just wonderin about escorts

If you visit a prostitute, do you take flowers and candles with you?
I Heard some people bring wine, thats already funny, but flowers and candles and expect some romance? -Thats just ridiculous lol =)
Think of how many men been inside them lol.

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Escorts are human beings too. An escort will often appreciate some extra attention such as flowers and chocolate. If you want to be totally practical bringing a small gift like that may get you a more enjoyable night than simply giving her extra money. Also some clients like the girfriend experience. Giving gifts is all part of the fantasy.

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a prostitute that kisses?? very unusual...did u know the mouth is more intimate than the pussy?? It happened to me...with a "g/f"...i met here...that's when I knew for certain she was in it for the money!!

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Crime prevention

This is completely off the grid for discussion on a site like CC but I have two suggestions on crime prevention . These are light hearted but with some touch of seriousness -

1. Many of the worst criminals in society have the XXY genes unlike most men who are XY or women YY . These people have a pre-disposition to crime and no real moral compass . I think everyone should be tested for these genes and if found , action taken to help prevent them committing the worst crimes in society eg some kind of drug treatment to null the effects of XXY etc.

2. This one I will explain in a true story ' When I was in my early 20's and without a gf at that time , I could be obnoxious , aggressive , moody and pretty horrible ........... one night after a few drinks I came home and was like that with my parents ......... mom went to bed and I was left with my father ......... a big , powerful man ....... after being obnoxious for a time he finally stood up and with his arms down by his side me made his hands into two fists .......... I thought shit , here it comes I am going to get a good beating and I deserve it ....... so sitting there in my chair and shitting myself my father slowly walked over to me and placed his two fists on either arm of the chair and looked me in the eyes and said .... son you know what you need ...... i trembled and replied ...... what ? ....... he looked at me and said .......you need to get laid , I broke out laughing and he did as well .............................. it was true i needed to get laid .

The point I am making is this ............ take the young , aggressive , moody young men in our society and rather than just lock them up , take them to a brothel , get them laid and 8 times out of 10 they will be better for it and less likely to cause trouble .

Maybe we could have government owned brothels . It will be good for the girls , keep them off the streets , be clean and hygienic and will perform a necessary service for those male members of society who need it and can be used to calm angry young men :-))))
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I'm not sure what kind of girls you hang out with but where I come from they have XX chromosomes. Perhaps your dad getting you laid was actually a worse punishment than beating you up.

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really great for the women too duh

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RE: Crime prevention

Pick Me! Pick ME!! LOL I can help.... :D

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Unless the guy is from the usa and he is blocked lol

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:P

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Question

do you feel the same, people are people, no matter what you say or do, people are either going to be nice, happy, sad, rude, etc....people are people. Now my point is sitting here behind a computer watching people type words in a chat room, it amazes me what they type and how they express their self, hmmm if you was a man or woman, come on really would you like this person to be like this in your life or you still just make believing that this is just a fantasy. After watching some people type stuff in a chat room, it makes me think people are crazier in the fantasy world more then the normal real world. I can go on and on about this subject, but, I think you get my point, so my question is : What type of man or woman do you really like to spend the rest of your life with.
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not even a luvy dovey like me?

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the type guy of who will spend hours in my video chat, who will realise that i'm nothing more than a companion-for-hire, and who will not hassle me about my 'real' feelings for him.
to find that type of guy to share my life on cc with would be a gift from god.

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People are so different, you are right;)
The most important in a person (both men and women) is to be able to see the world "right," to be fair, to treat others without having a bias opinion, to be compassionate and understanding, and to have a big heart. Oh, and of course one should be intelligent, smart, funny, and there should be some chemistry between a man and a woman... All these should create a true love story...
Oh boy... Good luck to all of us :D

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Well same question goes for both sexes. Some men here too would never find an ideal woman out of all the working girls on this site..We are all different.

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come for gf

here to dick her but shes not here. sob.
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You are not here to dick her. You are here to whack off while you look at an electronic representation of the girl. In other words you are doing it totally by yourself.

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70% off!!!! "Sale" "Sale" ... a completely fresh g/f on sale....:D

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Come on girls .............

Is it so bad being a little bit of a pervert ?? My great love Dick194 ( btw shes a woman ........ but has testicle and penis envy ) calls me a pervert in joking but she uses it as an insult ........ I call her a pervert and she wears it as a badge of honour :-)) I think there are various degrees of perversion and that most people if not all in some way are a little bit perverted .......... it would be boring otherwise anyway . So come on girls .......... give the perverts a break :-)) and to Dick194 , I still love you baby despite all the insults , i know to you they are like pet names for me after all you cant call me honey , sweety , sugar etc as you feel sick doing it and i do hearing it :-)))
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interesting choice of names that you expect anybody to believe that's what your foolishness here is about. it was pretty funny though. television sitcoms could use a few inventive writers like you

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1st post was funny but now repetitive and boring.

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Imposter !!!!

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you too! hahahaha

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Its a big off for me when a woman calls me Hun , Sugar , Sweety , darling , pumpkin etc. , its so superficial .... I would rather be called perv :-))) and I hate hearing it with others ........puke ! I am glad the 194's are growing in number ........... I love you all so so much :-))) , one question where is Prick194 ?

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I think it's you! lol

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I don't know where the hell Prick194 is, but here i am, love you all, God bless everyone, may joy and peace rule the world.

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Someone looking for me ? here i am, sorry im late...i was busy installing my tent on the beach and picking some flowers to put them in my hair.Also my gf kept me very busy, we were making love not war, and i always get stuck in her long gipsy skirt when i try to find my way between her legs.This time i just ripped off the skirt...but got stuck in the thick dark forrest if you know what i mean ;) .Peace...burp...love you all...

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i'm here lover but i rather thought you could use a rest after the workout i gave u last night

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Im so dissapointed and depressed...nobody ask about me, always about Prick194 and Dick194...as always the bad guys get all the attention... sniff...im going in my corner to lick my balls and my wounded ego.

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don't worry sweetie, someone luves ya

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you already here

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RE: Come on girls .............

ohhh come on , that such lazy writing be more original ...:-)))

I would have said he's in the oval office sleeping or
He's in the oval office staring and wondering about the big red button that says ' do not press '
or Laura doesnt allow allow him to speak to strangers or
He's running the burmese governments relief effort

or well any number of choices ......... :-)))

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RE: Come on girls .............

194 mania is like perversion: a bit only is enough ;-)

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RE: Come on girls .............

i puked the second time, the first time was very funny but as usual they wear out a good thing in a hurry around here

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RE: Come on girls .............

would you two get a room already........lol

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Friday Night Question

To both members and hosts.

You go out for a night out and meet someone who you truly believe is someone famous that you fancy like mad. He/she plays along with and you have a great night and then go home together and have even better sex. In the morning you realise that it is in fact just someone who is a lookalike.

Would you feel cheated or just thrilled you had a great night and great sex with someone you fancied ?
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RE: Friday Night Question

I wouldnt mind to reapeat it)) And no i wudnt feel like cheated or something))Had a great time so-why regret?))

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like an 86 year old Scottish actor?

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ha ha ha ha ha...........

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If i truly believed he was someone famous i really fancied, I don't think i would hurry jumping in bed with the guy, I would be much more interested to find out as much as I could about who he really is, as a person. I never had sex as soon as I met someone, because for me, good quality sex involves a lot of factors, and good looks are not one of them.
But if theoretically i would have ended up spending the night with the guy, feeling as good as you described, I would be more than happy to do it again, and I would use his resemblance to someone famous as future Roleplay subject;)

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RE: Friday Night Question

i'd think
ha so, it wasn't the friday night project then
For some reason I thought straight away about justin lee colins, i quite like him but not sure if enough to sleep with him lol.
Bet he wouldn't sleep with me either LOL but for the record my man has a 6-pack whereas JLC has a beer gut :)))

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Okay instead of a celebrity just imagine that it was me you thought you were having sex wth and then you found out it wasn't :P

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a sigh of releif

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Wow after Shybabee's reply why don't you kick me when I'm down lol.

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RE: Friday Night Question

didn't read her reply lol
you all know we are joking
I have no idea who you are, you may be a stunner

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would keep the fantasy going thinking to myself she is still the actress i adore and she is playing the part of a normal person.

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geezzzz...I just realize my wife of 10 years is not really catherine zeta-jones!!

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this is so funny :D))))))))))))))))

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oh you r lucky of she looks even a lil bit like her

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are you looking for a wealthy man??

hosts look for rich man to marry ? how important is for u ? tell true.
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RE: are you looking for a wealthy man??

Have I ever said I like poor guys? :))) And what if YOU worked, too, for the trips, beauty centers, clothes etc and not expect it all from someone else like a leech? It's not that difficult trust me;-P

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RE: are you looking for a wealthy man??

You want a man like your father. Dammit why couldn't your father have been a rude, uncouth, poor,ugly man with no personality or ambition :(

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RE: are you looking for a wealthy man??

Okay I get the hint. I have no chance :(

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RE: are you looking for a wealthy man??

taking p a collection for you two to get a room already....lol

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RE: are you looking for a wealthy man??

with those limited superficial interests, an interesting companion might be difficult to come by - I have money but am not impressed by women who are impressed by it.

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RE: are you looking for a wealthy man??

im still choking on "pleasant supplement"

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RE: are you looking for a wealthy man??

Nice reply, ro-host.
I'm not a wealthy man, just comfortably compensated and comfortable in my own skin. I've been around enough wealth to see how complicated it can make life, and how many wealthy people climb over the backs of others to get there. Fine for others; not for me. I would rather eat peanuts in a bar in my jeans with you. :-)

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RE: are you looking for a wealthy man??

And I'll buy the peanuts!
I'm not a cheapskate, I do have some self-respect... :-)

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RE: are you looking for a wealthy man??

she may be a prolific blocker.

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RE: are you looking for a wealthy man??

This is me and i use this name in the forums:) We are different persons, so dont worry:)

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RE: are you looking for a wealthy man??

Hugs:) take care!

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RE: are you looking for a wealthy man??

I have lots of money, but if a woman wants to use me for it then she should be at least a 9.5 on the looks scale. As you are only a 7, I've lost interest.

But...wait.....How's your cooking, cleaning and ironing? I could sack the maid.

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RE: are you looking for a wealthy man??

you didn't mention fat and bald lol

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RE: are you looking for a wealthy man??

You talking about me, again??? :P

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RE: are you looking for a wealthy man??

Money gives a lot of freedom but money cannot buy love. Do you suggest that a chathost working here and showing her body for money is able to get married to somebody because he makes more money than she does? Why did this kind of thought come to your mind? Or do you ask us (as representatives of females of the planet) in general? It is a strange question to me...

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RE: are you looking for a wealthy man??

It always cracks me up when a girl is so obvious after a man with some money .......... despite all the obvious comments posted the truth of life is that there are far far more girls wanting a man with money than there are men with money . If you are a man with money girls are like buses , another one will be along soon and there are so many who are prepared to do what it takes to get their man . In the country where I live there so so many girls after the rich bf and its the same the world over .......... all I am saying is if you are a beautiful girl dont expect or set this as your main goal in life ......... you will just end up disappointed :-))) and the other truth is happiness is what you make it ......... and many of the richest men are also the meanest ( how else do you think they have it ??? )

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RE: are you looking for a wealthy man??

wise words oh annointed one

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RE: are you looking for a wealthy man??

In my experience if a man has money to throw around it is because of the following -
1. He's throwing around borrowed or other peoples money.
2. He made it too easily .
3. He made it illegally .
4. Both 2 and 3
5. He made it by stepping over many others and showing the morals and principles of a rattle snake .

If a man has had to make his money the hard way he will likely -
1. Be older as it takes time .
2. Already be married and unlikely to fire off his wife as this means splitting that hard earned money in two
3. Will happily jump into bed with some eager young thing but theres no way hes leaving the woman he met when he had no money for a gold digger as this could mean he loses all his money very quickly .
4. May have a mistress but this is a dangerous game and could lead to a number of scenarios .
5. Be wise enough , smart enough and cute enough to string along virtually any young woman who wants to get close to his wallet and so get whatever he wants from her and she is more likely to believe the bullshit as hey , if she doesnt its over and no more wallet to cuddle upto .
6. Is unlikely to want to hook up with a girl who has no work ambition , is lazy , spends money freely , wont do anything in the home , cant cook etc as this goes against everything he has had to do to make money in the first place and there no free lunches .......... unless ......... hes had a brain bypass and all controls have been handed to Mr Penis .

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RE: are you looking for a wealthy man??

dont agree with last part. some who divorce get rich by not having a wife in later life. lol

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RE: are you looking for a wealthy man??

Fair comment and I suppose you could add , because never got married and had kids . The truth is like the girls who seek out a professional footballer husband etc. ............ there arent many rich men around to get your hands on but plenty of girls .

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RE: are you looking for a wealthy man??

You know what I am thinking...After reading all these posts, I thought: "What's the heck? Why not?" Any suggestions depending on the size of your salary?" LOLOLOLOLOLOL :D

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RE: Visa for UK

yes, and the day after you have made the document attesting your money in the account, you may withdraw it and use it to pay for the trip or pay it back to your generous sponsor :-)

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RE: Visa for UK

whos that? nick? lmao

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RE: Visa for UK

I suggest you check out the home office website.
And make sure you don't apply if you are not 100% you will get it, chances to be refused one are very high and it will be even more diffucult to get one if you were refused beforehand.

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RE: Visa for UK

extremely difficult to get.

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RE: Visa for UK

make him come and marry you in russia, then you will probably get one.

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You should always make first meeting on your homeground, in a public place. If he is really interested in you, he should have no problem with that. Also, assuming you are from Russia or like that, it is very difficult to get visa if you haven't plenty of money or he signs a paper that he will pay any expenses caused by you.

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Are individual ratings seen by Chathosts?

I was curious to know if a chathost knows who gave them what ratings?

Very curious to know.
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RE: Are individual ratings seen by Chathosts?

it used to...but not anymore as camcontacts have removed the feature

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RE: Are individual ratings seen by Chathosts?

no
thats was before but now nobody know who give an rating

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RE: Are individual ratings seen by Chathosts?

there is no way i would ever put up a personal profile of myself. and if would be required i would quit first. viewers are not the performers. worst idea i ever heard.

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RE: Are individual ratings seen by Chathosts?

In my opinion, viewers should have profiles too and we should be able to rate and review them too. So if you want to rate you have to put a short review as well. This is how it works on another site and I think it's great!

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RE: Are individual ratings seen by Chathosts?

i'm afraid that this site would dry up rather quickly if that were the case.

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RE: Are individual ratings seen by Chathosts?

nice attitude!

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RE: Are individual ratings seen by Chathosts?

LOL. :D
The air of entitlement here is hysterically thick.
I get the feeling that a lot of the people here who are working their way through university aren't studying business classes.

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RE: Are individual ratings seen by Chathosts?

dry up?
I doubt it
traffic there is brilliant and they give 70% payout too.

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RE: Are individual ratings seen by Chathosts?

That "other site" has reviews of members because they are "punters" using the services of prostitutes and the rating system works as a safeguard for the prostitute's safety.

Here you're separated by computers and cables and a lot safer. There's no reason for it. I would guess maybe 1 in 100 viewers would want this feature if it was available. Most aren't here to join a community and as they are the ones shelling out the money and not earning it, they have more of a right to their anonymity!

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RE: Are individual ratings seen by Chathosts?

just like everywhere so dont complain.

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RE: Are individual ratings seen by Chathosts?

hey ---bad idea and crazy idea--if cc allows a host to rate a member, I better be getting a check in the mail for my commission, I'm not the one making money here, the host are. I'm the one spending the money,, so no ratings and hell no also of having a member to have a profile here. This is a cyber fantasy sex site, not a dating site, they have a lot of them already, and if that is your game, please feel free to join one of them.

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RE: Are individual ratings seen by Chathosts?

a dam good thing u hosts arent running this website. u would lose half the members in the first month. seems u dont have enough info on us. lol. since we dont have viewers notes, it be better if we could write fuller description of our experience with hosts or why we give one star (like other sites to use yure argument). duh.

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RE: Are individual ratings seen by Chathosts?

Chase Profile: Category-Instant Action--well maybe some dungeon
Country-Somewhere in the States
Local Time: central
Options: hmmm
Viewer Rating: 10--wishing
Age: 99
Last On-Line: Today
Sex: Yes love sex (only with females)
Orientation: Straight
Ethic: Red
Hair: Yes Hairy
Build: Muscle Man
Eyes: Blue
Hair Length: To my ears
Languages: Dirty
Special: You name it
Schedule: Ah when i feel like it---Turn-Ons: mmm a sexy woman with eyes that roll up and say hey babe whats that in your pocket, is that a pocket knife or are you glad to see me and a smile that say hello hun come see me and lets dance. Turn Offs: hmmm---a woman that chats to much and not enough loving. What I expect from your show: mmm, your attention on my strong muscle lean mean machine body.Why I am I here: hmmm,,, you tell me, your the host.

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RE: Are individual ratings seen by Chathosts?

more like. she only goes topless, show was good or bad, etc worth returning?

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RE: how often wank a guy per week..?

Daily. Sometimes twice a day. Life brushing your teeth.

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RE: how often wank a guy per week..?

Sure hope the two things are not related somehow. :p

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RE: how often wank a guy per week..?

I am 50 and wank 2 times everyday. Once in the morning and once at night :-P

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i am 51 and i have 2 gfs who take care of this for me lol.i might need a new kitty before long though lol

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why you ask,,, are you thinking some wank more than others or afraid your wanking to much or not enough---

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RE: how often wank a guy per week..?

only wank with one gf here. but 4 times.

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I'm 23 and i wank, on average, 2 times a day. Of course, some days i may go for a Full House, and do it four times. Five times is a bit over the top.
Somedays i just don't. But i can't remember when was the last time i didn't wank for over 3 days straight. Perhaps when i was in the hospital...

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Wow... to see how men take such good care of their prostates.

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RE: dialing uk

Country code for uk is 44

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RE: dialing uk

Dial 011 44 then the number. Best buy a calling card from worldphonecard.com or us 1010 dialing. Google 10 10 international dialing to get codes and prices.

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RE: dialing uk

....and make sure you leave off the first '0' of the UK number after dialing +44.

e.g 01703 etc... becomes 44 1703 etc

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RE: dialing uk

Thank you Watson.

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01703.....old Southampton number. Scummer!

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RE: new girl

Julia welcome to the site. You'll soon learn what a madhouse this place is :D

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RE: new girl

but INYF is an officer and a gentleman - offer him a free into vid :)

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RE: new girl

If you girls go on vacation, then the money isn't THAAAAAAAT bad :)))

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RE: new girl

Wrong thread :(

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New crop...

It is that time of year for new girls to try their hand at CC. I see a few new faces but not the usual flood of new girls. Is the economy so good that hotties are passing on CC or am I too early for school to be over and the newbies to start working?
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I don't know about the economy but you are a bit early. Its still exam time for many.

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I thought the flood came in august/september when girl come to uni

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Funny how

We get chased by those we dont want. For those we want, they dont chase us.
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good quote--cool

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You only want those that don't chase BECAUSE they don't chase. And if they did start chasing......you wouldn't want them anymore.

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what comes easy, we don't value

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Why do dogs have black lips?

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RE: Funny how

There is one way of putting it:
You always want something you can't have :)

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if you chase perfection, you often catch excellence, and after 3 years of chasing I found that this woman had the same taste as I did, we both are crazy about women

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lol!!!=))

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what is your profile, i will see if you are one i want to chase...

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RE: NEED HELP!

I'm not sure you'll attract much sympathy on part of viewers - some are quick to shout girls are just scammers...
Apparently, your boyfriend doesn't want to work with you to sort out the problems, and probably he spent most of the money you earned here... It may be painful to hear, but you better let him go and tell him to settle his own money problems himself, if he prefers another girl just out of this reason. And work hard here, difficult to help you in any other way as you cannot be recognised... Good luck!

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RE: NEED HELP!

maya just leave him,not beat the shit out of him first?

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RE:yes thomas

thats more like you maya.lol

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RE:yes thomas

careful maya--a stalker (hehe)

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a strapon:((((((((((((((no thanks

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hmm

let him go.
i dont understand you. he left you and go back to his xgf,okay. think of all reasons why he is bad for you. like hottie says work long hours make more money if possible, and remember when you do have money he will come back to you.
or go beat the xgf take all her money:D

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RE: BIG LOVE

Do you really need to ask? You're joking, right?

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RE: BIG LOVE

Everyone has trouble with money at some point in their lives. Next to sex or a lack of it it is the biggest reason that couples break up. If you are thinking you want a permanent relationship with this guy and he is not willing to do whatever it takes to help resolve the money problem then he is not the man for you. Dump him now before you are married and kids and he decides to leave because money is tight. I think all you CC girls should move in together and become lesbians. You would be happy, rich and you would avoid the endless stream of loser guys you seem to attract.

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Q for chathosts

I'm just wondering, why is it that so many chathosts don't want to chat, to be friendly, to take time to flirt with a guy and make him interested to meet her in vid??? If all I wanted was to jump into a sex show without being interested in the woman, I'd just go see a pre-recorded video. I can't tell u how many chat rooms i have left because the "chat"host won't chat!!! I won't visit one that won't .. but will visit vid if the "chat"host engages in friendly chat.
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I guess you had some bad luck, dont take it personal. Maybe the girls were after a hard vid, or very tired. I know i have my moments too, but i am always talkative and friendly. But if i am very tired and the guy entering the chat is a friend, i tell him im not up for a quality conversation, i prefer show. So in a way i und the girls.... move on and try other girl when it happens to u again. Kiss n good luck, maybe u come to my chat tooo :D

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RE: Q for chathosts

new trend i'm afraid.

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RE: Q for chathosts

Time is money. They may be speaking with other more promising members and better to devote their time to them. It is the middle of the night for many hosts. They are tired and if they think you are not video material they don't want to go to the trouyble. They are talking in English. Not their first language. That is tough to do. Why do that if you just want to shoot the breeze? Lots of reasons. Some are just not sociable and are reacting to members who just want them to quickly strip. This is a job. Not everyone at any job is customer oriented 100% of the time.

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RE: Q for chathosts

Welcome back bb)))))))

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thx for all ur responses, I do understand chathosts don't wanna talk for long times with someone who won't go to vid ... and I dont' do that. But if a girl will talk to me 5 or 10 min. and is nice and charming, i usually do go to vid. It just seems more and more chathosts say "come to vid" before u can even ask their name. I'll try others until I find those who like to know the "member" a little more than just a nameless face with a $$$ stamped on it. :))

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friendly chat?????u gotta be kidding man this is a paid site go to yahoo messenger for a nice genuine "friendly" chat :PPPPPPPP

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I'm more than happy to chat in videochat. I'd even swap few sentences with regular viewers in free chat. Got one guy, he's been a regular since about 5 years. Always cum while im showing him my cameltoe in cottom panties. He comes to free chat and asks me to put a colour he fancies, i go grab some panties and he comes in videochat for about 10 minutes he cums and leaves. This is the perfect use of free chat. But some pathetic worm coming for a first time, wasting my time for more than 2 minutes I rather have not in videochat at all, cause by the time he enters I already don't like him and am put off to perform. Free chat should be limited to a max of 3-4 minutes or the feature completely removed.

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RE: Q for chathosts

you really want free text removed? r we supposed to guess what u will deliver? amazing answer. typical.

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RE: Q for chathosts

I think you'll find the host said free chat should be limited to 3-4 minutes and if not removed. Her 3-4 minutes should be plenty of time to determine what she will do for you in show.

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RE: Q for chathosts

she sad or free text should be removed

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RE: Q for chathosts

my type of host. 2 bad you dont show name.

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