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RE: winner of euro-2008

they have legit g/f...don't need to visit here.

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RE: winner of euro-2008

all guys in"legit"relationships don't need to visit here?but some do. BOOM!

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RE: winner of euro-2008

if you had a husband/boyfriend, and he virtually fucked around with girlies who showed their cooch on cam for money, would that make you feel like a legitimate wife/girlfriend?

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RE: winner of euro-2008

don't be insecure bb...theres enough to go around...even for u. but soccer star with money...? what he need u for bb ??

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RE: winner of euro-2008

Congratilations)

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RE: winner of euro-2008

i really love that cutie they call el nino. when he strikes a pose sucking his thumb after a goal that's just the single most ungayest thing a guy could ever do! soooooo dreamy!

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RE: winner of euro-2008

Congratulations Spain!!!!!!

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RE: R.I.P. George Carlin

truly someone who had the balls to tell the truth.

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RE: R.I.P. George Carlin

very good comedian...I enjoyed listening to him

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Have Fun and Stay Cool

goodbye to all my friends at cc--to the host I have met here on cam, thank you very much for your shows, your friendship and your support. I will missed you all and hope all of your dreams come true throughout your life.-to the other members here, always stay cool and was also great knowing a little about you to. Thanks for the laugher, the smiles, joys and just being around. To the new host coming along, just have fun and things will happen and to the new members coming along,, have fun also, respect the host here and cc rules and you will be ok---you will meet some very interested people here and some will become your friends. Always remember stay cool, smile and love your neighbors.
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RE: Have Fun and Stay Cool

and what you want to say? what is the message?

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RE: Have Fun and Stay Cool

the message was said goodbye---goodbye and good luck to you member,, wish i can leave--and you stay cool

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Happy Birthday Miss Delight!

Many happy returns Kisa! Hope you have all the good things you wish for..... kisses :-)))
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RE: Happy Birthday Miss Delight!

how old is kisa now and are tits same age ??

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Happy Birthday Luana4You

Happy Birthday Luana4You,
This is your special day to celebrate the anniversary of you entering this world. May this day, your day, be filled with joy, happiness, and care. Best wishes to you and hope all your wishes come true.
Hugs,
Charles
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VIVA VIVA ESPANA

Come on Spain ........... :)))))))))))

You are the best team there and my pick for the next world cup as well ........ so dont let me down and allow the souless germans to win .

Viva Passion , Viva Style , Viva Skill , Viva Hunger , Viva Beautiful football :)))))))))))))
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RE: VIVA VIVA ESPANA

i'm sure the notion of letting you down is the last thing they will say before running on the pitch.the next world cup only if it is for retirees.spain is oldest team at these euro's,lol

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RE: VIVA VIVA ESPANA

Argentina will still be the team to beat in the World Cup. When all those prima donnas are working together they are impossible to beat. Spain will win the Euro I think. As you say...lots of older players. I am hoping to attend WC 2014,,,,in Brazil. Saving up. Only doing 5 minute videos with cheap hosts. That was a joke.

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RE: VIVA VIVA ESPANA

barring that meltdown by mexico in overtime, who was the last team that argentina actually beat? uhhh, egypt? wow, impressive.
ha, argentina couldn't even beat ecuador when last they played!

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RE: VIVA VIVA ESPANA

I went to see them play in the Argentina-USA game in Giants Stadium in New York. They looked impressive on the field but it was a 0-0 tie. USA actually looked pretty good. Argentina is like many teams uncertain what team will show up to play at any given time. But when their game is on they are incredible. Time will tell I guess. Who do you like football expert?

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RE: VIVA VIVA ESPANA

First Italian fans, then Turk fans, now Spanish fans... Why do you people insist on making pissy comments about the opposing team while posting these kinds of messages? It's not very sportsmanlike, you know. Or is that what goes for "passion" where you people are from?

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RE: VIVA VIVA ESPANA

Haven't seen Spain in too many of the World Ice Hockey championships, in fact never seen them play. Now that's a sport that takes skill :D

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RE: VIVA VIVA ESPANA

ice hockey is a low brow game played by guys who think wearing more protective gear than a bonb disposal expert makes them tough.but at least their IQ is higher than the knuckle dragging supporters of this disgrace to humanity

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RE: VIVA VIVA ESPANA

We didn't (yet)... but we have world champions on football, basket, water polo, handball, futsal, Formula 1, 2 or 3 times winners of the tennis Davis Cup, the actual winner of the last 4 Roland Garros tennis tournament, the actual winner of Tour de France and italian Giro...

Should I countinue? :p

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RE: VIVA VIVA ESPANA

Why do Mexicans like to make fun of the way that Spaniards speak Spanish?

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RE: finally i back

welcome back but i'm sure you didn't miss me,you seem way too sensible to do something so silly :--)

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funny

I always read in forum how guys complain about girls from non adult category, how they dont want to show nudity, how they are 'scammers' for respecting their category. Its soo fuunnyy, why u guys go to non adult, when you want adult? There are soo many adult hosts, one more beautiful than the other, but the ambition to get what u cannot is bigger.... At least dont complain!! Dont go to a non adult girl and ask her nudity, and then complain that she asked u to see her vid, even she doesnt show anything... geeesh. Girls here are to ask you in video, and guys are here to ask girls get naked.... thats it in big lines, get used to it.
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RE: funny

If nonadult were truly nonadult you would have a point but it isnt. Not even close. Many if not most nonadult hosts move to Glamour upon request or have an alternative adult ID. So to ask a nonadult host to strip is not only appropriate it is expected in many cases. Do you really think men will pay 2.60 a minute for chatting? To the true nonadult hosts..I apologize. But your welcome message should say...hi..I am really noadult..no stripping... Or their profile.

Also there are a few nonadult hosts who promise some sexiness in their videos...when asked how can that be..against the rules...they get mad. Their desire is to get you into video...and while the meter is running explain to you how you were just ripped off.

Nobody is innocent.

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RE: funny

hitting nail on the head. when i see profile message saying i dont do strip in profile, then maybe Monik wont be bothered. she should ask Wanda as to how profile should be set up.

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RE: funny

I'm an adult host and i know how a profile should look like. I agree with you, but why in the world you go in non adult and ask adult? I dont care about the girls from non-adult, they have their guilty too, but im not talking about them now, .... i was talking about guys!!!! Why not avoid all these boring discussions about this topic, when u can go directly to adult hosts and if there u dont find adult, then u should complain. Rules as laws in general are made to be broken n a good host knows rules very well and knows how to avoid or play at limit. This site is about playing anyway and not only phisical playing lool.... uff well good wanking today to everybody :):):):)

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RE: funny

Part of the appeal of nonadult is the fact that they are not supposed to do anything adult. When a member can convince a nonadult host to do something adult there is a thrill. To attain the unattainable is the biggest rush to men. Easy to go adult host and say strip...hard to keep working at a nonadult host and over time convince her to do adult things. The challenge. Usually it doesn;t work...but every now and then.....

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RE: funny

"to attain the unattianable.."more like the fool fooling himself which is reinforced by thinking"to attain the unattainable..." :--)

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RE: funny

You prove you have the intellectual depth of a knat. If things were easy to do or to get they would have little value. The hunt is the essense of seduction and the essence of CC.

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RE: funny

Oxygen, food, water ?

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but you delude yourself that it is unattainable or forbidden so all you are doing is pretending something that is not real is real to convince yourself that you are a hunter,when in reality you are a scavenger.end of discussion :--)

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wow good imagery.ofc you know that saying end of discussion will cut him deeper than you discrediting his charade.congratulations,well done,lol

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RE: funny

wtf is a knat?lmfao

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Ok so what i understood from this topic lets see, ... adult hosts should play hard! No instant action category, no instant playing, right?! No hi, no strip lool. Weellll i know will never happen, but let me dream :P
Ahh and .... i know forbidden fruits will always be tempting, but at least STOP COMPLAINING if it doesnt happen to see a tit in non adult lool. Thats what im saying and nothing more. Huggss

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RE: funny....but understandable

Monik, I understand your complaint, but you have essentially answered your own question in acknowledging the psychology involved. "Because" and "Night of Akina" have hit on the psychology that you seem to understand, but still feel compelled to complain about. So, perhaps you might acknowledge--i.e. "get used to it"-- that the reality of the psychology which motivates some of your guests is no less real than the rule that governs the nominally "Non Adult" categories.

I have thought about and spoken to a number of thoughtful hosts about this very subject, which is a perennial topic in the Forum. And one of the most revealing things comes from those hosts who have worked in both the Adult and Non Adult categories. Almost without exception, these hosts told me that they have been asked to disrobe more frequently in the Non Adult categories than in the adult! That being the case, is this not more evidence that people find the “forbidden fruit” sweeter?

There is also a psychology on the other side of this coin that you did not discuss, and that is the psychology of the hosts who only work in Non Adult categories. Though they do not engage in nudity, they are essentially trading in the same thing: sexual allure. One only need go to the photo galleries to see this. Yet some girls fancy that they have not compromised their morals and claim, “I’m not like these other girls” (i.e. “I’m not a slut). I admit there is a qualitative distinction---especially at the extremes, say from Glamour Girl to a girl who’s sucking some guy’s cock in the Boy/Girl category. Still, it is disingenuous for a girl to claim she is only here for “conversation” and not using her sexual appeal to attract guests. And the most patently false category is “Friends and Family.” I don’t get it. How could you call someone a “friend” and charge him to chat with you? Even more absurd is the image of a host’s dad coming online and paying to chat with his daughter. (My suspicion is that most hosts’ fathers don’t know they work here!)


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RE: funny....but understandable

That's the best offer I've had all day! So, send me your screen name and we can discuss it. A sizable dowry would be an added incentive. :)

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thats annoying!!!!!

What is about guys who ask smoking in vid?! And why they are never happy. I am not in instant action category!!!! And i cannot smoke a cigarette in 5 seconds. Still i lighted it immediatly, ....What should i do, smoke it with my ass to make them happy?! Sorry i am soo acid, but i need an answer, so i und once for all. If a guy asks me to smoke, what does he mean?!! thx
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I get a lot of guys asking me to smoke and i never had problems there...they come to vid, i light a ciggie and smoke thats it..And what do they tell u and why arent they happy, hun?

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RE: thats annoying!!!!!

carefull if u smoke with ur ass..one fart could b deadly

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RE: thats annoying!!!!!

I dont know.. i had only bad experiences with guys asking smoking. They are all in a rush, like they are missing the train. Only one time i stayed with a very nice guy and we had few cigarettes together, very relaxing., in rest only ihhhh ... lool

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RE: thats annoying!!!!!

Julia,
I like how you think and talk. I would like to visit you in video. What is your chathost ID?

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RE: thats annoying!!!!!

Thx for all the replies, ... i guess ill ask them to come pvt to see me smoking lol and only after 10 mins of vid, ... probably they will move on by themselves lool :) Kisses

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Even MORE annoying

what's worse is hosts who ask if they can smoke. NO! It's rude, and all I can imagine after that is how bad the girl must smell. But if you say no...they get mad and the show sucks. If a host asks me if she can smoke...I tell her to go ahead...and end the session and go to someone else....how hard is it to wait 10 min to have your cig?

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RE: Even MORE annoying

ocassionally some intelligent post arises.

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RE: thats annoying!!!!!

And Evgeniya, you always smell great in video!

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One way to get one star

Quote rules incorrectly. Only place nudity is prohibited in non restrictive session is in non adult.
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RE: One way to get one star

I dont und your probl? Can u explain better this 1 star thing?

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RE: One way to get one star

To understand "me"'s postings you need to appreciate that he is like the little boy in the playground with no friends, who goes around pulling the young girl's ponytails. He has merely transferred his bullying misogyny from the school to the forums.

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RE: One way to get one star

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RE: One way to get one star

actually ur wrong ALL non adult vids or exactly what the category says "NON ADULT" meanin restricted or not no host can get naked and also in glamour restricted vids hosts r not allowed to get naked so untill u know the actual rules urself dont spout off about hosts sayin they cant get naked

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RE: One way to get one star

Don't bother with frustrated people imshy, they know the rules just that giving 1 star to girls makes them soo happy lool

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RE: One way to get one star

Pity u cant read well Wayne. nudity is never allowed in non adult whether restricted or non restricted. In all other cats, nudity is permitted in all non restricted sessions. My formula is this. if answer is i dont strip 5 stars. if answer is i cant strip because rules dont allow 1 star. So i agree. Whatever.

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RE: One way to get one star

pity u cant read...i DID say nudity ISNT allowed in non adult

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RE: One way to get one star

but its allowed in glamour (in non restricted sessions).

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RE: One way to get one star

damn...try actually reading what i said and let ur brain think a bit b4 u reply..i said it ISNT allowed in RESTRICTED sessions

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RE: One way to get one star

shyster it's not like you to get upset by others inadequacies.you still carrying scars over that mouse yout big,mean cat caught & killed? :--)

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huh?!?!

if they say they cant 5 stars but they say cant =1 star that part i get,
but shouldnt you ask them BEFORE you starT the session if they do, dont, cant, or wont?
that way if these damn stars are so important then you need not give 1,3, or 5 for something such as lies deception or trickery.
or are you one of those that just jumps in a hosts room and starts asking crap and then ''oh you cant?'' 1 star....cchelpcomplaint dept. she is adult catag but said she cant strip i want my $2 back, she is bad?
stop your whinning grab a tissue and ask her\him\other BEFORE you start your crying in this world tissues are NOT for tears!!

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RE: huh?!?!

well said jonny

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RE: huh?!?!

there is more in that freaky,cool brain of his than just boobies :--)

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RE: One way to get one star

actually he said exactly the same as you, and understands the rules just as well as you; he just phrased it differently and allowed for some logical inferences in the reading thereof which passed over your head.

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glam CAN get naked

no toys or zooming is allowed but i CAN see naked boobs :p

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RE: glam CAN get naked

but most of it is consumed with boobies :--)

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RE: glam CAN get naked

and nipples , )

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RE: One way to get one star

Agree with you girl.

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RE: One way to get one star

man, i just dont get it. there are alot of gorgeous willing fish in the cc sea. if one wont give you what you want - LOOK AROUND some more. let your wallet do the voting. very simple.

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- All Clear -

Call off the dogs, I found what I was looking. Feel much better now too. Thank you WittyKitty.

Roger
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Whhhhhaaaaaaaatttttttttttttt.............. !!!??????

Nobody leaving CC this week, month, year......???

:D
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RE: Whhhhhaaaaaaaatttttttttttttt.............. !!!??????

Don't expect a lot of answers..everyone left, is going to leave, left and came back and they are depressed, or want to leave, can't and are not going to answer.

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RE: Whhhhhaaaaaaaatttttttttttttt.............. !!!??????

Yeah, what he said. Oh yeah, and I see no reason to leave. Love this place.

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RE: Whhhhhaaaaaaaatttttttttttttt.............. !!!??????

i m leavin...very soon!!!NOT

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RE: Whhhhhaaaaaaaatttttttttttttt.............. !!!??????

soon

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46664

happy bday to nelson mandela 90 today and still goin strong...congrats to him...and im sure he'll b so happy he has been congratulated on an adult site LoL
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RE: 46664

Hahahaa.. its ok, i'm sure he would be happy to know even in such sites he is congratulated. He's a symbol of freedom and peace and here some guys n girls expresses more freerly than in real lives, have more courage to speak their mind lol. So he might be a pro-adult hahaa, ok ... now i think there are very few people that desirve respect, he's one of them, and so joking about him in any context its a pity, my opinion

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Cograts and respect to mandela! Even on this site :)

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The only world leader, I really respect. Congrat, Nelson

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RE: 46664

some really gratefull host should present him with a free video session for the rest of his life. he deserves it. comeon! how long could it last???

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That would make me feel a lot better about myself if he accepted.

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RE: 46664

How about cam to cam with him> What a treat for both!

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RE: 46664

LOL 90 YEARS ON THIS SITE?:)))

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RE: 46664

Thanks Wayne ;)

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Back here

Hiii i'm baack, i missed this place. its funny couldnt wait to leave then thinking how to come back faster lool. tricky mind but im happy Missed you all kisssss
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RE: Back here

get smthg for your addiction bb

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RE: Back here

already did, most natural medicine :) hehehe

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breakin up

she said..... " im breakin up with you "

he said......" give me a reason why??""

she said...." i just dont love you anymore, sorry ""

he said....." NO, u should not be sorry... coz thats what im planning to do since last month,,, thanks for making it easier for me..""

Boy walked away & she finally said: """"

""" i thought you'LL find my joke funny baby :(:( """"
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RE: breakin up

i found the joke funny prettylady--it happens a lot in real life to

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RE: breakin up

if it would be that easy in real....

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RE: breakin up

There was a young woman who lived in the midwest. Her boyfriend got her pregnant and then decided to leave her. Her parents were upset that she was pregnant and they disowned her. She got an apartment, some day care for the baby, worked hard at her job and made a life for her and her baby. Its wasn't easy, it wasn't very fancy and nobody was supporting her financially or giving her emotional support. Then she won 90 million dollars in the USA Powerball Lottery. Her bf shows up and her parents showed up and at the press conference in front of them she announced my family and former bf wanted nothing to do with me and my baby before I won the money and I intend to honor their decision in the future. She is living quite well now and is very happy with her decision.

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a billion

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RE: advice please!

It looks like he tried to find a "smooth" way out but surely he knew he wanted to quit, hopefully without hurting you too much... Apparently not a success :-( Anyway try concentrating on some leisure activities to keep busy for some time, go out and ring up old friends you neglected before, don't look back and don't look for him, keep life going and you'll meet on your way the One who will love you as you'll love him, and not only get so much for you for so little in return!
Courage, such a nice Summer ahead!

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RE: advice please!

I agree
but watch out, he will be contacting you when he wants sex.

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i agree

with the first twp responses(only here as i respond)
think of the bad things about him like that he broke your heart or had smelly feet.
remember WHEN \ if he comes begging to return how much it hurt, ofc he will say he sorry. like the oldbear said, move on and look good times ahead .

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RE: advice please!

Isn't it better you found out now? Before the relationship was more serious? Before you married and had children? Before you owned a home, car or other property jointly? Time to move on. The right man is out there. Sitting at home feeling bad about a man who doesnt want you is not going to help you find the right man. Forget him. Move on. Go out and celebrate your freedom and an escape from a bad situation. Love will find you if you just are open to it.

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RE: advice please!

hmmm--only advice i can give is it happen to me a couple of times, and it does really hurt,, all I do is try to keep myself busy at work and on cc to keep my mind off it,, good luck sheridon and wish you the best and hope that someday you find another love in your life

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RE: advice please!

I agree with all that was said before. When it happened to me, i couldnt do anything anymore, was like zombie, no sleep, no eat, no fun, i was punishing myself. Not good at all, ... and time really heals, i wouldnt give 2 cents on that man now, and at that time he was like a prince. bleahh blean and bleah lol. Try to focus on yourself and work, i remember i was working in cc, and i need to thx to few people especially 2 of them for staying and watching my ugly face crying in vid lol. Geesh move on sweety, u'll see life is just too beautiful to spend it crying...kisss

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congrats spain

spain deserved to win the russians showed nothing that looked like they should b in the final
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VIVA VIVA VIVA VIVA ESPANA !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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dont worry i wont b coming anywhere near u

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RE: congrats spain

jassy please do it for me too

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I think he meant you to kick shy's butt on his behalf :)

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yes i did jassy,i know you would never hurt me

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RE: congrats spain

Lol) Thats rediculous))))))

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Ofc it did. And its psychplogy i think. They played with them and lost 4-1. Its very depressing. And when they meet them again, esp in such a game-semi finals, ofc our guys were all freaked out, cuz they have in mind the previous game.

And abt Andrey. Its just imposssible what they wrote. For the footballer to betray his country and help the opponen is the lowest of the low. I know it. Especially when our team didnt go anywhere fro 20 years and now they got such a success. And besides, ye Barc wanna buy him. But also-Chelsea, Arsenal, and hell knows how many other teams of the world class. So he can choose. Its not like he is so interested in Barcelona and ready to do anything to make them buy him lol. they are interested in him in the first place, not on the countary. And the better he plays-the higher his price on the market is. So in any case its not in his interest to play bad on purpose.

And journalists-its their job to write shit and gossips. Especially foreign journalists abt russians;)

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RE: congrats spain

What a load of crap . Spain were the better team , russians went in confident nothing to do with psychology , a better explanation would be that the previous two russian games when they played well was because they played against teams with weak , slow defences , something which cannot be said of Spain . So Arshavin who was made to look great ( and he is a good player ) by a slow Sweden and weak dutch defence became invisible against better defenders . Also the Spanish play with a very good holding midfielder in Senna and he helped stop supply to the strikers .

As regards the foreign press , this is typical russian paranoia which has its origins in communism and the past with the constant propaganda of soviet then russian media saying how the foreigners write lies about Russia , its xenophobic . Generally speaking the foreign press is very fair and even handed with russia .

As regards Arshavin and co. , good players as some of them are they would find life far tougher againt the defences of the big four teams in england , spain , italy etc.

As regards Zenits win in the Eufa cup it was good but that competition is a long way behind the quality of the Champions league . I would say that the best 8 teams in the Champions league are pretty much better than nearly any team in the Euros . The Champions league is a better measure of greatness .

I think the russians should accept defeat to a much better team , its that simple . None of you mentioned the influence and quality of certain spanish players like Torres , Xavi , Iniesta , Fabregas , Ramos , Puyol , Cassilas and Senna .

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RE: congrats spain

Pfffffff

Where did i say that spain wasnt playing good and not a good and strong team in general? And u sound like we beat Sweden and Holland cuz they are not strong?)) Now THIS is a big load of crap. Holland was one of favourites of this champoinship and lots of ppl thought they wud become champions. Also Sweden is a strong team. And the fact that we beat them wasnt a matter of luck or smth. And is the game with Spain it seemed like its totally different russian team was playing. u cant explain it just by the fact that spain is so strong. yes spain is strong but it seemed like our guys were paralized. invisible and not fighting at all. All of them but our goalkeeper, he did a great job but he was working alone, in the first half he caught so many balls, and noone is defenders was seen close to the gates.

As for press lol isnt it true? i said its journalists' job to write gossips and lie so that ppl were interested to buy magazines and newspapers. Im sure that it wasnt russian press who wrote that Arshavin was helping spanish team. If u saw the end of the match with holland and saw how he was crying from happiness, u wud understand that he wud never do such a low thing.

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RE: congrats spain

Hang on a moment . No way would Arshavin play badly because of a potential move , no way . I just think someone made this up on CC nowhere else .

As regards teams and their strengths and weakness I just think that the greatest russians strengths worked well against the likes of Holland and Sweden but as seen in the very first game , against Spain it didnt work . Personally I love Holand but I also know their strength was in the their goalkeeper , attacking midfield and strikers , not their defence . In terms of Sweden , yes they are a good team but probably the oldest in the tournament and when they went a goal down and had to chase the game their weaknesses were exposed :)) .

So stop your pfff and the crap comment .

Its also possible to say the first goal from Spain had an element of luck as it was a shot not a pass turned in by Xavi , the second was a touch of genius by Fabgregas flicking the ball over the defender and so on .

Russia are a good team , I think they went as far as they deserved but the Spanish team has more talented players . As regards my comments about how good the Spanish players were was not directed at you but the other posts .

The xenophobic remark was just something I threw in and I think has some truth and because I like teasing you :)))))))))) , sorry .

Give me a hug and let that be the end of it , okay . This is only a discussion .

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RE: congrats spain

U know, i think i know who u are...Never expected u to be so agressive against me.

If u dont enjoy my "crap" comments-just skip them. Noone asked u to read it.

And third. I think we talk abt absolutely different things. We see football under different angles. And btw..No need to be so negative abt russian team. Not their fault that ur didnt get into euro this year;)Well partly, but ur guys cud do better if they wanted to get there so much;) So blame them, not Russians;)

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RE: congrats spain

What the hell are you talking about ? youve lost me now .

Of what I could make sense I can say I liked the russian team and like I said its only a discussion responding to your comments about the foreign press reporting .

The other things you wrote , make no sense to me , sorry .

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RE: congrats spain

she has got you pegged :--)

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ESPAÑA!!!

España destroyed Russia, in fact we have no rival today. Now the germans ... OLÉ!!! ...

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RE: ESPAÑA!!!

Just be happy Argentina isn't in Europe.

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RE: congrats spain

Somebody kidnapped the Russian team that played the tournament prior to today's match and replaced them with zombie clones. Where was the energy and drive? Spain had a great defense but I was hoping for more from red.

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RE: congrats spain

Maybe they spent too much time on CC in their hotel room? ;-)

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RE: congrats spain

Congratulations to Spain on their win today.

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RE: congrats spain

It's only fytbol... Bring on the Ispani xokkei team :P

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yes, but trying doesn't get the job done. russia was MIA today...on the day...they were outclassed outplayed totally dominated if not humiliated by a far superior team...but nothing to be ashamed of...they earned the right to be in the semifinals and a little "humble pie" is always good so lets hope they learned something and can improve their game next time. :)

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RE: Still ahead of for Russia!!!!!!!!!!!For imshy!!!!!!!

er...umm...wanna write that again so i can understand what YOU said???

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RE: Still ahead of for Russia!!!!!!!!!!!For imshy!!!!!!!

go ahead

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RE: congrats spain

Well Spain played well and deserved to win , there was only ever one winner ......... Spain could have beaten Russia 5 or 6 nil in first game and look the stuff of Champions and I hope win the final . Fabregas showed why he should start every game for Spain ...... his distribution , timing , effort and constant prompting of his team helped pull Spain together . Cesc you are the best .....

Russia , you had your moment in the sun beating a good holland team convincingly and congratulations on a good tournament , keep Hiddink and maybe who knows at the World Cup and next Euros ....

Now I am off to Sunny Spain ................ Viva Espana !!

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RE: congrats spain

Being spanish, I wanna wish all the luck of the world today for our guys, and win the Euro again after 44 years, and 24 years since our last final.

But don't want to let go the chance to congrat Russia for reaching what they reached and wish them good luck for next tournaments, 'cause they surprised me after the first game and since then, except when they played against my country, I was another russian team supporter. They became my second team.

Russian national team is still growing but they have a great DNA. They come from the former USSR (or CCCP) soccer school and they're growing up into a strong team. I'm sure in a few years they'll recover their former glory.

Congrats and good luck in the future. I'm sure our paths will meet again and next time you'll be stronger and harder to play against.

Greetings from Spain.

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GOOD LUCK RUSSİA...

wish you good luck tonight,
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Self

Why do woman and men, who have low self-esteem, tend to be promiscuous?
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RE: Self

what exactly you mean by "promiscuous" - i have low self-esteem, may give you some clue - lol:)

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RE: Self

its called a defense mechanism.

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RE: Self

Dear Self,

Let me first say I find the term "self esteem"---or a lack thereof, which is the way it is commonly used---so hackneyed it has lost its meaning and become a cliché. Indeed the term has given rise to an industry in which pop psychologists purvey their snake oil, promising a cure for the countless millions who suffer from the malady of "low self esteem." (If you think I’m exaggerating check out the Dove soap website—www.campaignforealbeauty.com―that has among its dubious offerings a “Self Esteem Quiz.”)

That said, as regards your question, I think I know what you mean. In other words, you are asking why (and claiming) people who do not like themselves are promiscuous. I would agree with your observation that this is often true, but I think there are many people who do not possess a great deal of self worth who are not promiscuous, many of whom are not sexually active at all. But I think the same dynamic is at work. It’s just the opposite side of the same coin.

Those who are promiscuous seem to behave in ways that suggest they don’t deserve to be treated with dignity. Women who behave this way are often termed--by men and women alike—“sluts.” Men on the other hand are often regarded as “Don Juans,” and even admired, by some at least, for their conquests. However, in the end neither type is held in high regard.

More simply, one might say people who don’t love themselves are more likely to compromise themselves in a desperate attempt to be loved. The double standard notwithstanding, the sluts and the Don Juans are both degraded.

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RE: Self

thats a real point - how to get back to that original belief - unique me:) its easy to say, its easy to pretend you accept yourself but trust me, it needs a lot of patterns to be cleaned out and lot of wounds healed and mainly lot of forgivness to do, in order to get back to the origins "unique me" ; u may be right, there is a lot of talk about it, and, speaking as one of them (Lol), maybe it should be represented differently now a days cause its not that simple issue, but we all need some work on it, and in my experience, the more i read different approaches the more i gain self knowledge to do something about it:) no woman or no man or 1000 man or woman can not help you regain it if you dont learn to love yourself as you are- what ever you are! I know im boring:( and lulu!:) lol, my 2 cents:)

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I think the first step in healing is to realise what is wrong. Many people dont know that they have low self esteem, they think and really believe it its something natural; thats how i was at beginning, i was soo deep in it i thought thats how things are normally. Then i started to analyse omg, i said i need to do something about it. Its about forgiveness and wounds from childhood that u need to deal with. I tried and thought all is ok until i met someone who was sooo in the pattern that i couldnt resist lool. Its easier to step on roads u know (even it brings u even lower self esteem) than to try something unknown new.... Anyway its a long looong discussion about it.
Good luck everybody with it...

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RE: Self

well said and i for one have seen both sides of the same coin

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advice needed:( about ccmail

I never know do man like to receive them or not; I often get worried or like to say hi to some of my guests even those who came only once to see me, but Im afraid i would bother them or they may think im advertising or pushing them or what ever - how is your exerience girls and i would like to know also what members think about this! what am i suppose to do!? i like to go with a "feeling" but my feeling dont have to be right always:(
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RE: advice needed:( about ccmail

sometimes can be considered spam.

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RE: advice needed:( about ccmail

Sending a CC mail to a favorite or even an occasional or first time visitor is smart business. Keep the wording friendly. Hi. I was wondering how you are doing. Hope all is going well. Tell them something about your life, school, etc. DO NOT say...come see me and go to video. Just...I was thinking about. Don't even necessarily ask them to come to you online. Just ask them to respond to the CC mail letting you know how you are doing. The difference between CC and online porn is the personal contact, the virtual relationship and the fact that someone might care. Its the nice thing to do and good business.

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RE: advice needed:( about ccmail

I agree :)

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RE: advice needed:( about ccmail

what I like about CamContacts in general is how nice the ladies are and how you enjoy yourselves. I would love to receive an e-mail from a host I had a good time with. I expect more often than not the guy will be flatered and will want to respond to you.

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RE: advice needed:( about ccmail

I am in definite agreement with Smart. I also like to receive a cc mail from a host after my visitation to their video just showing an interest in me. I do not like to never hear from them at all and then the next time I am in community chat they are asking me to come to video and even as some hosts have done...asking me to go 121 immediately the next time I see them. I like to be shown some interest.

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RE: advice needed:( about ccmail

is that a "visitation" in the archangel Gabriel sense? ;p

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RE: advice needed:( about ccmail

I agree with Smart. Simple courtesy=good business. And let's not forget this IS a business after all. It seems to me a smart host will be more successful in developing a regular clientele by being civil and courteous than by being transparently opportunistic. The opportunists may "get over"--as they say in the 'hood'--in the short run but they will never develope a regular clientele if their principal aim is to burn their guests.

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RE: advice needed:( about ccmail

Some will like. Some will not. Check first. Since viewers have alerts, there is really no need.

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RE: advice needed:( about ccmail

thank you MK, i didnt know they have alert - but even so, i dont need ccmails for infroming them im online - we have our forum for that or prilfe! thank you for suggestion:) kiss

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RE: advice needed:( about ccmail

you don't understand the ramifications of such ccmail! it is virtually an invitation to be stalked by psychos!
cordial business relationship is fine, but the limits need to be made clear for some members!

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RE: advice needed:( about ccmail

Good thing the alert serviceis facultative, having a list of favorites is generally enough... And getting ccMail from hosts is nice if it's personalised and not copy/paste of a standard message stating how much we are missed, in particular some part of our person that is so great ;-) etc.
I also use ccMail to say hello to hosts who are closing their session when I enter (usually because they are on 121 on another profile and forgot to close that one), which I find quite a rude way and I may drop some of my anger into a mail then. And at times I get a polite explanation or apologies, and I come back for a visit, that's for sure!

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RE: advice needed:( about ccmail

Once you sent me an email.. It was a simple (hi) .. I decided then to avoid chatting with you.

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RE: advice needed:( about ccmail

was it so bad to day hi?!

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RE: advice needed:( about ccmail

I hate receiving CC mail or quick Hi when I enter in community chat.. I avoid both. I chat as guest with hosts, if their chat convince me, I wear my member screen name and enter in video with that host..Of course she doesn't know that I am that guest. To be honest I had chatted with you as guest many times and you had never convinced me!

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RE: advice needed:( about ccmail

Nice strategy Antoine, Chatting as guest before logging as member, I will try it... Sandra chats short with members, she is always busy making a lot of things online.. she invites to video to continue chatting.. Once you enter in video she will attend you as if she has nothing else to do..she try to tease you in open hoping that you change to 1-2-1.. She has her strategy.. we should have our!

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RE: advice needed:( about ccmail

oh sorry to hear - what i should of convince you off?! thank you for your opinion about my video - that means a lot to me:)

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RE: advice needed:( about ccmail

Some guys will like getting ccmail, some won't.
I know it is not a very helpful answer, it all depends on the guy/girl.

If they are one of your regulars then sending ccmail will help to grow the friendship.

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RE: advice needed:( about ccmail

I think you'll see from the responses so far that there is no real answer. Some like it, some don't. Anyone who has chatted with you or read your Forum contributions and had taken the trouble to know you a little can easily see that you're not a hustler. You can't please everyone and should not base your actions on the fear that you might "bother" or offend someone.There will always be someone who will find a way of being offended and if they decide never to contact you again it is their loss, not yours. I prefer to use the word "instincts" rather than "feelings" and I would say always follow your instincts. I find you a very intelligent woman and, though maybe your instincts may oiccasionally be wrong, my guess is that in nearly every case, your instinct will not let you down so just be youself.

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RE: advice needed:( about ccmail ~ Sandra

Well I suppose it all depends on what you put in your ccMail. It is flattering if it is personal but an annoyance when it is not. That being said it does not seem the culture of hosts to use ccMail as an introductory or even a frequent means of communicaton.

For myself I am always happy to receive mail, though I would caution on receiving a reply right away.. I am around less and less these days.

TNTRSTFRRT

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RE: advice needed:( about ccmail

Thank you all - i really appreciate your effort:) muahaaaaa; all in all i think i will follow my "instict" couse I already follow your advices; I love sending mails to my viewers – its kind a making more intimate connection, which I realy need even this is a job in the first place; I asked this cosue of those viewers how are not my regular or were and gone - would they take I as spam as ME said; and “color” - thank you for your understanding - i really give my attention to one person even if more then one is in open session i attend frist the most - hope thats right thing to do:) and “old1bear” im glad you tell host what you didn’t like – I wish I have more of those, would be much easier couse that way host knows what you prefere; not many members say what exactly they like and then go unsetisfied like we are suppose to read their mind; “smart” that’s exactly what I had in mind but was wondering, not couse its good business, we all know if someone likes you he will return and come more friquently to show his interest in you and that’s how frineships get deeper, but in sense that I think its nice to share thoughts if you have about someone – we all need some attention and love the feeling of being important to someone; as Melomane2 said – I don’t like opportunists either – never saw any good in that! It seems to me now that answer is indeed very simple – you never know till you try:) and then see what reaction will be and base your future action about ccmail upon that reaction – hope I got it right:) thank you all again! (K)

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Viva Espana !!!!!!!!!

I am not one to announce my support for a team after a match like most here I am prepared to announe my support now for Spain for tonight :))) Good luck guys you are playing a team on a high ........ Everybody else can make their support known now and all you need do is reply R or S :)))))))))) , Monikababe you dont need to reply we know you are a BIG R R R R R R R R R
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RE: Viva Espana !!!!!!!!!

RRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR))))))))

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RE: Viva Espana !!!!!!!!!

I want to see Russia win. I think a Germany Russia final would have so much emotion and pride associated with it. It would be a classic game for the ages. Italy should have beaten Spain. They had so many opportunties. Spain was a litte flat with some flourishes. I think if Russia keeps playing their style of play..reminds me a bit of the Brazillians they have a shot. Never give up. Plus I want to see Monikababe smiling at me for a change. WTF?

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RE: Viva Espana !!!!!!!!!

:D:D:D:D:D:D

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RE: Viva Espana !!!!!!!!!

yes congrats to spain...better team play, they dominated the game in every respect...russia was MIA...but they have a lot to be proud of getting into the semifinals...

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RE: Members & Football

Sure, go online. North American members don't follow football/soccer. Also, it's only a european tournament so maybe many others may not be interested either. Good luck! :-))

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RE: Members & Football: To allyoop3

Plenty of North Americans follow soccer. Even here in WV, there are soccer teams in a lot of schools

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RE: Members & Football: To allyoop3

I agree.. I for one do follow soccer in addition to American Football. The USA men's soccer team has not been as good in the past, because a lot of the top athletes participate in American football and baseball. The USA women's team is a lot better and more competive on the world level. I do watch men's and women's soccer a lot. I like soccer or football ( as it is referred to in a lot of the world)

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RE: Members & Football

hmmm its been quite this period, hope mem will wake up lool

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RE: Members & Football

maybe if hosts treat members better, things improve?

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RE: Members & Football

and maybe hosts don't treat you very well because you reap what you sow?

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Money talks

I just found out today.
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damn my money is always quiet...does urs sing to u too?

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RE: Money talks

welcome to the real world

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RE: Money talks

What does it say? "spend me, spend me"?

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Yes you're right Wanda mine just says Bye Bye :(

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congratulation Turkey!!!!!!

they were the best,inspite of the absence of main 6 players,teeth to teeth until last minute with Germany,congratulations
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RE: congratulation Turkey!!!!!!

Congratulations on losing. That was awesome.

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RE: congratulation Turkey!!!!!!

Way to flop.....

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RE: congratulation Turkey!!!!!!

No, the Germans didn't play badly, they played methodically. And I'm sorry, but a Turk fan accusing the German team of "playing theater" is beyond laughable.
Seriously, it's really too bad that Volkan Demirel felt the need to get himself red-carded by sucker punching Jan Koller. If the Turks had played a decent goal keeper yesterday, who knows, they could have maybe won.

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RE: congratulation Turkey!!!!!!

they played methodically for last minute to win?hehee,laughable

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RE: congratulation Turkey!!!!!!

Congratulations on not being able to beat a team that played realy bad. That was awesome.

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RE: congratulation Turkey!!!!!!

you are on the way to flop

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