General Forum
Why Can't
...chathost forgive a member for a mistake...i am new here and a host has me blocked....i have sent many ccmails apologizing....i have talked in her chat and not one word have i got back....can some host explain why they can't forgive?
RE: Why Can't
well...some do not forgive and forget..sorry to hear about your troubles...i suggest forget about her...move on, plenty of other nice host here willing to block..lol
RE: Why Can't
dont worry bout it move on its her loss..loads of members get blocked for no reason...i get blocked all the time...in fact im blocked from an entire studio just coz one chick there said im an asshole (ok thats true i am) but they dont need good reasons to block..they can they will they have..live with it
ok shy of your asshole
then tell me who she is and her coworkers so i can be sure not to see any of them
simple
you seem to be looking for friendship, friends forgive.
these ar workers you havent paid your dues yet, move on to another girl, learn from your mistakes here.
these ar workers you havent paid your dues yet, move on to another girl, learn from your mistakes here.
RE: Why Can't
1. why do u care so much? forget about her. i understand the ego being hurt or maybe even caring too much for a host, but given how she is acting, sounds like you are better off without her unless you did something horrible in which case she is better off without you :p
2. if u just want to see her body, just make a new account, tell her u don't have a cam, and go see her with the new account and enjoy :p
2. if u just want to see her body, just make a new account, tell her u don't have a cam, and go see her with the new account and enjoy :p
RE: Why Can't
Since a host is not in physical contact with a member and in most cases does not even see him in video she has to rely on his typed words. Based on that she comes to like and trust the member. She relies on the member to be truthful and honest. When she finds out he is lying then the only basis she had to like the member is gone. That is why they get pissed...kinda.
RE: Why Can't
ur not telling the whole story, ur coming here and trying to sound innocent and victim-like, try telling the truth "everyones friend" or should it read fiend?
RE: Hello. For puzzle
Set up very lost cost video (say .50 minute) and I am sure you will get the puzzle pieces in a matter of a few hours. Am I a genius or what?
RE: Hello. For puzzle
Errr...yeah it does. You will get a constant stream of men doing 10 minute videos for $5.00. Easy, fast way to earn you pieces. Price has everything to do with it.
RE: Hello. For puzzle
Economics 101.
The LOWER your price, the MORE people will be able to see you.
The HIGHER your price, the LESS people will be able to see you.
Wether they WANT to see you or not, is NOT important, since COST tends to be the only restriction.
That said, what's better? Sit in front of your computer for 8 hours, and get 2 members, for a total of 20 minutes at $2 per minute?
Or would you rather spend 6 hours in front of your computer, and get 10 members for a grand total of 200 minutes at $.80 per minute?
If two hosts are equal in terms of quality, the market says that the one who charges less money, will get the most members, and in turn, more profit - because most likely she will spend less time idle in front of her computer, as opposed to the one who has to sit for hours and hours and hours with no viewers at all (remember, the higher the price, the less amount of people that can afford you ;))
Some girls RISE their prices when they get no viewers, in an attempt to try and compensate for their income loss. Honey, you're doing it the wrong way, since this is a market, you have to lower your price to make it affordable forr a wider amount of customers. If you start getting a lot of viewers, THEN, increase the price!
For all of you who don't believe me, do a test-run.
See how much you earn PER HOUR at your current price, during a week.
Then lower your price by say, 20%. And see how much you earn PER HOUR for a week.
If you used to earn more before lowering your price, it's plain and simple: your price was right for the market.
If you start earning more when you lowered the price, that means your price was OVER the current market value.
If you're doing bad economically, you will lose little trying this :))
Oh, and make sure you do it in a PER HOUR comparison. An hour in front of the computer with no members, is an hour wasted - you could be doing some other job and earning a lot more (opportunity cost), or simply put, you could be reading and having fun with your friends. Not to mention for all the girls who work at home and have to pay their Internet Provider, electricity, etc (or for the girls who pay on a per day basis to their studios).
Cheers, and rock on!!!
The LOWER your price, the MORE people will be able to see you.
The HIGHER your price, the LESS people will be able to see you.
Wether they WANT to see you or not, is NOT important, since COST tends to be the only restriction.
That said, what's better? Sit in front of your computer for 8 hours, and get 2 members, for a total of 20 minutes at $2 per minute?
Or would you rather spend 6 hours in front of your computer, and get 10 members for a grand total of 200 minutes at $.80 per minute?
If two hosts are equal in terms of quality, the market says that the one who charges less money, will get the most members, and in turn, more profit - because most likely she will spend less time idle in front of her computer, as opposed to the one who has to sit for hours and hours and hours with no viewers at all (remember, the higher the price, the less amount of people that can afford you ;))
Some girls RISE their prices when they get no viewers, in an attempt to try and compensate for their income loss. Honey, you're doing it the wrong way, since this is a market, you have to lower your price to make it affordable forr a wider amount of customers. If you start getting a lot of viewers, THEN, increase the price!
For all of you who don't believe me, do a test-run.
See how much you earn PER HOUR at your current price, during a week.
Then lower your price by say, 20%. And see how much you earn PER HOUR for a week.
If you used to earn more before lowering your price, it's plain and simple: your price was right for the market.
If you start earning more when you lowered the price, that means your price was OVER the current market value.
If you're doing bad economically, you will lose little trying this :))
Oh, and make sure you do it in a PER HOUR comparison. An hour in front of the computer with no members, is an hour wasted - you could be doing some other job and earning a lot more (opportunity cost), or simply put, you could be reading and having fun with your friends. Not to mention for all the girls who work at home and have to pay their Internet Provider, electricity, etc (or for the girls who pay on a per day basis to their studios).
Cheers, and rock on!!!
RE: Hello. For puzzle
ok now you economy man tell me why i didnt had any guests when my price was 1.00:)?!
u all just talk, talk, talk! u man go to all sites and do you think its fare to have diferent price here and at other site - i mean lower here then there? i dont think it is! my viewers get same show at any site for same price - even cheaper here if view likes to chat and flirt!
u all just talk, talk, talk! u man go to all sites and do you think its fare to have diferent price here and at other site - i mean lower here then there? i dont think it is! my viewers get same show at any site for same price - even cheaper here if view likes to chat and flirt!
RE: Hello. For puzzle
I for one would have gone to your video for that price if I had known you were lowering your price and if I was home. If you are going to do that you should advertise it so people know. Or set a particular slow time every day. Say 1-3 eastern time your video is xx cents a minutes. Advertise that. If you lower your price and dont tell anyone you are expecting men to just stumble upon the lower price. You could send a mail out to all your past customers. A few good hosts do that. Keep a list and send out CC mail. I miss you. Come see my new pics. Or...what gets me. Come see me and I will give you a half price video if you stay for 30 minutes. All good business. Price is everything but price without advertising is nothing.
All-time great members
imshy, Erling, ImNotYourFriend, all still going strong after all this time, still much-admired. Wish I knew what their secret was so I could put it in a bottle and maybe make a fortune! :-)))
RE: All-time great members
er...scrub my name off that list....im more hated than admired...just the way i like it :)
RE: All-time great members
yeaaaaaaaa....im an all time great member...where is my award...lol
RE: All-time great members
Is this meant to be ironic?
*self-assured enough not to be envious of anybody
*self-assured enough not to be envious of anybody
RE: All-time great members
I go on CC binges every now and then, after which I disappear for awhile once I get it out of my system, My most recent binge has been about $8,000 in 7 weeks. I get so much love during these periods of high-volume use, only to be ignored by most of my "friends" when I cut back. Strange how that works, lol. But sometimes I do end up with a real friend that doesn't expect video or anything so that's always nice. Then you know that the host actually cares about you as a person, not as a big fat wallet.
RE: All-time great members
Absolutely, I met 2 good mates and a woman who is still a major part of my life -- CC is what you make it.
RE: All-time great members
What the about the always here again gone again here again WTF, Well, etc. etc. Talk about someone who is hated and loved.
RE: All-time great members
You are like the creepy kid who would remind the teacher she forgot to give us homework.
RE: All-time great members
you've used that comment before, didn't make any more sense at that time than it does now, but hey try using it again maybe you'll get lucky
RE: All-time great members
the statement is quite clear. can you read.....simple declaration that the man is still here......duh
RE: All-time great members
paco you don't get mentioned as it goes without saying that you are one of the great members. haha
RE: All-time great members
cmon paco, I remember a complete thread devoted to you once - now THAT is fame!
VPA (volume purchase agreement)
In Vegas they give percs to big spenders so why does CC not do the same?
By having CC flag those viewers who have an above spending habit here to hosts there could be more incentive to come back to them.
What do hosts think of this?
By having CC flag those viewers who have an above spending habit here to hosts there could be more incentive to come back to them.
What do hosts think of this?
Do not like that idea.
As a member, I would not like anything that encourages me to spend more than I already do. I spend enough already, lol. Also, flagging members for hosts also raises issues in terms of member privacy. I do not necessarily want everyone to know how much I spend because then hosts expect me to spend more just like casinos expect me to gamble more for comps. On the other hand, if CC wants to give me a discount for spending more like another site I know does, I would of course like that.
RE: Do not like that idea.
I'd rather see the option to buy by "time volume" for a specific host: 30 minutes with a 10% discount, 1 hour for a 20% discount, for example.
It's better for the viewer, and it may be useful for some hosts (the one who don't want it, should have the option to not allow it).
It's better for the viewer, and it may be useful for some hosts (the one who don't want it, should have the option to not allow it).
RE: Do not like that idea.
how about 20% goes to the cost of the shrink ur seeing to treat your addiction??
RE: VPA (volume purchase agreement)
CC sees itself and the Ebay of Porn. Their business model is to provide the means of matching willing buyers (horny members) to willing sellers (cash strapped hot girls). For this service they take a percentage of the sale price. Of course the more sales the more money they make. They must police the site going after members and hosts who are not playing according to the rules. They attempt to increase business in general with contests and special promotions but anything that rewards some more than others always has to be paid by someone. I think it is up to the host to reward high rollers with extra perks....free videos, hotter videos, maybe some off site action. Neither CC or the hosts will go along with anything that erodes their income long term.
RE: VPA (volume purchase agreement)
good idea but good luck. none of these hosts know economics 101.
RE: VPA (volume purchase agreement)
Indeed, they seem to ignore most of the aspects of offer and demand. If they have no videos, they increase the price, for example... They ignore there's hundreds of other girls in the "market".
I'd like the "volume" packages with discounts, because i never have videos of less than 15 minutes. 20 minutes is what i consider short, for Instant Action.
In little shy i used to go over an hour on average.
I'd like the "volume" packages with discounts, because i never have videos of less than 15 minutes. 20 minutes is what i consider short, for Instant Action.
In little shy i used to go over an hour on average.
RE: VPA (volume purchase agreement)
In the old days (a year ago) I would do far more and longer videos. Now they are less frequent and much shorter. Prices are just too high. I understand the value of the dollar and inflation and all that but with food and gas going through the roof the only thing I can cut back on is spanking the monkey.
promoted
So i was in my car,driving along & my phone rang.It was my boss & he said"You've been promoted."And i swerved.
I regained control & was driving along when my phone rang,again.I answered & heard my boss say"You've been promoted again."And i swerved again.
Then my boss rang a third time & said"'You're managing director."And i drove into a tree.
The policeman who arrived on the scene walked up to me & said"What happened to you?"
I replied"I careered off the road."
I regained control & was driving along when my phone rang,again.I answered & heard my boss say"You've been promoted again."And i swerved again.
Then my boss rang a third time & said"'You're managing director."And i drove into a tree.
The policeman who arrived on the scene walked up to me & said"What happened to you?"
I replied"I careered off the road."
INYF I love you
Do i have any chances? What do you look for in a woman? Are you looking for one in fact?
RE: INYF I love you
funny thing how people desire things that either r not available or in fact r not good for them. that in fact is what makes this site go 'round and 'round and 'round. foolishness!
RE: INYF I love you
not talking for him you or anyone else...simply relating my personal experience.
RE: INYF I love you
lol It's nice to know that I'm third on your list after Imshy and Erling :P
To answer your questions :- No, A pulse, No :D
To answer your questions :- No, A pulse, No :D
RE: INYF I love you
Thank you very much for your kind words :) Now if only I knew who you were :P
RE: INYF I love you
lool....who's list?...dont think im on any list of that kind....but thanks:-)))
RE: INYF I love you
I dont like shy at all and not sure who the other one is, ok let's say I dont really love you but very attracted to your personallity. Sad you aren't looking, wanted to believe you may be my fate :)
RE: INYF I love you
Have you heard of the expression "A fate worse than death" ? Because if I was your fate that's what you would get. :P
But if I ever start looking I promise you will be the first on my list :) (K)
But if I ever start looking I promise you will be the first on my list :) (K)
RE: INYF I love you
Good :) Being hated I can handle.
Yes I did remember my ym password but now I think I've forgotten it again :P
But I'm sure one day I will actually send a message.
Yes I did remember my ym password but now I think I've forgotten it again :P
But I'm sure one day I will actually send a message.
RE: hairy pussy girl search....
too bad...i dislike all the shaved beaver trend...and desire return of some modestly shaved pussy.
RE: hairy pussy girl search....
i like them modestly trimmed...not total bald eagle...which is so fashionable these days.
What me stupid?
I asked a host today if she did phone with video. I said I would call. All she had to was listen. She said she would love to but she didn't have a phone. About 10 of her profile pics have here with a mobile phone. When I pointed it out she said...oh that phone...that is not for CC. Question....do most hosts here have mobile phones? Quite a few say they don't and I think they are telling a white lie. I know they are worried I will call and start breathing heavy when they are having dinner with their parents, making love with their bfs, or sleeping soundly. Just curious.
RE: What me stupid?
Half of the girls with phone symbols do not do phone and generally didnt know a phone symbol was there. By far the girls I did phone with did not have a phone symbol. They were willing to let me call their cell phones. They also said they did not want to talk but they would listen. Pretty hot if you ask me. But my point is the symbol is no guarantee and the lack of a symbol means little as well.
RE: What me stupid?
Host should consider having two phones... or at least two sims... One for CC and one for personal use.
The CC phone rules (set by the host) could be that the viewer only gets the number after he is in video so she was sure he would go into video. Of course, he could leave right away, but that would not matter because the host would not turn on her CC phone until he was actually in her video and saying he was calling, and the phone would be turned off the second he leaves video. That would prevent 1.000.000 phone calls from viewers. Also, I believe that most phones allow sms to be turned off and to make it so voice messages cannot be left. This would prevent harrassment by viewers. Finally, there are phone in Europe (I know of none in USA) that do not need credits on them for but a viewer could call and the host would not pay.
The only risk with my plan seems to be that a host would need to buy a new phone if she wanted to keep her personal phone on at all times and not change sims and also that two viewers (one in video and one that already had a number) would call at the same time (which seems unlikely and it is easy enough to change phone numbers for the CC phone if a viewer became a stalker and waited for another member to enter video -- a host could only give numbers to members with cams to prevent repeat stalking if the number is changed). Also, phone could be an incentive to go 1 to 1 and offered there exclusively. I don't think that I am missing anything, but hosts let me know. And of course microphones that actually worked and didn't take up too much bandwidth would be another alternative.
The CC phone rules (set by the host) could be that the viewer only gets the number after he is in video so she was sure he would go into video. Of course, he could leave right away, but that would not matter because the host would not turn on her CC phone until he was actually in her video and saying he was calling, and the phone would be turned off the second he leaves video. That would prevent 1.000.000 phone calls from viewers. Also, I believe that most phones allow sms to be turned off and to make it so voice messages cannot be left. This would prevent harrassment by viewers. Finally, there are phone in Europe (I know of none in USA) that do not need credits on them for but a viewer could call and the host would not pay.
The only risk with my plan seems to be that a host would need to buy a new phone if she wanted to keep her personal phone on at all times and not change sims and also that two viewers (one in video and one that already had a number) would call at the same time (which seems unlikely and it is easy enough to change phone numbers for the CC phone if a viewer became a stalker and waited for another member to enter video -- a host could only give numbers to members with cams to prevent repeat stalking if the number is changed). Also, phone could be an incentive to go 1 to 1 and offered there exclusively. I don't think that I am missing anything, but hosts let me know. And of course microphones that actually worked and didn't take up too much bandwidth would be another alternative.
RE: What me stupid?
of course that all do have them! i've had that "game" played on me numerous times...shear insanity...so of the bs that goes down here.
RE: What me stupid?
even more stupid is this foolishness the member wants to call and the girl doesn't have to talk just listen? why does this remind of teenage boys making crank dirty calls? can we assume ur one of those?...lol
RE: What me stupid?
that could be...iam not into phone calls but merely referring to the fact that hosts lie about possessing a mobile.
RE: What me stupid?
shouldn't be a big deal to anyone..actually her answer that it's not for cc was better though. if i was a host i wouldn't want a lot of these freaks having it eitther
RE: Happy Birtday Y0URDIAM0ND
Happy Birthday. It is your special day and I hope all your wishes come true.
Hugs,
Charles
Hugs,
Charles
RE: Happy Birtday Y0URDIAM0ND
Ahhh happy bday honey, be happy and stay as u are-beautiful, friendly and charming)))Kiss)) Have a good one))
BurningLife.....
home alone and shy to the extreme or did I fall off a turnip truck?
Is she as innocent as she sez?
Is she as innocent as she sez?
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RE:
i have entered a hosts text chat before and sat quietly without typing a word...why?....because i was waiting for a "hello"....i leave after a short while if the screen stays white
RE:
I do the same.. but I send a hi as soon as I enter.. if I receive no answer in the the second min, I leave in the third min. Either the host is not attending her room, or she doesn't like to communicate with me! In both cases she is not ready to make a nice show. I regret nothing and search for another not necessarily having a web site as Wanda
RE:
then replace it with "online model" "camgirl" or "performer". The key therm will always be education and politeness no matter what therms you're using, the equation is still the same.
I NEVER say hello first, the member in my room can be Bill Gates, I don't care, you greet, i greet. You stay quiet, i ignore you, simple as that.
I NEVER say hello first, the member in my room can be Bill Gates, I don't care, you greet, i greet. You stay quiet, i ignore you, simple as that.
RE:
you have a potential customer come to your chat, and you refuse to say "hi" until he says "hi" first?
it's your prerogative and all to put whatever sense of expected social niceness you have ahead of profits, but that seems pretty much.
i mean, how not saying "hi" first can even be considered intolerably rude compared to some of things i've encountered on this site is beyond me.
it's your prerogative and all to put whatever sense of expected social niceness you have ahead of profits, but that seems pretty much.
i mean, how not saying "hi" first can even be considered intolerably rude compared to some of things i've encountered on this site is beyond me.
RE:
I think is about education, when you enter in a public place, you MUST say hello. Virtual or real, is the same. Think about it.
RE:
when entering my room, and just sits there waiting for me to do it first, you can be sure i will never care about his money. A person who's lacking basic education and common sense will never be welcome in my room, simply because i cannot enjoy the company of such individuals, therefore it is impossible for me to have a good time. I guess i am making enough money as it is, and i can afford to be picky. Yes, i could put on a fake smile and even give him a nice show, but why bother??? He can always pay someone else, I am sure there are girls who don't care about politeness and education, so no harm done.:) There will always be plenty of polite guys out there for me to please and feel good with, trust me, money is not such a big issue:)
RE:
I sometimes go in and wait for the host to say hi and leave if she does not. Sometimes I say hi and wait for a response. Sometimes I go to vid on the first visit if the host has an interesting profile.
I think I've just had far too many times where I've gone into text chat, said hi and got no response except for the lonely chirp of a cricket in the corner. They far outnumber the times I actually get a "hi" back. I think most hosts that are paying attention or care that someone has entered the chat will say hi first anyway. They can see that someone has entered. The guy entering chat has no idea that his greeting isn't going to be seen by a host who is away from her screen vaccuuming her cat, busy on one of the other sixteen sites she is currently in a 121 with, or just doesn't care enough about free chat to answer.... ie. I've had the experience before where my greeting in text gets no response, so I go into vid and she is right there and ready to talk... I then leave.
I can see both sides though... well, except for the side where you say you just watch them and say nothing when you know they have entered. And like I said, you can see when I come in... I can't see when you aren't there or are just ignoring me.
The idea of the free chat is to be able to get to know someone a bit before deciding that you might want to give her your money. And someone who says nothing at all has just told me all I need to know.
Btw, I also should also mention this is not the only site with free "intro" chat where this happens, and I think, for the most part I've had better responses from the hosts here than a lot of them elsewhere...
I think I've just had far too many times where I've gone into text chat, said hi and got no response except for the lonely chirp of a cricket in the corner. They far outnumber the times I actually get a "hi" back. I think most hosts that are paying attention or care that someone has entered the chat will say hi first anyway. They can see that someone has entered. The guy entering chat has no idea that his greeting isn't going to be seen by a host who is away from her screen vaccuuming her cat, busy on one of the other sixteen sites she is currently in a 121 with, or just doesn't care enough about free chat to answer.... ie. I've had the experience before where my greeting in text gets no response, so I go into vid and she is right there and ready to talk... I then leave.
I can see both sides though... well, except for the side where you say you just watch them and say nothing when you know they have entered. And like I said, you can see when I come in... I can't see when you aren't there or are just ignoring me.
The idea of the free chat is to be able to get to know someone a bit before deciding that you might want to give her your money. And someone who says nothing at all has just told me all I need to know.
Btw, I also should also mention this is not the only site with free "intro" chat where this happens, and I think, for the most part I've had better responses from the hosts here than a lot of them elsewhere...
RE:
I am constantly amazed at some of the things I read in these forums. In a normal world, the customer is usually greeted by the salesperson. Only here is there debate about who says "hi" first.
RE:
Wanda, It is not me. ..... lol .....A possible answer could be.......someone new to cc and not knowing what to do.....or someone with a couple of windows open...But for me I would talk to you. (K)
RE:
Some members have a bunch of windows open at the same time. They may have opened your window and you did not respond right away and they moved on to another. Your window is lost in the tabs or open windows. This happens because a lot of hosts don't respond. Out of 50 hosts I try and chat with at night (Eastern US time) only about 20 or so respond. So it is a question of volume. Say hi to 5 and maybe 2 will be awake or not otherwise engaged.
RE:
Maybe they've become lost in thought :)
Or maybe they're nervous.
Maybe they're just rude.
If you say hi to them do they respond?
Or maybe they're nervous.
Maybe they're just rude.
If you say hi to them do they respond?
RE:
I don't get you people, why make such a big deal?
Do what i do, If someone comes in, i am just random. Either i say hello or i just pause a few seconds or bit more and if nobody says anything then i just say hello or hi first.
Thats it and why such a big deal? Lets come down to earth and not be so high and mighty about ourselves we're all equal.
Do what i do, If someone comes in, i am just random. Either i say hello or i just pause a few seconds or bit more and if nobody says anything then i just say hello or hi first.
Thats it and why such a big deal? Lets come down to earth and not be so high and mighty about ourselves we're all equal.
Questions from new Member
I am relatively new here and have a few questions...I was wondering if someone could help me.
1. If you are blocked by a host can she still see your chat when you enter her text chat and how can you get unblocked?
2. what is 121 and what does it mean?
3/ Why don't they have any free vid feeds here?
4. As someone new who should i definitely see?
5. Where can one find the best vaule?....what catergory?
Thanks
1. If you are blocked by a host can she still see your chat when you enter her text chat and how can you get unblocked?
2. what is 121 and what does it mean?
3/ Why don't they have any free vid feeds here?
4. As someone new who should i definitely see?
5. Where can one find the best vaule?....what catergory?
Thanks
RE: Questions from new Member
Best categories for value and shows are not so shy and instant action. Avoid glamour. Re: blocking its up to the host to unblock you. Ask her. Good luck.
RE: Questions from new Member
here are 4 of the very best and beautiful: specialmodel, zzlanazz, sexyscorpion, vixenvixenn.
RE: Questions from new Member
not good choices at all !! rip-off for at least two of those mentioned. i would stay away.
RE: Questions from new Member
or the others for that matter? not to mention the head games they play.
RE: leaving tomorrow
Will miss u Ging.....ur always nice. Take good care of urself and stay safe:-)) Enjoy ur time off.
RE: leaving tomorrow
have a great time gingerrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.will miss you very much.take care ,kisses and hugs
RE: leaving tomorrow
Have a great trip (if that's the reason you're leaving). If not just have a great time and happy belated birthday. :)
RE: leaving tomorrow
Have a nice trip... Change your screen name when you return back. Try to avoid the word baby in your new screen name as well as the word Ginger. As you are in vacations ...You have long time to think in it .. Good luck.. of course we will miss you and will be more happy when you return with a new screen name!
RE: leaving tomorrow
Please stay well, Maria. You know I think you are a sweetheart :-)
ivymike
ivymike
dont fall in love with a dreamer
yes i was dumb met a pretty host and we chatted for months .now she has abandon me after she called me her friend . oh well next
RE: dont fall in love with a dreamer
Have i got a story to tell you about this subject!
I have met a girl on this site, we chatted a lot so we met, we lived for about 4 months and i know her now for about a year.
Recently we started talking about a baby, everything was good and alright... Until one day i comeback home and my girlfriend puts on a blindfold on me and tells me she got a surprise.
I walk in one of the rooms and my gf takes off my blindfold and screams "SURPRISE" What do i see?.... AN ADOPTED BABY!!! :O
I'm lost, i dont know what to do, this is a bloody surprise..
HOW DO I ACT?
WHAT DO I DO?
WHAT DO I SAY?
Talking about a dreamer..
Has this happened to any of you?
I have met a girl on this site, we chatted a lot so we met, we lived for about 4 months and i know her now for about a year.
Recently we started talking about a baby, everything was good and alright... Until one day i comeback home and my girlfriend puts on a blindfold on me and tells me she got a surprise.
I walk in one of the rooms and my gf takes off my blindfold and screams "SURPRISE" What do i see?.... AN ADOPTED BABY!!! :O
I'm lost, i dont know what to do, this is a bloody surprise..
HOW DO I ACT?
WHAT DO I DO?
WHAT DO I SAY?
Talking about a dreamer..
Has this happened to any of you?
RE: dont fall in love with a dreamer
Is that what they call their own children now... adopted?
RE: dont fall in love with a dreamer
she adopted it back from her parents after they adopted it after her ex ran offf with her best girl friend......ahh, young love.
RE: dont fall in love with a dreamer
Nothing strange, if corrupt police exists... anything exists in this world and everything is possible
RE: dont fall in love with a dreamer
Right you are. This person thinks we were born yesterday, lol
You can't adopt a baby just like that. You have to be married, show proof of reliable income and in some cases they even ask for a medical exam certificate that you can't have your own children. Tsk, tsk, your story didnt work!
You can't adopt a baby just like that. You have to be married, show proof of reliable income and in some cases they even ask for a medical exam certificate that you can't have your own children. Tsk, tsk, your story didnt work!
RE: dont fall in love with a dreamer
no adopted baby its her's sucker; she just had the kid sent to her after she saw she had a good thing with you.
Now you can take care of some other guy's kid for the next 20 years or maybe you might have second thoughts now...................your choice sucker
Now you can take care of some other guy's kid for the next 20 years or maybe you might have second thoughts now...................your choice sucker
RE: dont fall in love with a dreamer
Actually my gf says that she looked for a baby on the internet and a pelican bird dropped him of few hours before i came to the house
RE: dont fall in love with a dreamer
i'd be careful of that same pelican bird if i was you, lol
RE: dont fall in love with a dreamer
adoption of children in most countries is fairly well monitored...and to doubt this story is a reasonable thing to do do...but ..it also may be possible this woman had the child (her child probably)...hidden somewhere(maybe parents...maybe grandparents...maybe a friend)...and claimed adoption but in reality ...simply brought her baby from a previous relationship into the picture hoping the "good" man would accept it...if that were the case i woukld say...bless that womans heart...and i hope she someday finds a good man to love her and her baby
RE: inlove with erlling128
and just how did you come to that creative reasoning....operating on a weak train of thought? a member in cc would never do that would they?
every minute
every minute
RE: inlove with erlling128
yup...is cute:-)..... dont give me riddles Doll...im already confused:-)))....tc
RE: inlove with erlling128
maybe it's some dude with nothing better to do than have a laugh at ling's expense.
RE: inlove with erlling128
not the first comment you've made that make it every difficult to buy your line that you've "never" been in comchat. something about saying ling instead of erl is a tad suspicious
RE: inlove with erlling128
yeah be nice doll and send Erl a private - oh, and I hope you are well sexy lady and let me know next time you drunk in vid - one of my all time favs that show! lol.... kisses
Dangerous Trend Occuring
Certain hosts are in a little shy but they don't ever get naked for us anymore and are charging more each day.
It seems they are gaining momentum around her too as other try to copy their formula.
This could be like global warming for the earth chaps; I suggest you boycott these types before its too late for all of us.............
It seems they are gaining momentum around her too as other try to copy their formula.
This could be like global warming for the earth chaps; I suggest you boycott these types before its too late for all of us.............
RE: Dangerous Trend Occuring
I think his point is that it's a waste of time and money to spend time with these girls. He's not a "cry baby" for not wanting to have his money wasted by prima donnas. Although as a host, it would probably be in your interests to want to keep things as they are.
My rule is this. If you want nudity ask before you go in video. If they don't reply or commit to show then show some self-control and don't go in video.
Being a man is more about not being pussy-whipped I think :)
My rule is this. If you want nudity ask before you go in video. If they don't reply or commit to show then show some self-control and don't go in video.
Being a man is more about not being pussy-whipped I think :)
RE: Dangerous Trend Occuring
the last line of your post shows you have no idea of what being a real man is.back
RE: Dangerous Trend Occuring
While his last line could have been phrased quite a bit better, I think he made a good point in his post.
RE: Dangerous Trend Occuring
nought to do with phrasing.;if you think his last line was a good point,you're another who has no idea about what being a real man involves,in my opinion.
RE: Dangerous Trend Occuring
but how much is your's worth when you use so many posts names,at a pinch i'd say nadir,zero,zip,nothing.
RE: Dangerous Trend Occuring
i don't think they ran a proper experiment on what a real man is.
It's all myth and childhood fairy tales. Like a princess with long hair and a white prince with shining armor and a black stallion pony.
It's all myth and childhood fairy tales. Like a princess with long hair and a white prince with shining armor and a black stallion pony.
RE: Dangerous Trend Occuring
Does being a real man involve sitting on your ass and occupying your time by making pointless arguments with strangers on the interwebby?
RE: Dangerous Trend Occuring
considering that stories of a "real man" is a myth... Who knows?
And how come no one ever mentions what a true lady should be like?
Oh yeah i know why :) Men don't live their lives based on fairy tales.
I could be wrong, that was a guess)...
"curious" if you curious on why im writing this then the answer is simple. Reality check :)
Real man would know hot to treat a lady
a real man would just walk away
a real man would always say yes dear, right or wrong
a real man would have sex with an obese woman like she is thin sexy
and it goes on and on and on..
It's like instead of saying: when i find my ideal husband or papa bear of what ever, he will be like this and that, but instead of putting it like that, somehow its better to sit next to your girlfriends, turn it all around and say: you know what? A real man should be like this and like that!
Right! and like that and like this and do that and this! Real man... You get the point. MYTH
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and so is every woman's ideal man.
So please stop all this nonsense about what a real man should be!
We are all different, we all have our different qualities.
And also If stories about a Real man were true, imagine theres a whole grop of 10 or 20 of so called real man, Think about it, would you and your girlfriends really would want a man with other 9 or 19 like him in exact the same way? How you gonna be special? you found a right man and so did your friends, now what do you have that others don't have and how quickly bored you gonna get?...
sorry for long post but ffs lets just be realistic and not live in a dreamworld.
And how come no one ever mentions what a true lady should be like?
Oh yeah i know why :) Men don't live their lives based on fairy tales.
I could be wrong, that was a guess)...
"curious" if you curious on why im writing this then the answer is simple. Reality check :)
Real man would know hot to treat a lady
a real man would just walk away
a real man would always say yes dear, right or wrong
a real man would have sex with an obese woman like she is thin sexy
and it goes on and on and on..
It's like instead of saying: when i find my ideal husband or papa bear of what ever, he will be like this and that, but instead of putting it like that, somehow its better to sit next to your girlfriends, turn it all around and say: you know what? A real man should be like this and like that!
Right! and like that and like this and do that and this! Real man... You get the point. MYTH
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and so is every woman's ideal man.
So please stop all this nonsense about what a real man should be!
We are all different, we all have our different qualities.
And also If stories about a Real man were true, imagine theres a whole grop of 10 or 20 of so called real man, Think about it, would you and your girlfriends really would want a man with other 9 or 19 like him in exact the same way? How you gonna be special? you found a right man and so did your friends, now what do you have that others don't have and how quickly bored you gonna get?...
sorry for long post but ffs lets just be realistic and not live in a dreamworld.
RE: Dangerous Trend Occuring
be more interesting to hear what big ben's description or a real man is. seems rather thin skinned to be one from what i've see
RE: Dangerous Trend Occuring
dying to know what you consider a real man. last time i checked didn't include the thin skinned nastiness you;ve been displaying and the over use of the term. your scathing retort to someone who merely pointed out that a topic had just been discussed within the last few weeks was infantile and totally lacking in manliness:P so please enlighten everyone here as to what a :real man" so they can try to measure up to ur standards
RE: Dangerous Trend Occuring
Rather be a sad <cheap> then some shameless lowlife who judges people for being poor.
No honor, no respect, not even a mutual respect.
And you call yourself a Lady.
If i knew you and saw you being robbed or mistreated by some maniacs, i wouldn't even move my butt to help someone like you.
And Rich people don't respect the likes of you, they usually see you like them for the money. Thats why they smile to you, treat you good until they have sex with you and then chuck you. And then After girls like you say: ALL MEN ARE PIGS!
Goes both ways hunny ;)
No honor, no respect, not even a mutual respect.
And you call yourself a Lady.
If i knew you and saw you being robbed or mistreated by some maniacs, i wouldn't even move my butt to help someone like you.
And Rich people don't respect the likes of you, they usually see you like them for the money. Thats why they smile to you, treat you good until they have sex with you and then chuck you. And then After girls like you say: ALL MEN ARE PIGS!
Goes both ways hunny ;)
RE: Dangerous Trend Occuring
it wasnt an insult....lady alpha started it by calling you members cheaps...but after all the members pay...so we hosts have no right to call them cheap...so i agree with jk......members pay for service...but members have right to choose if they want long service or not, and if no service is given members should not give money...
RE: Dangerous Trend Occuring
seems not even you......did i by any chance say something that "touched " you?....oh poor baby....
RE: Dangerous Trend Occuring
Gold diggers never admit they come to dig gold, they say they come to love and be loved.
...Life :(
...Life :(
RE: Dangerous Trend Occuring
If i see someone insulted for no reason i dont care if i know the person or not but out of the principle i will insult too. None of us should insult each other in the first place
RE: Dangerous Trend Occuring
You have now joined a rather elite group of women including Monikababe and Chickoryblue who like PW men. Wonderful achievement dear.
RE: Dangerous Trend Occuring
Move to another AND tell the forum how useless that host was. What's the problem with that? If you don't like it why not move to another forum post just like you expect viewers to move to another host?
I don't really see the point in your argument at all other than to say we shouldn't criticise bad hosts. Well, people here disagree with that and you've said nothing to convince them (or me) otherwise. Deal with it.
I don't really see the point in your argument at all other than to say we shouldn't criticise bad hosts. Well, people here disagree with that and you've said nothing to convince them (or me) otherwise. Deal with it.
RE: Dangerous Trend Occuring
The good old PW line. Always reeled out when the poster has no real contribution to make.
RE: Dangerous Trend Occuring
pardon...but what is "PW?"...answer first ..then ......make jokes please
RE: Dangerous Trend Occuring
if you like ice queens who don't strip she is your girl man...............
RE: Dangerous Trend Occuring
out of spite you wouldn't help a woman who was being mugged or harrassed by maniacs?!
dude, that's fucked up!
dude, that's fucked up!
RE: i miss u...
way more than 101 viola...not my fault if im a very loveable person....as for me breakin hearts...again not my fault i dont force "them" to "fall in love with me"
RE: i miss u...
er...well....first off i dont know who u r...secondly...thx..i guess...third..im taken
RE: Nice traffic
Are u saying you could not find a host available for a vid this evening? Sounds unusual to me. Anyone else have that problem?
RE: Nice traffic
I had a host put me on delay....That may be the reason. It has never happened to me before..... Maybe I will just go to bed.
RE: Nice traffic
With that sort of strike rate, perhaps you are failing to correctly diagnose where the problem lies?
RE: Nice traffic
Yes, extreme but true.
The successful one was my 5 star fave who always delivers and advises me when not alone so I dont waste my money.
Second session started with much promise but after a few minutes host disappeared and did not return.
The others in no particular order but mostly in the evening one was extreme delay and couldn't get a 121 after several hours. Another said "come to vid" without answering questions. The rest did not respond to text. One other "video only".
The successful one was my 5 star fave who always delivers and advises me when not alone so I dont waste my money.
Second session started with much promise but after a few minutes host disappeared and did not return.
The others in no particular order but mostly in the evening one was extreme delay and couldn't get a 121 after several hours. Another said "come to vid" without answering questions. The rest did not respond to text. One other "video only".
RE: Nice traffic
I agree. It is harder and harder to find the right girl at the right price who is available. Many don't respond, Not sure if they are sleeping, away from the studio, doing it with their bfs or what. 1 out of 10 is extreme but I have given up several times because I narrow it down to a few hosts and zip are ready, willing or able to do a video. The only ones eager to go are the super high priced ones. Not gonna happen.
RE: Nice traffic
same here. i don't know, with the hassle involved, it's getting to the point where it almost seems preferable to just masturbate alone.
CommChat
Anyone feel the same as me - commchat is dominated by the same people day after day? Not that I don't like them just that it would be nice to have a change of dynamic. Oh, and when will certain asian hosts drop the emoticons floods and dreary samey intros in pms?
RE: CommChat
i shall join community chat and it will be better
im funny and witty plus i m fabulous..so a bit of everythin the community chat needs
keep postedand look for me
;)
im funny and witty plus i m fabulous..so a bit of everythin the community chat needs
keep postedand look for me
;)
RE: CommChat
yeah i agree--i will be quieter for you when i see you come in--come on and join the fun ( i mean sitting and watching the same stuff) and meet new people and don't ask for any free videos--okie dokie
RE: CommChat
what fun is that? it's so repetitive and far fewer people in CC go to commchat these days.
RE: CommChat
where have you been--there are a lot of people in community chat room and some are friends with each other--just start chatting dude--who knows someone might like you to video them
RE: CommChat
well walsingham--maybe you shouldnt use so many screen names and we get to know you better--beside im glad to see these people in there--if they wasnt it really get bored no one chatting
RE: CommChat
not sure why you made it a personal attack as I was just asking for opinions but thank you for yours anyway
too often lately
im in private typiing along when someone i have repeatly blocked re-enters floods, ruining train of thought loosing text cus cant scroll faster then the flooding. so i guess its better to chase off the members that dont pay the hosts that do it constantly. what amazes me is that they get enuff viewers to continue, but the id wager that not many from comm see them. probably their other sites.
RE: too often lately
yes, it's seems to be counter-productive - often wonder if they work from a script, if they are made to chase for business in pms by their bosses.
RE: CommChat
asians are hardly the only ones f.looding, there arel plenty of russains and romanians doing it too. guess u care not notice that fact for some reason
RE: CommChat
Your wrong lol! Asians are the biggest spammers and flooders!
Its rare for romanians or russians to do it, but i did see them do it once and it was because the spams already got on their nerves so they started to do the same hoping the asians would understand. didnt work.
And there is 2 russian hosts i know that spam, but not as much as asians.
1 floods the room and the other one keeps on going on about how perhaps she should take her clothes off. That type of attitude will put everybody off cc, think of cc and be sick cause of the annoyance caused when you just wanna relax and have some fun. They totally spoil all that :(
Its rare for romanians or russians to do it, but i did see them do it once and it was because the spams already got on their nerves so they started to do the same hoping the asians would understand. didnt work.
And there is 2 russian hosts i know that spam, but not as much as asians.
1 floods the room and the other one keeps on going on about how perhaps she should take her clothes off. That type of attitude will put everybody off cc, think of cc and be sick cause of the annoyance caused when you just wanna relax and have some fun. They totally spoil all that :(
RE: CommChat
I like to go to community chat. I have a lot of friends there and it is where I meet new hosts. I do not stay long, but I do visit quite often.
RE: CommChat
anyway, thanks for replies - seems many still enjoy it so end of thread now for me
RE: CommChat
Old topic. And most people agree. The ability to permanently ignore hosts has been requested numerous times. When I enter Comm Chat I go down the list and ignore as many of the hosts as I can based on past experiences. They are still chatting but you dont have to see it. Makes the conversation a bit odd when someone is responding to something you didn't see but it less annoying.