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Newcomers advice? Get out of here now
I will be interested to see if this gets posted but I want to advise any newcomers to this site to get out of here before it's too late. That may sound dramatic but if I could go back to just over a year ago I would never have joined this site or any other webcam sites.
What started out as a bit of harmless fun has ended up costing me about £40k (not all on CC). I admit I am a mug and a fool for doing it and I have no one else to blame but myself - but I got hooked and couldn't see the long term damage I was doing. Only now, looking back and having blown nearly all the savings I had, can I see what an idiot I have been. I could have invested that money or had 10 once-in-a-lifetime holidays (ok its not once in a lifetime if you have 10 but you know what I mean)
I always thought I was the sort of person who would never get addicted to anything ... that I would recognise something if it was getting out of control, and be able to get out in time. But I was wrong!
The problem is I genuinely do really like a lot of the girls I have spent time with on here. Im under no illusions about meeting up or marriage or anything (although I have played out certain scenario's in my head many times haha). In fact I have a very happy life in the UK with some good friends and a great family. I am very lucky! But its because I like the girls that I go back. It seems harmless, you may only speak to a particular girl once every 2 weeks. But if you spend an hour with her because you haven't seen her for a while and want to catch up ... and then do that with several other girls too for the same reasons, the bills start to pile up.
Obviously there is the lust side to it. But 99% of men love being in the company of beautiful girls and love to see them in sexy outfits (or preferably no outfits ..). And there are some damn sexy girls on this site who are also intelligent and appear to be really nice and are good to have a laugh with. I wont deny I have enjoyed being here ... but I also enjoy going out for a drink with my mates and meeting girls in my own country in real life and I tell you that is a hell of a lot cheaper. Part of the reason of earning money os to treat yourself ... you pay for pleasure, be it a nice meal in a fancy restaurant, a flash car or even sex. So Im not preaching to anyone how to spend your money.
All I am saying is that this sort of thing is lethal. I am shocked that I got sucked in ... and even more shocked that I only realised when it was already too late. Im 32 and could maybe have retired when I was 50 ... bit maybe now I can't. So when I am 60 and having to get up for bloody work, can no longer get an erection and am not in the slightest bit tempted to pay heavy prices to talk to girls young enough to be my granddaughters I will look back on 2006 as the year to blame that I am not in a position where only gardening and bingo are of interest to me.
I would also say to the girls who read this to try as hard as possible to find another way to spend your lives. I am aware that the economic situations in your countries are the main reason you do this work. But its not good for your soul or esteem, even if you think you enjoy it. Obviously its better (and safer) than working the streets but come on ... undressing in front of a webcam is not what you dreamed about when you were a little girl is it?
We all make mistakes .. but the secret in life is to learn from them as quickly as possible and not to repeat them. I am fully aware of my own shortcomings. If I won the lottery tomorrow I am sure a lot of it would be spent on here. Its all too easy. You come home from the pub a bit drunk one night .. stick the computer on, check who is online on CC. Or maybe its too cold to go out, or its raining (this is england) but you fancy doing something horny .. so again CC is the easy option. It doesn't beat the real thing but girls on here are a lot more beautiful than most you meet in real life. And in real life they don't strip within 10 minutes. Thats the temptations but for me now the temptations no longer exist. Not because I suddenly have willpower ... it's because I dont have any bloody money left hahahaha! (thats the laugh of a madmen btw)
Anyway dont say you weren't warned.
Happy new year to everyone here - staff, members and the lovely girls.
What started out as a bit of harmless fun has ended up costing me about £40k (not all on CC). I admit I am a mug and a fool for doing it and I have no one else to blame but myself - but I got hooked and couldn't see the long term damage I was doing. Only now, looking back and having blown nearly all the savings I had, can I see what an idiot I have been. I could have invested that money or had 10 once-in-a-lifetime holidays (ok its not once in a lifetime if you have 10 but you know what I mean)
I always thought I was the sort of person who would never get addicted to anything ... that I would recognise something if it was getting out of control, and be able to get out in time. But I was wrong!
The problem is I genuinely do really like a lot of the girls I have spent time with on here. Im under no illusions about meeting up or marriage or anything (although I have played out certain scenario's in my head many times haha). In fact I have a very happy life in the UK with some good friends and a great family. I am very lucky! But its because I like the girls that I go back. It seems harmless, you may only speak to a particular girl once every 2 weeks. But if you spend an hour with her because you haven't seen her for a while and want to catch up ... and then do that with several other girls too for the same reasons, the bills start to pile up.
Obviously there is the lust side to it. But 99% of men love being in the company of beautiful girls and love to see them in sexy outfits (or preferably no outfits ..). And there are some damn sexy girls on this site who are also intelligent and appear to be really nice and are good to have a laugh with. I wont deny I have enjoyed being here ... but I also enjoy going out for a drink with my mates and meeting girls in my own country in real life and I tell you that is a hell of a lot cheaper. Part of the reason of earning money os to treat yourself ... you pay for pleasure, be it a nice meal in a fancy restaurant, a flash car or even sex. So Im not preaching to anyone how to spend your money.
All I am saying is that this sort of thing is lethal. I am shocked that I got sucked in ... and even more shocked that I only realised when it was already too late. Im 32 and could maybe have retired when I was 50 ... bit maybe now I can't. So when I am 60 and having to get up for bloody work, can no longer get an erection and am not in the slightest bit tempted to pay heavy prices to talk to girls young enough to be my granddaughters I will look back on 2006 as the year to blame that I am not in a position where only gardening and bingo are of interest to me.
I would also say to the girls who read this to try as hard as possible to find another way to spend your lives. I am aware that the economic situations in your countries are the main reason you do this work. But its not good for your soul or esteem, even if you think you enjoy it. Obviously its better (and safer) than working the streets but come on ... undressing in front of a webcam is not what you dreamed about when you were a little girl is it?
We all make mistakes .. but the secret in life is to learn from them as quickly as possible and not to repeat them. I am fully aware of my own shortcomings. If I won the lottery tomorrow I am sure a lot of it would be spent on here. Its all too easy. You come home from the pub a bit drunk one night .. stick the computer on, check who is online on CC. Or maybe its too cold to go out, or its raining (this is england) but you fancy doing something horny .. so again CC is the easy option. It doesn't beat the real thing but girls on here are a lot more beautiful than most you meet in real life. And in real life they don't strip within 10 minutes. Thats the temptations but for me now the temptations no longer exist. Not because I suddenly have willpower ... it's because I dont have any bloody money left hahahaha! (thats the laugh of a madmen btw)
Anyway dont say you weren't warned.
Happy new year to everyone here - staff, members and the lovely girls.
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i have to agree with you CJ, i was hook also, thanks a lot for waking me up from this, I to have spent around $10,000 on here within a year, I could had pick me one out and went to her country and spent it in real life, not necessary with the ones on here, but could have found someone
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lol oh cheers mate ... but the ones with spare money might be dafter than you think once they start.
I aint no sad case whose life revolves coming on here so if it can happen to me it can happen to others
Anyway whats done is done .. I aint looking for sympathy. But maybe if I had seen a post like that when I joined here I might have been a bit more careful.
If it helps someone it was worth doing. And if it doesnt help anyone then it was still worth it cos it helped me feel better.
Of course if i get run over by a truck next week it dont matter that I blew my savings ... but Im not planning too
I aint no sad case whose life revolves coming on here so if it can happen to me it can happen to others
Anyway whats done is done .. I aint looking for sympathy. But maybe if I had seen a post like that when I joined here I might have been a bit more careful.
If it helps someone it was worth doing. And if it doesnt help anyone then it was still worth it cos it helped me feel better.
Of course if i get run over by a truck next week it dont matter that I blew my savings ... but Im not planning too
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its ok for u kaz u get money but members spend here so butt out kaz !!
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Praise to CC for letting the post see the light of day.
Such a site feeds a compulsion that quite a few guys have. I'm sure management does't want this place to be the downfall of anyone - letting such a message show up here is a damn decent thing to do, in my opinion.
Good luck, CJ... Good luck all.
Such a site feeds a compulsion that quite a few guys have. I'm sure management does't want this place to be the downfall of anyone - letting such a message show up here is a damn decent thing to do, in my opinion.
Good luck, CJ... Good luck all.
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Yes I agree it was very decent of them to allow this. They have also contacted me and offered to block my account so I can't continue. Again a very decent and honest gesture that most other sites would never do.
That's why CC is the best
I'm glad I don't have an account here anymore, but when I read about how they treat you and even offer to block your account... I almost miss it. :)
It's such a friendly place.
It's such a friendly place.
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Go cold turkey.. and save you money.. you'll think yourself later LOL
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I wont lie I enjoyed it all at the time ... but its dead money!
If you buy something with that money you have something to show for it and maybe something to sell. All I got for to show for the money I spent on here is a few stains on my carpet lol
If you buy something with that money you have something to show for it and maybe something to sell. All I got for to show for the money I spent on here is a few stains on my carpet lol
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thanks CJ--good advice, where was you a year ago,, oh yeah in here, I want to thank you anyway for now, waking me up from this, I too have spent around $20,000 over the last 2 years, just think, I could had went to college and got me a better job.
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Actually thats a mistake its $40k .... in real money about £25k lol :-)
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If you go to the most expensive restaurant and order the most expensive meals.Next day you will want to eat again.Nothing left.No spots on your carpet.All you got are pleasant memories.
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I agree with you Oxygen. Its all enjoyed money. As I said before: What good will money do in your pocket if you are all alone and sad? It better do something for you. Money is for bringing you pleasure. No remorse, go out and work if you need it back, LOL.
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about your post because it's very hard to ascertain whether or not you are being on the level? Perhaps you're just throwing this out here to get reactions from others? That's one of the problems in the forum when someone posts something that is absolutely genuine. How are we to really know, or, does it really matter or not, what is the truth and what isn't?
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CC is one of many activities involving exchange of money for temporary satisfaction. Drinking, gambling, whoring, reading, sports (either watching or participating), entertainment, lavish dinners are only a few of those activities. Life's small pleasures.
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Sorry to hear of your prdicament.... another alternartive if you are hooked on the girls here is to check out their new pics.... granted it is not the same as a live session ... However it can be almost as good and a whole lot cheaper....
Not trying to be mean to hosts.. Just stating the truth of responsible spending....
Also CC does have one advantage to many other sites... alot more price selection... and also no monthly fees are charged to be a member..
A few other sites charge members $8 to $20 a month even if you do not go into vid.. FACT .. Patience is very important....
Always wank responsibly !!! :)))
Not trying to be mean to hosts.. Just stating the truth of responsible spending....
Also CC does have one advantage to many other sites... alot more price selection... and also no monthly fees are charged to be a member..
A few other sites charge members $8 to $20 a month even if you do not go into vid.. FACT .. Patience is very important....
Always wank responsibly !!! :)))
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Hes tellng the truth i agree 100 % and most guys know hes telling the truth and the same thing has happened to many of us and yes it's our own fault. You probaly even put a block on and asked them to remove it. This is most of all all stories, or it will be your story soon hes not the only mug many of us are but trurly each has to learn for them self. lucky for u CJ u only found cc and not a lot of other sites to help destroy u ,as i have so cheers one mug to the other. All the smart ass comments can be kept because if you stay here long enough u be in the mug club. No such thing as a little bit . It may be a little now but soon it will be more and more.
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and in my opinion you sound like a bitch, it's good advice to newcomers to warn of what can easily develop into a addiction. Try using some self restraint... and keep your clothes on
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Kaz I had you in my favs for a future visit after seeing your video playback recently. I have been keeping an eye out for when you are online. After reading your posts in this thread, I am happy to remove you from my favs. I know this wont bug you at all.
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Damn, Steve...look around a little. You mean seeing some of Kaz's comments are what prompted you to remove her from your favourites? Tell me...what the hell ever convinced you to add her to your favs in the first place?
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Kaz, u dont know what addiction is. It is an illness, not lack of self-restraint!
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Then to be safe, buy a good porn filter for your computer. Set it up right and take your password and give it to a member of your family and tell them it is a number to a secret Swiss Bank Account.
Who will know, and you will be safe.
Who will know, and you will be safe.
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damn--i dont make that much total income working in 2 years, where do you find those good jobs, I need one, so I can private more here
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Very good advice!
I think this is an important discussion.
As has already been said, CC is like other things that
bring us pleasure or a thrill. These include drinking, gambling, sex, activities with a potential for danger and even shopping!
The problem is when these things become an addiction or uncontrolable compulsion. Often the reason is because it numbs
the pain and emptiness people have in their lifes.
Having confidence and self esteem is the only thing that will fulfill us.
We can have that, even if we have nothing and our lifes are a mess.
Its about doing the best with what you have and feeling good about it.
You will find you will have a positive effect on others with your good work and smile! That is true happiness!
In our bars or pubs we have warnings about drinking responsibly and gambling places or lotteries have numbers for help with addictions.
Yes each person is responsible for their own actions and choices.
However I think none of us wants to see someone getting hurt.
Thats why I think warnings like this are all that can be done to make people think.
My Mothers Father did not even drink but became an alcoholic through the pressures of life. He ended his life stepping in front of
a train.
I agree this post is worded too harshly and do not agree with some of the views.
This has nothing to do with chathosts, just like you can't blame employee's at a bar, casino or even a store for a customers addiction.
I think if a warning can prevent tragedy from happening, even if it is extreme, it is worth it.
I think this is an important discussion.
As has already been said, CC is like other things that
bring us pleasure or a thrill. These include drinking, gambling, sex, activities with a potential for danger and even shopping!
The problem is when these things become an addiction or uncontrolable compulsion. Often the reason is because it numbs
the pain and emptiness people have in their lifes.
Having confidence and self esteem is the only thing that will fulfill us.
We can have that, even if we have nothing and our lifes are a mess.
Its about doing the best with what you have and feeling good about it.
You will find you will have a positive effect on others with your good work and smile! That is true happiness!
In our bars or pubs we have warnings about drinking responsibly and gambling places or lotteries have numbers for help with addictions.
Yes each person is responsible for their own actions and choices.
However I think none of us wants to see someone getting hurt.
Thats why I think warnings like this are all that can be done to make people think.
My Mothers Father did not even drink but became an alcoholic through the pressures of life. He ended his life stepping in front of
a train.
I agree this post is worded too harshly and do not agree with some of the views.
This has nothing to do with chathosts, just like you can't blame employee's at a bar, casino or even a store for a customers addiction.
I think if a warning can prevent tragedy from happening, even if it is extreme, it is worth it.
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I'm thinking about a store or bar with a sign saying
"Get out of here now"
As with CC, that is ridiculous!
Sorry about my rambling.
Just had some thoughts ;)
"Get out of here now"
As with CC, that is ridiculous!
Sorry about my rambling.
Just had some thoughts ;)
dear "CJ"
It's a good idea to keep track of the amount spent at the end of each video and keep a running tally next to your computer.
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You just summarized why CC is so great LOL.
No not the addiction and excess part but meeting beautiful women who reveal their charms in minutes in the convenience of your home or mobile.
To me its an entertainment expense I have to budget like anything else in life or as with you it will budget itself..............if this post if true.
As for warning people to in effect leave now.......better warn a teen about thinking of sex and not doing anything about it. Its the new net age and its only going to get better and more realistic...........
Don't retire early with nothing to do.............work till you drop with a smile on your face at least part of the time................
No not the addiction and excess part but meeting beautiful women who reveal their charms in minutes in the convenience of your home or mobile.
To me its an entertainment expense I have to budget like anything else in life or as with you it will budget itself..............if this post if true.
As for warning people to in effect leave now.......better warn a teen about thinking of sex and not doing anything about it. Its the new net age and its only going to get better and more realistic...........
Don't retire early with nothing to do.............work till you drop with a smile on your face at least part of the time................
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I blew a small fortune here during the first few months of joining. To their credit, CC wrote to me saying how concerned they were at my level of spending in such a comapratively short times of joining. I have gradually disciplined myself to keep within sensible limits but still capable of going way over budget at times.
One thing you are wrong about, being old is no defence! ;-)
One thing you are wrong about, being old is no defence! ;-)
CJ
LMAO!!!!!!!!!! That was the funniest post i have read in a long,long time.Don't get me wrong i believe every word that you wrote & understand what you mean.Its just your dry laconic matter of fact way of talking about it. Man you could make all that spent money & more back as the British Jerry Seinfeld!! If you're looking for a manager mail me( i only want 15%)LOL!!
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I agree with u CJ.. I think u said it well... I`ve been here 2 years and i started out with 1 credit card, i now have 4 and 3 of them are at the limit... The total i have spent over the 2 years that i have been here!! well i`m to afraid to actually add it all up, but its a lot and at the minute i still have about £5,000 to pay off... I have gotten CC to block all my cards at sometime during my stay here and have then went to them and asked them to unblock them again...
It`s easy for a lot of ppl here to say budget ur spending, but its the part when u like the girl and u have had fun with her and u have made a connection with her, thats the part thats not so easy to disconnect from..
I have said to myself many times not to get to know the girls to well and then it will be easier to leave etc etc, but its hard to do.. I`ll say to myself "I`ll only go say hi and catch up for a few minutes and then leave" YEAH RIGHT those few minutes turn into 90-120 minutes or even more, the thing is that when u are having fun with a girl, either just chatting or having some sexy fun the time goes by so fast u don`t realise it, and when u do realise it it`s then to late and u get one hell of a shock after u leave the girls video and ur total time and money spent comes up on the screen in front of u..
I`ve had gr8 fun here as well, i`ve enjoyed every minute with all the girls i have visited and chatted to, but i no longer do videos now.. I have wised up, to late granted, but its a start at least... It`s time for me to pay off my debts and delete my membership and start out differently, and also start buying things for myself to show for my money.. Ohhhh and if anyone ever noticed, that is my reason i have not been around so much in com chat or anything else.. But i`m sure no1 noticed anyway, so doesn`t matter :P
It`s like everything here people are only remembered when they are here, when they leave its on2 something or someone knew..
But anyway have fun everyone and try ur hardest to keep ur spending under control.. CC is addictive just like most other things in life... U need a fix to help u out... Just watch what u spend, but have fun also...
Ummmm kinda double edged sword i know... So i`ll say BYE.... :)
It`s easy for a lot of ppl here to say budget ur spending, but its the part when u like the girl and u have had fun with her and u have made a connection with her, thats the part thats not so easy to disconnect from..
I have said to myself many times not to get to know the girls to well and then it will be easier to leave etc etc, but its hard to do.. I`ll say to myself "I`ll only go say hi and catch up for a few minutes and then leave" YEAH RIGHT those few minutes turn into 90-120 minutes or even more, the thing is that when u are having fun with a girl, either just chatting or having some sexy fun the time goes by so fast u don`t realise it, and when u do realise it it`s then to late and u get one hell of a shock after u leave the girls video and ur total time and money spent comes up on the screen in front of u..
I`ve had gr8 fun here as well, i`ve enjoyed every minute with all the girls i have visited and chatted to, but i no longer do videos now.. I have wised up, to late granted, but its a start at least... It`s time for me to pay off my debts and delete my membership and start out differently, and also start buying things for myself to show for my money.. Ohhhh and if anyone ever noticed, that is my reason i have not been around so much in com chat or anything else.. But i`m sure no1 noticed anyway, so doesn`t matter :P
It`s like everything here people are only remembered when they are here, when they leave its on2 something or someone knew..
But anyway have fun everyone and try ur hardest to keep ur spending under control.. CC is addictive just like most other things in life... U need a fix to help u out... Just watch what u spend, but have fun also...
Ummmm kinda double edged sword i know... So i`ll say BYE.... :)
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It's a pity that u leave :( ...but i agree with u and am glad u have wised up :P
Thanks for the great fun we all had with your presence here. Hope u will continue having fun in your real life and I wish u all the best!.....espesially for your wallet :D
Peek in forum sometimes, i will miss your posts :(
kiss
Thanks for the great fun we all had with your presence here. Hope u will continue having fun in your real life and I wish u all the best!.....espesially for your wallet :D
Peek in forum sometimes, i will miss your posts :(
kiss
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Hey kosh, will always be good to see you in chat - you've more than paid your dues by the sound of it - yeah take a break from spending by all means, but you still entitled to the free stuff.
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Great post Koshed!
I can really identify with your second paragraph. That is exactly how it is for me too!
Good luck mate
I can really identify with your second paragraph. That is exactly how it is for me too!
Good luck mate
to CJ
CJ, i must admit that your message really moved me, this is so good for reminding me why i wanna give up cc.Its not the fact that cc is bad for my self esteem, and i am sure i talk in the name of most of the girls when i say this, bcs it makes me feel wanted and it makes me feel beautiful to know that men r paying by the minute just to look at me.It doesnt make me feel cheap coz i am not ashamed of my body, i like showing it if ppl want to admire it plus i am very sexual and an exhibitionist , the perfect combination to make me want to be on cc when playing with myself.But indeed, it does damage to my soul bcs i feel like i am luring guys into my vid and put them ''under my spell ''when i know that some of them cant really afford it.It just makes me feel so bad...:(
When i used to live in romania, me and all my cc coleagues used to think that ppl in the western countries and america must be so rich that spending $100-$200 with us on vid was nothing to them, but only after coming to england i realized that every penny has its purpose, every pound pays for smth....
CJ, i would really like to talk to u, so i'd apreciate if u'd pop into my chat when u see me online.I promiss not to let u enter vid :))
When i used to live in romania, me and all my cc coleagues used to think that ppl in the western countries and america must be so rich that spending $100-$200 with us on vid was nothing to them, but only after coming to england i realized that every penny has its purpose, every pound pays for smth....
CJ, i would really like to talk to u, so i'd apreciate if u'd pop into my chat when u see me online.I promiss not to let u enter vid :))
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You should not feel bad! You are not responsible for decisions other people make.
Host is right!
Both men and women tend to spend money when they have it.
From drinking and gambling to shopping and restaurants.
If you spend all your money doing these things, would you go back
to these places and look for sympathy for the mess your in???
CC is no difference!
He needs to take responsiblity for his own choices and not blame
CC or anyone else.
It often takes lessons like this to teach us the value of money. ;)
And yes.....for crying out loud!!! This is an adult entertainment site, where consenting adults interact with each other!
Why is it so hard for this guy and others to get this???
Host is right!
Both men and women tend to spend money when they have it.
From drinking and gambling to shopping and restaurants.
If you spend all your money doing these things, would you go back
to these places and look for sympathy for the mess your in???
CC is no difference!
He needs to take responsiblity for his own choices and not blame
CC or anyone else.
It often takes lessons like this to teach us the value of money. ;)
And yes.....for crying out loud!!! This is an adult entertainment site, where consenting adults interact with each other!
Why is it so hard for this guy and others to get this???
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Wow ... nice reply and some good points. But you have got me so wrong!
Firstly can I ask where exactly I was asking others to feel sorry for me? Also where am I blaming others for my stupidity? I have only blamed myself. Read my post again and you will see.
Secondly in reply to the bit where you claim I would foolishly waste my money elsewhere if it wasn't on CC, surely if I was that type of person then I would never have had the savings to spend here in the first place would I? That was my point. I am NOT the addictive personality type or someone who spends money for the sake of it ... but it still happened to me anyway. In just over one year the savings I had built up have all but gone! I have admitted 100% responsibility for it ...there is nothing I can do about it now. But if my post prevents the same thing happening to someone else then it was worth doing it.
Lastly I do apologise for the comment about the streets but I didn't mean it how you interpreted it. I was merely stressing that in several countries the economic situation dictates that lots of young girls have to find some ways of making a living that they would not have chosen if they had a better choice. In extreme cases that means street prostitution. But I would never compare those girls to girls on CC, thats a totally different thing. However, you will still not convince me that sitting up nearly all night, having many members treat you like a piece of meat by demanding you strip and then having to pretend to be nice to them is an ideal way of earning a living. In fact I know it isn't because the girls I have chatted with here have told me how much they hate that part of it.
Oh and im not miserable at all btw ..... just somewhat annoyed with myself.
Firstly can I ask where exactly I was asking others to feel sorry for me? Also where am I blaming others for my stupidity? I have only blamed myself. Read my post again and you will see.
Secondly in reply to the bit where you claim I would foolishly waste my money elsewhere if it wasn't on CC, surely if I was that type of person then I would never have had the savings to spend here in the first place would I? That was my point. I am NOT the addictive personality type or someone who spends money for the sake of it ... but it still happened to me anyway. In just over one year the savings I had built up have all but gone! I have admitted 100% responsibility for it ...there is nothing I can do about it now. But if my post prevents the same thing happening to someone else then it was worth doing it.
Lastly I do apologise for the comment about the streets but I didn't mean it how you interpreted it. I was merely stressing that in several countries the economic situation dictates that lots of young girls have to find some ways of making a living that they would not have chosen if they had a better choice. In extreme cases that means street prostitution. But I would never compare those girls to girls on CC, thats a totally different thing. However, you will still not convince me that sitting up nearly all night, having many members treat you like a piece of meat by demanding you strip and then having to pretend to be nice to them is an ideal way of earning a living. In fact I know it isn't because the girls I have chatted with here have told me how much they hate that part of it.
Oh and im not miserable at all btw ..... just somewhat annoyed with myself.
RE: Newcomers advice? Get out of here now
Your advice is good for those who have an addictive personality. For ever person who becomes addicted porn, gambling, or whatever there's always those who know their limits.
"But its not good for your soul or esteem, even if you think you enjoy it."
I disagree. I find that it's a great self esteem booster. I don't know why people think that chathosts must think low of themselves.
"But its not good for your soul or esteem, even if you think you enjoy it."
I disagree. I find that it's a great self esteem booster. I don't know why people think that chathosts must think low of themselves.
RE: Newcomers advice? Get out of here now
Maybe some see self-respect as something that isn't genuinely gotten from how others perceive you - maybe.
If hosting boosts a woman's confidence, that's cool. Personally though, I wonder sometimes if maybe being judged ultimately pretty superficially ever takes any kind of emotional toll on the women here after a while - especially among those hosts who initally get that kind of surge of confidence when first starting out.
If hosting boosts a woman's confidence, that's cool. Personally though, I wonder sometimes if maybe being judged ultimately pretty superficially ever takes any kind of emotional toll on the women here after a while - especially among those hosts who initally get that kind of surge of confidence when first starting out.
RE: Newcomers advice? Get out of here now
Posts such as CJs are a helpful reminder concerning the potential pitfalls of this website. Even at much lower spending amounts there are hosts laughing at the amount they can squeeze from viewers. When you begin to feel you are overextending yourself, tell the host. An ethical host will understand. Be aware of your budget prior to entering a vid session.
RE: Newcomers advice? Get out of here now
As a cc addict I am well aware of the pitfalls of overextending your bank balance! My advice is development a relatinship with one host , stick with her. Also check when you go to video time yourself and keep regular updates of your spending.
To CJ
Dear CJ! Ur post is speaking from my heart. Sounds like my story. I cannot believe how many thousands Euros I have spent here in one year! I am over 40 and never had any signs of addictions before in my life! And i am still in it! I also enjoy my time with hosts tremendously! CJ, I would like to get in contact with u, to discuss the topic more. Or with any member, who has the same problem. So i would be thankfull if u would cc-mail me!
3 Viagras:-))
A man goes to his doctor and says. "Doc, I have a problem. My girlfriend is sleeping over this Friday, my ex-wife is sleeping over this Saturday and my wife is coming home Sunday. I need 3 Viagra pills to satisfy all 3 of them.
The doctor says "You know 3 Viagra pills 3 nights in a row is pretty dangerous for a man of your age. I will give them to you on the condition that you return to my office on Monday so that I can check you out."
The man says "You have a deal Doc."
Monday morning the man returns with his arm in a sling.
The doctor says "What happened"?
The man answered "Nobody Showed UP!"
The doctor says "You know 3 Viagra pills 3 nights in a row is pretty dangerous for a man of your age. I will give them to you on the condition that you return to my office on Monday so that I can check you out."
The man says "You have a deal Doc."
Monday morning the man returns with his arm in a sling.
The doctor says "What happened"?
The man answered "Nobody Showed UP!"
Short ones:-))
Reporters interviewing a 104-year-old woman: "And what do you think is the best thing about being 104?" the reporter asked. She simply replied, "No peer pressure."
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I've sure gotten old! I've had two bypass surgeries, a hip replacement, new knees, fought prostate cancer and diabetes. I'm half blind, can't hear anything quieter than a jet engine, take 40 different medications that make me dizzy, winded,
and subject to blackouts. Have bouts with dementia. Have poor circulation, hardly feel my hands and feet anymore. Can't remember if I'm 85 or 92. Have lost
all my friends. But, thank God, I still have my driver's license.
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An elderly woman decided to prepare her will and told her preacher she had two final requests. First, she wanted to be cremated, and second, she wanted her ashes scattered over Wal-Mart. "Wal-Mart?" the preacher exclaimed. "Why Wal-Mart?" "Then I'll be sure my daughters visit me twice a week."
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I've sure gotten old! I've had two bypass surgeries, a hip replacement, new knees, fought prostate cancer and diabetes. I'm half blind, can't hear anything quieter than a jet engine, take 40 different medications that make me dizzy, winded,
and subject to blackouts. Have bouts with dementia. Have poor circulation, hardly feel my hands and feet anymore. Can't remember if I'm 85 or 92. Have lost
all my friends. But, thank God, I still have my driver's license.
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An elderly woman decided to prepare her will and told her preacher she had two final requests. First, she wanted to be cremated, and second, she wanted her ashes scattered over Wal-Mart. "Wal-Mart?" the preacher exclaimed. "Why Wal-Mart?" "Then I'll be sure my daughters visit me twice a week."
Skype
I tryed to ask about net-phone some days ago, got two replies and a lot of gossip, so I try again:
Do any of you lovely girls on CC use internet phone, skype, yahoo or other ?
Do any of you lovely girls on CC use internet phone, skype, yahoo or other ?
RE: envious chathosts
that is a shame host do that, this is why i stick to just one host, it works out better and also saves money
RE: envious chathosts
why you want my member name for-so you can downgrade me like you do to the other host--at least I do have 2 here that really like me and they know what I am talking about, so gorty, get a life
RE: envious chathosts
I didnt said it was her, i only said it sounds like her- she use to talk bad about everyone like shes a gift from God and the rest, just nothing. No need to work in a studio to be rude, she can do that from home too.
RE: envious chathosts
If she's spilling the beans about those hosts who brag to other hosts in the studio about manipulating certain members for big gains, I think that's awesome. I think someone should give that girl a medal.
dear "not that one"
LOL
And other envious chathosts see your name on their colleagues screen and then talk about you to all the girls in the studio.
The bad thing is if they lie about you. "Oh, he always does cam-to-cam and one2one with me, why doesn't he do it with you?" "He only talks with you when I'm busy.." This bad seed thinks if a guy visits her video once, she owns him. She tries to get all the other girls in her studio mad at you.
And other envious chathosts see your name on their colleagues screen and then talk about you to all the girls in the studio.
The bad thing is if they lie about you. "Oh, he always does cam-to-cam and one2one with me, why doesn't he do it with you?" "He only talks with you when I'm busy.." This bad seed thinks if a guy visits her video once, she owns him. She tries to get all the other girls in her studio mad at you.
RE: dear
attention cc shoppers I heard dark mystery (DM) is behind this too, working with the host also, why do you think DM hangs out in here all the time, DM use to be a host, well didnt mean to spoil all of you, but as a host I will tried to do better.
dear "SoleilVif "
This is a job to them and they are playing a role. Do you consider actors on a TV screen to be liars because they are not really police or doctors or spies?
Last day of my holiday :(
Back to work on Monday my holidays all over. I hate going back to the first day of work after new year :(
Why can't I have a job where I can strip naked and masturbate all day :( I do it anyway so getting paid as well would be good.
Oh well still the weekend to go :D
Why can't I have a job where I can strip naked and masturbate all day :( I do it anyway so getting paid as well would be good.
Oh well still the weekend to go :D
RE: Last day of my holiday :(
Thanks Psy :)
I hope you had a lovely evening in the restaurant on hogmanay.
I hope you had a lovely evening in the restaurant on hogmanay.
RE: Video Playback???
Ask 100 members, you might get 100 answers. Go with what you enjoy or do best. I like it if I am attracted to the host. What I like to see her doing might be different from one day to the next. I think many of us are here because we like to experience different things.
RE: Video Playback???
Monday - Cookery Lesson
Tuesday - Ironing Lesson
Wednesday - Knitting Lesson
etc etc
Tuesday - Ironing Lesson
Wednesday - Knitting Lesson
etc etc
RE: Video Playback???
I agree. If you want to a video that attracts new viewers price it as low as possible. Then members can check you out and wait for you to come online in person. Few people will pay a lot for a pre-recorded video.
RE: Video Playback???
Different people may have different ideas but for what they are worth here are mine. Change what you do or at least the camera angle fairly often. At least once a minute. It can actually get boring watching anaked girl just stroking her pussy. Don't spend too long "teasing" before stripping. I am not going to spend a long imwatching a girl fully clothed oeringif she i actuly going to do anyhig sexy. The best recorded vid sessions I have seen were edited from longer sessions. This allows you to contol the pace. There is a simple editing program Movie Maker with Windows which should be sufficient. I am not expecting professional level editing :-).
RE: Video Playback???
Hi Sexy - I should add that I have never actually seen any of your recorded vid sessions. My comments were general ones.
A fly in the ointment
oh, oh, oh, one more for you newlyweds--- (hurry back you two)
The wedding date was set and the groom's three pals-a carpenter, an electrician and a dentist were deciding what pranks to play on the couple on their wedding night.
The carpenter figured sawing the slats of their bed would give then a chuckle or two. The electrician decided to wire the bed--with an alternating current, of course. The dentist wouldn't commit himself, but wore a sly grin and promised a real doosie.
The nuptials went as planned and a few days later, each of the grooms buddies recieved the following note:
DEAR FRIENDS, WE DIDN'T MIND THE BED SLATS BEING SAWED. THE ELECTRIC SHOCK WAS ONLY A MINOR SETBACK. BUT GOD, I'M GOING TO KILL THE GUY WHO PUT NOVOCAINE IN THE BASELINE!
The wedding date was set and the groom's three pals-a carpenter, an electrician and a dentist were deciding what pranks to play on the couple on their wedding night.
The carpenter figured sawing the slats of their bed would give then a chuckle or two. The electrician decided to wire the bed--with an alternating current, of course. The dentist wouldn't commit himself, but wore a sly grin and promised a real doosie.
The nuptials went as planned and a few days later, each of the grooms buddies recieved the following note:
DEAR FRIENDS, WE DIDN'T MIND THE BED SLATS BEING SAWED. THE ELECTRIC SHOCK WAS ONLY A MINOR SETBACK. BUT GOD, I'M GOING TO KILL THE GUY WHO PUT NOVOCAINE IN THE BASELINE!
RE: A fly in the ointment-burn rubber
Hey Chase, here is one you and your friends will like:
a knockout young lady decided she wanted to get rich quick, so she proceeded to find herself a rich 73 year old man, planning to screw him to death on their wedding night. The courtship and wedding went off without any problem, in spite of the half-century age difference. On the first night of her honeymoon, she got dressed, and waited for him to come out of the bathroom to come to bed. When he emerged, however, he had nothing on except a rubber to cover a 12 inch erection, and was carrying a pair of earplugs and noseplugs. Fearing her pain had gone amiss, she asked, what are those for. The elderly gentleman replied, there are just two things I can't stand, the sound of a woman screaming and the smell of burning rubber.
a knockout young lady decided she wanted to get rich quick, so she proceeded to find herself a rich 73 year old man, planning to screw him to death on their wedding night. The courtship and wedding went off without any problem, in spite of the half-century age difference. On the first night of her honeymoon, she got dressed, and waited for him to come out of the bathroom to come to bed. When he emerged, however, he had nothing on except a rubber to cover a 12 inch erection, and was carrying a pair of earplugs and noseplugs. Fearing her pain had gone amiss, she asked, what are those for. The elderly gentleman replied, there are just two things I can't stand, the sound of a woman screaming and the smell of burning rubber.
what is a democrat????
must be a better way ---
At first I thought this was funny...then I realized the awful truth - that the Democrats are in power again.
Hang on to your a__ !
Tax his land,
Tax his bed,
Tax the table
At which he's fed.
Tax his tractor,
Tax his mule,
Teach him taxes
Are the rule.
Tax his cow,
Tax his goat,
Tax his pants,
Tax his coat.
Tax his ties,
Tax his shirt,
Tax his work,
Tax his dirt.
Tax his tobacco,
Tax his drink,
Tax him if he
Tries to think.
Tax his cigars,
Tax his beers,
If he cries, then
Tax his tears.
Tax his car,
Tax his gas,
Find other ways
To tax his ass
Tax all he has
Then let him know
That you won't be done
Till he has no dough.
When he screams and hollers,
Then tax him some more,
Tax him till
He's good and sore.
Then tax his coffin,
Tax his grave,
Tax the sod in
Which he's laid.
Put these words
upon his tomb,
"Taxes drove me
to my doom..."
When he's gone,
Do not relax,
Its time to apply
The inheritance tax.
Accounts Receivable Tax
Building Permit Tax
CDL license Tax
Cigarette Tax
Corporate Income Tax
Dog License Tax
Federal Income Tax
Federal Unemployment Tax (FUTA)
Fishing License Tax
Food License Tax,
Fuel per mit tax
Gasoline Tax (42 cents per gallon)
Hunting License Tax
Inheritance Tax
Interest expense
Inventory tax
IRS Interest Charges IRS Penalties (tax on top of tax)
Liquor Tax
Luxury Taxes
Marriage License Tax
Medicare Tax
Property Tax
Real Estate Tax
Service charge taxes
Social Security Tax
Road usage taxes
Sales Tax
Recreational Vehicle Tax
School Tax
State Income Tax
State Unemployment Tax (SUTA)
Telephone federal excise tax
Telephone federal universal service fee tax
Telephone federal, state and local surcharge taxes
Telephone minimum usage surcharge tax
Telephone recurring and non-recurring charges tax
Telephone state and local tax
Telephone usage charge tax
Utility Taxes
Vehicle License Registration Tax
Vehicle Sales Tax
Watercraft registration Tax
Well Permit Tax
Workers Compensation Tax
COMMENTS: Not one of these taxes existed 100 years ago, and our nation was the most prosperous in the world. We had absolutely no national debt, had the largest middle class in the world, and Mom stayed home to raise the kids.
What happened?
And I still have to "press 1" for English
At first I thought this was funny...then I realized the awful truth - that the Democrats are in power again.
Hang on to your a__ !
Tax his land,
Tax his bed,
Tax the table
At which he's fed.
Tax his tractor,
Tax his mule,
Teach him taxes
Are the rule.
Tax his cow,
Tax his goat,
Tax his pants,
Tax his coat.
Tax his ties,
Tax his shirt,
Tax his work,
Tax his dirt.
Tax his tobacco,
Tax his drink,
Tax him if he
Tries to think.
Tax his cigars,
Tax his beers,
If he cries, then
Tax his tears.
Tax his car,
Tax his gas,
Find other ways
To tax his ass
Tax all he has
Then let him know
That you won't be done
Till he has no dough.
When he screams and hollers,
Then tax him some more,
Tax him till
He's good and sore.
Then tax his coffin,
Tax his grave,
Tax the sod in
Which he's laid.
Put these words
upon his tomb,
"Taxes drove me
to my doom..."
When he's gone,
Do not relax,
Its time to apply
The inheritance tax.
Accounts Receivable Tax
Building Permit Tax
CDL license Tax
Cigarette Tax
Corporate Income Tax
Dog License Tax
Federal Income Tax
Federal Unemployment Tax (FUTA)
Fishing License Tax
Food License Tax,
Fuel per mit tax
Gasoline Tax (42 cents per gallon)
Hunting License Tax
Inheritance Tax
Interest expense
Inventory tax
IRS Interest Charges IRS Penalties (tax on top of tax)
Liquor Tax
Luxury Taxes
Marriage License Tax
Medicare Tax
Property Tax
Real Estate Tax
Service charge taxes
Social Security Tax
Road usage taxes
Sales Tax
Recreational Vehicle Tax
School Tax
State Income Tax
State Unemployment Tax (SUTA)
Telephone federal excise tax
Telephone federal universal service fee tax
Telephone federal, state and local surcharge taxes
Telephone minimum usage surcharge tax
Telephone recurring and non-recurring charges tax
Telephone state and local tax
Telephone usage charge tax
Utility Taxes
Vehicle License Registration Tax
Vehicle Sales Tax
Watercraft registration Tax
Well Permit Tax
Workers Compensation Tax
COMMENTS: Not one of these taxes existed 100 years ago, and our nation was the most prosperous in the world. We had absolutely no national debt, had the largest middle class in the world, and Mom stayed home to raise the kids.
What happened?
And I still have to "press 1" for English
RE: what is a democrat????
Cute.
Remember when Republicans used to hold dear real, actual conservative values?
Remember when they used to believe that a huge, beureaucratic government was practically a sin?
Remember when they believed in fiscal responsibility? Remeber when they used to believe that government shouldn't intrude into people's personal lives? Remember when they used to champion liberty and personal freedom?
And remeber a time when military interventionism actually was NOT a conservative value?
Democrats and Republicans, there ain't nothing but a piddling difference between 'em... Screw 'em both, from now on I'm voting Libertarian.
Remember when Republicans used to hold dear real, actual conservative values?
Remember when they used to believe that a huge, beureaucratic government was practically a sin?
Remember when they believed in fiscal responsibility? Remeber when they used to believe that government shouldn't intrude into people's personal lives? Remember when they used to champion liberty and personal freedom?
And remeber a time when military interventionism actually was NOT a conservative value?
Democrats and Republicans, there ain't nothing but a piddling difference between 'em... Screw 'em both, from now on I'm voting Libertarian.
RE: what is a democrat????
42 cents per Gallon Gasoline Tax :(
If I have done my calculations correctly I think it is slightly over $5 in the UK by the time you add the VAT onto the Duty Tax (We are even taxed on the tax we pay lol)
If I have done my calculations correctly I think it is slightly over $5 in the UK by the time you add the VAT onto the Duty Tax (We are even taxed on the tax we pay lol)
RE: what is a democrat????
I sure hope none of the legislators read this, and get the idea of taxing the taxes.
RE: what is a democrat????
Without these taxes, the government would have no money to waste..... I mean spend.
RE: what is a democrat????
Interesting, I commented on this post and made a very non bias comment, yet it was never posted. thanks for the censorship CC!!
RE: what is a democrat????
Seriously, if you're a Republican/Bush fanboy, how do you come to grips with the amount of spending that has gone on under the previous Congress? The war is costing how many billins of dollars per month? Where ther hell do you people think the money is coming from? Thin air?
RE: what is a democrat????
I believe you are addressing the neo-conservative crowd in here and not me. I actually posted 2 other posts to this thread, and they were not included. I know about censorship, but I'm afraid to add anything else to this comment for fear again, that it won't get posted; if you know what I mean. I'm saddened about all of this, but CC is in control of this forum, not us, so? :(((
RE: what is a democrat????
ise be votin for 76 Guy, Freedom Cowboy, and Liberty Flag.....yu see, I do believe in the "my way or the highway"..........go getum troopers!
Ye Haaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!!
Ye Haaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!!
Newlyweds
(Joke dedicated to the new newlyweds-good luck-love from chase)
On their first night to be together, the newlywed couple go to change. The new bride comes out of the bathroom, all showered and wearing her beautiful robe. The proud husband says, "My dear, we are married now, you can open your robe".
The beautiful young woman opens her robe, and he is astonished. "Oh,oh, aaaaaahhh," he exclaims, "My God you are so beautiful, let me take your picture."
Puzzled she asks, "My picture?"
He answers, "Yes my dear, so I can carry your beauty next to my heart forever.' She smiles and he takes her picture, and then he heads into the bathroom to shower.
He comes out wearing his robe and the new wife asks, "Why do you wear a robe?". We are married now.
At that the man opens his robe and she exclaims, "OH, OH, OH, MY, let me get a picture.
He beams and asks, "Why?"
She answers, "SO I CAN GET IT ENLARGED!"
On their first night to be together, the newlywed couple go to change. The new bride comes out of the bathroom, all showered and wearing her beautiful robe. The proud husband says, "My dear, we are married now, you can open your robe".
The beautiful young woman opens her robe, and he is astonished. "Oh,oh, aaaaaahhh," he exclaims, "My God you are so beautiful, let me take your picture."
Puzzled she asks, "My picture?"
He answers, "Yes my dear, so I can carry your beauty next to my heart forever.' She smiles and he takes her picture, and then he heads into the bathroom to shower.
He comes out wearing his robe and the new wife asks, "Why do you wear a robe?". We are married now.
At that the man opens his robe and she exclaims, "OH, OH, OH, MY, let me get a picture.
He beams and asks, "Why?"
She answers, "SO I CAN GET IT ENLARGED!"
when the girls says...
she loves you and want you even if you are old and not so pretty and she says that after only a few textchats and a couple short videos how can you believe her?
RE: when the girls says...
well if you think you are the luckiest man alive... then it is easy to believe :P
RE: when the girls says...
The secret of CC is that there is a personal connection. If you wanted to just see video you could download porn. If you just wanted to talk dirty to someone you could dial up one of those 900 numbers. This combines...video, text chat and in some cases phone. A good host also knows her bread and butter is regular customers who come to visit her often. She is a saleswoman and she is building brand loyalty. It is all a lie but who cares? If she is making you happy with the fantasy then go with it. Do not take it seriously and do not send money. And remember. She is spending the money you pay her for video on her bf or husband. Believe that.
The Blind Man:-))
A blind man wanders into an all girls biker bar by mistake. He finds his
way to a bar stool and orders some coffee. After sitting there for a while
he yells to the waiter, "Hey, you wanna hear a blonde joke?"
The bar immediately falls absolutely silent. In a very deep, husky voice,
the woman next to him says, "Before you tell that joke, sir, I think it is
only fair-given that you are blind-that you should know five things:
1. The bartender is a blonde girl with a baseball bat.
2. The bouncer is a blonde girl.
3. I'm a 6' tall, 175 lb. blonde woman with a black belt in karate.
4. The woman sitting next to me is blonde and a professional weightlifter.
5. The lady to your right is blonde and a professional wrestler.
Now, think about it seriously, Mister. Do you still wanna tell that joke?"
The blind man thinks for a second, shakes his head, and mutters, "No, not if I'm gonna have to explain it five times .
way to a bar stool and orders some coffee. After sitting there for a while
he yells to the waiter, "Hey, you wanna hear a blonde joke?"
The bar immediately falls absolutely silent. In a very deep, husky voice,
the woman next to him says, "Before you tell that joke, sir, I think it is
only fair-given that you are blind-that you should know five things:
1. The bartender is a blonde girl with a baseball bat.
2. The bouncer is a blonde girl.
3. I'm a 6' tall, 175 lb. blonde woman with a black belt in karate.
4. The woman sitting next to me is blonde and a professional weightlifter.
5. The lady to your right is blonde and a professional wrestler.
Now, think about it seriously, Mister. Do you still wanna tell that joke?"
The blind man thinks for a second, shakes his head, and mutters, "No, not if I'm gonna have to explain it five times .
RE: iluvuangelx Free Private
I think he deserves a free session because he has a cute name and you have to admire any man that tries to get a free wank :)
RE: iluvuangelx Free Private
lol Oh well I tried :P
Sorry Binksy my boy it's paid video for your wanks still :D
Sorry Binksy my boy it's paid video for your wanks still :D
P***k Teaser
Any one wasted money on LilSexyAngel? Looks average, charges a lot, and, when it comes to stalling, man she is the Queen of Stall - Undisputed. 5 minutes and the shoulder straps came down. Chat waste time. I was gone.
I Disagree
I had no such problems with Margo. I found her to be nice, fun AND accommodating.
I suggest you look at the way you interact with the hosts here. Being rude or barking orders at them will rarely get you anywhere.
I suggest you look at the way you interact with the hosts here. Being rude or barking orders at them will rarely get you anywhere.
RE: The Ashes , For all the English Gents..
In yer dreams. It's gonna rain solid for the next ten days. :D
RE: The Ashes , For all the English Gents..
what's bitting your Ass?... YOU DON'T HAVE TO READ EM..
RE: The Ashes , For all the English Gents..
Australia inflicts Ashes whitewash
Australia inflicted only the second 5-0 whitewash in an Ashes series after beating England by 10 wickets in the fifth Test at the SCG.
Australia joined Warwick Armstrong's Australian side of 1920-21 as the only Ashes teams to have made a clean sweep of the old enemy in a five-match series.
THE FULL STORY: http://au.news.yahoo.com/061008/2/10u62.html
Australia inflicted only the second 5-0 whitewash in an Ashes series after beating England by 10 wickets in the fifth Test at the SCG.
Australia joined Warwick Armstrong's Australian side of 1920-21 as the only Ashes teams to have made a clean sweep of the old enemy in a five-match series.
THE FULL STORY: http://au.news.yahoo.com/061008/2/10u62.html
RE: The Ashes , For all the English Gents..
an ill conceived tour, only 2 3 day games and a one dayer before the first test means no chance to get used to the pitches and no other games during the test series to get any more practice. Then again we didn't help ourselves with the choices made about captain and out of form/unfit bowlers ;o). Good luck to the aussies they played the better cricket when needed and in clarke have a successor to mcgrath :o( though warne will be harder to replace and maybe ponting & gilchrist too...
Sex Tourism
Having read many posts about viewers visiting hosts it got me thinking about the motives and morals involved.
The Viewer - motive is obviously sex with a beautiful young girl which he couldn't possibly achieve in his own country because he is too old or/and too ugly.
The Host - motive definitely not sex as she probably already has a bf and is so attractive she has no problems in this area. So it has to be money or/and a gateway to a better life in the west.
Therefore the viewer must be dangling the carrot of a serious relationship and a better standard of living whilst the host dangles her boobs and pretends to true feelings.
So what is worse? The lust filled viewer who will promise almost anything in order to get his leg over or the greedy host willing to pretend anything in order to obtain these promises?
The Viewer - motive is obviously sex with a beautiful young girl which he couldn't possibly achieve in his own country because he is too old or/and too ugly.
The Host - motive definitely not sex as she probably already has a bf and is so attractive she has no problems in this area. So it has to be money or/and a gateway to a better life in the west.
Therefore the viewer must be dangling the carrot of a serious relationship and a better standard of living whilst the host dangles her boobs and pretends to true feelings.
So what is worse? The lust filled viewer who will promise almost anything in order to get his leg over or the greedy host willing to pretend anything in order to obtain these promises?
RE: Sex Tourism
The worst is to think that all viewers meet hosts for sex and all hosts meet viewers for money!
RE: Sex Tourism
Hey, its a give me, give me world. Nothing is for free. There isn't such a thing as Free Lunch anymore. If you happen to be greedy and not willing to give, then you'll be left alone! I really find it more expensive to have a g/f in my country than traveling to russia every 4 months for a good time with a different host every time. I have visited and had fun with about 16 hosts so far and some had already left c.c. and got married and they are still my friends. We still have hot, hot, hot phone talks and wish to meet again, but I don't meet married women... Well, at least not conciously knowing it, LOL. Regular relationships over time become expensive, tedious, and boring and women will always end up cheating. Most of the girls I had visited for fun (sex included... most of the times) are great and have not asked me for money even when we stayed at the hotel together as couple. I help them with some money, but they never ask for it. Most of them sometimes don't accept cash as they say it makes them feel as prostitutes, but I make them see that it is my way to help. I have fun, it costs me money, but what else would money do sitting in my wallet and I alone? I better enjoy the benefits it brings ;-) Perhaps I could do it without the money, but its my way to compesate them. Let's say I leave them a gift they can later choose ;-)
RE: Sex Tourism
i have no clue... do not even know where the question came from... so i just googled it for them and posted the first thing that came up :P
RE: Sex Tourism
Hey, I am not the only member or man that meet girls. Look on the posts before and you'll see several members visit girls all the the time. There are several others men and members and there is lots of girls that tell you that they never meet anyone, but its up to you to win their trust. Some still meet and they lie, especially to their online boyfriends, LOL>
RE: Sex Tourism
Do you really think the hosts he's met were all lovesick, naive, manipulated little angels?
Get real.
So he got together with some women here just to have some fun, what's wrong with that?
Get real.
So he got together with some women here just to have some fun, what's wrong with that?
RE: Sex Tourism
Why make promises? Do you go to a bar and promise every chick you see marriage, a diamond ring, a million dollar life insurance, and a car? LOL! No, its just fun, charm, and lots of sweet talks. I never promise a girl that I want to live with her for the rest of my life and have 120 kids! Believe me, some get scared with the responsibility of marriage. Most of these girls are in their early 20's and dont want to get married yet. I just video chat with them for good time and try to be funny and never even ask them to show in video what I will later see in person. I like most, but Im not a jealous person. I leave if they are busy chatting to someone else and I don't stay in free chat for hours if I can to free chat. I call them on the phone, send them nice birthday gifts, nice letters and nice greeting cards, sometimes flowers without waiting a special reason. Just show them what a man can do for them and don't just offer them marriage!!! LOL. I guess some expect that, but I tell them before I meet them that I am not ready for marriage yet. I didn't say I fucked all 16 girls I visited. I say most, but not all. Besides, none of the girls I visited and had sex with was a virgin. Its just fun. Its easy as that.
RE: Sex Tourism
2 years ago I traveled to Romania to meet whom I thought to be the love of my life. In 15 days we visited many places and promised love to each other. We later made plans in chats to get married and live together for the rest of our lives. 2 months later, I went back without telling her, as a surprise, but I was the surprised one! She had a man in her flat... a romanian lover. The man was very angry, jealous, and puzzled. She was all spook up in horror. She spoke great deal of english and spanish, but that day she couldn't speak a word in either language. Finally the man asked me to enter and seat down. He was a great guy and spoke some spanish (I speak spanish). He told me he has been living with this girl for 3 years. He works in ships so he goes away for months. He apparently didnt know what his girl do. Finally, I went back to the hotel and met someone else there. 6 months later this girl married someone in Netherlands and looked for me in yahoo to tell me how much she loves me and wanted to meet me again in Netherlands since her husband also traveled much. She even made a vid show for me for free. I wouldn't trust a host. They always keep in touch with most members and sooner or later cheat.
RE: Sex Tourism
But do we believe him? 16 hosts bedded for a simple monetary transaction and no promises of visas, cars, houses, or marriage? Sounds too easy to me.
RE: Sex Tourism
of course it is... dont forget a lot of these same people bragging about such things are also the ones who say this is all a fantasy land... so could be the online fantasy land just creaped into his real world and he cant tell day dreams from reality anymore :P
RE: Sex Tourism
Why would a 19 or 20 year old girl would want to marry and move to a foreign country where she doesn't know anyone? Do you think she will abandon her friends, her family, memories? Do you think she will jump from her seat and say: OH YES!!!!??? You are the one dreaming that these girls are seating on the edge of their seats waiting for a 40 year old loser to say: Would you marry me baby? I have a house with a stove to cook for me and a dog you'll need to take out for me. Oh come on. Thats pathetic!!! The girls love to meet new nice people, important people that travel around the world for businesses. They want to go to the club and dance until the next morning. They want to drink, dance, get high, and have sex with someone they like. Geez!!! You all have the idea these girls are thirst of sex and hungry for marriage. They are not in an isolated island where only women exist! There are men, young men, studs, not viagra middle age crisis half bald losers! I am just having fun while I can. Thats all, I don't promise a kingdom. I just tell them I like to visit them after a friendly relation has been establish. Later on with drinks and dancing anything happens. Just like it would happen on a normal date. They aren't angels! Geez!
RE: Sex Tourism
I do get much of what you're saying Mr. Important Businessman but why would a beautiful 19 year old girl just want sex for fun with a middle aged guy? It's so obviously for financial gain of some kind. Beautiful young girls in your own country are just not interested in guys like you, in fact they think you're a pervert probably. They just don't have the same money needs.
RE: Sex Tourism
I am not middle aged, not even near 45 and I don't have a problem finding girls in my own town. I said I don't want anything serious and I dont want a woman around me at all times. A woman sophocates me. I was married already and hated it every minute. Also lived with a woman in free union and same old. I hate being on a chain. I was free and on my own since 16. Come on! Men are suppose to be the hunters, not the hunted! Besides, I like the sensation and challenge of seduction without stupid promises. I don't ridiculize myself by saying illusive exaggerations ;-)
RE: Sex Tourism
I think I'm starting to dig you, man.
You're not a supplicating, ingratiating, weasel - not a jaded, cynical bastard out to nail chicks to prove something. You just seem comfortable in your own skin and out to seize your opportunities to have some fun. That's cool.
Seriously though, if i find out that you've had your way with my Russian girlfriend here, I'm coming after you. :P
You're not a supplicating, ingratiating, weasel - not a jaded, cynical bastard out to nail chicks to prove something. You just seem comfortable in your own skin and out to seize your opportunities to have some fun. That's cool.
Seriously though, if i find out that you've had your way with my Russian girlfriend here, I'm coming after you. :P
RE: Sex Tourism
Yeah...like, what the hell does this guy work at? Who has that kind of time and money for a trip to Russia every few months? Retired old guy, perhaps?
RE: Sex Tourism
Not retired. Not old, not young. Work for a multinational franchise... The rest would be too personal to reveal, but thanks for your interest.
RE: Sex Tourism
I understand all what you said and your motives but you didn't adequately explain the girls' motives. I don't believe for one second that a young beautiful Russian girl would meet and have sex with a guy from this site unless she believed she had something more to gain than a fun time in a hotel room.
What i do believe is that you and other guys here are peddling false promises in order to obtain what you can't get at home which is sex with a young beauty. To me that is unforgiveable and hosts should be wary.
What i do believe is that you and other guys here are peddling false promises in order to obtain what you can't get at home which is sex with a young beauty. To me that is unforgiveable and hosts should be wary.
RE: Sex Tourism
i am sure there are some out there who are just looking for a good time... BUT i do agree with Sebastian on the majority of encounters... false promises. if someone is sending little gifts, making calls, and all of that before hand... to most i think that it shows more interest then just a quicky
RE: Sex Tourism
I've consulted me wee lepricauns on this one and knock me down with a pint of guiness if the idea of cheap flights fro' Stansted to Rostov isn't the holiest of ideas.........any little ting to support a bit o honest trade.....
dear "Sebastian"
For some it is a mere diversion with an exotic partner. Yes Western guys are exotic to Eastern girls. If she does it for what she can glob out of his pockets, then she is using him, he is not using her.
phone - question
Hi - happy new year,
Just a question for you lovely girls on CC.
Some of you offer "phone" as an option. Do any of you use internet phone, skype, yahoo or other ?
Just a question for you lovely girls on CC.
Some of you offer "phone" as an option. Do any of you use internet phone, skype, yahoo or other ?
RE: phone - question
Do you have nothing better to do than to count the amount of my viewers?
And yes I'd rather have 1 good video with 1 good viewer than to have several chats in several places when I'm on video.
And yes I'd rather have 1 good video with 1 good viewer than to have several chats in several places when I'm on video.
Just a hi
just a hi,
had a few mails asking so..
i am away visiting australia,, and enjoying the winter sunshine, best wishes to all who know me .. and happy 2007.
Matt,
i am on IM if i find time or see a cafe ,,nearly 5th jan here ,, hehe. have fun ..
had a few mails asking so..
i am away visiting australia,, and enjoying the winter sunshine, best wishes to all who know me .. and happy 2007.
Matt,
i am on IM if i find time or see a cafe ,,nearly 5th jan here ,, hehe. have fun ..
At the card shop.....
A woman was spending a long time looking at the cards, finally shaking her head, "No." A clerk came over and asked, "May I help you?" "I don't know," said the woman. "Do you have any 'Sorry I laughed at your dick' cards?"
RE: At the card shop.....
lol I assume the answer is no they don't sell them either that or the girls I knew weren't as considerate as she was :(
RE: At the card shop.....
Hey you just want to get the apology out of the way first so that you can laugh without feeling guilty :P
RE: At the card shop.....
Okay you had better be really considerate and send two as mine will make you laugh twice as hard as it is twice as small :D
RE: At the card shop.....
you do have some good cards there Nadeen... not sure if I would want this card... but can imagine it is as cute as the others :)
Wedding Song
Her eyes where blue, her hair was auburn
Her smile was like an angel fair
She was her daddy's only daughter
On the tennessee border
One night i took a ride just across the line
I picked her up in a pickup truck
And she broke this heart of mine
Her mamma said, "no-o she's my only daughter
But we got married on the tennessee border
The roses were bloomin there on the border
The moon was shinin there
Her personality made me want her
On the tennessee border
---this song is dedicated to a person who is a friend of mine on here and just got married and I wish them all the best and luck throughout their journey they are about to explore and may the duration of time continues throughout their life.-Love you and Peace Be With You
Her smile was like an angel fair
She was her daddy's only daughter
On the tennessee border
One night i took a ride just across the line
I picked her up in a pickup truck
And she broke this heart of mine
Her mamma said, "no-o she's my only daughter
But we got married on the tennessee border
The roses were bloomin there on the border
The moon was shinin there
Her personality made me want her
On the tennessee border
---this song is dedicated to a person who is a friend of mine on here and just got married and I wish them all the best and luck throughout their journey they are about to explore and may the duration of time continues throughout their life.-Love you and Peace Be With You