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pathetic

I know that I am pathetic. But at least I am only hurting myself and know that I have a problem. Given that a large percentage of guys here are married or in "committed" relationships, I am not so bad, but I do need to force myself to make some changes.

Dunno if that is justified - if he pathetic, then aren't we all who pay for a woman's attention and just to look but not touch?

Just wondering if a man could get $5 a min. to get women to vid him. Must ask imnotsoshy.

P.S. member, good luck with good intentions. :-)

no nick never had anyone pay me $5 to vid me...most was $1.80...and in my opinion she paid WAY to much LoL

...And might I point out that the very fact that you are coming to a site like this at all makes it very arguable that you are at least a little pathetic in some ways as well?

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Hi ... Meet me & share a hug ... Okay?

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honest post...followed by various sanctimonious responses (stay tuned) for more.

and followed by your usual attempt to be superior and failing. :P

you make better sense when ur drunk ;)

awww hmm - you know I like you but I worry about you - listen, don't take this place so seriously - all posts hang around for a day or so then disappear off the bottom of the screen. Mercifully forgotten forever.

But you're right, so I'm back on the scotch. Hope to see you in commchat later - a host you and I both adore told me who you are. :P

could he disappear to the bottom of the ocean instead

You two... get a room!

lol, ok we will - wanna join us?

Depends... are you shaved? lol

how 'bout some initials ?

problem is...i've never been to com chat...and have no idea the host u'r referring to...if u share host initials...if match someone I know I'll say so...I highly doubt anyone knows me here.

then she must be telling porkies - lighten up my friend, it doesn't really matter. does it?

wouldn't surprise me in the least :)

cold turkey is the only way or its like trying to give up smoking by reducing the number of cigs you smoke daily.

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The only effective way to stop is total withdrawal.

Your relapses if you try to do this in a gradual way will not really work here............................but live and learn

Dowload NetNanny. Set it up with a password you will never remember. You won't be able to access Porn Sites. CC is on the no no list for NetNanny. Then enjoy life.

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i posit that most don't want you to hear they can't speak your language...don't want you to hear the various humorous/musical/office-like goings on at the studio...and lastly its more intimate and this biz is not about intimacy.

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commit and pay to a fiexed time in video ad am sure tha your desires for sound etc may be followed - remember they spend a lot more time to get a livelihoodthan many members are prepared to commt to - spend the ime to know hosts and is amazing what you get

For the 1st time this week, after more than 2 years here, I've been able to talk to my favs through the mic on my webcam. Took some time because I had to adjust settings of the cam. Now is great, they hear me and I hear them very clearly.

LuvDirty maybe a tech prob for you. How about asking for help in Technical Forum - especially of member 'A Little Technical Knowledge' ? That guy helped me a number times to enjoy CC more.

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i dislike all that phonie moanie bs...usa porm is full of it...bet ur studio mates get tired of it...unless of course u work at home then ur neighbors get to put up with it...lol

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watch out for sound, if you have your speakers up too high wifey is going to ask who is the girl you talking to,

Agreed

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Bekki !

only me

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It always cracks a smile :D

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as unwise as it may be to single out one woman among many ....if you mean the kind of photogenic beauty that you see on the covers of fashion magazines...id vote MonicaBabe....with Chicoryblue a close second.i do not know either one personally but i have seen their archives.it looks like the beauty we all have chosen as "it"...that is not meant in any way to be a slight against either one of those beautiful women.i state it as fact(or maybe better,the fact as i see it)...though i personally have my favorites...the ones i call beautiful to me because beauty really is a subjective thing.in the eye of the beholder....cliches' become cliches' for a reason...lol

i vote for Anna (AboveX) most beautiful girl around here

Seems to be a fact charlie that the camera just loves some faces and is unkind to others but maybe mostly in static shots. Once a woman is animated, you can get an entirely different persective on her beauty or lack of it, don't you think?

Same can happen in reverse. A plain man can enchant a woman with his warmth and humour. Dr Johnson, he of the English dictionary fame, was said to be the ugliest man in London but the most successful with women.

i absolutely agree....and the best example of it for me is this....every woman i ever went to meet looked much different from what i had percieved....it never failed...they always "looked" different....i dont mean to get all "hippy" on ya....but....when you stand face to face with someone....there is certainly a different dynamic....an energy of sorts....what we used to call "aura"....and yes i would agree...the way she moves ...can make her beautiful.something in the way she moves,,,lol

Absolutely right charlie - I met a host 2 years ago and, at the airport, I didn't recognise but she did me. It took me some time in her company to get to know her as a different person to the one that I thought I knew in CC. Incidentally, it worked out well, we still talk all the time and I've have seen her since. Reality though charlie, she is now more like my child, my choice after seeing shop window reflections of beautiful young woman with her 'grandfather'.

i have seen that reflection also....no joke....and wondered to myself..."what in the hell are you doing grandpa charlie"

EWWWW!

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oh com`on! you`re just jealous! i think 98% from girls here would love to look like her, including you!

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i guess you have to read again my post to understand what i wanted to say and who im talking about.

first ....this is to ewwwwww.....explaining humor can be a real drag...but this warrants explanation....im not a grandpa...not yet anyway(whats taking um so long?.....hell if i know)i was using humor to drive a point home....as for the poster named "sure"...well......if the intent of your comment was cruelty....id recommend you start chipping away at that mountain of bitterness inside of you....immediately...dont ever feel that you have to tear others down to build yourself up.your comment was without tact.....and without class

chicks with duffel bags under their eyes and old dudes getting boners for chicks young enough to be their granddaughters are all hella groady.

Chicoryblue is a real model as many here are but I would say she is right up there with the best and has a very natural look too

natural makeup.

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Why not give your consideration>

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My own vote goes to Annabunny

Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.

agree on that . she's my favorite chick

I'm sure sh'es very nice but care to expand on that dave?

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I cant tell. you got my country blocked so i cant see you.

if it is yours,i can't tell cuz you have me blocked from seeing your profile.LOL

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xextasyx is the most beautiful host here

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if only i could join urbrunette and xextastx in a threesome :))

It happens that the admiration is reciprocal :) i like Evi - UrBrunette too.About the threesome...ummm...i don't know who you are so i cannot tell...but about Evi and me...anytime :D.Or maybe a 3some Monikababe, UrBrunette and me...anytime, anywhere, anyhow :D.

Cheater:(

Evi is a very sexy lady , lets get it on :P

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at the end of the day...what's a pretty face anyway? most have the unapproachable 'ice-queen' attitude and personality to go with it, are not that interesting, could care less about you unless of course you can do smthg for them, could care less about the world at large, love to talk about themselves...way way too narcissistic for my tastes. however, if you're a bit like that yourself then maybe its a union made in heaven. Otherwise, for me its better to seek someone not considered 'model' material and is grounded in reality, has smthg to say might think and act outside the box. Why waste your time parading around some pop-culture bimbo...to support your male vanity ?!

Wanda, I like this one. It made me smile too.

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was actually an australian sporting captain who was given that as his nickname.he is still called nobody.

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life is life and full of surprises and if you smile you become somebody and nobody will know------wanda this is a quote taken from the quote of nobody

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Sure Wanda, I have plenty: A somebody was once a nobody who wanted to and did.

i like this quote......."you're nobody until somebody loves you"

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oh english - be honest without lying

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most women here are bi-its the new generation thing

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i have only one girl that keeps me coming back so i wish she would leave.

i could stop being a heroin addict if only the shit would just disappear(and yes,this is only satire)

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if i could kiss anyone right on the mouth at this very moment in time....i would pick "hotsexbitch"..wow!....i even love the name...i gotta change mine to something more appropriate....."hotsexbastard"...whatta ya think?

bring me back a souvinour

tell me if a week is long enough to get over this cc addiction around here--I don't think a week will do it, maybe austin you need to make it a month

i say away for a year once--and now im back--tell me why am I

watch out Brasov---> it will never be the same, hide your girlfriends and wives, the ice man is coming

have a great time and give her a hug and kiss from me and who knows your addiction made be cure

your not the only one here that has a addiction to cc---just look at the number of people here

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have fun my love and come back soon we need more addiction's around here and make sure you visit you know who when you get there-kiss

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he hopes breasts will be used against him

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Then she said "anything you say will be taken down" so he said "Panties"

so you been there? tell us more details please :D

Hey, Nadeen ....you aready know everything about me. Can't give everyone our secret information can we

Hmmm, I often threaten men like that :))))

Hosts do not threaten me like that ... lol

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I love surprises :p

:p

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two can be as lonely as one.it's the lonliest number since the number one

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Several Hosts on here I would give "one". Not so lonely then :)

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To me... it can not be 100% because I am one who has visited non adult to just chat. This is not the only area I go to, but when I do go ...I do it with the intention to just chat. ...I do wish some of the hosts there were in adult category and I may tell them that, but not always

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Since many of the nonadult girls also have IDs in Glamour or are willing to log on and log off and switch to an adult category I do looking for what I always look for. A hot girl. I know a few true non-adult hosts well and you would not believe what they see. I think some members get a kick out of abusing themselves in front of girls who are nonadult. Kind of like virtual flashing without the trial and the stay in prison.

yes the kind that wear rain coats and open them to try to shock girls.

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trying to shock.

its about doing something you've been told not to do....but you do it anyway....therein lies the thrill

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good grief man you need a real life not virtutal

you are so depressing - never anything to contribute here, just an asshole trying to be superior in a way you never are in real life

well said Nick x

The problem is ... after you have stepped in the virtual where your fantasy can take control over you ... can you "live" into the real world, appreciate the real touches , the real words out spoken in front of you not thru a screen or phone, can you find happiness in the real world, can you find happiness in a smile of a woman which is right in front of you not behind a screen ... can you move on to the real world ... leave the virtual behind ...
Many cannot leave behind the virtual, where every day new faces come, new thongs&bras , challenges after challenges ... while in the real world can find much less - unless you are perfectly realistic and mature (mentally mature, not talking about age ) and realize the border between real and fantasy

Taking into the real life a relation started on a porn site ... it is a big challenge ... for both ... which does not last if one of them fail to break the border between real and virtual ... and live the reality.

Thats why members/hosts finish disappointed with a broken heart ... when they realize they were just a piece of someone fantasy which it doesnt have a place in the reality .... when they realized they were just tools , not seen as humans with real feelings, when they were told lies, when they discover sacrifices they made were not worth

For the first year after I first discovered these types of sites I started looking at every 16-25 year old girl around me as if she was a chathost. Then it tapered off.

Congrats on your findings, present conquests, and travel adventures. However most of us dont come here looking for romance, not even to make friends with the hosts. I know a lot of members here who have a common life, are married and have a good family and dont wish an extra marital adventure. I don't wish to meet any of the girls or be friends with any of them, I am just here to be entertained. Many girls are in their early 20’s and are here to make money and don’t want a 40 something loser as a husband. They have a life and many a good ring of friends which include nice healthy young guys.
There is nothing evil with coming here and expect a good adult show from anyone registered as a host. This is a site created with the voyeurism and adult show concept and that’s what most of us expect when we register. I dont criticize those of you that come here looking for "LOVE", but please leave the rest of us that only come here for a good show our right to complain when the service is not up to our expectancy as paying members. I would definitely agree with you if this site was expressively for meeting. Myself as many others would definitely respect the girls to the fullest and won't ask for strip shows and won't complain if the girl didn't show her body while we pay video. But that's not what this site is about. It's about Adult entertaining. Sure there is non-adult category, but can a minor open an account here? Can a minor be a host? I dont think so.
There are many girls that have been badly spoiled by some members that spend hours and hundreds of dollars trying to get a hope to meet her in real life. I have been surprised by so many hosts with a "I wish to meet you in real" and "I love you". Huh? That’s not what I came here, Sorry!
Like I said, let us complain for those that try to play with our heads and empty our pockets and let us praise those we adore for giving us a good show. Those members that complain have a reason, they are paying and are not getting their money's worth. I know I wouldn't like to go to a restaurant and wait 3 hours for service while I see the other tables being served at less than a 15 minutes wait. It’s not fair if it’s a business. Every girl here is a professional and they should behave as one. They become professional the minute they charge for a service. We want a good service and those hosts that dont perfom give CC a bad name in the adult entertaining industry. That definitely hits CC in the best of their interest. (I am not mentioning specific host and I am not bombarding anyone just exposing my opinion).

with almost everything you say. well said indeed.

You are sooo right, man. I don't come here to make friends and I hate it when hosts ask "do you have many friends here?" And I say, "Well, if by "friends" you mean people I've visited more than once, yes, but true friends? Nope, zero. How can you consider someone you are paying money to for their time, your friend?"

Consider it a business relationship, and people do have friends in business.

Works both ways btw))) Members often ask-maybe we can be friends? Excuse me? Friends? Im not in Friends and Family, its my job, im here to make money and not friends. And When i say it they get so pissed off, and then tell everyone in forums what bitch i am))) Well whatever))

There you go! Perfect example of what Ric said and a fact of what's thought by most if not all hosts in CC or in any other pay per view site.

Atl least i dont act, lie and pretend;)

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dont worry the moderators removed all those postings yesterday.

Sure, after Nick sent 101 emails to cc, hahaha!

a voice of reason. Of the thousands of members, the vast majority come here to be entertained (to fill some sexual void in their lives). My guess is the forums display a skewed minor customer demographic, those minority of members that are looking for LOVE or friendship (to fill some emotional/romantic void in their lives). It is more likely that this latter demographic would be posting here rather than those that want to get their rocks off and leave. Thanks Ric for giving voice to the silent majority of which I am part. (Though I do like to read the forums its like a combination of a telenovela and car wreck)

How can it be a Sexual VOID ? sorry dont agree with that, try Open MInded, WIshing 2 Experiment, and Up 4 FUN.xx

Because if you had someone who was open minded, up for fun, wishing to experiment you wouldn't have to pay for it. (unless of course paying for it gets your rocks off)

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Nah Jiggly (May I call you Jiggly?) its a void, especially if greed is driving your fun.

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Doesnt sexual void mean emotional void?If u have no one to make love with must be an empty place in ur emotional life?Things u mentioned above r tightly coupled in most of cases,so no point of trying to prove us how happy loved and loving ur in ur real life.Be logical,ok?If u dont need to have friends and love here,it doesnt mean u do not have emotional void in ur life.
Good luck.

Your assumption is incorrect. Sexual and emotional voids are two different things. I didnt describe my life because, like ric, I am not here to make friends, meet someone, creat ea persona. This isn't the Oprah show for me.

I didnt say those were the same things,i said they were connected and came together.Emotional life cant be described as a happy one if a person doesnt have or have not enough sex,right?And sex every day doesnt make u a happy one,especially sex with a right hand:P But on the other hand all have thier priorities:P Maybe u missed my point,but is what i meant.

here is what you said "Doesnt sexual void mean emotional void?" Seems pretty clear you were equating the two.

Do they interconenct? of course they often do. what your initial response had to do with my first post I don't have the faintest.

Absolutely. Allow me to be more abrupt.

I welcome the complaints about awful hosts as I'll know who to avoid. Some of us don't come here with the expectation that some stunning Eastern European woman will fall for them. Some of us just want a service. That's why we get very pissed off when self-important princesses (not naming any names) take our money and then somehow expect us to entertain them.

The more "this host is a waste of money" posts I see, the better. Just another to cross off the list.

The "white knight" types - please just shut up. Have your own host-ass-kissing threads and tiresome waffling in the chat room, but if you don't like the critical threads, just stay out of them. No one gives a **** about your opinion except the three other people on the site who are like you.

Just like the "Black Knight" types stay out of threads wishing a host a simple happy birthday.

Ric, I wish to meet you in real and I love you! =))

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The hosts come here to work for the money.
The member come here for a show.
Once the member doesn't get a show and the host gets the money, the member is screwed.
This is a win, win game for the hosts. I agree that not all hosts are "self proclaimed direct daughters of God" Most hosts are concious that they need to work the money they are paid at the end of their shift. Its called honesty and good business practice. They are professionals regardless, amateurs dont charge. Like it or not the hosts are considered professionals. I have seen hosts here for more than 3 years, hosting as their only job, and you'll tell me they are amateurs? You've got to be kidding me!!! LOL!

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Oh no Angie, by professional I didn't mean prostitutes. Prostitutes are in full contact with their "customers." This is virtual where the chathosts sell by the minute an image to "members" of a site. I would say the girls here are more like adult models than anything else. Sure there is no implied obligation as to follow all Members orders, but it is in the honesty of each host to respect the Members or perform accordingly. I hope this clarifies my point of view. No offense intended to anyone.

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Nick, you said you had many relations started online and took in the real life. Thats shows your inability to adapt to the real world, being dragged in the virtual world.
You will not understand the feelings of those who have resentments because your feelings are pure virtual , does not have anything from what true love means . When the fantasy is gone, your virtual feelings can disappear with a simple delete contact from list and ignore button ... and u re back online hunting another.
In the real world, love, the commitment ... its not easy to be deleted just like that ... its complex, its made of true feelings ... cant explain it ... u have to actually feel it to understand :) Wish you someday to have this gift in life ... TO TRULY LOVE SOMEONE in the real world

hahahahaha - only 1 poster here understood what I was saying.

who wants to understand u? its already crystal clear u r just here to be the hero of hosts! May all the hosts love you. I pass I have a real life already ;-)

the white knight torch has been passed from tisme to Nick!

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this is really starting to smell like a bad 'soap-opera'...melodramatic bs.

soap? now there's something you are in particular need of, if u get my drift......lol

If the world would turn upside down and the only way to save it would be to have only 1 type of women on the entire planet, type A: very beautiful women type B: very intelligent women (not so beautiful by default, only in this scenario) Which ones would you pick?

As long as the world will still have alcohol I fail to see the real dilema.

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You got it exactly right hotsex. I spent all today sleeping off a truly terrible hangover. Yes, I was falling down drunk when I started this thread and yes I wished I'd just gone to bed instead. Nevermind, whatever, my alcoholic ramblings seemed to have sparked-off quite a debate. I agree with everybody. lol

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a lush as well as a lech - awesome. just as long as you don't guilt trip your much younger lady friend into touching your willy for the free place to stay and then blame it all on the booze, you have my deepest respect.
i wish my grandpa was as cool as you.

sure... its like drugs.. do too much and you lose reality... Is it a numbers game to you or is coz you can;t find that chathost who ticks all boxes?

If you REALLY found that someone special on here, it is good for you. BUT: You said you have had MANY relationships that started virtually and continued in real life. I will only related to the love relationships here. It sounds like they started really nice and smooth over the internet, and they ended in real life at some point. You will say that nothing lasts forever, you gave it a shot, it didn't work out, well, the usual:) But the main reason why they ended is that EVERYONE is different in real life, for instance, you think you really know the person you have been chatting for almost 1 year and when you finally meet, you discover that the "real" person is far from the immage of her you created in your mind via internet.
You also say, and i quote: "I have just had the most stunning vid. She a truly beautiful young woman who now is coming to stay in my home soon. Not for money" ... So you just met, you had some fun in vid, and now she's already moving in with you?! I wish you good luck, but don't get too excited, you will most likely end up disappointed:) You say she is truly "beautiful". Not interesting, not "great", not "smart", but beautiful, since that was the one and only thing you had to say about her, this tells some things about you:) Don't get me wrong here, I am just being realistic, I hope i am wrong, but you sound a bit shallow... a person who's in a constant reasearch for "the one". Second, a woman who accepts to move in with a guy without even meeting him should raise a few question marks above your head:) Not for money? Well you met on a paysite, you have probably been a big spender in her room, add more question marks above your head:) I see the scenario like this: She will need to travel to get to you. She will also have to pay errands/rent etc for her current house. You will send her the money. She will, then dissapear. Again, I hope i am wrong, just trying to make you think not twice but 4 times before getting to a conclusion.
I can agree that virtual relationships between hosts and their viewers can become quite tight and genuine, because the host and the viewer have a lot in common. Online friendships are nothing like real ones though. There are hosts (like me) that actually have fun being on cam, if it's just a nice chat, a strip or a full action show, BUT always keep in mind it is BUSINESS mixed with fun/pleasure, and in a business relationships, even if both parties enjoy eachothers company and establish more intimate bonds, in the end it is still business.
To give one last example: Cam sites are designed mainly for "sexual stress relief". Now let's look at it as the stress generated by day by day life in general. Lots of people decide to see a psychologist/psychiatrist when they feel stressed/depressed and not only. Your psychiatrist knows everything about you. He/she is always there for you. You might even see the therapist as your BEST friend ever. There's a catch though, you are PAYING for those services. Will your "best friend" therapist agree to go out for coffee and cake after the therapy session ended? NO! Think about it:)
I appologize if i sounded mean or insensitive, wish you good luck once again Nick, with whatever you are looking for!

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I truly believe it is not me who should think more darling, but thank you for the advice. No, i have no reason to be jealous. You may be a "simple chathost" as you pointed out, but don't put all other hosts in the same category ;)

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hey Babs! :-) I couldn't read it all either - I wasn't worried, just falling-down drunk. I'm on the wagon now to clean my liver.

Congrats !!1

was a good game , best team won , but good competition ,

wished my fab St peter ladies congrats,, too..

OMG!!!!!!! We won!!!!!! AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHH Im so happy and very proud!!!!!!!! Go Zenit!!!!!

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Celtic Glasgow won also a bit :-)

Yeah...great match. Happy Zenit won:-) Congrats Russian ladies!!

Great, congrats on winning such an important cup, hahahaha, ever see a russian club team in Champions League Final?????

yep congrats to Zenit and to our dutch coach Dick Advocaat...
, im proud te be dutch...

Yay)))))))))))))

aww and I was gonna take you to Scotland for a lil holiday - you can forget about it now

ahh...back to your old tricks...i see you've sobered up...lol

so that's what you call what is hiding under your kilt, "the little holiday"?

Well played Zenit F.C. You deserved to win, as you played what my old dad would have called "a blinder " lol.... !!!

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Zenit is a team that went very difficult way to the final. They won Leverkusen in quarter final and FC Bayern Munich 4-0 in semi final. In final they played one of the most boring team that have ever palyed football since Houllier was the manager of Liverpool. Glashow Rangers is probably the only team that have ever played in both semi finals and finals and actually not tryed to score. Advocaat is a class manager as Rangers fans should know because he used to be Rangers manager in 1998-2002. He know how to play good football and watching Zenit play football is great. They always look for a goal. Pure class and they dont have so many star players but the teamwork and love for the game is shining when they play. I love this team. Congratulations Zenit supporters and congratulations to the people who love football because the beauty of football won tonight.

Give me RUGBY anytime, Not that sissyboy round ball sh"t..

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URAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH :-))))))))))))

I feel so proud that this is my team and my city :D!!!! Russians are the best :))))))))))))))))

Meet them only for sex? Say it isn't so Joe.

Dunno traveler - I met a host who was totally genuine. almost 3 years later, we are still very much involved in each others lives. And yes, I also met a host where it was only about money for her but interesting experience.

No doubt that there are both "genuine" - for lack of a better description - hosts and hosts that are just in it for the money. I don't think I suggested otherwise in my post. For the majority, however, I'd say it's just about the money. Not that there's anything wrong with that at all. It's the nature of things, after all.

not convinced by what you say - hosts are not some strange breed of female - I know absolutely that one is totally genuine - the other made me laugh, it was so obvious it was all about money

what a long-winded post about something that lives within everybody. double standards are part of EVERY persons' character.value of post,zero.snooze factor,ten.pass me my teddy,zzzzzzz.....

you are clearly a host (lol)

you not only displayed double standards but added bias into your post.the only thing you showed is your narrow-mindedeness which is exacerebated by your limited intelligence because you are WRONG,i'm not a host.so now which of your biased,simplictic stereotypes will you label me with now?

Your post begs a question: Why bother posting a response to a post that you deem to have zero value? It would render your own post as having less than zero value. I'm not disagreeing with you, mind you - perhaps my original post was of zero value - just pointing out an inconsistency, that's all. Enjoy.

i posted because in a world of inconsistency you decided this epithany that you had was worthy of sharing.so by pointing out that i thought it had zero value i added to the world's inconsistency.life is a paradox.

thanks tisme

10 for originality!i was expecting PW or white knight.still being original doesn't override you being wrong.

Thanks for your posts. I find you amusing. Keep up the good work. For someone that obviously fancies themselves intelligent, you have a rather serious problem with spelling. Ironic, isn't it?

For future reference:
epithany = epiphany
exacerebated = exacerbated
simplictic = simplistic

And, no, these weren't merely typos. Check the keyboard.

Now you have something (more) to work on. Best of luck and have fun!

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how do you know that i fancy myself as intelligent?answer,you don't,just using your impression to make a wrong assumption. spelling has no correlation to intelligence,though it is has been shown in studies that those who try to draw this parrallel usually suffer from an inferiority complex that manifests itself with them pretending they are a man of the world or something of that ilk to give them a sense of worth.

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Bwahahaha! Priceless. Actually, Marilyn Vos Savant - the person with the highest measured IQ in the world - wrote a book on spelling. She noted that, "While there is a positive correlation between spelling and intelligence, there are intelligent people who don't spell well and vice versa." So, you see, you're wrong. There is a correlation. Perhaps it applies to you, perhaps not. Personally, I can tell just from your blather and unorganized writing style that you're most likely intellectually challenged. But, truly, this is a case of mind over matter. I'm entertained by your inane comments because you don't matter.

again you make erroneous judgements about me from your impressions & assumptions.now you say i'm wrong by using 1 person's words,yes only 1.certainly not an avalanche of rebuttal.even those words are no ringing endorsement of your claim i'm wrong.as they are not definitive.then you add"perhaps it applies to you,perhaps it doesn't..."seems to me you,like her make statements that are neither black nor white,just shrouded in gray trying to cover bases being like this may mean you can always claim to be at least,partially right but you have an ass full of splinters.anyway thanks for your worthless character assessments but i'm sure your time could be better spent removing those splinters.enjoy yourself mr.gray

Hey, believe whatever you want. If it makes you feel better about yourself or helps you sleep at night, then by all means keep telling yourself that you're very clever. It's no skin off my ball sack.

yup 100% in agreement - hypocrisy

What you are trying to say Traveler is that as long as u pay those hosts to get them in bed ... one should not have a quilt feeling for not involving into a serious relation . I agree with you, whores are whores ... you pay, you get what u wanted and you leave. Its not different from just going to a near place where you could get same for less money. The traveling is only completing the fantasy. You know anyway that as they have slept with you they did it with others too for money ... so you 're just one of many for them.

But on the other side ... are also hosts who are looking for a serious commitment, who do fall in love ... it all depends on what u are looking for but dont lure the girls with lies to get them in bed and turn around when u have your eyes set on another. They are not all whores, your fantasy isnt their fantasy

Yes, I paid in dinners, movies, the cost of traveling. But these are things I'd pay for anyway. So the sex was gravy, with a modest incremental cost. Otherwise, it wouldn't be worth the bother. Others pay directly with money straight into the girl's hand. Nothing wrong with that, either. Different strokes for different folks (no pun intended). I'd argue that degrees of prostitution run across a spectrum, with girls who will only date a "gentleman" (that is, a guy that will pay for their dinner, drinks, vacation, etc.) at one end, and girls who want to be paid directly in cash on a per-intercourse (or otherwise) basis on the other end. I prefer to cavort with the former group as opposed to the latter, but it's a fine line really...

as you move into your 40's you'll crossed into the other group my friend...so be prepared...lol

I'm already in my 40s. But I think you're right about my 50s.

wow you are simply amazing.

I have read all these posts, and you know what I think? I think that Plato was right when he wanted to forbid written texts (through poets) in his idial society. On the other hand, reading and writing develops one's ability to analyze... I am so happy for everybody - CC is a great chance to practice your critical thinking... Isn't it great? :D

It's both - catch his mood, like you have your moods :-)

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harmony, do you know Tuppy Owens? I used to work for her.

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I edited the Outsiders Magazine and organised events for the members. Tuppy set it up for people to have adult relationships for those who were socially isolated. I also kept women members company, did some matchmaking between members and organised prostitutes for male members who wouldn't have sex otherwise. My most important question for those ladies was, how many stairs? I often had to carry a full grown man up to her flat. :P

I'm all about the girl next door look. I love a girl in jeans and t-shirt.

i guess it would totally depend on my mood. Some nights i wouldn't mind seeing my girl in a t-shirt and jeans. But others, well, a nice sheer bodystocking or bra, g-string, garters, and stockings is really hot too!

Girl next door who strip and reveals sexy lacy lingerie with thong. That is the best. Then they say "Thanks Mr. Smith"...I give them $50 and say..."Thanks for babysitting the kids last night".

OMG !!!!! you have stripper heels?? guess that answers your question as far as i'm concerned.LOL but seriously,it all depends on my mood really.some days it's one thing,other days it's another.but as long as your wearing your stripper heels,i'm good.

hey...the girls that dress up in lingerie are a big yawn. they look too much like hookers. Guys like me want to think you are a nice girl, and that you are just taking off your clothes only for them. Alot of guys dont even really care if you take off your clothes, They just want someone to talk to, and will spend alot more money doing that then they would looking at you naked... Dress classy, like a sophisticated woman. That wil be the best...It also takes longer to undress that way!

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The free YM video test never fails to filter out the genuines from the liars

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the russian way.. clearly its not a society where women are seen to have equal rights as men!

old fashioned and out dated.. where the woman has to grab as much from the the guy . The guy should pay for the woman.. be it restaurant or sex... oh please... the guy should pay coz he wants too and not because the woman expects !

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so you lie too about feelins just to earn your $... i see

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And that is the lie......

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wow can you imagine having to lie to earn a buck...

geez i am glad i went to university

how do you sleep at night with attitude like that... It's clear you are like that in real not just virtual !!

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i think he is talking about outside CC relationships being the lie not the cam / viewer thing you are suggesting.

do i get any change back?

Was that a haiku?

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The reality is that you cant tell the difference ... one might accept to do "free" webcam but you still have no proof she s doing it just because she wants it or because she s looking to create a long term relation based on money not filtered thru the site (possible a better deal). You just cant read minds !
My advice for anyone who does truly love , are sincere and looking for a true future relation (member or host ) DONT ALLOW TO BE LIED ... dont look for excuses .... when one is not OPEN about his/her life, when some "instinct" feeling is telling you something is wrong ... go and check ... dont accept to be told a relation is based on trust and that you should blindly trust someone .... when someone does not accept to reveal his/her life and be just open ... lies are behind!
Be careful when you decide to build a relation with someone met on such site (host or member) ... the possibility to discover you might have been played is very high ... no matter if you have been sent free video (to a member) , no matter if he has sworn eternal love to you and were told u re the only one he visists (to a host by a member) and so on ....

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Excellent Kerry love and welcome back! :-))

good 2 av u back me little tiddly winkle x

You were lucky, Crystal...... I never got any birthday wishes....:(

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From Birth it is hunger .....In Death regret maybe

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superhorn answered u. just because u disagree doesnt mean
he / she is wrong

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wow i don't have the latter one and the first is disappearing slowly lmao

for the body i believe it is food.....we cry for food ....it is a basic and fundamental need....but i believe we also desire love .....only later in life can we exprees it.....but we need this as soon as we breath the air from our mothers womb...we can die from the lack of love...as surely as we can die from the lack of food...i believe this

Yes, studies were made of babies which had been stroked and cuddled and those that hadn't. The babies without this love and concern, sometimes developed physical abnormalities such as spinal deformation. Just holding a baby and gently stroking its back was recommended as being essential for its wellbeing.

So love is the primary emotion, but without it fear and anger develop then despair. Just look at those awful TV pics of [Eastern European] orphans as evidence.

interisting question.....well i think that i can consider the most ancient by trying to think how it was in the past when human kind started... i think we were like annimals..... so the most ancient feelings in my opinion are those which come from instincts...and probably from our try for survival...so most important are hunger and thirst like superhorn said...but i can say that the feeling of being afraid is mostly important too because it allowed survival and of course everyone is afraid of something....
on the other hand anger is too a basic feeling because it allows us to protect our family, food and shelter....so i agree with you about it too...
the last and not less important sexual desire helps us survive in other way....like charles darwin said the survival of the fittest...so we try to be fit to kind of "live forever" through our descendants by passing them our D.N.A. so this is important too.
so thinking about all this i think that all of those can be considered as most ancient feelings. and all other feelings come from them.
you asked a very interisting question gortensia.....may i ask you why?...do you study philosophy or pshychology or what?...because to be honest i found it interisting:)

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radio electronics?
geek lmao
i don't know why but i related your guess straight away with your personality and as for me hunger lol 2 hands up ... not surprising at all ahahahah

hey cmon, Gorty a bright lady - what's all this sexist crap that women aren't allowed to study scientific and techncial subjects?

Human contact and hunger for certain. As someone said consider a baby. At birth it wants to first be comforted by its mother and then be fed. Feeling at their most primal.

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fear

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thirst/hunger/lust - those things are felt for sure, but are they feelings? are such basic needs rightly categorized as emotions? is there a notable difference between them and anger, sadness, joy, anger, fear, etc.?
personally, i have no idea... just wondering out loud.

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You make a good point hmm. Perhaps it might be helpful to separate needs from emotions. Our most basic need is for oxygen - we survive little longer than 2 minutes without it. Our next is ambient temperature - we die very quickly in extreme heat or cold. Followed by water then food - we can survive longer without food than we can water.

Without these basic needs being satisfied, we exist merely on the most basic level, animalistic. Rousseau's 'noble savage' has been proved to be a myth, we don't experience sophisticate emotions or achieve much if our basic needs are not met.

So, our emotions spring from basic needs - happy is if they are met, unhappy is if they are not. Once they are, then we can afford to experience more sophisticated feelings. Love is problematic in English, better handled in Italian. In English, I love you, I love ice cream - big deal! Italian makes a clear distinction. I prefer approval versus hate in English - 2 extremes. Sexual desire comes under approval of course. A strong warm attachment coupled with a strong sexual desire, commonly referred to as love in English is certainly one of the strongest of emotions - look at this site, men blow their credit on a woman they become infatuated with, women think they are safe then fall for a member.

An alien comes to Earth. After some time, it is asked what is the most common trait of homo sapiens? It replies, vanity. Your predominant emotion is self-love.

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Interesting angie, thank you. I disagree with you, with respect. For me, greed comes from vanity therefore vanity is the prime emotion. As for Italians, I only meant that they say te affecto and te amo to distinguish between affection and sexual love- 'love' is too loose in my language, English, therefore it loses its power.

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English has the largest vocabulary of any language in the world. There's no way that any sane, educated person could argue that it lacks in precision.

I know what you mean, really! I teach English. It is vital though that I point out to my foreign students that English contains many ambiguities of meaning, e.g. I look up to my father - he is much taller than me? No, I respect him.

Love is frequently misused in English, e.g. I love you = I want to fuck you

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nick, that people misuse the word doesn;t mean the language lacks power or isn't precise. it's actually both when the words are spoken in the proper manner. lacking the ability or in so many cases lacking the truth doesn't render the language as either, just the user

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wow these rats must have been all male LOL

sexual desire is definitely one of the strongest desires, but...if I am hungry, I do not want anything but food. After I eat, yesss- SEXXXX!!:D

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PRIDE....hands down.

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You should have posted this in viewers.

This girl used to be known as BeautyBianca a few months ago and i still had her in my favourites hoping for her return. I can't beleive that she returned to CC and i missed it.

Did she say she was going away again?

PS: Her long absenses have to do with her real job outside CC. She only works here in between, i'm afraid.

Anyway, was she still panties shy? hehehe

Not for me but then I am one big stud muffin. I think she is gone for good. I had a phone number that does not work now and she does not what was supposed to be her real, non-CC email. I asked her studio mates and they said don't bother them with those types of questions. Maybe studio problems. Maybe mom found out she was not just chatting. Maybe a better opportunity or she just got sick of the place. Who knows? Another one bites the dust...

If "Wonder" is your real nickname, then you have CCMail.

PS: Mine isn't Dixit, lol.

mutually exclusive

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True
:D :p

only cute and in the us ,i guess im not him.

cute and in the us? come on stop dreaming~
i prefer from uk where the men are nicer and more gentle.

u aint met me then have ya

shush Wayne, don't spoil it for the rest of us. :P

oh no, i don't want nightmares

i am not cute but i have oil wells and cattle lol.i guess i can spend my money at the casinos lol

Lots more frogs than princes here. But the frogs have credit cards. Will that do?

hmmm..credit cards....??im wonderin...i think they willdo,but i d rather have a prince tbh

so do princes :)

Save yourself a lot of wasted time, heartache, disappoint and bitterness. You came here to make some money. Focus on that. Do you really think that single, handsome, charming, wealthy men come here looking for love and the girl they want to spend the rest of their life with?

Don't you have a sense of humor? Do you really think that I am looking for a mate here? I am not the threadstarter anyway. I m only here to have some extra fun, money is not that important, I have a normal job. I have the freedom to concentrate on chatting with nice princes instead of dealing with frogs:))))

Anybody who says they work here just for shits and giggles is kidding themselves. I am sure your price is steep and your greatest enjoyment from working here is getting a check now and then. Sure you might enjoy the interplay and maybe even the sexual stuff but I doubt you would do it for free or spend your time chatting with fat, horny middle aged men unless you were paid.

well at least she knows your fat and middle aged

*you're

i know but once i typed it i was too lazy to correct it :P

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uk men are nicer, come on get real if so why you here looking,,

I'm UK but I acknowledge that some of the most genuine men I chat to are from USA, Oz, Greece and Norway :)

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And Prince Charles just wants to be a tampon.

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HA HA HA - this is a good one ...

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okie dokie ,you meet austin i see.hes a good guy looking for a good women here.give him a chance.okie dokie is just his way of saying ok.

I promise you Austin is not the only guy who says okie dokie although I say it oki doki but you get my point! It was not me by the way! Lol!

It's as serious as you make it. There r many good guys on here, some really looking for a relationship. Many d1ckh3ads too. I guess every woman can recognize both types.

mm, do I know this guy ?

Just ask yourself one question:
If a kind, good looking, interesting, angel of a man truly wanted a real relationship, why would he go looking for one on an Internet site such as this?

If he wants you, and more than just the break from reality that you represent here on this site, then let him prove it to you. Let him take the lead and arrange a real meeting. If he doesn't, I think it's safe to assume that he prefers the fantasy and that you would be better to not invest too much emotion in him.

I agree that the member should take the initiative and to arrange a meeting, but...If he tells you at the very beginning: "I am going on a business trip, and oh by the way, I will be in your city." ...Oh boy, I would recommend you to never ever meet this guy ;) There are probably at least 3-5 other girls who will be meeting him as well.
But...if he is truly interested in you, he would call you, send you e-mails, and you would feel that he likes you a lot...Then this is the real chance- Take it and you'll never regret ;)

btw...my husband did not want any real relationship at the beginning; all what he wanted was to watch me masturbate, lol. You see where it brought him???

i think the best you can do is to take it seriosly but be very carefull......and take your time for all.do not hurry else enjoy it can be a good relation...and good experience

hope you like cold weather and okie dokie means--not sure

wow--tell me more

sure be glad to tell you more

thanks--had a great time, now tell me is it safe to come back

oh sean its safe hurry back and this time don't wear so much clothes (hehe)