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Same here, I can't lie my partner, I had few times wondering if to or not and just can't do it, don't want to live with the lie. And yes, there is deffinitely soemthing very special between us, never had such strong feelings about anybody before. Married since not even a year :)
Lies are easy on the net, especially when guys ask if i am single heheheh

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I totaly agree with u Gortensia, but in here we meant the Lies in relationships, not the type u described!!! if the honesty will kill someone, then lieing is a most, u can see now how to put it in reality.

there's always a choice, either Lie (a white lie) and lose the honesty and trust from the other over a small lie... or tell the truth and gain the trust and respect!!!

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i see u r insisting on making lies a good thing, while lieing is a must for her case, she is doing something good for keeping her husband alive!! she can't start beeing so HONEST all the sudden so she get rid of him, can u tell me what about the time before he got ill?

everything has exceptions, but u can't save a relationship by another lie and call it an exception.

LIES is the thing really destroys everything, not just relations!!!
WHITE or BLACK lie is the same, they both mean the lier thinks the other person is an idiot, while mostly he/she know the truth but sometimes decides not to pay attention.

i've been through a relation where she lies a lot, beleive me it didn't end well because it became a habit to her, and lied about something that kept me worry about her for days for nothing!!!

never do anything wrong so no one have have to lie. otherwise both will be hurt.

so honesty is the best choise, never LIE :``(

In a love relationship no borderline should be set-up. Complete honesty it is one of the factors that will make that relationship so very special. Us knowing things about our partner that nobody else ever will and likewise. It leads to complete trust and to a very strong base for the relationship to grow upon.
Why tell a white lie or any kind of lie for that matter?
There are so many ways we can tell the truth.
Just my opinion.
Kisses
AS :-)

I also believe honesty is the best policy in a relationship. Trust is a very very big thing for me in any relationship. If you find out someone lies, then you can't trust that person and to rebuild that trust will take a long time. If you love someone or someone loves you, you can't keep any secrets no matter what (good or bad). I would rather be told the truth even if it hurts me, then to find out later that I was lied to. People sometimes chose to tell a white lie so the other person is not hurt emotionally, but for me trust comes first and then deal with the emotions of the truth later. In the end, I will take truth over any lie, even if the truth hurts me. If my love is strong enough for that person, then we can talk about it to overcome the problem. All I can say is that how I am, but again others might think differently, and make their own decisions to tell a white lie so to not hurt someone emotionally, and that might be due to the circumstances or what the problem is. I try not to do that, and just try to be as brutally honest with all my relationships, and then just have to deal with the emotion of how the person reacts to the truth. I also know that I don't try to be malicious or directly try to hurt others, but again there are all types of people in this world, so for most of the time, I don't have to lie to people or do white lies.

Honestly, I dont think i could have said it any better!

honesty always pays in the long run.

Sometimes I 'whate lie' is necessary. Your partners biryhday and you know she wants the beautiful dress she showed you the other day; you want to surprise her. On your way out she asks 'Sweetheart, where are you off too?'

What is your answer to be?

everyone lies. from prostitute to pope. doesnt matter. deception is a built in survival instinct of our animal nature and it cant be stopped. People do it without even thinking about it in normal regular interaction. some more than others. Its just what we choose to lie about that really counts.

i think people are disillusioned if they think a lie will masquerade something.

If the receiver has any intelligence - then it makes the liar look foolish and clearly untrustworthy.

A "white lie" is a demonstration of poor commication skills.

In other words - not being able to communicate the real reason in an understanding manner that will not offend.

well this is actually a 2 part question about lies and relationships. as in.... Do you lie or tell the truth to your partner about your past and past relationships before you got together? Here I believe that the truth is best. It is your past and even if it is bad, you cannot do anything to change it, so be honest about your past with your partner. It is those past experiences, good and bad, that made you the person you are now and if he/she accepts your past it will bring you closer together, build trust, respect and intimacy between you. But if, for example, you tell them you are a virgin and then later they discover you used to have wild orgies at your house every night and had sex with half of the people of your city, it will destroy all the trust and intimacy between because your partner will have doubts about who you really are and question everything you told them.

And the second part... Is honesty always the best policy when you are in a relationship? Again i think honesty is the best policy. But here is the important part, that so far, it seems, everyone else that posted has missed.......you should know your partner and know what will hurt them or bother them or be offensive to them... and then DON"T do those things. Sometimes things happen that we sincerely do not expect, yes it's true, and if that happens you should be honest with your partner about it. But i think most things that people lie about to their partners are things they knew beforehand would bother or hurt or offend their partner but they chose to do it anyway behind their backs... and then try to lie afterwards to cover their tracks. You don't do that to someone you truly love. At least I wouldn't and I wouldn't stay with any woman who would do it to me. It is about more than just trust, it is also about RESPECT... and you don't respect someone if you lie to them. Trust and respect are the corner stones of real and lasting love...... you cannot have the latter without first having the former. And why bother to even be in a relationship if your goal is not to have a real and lasting love? It may not always be easy to be honest, but it is always the best policy, and if you live your life right, there should be very few times in your life when you have done something that you would even consider lying to your partner.

Yes very true and thank you Celebrate :D

Just another example of how women can get even little things wrong. LOL

SUPER SUPER SUPER
"a women: without her, man is nothing!"
i agree with it!!!!!! lol

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and i like the size of your compliment, Gorty :P
:))))

vera not again?

Put him in his little bag before you fuck that ugly slag :D

typical low life comment, from a very low lifer himself.

Thank you for your appreciation it is about time.

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I think if someone will jump into fire I will not jump too only cos someone have jumped there already.

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A lot of members do not like there names posted in these forums.

Why no? I start if you are chicken... My sweetest member is TheDirector. He is my all time and best member. He adores me and I adore him back...

I was just saying as for me personally I couldn't care less if my name is posted as best member, worst member, ugliest member, perviest member. It's all good to me :D

thts ur problem bo u need to STFU, or keep on pissing people off which could very well be why the ...k u are even here in the first place, oh i forget, u can't get a job. lmao

Please excuse my ignorance but STFU means ?

Okay worked it out Shut The Fuck Up.

I'll stick with pissing people off if it's all the same to you.

oh of course u will. whts worse is no one can stop you. we get someone like you in here every 3 months or so; ur part of a very exclusive club......

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some members might enjoy being talked about? I have no problem with it

talk about me all you want ladies.i am the attention seeker after all. :D

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oops,sorry alex.you're right

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... and always will be :)

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:)

I would certainly top most host's lists...the problem is they can't spell WTF......WTF?

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I will be your top if you are the bottom....or you can be the top..or side...or sitting or standing...bending over...leaning backwards or just about anything you can imagine.

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Lestat was saying that we don't change.. we're just becoming more and more ourselves :) I tend to agree..

There are few people that think we're equal.. we will never really be all treated the same way.. it's life.

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Umm don't remember posting any pics ( Alex wouldn't annoy me about it otherwise :P ) but thank you for your compliments
kisses

Finally there is someone, who could see Psy's photoes:PP

There is someone( the only one ), but he's rarely posting, and he wouldn't say it, he's a gentleman :P

life is chances & choices.we take them & make them.to not do this is just existing not living!

You'll get my pic for yours...deal?:PP

Nope, doesn't work that way :P

On which way can work?:PP

It doesn't really :P
I was thinking to send a pic of me.. either of my back ( :P ) either when I was a kid, but I was thinking that for the second maybe CC will have probs.. ( no, I'm not naked in those pics, but I am now :P )

Ok send me a pic with your back, but turn your head and watch back above your shoulder into your cam:PP
This one CC'll allow for sure:PP

Such a complicated task! I am multi-tasking, but this is too much.. what if I'll twist my neck, ha? So you'll have to be satisfied with my back.. and it's not even straight..

now.. where did I put your member name? ....

Hope in to a very safe place...waiting for your back wistfully:PP

typical romantic poop LOL

We are here for two and only two things for the lifeforce:

To produce
To reproduce

Everything is extra extra....................................

a load of ....!what is the difference between produce & reproduce?not everyone who comes onto this planet reproduces.produces is a very subjective term.everybody who breathes produces something,but life is much much more than that.its about happiness & contentment & to achieve this you must take chances & make choices!

As Alfred Lord Tennyson so brilliantly said:

It little profits that an idle king,
By this still hearth, among these barren crags,
Match'd with an aged wife, I mete and dole
Unequal laws unto a savage race,
That hoard, and sleep, and feed, and know not me.

I cannot rest from travel: I will drink
Life to the lees: all times I have enjoyed
Greatly, have suffered greatly, both with those
That loved me, and alone; on shore, and when
Through scudding drifts the rainy Hyades
Vexed the dim sea: I am become a name;
For always roaming with a hungry heart
Much have I seen and known; cities of men
And manners, climates, councils, governments,
Myself not least, but honoured of them all;
And drunk delight of battle with my peers;
Far on the ringing plains of windy Troy.
I am part of all that I have met;
Yet all experience is an arch wherethrough
Gleams that untravelled world, whose margin fades
For ever and for ever when I move.
How dull it is to pause, to make an end,
To rust unburnished, not to shine in use!
As though to breath were life. Life piled on life
Were all too little, and of one to me
Little remains: but every hour is saved
From that eternal silence, something more,
A bringer of new things; and vile it were
For some three suns to store and hoard myself,
And this grey spirit yearning in desire
To follow knowledge like a sinking star,
Beyond the utmost bound of human thought.

Great...i'll probably have gone blind by then :))

"Mars will look as large as the full moon to the naked eye."
Are you sure? Cause i have some doubt:PP

Good spot Alex. I missed that point :))

I'm nearly wetting my pants in anticipation.

LOL

A lot of culminating in the first post. Is that anything to do with oral sex and a mars bar ?

Um, you're three years too late... that event occured on August 27th 2003.

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My kind of gal.....and one proud Mamma.... :-D

Hubby of the third daughter:PP>>>

You're not my hubby as far as I know :P

Are you sure Psy?:PP

Cat fight!

Come on Real Mistress! If she would be the only one! Most of the girls here aren't bi or Domes... you found one to pick on?

get a grip! you do yourself a disservice with your post.my dear you are not a real mistress,only a fantasy mistress at best.what this other girl does is none of your business.if members don't like it,they wont go.so try to not let your over inflated opinion of yourself get in the way of reality.just enjoy your fantasy & let others do their best to make a living.

"Real" Mistress u did HER a real service....free advertising! LOL Way to go for someone u r "after". I just went to see her profile and checked and she was in vid. LOL This is too funny.

and you are only a Real Mistress if the slaves allows you to be ... they are the ones on charge. Rise up slaves!!!

Seeing as you are a Real Mistress and "not here for taking money from our slaves" i assume everybody gets a free show now????. Don't talk such rubbish next time theres a good little girl !!!

What`s wrong with financial domination ? Some slaves love it so give her a break !

To all stupid bitchy girls like 18Jennifer: i'm not a chathost i like use my power on some slave men or girls here but i have also the responsability to check who anyone abuse of Mistress title...

I'm sure here other people they think like me

Such a wonderfull atitude!
You have responsability? LOL give us a break !

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Hey, what's wrong? As a real Mistress you should know BDSM is a many-sided thing. So since when is financial domination not a part of BDSM? Do you know it has its community in the Internet? How does it offend you and another Mistresses and Masters? Do you know the causes of moneyslaves why they come to obey just to a bitchy young girl instead of a classical strict Mistress? I know the only but enough reason - they like it. By the way what the difference between a real and not a real Mistress? What does real Mistress do here on CC? Oh yes, she earns money as all another hosts, right? Well, you have achieved the only result - good advertising for her.

that girl 18jenifer is Yourdiamond too. really funny that she went from Nona dult to dungeon lol

Who is this Nona Dult? lol :P

mmm... so what?

Any chick willing to get down and lick that ice cream off my knob.

Why not all of them??

yes

Yes, there are some... It is allowed, though the courteous host (and I know several) log OFF the one when the other gets a viewer.

is possible, but both profiles have to be either in adult or non-adult.

AlpenGold and Aishka is my example of a host having two live sessions.

Hellogoodbye and SEAofTIME is another pretty example :)

johnzhon, u have no room to talk. u added to that last line of garbage and u lied on top of that. so, not listening to u for sure

okay i guess it was useless to ask that in english.
but you say i lied.
what lie did i tell?

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what???

STD

nope, not an STD ... I would say she has been visited by Candida albicans.

Hmmm Who are you Gort?

Hmm why did you sign your post by gort usually I sign as Gort

I think someone is trying to steal your identity Gort

maybe it was a type and meant to b anon??

Lol :D

Having been divorced twice, who believes in Hollywood anyway. ;-)

Actresses and actors often get married and divorce in Hollywood too:PP

Well it might be true but it might also not be true. It is a mystery, wrapped in an enigma, wrapped in a riddle.

How about Barcelona ? It has much to offer in terms of architecture with both old and new and is a cosmopolitan city . The beach resort is only 20 minutes away.

I was wondering if you can send me more info on Barcelona. I have heard of the Costa Brava area and is that the beach area you were referring? I know that Barcelona is kind of close to this area, and was a location I was thinking of going on vacation in the near future.

Thanks in advance if you send me info.

Croatia, Adriatic-sea: wonderful, crystal clear water, amazing islands, old (roman) buildings and cities, lovely bays, good food (fishes, shells), red wines and so on:-))
The Croatian Tourist Alliance should pay for me now a 2 weeks long holiday for this advertisement:PP

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In the winter you can't beat Argentina. Being in the southern hemisphere the seasons are reversed. December through February is a great time to visit. Because of their financial crisis the US dollar is worth more than 3 Argentine Pesos (they were one to one a few years ago). You can have a great time there and spend very little money. They have a great shoreline with many resort cities along the coast. The country is very modern. The people are great. The food and drink is amazing. It is my pick every winter. Who wants to go with me this year?

Try the resorts of southern philippines or Palawan island off west coast of PI about 53 filipine pesos to a dollar great and cheap time lovs of sea and surf activities

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Why not, this year i havent been there yet. Will we go to the south or to the north?:PP

Chornay More

Margate

LOL, who in thier right minds would go to Margate. A touch of sarcasm there perhaps. Go to the Loire Valley region in France. It is possibly one of the most beautiful areas of Europe. Also the beaches are great too

I once went to Margate I think. Nice chips if I remember. But I agree Max more than one day would be too much (okay more than 1 hour :P).

But then again I am not in my right mins anyway so my opinion counts for diddlysquat.

MARGATE

I would recommend Athens, Greece. Been there once and very romantic and the beaches are not that far from the main city.

Athens or Margate? Hmmm decisions decisions!!!! lol

Like we would tell you :p Go and ask, but beware the rules. hehehe

she is in nonadult. Try Cherrymaria. just WOW

why don't you ask her, brainiac.

...and no dick:PP

Hmmm

when do i laugh?

you forgot about "bitch" :P:P:P

Dude, i bet you have seen only her then.

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wait.............i thought i was the biggest drama queen.and why you guys always give this woman such a hard time is beyond me.i've never had any problems with her.she's always such a nice swwet woman.maybe if you treated her as such,you wouldn't be so quick to say rude things about her.

i cant stand her either

Now cover your left eye and try reading the second line from the bottom.....

Thx, Jackspeed:)

I'd rather have a few members who like me much and many who don't like me than all neither like me nor don't like me.

thats so eloquent.... digest what she said..... that makes so much sense. not that im a genius or anything but i think the guys bitching about her find her too challenging both sexually and intellectually. eg i couldnt hold my own in a battle of wits in a foreign tongue

Only those follow this host, who doesn't have any selfhood and need someone to lead them.Just dont understand how can you follow someone, who is dishonest, but of course it isnt my job to find out and i dont really care either.

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If you will be nice and not rude she will be sweet and nice to you

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I agree totaly.

good video but crap song

Only the lyircs were crappy, the instrumental part was great, just like the vid.

Thanks for sharing charmedlady! :)

ok good music dodgy lyrics

Thought there were a few Latvians here

Just had 2 Latvian chat hosts come to stay for a holiday at my house. Real nice girls, polite, helpfull and friendly. Just thought i would tell you but , please, no stupid comments

nice dream wasnt it ?

I bet a wet one too LOL

No dream im afraid

in russian sounds very crappy :D

Undo the vice?

now you spoilt the joke