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Ha ha good one

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Where is the webpage Anja?:PP

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Thx. Anja:-))
Van Damme...lol:PP

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LOL

haha

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Yahoo/msn/phone are pandoras box. Viewers think getting my 'yahoo' is some kind of 'cherished posession'. They start constantly bugging me and THEN have their feelings hurt when I don't return the messages and may stop coming to video. I NEVER used it to try to solicit members to come to my video. They abused it.

And at the same time, some hosts abuse it also. I've given mine to a few hosts and then ended up blocking them. I would sign and get hit with a message instantly, "I'm horny, come to me on CC" or "I'm bored, come to me on CC" Do you hosts think we like you abusing yahoo too?

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Not really. My yahoo is a closely guarded secret. It seems to be the only solution to the problem.

Good for you girl. Too bad you are one of a few who can resist typing to others even in 1-2-1.

I have to be selective as to whom I give my yahoo. I even get teaser videos... then: "you want to see more? Come to c.c. baby"...

damn - i am not giving my yahoo to the right people if some hosts are doing teaser videos - i only get the text stalkers/flooders!

i'm giving my Yahoo to the everyone who asks me about. Never had any troubles with it. But...i'm invisible all the time and i'm deciding to whom to answer. :) KIsses to all.

i have had some hosts who send me there cam on yahoo no problem-others say cam will not work on yahoo only on CC-is this there ploy to get me into CC or is there something in the CC software preventing cam from working on yahoo

Yes, there are some studio managers that won't let the girls do "freebies", however some girls just use this excuse so you go to their video. Some even say that they can't do cam to cam in open session, only in one2one. I am an avid viewer, I visit at least 3 or 4 new girls every day when I have a chance and the things I heard are incredible! LOL!

you're my kind of member ... come see me sometime :)

in the long-distant past i have received full video contact with a host - i guess you might call it a free sample

Very creative :D

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Of course I would :D

Thank You, for your visit...next time I will make it a free show, sweety...it looked like you enjoyed it as much as me!!! You made my day whole.

Mom...knock it off. You always embarass me in front of the other kids.

Thank you too it was the most amazing day of my life and one I will treasure well into my older years.

you ARE my neighbor and I DO watch you sunbathing ... I also borrow your kitchen appliances

Now if she would only cut my grass topless too! :)

Not only watch but apply the suncream too :))

i'd even clean the windows especially

changed my mind .....no i wouldn't

Have you just seen Doublesin is a guy Max lol

Get in mah belly!!

Well you cerainly weren't missed by me :D

No problem - Gerry don't do fat ones...stay sweet :)

Fat or slim Gerry aint getting to do me anyway :D

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mmmm that's a hard one Hypnosis.

Your soooooo boring that every other host seems so much fun when compared to you :P

Only teasing you. A big wet sloppy kiss.

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That was a nice joke Lisa...wondering with who i was laughing so much some days ago?...:PP

ohhhh with me????? :O:O:O no way!!!!!!! im too boring!!!!!!! :(( :(( :((
dont come to me and dont talk to me plssssss :P:P:P
and btw..... im still too skinny :(

Ohh sorry, that was Lyuba, who i was talking about, not you:PP

who is that girl? "singing" :P

Maybe in the mirror you can see her, but i am not sure:PP

Yeap, I'm here INYF :))

Yes, "curious too", I did fall inlove, met a member and got married. No kids yet, I'm too young :)

I have as well, found some friends, and met 3 members, if I remember well, one of them was going to marry a chathost I was working with :)

yes, met host last year, still together, still in love touch wood :)

I fell in love but now she isn't talking to me. Met twice. Dunno what's gone wrong!

yeah curios too i meet host love she and married we are happy and love us

may be we have somthink in common.
is there anyway we could chat say in yahoo

you mean you might have something in common with me?

may be we have
if you have yahoo may be we could chat there
and if you would like to let me know i will give you my id
my nik name is justmeforu
hope to hear from you soon

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no sorry may be i missled you my cc nik name is justforu not my yahoo id
if you can send me your yahoo id i will add you if that is ok thx

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sorry i said wrong my nik is justmeforu

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How many times has this question, or something similar, been asked here? Geez!

As many times as there are stars in the sky, so what?

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Not yet..., but i am on my way:PP

The list would absolutely include several dozen host/member couplings. They have had varying degrees of success, but I definitely know happy couples.

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I'm fallen in love with WTF but...he don't know it yet...

to all the happy couples-is the viewer from europe?-seems easier and closer for viewers and hosts to be together when both are closer in europe-seems hard fora viewer like myself from canada to fall for a russian host with so much distance

Haven't you ever heard of airplanes? They are an invention that allows people to travel great distances through the air.

i have to agree with "question" in that i think it is a bit easier for members from Europe to have relationships with the European and Russian hosts. yes as anonymously pointed out there are airplanes, but traveling from the US or Canada to say Russia or Romania takes alot longer and is much more expensive then say from England to Romania. Then you also have other things to consider such as time differences. The time differences for Europeans is much smaller and makes it alot easier to find each other online during the same hours. Being from North America and trying to have a relationship with a host from Russia or Romania requires a lot of late nights and lost sleep just to be online at the same time. Not saying it is impossible, mind you, just more difficult. But if u truly love each other, you are willing to make sacrifices and endure hardships to be with one another. And in the end, that's all that really matters, being together.

True relationships only BEGIN in cc. If they are true they quickly transfer to e-mail, phone calls, snail mail and messenger.

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It doesn't really apply to me, as I don't chat here, and outside here I have no reasons to lie.. but as far as I remember I didn't lie about myself.. I always tried to be as honest as possible. I don't see the point to lie, to make up a different me.. I'm me, even if different live from virtual.

I leave it up to the host. I think she talks about the real her, family etc., I reciprocate. She plays games, so do I.

but how do you know if she plays games?

How do you ever know?

Too big a question. How do you know with anyone? But there are degrees of honesty, dishonesty which we can all detect. If not, why haven't we all killed each other? WTF am I talikng about? This place does your head in! Shut up you 2 and stop asking such daft questions!

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I always give the REAL me. Cross my heart. But that was not enough to prevent deep suffering. Yes, someone gave me half of the truth and the other half I found out after falling in love. I will probably never know why this person was so cruel to me and made me believe he is different than others, just to dump me afterwards. He simply used the information I gave him about myself to create the impression that he is perfect for me, until he conquered my heart totally, then, when he was convinced I want to be with him, he backed up and rejected me.
I am not sure I will ever be able to trust a man enough to fall in love with him. Very sad :(((((

There is a lot of pain and suffering on the forum today.

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I never lie here. Opps, i have just lied:PP
By the way i cant see any reason to lie here or do in real life and i think i behave the same here like in real...the same idiot guy:PP

wondering now if an "idiot" is better than a lier... and I think yes... :))

Dear Hurt Host,
I'm afraid you story is not a rare one but all to common. Indeed I, as a member, was also 'tricked' by a host I met here. She played me and my heart for many months until finally I woke up and decided enough is enough.
My honest and best advice is don't get bitter. Move on a walk away from it. The pain will go as you create new memories and perhaps find another love.
If you have to remember, think about the fun and the good times you guys had, not the bad.
Don't bottle it up. Get it out of your system by talking about it. There are plenty of chatrooms on the net where you can go and talk anonomously.
Lastly, remember how much this hurts. Remember your pain and in doing so, think carefully how you treat others....

Good Luck Hurt Host.

Thank you very much for the nice words. My problem is that after being disappointed by one real man, I met this guy here and he made me believe that he is the man of my dreams and that a man can be loyal to his loved one.
Now, discovering that he couldn't be and fooled me all this time it's more than just hurting me... it destroyed my hope and my trust for good. His rejection is even more hurtful. I can't understand why... and I am afraid of being hurt again, if I let someone close to my heart again :((( Some people just don't understand they cannot play with others lives this way...Maybe God has something good in store for me, because I am too young to die alone.

Dear Hurt Host,
My initial thoughts are to ask you which country are you in and how old are you? (Sorry, I know I shouldn't ask but it will help me better structure my reply.)
But on reflection, it doesn't really matter. Perhaps the same rules apply where ever you are and what ever age you be.
Happiness comes from within. If you are not happy with yourself, how can you expect others to be happy with you?
My best advice in this matter is to sit yourself down and work out what it is that makes yourself happy. This means when you are by yourself and not trying to find happiness from others.
Only when you have worked this out AND implemented it will you be truly ready to share your love with the right partner.
As for dieing, sorry hun, you came into this world alone and will leave alone. But all that aside, you shouldn't be thinking about death. You should be thinking about life and trying to enjoy every minute you can. AND spread your joy, bring happiness to your family, friends and people you meet.

For those that have crossed your path in the past, they will get what is coming to them. If they have lied, cheated and used people, one day someone will do the same to them. Then they will realise what they have done while feeling all the pain they have caused to others and they will be on their own, alone.
The more people they have used, the less respect they will have and the more alone they will be. What goes around really does come around.

When you are ready for your next partner, don't just listen to what they say. Anyone can lie, it's easy. No...watch what they do, learn who they are from their actions not what they want you to believe. How do they treat others? For surely that is how they are going to treat you. Are they selfish and the basis for all their actions being purely for a reaction which they hope will be in their favour? Do they only ever talk/help/do things for others so that in the future they will be able to call in 'the favour'. Can you see that these are all indications that they are only being nice to you so that they can get what they want?

I hope you understood what I have tried to briefly explain. You are by no means unique in your situation. I have known/know so many people who say exactly the same thing as you. Both men and women. Which means that one day, you probably will meet that special person just for you.
Are you going to be ready for them? It could happen tomorrow, today, this evening.
Get yourself ready. Find what makes you happy and be happy. Then when your time comes, you will be ready to share yourself with your partner and share each other's happiness.

Good Luck Hurt Host....

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Haha:-)

Lol not that lame

LOL!

:)

Pull you'reself together man

Then get back up

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when wasn't it boring?

18 noths ago there was actually chat there. no longer

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gala i'm impressed.that was a very informative post.you surprised me,must be all those BB's that gave you this wisdom.kisses :-)))

agree with gala. and it WAS more fun in the beginnig a place to flirt and meet new girls. it has degenerated into a place of rudeness and spam. one nice thing about cc is that we get no spam except in comchat room. it used to have a party atmosphere.

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how can chat be boring with me there?i never heard of such a thing.LOLOLOL

shush she busy in vid with me now ;)

thank you Alan Parsons
those are beautiful lyrics you wrote
wish they had given you credit

You're kidding - that fucking Parsons ALWAYS gets the damn credit!!! No one even remembers me!

P.O.O.P.

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I will tell you when it happens....not who it is. :)

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It is genuine.

Thought I would give it a try.

As has been said many times before, if you don't play you don't win.

-Lightfoot

If you treat me like a princess, I will be all you want and more. Come and hold me close so I can feel your breath send goosebumps down my spine. You are my everything, Ted.

You're dead meat lightfoot.

Is that a threat? Are you really going to kill me?

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Considering that once upon a time Mexico used to extend all the way up to near Wyoming and the Rockies tail off in the south in New Mexico, I'd think it wouldn't seem too strange to come across a few hispanics in the region.

The West was first settled by the Spanish and still is.

settle?.....what a charming way to refer to genocide.

What has "settled" got to do with genocide? Qualify your outrageous and audacious definition. If you cannot, offer your apology for being naive and unlearned.

http://muweb.millersville.edu/~columbus/data/art/STANN-01.ART

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Conquistador

http://www.umich.edu/~ltpao/conqui.html

read....learn....bask in the toasty glow of your brain made a few watts brighter by a newfound knowledge of just how special those old "settling" spaniards were.

After reading your references, I have decided you like to play word games. Therefore, your condemnation of the word "settled" in my previous post was a prime example of how people like you prefer to criticize and exploit. Therefore, your references are not acknowledged as qualifying proof.

It has and always has been known and acknowleged that the Europeans who came to the Americas, particularly the Spanish, were the rethces they were to anillate native cultures in order to obtain riches for a queen.

However, that is not what my post was referring to...and you know it. Therefore, I see you like to bask in your audacities and self righteousness that makes you feel like a "big shot".

I will not give you that privilege and I will not qualify your stupidity with a correction of my original wording. You knew what I mean't, but yet you wanted to smear me regardless. Go, go bask in your own misquided brillance.

que?......you ignore the message only because you have some peevish little grudge against the type of person you think the messenger is?....yeah, that's mighty enlightened of you, bud.
if it was such common knowledge, if you actually knew what i was talking about, why did you even bother asking me to elaborate on my first message?......was it just an opportunity you couldn't pass up to play what i'm guessing is your own hypocritical little game of criticizing others for their having the audacity of criticizing others themselves?...and what's with the bombast?...did you think if you browbeat me talking all highfaluting like that i'd be too intimidated to reply?......how's that for an example of playing games with words?
the truth of the matter is that the replies lightfoot made to electricminx and viewer9 rubbed me the wrong way...considering their places in this thread and the times they were posted, it looked as if he was going out of his way to make sure that it was understood that he was white and not latino.....as if being latino should be something to be ashamed of or something......not something i saw as deserving a nice warm reply.
hey, maybe i jumped the gun and was wrong in thinking so though...if that's the case, come back lightfoot....i most humbly offer my sincerest apology for thinking you racist and abusing you with my morbid propensities.

It is apparent you are coping an attitude and require an attitude adjustment. If anyone is a bigot it is you with you adolescent prejudgements. There was no segregating notion in my replies. But, it seems you have a personal problem with your own heritage.

Good bye and good luck with your life.

christ, you're really going to admonish me for coping an attitude?....the same person who pronounced he was putting an end to this thread in a huff because his poor little honesty and genuineness weren't being treated with kid gloves...the same poor shnook who interrupted a clicking between two others in this same thread only to lament that they've added to his 'poor me', miserable day's hell....THAT guy is going after me for being adolescent?

viewer9 to lightfoot:
'I agree that dating sites are a scam and have read that several major sites are under indictment. But wouldn't it be much easier to meet a lady in your local area at either a local bar or social club? Relationships are hard enough under ideal conditions, so why add distance, immigration issues and other problems into the mix?'

lightfoot's reply to viewer9:
'I don't go clubbing. Besides, I am caucasion.'

seriously, wtf kind of reply was that?.......what would prompt you to even think to make such a remark?
can you summon up your precious honesty and guineness to at least answer that?

Yeah, I will sum it up in just a few words. Look below.






YOU ARE AN IDIOT. YOU STARTED THIS CRAP AND I intend to finish it.

and you expect to put an end to this crap how, exactly?.....by calling me an idiot, shirking your own responsibility in perpetuating this crap, and blaming me entirely?......yeah, that's utter genius, man......that'll work, no doubt......oh, and it's a hell of a way to impress a prespective wife too, i'm sure....nothing could impress a woman more than a short-tempered guy with an obssessive need to get in the last word...and to fight for that last word here, on a forum on a pornsite with a complete stranger, that's the way to show your mettle, man....if you can expend this kind of energy over this many days just trying to one up me, i can just imagine the effort you would put into so brilliantly proving you're in the right with someone you disagree with who you should actually give a shit about.
and there's really not a cue of women lining up for the chance to spend a life time with you?.....wow, ain't that a wonder.

the area was SPARCELY settled by the Sapnish - no need for genocide, simply a small war and treaty

I agree that dating sites are a scam and have read that several major sites are under indictment. But wouldn't it be much easier to meet a lady in your local area at either a local bar or social club? Relationships are hard enough under ideal conditions, so why add distance, immigration issues and other problems into the mix?

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I don't go clubbing. Besides, I am caucasion.

-Lightfoot

Hmmm.... I am pleasantly surprised by your post. I am sorry I don't totally fit your description, especially because i wouldn't like to move, even LOVE can do miracles and change your mind when you least expect it. But I appreciate your openness and the courrage to post this message here:) I am brokenhearted because of a member I fell in love with... and someone like you could make me forget about my pain.
I wish you good luck and all the bests:) kiss kiss kiss:)

lightfoot, your list of conditions are quite specific! Good luck! I too look for love in any place I can. What scams have you experienced?

looking for one woman kinda man: who are you? You sound nice.

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send me a PM. we can bitch about past partners if you like :)

Hey, I am the one who is looking for someone. This isn't a dating or match making string for others. Sheesh!!!! LOL

Oh, well. The tale of my hell today.

Scams include:

Messages from the staff disqusing themselves as members;
Members with incorrect profiles;
Members with self diluting notions of themselves;
Staff that doesn't really care, except for the money;
Members who are not subscribers (this requires a lot of time and effort writing letters that never get opened);
Subscribers who get upset when I send them an soliticed email;
and, sites are way to pricey for what they offer.

I am nice, Turnips.

-LF

Meeting ALL the descriptions are not total requirments. Well, except one.

Thanks for your kind words.

-LF

Due to the nature of people whom possess morbid propensities toward what I have posted, I am ending this string.

It seems these people are apprently abusing my honesty and genuiness. Thus, I see now that I made a mistake with my initial post and feel compelled to end it.

Have a good day (or night). The responces have been enligtening, indeed.

Good night and god speed.

I just wanted to get the last word in. :-))))))
Good fortune to everyone here today. I'm sudenly feeling optimistic about the future.

I know somebody already in USA, borned in Mexic, NOT looking mexican, though...green eyes and not really dark hair.She doesnt know about CC! Her husband died two years ago.
I would like to know that she will be happy, somehow.I am not sure if she will move from California, though!
How old are you, please?...she could be older than 38!

Yes!

Can I have a drink of water when you come to spank me :D

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I'm sure you were like that, Alex :P

No you are wrong Psy...I didnt like drink water in my childhood:PP

Well replace then water by anything you were drinking :P

Milk of course, that's why i became so big guy (at least my mom said that):PP

and even guys home alone usually only has a few choices...

Either no demand or it is too difficult to keep their peckers hard for hours on end :D

I use a pump

a pump?i thought you got it stuck in a vaccuum cleaner :-))

Someone who doesn't nag nag nag all day long and is a nymphomaniac :)

Hahahaha

She is just as crazy as me.

There was a joke here some days ago...

MAN'S PRAYER
I pray for a deaf-mute nymphomaniac with huge boobs, who owns a liquor store and a golf course...:PP

I'll be happy with 50% of those things Alex :D

Average tall man, slim and fit,
short blonde spikey hair
blue eyes
very light skin, not hairy body
sexy smile, nice teeth
freckles and dimples
I like glasses very much too.

a woman/girl who challenges me & helps me push my boundaries & redefine my limits.a woman/girl who i can learn & grow with,who i can talk to for hours about nothing or everything.someone i can sit with & there is no need to say anything,we just enjoy being in each others company.a woman/girl who has different interests yet takes interest in all i do.someone who is soft yet has inner strength.a woman/girl with doubts but is still an optimist....

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A woman who I can talk to about any subject and have an intelligent discussion and will never boor me. A woman of sexuality who knows how to please a man. A woman of ambition to better her life and her family's. A woman who will be there when I need a friend and will be with me when life is not so kind.

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basically you want a lawyer !