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maybe.

Try it, you might like it...wait are we talking about anal sex?

should :P

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Agree

Yes of course you should. It's better to regret about smth you have done, rather than about something you never done :P
Good luck:)
P.S. you tell us later what you do, will ya :P

Im sure you should...

Its said that we often look back and regret the things we never did ..
not so often the things we did

Yes but only if it's with me and we still use the fuzzy felt :D

Funny how many people just tell her to do it, without even having a clue what she is talking about. What if she is considering whether she should or shouldn't... steal your car?.. rob ur flat?.... have sex with ur bf/gf?.... beat you up and take your money? LOL And you told her to do it!

she can have sex with my gf ..:P

Thx baby but im not in to girls:P

But captain I told her she could only do it if it was with me so we would be stealing my car, robbing my flat, having sex with my imaginary gf, beating me up and taking my money together and all of it done with fuzzy felt :D

But seriously I think a lot of the replies were saying that purely because she didn't say what she was going to do.

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there r consequences to everything you do in life....so...not everything is necessarily to be experienced

i sure hope there is, because im in the same situation!

Im pretty sure there is, many a man here would love to care for you and child, but many would scoff at the idea, and i can hear the replies now.
Most men do know why you are here.
So there is always hope.

of course there are but you need more than just acceptance to build a future.

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im the best!!!!!!!!

yeah, at being the worst....lol

i have been looking for love here on CC...but after 7 months..i found nothing but heartbreak. I accept people as who they are..dont try to change anyone in anyway. Girl with children are welcome, and to start family is fine too.

Yes, there is a definite hope for you. There are a lot of guys who would accept you and your child into a loving relationship. The perfect time will come for you; however, be careful in your choice and make sure it is the right one for you and your child.

I have been looking for love here for 2 years. I thought I found it I as honest and truthful with her. She was nice and sweet to me but after 2 years she find another. I want find someone to love and share my life with

There are probably many men here who would accept you and your child. There are also many men here who have been led on by the promises of hosts, only to find their dreams shattered.
I have been fortunate and unfortunate enough to see both sides of hosting. I wish you the best of luck in your search and all happiness.

I'll have anyone crazy enough to have me :)

fortunately no one is

You're right but as I'm an eternal optomist I live in hope :)

But if you're such a hit with the opposite sex what are you doing here ?

You've nothing to worry about, the guys who aren't interested because you're divorced with a child aren't men, just boys who haven't grown up and never may. There's many good men out there, but you'll not meet too many here (though there are some here) just be patient, don't "settle" for less then you deserve and see what happens.

This is NOT a dating site.

My local is for drinking ..

The rugby club is for sports

the work place is for working ...........

But so many people meeting together ..........

why make rules .... relax... fun happens ,,,,,

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but before i decide, i have one question.... do you have big boobs?

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Absolutely! There are plenty of hopeless romantics on this site who would love to meet the right girl, regardless of whether or not she is a chathost, or has children. Good luck, and as many posters have already said, remember to be patient and careful in your search. What's best for you and your child is most important.

omg! even in real life most of the guys, that interested at u at all - interested just in having sex with u once or twice & not ur gr8 intellect or personality. (no matter what they will tell u) . Even in real life there r tons of guys who don't want to raise their own children, not talking ab another guy child. What do u exspect from adult site, where most of guys come to get off be4 going bed or in daytime break?

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A motivated Romanian girl is very attractive to me. Of course I may be too old for you or not rich enough.

Well I cannot attest to the fact you may or may not find a suitable life partner here. But I do know that divorcees do get married all the time. And I know personally at least 2 individuals from CC who have gone through that to find a better life. Of course, there are many times when it did not work out as well, sadly.

May I ask though, why do you think you would find a more suitable husband or a better father for your child here? I would postulate that your chances of finding the right guy are only increased when you take it out of the particular subset of people who end up on CC looking for women or relationships.

Well, just a thought anyway.. Whatever happens I hope you find happiness for yourself and your child.

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Oh I think you misunderstood my point. I had no thought of money when I talked about a subset of guys who are on CC. We all know not everyone on CC are rich or generous, so I was not thinking that at all. No I just was curious why you thought a man from , for arguments sake, a different country, would hold more credentials than someone from your own. Don't get me wrong, I adore children and if I encountered a single mother I would have no qualms about beginning a relationship if it is was a serious one. In fact in my own family I have just such a situation and if nothing else it shows very much that a man is committed to you and is willing to accept you for who you are and your children too. But any relationship is tough and LDR 's are the toughest. With a child to think about too , well i think you get my point.

I admit I do feel for you, but not in a pitying sense. You seem a smart articulate woman and so if you are not finding the right guy in your life it is either your bad luck or bad timing. Certainly, I don't really think your chances increase on CC. There are far more men here who are transitory and fickle then those who are not. CC just plays to that inherent trait of men to want much more than he can have. And many hosts every really see loyalty from a member?

Anyway, I am sure you will make up your own mind. Like I say , I don't have answers but if you ever need to talk about it I am sure you can find me :)

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I don't know why some people have such a hard time understanding why the girl would be interested in fishing in new waters for a companion. If she has found an endless string of losers in her past whe may want to try a radically new tactic.

Imagine that in your neighbor you couldn't seem to find a decent girl to hang out with. Would you continue to troll the same areas endlessly continuously saying "I'm have to stay near home, can't stary too far."?

If she has the capcity of widening the net further, good luck to her. She must be especially careful of course, because there are lots of guys playing games here, too. But I wish her the best. it IS possible.

Imagine that in your neighborhood you couldn't seem to find a decent girl to hang out with. Would you continue to troll the same areas endlessly continuously saying "I have to stay near home, can't stray too far."?

I am afraid you are making just one assumption too many and that is that the _majority_ not the *minority* of members on this site are honest decent and trustworthy fellows all looking for stable, monogamous relationships.

Having been a member of CC for 5 years + in my experience I am quite sure this is not the case.

Most members start of with some sort set of ideals, true. But given free reign in the candy shop makes you develop a sweet tooth. Few members are very loyal and those that are are not usually on CC for very long.

Hence I do not think it is widening the 'pool' at all. In fact quite the opposite. Because the subset of men who are members of CC are not the ones who are putting ads in the lonely hearts pages.

Of course if you have evidence to the contrary I would willingly accept I am mistaken. But if it is all the same to you , I'd rather not hold my breath about it.

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Having been a member here since the first couple months of cc's inception (what is it 7 years now?) and another site a few years before that I will retell my best advise. Possible, but not likely.

However, I do know enough successes her to say that I never say "never" here, though I advise great care on both the member and host's part.

But if ro-host is willing so am I if our paths cross. Though I do prefer that she can make good ciorba.

Hehe... well if she makes a good ciorba then I would not mind babysitting either :) I do wish her the best of course, and who knows maybe our paths have already crossed and i've missed my chance to learn a bit more cooking skills. :)

Noroc friend,

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I, for one, am particularly drawn to the Romanian culture and can say that under the right circumstances I could imagine a life-long pairing with a girl who can whip up a decent bowl of ciorba. ;-)

I am a bit hesitant to be involved with a girl with kids, but that always depends on the chemistry, doesn't it? Lifestyles must mesh, expectations must mesh, but in life, with people of pure hearts and good will all things are possible.

The thing that I have found here in the online culture is that many guys hide things about ex-wives, kids, deep emotional and financial committments to previous families. The other thing is that you might guys of more mature years answering you. You may find it hard to imagine sleeping every night with a 50+ year old man.

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I'm 92 ... is that older enough ??? ;))

its in your post and dont deny that you are telling the ro-host that she will not be able to find a man here only becuase she has a child. I dont trust in your good man mask.

Children on either side make a relationship a bit tricky sometimes. I've met three hosts with children and I could sense the chemistry was questionable with two of the kids, even if the hosts and I had a nice time. I sensed the chemistry with one kid as being better than the chemistry with the host.

So I was willing, but wary that it could work out long-term. I feel that if I enter a three-way relationship, by entering into an established, if incomplete, family I have a special responsibility to both child and mom.

Well I would not ask you to trust in something you cannot believe in but I would have to ask that before you dismiss my 'good man mask' you at least do the courtesy of knowing me before judging me.

As to the advice I offered ro-host. I never said it was impossible. Anything is possible. However I do think it sounds like she deserves more than to trust in just pure hope and fancy. Yes it is pragmatic of me and call me a cynic but I have seen more happy things come out of CC and more bad ones than most members here.

That does not mean to say anything is guaranteed. It is all just a matter of probability. And given the way CC is, I would not idle months or more looking for a father to my child or a husband to keep me company. I could definitely ensure I was not lonely though or adored and sought after, but at the end of the day what comfort is that when all you want, need, deserve is some genuine love and attention and be a good wife and a good mother.

Who knows..? Maybe I will be proved wrong and next week the same host will post that the man of her dreams came into her room and all is well with the world. To me though, she sounds like she deserves better than just empty promises and CC is sure stacked up to the gills with them, I can assure you.

It is only my opinion take it or leave it, but there is no point trying to change it :)

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"...The question is: is there any man who would accept me as i am ?..."
Yes..., maybe you will find him here... but who are you ???

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You are perfectly right :)

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OK, here it is: SLEEPYDREAMR

BonnyKasl did bait and switch with me

how is a name change a "bait and switch" or as ur posting name suggests "scam"???
ever thought maybe the boss made her change? or she now works home? or she went to a dfferent studio?
the way u guys throw out the word "scam" is pathetic i been here longer than most members and never been "scammed" as u put it maybe u should try thinking first b4 u use the word

good post.

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Ok, two same posts on one page is cool. Hope we are not gonna face third one. That reminds me of CherryMary and SexyHana, the poor girls used to take the most of forum space :P

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Who's old and boring? Trisky and Gortensia?

Hahahahahahahahahaha)))))))

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Triksy, speaking of CherryMary, may I ask you, do you know whatever happened to her?

No, sorry, neither about SexyHana :P

All right Triksy, thank you :)

i liked sexyhana ..she invited me to brazil ))

I don't know about anyone else.
But bait has me thinking of fishing! :D

I like cruising also ;)

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You didn't read my post below. Mine DID show up in the end, so it is 41!

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how can a host possibly find out about a members personal life, unless the member reveals it?

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vera, are you saying that if a member tells a host he has a kid or kids, but is divorced and is looking for new relationship, and being honest about it, the host still wants nothing to do with him because of his past? In other words is the member better off lieing to the host about such things?

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I see what you're getting at vera, you have a good point. Thanks for answering my post...... :))

why all the focus on members...many many host lie to mislead and figure not disclosing their personal relationship will scare off members

men simply want the challenge to gratify their ego...some act on it others no

You should have a plan B. The one time I met someone from online (not CC by the way... wasn't a member yet... In fact, she was a friend of a girl that I met on another site, not a chathost, strangely enough), I made sure that I had all my bases covered. I knew other people in the country that I went to. I had travelers checks, credit cards, cash, and a photocopy of my passport. I also had all of my information (like credit card and travelers check numbers) in an email account that I created just for my trip. (Mix the numbers up of course... don't put them in the exact order... Make up a code of your own). The point is that you need to be sure that you are okay in the event that the person does not show up. Consider all possibilities. Other than getting killed, you should be able to deal with every scenario. (Even if I lost all of my bags, money, et cetera, I was just an internet connection at my embassy away from being okay.) Oh, and buy health and emergency (health, political problems) evacuation insurance too... It isn't all that expensive.

LOOLL!!! Good one :))) Can`t stop laughing!!!!

I am not joking. Maybe I am paranoid, but I went to Eastern Europe to meet a total stranger. How do I know how things will go or what will happen? Maybe she doesn't show up at the airport. Maybe she sets me up and has a boyfriend who kicks my a$$ and rips me off. I have been lied to before by chathosts (yes, I know members lie too sometimes so save your posts ladies) so I really did not know what to expect. Obviously I trusted her enough to visit, but you can never trust someone 100% until you meet and get to know them better... and even then, you still are disappointed sometimes. I was just being cautious, and I would like to know where I went too far?

you didn't go too far,you took away the excitement of the unknown,the unexpected.nothing wrong with being a steady eddy,just not the way i like to live my life.to each their own.

Just which part of his plan took away the adventure? I see the adventure was still there 100%, just that he was ready if his pockets were picked at the airport.

It happened to a friend of mine. By a set of strangers, of course, not the people they were meeting, but their pockets were picked clean and without the on-line back-up info it would have been even worse.

The only mistake was the traveleres checks, as Eastern Europeans have never seen them and they can only be cashed at certain banks after waiting in long lines and high commissions.

for a perfessor youir readin sjills aren't great or mayve you don't understand the meaning of unknown.the way he set up his trip,it was more like a kontiki pensioners trip.no living by the sear of his pants,bo pushing hislimits,his survival skills.safety first.as i said nothing wrong,his choice,just not the way i choose yo live my life.comprenende?

Too bad your typing skills are so bad. LOL

Only an idiot goes strange places with no research. Do you close your eyes, throw a dart at a map, stuff your pockets with cash and leave without any questions? You don't read travel brochures or talk to people who have gone there? If so you miss much good things, too.

Have you ever lost your passport and needed it replaced in a foreign country? If you have you better have access to a copy of it to show the embassy. Did you ever lose your money orders? You better have a list of numbers. Did you ever get lost in a foreign city? You better have a map and know a very few words of that language.

By reading some travel books I have learned traps to avoid, things to look for and had a better time.

Just for the record, I have cashed travelers checks in Russia and Romania. In Russia, a hotel gift shop cashed them and I wasn't even a guest. In Romania, major bank cashed them but only in the capital, not in the smaller cities. (I didn't try some of the larger cities besides Bucharest.) The commission was not outrageous in either case. I'm not even sure if I paid a commission in Russia. And now with Romania in the EU and its economy expanding via western cash inflows, it might be even easier to cash them.

Thanks for having my back. Ah.... another backup plan that I didn't even know I had, lol.

No, dude. Travelers cheques are totally old (call it ancient) -school. And if you paid ANY commission you got screwed. And don't try to tell me the transaction took any less than 15 minutes plus line wait.

Cash Card is the ONLY way to go. But tell your bank you are going to Romania and NEVER let the card out of your direct control. I only used mine in major bank machines.

Had the atm card, prepaid debit card, credit cards.... and did let my bank know about where I was going. Paid probably 1% at bank in Romania, maybe less. I only changed about $100 so I didn't really care. I wasn't going to go shopping around, and yes, I did have to wait.

And while "old school", I brought travelers checks because I thought that they might be easier to replace while traveling than a cash card. And cash cards charge commissions at atms by the way, at least the ones I know about.

True. But they are sooooooo easy to use and better that packing $2000 in cash in the many corners of so many secret pockets spread over my whole body.

The only regret I have is a hot little number that hit on me on the street in Satu Mare.

A half hour before I had gotten some cash and didn't stash the cash and the cards yet so I had to blow her off totally. You never know who the expert pick-pockets are. :-(

why when i read this little chat does the song,love is in the air keep playing in my head.no it's not because it is the only thing in there.i know there is at least,we gotta get outta this place,in there too.

You pay a fee/commission when you buy the travellers cheques and also when you exchange them for cash. The exchange rate against a cash card transaction is usually better than that for cashing travellers cheques.

don't forget about your condoms

I didn't lol, although she had her own. (See? Everyone has a backup plan.)

And there are few things better than hearing a beautiful, young eastern European model tell you "I love to f*ck" while you are in bed. Mmmmmmm. Although I could live without the prima dona aspect of women like that.

(I liked her as a person and cared about her too just for the record. I didn't fly to another country for sex. Unfortunately, she was too young and wanted to live her life more, travel, finish school, et cetera before gettng serious.... Keep that in mind all of you older guys chasing young women... Age often becomes an issue no matter how well you get along as people.)

when you are a steady eddy,you seem older,less adventurous,even less exciting to younger girls.

A woman ready for marriage would want someone that is dependable and reliable. A woman not ready for marriage would focus on living for the moment. Balance is good of course, and after all, I did go there in the first place. A member would think that was a great idea but the average person would think that I was insane so perhaps I am not so "steady" as you think.... I drive fast in my car but wear a seatbelt too. ;)

yes but you drive a rolls canardly ;)

I think that it is time for me to rethink my position against animal sacrafice. :p

It is very much a cultural thing. Most of the younger East European girls live life in the short-term. They are much more willing to bed a guy of any age who can show them some life experiences, but you are only a chapter in their book, they are not willing to make you the center of their lives.

When they hit 25 or 26 they start to look around to build a nest. If you are looking for a mate you have to catch them at just the right time and in the right frame of mind.

loooking for a mate,lmao.

It almost happened to me. I flew into Manila, and she was supposed to meet me outside the airport. I walked out to this area where there were hundreds of people waiting, but no sign of her. Hehehe...I had met this nice vietnamese/american on the flight who had a driver picking him up, and he had offered to drive my gf and I to my hotel. When she wasn't there, he had pity written all over his face....lol

Even the armed police guy guarding the entry seemed to feel sorry for me and allowed me back into the terminal to look for her there.

Finally, she showed up. Traffic had been horrible...and she also confessed that she had been postponing to the last minute because she was terrified to meet me in person. Hehehe...funny how someone can really be a "little shy" once you take them away from the computer screen. :P

Must be terrible if someone really doesn't show up at all; I've read posts where people describe this. In my case, before she showed up, I remember thinking that I was gonna have a nice vacation no matter what. For one thing, there certainly was not a shortage of beautiful women in that country...very nice and approachable too. Of course the purpose of the trip was only to meet HER, but if she had turned out to be a flake I think I would still have had a nice vacation.

Bottom line is that no one should committ to meeting someone else in person if they don't have the intention of following through. I can understand the anxiety around meeting someone for real for the first time, but having someone travel thousands and miles and then let them down is just cruel.

Have a nice trip...I'm sure everything works out! :)

Could you try making your post a little shorter next time? I always fall to sleep before i get to the end your posts. Geez!

No.

sure your names not boozer?lmao!

Not even...I'm pretty sure it is the same host who like to attack my posts...think I recognize the Boso name from a thread a few months back...Don't even know her, but if it is who I think it is, she's definitely one of the best values on the site, pound for pound. ;)

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I should mention. I am not worried about my girl meeting me at the airport. This is not our first meeting. This time we are meeting in a country different from hers or mine. But it made me want to ask others the question!

In general I would not be worried. Be prepared but not worried!

See you all in two weeks!

Good luck and have fun;)

I never had any NOT show up. BUT,I did go there to AT WORST make a friend. Hopefully,you've been talking to said hosts for a few months,to get to know them.Of course,be prepared,like warned above. I'll be going back overseas in a few weeks,to spend time with some of the girls I met in Ro ages ago,before I go on to teach at another EE country. Good luck,Cuz!!

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why would a man travel hundreds or thousands of miles just to visit with a lady who is married and even has her husband with her on top of that.?
weird

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Beats me.... weird for sure....

Met alot here, always had a great time, but always be careful physically and emotionally. As for money it comes and goes :) Passport, keep a copy at home with friends to send if you loose it.

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That is great, and perfectly respectable. Just remember that people are different in this respect. Many of us who met someone here did not PLAN getting involved for real...nor is it because we cannot find someone where we live...it's just nature taking its course. That's fine, too...my cup of tea doesn't need to be yours, or vice versa...right? ;)

Because men here have a "knight in shining armour" idea that they will "rescue" a beautiful foreign women from poverty and life happily ever after with lots of rampant sex.

In reality the "poor" girl often has about 5 men on the go, all sending her money for her sick dog/mother/grandmother/hamster.

SOME do have 5 men "on the go" sending money, but it's not as common as you thinmk, because a scam like that takes a lot of work and the girls here are seldom thinking of ways to truly maximize their earnings here, even in the 'above-the-board' strategies a host can legitimately use here.

The vast majority of the girls here sit (and often sleep) in front of the computer monitor waiting passively for the "beep" of a member entering video.

I seldom worry about the classic scams here. The worst thing that I find is the slow-to-strip girl.

Sorry, the second paragraph was a bit of an exaggeration :). But there is often a lack of sincerity from the hosts based on just getting more money from the viewer. But the first thing - the "rescue"....that's so true, and those men need to get over it. It's not like that.

"(T)he "poor" girl often has about 5 men on the go" is a true industry that I DON'T find here. It is mostly in the mail-order bride business.

The insincerity here goes both ways. I know girls that send the hometown boyfriend away as she spends time with a foreign lover (or maybe mark) and also the member who says he is single and available and even wrangles a few in-country visits until the wife finds out.

I know one mature member who has visited a Russian babe a couple times and had her on a monthly allowance for over a year since the last time he saw her. I asked him if the sex was that good to keep paying for it months and months later. He also sent money for bedroom sets and vacations. She doesn't really work him at this, he is a willing contributor in an attempt to secure her attachment to him. He doen't seem to get it.

It's still a tad too expensive!

$0.75, low enough?

Ok, ok... Deal :-D

could be great...or could be terrible.

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lol you must be kidding :P Or you are deeply in Non-adult and have no idea about what is going on beyond it :P
Wank wank... Oops i mean wink wink :)

LMAO)))))))

It is nerves at first meeting, when couple know nothing about each other. CCmail me your mobile phone number, and i will talk to you :D

Isn't it your job to entertain us ?
As for the phone we want to hear you talk dirty and are to busy with other things to chat.

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The host gets paid to chat. The viewer does not. As long as the viewer is in your video, you are making money. So just shut up!

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In free chat they have no right to waste your time. But when they are in paid videochat, they can say alot or say nothing. Just do your show and think about the money you are making.

Good post Cassy!
Your making an important suggestion,
so viewers will get more out of their video session
with a chathost.
Its about the viewer and chathost interacting.
Its sad that some viewers don't see, that
the reason a video session was not as enjoyable,
was their own fault!

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I am NOT offended that a host is here for the money. This is a business. All business exists to make money, otherwise they wil go out of business.

er...who?

ur cute as a bunny...

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nice yahmamoto :P

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cool wanda--you are sweet

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always keep an open mind about things. most relationships dont work out in the end whether they are in real or on the net. if you dont trust people you will lose more than if you do trust and get burned again. just a thought .

I also admire Charlotte and Wanda. I feel that both are very creative and have an excellent personality. I did not know they had a bad experience, but if they did they do not deserve to be treated in a bad way. Wanda and Charlotte, continue to be yourselves and lots of good wishes for suceess in the ftture.

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We do have to chat in the near future. I would like that.

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charlotte,, hey im chase,, how do you do,, i heard you were a business lady--cool,,, can we have lunch,, i have a proposal to check out with you

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Charlotte you made me scared :(

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how can you say that all guys are incapable of any relationship because they go to the internet. i have friends here so i disagree.

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Oh you're so clever! Why can't those dumb men just see things your way? It's never about you....it's always them. They're dumb and you are smart. If all men could just live by your rules the world would be perfect and faultless - just like you are!

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I read it again and if there's something between the lines of 'all men on-line are....' then I'm missing it.

I can't really believe you've met that many men and they've all been the same. It just tells me you attract a certain type by the way you behave. Or you make men behave a certain way by the way you act towards them.

It just seems to me that you might need to look at yourself and not others.

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Most of them will in 121. This is a fantasy site D'Oh

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Actually can we do both experinece and fantasy :)

yessssssssssssssss

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well done romania!

WHO????

WHAT????

why??

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have to take into account the over inflating on the host part...lol

Romania!!!!

Yeah, 1-0 to Romania.
Well done lads!
(5 bookings too) :-O

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Romania has been screwed before by refs (2003 extra penalty time, for example) like every other team in every sport. You just hope that the calls even out in the end.

There's a 60% chance of rain in Amsterdam on this upcomming Tuesday, October 16th.
Please, don't unfairly call someone a liar... it's not nice. :(

October is normally a wet month there, so you were extremely lucky to get dry sunny weather.

check this girl's what?

Ninel, the host name may be new, but the host??? :p
Love your pics, though :D

Vera, a short explanation about what was going on, would be fine with me. :D

Lmao))

As a viewer, I tend to always stick with 121 sessions to avoid this type of awkwardness. However, for the sake of your question, if I was the second viewer to enter a chat, where the first viewer requested the host to speak, I would probably just ask that the host respond to my questions through text chat. Although, I can't imagine that I'd stay very long. So, I'd probably just leave and return later.

I still don't understand why anyone would want to enter a host's room through open session if they can see that another viewer is already there. Maybe if they knew the other viewer, and had coordinated to chat with the same host? But still...I'd much rather have the host's full attention. IMHO.

personally i would never join a vid session that was already underway...so guess not an issue for me

just be glad you had 2 viewers and the meter running on cost, so why you bother with on who listens to what, just speak to both of them

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personally I never visit glamore girls,..so this is will naver hapen with me & gortensia

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I would ask her to pose for me and if possible undress - thats all :-)

Why not?
I like magic! :D

lol nice reply

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Lmao again topaz(K)

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What tricks? Stalling or scamming?

too late,she clicked her fingers & i can't stop strutting around,hands under my armpits cackling like a chicken

There is a love of viewer's credit cards by hosts.

i agree--come see us

And love of viewers for our boobs and pussies, nails and feet and hell knows what else lol)

What love?
Almost 5 years here and I never saw anything close to love... Just lies and scofs.
Viewers paid; hosts perform and the wheel continues to roll.

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yep, more than sure.
I trusted a few and they let me down.

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uuuuu!!!!!!! trusted!!!!?????? looooooooooooooool

trust doesn't mean that i have to be dumb and ignore what you say and do with others!

not say that u not saw and dont know exactly. u just in love with yourself. i heard u r leaved cc. lol? r u still here?

No, i haven't leave yet. Why are you so worried that I am here? Afraid I might tell your "new victim" who you really are? :-P

respect 2 u

Ohh not again. :P

I know!
Its too soon for reruns! :D

why is that topazsky-you still having problems with the first run

ha ha lol
Actually, I meant like in the new television season.
Repeat programs already! :D

Hehehe...I knew you were gonna get some flak for posting that. However, you are right...finding love in cc is a recurring hot topic. Sometimes these longer threads degenerate into some off-topic bickering and quarreling between two members or a member and a host, so I don't think starting a second "run" was such a bad idea.

I've posted this question in the past, and I found that people's viewpoints on the topic differ tremendously:

There's always the cynical "what the fuck do you mean by love...this is all about sex and money!?" There's the sad "I'd thought I'd found love, but he/she turned out to be a liar." Quite a few members and hosts take the more balanced view that people are people no matter what, and that nothing is impossible...you attract what you are.

Occasionally, a member or host will post that they found someone here and are living happily married or in a committed relationship. However, I suspect that most people in this category sooner or later kiss this site goodbye, simply because it no longer fulfills a need for them...so these posts are probably not a good indicator of how many people have found real love here.

I am in a committed relationship with someone I met here, but I agree with those who say that this is probably not the best place to look for love. I would also add to this that I think that looking for love in another person is generally not a great idea in the first place. There's nothing wrong in wanting to share your life experiences with another person, but when we become obsessed with finding love we often loose ourselves and end up suffering. By learning to accept and love ourselves we become happier and healthier, and other people are attracted to us.

The sad thing about this topic is that it shows how many people are hungry for some intimacy and love in their lives. I sincerely believe that many (not all) of those who steadfastly proclaim that they only come here to wank and nothing more are secretly wishing for something more fulfilling in their lives. This is probably true with regards to hosts vs. the money issue, as well.

Finding love anywhere, including here, is never impossible. However, distinguishing the real thing from the rubbish is the challenge. However, this is true for all other venues as well!

Unfortunately, we all tend to be infatuated with money and possessions, and women (and to some degree men) are genetically programmed to seek financial security and stability. This is only part of the picture, though, and life is not all black and white.

Although I cringe when I think about the amounts I used to spend here in the past, I think CC fulfills a need for many people, whatever these needs are.

The only people who slightly irritate me are the ones who appear to believe that their own experiences should define reality for everyone else, i.e. "this is the way it is...", "get a clue...", "case closed!" ....you get the picture. :P

What we get in life depends greatly on our believes system and what we are as humans with regards to maturity, spiritual growth, etc.. From that point of view, anyone expressing their opinion on this topic is speaking the truth! It is when we insist that everyone else's experience should match our own that we get into trouble.

Everyone should be allowed to voice their opinion here, as long as their attention is not to injure or hurt another person (member or host). Just my two cents on the topic...

Good luck to everyone to everyone in their quest for love, intimacy, money or sexual bliss! ;P

you don't find love,it finds you,but in my case it is blind.:--)

C'mon guys! Don't be so pathetic. This is a Porn site for God's sake!

What took you so long? ;P

Oh, come on...it can't be that bad? ;)

If you found love here as you say and if she is still here as an adult host, how do you cope with her stripping for a zillion guys? Serious question.

Its the same if someones spouse was an actor or actress.
And they were called on in a movie to do a love scene with
someone other than who they are married or in love with.
Its accepting who the other person is and what they do.
How else can there be love?

ever heard of respect to whom you love?

not me. first thing i make her do is stop. i think guys who let there gfs or wives continue to strip are no worse than pimps. besides there could be all kinds of stories, etc about her that develop.

Good for you! It is good that there are some people here like yourself...pillars of moral fortitude. I agree, those of us who "let' our gf's work here are nothing but pimps! Actually, since I make as much money in 3 days as my gf does in 1 month, I really wish I didn't have to be a pimp anymore. Do you have any good suggestions on how I can "un-let" her working here? I really hope you can help me out, because last time I checked my gf was an individual with her own free will. So tell me PLEASE...I really don't want to be a pimp!!! ;)

Hehehe...if it is true that ignorance is bliss...then there must be some really happy campers on this board!

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You are right, but you misunderstood my post entirely. I was using irony. This is why I put "let" in quotation marks. Read it again and see if it makes more sense now?

Of course if you love someone it is not about "letting" your partner do anything. They have their own free will, and I was merely challenging the poster who said he would never let his gf or wife work here and that all guys with gf's working in cc are nothing but pimps.

So, amazed, I think that you and I agree on this...right?

Anon, I appreciate your question, but I think that topazky did an excellent job answering it for me; he's got the main point covered!

However, since your question appears to be sincere and perhaps you have personal reasons for asking, I will add a few points of my own:

I admit that my gf continue to work her HAS caused some problems for us, and it still is not always easy. There have been arguments, especially in the beginning, and insecurity and jealousy has occurred on both sides. I would be willing to support my gf financially, but she will not allow it, and I have to say that in a way I respect that. I realize, as does she, that her working here is a temporary measure. We communicate openly about our feelings and that helps a great deal.

From time to time I get jealous, particularly when viewers talk about meeting in person or proclaim that "they're in love!" Lol, I know I should be over this, but I'm only human. I just try not to get stuck in that; and try to focus on my own life until the negative feelings dissapate. Because we are in daily contact and I know in my heart that my feelings are reprociated, I know that being jealous is a waste of time and energy. I remind myself if she decides to go with someone else, I would still be OK. Disappointed, but I would be OK.

Again, dealing with this is not always easy, but topazky's analogy of an actress is actually a good one. My GFs regulars would hate me for saying this, but that is what she does here...she's an actress. Do I like it? No. Am I willing to live with it for the time being? Yes, I can do that. I know what she is and what she means to me, and that is what really matters.

Did I answer your question? ;)

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Yes, me too!

The answers to your questions, my lovely MadisonLee, whose "doh!s" and "jeeeez!s" are remniscent of a thread long gone but not forgotten...oh wait...I guess you want a short (brief) message (post)....so here we go: Yes I CAN (when I want to) and no, I am not Melomane. I am flattered by the comparison, though! I am open to criticsm when I feel it is warranted. However, in this case my recommendation to you would be to just skip my posts going forward, cause it ain't gonna change! ;P

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Wow. Sweet girl!

not a new melomane,just a new handle.

Seriously, I'm not him. Hey, Inspector Morse...that was a great series!

if it walks like a duck,quacks like a duck,walks like a duck,the odds are...

Yes and very candidly. Thanks.

a stretch at best.

Chathosts come here to work, of course.
This is not a place where viewers
should be looking for a woman to date.
Relationships do develope here,
like anywhere else.
Women admire a man who will stand
for what he believes in.
So if a man does not want his girlfriend
working in a place like this.
He should be firm and let her know
right from the start!
It is wrong to say nothing, then complain
when the relationship gets more serious.
Every person must decide for themselves
what they want to do.
No one can force anyone!

<<<you attract what you are>>>
Not true. All human beings are different; we all posses different attitudes and behaviors. The key is in the good or bad intention(s) in heart of each of us. I had trusted a few hosts here and they in return they treated me as an idiot and made me believe all I wanted for their own amusement. It's true, I am not even close to look good, but at least is not so hard to say "sorry, but I only like you as a friend." I don't go declaring love to anyone, however I thought that a "I like you so much", "I am giving you my address and phone number only to you becuase I only trust you here" or a "I want to be with you always" were true and I usually proceeded to grow feelings on lies. Just lines that were being told to others... Now, I don't believe in anybody or anyone anymore. I learned that no one here can be trusted.

or u was not on line full 2 week! i was must waiting for u? better i will find other whom i will in love

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That's exactly one of the points that made me angry all the time!
I always paid my sessions, but then girls always give other free privates! C'mon!

too long ang boring 2 read

women come here to earn money for themselves, their family and their pimps (aka studio bosses)

did i mention there bf's?

they do?shock,horror!!so that means nothing else enters their thoughts or feelings?lucky there are such wise sages on here to counsel us daydream believers.

you guessed it:D

good job they didnt cut off his balls by accident :P

wouldnt it have been easier to just cool or ice his balls down again?

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very well could be.my reading is almost as bad as my spelling,lol.

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In Wales I can believe any thing.
Strange people we are.
Where can i get a pair of those panties?

ok

uh, yeah

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Yes, I can become interested in a host in text chat by what is being said and how it is being said. After chatting with a host by text chat for a short time I become interested in that host even more and want to go to video chat which can turn me on even more. Yes, I can be turned on by just chatting.

riv you have sumed it up really well cos i was just thinkin gthe same thing. I agree totally, cos i do the same :)

Absolutely yes, it happens to me still every day.

While my girl is still works occasionally on CC. I think the day will come when she is gone for good.

I only chat with her in Yahoo now and it does not need to be sexual to get turned on. It is a natural high just spending chat time with her. I cant wait until we are together again... :)

no

Only when we are talking about you.

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Yes, just like in real: even not a very handsome guy can be loved by women while the handsome one is just a bore. So, it's not only up to what you see. Women love with their ears.

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yes , he can ;)

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Depends on how good you are with your tongue ;)

I`m good with my tongue Triksy :)) :P
I can only speak english but it rolls off my tongue pretty easily :))

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Spending lots of money is the best turn on.

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Thats very sad to hear and i guess yes, not many of ther guys here are able to forget about camsites once for all when they get married..Sad but true. Internet is a gr8 addiction for many ppl. Not only men btw, im sure women too.

Cheer up girl, what doesnt kill us-makes us stronger.And yes, u will see soon how much happier u can be without him;) Mwa)

MonikaBabe,
I would give up everything to be with you.

Thank u, but who are u?(K)

Thanks for sharing this. You are right. His Loss, he lives to much in fantasy, if you carried on hosting I bet he'd be back to see wot your upto sooner or later, thats what happened to me, he was addicted to the virtual cybersexing, rather than the reality.

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Being online can be addictive. I have been addicted to sex sites, non-sex sites, even to simply surfing news sites. If you and I were together you can be certain sex sites would no longer be in my Favorites file.

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It's sad that when people complain, we only hear one part of the story, And we rush in on commenting that the guy or girl is bad and bla bla...
But in every story there's 2 sides of story and in those cases lets say a male and female both think they're right, but only one side of story reaches here...So without that you FORMER HOST can be wrong, or maybe you can be right and your ex is wrong, but also.. You can BOTH be wrong lol :)...
No offense or anything, just saying that you cant judge a story like this just hearing it from one side, in a way your right and in a way you can be wrong. :)

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"something to mention" is right. There are ALWAYS two sides. However, with a willing, attractive, available woman nearby one does tend to think he had a few too many screws loose.

I do know one guy who treated his foreign wife as a trophy that once won he lost interest in. Another couldn't find the balls to support his foreign-born wife as she bore the brunt of family bitterness, including that of the ex-wife. Yet another guy warned the foreign girl that his adult daughter always came first in his heart. She didn't believe him and soon found herself essentially the extended family's maid, cook and chauffer.

I will admit I enjoyed CC for the live connection and learning about Romania and Russia from the girls here. I did a good amount of video at one time with only a very small fraction being nude shows.

If I have an addiction, it is an addiction for a beautuful woman and once we are together in life this site is history in my mind. I can't imagine why I would come here unless to write about how great my life was with my girl and to give others hope as I found here.

She's not living with me yet, but I cant imagine it will be much longer.

Best of Luck...

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it takes time to know really know someone.

SHIT HAPPENS!!!!!!!!!!!

so clean it up :--)