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Love in CC - Is It Possible??? (long post!)
Just kidding!...I'm just trying to annoy a certain host. ;) Got the evil streak today, I think. :P
RE: Love in CC - Is It Possible??? (long post!)
Yeah...I know; I'll try to wait at least a few months before I bring up that topic again! ;) lol
RE: Love in CC - Is It Possible??? (long post!)
Yes, but at least you still opened the post anyway! Hehehe....Reading some of the other replies directly above yours, I get a feeling that not everyone did, if you know what I mean? :P
RE: Love in CC - Is It Possible??? (long post!)
To tell you honestly, some posts i open automatically and very often dont go farther than the first few words. But since i replied to this one, yeah i did read it all and yeah i'm annoyed :P
RE: Love in CC - Is It Possible??? (long post!)
He doesn't annoy me but posts like yours do :)
RE: Love in CC - Is It Possible??? (long post!)
not me,though he refused to come to the station for further questioning.
RE: Love in CC - Is It Possible??? (long post!)
Thanks for the support INYF, Laughing Girl and awol. Hey, I guess I can be annoying, but I'm prepared to take the risk of not being liked by everyone...online as well as offline.
I knew there were some severely unhappy members around, but had no idea that there were so many hosts in such a pissy mood!
Well, too bad for them...I suppose...cause I'm not planning to leave for a while! I've chatted with some really neat people here, members and hosts. As long as these positives are in the majority, I plan to stick around and post whatever I want. ;)
I knew there were some severely unhappy members around, but had no idea that there were so many hosts in such a pissy mood!
Well, too bad for them...I suppose...cause I'm not planning to leave for a while! I've chatted with some really neat people here, members and hosts. As long as these positives are in the majority, I plan to stick around and post whatever I want. ;)
RE: Love in CC - Is It Possible??? (long post!)
Who knows if it's possible? Who cares?
Once I got married to a CC chat host.
Once I got married to a CC chat host.
a password?
hello all! I have been in private free session and after finishing it i found a message in my mailbox with a question from unknown guy about giving a password i used for session to him. I said we
havent met even so what password? isnt it clear that if i used it i wanted to be alone? What do u think girls, guys?
havent met even so what password? isnt it clear that if i used it i wanted to be alone? What do u think girls, guys?
RE: a password?
Yes, it should have been clear to him that you wanted to be alone. However, some people lack that basic shred of intelligence, known as common sense, that is oh so crucial to survival, yet somehow manage to make it in life. But don't worry, natural selection catches up with these people sooner or later.
RE: a password?
A texter can READ what the host and viewer types IF the both type in open. But they can't read his words.
RE: a password?
You said "as opposed to One2One where chatters can enter text chat." And I meant that one can enter textchat mode, but can't be read and can only read what is written in open text.
RE: a password?
Why do you find this so intriguing and make such an issue of it. If the guy looked at "Who's on line" or at her profile and clicked the Videochat button he would see the host was in a free session with a password. As there is only one person registered to that hostname it is a very reasonable assumption that it was actually MoodySnake in that session. Where is the mystery? I would also point out that both the "Who's on Line" page and her profile would show that she had a free session but not that it was password protected. If the member was actively looking for a host with a free session this would have led him to her.
RE: a password?
they can enter but not interact - they can read what the host and viewer say IF they are in open chat, but can't talk back or see anything
RE: a password?
It's just some members being cynical. They know the girls have their preferences to give free sessions to their favorite viewers and they like to tease by messaging the girls to give them the passwords. MoodySnake is acting up like she doesn't know what happened, but the truth is that she was in free private and some member wanted the password, hehehehe
RE: a password?
MoodySnake makes it clear she knows exactly what happened. She just asked us for our opinion about a member who she has never actually chatted with asking for the password to a free private session,
what's the record?
Who has been in touch with a host the longest?
I almost have my 2 year anniversay :)
Anybody that kept in touch longer?
I almost have my 2 year anniversay :)
Anybody that kept in touch longer?
RE: what's the record?
ex-hosts i have 2 that I have known for over 4 years. one sends me Christmas cards every year. i chat with the other on Yahoo on a regular basis.
current hosts 2-3 years.
when some leave cc they disappear as if to erase there past. they delete there Yahoo accounts and you never hear from them again.
sometimes they leave suddenly without warning anyone.
current hosts 2-3 years.
when some leave cc they disappear as if to erase there past. they delete there Yahoo accounts and you never hear from them again.
sometimes they leave suddenly without warning anyone.
RE: what's the record?
nice M :) long time. According to my session statistics :) Dec 2004 for ex host and I called her yesterday to see how the weather is. Jan 2005 for current host, but I don\'t really go to her vid anymore, just BS on yahoo.
huh??
A guy says he has been on this site for seven years and came from another well-known site. What's bullshit about that? It mirrors my experience.
RE: what's the record?
I was about to boast that I had smashed your record of 2 but then I realised you said years not minutes :(
Birthday gifts
What is the right amount of money to send to a girl for a birthday gift so it doesn't seem like you are trying to buy her?
RE: Birthday gifts
that is a question with no right or wrong answer.it comes down to individuals & their relationship.only you will know,imo.
RE: Birthday gifts
its will only encourage her to look for money from you. send flowers or gift instead
RE: Birthday gifts
$200 may be a bit excessive, if you don't want to give the impression that you're trying to buy her. I agree with "me," perhaps a gift would be a better option, and shows more thought. If you feel like money is the best way, then perhaps a smaller amount "for fun," along with a gift.
new versus old hosts
I find that new hosts - those that that started in the last few weeks or months are far more interesting than those that have been here for years. The newer girls still find interest and are fresher (and younger!). I think many girls who keep working here for a long period get 'burnt out' they are often the stallers who invent tricks to waste time and they have simply seen too many viewers. Stands to reason I'm afraid. most girls want to earn but some just cease to wish to entertain.
RE: new versus old hosts
And i think new guy are far more interesting than oldies. At least they dont think they are "the judges"
RE: new versus old hosts
i agree an interesting and beautiful crop of hosts. some though can never match some of the oldies like Tata and Tiasia.
RE: new versus old hosts
not sure what you are saying Gort. stalling is something i have not encountered here in years. its ok for host to try to keep session longer. why not if guys are cheap.most new girls i see are willing to perform in a timely fashion as long as we are polite to them and do not demand stuff not agreed beforehand. for those that dont strip is fine as long as they say so up front.
RE: new versus old hosts
I think it is probably that when a girl starts she has fewer preconceived notions of what she should do. Also its more fun when you start. Finding out what members like, lets face it does not vary that much:) once you have been on line for a while. Also she is keener to find regulars who will support her.
RE: new versus old hosts
I always thought everybody knows that when you are new to something, you are more intersted in it, rather than if you are used to it.
And you sound like you have discovered something brand new and exciting. But well, better late than never, right? :P
kisses
And you sound like you have discovered something brand new and exciting. But well, better late than never, right? :P
kisses
RE: new versus old hosts
well I've eaten cheeseburgers all my life and I'm still excited about them.......
RE: new versus old hosts
Gortensia if I had had sex with you 6 times one after the other I can assure you I would be just as excited about the 7th time as I was about the 1st :D
RE: new versus old hosts
Isnt that the same in Life ?
A new relationship, fresh start , fun times, new possibilities... all is possible,,
new things to learn, new adventures,,,
But then , is there anything better than someone who knows u better, someone you have some history with , shared times, good and bad,,, problems overcome, trust , and comfort, more relaxing..
Every time and every age has good and bad,,Best to enjoy what you have, and those you know , and know you well, dont loose them...
A new relationship, fresh start , fun times, new possibilities... all is possible,,
new things to learn, new adventures,,,
But then , is there anything better than someone who knows u better, someone you have some history with , shared times, good and bad,,, problems overcome, trust , and comfort, more relaxing..
Every time and every age has good and bad,,Best to enjoy what you have, and those you know , and know you well, dont loose them...
RE: new versus old hosts
I like both new hosts and old hosts. I have become good friends with several hosts and I enjoy chatting with them; however, it is also good to make new friends and I enjoy that. I have just enjoyed my time on cc with both new and old hosts.
RE: new versus old hosts
I also like old friends and old wine, but I still like to try new friends and new brands of wine..But i will not forget to enjoy the old too.
RE: new versus old hosts
Ahh but old whining friends are not the best though, Vera ;) I have a few of those too! Hehe..
TNT
TNT
RE: new versus old hosts
Old hosts are already rich and they do not care if you stay five minutes in video or 50 minutes in video.They also, have old regulars...why they should try to keep you longer when they make enough, anyway?
Plus the fact when they are in video, they have to work..and who wants to work, nowadays??...LOL
Plus the fact when they are in video, they have to work..and who wants to work, nowadays??...LOL
RE: new versus old hosts
While I agree with you in principle Mistress.. I would posit that older and, by definition, more experienced hosts, tend to work smarter and not harder. Supplementing their income by other means such as referrals, an online shop, some value added services.
Over the years I have come to know a lot of very smart hosts, who would not be out of place at all in the business world. In fact many frequently become part of it in other fields.
For my own preferences I like talking to experienced hosts so long as they realise they are talking to an experienced member as well ;) CC does change your perception of people there is no doubt about that. And stay here long enough and you either become very understanding or very jaded.
Of course all the new hosts I talk to eventually become more experienced anyway, so I am never too disappointed really. :)
TNTSHAAOW
Over the years I have come to know a lot of very smart hosts, who would not be out of place at all in the business world. In fact many frequently become part of it in other fields.
For my own preferences I like talking to experienced hosts so long as they realise they are talking to an experienced member as well ;) CC does change your perception of people there is no doubt about that. And stay here long enough and you either become very understanding or very jaded.
Of course all the new hosts I talk to eventually become more experienced anyway, so I am never too disappointed really. :)
TNTSHAAOW
RE: new versus old hosts
I correct myself (humbly) its true that hosts i have visited regularly are nearly always pleased to see you again, I like to have a laugh as well as show and remember things they have told me and most appreciate that . A little caring goes a long way. But if a girl is new here they do tend tobe fresher if its a first visit thanhost who has been round the block. I think gortensia is right many girls do not think they will be here for long but just get stuck in work or find it is more lucrative than they thought!
RE: are y ou in love? what is love for you ?
many,many kinds of love but true love is putting their life ahead if yours.
RE: are y ou in love? what is love for you ?
I hear ya, I hope she puts her life in front of mine,espically when we are talking about flying bullets :)
RE: are y ou in love? what is love for you ?
To me love is a give and take relationship between two consenting partners. The give and take relationship is one that is unconditional and respectful from both partners.
RE: are y ou in love? what is love for you ?
only time can test the strength of your love...may it last many many years to come
RE: should i or shouldnt i ?
Yes of course you should. It's better to regret about smth you have done, rather than about something you never done :P
Good luck:)
P.S. you tell us later what you do, will ya :P
Good luck:)
P.S. you tell us later what you do, will ya :P
RE: should i or shouldnt i ?
Im sure you should...
Its said that we often look back and regret the things we never did ..
not so often the things we did
Its said that we often look back and regret the things we never did ..
not so often the things we did
RE: should i or shouldnt i ?
Funny how many people just tell her to do it, without even having a clue what she is talking about. What if she is considering whether she should or shouldn't... steal your car?.. rob ur flat?.... have sex with ur bf/gf?.... beat you up and take your money? LOL And you told her to do it!
RE: should i or shouldnt i ?
But captain I told her she could only do it if it was with me so we would be stealing my car, robbing my flat, having sex with my imaginary gf, beating me up and taking my money together and all of it done with fuzzy felt :D
But seriously I think a lot of the replies were saying that purely because she didn't say what she was going to do.
But seriously I think a lot of the replies were saying that purely because she didn't say what she was going to do.
RE: should i or shouldnt i ?
there r consequences to everything you do in life....so...not everything is necessarily to be experienced
RE: a serious question for viewers
Im pretty sure there is, many a man here would love to care for you and child, but many would scoff at the idea, and i can hear the replies now.
Most men do know why you are here.
So there is always hope.
Most men do know why you are here.
So there is always hope.
RE: a serious question for viewers
of course there are but you need more than just acceptance to build a future.
RE: a serious question for viewers
i have been looking for love here on CC...but after 7 months..i found nothing but heartbreak. I accept people as who they are..dont try to change anyone in anyway. Girl with children are welcome, and to start family is fine too.
RE: a serious question for viewers
Yes, there is a definite hope for you. There are a lot of guys who would accept you and your child into a loving relationship. The perfect time will come for you; however, be careful in your choice and make sure it is the right one for you and your child.
RE: a serious question for viewers
I have been looking for love here for 2 years. I thought I found it I as honest and truthful with her. She was nice and sweet to me but after 2 years she find another. I want find someone to love and share my life with
RE: a serious question for viewers
There are probably many men here who would accept you and your child. There are also many men here who have been led on by the promises of hosts, only to find their dreams shattered.
I have been fortunate and unfortunate enough to see both sides of hosting. I wish you the best of luck in your search and all happiness.
I have been fortunate and unfortunate enough to see both sides of hosting. I wish you the best of luck in your search and all happiness.
RE: a serious question for viewers
You're right but as I'm an eternal optomist I live in hope :)
But if you're such a hit with the opposite sex what are you doing here ?
But if you're such a hit with the opposite sex what are you doing here ?
RE: a serious question for viewers
You've nothing to worry about, the guys who aren't interested because you're divorced with a child aren't men, just boys who haven't grown up and never may. There's many good men out there, but you'll not meet too many here (though there are some here) just be patient, don't "settle" for less then you deserve and see what happens.
RE: a serious question for viewers
My local is for drinking ..
The rugby club is for sports
the work place is for working ...........
But so many people meeting together ..........
why make rules .... relax... fun happens ,,,,,
The rugby club is for sports
the work place is for working ...........
But so many people meeting together ..........
why make rules .... relax... fun happens ,,,,,
RE: a serious question for viewers
but before i decide, i have one question.... do you have big boobs?
RE: a serious question for viewers
Absolutely! There are plenty of hopeless romantics on this site who would love to meet the right girl, regardless of whether or not she is a chathost, or has children. Good luck, and as many posters have already said, remember to be patient and careful in your search. What's best for you and your child is most important.
RE: a serious question for viewers
omg! even in real life most of the guys, that interested at u at all - interested just in having sex with u once or twice & not ur gr8 intellect or personality. (no matter what they will tell u) . Even in real life there r tons of guys who don't want to raise their own children, not talking ab another guy child. What do u exspect from adult site, where most of guys come to get off be4 going bed or in daytime break?
RE: a serious question for viewers
A motivated Romanian girl is very attractive to me. Of course I may be too old for you or not rich enough.
RE: a serious question for viewers
Well I cannot attest to the fact you may or may not find a suitable life partner here. But I do know that divorcees do get married all the time. And I know personally at least 2 individuals from CC who have gone through that to find a better life. Of course, there are many times when it did not work out as well, sadly.
May I ask though, why do you think you would find a more suitable husband or a better father for your child here? I would postulate that your chances of finding the right guy are only increased when you take it out of the particular subset of people who end up on CC looking for women or relationships.
Well, just a thought anyway.. Whatever happens I hope you find happiness for yourself and your child.
TNTJAFWT
May I ask though, why do you think you would find a more suitable husband or a better father for your child here? I would postulate that your chances of finding the right guy are only increased when you take it out of the particular subset of people who end up on CC looking for women or relationships.
Well, just a thought anyway.. Whatever happens I hope you find happiness for yourself and your child.
TNTJAFWT
RE: a serious question for viewers
Oh I think you misunderstood my point. I had no thought of money when I talked about a subset of guys who are on CC. We all know not everyone on CC are rich or generous, so I was not thinking that at all. No I just was curious why you thought a man from , for arguments sake, a different country, would hold more credentials than someone from your own. Don't get me wrong, I adore children and if I encountered a single mother I would have no qualms about beginning a relationship if it is was a serious one. In fact in my own family I have just such a situation and if nothing else it shows very much that a man is committed to you and is willing to accept you for who you are and your children too. But any relationship is tough and LDR 's are the toughest. With a child to think about too , well i think you get my point.
I admit I do feel for you, but not in a pitying sense. You seem a smart articulate woman and so if you are not finding the right guy in your life it is either your bad luck or bad timing. Certainly, I don't really think your chances increase on CC. There are far more men here who are transitory and fickle then those who are not. CC just plays to that inherent trait of men to want much more than he can have. And many hosts every really see loyalty from a member?
Anyway, I am sure you will make up your own mind. Like I say , I don't have answers but if you ever need to talk about it I am sure you can find me :)
TNT
I admit I do feel for you, but not in a pitying sense. You seem a smart articulate woman and so if you are not finding the right guy in your life it is either your bad luck or bad timing. Certainly, I don't really think your chances increase on CC. There are far more men here who are transitory and fickle then those who are not. CC just plays to that inherent trait of men to want much more than he can have. And many hosts every really see loyalty from a member?
Anyway, I am sure you will make up your own mind. Like I say , I don't have answers but if you ever need to talk about it I am sure you can find me :)
TNT
dear Naked Truth (and some others)
I don't know why some people have such a hard time understanding why the girl would be interested in fishing in new waters for a companion. If she has found an endless string of losers in her past whe may want to try a radically new tactic.
Imagine that in your neighbor you couldn't seem to find a decent girl to hang out with. Would you continue to troll the same areas endlessly continuously saying "I'm have to stay near home, can't stary too far."?
If she has the capcity of widening the net further, good luck to her. She must be especially careful of course, because there are lots of guys playing games here, too. But I wish her the best. it IS possible.
Imagine that in your neighbor you couldn't seem to find a decent girl to hang out with. Would you continue to troll the same areas endlessly continuously saying "I'm have to stay near home, can't stary too far."?
If she has the capcity of widening the net further, good luck to her. She must be especially careful of course, because there are lots of guys playing games here, too. But I wish her the best. it IS possible.
RE: dear Naked Truth (and some others) - trying again
Imagine that in your neighborhood you couldn't seem to find a decent girl to hang out with. Would you continue to troll the same areas endlessly continuously saying "I have to stay near home, can't stray too far."?
RE: dear Naked Truth (and some others) - trying again
I am afraid you are making just one assumption too many and that is that the _majority_ not the *minority* of members on this site are honest decent and trustworthy fellows all looking for stable, monogamous relationships.
Having been a member of CC for 5 years + in my experience I am quite sure this is not the case.
Most members start of with some sort set of ideals, true. But given free reign in the candy shop makes you develop a sweet tooth. Few members are very loyal and those that are are not usually on CC for very long.
Hence I do not think it is widening the 'pool' at all. In fact quite the opposite. Because the subset of men who are members of CC are not the ones who are putting ads in the lonely hearts pages.
Of course if you have evidence to the contrary I would willingly accept I am mistaken. But if it is all the same to you , I'd rather not hold my breath about it.
TNTWIVSOWHIS
Having been a member of CC for 5 years + in my experience I am quite sure this is not the case.
Most members start of with some sort set of ideals, true. But given free reign in the candy shop makes you develop a sweet tooth. Few members are very loyal and those that are are not usually on CC for very long.
Hence I do not think it is widening the 'pool' at all. In fact quite the opposite. Because the subset of men who are members of CC are not the ones who are putting ads in the lonely hearts pages.
Of course if you have evidence to the contrary I would willingly accept I am mistaken. But if it is all the same to you , I'd rather not hold my breath about it.
TNTWIVSOWHIS
RE: dear Naked Truth (and some others) - trying again
Having been a member here since the first couple months of cc's inception (what is it 7 years now?) and another site a few years before that I will retell my best advise. Possible, but not likely.
However, I do know enough successes her to say that I never say "never" here, though I advise great care on both the member and host's part.
But if ro-host is willing so am I if our paths cross. Though I do prefer that she can make good ciorba.
However, I do know enough successes her to say that I never say "never" here, though I advise great care on both the member and host's part.
But if ro-host is willing so am I if our paths cross. Though I do prefer that she can make good ciorba.
RE: dear Naked Truth (and some others) - trying again ~ seeker
Hehe... well if she makes a good ciorba then I would not mind babysitting either :) I do wish her the best of course, and who knows maybe our paths have already crossed and i've missed my chance to learn a bit more cooking skills. :)
Noroc friend,
TNT
Noroc friend,
TNT
dear ro-host
I, for one, am particularly drawn to the Romanian culture and can say that under the right circumstances I could imagine a life-long pairing with a girl who can whip up a decent bowl of ciorba. ;-)
I am a bit hesitant to be involved with a girl with kids, but that always depends on the chemistry, doesn't it? Lifestyles must mesh, expectations must mesh, but in life, with people of pure hearts and good will all things are possible.
The thing that I have found here in the online culture is that many guys hide things about ex-wives, kids, deep emotional and financial committments to previous families. The other thing is that you might guys of more mature years answering you. You may find it hard to imagine sleeping every night with a 50+ year old man.
I am a bit hesitant to be involved with a girl with kids, but that always depends on the chemistry, doesn't it? Lifestyles must mesh, expectations must mesh, but in life, with people of pure hearts and good will all things are possible.
The thing that I have found here in the online culture is that many guys hide things about ex-wives, kids, deep emotional and financial committments to previous families. The other thing is that you might guys of more mature years answering you. You may find it hard to imagine sleeping every night with a 50+ year old man.
RE: a serious question for viewers
its in your post and dont deny that you are telling the ro-host that she will not be able to find a man here only becuase she has a child. I dont trust in your good man mask.
dear "host to The Naked" and "ro-host"
Children on either side make a relationship a bit tricky sometimes. I've met three hosts with children and I could sense the chemistry was questionable with two of the kids, even if the hosts and I had a nice time. I sensed the chemistry with one kid as being better than the chemistry with the host.
So I was willing, but wary that it could work out long-term. I feel that if I enter a three-way relationship, by entering into an established, if incomplete, family I have a special responsibility to both child and mom.
So I was willing, but wary that it could work out long-term. I feel that if I enter a three-way relationship, by entering into an established, if incomplete, family I have a special responsibility to both child and mom.
RE: a serious question for viewers
Well I would not ask you to trust in something you cannot believe in but I would have to ask that before you dismiss my 'good man mask' you at least do the courtesy of knowing me before judging me.
As to the advice I offered ro-host. I never said it was impossible. Anything is possible. However I do think it sounds like she deserves more than to trust in just pure hope and fancy. Yes it is pragmatic of me and call me a cynic but I have seen more happy things come out of CC and more bad ones than most members here.
That does not mean to say anything is guaranteed. It is all just a matter of probability. And given the way CC is, I would not idle months or more looking for a father to my child or a husband to keep me company. I could definitely ensure I was not lonely though or adored and sought after, but at the end of the day what comfort is that when all you want, need, deserve is some genuine love and attention and be a good wife and a good mother.
Who knows..? Maybe I will be proved wrong and next week the same host will post that the man of her dreams came into her room and all is well with the world. To me though, she sounds like she deserves better than just empty promises and CC is sure stacked up to the gills with them, I can assure you.
It is only my opinion take it or leave it, but there is no point trying to change it :)
TNT
As to the advice I offered ro-host. I never said it was impossible. Anything is possible. However I do think it sounds like she deserves more than to trust in just pure hope and fancy. Yes it is pragmatic of me and call me a cynic but I have seen more happy things come out of CC and more bad ones than most members here.
That does not mean to say anything is guaranteed. It is all just a matter of probability. And given the way CC is, I would not idle months or more looking for a father to my child or a husband to keep me company. I could definitely ensure I was not lonely though or adored and sought after, but at the end of the day what comfort is that when all you want, need, deserve is some genuine love and attention and be a good wife and a good mother.
Who knows..? Maybe I will be proved wrong and next week the same host will post that the man of her dreams came into her room and all is well with the world. To me though, she sounds like she deserves better than just empty promises and CC is sure stacked up to the gills with them, I can assure you.
It is only my opinion take it or leave it, but there is no point trying to change it :)
TNT
RE: a serious question for viewers
"...The question is: is there any man who would accept me as i am ?..."
Yes..., maybe you will find him here... but who are you ???
Yes..., maybe you will find him here... but who are you ???
RE: BonnyKasl is Hiding now as MaryBell
how is a name change a "bait and switch" or as ur posting name suggests "scam"???
ever thought maybe the boss made her change? or she now works home? or she went to a dfferent studio?
the way u guys throw out the word "scam" is pathetic i been here longer than most members and never been "scammed" as u put it maybe u should try thinking first b4 u use the word
ever thought maybe the boss made her change? or she now works home? or she went to a dfferent studio?
the way u guys throw out the word "scam" is pathetic i been here longer than most members and never been "scammed" as u put it maybe u should try thinking first b4 u use the word
RE: BonnyKasl is Hiding now as MaryBell
Ok, two same posts on one page is cool. Hope we are not gonna face third one. That reminds me of CherryMary and SexyHana, the poor girls used to take the most of forum space :P
RE: BonnyKasl is Hiding now as MaryBell
Triksy, speaking of CherryMary, may I ask you, do you know whatever happened to her?
RE: BonnyKasl is Hiding now as MaryBell
I don't know about anyone else.
But bait has me thinking of fishing! :D
But bait has me thinking of fishing! :D
No Shows
2 Questions:
How many arranged a meeting with someone from here where neither of you should up?
If you didn't show up how do you know they didn't?
How many arranged a meeting with someone from here where neither of you should up?
If you didn't show up how do you know they didn't?
Meeting and not Showing up?
How many of you made plans to meet a man or woman from CC and one of you did not show up?
RE: Meeting and not Showing up?
You didn't read my post below. Mine DID show up in the end, so it is 41!
RE: Meeting and not Showing up?
how can a host possibly find out about a members personal life, unless the member reveals it?
RE: Meeting and not Showing up?
vera, are you saying that if a member tells a host he has a kid or kids, but is divorced and is looking for new relationship, and being honest about it, the host still wants nothing to do with him because of his past? In other words is the member better off lieing to the host about such things?
RE: Meeting and not Showing up?
I see what you're getting at vera, you have a good point. Thanks for answering my post...... :))
RE: Meeting and not Showing up?
why all the focus on members...many many host lie to mislead and figure not disclosing their personal relationship will scare off members
RE: Meeting and not Showing up?
men simply want the challenge to gratify their ego...some act on it others no
RE: Meeting and not Showing up?
You should have a plan B. The one time I met someone from online (not CC by the way... wasn't a member yet... In fact, she was a friend of a girl that I met on another site, not a chathost, strangely enough), I made sure that I had all my bases covered. I knew other people in the country that I went to. I had travelers checks, credit cards, cash, and a photocopy of my passport. I also had all of my information (like credit card and travelers check numbers) in an email account that I created just for my trip. (Mix the numbers up of course... don't put them in the exact order... Make up a code of your own). The point is that you need to be sure that you are okay in the event that the person does not show up. Consider all possibilities. Other than getting killed, you should be able to deal with every scenario. (Even if I lost all of my bags, money, et cetera, I was just an internet connection at my embassy away from being okay.) Oh, and buy health and emergency (health, political problems) evacuation insurance too... It isn't all that expensive.
RE: Meeting and not Showing up?
I am not joking. Maybe I am paranoid, but I went to Eastern Europe to meet a total stranger. How do I know how things will go or what will happen? Maybe she doesn't show up at the airport. Maybe she sets me up and has a boyfriend who kicks my a$$ and rips me off. I have been lied to before by chathosts (yes, I know members lie too sometimes so save your posts ladies) so I really did not know what to expect. Obviously I trusted her enough to visit, but you can never trust someone 100% until you meet and get to know them better... and even then, you still are disappointed sometimes. I was just being cautious, and I would like to know where I went too far?
RE: Meeting and not Showing up?
you didn't go too far,you took away the excitement of the unknown,the unexpected.nothing wrong with being a steady eddy,just not the way i like to live my life.to each their own.
dear "scapegoat"
Just which part of his plan took away the adventure? I see the adventure was still there 100%, just that he was ready if his pockets were picked at the airport.
It happened to a friend of mine. By a set of strangers, of course, not the people they were meeting, but their pockets were picked clean and without the on-line back-up info it would have been even worse.
The only mistake was the traveleres checks, as Eastern Europeans have never seen them and they can only be cashed at certain banks after waiting in long lines and high commissions.
It happened to a friend of mine. By a set of strangers, of course, not the people they were meeting, but their pockets were picked clean and without the on-line back-up info it would have been even worse.
The only mistake was the traveleres checks, as Eastern Europeans have never seen them and they can only be cashed at certain banks after waiting in long lines and high commissions.
RE: dear
for a perfessor youir readin sjills aren't great or mayve you don't understand the meaning of unknown.the way he set up his trip,it was more like a kontiki pensioners trip.no living by the sear of his pants,bo pushing hislimits,his survival skills.safety first.as i said nothing wrong,his choice,just not the way i choose yo live my life.comprenende?
RE: dear
Too bad your typing skills are so bad. LOL
Only an idiot goes strange places with no research. Do you close your eyes, throw a dart at a map, stuff your pockets with cash and leave without any questions? You don't read travel brochures or talk to people who have gone there? If so you miss much good things, too.
Have you ever lost your passport and needed it replaced in a foreign country? If you have you better have access to a copy of it to show the embassy. Did you ever lose your money orders? You better have a list of numbers. Did you ever get lost in a foreign city? You better have a map and know a very few words of that language.
By reading some travel books I have learned traps to avoid, things to look for and had a better time.
Only an idiot goes strange places with no research. Do you close your eyes, throw a dart at a map, stuff your pockets with cash and leave without any questions? You don't read travel brochures or talk to people who have gone there? If so you miss much good things, too.
Have you ever lost your passport and needed it replaced in a foreign country? If you have you better have access to a copy of it to show the embassy. Did you ever lose your money orders? You better have a list of numbers. Did you ever get lost in a foreign city? You better have a map and know a very few words of that language.
By reading some travel books I have learned traps to avoid, things to look for and had a better time.
RE: dear
Just for the record, I have cashed travelers checks in Russia and Romania. In Russia, a hotel gift shop cashed them and I wasn't even a guest. In Romania, major bank cashed them but only in the capital, not in the smaller cities. (I didn't try some of the larger cities besides Bucharest.) The commission was not outrageous in either case. I'm not even sure if I paid a commission in Russia. And now with Romania in the EU and its economy expanding via western cash inflows, it might be even easier to cash them.
Thanks for having my back. Ah.... another backup plan that I didn't even know I had, lol.
Thanks for having my back. Ah.... another backup plan that I didn't even know I had, lol.
RE: dear
No, dude. Travelers cheques are totally old (call it ancient) -school. And if you paid ANY commission you got screwed. And don't try to tell me the transaction took any less than 15 minutes plus line wait.
Cash Card is the ONLY way to go. But tell your bank you are going to Romania and NEVER let the card out of your direct control. I only used mine in major bank machines.
Cash Card is the ONLY way to go. But tell your bank you are going to Romania and NEVER let the card out of your direct control. I only used mine in major bank machines.
RE: dear
Had the atm card, prepaid debit card, credit cards.... and did let my bank know about where I was going. Paid probably 1% at bank in Romania, maybe less. I only changed about $100 so I didn't really care. I wasn't going to go shopping around, and yes, I did have to wait.
RE: dear
And while "old school", I brought travelers checks because I thought that they might be easier to replace while traveling than a cash card. And cash cards charge commissions at atms by the way, at least the ones I know about.
RE: dear
True. But they are sooooooo easy to use and better that packing $2000 in cash in the many corners of so many secret pockets spread over my whole body.
The only regret I have is a hot little number that hit on me on the street in Satu Mare.
A half hour before I had gotten some cash and didn't stash the cash and the cards yet so I had to blow her off totally. You never know who the expert pick-pockets are. :-(
The only regret I have is a hot little number that hit on me on the street in Satu Mare.
A half hour before I had gotten some cash and didn't stash the cash and the cards yet so I had to blow her off totally. You never know who the expert pick-pockets are. :-(
RE: dear
why when i read this little chat does the song,love is in the air keep playing in my head.no it's not because it is the only thing in there.i know there is at least,we gotta get outta this place,in there too.
RE: dear
You pay a fee/commission when you buy the travellers cheques and also when you exchange them for cash. The exchange rate against a cash card transaction is usually better than that for cashing travellers cheques.
RE: Meeting and not Showing up?
I didn't lol, although she had her own. (See? Everyone has a backup plan.)
And there are few things better than hearing a beautiful, young eastern European model tell you "I love to f*ck" while you are in bed. Mmmmmmm. Although I could live without the prima dona aspect of women like that.
(I liked her as a person and cared about her too just for the record. I didn't fly to another country for sex. Unfortunately, she was too young and wanted to live her life more, travel, finish school, et cetera before gettng serious.... Keep that in mind all of you older guys chasing young women... Age often becomes an issue no matter how well you get along as people.)
And there are few things better than hearing a beautiful, young eastern European model tell you "I love to f*ck" while you are in bed. Mmmmmmm. Although I could live without the prima dona aspect of women like that.
(I liked her as a person and cared about her too just for the record. I didn't fly to another country for sex. Unfortunately, she was too young and wanted to live her life more, travel, finish school, et cetera before gettng serious.... Keep that in mind all of you older guys chasing young women... Age often becomes an issue no matter how well you get along as people.)
RE: Meeting and not Showing up?
when you are a steady eddy,you seem older,less adventurous,even less exciting to younger girls.
RE: Meeting and not Showing up?
A woman ready for marriage would want someone that is dependable and reliable. A woman not ready for marriage would focus on living for the moment. Balance is good of course, and after all, I did go there in the first place. A member would think that was a great idea but the average person would think that I was insane so perhaps I am not so "steady" as you think.... I drive fast in my car but wear a seatbelt too. ;)
RE: Meeting and not Showing up?
I think that it is time for me to rethink my position against animal sacrafice. :p
dear "scapegoat"
It is very much a cultural thing. Most of the younger East European girls live life in the short-term. They are much more willing to bed a guy of any age who can show them some life experiences, but you are only a chapter in their book, they are not willing to make you the center of their lives.
When they hit 25 or 26 they start to look around to build a nest. If you are looking for a mate you have to catch them at just the right time and in the right frame of mind.
When they hit 25 or 26 they start to look around to build a nest. If you are looking for a mate you have to catch them at just the right time and in the right frame of mind.
RE: Meeting and not Showing up?
It almost happened to me. I flew into Manila, and she was supposed to meet me outside the airport. I walked out to this area where there were hundreds of people waiting, but no sign of her. Hehehe...I had met this nice vietnamese/american on the flight who had a driver picking him up, and he had offered to drive my gf and I to my hotel. When she wasn't there, he had pity written all over his face....lol
Even the armed police guy guarding the entry seemed to feel sorry for me and allowed me back into the terminal to look for her there.
Finally, she showed up. Traffic had been horrible...and she also confessed that she had been postponing to the last minute because she was terrified to meet me in person. Hehehe...funny how someone can really be a "little shy" once you take them away from the computer screen. :P
Must be terrible if someone really doesn't show up at all; I've read posts where people describe this. In my case, before she showed up, I remember thinking that I was gonna have a nice vacation no matter what. For one thing, there certainly was not a shortage of beautiful women in that country...very nice and approachable too. Of course the purpose of the trip was only to meet HER, but if she had turned out to be a flake I think I would still have had a nice vacation.
Bottom line is that no one should committ to meeting someone else in person if they don't have the intention of following through. I can understand the anxiety around meeting someone for real for the first time, but having someone travel thousands and miles and then let them down is just cruel.
Have a nice trip...I'm sure everything works out! :)
Even the armed police guy guarding the entry seemed to feel sorry for me and allowed me back into the terminal to look for her there.
Finally, she showed up. Traffic had been horrible...and she also confessed that she had been postponing to the last minute because she was terrified to meet me in person. Hehehe...funny how someone can really be a "little shy" once you take them away from the computer screen. :P
Must be terrible if someone really doesn't show up at all; I've read posts where people describe this. In my case, before she showed up, I remember thinking that I was gonna have a nice vacation no matter what. For one thing, there certainly was not a shortage of beautiful women in that country...very nice and approachable too. Of course the purpose of the trip was only to meet HER, but if she had turned out to be a flake I think I would still have had a nice vacation.
Bottom line is that no one should committ to meeting someone else in person if they don't have the intention of following through. I can understand the anxiety around meeting someone for real for the first time, but having someone travel thousands and miles and then let them down is just cruel.
Have a nice trip...I'm sure everything works out! :)
RE: Meeting and not Showing up?
Could you try making your post a little shorter next time? I always fall to sleep before i get to the end your posts. Geez!
RE: Meeting and not Showing up?
Not even...I'm pretty sure it is the same host who like to attack my posts...think I recognize the Boso name from a thread a few months back...Don't even know her, but if it is who I think it is, she's definitely one of the best values on the site, pound for pound. ;)
RE: Meeting and not Showing up?
I should mention. I am not worried about my girl meeting me at the airport. This is not our first meeting. This time we are meeting in a country different from hers or mine. But it made me want to ask others the question!
In general I would not be worried. Be prepared but not worried!
See you all in two weeks!
In general I would not be worried. Be prepared but not worried!
See you all in two weeks!
RE: Meeting and not Showing up?
I never had any NOT show up. BUT,I did go there to AT WORST make a friend. Hopefully,you've been talking to said hosts for a few months,to get to know them.Of course,be prepared,like warned above. I'll be going back overseas in a few weeks,to spend time with some of the girls I met in Ro ages ago,before I go on to teach at another EE country. Good luck,Cuz!!
RE: Meeting and not Showing up?
why would a man travel hundreds or thousands of miles just to visit with a lady who is married and even has her husband with her on top of that.?
weird
weird
RE: Meeting and not Showing up?
Met alot here, always had a great time, but always be careful physically and emotionally. As for money it comes and goes :) Passport, keep a copy at home with friends to send if you loose it.
RE: Meeting and not Showing up?
That is great, and perfectly respectable. Just remember that people are different in this respect. Many of us who met someone here did not PLAN getting involved for real...nor is it because we cannot find someone where we live...it's just nature taking its course. That's fine, too...my cup of tea doesn't need to be yours, or vice versa...right? ;)
RE: Meeting and not Showing up?
Because men here have a "knight in shining armour" idea that they will "rescue" a beautiful foreign women from poverty and life happily ever after with lots of rampant sex.
In reality the "poor" girl often has about 5 men on the go, all sending her money for her sick dog/mother/grandmother/hamster.
In reality the "poor" girl often has about 5 men on the go, all sending her money for her sick dog/mother/grandmother/hamster.
RE: Meeting and not Showing up?
SOME do have 5 men "on the go" sending money, but it's not as common as you thinmk, because a scam like that takes a lot of work and the girls here are seldom thinking of ways to truly maximize their earnings here, even in the 'above-the-board' strategies a host can legitimately use here.
The vast majority of the girls here sit (and often sleep) in front of the computer monitor waiting passively for the "beep" of a member entering video.
I seldom worry about the classic scams here. The worst thing that I find is the slow-to-strip girl.
The vast majority of the girls here sit (and often sleep) in front of the computer monitor waiting passively for the "beep" of a member entering video.
I seldom worry about the classic scams here. The worst thing that I find is the slow-to-strip girl.
RE: Meeting and not Showing up?
Sorry, the second paragraph was a bit of an exaggeration :). But there is often a lack of sincerity from the hosts based on just getting more money from the viewer. But the first thing - the "rescue"....that's so true, and those men need to get over it. It's not like that.
RE: Meeting and not Showing up?
"(T)he "poor" girl often has about 5 men on the go" is a true industry that I DON'T find here. It is mostly in the mail-order bride business.
The insincerity here goes both ways. I know girls that send the hometown boyfriend away as she spends time with a foreign lover (or maybe mark) and also the member who says he is single and available and even wrangles a few in-country visits until the wife finds out.
The insincerity here goes both ways. I know girls that send the hometown boyfriend away as she spends time with a foreign lover (or maybe mark) and also the member who says he is single and available and even wrangles a few in-country visits until the wife finds out.
RE: Meeting and not Showing up?
I know one mature member who has visited a Russian babe a couple times and had her on a monthly allowance for over a year since the last time he saw her. I asked him if the sex was that good to keep paying for it months and months later. He also sent money for bedroom sets and vacations. She doesn't really work him at this, he is a willing contributor in an attempt to secure her attachment to him. He doen't seem to get it.
RE: a question to viewers
lol you must be kidding :P Or you are deeply in Non-adult and have no idea about what is going on beyond it :P
Wank wank... Oops i mean wink wink :)
Wank wank... Oops i mean wink wink :)
RE: a question to viewers
It is nerves at first meeting, when couple know nothing about each other. CCmail me your mobile phone number, and i will talk to you :D
RE: a question to viewers
Isn't it your job to entertain us ?
As for the phone we want to hear you talk dirty and are to busy with other things to chat.
As for the phone we want to hear you talk dirty and are to busy with other things to chat.
RE: a question to viewers
The host gets paid to chat. The viewer does not. As long as the viewer is in your video, you are making money. So just shut up!
RE: a question to viewers
In free chat they have no right to waste your time. But when they are in paid videochat, they can say alot or say nothing. Just do your show and think about the money you are making.
RE: a question to viewers
Good post Cassy!
Your making an important suggestion,
so viewers will get more out of their video session
with a chathost.
Its about the viewer and chathost interacting.
Its sad that some viewers don't see, that
the reason a video session was not as enjoyable,
was their own fault!
Your making an important suggestion,
so viewers will get more out of their video session
with a chathost.
Its about the viewer and chathost interacting.
Its sad that some viewers don't see, that
the reason a video session was not as enjoyable,
was their own fault!
RE: a question to viewers
I am NOT offended that a host is here for the money. This is a business. All business exists to make money, otherwise they wil go out of business.
A Nice Intelligent Girl
lena is a nice intelligent girl with good sense of humor and best thing about her that she is not a time waster. she always gives viewer due respect and excellent in manners. a must see girl. good luck guys.
CHARLOTTE4U and WANDA22
I admire both of you and sympathize that your foreign-romance plans didn't work out. My didn't either (yet), but I am a one-woman man and I continue to harbor hopes. Hugs to you both and to any girls that give it a fair and good try.
Just be careful if the guy has kids, his loyalties can be tricky. Good luck to you all.
Just be careful if the guy has kids, his loyalties can be tricky. Good luck to you all.
RE: CHARLOTTE4U and WANDA22
always keep an open mind about things. most relationships dont work out in the end whether they are in real or on the net. if you dont trust people you will lose more than if you do trust and get burned again. just a thought .
RE: CHARLOTTE4U and WANDA22
I also admire Charlotte and Wanda. I feel that both are very creative and have an excellent personality. I did not know they had a bad experience, but if they did they do not deserve to be treated in a bad way. Wanda and Charlotte, continue to be yourselves and lots of good wishes for suceess in the ftture.
RE: CHARLOTTE4U and WANDA22
charlotte,, hey im chase,, how do you do,, i heard you were a business lady--cool,,, can we have lunch,, i have a proposal to check out with you
RE: CHARLOTTE4U and WANDA22
how can you say that all guys are incapable of any relationship because they go to the internet. i have friends here so i disagree.
RE: CHARLOTTE4U and WANDA22
Oh you're so clever! Why can't those dumb men just see things your way? It's never about you....it's always them. They're dumb and you are smart. If all men could just live by your rules the world would be perfect and faultless - just like you are!
RE: CHARLOTTE4U and WANDA22
I read it again and if there's something between the lines of 'all men on-line are....' then I'm missing it.
I can't really believe you've met that many men and they've all been the same. It just tells me you attract a certain type by the way you behave. Or you make men behave a certain way by the way you act towards them.
It just seems to me that you might need to look at yourself and not others.
I can't really believe you've met that many men and they've all been the same. It just tells me you attract a certain type by the way you behave. Or you make men behave a certain way by the way you act towards them.
It just seems to me that you might need to look at yourself and not others.
RE: Romania - Holland 2-1
Romania has been screwed before by refs (2003 extra penalty time, for example) like every other team in every sport. You just hope that the calls even out in the end.
RE: Sound question
Vera, a short explanation about what was going on, would be fine with me. :D
RE: Sound question
As a viewer, I tend to always stick with 121 sessions to avoid this type of awkwardness. However, for the sake of your question, if I was the second viewer to enter a chat, where the first viewer requested the host to speak, I would probably just ask that the host respond to my questions through text chat. Although, I can't imagine that I'd stay very long. So, I'd probably just leave and return later.
I still don't understand why anyone would want to enter a host's room through open session if they can see that another viewer is already there. Maybe if they knew the other viewer, and had coordinated to chat with the same host? But still...I'd much rather have the host's full attention. IMHO.
I still don't understand why anyone would want to enter a host's room through open session if they can see that another viewer is already there. Maybe if they knew the other viewer, and had coordinated to chat with the same host? But still...I'd much rather have the host's full attention. IMHO.
RE: Sound question
personally i would never join a vid session that was already underway...so guess not an issue for me
RE: Sound question
just be glad you had 2 viewers and the meter running on cost, so why you bother with on who listens to what, just speak to both of them
RE: Sound question
personally I never visit glamore girls,..so this is will naver hapen with me & gortensia
RE: BonnyKasl is Hiding now as MaryBell
too late,she clicked her fingers & i can't stop strutting around,hands under my armpits cackling like a chicken