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Stand back and watch out for the abuse of the white knights and the hosts! LOL

why?he has stated he looks at profiles & never enters video without knowing what to expect or expecting more than is stated.his is a very smart reasonable way.so i guess you are not so much disappointed as disappointing in so many ways.

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Wanda, I agree that you have a wonderful web site. I have enjoyed visiting it from time to time and geeting to know you more as a result of doing that. The rest of you, if you have not visited Wanda's web site you need to do that.

I definately agree that its very unfair to give 1 star for tech problems, which are very often not a girl's fault.
And what is even more unfair it is to give 1 star if a girl didn't fulfill your expectations or hopes. If you were not clear enough about what you expect and if you can't accept a refusal, you better don't visit this site at all, you poor sensitive thing. Ah it's amazing how small people love to use their small power, power of being able to vote bad, even if a girl doesn't even deserve it.

Sorry, TRIKSY, you misread my message. I grade "attitude." Incredible rudeness earns one star from me. There's always way to deal with customers' requests. Rudeness is NEVER the right way.

attitude is the criteria

Yes, but not a girl's attitude only. A guy's attitude as well. If you have money, but you are a jerk, many girls here won't do anything for you i'm sure.

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Sorry, viewer, but i didn't misread your message. The first part of my reply was related to the first part of your post, and the second part of my reply was just sharing my thoughts, nothing to do with the rest of your post.
As to rudeness, well, it goes without saying, so that's why i didn't mention it. Of course rudeness is impermissible. And i agree that rude girls deserve to be rated bad. But the thing is that too many members seem to have a very loose definition of rudeness. Sometimes an unreasonable one.

Yeah, that's life in the big cruel world. Deal with it.

I have never given a 1 star. I do not go to video until I have text chatted with the host. I also pay close attention to the category and respect the rules of that category. I also respect the wishes of the host. If I feel that they are scamming me I leave immediately to never return again. I will not give them a 1 as a result, I will refuse to rate them because it is just my belief that I am being scammed. I feel that they must be liked by someone; therefore, I will not give any rating. I just do not ever return to their video.

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That should work. You are not putting an extra zero in after the 40?
The first digit of a Romanian mobile seems to normally be 7 so it should be 011 40 7.......

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I tried calling a few friends in Ro recently,and kept getting a strange message about all lines being busy. if thats what u get,keep trying.eventually I got thru.

They are right, but not quite clear. It's 011+40 but you drop the double zero that appears when you add the phone number. It becomes 011+4+the number.

By the way, if possible call a landline (fixed) because the cost is REMARKABLY less.

.... but I know how to call Romania from USA...

Romanians will usually have mobile phones. They will give you their number as 07 xx xxx xxx. In such a case you dial

011 407 xx xxx xxx.

If the phone is a phone in their apartment, they will you a number something like 02 xx xxx xxx or 03 xx xxx xxx. In this case you dial

011 402 xx xxx xxx or 011 403 xx xxx xxx.

You may have to dial a few times when calling a Romanian mobile telephone. Also it costs a lot more to call a mobile phone in Romania. There are many calling cards which lowers the cost but my experience is that calling directly from home works best.

Thank you everyone who replied, I really appreciated your help. I did end up calling her and it worked, She was able to call me first, so I then saved her number on my mobile phone and just added 011 to her number and it worked...thanks again, you're all great

Dear, your question isnt more strange than some of been posted here...lol

As for eyes, you know they say "eyes are the mirror of the soul"...look at the shark's eyes and look at your dog's eyes, do you see a difference?
So, they only reflect your inside and for sure smart brains as well.
The more you are greathearted, smart, talented, and yes, sexy the more your eyes tell us about you :)

Well .. there is that laughing girl. But you know sharks don't blink? Kinda makes you wonder what sort of soul they could have. And if I came across a girl who did not blink either I would feel pretty creeped out :P

That being said, yes I know who has the finest eyes ever on CC, but I'll rot in hell before I give up my little secret :)

TNTFAQHTY

lol...Ive used just comparing of beings and their characteristics but girl with unblinking eyes would be really terrible..hahaha

As for your little secret.. well, keep it like a treasure and dont forget that the most beautiful woman's eyes when they are without tears...I know you understand me now :)

Well... I think we are both on the same wavelength if nothing else :)

To know, know, know her, is to love, love, love her...

hehe.

TNTJTALB

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My dear chuckling cherub, if nothing else means, even if we totally disagree on everything else, we will always have Paris ;)

Hehe

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if i understand you correctly...yeah, Paris is that rare subject of total agreement :)
mmm...i love this daydream...lol

"Cheer up sleepy Jean Oh what can it mean, To a daydream believer and a homecoming queen...."

:)

TNT

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song is from sixties by band called monkees.my eyes are closed but my mind is alive & i still don't understand.

Oh thank you (blushed)...I remember the name of this band but don't know them well enough :)

Oh, then perhaps I ought to elucidate? Tis a catchy tune :)

Let me know if you want a link to the song? Or I can always send you a copy :)

TNTALCN

Sorry, The NakedTruth...I was not allowed by CC to ask you to post a link that you politely have offered, that is why you didn't get my reply.
Tell me the name of the song and I maybe will try to find it myself if it really deserves such efforts...lol

I can't post my screen name yet, sorry. Maybe some day....

Well if you find it another method then search for Daydream Believer by the Monkees. Sure you will get some hits :)

I would not want to post the link in public either it would not seem right and I don't want CC to get in trouble for posting links to copyrighted material . But if you feel up to ccMailing me I can send your alternatives by email :) Problem solved.


TNTARDDB

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not sure who,but smiling bright eyes always enchant me.i'm also not positive but i think eyes have more of a relationship with the soul than the brain.the brain is just a subsiduary of the soul.imho.

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Thanks for reply, what ID do you mean? and for what? why not say here?

U mean in vid? yourlady4u is up there in age,I guess middle age.

u are in the childhood age then if yourlady s in the middle age

Glasses and a proper English dictionary,anyone?

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Anyone try Twinkleeyes?

try qt....claims to be 27 but she's about the age ur looking for and very hot

yep she is around from time to time

What Luyba? There are a few here I know. Do you know a screen name?

So small? Is she talking about your dick?

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"Boulevard of Broken Dreams" by, the Green Day

no one else on earth can love me, like you love me,, I'm tired of waiting, to much pain inside eating up my soul, i cant take it any longer, we dont have to live this way, want you come and stay......by unknow artist to be--cool

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gorillaz - DARE , 1 of my favs x

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"where is my mind" by The Pixies

Vladimir Vysotsky - "Ballada o Lyubvi" ("Ballade of Love")

Supertramp - "My Kind of Lady"

and many many others...!!

" We can win the race" - Modern Talking

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It was really hardly but....WOW...WE DID IT :)))))))

i feel embarresed and ashamed as an england football fan. russia deserved to win so well done, england were rubbish. thats the difference between a manager who knows tactics and one who doesnt. you will qualify now, not us and we dont deserve to. so well done!!

England can still qualify but now it's harder. Never give up!!

yeah, but only if russia lose 2 games, or one and we beat croatia. im so depressed!!! im trying to belive but its difficult

YES I WANT THEM TO GET THROUGH AND IM SURE THEY WILL))))AND YES OUR MANAGER IS SO COOL, HE EVEN SANG THE WORDS OF RUSSIAN HYMN)))

No, can't agree...English guys were not rubbish! I enjoy Owen and Rooney and other players but all this, as always in sports, is about concentrating, and will, and tactics, but mostly it's just a luck because all players are excellent! I'd better say "England can't always be a winner"...I understand your feelings and again I'm sorry for your lost chance!
:)

thankyou laughing girl.
tactics!!!! thats the thing. england may have better players but russias tactics were much better, and they played to them well. we basicly had no tactics. again, well done russia

It is TECHNICALLY possible that both Russia and England qualify.
Unlikely but that would be great. I like Russia and Russians. Don't know any Croatians and I've never been there (yet)

yep, i agree, id love to see russia there with us. i like russians, the ones iv met so far anyway. it would be great but i dont think it will happen. if russia get there i hope they do well

wUD BE GREAT IS BOTH OF US-RUSSIA AND ENGLAND WILL STAY))

lets hope so!!! i dont think so though, u will beat israil. u have confidence and spirit! england have bugger all!!!

i am shoked but really happy! is it possible?

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PAVLYUCHENKO YES, 2 GOALS IN 5 MINUTES WHEN I ALMOST LOST MY HOPE-UNBELIEVABLE

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russia needs some self-esteem so this will help

what's all the yelling about.keep it quiet kids or i'll call the police )))

Ohhh booyoyyy wait till u hear all the excuses that will come out now. Our best guy was injured, if we had him we wouldn`t have got beaten, the ref was a twat, the balol bounced to high, i kicked my ass instead of the ball, etc etc etc. Can`t wait to see all the CRAP excuses in the papers 2moro.
English are SORE losers :P:)) they alwatys make excuses instead of saying "YES we were beat fair and square" hahahahah
Good on ya Russia :) CONGRATULATIONS.

oi, like iv said, u were better and got your tactics right and deserved to win. i have no excuses to make. and we're not sore losers because we;re so use to losing now!!! we need to make excuses somtimes to make ourselves feel better, not to disrespect other teams

Well done Russia. You deserved your win simply beacause you were the better team. I wish you every future success.

well done

or the plastic pitch

Sour grapes !!!!!!!!!!!

AH GIMME A BREAK!

Well done Russia

RUSSKIEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!WATCHING THIS GAME WAS BETTER FOR ME THAN HAVING SEX LOL)))))))))AND WHEN PAVLYUCHENKO SCORED 2 TIMES IN A ROW-IT WAS LIKE A MULTIPLE ORGASM))))))AHHHHHHHH))

Yummy... have you taped the game so that you can play it next time i take you private pleeeeeeeeeaaaaaaaase? :P

enjoy your orgasm...it will be your last!!!!

better than sex monikababe? thats because you havnt had sex with me yet;) for me watching it ,it was worse than hot being able to get hard!!!

Better than sex??? Doesn't say much for Russian men does it?

Jeez borrow a bit of sense of humour somewhere)) U might need it;)

hahaha , , exactly ,,!!!

but remember to some its all serious here ....

hehe ...

( well done Russia i saw just the second half , it seemed you deserved this one..)

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The question for you both is: do you prefer to lose now or next summer?

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What?

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No I would go for all in video chat. I do not like text chat. I like see host and talk

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ha ha how true

And you will stay "lonely", if you don't fess up who you are, and what you looking for.

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Thank you.

Aha.Real Man my (_)o(_)

from your gallery I'd say you are much more real man than we are Sir

ahh maturity to the fore,i see.

This is what they want..........

ahh then that is me out,i'm sorry.

What category is she in? If it is littleshy there is no point in reporting her. Girls have no obligation to strip in this category so what she does in open video or one2one is up to her.

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careful walking round with that puffed-up chest.it can easily be deflated.

did you also run home and tell your mammy the bad lady tryed to trick you :(( here is a tissue for your tears.

Sooooooooo many defenders of a bait&switch girl. And sooooooooo much importance given to a minor gesture of giving "one-star."

lol...but what you were expecting? Sooooooooo childish complaining to the whole folks is just ridiculous...and after all shows your real nature...Are you happy now with your putting her 1star?

Yes, I'm disappointed I couldn't give "zero-star."

it is your boasting about it that is most pathetic,not your rating.thinking you will move up in the eyes of your fellow black knights

Foolish boy, by telling about what I did is a warning for hosts to do as they promise. The stars seem to mean so much to some of them that a warning to simply stop abusing the 121 option is best.

sorry dreamer but you were the one who feels they were made a fool of not me.then just to prove the point,you come to forum to boast about it,thinking that it shows that you are not one to be messed with.one fool giving a host a one star rating will not affect their overall rating much.just goes to show that you spend your life fooling yourself.where is the achievement in that?

My post was intended to give 121 abusers pause to think. If I was trying to single out any particular host I would name her.

Are you one of those who refuses to report a car break-in that you witness because you don't want to be a snitch? Forget that. Break the rules and get reported.

he bottom line is you have given scant details & your false bravado has done nadir to aid your intention.

"he bottom line"? LOL
"false bravado"? WTF
"done nadir"? LOL

ahh grabbing at typos & giggling like a schoolgirl but no substance to repudiate my post.game over!

Disappointed - don't bother replying to that. Don't worry - no one will think any less of you for not entertaining his self-righteous little crusade against the evil men that don't understand his precious little princesses.

how would anyone know who he referred to,as i said scant details.again ted your ignorance is highlighted by your self decption.

He wants to see naked women and is complaining becuase he didn't get it. If anyone is foolish it's you, for thinking this site is actually for something more meaningful than tits and ass!

he is the fool for expecting to see tits & ass where it is not guaranteed. you on the other hand are a fool because you were born that way & for thinking that just because he expects & wants something he has the right to see it.end of lesson.

ROTFLMFAO

Hahahahaha look who's talkin')-our knight. best friend of all hosts here)) Matt, what has happend to all ur friends here?:P:P

i didnt see in your original post where she baited you did you ask her before you went video if she striped in open session ? if not she did nothing wrong

you sound like the sort of person that if you took a girl on a real date and you didnt get sex would go to her parents house and ask for the money back you spent on there daughter lmfao

looooooool...cant stop laughing....cool comparing!

wow, lots of bitchy replies.

Lots of bitchy men

and women :)

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if i had a chance to rate you, the viewer, i would give you -5!!! just read the rules and think that girls have dignity .. but you
obviously don't exhibt any respect

xelina18x you & laughing girl make a great duo.

Absolutely! This is possibly one of the best places on the net to find girls with the highest levels of dignity!

(snigger)

teddykins the woman-hater is back.

oh yes - make the slightest negative comment and you are a woman hater - just as a complaint about graffiti or a boomcar rolling by your house shaking your windows makes you a racist - so many white knights

You strike me as the sort that cries while he masturbates, wishing that Svetlana/Olga/Ludmila loved him back.

I hope one day you'll understand that commenting on the behaviour of one woman or a group of women does not indicate a hatred of womankind. No more than you criticising me means you hate all men.

a little education for you,girls is a plural word & refers to more than one.it is a collective noun.so before you dip your wit & wisdom in somewhere try to understand fully what you reply to.

I love the little pedants on these forums... It's hilarious when they think they're scoring points. I can just imagine what they are like in real life. Completely ineffective but satisfying themselves in the fact that other people sometimes make grammatical errors or spell words wrong and hence are so plainly inferior to them. Priceless!

What's worse though is the attemped pedants who don't even get their pedantry right.

.... when I read your posts I think exactly the same thing.Here's Ted yet again trying to score points just because someone happened to say something nice.Here's Ted belittling women yet again.If you are like, in real life, how you behave here you must be a fantastic hit at parties.

If you don't get it yet, you never will.

it is not one post but a history of posts that make me call him that.though if truth be known,i'm probably wrong it's not hate he has but a fear of them.a fear of the unknown.

No, it's hate because my comments on the behaviour of a certain proportion of the women (and men didn't you notice?) who use this site is representative of my views on all women everywhere. This site is truely real life and a microcosm of the entire world - obviously!

Totally reasonable. Unless she is in "a little shy" where she would be allowed to do this.

What the sycophants and whiner hosts here forget is that you're paying for a service and if you don't get it, you have a right to complain. It's got nothing to do with your "manliness". You wanted to see her naked - that's what this site is for. Most of the replies you got are pathetic.

he wasn't actually paying.

As he was able to rate the host one star, he must have paid to go in her chat! Unless she gave a free cam show. I doubt he would be complaining if she did!

amazing how people on your side have such a one-sided outlook.

Amazing how some people here really haven't realised that the philosophising, community-oriented, "I want some real friends" types are actually a tiny minority. These are people who would benefit from a real life with real people. The majority are just here for sexual gratification as they realise that a site like this is not a good place to seek meaningful relationships. These (more astute) people pay for a certain service which they expect to receive.

by claiming you are astute you actually show your narrow-mindness. more likely is those that come here with an open mind about friendships are the ones with friends in real life because they are more open & in touch with their feelings & emotions.not like those you purport to be astute,who spend their life suppressing hiding & ignoring theirs.it is why people like you have such arrested mental & spiritual development.end of the second lesson of the day for you.

Obviously I've learnt a huge amount from that post and can go away feeling truely educated, enlightened and more in touch with my emotions than ever before.

In fact, you've inspired me to write poetry and perhaps even compose a song about my love for my favourite host.

Its up to you what for you visit this site. But there are plenty of others who are hungry for a woman not only as just a body but enjoying all sides of woman's nature. And no one can judge such intentions.
Each member has his own purposes on here.

PS...dont waste your time on writing poems, seems it is not your predestination.

excellent addendum LG.

Thank you...I am definitely on your side :)

it is not about sides for me.just i don't like these members who think that if you are not mean-spirited like them you are sucking up to hosts.they can't comprehend that people can actually believe what they say.probably because they don't believe what they post.anyway i do enjoy your posts(this is sucking up).just intrigued about your host name.

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Sure, there's got to be more than just the body or you might as well look at pre-recorded porn. The picture and sound quality will be a hell of a lot better too.

If you look closely, what I jump on is those who blindly support hosts as if they aren't here to do a job and get paid. If people want to pay their money to be manipulated rather than to ultimately call the shots themselves, that's up to them. But I will continue to take the piss out of them, especially if they repeatedly fail to understand viewers have a right to complain if they don't get what they were promised.

PS: Sorry pedants, I did make one or two grammatical errors there.

sadly by you trying to take the piss all you do is hold yourself up as an object of ridicule.that you think you have the acumen to be able to differentiate between sucking up( as you say)& posters believing what they write just shows how deeply self delusions run.you can't really know but by making your arbitary judgements you just display your uncaring onesided views as a critique on your ignorance,p.s i do not wear pendants,so that theory is out the window for me.

The wannabe intellectuals/psychologists are sometimes even more amusing than the pedants.

not as bad as you playing judge,jury,executioner deciding what someone else wrote is sucking up with not a scintilla of evidence.omly your very murky clouded judgement.

Of course, the original poster was in no way subjected to blinkered, foolish judgement, for daring to say that a host wouldn't give him what she promised.

Go and have another tearful wank over Ludmilla. You'll feel a lot better after.

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She said it only after many minutes in open video.

Why is it ok for men to ask a girl to show more than she wants, and it's "not ok" for a girl to ask a man to pay more then he wants. It's up to a girl to agree or not, as well as it's up to a guy to accept a higher price or not. Yes such actions of a girl might be a reason not to come visit her anymore. But for sure not a reason to give her 1 star (which is given in case of technical problems or if a girl didnt' appear on cam at all) and esp not a reason to report CC. IMHO.

I have never given a 1 star. I do not go to video until I have text chatted with the host. I also pay close attention to the category and respect the rules of that category. I also respect the wishes of the host. If I feel that they are scamming me I leave immediately to never return again. If I am not satsfied with them I will leave immediately and not return to their video again.

True, but a show was promised, however it was too tame to count.

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it is interesting that he keeps answering yet refuses to say which category the girl was in. sounds like a case of never admit you are wrong

Well done!

Twas'nt very sporting of you ol' chap..

wot category ? without knowing that this thread makes no sense

It was a whiny, bitchy post!

ok Chocolate lips.. kiss

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I am a member, not a host. But with all due respect, you are simply looking for some type of reassurance that you are on the right track with your second love. Most answers are not going to really help you. Sometimes relationships like yours work and sometimes they do not.

The bottom line is that age does matter. It is not a barrier to love and marriage but it is a factor. The bigger the difference in age, the less likely things will be okay with the average people. But while the odds are against you, that does not mean you and this girl could not get married and be happy.

Everything depends upon the two people. Even if every host here except one says that you are too old, your age does not matter if your new love is that one. You are asking the wrong people. You should be asking your new love.

Taking a survey is not going to help. All your survey will do is make you feel better if a lot of hosts say age doesn't matter or make you feel worse if a lot of hosts say it does matter.

Like I said, everything depends upon you and this girl. Sometimes big differences in age matter and sometimes they do not. It all depends on the two people. But the bigger the difference in age, the more likely 1) that the relationship will not lead to marriage and 2) the less you will have in common so even if you do get married, the marriage will not work. . This is less true of course if both of you were older, say 30 and 51, but a 20 year old still has a lot to learn and she will change. She may grow with you or she may grow apart from you too. Again, it all depends upon the two people.

I am about your age, by the way, and have been in similar situations here. I could have easily written a similar post. Personally, I think that love means taking a chance but talk to this woman about your concerns and use your judgment, not just your heart, to make decisions. I know that is difficult of course.

And by the way, make sure that you are honest with yourself. Are you sure that this is the woman you really want? Are you lonely? Is she making you feel good because it is nice to be close to someone so much younger? Do a little bit of self-discovery in terms of what brought you to sites in the first place. We all have problems... maybe it is simply lonliness or shyness... but we all have them or we wouldn't be here. Make sure you are honest with yourself.

And make sure you ask yourself if you will be happy with someone so much younger in the long terrm as well as ask if she will be happy with someone so much older in the long term too. I know we cannot always choose with whom we fall in love, but like I said, this woman is still learning who she is and someone about 5 years older or so would be give me great confidence in terms of the chances of your long term happiness.

Good luck.... sorry for the lengthy "maybe". Just trying to help.

when I say about 5 years older... I mean someone around 25 or so as opposed to 20. I find those 5 years really matter with the average woman after chatting online for so many years. But again, that is on average... Perhaps your love is wise beyound her years... Just make sure you are being honest with yourself about her and don't let your love blind you when evaluating her maturity, et cetera.

The age difference is MUCH less important than "stage of life." As I said elsewhere the 18-26 year old ones are not in nesting-mode. An older guy needs a nester unless he only wants a few laughs.

Well without talking about birds and nests and laying eggs, this is basically what I was getting at. Most women around 25 are beginning to lean towards wanting to "nest". But it is a case by case basis. Some never want to build a nest and some are ready at a younger age. But the younger she is, the more likely she is not ready to nest even if she thinks that she is ready to nest. That is the main reason to seek someone older regardless of what she THINKS she is ready for.

Man, you have had a hard time here, you ask the wrong questions here, its not about your age, its about you.
Women can accept you as you are, if you portray you as you are, not some "cast off"
Think about it.

you're wrong about that...age is a factor

Level of maturity, not age, is indeed the prime factor. But the age is a GENERAL guide that can be addressed.

Dude, the 20 year olds seek experiences only. I suggest you avoid ANY girl under 25 or 26 (and more towards 30) if you are looking for something long-lasting. I'm serious.

I agree with the perfessor. Any woman under 30 is mostly seeking new adventures and new glories. They aren't serious about any relationship and most girls here think they are too young and too sexy to get married. I got burned and heart broken too thinking I found true and honest love here, later found out that the woman I loved was only playing with me and scofing at my feelings with her friends, discussing all my talks with her with her other friends and she is now 24, but still immatured. Worse of all is that she still wants to be my friend... No way! Once bitten twice shy! I am not saying all hosts are bad women; they're just too young and immature to commit and respect anyone. They think they could have 3 or 5 men at their feet. Their head had been blown to the max with so many compliments they receive everyday. They want to talk and share with as many men as they can. They want to be with you and other men just to compare and feel wanted. Just try to remember when you were in your 20's and you wanted to conquer as many women as you can just to satisfied your ego. Thats the case here. That is the best way to understand them. Keep your heart away from CC, look for a real woman in your area and remember... no young chicks.

I think 30 is a bit too high for a minimum, but older is usually better. Mid to late 20's.... 25 on up.... is probably a better minimum.

Another thing, I wouldn't lump all of the hosts together. I have been burned too, but I also have made real friends online... including meeting them. But I would DEFINITELY be very, very careful. There are plenty of hosts trying to use a member's feelings to get them into video.

my experience is that she "used" the word love but in fact she merely wanted to start a new life somewhere else...which is ok but only if you're honest about it...otherwise you're misleading someone and likely to move on once you're settled in new environs.

some of the best advice i've seen here...good on ya mate..

obviously not a perfessor of human relations.

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there goes the perfessor treplying to his posts again,trying to give it validity.

I feel sad when man tell me about him like only young girls and this man come in my black list from start. Love not have ages for sure but why do you choice only young? Most young are not seriouse. Well i am not old too but still i am 25, not super young too. From my experienced what i have: in 16 years i had big love with 36 years man, no sex! in 18 i wanted only money and no seriouse relationship still, in 25 i start to feel something for more seriouse but still...maybe not enough seriouse for man who more smart and experienced. I bet our age doing us only more interesting as persons, beuty is not main what us need for life...oh well i think i am enough beutiful, not so silly and not old girl but still telling things like it. My thoughts about age again. On net i had seducted one my member for 14 years older me, i was tied to my pc for years but not met him fr reall never still. We living so far and we never meet. What is good here? Yes he older me, yes i am enough pretty and not old, yes we are from diff cuntrys, yes i feel very warm feel to him still. but what i have from all it? NOTHING....troubles in every step: in culture, age, visa etg...That is what i have. Sorry for my english. Good luck

You explain exactly my point. You are now 25 and looking for a nest, yes?

Your problem is not his age, but the fact that the guy is unwilling and/or unable to get off his fucking ass and come to you. I'd wager he is married and just enjoying a fantasy with you.

I often have heard of a "six-month rule." If the guy doesn't make a serious step in six months the wise girl moves on. What does "serious step" mean? Exchanging phone numbers and home addresses. Writing letters/postcards (or at least e-mails). Planning a trip to meet in reality.

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I'm glad you posted that, and don't worry, your english is just fine! I agree with you. As hinted in some of the above posts, many males, as we get older, find it flattering that some pretty young thing find us attractive. The problem is not the age difference per se, but as Lovecharm points out, a mismatch in emotional maturity. For that reason, I guess I would have to agree with him and the perfessor that for a man in his early forties to hook up with someone under 25 is generally not advicable. However, culture and background are also important factors to consider, as well as the maturity level of the individuals. For example, when I first fell for my filipina sweetheart, I felt that she was way to young; she was 27 and I was 40 at the time. However, in her culture, most women are expected to be married with children at that age, and marrying a man substantially older is very common. Meeting her in person I found her extremely pleasant and calm; just very opposite some of the women I had been with in the past. Perhaps it was me that had changed, or maybe I just found out what qualities are really important to me in a woman. The point I am trying to make is that there are so many important factors to consider, so there really isn't any "right answer", only generalizations. However, if a man is habitually seeking relationships with "spring chicks", perhaps he needs to do some soulsearching and ask himself why that is. Otherwise, there will probably just be pain followed by more pain. I appreciate young, beautiful women as much as anyone; but that does not mean that I have to be in a relationship with them. I am sorry that you had to go through those experiences, but hopefully you learned something from it and you were able to share this with us here. After all, the original poster was mainly asking to hear from hosts! ;)

Looking for a gf online or in these sites is just plain wrong to start with. There is no way anyone could build a solid strong relationship with girls exposed to hundreds of men everyday. It's like expecting a hip hop star to be faithful to his/her couple. Let's face it, the girls here have too many choices. There are men from all over the world chasing her and wanting to meet. Some are serious; others just want a fantasy, but at the end she thinks she very much appreciated by everyone and that makes her difficult to think you're the perfect man for her. Go out, join clubs, and try to meet people not just women. Trying to find a good woman here is simply not smart, it will only be a deception at the end.

As I've understood he was not "trying" to find someone here, but it was just happen to him coz he spend his time here as well...I agree that maybe dating sites are the better places to find love, but why you so preconceived and obstinate in your opinion about chathosts? If you had a possibility to know some hosts in person you will be surprised that they are much more serious and honest and let me say "best wives" than plenty of so-called "respectable" women working at various other places...You could find your wife working even in government where usually people do not show their bodies (lol)...but one day you could discover that your sweetheart sleeps with the whole government!!!

And PLEASE...I am tired of generalizations...

I have been here for 2 years and had 3 relationships. I met with 2 girls and both time I thought I found love. The 3 relationships ended in bad terms. The 3 times I found that they were lying to me the whole time and one of them was meeting with more than 4 members. You say you are better than women in real life? Oh please. No way, you girls are not angels and love the attention you get from us. You end up doing things girls in real life with a good job would not do. I am only 32 years old, I have a nice body since I workout everyday. I also have a great job that gives me all the money I need. I am very used to go in video cam to cam and hear: you look nice. I like you. But my heart for hosts is shut closed now. I just though girls in eastern european countries were nice and good girls, but I was totally 120% wrong!!!

u sound too bitter. dont generalise everythin
32 yo is quite young, and if u have money, and plus, u look good too... why would a sane girl not stay with u? did u ever think maybe the problem is in u? in ur personality?
32 yo ,good financial,good looking and attractive guy would not be refused by girls. just think about it and analise urself better,d ont blame it on the others

I could say to you the same as "humm" below, just dont want to polemize too much with a people who are so sure they are the best in the world. I too had disappointments in my life more than three times, but I still think not "all men are the same"...So your bad experience on here doesn't mean "all girls are the same".

And again...you even can't imagine what things girls with a "good job" are capable to do sometimes......hope you will never meet that.

another good piece of advice...hope the members are reading this thread

age is not a problem, my current squeeze is 47, and very nice 2. the problem is probably the distance..and chasing some1 in a different country, am curious why u dont find a girl in ur own country? where it would be easier 4 u2 date and get 2 know women in person b4 flying off miles ?? that would be my suggestion anyhowz ..good luck

I have had relationships with girls typically 16 to 19 years younger. Most cases they act more mature in the relationship than I, but I'm learning :) I guess that's why I'm home alone ;)

well for me i dont care about the age.so what? if you are old or young when it comes to love we dont care about it as long as you are loyal and you feel is true love.Honestly,i met also my fiancee here in this site we met already in real we still have communications through phone and IM and text and so on....But when i found out he is still looking for a girls to talk and he gave his personal Id's and i found out he talk to this girl and delete to his list but lucky me i saw he's contact addresses he delete the girl id in his yahoo list but when i saw it in his contacts address i saw it. it was really hurt that the man i trust is he goes to girls room and talk and gave his personal id.actually, he always telling me im engaged to him and be good he knows i am good but what he do is not good. engaged is a commitment for a long lasting love in our lives. but u know what i still forgive him bec i love him so much but what he did to me it was really really hurt :( he told me he will never go here and he will terminate his membership for what he did to me. then time goes by i found out he goes to other site and look for a picture but not live i told him live or its just a picture for what he did i wrong again coz he dont need to go there because he already have me in his life i am young asian girl he knows he is my first in everything and i am loyal to him eventhough he is old enough i dont care about it. i talk to his mom 2 times also in yahoo with cam he already met my family.but i dont really know what is on his mind why he need to go to other site just to look for a naked pictures? maybe he is not satisfied that he have me but why he proposed to me to marry him?? and i think i am crazy bec i forgive him again bec i love him so much.
i am saying here is host or a member age is not envolved when it comes to love the first thing you will think is how he/she feels about you is he/she really loves you or not? is that a money involved? well you can sized her feelings. bec honestly, i dont want my fiancee to help me thats why i want to work here but he dont let me work so i respect his decisions for me. So, for you "member" who ask this questions all i can say is not all chathost u can trust bec honestly the girl i saw to my fiancee contacts list is she is flirting with my fiancee i saw her message and her picture with her baby. and i know what is her screename but i will never ever mention her name bec i am smarter than her all i can say to her is i hope "karma" with get you for what you did........so the answer NOT ALL chathost is HONEST and LOYAL be careful who you fall in love goodluck;)

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Does anyone believe this? Do you pay woman from your own country to chat and flirt online? Or is it just because you found someone who you are getting taken by. Common sense!!! Bust your nut with these foxes. But leave them here in their fishing pond. Younger girl will definately fall for a rich older man over a young, poor one. But do you see what part she loves about you most. Your fat wallet.

obviously paying someone to chat with them turns some people on :)

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I agree with majority of points. Just want to add that many chathosts who are truly single in their life are in the similar situation. Yes, they work here for many reasons but deeply in their hearts have a hope to find love anywhere and still waiting for the right man. We all, men and women, never know when and where we will find our love.....or maybe will never find, who knows!

And yes, it's difficult to trust to anyone, doesn't matter online or in real life. Obviusly trusting to somebody is the first and the main problem...just see, all we have some bad experiences in our past relationships. That's why I totally agree with the point that first of all both persons must act to prove their real love to each other and must have the same will to get being together. Just sitting and chatting and promising endlessly are not the actions that could make a dreams come true. I had some guys who seemed to be so serious in their feelings, but...lol...finally I found out that all what they wanted was just spending time pleasantly and yes,"enjoying a fantasy", or simply wanting for sexy talkings, moreover FREE SEXY SHOWS, wow...even after adjurations for "love forever"! So, not only women are about "fishing" here or elsewhere...

As for age...of course feelings are on the first place in relationship but very often love could be broken purely because of ages difference. Mostly young girls aren't able for giving but not only taking, for compromises as well. It takes a time for them to learn what men's and women's destinations are. Also they are easy to be "stolen" by another guy who is younger, richer, better looking or whatever...
Practically there are so many important things to get over, especially with a foreign partner, and you must be ready for plenty of difficulties.
BUT as they say "love is muuuuch stronger" if you both are in love...:) You sound like you are really capable for true feelings if you have took a time to learn her language and even could relocate to her country...

That is why I appreciate your efforts and sincerity, and sincerely wish you all the best!

I like you :) Just thought I'd say. Have a great day.

TNT

Thank you very much The NakedTruth! I like you too :)
And this day is really GREAT for me :)
In return I wish you the same and even much more :D
Kiss

Get a room. Would ya?

Jeez, some people are so jealous for no reason.

So, what do you say laughing girl, your place or mine then? ;) hehe..


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Yawn.... zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

Good night!.....

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LMAO.
good one girl

your post is the perfect example of the general "mentality" members will find on this site and others where you pay for ostensible friendship...read it and weep before you pull out your wallet and leap.

looks like u're just after some young fresh meat,dude!
try someone closer to your age,u may find someone who's serious about settling down. but...noooo..u just wanna f**k some young pussy. lol
be realistic, a 20 yo would not settle down with someone twice or more her age.
dude..u gonna die way b4 her... ( natural causes speaking..)

sorry for my words,dont wanna be rude...but just face the reality. stop looking for young firs asses

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I dont know about others and to be honest i didnt read all the comments here. My honest opinion about is that you should look for a mature lady, over 30. Most of young girls are beautiful and i dont blame you to get in love with one of them. But if you are realist, you have to admit it: a young girl will be happy with your presents, with your money, with your time on her video chat. I have no doubt that there are also honest girls who will respect you for who you are, but i wont take the risc. A nice mature lady, with a lil experience and more responsable will worth your time for sure. Just give it a try! I just read a post from one of romanian hosts who was looking for a serious relationship, so you see....good things it happen too :) Good luck and get back soon with good news! Hugs!

Russia: 400 England: 0

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Russia 1, England 2

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Russians!!! Pray for our TEAM please!!!

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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At least she lets you chat with hot young women on CC.... How much of a bitch can she be???

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Let her alone, all hosts that have cc bfs like to give them free privates. Find yourself a cc gf and stop the foolish posts!

Well i must say i don't have a cc bf at the moment. But still thank you for being realistic.:)

CC bf? What the hell is that? LOL

It's the lucky member that sees her free private, LOL.

If you always ask girls to give you smth in such a way, no wonder you are here.

lol i like this last reply:)kisses and lots of $$$$ to u TRIKSY:)

those kind of comments will come back to bite u

I've been bitten too many times without such comments, so who cares.

so your karma card is filling up rather too fast

with attitude like yours - no wonder you dont have a "real" job !

My attitude depends on the attitude of my viewers. Be nice, and i will do my best to make you happy. Stirring things up about me over and over in the forum is not being nice.
And about the job. I make enough money here. I don't strip. So it's a real job for me considering the curcumstances. Which i can't say about having a woman here. No girl online will ever replace a real one. If you keep being this way with them.

dear - i come here for the entertainment ;):):D

not for a substitute gf - lol

Who's talking about substituting gf? i was talking about substituting a real woman, which not nessessary has to be a gf.

you are quite anal sometimes

Yeah thx.

u like anal

Nope thx.

u contradicted yourself

Stupid question - stupid answer...

Your real gf must feel so special

and yours?

hmmm i must be further out of touch than i thought.i presumed you were using ironic humour.

Yeah, I was thought to make a joke and be funny after MoodySnake's post below, but I think this "someone" got it wrong and the hosts here are too greedy. I guess they can't be touch when they are giving free vids to their men. Anyways, f*ck them, now I know I won't visit any of these two.

thx, it is always easier to be rude when nothing to say...

Ah what a gentleman. So generous of you to talk like that about women. Maybe that's why you don't get any passwords and have to make fun of it here.

ahh not as out of touch as i thought.still i don't agree with your fuck them sentiments.so they didn't understand your attempt at humour. rememeber english is not their language so the nuances can sometimes escape them.best to forget it & maybe even show the type of man you really are & apologise.i'm sure it would be accepted in the spirit it is given & can be put down to miscommunication.

there's a lot of anger here from dissatisfied hopeful and ultimately disappoint hosts and members so eventually all the response seem to boil down to sarcasism and skepticism...get a life people.

it mean carrassing

Answers in comm chat ranged from an eye dropper to your belly button. So who knows :(

Cool, a multi purpose word LOL

Pipet(te). To russian it means the same as to other ppl in the world.

$10

little test tube,or in oz slang,little penis.

Shhh that was a special rate for you, INYF :P Now they all will ask for discounts :D

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Yes, it is a girl. Yes she is small :-)
I still like the belly button one though!

Come on, MadisonLee, this is the post you said you were gonna make? That's the best you can do? Duh!...Jeeeeeeeez!

Actually, it is a good idea, but I'm not sure if Gortensia is up for it...

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2 buffalo girls go round the outside, round the outside, round the outside, u know it

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Yeah...I know; I'll try to wait at least a few months before I bring up that topic again! ;) lol

I love Sean

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it's my sean!!!!

I love Andreea

You did it well man, at least i'm annoyed :P

Yes, but at least you still opened the post anyway! Hehehe....Reading some of the other replies directly above yours, I get a feeling that not everyone did, if you know what I mean? :P

To tell you honestly, some posts i open automatically and very often dont go farther than the first few words. But since i replied to this one, yeah i did read it all and yeah i'm annoyed :P

You annoy everyone.

He doesn't annoy me but posts like yours do :)

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not me,though he refused to come to the station for further questioning.

Thanks for the support INYF, Laughing Girl and awol. Hey, I guess I can be annoying, but I'm prepared to take the risk of not being liked by everyone...online as well as offline.

I knew there were some severely unhappy members around, but had no idea that there were so many hosts in such a pissy mood!

Well, too bad for them...I suppose...cause I'm not planning to leave for a while! I've chatted with some really neat people here, members and hosts. As long as these positives are in the majority, I plan to stick around and post whatever I want. ;)

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I know. ;)

Who knows if it's possible? Who cares?

Once I got married to a CC chat host.

My December album. Kelly Clarkson. I saw her in concert. Amazing.

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Foo Fighters -
The Pretender

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Incubus- "Dig"

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"So small" by Carrie Underwood from the album Carnival Ride

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yeah moody...he just wanted the password...tell him to kiss off

kiss u dear(K)

Yes, it should have been clear to him that you wanted to be alone. However, some people lack that basic shred of intelligence, known as common sense, that is oh so crucial to survival, yet somehow manage to make it in life. But don't worry, natural selection catches up with these people sooner or later.

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A texter can READ what the host and viewer types IF the both type in open. But they can't read his words.

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You said "as opposed to One2One where chatters can enter text chat." And I meant that one can enter textchat mode, but can't be read and can only read what is written in open text.

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The host and viewer must still type in (private) mode.

Why do you find this so intriguing and make such an issue of it. If the guy looked at "Who's on line" or at her profile and clicked the Videochat button he would see the host was in a free session with a password. As there is only one person registered to that hostname it is a very reasonable assumption that it was actually MoodySnake in that session. Where is the mystery? I would also point out that both the "Who's on Line" page and her profile would show that she had a free session but not that it was password protected. If the member was actively looking for a host with a free session this would have led him to her.

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I had the same impression somehow.

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no, they suppose us to read forums while we r in vid:P

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am i reading this right? in a 121 members can enter text chat??

they can enter but not interact - they can read what the host and viewer say IF they are in open chat, but can't talk back or see anything

It's just some members being cynical. They know the girls have their preferences to give free sessions to their favorite viewers and they like to tease by messaging the girls to give them the passwords. MoodySnake is acting up like she doesn't know what happened, but the truth is that she was in free private and some member wanted the password, hehehehe

MoodySnake makes it clear she knows exactly what happened. She just asked us for our opinion about a member who she has never actually chatted with asking for the password to a free private session,

True, my mistake! I got confused after reading the other posts, lol. Sorry!

Thanks, one of not many comments about subject i really asked for(K)

Existing host 4 years

ex hosts , 5 years, and a few 4 years

ex-hosts i have 2 that I have known for over 4 years. one sends me Christmas cards every year. i chat with the other on Yahoo on a regular basis.
current hosts 2-3 years.
when some leave cc they disappear as if to erase there past. they delete there Yahoo accounts and you never hear from them again.
sometimes they leave suddenly without warning anyone.

I am still in touch with hosts i first met more than 4 years ago.

nice M :) long time. According to my session statistics :) Dec 2004 for ex host and I called her yesterday to see how the weather is. Jan 2005 for current host, but I don\'t really go to her vid anymore, just BS on yahoo.

7 years, girls from the site which inspired this one

That's total bullshit!!

A guy says he has been on this site for seven years and came from another well-known site. What's bullshit about that? It mirrors my experience.

Alright I've had just about enough out of you!

LOL

eight years

I was about to boast that I had smashed your record of 2 but then I realised you said years not minutes :(

Lol....good one!

that is a question with no right or wrong answer.it comes down to individuals & their relationship.only you will know,imo.

$13.67

Let me make it simplier. Is $200 too much or too little?

its will only encourage her to look for money from you. send flowers or gift instead

$200 may be a bit excessive, if you don't want to give the impression that you're trying to buy her. I agree with "me," perhaps a gift would be a better option, and shows more thought. If you feel like money is the best way, then perhaps a smaller amount "for fun," along with a gift.

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Thanks for the advice. I will go with $100.

And i think new guy are far more interesting than oldies. At least they dont think they are "the judges"

i agree an interesting and beautiful crop of hosts. some though can never match some of the oldies like Tata and Tiasia.

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not sure what you are saying Gort. stalling is something i have not encountered here in years. its ok for host to try to keep session longer. why not if guys are cheap.most new girls i see are willing to perform in a timely fashion as long as we are polite to them and do not demand stuff not agreed beforehand. for those that dont strip is fine as long as they say so up front.

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take it east gort

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I think it is probably that when a girl starts she has fewer preconceived notions of what she should do. Also its more fun when you start. Finding out what members like, lets face it does not vary that much:) once you have been on line for a while. Also she is keener to find regulars who will support her.

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I always thought everybody knows that when you are new to something, you are more intersted in it, rather than if you are used to it.
And you sound like you have discovered something brand new and exciting. But well, better late than never, right? :P
kisses

well I've eaten cheeseburgers all my life and I'm still excited about them.......

Poor you...

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Gortensia if I had had sex with you 6 times one after the other I can assure you I would be just as excited about the 7th time as I was about the 1st :D

Isnt that the same in Life ?

A new relationship, fresh start , fun times, new possibilities... all is possible,,
new things to learn, new adventures,,,

But then , is there anything better than someone who knows u better, someone you have some history with , shared times, good and bad,,, problems overcome, trust , and comfort, more relaxing..


Every time and every age has good and bad,,Best to enjoy what you have, and those you know , and know you well, dont loose them...

I like both new hosts and old hosts. I have become good friends with several hosts and I enjoy chatting with them; however, it is also good to make new friends and I enjoy that. I have just enjoyed my time on cc with both new and old hosts.

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I also like old friends and old wine, but I still like to try new friends and new brands of wine..But i will not forget to enjoy the old too.

Ahh but old whining friends are not the best though, Vera ;) I have a few of those too! Hehe..

TNT

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Haha.. touché, dear Vera ;)

TNT :)

Old hosts are already rich and they do not care if you stay five minutes in video or 50 minutes in video.They also, have old regulars...why they should try to keep you longer when they make enough, anyway?
Plus the fact when they are in video, they have to work..and who wants to work, nowadays??...LOL

While I agree with you in principle Mistress.. I would posit that older and, by definition, more experienced hosts, tend to work smarter and not harder. Supplementing their income by other means such as referrals, an online shop, some value added services.

Over the years I have come to know a lot of very smart hosts, who would not be out of place at all in the business world. In fact many frequently become part of it in other fields.

For my own preferences I like talking to experienced hosts so long as they realise they are talking to an experienced member as well ;) CC does change your perception of people there is no doubt about that. And stay here long enough and you either become very understanding or very jaded.

Of course all the new hosts I talk to eventually become more experienced anyway, so I am never too disappointed really. :)


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Not working sounds good to me :)

I correct myself (humbly) its true that hosts i have visited regularly are nearly always pleased to see you again, I like to have a laugh as well as show and remember things they have told me and most appreciate that . A little caring goes a long way. But if a girl is new here they do tend tobe fresher if its a first visit thanhost who has been round the block. I think gortensia is right many girls do not think they will be here for long but just get stuck in work or find it is more lucrative than they thought!

many,many kinds of love but true love is putting their life ahead if yours.

I hear ya, I hope she puts her life in front of mine,espically when we are talking about flying bullets :)

To me love is a give and take relationship between two consenting partners. The give and take relationship is one that is unconditional and respectful from both partners.

its making happy confident children

Just say no to drugs and alcohol.

only time can test the strength of your love...may it last many many years to come