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to non rude member
Hello Dear! Just want to say u that i dont use russian language here at all, so dont try to be nice to other members warning them about how bad I am. Today girls in com chat really have been speaking in russian using rude words,but maybe u havent noticed that i said them not to use.In english by the way. So dont say a word if u r not sure is truth.
Good luck
Good luck
RE: to non rude member
moody 1 it is all ok.he is just a sad miserable joker.i said my opinion in viewer forum.
RE: to non rude member
I dont regret btw ladyburd,just dont like to hear lies abt me lol
good luck and ;ots of $$$$$$$$$$$$
good luck and ;ots of $$$$$$$$$$$$
RE: to non rude member
We all do efforts to learn english, so we can communicatie with more people. Does this mean we are not allowed anymore to chat in on our language between us? What a language imperialisme !
RE: to non rude member
You should be ashamed of yourself. A host friend of mine was there and she translated to me all the time and you hosts were scoffing of other members.... Not very nice!
RE: to non rude member
lol,the 2 gossipy rumour-,omgerers are here too,not just viewers.like i said in the vf,worse than little old ladies.sad,sad,sad....
i hate
Yes, they are here to make money, but I hate "video-only" girls. Even if you do go into video with them from time to time, if you don't have a long video with them on a regular basis they don't have time for you.
They flood you with compliments until you say "I won't be in video this time" and then they say "bye."
They flood you with compliments until you say "I won't be in video this time" and then they say "bye."
RE: Bull to abovespirit
depends on context...if you men THE MAN that true, if you mean the ID or name I have taken for the post, I am indeed. And what about you? If we're being REAL, you certainly are NOT ABOVE spirit, in fact you as material as they come.
RE: Bull to abovespirit
material? material? hahahahaha
sorry honey i'm not that kind of girl. just shows how badly you can be mistaken
sorry honey i'm not that kind of girl. just shows how badly you can be mistaken
RE: Bull to abovespirit
need to lighten up there The Man. spirit was obviously poking fun at the stern wording of your not always true message and the silliness of anyone calling themselves the man. especially one so thin skinned
so dont' get your knickers in such a twist. ane wouldn't calling a member material be an oxymoron, they are the ones spending not collecting
so dont' get your knickers in such a twist. ane wouldn't calling a member material be an oxymoron, they are the ones spending not collecting
RE: i hate
Wow! Hate is a strong description.
You come to an online video strip site and expect to talk to women without using the online video and you hate that they are underwhelmed by your actions.
Take a short trip to a night club and talk to strange women there.
You come to an online video strip site and expect to talk to women without using the online video and you hate that they are underwhelmed by your actions.
Take a short trip to a night club and talk to strange women there.
thanks - true
I hate the situation, not the girl.
But it's strange they can be sooooo nice if you are in video, but if you drop by to textchat with the same girl she ignores you.
But it's strange they can be sooooo nice if you are in video, but if you drop by to textchat with the same girl she ignores you.
RE: i hate
Yes the girls are here to earn some money, not make conversational platitudes with you !!!
RE: i hate
You know, sometimes I'm really enjoying smart and witty converstaions, no matter if he comes in video or not. Of course I don't mind if he chooses videochat..lol, but if he says that he CAN'T this time, no problem really...I know he will come back the next time.
But there are also some others, let me say "unpleasant" chatters, who aren't care about video at all and just overuse my time and patience typing the same stuff. What should I do? Of course I try to avoid them. But I agree that obstinate "dragging" a member to video is not professional and could play just a contrary effect. I think smart host knows how to make him willing to see her.
But there are also some others, let me say "unpleasant" chatters, who aren't care about video at all and just overuse my time and patience typing the same stuff. What should I do? Of course I try to avoid them. But I agree that obstinate "dragging" a member to video is not professional and could play just a contrary effect. I think smart host knows how to make him willing to see her.
RE: i hate
oh snap, are you saying many of the other hosts are dumb bimbos?!?
Ladies are you just going to sit quitley by and allow this type of slander?
Ladies are you just going to sit quitley by and allow this type of slander?
RE: i hate
Naaah, if I were drunk, I would be visiting host with saggy boobs, a flabby belly and make-up applied with a small paint brush.
But nice try to divert the attention from your previous bimbo calling post.
But nice try to divert the attention from your previous bimbo calling post.
RE: i hate
ahhh your post name is a misnomer,proving that self recommendation is no praise.not even 8 year old stirring level.an f,must do better :--))
RE: i hate
AGREE! u pay to hosts for thei attention! its normal! and we always prefer that guys who respect our job and ready to pay..maybe just a lil!! if u cant spend lots of $ but u ener vid and then stay with a host in text chat - that host will never be rude and wont ignore u!
dont be greedy guys and dont forget we must pay for internet connection we pay rent and more and more! and if we will talk for free with every member here - we will get homless so soon!!!
by the way guys ..do u do ur job for free???? i am sure u dont! so why u want us to do our job for free???
dont be greedy guys and dont forget we must pay for internet connection we pay rent and more and more! and if we will talk for free with every member here - we will get homless so soon!!!
by the way guys ..do u do ur job for free???? i am sure u dont! so why u want us to do our job for free???
Any bidding?
Like to throw all my support (and money) to just one host during the 14 days of the contest. Any offers and what do I get in return?
RE: Any bidding?
Good idea. I can only imagine that she might offer a certain about of free video to match what you spend in the contest. Be sure you make the deal in ccMail so it's documented
RE: Any bidding?
Actually I wasn't looking for free videos just something I never seen before. Lol. This kind of limits it to glamour or shy category girls.
RE: Any bidding?
A liitle disappointed that Gort thinks IA girl will win it all. Since 99.9% of my visits are in glamour or shy, I think I will sit this contest out and not vote at all since my votes will have so little impact . I will come to see a few of my favorites each day but that's all.
RE: Any bidding?
"In this game you gotta show some skin to win" But, abovexbeyond is one of the winners and she doesn't show any skin...well, none of the important skin anyway.
RE: Any bidding?
What will you get in return? A sprained wrist and some sores I dare say. Oh and, of course, the obligatory empty wallet ;)
TNTFALW
TNTFALW
RE: Any bidding?
it's gonna be pigs at the trough for the next 14 days...imagine the profits!!!
RE: Any bidding?
I can see the cash flowwing...the celebrity status...the back-biting is about to begin.
RE: Any bidding?
see u later baby. had a change of heart. got great show from host wanting votes. i think i will be voting now for those that want them.
marriage
I married a chathost on CC and now I am the most happy man in the world. Fantasy girls are shit. You have to get real.
RE: marriage
er..if u married a girl from cc wouldnt that mean at one time she was a "fantasy girl" as u so nicely put it?...congrats anyway :)
RE: marriage
Why why why. Now you will get them all going again. Is it really possible to find love on CC? Will my CC boyfriend marry me? This is not a porno site its a friendship and love site right? Gag.
RE: marriage
Good luck.. I hope that you build a nice cyber family!
Greetings and long life full of joy
Greetings and long life full of joy
RE: marriage
the sad thing you don;t realize is these host will marry ANYONE that proposes to them..be they fat, old, bald, smelly. You are their ticket out of a poverty stricken life that forced them to alow guys, any guy with cash to jack off to their naked body.
But hey, if you are happy that's all that matters (I guess).
But hey, if you are happy that's all that matters (I guess).
RE: marriage
you may think that Real Deal but the fact is you don't know the truth. The girls don't always move out of their country. I am one who is moving to her country and going to live there and get married.
dear xBLONDYxx
I would leave the US (after early retirement) and live in Romania. If she is good with money we should be ok with my retirement and a job.
RE: marriage
interesting... don't take this the wrong way but you met your woman in videos by paying for her in shows. Do you still pay for her now?
I dont know but something seems wrong about paying for women just to feel loved by them.
I dont know but something seems wrong about paying for women just to feel loved by them.
RE: marriage
i doubt he went to her video to pay for her to love him, i expect he went for the same reason as most of us and after time the love developed and he stopped paying
RE: marriage
You apparently have never been married, you always pay if not in cash in new clothes, jewelry, etc. etc.
RE: marriage
urrr welll last time i checked i am married and we are happy too:). It just happens that we believe men and women should be equal to each other.
RE: marriage
These girls are not nearly so "poverty-striken" as you imagine. And many of them wouldn't leave their home countries if you put a gun to their head.
Those ones that you have such words with and just playing a fantasy role. They have NO intention of marrying you. LOL
Those ones that you have such words with and just playing a fantasy role. They have NO intention of marrying you. LOL
RE: marriage
He's been watching too many prison movies where a packet of cigarettes will buy anything.
RE: marriage
I will try to answer everyone questions. She no longer works here. She hasn't worked here in a couple years. There is no boyfriend besides me. I am moving from usa to russia. I think I have answered everything.
RE: marriage
I can't speak Russian, but I am the best french fry maker at McDonalds and I hear Moscow has a McDonalds now. I'm guessing withing a few years I can be assistant to the assistant night mananger.
RE: marriage
yes i know russian but am still in process of learning too. I already have a job lined up in moscow.. your welcome for the answers xBLONDYxx
RE: marriage
when you have a rich mummy and daddy then all is possible.
Especially in russia:)
Especially in russia:)
masculin strip :)
all mambers ask in vidio to strip but i wish to see a masculin strip too.no one yet.is someone available for?loooooooooool
RE: masculin strip :)
How much you goint to pay me per minute? I have what appears to be a silicone belly implant.
RE: masculin strip :)
One time a host logged onto my MSN and we roll played that I was the host and she was the customer. It was hot for me and she still asks if we can do it again. I am waiting to see if she will pay.
RE: masculin strip :)
I doi role reversal with asian hosts, i strip and they watch and ask me to 'perform' . if any asian hosts like this just leave your id here:)
RE: Any girls here who has a inflatable bra?
that was a buoyant question which you just deflated :--)
RE: Any girls here who has a inflatable bra?
I have an inflatable love doll for sale. I call her Ming and she cleans up great. 3 openings no waiting.
RE: Any girls here who has a inflatable bra?
yes, but I have a small leak and after 5 minutes my torpodo tits look like 2 fried eggs. Still interested?
RE: Any girls here who has a inflatable bra?
Hi Betty Boop. I am still interested in seeing your inflatable bra. If it goes flat you can always pump it up again. Please give your screenname.
RE: Cam2Cam
Sigh. Why oh why do you think CC has Cam to Cam? Seriously. Sure some host use it to stare loving into the eyes of their beloved member but most wind up stairing at the one eyed trouser trout.
RE: Cam2Cam
I am also amused at this plow. One of first questions always asked is 'do you have a cam'. My answer is always "no" even though I do have one. Saves time and gets into the action faster. Some members are so guilable.
RE: Cam2Cam
I gues if you an ugly old fart then it's better to say you don;t have a cam, but for us handsome, rugged Brad Pitt look-a-likes, there is no better way to get her moist espically after seeing some over-the-hill kodger playing with his undersized manhood.
RE: Cam2Cam
;)
I pretty much always do cam2cam... but i do it because i'm not far nor old (nor ugly, some gals may say ;) )and experience tells me there are two things that can happen:
a) you get an amazing show, because she enjoys watching and being watched by someone who is "attractive"
b) the girl gets all shy and says she'd rather not strip because you you are too cute and bla bla bla. They start to ask for your yahoo id, then your pictures, then your mobile number, then they introduce you to all their friends in the studio, then... you feel like a bastard because the girl MAY actually like you... but you only wanted to wank and are spending loads of money.
And since all the girls in the studio know you, at least in MY case i feel guilty if i was to go to vid with them...
In the end you have to chose only ONE girl per studio :P
I pretty much always do cam2cam... but i do it because i'm not far nor old (nor ugly, some gals may say ;) )and experience tells me there are two things that can happen:
a) you get an amazing show, because she enjoys watching and being watched by someone who is "attractive"
b) the girl gets all shy and says she'd rather not strip because you you are too cute and bla bla bla. They start to ask for your yahoo id, then your pictures, then your mobile number, then they introduce you to all their friends in the studio, then... you feel like a bastard because the girl MAY actually like you... but you only wanted to wank and are spending loads of money.
And since all the girls in the studio know you, at least in MY case i feel guilty if i was to go to vid with them...
In the end you have to chose only ONE girl per studio :P
Happy Bday
Avgis (madgreek70)...hope u have a great bday and plenty of fucking...have an awesome weekend celebrating and make sure they ARE female first...have fun :)
the stars
You shouldn't get so bent out of shape about the stars and how they are counted. I was with an unrated host twice within 6 hours and gave her 5 stars each time. 24 hours later they still hadn't registered. They finally did. Unfortunately some other guy(s) gave her less because she only has 4.5 stars now.
RE: the stars
I could be wrong but my understanding is that a host has to get 10 ratings before the stars would first register so that could explain the 24 hours.
RE: the stars
lol, on one hand your message seems to say don't worry about the stars and on the other you yourself seemed to track how many stars she had. Which is it?
RE: the stars
I am noting that the stars, which don't impress me so much, don't appear instantly.
is it true ladies?
ladies? is it true that women like the "bad boy" type of guys? you know,the ones that treat women like s**t,yell at them,ignore them,even hit them in some case.do you see it as more of a challenge to get the "bad boy,scumbag" type to be nicer to you? i see this all the time in my ever day life and for the life of me i don't get it.i just don't see the attraction.don't get me wrong,a little badness i can understand but some of the guys that i see and how they treat their wife/gf is terrrible.don't women like nice guys anymore? the type of guy that will treat them as a lady,bring them flowers? the romantic type of guy? maybe i'm just too nice or whatever but it bothers me to see women treated poorly and to see such an ass of a guy actually be with a woman and me being the nice,romantic type,still single. sorry for rambling on.i just needed to get that off my chest.
RE: is it true ladies?
Absolutely not true in my opinion. Just look on those girls posts where they complaining all the time about "bad guys" and how those guys hurt them. Each NORMAL woman wants to have a NORMAL man who will treat in a right way.
But also well-known a deviant type of women who are happy to be a slave and I mean not only sex of course. I have seen a women who are always downtrodden and even are not trying to change things. Well, its up to them.
So, I think it's all about men's and women's psychology and for sure all roots of it grow from their childhood.
As for you, I think you shouldn't be disappointed. It's great that you are not like those guys. You are nice, kind, romantic and so on, and it's for sure your advantage. Maybe you just need to be a little more braver?
Anyway, there is a woman somewhere who will be happy to accept you as you are.
But also well-known a deviant type of women who are happy to be a slave and I mean not only sex of course. I have seen a women who are always downtrodden and even are not trying to change things. Well, its up to them.
So, I think it's all about men's and women's psychology and for sure all roots of it grow from their childhood.
As for you, I think you shouldn't be disappointed. It's great that you are not like those guys. You are nice, kind, romantic and so on, and it's for sure your advantage. Maybe you just need to be a little more braver?
Anyway, there is a woman somewhere who will be happy to accept you as you are.
RE: is it true ladies?
I think it is true. I just lost one of the best girls of my life because she wanted to keep a sleezeball as a friend (at least what she says). It does no good to treat a girl like a princess when they feel they deserve no better. A very self-destructive tendency in some.
Girls prefer bad guys.
Girls prefer bad guys.
RE: is it true ladies?
I am sorry for that Ron, but I keep insisting that some women and especially young girls have a very wrong conception of a "real" man. They think that such qualities as being soft, romantic, gentle, loyal are not completely "manful" and they prefer rudeness and cruelty as a proof of male's nature. I think a reason is a simple immaturity, a lack of self-respect and probably some hidden perversions. And I've never heard about "happy end" of such relationships. Generally they are nondurable.
Of course a man shouldn't be a "milksop". But those men who can combine their manliness along with their tenderness are the best ones in my opinion.
Of course a man shouldn't be a "milksop". But those men who can combine their manliness along with their tenderness are the best ones in my opinion.
dear "Laughing girl"
I agree with most of what you say. But later some of the sweetness will wear off and he'll be more "normal" without being "bad."
RE: dear
Yeah...but anyway, if a man is strongly oriented on dignity and his man's responsibilities, he will always try to do the best to keep it. I cant imagine what should happen to make him completely "bad". Even if he is just an "ordinary" man, he will be accepted by most of women and has much more chances to find his love and build a normal family than any of those jerks with their extremely masochist women.
Oh..I hope I was not extremely boring...lol
Oh..I hope I was not extremely boring...lol
RE: dear
That's what I meant. But it's too bad we see so many girls wating their time and annoying us by chasing the bad boys.
RE: dear
Well, think...maybe is nothing to regret for? Maybe those girls are not that kind of lady that you will be happy with? And maybe you need to just wait for that the only one "your" girl? Don't you think if a girl is always chasing the bad boys, she will never appreciate your goodness?
So...I just know if a man is really nice and even if he is still "unlucky" in love, it's anyway much better than to be a bad but "lucky" guy and use and hurt others without any regretting..It's a big question who is finally "lucky" and "unlucky :)
So...I just know if a man is really nice and even if he is still "unlucky" in love, it's anyway much better than to be a bad but "lucky" guy and use and hurt others without any regretting..It's a big question who is finally "lucky" and "unlucky :)
RE: dear
Yes, yes, that's true. But they always complain how badly he treats them and how they wish they could find a nice guy. THAT'S the funny and sad thing.
RE: dear
....yes, and also a strange thing!
Well, as I said some reasons of that belong to psychology, some are the lack of self-respect and life's experience and some are just the wrong standards.
Anyway I wish you to find a right woman. Sometimes it could take a long time yes, but true love is worth to be waited :)
Well, as I said some reasons of that belong to psychology, some are the lack of self-respect and life's experience and some are just the wrong standards.
Anyway I wish you to find a right woman. Sometimes it could take a long time yes, but true love is worth to be waited :)
RE: is it true ladies?
"In the name of love"or "love is blind"the reason why some women still love thr abusive men...other reason is women love them coz they think they can change them or make them nice...jeezzzz!i would never tolerate any man hitting me!But i prefer bad boy n bed(slapping mah ass hard!:P)hugzzz!!!
RE: is it true ladies?
many people here host and viewers have little self-confidence and they hide their insecuity behind online fantasy...most resent this whether they realize it or not and r angry and bitter as a result...that is why they display hurtful behavior and/or require it.
RE: is it true ladies?
Good guys are passed over in life because women dont take the time to talk with them....here on cc the guys get that chance and thats why so many are here...and guys use there "eyes" first when looking for love..then we realise whats missing after its to late..
RE: is it true ladies?
"Nice guys" are as exciting as stale bread. Women by nature love drama stories and a "bad guy" wil give her plenty of drama. The only thing she needs to feel is after a while is she "tamed him". A smart bad boy will see this and play along until her tits start sagging and move on.
RE: is it true ladies?
by bad do you mean young? lol, the old guys have sown thier wild oats and are less likely to be bad. The young guys are still playing the field and aren't ready to settle and have sex with the same lady night after night. So they (and but that I mean me) treat them rough, but the ladies seems to want more. Go figure.
You old todgers can stay at home watching Benny Hill having warm tea and crackers, I'm going out for shots of tequilla and dancing.
You old todgers can stay at home watching Benny Hill having warm tea and crackers, I'm going out for shots of tequilla and dancing.
RE: is it true ladies?
When I was younger I had neither the time nor the need to join a site like this even if one had existed.
RE: is it true ladies?
And "good guys" pay to see women naked?? Are you the pot or are you the kettle?
RE: is it true ladies?
i didn't realize coming here made me a "bad guy". i'm not even talking about this site.i'm talking about real life.and if coming here makes me "bad guy" then so be it but this site has nothing to do with what my opening post was all about.
All this "can you find love on CC" talk
At the end of the day, you could find a wife in a crack den, but it doesn't mean it's a good place to go looking.
RE: All this
Just a house where people are doing crack cocaine ;) generally people don't come here to CC looking for love but often u accidently find it... There are a few very nice people here.
RE: All this
I don't care what people say, It is very possible to find love here. I found the woman I am going to spend the rest of my life with. We have started her paperwork and she quit working here. now all of you will ask why i am still here. the fact is I still have friends here that I like to keep in touch with and they all know about her or have met her.
RE: All this
Good for you. The problem with this topic is that people sometimes want everyone's experience to mirror their own. If they got screwed over by a host here, they don't want to see anybody else happy either. Of course real love can happen here; like someone else said there are nice people here, too. And...I'm happy that it happened to you and that there are quite a few people coming here with positive experiences . I understand about you coming back, because I've made friends here, too...among viewers and hosts.
Ted, I know that you were just trying to make a point, but I think that comparing meeting someone here to meeting some one in a crack pen is a bit of a stretch. True, I agree that neither place is a GOOD place to look for love, but there's a huge difference between the two. Please tell me that you actually don't mean that they're the same? Think about it...YOU spend time here yourself, don't you? Have you or would you actually spend time in a crack house? I rest my case... Perhaps this is what the prior poster meant by your logic being flawed. I actually don't think that your logic can be that bad, I just think you just got a little carried away trying to make a point. Am I right?
Ted, I know that you were just trying to make a point, but I think that comparing meeting someone here to meeting some one in a crack pen is a bit of a stretch. True, I agree that neither place is a GOOD place to look for love, but there's a huge difference between the two. Please tell me that you actually don't mean that they're the same? Think about it...YOU spend time here yourself, don't you? Have you or would you actually spend time in a crack house? I rest my case... Perhaps this is what the prior poster meant by your logic being flawed. I actually don't think that your logic can be that bad, I just think you just got a little carried away trying to make a point. Am I right?
RE: All this
Do not give me all this shit. I meet the most sexy beautiful woman in the universe at CC. So I divorce my ex wife and I marry my CC host. Now I am the most happy man in the world. Thankyou CC.
RE: All this
I wonder if that means she got half of everything again, leaving him with nothing.
RE: All this
yeah...heroin is a great drug but should the whole population be taking it? sex is right up there is inducing temporary altered states of eurphoia and escapism.
RE: question for members..answer please
members ask because some don't know any better and others takes it a challenge to try to get non adult to take off clothes. And from my readings in the viewers forum some girls actually get naked in non adult.
RE: question for members..answer please
Well, some of us men are just plain idiots...more like boys pretending to be men. Then there are a few of us who spend long pvt sessions just talking and really appreciating good conversation with an intelligent woman.....just ask my credit card company. : )
to U Be Mine
Yes I am acting more like a boy which is why ALL guy on this line are here...because LIKE YOU we are not real men yet.
RE: question for members..answer please
When I first logged onto a site similiar to this one and wound up in non adult after thinking I was joining a porn site I was confused. And on this site before you press the key for videochat you get the message that you are moments from paradise. And you get that from all categories. So if someone is new to this site it should not come as a surprise to a host that he wants to see nudity and sex because sites like this are marketed as porn sites. For old time members like myself, we get it, but you have to be realist about this and acknowledge that the big selling point of this and sites like it is SEX.
RE: question for members..answer please
For most of the members here there is nothing a true non-adult host can provide. Most are seeking naked women. Simple.
RE: question for members..answer please
mmmm, kisses eh? Are you getting sexual with us? Just like a non-adult host to tease with sexual text chat and then ask why we want more?
RE: Stydying))
I doubt that everyone here has read the Russian literature of 19th century when it was said.
Also there is no any country could be called completely the best. Each one has some of the "best"...so lets be polite :)
Also there is no any country could be called completely the best. Each one has some of the "best"...so lets be polite :)
RE: Stydying))
I study complex informational defence, very interesting but difficult sometimes:P
Does anyone know if shakira21 has changed her screenname or quit ccc?
Does anyone know if shakira21 has changed her screenname or quit ccc?
RE: I lost my baby
u had a mis-carriage or u lost her as in cant find her?
either way sorry 4 ur loss :(
either way sorry 4 ur loss :(
RE: I lost my baby
I'm glad you posted that, when I read the initial post that's all that went through my mind.
RE: I lost my baby
Guests are the best cyberlovers.. You know that too.. So open yr room for them!
RE: about potensial bfs
The people who will tell you that you can't find love here are the same people who will tell you that you can't change your life for the better in many other ways...such as where you live, how you work etc.
Finding love isn't about fitting in with society's expectations, it's about daring to dream.
Finding love isn't about fitting in with society's expectations, it's about daring to dream.
RE: about potensial bfs
I think you can change your life for the better in many way but none of those ways involving looking for a wife/husband on this website!
RE: about potensial bfs
Real love will show itself at any time at any place. It will come when you least expect it. Keep the faith in the work of real love.
RE: about potensial bfs
Love seeketh not Itself to please,
Nor for itself hath any care;
But for another gives its ease,
And builds a Heaven in Hell's despair.
So sang a little Clod of Clay,
Trodden with the cattle's feet:
But a pebble of the brook,
Warbled out these metres meet.
Love seeketh only Self to please,
To bind another to Its delight:
Joys in another's loss of ease,
And builds a Hell in Heaven's despite.
-- William Blake
Truth is, no one can be sure of finding love, but I do know that even without looking it can come unbidden. Maybe you are waiting for a thunderbolt to knock you senseless when you should really be planting a seed and letting it grow over time. I cannot say why you are unable to find comfort in another, but perhaps you are too hard on yourself to think you do not deserve it. Often relationships that go wrong are going to darken your way of looking at yourself and your attractiveness. Try not to dwell on the bad, think about the good, think about your friends and your family who genuinely care for you. It is not hard to realise who you can lean on when you need some support, and you should always look for the seriousness of commitment from anyone you are willing to be committed to yourself. Good times, bad times. We all have them. It is how we cope with them that defines us.
TNTBALOST
Nor for itself hath any care;
But for another gives its ease,
And builds a Heaven in Hell's despair.
So sang a little Clod of Clay,
Trodden with the cattle's feet:
But a pebble of the brook,
Warbled out these metres meet.
Love seeketh only Self to please,
To bind another to Its delight:
Joys in another's loss of ease,
And builds a Hell in Heaven's despite.
-- William Blake
Truth is, no one can be sure of finding love, but I do know that even without looking it can come unbidden. Maybe you are waiting for a thunderbolt to knock you senseless when you should really be planting a seed and letting it grow over time. I cannot say why you are unable to find comfort in another, but perhaps you are too hard on yourself to think you do not deserve it. Often relationships that go wrong are going to darken your way of looking at yourself and your attractiveness. Try not to dwell on the bad, think about the good, think about your friends and your family who genuinely care for you. It is not hard to realise who you can lean on when you need some support, and you should always look for the seriousness of commitment from anyone you are willing to be committed to yourself. Good times, bad times. We all have them. It is how we cope with them that defines us.
TNTBALOST
RE: about potensial bfs
Hey Naked, are you a host here? If so I think I am in love with you ! Well your mind anyway :) And if you are a guy and not a host.......please disregard previous admission.
RE: about potensial bfs
Ohhhh man!!!! Just when I thought I found the woman of my dreams.....turns out to be a guy? I need a beer...maybe 6.
RE: about potensial bfs
In a sleazy disco, you will be buzzing off of vodka and cold medicine, you'll see him across the smoke filled room, he' s staring at your chest and weaving back and forth from too many shots of house whisky and a low grade horse tranqulizer. You make mad passionate love in the back alley, he profess his undying love for you even though he forgot your name 2 minutes after you told him. You exchange phone numbers and he never calls you.
But you will always have the memory of the "back alley".
But you will always have the memory of the "back alley".
RE: about potensial bfs
anything is possible anywhere its all about the right connection at the right time Not all members here are only interested in sex some of us are actually just nice guys looking just like you
hmm....
ok..so for a long time (probably since i joined) i seen ppl write in the forums "does this host do this or that" or "what is she like did u have fun does she do all u wanted"....now...my question is..if u wanted a car/tv/mobile ect....would u go on word of mouth then buy it without actually talking to the dealer first...or...go to the dealer too and ask questions and see what they have to say...the same applies here..u cant just take ppl's word for the truth..talk to the host first coz every person has a different view on things...thats what the txt chat is for aint it? to talk..get to know the host..find out what they do or dont do..how their personality is...without actually talking (and even seeing the host in vid) how can u know if what ppl say is true?...just venting my thoughts that no one cares about...b cool :D
RE: hmm....
I will text chat with a new host first and I do not visit until I have. I use that to help determine if I have an interest in that host. I do not just take the word of another person, because they may view the host different then me. Text first, then visit.
RE: hmm....
Well the trouble is the consumer mentality as it applies to people is fundamentally flawed. I mean when you go give your Lexus a test drive is it going to complain if your breath smells and you pick your nose all the time?
Well sorry to disappoint a lot of members but hosts are not like cars, kettles or TV's. They have good days and bad days and they like people and dislike others. So the chances of you always finding a host in a great moods who clicks with you instantly is the same chance as meeting anyone in a bar whom you can get along with instantly. Sometimes you just won't be their 'type'.
Sure, host's have a job to do , that is why they are here. And some are more committed to fulfilling those obligations no matter if they are feeling miserable or just not in the mood. So at those times do you expect a great show? Need to show a little understanding sometimes. And perhaps tie a knot in it and try again some other time.
Easiest thing to do is just be nice, polite and if you don't click move on. There are 1000's of hosts online. Surely one of them is going to give the kind of show you are asking for? Assuming your expectations are not unreasonably high, of course. Hardcore anal and pennies are not a balanced equation, even for out more numerically challenged members here ;)
TNTDHGOWFATS
Well sorry to disappoint a lot of members but hosts are not like cars, kettles or TV's. They have good days and bad days and they like people and dislike others. So the chances of you always finding a host in a great moods who clicks with you instantly is the same chance as meeting anyone in a bar whom you can get along with instantly. Sometimes you just won't be their 'type'.
Sure, host's have a job to do , that is why they are here. And some are more committed to fulfilling those obligations no matter if they are feeling miserable or just not in the mood. So at those times do you expect a great show? Need to show a little understanding sometimes. And perhaps tie a knot in it and try again some other time.
Easiest thing to do is just be nice, polite and if you don't click move on. There are 1000's of hosts online. Surely one of them is going to give the kind of show you are asking for? Assuming your expectations are not unreasonably high, of course. Hardcore anal and pennies are not a balanced equation, even for out more numerically challenged members here ;)
TNTDHGOWFATS
RE: hmm....
oh tnt tank two for tell membre bout hostts
yu tell dem rihgt bout us
we luv u fo dis
yu tell dem rihgt bout us
we luv u fo dis
RE: hmm....
So are you suggesting we accept the word of a person you're equating as a used car dealer in your example to be gospel truth? I disagree, I may not buy a car on the opinion of others, but I'll use that info to determine which ones are worth the trip to the dealership for a test drive. Though unfortunately the viewers forum is much less thorough in it's reviews then Consumer Reports.
RE: hmm....
True. Even if i do smth for 1 member it doesnt mean i will do it for others. So no point of asking. Better come and ask me-if i said no-i will not do it no matter what. Maybe i feel not comfy enough with u or smth. So stop asking in forums, better come and try to make me comfy with u.:)