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sounds like a job i need--me tired of the above 5 at work place, the profession hmmm is it MarketingEconomics

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ManOnTheMoon

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profession-i say School Teacher--

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it was just a quess nina, and Im thinking about becoming a teacher, I hope this wasnt the profession chase was talking about, especially the miniumum wages.

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...don't say "duh", it's really, really, really annoying.
thanks:)

well DUH thats the whole point of the word :)

ok--the answer was: NUN,, but hey dont shoot me, im just the messager I got this from someone

borris becker

Are you sure that it was Borris?:)
I watched his games on TV as a child and I am quite sure he doesn't play any longer..:)

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"Federer Clinches Fourth Masters Cup Crown"

I don't know this Federer but maybe you will like this headline :)

Kiss

lol, i was joking, haha. honestly though mate i dont know. i would guess the winner is who won?

Roger Federer

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Does Federer play all hoped up on the coke like Hingis? Is that a Swiss thing?

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on Wednesday

I am so excited I wet my panties!

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I love guys like you and it being caused by "the excitement" will remain our little secret :)

There is a message on the CC homepage that the winners will be announced next wednesday.

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it's hard enough to meet REAL people in life & then when you take out the REAL people who aren't compatible we are left with a small number.

you are always welcome to meet me. :-P

i have a great true story that includes me, a large zucchini and a barnyard animal. Contact me!

really a catch 22/contradiction meeting REAL people on a FANTASY based site. not likely because you're paying to meet someone. i'd say it is more like an amusement park ride thrills galore if u have the wallet, moral stretch, and ur immune to potential emotional crisis.

I assume since your only purpose to be here is to meet people and swap dirty stories your videos are free. Why let something like money get in the way of a true erotic based friendship.

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you say <<I noticed that most guys on this site (at least most of the guys that i have meet) are really looking for a gf or more >>

Is that because they can't get a g/f in the REAL world?

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OK they want hot looking girls? If they live in US, all hot girls are in Hollywood. The only girls left are fat and ugly. So you have much to choose from.

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when doesn't she show her tits? she had a hot sex scene in there...

See annabunny for a good Angelina clone. Just squint your eyes a bit and use your imagination. If you want to see if any of your favorite actresses appeared in any movies nude....even for a fraction of a second go to the Mr Skin website.

)))))) THANKS for your answer to me bobbie)))))) i think this was mistake... but when u told that i m leave cc... a lot of peple ask me.. true or not.... i was here.. i m now here...and i will be here))))
kind regards))

Why do you repead the same things again?
Who needs the strange replies of this chick who translates them with her bad translator?

i do & their strangeness is nothing compared to your darkness of soul.

hello))))) so long times))) h a u? please write to)) i m very glad to see u again)))))))))))
kind regards))

hello)) yes has been a long time.i had a lot of changes in my life.that happens when you're a moon )).will try to write soon. xx

everyone has that...for a small fortune....you get the privilege to excercise it

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thanks )))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

LMAO=)) "NIce person inside"-nice one=))

Oh my dearest girl.
As this "Angel" is obviosly concerned being the best, she can do many things, not only using translators.
1. I read the messages of iNot some time ago here which concluded English and, as I understood, not translated with translator Russian words.

2. I think she is also able to make up her rating, she only needs to visit herself for 1 minute.

3. As a proof that she can do such things I can mention the messages in her personal forum. I know the place where she copied them and only changed the names of girls to her own name. It doesn't require a lot of English knowledge. haha

You can call me Sherlock:)

Sherlock certainly wasn't the name I had in mind for you when I read your post.

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If you'd been a real man Sherlock I wouldn't have been tempted to bully you.As for closing the case that's probably for the best as you are obviously far too busy doing other things as your previous post proves.

Oh Professor I have to create as many names as you to keep the competition:)
As for my closing the case, so I don't understand what else you could expect from me?
The "poor girl" created at least 90% of all the messages in her forum. and proved it with her silence. (If you will need I will tell you where she copied them.) But anyway try to use ur brain and find them Watson.

As soon as you can't find any proved ideas or interesting subjects for ur post...

Ciao

Sherlock

Sherlock I obviously have much better things to do with my time than you.Are you sure you didn't mean to add an "ing" at the end of your name rather than an "ed" ?

My dear doggy, according to the story my brain and power will have to defeat you...

I will miss you ...:)

Bye:)

))) U ARE FUNNY.. WAIT NEXT WEN)))

very funny... almost all negative here.. in general forum... i think this other girls... who envies to me))) dont worry girls.. i will in top 20... but u nope)))) pleasedont suppressed by your poison.....

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you don't do anal? :-(

my dear... yes my english not perfect.. ant this not new ))) but look at my rating ....its never was less 4.5stars... as u think why??? maybe i have somphing other?? i think important not english .. i think very important your soul.....))))if u know that is...)))

Yes, you have too many signs like ))))))))))))))) !!!!!!! ((((((((((((( and ...................... in your messages:D

Dearest Angel, I am here for you and always have been. Don't believe this latest imposter. You always know where to find me! ;):))
Kiss...... "L"

NOTanAngel knows

how are we now supposed to believe any of this? and if you were truly concerned about your true intent, why didin't you post your nick name here and not just 'the real bobbie?" what means the "the real bobbie?" maybe this is just another imposter??

If it is really important!

No, I suppose it's not that important in generalized terms. However, it's the curiosity aspect that has (at least) me wondering just who in the world this "real bobbie" really is? I don't really care if he reveals his nick name or not, BUT, it would be interesting just the same, as it would also be of interest to a few other people. Those of us who frequent the comchat from time to time, would finally know just who the "real bobbie" is. I don't understand if he is so well revered, and has such an honest reputation, why he doesn't 'come clean' and tell us all who he really is? It seems an honest, reputable person (as he claims to be) would want to do just that, and set the record straight. This is just my opinion mind you.

He has a name that suggests he is a member of the aristocracy.

I see. Perhaps he thinks he is a member of the aristocracy. This brings to mind a historical figure called the "Great Pretender." Seems as though this would be a 'fitting name' for just such an online character.

PLEASE NO MORE SPAM AND ADVERTISMENT FROM INOTANGEL !

AGREE

Not that it matters, I am the one who wrote this!

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I'm a man and I just checked your profile. I can't say I want you at all.

haha, thats funny man

you may be a male,but the jury is still out on if you are a man.

come into my parlour said the spider to the fly...... men are supposed to be hunters,women nuturers.hence the man hunts the lady while she nutures him closer into her....the black widow
p.s its a joke....i hope.

men simply fall prey to their on needs and women...too the distraction of all mankind...r born with the holy grail...pussy power galore

Humans were created to have an equal souls and a human qualities but not an equal genders. Men and women are always different according to their gender and that's why have different tasks to do in this life. And they ALWAYS will be different. So, there is nothing to complicate too much. Men and women have different sexual behavior and so on, but not different human rights or must have another attitude, as if you are a man so you have much more advantages by default..or if you are a woman you must always be "exploited" or "humbled"...There is absolutely clear that men and women have their rights to have equal social and human status...

If men and women would always understand what for they were created and how they should act according to their "gender's difference" to make each other happy, for sure it would be perfection on earth...*sigh*

when some women/grls here r pulling in a good bit of money...exploitation?...u bring up a good point....women coz they're forced to do this demeaning work or men because they pay for it or society for allowing this to take place

It's not.

yeah your right. Women are getting more then men these days

awsome result. we still need a draw with coatia though, wich im not to confident about. hopfuly croatia wont try to hard if they already won the group.
also, bye bye scotland!!!

Its not over yet, they still need to get a point against Crotaia. Croatia are the better team in this game but England are at home, maybe they have a chance to get a point. But with many good players injured and baned it will be difficult. Rio, Hargreaves, Neville, Rooney, Owen, Terry and Cashley Cole out. B class goalkeepers and no actual left winger. I hope the English players will watch Euro 2008 from home. It will be good for the football to have one less kick and run team in the competition:)

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? what? england beat israil though, honest

Who cares, football is soooo boring, Zzzzzzzz. Ice Hockey (xokkei) now that is a sport that takes skill and stamina!

yeah u r right and thats why every country in the world plays it and its the most popular sport on the planet :-)

interesting.....the fact that all you need is something ball-like and a pair of feet to play probably is the only reason for its popularity.
much prefer hockey myself.....too bad all them little third-worlders 'round the globe can't all afford a pair of skates and find a clean sheet of ice to play on.....it's just sad that they have to settle for such a crap game as futbol. :)

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You know what I like best about soccer fans?

That's right, it's their class and good sportsmanship.

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your not out of it yet. if we (england) lose to croatia you will probably go through. as we are so crap, that will probably happen. not that i dont have faith in our boys

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Yea yea...Ull get through now cuz we lost, not cuz ur so good. Is it really a good reason to be so happy and pick on us?

yep, russia gave us a get out of jail free card. not picking on russia, just happy we still got a chance to qualify, wether we deserve it or not. yes, i feel we are very lucky

I agree Moni We should have won it clean a few games ago.

very poor from Us ,, and we still are not confident of the next game..

Not really deserving to be a success at the moment.
tho I know u do like English teams, but at the moment over paid and under performing...

Heres some advice to you Monika Babe , Mark Twain once said ' Better to look stupid and say nothing , than open your mouth and remove all doubt ' . Do not talk of something you have no idea about .

Here is some advice for u-mind ur own business and if u wanna say smth to me-get some balls and sing ur name. I can borrow u some $$$$ for u to buy ur balls. And for sure-i know about football more than u think.

Hey I doubt it . I have seen all your other posts on this site too and seems to me the advice stands , better to look stupid Moni than open your mouth and that goes for your legs too :)))

a REAL man

I doubt you know the meaning of what is a real man . I remember your posts from when Russia won in Moscow and I have seen quite few since then . Frankly pathetic and not much better than an adolescent .

Pot,Kettle,Black

She seems to have a better grasp than you think..

I have discussed many games and she has a great understanding and she also has a passion and shows her interest ,,
She also does not go arround being critical and making cheap shots at others...

the thing is monikababe, if you had of won yesterday and gone through, we could have said it was because we drew with masadonia, and not because of you winning. its the same in any leauge, you cant say, its just because we lost, because all teams lose games. its who racks up the most points at the end that counts. but u may still go through as yet anyway. im not saying you dont know much about football btw, im just giving mho or mhf.

I know, and usually i support England< they are my favs, all i was saying is its not the reason to pick on us for this and laugh. And yes, im pissed off really, but well, sh*t happens, life goes on:)

dont worry girl i aint picking on ya or laughing at ya. i would like nothing more than seeing russia go through, just not at englands expence. anyway, come 10pm wednesday we might both be singing very different songs

its OVER bb moni...hahaha...ruski choke again...

Independent if only you'd listened to me :(

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na, im just horny

Na, because I can't get any in real life.

that is a fair assumption

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that's it pass the blame elsewhere,abrigate responsibilty for our actions. just shows...

I blame all my vices on others, that way I bever have to take personal responsibility for any of my actions,
Alcohlism is a disease= I can drink as much as I want and blame the disease
Obesity is caused by something in my DNA=I can go the all you can eat buffet 3 times a day and never exercise and blame my DNA
Me visiting CC is my parents fault=I can jck off and blame my parents.

Question; how can I get my insurance company to pay for all my "illnesses"?

well i feel sorry for you with all these problems. good luck

love is not sold

damm right...it's rented

i fell in love............with my right hand!

I understand its a parody but to find love here IS possible! Its not easy to keep but if you find it and work hard at it then anything is possible! And I assure you its worth it!

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the bird i see singing.....in the CC tree....is a mockingbird....that sings for you and me

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i make fun of the most common question thats been in this forum for over 7 years but,your post reminds me that a broken heart is not a joke.and that the pain is real(i have felt this pain too)..i hope the best for you in life...and i hope that maybe someday you will be one of the chosen few...that finds a real love to last

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:)

Yeah. Same holds in the other way. Entering vid and just seeing a gaping pussy can be a real turn-off.

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I let the little head do the thinking for the big head....nice firm titties? I stay...saggy fried eggs on her chest? I'm outta there, espically if she has some fatherless kids running around her small apt.

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always better 2 go by what ur heart tells u..the mind is usually wrong and if u dont try u always end up wondering "what if"

about a year ago i followed my head insted of my heart where a girl was conserned. iv regreted it ever since. if i had another chance i would have taken a risk and gone with my heart and maby id be happy now.
your situation may be totaly different, but i would always follow my heart and instinct from now on.

the heart has reason the mind will never understand

men use their mind too much, women mostly heart, men should try more heart to achieve harmony and happiness with woman

You should listen to your heart first before your mind.

Stop the presses!! There is no "heart" "mind" difference. Your "heart" is just self doubt about what you should do. Make a decission and move on.Regret over the past will just deny a happy future.

simple to say but hardly simple to practice

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Yeah..But its cool to be rude to other ppl in comm chat or in their rooms. Right, inot?

Censorship rules here are simple, if CC Police think it offends, degrades, defames anybody or anything, they will pull the post.

I'd like to tell you but they won't let me:-)

Well freedom of speech is definately not present completely, cant say anything bad about cc

you just did

Amendment IV

The right of the people to be secure in their persons, houses, papers, and effects, against unreasonable searches and seizures, shall not be violated, and no warrants shall issue, but upon probable cause, supported by oath or affirmation, and particularly describing the place to be searched, and the persons or things to be seized.

what a lot of freedom of speech advocates fail to mention is along with that freedom comes a responsibility.many are quick to cry freedom of speech but fail to acknowledge their responsibility.thought must be given to what you write but also the consequences of it.

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God bless us, eveyone one of us. (Even the guys that ask for anal fisting)

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happy birthday cc---hey room, im one of the bartender serving you drinks tonight--look me up im in the red hall-got my mixed drinks recipe book,,, but you can help me out a whole lot if you only ask for a beer-cool,, by the way the first drink I got to mixed tonight was a drink call "Bear F_ _ker". jack and crown royal , just hope he wasnt looking for a bear.-ok party on people, have fun and make this one of the happiest, greatest and coolest nights of your life----love your neighbors and smile and try to get laid--cool

Happy birthday CamContacts!!! Stay cool!!! :D

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Happy Birthday to camcontacts

Happy bday CC!!!!!!Congrats to all of us-members and hosts and ofc cc team)) Gr8 job))))Muahhhhhhhhhhh

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happy birthday and many more--who won what

Who??

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hehehe.... i saw bobbie in my chat 2 times.. not so long(15 or 20 minut)we are told about my life... and i told that i m happy and pleased my life.. but i need some days for good dream..why bobbie thinking that i want leave cc i dont know.... maybe this is him fantasy.. maybe he has dont undestood me... ((((((((

but dear ORIGAMI thank u very much for your commentary)))))

You girls will once again need comprehensive english grammar lessons! You know where to find me! I'm very upset with the number of grammatical errors you both have made! :((

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THANK U VERY MUCH)

dear doll i agree with u ...................BUT its english site;)not russian or philipino:D
xxx

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.....my dear... but i m never hiden my face)))))))))))))))))and my vivers very pleased my english in my show))

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blabla Why do u always tell about your not hidden face or pussy or something else ...
It's getting boring...
There are no pics in this forum so what makes your face not "hidden"?:D:D:D

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Girls, please. You all know I'm a nice guy. I'm here to help you and to educate you, and you all know that. Ask any of my loyal subjects or followers, and they will vouch for my integrity. My impeccable record on this site speaks for itself. Now, lets get back to the real issues at hand. I know what is best for all! Thanks for your time!

dude im born and bred in england and i wish my english was as good as these hosts...like tinybitch said..when u can talk and type a foriegn language u can criticise these chicks until then keep ur pathetic comments to urself

My dear friend you are totally right.
But think yourself..: one has plenty of time to write a message in this forum...
So why a girl...(I don't mention her name;)) don't even bother herself checking the spelling of some words...? ...and then shouts that everybody offends her because of her English...????

as a bystander here, it seems obvious it was a tongue in cheek joke, which you do not have copyright to and i'd like to add that yes your english is indeed sub standard. dobriee vyecher

Shy, I'm rather surprised at your comment. I'm not sure I understand your critical tone? I thought we were friends, and I enjoyed our chats. Let me invite you to rethink your attitude, and once you do, you will understand how erroneous and egocentric you sound. Remember shy, we all comprise the colllective community which is cc's. We are a 'brotherhood' whose bonds cannot be broken, and we are all in this together! You know my educational background is highly revered, and my background speaks for itself. I invite you to come back to reality, and "jump aboard" to come back in for 'The Big WIn!' You now know what to do. :))

TODAY BIRTHDAY))) FORGOT ABOUT ALL ....... )))) LETS GET HAVE FUN))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

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First of all, I would like to clear the air. The bobbie that has posted his comments is not the bobbie that "notanangel" has made comments of here in this blog.

I am the one she has taken exception too! I would like to clear the air. I consider myself of reputable means, i find it very difficult to lie and cause and ill feelings of others. I have strived to help others and see the best light in all.

I posted a message in viewers only, to let the company at CC of whom I respect and enjoy the company of at the end of a stressful day of how I felt. "notanangel" had told for reasons unknown now, that Friday was her last day. I was very sadden to hear of her departure and only wanted her and others to know how I and CC might mourn her lost.

I considered her beautiful, intelligent, witty and very adverse. She has a good mastery of the english language. I meant no harm or did I expect such a clamor for saying so. I really don't know what motivation "notanangel" had in telling me that she would not be here anylonger, the comment truly occurred.

Origami, I know you have very strong opinion of others and I respect that but you have not had the pleasure of my company or can you ever expect the experience of my visit.

As for the language so many of you have criticized here. I really admire the girls of CC and their use of the English language. It shows a high level of education skill and motivation on their part to use the language as they do. I consider myself to have friends here and find this very therapeutic after a highly stressful day. I admire the beauty of the women here and their hard work. I know that all men here are not gentlemen and the woman must be at their best to continue to earn an living here and stay at CC.

I am sorry if someone was hurt, I can say I truly never meant that. I was just expressing the passing of someone that I like very much. I hope this is taken as it was meant to be not for someone to read between the lines. I meant no harm and never expected

sure bobbie
everybody believes you now
LMAO!

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Yeah...and also just to add, that Russia is polyethnic country and for ages people have mixed their "blood" with other nationalities, and as a result we have so huge variety of different types of men and women. But yes, traditionally the true russian look of a man and a woman as well is dark blonde hair and grey, blue or dark blue eyes with a white colour of skin. Historically it was a folk that lived at the northern and central areas of Russia. So mostly Slavs. But not these days. Now there are lots of ethnic crossbreds in Russia.

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russian women say 'mach' when its much and 'what' when the context is 'that'

Bless 'em still its better than my russian

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what city? how much? what will you do?

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why does one need to leave home to find an attractive woman who will constantly remind you that they are beautiful and the best and you are lucky to have them. doh't they have those everywhere

I like the accent.

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Get a grip.

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Are you a transgendered person?

My balls get sucked into my body cavity when I am afraid or I meet a girl. what does that make me?

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I think you forgot smoke fetish too
kissing your majestic feet Mistress ORIGAMI

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i love to have hosts panties. they send and watch me sniff :) particularly asian girls:)cool no?

anna is the winner

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Does it ultimately have to do with money?

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i know whay u wont win

i think she is a winner

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whats your horoscope say?
IS this really the best place to ask such advice. Good luck anyway

wow, you're very selfish.

the truth will set you free, sweetcakes, you should really give it a try.

Don't judge her so hard, you ever had a relationship that made u feel dead inside, not exciting at all on any plan? A relation that makes u feel life is boring and that u get old before the age comes ?
I think that if she had a happy marriage and a great relationship with her hb she wouldnt have been tempted to meet the other guy.
Just put yourself in her situation,dont just throw with stones.

if her relationship with her HUSBAND is shit, she should tell him so. if he doesn't care to do anything to make her life at least bearable, then she should leave him - not wait for some other shmuck to come along so she can latch herself to him first, but leave him and leave him now.
sorry, but I have no symapthy for people who live to be pleased by others - for people who need others to give them a life in the first place. what she's doing is dishonest - i don't know how she can stand herself for what she's doing.
and i have no idea how any guy who knows that she's married can go out with her expecting anything more from her for himself than how she treats the man she actually married - and that kind of treatment isn't worth anything.

I didnt say its great what she and her lover are doing.But just dont throw with the stones like you never commited any sin, i dont say about cheating in particular, but none of us here are saints.
About telling her hb i think she is just at that point now, where she doesnt know whats better, tell him what she feels and that her heart belongs to another man or just listen to what the morals say and stay caught in her insipide marriage.
I personally been thru a relationshop, not marriage but close to one,where i was telling my bf everyday that i want to split and that its not working and he always pretended he doesnt believe me and that he thinks im joking, hoping that one day ill just give up my ideea and remain with him.
I know how it is to feel dead inside near someone and in the same time to feel the heart is breaking because when ill leave i will break his heart.Thats why i try to put myself in her shoes, before just accusing her that shes the worst woman in this world.By the way...are u a saint ?

You should clear things up with your husband, try in different ways until he gets it. I've experienced something like that before, and i was dieing a little everyday. Very sad. Only that i wasnt married.... Maybe you two dont communicate the way you should, try to find things in common, to do things together. If you love your husband you need to try this before thinking seriously at someone else.
Good luck

yeah sm...u got it right...don't run to someone else for short term comfort. leave your husband for awhile and give him a real wake up call...see what happens. i'm sure there's two sides to this story...sooo...feel the pain...you might learn smthg about yourself.

the decision to leave her husband should not be made based on having another man to run to, but on the state of the state of the marriage. no one should remain in an unhappy relationship

the other guy should not factor into that aspect.

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Was he so boring before you were married? If yes, why marry him and if not, what changed?

thank you every one :) XXXX life sucks :)

It sounds to me as if it's your husband who needs help more. Try talking with him. Find out why he hides in front of the television set and you'll be helping each other. Good luck.

as i see it, her only real trouble is that she feels bad for getting some loving on the side.
if she wants to ease her conscience all she has to do is pay a hooker to seduce her husband. after the deed is done and she knows that her husband screwed another woman, she can go on hopping on different guys without all that pesky guilt.
piece of cake.

Since September she's met him multiple times and even met his family?

Either she's full of poop in this whole story, her husband is a retard not to know she left the country numerous times to screw some strange guy or he doesn't care as long as the new guy gives her money.

you hit the nail right on the head !

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They get married and they forget the courtship ends and the relationship enters a new phase. Life always has changes and "x" gives good advice, you must MAKE change and excitement, it doesn't come to you.

like i always said many times here...love has nothing to do with sex...get married and find out.

marriage changes everything. dating is fun, going out, it's new and exciting...fall in love...get married...exciting few months...then reality sets in......OH my god.. I will be having sex with this same person for the next 40 years.
My advice is to talk with you husband now before you have kids. Ask him what's wrong? Does he want out? Does he want another lady? Does he think you are fat now? Find the real problem and try to fix it, if you can not...you have to live for yourself 1st....but don't jump out of one bad relatiopnship into another.

well hurt girl i might have felt sorry for you if you had come asking for help on how to fix your marriage BEFORE you had been out screwing multiple guys that you met online at CC and then getting involved in a long term affair with one of them. Why should anyone have any respect for you or feel sorry for you? Why should we offer you advice on how to fix your marriage and hide the truth from him about your infidelities? Why do people feel it is perfectly acceptable to jump into someone else's bed simply because their mate is boring? It's not acceptable. Don't try to pass the blame for it off onto your husband, it was not his doing, it is YOUR doing. Grow up and take responsibility for your actions and behavior. It was your lack of character.. of integrity... of loyalty.. of morality that led to your unfaithfulness and you're using your husband for an excuse so that you can feel better about yourself. Many people have endured far worse in life and have not been unfaithful to their mates.

You want advice. OK I will give you some advice. First I want you to remember your wedding day. Remember when you were standing at the front of the church looking into the eyes of your husband and vowed to him... in front of God and all your friends and family as witnesses... that you would love, honor and obey him until death do you part. Now do you remember anywhere in your vows that said it was okay to screw around with other guys if you were bored or didn't like the TV shows your husband watched or any other stupid reason. Nope? Wasn't in your vows was it. It's not in the Bible either. However, it does mention in the Bible that it is acceptable to get a divorce if your spouse is unfaithful. So you have given your husband a way out of your marriage if he so chooses. The only way to begin moving foward is by confessing everything to your husband, telling him the truth.....the whole truth... everything you have done... all the affairs... all the guys you have been with. Do not try blaming him for it, do not hide anything to make yourself look better... accept responsibility for it and tell him everything. If you hide these affairs from him the truth will eventually come out and if your marriage was going better it will destroy all of it. If you tell him everything now, he may choose to end your marriage... and he is perfectly within his right to do it. But then again he may choose to stay with you and work to fix your marriage. If he chooses to stay the marriage will have a strong foundation cuz he knows the truth and there will be no surprises that could destroy that later. But all of this depends on you ending any other relationships you have with other men and being 100% faithful to your husband. you can't have both.

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well tell me nicollette, will her having affairs with other men fix her marriage? besides hurt girl never said that her husband does not show her affection or tell her he loves her. she just said that he doesn't like to go out places and prefers to just spend his free time at home. there is a big difference between the two. but either way, having affairs is just avoiding the problem. if she is unhappy in her marriage and is unable to fix it by any means then she should end the marriage BEFORE sleeping with other men and looking for bf's.

another thing u must remember, nicolette, is that hurt girl is giving her side... acting like she is just a poor victim in all of this and trying to paint herself in the best light possible. i sincerely doubt she is telling us the whole story. maybe there is a good reason why the husband does not like to go out places with her. maybe she likes to get drunk and embarasses him in public with her behavior. maybe she hangs on other men and flirts with them trying to make the husband jealous or trying to start fights between the men for attention. maybe she is spoiled and wants to be taken to expensive places that the husband cannot afford and she complains when she doesn't get everything she wants. maybe she only wants to do what she wants when they go out and doesn't care about what the husband wants. maybe they have very little money and can't afford to pay their bills and husband feels it is irresponsible wasting money they need to survive on going out. there are many possibilities. but if she married him, i am sure it was because when they were dating he was fun and liked to go places... if that changed since they got married then it stands to reason that there is something happening when they go out together that the husband does not like and it is why he prefers to stay home now.

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maybe it's coz you are host here and show your body to many many men everyday, plus I bet you make more money than him, perhaps it's messing up his mind.

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