General Forum
RE: i am
by the children, they have always been here and always will be.
of course you might meet someone here... but there are better places for sure.
i do hope that you can find someone or something to fill that lonelyness, it is not the best feeling for sure.
of course you might meet someone here... but there are better places for sure.
i do hope that you can find someone or something to fill that lonelyness, it is not the best feeling for sure.
RE: i am
there's some chick here looking to trade in her husband of 4 years for a complete stranger...perhaps you can swoop in and pick up what she's throwing way.
RE: i am
we hide from fatties. for the girls with rock hard abs and buns of steels, we will run through traffic to get a whiff of her fart...lol
please read and help me :( i m in pain
hi everyone :( i have been so sad , i m married and i been hosting for over 2 years :( i met a guy here on cc and i love him so much , we see each other 2 or 3 times a week :( i dont know what to do i think im going crazy :my husband will find soon if i keep meeting him :( Should i leave my husband and try wiith this guy ??? he is a guy who i met online on cc , and i been with my husband for over 4 years , should i throw everything away for a stranger ?
RE: please read and help me :( i m in pain
if you are seeing him 2-3 times a week in real life, perhaps you should have a talk with him to see what it is he really wants before yo make such a rash move. as for your marriahe whether you leave now or not would appear you have some problems there that need to be worked through or you will just leave at some point anyay or be unhaapy
RE: please read and help me :( i m in pain
no way should you throw away your marrige for a member of what is mainly a pornographic site .
you really should take time to be with your husband and seperate yourself from your "member lover" .
your " member lover " is probably married and if not you should ask why not ???? (wtf is wrong with him ).
you really should take time to be with your husband and seperate yourself from your "member lover" .
your " member lover " is probably married and if not you should ask why not ???? (wtf is wrong with him ).
RE: please read and help me :( i m in pain
yet more proof that the chicks here ain't exactly the type worth marrying.
RE: please read and help me :( i m in pain
you're in pain? sounds like an ideal situation. many girls and guys play this game...especially when you're young...seems exciting. why r u in pain...be specific? maybe then we someone can advise you more in depth.
RE: please read and help me :( i m in pain
why the hell do people even bother getting married anymore?
RE: please read and help me :( i m in pain
hmmm,,, curious you brought up a good question,, why do people get married anymore, but honestly we know the answer is true love, and I know you meant why hurt girl is asking this question, I think that is why she is hurting and needing some advice, sorry hurt girl, dont know what to say except pray about and stay cool
RE: please read and help me :( i m in pain
People often cheat (emotionaly, physically, or both) because there is a problem in their relationships. In other words, instead of cheating for sex, they could really be cheating because they are lonely. Maybe your husband is not giving you the attention you need whereas this guy from CC is filling that void. Perhaps you just need more attention from your husband and you will forget about the CC guy. On the other hand, maybe this CC guy is better for you, although that is a very high risk gamble.
I think that you need to talk to your husband (maybe with the help of a marriage counsellor of some sort) about whatever is making you unhappy in your relationship that would cause you to feel you love this man from CC and see if things improve with you and your husband. If that does not work, then it might be time to leave your husband. I have no idea whether you should be with this guy from CC if you do end up leaving your husband. I don't know him or you or the nature of your relationship. You will have to be the judge. But be careful: your judgment might not be great if you 1) are leaving a man that you met and married in real and 2) fell in love on CC while married. I am not trying to be nasty by the way.... I have been there myself. In fact, I am there too, lol, but not married. But as Dirty Harry (Clint Eastwood movies) once said "Man's got to know his limitatons" so I am trying to be more careful this time around. Make sure you are careful with this CC man too if you ultimately decide to pursue a relationship.
I think that you need to talk to your husband (maybe with the help of a marriage counsellor of some sort) about whatever is making you unhappy in your relationship that would cause you to feel you love this man from CC and see if things improve with you and your husband. If that does not work, then it might be time to leave your husband. I have no idea whether you should be with this guy from CC if you do end up leaving your husband. I don't know him or you or the nature of your relationship. You will have to be the judge. But be careful: your judgment might not be great if you 1) are leaving a man that you met and married in real and 2) fell in love on CC while married. I am not trying to be nasty by the way.... I have been there myself. In fact, I am there too, lol, but not married. But as Dirty Harry (Clint Eastwood movies) once said "Man's got to know his limitatons" so I am trying to be more careful this time around. Make sure you are careful with this CC man too if you ultimately decide to pursue a relationship.
RE: please read and help me :( i m in pain
DP NOT TRUST CC FRIENDSHIPS, especially if you have a real-life relationship. If your husband is a drug addict and beats you and cheats on you constantly that is a separate question to be solved.
But why leave a decnet guy who loves you and who you have made life-long committment to. You have built a life together and you are actually thinking of leaving him for a guy you know absolutely nothing about?
Let me tell you a little story. A guy told a host he was really sick and was going into the hospital. Then he stopped talking to her except for an occasional vague e-mail.
She was frantic and asked me, a virtual stranger to call him to find out how he was.
With his name, home town and phone number I was able to find out that he was lying about his age, his job, his residence, his income, his family and his health condition. About the only thing that was true was that he was a man. His mom (unknowingly) gave me quite an earful.
But why leave a decnet guy who loves you and who you have made life-long committment to. You have built a life together and you are actually thinking of leaving him for a guy you know absolutely nothing about?
Let me tell you a little story. A guy told a host he was really sick and was going into the hospital. Then he stopped talking to her except for an occasional vague e-mail.
She was frantic and asked me, a virtual stranger to call him to find out how he was.
With his name, home town and phone number I was able to find out that he was lying about his age, his job, his residence, his income, his family and his health condition. About the only thing that was true was that he was a man. His mom (unknowingly) gave me quite an earful.
RE: please read and help me :( i m in pain
This is true there is a certain amount of that that goes on. But don't for one second think that is the end of the story.
Yes CC relations are fraught with dangers, some invented some not. But the key thing in ANY kind of relationship is that you treat someone as you wish to be treated. Trust is not an box you tick just because a host gives you her phone number not a stamp of approval just because a member gives you his. It is all about setting realistic goals with realistic expectations and remembering there are real people behind it all.
I too have been asked to play detective, but the bottom line is if you have no faith in someone you need to check up on them, then that relationship is doomed pretty much from the beginning.
That goes for members and hosts alike. Trust is earned by being trustworthy, not by passing some arbitrary test of whether you can be trusted or not.
TNTWSMSDOW
Yes CC relations are fraught with dangers, some invented some not. But the key thing in ANY kind of relationship is that you treat someone as you wish to be treated. Trust is not an box you tick just because a host gives you her phone number not a stamp of approval just because a member gives you his. It is all about setting realistic goals with realistic expectations and remembering there are real people behind it all.
I too have been asked to play detective, but the bottom line is if you have no faith in someone you need to check up on them, then that relationship is doomed pretty much from the beginning.
That goes for members and hosts alike. Trust is earned by being trustworthy, not by passing some arbitrary test of whether you can be trusted or not.
TNTWSMSDOW
to clarify...
She only wanted to know if he survived his health crisis. When I told her all the stuff I dug up (wthout he asking me to) sje seemed to be rather unconcerned.
And my point was to suggest to "hurt girl" that she reconsider dumping her husband for a guy from the internet she knows nothing about.
And my point was to suggest to "hurt girl" that she reconsider dumping her husband for a guy from the internet she knows nothing about.
RE: please read and help me :( i m in pain
No self-respecting husband would let his wife work at a porno site. There are exceptions to every rule. Some marriages are open and not monogamous. These marriages rarely last very long.
RE: please read and help me :( i m in pain
You should dump him and find a nice guy on CC. There are plenty of us here looking to meet someone nice!
RE: please read and help me :( i m in pain
This would be a very tough decision. It is one that you have to make on your own,because only you know the entire situation. I think you have to consider the following:
1. How is your present marriage going?
2. Does that marriage have a future?
3. The guy on cc - is the meeting in person or is it online only?
4. What does this new guy have to offer to the relationship that your present husband does not?
5. how long do you think the 2nd relationship would last?
Lots of things to think about, but you and you alone have to make the decision on which way to go. Take your time in making that decision.
1. How is your present marriage going?
2. Does that marriage have a future?
3. The guy on cc - is the meeting in person or is it online only?
4. What does this new guy have to offer to the relationship that your present husband does not?
5. how long do you think the 2nd relationship would last?
Lots of things to think about, but you and you alone have to make the decision on which way to go. Take your time in making that decision.
RE: please read and help me :( i m in pain
you need to sit back and decide how much you truly love your husband! 4 years is a long time, but if you are falling in love with someone else, there must be something missing from your marriage! why not try to find out what that is and then work on your marriage?
You should...
...dump that husband, he isn't rich enough. Don't you know all foreign guys are rich and you'll have cars and clothes and servants to do all you want. You'll never have to work and you can have all you want.
RE: i am here
Pretty girl. Decent body. Your pictures are not bad. Not great but fortunately you are attractive enough to shine through lousy pictures. All in all a nice appearance and you seem to have some enthusiam which is a plus. Many of the hosts here are comatose in video. You made my fav list so maybe we will hook up in video. By the way....are you really Juicy?
stupid demands...
i really can t understand viwers who ask ya to undress before they come in vid or who r scared about 2 $ in 121 when u really do all.guys go on another sites where can be 5 $ for a min when the girl look good...or go where is cheaper if u can find...but don t be so stupid to just rate the host bad because she charge 2$ or because she don t undress before vid.omg some can be very rude here
ps:this is just for that kind of members no offens guys
ps:this is just for that kind of members no offens guys
i like...
I like to chat up a couple girls in text at the same time and then I go to video with the one who talks hotter and promises the most in video. It seems to work quite nicely.
RE: stupid demands...
ur right , alot of the members here are spoiled and cheap... most sites 2 or 3 dollars in the minimum for vid. They need to realize how good they have it here and learn to play nice and be more polite, hosts are people and deserve respect. Wherever we work we wouldnt want people to treat us that way and need to remember this is work for most girls and should make it a fun place for them so they want to stay !!!!!
RE: stupid demands...
If you can get $5.00 a minute at another site why are you working here? Comparison to the charges at other sites doesn't matter. The only thing that matters is the costs on this site. Within the CC world 2 dollars a minute is very expensive. Some members can afford it some can't. So members are not complaining because they are cheap but because of their ability to pay.
However, asking a host to strip before entering a video would ruin the video for me. The whole point is for her to strip slowly and sensually. For me that is 95% of the action.
However, asking a host to strip before entering a video would ruin the video for me. The whole point is for her to strip slowly and sensually. For me that is 95% of the action.
"If you can get $5.00 a minute at another site why are you working here?"
I *LOVE* that question.
RE:
she's not complaining about the money here but about the whining miser members here,in my opinion.still,i think,you know that :--)
RE:
are you kidding? when i go into video and you are typing anf typing with other guys you are either in yahoo ot giving your first attention to some other site, so cc is a bonus
RE:
Then you don't understand the realities of working as a chathost. Other sites may charge more but they may also take more. Not just in a percentage cut, but also in how quickly hosts get paid, how many chargebacks a host gets, how customer complaints are handled etc etc..
There a dozens of reasons why host prefer to work on CC as opposed to other 'more expensive' websites.
And contrary to popular public opinion it is not just because I am here ;)
TNTWMIICH
There a dozens of reasons why host prefer to work on CC as opposed to other 'more expensive' websites.
And contrary to popular public opinion it is not just because I am here ;)
TNTWMIICH
RE: Another bad movie
I base my opinion of Eastern Europe on that movie. I thought it was a documentary at first.
RE: Another bad movie
umm, yeah...i don't think that's the type of flick people watch with an eye out to marvel over plot.....it's all about blood and guts and the desire some mouth-breathers have to revel in that kind of depraved, violent shit.
RE: Another bad movie
Hostel, Turistas, Saw....all those types of flicks scare the crap out of me. Who needs those dreams. I would rather dream about the hosts here.
RE: Another bad movie
Hostel and Saw--not to much western scenes in them, but good movies anyway and yes MissCBT I rather be dreaming too, but about host here-stay cool girl-love your reviews on the movies
another good movie
watching "Bury My Heart At Wounded Knee"--another cool movie--catch it while you can. Do anybody else know of any other newer westerns or indian movies out there.
RE: GREAT good movie
dear origami--i cant go to sleep until shift is over-cool,,,,hmmm never heard of that movie--but sounds like a cool one-brb
RE: another good movie
The most recent remake of Last of the Mohicans (1990s) was pretty good.
RE: another good movie
Find a copy of "Lonesome Dove" a 1989 made for TV mini-series with an all-star cast led by Robert Duvall. 6 hours of outstanding western. The book it is based on, written by Larry McMurtry, is outstanding.
RE: another good movie
"Pow Wow Highway" produceed by George Harison. Best movie nobody ever heard of.
RE: another good movie
speaking of films...any of u russian girls seen..."the italian"...a russian film?
RE: another good movie
Last of the Mochicians, Tombstone and Lonseome Dove...good movies already seen and thanks for reminding me of them
I need to watch them again. Brokebacke Mountain and Deliverence not my cup of tea movies, but i trust you xpun and pimp I quess were good cool movies too and Mulholland Drive and Pow Wow Highway havent heard of those movies I do some researching. Ok this has been a chaser moment review at the movies-stay cool all, party on, love your neighbors and smile more.
I need to watch them again. Brokebacke Mountain and Deliverence not my cup of tea movies, but i trust you xpun and pimp I quess were good cool movies too and Mulholland Drive and Pow Wow Highway havent heard of those movies I do some researching. Ok this has been a chaser moment review at the movies-stay cool all, party on, love your neighbors and smile more.
RE: another good movie
Actually, looking at that list I'm surprised we missed an obvious one, bit hit, award winner, so you've probably already seen it, "Dances with Wolves"
Members and hosts - see ya all in hell!
This is it. The time has come to say goodbye to you all.
I've been doing some serious soulsearching, and I decided that it is time for me to leave this site. I will spare you all the details, but the short version is that I used the forums to distract myself while my gf was working as a host. I actually enjoyed the forums quite a bit, but logging in and out all the time represented too much of a temptation to go back to my old ways. I really cannot afford that now. By the way...this is not a ploy to impress my gf either.
By writing this I am putting myself on notice. Please be assured that I am not asking for attention or expecting anyone to beg me to stay. I have made some good friends here. I will not mention names, because I am afraid to leave anyone out. You know who you are, members and hosts. To those of you whom I humiliated or made look stupid...I am sorry but you had it coming.
The only person I will mention is Xelina18...whom I've never even seen a picture of, but whom I know must look like an angel. I just need to mention you Eeina because I know you'll be all uspet about my post. I want you to understand that when I said "see you all in hell," i didn't mean that anyone here is actually going to hell or even that hell exists. On the other hand, if hell does exist, I know YOU won't be there. However, in that case I would for sure meet some of my other cc friends there...and let's just pray that they have high speed internet access.
Love you all...take good care always...hugs and kisses!
PS! I am not sure if CC will allow me to post my yh account. I will check my cc mail for the next few weeks if anyone wants to stay in touch. God bless.
I've been doing some serious soulsearching, and I decided that it is time for me to leave this site. I will spare you all the details, but the short version is that I used the forums to distract myself while my gf was working as a host. I actually enjoyed the forums quite a bit, but logging in and out all the time represented too much of a temptation to go back to my old ways. I really cannot afford that now. By the way...this is not a ploy to impress my gf either.
By writing this I am putting myself on notice. Please be assured that I am not asking for attention or expecting anyone to beg me to stay. I have made some good friends here. I will not mention names, because I am afraid to leave anyone out. You know who you are, members and hosts. To those of you whom I humiliated or made look stupid...I am sorry but you had it coming.
The only person I will mention is Xelina18...whom I've never even seen a picture of, but whom I know must look like an angel. I just need to mention you Eeina because I know you'll be all uspet about my post. I want you to understand that when I said "see you all in hell," i didn't mean that anyone here is actually going to hell or even that hell exists. On the other hand, if hell does exist, I know YOU won't be there. However, in that case I would for sure meet some of my other cc friends there...and let's just pray that they have high speed internet access.
Love you all...take good care always...hugs and kisses!
PS! I am not sure if CC will allow me to post my yh account. I will check my cc mail for the next few weeks if anyone wants to stay in touch. God bless.
RE: Members and hosts - see ya all in hell!
well............................bye i wont miss you.
RE: Members and hosts - see ya all in hell!
You though you were safe now, heh? I am not quite gone yet...so please crawl back to under the rock from whence you came.I will of course read here for at least the next few days, but I will try not to post. I made an exeption just for you, "spawn"., So I hope you feel special. I could say so much more....but it would not pass the smell test with the cc moderator. In any case....read the beautiful post laughing girl wrote to me and then just try to imagine how good that makes me feel. Then I wish you good luck...
RE: Members and hosts - see ya all in hell!
Ah Azterix...don't know what to say...it's so suddenly!
I so like your posts and your jokes that seems this forum will become a bit empty without you. I so used to see your name here that will miss it really :(
But well, everyone makes his choice sooner or later. And I am just glad to hear you made not so easy job to put all things on their places. Hope you will keep them right.
By the way, hell exists...and there are so many ways to go there but also we all are free to avoid those ways...
Wish you reconcile all the things with your gf, get concensus and finally get her back to you :) Would be great if one day you will come and tell us that everything is ok :)
Take care too and good luck!!
I so like your posts and your jokes that seems this forum will become a bit empty without you. I so used to see your name here that will miss it really :(
But well, everyone makes his choice sooner or later. And I am just glad to hear you made not so easy job to put all things on their places. Hope you will keep them right.
By the way, hell exists...and there are so many ways to go there but also we all are free to avoid those ways...
Wish you reconcile all the things with your gf, get concensus and finally get her back to you :) Would be great if one day you will come and tell us that everything is ok :)
Take care too and good luck!!
RE: Members and hosts - see ya all in hell!
Azterix stay cool and wish you the best, hope all works out
RE: Members and hosts - see ya all in hell!
Dam!im playing "Return To Innocence"while reading your post!i was surprised!are you serious Azterix???does it mean that you start avoiding me also?:(:(...well,Good luck for everything!!!but dont forget im always here for you!if you need me,you know where to find me...
ROTFLMAO
soulsearching to leave an adult site? - laughing my ass off
beg you to stay? - falling off the chair
a host being all upset that you are gone? - rolling on the floor in hysterical laughter
beg you to stay? - falling off the chair
a host being all upset that you are gone? - rolling on the floor in hysterical laughter
RE: ROTFLMAO
Do you conclude that all forum posters (or addicts as you call them) are "delusional" based simply on the fact that they spend time here? Please elaborate your "reasoning".
RE: ROTFLMAO
I'm sure his reasoning is based on this particular member based on the points I made. He said "addicts" in particular, he did not say all those who read/post in toto.
RE: ROTFLMAO
As Nietzsche said, sometimes cynicism is the only way for some to find the truth. (And Azterix is not the cynic).
RE: Members and hosts - see ya all in hell!
gonna lavea and re-enter with another nickame eh?
well played my frind, your gf will never know. And this way you can enter her room with a new nick name an see how many minitues it takes her to say I lov you to the next schmo
well played my frind, your gf will never know. And this way you can enter her room with a new nick name an see how many minitues it takes her to say I lov you to the next schmo
RE: Members and hosts - see ya all in hell!
good luck bro...hope all works out 4 ya...i with pimple on this one..we aint never gonna leave :( oh well shit happens...pass the joint sem :p
RE: Members and hosts - see ya all in hell!
we are all losers imshy, maybe we should consider leaving our other's basement also.
RE: Members and hosts - see ya all in hell!
we could do that but then that means we gotta see and talk to other ppl...u think u can handle it?...u go first and i'll follow if u survive :p
RE: Members and hosts - see ya all in hell!
Let's hold hands and do it together. November 20 will be our last day ok? deal?
RE: Members and hosts - see ya all in hell!
stay in the basement shy the other people won't survive you and sem
good luck az
good luck az
RE: Members and hosts - see ya all in hell!
You'll be back, trust me. Just next sure you come back you think carefully about the reasons.
TNTCTDOWOB
TNTCTDOWOB
RE: Members and hosts - see ya all in hell!
Azterix leaving CC???i don't believe it!do yah really want to go to hell?i think we've been there already!(lol)...well.just take a break and cum back with different name like other members...:P...hugzzz!!!
RE: Members and hosts - see ya all in hell!
I actually enjoy the things your "gf" does and says in pvt.....she sure has a purtty mouth
RE: Members and hosts - see ya all in hell!
As Azterix said in a previous post "Just remember, people thrive on drama sometimes. We say we don't want it, but we continue to seek it." he remains a lead pathetic master of the forum and chat telenovela.
RE: Members and hosts - see ya all in hell!
Well, I have no idea why my previous post wasn't posted by CC and maybe finally it will appear...but I have to assure you Azterix, it was not me who posted under my nickname such a nonsense with invitation to 121 and all the other horseshit. But I am almost sure you can easy get which ones are truly my posts and which are not :)
RE: about the comp
exatcly who will take first place. she's a blonde, and has been here a long time. any guesses?
RE: about the comp
yes, but sex is dirty and needs to kept in the closet, hidden and never talked about beween family members.
The olny acceptable osition is th missionary all other will land you in jail or hell.
I need to go take a shower after talking about such discusting things.
Good Day
The olny acceptable osition is th missionary all other will land you in jail or hell.
I need to go take a shower after talking about such discusting things.
Good Day
RE: about the comp
ok them member side og me wants to say whoever wins..im available for the trip ;)
now the host side of me..vote for me...i need the money and another holiday...and if u spend enough in my vid i MIGHT consider takin u with me :D
now the host side of me..vote for me...i need the money and another holiday...and if u spend enough in my vid i MIGHT consider takin u with me :D
RE: about the comp
wayne if you're this scary at your age how bad will you be when you reach mine.........sheesh
RE: about the comp
U sound like a bore...And who are u to judge anyone here? We live our own lives and we are all grown ups here. And if we do what we do, if we are on cc-means we have our reasons to be here. Cheers
RE: about the comp
if girls have something to be ashamed off - what about you - what are you doing here?!!!
omg you are the worst kind - hypocrite
heheheheheehehehhe
omg you are the worst kind - hypocrite
heheheheheehehehhe
A question for the ladies
Hello ladies,
I have a question. I have an online relationship with a woman that I hope will lead to something permanent one day. Since we are not near each other, I use the internet as my sexual outlet. I was wondering how women felt about their boyfriends doing this, particularly their online boyfriends. (I think that if I was with my girlfriend for real, and if she was willing and able to have sex, it would probably be wrong to look at other women on the internet.) I am not cheating with anybody in real life, and I also have stopped paying for shows too. What I do is look at pics or videos that I can find online for free. I am not chatting with anyone when I play and nobody else can see me. It is basically the same as buying a Playboy magazine and masterbating to it. I am just doing it high tech. There are times that I can play with my online girlfirend too via the internet or phone, but I don't enjoy doing this much. It seems to cheapen the relationship a bit if we do it too much. I am a former heavy user of sites so I will admit that I like the variety of seeing different women in pics and videos, but I expect that once I can have sex again for real, I won't really need to see anybody else. But right now, without the possibility of real sex, I feel like I will explode and need a constant release. What are your thoughts? (And yes, she is a host so she gets to see other guys, although she doesn't seem to enjoy it. She seems to honestly just want me.)
Thanks for your input.
I have a question. I have an online relationship with a woman that I hope will lead to something permanent one day. Since we are not near each other, I use the internet as my sexual outlet. I was wondering how women felt about their boyfriends doing this, particularly their online boyfriends. (I think that if I was with my girlfriend for real, and if she was willing and able to have sex, it would probably be wrong to look at other women on the internet.) I am not cheating with anybody in real life, and I also have stopped paying for shows too. What I do is look at pics or videos that I can find online for free. I am not chatting with anyone when I play and nobody else can see me. It is basically the same as buying a Playboy magazine and masterbating to it. I am just doing it high tech. There are times that I can play with my online girlfirend too via the internet or phone, but I don't enjoy doing this much. It seems to cheapen the relationship a bit if we do it too much. I am a former heavy user of sites so I will admit that I like the variety of seeing different women in pics and videos, but I expect that once I can have sex again for real, I won't really need to see anybody else. But right now, without the possibility of real sex, I feel like I will explode and need a constant release. What are your thoughts? (And yes, she is a host so she gets to see other guys, although she doesn't seem to enjoy it. She seems to honestly just want me.)
Thanks for your input.
RE: A question for the ladies
I know this was directed towards the ladies but when I heard the words relationship and CC in the same sentence I was compelled to answer. Do you own a pair of jumper cables or could you borrow them? If so attach a positve and negative clamp to each nut. It does not make a difference which one. Your nuts are not polarized. Then have a friend rev up his car and attach the other ends to the battery. It would help if he also robbed you of several thousands dollars right before the voltage hits. This way you will get the same experience of a relationship here without all the wasted time, fuss and muss. Ez breezy.
RE: A question for the ladies
Well put well. I can attest to that. Just remember, people thrive on drama sometimes. We say we don't want it, but we continue to seek it.
RE: A question for the ladies
and I thought history dictates that humanity continues to make the same 'ol f**king mistakes? maybe there r exceptions after all ;)
RE: A question for the ladies
hon, just so long as you pay her (could be me for all you know) we/I will be happy and you can do what ever you want so long as we gat a peice of your paycheck
RE: A question for the ladies
she no care bout u. she all want money. if u stop see her, no problem. she go on to another member. simple! hosts are not stupid.
RE: A question for the ladies
why is it Ok for her to finger her self to me and others, but you cant?
and what are you waiting for, if she's worth it, take her away from here, or stop whining please.
Guess what, she'll never leave.
and what are you waiting for, if she's worth it, take her away from here, or stop whining please.
Guess what, she'll never leave.
RE: A question for the ladies
i m married my husband do that too...look on internet on adult sites watching porno bla bla...sure that hurt but i m very carefully to be close to him when he do that so he can t masturbate...and sure i don t make sex with him too then...sure hurt but men r men they will always do...is something u can always asociate men-porno :)))))))))
RE: A question for the ladies
Hello, you sound like my ex fiancée...It was soo nice to trust him, it was soo good feeling to know that he is not paying other girls..I appreciate you, Sir...the girl you have found is a lucky one!
interesting to see
Love , sex, and money three things we all have, need , or desire.
How do you see these, I'll go first
i have money
i desire sex
i need love
How do you see these, I'll go first
i have money
i desire sex
i need love
RE: interesting to see
Without love the other two are meaningless. Wait...maybe not sex. Wait...Money can buy sex. Wait if I have money and sex who needs love?
RE: interesting to see
I have desires, and I need what I want, you figure out the rest, I'm going to bone the girl sleeping in my bed.
RE: interesting to see
I think that love is by far the most important. I am talking about love in a broader since such as the love of life, love of nature, and love of others. Money and sex also are nice to have to help with love.
RE: interesting to see
i don t think money can buy love maybe u can buy your love if u have money but no one will love ya just because u have money (will love ya money and real love u ll never feel)
:))))))))))))
:))))))))))))
People from UK help
I need some genuine answers for my survey.
1-2 questions to answer.
1. Do you use any private health services? (anything outside NHS)
2. If yes, what supermarket do you generally shop food from?
Thank you in advance for your replies.
Hugs,
Milena
1-2 questions to answer.
1. Do you use any private health services? (anything outside NHS)
2. If yes, what supermarket do you generally shop food from?
Thank you in advance for your replies.
Hugs,
Milena
RE: People from UK help
yes, Apu, the amature gyn guy in the falt next to me
I shop at his 7-11 (5% discount)
I shop at his 7-11 (5% discount)
RE: People from UK help
I dont use anyprivate health services............
i shop with tescos :)
i hope it helps x
i shop with tescos :)
i hope it helps x
RE: what did u miss about ur childhood?
Excitement before the New Year's Eve:( Now its still fun but in a different way...
RE: what did u miss about ur childhood?
i miss playing sports with my friends until my mom would call me in for dinner
RE: what did u miss about ur childhood?
I miss drinking cough syrup behind the KMart with all the cool kids.
RE: what did u miss about ur childhood?
thr are things i miss...
1.I miss rolling down grass hills with mah friends
2.I always ask mah mum," whats for dinner."..!
3.I dont have to pay anything!:D
...hugzzz...!!!
1.I miss rolling down grass hills with mah friends
2.I always ask mah mum," whats for dinner."..!
3.I dont have to pay anything!:D
...hugzzz...!!!
RE: what did u miss about ur childhood?
hmmmmm...rolling down the grass, huh? wanna try that with me? ;P
RE: what did u miss about ur childhood?
I want...but maybe just n mah dreams,coz your leaving CC and yah cant be mind:(...hugzzz!!!
RE: what did u miss about ur childhood?
I miss those "special" times when I was an (thirsty) alter boy.
I miss those stories my big brother told me "if you swallow a watermelon seed, a watermelon will grow in your stomach" "if you drop a 9 volt battery it will explode"
I miss going to bullfights on acid
I miss my big titty neighbor that let me feel her up from time to time
I miss those stories my big brother told me "if you swallow a watermelon seed, a watermelon will grow in your stomach" "if you drop a 9 volt battery it will explode"
I miss going to bullfights on acid
I miss my big titty neighbor that let me feel her up from time to time
RE: what did u miss about ur childhood?
I miss my mom telling me: "You've got to stop doing that...it'll make you go blind!" hehehe
Seriously...I miss my mom kissing me goodbye every morning when I went to school....and wawing goodbye to me from the kitchen window. I miss sitting on my dad's lap in the summertime...he smelled so good even when sweating from gardening. I miss my brother always teasing and bugging me....well, he still tries to do that...but then I didn't know how to make him stop. I miss my Dad's old aunt who treated me like a prince....I was only 5 but she would explain to me about history and read Lenin to me....it is a miracle that I didn't grow up to become a communist. I miss sleeping in the bedroom next to my dad and listen to Beethoven together from my tape deck while falling asleep...jeeezzz think i'm getting too mushy now.
Seriously...I miss my mom kissing me goodbye every morning when I went to school....and wawing goodbye to me from the kitchen window. I miss sitting on my dad's lap in the summertime...he smelled so good even when sweating from gardening. I miss my brother always teasing and bugging me....well, he still tries to do that...but then I didn't know how to make him stop. I miss my Dad's old aunt who treated me like a prince....I was only 5 but she would explain to me about history and read Lenin to me....it is a miracle that I didn't grow up to become a communist. I miss sleeping in the bedroom next to my dad and listen to Beethoven together from my tape deck while falling asleep...jeeezzz think i'm getting too mushy now.
RE: what did u miss about ur childhood?
1. I remember lying on a hard floor and my dick sometimes feeling really good, but I didn't understand why.
2. I remember having sex dreams, but again not really understanding why.
3. I remember playing the with my dick and one day this milky white substance coming out.... Then I finally understood all.
2. I remember having sex dreams, but again not really understanding why.
3. I remember playing the with my dick and one day this milky white substance coming out.... Then I finally understood all.
RE: what did u miss about ur childhood?
lol....so basically what you're saying...nothing's changed since then, right? :P Seriously....people here have one thing in common...we all think about sex too much. Sex is cool, nice and all that....but it is not everything.
By the way...I remember discovering my brother's dirty magazines when I was trying to steal candy at about age 12. That is when I lost my innocense. I guess I should be lucky that he was not into farm animals, or my life might have been different. lol
By the way...I remember discovering my brother's dirty magazines when I was trying to steal candy at about age 12. That is when I lost my innocense. I guess I should be lucky that he was not into farm animals, or my life might have been different. lol
RE: what did u miss about ur childhood?
I miss:
1) My family's togetherness
2) Being raised on a farm
3) What my mother taught me (I was reminded of several of these by visiting Charlotte4U's website)
1) My family's togetherness
2) Being raised on a farm
3) What my mother taught me (I was reminded of several of these by visiting Charlotte4U's website)
RE: what did u miss about ur childhood?
i miss the freedom most... no appointments, no responsibility, no career to worry about. long summer vacations , especially in my early teens, when i had nothing to do all day except hang out with my friends and my cousins at the beach, flirting and making out with pretty girls, playing sports, having parties and bonfires at night. just a great time in my life. never fails to make me smile when i remember those days.
RE: what did u miss about ur childhood?
I miss those sunny days when I was just lying in the grass for hours, watching clouds...
Or those unforgettable walkings with my parents for the mushrooms and berries, and this smell of forest..mmmm.
Ahh...the first snow! We children got crazy of it :D
And many many other really wonderful things....
But most of all I miss that special feeling of safeness and placidity when nothing could worrit me....except of when was happen to catch cold and get all this hated procedures....or parents punished me for my bad behavior...lol...can't remember for what exactly, haha..
Or those unforgettable walkings with my parents for the mushrooms and berries, and this smell of forest..mmmm.
Ahh...the first snow! We children got crazy of it :D
And many many other really wonderful things....
But most of all I miss that special feeling of safeness and placidity when nothing could worrit me....except of when was happen to catch cold and get all this hated procedures....or parents punished me for my bad behavior...lol...can't remember for what exactly, haha..
RE: what did u miss about ur childhood?
I miss waking up on a snowy day and hearing on the radio that school was cancelled.
I miss sitting in my favorite Elm tree and just listening to nature.
I miss the innocent anticipation of Christmas.
I miss sitting in my favorite Elm tree and just listening to nature.
I miss the innocent anticipation of Christmas.
Whats This?
hey im a new member here and was enjoying the commchat. but i was chatting with a host when some guy tried to correct my spelling! i admit i dont have great grammer skills, but damn, why be interupted in a public chatroom? after i was corrected, i lost contact with the host. who in the hell is this that owns the chatroom?? Very Rude!
RE: Whats This?
it wasnt me i didnt do it no one saw me u cant prove a thing (it was dave) nudge nudge wink wink :p
RE: Whats This?
Hi new member, I'm afraid you'll have to get used to it. Rudness is rampant in comchat.. There's a handy little tool called the ignore button, I find it VERY handy at times.. :)
Good luck..
Good luck..
RE: Whats This?
upir uipset anbout nothong probably, some members correct spelling mostly in an effort to help the hosts with their english and don't mean anything by it and most of the host appreciate it. so unless he attached an insult to it nothing was meant
RE: Whats This?
ok about the hosts, but im a member from an english speaking country. no harm may be intended, but if im chatting with someone else instead of this guy, i dont need online grammar lessons, nor to be interupted when i do make a mistake. he can correct the hosts all he wants to, just leave me alone, i dont need that kind of bs and i doubt anybody does!!
to everyone else in the post thks for your help!
to everyone else in the post thks for your help!
RE: Whats This?
Did you attach your CV, SAT scores and proof of citizenship? How is anyone to know what country you are from?
RE: Whats This?
ok im from usa, is that really important to you. as to getting over myself, i think the guy who needs to get over himself is the one who is always doing the correcting. from now on im using the ignore button in there. hope yur satisfied? lol
RE: Whats This?
You're the one who though it was important to say you are "a member from an english speaking country." That's why I said what I did. Get a thicker skin or stay out of chatrooms anywhere. They are not for the faint of heart.
RE: Whats This?
well sure i said that cause it's the only language i know. you guys sure do defend this lordship. must be party loyalty or good ole boys network, lol! like i said, im out of there! buy hey, as a newbie, thanks to those who gave me positive and constructive input here, without the negative overtones. I appreciate that, really do! :+))
RE: Whats This?
Don't be so touchy. I know how you feel...I used to feel like that in my 20thies when I first came here. I used to blush when going to the bank because the teller could not understand me...I know how it feels. Now I make my living writing for a big corporation.
If you feel insulted about your english, stop wasting time in comchat. Read a book instead; that's what I did to improve. Or, if you really feel you want to be in comchat, let people correct you...and your grammar will improve. Tell yourself "Yes, my english is not perfect...so fuc&ing what?" I hope you understand I am not mocking you....I just think you need to adjust your attitude a little.
If you feel insulted about your english, stop wasting time in comchat. Read a book instead; that's what I did to improve. Or, if you really feel you want to be in comchat, let people correct you...and your grammar will improve. Tell yourself "Yes, my english is not perfect...so fuc&ing what?" I hope you understand I am not mocking you....I just think you need to adjust your attitude a little.
RE: Whats This?
ok azterix
thks for ur help! you are one of the few who was not negative to me, and i will remember that, and appreciate it!
thks for ur help! you are one of the few who was not negative to me, and i will remember that, and appreciate it!
RE: Whats This?
I read the forums for laughs and for a certain rubber necking car crash type atmosphere. Im here for the live girls in vid, not to make cyber friends. Anyway, you will soon learn that their is a cadre of members whose lives revolve around chatting, posting on the forum and living fantasy lives as cyber studs. My advice have fun, don't take this seriously and when you are done go out with a real woman, or friends.
RE: Whats This?
Just shake it off man. By the way...its I'm not im. You forgot the apostrophe.
RE: Whats This?
Lol...good one...because most members must have plenty of thick skin in that department....calluses too :P
RE: Whats This?
actually i dont have any beef with any body in the comm-chat, except for the one guy who kept correcting me. everyone else was polite and fun to talk to. as someone new, i am learning here thats all. but i';ll sayit again, i just dont think anybody needs to be interupted with a grammar lesson, right in the middle of a chat. ive stayed away from saying this guy's name out right, just out of respect. ok, so ive learned my lesson, im staying out of chatrooms. thanks to every body who gave me positive feedback instead of those crtical and negatve. as a new guy here thats means alot, but i see even a new guy dont get cut any slack.
RE: Whats This?
Listen, I did not read this post of yours before posting my last reply. First, I am not big on comchat but I have enjoyed it sometimes lately...like last weekend when I was feeling sad and needed some added perspective and maybe some emotional support. I know there are a couple of people there who try to pick on others....but they are very few....and usually there will be some other old timers that will keep them in check. As for me, people have attacked me in chat and I had the option of making them so humiliated that THEY would be the ones never to come back to chat or even CC. But I didn't, cause I believe in being compassionate. Some people reading this will think I am a sanctimonious ass for saying that, and that is just fine with me. I live by my beliefs. My message to you is don't let people bully you. The gentle dog always wins in the end. Like I said to you before, you can learn alot about human relations here.
RE: Whats This?
Community chat can be very interesting. I realize that part of time things get out of hand, but I have also found some very friendly and intriquing individuals there. I just ignore those who are disruptive.
RE: Whats This?
you mean the guy who is always talking about his wife. yea he can be a pain when he wants.
Read any good books lately?
Maybe try "Shattered Dreams, Broken Promises: The Cost of Coming to America" by Michael Viner. It is about Russian women that dream of coming to the USA and what happens to them along the way.
Let me know how it is. I haven't read it yet either. But I do know of one horror story where a Russian CC host married a guy living in USA, although he was also Russian.
Let me know how it is. I haven't read it yet either. But I do know of one horror story where a Russian CC host married a guy living in USA, although he was also Russian.
RE: Read any good books lately?
I read the book. The girl meets the guy at a local McDonalds. They both order supersized BigMacs, then get lost under the golden arches. It's very touching.........
RE: Read any good books lately?
ive just read Harold Shipman - Prescription for Murder...Im a True Crime Addict, any suggestions for my next book?
RE: Read any good books lately?
try Finger Lickin Good. It's a wondeful book on the history of Kentucky Fried Chicken, and it's commercial globalization.
RE: Read any good books lately?
Hi. If you like real crime, try reading The Adversary by Emmanuel Carrere. It's a psychological account (but not heavy!) of a notorious French murder case written by one of the countrys leading novelists.
RE: Read any good books lately?
I just finished the World without Us by Wiseman. What would happen to the earth if man suddenly disappeared. Needless to say in a few hundred years there would not be much left to show we were here. In a few thousand years just chunks of plastic and metal. My next book is the Great Deluge about the Katrina disaster in New Orleans. Then something light I think....1491 about the new world before europeans arrived. It was not a savage land at all but pretty sophisticated and advanced in different ways. Then Teenage Motorcycle Sluts....my favorite.
RE: Read any good books lately?
My long time favorite is "When the Elephants Dance" by Tess Uriza Holthe. I actually remember reading ABOUT this book around 2002 when first it came out....the author was a local young Filipina from San Francisco. She was born here I think, but her dad had told her stories about growing up in Manlila during WW2. The book won several awards, but I was not into anything Filipino at the time. I picked the book up when I went on my first visit to the Philippines this spring, and reading it while I was there was a very strong experience for me. It is about the Japanese invasion of the Philippines during 2nd world war...about a family trying to survive the autrocities....very powerful and not for the fainthearted. Very dark, but full of beauty and optimism too. I cannot believe that this was written by a young girl. The book thaught me about the Filipino people and what wonderful, resilient people they are. From a Westener's viewpoint there are many things to criticize about them too, but this book opened my mind and made me understand and respect them.
By the way...to explain the title of the book.....here is a cut from the preface:
"Papa explains the war like this: When the elephants dance, the chickens must be careful. 'The great beasts, as they circle one another, shaking the trees and trumpeting loudly, are the Amerikanos and the Japane as they fight. And our Philippine Islands? We are the small chickens."
For anyone even remotely interested in the Philippines, this is a great read! Jeeezzz.....do I sound like I am trying to sell this book?
By the way...to explain the title of the book.....here is a cut from the preface:
"Papa explains the war like this: When the elephants dance, the chickens must be careful. 'The great beasts, as they circle one another, shaking the trees and trumpeting loudly, are the Amerikanos and the Japane as they fight. And our Philippine Islands? We are the small chickens."
For anyone even remotely interested in the Philippines, this is a great read! Jeeezzz.....do I sound like I am trying to sell this book?
RE: Read any good books lately?
You sounded great even with your tryings to sell this wonderful book! :D :P
RE: Read any good books lately?
well.. i read "without tits there is no paradise" (sin tetas no hay paraiso) - it's hard to beat that title :)
it's the quest of a poor colombian girl to get breasts implants. She wanted to be a drug lord's toy, but couldn't beacuse she had small tits.
oh.. and i read "millions of women want to meet you". Laughed a looot with this book. ;) It's about internet dating.
it's the quest of a poor colombian girl to get breasts implants. She wanted to be a drug lord's toy, but couldn't beacuse she had small tits.
oh.. and i read "millions of women want to meet you". Laughed a looot with this book. ;) It's about internet dating.
movie
did anyone see the movie APOCALYPTO by Mel Gibson-cool movie--if you did see it what did you think about the love scene in it--
RE: movie
Awesome movie!the acting is incridible!but i just didn't understand the ships at the end?what was that all about chaser...?hugzzz!!!
RE: movie
I really enjoyed the movie. It showed what the life was like for the different groups during a period of time and their relationship with each other. The arrival of the ships showed that the lifes of both groups was going to change do to the arrival of another different group. This was a very intriquing movie.
RE: movie
Akina, you are welcome. I think it was a very interesting movie. I have watched it a couple of times. hugs
RE: movie
akina--was a cool movie--im going to watch it again--glad you found out what the boats at the end meant--hugs
RE: movie
I think that one's on cable at the monment chaser,
FOXTEL BOX OFFICE.. press the box office button on your remote to order.. lol
FOXTEL BOX OFFICE.. press the box office button on your remote to order.. lol
RE: movie
gete--to late i already rented the movie from StarWood---cool movie you should watch it
RE: movie
If seeing people die gives you a stiffy, I think Hostel 2 just came out on DVD not too long ago.
RE: movie
Great movie. I have been to Mayan ruins in Mexico and Belize. It was cool to see it come alive in the movie.
RE: movie
Well, that must have been nice to visit in person, well. I loved this movie also...very raw, cruel...just like life must have been for those people back then. Some people want us to believe that everything was just daisy here in the Americas before the Spaniards arrived. The Spaniards were raw brutes, but anyone who knows at least a little history knows that life was not a picknick there before they arrived either. It was a very strong scene when the village is plundered, and the captives have to watch as their women and children are raped or killed.
I think Mel Gibson made a strong message with this film. Unfortunately, the movie did not get the recognition and credit it deserved because he was arrested for DIU just before the its release. He made some stupid, drunken rasist remarks...and I think this made the movie less successful than it could have been.
I think Mel Gibson made a strong message with this film. Unfortunately, the movie did not get the recognition and credit it deserved because he was arrested for DIU just before the its release. He made some stupid, drunken rasist remarks...and I think this made the movie less successful than it could have been.
RE: movie
personally, i just think old mel really digs making snuff films.
did you see what he did to jesus?...holy cow!
did you see what he did to jesus?...holy cow!
RE: Do U rate Guys?
i usually only visit my friends on here, and i always vote most stars for them, and would never go into someone chat to just low rate them, and the hosts i have for friends would never ask me too.
RE: Do U rate Guys?
I am sorry that some guys are like that to come for a very short time and then rate you low. it is not right, but it is done. I usually visit with people I know, but I will visit some new hosts. I have developed in my mind to never give a host a bad rating if I do not like them. I will either give a good rating or I will refuse to rate them, because the rating is just my opinion and I do not want that to hurt anybody. So from me a host will get a good rating or no rating.
RE: To see each other in real would be cool :D
About five years ago someone arranged a cc party in Brasov.
RE: To see each other in real would be cool :D
LOL Wanda, don't you think we all aren't perfect?
Well I just didn't know that it was in real five years ago. I guess it was great :D
Well I just didn't know that it was in real five years ago. I guess it was great :D
RE: To see each other in real would be cool :D
I wud join and party all night long)) And yes ofc i wud say my screenname)))Wud love to hang out with some ppl from cc)) Wud be fun im sure)
RE: To see each other in real would be cool :D
thats a cool ideea i would loveit...and yes if we plan this now for 2009 i think can be posible why not?we can decide togeder where to be this party...like a vote or something..
kisss u alll
kisss u alll
meeting cc staff in reality
That party five years ago was in Brasov. I know quite a few hosts were there, as Brasov had some more studios in those days and Brasov is a popular tourism destination. I think a couple members were there, too.
Back then the main countries for hosts were Latvia, Romania and Russia. Now, of course, the Philippines has replaced Latvia and there is a sizable minority from South America. (Surely not to forget a few from Britain and the US.)
Meeting cc staff these days would be less exciting. Five years ago they posted frequently in the forums, answering questions and chit-chatting, and we got to know their personalities. Now you only see their names when they sign the messages answering complaints of failed video and documented stalling.
Back then the main countries for hosts were Latvia, Romania and Russia. Now, of course, the Philippines has replaced Latvia and there is a sizable minority from South America. (Surely not to forget a few from Britain and the US.)
Meeting cc staff these days would be less exciting. Five years ago they posted frequently in the forums, answering questions and chit-chatting, and we got to know their personalities. Now you only see their names when they sign the messages answering complaints of failed video and documented stalling.
RE: To see each other in real would be cool :D
Yeah...and there will be the rooms named after each CC category, so everyone could feel free to make dreams come true...woo hoooo!!!!!!
Ok ok...I am joking :D
What?... I can't believe! No one guy has replied yet? Hmmmmmm....
Ok ok...I am joking :D
What?... I can't believe! No one guy has replied yet? Hmmmmmm....
RE: To see each other in real would be cool :D
hahahaha...
Well, of course when I was trying to imagine such a cool party, I was far of thinking about sex and free shows at all...lol...but we are all adults and everyone is free to continue their relationships in their hotels or somewhere else...why not :)
Well, of course when I was trying to imagine such a cool party, I was far of thinking about sex and free shows at all...lol...but we are all adults and everyone is free to continue their relationships in their hotels or somewhere else...why not :)
RE: To see each other in real would be cool :D
Ye....Drunk striptease dances on the bar tables lol)))))) Yahoooooooooooooooooooo=))
RE: To see each other in real would be cool :D
Actually it can be a great idea, but then is kinda depends on who you are going to invite :) In my experience online meets are all about people sharing a common connection. It is best not to have cliques and best not to have factions. However from what I know of CC there may well be plenty of scope for just such a meet. Contrary to popular perception CC's draw is not just for the sex and the money, and there are many who are part of CC who don't regard either as important as meeting new people, sharing new ideas, talents or experiences.
So yes, I'd be happy to attend, if I was invited, Laughing Girl. It would be nice I think to meet up with CC staff too and finally buy them a beer or two for their help and innovation over the last years.
Question is though would you invite me? And who else would you want on a list of people to meet? :)
TNTIGSTP
So yes, I'd be happy to attend, if I was invited, Laughing Girl. It would be nice I think to meet up with CC staff too and finally buy them a beer or two for their help and innovation over the last years.
Question is though would you invite me? And who else would you want on a list of people to meet? :)
TNTIGSTP
RE: To see each other in real would be cool :D
I agree TNT, I am sure there are plenty of members and hosts here on CC who have very warm attitude to each other and would be glad to meet their friends.
As for me...yes, I would invite you TNT and you will be the first in my list because I love poetry too much and you will read me poems the whole night :P
It would be interesting to meet some hosts as well and just a nice people who are the part of CC :)
But *imshy* said they have tried and their tryings were unsuccessful, so I don't know if it possible at all that people would or could join such a party.
As for me...yes, I would invite you TNT and you will be the first in my list because I love poetry too much and you will read me poems the whole night :P
It would be interesting to meet some hosts as well and just a nice people who are the part of CC :)
But *imshy* said they have tried and their tryings were unsuccessful, so I don't know if it possible at all that people would or could join such a party.
RE: To see each other in real would be cool :D
Well the trouble with the organisational aspects of it is that you need a core of people who can help organise and plan such an event. That basically means people who tend to live close to each other, say the same city, and are not afraid of planning for large groups.
When I was back at college I took part in the Entertainment aspect of the Students Union. It was tricky at first to engage people interests in an event but if it is well enough organised people are more inclined to turn up. It depends on how diverse you want the thing to be.
The safest way to make sure things don't get too out of hand is to organise among the hosts who will attend who they would invite and who they would rather not see. Obviously a dialogue between enough hosts will weed out any unsuitable personalities who are not in keeping with the spirit of CC and who would not make such an event such a cool thing to happen.
But thank you for asking me though Laughing Girl. I know I would accept if for nothing else than to hear your scary accent while looking into your laughing eyes ;)
Time to set a mailing list anyone?
TNTTOCBSW
When I was back at college I took part in the Entertainment aspect of the Students Union. It was tricky at first to engage people interests in an event but if it is well enough organised people are more inclined to turn up. It depends on how diverse you want the thing to be.
The safest way to make sure things don't get too out of hand is to organise among the hosts who will attend who they would invite and who they would rather not see. Obviously a dialogue between enough hosts will weed out any unsuitable personalities who are not in keeping with the spirit of CC and who would not make such an event such a cool thing to happen.
But thank you for asking me though Laughing Girl. I know I would accept if for nothing else than to hear your scary accent while looking into your laughing eyes ;)
Time to set a mailing list anyone?
TNTTOCBSW
RE: To see each other in real would be cool :D
BTW, a party for two is also not so bad idea...Easier to organize :)
My accent?..lol...hey, who will read poems, you or me? :P:D
(K)
My accent?..lol...hey, who will read poems, you or me? :P:D
(K)
RE: To see each other in real would be cool :D
there was a party planned a few times and when it came to the crunch everyone turned out to b all talk ad no action...myself and DarrenO keep tryin 2 organise trips and parties but no one seems to wanna actually go through with it,,,shame
dear "imshy"
Previous attempts to plan a party failed because everyone tried to reach a consensus. Reaching a consensus among so many people from so many countries is doomed to failure.
As "Tha Naked Truth" has pointed out: "It [is] tricky at first to engage people interests in an event but if it is well enough organised people are more inclined to turn up"
IM (not so) HO, the party would have three locations. One each for Romania, Russia and the Philippines. With a local tourism agent a core of hosts should plan a basic weekend package with tourism and a Saturday dinner/disco reception.
It should be planned carefully to accomodate minimal or maximum participation. Whoever shows up, shows up. If only 10 members come or 50 a properly designed event will be flexible enough to expand/contract accordingly.
If planned a year out it would give everyone ample time to arrange time off work and budgeting for the expense. It would also give everyone a year to clean up their image and reputation if they think it is necessary.
As "Tha Naked Truth" has pointed out: "It [is] tricky at first to engage people interests in an event but if it is well enough organised people are more inclined to turn up"
IM (not so) HO, the party would have three locations. One each for Romania, Russia and the Philippines. With a local tourism agent a core of hosts should plan a basic weekend package with tourism and a Saturday dinner/disco reception.
It should be planned carefully to accomodate minimal or maximum participation. Whoever shows up, shows up. If only 10 members come or 50 a properly designed event will be flexible enough to expand/contract accordingly.
If planned a year out it would give everyone ample time to arrange time off work and budgeting for the expense. It would also give everyone a year to clean up their image and reputation if they think it is necessary.
"Whoever shows up, shows up..."
What I meant was not an open-ended, show-up-whenever. I meant an organized RSVP with deadlines and deposits required. That's why you need an accredited tourism agency to co-ordinate it so that everybody's butt is covered.
RE: To see each other in real would be cool :D
who wants to go to a party with a bunch of 'ol farts being pushed 'round by young chicks?
RE: To see each other in real would be cool :D
Can't agree. From my own experience there are plenty of 20-40 guys who visit this site on the regular base.
RE: To see each other in real would be cool :D
Yup agree. And if the guy is fun and smart-who cares about the age? Its just a party after all, not sex or marriage...
RE: To see each other in real would be cool :D
Yeah I see myself explane to my wife what kind of party I am going to:) What to say to her if she wants to come?:) Maybe, Ehhmmmm its a star trek party or KKK party. Im sure she would not be interested then:)
something to remember
Many, many of the members and hosts have personalities quite different from their online personas. So don't expect that any event will turn into a public orgy.
RE: something to remember
Well said. I think both the girls and guys would behave much differently. Ask a girl to strip one to one at the party and you will wind up with your teeth in your hand. On the other hand I am sure the hosts will manage to pick our pockets clean. Life is wonderful.
RE: To see each other in real would be cool :D
Did i say anyth about a public orgy?
RE: To see each other in real would be cool :D
speak for urself..i aint old and know plenty of young guys here..and so what if there r old guys around..i met a few "oldies" in real and they r all fun (compared to me tho everyone is fun) :p
RE: To see each other in real would be cool :D
Well, I see not just a few persons would like to see each other :) Some are ready and the main problem is to organize it properly. I like the idea that hosts from the most popular countries could invite their favourite members to join the party in their own countries. Also well-known that to get a visa is easier to people from Western countries to visit Russia for a example, or Romania, or Philipines. Each one member has his own favourite hosts for sure, that\'s why he could join the party in those countries where his friends are from.
I am not saying I could organize such a serious project, I was just asking "what if"...but if there will be just some of us who could take part, anyway it should be a great event. Many of people enjoy tourism, so why not to do it along with the possibility to see each other?
Well, I have no idea who has such an energy and time of course to make it true. And who is really thinking it is possible. And how much it could cost...So, if there is someone who knows how to make it work, you are welcome to share your thoughts :)
And also one thing...if it would happened, it shouldn't be an orgy seems to me, but just a meeting of people who enjoy CC and their friends whom they have found here :)
I understand that for now it is just a fantasy or a crazy idea at all, but is it so impossible if some people really want it to be?
I am not saying I could organize such a serious project, I was just asking "what if"...but if there will be just some of us who could take part, anyway it should be a great event. Many of people enjoy tourism, so why not to do it along with the possibility to see each other?
Well, I have no idea who has such an energy and time of course to make it true. And who is really thinking it is possible. And how much it could cost...So, if there is someone who knows how to make it work, you are welcome to share your thoughts :)
And also one thing...if it would happened, it shouldn't be an orgy seems to me, but just a meeting of people who enjoy CC and their friends whom they have found here :)
I understand that for now it is just a fantasy or a crazy idea at all, but is it so impossible if some people really want it to be?
dear "Laughing girl"
Don't think of it as meeting one on one particular hosts or members. If that's what people want, it can be done individually (and often is). Think of it as just a general party and tourism opportunity.
dear "perfessor"
Thank you for your such a valuable practical advices. And for sure they could be used, but in case if people will really turn on about that idea.
Well, maybe some day...
Anyway, thank you :)
Well, maybe some day...
Anyway, thank you :)
I never thought they existed
I thought all women had morals and were gentle. But geeeez some of you have claws and are true gold diggers.
Amazing to see and omg so mach fun too!!!!!!!!!!
Amazing to see and omg so mach fun too!!!!!!!!!!
RE: I never thought they existed
not all that looks beautiful, golden and green is so. some hosts AND members here put up a beautiful front but in real life they are just a troll under the bridge with their hand in their pocket!
Sad news
have you heard about awful storm in black sea in russia?
4 ships are already sunk and many are in danger. in one of those sunk ships my father worked (((fortunatly the crew had been evacuated. Thanks God.
4 ships are already sunk and many are in danger. in one of those sunk ships my father worked (((fortunatly the crew had been evacuated. Thanks God.
RE: Sad news
Yes Elina, as with all loss of innocent lives, it is very sad but I am very glad your dad is safe.
RE: Sad news
happy that ur dad is ok but what about nature. one ship brook and spilled 1500 ton oil in sea
RE: Sad news
people are sentimental. It's like people/animals die everyday in natural and man made tragedies, but people dont have 2minute silence for them
RE: Sad news
how could you be so cinic??????? what if it could happen with your dearests????? i worried the whole day for my dad and happy that he survived!
RE: Sad news
Ignore the rube, Elina, I am quite sure they are just trying to shit-stir and provoke a reaction. Always find some Anonymous Coward who thinks it's funny to be crass at others pain.
NORMAL people have compassion and that's all you need to know.
Sub-normal people are not worth wasting your breath on.
TNTRTKSBSBIO
NORMAL people have compassion and that's all you need to know.
Sub-normal people are not worth wasting your breath on.
TNTRTKSBSBIO
RE: Sad news
how was he being crass? he seemed only sadly bemused that people, generally, don't care more.
RE: Sad news
Actually he rather implied no one should care. We don't have 2 mins silence for animals why should we have for people? It may not have been explicit but out of all the comments he/she might have posted that was not a particularly comforting one to Elina, nor would it be to anyone who can imagine themselves in her situation.
Don't make this a long discourse off-topic. If you want any follow ups please address them to me via ccMail and not sully this rather sombre thread. People have died. There is no comedy in that.
TNTBRRS
Don't make this a long discourse off-topic. If you want any follow ups please address them to me via ccMail and not sully this rather sombre thread. People have died. There is no comedy in that.
TNTBRRS
RE: Sad news
I certainly did not imply that and tbh you can get down of your high horse too. I object to twisting my words so you can sound righteous. I am not being a cynic either. It's an observation on how society grieves and how memorials are born out of sentimental reasons.
Your perception of me is wrong and by no way was it a personal attack xelina18x either
Your perception of me is wrong and by no way was it a personal attack xelina18x either
RE: Sad news
Then I suggest you re-read what you wrote and think about why it can be misinterpreted and next time you want to comment seriously on something you think about how to phrase it BEFORE you press post message.
End of sidebar. There are no points to be won on this subject.. Let it lie.
TNT
End of sidebar. There are no points to be won on this subject.. Let it lie.
TNT
RE: Sad news
u seem to provoke trouble and you appear to enjoy and you certainly cannot live by your own words
RE: Sad news
u can loop back to my previous answer, righteous, twisted they describe you there.
goodbye
goodbye
RE: Sad news
why it can be misinterpreted is because the reader wants to misinterpret it.we all see things through our eyes but our mind reads what it wants into it.so if you are forever scouring forums looking to jump on a perceived injustice,then you will find it.maybe instead of telling well to go back & read it,you should look inside of yourself as to the reasons for you taking such a definitive view of the post.
DGAFFAYI.
DGAFFAYI.
RE: Sad news
depends on the readers opinion and the censorship rules here (by which i am sure he is involved in).
RE: Sad news
some years ago on 9-11 i spent all day worried about my brother who was living in NYC at the time. the phones were all dead in his area and it took over a day to find out that he was ok.
Do not let the foolish ones get to you! Thank God that your father is alive and well, as well as his crew!
May God have mercy on the souls that have been lost!
Do not let the foolish ones get to you! Thank God that your father is alive and well, as well as his crew!
May God have mercy on the souls that have been lost!
RE: Sad news
Oh no.. I did not hear about it.. been away for the weekend and am just catching up now. People often forget why the sea has always been a very cruel mistress, even with all our technology we are still at the whims of the natural world.
My thoughts are with them all.
TNT
My thoughts are with them all.
TNT
RE: Sad news
I had not heard of the huge storm. Xelina, I am glad that your dad is okay and I still pray for the families of the others who have lost their lives in this storm. Also the suffering of nature as a result of the oil spill is a major concern also.
RE: Sad news
In my opinion, not a horrible thing to say, he just said it horribly. If you read his post two more times, you probably see what I mean. Lots of people here don't have english as their first language....in fact I'm one of them....My point is that what I think he was trying to express is not as bad as you seem to think it is...So member.....try to give it another shot....that is how you improve!
RE: Sad news
This comment of streetsense is very typical. He has always come across in a critical manner to other posters. It's his style, but always has negative connotations. Just read his past comments in the archives, they are full of negativity, and harshness.
RE: Sad news
i'm sorry, the line about your father WAS PAID TO BE THERE is not nice in any translation of the language you care to choose and realist, what are you talking about
RE: Sad news
Well then, if you're right, why are you saying that you are sorry?
It's you tone man, your tone. You sound like the resident expert in here on just about everything. But you're certainly not the first, and certainly won't be the last! Resident experts are about a dime a dozen.
And she said she was sorry to hear about xelina's father, but glad he was ok, however that was his job. So what's wrong with that?
It's you tone man, your tone. You sound like the resident expert in here on just about everything. But you're certainly not the first, and certainly won't be the last! Resident experts are about a dime a dozen.
And she said she was sorry to hear about xelina's father, but glad he was ok, however that was his job. So what's wrong with that?
RE: Sad news
it was just kind of off, probably the but that preceeded it
and i have rarely put myself forward as an expert on anything but just insert a funny line now and then, but you see, to be an expert on my behavior so i'll leave you to it to keep track. not that you would ever be critical of anyone or put yourself over as an expert on just about anything
and i have rarely put myself forward as an expert on anything but just insert a funny line now and then, but you see, to be an expert on my behavior so i'll leave you to it to keep track. not that you would ever be critical of anyone or put yourself over as an expert on just about anything
RE: Sad news
Wow, "double barreled" I'm impressed. Then forget about what I said, go back and read what Azterix said, he put it best, so give the member a break why don't ya?
As I said, your past posts speak for themselves.
As I said, your past posts speak for themselves.
RE: Sad news
as do your past posts
now the poster can be forgiven due to the fact that english is obviously not their first lamnguage, but let me give you another exampke as to why there is something "off" about the comment
supposing your father woerked at the world trade center, similar to a natural disaster,. Now whether your father was an office worker attending his job, or a policeman , firefighter whatever and whether he was injured at the the site or not. the comment "but he was paid to be there" comes off sort of as, well if he had worked someplace else it wouldn't have happened him wouldn't bother you. what difference does it make whether your paid to be there or not. it doesn't, they were just there whether paid to be or just a good citizen or immigrant trying to help
being paid to be there is irrelevant amd the implication that gee that's a shame but they were paid to be there is "off" in the context. so if you're going to criticize me with the lame , your past posts line and yet you can't see the difference here, please don't bother me. you are after all standing in a glass house having seen so many of your posts criticizing people
now the poster can be forgiven due to the fact that english is obviously not their first lamnguage, but let me give you another exampke as to why there is something "off" about the comment
supposing your father woerked at the world trade center, similar to a natural disaster,. Now whether your father was an office worker attending his job, or a policeman , firefighter whatever and whether he was injured at the the site or not. the comment "but he was paid to be there" comes off sort of as, well if he had worked someplace else it wouldn't have happened him wouldn't bother you. what difference does it make whether your paid to be there or not. it doesn't, they were just there whether paid to be or just a good citizen or immigrant trying to help
being paid to be there is irrelevant amd the implication that gee that's a shame but they were paid to be there is "off" in the context. so if you're going to criticize me with the lame , your past posts line and yet you can't see the difference here, please don't bother me. you are after all standing in a glass house having seen so many of your posts criticizing people
RE: Sad news
My past posts.....LOL!!.......I have very few, hardly any.
And I don't believe in 'supposition'.......or hypothetical examples of an 'unqualified kind'..........Don't bother you uh? Do you want some cheese with that whine??
And I don't believe in 'supposition'.......or hypothetical examples of an 'unqualified kind'..........Don't bother you uh? Do you want some cheese with that whine??
RE: Sad news
Yes, the job of a merchant marine is dangerous at times and generally a very difficult one. It's lucky that most of these guys were safely rescued.
Sadly, the biggest part of the story vis-a-vis the journalists will always be the oilspill because we accept that the job is dangerous, but we expect that the captain will take care of the ship and avoid the spill.
Sadly, the biggest part of the story vis-a-vis the journalists will always be the oilspill because we accept that the job is dangerous, but we expect that the captain will take care of the ship and avoid the spill.
RE: Sad news
You may not be aware of what she is talking about because she framed it in personal terms. Here is the (more or less) objective report:
http://news.yahoo.com/s/afp/20071111/sc_afp/russiaaccidentseaoil_071111194054
However, it will be overshadowed in the US by the news from San Francisco:
http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20071112/ap_on_re_us/bay_spill;_ylt=AkDVK6elFXwhKgyD9cq91hKs0NUE
http://news.yahoo.com/s/afp/20071111/sc_afp/russiaaccidentseaoil_071111194054
However, it will be overshadowed in the US by the news from San Francisco:
http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20071112/ap_on_re_us/bay_spill;_ylt=AkDVK6elFXwhKgyD9cq91hKs0NUE
RE: im sad
I didn't forget about you, because I don't even know you. :P
But I know what you're really saying... it's slow. Good luck getting some memebers to visit you. ;)
But I know what you're really saying... it's slow. Good luck getting some memebers to visit you. ;)