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Members and hosts - see ya all in hell!
This is it. The time has come to say goodbye to you all.
I've been doing some serious soulsearching, and I decided that it is time for me to leave this site. I will spare you all the details, but the short version is that I used the forums to distract myself while my gf was working as a host. I actually enjoyed the forums quite a bit, but logging in and out all the time represented too much of a temptation to go back to my old ways. I really cannot afford that now. By the way...this is not a ploy to impress my gf either.
By writing this I am putting myself on notice. Please be assured that I am not asking for attention or expecting anyone to beg me to stay. I have made some good friends here. I will not mention names, because I am afraid to leave anyone out. You know who you are, members and hosts. To those of you whom I humiliated or made look stupid...I am sorry but you had it coming.
The only person I will mention is Xelina18...whom I've never even seen a picture of, but whom I know must look like an angel. I just need to mention you Eeina because I know you'll be all uspet about my post. I want you to understand that when I said "see you all in hell," i didn't mean that anyone here is actually going to hell or even that hell exists. On the other hand, if hell does exist, I know YOU won't be there. However, in that case I would for sure meet some of my other cc friends there...and let's just pray that they have high speed internet access.
Love you all...take good care always...hugs and kisses!
PS! I am not sure if CC will allow me to post my yh account. I will check my cc mail for the next few weeks if anyone wants to stay in touch. God bless.
I've been doing some serious soulsearching, and I decided that it is time for me to leave this site. I will spare you all the details, but the short version is that I used the forums to distract myself while my gf was working as a host. I actually enjoyed the forums quite a bit, but logging in and out all the time represented too much of a temptation to go back to my old ways. I really cannot afford that now. By the way...this is not a ploy to impress my gf either.
By writing this I am putting myself on notice. Please be assured that I am not asking for attention or expecting anyone to beg me to stay. I have made some good friends here. I will not mention names, because I am afraid to leave anyone out. You know who you are, members and hosts. To those of you whom I humiliated or made look stupid...I am sorry but you had it coming.
The only person I will mention is Xelina18...whom I've never even seen a picture of, but whom I know must look like an angel. I just need to mention you Eeina because I know you'll be all uspet about my post. I want you to understand that when I said "see you all in hell," i didn't mean that anyone here is actually going to hell or even that hell exists. On the other hand, if hell does exist, I know YOU won't be there. However, in that case I would for sure meet some of my other cc friends there...and let's just pray that they have high speed internet access.
Love you all...take good care always...hugs and kisses!
PS! I am not sure if CC will allow me to post my yh account. I will check my cc mail for the next few weeks if anyone wants to stay in touch. God bless.
RE: Members and hosts - see ya all in hell!
well............................bye i wont miss you.
RE: Members and hosts - see ya all in hell!
You though you were safe now, heh? I am not quite gone yet...so please crawl back to under the rock from whence you came.I will of course read here for at least the next few days, but I will try not to post. I made an exeption just for you, "spawn"., So I hope you feel special. I could say so much more....but it would not pass the smell test with the cc moderator. In any case....read the beautiful post laughing girl wrote to me and then just try to imagine how good that makes me feel. Then I wish you good luck...
RE: Members and hosts - see ya all in hell!
Ah Azterix...don't know what to say...it's so suddenly!
I so like your posts and your jokes that seems this forum will become a bit empty without you. I so used to see your name here that will miss it really :(
But well, everyone makes his choice sooner or later. And I am just glad to hear you made not so easy job to put all things on their places. Hope you will keep them right.
By the way, hell exists...and there are so many ways to go there but also we all are free to avoid those ways...
Wish you reconcile all the things with your gf, get concensus and finally get her back to you :) Would be great if one day you will come and tell us that everything is ok :)
Take care too and good luck!!
I so like your posts and your jokes that seems this forum will become a bit empty without you. I so used to see your name here that will miss it really :(
But well, everyone makes his choice sooner or later. And I am just glad to hear you made not so easy job to put all things on their places. Hope you will keep them right.
By the way, hell exists...and there are so many ways to go there but also we all are free to avoid those ways...
Wish you reconcile all the things with your gf, get concensus and finally get her back to you :) Would be great if one day you will come and tell us that everything is ok :)
Take care too and good luck!!
RE: Members and hosts - see ya all in hell!
Azterix stay cool and wish you the best, hope all works out
RE: Members and hosts - see ya all in hell!
Dam!im playing "Return To Innocence"while reading your post!i was surprised!are you serious Azterix???does it mean that you start avoiding me also?:(:(...well,Good luck for everything!!!but dont forget im always here for you!if you need me,you know where to find me...
ROTFLMAO
soulsearching to leave an adult site? - laughing my ass off
beg you to stay? - falling off the chair
a host being all upset that you are gone? - rolling on the floor in hysterical laughter
beg you to stay? - falling off the chair
a host being all upset that you are gone? - rolling on the floor in hysterical laughter
RE: ROTFLMAO
Do you conclude that all forum posters (or addicts as you call them) are "delusional" based simply on the fact that they spend time here? Please elaborate your "reasoning".
RE: ROTFLMAO
I'm sure his reasoning is based on this particular member based on the points I made. He said "addicts" in particular, he did not say all those who read/post in toto.
RE: ROTFLMAO
As Nietzsche said, sometimes cynicism is the only way for some to find the truth. (And Azterix is not the cynic).
RE: Members and hosts - see ya all in hell!
gonna lavea and re-enter with another nickame eh?
well played my frind, your gf will never know. And this way you can enter her room with a new nick name an see how many minitues it takes her to say I lov you to the next schmo
well played my frind, your gf will never know. And this way you can enter her room with a new nick name an see how many minitues it takes her to say I lov you to the next schmo
RE: Members and hosts - see ya all in hell!
good luck bro...hope all works out 4 ya...i with pimple on this one..we aint never gonna leave :( oh well shit happens...pass the joint sem :p
RE: Members and hosts - see ya all in hell!
we are all losers imshy, maybe we should consider leaving our other's basement also.
RE: Members and hosts - see ya all in hell!
we could do that but then that means we gotta see and talk to other ppl...u think u can handle it?...u go first and i'll follow if u survive :p
RE: Members and hosts - see ya all in hell!
Let's hold hands and do it together. November 20 will be our last day ok? deal?
RE: Members and hosts - see ya all in hell!
stay in the basement shy the other people won't survive you and sem
good luck az
good luck az
RE: Members and hosts - see ya all in hell!
You'll be back, trust me. Just next sure you come back you think carefully about the reasons.
TNTCTDOWOB
TNTCTDOWOB
RE: Members and hosts - see ya all in hell!
Azterix leaving CC???i don't believe it!do yah really want to go to hell?i think we've been there already!(lol)...well.just take a break and cum back with different name like other members...:P...hugzzz!!!
RE: Members and hosts - see ya all in hell!
I actually enjoy the things your "gf" does and says in pvt.....she sure has a purtty mouth
RE: Members and hosts - see ya all in hell!
As Azterix said in a previous post "Just remember, people thrive on drama sometimes. We say we don't want it, but we continue to seek it." he remains a lead pathetic master of the forum and chat telenovela.
RE: Members and hosts - see ya all in hell!
Well, I have no idea why my previous post wasn't posted by CC and maybe finally it will appear...but I have to assure you Azterix, it was not me who posted under my nickname such a nonsense with invitation to 121 and all the other horseshit. But I am almost sure you can easy get which ones are truly my posts and which are not :)
RE: about the comp
exatcly who will take first place. she's a blonde, and has been here a long time. any guesses?
RE: about the comp
yes, but sex is dirty and needs to kept in the closet, hidden and never talked about beween family members.
The olny acceptable osition is th missionary all other will land you in jail or hell.
I need to go take a shower after talking about such discusting things.
Good Day
The olny acceptable osition is th missionary all other will land you in jail or hell.
I need to go take a shower after talking about such discusting things.
Good Day
RE: about the comp
ok them member side og me wants to say whoever wins..im available for the trip ;)
now the host side of me..vote for me...i need the money and another holiday...and if u spend enough in my vid i MIGHT consider takin u with me :D
now the host side of me..vote for me...i need the money and another holiday...and if u spend enough in my vid i MIGHT consider takin u with me :D
RE: about the comp
wayne if you're this scary at your age how bad will you be when you reach mine.........sheesh
RE: about the comp
U sound like a bore...And who are u to judge anyone here? We live our own lives and we are all grown ups here. And if we do what we do, if we are on cc-means we have our reasons to be here. Cheers
RE: about the comp
if girls have something to be ashamed off - what about you - what are you doing here?!!!
omg you are the worst kind - hypocrite
heheheheheehehehhe
omg you are the worst kind - hypocrite
heheheheheehehehhe
A question for the ladies
Hello ladies,
I have a question. I have an online relationship with a woman that I hope will lead to something permanent one day. Since we are not near each other, I use the internet as my sexual outlet. I was wondering how women felt about their boyfriends doing this, particularly their online boyfriends. (I think that if I was with my girlfriend for real, and if she was willing and able to have sex, it would probably be wrong to look at other women on the internet.) I am not cheating with anybody in real life, and I also have stopped paying for shows too. What I do is look at pics or videos that I can find online for free. I am not chatting with anyone when I play and nobody else can see me. It is basically the same as buying a Playboy magazine and masterbating to it. I am just doing it high tech. There are times that I can play with my online girlfirend too via the internet or phone, but I don't enjoy doing this much. It seems to cheapen the relationship a bit if we do it too much. I am a former heavy user of sites so I will admit that I like the variety of seeing different women in pics and videos, but I expect that once I can have sex again for real, I won't really need to see anybody else. But right now, without the possibility of real sex, I feel like I will explode and need a constant release. What are your thoughts? (And yes, she is a host so she gets to see other guys, although she doesn't seem to enjoy it. She seems to honestly just want me.)
Thanks for your input.
I have a question. I have an online relationship with a woman that I hope will lead to something permanent one day. Since we are not near each other, I use the internet as my sexual outlet. I was wondering how women felt about their boyfriends doing this, particularly their online boyfriends. (I think that if I was with my girlfriend for real, and if she was willing and able to have sex, it would probably be wrong to look at other women on the internet.) I am not cheating with anybody in real life, and I also have stopped paying for shows too. What I do is look at pics or videos that I can find online for free. I am not chatting with anyone when I play and nobody else can see me. It is basically the same as buying a Playboy magazine and masterbating to it. I am just doing it high tech. There are times that I can play with my online girlfirend too via the internet or phone, but I don't enjoy doing this much. It seems to cheapen the relationship a bit if we do it too much. I am a former heavy user of sites so I will admit that I like the variety of seeing different women in pics and videos, but I expect that once I can have sex again for real, I won't really need to see anybody else. But right now, without the possibility of real sex, I feel like I will explode and need a constant release. What are your thoughts? (And yes, she is a host so she gets to see other guys, although she doesn't seem to enjoy it. She seems to honestly just want me.)
Thanks for your input.
RE: A question for the ladies
I know this was directed towards the ladies but when I heard the words relationship and CC in the same sentence I was compelled to answer. Do you own a pair of jumper cables or could you borrow them? If so attach a positve and negative clamp to each nut. It does not make a difference which one. Your nuts are not polarized. Then have a friend rev up his car and attach the other ends to the battery. It would help if he also robbed you of several thousands dollars right before the voltage hits. This way you will get the same experience of a relationship here without all the wasted time, fuss and muss. Ez breezy.
RE: A question for the ladies
Well put well. I can attest to that. Just remember, people thrive on drama sometimes. We say we don't want it, but we continue to seek it.
RE: A question for the ladies
and I thought history dictates that humanity continues to make the same 'ol f**king mistakes? maybe there r exceptions after all ;)
RE: A question for the ladies
hon, just so long as you pay her (could be me for all you know) we/I will be happy and you can do what ever you want so long as we gat a peice of your paycheck
RE: A question for the ladies
she no care bout u. she all want money. if u stop see her, no problem. she go on to another member. simple! hosts are not stupid.
RE: A question for the ladies
why is it Ok for her to finger her self to me and others, but you cant?
and what are you waiting for, if she's worth it, take her away from here, or stop whining please.
Guess what, she'll never leave.
and what are you waiting for, if she's worth it, take her away from here, or stop whining please.
Guess what, she'll never leave.
RE: A question for the ladies
i m married my husband do that too...look on internet on adult sites watching porno bla bla...sure that hurt but i m very carefully to be close to him when he do that so he can t masturbate...and sure i don t make sex with him too then...sure hurt but men r men they will always do...is something u can always asociate men-porno :)))))))))
RE: A question for the ladies
Hello, you sound like my ex fiancée...It was soo nice to trust him, it was soo good feeling to know that he is not paying other girls..I appreciate you, Sir...the girl you have found is a lucky one!
interesting to see
Love , sex, and money three things we all have, need , or desire.
How do you see these, I'll go first
i have money
i desire sex
i need love
How do you see these, I'll go first
i have money
i desire sex
i need love
RE: interesting to see
Without love the other two are meaningless. Wait...maybe not sex. Wait...Money can buy sex. Wait if I have money and sex who needs love?
RE: interesting to see
I have desires, and I need what I want, you figure out the rest, I'm going to bone the girl sleeping in my bed.
RE: interesting to see
I think that love is by far the most important. I am talking about love in a broader since such as the love of life, love of nature, and love of others. Money and sex also are nice to have to help with love.
RE: interesting to see
i don t think money can buy love maybe u can buy your love if u have money but no one will love ya just because u have money (will love ya money and real love u ll never feel)
:))))))))))))
:))))))))))))
People from UK help
I need some genuine answers for my survey.
1-2 questions to answer.
1. Do you use any private health services? (anything outside NHS)
2. If yes, what supermarket do you generally shop food from?
Thank you in advance for your replies.
Hugs,
Milena
1-2 questions to answer.
1. Do you use any private health services? (anything outside NHS)
2. If yes, what supermarket do you generally shop food from?
Thank you in advance for your replies.
Hugs,
Milena
RE: People from UK help
yes, Apu, the amature gyn guy in the falt next to me
I shop at his 7-11 (5% discount)
I shop at his 7-11 (5% discount)
RE: People from UK help
I dont use anyprivate health services............
i shop with tescos :)
i hope it helps x
i shop with tescos :)
i hope it helps x
RE: what did u miss about ur childhood?
Excitement before the New Year's Eve:( Now its still fun but in a different way...
RE: what did u miss about ur childhood?
i miss playing sports with my friends until my mom would call me in for dinner
RE: what did u miss about ur childhood?
I miss drinking cough syrup behind the KMart with all the cool kids.
RE: what did u miss about ur childhood?
thr are things i miss...
1.I miss rolling down grass hills with mah friends
2.I always ask mah mum," whats for dinner."..!
3.I dont have to pay anything!:D
...hugzzz...!!!
1.I miss rolling down grass hills with mah friends
2.I always ask mah mum," whats for dinner."..!
3.I dont have to pay anything!:D
...hugzzz...!!!
RE: what did u miss about ur childhood?
hmmmmm...rolling down the grass, huh? wanna try that with me? ;P
RE: what did u miss about ur childhood?
I want...but maybe just n mah dreams,coz your leaving CC and yah cant be mind:(...hugzzz!!!
RE: what did u miss about ur childhood?
I miss those "special" times when I was an (thirsty) alter boy.
I miss those stories my big brother told me "if you swallow a watermelon seed, a watermelon will grow in your stomach" "if you drop a 9 volt battery it will explode"
I miss going to bullfights on acid
I miss my big titty neighbor that let me feel her up from time to time
I miss those stories my big brother told me "if you swallow a watermelon seed, a watermelon will grow in your stomach" "if you drop a 9 volt battery it will explode"
I miss going to bullfights on acid
I miss my big titty neighbor that let me feel her up from time to time
RE: what did u miss about ur childhood?
I miss my mom telling me: "You've got to stop doing that...it'll make you go blind!" hehehe
Seriously...I miss my mom kissing me goodbye every morning when I went to school....and wawing goodbye to me from the kitchen window. I miss sitting on my dad's lap in the summertime...he smelled so good even when sweating from gardening. I miss my brother always teasing and bugging me....well, he still tries to do that...but then I didn't know how to make him stop. I miss my Dad's old aunt who treated me like a prince....I was only 5 but she would explain to me about history and read Lenin to me....it is a miracle that I didn't grow up to become a communist. I miss sleeping in the bedroom next to my dad and listen to Beethoven together from my tape deck while falling asleep...jeeezzz think i'm getting too mushy now.
Seriously...I miss my mom kissing me goodbye every morning when I went to school....and wawing goodbye to me from the kitchen window. I miss sitting on my dad's lap in the summertime...he smelled so good even when sweating from gardening. I miss my brother always teasing and bugging me....well, he still tries to do that...but then I didn't know how to make him stop. I miss my Dad's old aunt who treated me like a prince....I was only 5 but she would explain to me about history and read Lenin to me....it is a miracle that I didn't grow up to become a communist. I miss sleeping in the bedroom next to my dad and listen to Beethoven together from my tape deck while falling asleep...jeeezzz think i'm getting too mushy now.
RE: what did u miss about ur childhood?
1. I remember lying on a hard floor and my dick sometimes feeling really good, but I didn't understand why.
2. I remember having sex dreams, but again not really understanding why.
3. I remember playing the with my dick and one day this milky white substance coming out.... Then I finally understood all.
2. I remember having sex dreams, but again not really understanding why.
3. I remember playing the with my dick and one day this milky white substance coming out.... Then I finally understood all.
RE: what did u miss about ur childhood?
lol....so basically what you're saying...nothing's changed since then, right? :P Seriously....people here have one thing in common...we all think about sex too much. Sex is cool, nice and all that....but it is not everything.
By the way...I remember discovering my brother's dirty magazines when I was trying to steal candy at about age 12. That is when I lost my innocense. I guess I should be lucky that he was not into farm animals, or my life might have been different. lol
By the way...I remember discovering my brother's dirty magazines when I was trying to steal candy at about age 12. That is when I lost my innocense. I guess I should be lucky that he was not into farm animals, or my life might have been different. lol
RE: what did u miss about ur childhood?
I miss:
1) My family's togetherness
2) Being raised on a farm
3) What my mother taught me (I was reminded of several of these by visiting Charlotte4U's website)
1) My family's togetherness
2) Being raised on a farm
3) What my mother taught me (I was reminded of several of these by visiting Charlotte4U's website)
RE: what did u miss about ur childhood?
i miss the freedom most... no appointments, no responsibility, no career to worry about. long summer vacations , especially in my early teens, when i had nothing to do all day except hang out with my friends and my cousins at the beach, flirting and making out with pretty girls, playing sports, having parties and bonfires at night. just a great time in my life. never fails to make me smile when i remember those days.
RE: what did u miss about ur childhood?
I miss those sunny days when I was just lying in the grass for hours, watching clouds...
Or those unforgettable walkings with my parents for the mushrooms and berries, and this smell of forest..mmmm.
Ahh...the first snow! We children got crazy of it :D
And many many other really wonderful things....
But most of all I miss that special feeling of safeness and placidity when nothing could worrit me....except of when was happen to catch cold and get all this hated procedures....or parents punished me for my bad behavior...lol...can't remember for what exactly, haha..
Or those unforgettable walkings with my parents for the mushrooms and berries, and this smell of forest..mmmm.
Ahh...the first snow! We children got crazy of it :D
And many many other really wonderful things....
But most of all I miss that special feeling of safeness and placidity when nothing could worrit me....except of when was happen to catch cold and get all this hated procedures....or parents punished me for my bad behavior...lol...can't remember for what exactly, haha..
RE: what did u miss about ur childhood?
I miss waking up on a snowy day and hearing on the radio that school was cancelled.
I miss sitting in my favorite Elm tree and just listening to nature.
I miss the innocent anticipation of Christmas.
I miss sitting in my favorite Elm tree and just listening to nature.
I miss the innocent anticipation of Christmas.
Whats This?
hey im a new member here and was enjoying the commchat. but i was chatting with a host when some guy tried to correct my spelling! i admit i dont have great grammer skills, but damn, why be interupted in a public chatroom? after i was corrected, i lost contact with the host. who in the hell is this that owns the chatroom?? Very Rude!
RE: Whats This?
it wasnt me i didnt do it no one saw me u cant prove a thing (it was dave) nudge nudge wink wink :p
RE: Whats This?
Hi new member, I'm afraid you'll have to get used to it. Rudness is rampant in comchat.. There's a handy little tool called the ignore button, I find it VERY handy at times.. :)
Good luck..
Good luck..
RE: Whats This?
upir uipset anbout nothong probably, some members correct spelling mostly in an effort to help the hosts with their english and don't mean anything by it and most of the host appreciate it. so unless he attached an insult to it nothing was meant
RE: Whats This?
ok about the hosts, but im a member from an english speaking country. no harm may be intended, but if im chatting with someone else instead of this guy, i dont need online grammar lessons, nor to be interupted when i do make a mistake. he can correct the hosts all he wants to, just leave me alone, i dont need that kind of bs and i doubt anybody does!!
to everyone else in the post thks for your help!
to everyone else in the post thks for your help!
RE: Whats This?
Did you attach your CV, SAT scores and proof of citizenship? How is anyone to know what country you are from?
RE: Whats This?
ok im from usa, is that really important to you. as to getting over myself, i think the guy who needs to get over himself is the one who is always doing the correcting. from now on im using the ignore button in there. hope yur satisfied? lol
RE: Whats This?
You're the one who though it was important to say you are "a member from an english speaking country." That's why I said what I did. Get a thicker skin or stay out of chatrooms anywhere. They are not for the faint of heart.
RE: Whats This?
well sure i said that cause it's the only language i know. you guys sure do defend this lordship. must be party loyalty or good ole boys network, lol! like i said, im out of there! buy hey, as a newbie, thanks to those who gave me positive and constructive input here, without the negative overtones. I appreciate that, really do! :+))
RE: Whats This?
Don't be so touchy. I know how you feel...I used to feel like that in my 20thies when I first came here. I used to blush when going to the bank because the teller could not understand me...I know how it feels. Now I make my living writing for a big corporation.
If you feel insulted about your english, stop wasting time in comchat. Read a book instead; that's what I did to improve. Or, if you really feel you want to be in comchat, let people correct you...and your grammar will improve. Tell yourself "Yes, my english is not perfect...so fuc&ing what?" I hope you understand I am not mocking you....I just think you need to adjust your attitude a little.
If you feel insulted about your english, stop wasting time in comchat. Read a book instead; that's what I did to improve. Or, if you really feel you want to be in comchat, let people correct you...and your grammar will improve. Tell yourself "Yes, my english is not perfect...so fuc&ing what?" I hope you understand I am not mocking you....I just think you need to adjust your attitude a little.
RE: Whats This?
ok azterix
thks for ur help! you are one of the few who was not negative to me, and i will remember that, and appreciate it!
thks for ur help! you are one of the few who was not negative to me, and i will remember that, and appreciate it!
RE: Whats This?
I read the forums for laughs and for a certain rubber necking car crash type atmosphere. Im here for the live girls in vid, not to make cyber friends. Anyway, you will soon learn that their is a cadre of members whose lives revolve around chatting, posting on the forum and living fantasy lives as cyber studs. My advice have fun, don't take this seriously and when you are done go out with a real woman, or friends.
RE: Whats This?
Just shake it off man. By the way...its I'm not im. You forgot the apostrophe.
RE: Whats This?
Lol...good one...because most members must have plenty of thick skin in that department....calluses too :P
RE: Whats This?
actually i dont have any beef with any body in the comm-chat, except for the one guy who kept correcting me. everyone else was polite and fun to talk to. as someone new, i am learning here thats all. but i';ll sayit again, i just dont think anybody needs to be interupted with a grammar lesson, right in the middle of a chat. ive stayed away from saying this guy's name out right, just out of respect. ok, so ive learned my lesson, im staying out of chatrooms. thanks to every body who gave me positive feedback instead of those crtical and negatve. as a new guy here thats means alot, but i see even a new guy dont get cut any slack.
RE: Whats This?
Listen, I did not read this post of yours before posting my last reply. First, I am not big on comchat but I have enjoyed it sometimes lately...like last weekend when I was feeling sad and needed some added perspective and maybe some emotional support. I know there are a couple of people there who try to pick on others....but they are very few....and usually there will be some other old timers that will keep them in check. As for me, people have attacked me in chat and I had the option of making them so humiliated that THEY would be the ones never to come back to chat or even CC. But I didn't, cause I believe in being compassionate. Some people reading this will think I am a sanctimonious ass for saying that, and that is just fine with me. I live by my beliefs. My message to you is don't let people bully you. The gentle dog always wins in the end. Like I said to you before, you can learn alot about human relations here.
RE: Whats This?
Community chat can be very interesting. I realize that part of time things get out of hand, but I have also found some very friendly and intriquing individuals there. I just ignore those who are disruptive.
RE: Whats This?
you mean the guy who is always talking about his wife. yea he can be a pain when he wants.
Read any good books lately?
Maybe try "Shattered Dreams, Broken Promises: The Cost of Coming to America" by Michael Viner. It is about Russian women that dream of coming to the USA and what happens to them along the way.
Let me know how it is. I haven't read it yet either. But I do know of one horror story where a Russian CC host married a guy living in USA, although he was also Russian.
Let me know how it is. I haven't read it yet either. But I do know of one horror story where a Russian CC host married a guy living in USA, although he was also Russian.
RE: Read any good books lately?
I read the book. The girl meets the guy at a local McDonalds. They both order supersized BigMacs, then get lost under the golden arches. It's very touching.........
RE: Read any good books lately?
ive just read Harold Shipman - Prescription for Murder...Im a True Crime Addict, any suggestions for my next book?
RE: Read any good books lately?
try Finger Lickin Good. It's a wondeful book on the history of Kentucky Fried Chicken, and it's commercial globalization.
RE: Read any good books lately?
Hi. If you like real crime, try reading The Adversary by Emmanuel Carrere. It's a psychological account (but not heavy!) of a notorious French murder case written by one of the countrys leading novelists.
RE: Read any good books lately?
I just finished the World without Us by Wiseman. What would happen to the earth if man suddenly disappeared. Needless to say in a few hundred years there would not be much left to show we were here. In a few thousand years just chunks of plastic and metal. My next book is the Great Deluge about the Katrina disaster in New Orleans. Then something light I think....1491 about the new world before europeans arrived. It was not a savage land at all but pretty sophisticated and advanced in different ways. Then Teenage Motorcycle Sluts....my favorite.
RE: Read any good books lately?
My long time favorite is "When the Elephants Dance" by Tess Uriza Holthe. I actually remember reading ABOUT this book around 2002 when first it came out....the author was a local young Filipina from San Francisco. She was born here I think, but her dad had told her stories about growing up in Manlila during WW2. The book won several awards, but I was not into anything Filipino at the time. I picked the book up when I went on my first visit to the Philippines this spring, and reading it while I was there was a very strong experience for me. It is about the Japanese invasion of the Philippines during 2nd world war...about a family trying to survive the autrocities....very powerful and not for the fainthearted. Very dark, but full of beauty and optimism too. I cannot believe that this was written by a young girl. The book thaught me about the Filipino people and what wonderful, resilient people they are. From a Westener's viewpoint there are many things to criticize about them too, but this book opened my mind and made me understand and respect them.
By the way...to explain the title of the book.....here is a cut from the preface:
"Papa explains the war like this: When the elephants dance, the chickens must be careful. 'The great beasts, as they circle one another, shaking the trees and trumpeting loudly, are the Amerikanos and the Japane as they fight. And our Philippine Islands? We are the small chickens."
For anyone even remotely interested in the Philippines, this is a great read! Jeeezzz.....do I sound like I am trying to sell this book?
By the way...to explain the title of the book.....here is a cut from the preface:
"Papa explains the war like this: When the elephants dance, the chickens must be careful. 'The great beasts, as they circle one another, shaking the trees and trumpeting loudly, are the Amerikanos and the Japane as they fight. And our Philippine Islands? We are the small chickens."
For anyone even remotely interested in the Philippines, this is a great read! Jeeezzz.....do I sound like I am trying to sell this book?
RE: Read any good books lately?
You sounded great even with your tryings to sell this wonderful book! :D :P
RE: Read any good books lately?
well.. i read "without tits there is no paradise" (sin tetas no hay paraiso) - it's hard to beat that title :)
it's the quest of a poor colombian girl to get breasts implants. She wanted to be a drug lord's toy, but couldn't beacuse she had small tits.
oh.. and i read "millions of women want to meet you". Laughed a looot with this book. ;) It's about internet dating.
it's the quest of a poor colombian girl to get breasts implants. She wanted to be a drug lord's toy, but couldn't beacuse she had small tits.
oh.. and i read "millions of women want to meet you". Laughed a looot with this book. ;) It's about internet dating.
movie
did anyone see the movie APOCALYPTO by Mel Gibson-cool movie--if you did see it what did you think about the love scene in it--
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Awesome movie!the acting is incridible!but i just didn't understand the ships at the end?what was that all about chaser...?hugzzz!!!
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I really enjoyed the movie. It showed what the life was like for the different groups during a period of time and their relationship with each other. The arrival of the ships showed that the lifes of both groups was going to change do to the arrival of another different group. This was a very intriquing movie.
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Akina, you are welcome. I think it was a very interesting movie. I have watched it a couple of times. hugs
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akina--was a cool movie--im going to watch it again--glad you found out what the boats at the end meant--hugs
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I think that one's on cable at the monment chaser,
FOXTEL BOX OFFICE.. press the box office button on your remote to order.. lol
FOXTEL BOX OFFICE.. press the box office button on your remote to order.. lol
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gete--to late i already rented the movie from StarWood---cool movie you should watch it
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If seeing people die gives you a stiffy, I think Hostel 2 just came out on DVD not too long ago.
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Great movie. I have been to Mayan ruins in Mexico and Belize. It was cool to see it come alive in the movie.
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Well, that must have been nice to visit in person, well. I loved this movie also...very raw, cruel...just like life must have been for those people back then. Some people want us to believe that everything was just daisy here in the Americas before the Spaniards arrived. The Spaniards were raw brutes, but anyone who knows at least a little history knows that life was not a picknick there before they arrived either. It was a very strong scene when the village is plundered, and the captives have to watch as their women and children are raped or killed.
I think Mel Gibson made a strong message with this film. Unfortunately, the movie did not get the recognition and credit it deserved because he was arrested for DIU just before the its release. He made some stupid, drunken rasist remarks...and I think this made the movie less successful than it could have been.
I think Mel Gibson made a strong message with this film. Unfortunately, the movie did not get the recognition and credit it deserved because he was arrested for DIU just before the its release. He made some stupid, drunken rasist remarks...and I think this made the movie less successful than it could have been.
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personally, i just think old mel really digs making snuff films.
did you see what he did to jesus?...holy cow!
did you see what he did to jesus?...holy cow!
RE: Do U rate Guys?
i usually only visit my friends on here, and i always vote most stars for them, and would never go into someone chat to just low rate them, and the hosts i have for friends would never ask me too.
RE: Do U rate Guys?
I am sorry that some guys are like that to come for a very short time and then rate you low. it is not right, but it is done. I usually visit with people I know, but I will visit some new hosts. I have developed in my mind to never give a host a bad rating if I do not like them. I will either give a good rating or I will refuse to rate them, because the rating is just my opinion and I do not want that to hurt anybody. So from me a host will get a good rating or no rating.
RE: To see each other in real would be cool :D
About five years ago someone arranged a cc party in Brasov.
RE: To see each other in real would be cool :D
LOL Wanda, don't you think we all aren't perfect?
Well I just didn't know that it was in real five years ago. I guess it was great :D
Well I just didn't know that it was in real five years ago. I guess it was great :D
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I wud join and party all night long)) And yes ofc i wud say my screenname)))Wud love to hang out with some ppl from cc)) Wud be fun im sure)
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thats a cool ideea i would loveit...and yes if we plan this now for 2009 i think can be posible why not?we can decide togeder where to be this party...like a vote or something..
kisss u alll
kisss u alll
meeting cc staff in reality
That party five years ago was in Brasov. I know quite a few hosts were there, as Brasov had some more studios in those days and Brasov is a popular tourism destination. I think a couple members were there, too.
Back then the main countries for hosts were Latvia, Romania and Russia. Now, of course, the Philippines has replaced Latvia and there is a sizable minority from South America. (Surely not to forget a few from Britain and the US.)
Meeting cc staff these days would be less exciting. Five years ago they posted frequently in the forums, answering questions and chit-chatting, and we got to know their personalities. Now you only see their names when they sign the messages answering complaints of failed video and documented stalling.
Back then the main countries for hosts were Latvia, Romania and Russia. Now, of course, the Philippines has replaced Latvia and there is a sizable minority from South America. (Surely not to forget a few from Britain and the US.)
Meeting cc staff these days would be less exciting. Five years ago they posted frequently in the forums, answering questions and chit-chatting, and we got to know their personalities. Now you only see their names when they sign the messages answering complaints of failed video and documented stalling.
RE: To see each other in real would be cool :D
Yeah...and there will be the rooms named after each CC category, so everyone could feel free to make dreams come true...woo hoooo!!!!!!
Ok ok...I am joking :D
What?... I can't believe! No one guy has replied yet? Hmmmmmm....
Ok ok...I am joking :D
What?... I can't believe! No one guy has replied yet? Hmmmmmm....
RE: To see each other in real would be cool :D
hahahaha...
Well, of course when I was trying to imagine such a cool party, I was far of thinking about sex and free shows at all...lol...but we are all adults and everyone is free to continue their relationships in their hotels or somewhere else...why not :)
Well, of course when I was trying to imagine such a cool party, I was far of thinking about sex and free shows at all...lol...but we are all adults and everyone is free to continue their relationships in their hotels or somewhere else...why not :)
RE: To see each other in real would be cool :D
Ye....Drunk striptease dances on the bar tables lol)))))) Yahoooooooooooooooooooo=))
RE: To see each other in real would be cool :D
Actually it can be a great idea, but then is kinda depends on who you are going to invite :) In my experience online meets are all about people sharing a common connection. It is best not to have cliques and best not to have factions. However from what I know of CC there may well be plenty of scope for just such a meet. Contrary to popular perception CC's draw is not just for the sex and the money, and there are many who are part of CC who don't regard either as important as meeting new people, sharing new ideas, talents or experiences.
So yes, I'd be happy to attend, if I was invited, Laughing Girl. It would be nice I think to meet up with CC staff too and finally buy them a beer or two for their help and innovation over the last years.
Question is though would you invite me? And who else would you want on a list of people to meet? :)
TNTIGSTP
So yes, I'd be happy to attend, if I was invited, Laughing Girl. It would be nice I think to meet up with CC staff too and finally buy them a beer or two for their help and innovation over the last years.
Question is though would you invite me? And who else would you want on a list of people to meet? :)
TNTIGSTP
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I agree TNT, I am sure there are plenty of members and hosts here on CC who have very warm attitude to each other and would be glad to meet their friends.
As for me...yes, I would invite you TNT and you will be the first in my list because I love poetry too much and you will read me poems the whole night :P
It would be interesting to meet some hosts as well and just a nice people who are the part of CC :)
But *imshy* said they have tried and their tryings were unsuccessful, so I don't know if it possible at all that people would or could join such a party.
As for me...yes, I would invite you TNT and you will be the first in my list because I love poetry too much and you will read me poems the whole night :P
It would be interesting to meet some hosts as well and just a nice people who are the part of CC :)
But *imshy* said they have tried and their tryings were unsuccessful, so I don't know if it possible at all that people would or could join such a party.
RE: To see each other in real would be cool :D
Well the trouble with the organisational aspects of it is that you need a core of people who can help organise and plan such an event. That basically means people who tend to live close to each other, say the same city, and are not afraid of planning for large groups.
When I was back at college I took part in the Entertainment aspect of the Students Union. It was tricky at first to engage people interests in an event but if it is well enough organised people are more inclined to turn up. It depends on how diverse you want the thing to be.
The safest way to make sure things don't get too out of hand is to organise among the hosts who will attend who they would invite and who they would rather not see. Obviously a dialogue between enough hosts will weed out any unsuitable personalities who are not in keeping with the spirit of CC and who would not make such an event such a cool thing to happen.
But thank you for asking me though Laughing Girl. I know I would accept if for nothing else than to hear your scary accent while looking into your laughing eyes ;)
Time to set a mailing list anyone?
TNTTOCBSW
When I was back at college I took part in the Entertainment aspect of the Students Union. It was tricky at first to engage people interests in an event but if it is well enough organised people are more inclined to turn up. It depends on how diverse you want the thing to be.
The safest way to make sure things don't get too out of hand is to organise among the hosts who will attend who they would invite and who they would rather not see. Obviously a dialogue between enough hosts will weed out any unsuitable personalities who are not in keeping with the spirit of CC and who would not make such an event such a cool thing to happen.
But thank you for asking me though Laughing Girl. I know I would accept if for nothing else than to hear your scary accent while looking into your laughing eyes ;)
Time to set a mailing list anyone?
TNTTOCBSW
RE: To see each other in real would be cool :D
BTW, a party for two is also not so bad idea...Easier to organize :)
My accent?..lol...hey, who will read poems, you or me? :P:D
(K)
My accent?..lol...hey, who will read poems, you or me? :P:D
(K)
RE: To see each other in real would be cool :D
there was a party planned a few times and when it came to the crunch everyone turned out to b all talk ad no action...myself and DarrenO keep tryin 2 organise trips and parties but no one seems to wanna actually go through with it,,,shame
dear "imshy"
Previous attempts to plan a party failed because everyone tried to reach a consensus. Reaching a consensus among so many people from so many countries is doomed to failure.
As "Tha Naked Truth" has pointed out: "It [is] tricky at first to engage people interests in an event but if it is well enough organised people are more inclined to turn up"
IM (not so) HO, the party would have three locations. One each for Romania, Russia and the Philippines. With a local tourism agent a core of hosts should plan a basic weekend package with tourism and a Saturday dinner/disco reception.
It should be planned carefully to accomodate minimal or maximum participation. Whoever shows up, shows up. If only 10 members come or 50 a properly designed event will be flexible enough to expand/contract accordingly.
If planned a year out it would give everyone ample time to arrange time off work and budgeting for the expense. It would also give everyone a year to clean up their image and reputation if they think it is necessary.
As "Tha Naked Truth" has pointed out: "It [is] tricky at first to engage people interests in an event but if it is well enough organised people are more inclined to turn up"
IM (not so) HO, the party would have three locations. One each for Romania, Russia and the Philippines. With a local tourism agent a core of hosts should plan a basic weekend package with tourism and a Saturday dinner/disco reception.
It should be planned carefully to accomodate minimal or maximum participation. Whoever shows up, shows up. If only 10 members come or 50 a properly designed event will be flexible enough to expand/contract accordingly.
If planned a year out it would give everyone ample time to arrange time off work and budgeting for the expense. It would also give everyone a year to clean up their image and reputation if they think it is necessary.
"Whoever shows up, shows up..."
What I meant was not an open-ended, show-up-whenever. I meant an organized RSVP with deadlines and deposits required. That's why you need an accredited tourism agency to co-ordinate it so that everybody's butt is covered.
RE: To see each other in real would be cool :D
who wants to go to a party with a bunch of 'ol farts being pushed 'round by young chicks?
RE: To see each other in real would be cool :D
Can't agree. From my own experience there are plenty of 20-40 guys who visit this site on the regular base.
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Yup agree. And if the guy is fun and smart-who cares about the age? Its just a party after all, not sex or marriage...
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Yeah I see myself explane to my wife what kind of party I am going to:) What to say to her if she wants to come?:) Maybe, Ehhmmmm its a star trek party or KKK party. Im sure she would not be interested then:)
something to remember
Many, many of the members and hosts have personalities quite different from their online personas. So don't expect that any event will turn into a public orgy.
RE: something to remember
Well said. I think both the girls and guys would behave much differently. Ask a girl to strip one to one at the party and you will wind up with your teeth in your hand. On the other hand I am sure the hosts will manage to pick our pockets clean. Life is wonderful.
RE: To see each other in real would be cool :D
Did i say anyth about a public orgy?
RE: To see each other in real would be cool :D
speak for urself..i aint old and know plenty of young guys here..and so what if there r old guys around..i met a few "oldies" in real and they r all fun (compared to me tho everyone is fun) :p
RE: To see each other in real would be cool :D
Well, I see not just a few persons would like to see each other :) Some are ready and the main problem is to organize it properly. I like the idea that hosts from the most popular countries could invite their favourite members to join the party in their own countries. Also well-known that to get a visa is easier to people from Western countries to visit Russia for a example, or Romania, or Philipines. Each one member has his own favourite hosts for sure, that\'s why he could join the party in those countries where his friends are from.
I am not saying I could organize such a serious project, I was just asking "what if"...but if there will be just some of us who could take part, anyway it should be a great event. Many of people enjoy tourism, so why not to do it along with the possibility to see each other?
Well, I have no idea who has such an energy and time of course to make it true. And who is really thinking it is possible. And how much it could cost...So, if there is someone who knows how to make it work, you are welcome to share your thoughts :)
And also one thing...if it would happened, it shouldn't be an orgy seems to me, but just a meeting of people who enjoy CC and their friends whom they have found here :)
I understand that for now it is just a fantasy or a crazy idea at all, but is it so impossible if some people really want it to be?
I am not saying I could organize such a serious project, I was just asking "what if"...but if there will be just some of us who could take part, anyway it should be a great event. Many of people enjoy tourism, so why not to do it along with the possibility to see each other?
Well, I have no idea who has such an energy and time of course to make it true. And who is really thinking it is possible. And how much it could cost...So, if there is someone who knows how to make it work, you are welcome to share your thoughts :)
And also one thing...if it would happened, it shouldn't be an orgy seems to me, but just a meeting of people who enjoy CC and their friends whom they have found here :)
I understand that for now it is just a fantasy or a crazy idea at all, but is it so impossible if some people really want it to be?
dear "Laughing girl"
Don't think of it as meeting one on one particular hosts or members. If that's what people want, it can be done individually (and often is). Think of it as just a general party and tourism opportunity.
dear "perfessor"
Thank you for your such a valuable practical advices. And for sure they could be used, but in case if people will really turn on about that idea.
Well, maybe some day...
Anyway, thank you :)
Well, maybe some day...
Anyway, thank you :)
I never thought they existed
I thought all women had morals and were gentle. But geeeez some of you have claws and are true gold diggers.
Amazing to see and omg so mach fun too!!!!!!!!!!
Amazing to see and omg so mach fun too!!!!!!!!!!
RE: I never thought they existed
not all that looks beautiful, golden and green is so. some hosts AND members here put up a beautiful front but in real life they are just a troll under the bridge with their hand in their pocket!
Sad news
have you heard about awful storm in black sea in russia?
4 ships are already sunk and many are in danger. in one of those sunk ships my father worked (((fortunatly the crew had been evacuated. Thanks God.
4 ships are already sunk and many are in danger. in one of those sunk ships my father worked (((fortunatly the crew had been evacuated. Thanks God.
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Yes Elina, as with all loss of innocent lives, it is very sad but I am very glad your dad is safe.
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happy that ur dad is ok but what about nature. one ship brook and spilled 1500 ton oil in sea
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people are sentimental. It's like people/animals die everyday in natural and man made tragedies, but people dont have 2minute silence for them
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how could you be so cinic??????? what if it could happen with your dearests????? i worried the whole day for my dad and happy that he survived!
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Ignore the rube, Elina, I am quite sure they are just trying to shit-stir and provoke a reaction. Always find some Anonymous Coward who thinks it's funny to be crass at others pain.
NORMAL people have compassion and that's all you need to know.
Sub-normal people are not worth wasting your breath on.
TNTRTKSBSBIO
NORMAL people have compassion and that's all you need to know.
Sub-normal people are not worth wasting your breath on.
TNTRTKSBSBIO
RE: Sad news
how was he being crass? he seemed only sadly bemused that people, generally, don't care more.
RE: Sad news
Actually he rather implied no one should care. We don't have 2 mins silence for animals why should we have for people? It may not have been explicit but out of all the comments he/she might have posted that was not a particularly comforting one to Elina, nor would it be to anyone who can imagine themselves in her situation.
Don't make this a long discourse off-topic. If you want any follow ups please address them to me via ccMail and not sully this rather sombre thread. People have died. There is no comedy in that.
TNTBRRS
Don't make this a long discourse off-topic. If you want any follow ups please address them to me via ccMail and not sully this rather sombre thread. People have died. There is no comedy in that.
TNTBRRS
RE: Sad news
I certainly did not imply that and tbh you can get down of your high horse too. I object to twisting my words so you can sound righteous. I am not being a cynic either. It's an observation on how society grieves and how memorials are born out of sentimental reasons.
Your perception of me is wrong and by no way was it a personal attack xelina18x either
Your perception of me is wrong and by no way was it a personal attack xelina18x either
RE: Sad news
Then I suggest you re-read what you wrote and think about why it can be misinterpreted and next time you want to comment seriously on something you think about how to phrase it BEFORE you press post message.
End of sidebar. There are no points to be won on this subject.. Let it lie.
TNT
End of sidebar. There are no points to be won on this subject.. Let it lie.
TNT
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u seem to provoke trouble and you appear to enjoy and you certainly cannot live by your own words
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u can loop back to my previous answer, righteous, twisted they describe you there.
goodbye
goodbye
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why it can be misinterpreted is because the reader wants to misinterpret it.we all see things through our eyes but our mind reads what it wants into it.so if you are forever scouring forums looking to jump on a perceived injustice,then you will find it.maybe instead of telling well to go back & read it,you should look inside of yourself as to the reasons for you taking such a definitive view of the post.
DGAFFAYI.
DGAFFAYI.
RE: Sad news
depends on the readers opinion and the censorship rules here (by which i am sure he is involved in).
RE: Sad news
some years ago on 9-11 i spent all day worried about my brother who was living in NYC at the time. the phones were all dead in his area and it took over a day to find out that he was ok.
Do not let the foolish ones get to you! Thank God that your father is alive and well, as well as his crew!
May God have mercy on the souls that have been lost!
Do not let the foolish ones get to you! Thank God that your father is alive and well, as well as his crew!
May God have mercy on the souls that have been lost!
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Oh no.. I did not hear about it.. been away for the weekend and am just catching up now. People often forget why the sea has always been a very cruel mistress, even with all our technology we are still at the whims of the natural world.
My thoughts are with them all.
TNT
My thoughts are with them all.
TNT
RE: Sad news
I had not heard of the huge storm. Xelina, I am glad that your dad is okay and I still pray for the families of the others who have lost their lives in this storm. Also the suffering of nature as a result of the oil spill is a major concern also.
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In my opinion, not a horrible thing to say, he just said it horribly. If you read his post two more times, you probably see what I mean. Lots of people here don't have english as their first language....in fact I'm one of them....My point is that what I think he was trying to express is not as bad as you seem to think it is...So member.....try to give it another shot....that is how you improve!
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This comment of streetsense is very typical. He has always come across in a critical manner to other posters. It's his style, but always has negative connotations. Just read his past comments in the archives, they are full of negativity, and harshness.
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i'm sorry, the line about your father WAS PAID TO BE THERE is not nice in any translation of the language you care to choose and realist, what are you talking about
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Well then, if you're right, why are you saying that you are sorry?
It's you tone man, your tone. You sound like the resident expert in here on just about everything. But you're certainly not the first, and certainly won't be the last! Resident experts are about a dime a dozen.
And she said she was sorry to hear about xelina's father, but glad he was ok, however that was his job. So what's wrong with that?
It's you tone man, your tone. You sound like the resident expert in here on just about everything. But you're certainly not the first, and certainly won't be the last! Resident experts are about a dime a dozen.
And she said she was sorry to hear about xelina's father, but glad he was ok, however that was his job. So what's wrong with that?
RE: Sad news
it was just kind of off, probably the but that preceeded it
and i have rarely put myself forward as an expert on anything but just insert a funny line now and then, but you see, to be an expert on my behavior so i'll leave you to it to keep track. not that you would ever be critical of anyone or put yourself over as an expert on just about anything
and i have rarely put myself forward as an expert on anything but just insert a funny line now and then, but you see, to be an expert on my behavior so i'll leave you to it to keep track. not that you would ever be critical of anyone or put yourself over as an expert on just about anything
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Wow, "double barreled" I'm impressed. Then forget about what I said, go back and read what Azterix said, he put it best, so give the member a break why don't ya?
As I said, your past posts speak for themselves.
As I said, your past posts speak for themselves.
RE: Sad news
as do your past posts
now the poster can be forgiven due to the fact that english is obviously not their first lamnguage, but let me give you another exampke as to why there is something "off" about the comment
supposing your father woerked at the world trade center, similar to a natural disaster,. Now whether your father was an office worker attending his job, or a policeman , firefighter whatever and whether he was injured at the the site or not. the comment "but he was paid to be there" comes off sort of as, well if he had worked someplace else it wouldn't have happened him wouldn't bother you. what difference does it make whether your paid to be there or not. it doesn't, they were just there whether paid to be or just a good citizen or immigrant trying to help
being paid to be there is irrelevant amd the implication that gee that's a shame but they were paid to be there is "off" in the context. so if you're going to criticize me with the lame , your past posts line and yet you can't see the difference here, please don't bother me. you are after all standing in a glass house having seen so many of your posts criticizing people
now the poster can be forgiven due to the fact that english is obviously not their first lamnguage, but let me give you another exampke as to why there is something "off" about the comment
supposing your father woerked at the world trade center, similar to a natural disaster,. Now whether your father was an office worker attending his job, or a policeman , firefighter whatever and whether he was injured at the the site or not. the comment "but he was paid to be there" comes off sort of as, well if he had worked someplace else it wouldn't have happened him wouldn't bother you. what difference does it make whether your paid to be there or not. it doesn't, they were just there whether paid to be or just a good citizen or immigrant trying to help
being paid to be there is irrelevant amd the implication that gee that's a shame but they were paid to be there is "off" in the context. so if you're going to criticize me with the lame , your past posts line and yet you can't see the difference here, please don't bother me. you are after all standing in a glass house having seen so many of your posts criticizing people
RE: Sad news
My past posts.....LOL!!.......I have very few, hardly any.
And I don't believe in 'supposition'.......or hypothetical examples of an 'unqualified kind'..........Don't bother you uh? Do you want some cheese with that whine??
And I don't believe in 'supposition'.......or hypothetical examples of an 'unqualified kind'..........Don't bother you uh? Do you want some cheese with that whine??
RE: Sad news
Yes, the job of a merchant marine is dangerous at times and generally a very difficult one. It's lucky that most of these guys were safely rescued.
Sadly, the biggest part of the story vis-a-vis the journalists will always be the oilspill because we accept that the job is dangerous, but we expect that the captain will take care of the ship and avoid the spill.
Sadly, the biggest part of the story vis-a-vis the journalists will always be the oilspill because we accept that the job is dangerous, but we expect that the captain will take care of the ship and avoid the spill.
RE: Sad news
You may not be aware of what she is talking about because she framed it in personal terms. Here is the (more or less) objective report:
http://news.yahoo.com/s/afp/20071111/sc_afp/russiaaccidentseaoil_071111194054
However, it will be overshadowed in the US by the news from San Francisco:
http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20071112/ap_on_re_us/bay_spill;_ylt=AkDVK6elFXwhKgyD9cq91hKs0NUE
http://news.yahoo.com/s/afp/20071111/sc_afp/russiaaccidentseaoil_071111194054
However, it will be overshadowed in the US by the news from San Francisco:
http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20071112/ap_on_re_us/bay_spill;_ylt=AkDVK6elFXwhKgyD9cq91hKs0NUE
RE: im sad
I didn't forget about you, because I don't even know you. :P
But I know what you're really saying... it's slow. Good luck getting some memebers to visit you. ;)
But I know what you're really saying... it's slow. Good luck getting some memebers to visit you. ;)
RE: Profile.
Good advice Belochka!
Chathosts that do a good job on their profile,
I enjoy reading them! :D
There are a few guys like me that
like to meet an interesting woman ;)
Chathosts that do a good job on their profile,
I enjoy reading them! :D
There are a few guys like me that
like to meet an interesting woman ;)
RE: Profile.
Wanda, I think that you have an outstanding profile and I'm in agreement with topazsky about your excellent web site. Keep it up.
RE: have a beautiful sunday !!
For many of us in the USA it is a long weekend. I have tomorrow (Monday) off as well.
RE: have a beautiful sunday !!
Thank you. I have had a good Sunday so far. I also wish you a good weekend.
RE: have a beautiful sunday !!
Hey....have a beautiful Monday, too....and Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday and Friday. What the heck....have a beautiful Saturday too, sunshine...just knock yourself out. My weekend sucked, by the way...but reading about those ships sinking in Russia I realize that I should thank God for not having any real problems.
not so shy and instant action its the same thing????
Its crazy...no offense...but when u get a guy in saying..." get naked"...and u have to do that because otherwise means u stall...jeeez....its practicaly the same as in instant action category....so why even bother to stay in not so shy category?:((
Need Help Please (xelina?)
My gf dumped me today. I was having a relapse to cc and she caught me using another screen name visiting another host.
Tried the argument that she stills work her so why should she care...but of course that would not appease a woman scorned.
My gf has now decided that I'm a pathetic, dirty pervert. This in itself does not bother me much, because i recognize it as being essentially true. What bothers me is that she threatened to change her email, phone number and ban me from ever visiting the Philippines again (not sure if she can do that last thing, but that is what she said). :P
So now I am sad and lonely. I don't normaly spend much time in Comchat, but I went there to cry my heart out on my sleeve. It helped, actually. One guy there suggested that I try emailing my gf a poem, he said women love that stuff. So I was trying to get in touch with my romantic side...but I cannot even find a word that rhymes with pussy! :P As all of you know...I excel at writing long, boring posts..I've never done poetry. I've done a few limericks, but I don't think that is what this occasion calls for.
So member and hosts....I know this is not very honest....but I would like for someone help me write a beautiful poem. Xelina, you almways write such beautiul senseless stuff. You, or someone else...can you help me out? I really need to get her back....my life is very dull without her. That last part is no joke.
Tried the argument that she stills work her so why should she care...but of course that would not appease a woman scorned.
My gf has now decided that I'm a pathetic, dirty pervert. This in itself does not bother me much, because i recognize it as being essentially true. What bothers me is that she threatened to change her email, phone number and ban me from ever visiting the Philippines again (not sure if she can do that last thing, but that is what she said). :P
So now I am sad and lonely. I don't normaly spend much time in Comchat, but I went there to cry my heart out on my sleeve. It helped, actually. One guy there suggested that I try emailing my gf a poem, he said women love that stuff. So I was trying to get in touch with my romantic side...but I cannot even find a word that rhymes with pussy! :P As all of you know...I excel at writing long, boring posts..I've never done poetry. I've done a few limericks, but I don't think that is what this occasion calls for.
So member and hosts....I know this is not very honest....but I would like for someone help me write a beautiful poem. Xelina, you almways write such beautiul senseless stuff. You, or someone else...can you help me out? I really need to get her back....my life is very dull without her. That last part is no joke.
RE: Need Help Please (xelina?)
3 questions come to mind
did you use a name she would recognize? and was it another filipina?
and if the answer to the first is yes what were you thinking?
if so, you probably wanted to get caught
did you use a name she would recognize? and was it another filipina?
and if the answer to the first is yes what were you thinking?
if so, you probably wanted to get caught
RE: Need Help Please (xelina?)
The answers to your questions are no, yes and I wasn't. I'd like to be perfect, but I'm not.
RE: Need Help Please (xelina?)
Azterix is this for real ???????
Surely if your gf works here there is a chance she will read this and kick your ass even more.
On the poem front I am no good at that sort of stuff either but the girl's name Lucy rhymes with pussy. So if Lucy was the name of the girl you went to visit on cc that could be your starter for 10 :P
On a serious note I hope you get it all sorted out and everything works out fine.
Just in case your gf does read this thread :-
To Azterix's gf :- Remember a pathetic, dirty pervert is for life not just for christmas :) and read the predictions for 2007/2008 thread to see how he really feels about you :)
Surely if your gf works here there is a chance she will read this and kick your ass even more.
On the poem front I am no good at that sort of stuff either but the girl's name Lucy rhymes with pussy. So if Lucy was the name of the girl you went to visit on cc that could be your starter for 10 :P
On a serious note I hope you get it all sorted out and everything works out fine.
Just in case your gf does read this thread :-
To Azterix's gf :- Remember a pathetic, dirty pervert is for life not just for christmas :) and read the predictions for 2007/2008 thread to see how he really feels about you :)
RE: Need Help Please (xelina?)
Thank you my not friend. With the Lucy reference, you got me thinking that perhaps a limerick would be the way to go after all. I started it:
There once was a chathost named Lucy
Who offered to Azterix her pussy.
Now if you can only help me find a rhyme for "ass" I think I should be on good way to get out of the dog house! lol....
Your friend Azterix.
There once was a chathost named Lucy
Who offered to Azterix her pussy.
Now if you can only help me find a rhyme for "ass" I think I should be on good way to get out of the dog house! lol....
Your friend Azterix.
RE: Need Help Please (xelina?)
he said now give me your ass
she said sorry I'll pass
hey who cares that pussy looks juicy
she said sorry I'll pass
hey who cares that pussy looks juicy
RE: Need Help Please (xelina?)
Excellent, IMNYF...if that doesn't soften her heart, then I'm not sure what ....! :)
RE: Need Help Please (xelina?)
Pussies? Asses? jeeeeeeeeeeez How could you ask me such a thing to do?i have already told that there is no place for such things in my posts or poems. Do you really think that it could melt her heart? telling about pussy and ass? Feeling is something that lives in heart!!! Do you appreciate her personality? seems no
RE: Need Help Please (xelina?)
Elina, elina...you have to read my post and understand that I was joking about some things. Sometimes if people feel down they make jokes to make themselves feel better. The dirty word suggestion was just for laughs...but I can understand someone like you could be confused because one momen I'm joking and then switch to being serious. Of course I would not ask you to do that. And of course I know that feelings are in the heart, but I am just trying to make time go by faster because she does not even want to talk to me anymore. That was what the joking was all about. I will not joke about it anymore. And, yes, I appreciate her personality as well as those other things. ;) Happy Sunday or whatever it is where you are!
RE: Need Help Please (xelina?)
I saw that Elena. I am glad your dad is ok. This reminds me of the russian submarine that went down off the Northern Norwegian coast a few years back. They were there for hours and hours. Norwegian Rescue Diver Rescue Teams begged to be allowed to help...but due to military red tape pushback by the Russian gvment....by the time they finally entered the soldiers were all dead. Most of them were in their early twenties. Sometimes looking at the bigger picture makes us realize that our own petty little problems are not that important. :)
RE: Need Help Please (xelina?)
Hmmm been away for the weekend, what a curious thread. I dunno abou t you Elina, but I think poems ought to be written from the heat. If a poet chooses to share their heart and it matches someone else's feelings all well and good. But to write a poem to order, well you might as well be writing a TV advert jingle.
If you want my advice Azterix you better off saying what you feel in the best way you can, because even clumsy words said with feelings would be better than a finely crafted apology she knows never came from you. But don't expect it to automatically grant you a pardon, you know you have done wrong, you need to learn to face the consequences.
TNTABPTM
If you want my advice Azterix you better off saying what you feel in the best way you can, because even clumsy words said with feelings would be better than a finely crafted apology she knows never came from you. But don't expect it to automatically grant you a pardon, you know you have done wrong, you need to learn to face the consequences.
TNTABPTM
RE: Need Help Please (xelina?)
Well TNT i write only when i have something in soul to tell not when i am asked
RE: Need Help Please (xelina?)
It wasn't my actual intention to have someone else write a poem for her. She or her friends might of course be reading this, so that would be pretty foolish of me. I was in a strange state of mind when I started posting this thread yesterday....went from angry self justification, to "forget her" to self indulgent sentimentalism, then to trying to make jokes about it. Yes, any further communications from me to her will come straight from my heart. Thanks for you kindness, though! She is a sensible girl, just a little emotional sometimes...I am sure that everything will turn out well in the end.
RE: Need Help Please (xelina?)
Lucy rhymes with pussy? Well it does if you speak with a Scottish accent like James Bond in Goldfinger - "Poosy Galore"
RE: Need Help Please (xelina?)
Do you think it is fair that she get mad at you for visiting another host while she still works here and strips for another members? If yes, then that answers the question who is the man in this relationship:) I think you need to find and fair girl that respects you and who see you and her as equal people.
RE: Need Help Please (xelina?)
You might be right that I'm not the man in the relationship, but please don't bring up the concept of fairness. We are still talking about women, right? What does fair have to do with anything? I am joking, of course, because lately I've gotten a lot closer to your kind of thinking. However, someone could also argue that if you really love someone, and she gets on here to support herself and I do it for pleasure...then maybe I am the one not being fair. Also, it is even quite possible that she does not want me to waste my money on videos. I'm hoping this won't be the topic of the thread, but I do appreciate you offering your viewpoint.
RE: Need Help Please (xelina?)
I got emotionally close to a CC host and realised I blew it when she was mega p!ssed off when i sent fotos of me with other hosts here.
I guess there are some girls who actually like us and not for our money!
I guess there are some girls who actually like us and not for our money!
RE: Need Help Please (xelina?)
Thank you charming; you seem to understand the Filipina's mind well. I agree with you about making an effort to be honest and true...and I have been doing that. The problem is sometimes we forget to think before we act. Yes, I know also that there are alot of other fish in the pond over there, but this one has my heart. I am not perfect, but I hope that in the bottom of her heart she knows that I am a good man. So, I'm kicking myself, but all I can really do now is to hope that she'll realize how much she means to me and that she'll forgive me.
RE: Need Help Please (xelina?)
You write english very well, so don't apologize. Also you warm my heart because you don't know her or me, but still you care enough to post that. That is why I fell in love with a Filipina in the first place; you are the most beautiful women on this earth. And, you are perhaps the only person in this thread who can understand what is really going on... Lol....and I think it is so cute when you ask me to go and buy some DVD porn...that could only come from a Filipina...hehehe
RE: Need Help Please (xelina?)
Lol....I knew that had to be coming. I like lubot only, not balute. And, just for the record I was not hitting on her....I just thought she is very sweet...don't even know who she is.
RE: Need Help Please (xelina?)
What should I say? I 'm very sorry for you. I understand you and I think we, males, risk all to make or make the same mistake. It touches the reason CC exists like it, namely far mostly female hosts and male "viewers". Especially for us, used at CC for a nice chat and some sexual relaxation, it is too easy with a loved one far away and unreachable at a given moment to fill an empty and lonely moment with a nice chat and some "perversion" at CC. Let it be a lesson for us all. I really hope all be become allright between you and your gf. It must be a hard time for you now.
RE: Need Help Please (xelina?)
Thank you Zaki, that was all very nice of you to say...and your post was a nice balancer to the one made by Dr. Evil, uh...I mean by "laughing."
RE: Need Help Please (xelina?)
Some people are so quick to judge about some one else. You are a saint, laughing, and your life must be perfect.
RE: Need Help Please (xelina?)
A stripper wrote about what she was looking for in a man.
She was not against her man being in a strip club but not
in the front row! Its important to a woman that her man shows
self control.
Azterix, you and your girlfriend know what understanding you have
between yourselfs. Also what went on between the other chathost.
Perhaps she owes you an apology?
When women get angry, when they are jealous, its wise
to just shut up!
Don't beat yourself up! What is done is done. Life is too
short to dwell on mistakes. Learn from it, move on and next time
do the right thing!
When I grew up no one would apologize or take responsibility for
what they did. So I would take the blame to make peace and so
everyone could get along. That is very unhealthy for everyone!
It can be such an easy trap to put ourselves down to try and
make the other person feel better. It never works!
Be strong my friend!
She was not against her man being in a strip club but not
in the front row! Its important to a woman that her man shows
self control.
Azterix, you and your girlfriend know what understanding you have
between yourselfs. Also what went on between the other chathost.
Perhaps she owes you an apology?
When women get angry, when they are jealous, its wise
to just shut up!
Don't beat yourself up! What is done is done. Life is too
short to dwell on mistakes. Learn from it, move on and next time
do the right thing!
When I grew up no one would apologize or take responsibility for
what they did. So I would take the blame to make peace and so
everyone could get along. That is very unhealthy for everyone!
It can be such an easy trap to put ourselves down to try and
make the other person feel better. It never works!
Be strong my friend!
RE: Need Help Please (xelina?)
Topaz, thank you for telling me all that. Especially I needed to hear the thing about not dwelling too much on my mistake...it is not that I feel so horrible about what I did, but rather that she's been so good to me and I don't want to make her suffer. And yes, keeping my mouth shut is probably a good thing, so I am now thinking that this thread was not such a great idea. Good advice, ty...
RE: Need Help Please (xelina?)
Oh, I don't know Azterix.
I think we all learned something
alot from this thread.
Many good advices!
When I said about us men keeping our mouths shut.
So often, we say something without thinking it through and
if she is angry it only makes things worse.
Maybe a good rule of thumb is to wait untill she is not
angry. Then a guy has had time to think about things
and what he should say.
I think we all learned something
alot from this thread.
Many good advices!
When I said about us men keeping our mouths shut.
So often, we say something without thinking it through and
if she is angry it only makes things worse.
Maybe a good rule of thumb is to wait untill she is not
angry. Then a guy has had time to think about things
and what he should say.
RE: Need Help Please (xelina?)
I am sorry to hear about your troubles Azterix...
But what I want to say. It is really your men's problem that you still wanting "all women" around to see, to touch, to have in your bed in spite of having at the same time the only one woman that SEEMS you love. Well, I absolutely sure that when a man is in REAL love he stops looking for others because of many reasons.
So, when you will lose all of your interest to other females you could truly say " I really love her and no one could compare with her, I found what I wanted and no need to try others anymore. She is the one who uncludes all the women that I've ever seen or could see". That is true love in my opinion.
However, the same could be applied to many of women who "ramble" with their men, being not sure if they love someone really.
Anyway, seems you are very capable to make right conclusions. We all can make mistakes, but finally all depends on if we are able to admit our own fault and consequences without trying to make excuses.
All good things are very easy to lose but very hard to find. Now you know that.
Well, I hope all will end up happily for both of you :)
But what I want to say. It is really your men's problem that you still wanting "all women" around to see, to touch, to have in your bed in spite of having at the same time the only one woman that SEEMS you love. Well, I absolutely sure that when a man is in REAL love he stops looking for others because of many reasons.
So, when you will lose all of your interest to other females you could truly say " I really love her and no one could compare with her, I found what I wanted and no need to try others anymore. She is the one who uncludes all the women that I've ever seen or could see". That is true love in my opinion.
However, the same could be applied to many of women who "ramble" with their men, being not sure if they love someone really.
Anyway, seems you are very capable to make right conclusions. We all can make mistakes, but finally all depends on if we are able to admit our own fault and consequences without trying to make excuses.
All good things are very easy to lose but very hard to find. Now you know that.
Well, I hope all will end up happily for both of you :)
RE: Need Help Please (xelina?)
the only jokes in this post is from the original poster.
Joke #1 Can she ban me from the philipines? LOL, how old are you 7?
Joke #2, My gf.....Lol, she is playing you big time, she knows the right buttons to push an you fall for it like...well a 7 year old.
Joke #3, you come here asking for others to write a poem...too freakking funny.
Here's some free advice grow a pair of balls and tell her bye-bye, plenty of other ladies here to play with which you obviouslywant to do. So cry a little more and get over it, you'll be glad you did and I'd bet she will come back to you,
Joke #1 Can she ban me from the philipines? LOL, how old are you 7?
Joke #2, My gf.....Lol, she is playing you big time, she knows the right buttons to push an you fall for it like...well a 7 year old.
Joke #3, you come here asking for others to write a poem...too freakking funny.
Here's some free advice grow a pair of balls and tell her bye-bye, plenty of other ladies here to play with which you obviouslywant to do. So cry a little more and get over it, you'll be glad you did and I'd bet she will come back to you,
RE: Need Help Please (xelina?)
LOL...you obviously did not get that with the exception of Joke #2, the others were INTENDED to be ironic jokes. For example, I know she can't ban me from travelling there...I was just trying to be a little funny. As for the free advice, I appreciate you offering it. ;)
RE: Need Help Please (xelina?)
across the water, chants across the sea, chants for you and me.
RE: Need Help Please (xelina?)
I agree with Wanda. A face to face is the best way to handle most problems. I even agree with the bottle of wine and the roses
RE: Need Help Please (xelina?)
Roses and wine and fly there to apologize? Wow...you must both be very romantic! :P
Listen, I did not sleep with her sister....let's try to keep this in perspective, huh?
Not being mean, I know you were trying to help. But I am thinking maybe I made a mistake by posting here. I couldn't get attention from her...so I was trying to get it from people here. Maybe it would be good if we end this thread. Thanks to everyone who tried to help or made me laugh...that includes the guy who was trying to make fun of me.
Listen, I did not sleep with her sister....let's try to keep this in perspective, huh?
Not being mean, I know you were trying to help. But I am thinking maybe I made a mistake by posting here. I couldn't get attention from her...so I was trying to get it from people here. Maybe it would be good if we end this thread. Thanks to everyone who tried to help or made me laugh...that includes the guy who was trying to make fun of me.
RE: Question for men...
I know I will catch hell for saying this, but in my case I actually found her here in CC. I know it sounds like a joke, but I no woman I ever met before her made me feel like starting a family. Now I feel that way. Could that be just timing? It is possible. And, yes, I did meet her in person.
By the way, I'm sorry to hear that you are sad...why is that? Did someone leave you?
By the way, I'm sorry to hear that you are sad...why is that? Did someone leave you?
RE: Question for men...
if you are happy together and you both believe in family values then that is the best environment to have children.
I can relate to your story as my wife and I both saw in each other the maternal/paternal instincts. (we both did not meet here but we are viewers on CC coz its fun :D)
Good Luck !!
I can relate to your story as my wife and I both saw in each other the maternal/paternal instincts. (we both did not meet here but we are viewers on CC coz its fun :D)
Good Luck !!
RE: Question for men...
with you as there father then they would be. The fact you are single is natures balance.
regards
regards
RE: Question for men...
it could be worse, i recently met a 25 year old single mother with 5 kids between the ages of 6 months old - 9 years old. that's a tough burden to carry, especially for someone so young, and i imagine it has to make dating or meeting a good partner much much harder.
RE: Question for men...
but not all. But taking the positives.. its a great place to flirt and chat too.
RE: brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
You know...until I spoke to you in comchat today...I never realized how funny you were! Trolls, alpaccas...the whole lot...just funny stuff. By the way, even though I got dumped today....seems like I'm happier than tattoo. :P
shared advice
hey if your new here and dont do videos much, dont go in community room tonight you will get bored to death, you might as well look up you-tubes or watvh music videos on TV, save some time, or you can do like me, become a host and sit and watch these members chat