General Forum
RE: About
See the 4th post below that is linked directly to your post for the answer.If nobody else posts it will also be the post directly above this one.
RE: About
why not just say, "yeah, he's a mary " and we won't need a secret decoder ring to decipher your post.
RE: autumn pictures
It's not yet winter...not before 21 december...:p
Or maybe you are living on an other planet... :)))))))))))))))
Or you come from a developing country... ;)))))))))))
Or maybe you are living on an other planet... :)))))))))))))))
Or you come from a developing country... ;)))))))))))
RE: autumn pictures
I'm just happy you are not from uranus, I hear the clingons there smell bad.
RE: autumn pictures
the hell with autumn I love all your photos with yours tits lol
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yummmmmmmmmmmmmm
RE: autumn pictures
The blondie pics aren't bad either, reminds me of a sober Brittany Spears.
i don't want to see her naked
I saw enough hot and nice girls here naked with bodies that are somehow not what I like that I don't want to see a certain girl naked until I meet her in reality (if it gets that far) for fear it will turn me off.
RE: i don't want to see her naked
Good thinking, its a smart move to go on a long trip to a foreign city where you only know one person and then get turned off by them.
RE: i don't want to see her naked
I have come to know and like a few hosts very much and I think, despite my doubts at times, that they felt the same way. That has made asking them to strip awkward for both of us. I mean the girls here largely strip because they have no emotional connection. It is a job and despite the smiles they are acting. But when it gets more personal they revert to they would act in real ife which is reluctant to drop your pants on command.
RE: i don't want to see her naked
What? Don't you look at the profile pictures before you go in vid? What happens if go see her in reality (reality is you won't go see her) and get turned off?
If seeing the ladies naked here turns you off, maybe it's time to visit the "Boys alone" category eh?
If seeing the ladies naked here turns you off, maybe it's time to visit the "Boys alone" category eh?
who want to take a peek at my new pics?
u can tell me ya opinion in my forum.
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RE: giving up
1) cry. it really helps.
2)stop "do ur best pleasing ur bf".
3) do ur best for kids & urself.
2)stop "do ur best pleasing ur bf".
3) do ur best for kids & urself.
HEY!
why u cry? u must be happy and enjoy your life. u have beautifull kids (i know girls who want it very much but just dont have possiblity give life for little baby). man do not marry on u? oh common! its his falut! its so important for u? u have got work on cc it mean that u r not uglue and with hands and legs. also u can read because u have vision and u can speak because u have voice. just think if that people who do not have even it. imagine how they sad and depressing. but they continiue live and trying catch all nice moments in their life..just lye in bed close your eyes and try und that u r very happy. and thouse trouble will go out
RE: HEY!
Nice answer, Konfetka.. Lil shy host...just don't to try to figure it all out right now. Consider the possibility that you're just worn down...maybe even depressed....Believe me, sweetie...tomorrow will be another day....different alltogether. About your bf...I cannot give you advice...you know if he is a good man or not. If you know in the depth of your heart that he's a good man.....don't pressure him into marriage. Marriage is highly overrated, anyway (I know, from personal experience). If you know that he is NOT a good man...then he's just dead weight....just drop him. Point is, lil shy host...nobody can tell you what to do. It's all up to you...but the good news is that you don't have to get it all resolved today...just take your time. You WILL be OK...you understand?
RE: giving up
Hard to give advice when u dont reveal the problems in ur relationship. Best advice i can give is to stay strong for ur children, please urself before u can please ur bf and save some money each month. Dont give up hope. Good luck.
RE: giving up
First, and foremost, think about your children. I know life can be hard, but you have a responsiblility to your little ones. Please remember, the decision to end your life will not only affect yourself, but the lives of your children, your bf, and all of your family and friends. I'm not sure how much I can help, being an anonymous man on the internet, but if you need someone to listen, let me know. I hope this is all just the result of a "bad day," and that things will get better. You have to be optimistic, and know that there are things worth living for...namely your kids. Take care "lil shy host," and if you are truly at your life's end, I would seriously recommend discussing this with your family, bf, and perhaps a professional therapist, before considering any further action.
RE: giving up
Wow...passinthru...I am speechless...
Yes, lil shy...listen to the advice from passinthru. Trust me, things are not as dark as they appear to you right now. You just need to get to a higher understanding of your life situation. Just for now, try to remember some time when you felt truly happy and safe...and know that you will feel like that again... I am sure everyone here wishes you the very best...so take good care of yourself!
Yes, lil shy...listen to the advice from passinthru. Trust me, things are not as dark as they appear to you right now. You just need to get to a higher understanding of your life situation. Just for now, try to remember some time when you felt truly happy and safe...and know that you will feel like that again... I am sure everyone here wishes you the very best...so take good care of yourself!
RE: giving up
hi lil shy host
passinthru is so right, you children are the most important thing in your life. you need to be strong and conserntrate on giving them the best life possibale. if you need to go to friends, family or somone profresional, theres always somone who can listen and help.
i dont know your exact situation, but iv been down for long periods but iv pulled through them. you never know what tomorrow could bring. i know i cant help, but maby i cam offer you some encouragement. theres so much to live for, and you may not see it now, but so much to enjoy. if things are that bad now for you, just think how much better they could be one day. just please dont do anything rash, make some decisions if you have to and most important look after yourself and your presious children. take care
passinthru is so right, you children are the most important thing in your life. you need to be strong and conserntrate on giving them the best life possibale. if you need to go to friends, family or somone profresional, theres always somone who can listen and help.
i dont know your exact situation, but iv been down for long periods but iv pulled through them. you never know what tomorrow could bring. i know i cant help, but maby i cam offer you some encouragement. theres so much to live for, and you may not see it now, but so much to enjoy. if things are that bad now for you, just think how much better they could be one day. just please dont do anything rash, make some decisions if you have to and most important look after yourself and your presious children. take care
RE: giving up
It's too late for this but others should think... Don't make babies until you have a committed relationship like marriage.
You should have to work hard to please your mate. If you are compatible to begin with pleasing them and yourself would be easier, If he (or you) is very demanding and rude what kind of a relationship is that?
But never forget ALL people have problems in life. Just because you don't see them means they keep them private.
You should have to work hard to please your mate. If you are compatible to begin with pleasing them and yourself would be easier, If he (or you) is very demanding and rude what kind of a relationship is that?
But never forget ALL people have problems in life. Just because you don't see them means they keep them private.
RE: giving up
You are probably young. I can tell you that things will get better but you won't belive me. But they will. Remember to keep what's important in focus. Not looks. Not age. Not a lot of money. You want a man who will love you every day of your life, take care of you to the best of his ability, be a good father and someone who is your friend and lover until you both pass on. Focus on the important stuff. The rest is just fluff.
RE: giving up
never give up because i know what you are going through you just have to think possitive and have friends who care and yes there are even people here on this site who care so if you need a friend come find me
RE: giving up
pray to Jesus, go to church, speak with your minister or priest, if you believe in God, it helps.
RE: giving up
Dear, I am taking your post very seriously.
All advices posted here for you are right. The main two things you have to think right now:
1. Your kids. They need YOU and no one will care of them better than you. You CAN'T leave them alone. Just imagine what will be their life without a mother! Do you realise that you can make their life to be a real tragedy?
2. Bad things as well as good ones are not constant. Everything changes and of course bad things too. We never know what will be tomorrow. Tomorrow you could get something special, your chance, your fortune. Try ALL the chances that life gives you. Believe me, there will be a time you will be proud of your strength. I know that. And I know it is POSSIBLE to overcome. Even if seems your situation has no way out, it is not so!
And the last. If you believe in God, I have remind you the next. First, a suicide is a sin which has no forgiveness. Second, God never sends us anything we can't overcome. Even if it seems impossible to get over, it is always possible, and along with a burdens which are a our "trials" actually, you will get a help as well. All you need is just to ask God for help.
Good luck, dear! You CAN find a ways! And all we CAN.
All advices posted here for you are right. The main two things you have to think right now:
1. Your kids. They need YOU and no one will care of them better than you. You CAN'T leave them alone. Just imagine what will be their life without a mother! Do you realise that you can make their life to be a real tragedy?
2. Bad things as well as good ones are not constant. Everything changes and of course bad things too. We never know what will be tomorrow. Tomorrow you could get something special, your chance, your fortune. Try ALL the chances that life gives you. Believe me, there will be a time you will be proud of your strength. I know that. And I know it is POSSIBLE to overcome. Even if seems your situation has no way out, it is not so!
And the last. If you believe in God, I have remind you the next. First, a suicide is a sin which has no forgiveness. Second, God never sends us anything we can't overcome. Even if it seems impossible to get over, it is always possible, and along with a burdens which are a our "trials" actually, you will get a help as well. All you need is just to ask God for help.
Good luck, dear! You CAN find a ways! And all we CAN.
RE: giving up
hun all we have prbs life is not for all pink...u just have to try to work them out if u have a bf is better so u r not alone with all this prbs u have chialds that s the nicest thing of ya life if u do something u have to think before at them and just after that at u and ya bf.do what u feel is better for ya if u just feel is better leave ya bf ... r many other men in this world and some r really greate.don t give up live go s on !!!
Shattered Dreams
Just when you get over a broken heart (self inflicted) and think you have found that someone special...........................
RE: Shattered Dreams
i know it can be painful, but i think it's not so good to maybe have too much of your self-worth dependent on someone else.
hope for you all to find love of yourself first and then a bigger love with others :)
hope for you all to find love of yourself first and then a bigger love with others :)
RE: sexy dreams
I don't know what's causing them but my advice is not to feel guilty and just enjoy them.
However if you do find out what is causing them please please please let me know as I could do with some sexy dreams instead of the ones I usually have :P
However if you do find out what is causing them please please please let me know as I could do with some sexy dreams instead of the ones I usually have :P
RE: sexy dreams
u didn t had sex for a long time...ya brain work in night to calm down ya hormons :)))))))))))))))
How do you like em?
Ladies, I know I like my lady trimmed or shaved down below, just wondering how you like your man...natural, trimmed or shaved?
The 5 Biggest Dating Mistakes That Women Make
1. Woman who try to find out how much a man earns on the first date to see if he has the potential to change their lives. Can't you just like us for who we are ?
2. Talking too much so that the man gets bored and stops listening. Hey I have even heard that some woman talk so much that the man has to pretend to look at his Blackberry just to get a break from the verbal aussalt.
3. Women who claim they want equality but, it would appear, only when it suits their purpose. Try paying for half the meal for a change or better still pay for the whole meal and treat your man. We will appreciate it.
4. Women who are far too fussy and give a man a hard time if everything about a date does not go 100% perfect. Focusing on the 1 or 2% that went wrong rather than the 98 - 99% that went right. Men then try to get the woman to choose by saying "I don't know" or "You choose" in a vain attemp to keep the woman happy.
5. Women who cannot accept that, while a man may have enjoyed her company, there is not a romantic connection and demand an explanation. Word soon gets around that you are clingy and self obsessed. This forces a man to pretend that he is going to see you again when in fact he has no intention of doing so.
Just remember plenty of sex is usually the way to go with a man.
2. Talking too much so that the man gets bored and stops listening. Hey I have even heard that some woman talk so much that the man has to pretend to look at his Blackberry just to get a break from the verbal aussalt.
3. Women who claim they want equality but, it would appear, only when it suits their purpose. Try paying for half the meal for a change or better still pay for the whole meal and treat your man. We will appreciate it.
4. Women who are far too fussy and give a man a hard time if everything about a date does not go 100% perfect. Focusing on the 1 or 2% that went wrong rather than the 98 - 99% that went right. Men then try to get the woman to choose by saying "I don't know" or "You choose" in a vain attemp to keep the woman happy.
5. Women who cannot accept that, while a man may have enjoyed her company, there is not a romantic connection and demand an explanation. Word soon gets around that you are clingy and self obsessed. This forces a man to pretend that he is going to see you again when in fact he has no intention of doing so.
Just remember plenty of sex is usually the way to go with a man.
RE: The 5 Biggest Dating Mistakes That Women Make
It makes no difference to me whether or not a woman is smart or earns a lot of money.
I'm afraid of you all :(
I'm afraid of you all :(
RE: The 5 Biggest Dating Mistakes That Women Make
Number 3. Excellent. You're my friend now :)
I have no time for those women who want equality only when it suits them.
I have no time for those women who want equality only when it suits them.
RE: The 5 Biggest Dating Mistakes That Men Make
Have I mentioned i wrote this article myself?:P Or maybe all stories,jokes,etc u tell ur friends and family u think out urself? Well, u must be talented in this case...:P
mh...
congrats to mayweather..put on a great performance and hatton was beat by a great champ...oh well cant win em all...
RE: mh...
What a crap year for British sports...
We better do better in 2008 or I'll have to look around for another passport!
We better do better in 2008 or I'll have to look around for another passport!
RE: mh...
Hatton was undefeated, but I heard he fought druken midget holigans or something like that.
RE: money and you:)
Yeah, finances can be very depressing, but I think it's a mistake to buy things on credit, except maybe your aparment or house. It's a BIG problem in the US when people buy so much crap on credit and they can NEVER pay it back and they become slaves to the banks.
Better to buy lesser qualtiy on some things to save money for emergencies. Good luck to you, girl, life is never easy.
Better to buy lesser qualtiy on some things to save money for emergencies. Good luck to you, girl, life is never easy.
RE: money and you:)
buying on credit is the biggest scam ever created. if you look at history you will see that this is the system used by the powerful to control and influence the majority (re: middle class/poor) populations of each country.
RE: money and you:)
credit is aweome!
you wanna be rich? no better way than to start loaning people gobs of money at a tidy interest rate;)
you wanna be rich? no better way than to start loaning people gobs of money at a tidy interest rate;)
RE: money and you:)
Albert Einstein said "The most powerful force in the universe is compound interest ." When it's working for you, as in investments, then things are good. When it's working against you as in interest on credit then you're hosed.
RE: money and you:)
Managing money is one of those vital things schools tend to leave out.
Sometimes we spend a lot without knowing. And some guys calculate that the money you spend now with compoung interest would make you secure in your old age.
Since most hosts are 18-25, they can start saving and have a nice egg next by the time they are 35 or so. "Richest man in babylon" says u must save 10% of your income and don't spend it. U must invest it, then you'll have more money."
Guys on financial websites, say at some point you must stop working for money, and have money work for you. That means, save and invest.
If you can save 1 dollar a day.... that is a start. :)
if you're interested we can review how u can start bulding some savings and .... have peace of mind.
namaste.
Sometimes we spend a lot without knowing. And some guys calculate that the money you spend now with compoung interest would make you secure in your old age.
Since most hosts are 18-25, they can start saving and have a nice egg next by the time they are 35 or so. "Richest man in babylon" says u must save 10% of your income and don't spend it. U must invest it, then you'll have more money."
Guys on financial websites, say at some point you must stop working for money, and have money work for you. That means, save and invest.
If you can save 1 dollar a day.... that is a start. :)
if you're interested we can review how u can start bulding some savings and .... have peace of mind.
namaste.
ten percent
They say "pay yourself first." Put 10% away before ANYTHING else. Then pay bills. Using credit for day-to-day expenses is death. You are a slave to the banks. I know a girl in Galati who just took out a 10 year loan to buy a car. Ten years!! Will it last that long?
RE: ten percent
They even offer sometimes options to pay taxes on credit cards
:) that is adding insult to injury :) Interest to pay taxes.. ouch.
I don't even have a credit card anymore. When a guy comes to me offering me a pre-approved card... i run shouting to the top of my lungs... "vade retro..vade retro..." ;)
it means ...evil.. go away. :)
:) that is adding insult to injury :) Interest to pay taxes.. ouch.
I don't even have a credit card anymore. When a guy comes to me offering me a pre-approved card... i run shouting to the top of my lungs... "vade retro..vade retro..." ;)
it means ...evil.. go away. :)
RE: money and you:)
They advice to have a savings fund of 3 months of expenses as emergency money in some investmen that you can take money out in case of emergency in easy way.
You can start in mutual funds, if you are young time is on your side. :)
it's muuuch better to save 100 per month when you are 20, than do 1000 per month when you are 50. :)
You can find out about mutual funds or investment accounts. Try to look for those with real returns over inflation. Funds with smaller investmenrs are usually low risk and lower return.
:) I have a mutual fund that takes money from my paycheck and is about 6% per year, but you can buy in since 100 dls. Just keeps money value. With other higher returns funds, you can get like 120% per year in high risk funds, with more than 200,000 dls of initial investment. :o a little out of my league now. :)
To be honest, I am not really familiar with russian financial services. :)
And i can't read cyrillic to save my life, so i can't do much research. :) I have been trying to learn. Lost motivation and found it again. :D
I can ask though. I have friends who are into finance there.
You can start in mutual funds, if you are young time is on your side. :)
it's muuuch better to save 100 per month when you are 20, than do 1000 per month when you are 50. :)
You can find out about mutual funds or investment accounts. Try to look for those with real returns over inflation. Funds with smaller investmenrs are usually low risk and lower return.
:) I have a mutual fund that takes money from my paycheck and is about 6% per year, but you can buy in since 100 dls. Just keeps money value. With other higher returns funds, you can get like 120% per year in high risk funds, with more than 200,000 dls of initial investment. :o a little out of my league now. :)
To be honest, I am not really familiar with russian financial services. :)
And i can't read cyrillic to save my life, so i can't do much research. :) I have been trying to learn. Lost motivation and found it again. :D
I can ask though. I have friends who are into finance there.
boxin
great start 2 the night..amir khan first round knock out 1min 14 secs....hatton gonna keep the british record goin :D
Coats
Any lady care to model some sexy coats for me? I have a real preference for puffy down coats. thanks.
RE: Ricky
theres only one ricky hatton!!!!
c'mon ricky boy, you can knock him out!! thats if he doesnt try and run away from you all night. give us english fanally somthing to cheer about. il be watching
c'mon ricky boy, you can knock him out!! thats if he doesnt try and run away from you all night. give us english fanally somthing to cheer about. il be watching
RE: Ricky
Nope. But I don't see what difference that makes.
I want Ricky Hatton to win for lots of reasons - mostly cos he comes from the same city as me, he seems to be a normal 'bloke', and Mr Mayweather seems to be a flashy man who likes to disrespect other people who might not be as talented as he is but who have heart and guts and by anyone's meaure have had one hell of a career - and none of the other reasons have anything to do with the fact that it is a white guy fighting a black guy.
I want Ricky Hatton to win for lots of reasons - mostly cos he comes from the same city as me, he seems to be a normal 'bloke', and Mr Mayweather seems to be a flashy man who likes to disrespect other people who might not be as talented as he is but who have heart and guts and by anyone's meaure have had one hell of a career - and none of the other reasons have anything to do with the fact that it is a white guy fighting a black guy.
RE: Ricky
interesting.......so, in the interest of fairness, is this mayweather guy going to be fighting with one hand tied behind his back then? is that why people are thinking that hatton has a chance?
RE: Ricky
Well... to be honest, if Mayweather really believes some of the things he has been saying about Hatton and not prepared properly because he has undersetimated him then he could well lose. If he has just been 'mouthing off' and has still prepared properly I doubt very much whether Ricky can win.... but it is sport and you never do know.
RE: Ricky
i dont understand what point your making here chap! well done floyd, unlucky ricky!!
RE: Ricky
hatton will win 2nd round knock out..i would do it in the first 30 secs tho..but not every1 can b as good as me :p
RE: Ricky
he hasnt got the tecnichal skill of maywether, but makes up for it in power, heart and of course, i very large level of skill. if mayweather doesnt run away and fights toe to toe with hatton, he will get knocked out and taste the canvas.
RE: Ricky
you brits are so out of your mind about boxing. Mayweather will wipe the floor with hatton. Mayweather is by far becoming the best pound for pound fighter. Do you actually think hatton has a prayer?
RE: Ricky
ok, i hold my hands up, maywether outfougth hatton. i could blame the ref or other things but at the end of the day, hatton lost his cool, and maywether like the pro i now know he is, didnt and kept to his game plan. so i wana say well done floyd, but im still proud of our ricky boy. maby he went up a weight to high, but he is still an awsome boxer. but yes, floyd maywether is pound for pound the best fighter in the world!. please excuse my rambling, im very drunk, lol. ricky was still great in the american and english interviews after though, he didnt lose his sence of humor. also floys was good in his aswell, very dignified. the english fans were great aswell. anyway, im so gutted but well done floyd and ricky will bounce back.
RE: Ricky
totally gutted here, very sad day in Manchester. Was exciting while it lasted, now its gutting x
RE: Ricky
kinda sucked that all the brit fans in vegas had to boo though the american national anthem like they did too. you mut have felt so embarrased.
RE: Ricky
yeah, our fans are so good at many things but that is one way which we always let ourselves down. there was no direct disrespect ment, but yes it was disrispectfull.....if you know what i meen. so yeah, i did feel embarrassed about that. its a shame because apart from that i love our fans
food for thought or fish & chip wrappings
it's interesting that when people don't understand why or how something bad has occurred they are quick to find someone to blame.doing this just belittles those who apportion blame.can this be because of guilt they are feeling for not seeing the signs before it happened.sometimes things occur that seem to have no logical explanation & instead of looking to apportion blame & therefore carrying more anger inside,perhaps it could be wiser & better for personal well-being to accept that sometimes there is no blame.remember everybody is ultimately responsible for their own actions.
p.s this is a result of the actions & behaviour of a few people in community chat.just wanted to air my opinion,for what it is worth. nothing more will i comment on the issue.if it gets even one person thinking,then it has been worthwhile.
p.s this is a result of the actions & behaviour of a few people in community chat.just wanted to air my opinion,for what it is worth. nothing more will i comment on the issue.if it gets even one person thinking,then it has been worthwhile.
RE: food for thought or fish & chip wrappings
are you talking about that guy who went all postal in omaha?
cuz if you are, i blame the pharmaceuticals. it's crazy - why do antidepressants make some people not just suicidal, but homicidal too.
cuz if you are, i blame the pharmaceuticals. it's crazy - why do antidepressants make some people not just suicidal, but homicidal too.
RE: food for thought or fish & chip wrappings
thy are crazy to begin with, why eles wold they be taking meds for their abnormal beahvior/personaility?
RE: food for thought or fish & chip wrappings
o you have a clue what all that tripe means, because if you don't its a cinch no one else is going to get it. doesn't make a bit of sense
RE: food for thought or fish & chip wrappings
jezzus, what a load of garbage that was to read.
I'm guessing the op was highly intoxicated (or medicated) when he wrote that.
I'm guessing the op was highly intoxicated (or medicated) when he wrote that.
Filippinos
can anyone tell me why most if not all pinays end up asking for money?? seems a lot of illnesses in the Philippines??? waaaaaaaaa..and so many family members always going to hospitial?? any ideas??
RE: Filippinos
i had same exoereince, cost me a arm and a leg,,, given up on them, cried to much,,hehe happy christmas..
RE: Filippinos
I came across this situation years ago on another site. I dunno...can only think maybe you seem to act like a sucker. It's never happened to me here and I hang out with them a lot.
RE: Filippinos
As one who is in love with a filipina, and proud of that, I have to admit that there's some truth to your point....there's a lot of that going on...but on the flipside (no pun intended) , filipina women, if you meet the right one, are the most loving women you can imagine. Very beautiful, too, I might add. Also, as a European, having lived more than half of my life in the US, I could say sometithing about the ignorance I sometimes observe here in the Americas, too....but I'm not gonna do that, cause I respect the US. Furthermore, I'm not gonna attack you, because I KNOW that you've never been to the Philippines and thus have no idea of what you are talking about....the level of poverty there. Let's just agree on this...you're critical of what you perceive as being scamming Filipinas...so you're not gonna fall for one. I think that's good for you....and probably for them....
RE: Filippinos
It's Filipinas....not Filppinos, if you are referring to the women of the Philippines. I assume you were referring to females, right? I'm not judging anyone...
RE: Filippinos
azterix, dont continue with the holier than thou, "i'm not judging" sh*t your previous posts were dripping with condescending judgement. Any sentence that where you say you arent judging or attacking, you are doing exactly that. At least be a man and if you are going to criticize or attack DO IT without hiding behind statements that you are too good to judge and then do just that.
BTW, didn't you say you were quitting this site, you were facing your addiction?
B\Also, I have spent many months in the Phillippines, wonderful people and I have seen worse poverty in Africa. However, is there a high percentage of Filipina girls(i used the "a" does that satisfy you, you condescending twit?) ,higher than the average poverty stricken girl who lives in the phillippines, on here asking for money beyond what they are paid for as chathosts, I dont have any survey data but the answer is probably yes.
BTW, didn't you say you were quitting this site, you were facing your addiction?
B\Also, I have spent many months in the Phillippines, wonderful people and I have seen worse poverty in Africa. However, is there a high percentage of Filipina girls(i used the "a" does that satisfy you, you condescending twit?) ,higher than the average poverty stricken girl who lives in the phillippines, on here asking for money beyond what they are paid for as chathosts, I dont have any survey data but the answer is probably yes.
RE: Filippinos
Well, curiousity killed the cat...as they said. Knowing who someone is cannot be that difficult if they're not regularly using a pseudonym when they post like you do. However, rest assure that knowing who YOU are is not the mystery that you might think, either. What is interesting, is that your short comment almost has an implied threat in it...I sincerely hope for your sake that this was not intentional. I'm sure you know what I mean, huh?
RE: Filippinos
You misunderstood my post. My fault.The WHO I was reffering to was judging??As in he is the condescending twit not you.
RE: Filippinos
....and I forgot to add that after reading your explanation I felt like a stupid a##. Jeezz....what was I thinking? I had you confused with one of the rats that once in a while muster up the courage to take a snipe at me here in the forum or in com chat. Believe me, usually I'm pretty mellow, but occasionally, like every other "normal" person, I get my usual bouts of paranoia! :P Seriously, Oh...please accept my heart felt apology!
RE: Filippinos
Actually, the rest of my post got cut off by accident...I agree that the way it reads now it makes absolutely no sense...and yes, I was definitely judging in that previous post... Sorry, I'm just to lazy to retype what I wrote, and deleting the post is pointless now that you've already made a big deal about it. Interesting that when someone like me make a mistake then people like you are all over it...about me quittting this site, that's been explained earlier...and if I thought that anyone cared...I'd explain it again. At least I had the guts to come back with the same screen name, and I use it when I post here.
RE: Filippinos
i've noticed what i thought was a condescending tone in a lot of his messages myself.....undeservedly rude towards some folks he's seemed at times......interesting that i'm maybe not the only one who thinks so.
RE: Filippinos
If to be fair, there are lots of really rude and what is worst pointless comments, appearing not so rare over here, and seems noone worried about it. Just take a look on the post below from "on and on"...Totally pointless and rude comment, but seems to be ok for others...
As for me, I'd better accept some reasoned criticism and controversial points than just a stupid rude comments without any meaning.
As for me, I'd better accept some reasoned criticism and controversial points than just a stupid rude comments without any meaning.
RE: Filippinos
You make my heart melt....so sweet of you to say that! As I've said before, I like your posts, too...we've got some things in common, you and I. So thank you for your nice comments, this one...and several in the past. As for this thread....I came home last night, a bit drunk, after a night of partying...and I got pi##ed off by some stupid posts. I may have gotten a bit carried away with my sarcasm. For the most part, I try not to hurt anyone....but I've got my bad moments, too...I am not perfect. About being alive...so nice of you to say that....yes...I feel alive...so many wonderful people to meet!
RE: Filippinos
You're welcome, Azterix :)
No one is perfect...just not everyone is brave enough to avow.
I can't deny I respect those ones who aren't afraid to tell what they really think and feel, even if for someone it could seem an "intentional attack"...
I guess this forum just would be dead without any polemics...and sincerity as well.
Take care :)
No one is perfect...just not everyone is brave enough to avow.
I can't deny I respect those ones who aren't afraid to tell what they really think and feel, even if for someone it could seem an "intentional attack"...
I guess this forum just would be dead without any polemics...and sincerity as well.
Take care :)
RE: Filippinos
doesn't just go on with the filipinas, it has happened here over time that times there have been groups within different nationalities tht.
3-4 years ago there were alot of romanians that couldn't afford there heart medicine and needed $200 to pay for it. i believe more than a few suckers fell for that one. was truly mazing how many young romanians had heart problems
3-4 years ago there were alot of romanians that couldn't afford there heart medicine and needed $200 to pay for it. i believe more than a few suckers fell for that one. was truly mazing how many young romanians had heart problems
RE: Filippinos
they figure if guys are dumb enough to pay by the minute to chat, they try and see if he's dumb enough to send momey to a person they never even shook hands/kissed. Trust me, guys send money all the time.
BTW been there 3 times, and had a blast.
BTW been there 3 times, and had a blast.
RE: Filippinos
Yes, absolutely...lots of them DO ask for money, and some of them are extremely competent at their schemes. However, the original poster asked why it is that most, IF NOT ALL Filipina's fall into this category. Even to me, being the condescending twit that I evidently am, that sounds incredibly condescending. If you've been to the Philippines 3 times, then surely you cannot agree with him. By the way, glad to hear that you had a great time when you went there. The country's got its problem, but they're some of the friendliest people I've met.
RE: Filippinos
I had a friend in college who would ask every girl he met if they wanted to go back to his apartment and screw. The vast majority wound up slapping him across the face, ignoring him or telling him off. But....after asking 100 girls he would always get a yes and get laid while the rest of we numbnuts would get nothing. They ask because they can and to catch a fish you have to cast your bait many many times. How does it feel being a fish?
RE: Filippinos
it felt really good until they gutted me, chopped my head off, broiled me and me put me on the plate
RE: Filippinos
Interesting observation, Well. I know that you weren't asking me directly, but most honest members here will admit to having been "fished" at least once. Having had it happen to me, I can testify that it doesn't feel very nice...you feel like a dumb a## when it finally hits you! However, we all differ in how we synthesize that information. Some make the same mistake over and over with a different girl. Some become extremely bitter and cynical. Some become overly critical and even hateful of certain rases and cultures. Some even sit back on this site and gleefully rejoice in the forums when they see new members getting taken for the ride. I think the healthiest people are those who take a step back and reflect ont the facts, realize that they've acted stupid...and then pick themselves up, move on and wow not to let it happen again.
RE: Filippinos
your posts are always so long, i cant be assed to read them anymore. i could spent the time cleaning my finger nails insted
RE: Filippinos
It is part of the job description that some studio bosses give. It seldom happens to me.
RE: Filippinos
Yes, and it's kind of odd that at the same time as them having no money and an entire family in the grips of poverty and starvation, they've got this really nice cellphone that costs about twice what mine does. I can't really work that one out....
RE: Filippinos
Well, I admit that some hosts can be scammers and abuse the some member's confiding. It is a bad thing of course, unless they have a really valid and forcible reason for asking money.
At the same time, don't tell me in your own life you're never asking someone for something, lets say not necessarily for money but their equivelent or whatever.
At the same time, don't tell me in your own life you're never asking someone for something, lets say not necessarily for money but their equivelent or whatever.
RE: Filippinos
Poverty is high in the philippines, Health insurance is almost unheard of, Filipino Dr's are going back to school getting Nursing Lisense and moving to USA where a Nurse makes more than DR's in PI. About them all asking or "help" and all telling tales of sick relatives, I believe most of that. I have been in and out of PI over the last 10 years, I know that you will find the poorest family in a province and if you knock on their door around supper time you will be invited in 9 of 10 times and they will be insulted if you do not share their family meal. In PI it is not unusual to ask a friend for a "borrow", most times if the friend has it they will allow the "borrow", sometimes at the 5 to 6 rates, borrow 5 payback 6, alot of times there is never any intentions of paying back the "borrow" and this is accepted too. To the filipino / filipinas asking for something they want is justified but for sayiong " I am shy to ask" or "may I ask favor", but most will ask, not all but most, to the filipino asking help is almost a cultural trait, so many have so little, so few have not much more, made 90% of the countrys wealth is controled by 1% of the population, Graft and corruption in politics is considered the normal way of doing things, there is always someone willing to help you get what you want for a price. need forged papers most are P500, daily min wage is P350 at the USA dollar exchange rate that is about $8.00 a day, even some filipino with college degrees do not make must more than that. So actually to filipinas working in sites, making the prvts is good money for them and if they can get "borrows" or gifts then you might be supporting a family of 5-7 and not know it, but they will most likely ask, it is not a scam to them it is just a way to have what they need, filipinos can justify most any action they want to do simple because they do not have what they need and almost anything goes to get it. It is not lying to them it is just getting what they need to survive, a way of life. But they are some of the friendliest, smilingest, Kind heart, lie in your face, talk behind your back , give you the shirt off their back, loyalest people you will ever find. Been there, done that, will do it again and again and again. Ohhh and to my special one filipina,Maganda ka, Mahal kita lagi, Araw ko sa ngiti mo, but Nasaan ang aking pitaka ko? (english) You are Beautiful, I love you always but Where is my wallet?
RE: Filippinos
I have not ever had a girl from the philippines as me for money on this site. I love the filipinas they seem to be sweet ladies. I seldom see any other girls here on cc.
RE: Filippinos
this thread has really gotten out of hand and stupid. i've known a large number of the filipinas that heve worked on this site and i have never had one so much as hint that she wanted me to send money even though they will tell you about the problems they have at home.. they have asked many times for help with advice or even such mundane things as help with deciding what to write a paper about for their classes or a younger relatives class that they may be helping.
i've had a lot of europeans ask me to send money over the years but never ever a filipina.
i've had a lot of europeans ask me to send money over the years but never ever a filipina.
RE: Filippinos
A few filippinas ask for money, but in my experience, by far the worst country is Romania. Every Romanian host I've talked to on here is a either a scammer now or at least admits to being one in the past. I'm not saying this is true of the Romanian people in general, but as the for ones that work here, well, I'm just telling you what I've seen.
RE: Filippinos
Try to give him a break...he was just trying to make a valid point....Filiipinas are not the only doing this. Still, I think it's just plain wrong to point to hosts from ANY country and just label them as scammers. I don't use the word "racist" very often, because I sincerely believe that we all act racist from time to time...only an arrogant bastard would not admit to being prejugdiced (sorry about the spelling) from time to time. Still I do believe that referring to Filipinas, romanian or russian girls as being "scammers" is a form of racism. If someone made that comment about people of a certain color here in the US, they would be crucified.....believe me. So....let's all agree to do ourselves a favor...if we get fu$$ed over by a host from a certain country....don't go out in the forum and proclaim that girls from her country is the curse of mankind. I might be a sanctimonious pri#ck...a selfrightious twit...or whatever some guys here accuse me of....but I do believe in giving people a fair shake...let them be innocent until proven guilty. That goes for the perverts, too!
RE: Filippinos
What makes you so sure?
You see, it's the men who think these girls are all sweetness and light that are the ones who get scammed.
You see, it's the men who think these girls are all sweetness and light that are the ones who get scammed.
RE: Filippinos
iv never been asked to send money or anything like that. im not saying none are scammeres, just the one in my experiance seem fine.....for now. i guess maby we will see
RE: Filippinos
im sure you arnt as i am sure many or the romanan girls here arnt. but i expect some are. but also so are many other of the girls who arnt from romania. iv chatted with some really good romanian girls, and im sure im a pretty good judge of character...i hope
this made me laugh
joe went to las vegas....first time ever...he walks into a casino and there at the bar is the most extraordinary and beautiful woman he has ever seen in his life...he walks right up to her and says...you are so very very beautiful may i go to bed with you?...she says...are you crazy?...no way!...Joe says.."id pay 10,000 dollars to go to bed with you"....10 minutes later they lie together naked in suite 507...Joe kisses her lips but nothing seems to be happening... so she says...whats wrong?...joe says i dont know...she says try kissing my neck passionately...see if you get excited by that...Joe kisses her neck but still nothing...she says "whats wrong with you"..Joe says i dont know...so she says try kissing my breasts see if that does it...so Joe does...and still nothing happens...she says again..."what is the matter with you!...Joe says i dont know....i really dont know where im going to come up with 10,000 dollars
RE: this made me laugh
just say the word....and we can make it happen..lol....i could love a girl like you ...the only girl that laughs at my silly jokes...we might be a match made in heaven....lol...kiss again annabunny
:)
Doctor, "What seems to be the problem?"
Patient, "Doc, I've got the farts. I mean I fart all the time,"
The Doctor nods, "Hmm."
Patient, "My farts do not stink and you can't hear them. It's just that I fart all the time. Look, we've been talking here for about 10 minutes and I've farted five times. You didn't hear them and you don't smell them, do you?"
"Hmm," says the Doctor,
He picks up his pad and writes out a prescription.
The patient is thrilled "Great doc. This prescription, will it really clear up my farts?"
"No," sighs the Doctor, "The prescription is to clear your sinuses. Next week I want you back here for a hearing test."
At the bar
There was this guy at a bar, just looking at his drink. He stays like that for half of an hour.
Then, this big trouble-making truck driver steps next to him, takes the drink from the guy, and just drinks it all down. The poor man starts crying. The truck driver says, "Come on man, I was just joking. Here, I'll buy you another drink. I just can't stand to see a man cry."
"No, it's not that. This day is the worst of my life. First, I fall asleep, and I go late to my office. My boss, outrageous, fires me. When I leave the building, to my car, I found out it was stolen. The police said that they can do nothing. I get a cab to return home, and when I leave it, I remember I left my wallet and credit cards there. The cab driver just drives away."
"I go home, and when I get there, I find my wife in bed with the gardener. I leave home, and come to this bar. And just when I was thinking about putting an end to my life, you show up and drink my poison."
Then, this big trouble-making truck driver steps next to him, takes the drink from the guy, and just drinks it all down. The poor man starts crying. The truck driver says, "Come on man, I was just joking. Here, I'll buy you another drink. I just can't stand to see a man cry."
"No, it's not that. This day is the worst of my life. First, I fall asleep, and I go late to my office. My boss, outrageous, fires me. When I leave the building, to my car, I found out it was stolen. The police said that they can do nothing. I get a cab to return home, and when I leave it, I remember I left my wallet and credit cards there. The cab driver just drives away."
"I go home, and when I get there, I find my wife in bed with the gardener. I leave home, and come to this bar. And just when I was thinking about putting an end to my life, you show up and drink my poison."
RE: I am superman
no, that Five for Fighting guy is:
Five For Fighting - Superman Lyrics
by John Ondrasik
(gives me a chill and a tear every time I see that 'Tribute to NY City' video performance for the firefighters)
I can’t stand to fly
I’m not that naive
I’m just out to find
The better part of me
I’m more than a bird...i’m more than a plane
More than some pretty face beside a train
It’s not easy to be me
Wish that I could cry
Fall upon my knees
Find a way to lie
About a home I’ll never see
It may sound absurd...but don’t be naive
Even heroes have the right to bleed
I may be disturbed...but won’t you concede
Even heroes have the right to dream
It’s not easy to be me
Up, up and away...away from me
It’s all right...you can all sleep sound tonight
I’m not crazy...or anything...
I can’t stand to fly
I’m not that naive
Men weren’t meant to ride
With clouds between their knees
I’m only a man in a silly red sheet
Digging for kryptonite on this one way street
Only a man in a funny red sheet
Looking for special things inside of me
Inside of me
Inside me
Yeah, inside me
Inside of me
I’m only a man
In a funny red sheet
I’m only a man
Looking for a dream
I’m only a man
In a funny red sheet
And it’s not easy, hmmm, hmmm, hmmm...
Its not easy to be me
Five For Fighting - Superman Lyrics
by John Ondrasik
(gives me a chill and a tear every time I see that 'Tribute to NY City' video performance for the firefighters)
I can’t stand to fly
I’m not that naive
I’m just out to find
The better part of me
I’m more than a bird...i’m more than a plane
More than some pretty face beside a train
It’s not easy to be me
Wish that I could cry
Fall upon my knees
Find a way to lie
About a home I’ll never see
It may sound absurd...but don’t be naive
Even heroes have the right to bleed
I may be disturbed...but won’t you concede
Even heroes have the right to dream
It’s not easy to be me
Up, up and away...away from me
It’s all right...you can all sleep sound tonight
I’m not crazy...or anything...
I can’t stand to fly
I’m not that naive
Men weren’t meant to ride
With clouds between their knees
I’m only a man in a silly red sheet
Digging for kryptonite on this one way street
Only a man in a funny red sheet
Looking for special things inside of me
Inside of me
Inside me
Yeah, inside me
Inside of me
I’m only a man
In a funny red sheet
I’m only a man
Looking for a dream
I’m only a man
In a funny red sheet
And it’s not easy, hmmm, hmmm, hmmm...
Its not easy to be me
QUESTION ABOUT ROMANIAN LAST NAMES
Is "Cristina" a very common last name in Romania? Over the years I have met a Bacau girl & a Bucharest girl with that last name that claim not to be related.
RE: QUESTION ABOUT ROMANIAN LAST NAMES
It could be both in Romania. I know the name "Radu" can be either one in Romanian
RE: QUESTION ABOUT ROMANIAN LAST NAMES
John Wayne is a bad example, he changed his name, he was born Marion Robert Morrison, but his parents later changed it to Marion Michael Morrison when they decided to name his younger brother Robert. Marion wasn't too cool a name for a tough guy actor so he changed it to John Wayne when he started in films.
RE: QUESTION ABOUT ROMANIAN LAST NAMES
And because some first and last names are so common in romania, like in US, they often use a second first name... like : Popescu Laura Cristina... i hope u got it now :))
RE: QUESTION ABOUT ROMANIAN LAST NAMES
Christina is very popular in Bulgaria, not sure about Romania.
RE: if u wanna be rich.......?
I knkow a couple of girls who want to be rich, and they are trying to be bitches.
Sadly, even if their best efforts made them not as poor as they were in cash, but are now miserable human beings.
You can try as long as pride and self-worth are not important for u
Sadly, even if their best efforts made them not as poor as they were in cash, but are now miserable human beings.
You can try as long as pride and self-worth are not important for u
RE: if u wanna be rich.......?
If you wanna be rich you need talent, good ideas, seed money and luck.