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the hard truth is that she was obviously more special to you than you were to her

Goes to show no matter how friendly and personal you think your relationship is...in reality...it is strictly commercial. Most hosts CC lives have no bearing or meaning to their real lives. Just a job. for her. You are just a customer.

not even a commercial relationship to her really - if she was bothered about his money she would have contacted him ;)

The problem is when a host returns with a new nick, she loose her previous notes (archive) so she cannot tell by emails..she can post in forum but how many read the forum indeed.. and how many replies she will receive accusing her.

if you truly miss a girl you've only known virtually for months after she's gone, maybe it's for the better that you don't know that she's returned.

bionca is living with a guy from USA

from what i remember, shes happy married there, cool girl:) i miss her alot

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taff?))

Yes? can I help you?

no us members do not have a car-why do you think we stay home all day on computer --cant get out to meet women-so meet here

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just got a gps for my volvo .very usefull and fun to use.now if i could only get cc on it.

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BMW 650i (manual transmission). Silver.

Yum. I love to key BMWs.

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of course i have a car..i didn't work here 2 years for nothing..lolll
even the traffic is awful in bucharest i still prefer to drive than using the bus:P

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2 cars 1 truck 1 motorcycle

I think most host have matchbox cars, they're cheaper to run..

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u don't know what a matchbox car is?

Of course i have a car and a driver as well :ppP

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I hope.. only one reason can make a site slow.. many attempts to log on it. It is not the case of the site, maybe yr connection! Check well yr connection.. Good luck

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thx for the hi :)

I immediately thought it was to you too shy.

ur smart ihate...tho i did think it may have been to u....but then i came to my senses

welcome back kitty cat :P

I'm sure its not the case in your instance (as you would already have the answer to your own question), but sometimes it is immediately obvious that the camera quality so poor it would be like watching a show in a snowstorm. And some people would be minded just to leave straight away rather than spend money stopping to explain why they will be going

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you saying I m ugly?? LOL

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There may be a number of reasons. Connection or computer problems. My computer often seems to lock up when i try to send cam. Some hosts have few archive pics which maybe do not show her face and when i get to vid i decide she is not what I am in the mood to see. It does not mean she is ugly. This is a fantasy site and members fantasies may vary with time.

i didnt think we would need to cover this question on the test

but i would say the host and her archives are not the same

Lots of reasons I suspect. A last minute change of mind. Shyness. Perhaps another host the member was watching ended a video or logged on. Sometimes I enter a chat and then check out the profile pics or price and say....whoops...not for me. For members selecting the right host can be a long and tedious process. The girl has to be online, Priced right. Look right. Respond to video, etc. That is another reason...if you dont respond immediately many members feel you are away from the computer or asleep or chatting with someone else. Lots of reasons. Don't take it personally. Do you really miss chatting with this people who come and go without so much as a word...or do you miss the opportunity to coax them into a video and make money? Sex and money. The tango continues.

u remind me of the guy that talks just to hear his own voice

And you remind of a guy who's only original thought died of loneliness.

come on mr well...ur senior bs'r around here...and maybe he want u to take your well (no pun intended) advice and apply it to yourself.

Hmmmm.......

at least i had an original thought :-D

strange how the new kinder wtf always manages to slide a snide comment in at the end of the post and claims to be kinder and gentler..not by much

no, what's strange is the obsessive hate-boner you got for the guy.
sheesh....you don't like the guy, we get it already.....

yes wondering myself why all the hate.

something about liars and frauds comes to mind

I have done this for a few reasons:

1. The host is already in video chat on another site or in another session on CC.

2, Her pics in her archives, even if really her, do not truly reflect how she looks.

3. The host immediately gives me the impression that I would be better off elsewhere be it by her looks, her attitude, or something else, although I usually will say "oops, gotta go, bye" or something like that.

4. Connection problems

5. My phone rings or someone knocks at door. (Hard to run with pants down, lol.)

6, Wife/GF comes home unexpectedly (well, not in my case, but I am sure this happens to members, lol).

Usually beacause the host kicks me before I get a chance to speak :P

Sometimes No. 5 on member's list (or at least I pretend that is the reason). That's if the host doesn't look like she does in her pics.

Sometimes because it's the cyber equivalent of knocking on someones front door and then running away before they answer.

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As much as your offer of no strings sex sounds appealing I must decline as it is not for me. I have far to much respect for all the girls who work on this site for that to happen.

I have never met a more loving, kind, humorous and totally charming bunch of young women in my life. In fact the more I video with the girls on here the more charming they become and the thought of having sex with one of young ladies without first having videod with you for at leat 1000 hours, bought you numerous gifts and bankrupted myself with all the money I have sent you through WU fills me with dread :P

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Oh it's you.

Well I supppose after your friend took me for every penny I had and after what you did at our wedding giving me some hot naughty sex is the least you can do :P

As for having sex with you there are no words to describe how much I want it. Just one night with you and I can die a happy man :)

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Just promise me you won't run too fast :P

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You won't be disappointed as I'm getting better and better at making love. When I was 18 it used to take me hours but now I can manage it in a couple of minutes :)

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Sorry to sound negative, but if you are harbouring such doubts and already mistrust her possible motives, I question whether you should even remain 'friends', let alone contemplate visiting her. In the run-up to my earlier visits to hosts there have been no feelings except excited anticipation, and that is how it *should* be. Good luck:)

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She has asked you to go visit her. I dont really see why you worry. Go as a friend and if something good happens then all the better.

being a friend is not good enough?

I think you need to be a big boy and go yourself! Geez. I understand the stigma of going to another country for the first time that exists for some people from the USA. Let me give you some advice, The larger cities of Eastern Europe will have all the comforts of home and you will have no more trouble than you would in a large USA city and possibly less trouble! I would suggest working with a travel person in the major city where your airplane will arrive; may I assume Moscow or Bucharest? I have a great contact in Moscow. Good Luck!

do you really mean stigma?

Yes, stigma as used above means...
"an identifying mark or characteristic"
"a mark" of discredit, a stain, such as "the stigma of cowardice"

I you like her, go ahead and visit her, but you should have a back-up plan if something go's wrong. You might simply wont click, so don't be depending on her for your accommodations, food and traveling around.

The fantasy fades in the light of reality. Everything is perfect when everything is made up. If you have the will, the strength and the unlimted financial resources to truly follow this to its conclusion then why not? It could be an adventure. The one truth I learned from CC is that no host ever tells the complete truth here. So many times I was fooled. So be prepared for surprises...not all of them good. Meeting and forming a relationship with a foreign national takes a lot of work, money and time. You need something outside of CC to bind you. My advice. Communicate with her for 6 months totally outside of CC. Yahoo, emails, phone calls, etc. If you are still interested visit her after that interlude.

good shake-down advice.

This is a repeat topic, but the bottom line is when I went to eastern
Europe ( and I am planning to go again), I tried to do the following:

1. Make sure that I knew other people in the city or cities I would be visiting in case things do not work out with the host in question.

2. Use common sense and limit visits to areas where other people are. In other words, don't go into back alleys or get into taxis unless I knew where I was going and that everything will be okay. No guarantees of course, but I tried to do the best I could.

3. Have an email account and a printout where I had a list of credit card numbers (encoded, not actual number, so maybe increase fourth number by 2 numbers or something so from a 5 to a 7, and things like that with several numbers... and did not put expiration date or CVV2 in email or on printout) along with the bank's phone number (and don't forget to let bank know you will be traveling, when and where). Did the same with travelers checks although take plenty of cash. Prepaid debit cards and regular ATM cards also are good ideas. I had cash, travelers checks, credit cards that could be used in ATMs, my bank ATM card, and a prepaid debit card. I also had a money belt and two wallets, one in each front pocket where I split everything up.

4. Made copies of passport, driver's license, et cetera. I have been fingerprinted for work so even if I lost everything, I could go to my embassy and get replacement id and then use it to get emergency funds from my credit card companies and replacement traverlers checks (both work at big banks in Moscow and Bucharest).

5. Get emergency medical insurance/evacuation insurance.

6. Bring condoms (also known as emergency ejaculation insurance) and KY jelly for that first night before you can go to store. (Very happy that I did this. :p)

7. I had the address of hospitals that took my emergency insurance and that were good hospitals (but be prepared to pay up front if necessary) as well as places like my embassy and American Express affiliates or other credit card companies local offices if I lost my card. Also let any companions know that I have emergency insurance.

8. Use my instincts both online and in person to make sure that I could trust the people with whom I was visiting.

I am sure some will laugh at some of the things on my list, but I wanted to make sure I had everything covered, including my c.....

Ok, i guess you exagerated a bit, its no like going to India, but its always good to prevent. In comparison with you, and i'm a woman, i just trusted my intuition n instinct, took care of money and my bag, told to several people where i am going, with whom i meet, where i'll stay etc.got a list of ambassy n hospitals, a dictionary,my own head and some courage lol.

"its no like going to India" What's wrong with India? I went there once also.... hehehe... I think some of this advice is good for ANY travling anywhere... I scanned passports and made them available on a website, oh yes, I did not go to India alone ;)

all of that is good advice, been there. the most important thing, i think, is to have a back-up plan. i've been to bucharest, st. pete, budapest and prague a couple times each and met hosts each time. once, however, we just didn't click well so i had another host that i could "surprise" with a visit and that worked out well. i think having two potential girls to meet is a good plan in case one doesn't work out.

the other stuff is very good advice as well.

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Good advice to agree about the price for taxi!
Once I was offered to be transported for "200" from an airport and I agreed. The driver stopped before we reached the hotel, in a rather dark corner - it was very early morning - and asked for money. I handed him 200 roubles - yeah, it was in Russia. He refused and said: dollars!
Guess the "interesting" "dialog" we then had for a long while. I hate bargaining with a thief but no choice! I didn't manage to cut it down lower than 100$ then he drove me to hotel, took out my luggage from the boot and offered a handshake. Maybe I have no class, but I declined!

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i guess i should clarify...my point was misunderstood(that happens a lot..hmm)..when i visit a video chat and see the womans face smile when i sing...i dont think it has much to do with hi- fidelity or good speakers...or hell even a good voice for that matter..lol....it may be just a nice break from "show me your tits"....i dont know....i still like the smiles i see though.......

You are wonderful, Charlie...Please keep singing and enjoying smiles...and don't pay attention to those who cannot understand such things, just some people are romantic and some are not at all.

Good luck :)

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i read your first post again Vera and yes ....i can see i misunderstood.i apologize.it think you were refering to the fact that my mic goes bad....in which some girls might not like the music because maybe they cant "hear" it..lol..i wish i knew how to fix this microphone problem...but thats beside the point..lol....i apologize Vera next time i visit ill bring my accordian and sing a polka dance song for ya...uh...hmm..."beer barrell polka" always gets the crowd jumping...lol joke.....later pretty miss

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As a useless bastard who never makes the first move I think more girls should make the first move. Probably wouldn't make any difference to my love life though :(

its so women can blame men when it all goes wrong :))

It doesn't matter who makes the first step as long as there is already enough communication and you both feel there is alot more than just a friendship in between. I am not making any first step anymore, I used to make the first step, but would always get a big "NO." LOL.

never made the first move in any of my relationships...maybe thats why i never get fuc*ed...that or they come to their senses b4 anything can happen

Dont you think its often the lady who makes the first move ?

give that look...

make sure u see them,,

dance near you..

so many subtle signs they give if they are interested..

its just up to us to accept ...

take the dance floor, respond , just show u r interested,, even a smile is enough..

its the best fun in the world , that dance a man and woman make when the chemistry is right,

I love it so.....

nice posting...but we have to recognise them (the signs) before we can accept them ....women are too subtle :(((

men are too stupid to pick up on it...or if they do...the opposite side to consider is they would face rejection if they were wrong and/or the chic is an angry control freak and enjoys playing with you.

its a power trip...feel the sense of empowerment when she makes the first move...they (women) love to guard that sense of control...trust that is true.

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The host probably has a variable set of pictures depending on the category she is working is (no nude pictures for Glamour or non adult; no daring pictures in Softcore, etc.) Probably if the link you have is for a face picture, it will be always working :-)

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sometimes weird things happen in the photo archives after a host hides a photo. If you wait 10 minutes or so, then it usually comes good.

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She's no longer here anymore (and how I wish she still was) ...so know it won't help you...but the finest host who used to smoke (though that had nothing to do with my attraction to her) was chantelle4u. I hope she is thriving whatever she is doing now (sigh)

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ORIGAMI, IS ONE HOT SMOKING WOMAN

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Rich is not always about money! It is about soul! Money can be gone in a matter of moments. If your soul if rich with love it will remain always. A person who is rich in soul will find a way to be rich in money.

If you are so serious, where is your screen name? As I see it you are just a prank. Why don't you define your idea of rich?

While I dont see CC as a date site, I see it as a good way to meet people we would not otherwise meet in life, for several reasons.

Does £250 ($500) savings get me in with a chance ?

I'll not mention my credit card bills :P

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Very nice to see you back :)

Just for you I'll spend it all on a host so I have nothing :P

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Sorry I didn't read all of your post. I got stuck at the "I love sex" bit :P

You don't iron?? Forget it!!

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no prob shybabe INYF probably won't bother with a shirt anyway

well u missed the part where you have to iron

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Now if only Algeria had a "MaryBell" I could be happy :(

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caring? INYF?

Who can buy me a Bugatti veyron and a palace to live in. I am little fat, in my 50´s, with almost no hair, sometimes depressed and a porn adict. Anyone interested?:)

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Sure ...but your future husband is looking for beauty and sex and once that fades so will you. If you both are looking for material things..money and beauty...it will never last. Trust me he will have you sign a pre-nup. You will be back on the steppes broke and old. Best call up your old bf Boris and make up. He may smell of vodka but he will love you for what you are.

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For you only Dear I will read two books a day and one of these interesting stories I will be told to you...

and no,i don t want freebies
thx:p

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i live in a dump shite of town unfortunately:(:(:(:(
and of course there r not any nice shops around
was lookin at the site and there r so nice stuffs at same prices as next are but d prefer gap.:/

Can I ask where abouts u live in UK? There are GAP shops that sell childrens clothes, I know of one in Slough, Buckinghamshire.
The problem you will get if u try to buy anyting from USA is the 'hidden' costs for the import tax. I bought stuff from Victoria Secret some while ago and the tax almost doubled the total cost i had to pay.
May I suggets you try to locate a GAP shop near to where u live.
I hope this helps. :)

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A host paying a member....this could be a first in CC history. Shipping to UK is what? 40-60 dollars via FedEx or other reliable shipper. Plus the cost of buying and shipping the clothes to a US address. Don't you have the names of your old regulars? Certainly one of them still loves you...... if you are who I think you are...I surely do....

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Slutpuppy while your two jokes below were very funny I feel that regarding this one I must tell you off for blaspheming :P

Also with a bit of luck shybabee will be on top of me. Well at least in posts on the forum terms :D

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And I thought with your e-mail addresses you would only need to do it once.

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well said. I dont think the size is the problem, u need to arouse her more :))

C'mon! What kinda freaky chick wants to take a watermelon?!
He just needs to find himself a woman with a deeper, more cavernous hoohoo....A mother of triplets, perhaps.

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Ah... I was wondering what happened to the cat.

Here pussy, pussy...

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Actually, while it is true that it's normally the case that a woman's hoohoo rebounds and shrinks back to normal from watermelon-packing-dimensions within six weeks following childbirth, it is also true that the number one reason why women undergo reconstructive vaginoplasty is because of severe trauma and a resulting damage of the hoohoo during the childbirthing process. Hence my suggestion that Adam find himself a hoochie who has first squeezed-out three little people from her hoohoo all in one go...I could be wrong, but such a chick seems more probably the kind who would be all loosened-up and physically able take a deep and hard fuck by a dude with a mammoth schlong.

hmmm...no.5 u tryin to get me banned sean?

i think we need a community chat room with video

What happened to No.3 ?

no.3 was no censorship but it got censored

opps i did forget number 3, just take a number off

maybe no threes in alaska?

threes or trees?

doh..what i shoulda said was threes or freeze

#1 How :P
#2 On-line gf with no attachments? that's the whole premise of having a girl on-line, you can turn her off with the click of a mouse
#3..nuff said
#4 how about after 10 min with one host you get the next 3 hours free with 3 different host
#5 so ur point is not to ask but demand eh? good idea
#6 welcome to the school of hard knocks (or knockers)
#7 better upgrade your hard drive or ur going to crash ur system