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I can see the purpose in a pre-nuptial, but in my honest opinion any marriage which begins with one is destined for failure sooner rather than later.

Well, obviously you dont trust her so marriage seems doomed before it starts or are you so rich that a pre-nup is needed?

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I think that a pre-nup can be warranted in different situations. What comes to mind are three situations: 1) where one person has a lot more assets than the other, 2) when one person has certain assets that he wants to protect (an interest in a family business, for example), and 3) when one person has children from a previous marriage and he wants to protect his children. This applies regardless of how the two people met. All of these are reasonable bases for a prenup, and I think a potential partner should understand this.

I think that the reason for your question is simple though, and that brings up another situation when a pre-nup can be a good idea, namely, you have reasonable doubt about whether this will all work out. Normally, I would say wait, but you are probably in a situation (due to visa requirements, et cetera) where in order to be together, you need to get married

You are marrying a chathost. I am guessing that as much as you love her and think she loves you, the bottom line is you haven't spent enough time with her to be sure you are doing the right thing. Unfortunately, unless you have moved to her country or she has moved to yours for an extended period of time (at least 6 months to a year in my view), you really have no idea if you are doing the right thing. There is no way to know if those cute little annoying habits each of you have are going to drive each other insane once together for an extended period. There is no way to know for sure if you two think alike and are truly compatible. There never is a way to know for sure, but the distance makes things all the more difficult. And with divorce rates around 50% (at least in USA), you have ever reason to be concerned.

I suggest that you talk to the host (hopefully she is not in my favorites, lol) and discuss the reasons that are making you post your question in the first place. If you are not comfortable doing that, then DON'T GET MARRIED! You have NOT found the right person. You don't need to bring up the idea of a prenup right away (although, I guess she is reading this and you already have, lol). Instead, simply lay out your concerns. "Honey, are you sure we are ready? Do we know each other well enough?", and then ease into the idea of a prenup. For example:

"Honey, I love you. My heart wants you more than anything in the world. But the reality is, we have not spent a lot of time together. Most of that time has been online and over the phone. The reality is, the only way to truly be together in light of our situations is to get married. Otherwise, there is no way to get an extended visa. And as much as I want this, I still have some concerns because living day to day in real life is a lot different than talking each day online, and those concerns make me think that maybe we should settle a few issues before we get married."

Obviously, she may be offended by this. But the reality is you met her online and are from two different worlds and have spent most of your relationship apart. Love is enough to bring you together, but it definitely is not enough to keep you together. Things, unfortunately, go wrong in relationships. People married 10 or 20 years get divorced so there are no guarantees. And since I am guessing you have certain assets you want to protect, I think that you need to discuss this with her. Perhaps just agree to exclude certain assets in the event of divorce.

Unlike other opinions here, as awkward as the prenup subject is, I don't think that the idea of it means the marriage is doomed from the start. I have seen too many situations where it would have been a good idea to have had one, and marrying someone you have not spend a lot of time with "in real" is one of them. I don't care if you have visited her 100 times and love her with all of your heart and feel she loves you the same way, unless you have spent a long period of time with her (months in a row), you are rolling the dice and hoping for the best. This is always the case, but in your situation, even more so.

By the way, do not hide anything from her if you enter a prenup. Disclose everything or the agreement may be found to be invalid. And make sure she has her own attorney advising her. Don't just try to draw up an agreement yourself. Finally, be fair... it is the right thing to do and it will make it more likely the agreement will be upheld.

Nice lenghty post, but straight to the point.

I am divorced and have 3 children. I have 4 different successful businesses and I dont want my future wife to claim part or full ownership on any of my businesses since that's part of what my children get after I past away. I don't mind sharing what I have with anyone that brings me love and happiness, but I have obligations as a father with 3 kids I love very much. I am glad there is the pre-nup option that can solve this dilemma.

My future wife understands my position and agrees with me. It's a matter of love, not how much she will get in compesation for sleeping with me a few weeks, lol.

I agree also. The pre-nup should be discussed, agreed to, and signed by both if one of the mentioned conditions exists. It does not mean that the marriage is doomed to fail if this is done, but the interests of both are protected if it does happen. If the marriage is successful then it was not needed and neither partner is hurt. I have seen marriages succeed and fail with pre-nup and without pre-nup. Children of previous marriages are always better off is pre-nup has existed.

Is it realistic to expect a chathost to have legit legal counsel in the country to where she expects to marry? And it's not as if she's guaranteed sitizenship in the country immediatley after marrying, is it? In the the U.S. doesn't she have to stay married for at least a couple years before she can divorce and remain a U.S. citizen. IF the marraige fails before then, then what? How would a pre-nup protect her if she has to leave the country?

In USA , if a marriage was entered into with good intentions and a divorce occured, there is a special form to apply for citizenship after the divorce. What many don`t realize,,,if you bring a partner over on a K-1 visa ( fiancee) you are finacially responsible for that person for 10 years and must sign a paper agreeing to this.This means if the spouse goes on welfare or any social service program,,,you may be required to repay the expenses occured. As stated earlier,,, a will or prenup is a good idea ,specially if there are children from previous .

Well, there are some issues about a chathost's ability to get adequate legal counsel. I am not sure where the guy is from, or even if she is moving to his country or if he is moving to hers, or even if they will get married in one country and move to another.

In USA, you have 90 days to get married via a fiancee visa so I guess things would need to be done pretty fast if this is the case here. Plus, since the woman would need to go home if not married during that time period, there could be issues as to the fairness, and therefore the legitimacy, of any contract signed under those type of conditions. She could always try to arrange for representation before arriving in the member's country... perhaps she has a friend there or some other way to do this. Finally, depending on where the marriage occurs and where the prenup is signed, there could be all types of international law issues.

The key is that a minimum, the woman needs her own lawyer to increase the chances that the agreement will be upheld. There should not be one lawyer trying to represent both. (I am not even sure if a lawyer would be allowed to represent both in any event in the USA due to a conflict of interest.)

One suggestion I thought of by the way was for the member to agree to buy a life insurance policy and pay the premiums. If the issue is kids from a prior marriage or protecting a family business, and if the marriage came to a natural end (death) instead of divorce, then the wife would be taken care of. Perhaps some type of annuity could be purchased at the end of the marriage in the event that the marriage ended in divorce and the size of the annuity would be based on the number of years married instead of being stuck wih alimony.

There are all types of fair, creative ways to approach the situation. The key to remember is that in the typical case, the host is uprooting herself and moving to a member's country so the member needs to understand she is taking a big risk, maybe even a bigger rish than the member, too. It isn't all about money. And recognizing this and discussing all of these issues will allow for a difficult, awkward discussion to reach an amicable conclusion.

I too have large assets to protect. I would always require a prenup. I have kids who will be the primary beneficiaries of my estate. Not only a prenup but a will should also be considered. Last consideration would be the laws of the Country you will live in.

lucky guy didn't say he had large assets to protect. and the only reason one should bother entering marriage with a pre nup is if they do and even then it's should be out of a sense that maybe she or he is marrying you simply because you have those assets. otherwise what's the need for them, the purpose of marrying should be built on a trust and belief beyond that need

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It seems much simpler to just not get married in the first place.

If you have more money than your fiance....Get a prenup.
If your fiance has more money than you....Do not get a prenup.

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This applies to you too ladies. Don't let some man take half your hard earned money if things don't work out.

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While many suggest a prenuptial agreement is a a guarantee for doom, I generally disagree.

If you are both twenty something and just beginning in life , it's a different story. Part of the great romance in beginning a marriage for young people is the working together to build a secure future for their family. Devising ways to save for that first home, ie; going out together to find a great deal on a piece of furniture at a second hand store or painting your first place together , can be a rewarding event and a shared memory to reflect upon one day. Working together with a common goal is a great part in developing the foundation for happiness and a long relationship.

On the other hand, when there is a disparity in age, previous marital status, children from a previous relationship or significant differences in assets, a prenuptial agreement can be a fine idea.

But, to simply state "what's mine is mine and what's yours is yours" is not necessarily fair. If there is a great disparity in assets, and I am assuming you are considering the prenup based on this, I hardly consider this to be a reasonable expectation.

Why? In my opinion, it places one party at an extreme disadvantage and can always be used as leverage, thereby potentially placing the disadvantaged party in a perceived , or actual, subservient role.

As others have suggested, I would also advise discussing the matter with an attorney. Most prenups include a no fault clause, which would entitle the disadvantaged spouse to a reasonable compensation in the event the relationship simply did not work, so my point may be moot. Depending on where you live this may be automatic even if you have a iron clad prenup which does not allow for that consideration.

In any event , I would hope you would treat the situation with care, and remember it is about the love you share and building a life together. Good Luck...

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you are such a lady mmmmmmmmmmmm.

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trust but verify....lol

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i suggest u find a woman who will make u feel proud to protect her and her babies she will deliver from u, make u feel like a male, like a man, like THE MAN.
when u will find her, then u can proceed to get married.

for good times and bad times.

marriage is similar with 2 insects on a leaf running down on a wild river, they only have each other they have to be a team, now u want a contract about... the leaf being 80% urs (or sorts like that)?

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Even though an admonishment, those are soulful words. It truly would be nice if it were as simple as the insects on the leaf whose only thoughts were not to drown. Oh yes, I do believe love can conquer all, If only we could remember how to love unconditionally.

Sadly or wisely , depending on your perspective, many have had experiences which have left us with fears or awareness we did not possess when we were younger. Perhaps, at times, even a bit cynical. Sigh..

While the poster did not tell the ages, I am guessing he is considerably older than his bride to be. Maybe he will tell us.. :) Cheers

isn't the marriage itself a contract? a contract to eachother and a contract with god?
maybe it's just me, but if you enter into such a thing and are simultaneously making preparations to get out of it and let down god and all, i don't think it's something you should really do.

I thought so also, and don't believe in divorce. But in my situation, after 8 years of marriage and children, my counterpart decided someone else was better and left. Along with half of everything, to her awaiting new home. Too bad not everyone sees the marriage vows as a sacred trust. I doubt if a pre-nuptial would have changed anything so, from that viewpoint, why have one?

Pre-nups are a very good idea....for both individuals. If she signs, she doesn't really care about your financial status..just you: which is a good thing. If you sign it per her behest, then you would love her regardless of her financial status...a good thing. If neither one wants to sign it, then both will know the real intent of interest to be married and it ain't sex. lol

Society has it upside down...easy to marry hard to divorce...so make it hard to marry easy to divorce ... everyone signs a pre-nup all go to marriage counseling before u marry..... problem solved

Better think twice.
You can test her if u speak about a pre nuptial but if you really sign one mean there is no love between both of you.
If you love someone you are not afraid she marry you for the money.
My opinion is to not marry untill you are sure about yours /her feelings.You can leave togheter for a while just to see how it is living togheter and so on.

Good luck!!!

Idealism. I once went on holiday there but I didn't like the food.

Her agreeing to sign a pre-nup is the best test out there. She can't fake it in any way, and she also proves him that she is not after his money, by signing said pre-nup.
If I would be to get married and really loved the guy, I would sign it in a blink, not to mention I, myself have achieved quite a few things in life by working HARD, and wouldn't risk loosing it. Any couple can be deeply in love for a while and then something can go wrong, life is full of surprises. I say better be safe than sorry.

if having to get married to bring a person into the country weren't an issue, i have to ask, would you then even consider getting married? wouldn't the same effect of being married with a prenup be gotten by avoiding marriage altogether and simply living together? or does marriage mean somethign to you in a religious/social institution kind of way? would a reltionship be cheapened in your eyes if it didn't involve marraige?

Just in case you may not know, I will share some scientific information with you.

After many years of research, scientists have determined the most toxic food, to man, is wedding cake. :) Cheers and Bon Appetit..

True. But most recorded accidents occur during the cake cutting with a sharp object.

Yep, that's probably true, but I think the conclusion was; "The intentional ingestion of wedding cake is the most commonly known form of suicide".

Of course there is always the forced fed situation , which some might refer to as a "Shotgun Wedding" .

Then again, it's not always the cake itself but the years of potential heavy drinking which follow the "cake eating" in attempting to escape the reality of the mistake. Cheers.. hic.

essentially marriage is a societal contruct to help bolster the inherently shaking foundation of a relationship and an attempt to lend some stability in society in general. If you buy into the fantasy then eventually you'll wake up to reality. It's a very similar situation as visiting or marrying a chathost...lol.

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I wait this days also my strap on can i bring mine and make all 4 a show? :)))))))))

Steps forwward lol

Lol Grab ankles

or knees
but better spread the asscheeks hahaha

Between the image of SG1 using his new toy and INYF bending over, I think I need to go to an instant action host now!!!

I got one of these strapless strapons that you hold with the pussy and haven't tried it in anyones arse yet either :)

I got one of those strapless non strapons .... it's my penis. I was born just plain lucky huh?

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Really hope it smelled of bubble gum BEFORE you used it!! :-P

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Sounds like a good thing to have around... for a slow day at work, or maybe take it camping on the weekend for those chilly nights in a dark tent, bring it to church for a sunday sex sermon... so many uses

Hey u got one! The yellow thing;)))))))))))))))))))))))))))

yellow? nooooo.....the case is black and the "pussy" inside is pink :P ...if you like to see it, just let me know and I visit you in vid ...:-P

shhh!!
People will think I am a pervert! :P

A perv like u-a dream come true=))

So Monika are you going on the record as being Pro-Perv? If so next time I see you I'll take the perv behavior up a few notches.

i have to work this weekend :-((

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It is time for a weekend of play.
48 hours. No stopping. Not even for pee breaks.

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happy weekend to you too friend:D

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think i'd still have the hotdog,but without mustard :--)

Oh yeah, but please make that hot dog jumbo size, pls :-D

Hmmm I remember seeing it at Media Galaxy and/or Diverta in Plaza shopping center and Vitan Mall quite a long time ago, not sure if they had all seasons though. I downloaded them all from a torrents site though.

Did you enjoy watching them? Do you find the characters well-developed and "realistic"?

I wish the price was more evident... like on the list of hosts. If hosts put their best pics on the page with price, I could decide in 2 seconds if I was interested in checking out her profile, forum, and other pics in making my final determination about who to enter video with. I waste a lot of time seeing a half-decent pic on the list of hosts page that makes me think "well, maybe I should check her out". Then I have to check the price and the archives and click all over the place. When scrolling through 50 or more possible hosts to join, it takes a long time.

good idea

what cc really need is a search by price .maybe the girls charging 3 dollars a minute would lower there price not to be last on search list.

I'd like CC to revamp the photo section that each girl has. Some girls have few or next to none...some girls have an incredible amount that have built up over time. I understand that the idea is for a guest to be able to see "dated photos" -- so you can see what the girl looks like from a recent show. But who needs photos from 2 or 3 years ago? Those are pointless if the girl has changed much (gained weight or dyed her hair or some such thing). I think each girl should simply get their own personal photo gallery attached to their profile, which could 100 or so photos. That's more than enough since she could always rotate new photos in and old photos out. Then I think it would be nice if a member could click on the photos and see them LARGER than we do now and at a far better quality and resolution level. Too many of the photos you see now in the girl's galleries were taken with their cams and the photos look small, fuzzy, and blah. So make the pictures bigger and better.

its a not cc problem that u see a pic blurry.its depend abouut what cam do host use,

I totally disagree with everything you say. If a host has a long photo archive it indicates how experienced she is. I also like to see how a host looked in the past and enjoy looking at the older pics of my favorite hosts. There appears to be no limit to the number of photos a host has in her archives so why not leave things as they are. If you only want to look at the recent photos that is fine. I also think it is better to keep the resolution of the photos as it is now and mainly have photos taken with the host's cam. This means that the photo gives a closer representation of how the host actually looks in video. As a general comment i am generally pleased to see new features but do not like to see new rules or restrictions. This is what your suggestions seem to be. Part of the unique charm of CC for is the freedom it gives to hosts to do their own thing (compared with many other sites) and relaxed informal atmosphere.

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Totally agree. Add features, but don't take away something that is easy enough to ignore anyway.

Only thing about picture quality - if the photo is from a webcam the quality used now is fine. If a girl chooses to import some from outside it would be nice to see the better quality version.

It is essential (for me) to see pics that resemble a typical webcam session with this host, but it's very nice to see pics from outside or even from professional photo sessions from time to time.

I like the traffic light idea. I also like suggestion box's better quality pictures but agree with Long Time Member on his other points.

Host is there a limit to the size of the pic you can currently upload as I think this is what suggestion box means. Even the best pics aren't a great resolution.

As for me I would like a feature where you could mail all the hosts with what you want to see and do in video and any host that can fulfil your wished could reply.

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Yes maybe. The one problem I could maybe see witht hat is that people may be too shy to post and respond if they know everyone else can read the posts.

Basically I don't want everyone knowing what a perv I really am :P

Interesting. If I read it correctly, you want to tell EVERY chathost what you want, but it's the members that you don't want to see it? Personally, it's the hosts that I care about.

But anyway, I like your idea to somehow make these connections. If a member says anonymously what he likes, hosts can reply publicly that they will do that. Of course they might be shy too, but they might get unexpected publicity. When one wants it surely there are others that do too.

That's a great idea Alpha, it could also be like a classified ads section where hosts could promote their specialities or whatever makes them distinct from others, and members could either find what they came looking for, or perhaps have their imagination stirred by new ideas

That would be just a copy of other sites.Let's keep CC just how it is because is still great and better then other sites.

Yeah, we could do that right here if there was a way to send a private message to the user who posted the message. c.c. could direct responses to the user's c.c. mail without saying who it is.

C.C. mail has the option to permanently block a host or viewer. If this feature was available in community chat, I think it might get used by both viewers and hosts...

I think if we could block one particular country in community chat we would all use it more. Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.

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lol...maybe we should improve the traffic light

RED - Host is in One 2 One or protects the video with a password
YELLOW - Free for Open Session (another guest is already in)
GREEN - Free for Open Session / One 2 One
SPARKLING RAINBOW - Cum in!

:P

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Personally, I enjoy any kind of conversation that allows me to connect with the member, granting that "first date" feeling, it doesn't matter what the topic is. As for the actual show, I like it when the guy tells me how he would touch me, guiding my hands for instance, I find it extremely boring when someone comes in and says "let's see your show", it's not like I am a stripper in a bar who just follows a dance routine, and I know that if I were a member I would want to direct my own show while interacting with the host I'm seeing.

im not a big time shows fan and dont do much but it happens if i connect with the guy and he knows how to touch my buttons mainly thrue talking.i like sharing fantasies and the kinkyer the better :$

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agree with u,when guy telling me that he is looking for me.or looking for sexy inteliugent beautoiful girl.i want to please him asnd to do more for him,he have 100% chance2 get all what he want , if he teling me"im looking for hot naughty show" its turn on,,i feel myself as in the ZOO

turn off* i mean

Thanks for the tip Alice and agree :P

As for the original post I must admit that as I am paying what the host wants is not so important to me :D

ahh pity,,,:P,if member not care how i feel and what i want i just send him far away...:)i always do only what I want,and hmm-im busy 90% of time on vid :D

Well while I am glad you are busy 90% of the time I prefer the hosts who are only busy 10% of the time because they don't send me far away lol

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When you go into a restaurant do you ask the waitress how she feels about bringing you the meal you've ordered?
Maybe she would like to sit down at your table and talk to you for an hour while you give her a $2.50 tip every minute before she gets up to bring your meal.
Maybe she works in a hamburger restaurant, but doesn't like meat, so she refuses to bring you anything but that which she likes..

He's just being honest. The money changes the experience. If we were both showing our cams to each other for free you can bet the men would be trying harder to please the women.

If I was paying in real life then the girl would be a prostitute so you can bet your bottom dollar that I wouldn't be caring about her needs in bed.

As smitten said. If the show was free I am more than happy to consider your needs but while I'm paying the only needs I worry about are my own.

That doesn't mean I am rude to the girls here it just means that I want to decide what I see in the show (obviously within the host's limits) and I have no interest in what turns her on just so long as she can pretend to be turned on :D

I should also point out that the charming young ladies I video with all seem to be quite happy with this arrangement.

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As you point out at one level what you say is common sense. I need to know how to to pick up on how she non-verbally communicates and how to find her hot buttons. What are the "silid techniques". I certainly get it right sometimes but this was by luck and known from hindsight. How to know when "taking action" become "being pushy". The best i seem to have going for me is that I am a good listener.

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I think you're missing the point Mishel - picking up girls in real life is easy, this thread is about how to talk to chat hosts ;)

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Don't forget woman want to know how much of an alpha you are and that usually starts with money or the type of car or type of house or clothing. But, it really boils down to money. This has been scientifically proven over and over again. And, the results are always the same: either you are to top dog in the gang or have that characteristic is overshadowed by wealth. Wealth is the measurement women use to determine if he is a provider or not.

yes, finanacial security is very important to a woman in choosing a mate. but equally important is for a woman to convince her "top dog" provider to hire a very hot, hunky latin pool boy and for her provider to stay away at the office as much as possible.

Now, that was funny and true. ROTFLMAO

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WOW Elena, Your show was wild, I always knew you had it in you. I look forward to many many more just like it!

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elsewhere you said "i'm not a fan of sexual things...I am more special and better than that"... so I am confused lol or is it an april fools day joke?

Yep, I heard that too sometime ago....

Good show, thanks. But actually thought the third dildo was a bit much.

Good one palopalo and "Hoakes"....as in Hoax ..."A hoax is a deliberate attempt to dupe, deceive or trick an audience into believing, or accepting, that something is real, when in fact it is not." Nice job though..:)) Happy April Fools!

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is it a April joke? ;-)

I remember these words... "I am special and I am not cheap", "I love my bf and I respect him very much", "I will not show my body here, I am better than that"..... It must be a joke!

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I know who i am talking about unless you were joking when you told me those things. Anyways, I will continue going to Not So Shy category where girls are more concious of the site where they are working at.

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good PR

The real joke is $2.50 for open session. Now that is funny.

she sms me today, she will be back soon to us:)i miss her too alooot!:D

How is she? She was ill?

no ,not at all .thx God she is not ill.just very busy with things,she will tell u herself later :P and she will be back maybe next week;)

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Visiting Glamour girls, eh?

hehehe, my first thought too :D

nope...not only Glamour....also in "Little shy" or "Not so shy"...e.g. what if a girl says "nude only in 121" and she is in "not so shy"...is that ok?

report her if she is in not so shy.

In nonadult there can be nothing overtly sexual, including nudity of course, lingerie, heavily sexual chat, touching or anything you could label adult. Most nonadult hosts will move to glamour or an adult category to satisfy a member's craven desires. Do you really think people are paying 2.99 a minute for a smile and witty conversation?

Every other category as far as I know is wide open....including Glamour...full nudity, play, sexual chat, toys...the works. Now hosts will tell you that certain categories limit their behavior. Not true as far as my experience. Now hosts dont have to do anything in any category so you need to negotiate and be specific about what you are looking for in a show....specifics are important. Once she agrees you more or less have a contract and if she does not deliver you have some redtress with cc. But be careful..what does strip mean? removing a blouse or total nudity? what does play mean? teasing and joking with you or sexual stimulation? As crass as it sounds spell out what you want to see...these girls are pros here...they will either agree or negotiate. The few true shy ones will tell you to buzz off. All in all a fun place.

This guy is a genius. Very well explained. Exactly the same experience I have had here.

If you want to find all the rules sign up as a host.

It is always wise to ask in free chat what the host will or will not do in paid videochat.

yes ;) and how do u define a hot strip
calls for details

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I'm addicted :( spend too much often. I have it bad.
Have even visited you before

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Yes, I've visited you :-) You are addicted too? You are SO nice!

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now lets ALL have a big group hug !!

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Yes, if I were being paid to be here, it would be good for me too.

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I used to know a girl here...and I remember her always telling me..."Oh gee, I'm only here for short time"....lol...welcome to the club...club addicts.

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Definition of addiction; The condition of being habitually or compulsively occupied with or involved in something. Humm..
OK.. Seems I am covered within that definition. So, that leaves me to explore the possibility of OCD (Obsessive Compulsive Disorder), which is a condition characterized by thoughts resulting in compulsive behaviors and acts that the person feels driven to perform. Ahh, I think I'm onto something here. Let me think for a minute.....Damn, that's me alright. Oh well, it could be worse. At least I'm not watching Sponge Bob Squarepants 8 hours a day. So now my little pretties, who's wants to be the fair damsel in distress calling for me to rescue her from the pirates den? Hummm?? I await your summons.

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I wish i could tell you :( shy to visit you now that u know my dark secret, but miss u lots!

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sweet addiction ....

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dont worry. we didnt believe them anyways.

now why would someone here give a home address,, we only here for awhile and then we gone,, wait,,, i been here to long, scratch that, people should give addresess

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Yes, but some Hosts do become good friends with a certain guy they met online, so just like in real life -- where you would exchange with a good friend your email addresses or phone numbers or even home mailing addresses so you could do something as simple as send Christmas cards to each other -- why shouldn't a host give out her information to someone she's actually become good friends with?

You girls need to make up your minds. If it's ONLY about stripping and making money and NOTHING else, then you can pretty much expect the guys to start treating you in a certain way. So don't complain when it happens.

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sometimes members want to send me gift and ask for my house address, but i always give my studio address. I will never give my house address to a stranger even if i talked with him 1 year here. Is internet and not real. I need to know the person well to give trust.

Sweet...i wanna send you a gift too, but as i am not real,just internet,i guess you are not real either so the gift will be virtual...hope you don't mind ;)

I dont wait for gifts from anybody I dont know. Any good thought or wish is always welcome. Thx u!

You are right :) ,as your name sounds..you are really experienced...Good point ;)

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I'll take No. 3 thanks :)

So please send me your home address :P

Bc ...my exemple i do belive in friendship and i like sending a card or a small gift to my friends..and maybe they want the same...that doesnt means a F ...just to show that u care.U dont buy ur friends a birthday present?

akina that is easy,, you got it (every weekend) and by the way, nice new pictures

thank you...miss happy go lucky.

I never tried to say that all hosts give members their home addresses. The vast majority do not and are completely within their rights not to do so.. Early in the thread a poster suggested that when hosts give their address it is often a false one. I merely wanted to point out that not all hosts are liars. I agree it got a bit out of hand after that.

I never give my home address here.
Only crazy girls do it. I have a life already and i dont want trouble with my family. I only come here for work.

I completely understand your reasons for not giving your home address and have no problem with this. i disagree that only crazy girls let members have their addresses.

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Sometimes is much better to be safe than later be sorry. I saw one case in my studio where the girl was in trouble for trusting her all time member that never saw her show. He came to her city and started following her every where even when she did not want. I dont doubt that here many nice members, but how can you trust someone you never saw? Be careful, you never know. Life is full of mysteries and not good surprises.

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been gone going on 2 years man.

simply asked if anyone had heard

hey, excuse me for asking

She is doing well now

lmao....i thought the punchline was going to be about fish or something, i didn't see that coming

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LOL!!!

It's not like I asked for overtime pay...

T. Penis

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ohh mg this was really amusing.. it is somthing obvious.. the cuckoo... already have a home..

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so tru. thanks.

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very..very good .. as i allways say......"love your boss..cuz the next one might be worse"..........

the one the guy form AIG wrote and posted in the wall st journal last week was better and more poignant

Very good, however, 1 error the final signature should Ex Employee

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What price you have dear?
I think is all about the price Dungeon is not a cheap category.Or maybe also because I didn't saw till now a black Mistress.

Who knows?!

Good luck!

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I might be wrong, but a guy who likes a bottle up his ass probably isn't that rational about your colour, category or much of anything really!

Not for one nanosecond do I think you are wrong. A bottle up the butt??? I just plain don't get it . Then again, there's a lot of stuff I don't get, or do. So, who am I to judge? It does make me wonder just where the limits are though. Humm, I wonder if someone would be willing to take a plastic shower curtain with some olive oil , beer, golf balls and peanuts and .... , Oh never mind, that's too perverted to write about. :)

Categories are less important that 1.) price and 2:) appearance. Price must be in 1.25 121 or less price range. If a host gives a good show in open for less than that she is added to my fav list and becomes a regular. Appearance? Race is not important....face..hair..eyes....body...all important. Good Pics... and nice chat.. that is what rocks my world.

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I usually stick to categories (Little Shy, Not So Shy), but also go random host surfing.
I always read profiles and check out pics to get a sense of what the host may be like, especially when it is someone I haven't visited before. Sometimes go to text chat if I'm interested in the seeing the host, but not sure enough to start spending money on her.
Only then, will I stick a bottle up my ass and head into video chat.

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I stayed in a good hotel in Kockma, a small town just outside of Ivanovo. Food and service were very good with an indoor pool. If you want more info, please mail me.

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thanks i will try like you told

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is it possible to first find hotel in moscow and then travel to other cities and find other hotel there?

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you have hosted many men in real than xxNADYxx and know this to be true?

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Hello!
I am from Ivanovo and I have had some american, french friends here with me. You don't need have registration in the hotel for get visa; you could choose every hotel whatever you want. In the hotel you ll get stamp to you passport (registration); this is important for you whe you are ready to leave Russia. You ll have first 3 days for get this registration, if you didn't, then you ll have points for each day. If you want live in appartaments- not a big deal-need ll get hotel for one night (just for get registration to your ID) and move to the flat; it ll cheaper then hotel too;)
I like hotels like Sheremetevo , Souz (100-200$ per night).
Have a good trip, and a lot of fun;)

if you go thru travisa they will get your visa and an invite. once you are there you can go to the post office and get one registration for your whole trip, it takes about an hour and you have to be with a resident or be able to read russian

agree totally.

Yeah, never could quite understand the nail appeal. Don't get the foot fetish thing either. Is it the actual feet they like, or must the feet be attached to a beautiful woman? Or would they perhaps like even my feet? (Too bad I can't attach a pic here) I like women because they have things I don't have. And don't try to tell me we all have nipples.

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No wonder everybody loves you!

I agree with Akina. Different members like different pictures. I know I like a variety of pictures from the face to the feet including the hands. I do not like all pictures of just the same thing such as the nails only. I want to see the host as a whole individual even with different moods. My moods vary greatly.

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Ohhhh yes, I love the hand photos. Those long slender fingers, glistening in the light from a fresh application of scented lotion. I imagine them now, wrapped around my love shaft and ever so slowly twitching and stroking until, until,, uhh, uhh . Damn, I just messed myself talking about it. Oh well, to each his or her own.. I gotta go wash up.

k now it is starting to make sense.

There are certainly some guys who are nail fetishists and so the pictures may attract them. I think a another factor is that many girls do take a pride in their nails and consider having them looking good as an important part of their overall appearance.

When we are talking about strange fetishes.. What about those high heels?? Do anybody really become sexual stimuladed of those? A beautiful naked girl among white sheets with high heels... a ridiculous sight in my opinion.
Look at SolitarySouls toes in her new pics.. this is really a beautiful and sexy sight.. (still my opinion..)

I have members that want to see me with high heels just rubbing my high heels.I have some that would like to see me scratching a dildo with my nails,others want to see me smoking and so on.
Everyone have his own fetish and if you look at the photos of a host and you see nails photos or high heels photos and you don't like just think the host want to make a lot of members happy not just you :))))))

Every time I click on a profile to see the photos and I see most of the photos are hand and nails pic I go to the next host.
I like to see face, eyes, nice lips, and nice legs. I know there are some guys that like nails,fingers, and feet, but in my case I dont really care for that.

:)))
From MORE THEN 100 of pics I have just 3 with my nails.I guess that is not too much.

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And you are the cayenne pepper..hot n spicy :))

cervical cancer is considered an STD?

No, but an STD can be a principal cause of the cancer

canbe and ur point are two different things. try finding a sad example of someone who died due to an STD. might have more impact

Unfortunately that is very easy. Every year tens of thousands of people die worldwide from syphilis (an STD). Each one of those deaths is sad, even if the victims aren't as well known.

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cancer is cancer, it doesnt matter what kind of cancer it is, is gonna put you down phisicaly and psyhicaly, is gonna finish your life no matter how young you are

I'm sorry but you are very ill-informed and the prognosis for many cancer sufferers is very positive, not just for a complete cure but to in having no adverse effect on life expectancy. Obviously this varies from country to country. Your remark could lead to unnecessary fear and despair and must be contradicted.

Well speaking from my personal experience I do know that certain forms of cancer if spotted early enough are treatable. Breast cancer and Prostate cancer being the two most prevalent and therefore the ones I am aware of. Though skin cancer and throat cancers are also apt to be overlooked by people who are not so attentive.

The strange thing about cancer is that to all intents and purposes it is not one disease to be tackled. Cancerous cells are cells that do not naturally die, that is to say they start off as normal cells but something happens to them that changes their behaviour. Links to a modern lifestyle might point to more environmental factors than any one would feel comfortable with but given that we really only scratch the surface of understanding how our bodies are adapting to the 21st of ours anything is game to be questioned.

Bottom line though is that sleeping around without physical protection is putting more than just a sore dick at risk. If more people really took note of that then maybe we would see a decline in teenage pregnancies and STD's.

When I was a teenager the AIDS ad's were really stark and made no bones about catch AIDS and you're dead. I distinctly remember the tombstone. That got the message across to me so why aren't similar messages getting to the kids of this generation?

Ahh well, it is not a matter for too much debate really just an attempt at an informative post to prompt some discussion.

TNTGTGSACN

Wasn't there a news story just yesterday that discussed a positive correlation between the consumption of red and processed meats and not only an increased risk of cancer, but of heart disease as well?

So give up the burgers and the bacon and the sausage, people, that shits likely to kill ya.

Thank you for your post. I know also from recent personal experience (someone very close to me) that cancer is treatable if caught early enough. And, yes, you are fortunate if you live in a society where medical screening is available, but you still need to get screened to take advantage of this.

And there are all kinds of changes you can make in your lifestyle to avoid cancer, even apart from the available medical care. Exercise, changes in diet, reducing stress, stop smoking... these things can also improve the quality of your life in general.

It's not simple or easy, necessarily... but I don't wish cancer on anyone.

that is the strange thing about cancer. it's more than possible that many different diseases, from lack of knowledge, and we all forget that medicine is not an exact science always, are classified as cancer.

yes there are some cancers that have been tough to treat among them pancreatic, lung and bone, though computers are advancing the study

i forgot there's also one they call oak leaf. if you get it most likely dead in 60 days or so

it's "oat cell," a form of lung cancer

i was close, sorry

probably because in the country i live , the prognosis is not so positive?

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I am sorry to know that host, it is true around the world often curable ailments that seem very trivial to us in the 'developed' world, are killers in a foreign land.

Perhaps cancer treatments and medicines are not as readily available to you but that was not really what I was driving at. The reason I tried to highlight the link was because over the last few days ,in the UK at least, there has been much talk about how if more women were checked more would be saved but it is the rise in STD's that is putting people off even wanting to go see a doctor let alone have a smear done.

I have friends who work in laboratories that test all manner of ways of detecting and treating cancer, from dye tagging misbehaving cells to custom making virii to latch onto and target malignant cells. It is all very cutting edge stuff but what they have all told me is that if they could compile real data on healthy people as well as those that have been diagnosed they would stand a much better chance of seeing how the type of cancers change from person to person.

For the people whose bodies just seem to give up and let it spread all over to the ones who bodies seem to do the impossible and actually target and kill the rogue cells before they are a problem.

All I know is that if we want to live a healthy and happy life it cannot be a wild party 24/7 with the thought of no consequences in the future. I know I want to see my grandchildren grow up and so I hope I will still be pontificating and whining long into my 80's ;)

Just take care of yourself, host.

Waste not a day or a night in fear, hold close your loves and keep them near.

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It's interesting too that cancer, as well as other such "diseases of affluence" that affect the the health of the developed world are not nearly as prevalent in other societies. Cancer, heart disease, diabetes, obesity, Alzheimer's, and autoimmune disease like multiple sclerosis occur at much higher rates in the West than anywhere else.
Makes a person wonder.

There is something in what you say, but one mustn't ignore the fact that precisely because it is the developed world that diagnostic identification of disease when alive is more precise , and post mortems more prevalent when dead. So the incidence of disease is not necessarily greater, just the recognition of it.

can be and is are not the same thing. one is theory. TNT's point was fine but should have found a better example, one that proved it

One might also get hit by truck and die within a minute. Life is just a so fragile that almost anything can take it away from us. But then again, it wouldn't be life if its lived with fear.

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Well put host. I am sorry you had to suffer the loss more than once :(

It is true that many things are thought to be the causes of cancer and our world today is markedly different from what it was say 200 years ago. The amount of unseen 'noise' that flies about us is incredible. From mobile telephone masts to Radio antennas, even the stray odd microwave or satellite transmissions. We have no idea how these might effect us on a cellular level over generations and perhaps we are only just finding out what all this electromagnetic smorgasbord has in store for us.

We must all be aware of the dangers and try to live our lives not just healthily but happily too. Happiness it a natural balance for stress and without it you will suffer greatly. Make no bones about it, stress in all it's forms is a killer. And no one ever said as they are lying on their deathbed having run themselves to exhaustion, "I really wish I spent more time at work".

What was it again.. Don't worry, be happy? :)

TNTFALST

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One thing that has been noted is that HPV (human papilloma virus), which causes the majority of cervical cancers, is also showing up in the mouth. There is a huge increase in the cases of oral cancer due to HPV. And with the amount of oral sex that is happening, this number will increase.....people need to wake up and realize that unprotected sex, be it oral, vaginal or anal....can infect someone with HPV and cause cancer. A sad but true fact of life in the 21st century.

Did you know that heart disease kills more people than all of the kinds of cancer combined!