General Forum
Playboy & pants
The Playboy organisation made a loss of $145million dollars in the last 3 months of 2008. Is the bottom falling out of the pornography industry?...or just out of my underpants:))
RE: Playboy & pants
Playboy has been losing money for ages. They've been in a rocky financial state for years, so have most porn magazines. As you would guess, the Internet and free porn online has totally cut into their business. Ironically, online porn has also hit the porn industry itself. I saw porn star Savannah Sampson on a late night talk show and she was complaining about guys downloading her pics or clips online but NOT joining her pay site. At one point she looked at the camera and bluntly said "I just want to say to all the guys out there, if you're jerking off to my pictures and they didn't come from my pay site, just remember you're taking money out of my pocket!" Given how horny guys can be and they just want to get off, I'm sure her plea fell on a lot of deaf ears!
your dirty mind too?
Dr. Parker, the biology instructor at a posh suburban girl's junior college, said during class, "Miss Smith, would you please name the organ of the human body, which under the appropriate conditions, expands to six times its normal size, and define the conditions."
Miss Smith gasped, blushed deeply, then said freezingly, “Dr. Parker, I do not think that is a proper question to ask me, you should be asking a boy. And I assure you my parents will hear of this."
With that she sat down, very red-faced.
Unperturbed, Dr. Parker called on Miss Johnson and asked the same question. Miss Johnson, with composure, replied, "The pupil of the eye, in dim light."
"Correct," said Dr. Parker. "And now, Miss Smith, I have three things to say to you.
One, you have not studied your lesson.
Two, you have a dirty mind.
And three, you will some day be faced with a dreadful disappointment." :--)
Miss Smith gasped, blushed deeply, then said freezingly, “Dr. Parker, I do not think that is a proper question to ask me, you should be asking a boy. And I assure you my parents will hear of this."
With that she sat down, very red-faced.
Unperturbed, Dr. Parker called on Miss Johnson and asked the same question. Miss Johnson, with composure, replied, "The pupil of the eye, in dim light."
"Correct," said Dr. Parker. "And now, Miss Smith, I have three things to say to you.
One, you have not studied your lesson.
Two, you have a dirty mind.
And three, you will some day be faced with a dreadful disappointment." :--)
RE: BEST PLAYBACK VIDEO THAT YOU EVER SAW?!!!?
Was a video playback bath and shower session by TMM back in 2006 in adult section. omg she was so hot in that video!
RE: BEST PLAYBACK VIDEO THAT YOU EVER SAW?!!!?
It was almost 2 years ago now, a girl/girl with Anitalove20 (Claudia?) and her friend Lisa. These 2 were not pretending! It was one of the most sensual vids i have ever seen. Honourable mention to AnalDoll for really pushing the envelope with the crazy things she does.
RE: BEST PLAYBACK VIDEO THAT YOU EVER SAW?!!!?
Xextasyx has some very sexy playback vids to check ,Avora did a great on in shower also teengone wild (wow).Kathys had a good one with white panties. i seen so many but xextasysx bath vid stands out for sheer class (but Alex is very classy lady )
RE: BEST PLAYBACK VIDEO THAT YOU EVER SAW?!!!?
My favorite is LATINHOTT...she is very original and creative with her videos....makes me crazy. She is brazilian, so she is very sexy in video playback....also amazing in live cam.
RE: BEST PLAYBACK VIDEO THAT YOU EVER SAW?!!!?
check the new xextasyx playback ;) very sensual
RE: BEST PLAYBACK VIDEO THAT YOU EVER SAW?!!!?
I tried a Latinhott playback a couple of weeks ago and found the picture quality very poor - like slow internet speed and low resolution
RE: BEST PLAYBACK VIDEO THAT YOU EVER SAW?!!!?
JB, I watched one of LatinHott video playbacks yesterday...and everything looked high quality to me....I can only say mmm...mmmm....and mmmmmm!! very sexy!!!!
RE: What present to man for man's holliday?
What's a man's holiday? You mean your bf is comming to visit you? I guess in that case you will be enough..
RE: What present to man for man's holliday?
Since Valentines Day is essentially a nice day for the special ladies to be remembered, I have always thought men should have a similar holiday. While flowers, candy and fragrance may be great gifts for that special woman, what turns a man's head is much more simple. With that in mind, perhaps the new holiday should be called "Steak and B.J. Day". It's self explanatory and is guaranteed to win your man's heart. Good Luck and........Cheers
RE: What present to man for man's holliday?
I promise you,, the outlined "gift" would be greatly appreciated. If you would be inclined to offer this gift with greater frequency, you have a lucky man indeed.. I think those who are older or have been married for some time understand the significance. Cheers...
RE: What present to man for man's holliday?
Wow I think I want to be the man in your life :P
p.s. I don't really like tools :D
p.s. I don't really like tools :D
RE: ImNotYourFriend
Yes it was for you. Now that I have checked out your pics it is doubly true :D
RE: What present to man for man's holliday?
You know about the only tool that matters so everything is fine :P
Happy B-day GlamDeborah
As you celebrate your day,I celebrate you & the beautiful friendship we share.Happy b-day mistress and everything you wish may come true!!!!
Happy Birthday!!!
On your birthday I wish you much pleasure and joy;
I hope all of your wishes come true.
May each hour and minute be filled with delight,
And your birthday be perfect for you!
Happy Birthday GlamDeborah!!!
I hope all of your wishes come true.
May each hour and minute be filled with delight,
And your birthday be perfect for you!
Happy Birthday GlamDeborah!!!
RE: Happy Birthday!!!
Thank you sooooo much...I wish you also all the best and all you wish to come true.Is a special day and thanks so much to everyone that was so kind to send me his/her warm wishes for my b-day!
kissssssssssssss
kissssssssssssss
NIne Words Women Use
NINE WORDS WOMEN USE
(1) Fine: This is the word women use to end an argument when they are right and you need to shut up.
(2) Five Minutes: If she is getting dressed, this means a half an hour. Five minutes is only five minutes if you have just been given five more minutes to watch the game before helping around the house.
(3) Nothing: This is the calm before the storm. This means something, and you should be on your toes. Arguments that begin with nothing usually end in fine.
(4) Go Ahead: This is a dare, not permission .. Don't Do It!
(5) Loud Sigh: This is actually a word, but is a non-verbal statement often misunderstood by men. A loud sigh means she thinks you are an idiot and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here and arguing with you about nothing. (Refer back to # 3 for the meaning of nothing.)
(6) That's Okay: This is one of the most dangerous statements a women can make to a man... That's okay means she wants to think long and hard before deciding how and when you will pay for your mistake.
(7) Thanks: A woman is thanking you, do not question, or faint. Just say you're welcome. (I want to add in a clause here - This is true, unless she says 'Thanks a lot' - that is PURE sarcasm and she is not thanking you at all. DO NOT say 'you're welcome' . that will bring on a 'whatever').
(8) Whatever: Is a woman's way of saying F-- YOU!
(9) Don' t worry about it, I got it: Another dangerous statement, meaning this is something that a woman has told a man to do several times, but is now doing it herself. This will later result in a man asking 'What's wrong?' For the woman's response refer to # 3.
RE: NIne Words Women Use
The only thing I would add is....Menstral Cycle...For all those true Gentlemen...you already know Words ARE NOT REQUIRED to describe the Preventive Maintenance System(PMS) that is in place!!!
RE: Fetish
I haven't read the category rules recently, but isn't fetish an adult category where members might expect nudity?
Here are some fetishes I've heard people asking for that don't require nudity.
Feet
High heels
Stockings / panty hose
Finger nails
Smoking
Here are some fetishes I've heard people asking for that don't require nudity.
Feet
High heels
Stockings / panty hose
Finger nails
Smoking
RE: Fetish
Well, if she does mention her fetish area and that she won't do anything else in her session name/details and/or profile I guess that would be OK as well;)
Alternative Genesis
One day in the Garden of Eden, Eve called out to God to talk to her.
"What's the problem, Eve?"
"Well, I know you created me and provided this beautiful garden and all of these wonderful animals including that hilarious snake, but I'm just not happy."
"Why is that, Eve?" came the reply from above.
"I am lonely," said Eve, "and I'm sick to death of apples."
"Well, Eve, in that case, I have a solution. I shall create a man for you."
"What's a man, God?"
"This man will be a flawed creature, with many bad traits. He'll lie, cheat, and be vainglorious; all in all, he'll generally give you a hard time. But...he'll be bigger and faster, and can help protect you, and will like to hunt and kill things to eat. He will look silly when he's aroused, but as you've been complaining about frustration, I'll
create him in such a way that he will satisfy your physical needs. He will be witless and will revel in childish things like fighting and kicking a ball about. He won't be
too smart, so he'll also often need your advice to think properly."
"Sounds great." said Eve. She raised an eyebrow quizzically. "What's the
catch?"
"Well... you can have him on one condition."
"What's that, God?"
"As I said, he'll be proud, arrogant, and self-admiring... So to keep him happy you'll
have to let him believe that I made him first. Just remember, it's a little secret just between the two of us ... You know, woman to woman."
"What's the problem, Eve?"
"Well, I know you created me and provided this beautiful garden and all of these wonderful animals including that hilarious snake, but I'm just not happy."
"Why is that, Eve?" came the reply from above.
"I am lonely," said Eve, "and I'm sick to death of apples."
"Well, Eve, in that case, I have a solution. I shall create a man for you."
"What's a man, God?"
"This man will be a flawed creature, with many bad traits. He'll lie, cheat, and be vainglorious; all in all, he'll generally give you a hard time. But...he'll be bigger and faster, and can help protect you, and will like to hunt and kill things to eat. He will look silly when he's aroused, but as you've been complaining about frustration, I'll
create him in such a way that he will satisfy your physical needs. He will be witless and will revel in childish things like fighting and kicking a ball about. He won't be
too smart, so he'll also often need your advice to think properly."
"Sounds great." said Eve. She raised an eyebrow quizzically. "What's the
catch?"
"Well... you can have him on one condition."
"What's that, God?"
"As I said, he'll be proud, arrogant, and self-admiring... So to keep him happy you'll
have to let him believe that I made him first. Just remember, it's a little secret just between the two of us ... You know, woman to woman."
RE: Alternative Genesis
Scientists say all creatures started out as female, with some species developing males as well. So, all us guys started out as c**ts then later evolved into pricks.
RE: Next covergirl
Hmmm...Hmmm...craving for my green wrinkled humps you must be :).Nervous you make me...hmmm...
Hosts could you do me a favour
When you post your profile pics could you post pictures taken just a couple of seconds apart. Then, on the days when I have no money (everyday), I could call them up click on the next button and pretend I am in a video (like when you draw pictures in a book and then flick the pages quickly) :P
a monkey & a lizard were...
A monkey is sitting in a tree smoking a joint when a lizard walks past and looks up and says to the monkey "Hey! What are you doing?"
The monkey says "Smoking a joint, come up and have some." So the lizard climbs up and sits next to the monkey and they have a few joints.
After a while the lizard says his mouth is 'dry' and is going to get a drink from the river.
The lizard is so stoned that he leans too far over and falls into the river.
A Crocodile sees this and swims over to the lizard and helps him to the side, then asks the lizard, "What's the matter with you?"
The lizard explains to the crocodile that he was sitting smoking a joint with the monkey in the tree, got too stoned and then fell into the river while taking a drink.
The crocodile says he has to check this out and walks into the jungle, finds the tree where the monkey is sitting, finishing a joint, and he looks up and says "Hey you!"
The Monkey looks down and says "Faaaaaaark dude....... how much water did you drink?!!" :--)
The monkey says "Smoking a joint, come up and have some." So the lizard climbs up and sits next to the monkey and they have a few joints.
After a while the lizard says his mouth is 'dry' and is going to get a drink from the river.
The lizard is so stoned that he leans too far over and falls into the river.
A Crocodile sees this and swims over to the lizard and helps him to the side, then asks the lizard, "What's the matter with you?"
The lizard explains to the crocodile that he was sitting smoking a joint with the monkey in the tree, got too stoned and then fell into the river while taking a drink.
The crocodile says he has to check this out and walks into the jungle, finds the tree where the monkey is sitting, finishing a joint, and he looks up and says "Hey you!"
The Monkey looks down and says "Faaaaaaark dude....... how much water did you drink?!!" :--)
to TNT
Im really sorry i cannot send you a cc mail, here is long time ago since i stopped using my real name for some reasons and i prefer to stay like this if you dont mind:)
Let me be your secret admirer hehe:*
Hus!
Let me be your secret admirer hehe:*
Hus!
RE: to TNT ~ host in adult section
Oh well that is ok.. I understand. It was just natural curiosity stemming from well over a year ago :)
We all have reasons for wanting to keep CC away and separate from 'real' life and for my part I'd much rather have RL over CC any day.
I am a product of a time when things seemed simpler, relationships were easier and generally there was more trust to be had and less cynicism to be found. I cannot complain, just ponder.. :)
The only reason I asked was because I had thought, like so many others you had moved on never to be seen again, and it seemed a shame to never really connect after all.
Still, if you do eventually move on maybe then you will spare a thought for lill' ol' me and take me with you? :) Hehe..
Ahhh we can all dream can't we :P
Take care.
TNTSTHBPCBSSS
We all have reasons for wanting to keep CC away and separate from 'real' life and for my part I'd much rather have RL over CC any day.
I am a product of a time when things seemed simpler, relationships were easier and generally there was more trust to be had and less cynicism to be found. I cannot complain, just ponder.. :)
The only reason I asked was because I had thought, like so many others you had moved on never to be seen again, and it seemed a shame to never really connect after all.
Still, if you do eventually move on maybe then you will spare a thought for lill' ol' me and take me with you? :) Hehe..
Ahhh we can all dream can't we :P
Take care.
TNTSTHBPCBSSS
RE: to TNT ~ KinkyDiva
Well maybe if you are not so busy we can use yours ;)
But seriously, tis no big deal. I was just curious, no more , no less. People always know how to reach me if needed. I have never felt the need to hide who I am and people either like me or they don't. Life is too short to worry about all the people who don't like you and neglect the people who do.
It is one of the reasons why I roll my eyes when you see members complaining about this host or that. Have your beef by all means but then just move on. There are 100's if not 1000's of lovely girls on CC and one of them is bound to make you feel better not worse.
Ok, said slightly more than I wanted but oh well. Find I have the time right now so what the hell?
Y'all have a nice day :)
TNTJCBFTDWLT
But seriously, tis no big deal. I was just curious, no more , no less. People always know how to reach me if needed. I have never felt the need to hide who I am and people either like me or they don't. Life is too short to worry about all the people who don't like you and neglect the people who do.
It is one of the reasons why I roll my eyes when you see members complaining about this host or that. Have your beef by all means but then just move on. There are 100's if not 1000's of lovely girls on CC and one of them is bound to make you feel better not worse.
Ok, said slightly more than I wanted but oh well. Find I have the time right now so what the hell?
Y'all have a nice day :)
TNTJCBFTDWLT
RE: to TNT ~ KinkyDiva
The Naked Truth Just Couldn't Be Fussed To Deal With....? One day I will get there:))
RE: Glamour vs. Little shy
I've never been to Glamour in my life because it seems like too much of a gamble as to whether there will be any "action" or not. At least in little shy you know that eventually you'll get there. Never forget this is first and foremost a site where members look for adult content.
Too good?
Any members here choose NOT to visit certain hosts because the whole experience (beauty, conversation, sensuality etc.) was just too damn good? There's one host that I choose NOT to visit just about everyday. l'lI sit there with my cursor over the vid chat button and my self preservation instinct kicks in and I can't click it. It is like Ulysses fighting off the calls of the sirens, or was that Homer? or Bart? So instead I'll find someone who's not gonna be on my mind the next day when I'm stuck in traffic. Weird huh? They should have warnings on CC like they have at ski resorts. Here's a nice little "bunny hill" girl for beginners. Nothing really bad is going to happen at 2 mph. Now over there is a girl who's a "Black Diamond" run. Oh yeah you could definitely kill yourself going down that one.
RE: Too good?
No doubt one of the "usual suspects". Personally I always find that gold one has dug from the ground oneself always shines more brightly that the gold presented on a tray in the jewellers.
RE: Too good?
Perhaps true, but have you ever actually dug real gold? It is not so shiny at first, until you clean it and polish it. Then it shines brighter than the store bought.
RE: Too good?
Actually was more like two. One probable suspect and one not.
Totally agree about the jewelers tray. Where is the chase? But isn't that our worse nightmare. Finding someone you really really like here. Where is it going to go? These are lotto odds we are dealing with.
Totally agree about the jewelers tray. Where is the chase? But isn't that our worse nightmare. Finding someone you really really like here. Where is it going to go? These are lotto odds we are dealing with.
RE: Too good?
LOL!! that was brilliant, Jed.... Sirens! That was Ulysses... probably Bart too.
Yep. Sometimes I feel like my heart is wide open, almost as wide as my eyes... I too have a friend/host who has that effect on me, from whom I can barely tear away. I would say, speaking for myself: revel in this feeling, call it life, joy, love, infatuation... and then let go of it, if the odds tell you that's what you have to do. Be true to yourself. These emotions are like wisps of cloud that pass over the landscape of your life... they are fleeting. You can spend your time pursuing clouds, or you can watch them float by.
My 2 sense.
Yep. Sometimes I feel like my heart is wide open, almost as wide as my eyes... I too have a friend/host who has that effect on me, from whom I can barely tear away. I would say, speaking for myself: revel in this feeling, call it life, joy, love, infatuation... and then let go of it, if the odds tell you that's what you have to do. Be true to yourself. These emotions are like wisps of cloud that pass over the landscape of your life... they are fleeting. You can spend your time pursuing clouds, or you can watch them float by.
My 2 sense.
RE: Too good?
As sure as day follows night, someone will. You may be impatient, and that I can understand, but don't ever doubt it will be so.
RE: Too good?
Good points Hoo. I'll be looking at these clouds from both sides now. But Its clouds illusions I recall, I really don't know clouds, at all.
RE: Too good?
I just look at the price. If very hot but too expensive, maybe I try once or twice. Or maybe I get started on my own, lol, before I jump into video to save some money. But I wouldn't never see a host because I couldn't resist... I would try her out and next time I think about her and needed some relief, I would jump into video with a cheaper host to save money. The real danger is when you pay less per minute, you feel that you can chat forever and sometimes can end up paying more in the end.
RE: Too good?
Hmmm wasn't considering the financial side of this. I could, however use some help with my taxes and setting up a budget if you got some time.
Also, thanks for the mental image of you "getting started" prior to entry into vid chat.
Also, thanks for the mental image of you "getting started" prior to entry into vid chat.
RE: Too good?
Maybe we could share a cab ride sometime? You seem to be the type who always knows the quickest, cheapest way home.
Covergirls for next contest
I hope that all ladies on this list will respond and say that they will participate. I think that many of the covergirls have been great, but we could use an upgrade here and there too. Here is my dream list:
AboveXBeyond (well duh, lol)
amber24 (mmmm hot girl)
Ariandu (hot and sweet)
Casablancka (hot, crazy, and sweet)
ExoticTaste (caliente!)
LustryRose (hot and great with outfits)
NaturalBusty (no need for viagra here)
NightOfAkina (hot, great with outfits, and new and improved)
Wanted827369 (I guess about 827,369 men want her... sounds right)
XextasyX (please! pretty please, Alex! we need you!!!)
AboveXBeyond (well duh, lol)
amber24 (mmmm hot girl)
Ariandu (hot and sweet)
Casablancka (hot, crazy, and sweet)
ExoticTaste (caliente!)
LustryRose (hot and great with outfits)
NaturalBusty (no need for viagra here)
NightOfAkina (hot, great with outfits, and new and improved)
Wanted827369 (I guess about 827,369 men want her... sounds right)
XextasyX (please! pretty please, Alex! we need you!!!)
RE: Covergirls for next contest
Alex uh ?? hmmmm well sweety we all love to see your photos and appreciate all the hard work you put in over contests and what wonderful company you are ....... i am sure its a very stressful time for you and you working long hours with little to show for it . As no one seems to comment how wonderful and lovely you are enough I thought i would just say you are the best , truly you are . Its nice to see such nice words from you , it made my heart warm ....... i am so tired of listening about this crunchy credit and sad lil faces of people losing their jobs ....
RE: Covergirls for next contest
You naughty man , insuating that AXB's life is hardly stressful .... she is a princess and keeping so many people happy is not so easy , how many people do you make happy each day ?
RE: Covergirls for next contest
Is that special girl xextasyx by any chance ? If so you are right she is special , a friend to all :))) a wonderful human being with principals and honesty ........... and sweet too
RE: Covergirls for next contest
Ohh i couldnt , she is like mighty Aphrodite , a sweet yoda , a marshmallowy angel , a sugarry delicacy ........... and I like girls with a bit more character and fire ........ someone i can respect for her strong individuality even if there could be a few sparks :))))))))
RE: Covergirls for next contest
What kind of a list is this that doesn't include Monikababe??????
Monikababe officially added to List by original poster!
LOL. Cudos! Takes a big man to admit an oversight.
RE: Monikababe officially added to List by original poster!
Well, there is nothing wrong with Wanted, but I would prefer MonikaBabe, and I am hoping she can convince Alex to do some pics together. :) (How much would you guys pay for a girl on girl with those two? Mmmmmmm.)
RE: Covergirls for next contest
Although I have had my disagreements with her I find it a travesty that this girl hasnt been chosen to represent CC as a cover girl . There are few girls here who have a better look , shape , complexion ........ she is a natural beauty and worthy of a cover girl position . As regards the character , as much as i could fall out with her I would rather have someone like her in my life with some fire than so many of the Stepford Wives here , if you wonder what I mean , just read the forums during the contest :))) and you will get the picture .
RE: Covergirls for next contest
CoverBoys, dear... or, ummmm.... LOL!!!
No offense to TS's, just a problem of nomenclature. :))))
No offense to TS's, just a problem of nomenclature. :))))
RE: Covergirls for next contest
Don't know Zoraide.... Pics seemed nice but never saw her in video. Nothing wrong with ChanelDoll, but I like the others on my list better. As for you, you must invite me to Miami for an intimate evening, and I will consider it. :)) (By the way, you must change your name to SouthFlorida, as long as you are there. :p And I think that the name is available.)
RE: Covergirls for next contest
here is my list of alternative girls all hot or sweet and i don't think have been previous winners:
poshandria
vipcristal
mariakiss
elleana
magicanna
sexgirlxxx
zoraide
nothingelse
misslovely1
poshandria
vipcristal
mariakiss
elleana
magicanna
sexgirlxxx
zoraide
nothingelse
misslovely1
RE: best price for g-g
I think that I've seen this post before... about 3 months ago, lol, but some of us know that story, hehehe.
Anyway, assuming she is at the same level of "hotness" as you, I would say try about $3,00/min open, $4,50/min 121, and see how it goes.
Anyway, assuming she is at the same level of "hotness" as you, I would say try about $3,00/min open, $4,50/min 121, and see how it goes.
RE: best price for g-g
hardcore or softcore?anyway i think open 3.50 and 121 5.00.remember u need2 share$.121 must b 5.$ minimum
RE: best price for g-g
That's the problem with G-g shows. When they are good they are great, but there is a lot of expensive messing around to find the good ones
RE: best price for g-g
i hope on easter;)) now i dont want open her name;)) this will surprise for all;))) but u may belive me..she is cute girl whin perfect english;)))
RE: best price for g-g
no.. my se r name onhhost forum.. but my other girl... nope naughtyhotty:P:P
Post-Contest question for Members AND Hosts
Okay, here's a loaded question for both members and hosts:
Members, if you have spent a lot of time with a host in an effort to help them win a contest, what do you expect in return?
Hosts: at what point do you feel obligated to do something extra for a member, who may have spent more time than usual in private or open session? Or should you?
I recognize that members are competing for a prize too, and so I hope I have not biased my question either for or against. Just wondering what the views are...
Members, if you have spent a lot of time with a host in an effort to help them win a contest, what do you expect in return?
Hosts: at what point do you feel obligated to do something extra for a member, who may have spent more time than usual in private or open session? Or should you?
I recognize that members are competing for a prize too, and so I hope I have not biased my question either for or against. Just wondering what the views are...
RE: Post-Contest question for Members AND Hosts
I did spent a lot of time with my fav host and she will give me the best of time on my next trip; she's one of the winners. It's a sweet deal we have ;)
RE: Post-Contest question for Members AND Hosts
I never would put myself in a position. It makes no economic sense for a member to go down that path. The chance of the host's or the member's winning is too small.
And in terms of a "quid pro quo" type of situation, I don't believe in doing that with friends. That is not what frienship is about.
And if a host isn't really my friend, why would I be spending all that money to help her win? What is she going to do? Use special toys in private? Meet me and have sex? I suppose things like that are possible, but I focus on friendship to meet hosts. At $300/hour (60 min at $5/min), I could have a hot woman come to my front door, lol, so why make a deal?
Would I chat with a host that was a friend to help her a little bit.? Sure. But would I be paying $5/min open or $6/min 121 and staying 30 to 60 minutes or more like it seemed that many guys were? No way! It makes no sense economically or in terms of friendship to be doing things lik that.
If a host friend needed $300 for school or something, I might send it, but just to try to win a contest, no way. And once again, I expect nothing in return from friends other than being there for me at an emotional/personal level, i.e., just being a friend. The only possible deal I would make is if the host promised to join with me if we could win together, maybe I would stay extra time, but that is about it.
And in terms of a "quid pro quo" type of situation, I don't believe in doing that with friends. That is not what frienship is about.
And if a host isn't really my friend, why would I be spending all that money to help her win? What is she going to do? Use special toys in private? Meet me and have sex? I suppose things like that are possible, but I focus on friendship to meet hosts. At $300/hour (60 min at $5/min), I could have a hot woman come to my front door, lol, so why make a deal?
Would I chat with a host that was a friend to help her a little bit.? Sure. But would I be paying $5/min open or $6/min 121 and staying 30 to 60 minutes or more like it seemed that many guys were? No way! It makes no sense economically or in terms of friendship to be doing things lik that.
If a host friend needed $300 for school or something, I might send it, but just to try to win a contest, no way. And once again, I expect nothing in return from friends other than being there for me at an emotional/personal level, i.e., just being a friend. The only possible deal I would make is if the host promised to join with me if we could win together, maybe I would stay extra time, but that is about it.
RE: Post-Contest question for Members AND Hosts
Agreeing with a lot of what you say. I also would help a host who needed money for school. etc but not during a contest because the purpose of coming here is for stress relief and some hosts become more interested in contest rather than us.
RE: Post-Contest question for Members AND Hosts
I travel to her city for business every once in a while and we met before so we make deals for our next meet. It's not that I would travel just for to meet her. It's just usual biz with a little bit of fun on the side ;-)
RE: Post-Contest question for Members AND Hosts
Don't you worry. She is free to meet with others and she does, as well as I am free to date other hosts. We have a great communication and an open relationship. We sure have lot's of fun when we're together, but that's it. Nothing more than just fun.
RE: Post-Contest question for Members AND Hosts
well, if you are both happy with your "deal", then I guess it is all okay... doesn't sound like she is a friend, though, sounds like someone from escort and massage :p
RE: Post-Contest question for Members AND Hosts
to "member"
u r so damn correct about everything u said.........
those words are gold:"...I expect nothing in return from friends other than being there for me at an emotional/personal level, i.e., just being a friend..."
from my experience...nobody really will do anything without waiting something in return....just because i am a friend,......
usually men use the fact that i never ask.....
u r really rare one...
u r so damn correct about everything u said.........
those words are gold:"...I expect nothing in return from friends other than being there for me at an emotional/personal level, i.e., just being a friend..."
from my experience...nobody really will do anything without waiting something in return....just because i am a friend,......
usually men use the fact that i never ask.....
u r really rare one...
RE: Post-Contest question for Members AND Hosts
In my opinion it is about relationships and teamwork. I want my favorite host to win and I don't mind spending the money to help her. My host was not a winner but we had fun doing the puzzle together. We worked as a team.
As for hosts, it is a network selling game. If the host has taken the time to develop more that a supraficial relationship, then the member is likely to continue to buy her product. Selling is a relationship game in this business as it is in many.
A relationship means that the host and member connect on some level and are able to communicate. That means that expectations are shared up front. Then there are no surprises, no hurt feelings.
It is also a "numbers" game. It pays to develop rapport with members and keep them coming back. It is easier to get the second and third sale and the member is likely to spend more money.
If there is not a relationship then what you see is what you get. Members choose to spend time with a host for a reason. If the host is meeting that reason they will continue to spend money. If not, they will move on to the next one with their reward being a puzzle piece or two. If you happen to get duplicates and as a member your expectations were not met, then it is your own fault. Try communicating and connecting and if a particular host is not for you, then graciously say thank you and goodbye rather than play the game.
I guess what I am saying is we all need to take responsibility for our actions. And that goes for host and member alike. In reality, when you have a relationship, communication and teamwork how can you say you lost?
As for hosts, it is a network selling game. If the host has taken the time to develop more that a supraficial relationship, then the member is likely to continue to buy her product. Selling is a relationship game in this business as it is in many.
A relationship means that the host and member connect on some level and are able to communicate. That means that expectations are shared up front. Then there are no surprises, no hurt feelings.
It is also a "numbers" game. It pays to develop rapport with members and keep them coming back. It is easier to get the second and third sale and the member is likely to spend more money.
If there is not a relationship then what you see is what you get. Members choose to spend time with a host for a reason. If the host is meeting that reason they will continue to spend money. If not, they will move on to the next one with their reward being a puzzle piece or two. If you happen to get duplicates and as a member your expectations were not met, then it is your own fault. Try communicating and connecting and if a particular host is not for you, then graciously say thank you and goodbye rather than play the game.
I guess what I am saying is we all need to take responsibility for our actions. And that goes for host and member alike. In reality, when you have a relationship, communication and teamwork how can you say you lost?
RE: Post-Contest question for Members AND Hosts
Thanks for replies… I was hoping to hear from hosts, but perhaps this is a delicate point, and the wording of my question was a little too provocative.
And, nicely said, Mardi…
I was one of the winners, but yes… it was hitting the lotto. Pure luck. And it’s that way for both hosts and members, I think. So I understand perfectly what “a member” says about avoiding contests altogether.
Given that I did win, do I expect something in return from the host I joined with? Not really… if I got a free private or discount, or something along those lines (and I haven’t), I would regard it as a gift that arises out of my relationship to the host. But my best friend in the contest didn’t win, sorry to say… she was not the one I completed the puzzle with, because of circumstances. Winning isn’t everything, alas…
And, nicely said, Mardi…
I was one of the winners, but yes… it was hitting the lotto. Pure luck. And it’s that way for both hosts and members, I think. So I understand perfectly what “a member” says about avoiding contests altogether.
Given that I did win, do I expect something in return from the host I joined with? Not really… if I got a free private or discount, or something along those lines (and I haven’t), I would regard it as a gift that arises out of my relationship to the host. But my best friend in the contest didn’t win, sorry to say… she was not the one I completed the puzzle with, because of circumstances. Winning isn’t everything, alas…
RE: Post-Contest question for Members AND Hosts
This is an old debate on this forum, but I personally think you are over using the word "friend".
RE: Post-Contest question for Members AND Hosts
I used the word "friend" once, and that is overuse?
LOL... okay. You are not my friend?
LOL... okay. You are not my friend?
RE: Post-Contest question for Members AND Hosts
You are my most favorite charitable cause... :)))))
RE: Post-Contest question for Members AND Hosts
Thank you. Nicely said.
Contests can make you do strange things (speaking as a member). But the benefit of actually winning for me, for the one, and probably only time, will be spending more time with friends... ooops! Sorry! there's that word again.
Contests can make you do strange things (speaking as a member). But the benefit of actually winning for me, for the one, and probably only time, will be spending more time with friends... ooops! Sorry! there's that word again.
golden oldies
Hi guys and gals.
Which members or previous members are missed here? Could be someone that left a long time ago or recent. do you think they ever be back?
Tks for answers
Which members or previous members are missed here? Could be someone that left a long time ago or recent. do you think they ever be back?
Tks for answers
RE: golden oldies
Nobody ever leaves here. We just say we are leaving and change our names. :p
RE: golden oldies
Some one summed it up so well its the twilight zone of the internet once you find cc you never leave )))
RE: golden oldies
While I wrote the comment with tongue in cheek, I am now beginning to wonder, for myself especially, if perhaps there is significantly more than a modicum of truth in the expression. Oh well, life is still good.,, Cheers.
RE: golden oldies
Oops, I didn't read it carefully. I can say that i don't miss any of them (members)
RE: golden oldies
well, I've changed my screenname around eleven times till now :) and I know that many members here do the same, from various reasons, so maybe a lot of your new friends are maybe dear old friends lol
RE: golden oldies
the former fairyprinces....has changed names 3 times...but never to return:((((
Re: Moving from Adult to Glam
If you don\'t feel comfortable in the adult categories anymore, i say go for glamour.
The advice i can give is this
:
If i want to just chat, i can chat in Instant Action.
If i just want to have a nice chat and a nice tease, i can have that in Instant Action, too.
If i want to chat, have a nice tease, and some hardcore show, i can have that in Instant Action, but not in Glamour (well, according to the \"category guidelines\" at least).
Translation: Most Glamour girls think they are \"special\" because they have good \"chat\" skills. There\'s plenty of smart, interesting girls with good english (or other languages) in ALL categories.
So therefore... you may consider this, as you are \"Reducing\" the number of services you provide:
1.- Do not increase your price. It will scare most of your regulars away, and a high price is never good thing for a \"new\" host trying to get a wide customer base.
2.- You may even consider reducing your price. This may serve as an incentive for your regulars that visited you in the \"adult\" categories to keep watching you. You offer less services, you get paid less. Right?
3.- If you get a lot of customers, and your regulars still keep coming, you may want to raise your price back up and try and see if they keep coming. Find the balance that is financially better for you.
4.- Keep your adult account for those times that one of your regular sugar daddies is willing to spend $300 in 121 in one session (you never know when your dog is going to break a leg, get new tired for your car, or pay the bail for your drunk friend). Or for when you\'re horny ;)
The advice i can give is this
:
If i want to just chat, i can chat in Instant Action.
If i just want to have a nice chat and a nice tease, i can have that in Instant Action, too.
If i want to chat, have a nice tease, and some hardcore show, i can have that in Instant Action, but not in Glamour (well, according to the \"category guidelines\" at least).
Translation: Most Glamour girls think they are \"special\" because they have good \"chat\" skills. There\'s plenty of smart, interesting girls with good english (or other languages) in ALL categories.
So therefore... you may consider this, as you are \"Reducing\" the number of services you provide:
1.- Do not increase your price. It will scare most of your regulars away, and a high price is never good thing for a \"new\" host trying to get a wide customer base.
2.- You may even consider reducing your price. This may serve as an incentive for your regulars that visited you in the \"adult\" categories to keep watching you. You offer less services, you get paid less. Right?
3.- If you get a lot of customers, and your regulars still keep coming, you may want to raise your price back up and try and see if they keep coming. Find the balance that is financially better for you.
4.- Keep your adult account for those times that one of your regular sugar daddies is willing to spend $300 in 121 in one session (you never know when your dog is going to break a leg, get new tired for your car, or pay the bail for your drunk friend). Or for when you\'re horny ;)
Women are like
1. The stock market--they're irrational and can bankrupt you if you're not careful
2. Computer- useful but clingy
3. Horses-fun to pet and ride but a pain to feed and clean up after
4. Parking Meters-if you don't feed them with enough money you face serious consequences
5. Fax Machines-useful for one very specific purpose but otherwise just high-maintenance paperweights
6. Political Campaign Contributors-if you let them talk about themselves long enough you wind up in bed with them
7. Refrigerators- they're always cold and never seem to have a beer when you need one
8. Blue Jeans- they look good for a while but eventually they fade and have to be replaced
9. Country Western Songs- they're annoying they all sound alike, but if you really listen to them you'll get depressed and drink a lot
----wow, I sound like a old marry man,, damn I need a woman quick----
2. Computer- useful but clingy
3. Horses-fun to pet and ride but a pain to feed and clean up after
4. Parking Meters-if you don't feed them with enough money you face serious consequences
5. Fax Machines-useful for one very specific purpose but otherwise just high-maintenance paperweights
6. Political Campaign Contributors-if you let them talk about themselves long enough you wind up in bed with them
7. Refrigerators- they're always cold and never seem to have a beer when you need one
8. Blue Jeans- they look good for a while but eventually they fade and have to be replaced
9. Country Western Songs- they're annoying they all sound alike, but if you really listen to them you'll get depressed and drink a lot
----wow, I sound like a old marry man,, damn I need a woman quick----
Woman's Instructions
1. Never do housework, no man ever made love to a woman because the house was spotless
2. Remember you are know by the idiot you accompany
3. Don't imagine you can change a man, unless he's in diapers
4. What do you do if your boyfriend walks out? You shut the door
5. So many men, so many reasons not to sleep with any of them
6. If they can put a man on the moon, they should be able to put them all there
7. Tell him you're not his type, you have a pulse
8. Never let your man's mind wander, its too little to be left outside alone
9. Go for younger men, you might as well, they never mature anyway
10. Never marry a man for money, you'll have to earn every penny
11. The best way to get a man to do something is to suggest he is too old for it
12. If he asks what books you're interested in, tell him heck books
13. Remember a sense of humor does not mean that you tell him jokes, it means you laugh at his
14. If he asks you if you're faking it tell him no, you're just practicing
15. When he asks you if he's your first tell him, "You may be, you look familiar"
----hmm enough of this, it;s getting me thinking to hard,, oh by the way... women are like..... (coming up next)
2. Remember you are know by the idiot you accompany
3. Don't imagine you can change a man, unless he's in diapers
4. What do you do if your boyfriend walks out? You shut the door
5. So many men, so many reasons not to sleep with any of them
6. If they can put a man on the moon, they should be able to put them all there
7. Tell him you're not his type, you have a pulse
8. Never let your man's mind wander, its too little to be left outside alone
9. Go for younger men, you might as well, they never mature anyway
10. Never marry a man for money, you'll have to earn every penny
11. The best way to get a man to do something is to suggest he is too old for it
12. If he asks what books you're interested in, tell him heck books
13. Remember a sense of humor does not mean that you tell him jokes, it means you laugh at his
14. If he asks you if you're faking it tell him no, you're just practicing
15. When he asks you if he's your first tell him, "You may be, you look familiar"
----hmm enough of this, it;s getting me thinking to hard,, oh by the way... women are like..... (coming up next)
15 Reasons Why Beer is Better Than a Woman
To All You Beer Lovers
1. A beer doesn't get jealous when you grab another beer
2. When you go to a bar you know you can always pick up a beer
3. A beer won't get upset if you come home and have beer on your breath.
4. You don't have to wine and dine a beer
5. If you pour a beer right you'll always get good head
6. Hangovers go away
7. When you're finished with a beer, the bottle is still worth 5 cents
8. You don't have to wash a beer before it taste good
9. A beer always goes down easy
10. You can share a beer with your friends
11. Beer is always wet
12. You always know you're the first one to pop a beer
13. A frigid beer is a good beer
14. You can have more than one beer and not feel guilty
15. You can enjoy a beer all month long
---Glad I Like a Woman More than a Beer, but is very tempting to start drinking-----
1. A beer doesn't get jealous when you grab another beer
2. When you go to a bar you know you can always pick up a beer
3. A beer won't get upset if you come home and have beer on your breath.
4. You don't have to wine and dine a beer
5. If you pour a beer right you'll always get good head
6. Hangovers go away
7. When you're finished with a beer, the bottle is still worth 5 cents
8. You don't have to wash a beer before it taste good
9. A beer always goes down easy
10. You can share a beer with your friends
11. Beer is always wet
12. You always know you're the first one to pop a beer
13. A frigid beer is a good beer
14. You can have more than one beer and not feel guilty
15. You can enjoy a beer all month long
---Glad I Like a Woman More than a Beer, but is very tempting to start drinking-----
RE: 15 Reasons Why Beer is Better Than a Woman
In the winter time the beer can be replaced with a strong Vodka or some warm wine with hot spices.Burp!
Cheers
Cheers
RE: 15 Reasons Why Beer is Better Than a Woman
I know, i am one of them , lol.And it wasn't a joke, was just a truth :P
RE: 15 Reasons Why Beer is Better Than a Woman
i love the joke and if the women cant take it,, well its time to grow, we are old members here with beer belly's
RE: 15 Reasons Why Beer is Better Than a Woman
Frank ?? Frank the Tank ??? Is that you baby ???
RE: 15 Reasons Why Beer is Better Than a Woman
Good answer Yuck!!!!...There is nothing in this universe that taste better than a hot woman in heat!!!!!!....I would choose a woman over beer any day!!!!!!