General Forum
Lonely Guy
If you feel lonely and need somebody to talk to, im here, look me up. A very popular saying for many host. Well I don't mean to sound like im lonely, but i am, but which host do I know that is honest in saying that quote, I can't afford to go to all these rooms to find out the one I want to put all my trust and sayings in; no, no. I do need somebody here to chat with and don't tell me I need to see a doctor, because I can't afford that either and I have try the community chat room several times, but I can't stand to watch certain people in there that types all the time and talks trash or stupid things, I see that at work a lot. So if any host wants a lonely man to chat with i am here.
RE: Lonely Guy
Sounds pretty provocative if you ask me...There are two scenarios: if you've been on this site long enough, you'd know better how to at least try and pick out hosts that you can relax with, and you're definitely know better than to ask for "honesty" from a host that's only chatting to you because the timer's ticking pure money for her.
If you're genuinely new (and sane) you'd still be able to try a few of them out and see for yourself.
Asking for a specific host, especially here on general forum, is either :
a) plain silly
b) more like yet another promotion by a host, that first makes a post like yours, and then replies under another name with it's screen name to tell everyone how nice she is.
I tend to believe it's the b) right now.
If you're genuinely new (and sane) you'd still be able to try a few of them out and see for yourself.
Asking for a specific host, especially here on general forum, is either :
a) plain silly
b) more like yet another promotion by a host, that first makes a post like yours, and then replies under another name with it's screen name to tell everyone how nice she is.
I tend to believe it's the b) right now.
RE: Lonely Guy
yeah..and there is still freechat where you can find out if you are on the same wavelength and can discuss things with that host.I know it sounds against us, hosts, that I recommend freechat, but everybody knows about this option , including you. So why start this thread???
RE: Lonely Guy
I, I, I, you must have said "I" twenty times, with all that talking about yourself it's no wonder you're lonely. Who wants to listen to someone talk about themself so much?
Please pay my secretary on the way out.
Please pay my secretary on the way out.
RE: Lonely Guy
what exactly are you asking for? as i see this,
1st, you look pics and some girl attract your attention, and that attraction is not only physical Im sure off that after 2 years online, couse its not about "is any girl WILLING to chat with lonely person", but that people attract each other on more then one level;
2nd, in order to find out can you have fulfilling chat with some girl, u need to get to know each other first - OR AM I TOO LULU- hehehehe;
3rd, u ask about price not personality - u sure you need friend?
4th, if you are lonely, why didnt you put your username here so that girls can contact you? no wonder you get all these nasty answers - even though i dont approve of ironic and cynicisms in this forum - funny replys yes but whats the bitterness for?!!
U are welcome to my chat if you need friend, but i can not promise devoted friendship before i get to know you.
1st, you look pics and some girl attract your attention, and that attraction is not only physical Im sure off that after 2 years online, couse its not about "is any girl WILLING to chat with lonely person", but that people attract each other on more then one level;
2nd, in order to find out can you have fulfilling chat with some girl, u need to get to know each other first - OR AM I TOO LULU- hehehehe;
3rd, u ask about price not personality - u sure you need friend?
4th, if you are lonely, why didnt you put your username here so that girls can contact you? no wonder you get all these nasty answers - even though i dont approve of ironic and cynicisms in this forum - funny replys yes but whats the bitterness for?!!
U are welcome to my chat if you need friend, but i can not promise devoted friendship before i get to know you.
Stalker ?
I have a feeling I am being stalked by a chathost. I first came into contact with her at comchat. She was the 1st to say "hi" when I came in. She invited me to play; but I politely refused. She then suggested i check out her profile page & her pics then make my decision. A day or so later, I did. Though she is rated 4 stars, I ccMailed her (my mistake) and told her honestly that she's not my type. Since then everytime I go to comchat, she'd be the 1st to text me with a "hi, how are u" and for the past several days, sends me ccMail ... I mean DAILY. She's very polite and basically just wishing me a good day. Maybe she just likes me, but I have no intention of getting to know her or visit her in vid, for simple reason that she's not my type. Then my question to you, what is the best way to get her to stop?
1. ignore her text (in comchat) & any ccMail she sends me?
2. tell her directly to stop texting & emailing me?
3. or may be a bit cruel, but perhaps go to her vid then tell her she didn't turn me on?
I don't want to hurt her feelings, but at the same time wish she would focus on someone else. I can handle an occasional greeting, but surely not everyday.
1. ignore her text (in comchat) & any ccMail she sends me?
2. tell her directly to stop texting & emailing me?
3. or may be a bit cruel, but perhaps go to her vid then tell her she didn't turn me on?
I don't want to hurt her feelings, but at the same time wish she would focus on someone else. I can handle an occasional greeting, but surely not everyday.
RE: Stalker ? LOL
Maybe u know me, but i didn't find any mail by u in my cc mailbox, it would be great to read it. So try again with other nick.
RE: Stalker ?
If you were honest with her once why can't you do it again? If in comchat she greets you, it doesn't take too much time and energy to answer with a Hi, and you can tell her directly that you don't want her to ccmail you, nor sending pvt messages in comchat. Isn't it simple? Why play? Respect her by telling the truth..if she keeps bugging you, then you can be harder on her :))
RE: Stalker ?
i agree with ez......if you wanna spare her feelings make it her choice not to want to bother you anymore......you gotta freak her out and act like a weirdo....it's your kindest option.
be direct
its best if you are honest and direct , no need to be rude tho.
if after being told to not bother you(thru mail) then tell CC about the harrassment, after that if she continues then just ignore her, and i think there is a way to blacklist her so she cant mail you. good luck
if after being told to not bother you(thru mail) then tell CC about the harrassment, after that if she continues then just ignore her, and i think there is a way to blacklist her so she cant mail you. good luck
RE: Stalker ?
How old are you? 11? Yu can't figure out how to handel this?
Just treat her cc mail like spam or bulk mail, ignore it and move on. She will get the hint after a while.
Just treat her cc mail like spam or bulk mail, ignore it and move on. She will get the hint after a while.
RE: Stalker ?
I just logged on to cc and found not one but three ccMails from my stalker. She wrote like this - (1) - hi, i'm online where are u? when will u come see me? (2) did u go sleep? ok dream about me (3) good morning, did u dream about me?
Geez, she is persistent. I suppose I should be happy that there is a young lady out there who is interested in me. Too bad she's not my type. If she was I'd probably be in love, I mean lust now!! LOL
Anyway, looks like the direct approach is the way to go, so I will try that route once more. If it don't work, I may have to try and freak her out like EZ suggested. But it's not in my nature to be rude. After all she is always polite. And if that fails, I suppose I can always change my name. :)
Geez, she is persistent. I suppose I should be happy that there is a young lady out there who is interested in me. Too bad she's not my type. If she was I'd probably be in love, I mean lust now!! LOL
Anyway, looks like the direct approach is the way to go, so I will try that route once more. If it don't work, I may have to try and freak her out like EZ suggested. But it's not in my nature to be rude. After all she is always polite. And if that fails, I suppose I can always change my name. :)
RE: Stalker ?
ask her if u can have a 3some, u, her and her mum, that usually does the trick for me and if it doesn't then u at least have a interesting nite ahead
RE: Stalker ?
She is not interested in you or your personality. She is interested in your money. When it becomes clear you are never going to video she will move on. Time is money. On the other hand......she may be nuts and fly to America tonight and chop you into little pieces but hey.... that's not likely.
What the hell's up with me?
Why is it when I visit a host in vid and she wants to do anal or I request it, it's freaking fantastic to watch and play to, but when a lady offers anal in real life I pass.
What's up with that?
What's up with that?
To everyone here.
I just wanted to say hello...been away for a while dealing w. some emotional baggage. Stopped by comchat a few days ago...and then realized how much I missed people here....even the snipers. ;P
I've seen a lot of posts here about stupid members and greedy hosts....but coming back I realized again how many good people are here. I also took a look at my spending here for the last 3 years...and although I could probably have bought a new car for that money....I don't regret having spent any of it. Those $$ bought me some companionship when I was down and out, I found love here, and hopefully I helped pay for some kid's education in the process. It's all good...
I've seen a lot of posts here about stupid members and greedy hosts....but coming back I realized again how many good people are here. I also took a look at my spending here for the last 3 years...and although I could probably have bought a new car for that money....I don't regret having spent any of it. Those $$ bought me some companionship when I was down and out, I found love here, and hopefully I helped pay for some kid's education in the process. It's all good...
RE: To everyone here.
welcome back Azterix, you were missed:>D< and the pace wasnt the same without you! A big hug for you sweety!
RE: To everyone here.
WOW!..Hi, cool guy :-D...Welcome back! Here it was really a bit empty without you...Hope your emotional baggage is quite full now, but there always plenty of free space though :-)
RE: To everyone here.
welcome back we really miss ur wallet..opps, I mean ur uuhhhh....mmmm...hey just come visit us :D
Who came first
Who came first, the host or the viewer? (a question simular to the chicken and egg thing)
Rude/Nice
I see threads are tending to move away from who is the rudest member, and now looking at the rudest hosts. We seem to have two main contenders, Gortensia and DizzMissLiz, although, personally, I have never found them anything but charming.
How about a total change of direction and name the nicest members and hosts. (And I don't mean the big spenders or the hottest shows, but just plain nice and polite, easy to chat with).
How about a total change of direction and name the nicest members and hosts. (And I don't mean the big spenders or the hottest shows, but just plain nice and polite, easy to chat with).
RE: Rude/Nice
Why you consider only these two hosts (Gortensia and DizzMissLiz) in the contest of rudeness?.
Taking in consideration yr way to escape from the contest as you continue saying although, personally, I have never found them anything but charming.. I am inclined to beleive non of yr words.
Taking in consideration yr way to escape from the contest as you continue saying although, personally, I have never found them anything but charming.. I am inclined to beleive non of yr words.
RE: Rude/Nice
I mentioned those two hosts, cos they are the most recent additions to the rude host catalog. There have been others before and i am sure more will follow.
RE: Rude/Nice
the old give them enough rope & they will hang themselves routine.i for one,am not buying into a discussion that could have long lasting consequences.think carefully before you reply people.
RE: Rude/Nice
I have met two lovely polite ladies here and their names are YourSecret79 and 1SexyCat4u. Chat to them and let me know what you think. Oh they are sexy with it as well. :)
RE: Rude/Nice
Dear AnonEMous, I think you got this wrong. I don't know about Gort but I can tell you I have visited Dizz a number of times and there is not a rude bone in her sexy body. She is one of the prettiest, most intelligent hosts I have seen in my years here. Please get facts straight before posting.
RE: Rude/Nice
I made no comment at all about Liz, just commented on what had gone before, so you should read and get your facts right.
RE: Rude/Nice
I think perhaps you should try following your own advice RON. If you read Anon's post he states that he has found both hosts to never be anything but charming. The rudeness he refres to is he opinions of other members in other threads.
RE: Rude/Nice
I see you found a way point out thier rudness without actually saying it yourself. Nice tap dancing mouse, you willingness to commit ranks right there in the middle of the pack.
RE: Rude/Nice
This whole series of threads about some of the hosts looks like nothing but a lame attempt at promotion. I mean, just look at the anons starting up different threads about "gortensia", etc. Pretty cheap if you ask me, all his attention-whoring. I'm also pretty sure more than half of all the posts in replies are made by the same person - easy to trace the linguistic identity.
It seems someone's lacking viewers and needs attention badly, lol.
It seems someone's lacking viewers and needs attention badly, lol.
RE: Rude/Nice
Both are in Glamor! Who cares if they are Rude, it is not like I would be caught trying to chase after their tails, never go to anything lower class than little shy
RE: GoldMistress and CRUELBITCH???
It's been my exprience that the profiles here mean next to nothing anyway. I stopped paying much attention to them my 2nd day here.
RE: GoldMistress and CRUELBITCH???
Either one, or both, of them has changed their profiles since you posted or your and my idea of copying are two very different things.
RE: GoldMistress and CRUELBITCH???
just curious....how do u know she copied cruelbitch? could the the other way round...i agree with anja...seems like cruelbitch started this post herself
Member Age
A host asked me to estimate the average age of CC members. My estimate is as follows
18-25 5%
25-30 10%
30-40 20%
40-50 25%
50-60 30%
over 60 5%
What do you think?
18-25 5%
25-30 10%
30-40 20%
40-50 25%
50-60 30%
over 60 5%
What do you think?
RE: Member Age
hehe. then that would be the % who are over 95 ;) Wonder how many hosts realised that?! :P
Cute.
TNTIAMOPOHTPBHIU
Cute.
TNTIAMOPOHTPBHIU
RE: Member Age
my experience is 75% 60 and over , 15% is 50 to 60 years old, 5% -40 to 60% and 5% 25 to 40 years old
RE: Member Age
I am older then 50; therefore, that leaves me out for being in your favorite age - lol At least I am in the majority with the rest of the old guys.
RE: Member Age
Don't take it an offense please, I just made a perception :) Guys over 50 can be still very sexy :-PPP
RE: Member Age
That is okay, I did not take offense. Age does not bother me. I have enjoyed my years and still enjoy them. Young at heart is me.
RE: Member Age
I'm 45 but look like 35, whenever I let a host see my cam they are like "Wow, you are much younger then my other members". Maybe it's part of thier selling point to make me feel good, but when a sexy young lady is naked in front of me rubbing her pussy I don't need anymore selling techinques to make me feel good :)
RE: Member Age
when given the choice of joining aarp for $12 a year or cc for free and wiping out their 401k's the over 50 crowd chose the natural course. be happy girls
RE: Member Age
they all say you look great...even if you're wheeled in...of course as long as the $$ clock is ticking....
Big screen...HDTV
Anyone using a large screen LCD HDTV with CC? I am looking at a 32 inch and a 37 inch for the office. They have a standard monitor connection or I could put in a video card with HDTV out and hook it up that way. Just curious if anyone uses an LCD tv as a monitor and how CC looks with it.
RE: Big screen...HDTV
the picture quality is quite lacking as it is expanded of course. the ultimate criteria is the quality of the transmission (i.e. the quality of the cam the host uses). i have seen a few hosts with exceptional clarity but cant remember which ones except that one said she was using a Phillips cam which was produced excellent clarity. you could almost count individual hairs.
RE: Big screen...HDTV
I use a samsung 40 inch LCD tv connected to my pc. Using DVI connection from the graphics card and HDMI connection to the tv. Gr8 picture, viewing any web site, even watching downloaded films in AVI format.. :D
Best thing about it is that u can have a few windows open at same time and it doesn`t take up the whole screen or over lap another window. example, have a web page open and maybe 3-4 yahoo windows at the same time. :)
If i was u, depending on the space u have in ur room i would try going for a larger screen, as they are pretty cheap right now. :)
But good luck anyway with whatever tv u decide to buy:)
Best thing about it is that u can have a few windows open at same time and it doesn`t take up the whole screen or over lap another window. example, have a web page open and maybe 3-4 yahoo windows at the same time. :)
If i was u, depending on the space u have in ur room i would try going for a larger screen, as they are pretty cheap right now. :)
But good luck anyway with whatever tv u decide to buy:)
RE: Big screen...HDTV
So you're going to jack off in your office? eeewwww, I bet you're in the next issue of "Caught in the Act, Amazing videos".
RE: Big screen...HDTV
Wow, I guess you don't have much work to do if you can spend time in cc while at the office. Must be nice to get paid for wanking.
tell me what u think!
i have a bf for about 3 years.. he knows and aprooves that i am a chathost.. even finds it kinky.. BUT now he wants me to call a guy i met on the site to do a menaje a trois.. told him i won;t .. but he still insists . i don;t understand why .. maybe he doesn;t love me anymore? should i be worryed?
RE: tell me what u think!
if his idea of a menaje a trois involves 2 dudes i think you have good reason to be concerned.
RE: tell me what u think!
Yes you should be worried. If your bf is not prepared to accept your decision on a matter such as this then I am afraid it might be time to move on from him. Sure you might still love him, but it doesn't look much like that love is reciprocated. Sorry for the unwelcome advice.
RE: tell me what u think!
If he asked for another chick i would understand, but another guy? hmmm... maybe he's gay? :P
RE: tell me what u think!
Be VERY concerned if a man EVER wants to share you with a man OR a woman. In spite of what he may tell you, he doesn't love or respect you.
RE: tell me what u think!
what's the matter? most women would love to have a 3some with 2 men, lighten up, you'll have plenty of time when ur older to be straight and dull. :p
RE: tell me what u think!
How does the guy on the site feel about this? If a host asked me to meet up with here we can do a 3 way with her bf, I would say no thanks.
Forget all this speculating about what your bf thinks or feels about you, (does he love me anymore? what does this mean? etc) just ask him for the truth. Many people will thier views on the subject, but no one can know 100% because they are not in your relationship and can't possibly know how he feels or why he is asking for a 3 way. Just ask him.
BTW my idea of a 3way involves me and 2 porm magazines at once...:P
Forget all this speculating about what your bf thinks or feels about you, (does he love me anymore? what does this mean? etc) just ask him for the truth. Many people will thier views on the subject, but no one can know 100% because they are not in your relationship and can't possibly know how he feels or why he is asking for a 3 way. Just ask him.
BTW my idea of a 3way involves me and 2 porm magazines at once...:P
RE: tell me what u think!
Chathost, 'Actions speak louder than words.' The fact that he, a supposed bf, “approves" of what you are doing and even finds it "KINKY," says more about his intentions than any words with which he professes his love for you. Now he wants to up the ante and offer you to some stranger here on the site. Trust your instincts. Your refusal is on the mark. No one who loves you would do that. This guy is a pimp, not a boyfriend!
You wonder, "Maybe he doesn't love me any more." My sense is he never loved you in the first place. The truth may hurt, but it is a lot less hurtful than sustaining a lie. P
counsels you, with good sense, to stop all the torturous “speculation” and simply ask him the truth. However, I do not share P’s confidence that he will readily do that. His actions have already made the truth plain.
Beatle Fan and Firm offer sound advice. Alpha’s glib question, “What’s the matter?” and advice to “lighten up,” is either rooted in naiveté or a cynical disregard for the truth you seek. As for the bf’s insistence that you do what you don’t want to do, that is just another indicator of his total disregard for your feelings. Stick to your guns; don’t give in to his ignoble designs. Better yet, dump the guy.
You wonder, "Maybe he doesn't love me any more." My sense is he never loved you in the first place. The truth may hurt, but it is a lot less hurtful than sustaining a lie. P
counsels you, with good sense, to stop all the torturous “speculation” and simply ask him the truth. However, I do not share P’s confidence that he will readily do that. His actions have already made the truth plain.
Beatle Fan and Firm offer sound advice. Alpha’s glib question, “What’s the matter?” and advice to “lighten up,” is either rooted in naiveté or a cynical disregard for the truth you seek. As for the bf’s insistence that you do what you don’t want to do, that is just another indicator of his total disregard for your feelings. Stick to your guns; don’t give in to his ignoble designs. Better yet, dump the guy.
RE: tell me what u think!
"love me anymore"...that a dead ringer for she never loved him in the first place or is getting tired of him simply.
RE: tell me what u think!
Well...you've been having a menage a thousand here...so why not grant him his wish for putting up with your career choice.
How do YOU act in this world?
I have just been reading some of the latest posts on this list and i fell across a statement about a guy being told he is a fool for being nice.
While reading the replies i get the oppionion that many have a very stereotypic perception on the type of people that is present here. Now i have been here some time and i have meet MANY people! both from the hosts side and also from the viewers side and what i have learned over and over again - people are NOT the same. There is visitors that tend to act from their worst side while other are really giving the best they have - the same is the case with their counterparts on the host side.
Okay, what is the point with this message? My point or my question to the rest of the readers is? how do you make sure that the visit you place at a host is going to be a good visit. Do you spend a long time in the free chat before entering the video session in order to get to know the host, or are you just jumping in and screams: bow before me bitch!
And for the hosts reading this, what do you do to make your visitors come back? Do you believe that a great show brings them back or do you believe in a warm and velcoming behavior is the winning style? Is this just a money highway or is it really a place to get to know people from a more personal side?
At the same time - how do you percieve the hosts/viewers?
I am truely aware that there is no two people that are alike, so perhaps this will give some interresting replies.
While reading the replies i get the oppionion that many have a very stereotypic perception on the type of people that is present here. Now i have been here some time and i have meet MANY people! both from the hosts side and also from the viewers side and what i have learned over and over again - people are NOT the same. There is visitors that tend to act from their worst side while other are really giving the best they have - the same is the case with their counterparts on the host side.
Okay, what is the point with this message? My point or my question to the rest of the readers is? how do you make sure that the visit you place at a host is going to be a good visit. Do you spend a long time in the free chat before entering the video session in order to get to know the host, or are you just jumping in and screams: bow before me bitch!
And for the hosts reading this, what do you do to make your visitors come back? Do you believe that a great show brings them back or do you believe in a warm and velcoming behavior is the winning style? Is this just a money highway or is it really a place to get to know people from a more personal side?
At the same time - how do you percieve the hosts/viewers?
I am truely aware that there is no two people that are alike, so perhaps this will give some interresting replies.
RE: How do YOU act in this world?
Hi, I'm the guy that posted the message you refer too. You ask very interesting questions and I look forward to reading all the replies you get. Thanks for such a good post. Cheers :))
RE: How do YOU act in this world?
"If only fools are kind, then I guess it is wise to be a fool." -- Andy Williams, What's it All About Alfie?
RE: How do YOU act in this world?
Billy Joel wrote a song for his soman: Just the way you are.
Be urself then, maybe u'll get a kick in ur belly, or a sweet kiss on ur lips. But don't go changing. Cleverness isn't a quality so abundant in human race.
Be urself then, maybe u'll get a kick in ur belly, or a sweet kiss on ur lips. But don't go changing. Cleverness isn't a quality so abundant in human race.
RE: How do YOU act in this world?
You know what tobibobi? I act the same on this site as I would do in 'real' life, cos (unless CC has got VERY good at CGI!) all of the people on here are real people too so why behave any differently?
By the way, I hope no-one who I have ever met here will contradict me from their experiences when I say that I always try to act 'nice'!! Hehe.
By the way, I hope no-one who I have ever met here will contradict me from their experiences when I say that I always try to act 'nice'!! Hehe.
RE: How do YOU act in this world?
generally not a jumper or a texter.hmmm interesting,now i'm going to pay more attention to my MO :--)
RE: How do YOU act in this world?
Im a member, only one :P and even i do behave different because sometimes i like a long txt-chat to know better, sometimes i like to see immediately etc... but always try be nice!
RE: How do YOU act in this world?
I think it is a question of who you are in real life. I find it is hard for normal people to always lie that you are nice while you are not, or to pretend you are "a bitch" while you are the kindest and the softest person inside. Even if this site is a place for performing and fantasies mostly, I am still sure it is the best way to stay the same person as you are in real. Even here you always can find someone who appreciates the natural relationships when no need to pretend so hard.
Money are still money, you can buy fantasy and sex but you cannot buy love and friendship, and that is fundamental truth. So, depends on what is the most important for everyone... imitation or real feelings. Those ones who are looking just for quick sex are losing so much really.
Answering on your question I would say that I have the viewers always coming back when I was the most sincere and natural.
Money are still money, you can buy fantasy and sex but you cannot buy love and friendship, and that is fundamental truth. So, depends on what is the most important for everyone... imitation or real feelings. Those ones who are looking just for quick sex are losing so much really.
Answering on your question I would say that I have the viewers always coming back when I was the most sincere and natural.
RE: How do YOU act in this world?
Well i cannot say that i recieved the amount of replies that i expected - maybe most people feel to akward to tell these things.
However i am very pleased with the replies i have gotten so far - sounds like there are some sincere persons that are strong enough to not bend for the wind when it screams fool :-)
We can all learn from these outstanding examples. (also me)
Thx.
However i am very pleased with the replies i have gotten so far - sounds like there are some sincere persons that are strong enough to not bend for the wind when it screams fool :-)
We can all learn from these outstanding examples. (also me)
Thx.
RE: How do YOU act in this world?
Nonetheless it was a good question tobibobi, and thank you for asking. If it is true that most members are older, as the Member Age thread would suggest, I would hope maturity would factor in to how viewers act towards others, esp hosts. Maturity doesn't always come with age, though. It is certainly easier to let go here... you just turn off the PC... and it is easy to dismiss someone if you're not interested in them. That may affect how viewers behave toward hosts.
And any relationship takes work, maybe especially here where you pays your money and you takes your chances.
In the end I agree with LG; it depends on who you are and what you seek. I know if I am not true to myself I cannot sustain a relationship, here or anywhere. I can be kind, and usually I am, but I have a nasty sense of humor too... not cruel or mean, just nasty. Long as you are nasty too, we can get along :-)
And any relationship takes work, maybe especially here where you pays your money and you takes your chances.
In the end I agree with LG; it depends on who you are and what you seek. I know if I am not true to myself I cannot sustain a relationship, here or anywhere. I can be kind, and usually I am, but I have a nasty sense of humor too... not cruel or mean, just nasty. Long as you are nasty too, we can get along :-)
wondering
I would like to know why, when I post my messages about different problems, I always get sarcastic replies by DizzMissLiz. We never met, we didn't had a dinner together, and we'll never have. Can anyone, who knows her better explain it to me?
RE: wondering
maybe if you had taken her out to dinner you wouldn't get those comments.food fpr thought :--)
RE: wondering
At least i post under my real screenname.Its so brave to call someone names and hide ur name:P:P:P
RE: wondering
I would like to save the world, but I can do only the impossible, for the miracles I have to buy thecnology. Of course I haven't sence of humour, only clever people have it. But how Einstein said, only two things are infinite, the universe and the human stupidity, and on the first one he wasn'rt sure. So my dear, come down from your special heaven and live this fuc.ing life how all people try to do.
To be continued!!!
To be continued!!!
RE: wondering
Nooooooooooooooooooo don't do it.what have we done to suffer your inadequacies.give us a break man,drop it.
RE: wondering
Yes, continue insulting everyone who has different opinion than u do,its so nice of u:P And shows what nice and smart person u r:P Have u ever said anything nice about anyone?I havent seen that.Maybe this is ur own war with this world.Enjoy
RE: wondering
Ok dear! you won. Let's stop the war. U r not so bad and i'm not so cruel.
Maybe we are better than people can imagine.
Maybe we are better than people can imagine.
RE: wondering
Gorty,lizz which host will be the next target because of your inadequate social skills?
smoking
Do any ladies smoke brown cigarettes? Its my fetish, let me know and I will come and see and spend at least 5 minutes with you. I promise. Thank you.
RE: smoking
Dude, promising to spend only 5 minutes is not too enticing. Now if you'd had promised at least an hour, I bet you'd get more responses quicker. Don't you think? How long does it take to smoke a brown cigarette anyway? Only 5 minutes?
RE: smoking
Ooooooohhh!!! 5 whole minutes?? Aside from your brown cigarette fetish, it seems as though you have a fetish for not spending money, as well.
RE: Has anybody already seen No Country for old Men?
I read the book and it was excellent. The author also wrote "The Road" which was another good book though disturbing. I missed the movie in the theaters but it is coming out on DVD next week or the next. Anxious to see it.
RE: Has anybody already seen No Country for old Men?
A simple man...finds a lot of money that does not belong to him, and those who "lost" it, want it back, badly!
This movie is about murder, choice, money, power, truth, drug lords, drug money, it offers...justice, death, choice, "...heads or tails...friendo?", honor and a strange type of bushido.
The Coen Bros. have been making interesting movies for more than 20 years, Fargo, Miller's Crossing, and The Big Lebowski (my favorite). If you haven't seen any of these, rent them, they are worth a bag of popcorn in front of the TV.
IMHO "No Country..." may not be their best, but it is visually stylish, has an ambiguous ending, and is worth seeing.
This movie is about murder, choice, money, power, truth, drug lords, drug money, it offers...justice, death, choice, "...heads or tails...friendo?", honor and a strange type of bushido.
The Coen Bros. have been making interesting movies for more than 20 years, Fargo, Miller's Crossing, and The Big Lebowski (my favorite). If you haven't seen any of these, rent them, they are worth a bag of popcorn in front of the TV.
IMHO "No Country..." may not be their best, but it is visually stylish, has an ambiguous ending, and is worth seeing.
RE: Has anybody already seen No Country for old Men?
Vantage point is ok movie. Best this year was "Juno".
I wonder if to meet one of my regulars
The thing is I'm married, the viewer doesn't know I'm married and I don't want to spoil the relationship with my husband lol. Need to figure out how to meet him and if to have sex with him then. I'm also afraid I won't be able to keep it secret for a long time, so not good at lying :( Maybe if I do it once it won't be so difficult after. I've read some sex outside of the marriage is very healthy. Have you tried?
RE: I wonder if to meet one of my regulars
wow... What about the husband?
Does a life partner not take precedence over a little pleasure and potential joy?
Seems a very selfish attitude, to advise someone that they should so deeply betray someone whom, we assume, loves them a great deal for such little gain.
I have to say, HOST, I think in this case it would be better for all concerned if you keep the member on the other side of the screen... You have a lot more to lose than he does from some little fling.
Does a life partner not take precedence over a little pleasure and potential joy?
Seems a very selfish attitude, to advise someone that they should so deeply betray someone whom, we assume, loves them a great deal for such little gain.
I have to say, HOST, I think in this case it would be better for all concerned if you keep the member on the other side of the screen... You have a lot more to lose than he does from some little fling.
RE: I wonder if to meet one of my regulars
That's a rather irresponsible way of going through life...satisfying and sacrificing for the sake of pleasure...rather hedonistic...to say the least. You act as though there are not or might never be potential consequences for your behavior. I know a lot of people who think and act as you...so you do have company.
RE: I wonder if to meet one of my regulars
There's nothing hotter than screwing a married chick. Especially if she's hot enough to work here, and super-especially if she's married to a guy who absolutely loves her and would be emotionally devasted if he ever found out.
And then emailing him the surreptitiously taken video after you've flown home.... That's the hottest moment of all. ;-)
And then emailing him the surreptitiously taken video after you've flown home.... That's the hottest moment of all. ;-)
RE: I wonder if to meet one of my regulars
screwing a married chick is very dangerous. take it from me. ive been caught twice and barely lived to tell about it.
RE: I wonder if to meet one of my regulars
It's true, extramarital sex cures cancer.
I say go for it. Sneak him home while your hubby's away at work and hump him silly.
I say go for it. Sneak him home while your hubby's away at work and hump him silly.
RE: I wonder if to meet one of my regulars
Ask yourself this....would you not care if your husband did the same thing behind your back?
RE: I wonder if to meet one of my regulars
Some advice...no good will come of this....forget it and keep it to videos. Trust me he isnt that good.
RE: I wonder if to meet one of my regulars ~ HOST
Hmmm, maybe I have just been on CC too long but why does this thread smell like a wind up to me? For starters it is posted in General when the most logical place to discuss meeting members would be in the hosts forum for _proper_ advice. And secondly can anyone really as clueless to say
"don't want to spoil the relationship with my husband lol. Need to figure out how to meet him and if to have sex with him then"
in the same breath?
Sorry, I don't buy it and anything that derives from this thread will at best be misplaced and at worst be totally bogus.
"How do I cheat on my partner and make him happy about it?" Did this book ever go to publication and I missed it? Hmmmm..
Very strange indeed.
TNTITFGAHSOBPA
"don't want to spoil the relationship with my husband lol. Need to figure out how to meet him and if to have sex with him then"
in the same breath?
Sorry, I don't buy it and anything that derives from this thread will at best be misplaced and at worst be totally bogus.
"How do I cheat on my partner and make him happy about it?" Did this book ever go to publication and I missed it? Hmmmm..
Very strange indeed.
TNTITFGAHSOBPA
RE: I wonder if to meet one of my regulars ~ HOST
probably because ur right, it doesn't pass the smell test
RE: I wonder if to meet one of my regulars
are you ready to lose your family, to lose the love, the trust, the respect you have, for a man who will leave you after few days?
RE: I wonder if to meet one of my regulars
just ask your shelf 1 question...would you like it to be done to you...and there you have your own answer.
RE: I wonder if to meet one of my regulars
why would she want the same and have some dude to come and bugger her husband?
but by the same token, i think it would be a good thing for her to know that her husband is actually homosexual. it might actually shed some light of truth on why she would feel the need to have another guy come to have sex with her in the first place. and no one can disagree with that being a good thing, that's for sure.
but by the same token, i think it would be a good thing for her to know that her husband is actually homosexual. it might actually shed some light of truth on why she would feel the need to have another guy come to have sex with her in the first place. and no one can disagree with that being a good thing, that's for sure.
RE: I wonder if to meet one of my regulars
Ty for the inputs. Of course I don't want to lose hubby and our relationship, that's why I don't plan to tell him. As far as I'm aware he hasn't ever cheated on me and I will probably be upset if I find out smth like this, so if he ever does it, he should make sure I don't realize it. The viewer is very intelligent and I will probably not be able to pretend I'm single for long. I just have a crush on him and want to see him and probably have a nice shag especially if he is hot in real as he is online :)
I asked if you have had sex outside your marriage, not to judge me and I'm not russian, why should I be lol
I asked if you have had sex outside your marriage, not to judge me and I'm not russian, why should I be lol
RE: I wonder if to meet one of my regulars ~ HOST
Oh that does it.. You're are so busted.. No foreign host would use the word shag in the same context as you just did.
This whole thread was a bogus attempt to stir up opinionated outrage at loose morals and see who would bite. Forget it. I stand by my opinion that this holds about as much credibility as Tony Blair writing his memoirs in which he single handedly saves the world from utter annihilation by the axis of evil brandishing Weapons of Mass Destruction targeted at the 7-11 KwikiMart by Bandbury roundabout.
Move along people, ain't nothing to see here.
TNTCSTCAMAASDBSIYAO
This whole thread was a bogus attempt to stir up opinionated outrage at loose morals and see who would bite. Forget it. I stand by my opinion that this holds about as much credibility as Tony Blair writing his memoirs in which he single handedly saves the world from utter annihilation by the axis of evil brandishing Weapons of Mass Destruction targeted at the 7-11 KwikiMart by Bandbury roundabout.
Move along people, ain't nothing to see here.
TNTCSTCAMAASDBSIYAO
RE: I wonder if to meet one of my regulars ~ HOST
HEY, the lovely indian couple running my local 7-11 are hard working and industrious. please insert wal mart in it;s place
RE: I wonder if to meet one of my regulars ~ HOST
She is just provocative, that's all. Anyway, she can be happy for getting the right answer from C Everett Koop. Extramarital sex is healthy, it does cure cancer :DDD
mind...is...wonder...ing
A guy is hiking on the side of a mountain when he encounters a beast. The beast looks at him and says "Hi, I'm the Totally Awesome Snowman". "Wha...What did you say?" Asks a very confused hiker. "I'm the Totally Awesome Snowman". Now that he understands what the beast said, the hiker says "Oh, you mean the Abominable Snowman". The beast smiles and says "I prefer Totally Awesome Snowman". "But, historically, you are known as the Abominable Snowman". "I know, I know" says the beast, "Its just that I can't say Abominabubble"
Your welcome
Your welcome
RE: Happy Woman's Day
i too would like to wish all the lovely ladies a happy and wonderful womens day. my wish for you to be treated with the respect you deserve, the kindness you expect and the happiness we all wish to have .
Thank you for being for being that someone special we all try to be
Thank you for being for being that someone special we all try to be
sex, love and then friendship
Hi,
whats your opinion on meeting someone for sex, then falling in love with that person only for it to end. can you still be friends afterwards?
whats your opinion on meeting someone for sex, then falling in love with that person only for it to end. can you still be friends afterwards?
RE: sex, love and then friendship
Depends on how it ended,
But seeing as you can not figure that out, I say you are too imature to have a serious relationship.
You are in the live in learn process of life. good luck you have a long way to go.
But seeing as you can not figure that out, I say you are too imature to have a serious relationship.
You are in the live in learn process of life. good luck you have a long way to go.
RE: sex, love and then friendship
maybe you are right.. it was a genuine question i asked here. But hey you cant help falling in love with someone even if we are both married to different spouses.
The hard bit.. is walking away and just shutting down emotions. Both she and I cannot do that bit. I am a believer in fate and we met for a reason. That is evident from our affections for one another - even now now after a massive fall out and trying to rebuild it as friendship only.
But the fall out is because its just impossible to have 2 lovers.. we are both a little crazy.. what turned out to be a flippant comment about meeting then snow balled into what is now.
Both our partners know whats been going on and even other chat host friends too.. I seeked advice because of really not knowing what to do...
The hard bit.. is walking away and just shutting down emotions. Both she and I cannot do that bit. I am a believer in fate and we met for a reason. That is evident from our affections for one another - even now now after a massive fall out and trying to rebuild it as friendship only.
But the fall out is because its just impossible to have 2 lovers.. we are both a little crazy.. what turned out to be a flippant comment about meeting then snow balled into what is now.
Both our partners know whats been going on and even other chat host friends too.. I seeked advice because of really not knowing what to do...
RE: sex, love and then friendship
It is possible, but very difficult, and it may require that you swallow much hurt... are you prepared for him to fall for another woman? Are you prepared to wrestle with these feelings for months to come?
I know these feelings.
My suggestion is to step back, take a breath, and consider your options from a less involved point of view.
I know these feelings.
My suggestion is to step back, take a breath, and consider your options from a less involved point of view.
RE: sex, love and then friendship
Ah, yes, I love that... sniff, sniff :-)
Good luck to you. I hope it works out for the best.
Good luck to you. I hope it works out for the best.
RE: sex, love and then friendship
Baby, you gotta stop causing yourself so much drama and grief. Just keep fucking him until you two get bored of each other then move on to the next guy. :)
RE: personal questions...
and? what would u like that people asked u? how is weather to you? and how was tasty the last borsh soup? If u r a host change work dear! if u r a guest, change ur mind.
RE: personal questions...
Why wouldn't they ask these questions? Every question you have mentioned, I have been asked by hosts, and then some.
RE: personal questions...
Don't worry - most questions in chat at least are euphemisms for 'come to my vid now!', e.g. hru bb? what mood? how old? where u from? So, as ur answers are irrelevant, just reply as you wish, e.g. 'I'm 22, from Antartica, my mood is psychopathic.......'
RE: personal questions...
I would think and expect people to just answer truthfully it is a chat forum (I know its basically porn biased) so be yourself cheers
RE: personal questions...
I think most host treat their moments here as "comic relief"...and enjoy the humor of getting paid well for it.
Spyware Terminator & Web Security Guard
These are two very good & free programs to make the internet a safer place to be. They go together & offer realtime protection against viruses, adware, & spyware. Web Security Guard warns you if a site is trying to download potentially harmful content to your computer so you can block just the content & not the whole site. But sometimes it will warn you not to go on a site at all. Don't worry. It gives no warnings about CC
http://www.spywareterminator.com
http://www.websecurityguard.com
http://www.spywareterminator.com
http://www.websecurityguard.com
RE: Spyware Terminator & Web Security Guard (to A Little Tech Knowledge)
What is your opinion of the usefulness/performance of the 2 pieces of software mentioned?
RE: Spyware Terminator & Web Security Guard
With a MAC you don't need to worry about these issues. For my pc I use Bit Defender, ranked No1 by Consumer Reports. I've used it for almost 2 years and it is flawless. It costs about $60 a year and is well worth it. You get what you pay for.
RE: Spyware Terminator & Web Security Guard: To viewer9
I've tried Webroot Spysweeper & McAfee anti-virus & was disappointed in both. So I'll never pay for such programs again. You shouldn't have to worry about these issues with a MAC considering how much they cost. Does bit defender offer realtime protection?
RE: Spyware Terminator & Web Security Guard: To viewer9
Threads like these that make me giggle.
RE: Spyware Terminator & Web Security Guard
Your days of gloating about a MAC being safe are coming to the end, they now have enough of the computer market to make them a target, so enjoy it while you can ;o)
blonde joke(with apolodies)
A blonde heard that milk baths would make her beautiful. She left a
note for her milkman to leave 25 gallons of milk.
When the milkman read the note, he felt there must be a mistake. He thought she probably meant 2.5 gallons. So he knocked on the door to clarify the point.
The blonde came to the door and the milkman said, 'I found your note
asking me to leave 25 gallons of milk. Did you mean 2.5 gallons?'
The blonde said, 'No. I want 25 gallons. I'm going to fill my bathtub up
with milk and take a milk bath so I can look young and beautiful again.'
The milkman asked, 'OK - 25 gallons it is. Do you
want it pasteurized?'
The blonde said, 'No, just up to my tits. I can splash it on my face'. :--)
note for her milkman to leave 25 gallons of milk.
When the milkman read the note, he felt there must be a mistake. He thought she probably meant 2.5 gallons. So he knocked on the door to clarify the point.
The blonde came to the door and the milkman said, 'I found your note
asking me to leave 25 gallons of milk. Did you mean 2.5 gallons?'
The blonde said, 'No. I want 25 gallons. I'm going to fill my bathtub up
with milk and take a milk bath so I can look young and beautiful again.'
The milkman asked, 'OK - 25 gallons it is. Do you
want it pasteurized?'
The blonde said, 'No, just up to my tits. I can splash it on my face'. :--)
RE: yahoo
Many hosts use a screen name from someone else and the profile information and host's name are not the same as the present host. Plus, many profiles are not true.
RE: members
you chat in text because you want to get a sense of who the girl is...perhaps as a result...they don't feel comfortable...maybe pressured...and would rather not move to video.
RE: members
To answer in chat means that u r kind and come to ur video chat could be confortable. Many hosts don't answer at all, and many know only the words Come in pvt.
RE: members
after then mins it's ok to say bye and close chat . But block? Are there so silly members that don't understand the meaning of the word "BYE"? Only Gortensia blocks without advertisement! lol
RE: members
and you think this is the best way to handle this by blocking? geeeeeeeeeze. is that the intended purpose of blocking????
RE: members
All this talk of blocking in recent threads has sure rattled some members, who seem to take it as a personal affront. Interesting to speculate on why it touches such a raw nerve.
RE: members
Eh...have you read your own profile? It isn't particularly comprehensive as to what a member might be led to expect from a visit to your room. Rather undermines your criticism i feel
RE: members
I usually do go to community chat to get to know a new host. I will chat for a while and then decide if I go to video. Even with friends I will text chat for a while to see if they are busy and I will always ask if it is okay to come to video at that time. I have been told before when it is not a good time to enter (They have somebody else in open video for example). I will then return another time. I do this out of respect for the host.
RE: members
Most profiles are fluff or generic and often ambiguous statements. They rarely give you a clear indication of what the host is like personally, what her limits are, what her videos will be like. The phrase...come to my video and I will make you happy has dozens of interpretations. Even when they are specific the rules can change. The girl who says she is very shy might wind up with a coke can up her butt. The one who says come to me for hot hot action won't even take off her hat in video. I would prefer if CC had hosts complete a form that clearly stated their preferences, what they do and dont do, etc. Sure it is more clinical but then members might read it.
RE: members
you must be an instant action host, coz I usally spend a couple minutes with the small talk before I get down to the nakedness (Hi, where you from?, what's ur name?, etc) but hey, If you want members to read profiles and then jum into vids with no small talk be prepared to take your panties off from the 1st minute.
RE: members
obviously because they take it personally and feel that in some cases that it is undeserved and blame cc for allowing this practice.
RE: members
it is indeed rude of members, but hosts can be rude also. It would be like for example; if the host accepted a 700 camera as a gift and than actually expected this person to pay for video. Can you believe how selfish this host appears?