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Validation/ Update of Hosts' Ages
Since CC obtains proof of a host's age before they begin working, why are the ages not updated as the years roll by? And why are they rarely accurate?
There are girls who have been hosting for several years, yet their age is still listed as "18"...
Also, new hosts joining whose age is listed as 18; but then you go into their host and they are clearly significantly older.
Age is a condition for selection employed by many Viewers, I am sure... Isn't it tantamount to fraud for Hosts to be permitted to lie about their age? Obviously, hosts should be free to customise their Profiles as they wish; but they should not be permitted to adjust their Age, I think.
There are girls who have been hosting for several years, yet their age is still listed as "18"...
Also, new hosts joining whose age is listed as 18; but then you go into their host and they are clearly significantly older.
Age is a condition for selection employed by many Viewers, I am sure... Isn't it tantamount to fraud for Hosts to be permitted to lie about their age? Obviously, hosts should be free to customise their Profiles as they wish; but they should not be permitted to adjust their Age, I think.
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it's very difficult to tell the age on the asian girls. there have been some here in the past getting away with 20 or 21 were really in their early 30's
but then woman never tells her age.......lol
but then woman never tells her age.......lol
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You seem to be saying that the age makes no difference...
If that is so, then why not put the true age?
And why do girls not put an age that is older than their true age?
There are many 20-something girls saying they are 18; but no 18yo girls saying they are 20-something.
Sad fact of life is that, pound for pound, younger adults are more attractive than older. This is why women spend billions per year trying to look younger but spend nothing trying to look older.
If you do a search right now for 18yo girls, probably better than 90% of the results you get are for older women blatantly lying about their age for their own financial gain. That's simply unfair on the paying customer...
Also, it's not simply a matter of looks... It is not just the body that changes with age, but the personality too... And often not for the better. Or a man may prefer the innocence and inexperience of an 18yo host. I think we have a reasonable right to be allowed to make such decisions for ourselves, rather than being tricked into paying for chat under a false pretext.
All the more annoying, since CC knows the true age of Hosts and it would extremely simple to have the Age field updated automatically, just like the "Last Online" field.
Additionally, it makes a mockery of being able to search by age, when the returned results are not accurate.
If that is so, then why not put the true age?
And why do girls not put an age that is older than their true age?
There are many 20-something girls saying they are 18; but no 18yo girls saying they are 20-something.
Sad fact of life is that, pound for pound, younger adults are more attractive than older. This is why women spend billions per year trying to look younger but spend nothing trying to look older.
If you do a search right now for 18yo girls, probably better than 90% of the results you get are for older women blatantly lying about their age for their own financial gain. That's simply unfair on the paying customer...
Also, it's not simply a matter of looks... It is not just the body that changes with age, but the personality too... And often not for the better. Or a man may prefer the innocence and inexperience of an 18yo host. I think we have a reasonable right to be allowed to make such decisions for ourselves, rather than being tricked into paying for chat under a false pretext.
All the more annoying, since CC knows the true age of Hosts and it would extremely simple to have the Age field updated automatically, just like the "Last Online" field.
Additionally, it makes a mockery of being able to search by age, when the returned results are not accurate.
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The point was if a guy pay to see a 18 yes girl, he should get what he paid for, not a 30 yrs old one pretending to be 18, whats so hard to understand? And exactly because u are in a pc, why you should lie about the country u live in? Make no sense.
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i don't really care about it and my age is up to date but as a fantasy site I don't see the point to restrict us to say whatever we want in our profiles. The fact that viewers can lie about anything should give us the right to be able to do the same :)
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The Viewer is also the Customer, who ultimately pays for the site and the Hosts' salaries.
He is entitled to get what he pays for, both legally and morally; and not to be deceived into buying something that only pretends to be what he paid for.
Next time you buy a loaf of bread... You would be happy to discover that you only get one slice of bread? That it is all OK because the shopkeeper is "pretending" to sell you full loaf and that you can "fantasise" that you had the whole loaf?
Why would you accept a situation where you paid for an entire loaf but were given only one slice?
And what about the poor girls who are missing out? The genuinely 18 year old girls who are having their income reduced by fakers pretending to be 18 for 3, 4, 5 years or longer!
He is entitled to get what he pays for, both legally and morally; and not to be deceived into buying something that only pretends to be what he paid for.
Next time you buy a loaf of bread... You would be happy to discover that you only get one slice of bread? That it is all OK because the shopkeeper is "pretending" to sell you full loaf and that you can "fantasise" that you had the whole loaf?
Why would you accept a situation where you paid for an entire loaf but were given only one slice?
And what about the poor girls who are missing out? The genuinely 18 year old girls who are having their income reduced by fakers pretending to be 18 for 3, 4, 5 years or longer!
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"Why would you accept a situation where you paid for an entire loaf but were given only one slice?"
You would accept it if your particular fantasy/ fetish was to be ripped off by your local shopkeper when buying a loaf of bread.
Just the same as I am sure there are age criteria members who are quite happy to chat to a host who pretends to be 18 as long as she can pass for 18 and there is nothing to spoil that illusion like her real age being in her profile.
They are also viewers who pay the hosts salary. So it is a case of getting the balance right and from the replies in this thread it would appear that there is no great demand for it.
You would accept it if your particular fantasy/ fetish was to be ripped off by your local shopkeper when buying a loaf of bread.
Just the same as I am sure there are age criteria members who are quite happy to chat to a host who pretends to be 18 as long as she can pass for 18 and there is nothing to spoil that illusion like her real age being in her profile.
They are also viewers who pay the hosts salary. So it is a case of getting the balance right and from the replies in this thread it would appear that there is no great demand for it.
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I care which country u are from. If u r from Russia, I'd say privet when I enter ur room; or if ur from Romania, then I'd say Buna. But why lie about where u from? U r in pc. An Asian Russian host from Vladivostok said she was at Korea, so I said anyong haseo (hello) and she replies ... huh? And what's up with "Private, not telling" at the profile location field?
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yeah, but if you say -- Not telling, private -- but your local time is given, then one can sort of figure out about where u are. Except for some, whose local time is shown as US East Coast time ... they can be from anywhere. :( Anyway, the point is why hide or lie about which country u live at?
Time Zone
yeah, i know fake time zones can be displayed ... just like fake age. I thought the point is/was why lie? but nm it's not an important issue. as for ur refusal to tell guys which city u are at, i can understand that. btw Wanda buna ... ce mai faci ... and la revedere ... pupici !! :)
Time Zone/Country
u know, like i told Wanda, it's not that important issue so no big deal. and yes i know time zone can be faked ... but my question was why lie about which country u are from? if u show - Not Telling, Private - yet ur local time shows Moscow time ... the chances are I will assume u are from Russia, even though u may be at Ukraine or Vladivostok ... or even if u say Not Telling, Private but ur local time shows a Manila time, then I'm going to assume u are a pinay. So far all hosts I visited like it when I enter their vid and say "hi" or other greetings in their native language ... won't u?
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You are a great guy if you pay attention to in what language to say hi. But I am happy if guys say hi AT ALL :))) no matter in what language , hihi.:))
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Not always true. Believe it or not but when I was something like 25-30 yo I was still needed to take my passport each time when I wanted to buy a beer to prove that I am 18 already. I was so angry that was ready to do any thing just to look older. The same is my sister. Well, it was about looks, but as for innocence...I understand your point. But my point is that innocence also not always means 18 years old girl or even younger. You anyway will feel that only after you talk to a person. So, if you will search for unexperienced host according to her real age only, you could get the same delusion.
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What a curious thread and what is more curious is that as of now it seems to be only hosts opinions that have been voiced.
Truth is women lie about their age all the time, you don't need to be on CC to see that. So men tend to take a woman's age with a bit of a pinch of salt which is actually rather a good thing really. Some women just do look younger than they are and why should that be a barrier to anything? If anything, being only 18 can be a bit of a handicap for anyone who is serious about a relationship or more (it can happen).
TL, while I understand your feelings on the subject, perhaps you feel that older women are 'stealing' your thunder and taking away potential customers because they have the advantage over you of looks AND experience which makes them cracking women to be with, it is perhaps just a bit ungracious to think men are solely influenced by how old a host is.
Oddly enough, the converse is also true though. I cannot tell you how many times I have told hosts my age and they turn around and say "Mmm nice age" despite the fact that I have grown 5 years since I have been on CC. Most think I am older and like the comfort in knowing I am not a silly little boy who does not know what he wants. If you did a poll of hosts I am quite sure more than half at least would say they preferred an older man who is educated, intelligent, successful and sure of themselves, that to have a spotty 18 year old drooling over them and being naive and crass.
So no, I have to say I am not particularly enthused by the idea. Even on a site like CC hosts ought to be allowed to retain some dignity and grow old gracefully if they choose to. Despite what some members might think, CC for me is not and has not ever been a 'cattle market' where all the hosts are the same and you just pick off the youngest and freshest for the hell of it.
I have met some older women who are fantastically beautiful and look 10 even 20 years younger than they are. It is like a dream come true being with them because not only are they alive and beautiful in mind they are also smoking hot to look at too. Win, win in my book. Mmmmmm hehe
TNTWASPKTATOHOT
Truth is women lie about their age all the time, you don't need to be on CC to see that. So men tend to take a woman's age with a bit of a pinch of salt which is actually rather a good thing really. Some women just do look younger than they are and why should that be a barrier to anything? If anything, being only 18 can be a bit of a handicap for anyone who is serious about a relationship or more (it can happen).
TL, while I understand your feelings on the subject, perhaps you feel that older women are 'stealing' your thunder and taking away potential customers because they have the advantage over you of looks AND experience which makes them cracking women to be with, it is perhaps just a bit ungracious to think men are solely influenced by how old a host is.
Oddly enough, the converse is also true though. I cannot tell you how many times I have told hosts my age and they turn around and say "Mmm nice age" despite the fact that I have grown 5 years since I have been on CC. Most think I am older and like the comfort in knowing I am not a silly little boy who does not know what he wants. If you did a poll of hosts I am quite sure more than half at least would say they preferred an older man who is educated, intelligent, successful and sure of themselves, that to have a spotty 18 year old drooling over them and being naive and crass.
So no, I have to say I am not particularly enthused by the idea. Even on a site like CC hosts ought to be allowed to retain some dignity and grow old gracefully if they choose to. Despite what some members might think, CC for me is not and has not ever been a 'cattle market' where all the hosts are the same and you just pick off the youngest and freshest for the hell of it.
I have met some older women who are fantastically beautiful and look 10 even 20 years younger than they are. It is like a dream come true being with them because not only are they alive and beautiful in mind they are also smoking hot to look at too. Win, win in my book. Mmmmmm hehe
TNTWASPKTATOHOT
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No it doesn't bother me in the slightest what age a host puts in her profile. If she is sexy, intelligent, funny etc she is those things regardless of her age.
I also find it a little bit sad that a member would video with a host who he believed to be 19 because she had stated this in her profile but would not video with that same host if he knew she was actually 20.
I also find it a little bit sad that a member would video with a host who he believed to be 19 because she had stated this in her profile but would not video with that same host if he knew she was actually 20.
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Mo, you are not too old ML, there are many girls at your age here.....stating they are 18 :)))))
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The point is not the relative merits of Youth Vs Experience.
That's purely a matter of taste, utterly subjective... Some men prefer older women, some men prefer younger women, some men prefer large-breasted women, some men prefer small-breasted women, some women prefer younger men, some older men...
There's no accounting for taste.
And if a person's taste is that they want only to speak to an 18yo host, then why should it be permissible for them to be lured into speaking to someone they don't want to speak to on the basis of a lie?
Most people have responded that age is no particular issue for them... And that's fine.
But this being the case- I repeat- if age is no issue, then why permit Hosts to lie about it? The only conceivable reason is to trick men into visiting a host they otherwise would not. This is palpably unfair and should not be permitted.
Someone said the "Truth is women lie about their age all the time"...
Yes- but not when the lie is a basis for a financial transaction. It's one thing for a woman to lie about her age to a colleague or friend... The colleague or friend is not paying her to spend time with him with age as a basis for his selection of companion.
I should point out that I am actually a Member, not a Host... I am aggrieved from the other side of the fence: not "other" Hosts stealing my thunder; but the fact of my money being obtained by unscrupulous women via deception: try selling 5-day old bananas by saying they are 1-day old and see how long it is before someone takes a legal interest in your activities. It is unfair, immoral and unlawful to deliberately mis-represent what you are selling for the purposes of your own financial gain.
I am absolutely not disagreeing with the principle that sometimes older women are more attractive than younger. But it is undeniably the case that younger people (including men) are, in general, more attractive than older people.
Suppose your personal preference was for slim, small-breasted blonde girls of between 18 and 25 years. You search the hosts using those parameters, and find some.
Except, when you enter the host you find in actuality the woman is 35, fat and has titanic breasts. Wouldn't you feel aggrieved? Wouldn't you feel that this person has deliberately conned you out of [an admittedly tiny] amount of money by lying? It is this principle that above all aggravates me.
As for hosts being allowed to "grow old gracefully and with dignity", I think that to tell the truth about one's age is a good deal more graceful and dignified than lying about it so that you can effectively perpetrate fraud on a paying customer.
What I object most of all to is the lie, and the motive behind the lie.
The lie is to say that you are (perhaps considerably) younger than you are; and the motive of the lie is to obtain other peoples' money. There is no amount of sophistry or discussion that could make this acceptable, moral or legal.
That's purely a matter of taste, utterly subjective... Some men prefer older women, some men prefer younger women, some men prefer large-breasted women, some men prefer small-breasted women, some women prefer younger men, some older men...
There's no accounting for taste.
And if a person's taste is that they want only to speak to an 18yo host, then why should it be permissible for them to be lured into speaking to someone they don't want to speak to on the basis of a lie?
Most people have responded that age is no particular issue for them... And that's fine.
But this being the case- I repeat- if age is no issue, then why permit Hosts to lie about it? The only conceivable reason is to trick men into visiting a host they otherwise would not. This is palpably unfair and should not be permitted.
Someone said the "Truth is women lie about their age all the time"...
Yes- but not when the lie is a basis for a financial transaction. It's one thing for a woman to lie about her age to a colleague or friend... The colleague or friend is not paying her to spend time with him with age as a basis for his selection of companion.
I should point out that I am actually a Member, not a Host... I am aggrieved from the other side of the fence: not "other" Hosts stealing my thunder; but the fact of my money being obtained by unscrupulous women via deception: try selling 5-day old bananas by saying they are 1-day old and see how long it is before someone takes a legal interest in your activities. It is unfair, immoral and unlawful to deliberately mis-represent what you are selling for the purposes of your own financial gain.
I am absolutely not disagreeing with the principle that sometimes older women are more attractive than younger. But it is undeniably the case that younger people (including men) are, in general, more attractive than older people.
Suppose your personal preference was for slim, small-breasted blonde girls of between 18 and 25 years. You search the hosts using those parameters, and find some.
Except, when you enter the host you find in actuality the woman is 35, fat and has titanic breasts. Wouldn't you feel aggrieved? Wouldn't you feel that this person has deliberately conned you out of [an admittedly tiny] amount of money by lying? It is this principle that above all aggravates me.
As for hosts being allowed to "grow old gracefully and with dignity", I think that to tell the truth about one's age is a good deal more graceful and dignified than lying about it so that you can effectively perpetrate fraud on a paying customer.
What I object most of all to is the lie, and the motive behind the lie.
The lie is to say that you are (perhaps considerably) younger than you are; and the motive of the lie is to obtain other peoples' money. There is no amount of sophistry or discussion that could make this acceptable, moral or legal.
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As I think of this as a fantasy site to me it is all about what can be created by illusion (a lie) in a video.
So yes if I put in the parameters that you specified and entered the video of a host in the list only to find the girl that you decribed I would feel slightly aggrieved (although I would have checked her pics first).
However if the 35 yo fat woman with the titanic breasts could make me believe that she was a small-breasted blonde girl between 18 and 25 while I am in video then I would be perfectly happy.
So if I was looking for a blonde and had a great video only to find out later that the girl was really a brunette with her hair dyed blonde I would still return to her video.
However I am now definitely in favour of a host being able to put whatever age she wants into her own profile.
So yes if I put in the parameters that you specified and entered the video of a host in the list only to find the girl that you decribed I would feel slightly aggrieved (although I would have checked her pics first).
However if the 35 yo fat woman with the titanic breasts could make me believe that she was a small-breasted blonde girl between 18 and 25 while I am in video then I would be perfectly happy.
So if I was looking for a blonde and had a great video only to find out later that the girl was really a brunette with her hair dyed blonde I would still return to her video.
However I am now definitely in favour of a host being able to put whatever age she wants into her own profile.
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you seems fixated on age (as your nickname suggests), age is just a number, I go by how the host looks in her photos, I do like the young ones as you mention, but I don't get caught up on if she is a teen or a twenty something. Seems some older guys like the idea of being with a teenager and not a 20+ year old.
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older guys just long for their high school years and attempt to pretend they were good years, so they go for teens on fantasy sites. or could be as they get older they are more willing to admit they are pervs
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Acceptable, moral or legal? On a fantasy Site? lol You do need to get out more! :-)
Surely CC has covered all the legal aspects of this business. As for what one finds acceptable and moral, that’s a completely different story. :-)
If you want the "real thing" perhaps you should go out and chat up 18 years old girls. You can even ask them for their ID to make sure you get the real deal. :P
However, when you come on here you might like to remember where you are –A place that for most people it’s a fantasy world. People on here can imagine whatever they like, or they can stay as real as they like, members and chathosts alike. It's their choice :-)
And now, on a serious note, you as a costumer have the responsibility of checking what you are paying for. Speaking about CC - this is why chathosts have archives and this is what the free chat it's for. If you are not sure that the person you chose to be your “companion” is what you want, move on to the next one until you find what you are willing to pay for. Isn't that the way you "shop" in your real life? :P
You search for something until you get what you want.
Never forget, you always have a choice – in this case is - you can either choose to check more thoroughly next time you are willing to spend money and get what you really want or, let yourself deceived and then come on here and complain about it.
Your call, your decision, your responsibility! :-)
Surely CC has covered all the legal aspects of this business. As for what one finds acceptable and moral, that’s a completely different story. :-)
If you want the "real thing" perhaps you should go out and chat up 18 years old girls. You can even ask them for their ID to make sure you get the real deal. :P
However, when you come on here you might like to remember where you are –A place that for most people it’s a fantasy world. People on here can imagine whatever they like, or they can stay as real as they like, members and chathosts alike. It's their choice :-)
And now, on a serious note, you as a costumer have the responsibility of checking what you are paying for. Speaking about CC - this is why chathosts have archives and this is what the free chat it's for. If you are not sure that the person you chose to be your “companion” is what you want, move on to the next one until you find what you are willing to pay for. Isn't that the way you "shop" in your real life? :P
You search for something until you get what you want.
Never forget, you always have a choice – in this case is - you can either choose to check more thoroughly next time you are willing to spend money and get what you really want or, let yourself deceived and then come on here and complain about it.
Your call, your decision, your responsibility! :-)
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I have to say, grateful as I am for comments, that you guys seem to be missing my point to a degree.
It is not a subjective discussion of the merits and demerits of particular ages, or whether older women are better than younger women. Nor is it a matter of the merits of particular preferences. I would never dream of disparaging others' preferences... When it gets right down to the nitty-gritty, we all, male and female, have preferences and urges that defy rational description or validation.
It is the simple principle of Hosts lying in order to attract visitors they would not receive if they were honest, that the only conceivable purpose behind the lie is to trick men into spending money where otherwise they would not.
This is fundamentally wrong, if not actively contrary to the various governances that all countries adopt in order to protect free trade and the rights of the consumer.
Nor can it be excused by describing the site as a "fantasy" site... If this were the case then I ask- again- why are hosts not compelled to be honest about their age? If it were only a matter of suporting a fantasy, the actual age listed would be irrelevant since then it would become a matter of how well the Host can portray a particular role. If you go to a store and buy something that does not, in the actualite, correspond to its description then you would be entitled to a refund. Stores that persistently mis-sell would be subject to investigation.
It is not a valid excuse, on being supplied with a product that does not live up to its advertising, to be told that nothing is wrong because you could have "imagined" or "fantasised" that you actually got what you were paying for.
CC being essentially a sexual forum does not preclude it from its responsibility to supply a product that is consistent with its description.
How would Hosts or CC like it if I spent a couple of hours, couple of hundred dollars, with a Host on the basis that I have been told by both CC and Host that the Host is 18 years old, only for it later to transpire that the host is actually 25 and that I consequently wanted a refund?
Consider also the fact that this lie is deliberately engineered to entice paying Viewers to the host. There is a corresponding impact on Hosts who are GENUINELY 18 (or 19, or 70, or whatever your preference)... In that their income is being diluted by fakers who have already had their "day in the sun" and, not being content with that, are now set on extending their "day" to the cost of genuine paying customers and their fellow Hosts.
From now on, I will be rating all hosts who deliberately lie about being 18 solely for their own financial benefit, and my financial detriment, with 1 star and submitting negative feedback both privately and on the Hosts' forums.
In all the comments, I have not seen one reasonable justification for these lies... Only excuses, essentially no more substantial than "Oh well, women lie about their age, what can you do?". This is fine, perhaps even endearing, in general society. But this is not general society, it is essentially a place of business where the consumer has a right to expect that the product being supplied fits its description. These lies can't even be excused by saying they are some kind administrative error or oversight. They are clearly, very clearly, deliberate deceptions on the part of the overwhelming majority of those Hosts claiming to be 18.
If the age of the host is not important to you, then you can have no complaint with the true age being listed.
And if the age of the host IS important to you, then you stand only to benefit.
The only people who stand to lose are the Hosts who lie about their age for their own benefit, and even then only insofar as they would not be able to lie and deceive the people who genuinely support this otherwise great site any longer.
It is not a subjective discussion of the merits and demerits of particular ages, or whether older women are better than younger women. Nor is it a matter of the merits of particular preferences. I would never dream of disparaging others' preferences... When it gets right down to the nitty-gritty, we all, male and female, have preferences and urges that defy rational description or validation.
It is the simple principle of Hosts lying in order to attract visitors they would not receive if they were honest, that the only conceivable purpose behind the lie is to trick men into spending money where otherwise they would not.
This is fundamentally wrong, if not actively contrary to the various governances that all countries adopt in order to protect free trade and the rights of the consumer.
Nor can it be excused by describing the site as a "fantasy" site... If this were the case then I ask- again- why are hosts not compelled to be honest about their age? If it were only a matter of suporting a fantasy, the actual age listed would be irrelevant since then it would become a matter of how well the Host can portray a particular role. If you go to a store and buy something that does not, in the actualite, correspond to its description then you would be entitled to a refund. Stores that persistently mis-sell would be subject to investigation.
It is not a valid excuse, on being supplied with a product that does not live up to its advertising, to be told that nothing is wrong because you could have "imagined" or "fantasised" that you actually got what you were paying for.
CC being essentially a sexual forum does not preclude it from its responsibility to supply a product that is consistent with its description.
How would Hosts or CC like it if I spent a couple of hours, couple of hundred dollars, with a Host on the basis that I have been told by both CC and Host that the Host is 18 years old, only for it later to transpire that the host is actually 25 and that I consequently wanted a refund?
Consider also the fact that this lie is deliberately engineered to entice paying Viewers to the host. There is a corresponding impact on Hosts who are GENUINELY 18 (or 19, or 70, or whatever your preference)... In that their income is being diluted by fakers who have already had their "day in the sun" and, not being content with that, are now set on extending their "day" to the cost of genuine paying customers and their fellow Hosts.
From now on, I will be rating all hosts who deliberately lie about being 18 solely for their own financial benefit, and my financial detriment, with 1 star and submitting negative feedback both privately and on the Hosts' forums.
In all the comments, I have not seen one reasonable justification for these lies... Only excuses, essentially no more substantial than "Oh well, women lie about their age, what can you do?". This is fine, perhaps even endearing, in general society. But this is not general society, it is essentially a place of business where the consumer has a right to expect that the product being supplied fits its description. These lies can't even be excused by saying they are some kind administrative error or oversight. They are clearly, very clearly, deliberate deceptions on the part of the overwhelming majority of those Hosts claiming to be 18.
If the age of the host is not important to you, then you can have no complaint with the true age being listed.
And if the age of the host IS important to you, then you stand only to benefit.
The only people who stand to lose are the Hosts who lie about their age for their own benefit, and even then only insofar as they would not be able to lie and deceive the people who genuinely support this otherwise great site any longer.
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If you are getting so technicial on the age she has posted in her profile, what next? Host having "supermodel" listed as their body type when they are not supermodel material? Hair length? Orientation? A host with virgin mixed in her nickname? Where does it end?
"Ladies and gentlemenof the court, I will prove to you today that "MizAnalLover" does indeed NOT Love Anal! Isn't that right MizAnalLover?!?
(weeping) "yes, it's true, I don't love anal, I only do it to make money" (burst into tears)
"I rest my case"
"Ladies and gentlemenof the court, I will prove to you today that "MizAnalLover" does indeed NOT Love Anal! Isn't that right MizAnalLover?!?
(weeping) "yes, it's true, I don't love anal, I only do it to make money" (burst into tears)
"I rest my case"
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Again... I have to labour the point that this is not a post about matters of preference, taste or opinion.
A "Supermodel" build is completely open to interpretation. It is an opinion, and in the eye of the beholder. If you choose a Supermodel-build Host then you have a reasonable that they will be slim with good proportions; but no absolute right that they will correspond to your own personal OPINION of what a Supermodel should be. Additionally, a girl may truthfully believe herself to be supermodel-class whilst the general opinion might be to the contrary. This doesn't make her a liar, it just makes her possibly occasionally mistaken like any other human being.
But age is not a matter of opinion, it is a matter of fact. It is not something that is open to interpretation or radical change. It is something that is easilly measurable and quantifiable.
Hosts who say they are 18 when they are 25 or 30 are simply liars; and they lie in order to cheat the paying customers of this site out of money. To a certain degree, that's a matter for their own conscience; but as sweetcinci's post below shows, conscience is clearly at a premium with some hosts. To an even greater degree, it should be an enforcable matter because CC have the power to prevent this abuse but don't; and are therefore complicit in it.
The girls themselves are not commodities to be bought or sold; but they are providing a service and the description of the service they purportedly supply should correspond to what they actually deliver.
Names, like bodyshape, and other non-certain or randomly changing attributes are different from Age because they are not definite. If a host explicitly states in their profile that they will perform Anal for you then yes, you have every right to expect that they will; but you can't infer from a name what the host will do for you.
The hosts set out the cost of their service and decide how much it will cost you to buy that service. If you pay that cost but dont receive the service, you have been cheated.
If I see a girl who claims to be 18yo selling a service for a given price, then I have an absolute- absolute- right to receive that service from an 18yo girl upon paying the required price. After all, it's not like we can decide at the end of the session to only pay half the amount because we only received half the service.
Consumers have a fundamental, absolute right in both the moral and legislative sense not to be cheated by being delivered of a service that does not match what they bought.
A "Supermodel" build is completely open to interpretation. It is an opinion, and in the eye of the beholder. If you choose a Supermodel-build Host then you have a reasonable that they will be slim with good proportions; but no absolute right that they will correspond to your own personal OPINION of what a Supermodel should be. Additionally, a girl may truthfully believe herself to be supermodel-class whilst the general opinion might be to the contrary. This doesn't make her a liar, it just makes her possibly occasionally mistaken like any other human being.
But age is not a matter of opinion, it is a matter of fact. It is not something that is open to interpretation or radical change. It is something that is easilly measurable and quantifiable.
Hosts who say they are 18 when they are 25 or 30 are simply liars; and they lie in order to cheat the paying customers of this site out of money. To a certain degree, that's a matter for their own conscience; but as sweetcinci's post below shows, conscience is clearly at a premium with some hosts. To an even greater degree, it should be an enforcable matter because CC have the power to prevent this abuse but don't; and are therefore complicit in it.
The girls themselves are not commodities to be bought or sold; but they are providing a service and the description of the service they purportedly supply should correspond to what they actually deliver.
Names, like bodyshape, and other non-certain or randomly changing attributes are different from Age because they are not definite. If a host explicitly states in their profile that they will perform Anal for you then yes, you have every right to expect that they will; but you can't infer from a name what the host will do for you.
The hosts set out the cost of their service and decide how much it will cost you to buy that service. If you pay that cost but dont receive the service, you have been cheated.
If I see a girl who claims to be 18yo selling a service for a given price, then I have an absolute- absolute- right to receive that service from an 18yo girl upon paying the required price. After all, it's not like we can decide at the end of the session to only pay half the amount because we only received half the service.
Consumers have a fundamental, absolute right in both the moral and legislative sense not to be cheated by being delivered of a service that does not match what they bought.
RE: Validation/ Update of Hosts' Ages
If you looked at their photos and can't tell the difference between an 18 year old and a 30 year old you are going to have a hard (no pun intended) time here on CC, good luck on your search.
P.S. DD hit the nail on the head, you agreed to the terms.
P.S. DD hit the nail on the head, you agreed to the terms.
RE: Validation/ Update of Hosts' Ages
YOU MUST READ AND AGREE to these Terms and Conditions of Use (the "Agreement") before You can access the VIDEO CHAT section of this site (hereafter "Web Site"), that is provided under license by CC Network.
13.4 You further acknowledge that You understand that We do not endorse, guarantee or vouch for the accuracy or truthfulness of any messages, communication, information or content of any kind which has been posted, uploaded or provided by Chathosts or other Users of the Web site, including without limitation all Advertisers, nor do We have any responsibility to screen, endorse, monitor, control, investigate, supervise or verify any advertisements or communications submitted to the Web Site by such independent third-parties, consequently You release Us from any and all liability and responsibility resulting, directly or indirectly, from any such messages, communication, information or content of any kind.
Perhaps next time you sign up anywhere else on the internet you might like to read the terms and conditions that you have agreed in order to use the service – would avoid any disappointment and misunderstanding. The above clearly states that CC is not responsible for any of the information provided by the chathost. By becoming a member you have agreed all these so therefore you could have realized that not everything you will read on the web site or chathost profile it’s necessarily true. The way it looks - it is down to each individual chathost what information they provide and how accurate it is, and I believe it is up to you as the costumer to check that you will be provided with the exact service you are willing to pay for.
Have fun!!! :-)
P.S. Good one *Father Time* !!! lol
13.4 You further acknowledge that You understand that We do not endorse, guarantee or vouch for the accuracy or truthfulness of any messages, communication, information or content of any kind which has been posted, uploaded or provided by Chathosts or other Users of the Web site, including without limitation all Advertisers, nor do We have any responsibility to screen, endorse, monitor, control, investigate, supervise or verify any advertisements or communications submitted to the Web Site by such independent third-parties, consequently You release Us from any and all liability and responsibility resulting, directly or indirectly, from any such messages, communication, information or content of any kind.
Perhaps next time you sign up anywhere else on the internet you might like to read the terms and conditions that you have agreed in order to use the service – would avoid any disappointment and misunderstanding. The above clearly states that CC is not responsible for any of the information provided by the chathost. By becoming a member you have agreed all these so therefore you could have realized that not everything you will read on the web site or chathost profile it’s necessarily true. The way it looks - it is down to each individual chathost what information they provide and how accurate it is, and I believe it is up to you as the costumer to check that you will be provided with the exact service you are willing to pay for.
Have fun!!! :-)
P.S. Good one *Father Time* !!! lol
RE: Validation/ Update of Hosts' Ages
I absolutely agree that CC have no LEGAL responsibility to ensure that its customers are not being cheated by unscrupulous hosts; but I think it is reasonable to expect that we should be afforded some simple protection. Not as a matter of legal responsibility (from the CC point of view)- simply as a matter of good customer service and basic decenct. I agree it is the Chathost who is providing the details and substance of the service and that they are therefore solely responsible for any deficiency in the service.
So, I entirely agree with the thrust of your statement as below:
"We do not endorse, guarantee or vouch for the accuracy or truthfulness of any messages, communication, information or content of any kind which has been posted, uploaded or provided by Chathosts"
BUT CC does know the exact age of Chathosts, and since calculating a person's current age is a simple matter, it would be an extremely easy matter for CC to keep the Chathosts age updated automatically, to prevent the abuse of fee-paying members by unscrupulous Chathosts who lie abot their basic details:
"Additionally, the CC Network Inc applies its own strict age verification principles to all individual Chathosts... who prove to be over 18 years of age and who provide acceptable age verification documents to substantiate it. All age verification documents ... are carefully examined by qualified staff"
And I also think that many Viewers who decide to pay a Chathost for their service do so based on any number of criteria, of which Age may be one; and if a premise under which they (Members) undertook to pay for that service later turns out to be a lie deliberately designed by the Chathost to fool the Member into paying for the Chathost's service, then the below condition should apply:
"If You feel that any Chathost did not perform the service that he or she specifically agreed to perform for You during a fee-based Video Session ... and if Your complaints are legitimate, We will give You Credit to your Video Chat account for an amount that is appropriate"
Isn't it therefore the case that any member who chooses a service with a particular Chathost based exclusively or in part on the Chathost's age only for it later to transpire that that Chathost (with the full knowledge of CC) was lying about his/ her age, is entitled to a refund?
So, I entirely agree with the thrust of your statement as below:
"We do not endorse, guarantee or vouch for the accuracy or truthfulness of any messages, communication, information or content of any kind which has been posted, uploaded or provided by Chathosts"
BUT CC does know the exact age of Chathosts, and since calculating a person's current age is a simple matter, it would be an extremely easy matter for CC to keep the Chathosts age updated automatically, to prevent the abuse of fee-paying members by unscrupulous Chathosts who lie abot their basic details:
"Additionally, the CC Network Inc applies its own strict age verification principles to all individual Chathosts... who prove to be over 18 years of age and who provide acceptable age verification documents to substantiate it. All age verification documents ... are carefully examined by qualified staff"
And I also think that many Viewers who decide to pay a Chathost for their service do so based on any number of criteria, of which Age may be one; and if a premise under which they (Members) undertook to pay for that service later turns out to be a lie deliberately designed by the Chathost to fool the Member into paying for the Chathost's service, then the below condition should apply:
"If You feel that any Chathost did not perform the service that he or she specifically agreed to perform for You during a fee-based Video Session ... and if Your complaints are legitimate, We will give You Credit to your Video Chat account for an amount that is appropriate"
Isn't it therefore the case that any member who chooses a service with a particular Chathost based exclusively or in part on the Chathost's age only for it later to transpire that that Chathost (with the full knowledge of CC) was lying about his/ her age, is entitled to a refund?
RE: Validation/ Update of Hosts' Ages
Are you some kind of perv lawyer into barely legal pussy?
RE: Validation/ Update of Hosts' Ages
I am going to keep it short :)
It looks like you are after a refund here. If that’s the case, according to the condition in order for that to happen you would have had to previously confirm with the chathost that she is 18 years old, that this is what you want, what you are looking for, and such and such show will be delivered by her. The chathost would of have had then to “specifically agree” to it. If none of this happened, I believe you don’t have a “legitimate complaint”.
Good luck to you ! :)
It looks like you are after a refund here. If that’s the case, according to the condition in order for that to happen you would have had to previously confirm with the chathost that she is 18 years old, that this is what you want, what you are looking for, and such and such show will be delivered by her. The chathost would of have had then to “specifically agree” to it. If none of this happened, I believe you don’t have a “legitimate complaint”.
Good luck to you ! :)
RE: Validation/ Update of Hosts' Ages
You could request a birth certificate from each of the hosts you visit. Of course, you might be blocked by all the twenty-somethings you're visiting, but then you would know, right? lol
Re Wanda thread from viewers forum
I have seen Wanda and she has never blocked me but I have been blocked by others. Once for requesting and receiving credit for failed session and other time for giving a host a low rating.
RE: Re Wanda thread from viewers forum
If you gave a host a low rating, why did you go back to see her again? Did you want to give her a 2nd chance or what?
RE: Re Wanda thread from viewers forum
maybe a 2nd bad rating
i had one idiot entering absolutely every day to give me 1 star lol
in the end he gave up me thinks
i had one idiot entering absolutely every day to give me 1 star lol
in the end he gave up me thinks
RE: JUST CURIOUSE WILL MEMBERS ....
Turning away a large number of members for non rudeness is never a good recipe for success in todays competitive environment.
RE: JUST CURIOUSE WILL MEMBERS ....
seems like a smart ass response, no wonder you're having problems with so many "rude members".
RE: JUST CURIOUSE WILL MEMBERS ....
Did I ever say you said you are having troubles with rude members?
But I I'm starting to see a pattern here.
But I I'm starting to see a pattern here.
RE: JUST CURIOUSE WILL MEMBERS ....
Yeah I said "no wonder you are having problems with rude members" and you say I said you said that, which is incorrect, I never chatted with you but I do see why you or your members have issues when interactng with you. Good luck and good luck for members visiting you, their going to need it.
RE: JUST CURIOUSE WILL MEMBERS ....
I disagree with you member. Wanda is outstanding. I do not have any problem in communicting with her, never have or do I expect to ever have.
RE: JUST CURIOUSE WILL MEMBERS ....
I'm also starting to see a pattern here. I'm beginning to understand more and more why these girls have such high numbers on their block lists.
RE: FOR BLOCKED MEMBERS
I do not think you get a mail automatically Origami I think you have to send it yourself.
Why don't you block me and I'll let you know :P
Why don't you block me and I'll let you know :P
RE: FOR BLOCKED MEMBERS
I do not know if I have ever been blocked. I have never received any notice from cc or have I ever received any notice from a host that I have been blocked.
RE: Re Wanda thread from viewers forum
I have about 40 names in my black list, whats wrong with? Durring the years i was working here i had met many people, some of them are like medicine, u dont want to hear about them anymore.
RE: Re Wanda thread from viewers forum
unintended consequences of blocking is that a host can block here but if she is on a competitive site, a member can see her there. wish cc would do something about excessive blocking as it is NOT good for business it seems.
RE: What's your favorite movie
Oh yes agree, one of the best...I was kinda shocked...
One of my fav is still "Forrest Gump"...adore it.
And also I was impressed very much by last movie version of Dostoyevsky's "Idiot" been shown by Russian TV...Great one!
One of my fav is still "Forrest Gump"...adore it.
And also I was impressed very much by last movie version of Dostoyevsky's "Idiot" been shown by Russian TV...Great one!
RE: What's your favorite movie
Mulholland Drive. Makes you use your brain as well as your eyes !!!!
Cheers :))
Cheers :))
RE: What's your favorite movie
Ryan's Daughter by David Lean, he also done dr Z, bridge over the river keiwe and Lof Ariba...forgive spelling not English is no tmy best subject..."
slan"
slan"
RE: What's your favorite movie
Take my eyes (spanish) A powerful drama superb writeing excellent performances by iciar bollain
come and see Russian by elem klimov'z...spellbinding rapturous horrific
Citizen Kane "rose bud" -{-{-{@ abest american film..ever
Amelie by jean-pierre jeunet fantastic... "a very long engemnet" came very close to me chooseing
Italian....cinema paradiso beautiful film and the score by enerico morricone
Irish the Field by Jim Sheridan wow
german Das Boat
English Oliver
i know i changer Ryans daughter i thought also the Quite man i do no tknow you ruined my weekend
come and see Russian by elem klimov'z...spellbinding rapturous horrific
Citizen Kane "rose bud" -{-{-{@ abest american film..ever
Amelie by jean-pierre jeunet fantastic... "a very long engemnet" came very close to me chooseing
Italian....cinema paradiso beautiful film and the score by enerico morricone
Irish the Field by Jim Sheridan wow
german Das Boat
English Oliver
i know i changer Ryans daughter i thought also the Quite man i do no tknow you ruined my weekend
RE: What's your favorite movie
very good film about the mexican artiest, you have "ochen " good taste
RE: What's your favorite movie
Thanks a lot, Raymond :-)) You too have it "ochen" good without any doubts. Would love to say the same on your native language if I knew it :-))
RE: What's your favorite movie
this week my favorite movie is 'Gone Baby Gone' excellent movie that will make u think about what is right and wrong. i.e. is it ok to do something bad if it will make a greater good?
RE: What's your favorite movie
Somewhere in Time...not sure why. An older chick flick but I like it and the music. Ok shoot me.
RE: imshy left:(((
comm chat full copies of imshy? Horror!
like if imshy can live without cc, hahaha
cc is his life, hahaha
like if imshy can live without cc, hahaha
cc is his life, hahaha
RE: imshy left:(((
THANK GOD, I will alert the imshy fan club so we can stop mouring about you leaving
RE: imshy left:(((
shy leaving? Has the World stopped turning? Have hosts stopped giving hom free vids? Has he stopped hating and being abusive to me? Thjen he can't have left. imshy wouldn't just disappear into the sunset, it is not his way.
RE: imshy left:(((
ummmm could you not see the he replied saying that he is still here?? DUH! read up and see his reply.YAAAAAAAAAAA HE'S STILL HERE!
Where are the Perm Girls?
Has anyone else noticed that many of the girls from Perm Pedagogy University have not been on CC. Did they all go to Egypt together or are there some exams now?
RE: Where are the Perm Girls?
hmmm Thailand good, it is warm there. Perhaps they are too busy with their studies.
RE: Where are the Perm Girls?
I'm in Thialand now and see plenty of Eastern European ladies here "working" just like the Thai ladies..."me love you long time".
RE: Where are the Perm Girls?
Yeah, i know somebody went to thailand, for looong loong time.
i thought it was funny, though since she had no money and stuff. Yet took a trip ... to another country, for long long time.
when she´s back (if ever) she´ll sure have tons of stories to tell.
have they joined the world´s oldest trade?
i thought it was funny, though since she had no money and stuff. Yet took a trip ... to another country, for long long time.
when she´s back (if ever) she´ll sure have tons of stories to tell.
have they joined the world´s oldest trade?
RE: Where are the Perm Girls?
You can still find xxxJennyxxx around, and she is worth a visit! She was on line not long ago
The Dollar and You
The falling dollar is getting ridiculous. One euro is more than $1.50. Hosts cannot make money, and it costs a lot more to send presents and to visit our favorite hosts in other countries.
Americans spend $2 billion each year on porn. There is definitely a need for congressional action.
Americans spend $2 billion each year on porn. There is definitely a need for congressional action.
RE: The Dollar and You
$2 billion = $2,000,000,000
$5 million = $5,000,000
(source of $2 billion: HBO Real Sex)
$5 million = $5,000,000
(source of $2 billion: HBO Real Sex)
RE: The Dollar and You
nahhh, americans spend more money on beer,, boats, fast cars (well my truck is slow), fishing gear, electricity, water, gasoline, burgers and chips,, porn here is mostly free---except the clubs downtown--cool
RE: The Dollar and You
so the $2 billion spent on porn is mostly at cc? why then are they complaining
RE: The Dollar and You
Thats NOT TRUE. I am American and I only spent 3.5 million on porn last year
RE: The Dollar and You
OMG! Ori you are wayyyyyyyyyyyyyy off with your math. You didn't even come close to having the right answer.
3.5 million dollars divided by 350 days is 10 thousand dollars per day... not 10 dollars.
3.5 million dollars divided by 350 days is 10 thousand dollars per day... not 10 dollars.
RE: SURE.....JUST DREAM ON ............
Cuz the member was being sarcastic Ori. It was a joke. You think if he had an annual budget of 3.5 million dollars to spend on porn, that he would waste it jerking himself off on a videochat site? Think about it. For about $15,000 a night, he could have an actual, famous, big-name actress in the porn movie industry come to his home and do things all the naughty things to him that he's seen her do in her movies. Certainly more pleasurable than solo with his own hand.... and without all the risk of serious complications from carpal tunnel syndrome. LOL. Definitely money better spent.
Besides if he was coming to your video and spending that $3.5 million, even if you were only getting $1.75 million of it after CC took their 50% cut, would you be asking questions or trying to understand where his money came from? Hell no! LOL. You'd be too worried that it would rock the boat and you'd lose your cash cow. LOL
Besides if he was coming to your video and spending that $3.5 million, even if you were only getting $1.75 million of it after CC took their 50% cut, would you be asking questions or trying to understand where his money came from? Hell no! LOL. You'd be too worried that it would rock the boat and you'd lose your cash cow. LOL
RE: The Dollar and You
Ori, that was a JOKE! He was ironic a little bit but that's all! Of course he doesn't spend so much here. I can't believe you are so simple. Ouch....
RE: The Dollar and You
hmmmm that be less than 10 dollar per cap and 9 spent on the home market, as allways u lag behind there
RE: The Dollar and You
If the dollar falls anymore, many US guys are going to have to do the unthinkable....forget the pay per view porn and just have sex with an american lady.....DAMM YOU BUSH!!
Le Vien Rose
Looking for host with sound that can sing this song in either French or English.
RE: Le Vien Rose
Im sure you ment " La vie en rose ".I know someone who has a real fetish for pink colour so im sure he sings this every morning in the shower :)He also wears pink shirts, mmm yummy lol.And i can bet his toilet paper is pink too :).But the most important detail is that his balls are now resting in a pink velvet box...and we all know that for a man his balls re precious like life itself.This song..la vie en rose illustrate very well his situation hihi, im sure he is singing out loud now.
RE: Le Vien Rose
So you have a gay friend who had a sex change ........... good for you , you can take him ( sorry she ) shopping with you , let her help you pick out new outfits and look at fabrics :-))) . So I guess you got to keep his balls ? Hey SG ......... every woman wants to have hold of a pair of mans balls ..........you are better looking for a real mans balls .... a lion's in fact ....... they are real treasures :-)))
RE: Le Vien Rose
I can do that if you call me...in private session, of course!! In French, it´s my favourite language....ps:If you ever catch me online!!
Earthquake .. who felt it?
SOO! I cant beleive noone else has asked yet! If you are in the UK did you feel it?? I live about 10 miles out from market rasen so it was really strong here... but wondering who else has felt it.
hostie x
hostie x
RE: Earthquake .. who felt it?
No I didn't. Even with an earthquake the earth didn't move for me :(
RE: Earthquake .. who felt it?
the earth tried to move from you inyf,but your pull was too much for it to resist :--)
RE: Earthquake .. who felt it?
It seems there were two quakes but one was very small. The one you felt (at 00:56) was 5.2 on the richter scale but was at a depth of 5 km. As you know that area of england is not densely populated so maybe there were no other CC hosts or members awake and near enough to feel it.
RE: Earthquake .. who felt it?
I live in Nottingham and the quake rattled my building and woke me up,
But there's really nothing you can do about it, so it was back to bed !!!!!
Cheers :))
But there's really nothing you can do about it, so it was back to bed !!!!!
Cheers :))
RE: Earthquake .. who felt it?
Aye!!!! I felt it for sure. :) I was awake and talking to someone when it felt like someone was under my bed and moving it! It was most peculiar.. I had to stop my conversation and tell my friend. They thought it might be an earthquake but I said "Nah.. how often we get earthquake in Britain?!" obviously more often than I realised. This is about the 3rd I can remember in my lifetime.
Hmmm. That being said we can hardly expect none to occur though. After all there are plenty of mountains and hills in the UK and they had to come from somewhere right?
Market Rasen (never heard of it) in Linconshire was the epicentre. But still we managed to feel it down here in London. Cool :)
TNTSBNSAWNAAA
But no, you were not imagining it uk host.
Hmmm. That being said we can hardly expect none to occur though. After all there are plenty of mountains and hills in the UK and they had to come from somewhere right?
Market Rasen (never heard of it) in Linconshire was the epicentre. But still we managed to feel it down here in London. Cool :)
TNTSBNSAWNAAA
But no, you were not imagining it uk host.
RE: Earthquake .. who felt it?
I felt it for sure but then I am not far from Market Rasen either
RE: I have a question
Probably because your attention is already focused on two things: driving and looking for an address, and radio sound which is a third source of brain sollicitation is taking a part of your attention to each of them. Maybe because our brain is subdivided in 2 halfs... but I'm not neurologist!
And on a video session, can a host chat with a guest, talk to her neighbour and enjoy herself at the same time?
And on a video session, can a host chat with a guest, talk to her neighbour and enjoy herself at the same time?
RE: I have a question
that's funny! i thought that i was the only one that did that but i guess not.HAHAHAHA
RE: I have a question
It's normal. You try to get everything out of the way to concentrate on what you are doing. Girls do it too.
RE: was wondering....
ignore them...put any effort at all into doing anything else, and they feel like their actions seem validated in some creepy way.
pay them no attention whatsoever...that's my advice.
pay them no attention whatsoever...that's my advice.
RE: was wondering....
That would be my advice too. Unless, of course, the stalker you are talking about is me :P
RE: was wondering....
turn it around and stalk them...buzz them, email, flood them with how much u want them...they'll go away...eventually. they like to chase but don't like to be chased.
RE: was wondering....
Yes, I must learn how to manipulate my own fate...the rewards could be so wonderful ;) Kiss Kiss :)
RE: was wondering....
email bomb them... i mean something like 400 emails in one go... it;s easy if know how. :P
RE: was wondering....
I would give them free videos until they were so dehydrated they pass out. Or tell them you love them and actually enjoy their humor, convresation and admiration of you. You can always block or ignore them forever so I dont see the problem? And if you really dont like them just be honest with them and say you are annoying me and I dont want to speak to you again and please stay out of my videos. But you wouldn't do that to me would you baby?
RE: was wondering....
my advice is quit here while you can and get out-if you cant handle this on a porn site---but if you want sweetness maybe a dating site would be better for you
RE: was wondering....
Ah the good old rather pathetic "this is a porn site" line to try and justify creepy and abnormal behaviour.
RE: was wondering....
the old"this is a porn site"line.that's the third tin=me i've fallen for that this week :--)
RE: was wondering....
either dont reply to them at all or make complaints about boring things until u bore him to death.
RE: HAPPY HAPPY HAPPY!!!!!!
Congratulations !!!! I'm so pleased for you. Now keep on with your studies. :)))
RE: HAPPY HAPPY HAPPY!!!!!!
I see no reason to doubt you'd ace your biophysics exam; you are quite a specimen yourself. Congrats!!
RE: HAPPY HAPPY HAPPY!!!!!!
The speciman of my dreams :) Congrats love! I new you would do it...and will continue to do so!
RE: HAPPY HAPPY HAPPY!!!!!!
Congratuations!!! That is always good results to receive. We are proud of you!!!!
What\'s up with \
It doesn\'t seem to matter which characteristics you specify, all kinds of results show up. I just did a search for a white, slim, straight female with long blonde hair & \"other\" eye color & I got blonde & brunette women, guys, & couples.
RE: What\'s up with \
it depends on what the host put in thier description, some like to cast a big net and say they have it all in hopes of getting more customers. I'm waiting my next search when I find a black chinese woman with blond hair.
RE: What\'s up with \
I repeated your search and also got boys and couples included in the results.Purely in the interests of trying to find an explanation I checked out the profiles of some of these and in the four hosts profiles I looked at they all had the potential for more than 1 host to log on using that name.So bbko may indeed find his black chinese woman with blonde hair lol
Host: 1, Member: 0 - GAME Over
I am not looking for sympathy although I am sure some will speak as you wish. I expect you will kick me in the head for being stupid. At my age I should not be so naïve.
Well, I join the club of fools who think they found a wonderful girl here on CC only to discover it is a bunch of shit and lies. I was slow to come to this conclusion but this last episode convinced me. This was not the first tine I should have realized I was a fool, but it is the last time with her.
She stopped working here (so she told me) once I started sending her money to replace her CC wages. She has been telling me that she would come stay with me this summer and she needed money to solicit the assistance of an agency to obtain a work and travel VISA. I thought since we had been together a three times in real life that she was trustworthy, But what an Ass I am for such trust. Like the monthly payments was not enough already. Well once I gave her the money, a week later her girls friends and her were off traveling to Egypt again. Big surprise? Probably should not be a surprise to me or to anyone.
A word of caution and good luck to those of you who think you found a good woman here. In my opinion, chances are you are being used.
I will not reply to comments made here, but I might reply to CCmail sent to me.
Well, I join the club of fools who think they found a wonderful girl here on CC only to discover it is a bunch of shit and lies. I was slow to come to this conclusion but this last episode convinced me. This was not the first tine I should have realized I was a fool, but it is the last time with her.
She stopped working here (so she told me) once I started sending her money to replace her CC wages. She has been telling me that she would come stay with me this summer and she needed money to solicit the assistance of an agency to obtain a work and travel VISA. I thought since we had been together a three times in real life that she was trustworthy, But what an Ass I am for such trust. Like the monthly payments was not enough already. Well once I gave her the money, a week later her girls friends and her were off traveling to Egypt again. Big surprise? Probably should not be a surprise to me or to anyone.
A word of caution and good luck to those of you who think you found a good woman here. In my opinion, chances are you are being used.
I will not reply to comments made here, but I might reply to CCmail sent to me.
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Welcome in the "CLUB" ... :))))))))
We will never say it HARD enough : never send money... it's a Porn Site here and not a Dating Site... :))))))))))
We will never say it HARD enough : never send money... it's a Porn Site here and not a Dating Site... :))))))))))
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Rule # 1 = Never get sentimentally involved with any video chathosts.
Rule # 2 = Never meet with someone who works in a porn site.
Rule # 3 = Never give money to someone who professes "love" to you, unless she is already your wife and you both already live together.
Summary, never believe any girl here even if you think yourself to be better than Brad Pitt. Girls never know what they want and will always find the next man more attractive, intelligent, smarter, prettier, charming, more educated, richer, taller, sexier, etc...
Rule # 2 = Never meet with someone who works in a porn site.
Rule # 3 = Never give money to someone who professes "love" to you, unless she is already your wife and you both already live together.
Summary, never believe any girl here even if you think yourself to be better than Brad Pitt. Girls never know what they want and will always find the next man more attractive, intelligent, smarter, prettier, charming, more educated, richer, taller, sexier, etc...
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While chatting to an ex-gf from cc on Yahoo recently, she told me she & her husband were looking for a place to move to & that THEY had lived there for 5 years. 5 years ago would've only been about half way through our relationship. When I found out about him in June or July of '04 she told me she had only been with him for two weeks before I found out.
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Give us her screen name... maybe it will help some other members :)))
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I don't know her screen name on here. I haven't been a member for years.
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Been there, done that. I did the same as yourself and my ex-gf did the same your ex-gf did. She said she likes to have "male friends", but friends and nothing more and I believed her... WRONG!!! She is a flirt and as every girl in this world, loves the attention and gifts she receives from the most men she can. I don't understand why girls can't be satisfied with just 1 man. Why do they have to flirt with other men if they already have a bf whom they say I love you? Don't blame yourself for trusting her. You weren't the evil one in this story. You acted in good faith and she took advantage. There is such a thing called Karma and everything will come back to you double of what you do to others. Cheers mate!
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Hopefully you'll heal soon and realize you got off lucky. Imagine the damage she could've done, emotionally and financially, if you married her. Yup, you had a hard lesson, but it could've been worse. Be glad you're a quick study.
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I know it would be hard to police but there should be a means to boot the ones her that solicit (directly or indirectly) money outside of this site. It happens continually and I'd like to see it put to a stop!! Period. End of story.
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Sorry I disagree.We are all adults and have to accept responsibility for our own actions.
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Oh yes, that has happened to me and continues to happen to others. Wise-up guys!! This is a pornsite first and foremost. Do believe anything you hear. Believe me...the girls here are laughing all the way to the bank.
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Join the club, partner. A lot of us here have been through the same experience. The girls on this site have money signs in their eyes. They care less about a guy who wanks on the other side of the screen. As a matter of fact, they consider you a pervert and not worth their time unless you have the money they want. It is unfortunate, but you need to remember, this is a porn site - not a dating site. And even with dating sites one does not send money. And if they ask you to sponsor them on their passport, say no. That happened to me and she ended up staying in New York with another guy she met on this porn site. I had a lot of explaining to the immigration department, but eventually, I think, she was deported by not abiding by her visa. Shucks!! That really breaks my heart!!! LOL
Good luck on your next beguiling. Don't let them feed you poison mushrooms.
Good luck on your next beguiling. Don't let them feed you poison mushrooms.
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Not surprisingly...No comment from hosts. Seems to be of minor concern. ;))
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what would be the point on them commenting on a member's recollections. there are usually 2 sides to every story & the truth lays somewhere in between.giving with expectations invariably leads to disappoinment.giving with no expectations gives satisfaction.just my opinion :--)
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Thats sad to hear my friend. I think this site would benefit from an informal support group of veterans of such extorition capers. Of course, it remains caveat emptor. If you pay the money you take the risk. But It would be relavant to be able to warn others of specific repeat offenders and for some authority to take appropriate action.
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"The girls on this site have money signs in their eyes. They care less about a guy who wanks on the other side of the screen. As a matter of fact, they consider you a pervert and not worth their time unless you have the money they want. It is unfortunate, but you need to remember, this is a porn site - not a dating site. And even with dating sites one does not send money. And if they ask you to sponsor them on their passport, say no. "
Well Said. I hope other members learn!
Well Said. I hope other members learn!
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you sound like a guy who says "what did she expect when she entered a biker bar wearing a tight shirt and mini?" In this scenario tisme would say " it wasnt sexual assualt the bikers were misunderstood, there are two sides to every story."
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Tisme's giving with no expectations is correct, no expectations that the person asking and receiving the money, is honest, ethical, truthful. In tisme's world the giver is a masochist.
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In what world does sending a monthtly check to a chick in another country that your hung up on to keep her from fondling her growler on camera for other dudes make any kind of sense?
Yeah, stupidity never desesrves to be faulted ... right.
Yeah, stupidity never desesrves to be faulted ... right.
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tisme was the guy who had one of the hosts keep his balls for safekeeping.
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Something you won't have to worry about as you have none.
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a passable attempt at absurd humour.keep trying :--)
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ahhh good to see the homo-erotic fantasies about my genitals are back.enjoy your dreams,big boy :--)
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Primarily not a question of age. Perhaps more of judgement or lack thereof. When you meet outside, all bets are off. We're human and mostly repeat the same mistakes. People are risk takers, especially men, in search of what they preceive as love or more perhaps merely adventure. The older you become, perhaps the more disparate your search to find someone. In this playing field, beauty and promises can be intoxicating and lethal. Their are exception but I would say hedge your bet and don't look here for any sort of lasting relations.
So when men send money and trouble befalls it costs as well as usually getting your heart stomped on. Was it a good idea? Certainly not but maybe you learned smthg. Probably not.
More to the point, I have seen overt as well as covert tactics applied within cc to get money sent. Better put a gun to his head because he won't have any illusions of what's going down.
Promising something that was never intended is reprehensible when carried out in a predatory manner. Some continue to make it an adjunct career added benefit to working here. The immigration records overflow with examples as mentioned previously. Abusers should be drummed out for the benefit of all concerned.
So when men send money and trouble befalls it costs as well as usually getting your heart stomped on. Was it a good idea? Certainly not but maybe you learned smthg. Probably not.
More to the point, I have seen overt as well as covert tactics applied within cc to get money sent. Better put a gun to his head because he won't have any illusions of what's going down.
Promising something that was never intended is reprehensible when carried out in a predatory manner. Some continue to make it an adjunct career added benefit to working here. The immigration records overflow with examples as mentioned previously. Abusers should be drummed out for the benefit of all concerned.
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Well I met my husband online, we fell in love heels over head after our real meeting. He came to live in my country, we got married, then we moved to his country. I never stopped being on camsites part-time even though nowadays he makes 4-5 x my wage. Beleive it or not I never expected him to make so much money and when he proposed me to get married, I wanted to stay in my country and I agreed to support him financially if he moves with me. We lived there about 6-7 months before his tenants here stopped paying the rent and we had to move to his country to sort the house out. Well I never ever expected him to give me any money and I still contribute to the bills here. He is a very generous guy, buys me flowers every week, and lil presents as surprises but I also LOVE making him smile and happy. He is my world and I love him for being open-minded and ok with me being on camsites. I will never let him down and do something to hurt him. And saying that I keep flirting online, and usually don't say I'm married but this is because it brings more money :) but I've never tried to scam anyone online. Why would I?! I'm happy with my earnings anyway.
Well, that's it. Just my 2p
Well, that's it. Just my 2p
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I met my wife here too. It was a long process before I could finally bring her to my country (not USA). I met her only once before we decided to get married. I couldn't live in her country for the many inconveniences, but I supportted her financially before she could travel and live with me. She worked in a studio and although she worked in adults, her salary wasn't enough for her or anyone. We are now together and she wanted to contribute to pay the monthly bills, but she can't speak our language well so she still works as a hosts in cc. She also flirts and in some ocassions guys call her on the phone while in video. Sometimes she even sends her cam for free, but I am not a jealous man and I know she loves only me. After all she chose me to be her man and she's only playing along with others' fantasies. Not all girls here are bad, its just the way some members think.
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"she chose me to be her man and she's only playing along with others' fantasies"
isn't that the point though: not knowing whether she loves actually you, or she's saying so just to indulge your fantasy?
isn't that the point though: not knowing whether she loves actually you, or she's saying so just to indulge your fantasy?
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for most people this would never happen. if it's your dream come true then so be it. i question anything of the sort as being realistic but then it take all types.
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I met my husband here and we got married ,he understand my job and supporting me but we had agreement to not meeting my viewers in person.I love him so much!i can quit working anytime i want but im still enjoying CC:):):)he knows all my passwords not hiding anything.I still playing with a guys here so games not over yet!hahaha!
Me-100,members-0-let the games continue!:D
Me-100,members-0-let the games continue!:D
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we tried to tell you .. you would not listen...
My friend ! not all host are scamers
My friend ! not all host are scamers
RE: Host: 1, Member: 0 - GAME Over is this a game ?
u did try to tell him !!! so did i ! ..but i respected his goals ...
RE: Host: 1, Member: 0 - GAME Over is this a game ?
so others will not fall into her trap .or her freinds trap .she will be back on cc ... this we know as a fact .she is going from having money and somebody who Loved her to NOTHING ...watch out rookie members on cc
it's easy to avoid being scammed
don't send money!
and if your cc g/f really does care about you and your relationship, she won't ask for any!
and if your cc g/f really does care about you and your relationship, she won't ask for any!
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first of all i am responding to what you are saying. my question to you is did you tell her to quit cc and tell her that you would pay for her expenses? if you did then she is a probably young as compared to you and of course you didn't give us your age differences. she probably just took advantage of the situation and figured you would give her more money to pay for the visa again. you have to remember here that you are dealing with young girls that like to have fun. a lot of us older guys expect these hosts to just give up there lives because we work a lot and don't have lives. you need to ask yourself about the three meetings. would she meet you again? Did you and her have fun? did you meet her family and friends? these are important questions to ask yourself before you get all upset about her using your money for a trip. yes was it wrong for her to do.. no doubt but remember you are dealing with a younger woman possibly. Does she call you? Does she get upset if you disappear for a few days? These are important things in determining if she really cares about you. The point i am trying to make is that she met you three times. There had to be some feelings there. I am sure you paid for everything and you are grown man and you probably enjoyed yourself also by going to another country and if she is younger then you by a lot of years then you enjoyed being with a younger woman also. So i wouldn't condemn her because she is young and she figures you and her will get married and she wants to have a little fun. remember bachelor parties and bacherlorette parties. all fun!!!!!
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when i read this break up story . its make me sick to think .somebody can think they are perfect ..if its a host or a member .where you meet somebody you Like is not the problem ..its how you treat them and how they treat you !!!! ..paying attention to the signs before you get burnt ..i believe you had plenty of signs .. that something was going wrong ..maybe you was to worried about sex ..and you should have been thinking about the person she was .. and who she showed you she was !!!.maybe this host was not the best person ... but on cc thier are 10000s of honest and wonderful host .. from this lesson maybe next time you will be a little more cautious .. you will not leave cc .. you have needs ..the host have needs .you will find a real honest and trusting woman !!
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"but on cc thier are 10000s of honest and wonderful host "
Wrong, the girls here have too many choices and opportunities. Most are young and they dont know what they really want. Most of us members are looking for serious relationships and the girls here are looking for new experiences and to have a blast in life. I have been told "I love you" or at least "I like you very much" by hosts here. They would not ask me for video and instead they would send me their cams through messengers, but not only to me... to many others too... My advice to other members is to look for love in their own city or town.
Wrong, the girls here have too many choices and opportunities. Most are young and they dont know what they really want. Most of us members are looking for serious relationships and the girls here are looking for new experiences and to have a blast in life. I have been told "I love you" or at least "I like you very much" by hosts here. They would not ask me for video and instead they would send me their cams through messengers, but not only to me... to many others too... My advice to other members is to look for love in their own city or town.
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hey, i am not looking for a serious relationship here, but most posts from most members i read indicate such. I never ask for a cam in messengers. How could I ask for a show or how could i show my genitals if a host sends her cam? it just doesn't happen like this, lol.
RE: Host: 1, Member: 0 - GAME Over is this a game ?
And u have been told to hosts "love u" ( not only one host but many of them same time). so what could u espect? did u expect that host will flirt only with u and send cam only for u? But my dear.. lie...someone who loves he feel that. I think u will find truly love only then u will denote yourself only one girl and only in time when u stop your choice on her and will stop looking for new and more attractive ones
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There are some good girls/women here. it has never been my experience to be scammed. [Then, get to my age and I know most of the angles]. I have never been asked for money, and only sent money one time, and that was because I wanted to.
Don't get me wrong, I have every sympathy for the thread starter, I know there are some women here who fill the desctiption to the full. It is the same the World over, you pays yer money, you takes yer chances.
Mere words cannot ease the pain and hurt, especially after a fair length of time together, but a timely warning to many of the new hosts and members joining this site.
CAVEAT EMPTOR!
Don't get me wrong, I have every sympathy for the thread starter, I know there are some women here who fill the desctiption to the full. It is the same the World over, you pays yer money, you takes yer chances.
Mere words cannot ease the pain and hurt, especially after a fair length of time together, but a timely warning to many of the new hosts and members joining this site.
CAVEAT EMPTOR!
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why you think so everybody?all girls need take care by someone here,pls try to make them happy,send money,buy presents,have holiday with them,enjoy yourself
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Hey, come on, don't let one bad host get you down. There are plenty of other pretty ladies waiting to take your money. So turn that frown upside down and keep searhing for he next lady you are going to send money to.
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i am agree with laughing girl,no need to be regret after you had an adventure,otherwise you will stay at home and you will not complain about someone has made wrong to you.
first of all,lets accept that cc is a friendship site,not porn site,if you see here as porn site,you will go to the other sites,all girls here try to do something for their livings,i have known very perfect girls here as much as i couldnt meet ın my real life during visting this site in four years,please members and hosts,lets be respectfull to each others,my best regards,
first of all,lets accept that cc is a friendship site,not porn site,if you see here as porn site,you will go to the other sites,all girls here try to do something for their livings,i have known very perfect girls here as much as i couldnt meet ın my real life during visting this site in four years,please members and hosts,lets be respectfull to each others,my best regards,
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What CC is? friendship site? lol U look a little silly. Here girls sell their body virtually. We could call it "virtual prostitution", and I never knew a honest prostitute.
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was talking about real life and if his answer is yes, he's even more pathetic than the rest of us
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prostitutes are people too, you know. there's no need to bash or somehow try to shame an entire profession of hard-working, lovely women. to do so i think reflects worse on those who would use them only to try to elevate their own self-worth by disparaging them.
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replying to the wrong party, not naive disparaged prostitutes the other disparaged not naive
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Like all "Johns" are the epitome of virtue? Come on... we are here with a variety of motivations, not all of them criminal, or immoral, or amoral, whatever. Sure, there's a profit motive at work here, and you ignore that at your peril as you go wandering through the dark halls of cc. But I consider Laughing Girl, for one, a friend, and friendship is the basis for the relationship. Truly.
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Oh, thank you :-)
And you are right. Of course CC includes not only dark halls and low instincts. Thats why it's so special.
And you are right. Of course CC includes not only dark halls and low instincts. Thats why it's so special.
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lol..thank you, Babe :-)
I don't know you but hope you are doing fine...
wow...with those stunning eyes I am sure you are ;-)
I don't know you but hope you are doing fine...
wow...with those stunning eyes I am sure you are ;-)
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what do you do LG...wait around until someone posts an affirmation to you P.O.V? Is that how you bolster self-worth??
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Four hours between the two posts hardly suggests sitting and waiting around.
But even if that were the case it is still preferable to the sort of snide little posts you and your ilk make.
Is that how you try to bolster your own self worth by attempting to drag everyone else down to your level ?
But even if that were the case it is still preferable to the sort of snide little posts you and your ilk make.
Is that how you try to bolster your own self worth by attempting to drag everyone else down to your level ?
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Damn I'm so rusty at posting :(
The message should have been attached to who's laughing's post.
The message should have been attached to who's laughing's post.
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I am just going through a very bad experience myself. Since we are on it, i'll vent :) It's a long read, but who cares. If you are reading the forums instead of masturbating, or meeting your future wife (or both), then you have plenty of time on your hands.
I met a girl here on CC about 4 years ago - and i got attached to her, in a way i had never been to any other girl before. We are about the same age (in case you were wondering). For one reason or the other (both of our jobs, studies, etcetera), we did not meet but until the last summer.
Things were almost all happiness with a few bumps here and there (nothing too bad). I caught her on some small lies, but my love for her was big enough to forgive her under the excuse that "she's just a young girl, she does not know how to handle things at times".
I truly loved her, but just like with any girl (not just the ones that work at CC), such a thing may not be reciprocal. I have to say, however, that she sure tried to make the whole thing seemingly reciprocal.
Well, i found out the hard way, that it really wasn't reciprocal. Maybe it was for a while, maybe it never was, maybe she did love me but not just enough.
Since lies don't stand forever (nor my naiveness), things began to slowly crumble. "Strange" situations arised while i was with her in her country, and with her friends. She thought she had "intelligently" covered up those situations, and she did, for a while, because i didn't put attention to the small details- details with messages and meanings a love-dazed man would fail to percieve.
I'll make a list;
She said she had stopped stripping on CC, even though i never asked. She moved "down" one category, even though i never asked. But it was all a lie - she still stripped in this more "mild" category (just in 121, mind you ;) ). Why even bother trying to make me feel "exclusive" if it was all a lie, since she never intended to do what she was pretending to do? Go figure.
She was about to "starve", so i sent her some money. A couple of weeks later she was on vacation with her friends... AND she "could not catch me online", so she left for 2 weeks for said vacation without letting me know about it. Bad memory, i guess, since i talked to her the day before she left.
I sent her money through the net, and at one time, her "recieving limit" was already maxed out (obviously from another "exclusive" fan), whom like myself, did not pay for video on CC (per se).
Well, i could go on... But i guess the cherry on the cake is the fact that she is pregnant from who knows what guy. And she hides and moves in a way she thinks i may not notice it when i see her on video. Well, it would be fun to know the excuse she'll put up when i tell her i am going to spend 2 months in her city in the near future :))) Maybe even then she thinks she'll be able to hide it?
I've spent too much time, love, care and patience on her (and i'll not even mention money), so i'll put an end to this whole thing in a timely fashion - i will do it before it is time to send her the next deposit... let's see if she has some dignity, or will still ask for it :)
The funniest thing is, that i know she will struggle her whole life to find a guy who will love her as much as i did, so i wish her a lot of luck, she'll need it. She changed the possibility of a life of leisure, my entire support (plus $, homes and cars LOL), for a couple of lies and sex with a guy who will not even recognize it's his son she's carrying.
Karma is a bitch, isn't it?
"Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me."
I met a girl here on CC about 4 years ago - and i got attached to her, in a way i had never been to any other girl before. We are about the same age (in case you were wondering). For one reason or the other (both of our jobs, studies, etcetera), we did not meet but until the last summer.
Things were almost all happiness with a few bumps here and there (nothing too bad). I caught her on some small lies, but my love for her was big enough to forgive her under the excuse that "she's just a young girl, she does not know how to handle things at times".
I truly loved her, but just like with any girl (not just the ones that work at CC), such a thing may not be reciprocal. I have to say, however, that she sure tried to make the whole thing seemingly reciprocal.
Well, i found out the hard way, that it really wasn't reciprocal. Maybe it was for a while, maybe it never was, maybe she did love me but not just enough.
Since lies don't stand forever (nor my naiveness), things began to slowly crumble. "Strange" situations arised while i was with her in her country, and with her friends. She thought she had "intelligently" covered up those situations, and she did, for a while, because i didn't put attention to the small details- details with messages and meanings a love-dazed man would fail to percieve.
I'll make a list;
She said she had stopped stripping on CC, even though i never asked. She moved "down" one category, even though i never asked. But it was all a lie - she still stripped in this more "mild" category (just in 121, mind you ;) ). Why even bother trying to make me feel "exclusive" if it was all a lie, since she never intended to do what she was pretending to do? Go figure.
She was about to "starve", so i sent her some money. A couple of weeks later she was on vacation with her friends... AND she "could not catch me online", so she left for 2 weeks for said vacation without letting me know about it. Bad memory, i guess, since i talked to her the day before she left.
I sent her money through the net, and at one time, her "recieving limit" was already maxed out (obviously from another "exclusive" fan), whom like myself, did not pay for video on CC (per se).
Well, i could go on... But i guess the cherry on the cake is the fact that she is pregnant from who knows what guy. And she hides and moves in a way she thinks i may not notice it when i see her on video. Well, it would be fun to know the excuse she'll put up when i tell her i am going to spend 2 months in her city in the near future :))) Maybe even then she thinks she'll be able to hide it?
I've spent too much time, love, care and patience on her (and i'll not even mention money), so i'll put an end to this whole thing in a timely fashion - i will do it before it is time to send her the next deposit... let's see if she has some dignity, or will still ask for it :)
The funniest thing is, that i know she will struggle her whole life to find a guy who will love her as much as i did, so i wish her a lot of luck, she'll need it. She changed the possibility of a life of leisure, my entire support (plus $, homes and cars LOL), for a couple of lies and sex with a guy who will not even recognize it's his son she's carrying.
Karma is a bitch, isn't it?
"Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me."
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no need to be sad peterpan,everybody is face to face the same experiences with women,if she makes a wrong to you,you will say bye-bye and you will find a new one,next one is always best one,but not need to talk about cc girls about relations,always need to be carefull about relations in real life.if we talk here common about all girls,we ll make sad good girls here on cc.once,i bought a ticket for her from her country to my country,and send her money for her way expenses and i waited for her about 5 hours but nobody came,it was veery funny experience for me.
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I see so many inconsistencies in your story...true I wasn't there...but it seems you made bad judgements all the way down the line...chief of which was always trying to fix things by sending money. Money inside and especially outside corrupts these girls to no end. Along with their supposed beauty it gives them a sense of unredemable entitlement that lifts their feet off the ground makes 'em think and act like a crazy person. So as you say...for the most part you have mostly yourself to blame.
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the girl has no responsibility in this matter. You werent too smart Peter and we all know you cant expect the girl to be ethical. You practically forced her to rob you.
RE: Host: 1, Member: 0 - GAME Over
give without any expectations peter. you should have listened to me, the porn buddha. I give never expecting honesty, truth, in fact, any feeling of any kind in return. I know it would be difficult to be as saintly as I am but try. Also, we havent heard the girl's side of this story and knowing how dirty , cruel and nasty men are (except for me) I'm sure she comes out smelling like a rose.
RE: Host: 1, Member: 0 - GAME Over
sorry but that isn't even a passable attempt at absurd humour.don't worry if you keep tryiing & posting one day you might have some success.good luck in your bizzare quest :--)
RE: Host: 1, Member: 0 - GAME Over
i know i hit the nail on the tisme persona head when you feel the need to respond. thanks porno buddha.
RE: Host: 1, Member: 0 - GAME Over
using your criteria he must have hit the nail on the head about your post as you responded to him.
RE: Host: 1, Member: 0 - GAME Over
Host:1,Member:0 ,after Member:1,HOST:0,after Member:1,Host:1 and again Host:1,Member:0,its stil going on.....................,everybody tells something,lets be honest,lets suppose that we dont send money to them or doing something ,here avarege video bill about 100 dolars for an hour,i wonder that why the guys like to spend money for women?they are right to want from us more and more
RE: Host: 1, Member: 0 - GAME Over
If your going to reply to your own posts be a bit creative,please.
RE: Host: 1, Member: 0 - GAME Over
you're you're you're you're you're
....it's not "your"
omg!
....it's not "your"
omg!
RE: Host: 1, Member: 0 - GAME Over
This sounds so much like what happened to me in real life. After she crashed my Trans Am and my trucks, and spent all my money, I think it would have been better to have had it happen with a girl from here. lol at least I would still have my car.
RE: Host: 1, Member: 0 - GAME Over
no, you'd probably end up going someplace like household finance, taking a loan at 40% interest, spending the money on a girl here, not have enough left to make payments on the loan and lose the trans am. still no car
RE: Host: 1, Member: 0 - GAME Over
no i lost my pinto that way, i think the girl is still in egypt too
members block list
i wish cc would give us an option to block certain host, i have plenty to put on my list for sending me unwanted ccmail and private messages in community chat room and would be extra nice to see the host name not shown on my computer when i read forums, but i guess the technology is not their yet.
RE: members block list
thanks TheCharming, be being a member here for 6 months I didnt know that, i will look into that--thank you again, your a lifesaver
RE: members block list to old timer
you say its possible to change screen names HOW i dont think it is
please tell me
please tell me
RE: members block list to old timer
its not really a change. what i should have said was just add a new screen name. then you can close your first name OR keep both. to add a new screen name just register again. its actually quite easy and if you have any difficulty i am sure help desk can guide you.
RE: members block list
You get an unwanted e-mail and it bothers you enough to post about it? Wow, talk about being sensitive.
RE: members block list
yes unwanted e-mail,,,and im not sensitive and if you got a problem with it,, get over it
RE: members block list
baby host---you can block text chat too--all you got to do is blocked the person once he or she comes in that you dont like
RE: members blockio list
I have no problem now, thanks for other viewers above telling me what to do, so bye --block list is working now,, thanks to all who help me out
RE: members block list
You can block all emails from a number of unwanted email sending hosts by placing them in your "black list"...a feature in the ccMail.
Also, while in Community Chat, you can instantly block any host to hour heart''s content by highlighting their name and pressing "block".
All these features have been around for a long time .... so it is not new technology.
Good blocking!!! LOL
Also, while in Community Chat, you can instantly block any host to hour heart''s content by highlighting their name and pressing "block".
All these features have been around for a long time .... so it is not new technology.
Good blocking!!! LOL
RE: members block list
that is only a temporary block which must be repeated each time you enter.
And the Ocar goes to ............
Its oscar night folks can we please have nominations for -
- Best Actress
- Best Supporting Actress ( hmmm )
- Cinematography ( best cam )
- Sound
- Direction
- Production
- Costume and Make-up
- Hair
- Best Actress
- Best Supporting Actress ( hmmm )
- Cinematography ( best cam )
- Sound
- Direction
- Production
- Costume and Make-up
- Hair
RE: And the Ocar goes to ............
Think about it.... WHO CARES?? The award shows are totally meaningless except for those vain Hollywood types.
RE: And the Ocar goes to ............
I have my Oscar already. But he is fat, fluffy and loves to piss me off big time))
Her show is so great!!!!!
Go and check KARENSTAR out, when she is online you will get a great show.She has such a smoking hot body that it will leave you wanting more everytime.She is always full of energy and is very friendly to talk to which is a bonus.
RE: technical question for viewers :)
Yes, if the members join the "set alert" option that is. I wouldn't worry too much about the multiple emails tho ;-)
RE: technical question for viewers :)
yeah, you might want to limit your pee breaks or go in a bottle or something ... actually, you could incorporate this in your shows and double your 1-2-1 charge. There, I just made you more money ... I think you owe me a hand-job ...
RE: technical question for viewers :)
I used to sign up for that, but it never seemed to work right, plus sometimes the notification went to my regular folder and sometimes to my spam folder and I never open that one I just empty it without reading any.
So pee till the cows come home.
So pee till the cows come home.
RE: technical question for viewers :)
Each time you come online and you are in a viewer's Fav. List, the viewer is emailed that you have come online. This applies whether you log off and then log on again 1 or 100 times, the email will be sent to the viewers personal email account 1 or 100 times. So, please, be courteous. It does get a bit annoying to see you have been on and off several times.
One way to take several pee breaks without turning off your vid session is to post a comment or "Warning" in your free text chat. Or, put a handwritten sign in a location that the cam can pick up on it. Then, it is the viewers fault for entering your vid without checking your free text chat and you will not be penalized for it.
However, if you drink a lot of fluids during or off a session, I suggest you use a catheter tude. That will do the trick. LOL Just joking. Take all the pee breaks you require.
One way to take several pee breaks without turning off your vid session is to post a comment or "Warning" in your free text chat. Or, put a handwritten sign in a location that the cam can pick up on it. Then, it is the viewers fault for entering your vid without checking your free text chat and you will not be penalized for it.
However, if you drink a lot of fluids during or off a session, I suggest you use a catheter tude. That will do the trick. LOL Just joking. Take all the pee breaks you require.
RE: Block list
Block list to me means that the host does not want to see me again. That means that I have been rude or something is wrong. I probably deserved it and I do not visit that host again if they send me a note telling me that I am blocked.
RE: Block list
As for me, during the time that I work here I didn't block any. I dunno, maybe I am a lucky one, but I met someone who would really deserved to be blocked. Well, on the other hand, even if I don't like very much a visitor I always try to say farewell in such a way which won't give him an advantage to hurt me. But in case if I'd meet someone who doesn't want to understand nice words and would try to upset me in different ways, I for sure would block him.
For example, a blackmailer...or a person who defames my country...or someone who maniacally insistent...those ones deserve to be blocked.
For example, a blackmailer...or a person who defames my country...or someone who maniacally insistent...those ones deserve to be blocked.
RE: Block list
Since the 2 years and 1017 video sessions later I've been here I have been blocked only one time. So in the grand scheme of things it does'nt mean a thing.
RE: Block list
As a member its pretty simple to me , if a girl does not want a member to come back for whatever reason its a good one because each member represents possible income . I think it is essential that hosts have this facility and its not necessarily anything to do with hating anyone etc . As for the members they should respect the hosts decision , move on and leave it at that .
Those members who then change screennames to see girls who blocked them , and i think there are many , should look at how pathetic their behaviour is and call into question their respect for other people .
What always surprises me is that the hosts could ban a hell of a lot more but dont because they tolerate the guys to earn money . Personally if I did what they did I would have a block list as long as my arm and I wouldnt pull any punches telling members what i thought of them ( it would be a short career methinks :-))))) ) .
Those members who then change screennames to see girls who blocked them , and i think there are many , should look at how pathetic their behaviour is and call into question their respect for other people .
What always surprises me is that the hosts could ban a hell of a lot more but dont because they tolerate the guys to earn money . Personally if I did what they did I would have a block list as long as my arm and I wouldnt pull any punches telling members what i thought of them ( it would be a short career methinks :-))))) ) .
RE: Block list
Interesting enough/ Telling the truth has got me block numerous times. Can you explain ??
RE: Block list
...if she is doing either. You sound just like one of the individuals who is (deservedly) on her list.
RE: Block list
Well if you are getting replies like that it just proves that you were right to block them in the first place :)
RE: Block list
Is it true that if a member is blocked from chat he can still go to video? I was blocked by someone but then I went to video and it worked. Ironic. Blocked unless you pay.
RE: Block list
I do hope that cc reads this thread to see that blocking is frequently used for unintended purposes instead of shielding hosts from being seen by members from their own country. Great way to alienate members. Is this the legacy of cc?
RE: Block list
"blocking is frequently used for unintended purposes instead of shielding hosts from being seen by members from their own country"
Oh come on now do you really think that the hosts have to individually block every single person from their own country ? No they do that as a global option.Therefore I think you will find that these hosts are using the block facility exactly the way cc intended it otherwise it would not be there.
Oh come on now do you really think that the hosts have to individually block every single person from their own country ? No they do that as a global option.Therefore I think you will find that these hosts are using the block facility exactly the way cc intended it otherwise it would not be there.
RE: Block list
I wont prefer them dead, who am i to wish them this, but surely id prefer not to hear from them again ever. I block the ones that are rude, or if i suspect them in recording vids. Too bad we cant block their rude asses from txt chat tho.
RE: Block list>>to moni
if you hear a clicking sound on the line during your conversation, it's safe to believe that you're being recorded.
RE: do you beilive in .............
it exist if u believe in it, and can be fufilled if 2 people believe in it and love each other.
RE: do you beilive in .............
belive in love?? HAHAHAHAH THAT'S A GOOD ONE!!!! the funniest shit that i've heard today! HAHAHAHAHAHA. i used to believe in it but now love only seems to be a onesided thing.my side. seems when i love someone,i never get the love in return so i would say that right now,no,i do not believe in love. oh,and i'm 41 if you really need to know.
RE: do you beilive in .............
what is there to love about u, paco? obviously NOTHING! the universe has spoken. LOL
do you beilive in .............
believe in love and is better than lust - am 50 and the diference is what u seek - short or long tem
RE: do you beilive in .............
Oh yeah, I also believe in Santa and that all women are faithful. Yeah right!
My acronymn of Love = Loss Of Valuable Energy
My acronymn of Love = Loss Of Valuable Energy
RE: do you beilive in .............
Sure, you can always be happy even without a false love. Actually for me happiness is not a seasonal state of emotion caused by an illusive romance, for me happiness is an attitude. You can always be happy even if you are alone in a deserted island. After many love deceptions I now just aim to find new interests in life that can bring me knowledge and joy instead of hurt and pain.
RE: do you beilive in .............
Interestingly enough, to me you sound like a more lovable person than someone who believes he/she can only be made happy by the presence of someone else.
RE: do you beilive in .............
soul always must be hurted , otherwise soul will die. love is suffering. life without love impossible, haven't sense.
RE: do you beilive in .............
Here in particular...it would be better said..."do you believe in money?"
RE: do you beilive in .............
cliched i know but....love is a many splendoured thing.there are as many types of love as there are days in the year.we all believe in love or we would not be alive.the most basic love is a love of one's self & from this love all other love grows.a simple philosophy but a hard reality :--)
RE: do you beilive in .............
yes i believe and i am in early 30s, also love is much more powerful than lust. lust can be an accessory to love.
RE: do you beilive in .............
Yes I bleve in love, I wrote the song didn't I?
How old am I? Well my ass is 20 years old, my thighs are 60, my cheeks are 30, my tits are 25 years old, my lips (the upper ones, not the ones "down below") are 15 years old, my tumy tuck is 10 years old. One more face lift and my belly button will make me look like I was shot in the throat.
How old am I? Well my ass is 20 years old, my thighs are 60, my cheeks are 30, my tits are 25 years old, my lips (the upper ones, not the ones "down below") are 15 years old, my tumy tuck is 10 years old. One more face lift and my belly button will make me look like I was shot in the throat.
RE: do you beilive in .............
yes i do believe in love . love is wonderful thing. i am 32.
RE: do you beilive in .............
yes, I believe in love. It is a powerfull feeling. I'm 51. I even believe in unselfish love
RE: do you beilive in .............
yes...i do believe in love even it keeps giving me pain....20 y o
Shame on you Martin Taylor!!!!!!!!!!! Birmingan City - Arsenal
that guy shouldnt play footbal anymore!!!!!
RE: Shame on you Martin Taylor!!!!!!!!!!! Birmingan City - Arsenal
It was a terrible injury, but to say Martin Taylor did that on purpose are miles off target. He made honest attempt at getting the ball, unfortunately he was a bit late and caught Eduardo.
PS:I'm not a Birmingham fan.
PS:I'm not a Birmingham fan.
RE: Shame on you Martin Taylor!!!!!!!!!!! Birmingan City - Arsenal
it was a disgrace, he ment to hurt him all through the match he was loooking to "get stuck in" the F.A should come down hard on the his club.......but i am an Aston Villa fan Martin O Neil's claret and blue army
RE: Shame on you Martin Taylor!!!!!!!!!!! Birmingan City - Arsenal
"it was a disgrace, he ment to hurt him all through the match he was loooking to "get stuck in""
What you mean "all through the match"? He was dismissed after 2 minutes!!!
What you mean "all through the match"? He was dismissed after 2 minutes!!!
RE: Shame on you Martin Taylor!!!!!!!!!!! Birmingan City - Arsenal
Indeed...has there ever been a better indication of the lack of objectivity and nous in the average Brit football fan
RE: Shame on you Martin Taylor!!!!!!!!!!! Birmingan City - Arsenal
So sorry about my verbs...i was a little drunk...i ment he is a very phyiscal player, has made soem bad tackles ...although he has only ever recived 1 red card before this......also .i am not from the U.K...thus i shall use this as an excuess for my words also
RE: Shame on you Martin Taylor!!!!!!!!!!! Birmingan City - Arsenal
Taylor was playing on Eboue level today. Horrible tackle and it is something that should not be in sports. But great results for 10 man Birmingam team today to get 2-2 draw.
RE: Shame on you Martin Taylor!!!!!!!!!!! Birmingan City - Arsenal
it's really sad that such emotions and horrible actions can be brought about just by a few men playing a children's game. :(
RE: Shame on you Martin Taylor!!!!!!!!!!! Birmingan City - Arsenal
Children's game? I don't understand what you'r saying.
"Of all the unimportant things in life, football is the most important." Quote pope john paul 2nd ;)
"Of all the unimportant things in life, football is the most important." Quote pope john paul 2nd ;)
RE: Shame on you Martin Taylor!!!!!!!!!!! Birmingan City - Arsenal
john paul 2 played quarterback for the chelsea lakers.right? :--)
RE: Shame on you Martin Taylor!!!!!!!!!!! Birmingan City - Arsenal
I'm a huge football fan but wtf is this post on here for???
You Choose
Here is you a topic to think about: " What would you do if one of these women here at cc - come and lived with you?
A. Would you still let her perform here
B. Would you join her and become a couple category performer
C. Would you do both above (A and B)
D. Put your own answer here.........................................
A. Would you still let her perform here
B. Would you join her and become a couple category performer
C. Would you do both above (A and B)
D. Put your own answer here.........................................
RE: You Choose
I would love her and cherish her which would mean she would never work here again.
RE: You Choose
There was a time when I did have a live-in chick who worked on this and other sites, and in answer to (A) yes, I had no problem with her doing shows from the living room. Actually, it was quiet fun to sit and watch her work ... and the things she used to say about the punters made me the cynical prick that I am today. It was all a complete act (ok, there are probably chicks on here who really are getting off, but can anyone really be sure?). All I can say is that a behind-the-scenes look at this "industry" would be a real eye-opener for most members on here.
In answer to (B), no I never joined her in any shows, which kinda makes (C) not applicable.
In answer to (B), no I never joined her in any shows, which kinda makes (C) not applicable.
RE: You Choose
to answer yeah, i think A Banana answered that already. as for if i had a chat host living with me. I would have no problem with her still working her if she wanted to.
RE: You Choose
i was referring more to the fact if any former studio owners were about and cared to comment.
RE: You Choose
I'd give it a shot and let her work, but I bet I would start having a problem after watching her day after day after day getting naked for any guy willing to spend some money.
RE: You Choose
You're first option shows you either have little experience with women or absolutely no understanding of them.
A. Would "you still let her" perform here
She's not a pet, she's not a toy, she's not a puppet, she's not a slave and hopefully she's not a child -- you do not "let her" do anything. She does as she chooses to or chooses not to, your approval is not required.
A. Would "you still let her" perform here
She's not a pet, she's not a toy, she's not a puppet, she's not a slave and hopefully she's not a child -- you do not "let her" do anything. She does as she chooses to or chooses not to, your approval is not required.
RE: You Choose
I think his choice of words is an important indicator of his attitude to women.
RE: You Choose
What ?? Members are here for ALL the reason you suggest. You're too sane. Better go visit some other site.
RE: You Choose
To put in another way:
A. How many girls really like this job? Probably it is just their best alternative to earn some money
B.If you really love a girl, you let her free choice. Of course you need to discuss all and she will take in account what you say. But at the end it is her decision.
A. How many girls really like this job? Probably it is just their best alternative to earn some money
B.If you really love a girl, you let her free choice. Of course you need to discuss all and she will take in account what you say. But at the end it is her decision.
RE: You Choose
money too.... but to spend on attracting young beautiful women, not on shoes. :D
RE: You Choose
this one is really good :D but... I even know men spending money on women and shoes
RE: You Choose
D: Help her find a regular job where she didn't have to deal with jerks & liars all day long