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I am glad you have found a real friend here :)

lol....subtle

I'm not sure I understand fully .... maybe you should expand a bit more on that ....
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Hi! I just came on to check my messages and I saw your post...
Thank you very much for sharing your thoughts and wishes!! It is a very nice surprise. Its always a pleasure to be seen more than "another girl on cam". Kisses to you and THANK YOU!!

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one of the cover girls from the most recent contest is extremely passive-aggressive. she has blonde hair. guess who it is.

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I am not sure if those that responded understand the term "passive-aggressive". I have an example, although it is maybe not the best example.

Consider the case of driving a car on a road with two lanes going in the same direction. In most countries, the slower drivers are supposed to stay to the right and allow the fast drivers to pass them on the left. What happens sooner or later is that a guy in the left lane is going slower than the guy behind him would like. The guy behind the slower driver will get closer and closer in an attempt to get the guy ahead of him to move over to the right. This is "aggressive", not to mention stupid, behavior. Then what happens is that the slower driver will get angry sometimes, stay in the left lane, and maybe even slow down a bit to be a little more annoying. This would be "passive aggressive" behavior. The slower driver isn't being aggressive in that he is not driving real close, honking his horn, et cetera. All the slower driver did was get a little slower. While slowing down is is "aggressive" in its own way, it is a passive, calm act so it is "passive aggressive". Now if the slower driver slows down very fast and almost causes an accident, that would be aggressive, not passive-aggressive. I am talking about slowing down just a little bit.

Now, to respond to the mysterious "blonde" cover girl comment. That host is not passive aggressive. What she is doing is marketing herself with beautiful pictures and working very, very hard to be successful here. It is what each and every host on this site should do if they are trying to make money, and I assume that is the major reason that hosts are here.

Perhaps other hosts find this host's efforts "aggressive", but just because someone is beautiful and marketing her beauty, that doesn't make her aggressive. It makes her smart and succsessful, and I would imagine that anyone attacking her is simply jealous. It isn't her fault that CC pics her as a cover girl so why would this be wrong?

Hosts need to make efforts to improve their pics if they want to be chosen instead, and if they aren't chosen, that doesn't mean that the hosts that are chosen should be attacked. Now if a host was to do things like put down other hosts to try to get people not to visit other hosts, that would be different. But this mysterious "blonde" cover girl has never done anything like that to my knowlege. Rather, she simply relies on her intelligence, beauty, and personality to be successful.

i do not think you really understand what passive-aggressive means. it has nothing to do with being aggressive. google it online and read about it.

and another thing, there are at least 3 blonde cover girls i see. so i do not know which one you are talking about.

its the expensive one ($5 )

has nobody yet seen that the way i have been making my posts are passive-aggressive?

I stand by my example. It might not be the best example, as I admitted, but it adequately explains the concept of being "passive- aggressive". If it makes you feel better, change it from the slower driver's slowing a bit more to the slower driver maintaining his speed, staying in the left lane, and then in about 2 or 3 minutes, moving over instead of moving over right away.

Your posts, on the other hand, are "aggressive". (Okay, they are more annoying, than aggressive, at this point, lol.) They are not "passive-agressive". When you Google the phrase, as somebody instructed me to do, lol, you will see that the term refers to behavior which is very passive such as being stubborn, procrastinating, et cetera. Your posting multiple times is much too active to be considered a "passive" act.

And I never said passive-aggressive had anything to do with being aggressive. In fact, I said the opposite, but that such activity could be viewed as aggressive. After all, it is called being "passive-AGGRESSIVE".

Finally, everybody on this site knows exactly who the "blonde cover girl" is. And in any event, my posts about her could refer to the other two as well.

i dont know how you can know which cover girl it is. and here is definition of passive-aggressive i am thinking of.

* Does your partner
become angry with you about things over which you have no control? Is he blaming and punishing you for things that happen to him/her that you had no part in?

* Is your partner frequently sullen, depressed and angry about small life circumstances, but ignore the big problems, thus never facing them?

* Do you receive complaints about you don't appreciating him/her enough, not being able to appreciate even when you do more than ever to please this person?

* Is he expressing a deep idea of being cursed by life, being left behind by others who are responsible for all his problems? Does she ever take any responsibility for what happens to her?

* Is your partner describing a world that is his own creation, impervious to whatever you can say to change that? If you offer a different, more positive construct of the world, of your common friends, family and work acquaintances, is it rejected as "fabrications" because what this person sees is the only "truth"?

1.- The main problem with passive aggressive behavior is first how to identify this interaction, because the same mind that needs to observe and evaluate (yours) is being confused by a barrage of mixed rational/emotional contradictory messages.

Then, we need to accept confusion and emotional pain as indicators of being in the presence of a relationship with a passive aggressive (PA) person. Is not that you are a less intelligent person; is that another person is confusing you!

2. - A person who displays PA traits is a person who never learnt how to accept and manage his anger, using twisted behavior to project his responsibility on others ("you made him angry") so blaming others for everything real or imaginary that happens to them. Deeply inside, they are emotionally unavailable and can't allow anybody to get very emotionally close, so displaying PA traits is a way to deflect the intensity of feelings, and recover the security of their inner isolation by backing off from emotional intimacy. DON'T feel rejected at a personal level.

3. - It is not related to YOU! You don't have to be a beauty queen, a very successful manager or a sex bombshell to make him happy: it has nothing to do with what you can offer him. Whatever you are, he is probably NOT relating to who you are, but reacting to his own image of what an intimate partner means for him. Getting to know what happens (you attracted a PA person to be your love relationship) has at least to give you this fact for sure: his reactions have nothing to do with you, because he would react in the same way to any one who threatens to enter into his private world. His fear is not of you, but of intimacy and yielding to emotional compromise with any woman.

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hell yeah you are tina...looool

Is it possible to be passive aggressive in a forum post?

English Lesson, you say in most countries the slow drivers are supposed to be on the right but that only applies to about 28% of the roads. 72% of the world's total road distance carries traffic on the right. On those roads, the slow drivers are supposed to be in the left lane, not the right lane.

So readers who follow your advice will slow down in the wrong lane causing potential conflict or worse.

Does that make your post a passive aggressive post because it appears to entertain and inform while creating a potentially harmful situation for your audience?

Cheers. I'm just having a little fun with the topic. Best wishes all. :)

Oh forget it, momentary confusion on my part. English Lesson was correct. "All traffic is generally required to keep right unless overtaking." which means faster on the left.

Perhaps I was being passive aggressive but it wasn't intentional and certainly wasn't ironic :)

ahh i thought at first you was talking about axb but now i see you aren't
:o)

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Ok, guys, leave Pure Miracle alone

Yes happy birthday.

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Happy Birthday and many more .. kiss and hug

Thank you all,many kisses :*:*:*

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Hosts are rated based on the last 10 votes. A member can only vote once per day CC time. If he votes more than once a day, only his last vote will count.

Also, he can only count for 2 of the 10 votes so if he votes 3 days in a row, and the host only had less than eight sessions between the second and third vote, only the member's second and third vote would count, not all three. If she had 8 sessions since his last vote, then his second and third vote would count. And if she had 9 or more sessions since he last voted, then at that point only the third vote would count since the others would drop off.

CC watches for irregularities such as a member voting once a day after one minute, leaving, and voting.

Generally, you will find most hosts have 4 or more stars since usually their friends go to video and give them 5 stars so take ratings with a grain of salt. Personally, I usually go for hosts with minimum of 4 stars and most of the time 4,5 or 5. But there are good hosts with less stars too. They are just a little harder to find.

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Thanks to both of you!! good system.

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It's also not a statement that he either made or implied. As far as I understand him, he was only talking about 'genuine' members, not hosts masquerading as them

personally i think the ratings system is too vague

I think it is okay, but that 10 votes are too few. Around 25 votes where only one vote is counted per member would be a better system. It would make it harder for people to try to manipulate the system, and it would also keep a host from having one bad session have too much of an impact on her rating.

I don't see where I said that. Anyway, some hosts have member accounts, and all hosts have friends that they can ask for help. Use your imagination as to what hosts may do with their member accounts and what they may ask their member friends to do for them. I will simply leave it at I have heard different things than you have, lol.

But putting all that aside, we all know members' feelings get hurt sometimes, so what do you think that they sometimes do when that happens? And, at the other end, when they really like a host, what do you think that they do? It isn't all that hard to figure out what is going to happen, but CC tries to be on the look out for it.

Nah! rofl

I came here as a wanker too, but now I have a lot of friends.

But I am still a wanker. :p

No. Trust me on this kid stay just a wanker. Sure the fantasy of having a relationship with a host makes the experience more personal and more intense but it is just a fantasy. Save the relationship for a woman who lives closer than Moscow or buy a puppy.

i wasnt saying anything about a relationship

Sorry...when I make friends I consider that a relationship....I didn't mean a romantic, exclusive, nonsensical love affair kind of relationship.

ah..clear now...yes..i agree

Ah ... you're not such a bad old wanker

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i agree with obis kenobis. We meet people and have good friends on here. i met obis here and tafille and darlinghelen and sexypam4u and a few others and i consider them very good friends. yes sometimes we all have a falling out but in the long run we all just get along. CHeers Obis for a great forum. also for the memories of CC.

boss im hurt you left me out , and are all times here really so great boss?

you too t77. i have met some good friends also. allyoop5-52 is a great guy and i am glad i met him and we have become friends. sexypam is one great girl that i value her friendship very much and hope we will remain friends the rest of our lives. obis a great guy and i really enjoy talking to and can honestly call him a great friend. tafille and dh two great girls that i am glad i can talk to and met. trevor my longtime friend that has gotten me through some rough times in the beginning of CC. of course i met my fiance here on CC though we have had some of ups and downs her and i but without CC i would never have met her. then of course there are a few girls that i met through CC also. So overall this has been a great place to meet friends and have a good time also.

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yes boss...you are right...everyone has ups and downs..but still i have enjoyed my time here....and you are right....sexypam4u..darlinghelen and tafille are super cool friends.....ofc i havent seen eye to eye with them on certain issues...but all in all great girls and glad to call my friend

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another list that i get left off of.WTF! lol

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In my experiences here CC is so great.When I first joined I was not much of a chatter but after a while I it grows on you and now you can hardly shut me up. The hosts and members I have met here I consider my friends even tho I chat with only some.All in all it is a great time and I always have fun when I come here.

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whats love got to do with it?
I'm paying you to have a orgasm so damn well have one whether you like it or not. )

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We're men. So of course we can :P

What particular "organism" did you have in mind? :-)

he may be on to something, the hosts just see us as some weird organism (maybe a sub species of homo sapiens) to be enjoyed, while getting paid.

If you work a job that deals with the public every day you come to enjoy the funny, interesting, odd and unusual customers. The make each day different and break the monotony. Bottom line however is making money. And a host first and foremost loves a member who does plenty of long expensive videos. Talk about something that will make a host moist.

I could talk about the weather here???

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Thank you so much for the information.......may I ask...... where in Russia are you from?

no

what kind of adjustment are you thinking off? The only thing i can imagine is the power. Russia works with 220V. In America you use 110V. You have to check if your laptop can work with 220V..most modern equipment is capable..and also check your electricity plug (or whats the name in english) so buy a universal one.
Most of the info you can find with Google btw.

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240V in Australia

Everything is the same except the power supply. Russia uses 220V 50Hz in the USA it's 120V 60HZ

Laptops should work, make sure the power adapter says 110-240V 50-60Hz on it.. If it doesn't go past 220V and work with 50Hz it won't work and may overload.
For desktops there's normally a 110/230V switch on the power supply next to where the power cables goes in, just switch this before plugging it in.

For both you will need a new power cable (US plug pins are flat in Russia they are round) these are easy to find in any electrical shop.

cool, going to get a host to send me a pc from Russia

From: over 800 hosts to choose from Reply New Message
best price to rating ratios 09/Aug/2009 22:09 (GMT)

Since there are so many hosts to choose from today, I would like to reward those that have a great price to rating ratio. These are just in the little shy category, and only 4.5 stars and higher. If anyone wants to help getting the other categories and at least 4 stars and above that would be great. Also, some were surely in 121 at the time I checked them so if you see some I missed feel free to say so.

The format is simple:
Host name, open price/121 price, rating

FirmSexyAss .50/.60 4.5 stars
fuckinHole .50/.60 4.5 stars
AngelSweet81 .50 (in video no 121 available at the moment) 4.5 stars
lovejoy22 .50/1.00 4.5 stars
Lyalechka .52 (in video no 121 available at the moment) 4.5 stars
BestXKitten .56/.82 4.5 stars
brownSexyCat .60/.80 4.5 stars
SexyNatallyX .60/.90 4.5 stars
SexWithYouXx .70/.82 4.5 stars
tastymary75 .60/1.18 4.5 stars
BestBerry .66/1.18 4.5 stars
BbGirl4Daddy .80/1.20 4.5 stars
scorpiostar .80/1.20 4.5 stars
1Barselona .80/1.20 4.5 stars
19SweetGirl .80/1.20 4.5 stars
Flameilusion .76/1.32 4.5 stars
BurnInLove .80 (in video no 121 available at the moment) 4.5 stars

Good luck girls!!!!!

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broom broom honda.you might not have a lot of money,but you're rich in the milk of human kindness & no amount of money can buy that. oh & dark happy birthday :--)

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Happy B-day Triksy

A little late. Lol.

As long as the sentiment is real....wtf...

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I'm afraid she simply ran out of gas :(

she changed her name to "boomgirl"

I did tell her that adding smoking to her activities was a bad idea ... but would she listen??

The skin grafts are holding up ok and she will be coming back soon .... standing only for a while.

i cant see her, i cant hear her...but boy i can certainly smell her

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hahaha, i have never seen as many genuinely funny responses to a thread before...well played people!!

i dont know lol
but as for me i came back after few days of rest))

Well rumour is she blew town and is now going in whichever direction the wind blows her .........

become a priest ? or maybe sexy lingerie better then nude.

Come to me - we will speak about that)))

you mean virtual nudity ? it is normal :)

Type with your eyes closed or try nuncams

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I feel the same. I am only going to buy shows now from girls who make a living in front of a camera and claim to be "too shy to strip."
A girl and her sweater vest..... mmmm now that is exciting!
Friends and Family here I come!!!!! Wooohoooo!!!!
Tease Me, Seymore!!!

ask her to put stockings on and let her dance ;)

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wow-sounds strange and suspicious for me;)

Actually, the problem he's experiencing is not strange or suspicious at all. In fact, it's a growing problem for men in the digital internet age and become a bit of a debate in the medical community. The common term used by psychologists for this is "porn creep." LOL and no, I don't mean "creep" like he IS a bad guy orcreep. What I mean is this...from being online or surfing porn or looking at too many cam girls or whatever...basically, from looking at too much porn...the sexy images they've seen online have now creeped into their mind and taken root. So now the only way they do get excited is by a woman who looks like a true porn model... I mean absolutely perfect in every photographic way... or by an escalating series of dirtier and kinkier things, much like you can constantly ramp up your porn. In other words, a guy who used to get excited just from the idea of being alone with a woman and quietly getting a blow job now has to think about being with an all-out slutty woman as she is gang banged. That's what I mean when I say it goes from a simple turn on to growing...and growing...and growing in the mind.

Mind you, this is NOT physical. If a man suffers from this problem and he goes to see his physician, the doctor will run blood tests...check his testosterone levels...etc, etc, etc. Odds are the tests will come back normal...maybe the doctor will prescribe some viagra or cialis to help things along...but basically the doctor will say "There's nothing PHYSICALLY wrong with you. You should be getting excited as usual."

And that's when the physician will say his "excitement performance problems" (to coin a phrase) are probably due tosomething on his mind. It could be nervousness...it could be job stress....or, as psychiatrists are seeing more and more in the internet age, it could be "porn creep" where the guy's vision of sex and his expectations of the woman and what she'll do and what will happen are more porn and fantasy based rather than reality based. And since the woman isn't living up to true online hardcore porn standards....he finds no excitement in her simply being naked (as was the case here).

I see........ good to know..

lmao,lucky you're not my doctor,i'd need a specialist or a shrink afterwards :--)

Dr. Desmond Morris researched & compiled a list of stages of intimacy:

Bonding refers to the emotional covenant that links a man and woman together for life and makes them intensely valuable to one another. It is the specialness that sets those two lovers apart from every other person on the face of the earth.
These stages, described below, represent a progression of physical intimacy from which a permanent commitment often evolves.

Bonding refers to the emotional covenant that links a man and woman together for life and makes them intensely valuable to one another. It is the specialness that sets those two lovers apart from every other person on the face of the earth.
These stages, described below, represent a progression of physical intimacy from which a permanent commitment often evolves.

1. Eye to Body. A glance reveals much about a person ...

2. Eye to Eye. When the man and woman who are strangers to each other exchange glances, their most natural reaction is to look away, usually with embarrassment. If their eyes meet again, they may smile, which signals that they might like to become better acquainted.

3. Voice to Voice. Their initial conversations are trivial and include questions like "What is your name?" or "What do you do for a living?" During this long stage the two people learn much about each other's opinions, pastimes, activities, habits, hobbies, likes and dislikes. If they're compatible, they become friends.

4. Hand to Hand. The first instance of physical contact between the couple is usually a non-romantic occasion such as when the man helps the woman descend a high step or aids her across an obstacle. At this point either of the individuals can withdraw from the relationship without rejecting the other. However, if continued, hand-to-hand contact will eventually become an evidence of the couple's romantic attachment to each other.

5. Hand to Shoulder. This affectionate embrace is still noncommittal. It is a "buddy" type position in which the man and woman are side by side. They are more concerned with the world in front of them than they are with each other. The hand-to-shoulder contact reveals a relationship that is more than a close friendship, but probably not real love.

6. Hand to Waist. Because this is something two people of the same sex would not ordinarily do, it is clearly romantic. They are close enough to be sharing secrets or intimate language with each other. Yet, as they walk side by side with hand to waist, they are still facing forward.

7. Face to Face. This level of contact involves gazing into one another's eyes, hugging and kissing. If none of the previous steps were skipped, the man and woman will have developed a special code from experience that enables them to engage in deep communication with very few words. At this point, sexual desire becomes an important factor in the relationship.

8. Hand to Head. This is an extension of the previous stage. The man and woman tend to cradle or stroke each other's head while kissing or talking. Rarely do individuals in our culture touch the head of another person unless they are either romantically involved or are family members. It is a designation of emotional closeness.


The Final Steps. The last four levels of involvement are distinctly sexual and private. They are:
(9) Hand to Body,
(10) Mouth to Breast,
(11) Hand to genital, and
(12) Mouth to genital
(13) Intercourse. (Genital to genital )

In the Progression each stage does not satisfy to the degree that it first did.

Well even without a partner ,in cam or not, I've done the 'Hand to genital' all my adult life and I'm not bored of it yet! ;)

Yeah ... I go with good old Desmond Morris ..... the hors d'oeuvres may titillate the palette - but they were only invented to lead to the Main Course. There's only so many bits of bruschetta you can take before getting restless.

The sex/food metaphor was going great there - but I'm worried what the dessert course could be? I'll never think about Chocolate Pudding the same way again now ....

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hello) very interesting fetish....maybe i could try)) kisss

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It certainly sounds odd at first, but from a chat host's perspective, it's almost the easiest to play along with. Think of it - you don't have to strip naked or dance sexy, or even wear uncomfortable outfits. All it entails is being able to hold still for a couple minutes, and occasionally change positions mechanically like a character at Disneyland.

I think we could speak about it))) muahh

Of all the fetishes I have heard about on here this one, for some reason sounds a little appealing. Well, not with you.... but with one of the girls.

ok wait.................this guy has this weird fetish and gets responses but when i ask about hosts that wear black,thigh high,7"heel stripper boots,i get nothing.go figure.

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I think there's a few hosts that will do this for you and you won't even have to ask. Look for the ladies with the self-centred primadonna style profiles :-)

that is funny ted, I have found a few ladies. they really do a great job. But i am always looking for any others who would like to show how well they can pose and appear.

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So a Logitech Quick Cam Pro 9000 will do fine ?

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as for me i like Loqutech Quick Time AF. good quality and many options

I heard that digital cam will be better then web at any case

digital cam is much better then webcam, even if it is expencive webcam.

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oh really? do anyone know the price?

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eeek ... cognitive therapy time again already??

Skills in Gestalt Counselling & Psychotherapy (Skills in Counselling & Psychotherapy Series) - by Phil Joyce and Charlotte Sills

TA Today : A New Introduction to Transactional Analysis - by Ian Stewart and Vann Joines

Those are 2 books written without a whole lot of 'big fuck off scientific' words ..... or maybe I just dreamt that? ;)

Ohh thx for advice)))

well its quite young and very interesting direction.
Arnheim R. Visual thinking. Berkeley and Los Angeles: California UP, 1967
heard its good one;)
Good luck in ur studies)))

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shes on vacation with husband and childern

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do you know when ?

where is you??? long time not see you.....

well, the priests are marching 'round and 'round and blowin' their trumpets and shouting and the walls are crumbling down

Sounds good) i need to do one as well)))

but, if you want me to look at yr first recording, post a free one.

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i wish i could see)))

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Because some people are only in a happy land when they have something to complain about.

The challenge! The challenge of cracking the ice maidens/bitches. Some of us guys just can't resist seeing if we can crack them.

have a go with femina, maybe you can crack her ice

hmmm ... I dunno if thats gonna work .... but hey its your money and I'm sure they are nice to the shop assistants when they buy themselves food and clothes with it

Who said anything about paying? You can soon tell in free chat if they are likely to crack or not.

It isn't difficult to get a pretty woman to reject you for free in the real world. Why pay?

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I've yelled at the TV while watching a recorded political announcement. is that the same thing as chatting with a recording?

:)

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Not normally, but the other day I went into a video playback and the video started chatting with me. I started wondering what I was smoking. Then remembered I've never smoked anything. Turns out the host was there even though she was only in Video playback.

if the hosts dont tell a short description of what is in the playback video. No price you set will matter - not gonna enter any again.

The thing about video is you have no control. You just have to wait and hope you get what you want. I'm tired of waiting then the video resets to the start and I didn't get it. Need to know what will come.

max 0,60 pr min............

I think it depends of quality and plot of session)))

thank u alot,SUCH A nice begining of day:):)WOW :Dxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

For some reason Borat's voice got into my head when I read this :D

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I'll try to say this in better English, DirtyPunk lol...

Leksa seems to be a lightening rod for some rather mean comments sometimes (of course she is not the only host who gets this). She really doesn't deserve such treatment.

Leksa is sexy, curvy, wild, and hysterically funny when you get her going. And fun. She is also passionate and emotional, but you are right SweetMan, she is essentially a very nice person. And yes, she's a buddy of mine.

hehe, I didn't mean to take away from the original comments, it just seemed funny to me at the time how my mind perceived the words and added sound to them..
I've never met Casablancka but always figured she was nice, and funny, from her posts here... and seeing her pics I see she is pretty too.
Guys who need to make stupid personal attacks against a host just so they feel for a few seconds like they actually have balls are easily ignored and should be laughed off by the host. You just know that what's sitting in front of his keyboard is a hell of a lot more pathetic than any words he can make come out of it ;)

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Nothing like an instant action type show in glamour :D

I am with you John. Well said.

That's a fair expectation. John. Personally I respect the hosts time and don't expect a lot of "free" attention, but some reasonable amount of conversation before jumping to 121 helps to find out if you want to spend time together. And girls, this is only good marketing. When you aren't earning money you should be marketing yourselves ... unless you have something better to do while you are waiting for a private session.