General Forum
RE: Votes
If you mean Leksa has many talents, I agree. She is sexy, beautiful, funny, and easy to talk to. I don't know what you are trying to say, but she is in Little Shy, and that seems right to me.
RE: Votes
CasaBlancka?thought u mean me :D,BUT must b other one,coise im not a star OF CC,hehe :DDD
Hottest skinny RP model
I just wondered if there were any suggestions for a sexy skinny (slim, small breasts) who was hot. Many great girls here, just hoping to find some i may have missed :)
RE: contributing to my promotion!
I think that advertising a product without saying what the product is represents a pretty dumb strategy
RE: contributing to my promotion!
heheeheh u r funny - who cares as long as its fun:P???
oh yes i am cheap - especially in 121 - hehehhehehe - u wish! :D
oh yes i am cheap - especially in 121 - hehehhehehe - u wish! :D
RE: contributing to my promotion!
hehehe,, did it help? not to meeeeee:(( it seems they like me more when im expencive:) lol
Sad Tidings
A woman was leaving a convenience store with her morning coffee when she noticed a most unusual funeral procession approaching the nearby cemetery.
A long black hearse was followed by a second long black hearse about 50 feet behind the first one. Behind the second hearse was a solitary woman walking a pit bull on a leash. Behind her, a short
distance back, were about 200 women walking single file.
The woman was so curious that she respectfully approached the woman walking the dog and said, "I am so sorry for your loss, and I know now is a bad time to disturb you, but I have never seen a funeral like this.
"Whose funeral is it?"
"My husband's."
"What happened to him?"
The woman replied, "My dog attacked and killed him."
She inquired further, "Well, who is in the second hearse?"
The woman answered, "My mother-in-law. She was trying to help my husband when the dog turned on her."
A poignant and thoughtful moment of silence passed between the two women.
"Can I borrow the dog?"
"Get in line." :--)
A long black hearse was followed by a second long black hearse about 50 feet behind the first one. Behind the second hearse was a solitary woman walking a pit bull on a leash. Behind her, a short
distance back, were about 200 women walking single file.
The woman was so curious that she respectfully approached the woman walking the dog and said, "I am so sorry for your loss, and I know now is a bad time to disturb you, but I have never seen a funeral like this.
"Whose funeral is it?"
"My husband's."
"What happened to him?"
The woman replied, "My dog attacked and killed him."
She inquired further, "Well, who is in the second hearse?"
The woman answered, "My mother-in-law. She was trying to help my husband when the dog turned on her."
A poignant and thoughtful moment of silence passed between the two women.
"Can I borrow the dog?"
"Get in line." :--)
Goodbye
After 9 years here , some liters os sperm, some lies and truth etc etc , it's time to quit this site. I wish you good fun to all .
gone
gone
RE: Goodbye
good bye:)we will b miss u ,all of us :)if u will change ur mind.you r welcome :D XX
RE: Goodbye
it's obvious to what level u will be missed...lol...and anyone else that may attempt to depart the shores of depravity.
Happy Birthday DarlingHelen
Happy Birthday Anna have one great Day and hope all ur dreams come through take care sweetie
RE: Happy Birthday DarlingHelen
happy birth Day Darling Helen too, wish U best all everything, love U
RE: Happy Birthday DarlingHelen
shouldnt u say happy birthday to her her twin sister also?
happy birthday tafille
happy birthday tafille
RE: Happy Birthday DarlingHelen
Happy Birthday Anya and Nastya!!! Hope you have a great day with lots of love and happiness!!!!!
RE: Happy Birthday DarlingHelen
happy birthday taf & heleh.hope that your birthday is all you deserve & that the next year sees your hopes & dreams closer to reality xxx :--)
RE: Being your mistress
It all sounds so complicated :(
I'll just stick to being a pervert and finding a host who role plays that she likes being visited by a pervert :)
I'll just stick to being a pervert and finding a host who role plays that she likes being visited by a pervert :)
RE: Being your mistress
Oh No !!! Now the expression "being the sub for the local football team" is putting images into my head that I do not want to be there. :(
RE: Being your mistress
As someone has done the real thing, with one of Washington DC's best, I can give you a little insight. My Mistress always sat with me before a session and we discussed what were my interests during the scene. I had a safe word, but I always told her that I wanted her to test my limits, to see how much I could take, and that I wanted to impress her. I always brought her a gift like jewelry or chocolates, and I always gave her a nice tip that was in the envelope. She never looked at the envelope until after I left because we had mutual trust. Be safe and have fun. There is a fine line between ecstasy and pain :-)
RE: Being your mistress
Whoa... one of Washington DC's best?
I'm a native & current resident of the Chocolate City. I'm intrigued.
I'm a native & current resident of the Chocolate City. I'm intrigued.
RE: Being your mistress
Dear Formet Sub,
If my husband would do all those things I would be his Mistress more often...LOL
Thank you for making us laugh,
Old MISTRESS
If my husband would do all those things I would be his Mistress more often...LOL
Thank you for making us laugh,
Old MISTRESS
RE: Being your mistress
It was a wonderful experience, she was an expert at the art of delivering pain and humiliation. And yet, she was very nice to me. I still smile thinking about it. If the CC host here who is a good friend (not dungeon!) knew about this part of my past, she would be totally shocked
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RE: promotion for economic crisis
Can I have my free 10 mins at the start of the session please? :)
RE: promotion for economic crisis
looool very funny!!! well in a hypermarket can you have the promotion unless you buy something?????
RE: promotion for economic crisis
I think it is smart business to offer an incentive to members. Most hosts have stuck to their pre-crisis pricing and are spending a lot of idle time. If business is bad do something different.
Oft asked but not fully answered question for hosts
I've seen this question asked before but I really don't think I've seen a straight answer, so let me try it once more and see if I can get more forthcoming replies: How often do hosts actually climax when online? It is a matter of simple biology, I guess, that if you are using a toy or rubbing your clit, it is bound to happen every once in a whle whether you intend it or not. On the other hand, it is hard to believe that you will actually come every time you are in 121 with a member. So, would a host out there actually give us the rundown on this? What are the chances that you are coming whe you say you are (of course, if you can stop to type it on your computer it is already a little suspect.) Also, what things can a member do that might excite you and bring you to that state, if possible?
RE: Oft asked but not fully answered question for hosts
You bring up the answer in your question about typing. Lol. I know one host who admits to never have had an orgasm in her 4 years here but she is a VERY good actress.
RE: Oft asked but not fully answered question for hosts
Very true. Simple biology lol=)) The original poster doenst know much about womens body i guess. Im on this site for 4.5 years, and i NEVER had an orgasm here. Just because i dont want too. When i want to i can cum in like 5 mins. But here i can play for hours and nothing;) All is in our head;)
RE: Oft asked but not fully answered question for hosts
Quite obviously SOME hosts can and do have orgasms online and quite obviously SOME will not and do not. Quite why one host that doesn't have a orgasm online thinks she can speak for all the other hosts is quite beyond my comprehension, wake up.
RE: Oft asked but not fully answered question for hosts
Well ha ha to you .... I fake mine too!
:)
:)
RE: Oft asked but not fully answered question for hosts
From now on, when I'm done, I'm done... no more waiting around to watch a host excitedly FAKE an orgasm, since there's really no more pleasure to be had... oughta save me a few bucks.
RE: Oft asked but not fully answered question for hosts
Is a host really going to tell me that, no, she can't cum... so don't bother staying? From what I'm hearing, some hosts cum, some don't... but I can't tell the difference anyway... so why take the trouble?
RE: Oft asked but not fully answered question for hosts
Well actually when a member asks me if i will cum, i honestly say-no sorry i dont cum here because its too personal. A few leave after this, most stay;)
RE: Oft asked but not fully answered question for hosts
It's different. I know she fakes three out of four LOL but I am willing to spend the time with her for the relationship.
And truly I personally would rather spend time with a host ( note: enough time... half an hour in pvt at least) if I thought she would cum.
I'm just put off by how some hosts and members use each other here. It's reality, I know it. I don't have to like it.
And truly I personally would rather spend time with a host ( note: enough time... half an hour in pvt at least) if I thought she would cum.
I'm just put off by how some hosts and members use each other here. It's reality, I know it. I don't have to like it.
RE: Oft asked but not fully answered question for hosts
I saw one host that said she squirted...i dont remember her name but i think it was very original like uh,, Squirtalot..or SquirtTillyouDrown or Stop_Or I_Squirt.....:) but anyway...what she did is was freeze the cam for 2 seconds..inject some yochurt or some white substance (like she is a boy) in her pussy and then start the cam again..and then you see it drip out... I never saw something so fake. Sometimes hosts think men are so stupid ... hehehe i assume some are..but not all :)
Hosts with short hair
Are there any hosts on the site with really short hair? It you do, you are sexy. Tell me your name!
RE: Hosts with short hair
Hello, David..My host name? I signed with it, it is MISTRESS!!
Now please, don´t tell me I´m old!! LOL
Now please, don´t tell me I´m old!! LOL
A little known fact.....
A little known fact.....
The first testicular guard "Cup" was used in Ice Hockey in 1874 - the first helmet was used in 1974.
It took 100 years for men to realize that the brain is also important.
~ Hockey Humour
The first testicular guard "Cup" was used in Ice Hockey in 1874 - the first helmet was used in 1974.
It took 100 years for men to realize that the brain is also important.
~ Hockey Humour
RE: A little known fact.....
The date for the first helmet in hockey is wayyyyyyy off. It happened much earlier. Just search wikipedia.
I am not sure about the date for the use of the first cup. I gave up searching after I saw too many pictures which made me want to run to see as many hot instant action hosts as possible to remove the images from my brain. There was a reference to the first modern jockstrap being used in 1874, the date you provided, but I am not sure about cups.
I am not sure about the date for the use of the first cup. I gave up searching after I saw too many pictures which made me want to run to see as many hot instant action hosts as possible to remove the images from my brain. There was a reference to the first modern jockstrap being used in 1874, the date you provided, but I am not sure about cups.
RE: STILL A little known fact.....
The game of Ice Hockey is thought to have begun in the year 1800. The first officially organized indoor game played March 3, 1875 at the Victoria Skating Rink in Muntreal, Quebec. Due to flying pucks, and sticks, men were very much aware of what a puck in the genitals or a stick beween the legs could do to a player, creating an advantage for the opposing team. Wearing a "cup" was much more in tune with gaining an advantage then safety.
A helmet did not become a serious consideration until after 1968 when the National Hockey League had its first fatality due to a head injury (B. Masterton - Minn NorthStars). Soon after, helmets became popular in European and Russian leagues, but helmets continued to be rejected and shunned in North America much more than Europe. ( With the advent of helmets the game changed a little - high sticks became much more common place. )
Helmets for players in the NHL were rare until the 1970s. On several occasions, prototypes and designs were proposed. With few exceptions, they were turned down by the league or shunned by the players. In 1970 a mandatory hemet rule was still voted down in the NHL, even after the fatality. In the 1974 -1975 season helmets began to be accepted - there was an average of 5 players to wear helmets in the NHL.
During the 1979 season, protective helmets became mandatory in the NHL by Commisioner Zeigler for all new players joining the league. Veteran players who signed a waiver and were already in the league could opt out of wearing a helmet.
Craig MacTavish, of the St. Louis Blues, was the last helmet-less NHL player, skating his final season in 1995-1996.
Aug 27, 1992 - Girls will think you're dumb - not sexy - if you play hockey without a helmet, a group of young hockey players at the Kitchener, Ontario Hockey School said Wednesday. "They'd probably think you were kind of stupid," said 12-year- old W. Haynes of Kitchener. "I think they'd like you wearing ...
*Goalie Masks
The first person to wear a goalie mask in a game was Elizabeth Graham. In 1927, Elizabeth put on a fencing mask to protect her face. However, masks only became widely used after Canadiens' goalie J. Plante began wearing one in 1959, after having broken his skull, cheekbones, nose and jaw! Goalie C. Benedict was the first to design a hockey mask. It was made out of leather. He wore it for only a game or two in 1929.
THE POINT OF THE ORIGINAL POST WAS - the jock strap "Cup" was first used for sports in 1874. The helmet was NOT officially used in Hockey until 1979, so more than 100 years later they figured out the 'upper' head was worth something too.
A helmet did not become a serious consideration until after 1968 when the National Hockey League had its first fatality due to a head injury (B. Masterton - Minn NorthStars). Soon after, helmets became popular in European and Russian leagues, but helmets continued to be rejected and shunned in North America much more than Europe. ( With the advent of helmets the game changed a little - high sticks became much more common place. )
Helmets for players in the NHL were rare until the 1970s. On several occasions, prototypes and designs were proposed. With few exceptions, they were turned down by the league or shunned by the players. In 1970 a mandatory hemet rule was still voted down in the NHL, even after the fatality. In the 1974 -1975 season helmets began to be accepted - there was an average of 5 players to wear helmets in the NHL.
During the 1979 season, protective helmets became mandatory in the NHL by Commisioner Zeigler for all new players joining the league. Veteran players who signed a waiver and were already in the league could opt out of wearing a helmet.
Craig MacTavish, of the St. Louis Blues, was the last helmet-less NHL player, skating his final season in 1995-1996.
Aug 27, 1992 - Girls will think you're dumb - not sexy - if you play hockey without a helmet, a group of young hockey players at the Kitchener, Ontario Hockey School said Wednesday. "They'd probably think you were kind of stupid," said 12-year- old W. Haynes of Kitchener. "I think they'd like you wearing ...
*Goalie Masks
The first person to wear a goalie mask in a game was Elizabeth Graham. In 1927, Elizabeth put on a fencing mask to protect her face. However, masks only became widely used after Canadiens' goalie J. Plante began wearing one in 1959, after having broken his skull, cheekbones, nose and jaw! Goalie C. Benedict was the first to design a hockey mask. It was made out of leather. He wore it for only a game or two in 1929.
THE POINT OF THE ORIGINAL POST WAS - the jock strap "Cup" was first used for sports in 1874. The helmet was NOT officially used in Hockey until 1979, so more than 100 years later they figured out the 'upper' head was worth something too.
RE: STILL A little known fact.....
Yes isn't it interesting that once it was unthinkable to wear a helmet.
Now as those Kitchner boys said it is unthinkable to not wear a helmet.
Puffina?
Now as those Kitchner boys said it is unthinkable to not wear a helmet.
Puffina?
RE: STILL A little known fact.....
Yes, the history was interesting, but good lord, the first post was a joke -- from email, no less! I'm curious if you two had a chance to enjoy the humor, or if you were too busy refuting the supposed facts?
RE: STILL A little known fact.....
my post was intended for NICE TRY, BUT... Obviously KACH enjoyed the joke, since he posted it LOL
RE: STILL A little known fact.....
"the first helmet was used in 1974" ..... this is definitely wrong.
As to the general use of helmets in the NHL, you would be correct, but your first post was in error.
In terms of protecting one's head, pucks did not fly around as high and as fast as they do now. Without taking the time to research it, I believe, for example, that the curved blade was not used until the 1950's or 1960's and was discovered when a player accidently had his blade bent. (Might have been Bobby Hull.) This allowed the puck to roll off of the stick and be fired higher and harder which is probably why they started to use goalie masks. I suppose that this then led to the use of helmets.
Ironically, guys cheap shot each other's heads and faces a lot more now that there are helmets so in a way the helmet (and shields) have led to more serious injuries. They respected each other's heads more when they didn't have them on. I guess that guys do not respect each other's balls, lol, so without a cup, they were in great danger. You would think it would have been the opposite and guy's would respect balls more than heads according to your initial post, lol, but the fact that a cup was necessary before a helmet would show this was not the case.
As to the general use of helmets in the NHL, you would be correct, but your first post was in error.
In terms of protecting one's head, pucks did not fly around as high and as fast as they do now. Without taking the time to research it, I believe, for example, that the curved blade was not used until the 1950's or 1960's and was discovered when a player accidently had his blade bent. (Might have been Bobby Hull.) This allowed the puck to roll off of the stick and be fired higher and harder which is probably why they started to use goalie masks. I suppose that this then led to the use of helmets.
Ironically, guys cheap shot each other's heads and faces a lot more now that there are helmets so in a way the helmet (and shields) have led to more serious injuries. They respected each other's heads more when they didn't have them on. I guess that guys do not respect each other's balls, lol, so without a cup, they were in great danger. You would think it would have been the opposite and guy's would respect balls more than heads according to your initial post, lol, but the fact that a cup was necessary before a helmet would show this was not the case.
RE: STILL A little known fact.....
"the first ^official^ helmet was used in 1974" ..... this is definitely < CORRECT >. < The first post was correct, was a general statement avoiding TMI for sake of brevity as the MAIN FOCUS was the bottom line. >
". . .pucks did not fly around as high and as fast as they do now.. ." < pucks were not vulcanized rubber as they are now. The game has used many objects: small balls, frozen potatoes, frozen dung, snuff cans, wooden discs etc...>
Raised pucks, sticks and collisions caused face and head injuries to goalies (and players) long before the '50s & 60's as you state. ( A curved stick does make it easier to raise/lift a puck, however that does not preclude raised / lifted pucks with a straight stick).
Goalies, Goaltenders, Netminders - originally wore masks. The other players would eventually wear helmets. Goalie masks were being improvised and used much earlier than the '50s & 60's as you site [reference my 2nd post - fencing masks, leather, fiberglass] . The principle being to avoid lacerations and contusions from a blunt force, and to disperse the point contact energy across the entire face and head, to avoid broken eye sockets, nose, cheek & jaw bones, concussions or death. The last NHL goaltender to play without a mask was A. Brown 1974. ( hmm 1974 again! )
Goalie masks were replaced by Helmet/Caged Mask combinations such as those popularized by Vladislav Tretiak, the Russian goalie who competed in the 1972 Soviet Union - vs- Canada Summit Series. Full head composite material mask/helmets are now a much safer alternative.
B. Hull in particular was a proponent of the "banana blade" in the 1960's. Other players in earlier decades realized the advantages of a curved blade and actully broke the straight blades to get a curve. This curve allowed "cupping" of the puck and when shot produced erratic results.
". . .guys cheap shot each other's heads and faces a lot more now that there are helmets . . . " ====>>> < from original post "With the advent of helmets the game changed a little - high sticks became much more common place." >
" . . . without a cup, they were in great danger . . ." =====>>> < from original post " men were very much aware of what a puck in the genitals or a stick beween the legs could do to a player, CREATING AN ADVANTAGE for the opposing team. Wearing a "cup" was much more in tune with GAINING AN ADVANTAGE then for SAFETY. ">
THE BOTTOM LINE - the "Cup" was used for sports more than 100 years earlier than a Helmet. This shows the value of the family jewels relative to one's noggin.
". . .pucks did not fly around as high and as fast as they do now.. ." < pucks were not vulcanized rubber as they are now. The game has used many objects: small balls, frozen potatoes, frozen dung, snuff cans, wooden discs etc...>
Raised pucks, sticks and collisions caused face and head injuries to goalies (and players) long before the '50s & 60's as you state. ( A curved stick does make it easier to raise/lift a puck, however that does not preclude raised / lifted pucks with a straight stick).
Goalies, Goaltenders, Netminders - originally wore masks. The other players would eventually wear helmets. Goalie masks were being improvised and used much earlier than the '50s & 60's as you site [reference my 2nd post - fencing masks, leather, fiberglass] . The principle being to avoid lacerations and contusions from a blunt force, and to disperse the point contact energy across the entire face and head, to avoid broken eye sockets, nose, cheek & jaw bones, concussions or death. The last NHL goaltender to play without a mask was A. Brown 1974. ( hmm 1974 again! )
Goalie masks were replaced by Helmet/Caged Mask combinations such as those popularized by Vladislav Tretiak, the Russian goalie who competed in the 1972 Soviet Union - vs- Canada Summit Series. Full head composite material mask/helmets are now a much safer alternative.
B. Hull in particular was a proponent of the "banana blade" in the 1960's. Other players in earlier decades realized the advantages of a curved blade and actully broke the straight blades to get a curve. This curve allowed "cupping" of the puck and when shot produced erratic results.
". . .guys cheap shot each other's heads and faces a lot more now that there are helmets . . . " ====>>> < from original post "With the advent of helmets the game changed a little - high sticks became much more common place." >
" . . . without a cup, they were in great danger . . ." =====>>> < from original post " men were very much aware of what a puck in the genitals or a stick beween the legs could do to a player, CREATING AN ADVANTAGE for the opposing team. Wearing a "cup" was much more in tune with GAINING AN ADVANTAGE then for SAFETY. ">
THE BOTTOM LINE - the "Cup" was used for sports more than 100 years earlier than a Helmet. This shows the value of the family jewels relative to one's noggin.
RE: STILL A little known fact.....
You never said "official". I don't even think you mentioned the "NHL" in the original post... You said....
"The first testicular guard 'Cup' was used in Ice Hockey in 1874 - the first helmet was used in 1974."
So you were wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy off and wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy wrong, lol. I don't know about the MUntreal Maroons or Canadians, but I believe that the Toronto Maple Leafs used helmets in the 1930's or something like that which is wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy before 1974.
Again, nice try but your post is notttttttttttttttttttttt accurate regardless of how much hockey knowlege you spew out, lol. The point of the post might be correct, but the "facts" you supply are notttttttttttttttttttttttttttttt accurate.
"The first testicular guard 'Cup' was used in Ice Hockey in 1874 - the first helmet was used in 1974."
So you were wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy off and wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy wrong, lol. I don't know about the MUntreal Maroons or Canadians, but I believe that the Toronto Maple Leafs used helmets in the 1930's or something like that which is wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy before 1974.
Again, nice try but your post is notttttttttttttttttttttt accurate regardless of how much hockey knowlege you spew out, lol. The point of the post might be correct, but the "facts" you supply are notttttttttttttttttttttttttttttt accurate.
RE: STILL A little known fact.....
yeah .... why do those ice hockey girlies need protection down there anyway ?? :)
RE: Hands up Montréal !
Well it is spelled - Montréal. I wrote Muntréal on purpose - to take into account the spoken accent which I enjoy so much.
to divorce or not to divorce
I want to divorce my husband because he has called me whore and a bitch,i never cheated on him,he says i am a whore because of what i do in here,stripping in cam,but he knew what i m doing from before we got married and he was always ok with that,plus he was living also out of the money i am making here because he earns very little money from his job,do you think its fair of him to call me names only because of my job here????and also after only 6 months we got married?what would u do girls if you were me????is it worth it to go ahead with a marriage with no respect of him towards me?
RE: to divorce or not to divorce
very sensible advise, unusual for cc forum expect many shouts to divorce the b*st*rd but as you say only the original poster can help herself as she knows the full picture.
RE: to divorce or not to divorce
There are hurtful things you should never say to a loved one, and this is one of them. Only you know if you have it in your heart to forgive him, if he deserves it.
For me, something like this would be very difficult to let go of, because to me it indicates a fundamental lack of respect for you. I wish you all the best.
For me, something like this would be very difficult to let go of, because to me it indicates a fundamental lack of respect for you. I wish you all the best.
RE: to divorce or not to divorce
What he said was wrong and hurtful. But have you told him that you will not tolerate a husband calls you such names?
You'd be amazed how little men understand about how much their words can hurt.
As Jenn said, we will forget this soon. You will be living with your decision for life.
You'd be amazed how little men understand about how much their words can hurt.
As Jenn said, we will forget this soon. You will be living with your decision for life.
RE: to divorce or not to divorce
He dont have to respect your work but should not call you bad names
RE: to divorce or not to divorce
Im sure you dont allow him have onlinesex wiith other girls because this is work not for fun. The problem you both have is that your husband knows its not work to the other part you show pussy to and other men dont respect him because of what you do.
RE: to divorce or not to divorce
jeez, there's a lot of "holier than thou" going on in this thread
RE: to divorce or not to divorce
this performer was more then stripping .. mayb hot toy shows, virtual bf text message, yahoo, ICQ,community chat meetings, western union gifts, email plans to meet member where is the line.. mayb husband married in hopes host give up site work if performers want fairytale marriage you cant have it sorry as " whore & slut" will be thought of hosts by all...sorry Hosts but I say he divorce her and find a faithful woman you choose this work you pay price for easy money
RE: to divorce or not to divorce
I would say first of all, that I hope you won't make your decision to divorce or not based only on the advice in this forum. The decision is too important. And not knowing the full story (his side, I mean), any advice given here should be offered cautiously. It is too easy to give advice, but not all advice is right or good. Not all advice is given impartially or with good intentions. And not all advice is given from those who are qualified to give it.
So please... be careful. Seek out a qualified marriage counselor, who can help the two of you work out this problem. Sometimes marriages do reach a point of no return and cannot be saved, but I think the majority of times marriages can be saved, if a couple is willing to work at it and make important changes in their relationship and how they respond to each other.. A professional may help you communicate your feelings with each other in a more helpful way than just name-calling, can help you develop better patterns of relating with each other, and can help you deal with your emotions and feelings.
The marriage vows generally have to do with faithfulness to each other and one of the primary aspects of that faithfulness is sexual fidelity. It may be, as one has suggested above, that he is simply jealous. Or it could be that, even though he was outwardly accepting of your work before you got married, maybe deep down inside it violates his sense of sexual fidelity. Maybe he was blind to his true feelings, or simply denied them. Often we enter marriage with unrealistic expectations that our partner will change, that problems will suddenly disappear, and everything will be perfect. Now, perhaps reality has set in for him.
Then, too, I have observed that many people (even those who frequent this site as customers) view what hosts do as virtual prostitution. And it is easy to understand that thinking, because most hosts are selling sexual services, even if it is only in a virtual environment, and no actual intercourse takes place.
So, please, be careful. It may be that nothing can be done to save your marriage. But, with proper help, maybe this problem can be worked through and your marriage can come through it stronger and better, and your love for each other deeper.
I would ask you to consider two questions: (1) Did you love each other before you got married and do you love each other now? and (2) What do you want to happen, and are you willing to do what needs to be done to make it happen?
It suspect that your husband was not fully honest with himself about his true feelings, and not just with you.
So please... be careful. Seek out a qualified marriage counselor, who can help the two of you work out this problem. Sometimes marriages do reach a point of no return and cannot be saved, but I think the majority of times marriages can be saved, if a couple is willing to work at it and make important changes in their relationship and how they respond to each other.. A professional may help you communicate your feelings with each other in a more helpful way than just name-calling, can help you develop better patterns of relating with each other, and can help you deal with your emotions and feelings.
The marriage vows generally have to do with faithfulness to each other and one of the primary aspects of that faithfulness is sexual fidelity. It may be, as one has suggested above, that he is simply jealous. Or it could be that, even though he was outwardly accepting of your work before you got married, maybe deep down inside it violates his sense of sexual fidelity. Maybe he was blind to his true feelings, or simply denied them. Often we enter marriage with unrealistic expectations that our partner will change, that problems will suddenly disappear, and everything will be perfect. Now, perhaps reality has set in for him.
Then, too, I have observed that many people (even those who frequent this site as customers) view what hosts do as virtual prostitution. And it is easy to understand that thinking, because most hosts are selling sexual services, even if it is only in a virtual environment, and no actual intercourse takes place.
So, please, be careful. It may be that nothing can be done to save your marriage. But, with proper help, maybe this problem can be worked through and your marriage can come through it stronger and better, and your love for each other deeper.
I would ask you to consider two questions: (1) Did you love each other before you got married and do you love each other now? and (2) What do you want to happen, and are you willing to do what needs to be done to make it happen?
It suspect that your husband was not fully honest with himself about his true feelings, and not just with you.
RE: to divorce or not to divorce
I would add one more question. After re-reading your post, you say "I want to divorce my husband." So the question I am asking is: "Do you really want advice, or do you just want us to rubber-stamp ... that is give approval... to the decision you have already made?"
I will also add, that in my previous post, I did not mean to imply that your husband was without fault, or that his name-calling was right. The names were terrible names to call you and do indicate disrespect. But I do think the problem goes deeper than just the name-calling.
I will also add, that in my previous post, I did not mean to imply that your husband was without fault, or that his name-calling was right. The names were terrible names to call you and do indicate disrespect. But I do think the problem goes deeper than just the name-calling.
RE: to divorce or not to divorce
1.A prostitute.
2.A person considered sexually promiscuous.
3.A person considered as having compromised principles for personal gain.
4.To accept payment in exchange for sexual relations
2.A person considered sexually promiscuous.
3.A person considered as having compromised principles for personal gain.
4.To accept payment in exchange for sexual relations
RE: to divorce or not to divorce
if he calls u a whore, but he lives off the money, i guess that makes him a pimp, yes?
how do I tell her I love her?
its a dilema thats been bugging me for some time, I have a friend..ok more than just a friend that I like very much, we do many things together without yet being b/f g/f , I really do want to step it up to the next level, I really amin love with this lady..and I am sure she as some feelings for me too..I am enjoying the present situation very much, but I would be scared to ruin it all by telling her how much I really care for her..advise please
RE: how do I tell her I love her?
"....we do many things together without yet being b/f g/f ..."
It does not sound like he is talking about CC. Perhaps he should clarify.
It does not sound like he is talking about CC. Perhaps he should clarify.
RE: how do I tell her I love her?
very true,it is a real life thing and not fantasy, sorry if some posters got the wrong impression.
RE: how do I tell her I love her?
Im the OP , tell me exactly where I actually said that she worked at CC please?
RE: how do I tell her I love her?
It sounds like you might be talking about something in "real" since you say that you do many things together. If CC, then just be honest and direct since there is not really another choice. But if "real", I suggest one of two options.
First, you could just be honest about your feelings. Don't overstate them and scare her, just be more casual and relaxed about it. Maybe even be more subtle and bring up the topic to relationships and say something like "I only wish that I could find a woman that I got along with as well as I get along with you. It is so important to be friends first." Then she will probably say something like "Yeah, it really is important to have a solid friendship as the basis for a romantic relationship." And then you can say something like "I know. I just feel closer to you than anybody."
You will need to feel her out at this point based on her response. Without leaping to conclusions because of your desire for a relationship, you need to look for clues as to her interest in you in that way. If she doesn't give you any signs of interest, then immediately bail and say something like, "You know. I'm hungry. Want some pizza?" Pick enough of a romantic location and time like a park on a sunny day with just a few people around to start the conversation, but someplace that gives you a way to bail in the way I suggested. A park not too far from stores or restaurants where you can suggest food or window shopping would be perfect. And of course if she does give you a sign she might want more, then let the conversation just flow naturally. Either way, you at least planted the idea in her head, and if you are not to pushy and follow her lead, you can preserve the friendship and maybe have something more.
The second option would be to create a romantic mood when you meet in the future. Suggest going to a nice restaurant that is more romantic, perhaps one near a nice park where you can take a romantic walk afterwards. Maybe just hold her hand and see how things go. If no signs from her, then don't force the issue. But keep doing romantic type boyfriend-girlfriend things like romantic dinners, ice skating, walks in the park, et cetera. Basically, try to create the mood and avoid the buddy type stuff like going out for a beer and grabbing lunch to chat. Make your meetings more of the romantic type. As you create the mood, sooner or later, if things are meant to be, it will happen.
Also remember she is probably smart enough to pick up on what you're doing sooner or later. Be prepared for the abrupt statement of her valuing your friendship as it is and not wanting more. Don't try to change her mind at that point if you want to preserve the friendship. She has made her decision. And just like on CC, the best way to get over a broken heart is to see other women. Who knows? Maybe as you date other women and spend less time with this person, she will start to have second thoughts about her decision.
First, you could just be honest about your feelings. Don't overstate them and scare her, just be more casual and relaxed about it. Maybe even be more subtle and bring up the topic to relationships and say something like "I only wish that I could find a woman that I got along with as well as I get along with you. It is so important to be friends first." Then she will probably say something like "Yeah, it really is important to have a solid friendship as the basis for a romantic relationship." And then you can say something like "I know. I just feel closer to you than anybody."
You will need to feel her out at this point based on her response. Without leaping to conclusions because of your desire for a relationship, you need to look for clues as to her interest in you in that way. If she doesn't give you any signs of interest, then immediately bail and say something like, "You know. I'm hungry. Want some pizza?" Pick enough of a romantic location and time like a park on a sunny day with just a few people around to start the conversation, but someplace that gives you a way to bail in the way I suggested. A park not too far from stores or restaurants where you can suggest food or window shopping would be perfect. And of course if she does give you a sign she might want more, then let the conversation just flow naturally. Either way, you at least planted the idea in her head, and if you are not to pushy and follow her lead, you can preserve the friendship and maybe have something more.
The second option would be to create a romantic mood when you meet in the future. Suggest going to a nice restaurant that is more romantic, perhaps one near a nice park where you can take a romantic walk afterwards. Maybe just hold her hand and see how things go. If no signs from her, then don't force the issue. But keep doing romantic type boyfriend-girlfriend things like romantic dinners, ice skating, walks in the park, et cetera. Basically, try to create the mood and avoid the buddy type stuff like going out for a beer and grabbing lunch to chat. Make your meetings more of the romantic type. As you create the mood, sooner or later, if things are meant to be, it will happen.
Also remember she is probably smart enough to pick up on what you're doing sooner or later. Be prepared for the abrupt statement of her valuing your friendship as it is and not wanting more. Don't try to change her mind at that point if you want to preserve the friendship. She has made her decision. And just like on CC, the best way to get over a broken heart is to see other women. Who knows? Maybe as you date other women and spend less time with this person, she will start to have second thoughts about her decision.
RE: how do I tell her I love her?
The longer you wait, the harder it becomes. If you get the 'look' at any time - take a step forward and hold eye contact. You must make it known that you are available to get closer - if the invitation is there then dont go shy
RE: how do I tell her I love her?
Ive been in that situation twice in the past. 1st time i made a move, we got together for a little while and within 6 months we would ignore each other if we passed in the street.
The 2nd girl i never told, i gradually stopped spending so much time with her, and focused on other woman. We are still great friends, and i think i value that more then the risk of it going so wrong, as the 1st 1 did.
The 2nd girl i never told, i gradually stopped spending so much time with her, and focused on other woman. We are still great friends, and i think i value that more then the risk of it going so wrong, as the 1st 1 did.
RE: how do I tell her I love her?
If you tell her the truth it is unlikely that you will look back in a few years and kick yourself for it.
If you say nothing, you may just look back and wonder why you let fear get in the way of something that might have been good.
I say be confident and be honest - which is exactly what women seem to like. Maybe things will work out, maybe they won't.
If nothing else, you are being honest with your friend - and that is what friends are - the people you can be honest with.
Just my .02.
If you say nothing, you may just look back and wonder why you let fear get in the way of something that might have been good.
I say be confident and be honest - which is exactly what women seem to like. Maybe things will work out, maybe they won't.
If nothing else, you are being honest with your friend - and that is what friends are - the people you can be honest with.
Just my .02.
RE: how do I tell her I love her?
By far the best piece of advice so far I think... in fact, I have nothing more to add at all.
RE: how do I tell her I love her?
Thanks Epon E Mouse. Hopefully things will work out for the OP.
RE: how do I tell her I love her?
* Making it clear from the very beginning, i KNOW you are talking about a real life issue*
1. I know exactly what you're talking about. (LOL)
2. Do NOT tell her anything! Just enjoy your time together like you did so far, she probably has feelings for you too, otherwise you would only do ONE thing together.
3. Before getting into such personal conversations with her discuss...Feelings in general, find out if she's ready or willing to get involved to that level.
And seriously, no need to talk, some things are supposed to be felt, then it all comes naturally.
1. I know exactly what you're talking about. (LOL)
2. Do NOT tell her anything! Just enjoy your time together like you did so far, she probably has feelings for you too, otherwise you would only do ONE thing together.
3. Before getting into such personal conversations with her discuss...Feelings in general, find out if she's ready or willing to get involved to that level.
And seriously, no need to talk, some things are supposed to be felt, then it all comes naturally.
so many hours online???
im notice that some of cc hosts are "living" on cc, for example darlinghelen or yourjewel,spending online 12-14 hours everyday on cc ,AT LEAST last 1 year.!!!congrats girls!if ever will b a contest"the most patient girls" u must b first winers there;)..what is ur secret girls????im geting tired of pc very fast.. and love to have some fan outside..:D
RE: so many hours online???
12 hours at home,must b difficult,,no fresh air,no fun at street with friends..before i worked 10 hoiurs everyday,and i lost all my friends in real..so now im prefer to LIVE too...take care of urself girls :)xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
RE: so many hours online???
I know some russian studio girls sleep on same mattress then work sites... sleep... then work sites 7 days a week and been doing this over 6 years now
RE: so many hours online???
yeah,, at studia its must b even more dificult than at home,,but i think girls must2 take vacations at least 1 time a year:(....somtimes i think that i must to work harder,but then i think about ,that impossible 2 earn all the money in the world,AND MY HEALTH IS MORE IMPORTANT2 ME....:D
RE: so many hours online???
I'm a member but I have always wondered about that too. The physical and emotional stress of spending too much time here must be huge.
We don't want you girls (and guys) harming yourselves. Take a little time for yourselves, we'll still be here when you get back. Just remember to tell your regulars so that they aren't posting worried notes in this forum asking after you.
We don't want you girls (and guys) harming yourselves. Take a little time for yourselves, we'll still be here when you get back. Just remember to tell your regulars so that they aren't posting worried notes in this forum asking after you.
RE: so many hours online???
hmm,i prefer2 earn a bit slower,well i needed 2 years for buy apartaments instead of 1 ,but my life is fun and great,i walking alot,i traveling,i see alot of interesting things around,,and enjoy my life,but if girls need money very fast,then yes,,:D
RE: so many hours online???
Learn to read, she was not saying anything bad about the amount of time that you spend online. She was talking about how she spent may hours online so that she could get the things she wanted out of life.
Don't be so quick to think she is being rude. Also, more power to you if you stay online for many hours, I am sure there is something that you are working for and you will get it if you keep working hard. :)
Don't be so quick to think she is being rude. Also, more power to you if you stay online for many hours, I am sure there is something that you are working for and you will get it if you keep working hard. :)
RE: so many hours online???
500$ a day???:O u r rock.i can do it only in 12 hours,,and even not4 sure:P,woww i wish i can do 500$ aday:(((.but 200 is enought for me,,and btw im addicted too:P.,but even with my addiction,can find 4-5 hours for fun.. PS: want 500$ aday :)))))))))))))))))))))):DDD(IN A 3 HOURS;)
RE: so many hours online???
yes, i agree;) like with many things in ur life, u just need to relax and take it easy;) no need to think of it all the time..i work here, i know i will have appartment of my own in 1-2 years...and things are just great;) i still go to gym and pool 3 times a week, meet with friends, go on dates and even can handle some regular job! and still have at least about 8 hrs for cc:) make a strict schedule, girls and u will have time for everything;)
RE: so many hours online???
haven't got anything to say, just wanted to post a really long handle.
Installing the Love Program
Customer: I can do that. I'm not very technical, but I think I am ready to install now. What do I do first?
Tech Support: The first step is to open your HEART. Have you located your HEART ma'am?
Customer: Yes I have, but there are several programs running right now. Is it okay to install while they are running?
Tech Support: What programs are running ma'am?
Customer: Let me see... I have PASTHURT.EXE, LOWESTEEM.EXE, GRUDGE.EXE, and RESENTMENT.COM running right now.
Tech Support: No problem. LOVE will automatically erase PASTHURT.EXE from your current operating system. It may remain in your permanent memory, but it will no longer disrupt other programs. LOVE will eventually overwrite LOWESTEEM.EXE with a module of its own called HIGHESTEEM.EXE However,you have to completely turn off GRUDGE.EXE and RESENTMENT.COM. Those programs prevent LOVE from being properly installed. Can you turn those off ma'am?
Customer: I don't know how to turn them off. Can you tell me how?
Tech Support: My pleasure. Go to your Start menu and invoke FORGIVENESS.EXE. Do this as many times as necessary until GRUDGE.EXE and RESENTMENT.COM have been completely erased.
Customer: Okay, I'm done. LOVE has started installing itself automatically. Is that normal?
Tech Support: Yes it is. You should receive a message that says it will reinstall for the life of your HEART. Do you see that message?
Customer: Yes I do. Is it completely installed?
Tech Support: Yes, but remember that you have only the base program. You need to begin connecting to other HEARTS in order to get the upgrades.
Customer: Oops...I have an error message already. What should I do?
Tech Support: What does the message say?
Customer: It says "ERROR 412 - PROGRAM NOT RUN ON INTERNAL COMPONENTS". What does that mean?
Tech Support: Don't worry ma'am, that's a common problem.It means that the LOVE program is set up to run on external HEARTS but has not yet been run on your HEART. It is one of those complicated programming things, but in non-technical terms it means - "you have to 'LOVE' your own machine before it can "LOVE" others."
Customer: So what should I do?
Tech Support: Can you find the directory called "SELF-ACCEPTANCE"?
Customer: Yes, I have it.
Tech Support: Excellent, you are getting good at this.
Customer: Thank you.
Tech Support: You're welcome. Click on the following files and then copy them to the "MYHEART" directory: FORGIVESELF.DOC, SELFESTEEM.TXT, REALIZEWORTH.TXT, and GOODNESS.DOC. The system will overwrite any conflicting files and begin patching any faulty programming. Also, you need to delete SELFCRITIC.EXE from all directories, and then empty your recycle bin afterwards to make sure it is completely gone and never comes back.
Customer: Got it. Hey! My HEART is filling up with really neat files. SMILE.MPG is playing on my monitor right now and it shows that WARMTH.COM, PEACE.EXE, and CONTENTMENT.COM are copying themselves all over my HEART!
Tech Support: Then LOVE is installed and running. You should be able to handle it from here. One more thing before I go.
Customer: Yes?
Tech Support: LOVE is freeware. Be sure to give it and its various modules to everybody you meet.They will in turn share it with other people and they will return some really neat modules back to you.
Customer: I will. Thank you for your help
Tech Support: The first step is to open your HEART. Have you located your HEART ma'am?
Customer: Yes I have, but there are several programs running right now. Is it okay to install while they are running?
Tech Support: What programs are running ma'am?
Customer: Let me see... I have PASTHURT.EXE, LOWESTEEM.EXE, GRUDGE.EXE, and RESENTMENT.COM running right now.
Tech Support: No problem. LOVE will automatically erase PASTHURT.EXE from your current operating system. It may remain in your permanent memory, but it will no longer disrupt other programs. LOVE will eventually overwrite LOWESTEEM.EXE with a module of its own called HIGHESTEEM.EXE However,you have to completely turn off GRUDGE.EXE and RESENTMENT.COM. Those programs prevent LOVE from being properly installed. Can you turn those off ma'am?
Customer: I don't know how to turn them off. Can you tell me how?
Tech Support: My pleasure. Go to your Start menu and invoke FORGIVENESS.EXE. Do this as many times as necessary until GRUDGE.EXE and RESENTMENT.COM have been completely erased.
Customer: Okay, I'm done. LOVE has started installing itself automatically. Is that normal?
Tech Support: Yes it is. You should receive a message that says it will reinstall for the life of your HEART. Do you see that message?
Customer: Yes I do. Is it completely installed?
Tech Support: Yes, but remember that you have only the base program. You need to begin connecting to other HEARTS in order to get the upgrades.
Customer: Oops...I have an error message already. What should I do?
Tech Support: What does the message say?
Customer: It says "ERROR 412 - PROGRAM NOT RUN ON INTERNAL COMPONENTS". What does that mean?
Tech Support: Don't worry ma'am, that's a common problem.It means that the LOVE program is set up to run on external HEARTS but has not yet been run on your HEART. It is one of those complicated programming things, but in non-technical terms it means - "you have to 'LOVE' your own machine before it can "LOVE" others."
Customer: So what should I do?
Tech Support: Can you find the directory called "SELF-ACCEPTANCE"?
Customer: Yes, I have it.
Tech Support: Excellent, you are getting good at this.
Customer: Thank you.
Tech Support: You're welcome. Click on the following files and then copy them to the "MYHEART" directory: FORGIVESELF.DOC, SELFESTEEM.TXT, REALIZEWORTH.TXT, and GOODNESS.DOC. The system will overwrite any conflicting files and begin patching any faulty programming. Also, you need to delete SELFCRITIC.EXE from all directories, and then empty your recycle bin afterwards to make sure it is completely gone and never comes back.
Customer: Got it. Hey! My HEART is filling up with really neat files. SMILE.MPG is playing on my monitor right now and it shows that WARMTH.COM, PEACE.EXE, and CONTENTMENT.COM are copying themselves all over my HEART!
Tech Support: Then LOVE is installed and running. You should be able to handle it from here. One more thing before I go.
Customer: Yes?
Tech Support: LOVE is freeware. Be sure to give it and its various modules to everybody you meet.They will in turn share it with other people and they will return some really neat modules back to you.
Customer: I will. Thank you for your help
hmm-survey
is it me or others--the chat here seems not interested that much anymore from the host---what do you think
RE: hmm-survey
i have a thought, maybe we all should change screen names and host names and start all over
RE: hmm-survey
I guess conversation here is just like chat anywhere else. Both parties have to be interesting to stimulate a like response. Ask dull questions and you get dull, bored replies.
RE: hmm-survey
This forum used to be quite political in it's day with a wide range of subjects taking place which stirred up peoples emotions.
Howver, I don't know whether CC have changed there censorship rules or if its a lot of people have just moved onto other sites. but yep it's certainly not as controversial these days as this forum once was..
Howver, I don't know whether CC have changed there censorship rules or if its a lot of people have just moved onto other sites. but yep it's certainly not as controversial these days as this forum once was..
RE: hmm-survey
I dunno about that - in real and virtual, I like sometimes to accept people as they are and them me without classification by age, location etc... It can make for more spontaneous and interesting conversations.
RE: hmm-survey
I think the best way to start a conversation is to just be honest.
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Hey baby show me that ass! Stand up, turn around, C'mon baby why you taking so long? Dang baby i'm about to cum and u ain't even undressed yet! Oops, Came. bye bb, thx!
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Hey baby show me that ass! Stand up, turn around, C'mon baby why you taking so long? Dang baby i'm about to cum and u ain't even undressed yet! Oops, Came. bye bb, thx!
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