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Ah we've all been there :) Or is that just me ??????

It has been a long time since I used to do this job but I can remember the best moments I spent with members were the ones not pressured by money or time, the moments with 0.50 cents/video or even the free sessions (and no, I'm not an incognito member trying to convince hosts to do free sessions hehe). The one moment that will remain with me forever is the day I recieved 21 roses from a guy who wasnt even registered on the site...he insisted to send me the flowers for my birthday because I spent several hours chatting with him as a guest. I didnt want any money from him so he finally convinced me to accept the flowers. The next day the white roses were at my door :). It was very sweet, too bad we didn't keep in touch, we only chatted that night and sent each other a few emails.

so why did you mention the dog?

wasnt she in bulgaria tonight ?

She made a referance to gipsies (romas) being discriminated in Eastern Europe. Because of the word resemblence (romas vs romanians) some ppl in the public thought that she was referring to romanians. Anyway, most of them understood what she actually said and she was boo'd for that- ppl considered the reference to gipsies was totally inapropiate as she has absolutelly no clue about how gipsies really are (she probably lives in a fantasy world thinking gipsies are cool ppl that travel around the world and dance around the fire). We deal with this problem everyday so it wasnt fair she made that statement.

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Well, to be fair, that was sort of Madonna's point. Speaking AS a Westerner...and since she has several gypsies who are members of her troupe on this particular tour...she can't understand (from her point of view) why gypsies get such a bad rap in Romania. To her, people are just people. So since she was doing a concert in Bucharest, she figured she would support the gypsies in her troupe and ask for more tolerance in Romania. Of course, when you're an entertainer and you take a political stand...especially when you're in a foreign country that you're not familiar with...things can totally backfire on you. And as they're reporting on the world news, instead of getting cheers of support like she expected, instead Madonna got lots of loud boos. In fact, you can tell the incident left egg all over her face and she feels embarrassed and is quickly trying to back away from it all since her publicist has already issued a statement that Madonna will never talk about this again.

You are quite right, Westerners generally don't know. We have to rely on things that we are told by those who do know, Romanian hosts for instance. And my experience is that hosts have often been very dismissive and rude towards their gypsy population. It would hardly be surprising if the attitudes of the individual hosts are also manifest in the society as a whole in its treatment and attitude of the gypsies.

Don't forget there are often two sides to every story.

I am a westerner, have visited Romania, and hope to go back soon. I love many things about Romania especially my friends there and would consider moving there for the right woman. But there is definitely a problem there with gypsies. That doesn't mean that people should lump all of the gypsies together and say since some are bad, all are bad, but I can see how a person living there would get tired of dealing with them.

I should also add that I was in the nicer parts of the cities during my stay so I only got a small taste of what happens. The not as nice parts is where there can be a lot more serious problems.

For my part, I had Roma children begging me and my friends for money when they probably have more than every member here, lol. (Actually, not necessarily lol.) I had a Roma woman insult me in Romanian because I wouldn't buy the woman I was with a flower. (My friend didn't want me to do it, and the gypsy just walked into the restaurant and interrupted our dinner by the way.) And I have heard many stories from my friends about problems the gypsies cause.

I would highly doubt someone as recognizable as Madonna could ever have even the smallest taste of what life in Romania is like. For example, if she saw little roma children begging, she might think that they are just some homeless kids and would not understand that their parents are not all that far away waiting to take them home to some pretty nice flats. She really should not speak about things she has no idea about. But once again, none of this means that every Roma person is bad or that they should be mistreated.

Sounds like the problem could be resolved by giving them webcams and Internet access.

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Typical do-gooding celebrity. They think because they are celebrity that they have a right to pass judgment on others and that they are experts, when in fact they are often deluded with their own sense of importance, and know only a fraction of the truth. Just my opinion

you are absolutely right

Or sometimes an artist sees something that seems wrong, and she feels compelled to point out that it is wrong, without waiting for somebody to explain it all away.

This is what artists do. More power to Madonna for saying something.

Usually don't pay much attention to Madonna but then I read some of the comments in this thread. Maybe she had a point.

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hosts possess figments of our imagination--he loves the illusion he sees. It is a reflection of the desires he has created. you say she is lucky, but really, she is a bank for the deposit of his fantasies. Love is not an attraction; it is a choice. I'm just sayin'.

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All i am saying is that a man dying of thirst in a desert might think he sees an oasis of water, when in reality it is just sand reflecting the heat of the sun--it is all in his mind--the host is like the sand...desired, but for what he sees not what she is. I'm just sayin'. That's all

Ah, but no, she doesn't know it. He's playing a cat-and-mouse game hoping she can figure it out, when in reality dozens of hosts may think it is intended for them, dozens more may think it is from someone else (he did not post his name either). So who's lucky? He's given her nothing to go on, whoever she is.

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Im sure she will Love you too as long as your credit card works ))

yep, hope your love isn't too expensive, hopefully no more than 1.99 per minute lol, and that's in 121

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My perfect ending: Finding out that there is a heaven and that I am welcome there.

I'm hoping it will be totally unexpected ...... and I'm not found with my pants round my ankles in front of a PC screen :)

What do you mean ??????? That is my dream way to go :P

It's Leslie Grantham all over again!!

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Try bestxkitten

Try xhairypussy. Anni is cool and natural blonde too :)

pussycat19

Yeah......one shaved pussy does tend to look just like another shaved pussy doesn't it?

Wrong! Each shaved pussy has its own unique appearance. Same with hairyy ones. I love the variety!

You may or may not agree but I would have thought the issue had nothing to do with right or wrong - just personal preference.

I don't want to sound pushy, but maybe me? I haven't shaved for years.

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lol, i always speak to the hosts, but this gives me a good idea. By not talking, I can protect my self from being "obsessed" by a beautiful host, which is tearing me apart emotionally. I look at her only as flesh. Thanks for the idea.

no kidding allotrios:P

Don't know. I am equally curious about hosts who are completely silent when I enter their text chat... five to ten minutes of "hello?" gets no response.

Are the hosts from Silencia meeting those guys from Silent Hill for quiet privates?

Lmao))))))

So overawed are we by your beauty that we can only stare in raptured silence as your loveliness washes over us.

What the heck did you think it was?

wonder if sometimes guys have many windows open and by mistake have gone to vid..only to realise later?

I'd tell you - but I only like looking at this message board .... not posting :p

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Do you suppose he's deaf?

I mean, sure he could type....but... trying to come up with some sort of theory here... often deafness is a social handicap. Could that be it?

Of course there are other social handicaps you hosts have no doubt encountered along the way...

Any of you hosts have deaf viewers (that you know of)? I don't suppose you actually need ears to appreciate a host's charms.

silent hill? that video game series was good and really freaked me out playing it in the dark but the movie sucked.

As I always think a post looks kinda lonely without a reply I will reply and say that your hair looks very nice :) but hair doesn't turn me on :(

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Hello Sweet.

Hope you had a good day.

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I have done most of those things already :)
I would just say goodbye to friends and family and go somewhere with a gf, for example the beach and watch the sunset

Fly my loved ones from around the world to a special place and have a catered picnic. Tell them all how much they mean to me.

People tell me I am a little corny. I wonder why. :)

I like your idea best. Not corny at all.

Can I come too?

I'll help dig the hole if I'm not too full of food or drunk ... or you're over 180 cm

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i would spend this time with my famaly and dear peoples...

i'd kill myself

I'd save the the world like Jack Bauer

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Sure. I want to see season 1 again. It was the best season as it was new and fresh (and Kim Bauer being in it a lot wasn't a bad thing either) :P.

I totally agree. That season was amazing!!! However, I did really enjoy the most recent one as well, I thought it was very good. I thought that President's daughter was great... :P

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I'd just call it a day

I wouldn't wanna spend those 24h with my loved ones. It would depress me. LOL
I would:
1. Get drunk
2. Get high.
3. Get laid.
4. Rinse and repeat.
5. ...
6. PROFIT!

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I'd steal a jet, get it up to 40,000 feet and top speed. Then I shut down the engines and see how far that sucker would glide.

I guess I would be very organized: first I should do all legal stuff to put al my money and assets on my son.s name and I.ll make few good-bye videos talking to my son and to any person that i know she/he would REALLY miss me.
Later on, I.ll make a mini-party with them and all of us have fun, laugh, dance and get drunk.
Before getting drunk myself I.ll sneak out for few mins and I.ll send them the good-bye video as emails.

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No i haven`t seen that movie, but i watched `The Bucket List` with Morgan Freeman and Jack Nicholson. Great movie and if you let the credits run at the end of the movie there is a great song by John Mayer called Say. He wrote that song for the film.

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and disrupt space and time?...if ya go back and change something for the good...it might make things u like now..not even happen..so actually it could make things worse...u know..the butterfly effect...ppl say...they would love to time travel..but in reality..it would be better just to watch..cuz any slight alteration...and someone u know might not even be born...all because you wanted to change something for your benefit.....but i really wouldnt know what i would change...if i could without altering someone else time line.....am i getting to confusing..lol...hehe

you saw that halloween episode of the simpsons too ohbigone :--)

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id invent the internet

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is that a woody allen kind of adoption?

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I would go back and stop the girl i loved and was going to marry get in the car to leave.

Sounds geeky - but get my PhD.

And ask a girl I knew from a famous/rich family on a date. Always regretted being too shy to try with her.

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i'd want to be 10 years older

I'd change my socks and then throw obi through the time door so that he totally fucks up his time line continum.

well..in my time line..i need a pair of new socks..lol

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I would put every dollar I have into Microsoft stock.

dammit - I was going to say I'd sell everything and buy Apple stock at bugger all and wait for the iMac/iPod/iPhone revolution to happen - will this start a platform war?? (Not that there's a contest, as Microsoft is as sexy and stylish as Bill Gates)

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and that is exactly why i want to go back and change it

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i vote for neither, its all about a great ass for me.

I'll second that thomas. A nice ass in (and then out of) a nice pair of tight jeans :)

Fine by me if the girl doesn`t want to show her pussy. Boobs are great to :) As long as they are natural or a really really good pair of fakes.
And as long as the girl is naked, doesn`t have to spread her legs or use toys etc. But if i catch a teasing glimpse of her pussy from bewteen her ass cheeks i`m cool. I love a great tease, YES i do like to see a girls pussy also but its better than having a girl have a dildo up her pussy, that doesn`t turn me on at all. If anything i like to see a finger in there instead. ;):P

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I tried, but you were off line :(
I bet it is worth exploring! But how would you describe it?

I would describe mine as a mutant. I have 6 rows of pussy lips, and when I spread them all, you can see my pussy's teeth. Remember the famous Alien series? Well, something like that.

I've seen yours, I'd let it eat me anyday!

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trust be it hasnt change that much--well maybe a little--a lot of new people here and they seem not chat to much--or should I say old members with new names and card has caught up with them--well I speak for myself except I have no new name and have new card

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why do you have to stay in vid , im sure she can cum if you watching or not. when your done leave.

If it had been me in that vid, I would have been made-up that the host wanted to share a genuinely private and intimate moment with me.

Happened to me too a number of times - then I noticed there was a END SESSION button. Use it if you feel the need.

watching a hot girl here have a genuine orgasm is one of the hottest things imo

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It can be visible if you show the guy... what i mean is, and i know this can be faked also, but if the girl who has cum like she says inserts 2-3 dry fingers inside her pussy and the fingers come out wet then i would say she at least has a lovely wet pussy. :P

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TheEarthling is my screenname curious cat

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Once again this is the proof that a ''good host'' must be a good actrice too; Members don't give a dam for what hosts like or want to do ; ex : Touching herself 12..or 20 mintes for cumming for real .

You should realize that 99.9% of orgasms are fake whether they take 2 minutes or 40. You should have left.

In scientific studies they say on average it takes a woman 15 minutes to orgasm whilst it takes a man about 7-8 minutes of active thrusting , be positive and say your glass is half full , she saved you the other 3 mins :)

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I'm over 40. It takes ME longer than 12 minutes to finish. Slow it down please girls, otherwise I can't keep up. :).

Thank you.

Cheers.

2 or 3 minutes?? That isn't even worth entering video.
I want at least 12 minutes of good old fashioned naked rubbing.

how come u always have some complains?! anything you like here that you can share with us "a nony mouse"?
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Sandra..I have been to your vid. Lots there to complain about

very nice tisme and very true , my 13 year old dog died last week , and miss all of that .he was truely a friend to the end that i dont think i can replace .but somewere i know lucky is happy eating and sleeping with many other dogs.

And if you can't eat it, fight with it, or fuck it - just piss on it and move on.

It sounded like a great existence so I tried it - things were going great with my girlfriend as I lay on the sofa with my head on her lap gazing lovingly into her eyes. Then unfortunately her sister called in and I let myself down by shouting uncontrollably when she knocked the door and then greeting her by smelling her ass.

I did however have fun chasing my girlfriends car for 100 metres shortly afterwards and as a bonus dumped on my neighbours lawn on the way back.

i m sure my woof woof better much people.

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I want to learn how to lick my own balls!. rofl

here's a knife...

Hmmm. Cutting response!

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hmmm

id have been really impressed if it was the answer to the next post :P

She had a short period off line but has been on most days recently. Has changed her category to Glamour.

next time that happens just get it well to your head thats all just a lie, will be easier to get over it in case it really proves to be a lie, and if it proves it isnt ..well guess u win. Just try to keep this as professional possible and dont get involved with feelings, i know we arent robots , still try to do your best .Make friends, but not lovers. Best of luck!

That is good advice from the indefinite article, for either hosts or members to follow. Keep a sense of proportion to everything.

bloom u got some nerve

best way to think of it is half of what guys say here is lies,the rest is bullshit.doesn't mean that there isn't truth in what they say,just that it's usually buried in the bullshit :--)

It's the sudden jump to intimacy - gives a false sense of love/infatuation. You talk to a girl here, she smiles, looks beautiful, then she shares her body with you.

That's not reality and it can make a man jump into a fantasy love world in his head. After the novelty wears off with the girl and he realises there's actually nothing really there, he'll move on.

Also, with some men, they're just lieing to get you to do what they want you to.

When 2 people begin by pretending - and they then say they are not pretending - are they still pretending?

If a guy waits for you while your in video with another and is happy to talk with you about stuff that doesn't interest men then he is seriously interested in you, if he only visits you in video several times, tells you your great and talks about sex then he isn't interested in you as a person.

disagree. some get bored.

unless there is some intellectual content some relationships will not last. not talking about being friends but there has to be more than just sex.

you sound like a host i know on here. she is sad because men come to her, tell her they love her, and then she says they always leave her after a while.

who knows, maybe you are even her, making this post . . .

i only reply to this post in honor of her, maybe if she reads it she will even know it is me.

i will tell you my experience as a viewer, and you can make of it what you will. we have sort of had a romantic relationship, as much as anybody can on here, with never getting to hug the one they love, or to look into their eyes without a camera inbetween. we have talked much about many things, i know many things that are happening in her life, but of course there are probably many i do not.

if i had to say mathwise, in numbers, i would say about 20 percent of our time is spent naked in 1 to 1, enjoying those pleasures. the rest of the time is talking. we fight, and argue at times. we misunderstand each other at times. she is jealous of me, i am jealous of her, it is almost as if we take turns haha.

but when all is said and done, i would take the worst day here on cc fighting with her, than the best day doing anything else. and of course the times we are laughing and having a good time together are just unbelievable.

i would tell you this. the worst thing in our relationship is my fear of losing her, and on her side i think her not trusting me, and not trusting that i actually love her. these things hurt our relationship, and i wish to know of a way to be rid of them, so perhaps somebody else will know an answer.

i wish more than i have ever wished for anything to have a beautiful future with her, in some way.

but i would say this, 'nothing ventured, nothing gained'. so i disagree with the people that would say this is only a site of professional exchange. people cannot turn off their hearts. and of course people cannot stop themselve from lust - but they also cannot stop themselves from love. you can never know where a relationship on here might take you.

it could be that the men you speak of are all terrible liars, and it could also be that maybe each one of them is more noble than any chivalrous knight could ever hope to be. my advice to you, would be that if you feel love, to not be afraid of it, and take a chance.

do you want to be sitting at home several years from now, thinking of a man you met on here, who you thought that you really loved, but never let in to your heart, wondering if he could have been the 'one'? maybe he might be at home too, thinking the same thing. pity that both of you never took the chance, and missed out on so much together. it was just too crazy for him to think of falling in love with a woman on camcontacts, everybody knows that is just silly, and for you, it was just to much to believe that a man who would come to camcontacts could fall in love with you.

ha, the wonderful woman i speak of will know it is me for sure now. to her i say, may the sun be shining brightly for your day when you read this, or may there be a thousand stars in the night sky twinkling with happiness at your beauty.

i cannot hide :)

Sad host,

If members say they leave because they want you too much, they may just be telling you the truth. From a members point of view it can be painful to fall for a host. The member has to pay the host just to chat via video, all the while knowing that the host is hoping to be visited by lots of other members. It becomes painfully obvious that the feelings are probably not mutual, otherwise the host would be giving the member free shows or making arrangements to meet in person (which is often a mistake).

I did that myself once. It was painful.

This place is a fantasy site, not a dating site. Maybe it is possible to find true love here but I don't think it happens very often. That is why we all, hosts and members alike, usually guard our hearts. Most of us want to be kind and caring but we don't want to be made a fool of.

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Dear, perhaps I am one of those "naive" gentlemen you mention... :)))

I think you are correct: the lure of New leads members to seek other hosts. The member learns all the host's "moves"; tests the host's limits, sexually, intellectually, & whatever :))); and then possibly exhausts his own imagination, or hers. And this leads to ennui, and to restlessness; the member moves on.

But also I think (?) new members are lucrative for hosts... especially, new CC members... so hosts spend a lot of time bringing them in. Perhaps along the way they begin to take their "old" members for granted, or for some other reason do not spend as much time cultivating that relationship. Perhaps the member feels neglected (justified or not), or perhaps the member really does feel too deeply and cannot accept the situation, knowing a host has dozens of members she pays attention to, and leaves.

Yes, the reasons are many, as are the number of excellent beautiful hosts. As for myself, I would still rather hold on to my own few favorites, whom I know well enough and who know me.

The problem for me is that the more I visit an host I like, the more I feel attached to her and the more I need to talk to her instead of having virtual sex... and here the problem begins:

- talking sessions tend to be much longer than sex sessions and I just can't afford it
- I start getting insecure, because I open more of myself and I will never know wehther a chathost really likes me or if she only needs a customer. I can easily stand being lied on my looks - like being told I am beautiful (which I ain't) or that I have a fantastic cock (which I haven't) - but not about my inner self

To make it short: when I say to a chathost I like her I am sincere, but at some point this pay for chat format becomes akward and inadequate and I have to stop.

I still think dearly of some of the hosts I visited in the past, but I just don't feel like visiting them again, even if I check their pictures on a regular basis while I think of "our old times".

I don't know if is the case for other customers as well, but I hope it helps you to ease your sadness a bit.

I agree. You hit the nail on the head.

that is one of the most intelligent posts i have ever read. yes, you hit the nail on the head exactly.

Oh, well said... eventually you either make peace with this uncertainty about how your host feels about *you" or you move on.

You hit the nail on the head for me too.

thank you all - u r gr8; my situation is not changing much from your opinions but at least now i know what is going on through your mind and feel more at peace- at least trying:D thank youuuuuu very much for sharing your experience with me; and for "knight", if you like that girls so much u should talk to her and not avoid her- as i understood you do;
kiss to all and open your hearts - u dont always need a wallet

Thank u for bringing this subject up. I think you got many thoughtful replies, & I wish u the best in your relations here.

hello sad (i dont know how i should address you),

yes, i try to spend time with her when it is possible for both of us, either here on cc, phone, or through email. we are in different countries of course, so it can be difficult.

i do not avoid her at all, i am not sure how i communicated that.

i only wish to know her more, and to know her deeply, every last facet of her life . . . i am a very silly type, a dreamer of impossible things. it is my strength and weakness both.

but as others have said, thanks for the post, it has brought many things to my mind that i was not thinking about.

i wish you much happiness 'sad', wish me the same! :)

may you find that some dreams are more than just dreams . . .

i am 22 and in a woman i look for one who has long dark hair,has a nice face,breast size is not important but i want her to have a good shape.
what about u?....what do u look for in men?

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if i said a fantastic body would you hold it against me?

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