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what gives?
in video today with a girl i see regularly time to time. she announced today that she was horny and wanted to orgasm. great! but then she puts down the keyboard and lies back and rubs herself for 12 minutes! err...what? hey if a girl wants to touch herself during vid and have a real or fake orgasm in 2 or 3 min thats perfect, but how long do i have to wait while this girl just lies there running up the bill before i can be rude and tell her its taking too long? 12 min is a long time and she just lied there barely moving. i mean the whole point of me being here is that i really dont have to care if she cums or not. if she is going to just sit there and pleasure herself shouldn't i get a discount?
RE: what gives?
why do you have to stay in vid , im sure she can cum if you watching or not. when your done leave.
RE: what gives?
If it had been me in that vid, I would have been made-up that the host wanted to share a genuinely private and intimate moment with me.
RE: what gives?
Happened to me too a number of times - then I noticed there was a END SESSION button. Use it if you feel the need.
RE: what gives?
watching a hot girl here have a genuine orgasm is one of the hottest things imo
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It can be visible if you show the guy... what i mean is, and i know this can be faked also, but if the girl who has cum like she says inserts 2-3 dry fingers inside her pussy and the fingers come out wet then i would say she at least has a lovely wet pussy. :P
RE: what gives?
Once again this is the proof that a ''good host'' must be a good actrice too; Members don't give a dam for what hosts like or want to do ; ex : Touching herself 12..or 20 mintes for cumming for real .
RE: what gives?
You should realize that 99.9% of orgasms are fake whether they take 2 minutes or 40. You should have left.
RE: what gives?
In scientific studies they say on average it takes a woman 15 minutes to orgasm whilst it takes a man about 7-8 minutes of active thrusting , be positive and say your glass is half full , she saved you the other 3 mins :)
RE: what gives?
I'm over 40. It takes ME longer than 12 minutes to finish. Slow it down please girls, otherwise I can't keep up. :).
Thank you.
Cheers.
Thank you.
Cheers.
RE: what gives?
2 or 3 minutes?? That isn't even worth entering video.
I want at least 12 minutes of good old fashioned naked rubbing.
I want at least 12 minutes of good old fashioned naked rubbing.
RE: what gives?
how come u always have some complains?! anything you like here that you can share with us "a nony mouse"?
:D
:D
what we could learn from dogs
When loved ones come home, always run to greet them.
Never pass up the opportunity to go for a joyride.
Allow the experience of fresh air and the wind in your face to be pure ecstasy.
When it's in your best interest, practice obedience.
Let others know when they've invaded your territory.
Take naps.
Stretch before rising.
Run, romp, and play daily.
Thrive on attention and let people touch you.
Avoid biting when a simple growl will do.
On warm days, stop to lie on your back on the grass.
On hot days, drink lots of water and lie under a shady tree.
When you're happy, dance around and wag your entire body.
No matter how often you're scolded, don't buy into the guilt thing and pout! run right back and make friends.
Delight in the simple joy of a long walk.
Eat with gusto and enthusiasm. Stop when you have had enough.
Be loyal. Never pretend to be something you're not.
If what you want lies buried, dig until you find it.
When someone is having a bad day, be silent, sit close by and nuzzle them gently. :--)
Never pass up the opportunity to go for a joyride.
Allow the experience of fresh air and the wind in your face to be pure ecstasy.
When it's in your best interest, practice obedience.
Let others know when they've invaded your territory.
Take naps.
Stretch before rising.
Run, romp, and play daily.
Thrive on attention and let people touch you.
Avoid biting when a simple growl will do.
On warm days, stop to lie on your back on the grass.
On hot days, drink lots of water and lie under a shady tree.
When you're happy, dance around and wag your entire body.
No matter how often you're scolded, don't buy into the guilt thing and pout! run right back and make friends.
Delight in the simple joy of a long walk.
Eat with gusto and enthusiasm. Stop when you have had enough.
Be loyal. Never pretend to be something you're not.
If what you want lies buried, dig until you find it.
When someone is having a bad day, be silent, sit close by and nuzzle them gently. :--)
RE: what we could learn from dogs
very nice tisme and very true , my 13 year old dog died last week , and miss all of that .he was truely a friend to the end that i dont think i can replace .but somewere i know lucky is happy eating and sleeping with many other dogs.
RE: what we could learn from dogs
And if you can't eat it, fight with it, or fuck it - just piss on it and move on.
RE: what we could learn from dogs
It sounded like a great existence so I tried it - things were going great with my girlfriend as I lay on the sofa with my head on her lap gazing lovingly into her eyes. Then unfortunately her sister called in and I let myself down by shouting uncontrollably when she knocked the door and then greeting her by smelling her ass.
I did however have fun chasing my girlfriends car for 100 metres shortly afterwards and as a bonus dumped on my neighbours lawn on the way back.
I did however have fun chasing my girlfriends car for 100 metres shortly afterwards and as a bonus dumped on my neighbours lawn on the way back.
wondering?
im host here almost 2 years; man come to me few times and then disapear; i understand there are many nice girls here and new hosts all the time, but what i dont understand is that they all say they like me very much, even more then they should for site like this, or they say they want me too much; what you think, how much of these explanations are lies or true?
would appreciet your responses and advices!
would appreciet your responses and advices!
RE: wondering?
next time that happens just get it well to your head thats all just a lie, will be easier to get over it in case it really proves to be a lie, and if it proves it isnt ..well guess u win. Just try to keep this as professional possible and dont get involved with feelings, i know we arent robots , still try to do your best .Make friends, but not lovers. Best of luck!
RE: wondering?
That is good advice from the indefinite article, for either hosts or members to follow. Keep a sense of proportion to everything.
RE: wondering?
best way to think of it is half of what guys say here is lies,the rest is bullshit.doesn't mean that there isn't truth in what they say,just that it's usually buried in the bullshit :--)
RE: wondering?
It's the sudden jump to intimacy - gives a false sense of love/infatuation. You talk to a girl here, she smiles, looks beautiful, then she shares her body with you.
That's not reality and it can make a man jump into a fantasy love world in his head. After the novelty wears off with the girl and he realises there's actually nothing really there, he'll move on.
Also, with some men, they're just lieing to get you to do what they want you to.
That's not reality and it can make a man jump into a fantasy love world in his head. After the novelty wears off with the girl and he realises there's actually nothing really there, he'll move on.
Also, with some men, they're just lieing to get you to do what they want you to.
RE: wondering?
When 2 people begin by pretending - and they then say they are not pretending - are they still pretending?
RE: wondering?
If a guy waits for you while your in video with another and is happy to talk with you about stuff that doesn't interest men then he is seriously interested in you, if he only visits you in video several times, tells you your great and talks about sex then he isn't interested in you as a person.
RE: wondering?
disagree. some get bored.
unless there is some intellectual content some relationships will not last. not talking about being friends but there has to be more than just sex.
unless there is some intellectual content some relationships will not last. not talking about being friends but there has to be more than just sex.
answer from one who will go where angels do not dare
you sound like a host i know on here. she is sad because men come to her, tell her they love her, and then she says they always leave her after a while.
who knows, maybe you are even her, making this post . . .
i only reply to this post in honor of her, maybe if she reads it she will even know it is me.
i will tell you my experience as a viewer, and you can make of it what you will. we have sort of had a romantic relationship, as much as anybody can on here, with never getting to hug the one they love, or to look into their eyes without a camera inbetween. we have talked much about many things, i know many things that are happening in her life, but of course there are probably many i do not.
if i had to say mathwise, in numbers, i would say about 20 percent of our time is spent naked in 1 to 1, enjoying those pleasures. the rest of the time is talking. we fight, and argue at times. we misunderstand each other at times. she is jealous of me, i am jealous of her, it is almost as if we take turns haha.
but when all is said and done, i would take the worst day here on cc fighting with her, than the best day doing anything else. and of course the times we are laughing and having a good time together are just unbelievable.
i would tell you this. the worst thing in our relationship is my fear of losing her, and on her side i think her not trusting me, and not trusting that i actually love her. these things hurt our relationship, and i wish to know of a way to be rid of them, so perhaps somebody else will know an answer.
i wish more than i have ever wished for anything to have a beautiful future with her, in some way.
but i would say this, 'nothing ventured, nothing gained'. so i disagree with the people that would say this is only a site of professional exchange. people cannot turn off their hearts. and of course people cannot stop themselve from lust - but they also cannot stop themselves from love. you can never know where a relationship on here might take you.
it could be that the men you speak of are all terrible liars, and it could also be that maybe each one of them is more noble than any chivalrous knight could ever hope to be. my advice to you, would be that if you feel love, to not be afraid of it, and take a chance.
do you want to be sitting at home several years from now, thinking of a man you met on here, who you thought that you really loved, but never let in to your heart, wondering if he could have been the 'one'? maybe he might be at home too, thinking the same thing. pity that both of you never took the chance, and missed out on so much together. it was just too crazy for him to think of falling in love with a woman on camcontacts, everybody knows that is just silly, and for you, it was just to much to believe that a man who would come to camcontacts could fall in love with you.
ha, the wonderful woman i speak of will know it is me for sure now. to her i say, may the sun be shining brightly for your day when you read this, or may there be a thousand stars in the night sky twinkling with happiness at your beauty.
i cannot hide :)
who knows, maybe you are even her, making this post . . .
i only reply to this post in honor of her, maybe if she reads it she will even know it is me.
i will tell you my experience as a viewer, and you can make of it what you will. we have sort of had a romantic relationship, as much as anybody can on here, with never getting to hug the one they love, or to look into their eyes without a camera inbetween. we have talked much about many things, i know many things that are happening in her life, but of course there are probably many i do not.
if i had to say mathwise, in numbers, i would say about 20 percent of our time is spent naked in 1 to 1, enjoying those pleasures. the rest of the time is talking. we fight, and argue at times. we misunderstand each other at times. she is jealous of me, i am jealous of her, it is almost as if we take turns haha.
but when all is said and done, i would take the worst day here on cc fighting with her, than the best day doing anything else. and of course the times we are laughing and having a good time together are just unbelievable.
i would tell you this. the worst thing in our relationship is my fear of losing her, and on her side i think her not trusting me, and not trusting that i actually love her. these things hurt our relationship, and i wish to know of a way to be rid of them, so perhaps somebody else will know an answer.
i wish more than i have ever wished for anything to have a beautiful future with her, in some way.
but i would say this, 'nothing ventured, nothing gained'. so i disagree with the people that would say this is only a site of professional exchange. people cannot turn off their hearts. and of course people cannot stop themselve from lust - but they also cannot stop themselves from love. you can never know where a relationship on here might take you.
it could be that the men you speak of are all terrible liars, and it could also be that maybe each one of them is more noble than any chivalrous knight could ever hope to be. my advice to you, would be that if you feel love, to not be afraid of it, and take a chance.
do you want to be sitting at home several years from now, thinking of a man you met on here, who you thought that you really loved, but never let in to your heart, wondering if he could have been the 'one'? maybe he might be at home too, thinking the same thing. pity that both of you never took the chance, and missed out on so much together. it was just too crazy for him to think of falling in love with a woman on camcontacts, everybody knows that is just silly, and for you, it was just to much to believe that a man who would come to camcontacts could fall in love with you.
ha, the wonderful woman i speak of will know it is me for sure now. to her i say, may the sun be shining brightly for your day when you read this, or may there be a thousand stars in the night sky twinkling with happiness at your beauty.
i cannot hide :)
RE: wondering?
Sad host,
If members say they leave because they want you too much, they may just be telling you the truth. From a members point of view it can be painful to fall for a host. The member has to pay the host just to chat via video, all the while knowing that the host is hoping to be visited by lots of other members. It becomes painfully obvious that the feelings are probably not mutual, otherwise the host would be giving the member free shows or making arrangements to meet in person (which is often a mistake).
I did that myself once. It was painful.
This place is a fantasy site, not a dating site. Maybe it is possible to find true love here but I don't think it happens very often. That is why we all, hosts and members alike, usually guard our hearts. Most of us want to be kind and caring but we don't want to be made a fool of.
If members say they leave because they want you too much, they may just be telling you the truth. From a members point of view it can be painful to fall for a host. The member has to pay the host just to chat via video, all the while knowing that the host is hoping to be visited by lots of other members. It becomes painfully obvious that the feelings are probably not mutual, otherwise the host would be giving the member free shows or making arrangements to meet in person (which is often a mistake).
I did that myself once. It was painful.
This place is a fantasy site, not a dating site. Maybe it is possible to find true love here but I don't think it happens very often. That is why we all, hosts and members alike, usually guard our hearts. Most of us want to be kind and caring but we don't want to be made a fool of.
RE: wondering?
Dear, perhaps I am one of those "naive" gentlemen you mention... :)))
I think you are correct: the lure of New leads members to seek other hosts. The member learns all the host's "moves"; tests the host's limits, sexually, intellectually, & whatever :))); and then possibly exhausts his own imagination, or hers. And this leads to ennui, and to restlessness; the member moves on.
But also I think (?) new members are lucrative for hosts... especially, new CC members... so hosts spend a lot of time bringing them in. Perhaps along the way they begin to take their "old" members for granted, or for some other reason do not spend as much time cultivating that relationship. Perhaps the member feels neglected (justified or not), or perhaps the member really does feel too deeply and cannot accept the situation, knowing a host has dozens of members she pays attention to, and leaves.
Yes, the reasons are many, as are the number of excellent beautiful hosts. As for myself, I would still rather hold on to my own few favorites, whom I know well enough and who know me.
I think you are correct: the lure of New leads members to seek other hosts. The member learns all the host's "moves"; tests the host's limits, sexually, intellectually, & whatever :))); and then possibly exhausts his own imagination, or hers. And this leads to ennui, and to restlessness; the member moves on.
But also I think (?) new members are lucrative for hosts... especially, new CC members... so hosts spend a lot of time bringing them in. Perhaps along the way they begin to take their "old" members for granted, or for some other reason do not spend as much time cultivating that relationship. Perhaps the member feels neglected (justified or not), or perhaps the member really does feel too deeply and cannot accept the situation, knowing a host has dozens of members she pays attention to, and leaves.
Yes, the reasons are many, as are the number of excellent beautiful hosts. As for myself, I would still rather hold on to my own few favorites, whom I know well enough and who know me.
RE: wondering?
The problem for me is that the more I visit an host I like, the more I feel attached to her and the more I need to talk to her instead of having virtual sex... and here the problem begins:
- talking sessions tend to be much longer than sex sessions and I just can't afford it
- I start getting insecure, because I open more of myself and I will never know wehther a chathost really likes me or if she only needs a customer. I can easily stand being lied on my looks - like being told I am beautiful (which I ain't) or that I have a fantastic cock (which I haven't) - but not about my inner self
To make it short: when I say to a chathost I like her I am sincere, but at some point this pay for chat format becomes akward and inadequate and I have to stop.
I still think dearly of some of the hosts I visited in the past, but I just don't feel like visiting them again, even if I check their pictures on a regular basis while I think of "our old times".
I don't know if is the case for other customers as well, but I hope it helps you to ease your sadness a bit.
- talking sessions tend to be much longer than sex sessions and I just can't afford it
- I start getting insecure, because I open more of myself and I will never know wehther a chathost really likes me or if she only needs a customer. I can easily stand being lied on my looks - like being told I am beautiful (which I ain't) or that I have a fantastic cock (which I haven't) - but not about my inner self
To make it short: when I say to a chathost I like her I am sincere, but at some point this pay for chat format becomes akward and inadequate and I have to stop.
I still think dearly of some of the hosts I visited in the past, but I just don't feel like visiting them again, even if I check their pictures on a regular basis while I think of "our old times".
I don't know if is the case for other customers as well, but I hope it helps you to ease your sadness a bit.
RE: wondering?
that is one of the most intelligent posts i have ever read. yes, you hit the nail on the head exactly.
RE: wondering?
Oh, well said... eventually you either make peace with this uncertainty about how your host feels about *you" or you move on.
You hit the nail on the head for me too.
You hit the nail on the head for me too.
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thank you all - u r gr8; my situation is not changing much from your opinions but at least now i know what is going on through your mind and feel more at peace- at least trying:D thank youuuuuu very much for sharing your experience with me; and for "knight", if you like that girls so much u should talk to her and not avoid her- as i understood you do;
kiss to all and open your hearts - u dont always need a wallet
kiss to all and open your hearts - u dont always need a wallet
RE: wondering?
Thank u for bringing this subject up. I think you got many thoughtful replies, & I wish u the best in your relations here.
thank you sad, for the post
hello sad (i dont know how i should address you),
yes, i try to spend time with her when it is possible for both of us, either here on cc, phone, or through email. we are in different countries of course, so it can be difficult.
i do not avoid her at all, i am not sure how i communicated that.
i only wish to know her more, and to know her deeply, every last facet of her life . . . i am a very silly type, a dreamer of impossible things. it is my strength and weakness both.
but as others have said, thanks for the post, it has brought many things to my mind that i was not thinking about.
i wish you much happiness 'sad', wish me the same! :)
may you find that some dreams are more than just dreams . . .
yes, i try to spend time with her when it is possible for both of us, either here on cc, phone, or through email. we are in different countries of course, so it can be difficult.
i do not avoid her at all, i am not sure how i communicated that.
i only wish to know her more, and to know her deeply, every last facet of her life . . . i am a very silly type, a dreamer of impossible things. it is my strength and weakness both.
but as others have said, thanks for the post, it has brought many things to my mind that i was not thinking about.
i wish you much happiness 'sad', wish me the same! :)
may you find that some dreams are more than just dreams . . .
RE: anser fast:D
i am 22 and in a woman i look for one who has long dark hair,has a nice face,breast size is not important but i want her to have a good shape.
what about u?....what do u look for in men?
what about u?....what do u look for in men?
Happy Birthday...CYTHEREAGUSH !!!
I want to wish my favorite host a very, very, very, very happy birthday.
And yes, that's a lot of very's!
Now this is the point where I COULD say something like "Guys! If you've never checked her out, go visit her. She's so hot that you'll get horny instantly." You know, praise her a bit to help her get more guests and business and that kind of thing. On the other hand, do I really want more guys discovering her? After all, that's like telling everyone where my secret oasis or buried treasure is hidden on the map! And for crying out loud, she already has so many admirers that it's tough enough to stop by and say hello! So if I tell even MORE guys about her, then I'll never get to see her!
Oh wait...I guess I did just talk about her.
Damn. Oh well, there goes my oasis and treasure chest!
But you know what? Today isn't about a girl on cam or business or anything like that. Today is about one thing and one thing only. It's about celebrating the day when a truly beautiful girl came into this world. It's about cherishing the moment that God blessed us by putting an angel right here on Earth. And I know God stacked the deck with this one and meant for her to be a playful little minx because He definitely gave her a smile to die for. In fact, it steals my heart every time I see it.
Here on the message board there's always one thread or another about Hosts and Guests and whether or not two people who meet online can actually become REAL friends and all that. Well, to all the doubters I say it's true. And that's because I consider Cytherea to be one of the best things to have ever entered my life. She's sweet beyond words...she's caring and warm as any true woman should be...and that's why today I wish her all the happiness in the world. And on her birthday, which is ALL about her, I also hope she'll take a moment to realize just how amazing and special she is.
And yes, that's a lot of very's!
Now this is the point where I COULD say something like "Guys! If you've never checked her out, go visit her. She's so hot that you'll get horny instantly." You know, praise her a bit to help her get more guests and business and that kind of thing. On the other hand, do I really want more guys discovering her? After all, that's like telling everyone where my secret oasis or buried treasure is hidden on the map! And for crying out loud, she already has so many admirers that it's tough enough to stop by and say hello! So if I tell even MORE guys about her, then I'll never get to see her!
Oh wait...I guess I did just talk about her.
Damn. Oh well, there goes my oasis and treasure chest!
But you know what? Today isn't about a girl on cam or business or anything like that. Today is about one thing and one thing only. It's about celebrating the day when a truly beautiful girl came into this world. It's about cherishing the moment that God blessed us by putting an angel right here on Earth. And I know God stacked the deck with this one and meant for her to be a playful little minx because He definitely gave her a smile to die for. In fact, it steals my heart every time I see it.
Here on the message board there's always one thread or another about Hosts and Guests and whether or not two people who meet online can actually become REAL friends and all that. Well, to all the doubters I say it's true. And that's because I consider Cytherea to be one of the best things to have ever entered my life. She's sweet beyond words...she's caring and warm as any true woman should be...and that's why today I wish her all the happiness in the world. And on her birthday, which is ALL about her, I also hope she'll take a moment to realize just how amazing and special she is.
RE: Happy Birthday...CYTHEREAGUSH !!!
I'm not sure I understand fully .... maybe you should expand a bit more on that ....
;)
;)
RE: Happy Birthday...CYTHEREAGUSH !!!
Hi! I just came on to check my messages and I saw your post...
Thank you very much for sharing your thoughts and wishes!! It is a very nice surprise. Its always a pleasure to be seen more than "another girl on cam". Kisses to you and THANK YOU!!
Thank you very much for sharing your thoughts and wishes!! It is a very nice surprise. Its always a pleasure to be seen more than "another girl on cam". Kisses to you and THANK YOU!!
passive - aggressive
omg, but there are some hosts here who are so passive - aggressive. incredible in the degree how much they are.
RE: passive - aggressive
one of the cover girls from the most recent contest is extremely passive-aggressive. she has blonde hair. guess who it is.
RE: passive - aggressive
I am not sure if those that responded understand the term "passive-aggressive". I have an example, although it is maybe not the best example.
Consider the case of driving a car on a road with two lanes going in the same direction. In most countries, the slower drivers are supposed to stay to the right and allow the fast drivers to pass them on the left. What happens sooner or later is that a guy in the left lane is going slower than the guy behind him would like. The guy behind the slower driver will get closer and closer in an attempt to get the guy ahead of him to move over to the right. This is "aggressive", not to mention stupid, behavior. Then what happens is that the slower driver will get angry sometimes, stay in the left lane, and maybe even slow down a bit to be a little more annoying. This would be "passive aggressive" behavior. The slower driver isn't being aggressive in that he is not driving real close, honking his horn, et cetera. All the slower driver did was get a little slower. While slowing down is is "aggressive" in its own way, it is a passive, calm act so it is "passive aggressive". Now if the slower driver slows down very fast and almost causes an accident, that would be aggressive, not passive-aggressive. I am talking about slowing down just a little bit.
Now, to respond to the mysterious "blonde" cover girl comment. That host is not passive aggressive. What she is doing is marketing herself with beautiful pictures and working very, very hard to be successful here. It is what each and every host on this site should do if they are trying to make money, and I assume that is the major reason that hosts are here.
Perhaps other hosts find this host's efforts "aggressive", but just because someone is beautiful and marketing her beauty, that doesn't make her aggressive. It makes her smart and succsessful, and I would imagine that anyone attacking her is simply jealous. It isn't her fault that CC pics her as a cover girl so why would this be wrong?
Hosts need to make efforts to improve their pics if they want to be chosen instead, and if they aren't chosen, that doesn't mean that the hosts that are chosen should be attacked. Now if a host was to do things like put down other hosts to try to get people not to visit other hosts, that would be different. But this mysterious "blonde" cover girl has never done anything like that to my knowlege. Rather, she simply relies on her intelligence, beauty, and personality to be successful.
Consider the case of driving a car on a road with two lanes going in the same direction. In most countries, the slower drivers are supposed to stay to the right and allow the fast drivers to pass them on the left. What happens sooner or later is that a guy in the left lane is going slower than the guy behind him would like. The guy behind the slower driver will get closer and closer in an attempt to get the guy ahead of him to move over to the right. This is "aggressive", not to mention stupid, behavior. Then what happens is that the slower driver will get angry sometimes, stay in the left lane, and maybe even slow down a bit to be a little more annoying. This would be "passive aggressive" behavior. The slower driver isn't being aggressive in that he is not driving real close, honking his horn, et cetera. All the slower driver did was get a little slower. While slowing down is is "aggressive" in its own way, it is a passive, calm act so it is "passive aggressive". Now if the slower driver slows down very fast and almost causes an accident, that would be aggressive, not passive-aggressive. I am talking about slowing down just a little bit.
Now, to respond to the mysterious "blonde" cover girl comment. That host is not passive aggressive. What she is doing is marketing herself with beautiful pictures and working very, very hard to be successful here. It is what each and every host on this site should do if they are trying to make money, and I assume that is the major reason that hosts are here.
Perhaps other hosts find this host's efforts "aggressive", but just because someone is beautiful and marketing her beauty, that doesn't make her aggressive. It makes her smart and succsessful, and I would imagine that anyone attacking her is simply jealous. It isn't her fault that CC pics her as a cover girl so why would this be wrong?
Hosts need to make efforts to improve their pics if they want to be chosen instead, and if they aren't chosen, that doesn't mean that the hosts that are chosen should be attacked. Now if a host was to do things like put down other hosts to try to get people not to visit other hosts, that would be different. But this mysterious "blonde" cover girl has never done anything like that to my knowlege. Rather, she simply relies on her intelligence, beauty, and personality to be successful.
RE: passive - aggressive
i do not think you really understand what passive-aggressive means. it has nothing to do with being aggressive. google it online and read about it.
RE: passive - aggressive
and another thing, there are at least 3 blonde cover girls i see. so i do not know which one you are talking about.
RE: passive - aggressive
has nobody yet seen that the way i have been making my posts are passive-aggressive?
RE: passive - aggressive
I stand by my example. It might not be the best example, as I admitted, but it adequately explains the concept of being "passive- aggressive". If it makes you feel better, change it from the slower driver's slowing a bit more to the slower driver maintaining his speed, staying in the left lane, and then in about 2 or 3 minutes, moving over instead of moving over right away.
Your posts, on the other hand, are "aggressive". (Okay, they are more annoying, than aggressive, at this point, lol.) They are not "passive-agressive". When you Google the phrase, as somebody instructed me to do, lol, you will see that the term refers to behavior which is very passive such as being stubborn, procrastinating, et cetera. Your posting multiple times is much too active to be considered a "passive" act.
And I never said passive-aggressive had anything to do with being aggressive. In fact, I said the opposite, but that such activity could be viewed as aggressive. After all, it is called being "passive-AGGRESSIVE".
Finally, everybody on this site knows exactly who the "blonde cover girl" is. And in any event, my posts about her could refer to the other two as well.
Your posts, on the other hand, are "aggressive". (Okay, they are more annoying, than aggressive, at this point, lol.) They are not "passive-agressive". When you Google the phrase, as somebody instructed me to do, lol, you will see that the term refers to behavior which is very passive such as being stubborn, procrastinating, et cetera. Your posting multiple times is much too active to be considered a "passive" act.
And I never said passive-aggressive had anything to do with being aggressive. In fact, I said the opposite, but that such activity could be viewed as aggressive. After all, it is called being "passive-AGGRESSIVE".
Finally, everybody on this site knows exactly who the "blonde cover girl" is. And in any event, my posts about her could refer to the other two as well.
RE: passive - aggressive
i dont know how you can know which cover girl it is. and here is definition of passive-aggressive i am thinking of.
* Does your partner
become angry with you about things over which you have no control? Is he blaming and punishing you for things that happen to him/her that you had no part in?
* Is your partner frequently sullen, depressed and angry about small life circumstances, but ignore the big problems, thus never facing them?
* Do you receive complaints about you don't appreciating him/her enough, not being able to appreciate even when you do more than ever to please this person?
* Is he expressing a deep idea of being cursed by life, being left behind by others who are responsible for all his problems? Does she ever take any responsibility for what happens to her?
* Is your partner describing a world that is his own creation, impervious to whatever you can say to change that? If you offer a different, more positive construct of the world, of your common friends, family and work acquaintances, is it rejected as "fabrications" because what this person sees is the only "truth"?
1.- The main problem with passive aggressive behavior is first how to identify this interaction, because the same mind that needs to observe and evaluate (yours) is being confused by a barrage of mixed rational/emotional contradictory messages.
Then, we need to accept confusion and emotional pain as indicators of being in the presence of a relationship with a passive aggressive (PA) person. Is not that you are a less intelligent person; is that another person is confusing you!
2. - A person who displays PA traits is a person who never learnt how to accept and manage his anger, using twisted behavior to project his responsibility on others ("you made him angry") so blaming others for everything real or imaginary that happens to them. Deeply inside, they are emotionally unavailable and can't allow anybody to get very emotionally close, so displaying PA traits is a way to deflect the intensity of feelings, and recover the security of their inner isolation by backing off from emotional intimacy. DON'T feel rejected at a personal level.
3. - It is not related to YOU! You don't have to be a beauty queen, a very successful manager or a sex bombshell to make him happy: it has nothing to do with what you can offer him. Whatever you are, he is probably NOT relating to who you are, but reacting to his own image of what an intimate partner means for him. Getting to know what happens (you attracted a PA person to be your love relationship) has at least to give you this fact for sure: his reactions have nothing to do with you, because he would react in the same way to any one who threatens to enter into his private world. His fear is not of you, but of intimacy and yielding to emotional compromise with any woman.
* Does your partner
become angry with you about things over which you have no control? Is he blaming and punishing you for things that happen to him/her that you had no part in?
* Is your partner frequently sullen, depressed and angry about small life circumstances, but ignore the big problems, thus never facing them?
* Do you receive complaints about you don't appreciating him/her enough, not being able to appreciate even when you do more than ever to please this person?
* Is he expressing a deep idea of being cursed by life, being left behind by others who are responsible for all his problems? Does she ever take any responsibility for what happens to her?
* Is your partner describing a world that is his own creation, impervious to whatever you can say to change that? If you offer a different, more positive construct of the world, of your common friends, family and work acquaintances, is it rejected as "fabrications" because what this person sees is the only "truth"?
1.- The main problem with passive aggressive behavior is first how to identify this interaction, because the same mind that needs to observe and evaluate (yours) is being confused by a barrage of mixed rational/emotional contradictory messages.
Then, we need to accept confusion and emotional pain as indicators of being in the presence of a relationship with a passive aggressive (PA) person. Is not that you are a less intelligent person; is that another person is confusing you!
2. - A person who displays PA traits is a person who never learnt how to accept and manage his anger, using twisted behavior to project his responsibility on others ("you made him angry") so blaming others for everything real or imaginary that happens to them. Deeply inside, they are emotionally unavailable and can't allow anybody to get very emotionally close, so displaying PA traits is a way to deflect the intensity of feelings, and recover the security of their inner isolation by backing off from emotional intimacy. DON'T feel rejected at a personal level.
3. - It is not related to YOU! You don't have to be a beauty queen, a very successful manager or a sex bombshell to make him happy: it has nothing to do with what you can offer him. Whatever you are, he is probably NOT relating to who you are, but reacting to his own image of what an intimate partner means for him. Getting to know what happens (you attracted a PA person to be your love relationship) has at least to give you this fact for sure: his reactions have nothing to do with you, because he would react in the same way to any one who threatens to enter into his private world. His fear is not of you, but of intimacy and yielding to emotional compromise with any woman.
RE: passive - aggressive
Is it possible to be passive aggressive in a forum post?
English Lesson, you say in most countries the slow drivers are supposed to be on the right but that only applies to about 28% of the roads. 72% of the world's total road distance carries traffic on the right. On those roads, the slow drivers are supposed to be in the left lane, not the right lane.
So readers who follow your advice will slow down in the wrong lane causing potential conflict or worse.
Does that make your post a passive aggressive post because it appears to entertain and inform while creating a potentially harmful situation for your audience?
Cheers. I'm just having a little fun with the topic. Best wishes all. :)
English Lesson, you say in most countries the slow drivers are supposed to be on the right but that only applies to about 28% of the roads. 72% of the world's total road distance carries traffic on the right. On those roads, the slow drivers are supposed to be in the left lane, not the right lane.
So readers who follow your advice will slow down in the wrong lane causing potential conflict or worse.
Does that make your post a passive aggressive post because it appears to entertain and inform while creating a potentially harmful situation for your audience?
Cheers. I'm just having a little fun with the topic. Best wishes all. :)
RE: passive - aggressive
Oh forget it, momentary confusion on my part. English Lesson was correct. "All traffic is generally required to keep right unless overtaking." which means faster on the left.
Perhaps I was being passive aggressive but it wasn't intentional and certainly wasn't ironic :)
Perhaps I was being passive aggressive but it wasn't intentional and certainly wasn't ironic :)
RE: passive - aggressive
ahh i thought at first you was talking about axb but now i see you aren't
:o)
:o)
How do Ratings work?
Each host has a rating based on viewers, but how do they work? If I rate a host 5 one day, I know it is averged in. But if I rate her 5 again the next day, does it matter? Or is only one rating per viewer counted?
RE: How do Ratings work?
Hosts are rated based on the last 10 votes. A member can only vote once per day CC time. If he votes more than once a day, only his last vote will count.
Also, he can only count for 2 of the 10 votes so if he votes 3 days in a row, and the host only had less than eight sessions between the second and third vote, only the member's second and third vote would count, not all three. If she had 8 sessions since his last vote, then his second and third vote would count. And if she had 9 or more sessions since he last voted, then at that point only the third vote would count since the others would drop off.
CC watches for irregularities such as a member voting once a day after one minute, leaving, and voting.
Generally, you will find most hosts have 4 or more stars since usually their friends go to video and give them 5 stars so take ratings with a grain of salt. Personally, I usually go for hosts with minimum of 4 stars and most of the time 4,5 or 5. But there are good hosts with less stars too. They are just a little harder to find.
Also, he can only count for 2 of the 10 votes so if he votes 3 days in a row, and the host only had less than eight sessions between the second and third vote, only the member's second and third vote would count, not all three. If she had 8 sessions since his last vote, then his second and third vote would count. And if she had 9 or more sessions since he last voted, then at that point only the third vote would count since the others would drop off.
CC watches for irregularities such as a member voting once a day after one minute, leaving, and voting.
Generally, you will find most hosts have 4 or more stars since usually their friends go to video and give them 5 stars so take ratings with a grain of salt. Personally, I usually go for hosts with minimum of 4 stars and most of the time 4,5 or 5. But there are good hosts with less stars too. They are just a little harder to find.
RE: How do Ratings work?
It's also not a statement that he either made or implied. As far as I understand him, he was only talking about 'genuine' members, not hosts masquerading as them
RE: How do Ratings work?
I think it is okay, but that 10 votes are too few. Around 25 votes where only one vote is counted per member would be a better system. It would make it harder for people to try to manipulate the system, and it would also keep a host from having one bad session have too much of an impact on her rating.
RE: How do Ratings work?
I don't see where I said that. Anyway, some hosts have member accounts, and all hosts have friends that they can ask for help. Use your imagination as to what hosts may do with their member accounts and what they may ask their member friends to do for them. I will simply leave it at I have heard different things than you have, lol.
But putting all that aside, we all know members' feelings get hurt sometimes, so what do you think that they sometimes do when that happens? And, at the other end, when they really like a host, what do you think that they do? It isn't all that hard to figure out what is going to happen, but CC tries to be on the look out for it.
But putting all that aside, we all know members' feelings get hurt sometimes, so what do you think that they sometimes do when that happens? And, at the other end, when they really like a host, what do you think that they do? It isn't all that hard to figure out what is going to happen, but CC tries to be on the look out for it.
I love it here....dont you?
you know...when i first came here....i was just a wanker(well..i still am..lol)...but i have come to like cc..its fun...lots of nice girls...made some new friends....and enemies..lol....but all in all...ive had a great time here....and i hope to have many more great times as well....anyone care to agree?
RE: I love it here....dont you?
I came here as a wanker too, but now I have a lot of friends.
But I am still a wanker. :p
But I am still a wanker. :p
RE: I love it here....dont you?
No. Trust me on this kid stay just a wanker. Sure the fantasy of having a relationship with a host makes the experience more personal and more intense but it is just a fantasy. Save the relationship for a woman who lives closer than Moscow or buy a puppy.
RE: I love it here....dont you?
Sorry...when I make friends I consider that a relationship....I didn't mean a romantic, exclusive, nonsensical love affair kind of relationship.
RE: I love it here....dont you?
i agree with obis kenobis. We meet people and have good friends on here. i met obis here and tafille and darlinghelen and sexypam4u and a few others and i consider them very good friends. yes sometimes we all have a falling out but in the long run we all just get along. CHeers Obis for a great forum. also for the memories of CC.
RE: I love it here....dont you?
boss im hurt you left me out , and are all times here really so great boss?
RE: I love it here....dont you?
you too t77. i have met some good friends also. allyoop5-52 is a great guy and i am glad i met him and we have become friends. sexypam is one great girl that i value her friendship very much and hope we will remain friends the rest of our lives. obis a great guy and i really enjoy talking to and can honestly call him a great friend. tafille and dh two great girls that i am glad i can talk to and met. trevor my longtime friend that has gotten me through some rough times in the beginning of CC. of course i met my fiance here on CC though we have had some of ups and downs her and i but without CC i would never have met her. then of course there are a few girls that i met through CC also. So overall this has been a great place to meet friends and have a good time also.
RE: I love it here....dont you?
yes boss...you are right...everyone has ups and downs..but still i have enjoyed my time here....and you are right....sexypam4u..darlinghelen and tafille are super cool friends.....ofc i havent seen eye to eye with them on certain issues...but all in all great girls and glad to call my friend
RE: I love it here....dont you?
In my experiences here CC is so great.When I first joined I was not much of a chatter but after a while I it grows on you and now you can hardly shut me up. The hosts and members I have met here I consider my friends even tho I chat with only some.All in all it is a great time and I always have fun when I come here.
host enjoyment?
Is it just my imagination or do the hosts enjoyed a sexy customer? I read the column and hear about how bad someone was or the viewer isn't turned on and can't get hard but how about how love making is really done? The foreplay, the sexy talk, and the sensual looks. I think the hosts I have visited for the most part enjoy my company, granted they are here for the money but why can't they enjoy the time and experience an organism or two too?
RE: host enjoyment?
whats love got to do with it?
I'm paying you to have a orgasm so damn well have one whether you like it or not. )
I'm paying you to have a orgasm so damn well have one whether you like it or not. )
RE: host enjoyment?
he may be on to something, the hosts just see us as some weird organism (maybe a sub species of homo sapiens) to be enjoyed, while getting paid.
RE: host enjoyment?
If you work a job that deals with the public every day you come to enjoy the funny, interesting, odd and unusual customers. The make each day different and break the monotony. Bottom line however is making money. And a host first and foremost loves a member who does plenty of long expensive videos. Talk about something that will make a host moist.
pc in russia
can anybody who lives in russia tell me....... do all computers that come from the usa work in russia?..... or when they arrive in russia, does a computer tech. have to adjust them?
RE: pc in russia
Thank you so much for the information.......may I ask...... where in Russia are you from?
RE: pc in russia
what kind of adjustment are you thinking off? The only thing i can imagine is the power. Russia works with 220V. In America you use 110V. You have to check if your laptop can work with 220V..most modern equipment is capable..and also check your electricity plug (or whats the name in english) so buy a universal one.
Most of the info you can find with Google btw.
Most of the info you can find with Google btw.
RE: pc in russia
Everything is the same except the power supply. Russia uses 220V 50Hz in the USA it's 120V 60HZ
Laptops should work, make sure the power adapter says 110-240V 50-60Hz on it.. If it doesn't go past 220V and work with 50Hz it won't work and may overload.
For desktops there's normally a 110/230V switch on the power supply next to where the power cables goes in, just switch this before plugging it in.
For both you will need a new power cable (US plug pins are flat in Russia they are round) these are easy to find in any electrical shop.
Laptops should work, make sure the power adapter says 110-240V 50-60Hz on it.. If it doesn't go past 220V and work with 50Hz it won't work and may overload.
For desktops there's normally a 110/230V switch on the power supply next to where the power cables goes in, just switch this before plugging it in.
For both you will need a new power cable (US plug pins are flat in Russia they are round) these are easy to find in any electrical shop.
hello
i am looking forward to a hosts soliciting me to view their shows. I prefer low price of 0.76 and hope to hear from you. email to my id in cc-emmayk.
i like asians though others are all welcome.
i like asians though others are all welcome.
RE: hello
From: over 800 hosts to choose from Reply New Message
best price to rating ratios 09/Aug/2009 22:09 (GMT)
Since there are so many hosts to choose from today, I would like to reward those that have a great price to rating ratio. These are just in the little shy category, and only 4.5 stars and higher. If anyone wants to help getting the other categories and at least 4 stars and above that would be great. Also, some were surely in 121 at the time I checked them so if you see some I missed feel free to say so.
The format is simple:
Host name, open price/121 price, rating
FirmSexyAss .50/.60 4.5 stars
fuckinHole .50/.60 4.5 stars
AngelSweet81 .50 (in video no 121 available at the moment) 4.5 stars
lovejoy22 .50/1.00 4.5 stars
Lyalechka .52 (in video no 121 available at the moment) 4.5 stars
BestXKitten .56/.82 4.5 stars
brownSexyCat .60/.80 4.5 stars
SexyNatallyX .60/.90 4.5 stars
SexWithYouXx .70/.82 4.5 stars
tastymary75 .60/1.18 4.5 stars
BestBerry .66/1.18 4.5 stars
BbGirl4Daddy .80/1.20 4.5 stars
scorpiostar .80/1.20 4.5 stars
1Barselona .80/1.20 4.5 stars
19SweetGirl .80/1.20 4.5 stars
Flameilusion .76/1.32 4.5 stars
BurnInLove .80 (in video no 121 available at the moment) 4.5 stars
Good luck girls!!!!!
best price to rating ratios 09/Aug/2009 22:09 (GMT)
Since there are so many hosts to choose from today, I would like to reward those that have a great price to rating ratio. These are just in the little shy category, and only 4.5 stars and higher. If anyone wants to help getting the other categories and at least 4 stars and above that would be great. Also, some were surely in 121 at the time I checked them so if you see some I missed feel free to say so.
The format is simple:
Host name, open price/121 price, rating
FirmSexyAss .50/.60 4.5 stars
fuckinHole .50/.60 4.5 stars
AngelSweet81 .50 (in video no 121 available at the moment) 4.5 stars
lovejoy22 .50/1.00 4.5 stars
Lyalechka .52 (in video no 121 available at the moment) 4.5 stars
BestXKitten .56/.82 4.5 stars
brownSexyCat .60/.80 4.5 stars
SexyNatallyX .60/.90 4.5 stars
SexWithYouXx .70/.82 4.5 stars
tastymary75 .60/1.18 4.5 stars
BestBerry .66/1.18 4.5 stars
BbGirl4Daddy .80/1.20 4.5 stars
scorpiostar .80/1.20 4.5 stars
1Barselona .80/1.20 4.5 stars
19SweetGirl .80/1.20 4.5 stars
Flameilusion .76/1.32 4.5 stars
BurnInLove .80 (in video no 121 available at the moment) 4.5 stars
Good luck girls!!!!!
Tough Club
A little old lady had always wanted to join a local biker club. One day she goes up and knocks on the door. A big, hairy, bearded biker with tattoos all over his arms answers. She proclaims, "I want to join your club."
The guy was amused, but says she needs to meet certain biker requirements in order to join. The biker asks, "Do you have a motorcycle?"
The little old lady replies, "Yep... my bike's parked over there", and points to a Harley in the driveway.
The biker asks, "Do you drink?"
The little old lady replies, "Yep...drink like a fish. I'll drink any man in your club under the table."
The biker asks, "Do you smoke?"
The little old lady replies, "Yep... smoke like a chimney. At least 4 packs of cigarettes a day and a couple of cigars in the evening, while I'm shooting pool."
The biker is very impressed and asks, "Last question, have you ever been picked up by the fuzz?"
The little old lady thinks for a minute and says, "Nope ... but I've been swung around by the nipples a few times."
The guy was amused, but says she needs to meet certain biker requirements in order to join. The biker asks, "Do you have a motorcycle?"
The little old lady replies, "Yep... my bike's parked over there", and points to a Harley in the driveway.
The biker asks, "Do you drink?"
The little old lady replies, "Yep...drink like a fish. I'll drink any man in your club under the table."
The biker asks, "Do you smoke?"
The little old lady replies, "Yep... smoke like a chimney. At least 4 packs of cigarettes a day and a couple of cigars in the evening, while I'm shooting pool."
The biker is very impressed and asks, "Last question, have you ever been picked up by the fuzz?"
The little old lady thinks for a minute and says, "Nope ... but I've been swung around by the nipples a few times."
RE: HapyBirthday MARIA
broom broom honda.you might not have a lot of money,but you're rich in the milk of human kindness & no amount of money can buy that. oh & dark happy birthday :--)
RE: Missing my gal
I did tell her that adding smoking to her activities was a bad idea ... but would she listen??
The skin grafts are holding up ok and she will be coming back soon .... standing only for a while.
The skin grafts are holding up ok and she will be coming back soon .... standing only for a while.
RE: Missing my gal
hahaha, i have never seen as many genuinely funny responses to a thread before...well played people!!
RE: Missing my gal
Well rumour is she blew town and is now going in whichever direction the wind blows her .........
re nudity
i dont get turned on any more from nudity. there is to\ much of it i see. what do i do now?
RE: re nudity
I feel the same. I am only going to buy shows now from girls who make a living in front of a camera and claim to be "too shy to strip."
A girl and her sweater vest..... mmmm now that is exciting!
Friends and Family here I come!!!!! Wooohoooo!!!!
Tease Me, Seymore!!!
A girl and her sweater vest..... mmmm now that is exciting!
Friends and Family here I come!!!!! Wooohoooo!!!!
Tease Me, Seymore!!!
Actually this is a REAL problem in the digital age
Actually, the problem he's experiencing is not strange or suspicious at all. In fact, it's a growing problem for men in the digital internet age and become a bit of a debate in the medical community. The common term used by psychologists for this is "porn creep." LOL and no, I don't mean "creep" like he IS a bad guy orcreep. What I mean is this...from being online or surfing porn or looking at too many cam girls or whatever...basically, from looking at too much porn...the sexy images they've seen online have now creeped into their mind and taken root. So now the only way they do get excited is by a woman who looks like a true porn model... I mean absolutely perfect in every photographic way... or by an escalating series of dirtier and kinkier things, much like you can constantly ramp up your porn. In other words, a guy who used to get excited just from the idea of being alone with a woman and quietly getting a blow job now has to think about being with an all-out slutty woman as she is gang banged. That's what I mean when I say it goes from a simple turn on to growing...and growing...and growing in the mind.
Mind you, this is NOT physical. If a man suffers from this problem and he goes to see his physician, the doctor will run blood tests...check his testosterone levels...etc, etc, etc. Odds are the tests will come back normal...maybe the doctor will prescribe some viagra or cialis to help things along...but basically the doctor will say "There's nothing PHYSICALLY wrong with you. You should be getting excited as usual."
And that's when the physician will say his "excitement performance problems" (to coin a phrase) are probably due tosomething on his mind. It could be nervousness...it could be job stress....or, as psychiatrists are seeing more and more in the internet age, it could be "porn creep" where the guy's vision of sex and his expectations of the woman and what she'll do and what will happen are more porn and fantasy based rather than reality based. And since the woman isn't living up to true online hardcore porn standards....he finds no excitement in her simply being naked (as was the case here).
Mind you, this is NOT physical. If a man suffers from this problem and he goes to see his physician, the doctor will run blood tests...check his testosterone levels...etc, etc, etc. Odds are the tests will come back normal...maybe the doctor will prescribe some viagra or cialis to help things along...but basically the doctor will say "There's nothing PHYSICALLY wrong with you. You should be getting excited as usual."
And that's when the physician will say his "excitement performance problems" (to coin a phrase) are probably due tosomething on his mind. It could be nervousness...it could be job stress....or, as psychiatrists are seeing more and more in the internet age, it could be "porn creep" where the guy's vision of sex and his expectations of the woman and what she'll do and what will happen are more porn and fantasy based rather than reality based. And since the woman isn't living up to true online hardcore porn standards....he finds no excitement in her simply being naked (as was the case here).
RE: Actually this is a REAL problem in the digital age
lmao,lucky you're not my doctor,i'd need a specialist or a shrink afterwards :--)
RE: Actually Progression of the "Thrill" has Always been
Dr. Desmond Morris researched & compiled a list of stages of intimacy:
Bonding refers to the emotional covenant that links a man and woman together for life and makes them intensely valuable to one another. It is the specialness that sets those two lovers apart from every other person on the face of the earth.
These stages, described below, represent a progression of physical intimacy from which a permanent commitment often evolves.
Bonding refers to the emotional covenant that links a man and woman together for life and makes them intensely valuable to one another. It is the specialness that sets those two lovers apart from every other person on the face of the earth.
These stages, described below, represent a progression of physical intimacy from which a permanent commitment often evolves.
1. Eye to Body. A glance reveals much about a person ...
2. Eye to Eye. When the man and woman who are strangers to each other exchange glances, their most natural reaction is to look away, usually with embarrassment. If their eyes meet again, they may smile, which signals that they might like to become better acquainted.
3. Voice to Voice. Their initial conversations are trivial and include questions like "What is your name?" or "What do you do for a living?" During this long stage the two people learn much about each other's opinions, pastimes, activities, habits, hobbies, likes and dislikes. If they're compatible, they become friends.
4. Hand to Hand. The first instance of physical contact between the couple is usually a non-romantic occasion such as when the man helps the woman descend a high step or aids her across an obstacle. At this point either of the individuals can withdraw from the relationship without rejecting the other. However, if continued, hand-to-hand contact will eventually become an evidence of the couple's romantic attachment to each other.
5. Hand to Shoulder. This affectionate embrace is still noncommittal. It is a "buddy" type position in which the man and woman are side by side. They are more concerned with the world in front of them than they are with each other. The hand-to-shoulder contact reveals a relationship that is more than a close friendship, but probably not real love.
6. Hand to Waist. Because this is something two people of the same sex would not ordinarily do, it is clearly romantic. They are close enough to be sharing secrets or intimate language with each other. Yet, as they walk side by side with hand to waist, they are still facing forward.
7. Face to Face. This level of contact involves gazing into one another's eyes, hugging and kissing. If none of the previous steps were skipped, the man and woman will have developed a special code from experience that enables them to engage in deep communication with very few words. At this point, sexual desire becomes an important factor in the relationship.
8. Hand to Head. This is an extension of the previous stage. The man and woman tend to cradle or stroke each other's head while kissing or talking. Rarely do individuals in our culture touch the head of another person unless they are either romantically involved or are family members. It is a designation of emotional closeness.
The Final Steps. The last four levels of involvement are distinctly sexual and private. They are:
(9) Hand to Body,
(10) Mouth to Breast,
(11) Hand to genital, and
(12) Mouth to genital
(13) Intercourse. (Genital to genital )
In the Progression each stage does not satisfy to the degree that it first did.
Bonding refers to the emotional covenant that links a man and woman together for life and makes them intensely valuable to one another. It is the specialness that sets those two lovers apart from every other person on the face of the earth.
These stages, described below, represent a progression of physical intimacy from which a permanent commitment often evolves.
Bonding refers to the emotional covenant that links a man and woman together for life and makes them intensely valuable to one another. It is the specialness that sets those two lovers apart from every other person on the face of the earth.
These stages, described below, represent a progression of physical intimacy from which a permanent commitment often evolves.
1. Eye to Body. A glance reveals much about a person ...
2. Eye to Eye. When the man and woman who are strangers to each other exchange glances, their most natural reaction is to look away, usually with embarrassment. If their eyes meet again, they may smile, which signals that they might like to become better acquainted.
3. Voice to Voice. Their initial conversations are trivial and include questions like "What is your name?" or "What do you do for a living?" During this long stage the two people learn much about each other's opinions, pastimes, activities, habits, hobbies, likes and dislikes. If they're compatible, they become friends.
4. Hand to Hand. The first instance of physical contact between the couple is usually a non-romantic occasion such as when the man helps the woman descend a high step or aids her across an obstacle. At this point either of the individuals can withdraw from the relationship without rejecting the other. However, if continued, hand-to-hand contact will eventually become an evidence of the couple's romantic attachment to each other.
5. Hand to Shoulder. This affectionate embrace is still noncommittal. It is a "buddy" type position in which the man and woman are side by side. They are more concerned with the world in front of them than they are with each other. The hand-to-shoulder contact reveals a relationship that is more than a close friendship, but probably not real love.
6. Hand to Waist. Because this is something two people of the same sex would not ordinarily do, it is clearly romantic. They are close enough to be sharing secrets or intimate language with each other. Yet, as they walk side by side with hand to waist, they are still facing forward.
7. Face to Face. This level of contact involves gazing into one another's eyes, hugging and kissing. If none of the previous steps were skipped, the man and woman will have developed a special code from experience that enables them to engage in deep communication with very few words. At this point, sexual desire becomes an important factor in the relationship.
8. Hand to Head. This is an extension of the previous stage. The man and woman tend to cradle or stroke each other's head while kissing or talking. Rarely do individuals in our culture touch the head of another person unless they are either romantically involved or are family members. It is a designation of emotional closeness.
The Final Steps. The last four levels of involvement are distinctly sexual and private. They are:
(9) Hand to Body,
(10) Mouth to Breast,
(11) Hand to genital, and
(12) Mouth to genital
(13) Intercourse. (Genital to genital )
In the Progression each stage does not satisfy to the degree that it first did.
RE: Actually this is a REAL problem in the digital age
Well even without a partner ,in cam or not, I've done the 'Hand to genital' all my adult life and I'm not bored of it yet! ;)
Yeah ... I go with good old Desmond Morris ..... the hors d'oeuvres may titillate the palette - but they were only invented to lead to the Main Course. There's only so many bits of bruschetta you can take before getting restless.
The sex/food metaphor was going great there - but I'm worried what the dessert course could be? I'll never think about Chocolate Pudding the same way again now ....
Yeah ... I go with good old Desmond Morris ..... the hors d'oeuvres may titillate the palette - but they were only invented to lead to the Main Course. There's only so many bits of bruschetta you can take before getting restless.
The sex/food metaphor was going great there - but I'm worried what the dessert course could be? I'll never think about Chocolate Pudding the same way again now ....
posing as a mannequin or doll fetish
I was looking for a solo performer or a couple who has posed as mannequins or dolls in real life or have done it in cam private. This is a fetish of mine and can be alot of fun. I already know several names that have done it but i am always looking for others.
you can send me a message or reply here.
thanks
greneker00
you can send me a message or reply here.
thanks
greneker00
RE: posing as a mannequin or doll fetish
hello) very interesting fetish....maybe i could try)) kisss
RE: posing as a mannequin or doll fetish
It certainly sounds odd at first, but from a chat host's perspective, it's almost the easiest to play along with. Think of it - you don't have to strip naked or dance sexy, or even wear uncomfortable outfits. All it entails is being able to hold still for a couple minutes, and occasionally change positions mechanically like a character at Disneyland.
RE: posing as a mannequin or doll fetish
Of all the fetishes I have heard about on here this one, for some reason sounds a little appealing. Well, not with you.... but with one of the girls.
RE: posing as a mannequin or doll fetish
ok wait.................this guy has this weird fetish and gets responses but when i ask about hosts that wear black,thigh high,7"heel stripper boots,i get nothing.go figure.
RE: posing as a mannequin or doll fetish
I think there's a few hosts that will do this for you and you won't even have to ask. Look for the ladies with the self-centred primadonna style profiles :-)
RE: posing as a mannequin or doll fetish
that is funny ted, I have found a few ladies. they really do a great job. But i am always looking for any others who would like to show how well they can pose and appear.
Webcams
I was wondering what kind of webcams the girls on this site use and if they are happy with it. A friend off mine wants to start camming aswell, but has no idea what cam to get and how much a decent one costs.
Any advise is appreciated :)
Any advise is appreciated :)
RE: Webcams
digital cam is much better then webcam, even if it is expencive webcam.
kathys?
Does anybody know if Kathy had her baby? She hasn't been online in a couple of weeks and she looked fairly far along. (no offense intended as I think pregnant women are radiant)
Regardless, I wish her happy motherhood. :-)
Regardless, I wish her happy motherhood. :-)
who knows
hello there
i have an unusual question....if someone fond of Gestalt psychology and maybe can recomend some books about it
thx
i have an unusual question....if someone fond of Gestalt psychology and maybe can recomend some books about it
thx
RE: who knows
eeek ... cognitive therapy time again already??
Skills in Gestalt Counselling & Psychotherapy (Skills in Counselling & Psychotherapy Series) - by Phil Joyce and Charlotte Sills
TA Today : A New Introduction to Transactional Analysis - by Ian Stewart and Vann Joines
Those are 2 books written without a whole lot of 'big fuck off scientific' words ..... or maybe I just dreamt that? ;)
Skills in Gestalt Counselling & Psychotherapy (Skills in Counselling & Psychotherapy Series) - by Phil Joyce and Charlotte Sills
TA Today : A New Introduction to Transactional Analysis - by Ian Stewart and Vann Joines
Those are 2 books written without a whole lot of 'big fuck off scientific' words ..... or maybe I just dreamt that? ;)
RE: who knows
well its quite young and very interesting direction.
Arnheim R. Visual thinking. Berkeley and Los Angeles: California UP, 1967
heard its good one;)
Good luck in ur studies)))
Arnheim R. Visual thinking. Berkeley and Los Angeles: California UP, 1967
heard its good one;)
Good luck in ur studies)))
RE: jerriko
well, the priests are marching 'round and 'round and blowin' their trumpets and shouting and the walls are crumbling down