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boys will be boys ...

Who is your favorite "friend"?

Female: Rachel, cause she's HOT. I don't care if she's close to 40 now.

Male: Joey cause he's goofy and they wrote the best jokes for him. LOL!

Male: Chandler, the guy is a GOD!!

Female: Phoebe, probably stupid enough to sleep with me!!

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Female .. Monica .. just hoping more than friends lol

Male .. Chandler to keep me laughing with his funny jokes

Cant decide between Joey and Chandler...dang. But girls dont forget about Russel, he's the smart one:D

You mean Ross? lol

Ross is a weiner :P

girls= monica phoebe and rachel in a foursome with me
guys = none
;)

well said Mr WTF ... but did I read you correctly? You have been accused of being a prick in forum?!? Surely you jest!!?

you little yellow kiss-ass, you:P

hmm, you have cottoned on to my modus operandi ...

WTF did we catch you at a weak moment? Thank you for your frankness. You actually spent time in vid with a non-adult host who you knew was not going to strip. Why do you find it so hard to understand why others do this and why the whole concept of non-adult hosts creeps you out.

If pulling her wet fingers out from between her legs while wearing VERY little qualifies as an "adult style show", then I would have to say you are mistaken.

oh sure, go right ahead and try to shatter the little romatic ideal he has going on for the woman.... why would you be such an asshole? ...what did he ever do to you?:P

she has nice bum...and do all waht u want to see

:| :| :|

a bunch of shit being said in reply to a message from someone with only nice things to say about you.... kinda sucks, huh?

hey you seem a fun guy , dont always agree with you - but .....

As for these hosts, I luv them , but I dont think more classy ro whatever is dependent on how sexy / or not uptight or liberated they are.... is a naturist not classy ? is any girl who likes that attention and actualy gets horny not a nice girl ??
Dont women have these feelings too ?
If she does some times enjoy a tease or some sexy fun , I for one wouyld consider her far more natural, and human . and interesting .. choosing with whom and when , and when she has the mood , is by far the best way ..
The best hosts here have usually been similar .. some maybe just more open ..

Like Tata maybe ..

nice to see you have a more human side too lol ..

strange what attracts us to girls ...

even stranger what attracts girls to guys ...

"- No I am not a cheap, quick hitter."

Not what I heard from that Russian host after you spent two minutes, yes TWO minutes, in her video. Now thats LMFAO!!!

i think WTF means he does not go to vid for a cheap quick thrill. Once there if he likes the girl he will come back. If he only stayed 2 mons i guess he realised she wasn't to his taste.

Brown nose?

Triksy is one of the few...actually now that I think about it...the only non-adult host I speak to. I am not counting the non-adult hosts who offer adult shows in Community Chat. Wait I also have spoken to GingerGirl. Nice kid. Dreamsmile or something like that awhile ago but she left CC. That's it.

If Triks does adult shows...which I doubt...that is her business....she does not for me ..charming as I am.... the persona she presents to me is the one I like...would I love her to become a wanton slut on camera for me...well yeah...Isnt that part of the charm of non-adult hosts...the dream that you will be the big studmuffin whos sexy typing skills will turn a nun into a whore?.....but I don't expect it to happen and I am content chatting away....with her...but hope springs eternal.

No I still don't understand why you guys PAY non-adult hosts. I did a video with Triksy very infrequently. If I was her typical customer she would be working at the Borscht Factory by now. I question how people spend hundreds..thousands of dollars on non-adult videos???????? Boggles my mind. Am I not being clear? If the person is your friend and she will not talk to you unless you go to video...doesn't that tell you something? Are you going to say you do it to help the kid out? To see her dazzling smile? Because she said pretty please....jesus....I gotta puke.

No Triksy did not pay with goods or services for these posts...it is a hell of an idea though...hey Triksy...how about a few free hours? We can discuss what Anonymous said...lucky bastard.

Yes I have had some short videos in the hundreds I have had in CC. Some hosts just do not look like their pics....some are catatonic and I would better off doing it to Oprah...some actually get to the action too quickly....I mean...don't yank off your top, drop your panties and start looking for the car keys in under 30 seconds. I can watch Lifetime the miracle of birth if I want to see how a gyno exam is done....and some girls are just too damn hot. I don't know about you guys but my staying power is not what it used to be. Do you think CC makes you a better lover? I think it makes you try and beat the clock. When you are with a real girl you will be pumping away while looking at your wristwatch...

That is enough for now...and I am not going soft...you bunch of jerkoffs.....

''No I still don't understand why you guys PAY non-adult hosts.''
WTF, i replied this question in the other thread started by u''Question for you non-adult fans'', just a page or 2 down.Have a look and u'll understand maybe...

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I'm sure she loves you too :D

u told what u spent before, and why u left earlier...my ?, why u come back?

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Yertle the Turtle.

With an open mind and an open heart, most anything's possible:)
And in dealing with quite a few things here, you'll probably find that a healthy sense of humor and the ability not to let someone else's frustrations become your own to be pretty valuable too;)
...Anyway, hey yourself:P ...Hope you have a pleasant, lucky, good stay here too;)

its possible,i did meet here my princess; i love her so much and its feels so great to be with her

First welcome to the site.

Second if you ever decide you want some meaningless sex instead of love or a bf give me a call :)

Do not get cheated by screennames as ImNotYourFriend..only with one sentence, he showed such an humour that whatever human being would like to be friend with him!

Long hair is better:PP

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Long nails - not too long can look sexy , but can easy get too long and look creapy ,,
It might also indicate a type of girl .........
as there will be much time spent keeping them all like this ,, and obviously not so easy to do so many things - looks like im doing the washing up then lol..
might just show a girl has too much free time , or , is so into herself ??

I did see a very poor host here , who never had enough money for the rent , but had perfect very long nails with manicure and painting done proffessionaly regularly..... lol ... are we that stupid ???

doubt she has any fun hobbies or likes to do much practical stuff ,, would soon break them ..
so I think can say a lot about a woman ,,
I prefer shorter , but nicely kept... and someone who can then feel free to muck in and play .. without all the problems ... and expense and drama if one breaks ...lol

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16 penny galvanized, please. Good, sturdy framing nails. That way your house won't fall down.

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;-)

oh r u an indian girl here? :) i have few questions about india :) came back from there few days ago :P

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...and big breasts too. Pls don't forget them:PPPP

long nails are great until the host says "i only can put them inside in one2one"

Dear Banana, thanks, you made me smile even if i am very pissed off (personal reasons :P)
Now this is a way to draw my attention :) U gave me a lesson using nice words, thanks :)
Well what can i say in my defence? :P I saw some cinic posts of yours and some of them sounded somehow like WTF's posts and i didn't remembered all the other names of the ones who really talked "nasty" in here and also i forgot to mention the "anomymous" posters :D It's true, i hurried to write somethings and i forgot others:)
I appologise dear Banana, this time you are right, i wasn't fair to you.

Can we kiss and make up? :)
I wish you a nice evening/morning :)

I accept your humble apology, thank you. You are a person of honor :) ... if I knew who you were I would drop by to give my thanks in person. I understand how difficult it can be to keep up with everything that is written here in the forums ... and the fact that people can hide behind "anonymous" and say the most nasty things worries me but I realize that there is little I can do about that.

And yes, it is true that I am sometimes cynical, but in most cases those people generally deserve the ribbing that they get, primarily because they have said something pretty outlandish, or made claims that are basically absurd. And in most cases I am not alone in my opinions.

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yeah, I know what you mean ... my friends think I am weird for talking to humans. And I understand about not wanting to open yourself up for criticism by using your name ... I, however, don't really care so you may send me cc mail to ABanana :)

And you're right, I am a sensitive wee fellow so the idea of "Dungeon" scares me witless ...

U've got mail (cc email :P)..my creen names contains ME4U :D (this is in case someone else tries to trick some of us:D )

can u cc mail me and define dungeon?
lol
who knows i m even sweeter;)

OMG, this is madness :)))))))))))
That a girl!! Teach him babe:)))))))))
And who said that women are dumb? :P

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Alyssa Milano!

fuck YES!!!!

There's a time for love
And a time for livin'
Take a chance and face the wind.
An open road
And a road that's hidden.
A brand new life around the bend.
There were times I lost a dream or two
Found the trail, and at the end was you
There's a path you take
And a path not taken
The choice is up to you my friend
Nights are long but you might awake
To a brand new life,
Brand new life,
A brand new life around the bend.

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Good ones! :-D

lol very good :) thank you :D

looks like we're not in luck , but c u there from thursday nite stranger

if your male I'll buy you a drink, if your female, how about dinner ;)

Just an idiot, will find many of them here. Part of the job, I guess.

You dont have to show anything you dont want. Especially in your category.

Hope you could have had a better first day. Best of luck to you anyway.

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The guy was a jerk. He was rude, just forget about it. Having said that,, there are chat host who do strip in the non-adult categories. So expect to be asked to strip but never do anything you do not want to do. There ar members who come to the non-adult categories just for chat.

Just like outside of the Internet, there will be both rude people and nice people. There are some people that come in here drunk, lonely, dog died, fish died, ect.... so they dump all their negative emotions on the girls.

I'm sure you will meet plenty of nice guys here, but there will always be rude guys. That is life. Hopefully, you will meet lots more nice and polite guys though.

don't believe the sad story. I was in 1 to 1 with her and she said she had to reboot. I waited and like a dummy I just clicked the 1 to 1 button with out looking. and amazing.. the price went from normal price to 6,00 a minute, 5,00 for regular. I didnt notice until it cut me off and when I looked, gee, the prices had changed. I was a dummy for not looking, but she pulled a pretty good trick on me. She ain't so innocent as she makes out to be. and she will strip in 1 to 1.. Learned my lesson

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same information.. although I did not call her a bitch exactly. I sad only a bitch would pull a stunt like that. sorry but I was very upset

RoseMarry

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to Dummy- when u come to my video my price was 0.90. and u sit in vid and ask to strip.For what? if Im in non adult???

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Dealing with the public in any business can be challenging. But here in cyberspace where people can hide behind computer monitors, it can be more difficult. Good luck.

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LOL
This place is nuts :D

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That was me. I mistakenly thought you were in the INSTANT ACTION section, so I became so verrrry excited. I could not control my hormones. I took Viagra before I came into your room and my hands and legs were shaking. My body was tingling all over and I could not control myself.

I am sorry.

its not very cost effective to use viagra for video im thinkin

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im sure some one says, i will be your slave, just take my money....hehe, that is funniest thing i have heard in a while on here...remember, if u complain, tell all of the story, not just part of it

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there are plenty of members who are willing to come at video at $5 per min. And they are not willing to see u naked! Take it,man! It really does work. just another kind of geeks !

Hi girl I know that category 3 years almost and i wanna give u advice for be nice even with rude people here then u not will get upset about it.Its like in real life people are different ,them mood could be different.

Yes it is called "financial domination" , they r the kind of guys who feel excited when their money are given to a beautiful smart mistress.
People, people, if u don't know try a google search before judging others. I am a mistress and i also do financial domination slaves and believe me, they r plenty outhere!

God... financial domination...me wants some of that too! lol

sorry to say dear new one - it is what u may expect today as half the so called noneadult hosts are selleing between little shy or what u get on 1-2-1 now - so how wld the member know whats ur trick ?
what u get when so many bend the rules
good luck in ur work here anyway // klem

Oh well...

You do not say whether she is adult or non-adult but I guess it is adult. If you want to help her, rather than just say she is broing why not make some suggestions how she could make her shows more interesting. Also how she can tease and flirt with guys in chat. Maybe she is just a nervous new host and hasn't yet worked out to do.

She is in adult here and also on other sites. On one site she goes from free to video. She does not seem to understand how to flirt to get men enticed to paying for video. I have tried making suggestion to her about how to get members to come into video. The main problem she looks bored or angry whether in free or video. I spent one night in her free and basically told her what to say to members via yahoo to get them to pay for video. She had three videos that night but she normally she goes days without a paying member.

The other site has fan clubs which allow you to view past videos. Her problem is she looks totally not interested and you can tell she is faking stuff. The few members she gets never return. She does not stall in video but she lacks the passion even if it is nothing more than an acting job to get members to come back.

But, when she gets a member she buzzes me on yahoo and is so excited. The problem is she can't convey .it to viewers and potential viewers.

I think anon was kidding :)
look at "she get few members in chat (60 last night)" for me, at least, it sounds ironical :)

Ok, I was wrong :P

actually not, this was im today. deleting her y name. She had more viewers another night.

i tould u that i have when i was up 100 viewrs. just dont come in nude

I have seen member after member ask her if she is angry or bored.

what is her name?

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The guy said that she was on another site with free preview. In this type of sites there are more than 100 viewers daily, no matter if u stay 2 hours or 12 online. They come to see the girls, they beg for free nudity and many of them are rude. It wasn't about CC. Read twice before asking ;)

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Try reading the whole string and not just one post. In a post timed at 09:41 GMT the poster wites "She is in adult here and also on other sites. On one site she goes from free to video."

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I'm pretty sure I recognise this description, particularly about always looking angry or bored. I'll keep an eye on this to see if I'm correct, but won't blurt her name - she has to make a living, after all.

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I want her so baddd.... Yummmmmmmmmy.. I stopped everything I was doing when I saw her on TV. If she was on CC, I would spend all my money on her. :))

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I like more Albena DENKOVA and Maxim STAVISKI

Russians will always be the stars in figure skating!!!!!! 3 golds already!!!!!!!! from 4:) so far....Im sure the 4th is theirs too.....Great skaters!!!!!!!

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Come on, Me...Russians are so boring...the same elements all the time...If Maxim and Albena were play for Russia thay were win all gold medals - thay don't look as elegant as american pair but thair play is... just genius... absolutely dramatic! This is not sport any more but ART! So it's not so important to win medal - we all know how some pairs win medals ;), isn't it? More important is to stand by the high level positions in yr heart in spite of all trammels! So congratulations to DENKOVA/STAVISKI thay never changed thair style after all neglectings of referees and thay never turn the art into sport! BTW Maxim is rare handsom russian guy - u, russians, have to be proud with such a nice contestant instead of it u lost him :) poor u. Yeah, we win a dancer!

http://www.figureskatingmystery.com/2005/01/denkova-stavisky-12105.html

Yes He wasa true hero. As I recall he was working on a cure for what is now being called bird flu right up to the time of his tragic death. Just think how differant it would be if he were still alive, as the spokesman for the world...no hunger, no war...just living on cheap whisky and sex with fat chicks...Damn you Bon...why did you leave us???

Bloody Aussies... :-D

Making rock music is very important!

I've been around the world,
I've seen a million girls
Ain't one of them got,
What, my lady, she's got
She's stealin' the spotlight,
Knocks me off my feet
She's enought to start a landslide,
Just a walkin' down the street
Wearin' dresses too tight,
And lookin' dynamite
Enough to blow me out,
No doubt about it, can't live without it

The girl's got rhythm! (Girl's got rhythm!)
The girl's got rhythm! (Girl's got rhythm!)
She's got the backseat rhythm! (Backseat rhythm!)
The girl's got rhythm! Oh!

She's like a lethal brand,
Too much for any man
She gave me first-degree,
She really satisfied me
Loves me till I'm lifeless,
Achin', and sore
Enough to stop a freight train,
Or start the Third World War
You know I'm losin' sleep,
But I'm in too deep
Like a body needs blood,
No doubt about it, can't live without it

The girl's got rhythm! (Girl's got rhythm!)
The girl's got rhythm! (Girl's got rhythm!)
She's got the backseat rhythm! (Backseat rhythm!)
The girl's got rhythm! Ow!

You know she moves like sin,
And when she lets me in
It's like liquid love,
No doubt about it, can't live without it

The girl's got rhythm! (Girl's got rhythm!)
The girl's got rhythm! (Girl's got rhythm!)
She's got the backseat rhythm! (Backseat rhythm!)
The girl's got rhythm! (Girl's got rhythm!)
You know she's really got the rhythm! (Girl's got rhythm!)
She's got the backseat rhythm! (Backseat rhythm!)
Rock n' roll rhythm! (Rock n' roll rhythm!)
The girl's got rhythm!

Marianne Timmer G O L D !!!!!!

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more like anyone but the USA.......and if Canada loses, it will be their own fault for going to the games with same attitude as USA

And what attitude is that?

Speaking of attitute.....Wow

a life ! get ! please !

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If you catch a cold I'll fill a cup with some of my homemade
Chuck-o-licious Chowder. You'll get better quick, mama

Are you sure it is not Up-chuck olicious chowder? :P

Your call if you enter.... will be about 5/10 viewers in video watching :)

and to 'mmm'............ suggest you take heed of your own advice :p

YES!!!! Thank you Rick !! I've followed ur advise and....yabba, dabba, doo, u were right man.
I spent a hot and rare moment. Outstanding !! Yeahhhhh!!!! Rick for President. WOW, WOW, I'm naming my kids after you, man...Yeah, yeah!!

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I don't know who won, but i sure hope there is enough
Chuck-O-Licious Chowder to go around for everybody!

Contest not held yet.... we awaiting responses but we will hold it this week/next weekend.

can we get caramella all wet ?

I already made her wet...
Chuck

Suggest you go and ask her....

...also please quit following my ass around, your starting to freak me out!!!

I like this idea. A competition organised by members.I guess nNo big money prizes for hosts but they should get a lot of members in vid. Maybe get some new regulars. Please post detals here once the date time and participating hosts arefixed.

Sure will when we get enough entrants.

when is that going to be???????? lol

Can I 'hold' it ? LOL

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are you HornyBilly?

Yes me. Billy is always so horny.
Changed spelling so Papa would not get grumpers with me again, Now so much time no visits from him in two days :(
We share much and talk about sandwiches and my toys.

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My Billy, i just wanna thank you for all those kind words you said about me in the posts below, thank you very much, you seem to be the last one who has smth good to say about me.
I wish you all the best in your life.
you've got lots of fans now :P congrats :)
kisses and hugs, sweetie, muahhh !!!!

"you seem to be the last one who has smth good to say about me"

Although I have never visited you in live videochat, I did take a look at your archives. And based on what I've seen, I have to put you at the same level as supermodels Elle McPhearson, Cindy Crawford and many others. You should send some photos to the modeling agencies in New York and LA and I think that in short time you will find your face on all of the top fashion magazines.

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Thanks for the nice words. You are right I really am cute as a button.
Chuck11

loooooool
thx, Alex :)

That little boy thinks in a logical manner.

hihi! lets enjoy while we can then

For me it's already too late :(

ohhh dont be like that lol. life can bring you something good around the corner. and with CC you can always have fun and lighten up :-)

Hmm where were you wnen i neeeded you. like im not your friend it is probably too late for me. Thx anyhow >>lol

welcome hihi! i wasn't meaning me directly. but well im here on CC with lots of other girls. so that all guys can make up for what u didnt enjoy b4.. isnt it? lol

Define what you mean by "cheating". You mean having sex with another guy, just going out on a date or what ?

i mean having sex.

If you want dirty stories there are plenty available on the internet or in porn mags.

i never asked for stories. a simple yes or no would suffice.

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I had..but boyfr asked me to do it.for fun)

was he watching? :P

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i cheated on my exbf. Now im married with another guy, but thinking all the time of cheating on him. Never enough for me :))

People like you are sick.

sluts! except for the story girl

may i ask why u cheated on him?

ca i just say what a stupid question!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

u can say whatever u like, just like i can.........what a stupid comment!

I know you asked for girls only but i couldnt resist . i dont think cheating ever accomplish's anything if you truly love the person you cheat on. If you do cheat then you dont love the one you cheat on and you both just get hurt and will never have a healthy realationship, even if you are forgiven. It ia may be easy to forgive if you truly love someone but it is never easy to forget> I say dont ever cheat.

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If you talk about sex, then, no, I was always an angel :)
But about kisses, that's different, and same goes for flirts.. I used to have bfs, but occasions appeared and kissed others. Feeling guilty? No.

The only I didn't cheat is now my husband :D

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Is this a controversial subject?

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I like to cheat guys out of money then to cheat out of love ;)

Never have and never will. If it got to the point where I wanted to cheat, I would just break up with him first.

http://www.cbsnews.com/stories/2005/01/17/earlyshow/living/main667380.shtml

http://magazines.ivillage.com/redbook/experts/sex/qas/0,,284459_598212,00.html

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Such relationships really don't seem too uncommon here. And for any sweet, wonderfully nice guy invloved in one and who just happened to read your message, I can easily imagine it not too uncommon for most of them to be dying a little inside right now wondering if their special friend might be you, and what it will finally take for you to think of him as more than just the friend he's trying to convince you he is.

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Why not what?

Because I said what, exactly?

No, I haven't forgotten about the marriages that were formed here. But now that you bring it up, what exactly does a marriage forged here equate to? A green card? A life more comfortable than a woman here might have otherwise?
Oh no, that's right, it's all about love, isn't it?

If you think I'm worried one iota about you or your current situation with this supposed friend, please, don't worry yourself....umm, twit.
But really now, why does it seem that you're so quick to defend and justify his paying to see you as something any normal friend would do?
And as far as it's possible for you to REALLY know, do you honestly believe that a healthy friendship can be made when one person makes a charity case of another? No, but wait, you help him out in so many ways yourself. It's a reciprocating, friendly love fest, isn't that right?
Remind me again, what exactly is it that you do to return the kindness he so graciously shows you?
Ah no, nevermind, I remember: You help him out by gladly taking his money without ever daring to ask for it in the first place. Wow, how very kind and how equally generous of you.

So you find most of the guys here rude and unpleasant because they only want to treat you as something bought, do you?
Maybe you should wander a bit more around this site and ask yourself why on earth it might be the case that many guys here think that way. Granted, the clues might be hard to come by, but if you keep your eyes open, you just might be able to piece together some very plausible explanations as to why that might be the case. Heck, wander enough and you might even come to the silly conclusion that maybe, just maybe, this ain't exactly the best place on the net to meet a nice new genuine friend.

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So real love is about shaking up with someone who can transplant you from one dim reality to something a little brighter and cheerier? Real love is about what someone else can do to satisfy the future you want but can't make for yourself? Real love is opportunistic? Real love is that selfish?

No, I don't think that any girl deserves disrespect for simply being here, and I've never once said so.

It's interesting how in one instant you scold me for what you presume to be me judging you, and then turn right around and make some mighty big assumptions and judgements about me.
You don't know me. I could very well be the type of guy laughing just as much at the poor fool who thinks that buying you drinks, food, presents, or lauding you with so much flattery, attention, and "niceness" will buy him a way into your pants, into your heart, or simply(and oh so innocently, I'm sure) into nothing but the circle of your only most dearest of "friends".
Or, for that matter, I just very well might be the kind of guy rooting for that poor fool to wake up, hone his game, and come back and "feck" you and all the friends you shared a laugh with at his expense, and then walk away from all of you and on to something real and something a hell of a lot more meaningful laughing the last laugh himself.

I agree with you, friendships formed in the most difficult and unlikely of circumstances can sometimes prove to be the truest kind. I never said that real friends can't be found here, and I never said that real love can't be found here either. I just think it's a steep "fecking" hill to climb to try to make something real in a place built on so much fantasy.

Whether you asked "nice and politely" or not, you asked for a cynic's view on the subject. I gave you one. Was I rude? I may be Initially I don't think so...I didn't mean to be anyway. It wasn't until you started twisting my words into something you could rail against and call me stupid for having imagined I said that I saw fit to start treating you the very same way.

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I know this is an oxymoron, but let's put this into a perspective of reality.

CC and all web sites of its ilk are primarily for the selling and buying of porn with a personal touch. That's where these sites make their money. And that's why most men come here. To fulfill fanatsies that they either don't have the guts to fulfill in real life, they can't get enough of it, or just to have some fun.

Although there are real people involved on both ends, the situation is not, it is based in fantasy and dreams. And money is the key to it all, whatever the fantasy or dream may be.

That being said, friendship and love can always be found in strange places, but one should always remember that true friendship and love is something that can not be sold and bought and as long as money remains the primary factor, it's not real.

So much for being serious.

Do you get naked?

:D

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That's bad for business, ya know.

;)

If you have a happy relationship why do you come here and explain in detail and dare the assholes to throw stones at you? You know they will, why demand it? Keep your stupid mouth shut, stay off the forum and enjoy your friendships.

Do you include yourself in the assholes?

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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Freedom_of_speech

Yes while I would agree with you that real friendships can develop I think, that in the vast majority of cases, these "friendships" flow only one way from the member to the host.

In the vast majority of the cases, it's "strip, baby!", followed closely by an "ok", or the member leaves.

This sight is about money, not respect. Chathosts operate a room at their own risk and they should know it going in.

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la, hi Host :)

sounds like a familiar situation I was in a while ago la. Except, I never saw my friend naked even though she was in an adult section, whenever some other guy came in to ask for a video I left lol. I guess it didn't seem right to see her naked putting on a show since we were friends. Though I did help her with money la, I believe she had some serious money problems because something happened and I may be wrong but I don't believe it was a lie to get me to send money. She too never asked me to go into video, she even encouraged me not to lol because she knew I was studying and needed money myself.

I wasn't really sure why people were against this kind of relationship either, one guy kept tellin me that my friend was a whore and that they (she worked with two of her friends) trick people into sending money and lie constantly etc.

*shrug* I guess it's some of the guys who have been hurt by such friendships, I not sure. I kinda understand why though lol because my friend managed to get another job and said she would still have to work on here becuase the money wasn't enough :( then she meet a guy like over a month ago and I haven't heard from her since. Thinking about what she said about me being one of her true friends I guess that was a lie la, haven't heard from her in a long time and to be honest I don't expect I ever will.

I guess in such relationships it usually, if not always, means a lot more to the guy to be friends with a nice host than it is for a host to have a viewer as a true friend *shrug*... maybe...

Hmm this is very familar to me too. i am in love with a host here . i dont see here often but we are in constant contact on messenger or phone. i even meet this host, We talk about marriage and are planning to get married as soon as she can get cleared from her country to marry me.. She needs visa which i understand is hard to get. So in the mean time i send her money on ocassions , I see her ocassionally and like someone else mentioned when she goes into a video session with someone i usually leave because i dont want to know what she does with someone else. i love her and trust her. I dont believe she is using me just to get out of her country even though i have been told and warned by many here and by my friends. i lost my point of view i was going to make but i hope all who find love or even friendship here , really finds what they are looking for. I believe i have. I LOVE YOU HONEY, YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE IF YOU READ THIS.,,,,,,

I wish you luck , I have similar situation. But .. so many are warning me not to .. everyone has advice for me .. - but for now i go with my feelings and try and hope we will make it happen ..
We have met a few times , and have a full relationship. But communications is not always so easy. Many misunderstandings in translation and timing. If we can both trust then we can make this happen .. and it will be wonderful .. but we must fight against the tide ..
and all those that warn us ...
I hope this will make us stronger .. as long as we keep faith and believe in us ..
Very hard to do .. but .im certain it can be .:-)

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This maybe a case of Reverse Psychology working at its best. :) .. You see, if you tell a guy not to spend money on her, it makes you want to spend more money on her. If you tell a guy to spend more time in video session with her, the guy would be turned off and know exactly what she's up to (draining your bank account). Therefore, you'll be inclined not to spend time in pvt with her. :))

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Probably because the stupid greedy people started out by being the "nice one" and only showed their true intentions at a later date which means that even the genuinely nice people end up being treated with a certain degree of scepticism.

Maybe that isn't fair but unfortunately it is life.

I am happy for you and your friend. I think you are generally right, friendship, even very good ones can happen I think whatever the circumstances I think. Even in what might be initially a business relationship. I am good friends with several of my colleages, classmates and other people. We meet outside of work, hang out sometimes and all.

But 'true' friendship so to speak is rare and although it could occur whatever the circumstance, it might not be the case sometimes even if one thinks it is. Like in mycase, if my business relationship ends or I move to another place, I think many of my friendships would end too. Oh, we might still speak to one another occasionally for sometime, but that might also end eventually.

Would your friendship have developed if your friend was not also your client? Probably not. Also would it last if he never took you on video again, would you still meet that often, even if you remained friends?

In the end I think a true friendship can develop anywhere, even from what might be initally a purely business relationship, whether in real life or in a place like this website. There are good people and there are liars and cheats, just a question of spotting them soon enough.

Hi! la :)

well just wanted to say a few things la. First, good luck on your exams :) i have my coming up soon too, yey lol.

I do mean to sound offensive but I don't believe that my friend ( former host) is just busy but rather ignoring the fact i am alive la. Well at least it feels that way, for someone to tell you that you are on of their closest true friends and that they are glad they met you etc to disappear for 5 weeks without so much as droppin an occasional message to say hi doesn't fill me with much hope that i will ever hear from her again or, come to think of it want to hear from her again if this is how she treats good friends. Lets just say I'm not holding my breath for her to drop a 'hi there, hope ur ok, i am well, bye' message otherwise I'd long ago suffocated.

I don't think your situation or how you handled taking a break from talking to your friends was anything like this. You had the curtesy of telling your friends you are busy :) my friend however literally disappeared after saying 'i love chatting to you, i'm sorry we haven't chatted much, i will chat to you tomorrow when i'm working on cc' and that was 5 weeks ago la.

La I've kinda strayed off the whole topic again haven't I? ;) well same answer lol, some guys have been hurt by such friendships/relationships thus bear a painful memory and can possibly spot similar scams that happened to them thus advising their fellow man to be careful etc.

I do believe in a friendship between host and viewer I'm just saying that the value of that friendship for the host and viewer sometimes differ. *shrug* hope I don't sound too pessimistic or anything la.

" just a question of spotting them soon enough"

Very true. And i use my instinct on this one, cuz so far the instinct never gave me wrong leads :)
And this is what i was asking : why some people cannot believe in this? Were they burned too many times? Does working on a porn site means that we aren't worthy of trust and respect? I think no...But i wanted to hear some opinions...
Thanks for answering, i wish u all good luck in finding sweet friends among these lovely girls :)

Finland - Czech Republic 4-2 (1-1, 1-1, 2-0) :-((

don't worry.. so long as both your beloved czech team beats italy and switzerland beats germany tomorrow, both teams will be guaranteed a spot in the quarterfinals;)

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russia always has a very strong hockey team, and in this olympics that's still very much true... their only loss has been to a very good slovak team in a very close game... no reason to feel too hesitant about russia's chances just yet;)

I've used exclamation mark only because it was a big surprise, that Switzerland beaten Canada (like it was, when they beaten Czech Republic also a day before yesterday). My favs are Czechs and Slovaks:PPPP Czechs lost yesterday, but Slovaks won:-))

lol... sorry, i didn't exactly mean to say that i thought you were a fan of the swiss team(heaven forbid:P)... i just meant that if they beat the german team today, that it would mean that germany couldn't pass the czech republic in the standings and beat them out for that last spot in the quartefinals;) ...turns out that even a tie between switzerland and germany would amount to the same thing;)
...so now you have no reason to be sad when the canadians beat the czechs in the last game of preliminary play.. it won't really matter:P

Welcome back

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Dont know the answer, because never visited any nonadult host here, but maybe some of members who visit them rely on get them strip. lol

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An excellent analysis of the whole adult vs non-adult thing Gabi. And I suspect that there are more guys than you think in your latter category ... maybe not so much the "rich control freak" though but probably just ordinary guys who have taken a fancy to a particular pretty face and enjoy the chatting and are eventually going to start thinking "hmm, if I can get her trust, maybe she will start to show me some stuff in 1-2-1" ... I myself admit to being in this type of situation once or twice - worked once too :)

So WTF, in answer to your question, I concur with Gabi ... if a guy wants some hot pussy, he'll head naturally for an "instant action" chick but if he wants to see if he can work some magic and entice a pretty young thing into taking off a few of her clothes even though she says she "doesn't do that kind of thing", then I can see the thrill in that too.

i hear tell that the whole "i'm rich.. i'm not a horn dog... i respect you as a person" thing works in helping a few members here to procure a nice selection of willing playmates for the ol' next "business trip" too:P

Oh come on WTF. You have made it clear many times that on the subject of non-adult hosts you have a closed mind and will never understand why members pay to see them.
You know you will hold any responses members make up to ridicule. You just cannot help yourself.

just looking for a tutor to help with my romanian lessons, i swear:P

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same reason why u visit Tricksy the one who never strips here ;)

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Here r yr words ...From: WTF.... Reply New Message
RE: nonadult 18/Feb/2006 16:04 (GMT)

Triksy has to be the most honest. No adult. Excellent english. Intelligent. Nice personality. That is not to say she is not clever or a business woman. But I would say her kindness and warmth are more genuine that most other nonadult hosts who generally creep me out as they prey on the lonely, sad and socially and emotionally retarded. Plus just imaging being with Triksy is enough to get me going....sigh.....if she could read my mind she would never speak to me again....peace

does he actually pay to speak with her though? ...from that quote alone, it's not quite clear, is it?:P

Triksy at $1.49 in non-adult... she must be doing something right for him! :p

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sorry i forgot From: WTF... Reply New Message
RE: to triksy 17/Feb/2006 03:25 (GMT)

Triksy never would fall off a chair...but I am sure she made many members fall of the edge of their world.....love you dear.
add one of yr other comments about an "nonadult" girl.... :P:P:P Shall we understand that since u wont pay for a truly non adult host but u do pay for tricksy is she one of the fake nonadult girls?

Again, as anonymous said above, nowhere in that quote does WTF say that he has actually visited Triksy

If you read WTF's many previous posts on Triksy you will find that he says he chats with her in text but doesn't go to video.

Well I have tried non adult and it is not for me :(

I have returned to my old manta which is "The only good host is a naked host" :)

Triksy in non adult.So if WTF like her so much its means that she is at dark ide and do adult shows for him..or not only for him.

No it doesn't

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Give me the instant actions any day :P

Big LOL

Yo bud

well I guess the reson would be similar to the reasons why men keep going back to their fave adult hosts... except for the sexual nature (of course not true if the 'non adult' host strips etc in 121)

we've all met some host in adult who says the right things, is nice to us and caters to our ego... making us feel good about ourselves even if we know we aint shit in life.

Have you ever tried really having an in depth conversation with an attractive woman without wanting her to strip and play with a dildo?

that's kinda what it's like... that feeling of not wanting to see flesh. to be really connected to the girl in conversation for one brief moment without you worrying about how quick you can cum so you can save those few extra $. Knowing that there really is a special person with a unique personality inside the host that a lot of guys brand as 'whores' (sorry).

I knew you are neat, from the first email! I wish you all the best, Angel!
You make an old soul to keep believing...Kiss

I am curious why dont u reply at yr post but u do reply at other lately posts?

probably bcs he just posts to see his name in forums all the time, not coz he really has any questions or anything to say

lol good one :)