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something i need to say

here is the way one russian girl that work here is. i meet her, come to a few videos and enjoy her company. we were friends until one night she tell me how no one love her - she is so lonely. well, i felt same way so we started to talk about relations. i don't want to believe it but she keep assuring me how much she needs me in her life. she worked at studio and because i cared and want to help her, i send her money to get set up at her home. i was not trying to buy her love, i wanted to show her that i was serious about my feelings for her and that i trusted her. i also thought that it would allow us to have more time together. she seemed to be happy about that. what happened? she stalled getting set up at home and finally, more than a month after i send her money. she start working at home. but then we hardly talk and when we did, it was not friendly. i was broken hearted - she did very little in appreciation to me and i never expect nothing more than continued friendship. but when i told her i wouldn't pay to see her - that was it - she tried to make excuses for why she cant chat with me anymore ... that i should be patient and wait ... finally i was so mad - i tell her go f*** herself and be a good whore and leave me alone. then later i try to apologize and explain why i said those angry words. she tell me then that she was tired of my depression and that i always unhappy (i wonder why). i don't care about the 700 dollars. i piss away more than that in one hand of blackjack. it was the reckless disregard for my feelings that bothered me. then i see her post things about manners and love and being nice. what a joke. how do some russian girls think it is ok to hurt people that show them such kindness? this long legs liar has no true feelings - so watch out. i have nice girlfriend now from romania who is my support every day. and i don't send her any money.
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I am sorry to hear about your experiences but glad you have found someone better now. Please tell us who was this scamming host so that no one else falls for the same trick.

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her screenname is in the message- but in 3 words - just take off the iar on the last word and put them together. or cc mail me - i will tell you

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Thnaks, got you now!

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VIDEO ONLY, NO TEXTCHAT should have been a hint, unless that's a new development.

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You were very unlucky buddy , you had the extremely bad luck to meet one of the worst person ( no matter if chathost , nurse , engineer , assistant , etc ....it is a matter of personality , no about job ) that i have met here. Fortunatly i realized that soon and ran away about her charming , loving , tender , nice words......
Of course and fortunatly , other girls here are not like her at alland you are happy now with that Romanian girl.
We need to use our legs to run away of that pathological and dangerous liar.

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I imagine someone is now in the process of changing her screen name - lol
I am sorry to hear about what happened to you though

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Consider it a lucky escape - she has a face like a bag of spanners :)

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You must be the Ted that doesn't hate women.

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ahh you never finished near the top of your year,did you?

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LMAO

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i been foolished by a viewer with 1.444 euros and u think in here only viewers are fooled well was my bad luck to believe him :(

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Yes, there is the rara case of a cash scam by a Viewer, but usually he's happy to scam you into bed on his vacation.

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Yes,she was very bad with you. But as man can complain here? And all others too. Can be a problem was not in money?
Something changed in you, when you gave her money. Soo big money 700 $$. Probably she has bought house :)

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<<i never expect nothing more than continued friendship. but when i told her i wouldn't pay to see her - that was it>>

But you *were* expecting something.... you were expecting free videos for buying her a computer.

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It seems a coutesy she could have given. He didn't mention sex shows, only the pleasure of continued conversation with a visual component..

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Don't misunderstand me. I do think if she was true with her words in the beginning, she wouldn't treat him like yesterdays leftovers. He was played... but I think he was expecting some play in return, regardless if it was sexual or not.

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It is sad how incredibly naive some people are. But I was at one time, as well.

The loneliness that hosts express is the cyber-loneliness of sitting at work (the studio or even at home) waiting for customers (viewers). When they say they have no friends, they mean they have no friends at the studio during work hours. They are not talking of true social loneliness of no one to go to the cafe or disco with and they are certainly not talking of sexual loneliness as they get hit on as much as you would imagine any hot girl gets hit on.

I remember one host in my early days of chatsite membership who told me she had only two friends in the world, one in Holland and me. Then she mentioned spending the weekend with friends at the beach.

The fact that you would gladly have given her the $700 simply in exchange for free video doesn't seem to have occured to her as she is simply a "taker" and not even a cyber-friend. Think how much smoother the entire transaction would have went if she simply said: "I'll be able to open my cam for you for a half hour each day for the next 6 months."

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I offered to pay one girl for bed and board for my stay in Russia. She said NO. You will be my guest and don't either think about trying to pay me money...

Not all can be tarred with the same brush, there are different people in all walks of life regardless of what Nationality they are.

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VERY true.

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You project the air of a brash, independent bird who has no need of any man for any reason. You have no need of a knight on a horse, so why would one come to you?

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Shave the snatch and i'll send ya some chocies.

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See?

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I was sending a girl $500 a month....That came to end when I realized she enjoyed travelling more than she enjoyed me.

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And did someone explain the facts of life to you to help reach this wise decision?

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$500 a month. Good grief man. .. I know it's good to bare the soul but I really don't believe I would have confessed that one. I suppose it's all part of an education. Good Luck

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Can you live with 500$ for month?:))

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I can easily accept an extra $500 from someone stupid enough to send it without me having to do anything for it but send lies in e-mail. And if I find 1 or 2 more such guys it is better and better.

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7 of 10

are like that.
both ends. hosts say whatever is needed to get your cash.
members that believe anything an give cash, then get blown off.

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maybe she thought of you as a friend. all those great intentions and emotional dedication actually make her go away.

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im sry to hear such an story .......again!!!! 4 all other guys: love cant be bought!!! love doesnt take , love gives....and im sry to read such posts , and im ashamed 4 those girls who make all us hosts look as heartless bitches looking only after money... Scamers are all over , not just in CC, and ppl should be carefull when a person they just met asks 4 money......Dana

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This did not have to be said!
You say you have a girl friend now that you are happy with.
We all have had relationships that did not wok out.
Be glad for how things worked out for you!
Why are you still bitter?
There was no reason for saying the chathosts screen name.
And it was not nice of you for doing that.

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was not nice 4 her doing what she did either....he did well... rest of guys will be more carefull... im a host too, but im on his side.... now ....peace dana

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I agree with you, Dana...:)
In some other "camsites"... this scammer would already have been banned... at least for some weeks :)
If it's the only way to put those scammers out from CC... Viewers MUST give scammer's name here... to protect other viewers ... and in the same time... protect the good reputation of CC :)

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I don't see what happens outside of cc is any of cc's concern.She asked for money to set up a computer at home and she set up a computer at home.How can you prove that at the time she was not in love with him at that time?
I also doubt other sites ban hosts for such behaviour nearly as much as you think if at all.

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Hey...Wake-up !!! Don't be naive !!!

She still use the same screen name... so she is still working for the same Boss... but from home...:)))

If you want to send money to a host... send it as a present and wait nothing in return... no "friendship", no "gratitude"... just nothing... ...except a bill from your bank... :))))))))

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I would never send money gift or otherwise.

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Well said Dana... I totaly agree with you :)
Such people must be banned from camsites :) (at least for some weeks)...

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You're still wrong.Name and shame maybe but banning no.

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Why not ban a scammer ???
Are you a Viewer, a Host or a Boss ...???

If you are a Viewer... that's not your problem !!!
If you are a Host... are you afraid to be banned ???
If you are a Boss... is that bad for your "business" ???...

Banning a scammer is good for everybody, except for those who are living of such business...:)))

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I am a viewer and you're right it isn't my problem as I never send money and never will but that does not mean that I can't have an opinion.What scam?The host asked for money for a pc to work at home and bought a pc to work at home.OP says he expected nothing in return and that's exactly what he got.Both parties fulfilled their obligations under the agreement.

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If she can't understand the value of the $700 and at least give him the courtesy of a thank you and some free video time then she is an inconsiderate child, if not a scum-sucking bitch.

A gift/loan of such an amount deserves some simple courtesies. If I were her personal counselor I would find out how obsessive he truly was and if he was merely annoying I'd suggest a "repayment" scheme of 1/2 hour free video for a month. She is a professional and he did make a most significant contribution to her financial benefit.

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Just some comments :
1) Scammers are from all countries. Sure, they are some countries strongly represented here on CC, where it's a well known speciality to scam pleople, but I will not say which countries... or my comments will be censured (like some comments on this post...refering about hosts countries :( )
2) Scam scenarios are changing : first, they were asking money to pay rent or medicine. After, they didn't ask for money... but just tell to viewer they are not good, sick, or mother was sick, and they can't afford for medicine... and some "sensitive" and often "honest" viewers fall in the trap and send her money :(
3) Now, in some countries, it's a real "business", organized around (or by ???) some studios : when a host meet a "depressive" or "naive" or "too kind" viewer, the host (and her boss or pimp) build a new scenario. They never ask for money... but use the "sensibility" or "feelings" of some viewers to have money...
4) An "honest" host told me one day that, in her studio, she has a daily meeting with her boss... to talk about some viewers..., and to build a strategy to pick them more money...
5) Some strategy was so try to build a "friend" relationship (or more...) with the viewer, give them messenger ID..., talk or do some "free" show on messenger... (it's a kind of investment...:) )...and when the relation is strong enough... begin to talk about hosts problems (rent, disease, family problems...)
6) The strategy of the host who need a new PC or who want a new PC to work from home is a well known strategy, cause they know that viewers are sensitive about a girl working for a "boss" in a studio. The host will earn more money if she don't work for a boss anymore. But often, they are still working for the same "boss"... cause in studios, the hosts screenname are property of the boss studio :( (...and in some countries, where you can't open a new account on CC, girls need to pay or rent for a screen name...)

About scammers on CC, we need to be cautious, but if CC don't take some decisions in regards with those professionnal scammers... at leats they could advise new viewers about possible "scam scenarios" and insist on never sending money to any host.

Also, if it's great to talk with a host on messenger... she know why she give you her ID messenger : all talks on CC are recorded... and they could have penalties (or be banned for a while) if they talk about or ask "money" on CC... :)

My conclusion is that CC is an entertainment site... and is not a dating site !!!
And such category like "Make new Friends" or "Marriage" are here just for "fun" and not really to meet "friends"!!!
Don't never try to find a real "friend" or a "wife" in such category, none in other category!!!
If "real friendship" or "love" can happend on CC... it's exception...

Have "fun" on CC... :)

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this was the information i was wondering about. thank you for reading and understanding why i posted this. i was narrow minded enough to believe that the hosts are the cause of this. It is much stronger than that as I now see. It is a shame that these people operate business through this site. They will ruin it for everyone, including themselves.

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silly post...I am model, i can make this 700$ in 2-3 days.You and many other men here want be MAN. You are afraid for each cent. And if you sent girl a money as gift, you think that whole life she must thank you !!!
Here i meet many mens, but some think if they go to my private, after it they can few hours f*** my brains in free chat.
Sure, i try be nice..But between privates i need rest. I think all want good show??

If they dont got it they go to forum and post here ...All girls want only money..

YOu friends ?:))

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CC on airplanes

We need access to CC on long haul flights, any one agree?
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To each his own, but I'd much prefer some "real" time with a pretty stewardess :)

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have you seen the stewardesses lately? (at least on US flights) good only if you have an Ugly Mistress Ursala fantasy

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Actually I have, and this is a result of a class action suit brought by a group off middle age stewardesses (from Pan Am I believe), alleging age discrimination, for it seems it had ben the industry's practice to find some pretext for either reassigning the older stewardesses to other work, or firing them outright. The Federal Court Ruled on their behalf. so, voila! There you have it....But what ever happened to that Hooters Airline?

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thats why i fly Thai Air when I can

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And what delights have you experienced there? Prurient minds want to know! :)

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You have to fly in first class if you want the better looking flight attendants.

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even they dont win any prizes, and they are often men....East Asian and Gulf state airlines have the most attractive stewardesses

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Those carriers typically have more attractive uniforms as well. Flying American airlines has become more like riding on the bus. It's not like the old days, when flying was a privilege and an adventure.

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I think even a bus has more space and you can use the bathroom when you need to. I log about 100K on international flights a year.....and I dread it. Surly airline staff, i feel like im in a prison camp. Tip to Dungeon hosts: New roleplay for the Mistresses: You are a cruel Flight Attendant who wont let the submissive passenger go use the bathroom.

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always in search of new stuff miss :) hehe ;)

regards
syl

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Whats if he will buy the expensive ticket, but stewardesses will be not too beautiful ?:)))

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Perhaps they ought to compensate him with an extra 10,000 frequent flyer miles, and a guarantee that on the next flight the stewardesses will be be no older than 30 and the pulchritude quotient (PQ) no less than 850 millihelens (with 1 millihelen defined as that increment of beauty required to launch one ship.) :))

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Ahh yes, the aging process. Most US carriers have a bid system for International flights. Senority gets preference, meaning the older gals get the best runs. An exception would be an occasional cute interpreter being thrown into the mix. I have found these "senior" attendants to be extremely proficient and fun to hang with in the galley when things get boring. If you want the hotties, as someone posted , you gotta fly the Asian group. GL and clear skies.

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Wanking in the aisles?

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CC on LD flights? While an interesting proposal, the idea
would seem to be indicative of an underlying addiction. However, if they did acquiese, perhaps they might as well includet a oyster bar and a padded toliet seat for some comfortable lap dancing. Of course you could always fly FC on the long hauls and pull the screens around your cubicle and whack away till your hearts content. .Remember , the whole concept of CC if fun. Best wishes.

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Time to leave,
changing flights from BA (old English bags) to Singapore Airlines (young Asians) maybe??

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ukrainian girls much better:)

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I wait to see

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Happy birthday

to me :)
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RE: Happy birthday

Happy birthday!

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Happy Birthday gete!
I was wondering.....
If when flushing a toilet down there the water circles a different way, than in the north.
Is there a difference when you blow out the candles on the birthday cake too? :D

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happy birthday gete

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topazsky, I'm not in the habit of looking in the toilet, but i'm sure the water goes a different way down here.. As for candles, what candles?
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Happy Birthday !!!! And 7 - lucky numeral in magic l :)) So you would be happy this year

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heyyy mate!:P... belated happy b-day!hugzzz!!!

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RE: Time to Relax!

enjoy

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RE: Time to Relax!

have a good time akina and work on your tan (hehe) stay cool-kisses

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Have fun :*:*

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Thanks to all of yah!going out tonight for bar hop!whoaaa!!!cheers!hugzzz...!!!

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Did not reliase yu had been away, Christine. Welcome back Chmock

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Welcome back and have fun...!hugzzz!!!

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Welcome back...I've always appreciated your posts.

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RE: ??

certainly not this one :))

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The sun? A day at the beach? Seeing a volcano erupt? My jock strap at the end of the second half of soccer?

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everything about me!!!:D...hugzzz!!!

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RE: ??

We could start a rumor about something.

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what's the difference

between hooker and a friend on cc,,,, just trying to figure the difference out here
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Hahaha, very good answer 'host' i agreee lol

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Not for all man i can be friend:))

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Bitchy...that reply of yours deserves a prize! I am still chuckling at it...how funny!!!

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RE: what's the difference

Since you pay to have sex with a hooker and here you only have sex with your hand, then;
At CC your hand is your hooker, Sal.

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not sure what a cc host has in common with a rugby player...though a scrum would certainly be interesting

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Each lady deeply in soul have hooker:)) with right man, sure.I think all we here try our best fantasyes.But whats about men on CC ?:))

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Must be blond

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Hey, be nice !!

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Thank you:)

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what is the difference between some memebers & grubs,sal?just trying to work out the difference.

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it seems you people are trying ignore the topic by beating around the questions with crazy answers,, buts thats ok,, i get the picture now

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ok I will try to be realistic there u go some differencese i could think about.
1. hooker is probably better value for the money
2. u have an option to shag the hooker, you can only watch the camgirl.
3. the hooker might not want to talk. Cam girl would always prefer to talk if there r no 3,4 guys in video or her english doesn't allow a good conversation.
4. The camgirl might want cash for numerious different things ( from what i read on viewers forum), hooker's policy is pay, shag and go.
5. Hookers are braver than camgirls.
6. Camgirls can pick who to sleep with.
ermmm ... i probably know more .. but bb begins and as im going on holiday and wont see it the next 10 days i will watch it now. The twins to win :)))))))))

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I think you have lost touch with reality!
CC chathosts are entertainers like other models, actresses, singers and dancers. Its fantasy not reality!

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what do you mean reality---wake up topazsky I thought you were amarter than that-even entertainment is a fantasy, because you dont even get to keep that. Now i will give you a answer i heard from a host i view.
A hooker is where you put your dick in here and cc host is where you put your dick in your own hand

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oops my mistake.you aren't a grub,you're an ignorant grub.

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Awol, I appreciate your sardonic humor, but you have not answered--at least directly--either his question or your own. Care to elaborate?

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start the list a little ori ?

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RE: what's the difference

Easy,
A hooker is not your friend, and never will be.

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RE: what's the difference

And if not, IS there an essential difference? If so, of what does it consist?

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interesting

russia late last week planted a flag,symbolically,in the seabed 4 621 metres directly under the north pole.soviet & u.s nuclear submarines had often had often travelled under the polar icecap but noone had reached the seabed under the pole before.two russian ships had spent more than a week ploughing their way through deep ice towards the north pole.
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RE: Russian Flag NorthPole : US Flag Moon

If Russia claims the North Pole, and the Oil / Mineral rights by planting its flag on the sea bed, does the US get the moon by Fact that the US Flag was planted there??

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RE: Russian Flag NorthPole : US Flag Moon

completely different scenario but i'm sure if it was put to a vote overwhelmingly it would be in favour of america having control of the green cheese there.

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RE: Russian Flag NorthPole : US Flag Moon

...in which case, I would be in favor of a joint effort with the French (and if necessary a French military coup ), so the French could cultivate the cheese. Americans may have engineering know-how, but the land of Velveeta Cheese is wanting in its knowlege of cheese production. Didn't we Americans already do enough damage during the Second WW, by sending the allied troops Spam?!

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Ever wonder why?

When a woman wears leather clothing,a man’s heart beats quicker,his throat get’s dry’he goes weak in the knees,and he begins to think irrationally. Ever wonder why? Answer will follow.
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err no thats just you and your village people buddies

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RE: Ever wonder why?

Fear of cows.

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RE: Ever wonder why?

Leather comes from cows.... women are cows/look like cows.

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RE: Ever wonder why?

hahaha master tech you are a star !!!

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RE: Ever wonder why?

Personally, I am not much of a leather laficionado. I prefer loose white cotton or silk. But, if you want the technical answer, try this. Leather retains significantly more body heat and thus causes more perspiration. This could translate to increased pheromone production as the bacteria responsible for it's production thrive with the increase in heat and moisture. Of course , you might also consider, some men are simply leather freaks. :)

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RE: Ever wonder why?

You see your fetish is certainly not universal.

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RE: Ever wonder why?

thankfully neither is yours.

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ANSWER

Because she smells like a New Truck!



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RE: ANSWER

Sorry, slut....most of the answers already provided above makes more sense than that. ;)

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RE: help needed

Love is when person u like is first thing in your mind when u wake up, and last thing before u close your eyes, and u have that luck that u r with that person r with that person. Lust is same thing but without person u like. In my opinion

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Love & Lust

"One who knows," Your comment suggests Love & Lust are mutually exclusive. I disagree. Love---i.e. Romantic love---often has Lust as one of its constituent elements.

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and lust has love as one of its components

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RE: Love & Lust

Yes, and E=mC2

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RE: Love & Lust

E=mc2,cool song

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RE: Love & Lust

Awol, You did not read very carefully what I said: "Romantic Love OFTEN... [not always]... has lust as one of its constituant elements." However, lust frequently brings poeple together for a fleeting sexual encounter or encounters, and love is utterly absent. As such, I cannot subscribe to the neat, symetrical interchangability your reply suggests. Observation of humn behavior contradicts your claim.

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RE: Love & Lust

Who cares? You wont experience either when married.

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RE: Love & Lust

Lol! ...if neither, what then? ...a joyless life in which two people manage to 'put up with' one another?

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i think your describing

infatuation which is when you fantisize how wonderful being with that person would really, usually baised on your emotional desires.
lust is more a sexual relationship.
love is more an emotion that grows over time.

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RE: help needed

Love is higher than a mountain and thicker than water

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RE: help needed

Ask yourself how you will feel if you do him. Will you have expectations you do not have now? Will he? Will the act create a change of how you conduct your personal life. Bottom line, do you want his dick or his baby? Lust vs.Love

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It will 100% change the relationship, that's for certain.

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RE: help needed

satisfy ur sexual needs. Done? well now who are you thinking of?

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RE: help needed

Yes, imho, I was just thinking the same thing... Also, I think the feeling of lust, or attraction you feel for a person may wax and wane depending on many factors...love just continues to grow. For example, I still love my ex...but I am not lusting after her anymore.

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RE: help needed

I think lust can be physical and mentally engrossing.
Love is more stable, but mentally challenging,
but if you can combine both, well what a recipe for a good life.
One's man opinion.

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To a Friend

hi lovely lady. Your a friend with a smile and a heart that so beautiful my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Everyday in your own special way feeling good or feeeling bad you give us a smile. There is always sunshine with you everywhere you go. Angels walk with you right by your side guiding you every step in the mile. You are a angel to us in everyway, laughing with us, smiling with us, sharing, caring, loving and yes even crying with us, thats who you are. A mother a friend and someone special to so many here and also in someone eyes, you surely are. Get well soon we missed you everyday but our hearts and thoughts are with you everyday.....stay cool and smile-----kisses and a hug
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RE: To a Friend

thanks bb, see u in 121 when i get back! muuuuaahhhhh!

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sorry friend i dont have a cam,, cant do 121,, stay cool

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I been here for long time a go, reading the forums almost everyday, also your recent posts. Seems like your friend pass some terible moments, i saw my mother dieying of cancer after two long years of pains and tears, i really hope your friend will be healed. Ignore these phatetic people who have nothing better to do ,but making fun about such a sad thing. Keep praying for your friend, i will do the same. Cheers!

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thanks older one--i dont paid no attention to these people here that want to make fun of something that is real,, and yes thanks for the prayers she will appreciate them-cool

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but you must have had my email! why announce your gallantry and my problems on the public forum other than to make yourself look "gallant and caring." a private email or message would have been more appreciated.

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You sound jealous and phatetic! The message wasnt for you, was for someone who will never reply in this maner. As long he didnt posted any name here, why are you so upset? Get a damn life and leave this guy alone, he have all the rights to post wherever he want, no need your permision. Is more easy to jump on someone, to cover him with your bad words, than to offer your moral support to someone in needs, dont you? This is his way to show his feelings and his affection, whats wrong with that? At least he didnt insulted anyone here, but your comment show just lack of respect. Poor you, i feel so much compassion for people like you!

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thanks humm, but "From a friend" is right, I should have sent a message to her privately. Sometimes my ego and need for adulation gets in the way of good intentions.

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If you're going to try and impersonate someone at least make the effort to copy their style you fool.

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panties in a bunch?

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the only thing we can do its to keep her on our prayers, lets hope that chemo and radiotherapy will save her.

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some tlc and wu should help greatly ;)

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you better thx to God that you and your family are in a good health, it was just someone sending a message.

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thanks humm for you kind words, but you dont have to get this person writing above calling hisself "from a friend" anything else to think about.,,, and yes to you from a friend i do darn care about this friend and I have many friends out their that has cancer, so now spend your time now trying to figure out which one,,, oh wait why dont you try to get some friends to care about or better yet try to pray every now and then about a love one in your life that might need some caring or better yet if it bothers you that much why do you take the time to read this if you not a caring person,, I dont care what you think,, wait oh yes I do--I forgive you--stay cool

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no one is saying dont be a friend, prayers, listen, care....the question is why announce it on a sex forum site? why not send your carign words directly to the people affected...chaser never addresses this.....why? because he needs the public adulation, ........."aren't you a caring man chaser, muuuuahhhh!"

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asked and answered in many posts above. hint "need for adulation"

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here is a multiple choice question, in the real world (non-cyber sex chathost sites) when you have a friend or family member who is sick and you want to comfort or console them do you:
a) when you see them sitting on the other side of a restaurant, call across the restaurant so that all the other patrons here your consoling words and details about the other's illness.
b) call them on the telephone to console them but insist on a conference call so that all your other friends can hear how caring you are.
c) Call, write, visit, and care in a quiet, unassuming way that doesnt draw attention to YOURSELF.

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option d without doubt!!

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oooo just expressing his feelings??? great, then here are my feelings "older one" , consider it an intervention, you all need to step away from the computer and get lives away from sex site. fantasy cyber "friends." Just expressing my feelings! As the song goes "O, o o feelings, again in my heart!"

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grandpa, this is the only post i have ever posted to....it was just one too many postings of saccharine sweet hallmark cyber feelings. Any more pearls of wisdom from you?

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I think what you really meant to say was this was only my first post in this thread using this name.

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good grief you that need a friend you must have no idea about people's life (and by the way it doesnt bother me of the crap you say--about me,,but it seems to bother others here) : if it does bother you that much get over it quit reading my post,,,, she said was right,,, no wonder she didnt want to tell others about this on here,, because she did say she would probably get bad comments from people like you,,,,,,and yes I do tell her on yahoo,,,and if you dont like that either get over that too if you can,and I know this is a cyber place and I am a member here too and I can post this struff where ever I want to,,, so get over dude and again when you see my name here in the post quit reading it and keep your negative comments to your own friends.
opps now im have to ask for your forgiveness--sorry if I got under your skin--stay cool

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seems what i say does bother you, you wrote a rambling 10 line response......stay cool (hmmm didn't i read that on a Hallmark card?)

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ahh so you did write her in yahoo also, good for you, so in the multiple choice above you would have chosen (a) and (c)

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That's about 3 years older than you then.

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i not going to leave my name here, i like the other idiots here afraid to, but i have a girl friend here on cc as a host and has breast cancer, can you all pray for her. some people just dont get it they love make negative comments about somebody caring for someone

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Why sometimes

Some girls you can laugh, have fun with and talk about anything. You can see them when they are sexy and when the just get out of bed..Why is it you can only be friends?
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xoxo just be happy you can be friends....i always remember a saying here in the south: buddies are easy to find and have, but they will turn on you and all kind of bad things when it comes down to something you need. Friends are rare and special treaurse them when you can and its ok to laugh and cry with them, I thank the good man upstairs for sending friends my way--stay cool and enjoy the times together.

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that's pretty long for a "saying"!

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cool saying chaser and yes we use it a lot here in Georgia too,, some people cant belive our sayings are long;;;do you remember this one: when you feel down and out call a friend to cheer you up, when you need money call a buddy up and say hey when are you going to pay be back the money you borrowed (the diffrence between a buddy and friend also) friends will always pay you back and buddies well you have to look then up

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Why use the word "you" when you really me "I"?

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sorry hmmm,,, dont know what you mean,,, i dont know a hmmm,, (are you a buddy or friend-just kidding hehe) but anyway its just a saying---stay cool and have a great day my friend to be

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"No man can be just friends with a woman that he finds attractive. He will always be wishing to have sex with her. The sexual tenions will always be there. The friendship is doomed to failure, and that is the end of that story."

Nora Ephron, American Director, Screenwriter and Novelist.
(Translated via Norwegian, so the quote might be slightly inaccurate)

Hey, not sure if this quote always holds true, but based on my own observations so far, it at least hold true very often.

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RE: Why sometimes

Was just not meant to be.

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RE: Why sometimes

Yes it was one of Billy Crystal's lines in a conversation with Meg Ryan about men and women being friends in the movie "When Harry Met Sally"... a Nora Ephron film.

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RE: Why sometimes

Thanks, Captain...I was actually looking for a Norwegian folk saying when I stumbled on that quote by Ephrin....did not know it was from when Harry met Sally. The saying I was searching for (but could not find) says something like..."Friendship often leads to love, but love never ends in friendship."

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New category

Anyone else in favour of a new category. ie actually at home and not in a studio?
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Yes:)) I want new category for me. I am at home and its different

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Girls in studio - not alone.

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Why is home better? I mean I have an idea it has to be better. The host can be more open and alter her prices and all that. But it is a turn on just to know the girl is alone at home?

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At home i have not boss and can do only whats i want:)) And sure, i have not other girls around:)))

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It's an irrelevant differenciation, providing the host knows her business.

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Don't care if they are at home or not.
New Catagory should be BIG BOOBS

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you bet!coz i have small boobs!hehehe...!hugzzz!!!

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so do i,thankfully.

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Russia

Having visited Russia last week. I am quite shocked by how many bears walk the streets. The cheek of it is unbelievable.

Be careful on your travels.
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I was there about a month ago and saw a few bears too. Of course, not in St Pete or the busiest places in Moscow. If you go to the poorest towns and cities you'll see these beasts. You have to be with someone that knows where these beasts roam, otherwise you'll end up as a nice lunch.

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Is it legal for tourists to shoot them?

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You sure? Its was bears or you need stop to drink ?

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I hope its joke:)) I have been in Russia and not saw there bears

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Were they communist or democratic bears? Big difference.

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better to have bears walking along the streets than arrogant monkeys driving their cars

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RE: Russia

Leave Paris out of this!

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i just copy and paste mah messages in "chathost forums"...!

I heard that no bears in Russia so maybe its just a big tigers walking around Russian cities freely?whats do yah think Russian gals...?hugzzz!!!

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I agree xAIRYGIRLx. mother russia should poison their food!

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RE: Russia

I have seen the caged bear 'Masha' in the Yaroslavl Kremlin and a teeny bear cub outside the Hermitage in St Petersburg. The latter seemed very happy being photographed with a plentiful supply of bottled milk on hand from its owner.

The former looked well pissed off at being in a cage

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RE: Russia

Happens in the US too, there was a family of bears that frequented the roadside by our house where I grew up in New York. Obviously that wasn't NYC, but from looking at the recent DJIA it appears the bears are ruling Wall Street.

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RE: Russia

but not the superbowl.

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RE: Survey #1

from hooker £30
from girlfriend £50!

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such litle different between hooker and ur g/f =))))))))))))

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RE: Survey #1

Spot on jj. Yaro girls it is usually $20 a bj, $30 full sex.

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From wife? she pays me (lol)

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What are you prices Playgal?

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From a girl walking on the street? Or a "date" arranged with a girl from the newspaper?

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RE: Survey #1

On the street 20 bucks but your dick will fall off in a couple of days. An asian massage parlor it is like 60-100 dollars but that includes a massage and they are clean. For a high class call girl from 150-300 dollars an hour and up. You can get a blow job in that hour or suck her toes. Whatever turns you on.

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"dog" makes a vital distinction. Price is function of a number of things. Women who trick on the streets are generally cheaper here (U.S.), $20--$60, but a more 'uptown' woman, working for an escort service, can earn $100-$500 for a "date."......But now for the joke:

A nun goes to confession and says to the priest, "Bless me Father, for I have sinned...Father,” she says with hesitation, "I gave a man a blow job." The naive, elderly priest responded, "What's a blow job sister?" “Oh Father,” she said, "$25, same for you as anyone else."

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RE: Survey

If you see a girl from the street don't have only $20 notes in your pocket. ALWAYS have $5 notes instead, so you can bargain better. If you only have 2 $20 she won't give change.

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I wonder

If Fedex & UPS merged, would they call it FedUPSex??
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A Monopoly

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RE: what is love for you?


Love is a game...so let's play it fair!(lol)...love yah all!hugzzz!!!

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but , but.. I wonder if falling in love with you might be..:)

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RE: what is love for you?

there are as many types of love as there are days in a year.true love to me is when you put that person or person's life before yours.

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RE: what is love for you?

*persons'

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Love comes in the form of $50 & $20 bills. Show me the love ppls.

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dear "IcePrinc3ss"

I miss chatting with you from time to time. I will be visiting your city soon and though I am old and fat, I'd love to have a coffee with you and sit close and see if there is any warth possible between us.

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RE: what is love for you?

I heard this answer many years ago given by a 7 year old when asked the same question. her answer was" It is a feeling you have, you can't live without" While I doubt she was applying it to a male / female relationship, I would have to say her answer is about as good as I have heard.

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love can be happiness alot but love can bring pain to

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RE: what is love for you?

Love is bringing your loved one a cup of tea in bed in the morning.

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RE: what is love for you?

after missing this definition with some painful results I can I honestly confess to only one true love - PIZZA

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Whats about CC ? Whats you prefer here. Love or cum?...I am only confused:)))))) why here we all speak about love, but first words in video--go naked

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not allways

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RE: what is love for you?

yes:))

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RE: what is love for you?

The absence of lonliness. The feeling that no matter what you have something that will outlast any problems. The sense of being complete with another. The desire to be better for the other person. To get laid.

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RE: what is love for you?

I realize I'm in love when I meet 2 conditions. First I consistantly put what they want and/or what is good for us ahead of what I want or I think is good for me. Secondly I find myself not asking myself if I love them, because the answer is so obvious asking the question is pointless.

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Kattie21

I heard she has gone to USA, anyone know if shes coming back?
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Are you vegetarian, vegan or meat lover. Do you eat enough fruit and veg?

yes you can put an answer too :)
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I only eat vegtables and fruits in summer. And i dont wanna anyth else)

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I love meat,have fish and chicken twice during the week...i used to hate most veggies when i was lit.but i like to try new things and now i love eating veggies...Hugzzz!!!

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thought a vegetarian was a vegan.
i eat both plants and dead animals. i dont eat enough fruits tho.
and im going to try for only organics as much as possible.

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vegan also doesn't eat eggs or drink milk, anything animal related...

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A lot of vegitarians don't drink regular milk bought in the store, the Vitamin D it's usually fortifide with comes from fish oils. I knew a dairy farmer who had a vegitarian commune among his regular customers so they didn't get any additives in the milk.

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RE: Are you vegetarian, vegan or meat lover. Do you eat enough fruit and veg?

Why do you want to know ????

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RE: Are you vegetarian, vegan or meat lover. Do you eat enough fruit and veg?

I try to eat high protein. Lots of beef, chicken and turkey. Vegetables and salads are a big part of my diet. Carbs are the killer. Rice, pasta, breads, potato, sugar. I try to avoid them. Some light beer now and then or I would go crazy. You have to eat lean to stay lean. And exercise your buns off. I am amazed how many girls here have such tight bodies and don't spend a second in a gym. Good genetics I guess.

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RE: Are you vegetarian, vegan or meat lover. Do you eat enough fruit and veg?

Its funny u say carbs are the killer, in the 90's people couldn't get enough carbs lately its no carbs, next year its some thing else. Just eat fresh stuff and not too much, and exercise :P



http://www.cryptguardian.com :P

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princessss, i think i love u

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RE: Are you vegetarian, vegan or meat lover. Do you eat enough fruit and veg?

Hands off, she's mine!!

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RE: Are you vegetarian, vegan or meat lover. Do you eat enough fruit and veg?

I am Leo, i like meat:)) grrrrrrr

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RE: do u belive that it is possible to love one man for all life?

Of course, but it is not automatic. Both members of the couple must work at it concientiously.

One thing to remember is that there is not only one single possible soulmate in the world. There is a one "soulmate-type" for each of us and this is what we need to find. In my 35 years I have found what I count to be 3 examples of "my type" girl. One of them was here in CC.

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RE: do u belive that it is possible to love one man for all life?

As a hetereosexual male the answer is no.

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RE: do u belive that it is possible to love one man for all life?

As long as we don't take anything or anyone for granted...anything is possible!
Another Soul

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RE: do u belive that it is possible to love one man for all life?

the majority of us are young women.. how can we tell if it is possible, I can tell you if you come to ask me after 40-50 years lol

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RE: do u belive that it is possible to love one man for all life?

i know a few women like that.

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RE: do u belive that it is possible to love one man for all life?

It is why I said love is not automatic. People who "drift apart" let themselves drift apart... on or the other or both. A relationship must be natured and protected and defended..

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RE: do u belive that it is possible to love one man for all life?

If "love" to you is merely chasing the feeling of "heaven" then your life will be reduced to series of "heavenly encounters."

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RE: do u belive that it is possible to love one man for all life?

This is why you should not dive into romantic encounters too early in life. If you have not yet reached a level of maturity to know what you want, how can you hope to find lasting love. Of course, many are not concerned with lasting love, only with the nest week or two.

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RE: do u belive that it is possible to love one man for all life?

I can't respond from a female perspective insofar a "one man" is concerned but I do have a thought on love and one person for life..Also, I am not sure if you are applying the term loving one person to marriage or a promise of life commitment. For the sake of this response , I will assume you are and share my thoughts on your question with that in mind. I will also assume there is no mental or physical cruelty involved. Yes,,, I do think a person can love one person for life. This thought is not to imply the love would translate to having that person satisfy each an every need you might have for life, as most certainly they will not. Love involves more than attraction and passion. The potential for falling in love with another always exists. Can perceived needs, lust, boredom or selfishness override honor and character? I am sure they can and often do. The reasons why would require a thesis to define and then would leave room for more. The answer is simply, "It depends on the individuals".

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RE: do u belive that it is possible to love one man for all life?

It's something a person has to work at. Some people manage a lifetime of love. My parents were married for 48 years; they would have been married longer had my father not passed away.

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RE: do u belive that it is possible to love one man for all life?

As the resident old guy here I will have to tell all of you youngsters here that love can indeed last a lifetime if you are fortunate enough to find your one true love.Fact

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RE: do u belive that it is possible to love one man for all life?

How can you ask this? Whatever happened to "Me love you long time?" (Sorry, couldn't resist.)

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but

russian girls look nicer then the american ones i see around.

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Russian girls rock, best in the world. love you!!!

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RE: RUSSIAN girls?!?!!?!?

nice sermon olga, brief an to the point

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Different amounts of trust, a rating i would give girls i have been in friendships with on adult chat sites. All 11 mentioned I had friendships for a minimum of 1month.My ratings; 0 for untrustable bitch to 10 for true honest friend and thier country
1. czech -5
2. romania- 6
3. germany -8
4. russia -1
5. romania -3
6. russia -7
7. russia -4
8. russia -6
9. moldova - 2
10. russia -5
11. ukraine -8

results -
ukraine =8
germany =8
czech=5
russian 5/23 =4.6 avg
romanian 2/9 =4.5 avg
moldova = 2
This is only my results from my last 11 girls I have know and only reflects my level of trust - not physical beauty.
I need to evaluate asian woman but the few I have talked briefly to seem to be candid and honest. I would like to meet a nice asian girl? Any asian ladies interested?

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I am from Ukraine.Thanks :))

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Another lover of the $$$$$$$$

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RE: RUSSIAN girls?!?!!?!?

Best friends of girls its -diamonds :)

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whats you have??

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Merilin Monroe...
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Dont worry, be happy...olga:)))))))))))) ...music..

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I really love them and their large warm souls but their noses can be a little large..................

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Advice on Resume for job in US as waitress

Hi - an ex-host I know has asked me to help her with her resume as she is hoping to go to work as a waitress etc on a cruise ship in America. She is Eastern European - but has been waitressing in Western Europe since she stopped being a host about 2 years ago.
I have looked on a few sites about resumes in America (I am English) but the ones I see all seem to be for more "high-powered" jobs and I am not really sure what someone employing a waitress who has been a waitress for a few years is going to be looking for in terms of making her resume stand out from other ones - without making it look ridiculous in terms of unlikely achievements within her job.
Thanks in advance for any helpful answers :)
Even a cc mail with a link to a site where you can see other people resumes online for similar types of jobs would be great
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She should highlight her experience with dealing with people from different cultures from her online "translation" job to her years of dealing with multinational tourists in the service industry.

http://www.quintcareers.com/resume_length.html
http://www.jobweb.com/resources/library/Samples/Four_Sample_Resumes_68_01.htm

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RE: Advice on Resume for job in US as waitress

I think if you are willing to do the work for poor pay in tight quarters and you speak reasonable English and you have the money and the ability to get a visa you may have a shot. Last cruise I was on was loaded with little dark haired Romanian girls. Of course most cruises leave from the US and travel to other places. You really don't spend much time in the USA. Most cruise lines are also non-american. Good luck.

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RE: Advice on Resume for job in US as waitress

I don't like the sound of the poor pay or tight quarters much - but I am member and it was a query on behalf of an ex-host (who, yes, is a dark haired romanian).
The question was more about what Americans would expect to see on a resume for someone applying for a job as a waitress - because all the example resumes I seem to find online are for graduates in business who have done impressive internships and projects, not served food and drinks and washed up plates

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RE: Advice on Resume for job in US as waitress

Well in talking to some of the girls they were not paid well at all but they received their room. board, medical care while on board ship. They lived in small cabins (2-4 to a cabin) inside the ship very low down. No portholes. Again they go to go ashore at some of their stops in the islands and mexico but they would leave the USA on a Saturday afternoon and return the following saturday morning. Most of the staff was working on preparing for the next group of tourists. So I doubt any of them were able to leave the ship in the US at all. But they were kids and they said they were having fun and saving money for home. On a resume I guess if I had some waitress experience particularly in banquet service (large trays), again a good knowledge of English, perhaps some wine experience though they have people trained for that specifically. I would think good health, a good work ethic, abilty to work well without much supervision, a team player, customer service oriented, friendly, able to follow instructions, things like that would be good in a resume. Good luck.

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WAKE UP, "uamazeme"

He doesn't mention a word about visiting the USA, he wants to know how to formulate. Why he answers your empty message and seems to ignore my direct answer to his question is beyond me.

It doesn't manage what flags are on the ships, most of them are owned and/or managed by American companies. As for the pay, the workers depend on tips and more than several of the service crew (both sexes) are trolling for romance (or appreciated affection).

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thanks, the counselor

thanks - i did look at your links - the first one was very useful, though the second has the same problem i have found that examples always seem to be for people after the better jobs rather than the more menial ones.
I answered the other question first just to correct the apparent misunderstanding to avoid having the whole thread diverted away from my question

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RE: thanks, the counselor

You are over-thinking the concept.

You're supposed to use the sample resumes for their *look* and general feel. If she has only a high school diploma then simply substitute that for the BS. Substitute her waitressing for work experience/computer skills. If she did *anything* of a supervisory nature, even casually or temporarily then put that under "Related Experience." If she was ever Employe of the Month or anything like that, including awards in school, mention that.

Use your imagination man, she's not applying to replace Putin or Blair, she wants to ne a freaking crusie ship waitress.

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i would

look at her cover letter more then job experiences.
she would be better of saying a little about herself, but keep it simple, things like 'like to travel and i am a people person'' is meaningless. a waitress must be a people person if her prior experience waitressing lasted more then a few months at past jobs.
as for the like to travel, she will get to see many places on a cruise ship, however, while in port she is expected to work prepping everything for the guests. not sightseeing. if i saw that in a resume i would think more that she will rush through her tasks doing a poor job so that she can finish early to go on land shopping or so.
just my opinion.

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