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My boring story
Don't read if you are not interested in stupidity and romantic stories, i just need to get this off my chest :(
I went to Russia to meet a girl i got to know here. We know each other for over 2 years. Things were great, but we didn\'t get to connect too much, since we spent too little time together (just a few days).
So, after i left her city and was elsewhere in Russia, i found out she now was with another guy from here. Doing what? Who knows, and i don\'t really want to know. Maybe just touring the guy around (HA!). She didn\'t tell me anything. She would not even answer e-mails, sms... she was busy \"attending\" this guy.
I just can\'t handle to think she\'s hanging around with a guy who is probably 20 years older than her, and, quite possibly, like most guys, just wants sex with her. Even if she doesn\'t have sex or whatever with the guy, it makes me sick that she hides it from me, because it means she has some interest in the guy (be it romantic or monetary).
To say the least, i felt entirely betrayed, used, stupid, and whatnot. I feel bad for myself, yeah. But i feel also bad for her. She could have found a guy who was nicer, better looking, richer, etc, etc... but not a single guy who loves her as much as i do (...did...).
I should have known better. Now i don\'t quite know what i will do. Second chance for her? Most unlikely; Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me
I think i\'ll just tell her goodbye as soon as i get to see her and explain my reasons...
p.s. Being young and romantic sucks.
I went to Russia to meet a girl i got to know here. We know each other for over 2 years. Things were great, but we didn\'t get to connect too much, since we spent too little time together (just a few days).
So, after i left her city and was elsewhere in Russia, i found out she now was with another guy from here. Doing what? Who knows, and i don\'t really want to know. Maybe just touring the guy around (HA!). She didn\'t tell me anything. She would not even answer e-mails, sms... she was busy \"attending\" this guy.
I just can\'t handle to think she\'s hanging around with a guy who is probably 20 years older than her, and, quite possibly, like most guys, just wants sex with her. Even if she doesn\'t have sex or whatever with the guy, it makes me sick that she hides it from me, because it means she has some interest in the guy (be it romantic or monetary).
To say the least, i felt entirely betrayed, used, stupid, and whatnot. I feel bad for myself, yeah. But i feel also bad for her. She could have found a guy who was nicer, better looking, richer, etc, etc... but not a single guy who loves her as much as i do (...did...).
I should have known better. Now i don\'t quite know what i will do. Second chance for her? Most unlikely; Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me
I think i\'ll just tell her goodbye as soon as i get to see her and explain my reasons...
p.s. Being young and romantic sucks.
RE: My boring story
I am sure you have more information than you are giving here but from what you posted it seems possible that you are taking 2 + 2 and making about 10.
You do not say anything to indicate she made any actual commitment to you beyond that of friendship, that she wished to have a more serious relationship with you. Unless she did this you have no reason to feel any sense of betrayal.
How do you know that the guy is much older than her? He may be a CC member of similar age to yourself or just a few years older.
Even if he is older than her it does not necessarily follow that his only interest in her is sex or hers in him is monetary. There may be a genuine friendship. I write as an older guy who has met hosts with no intention of having sex but just enjoying the company of a young woman who I had got to know through CC.
I agree it would have been better if she had told you but she may not have done precisely because she thought you would react in the way you have.
Of course it is entirely possible that things are exactly as you describe in your post but unless you have a lot more evidence of this do not jump to conclusions.
You do not say anything to indicate she made any actual commitment to you beyond that of friendship, that she wished to have a more serious relationship with you. Unless she did this you have no reason to feel any sense of betrayal.
How do you know that the guy is much older than her? He may be a CC member of similar age to yourself or just a few years older.
Even if he is older than her it does not necessarily follow that his only interest in her is sex or hers in him is monetary. There may be a genuine friendship. I write as an older guy who has met hosts with no intention of having sex but just enjoying the company of a young woman who I had got to know through CC.
I agree it would have been better if she had told you but she may not have done precisely because she thought you would react in the way you have.
Of course it is entirely possible that things are exactly as you describe in your post but unless you have a lot more evidence of this do not jump to conclusions.
RE: My boring story
Don't beat yourself up.
You love and or care about someone and feel jealous.
We all (guys and gals) go through this at one time or another.
Remember what does not kill you makes you stronger....
and wiser too!
You have strong feelings now but they will change.
The freedom is yours to choose what you want to do!
There are many available women out there. If your
young don't be in too much of a rush to make a commitment.
Look into dating sites for women who are looking for the same
things you are.
Most importantly for now.
If you have a friendship with this chathost don't ruin it!
Everyone has the freedom to make their own choices.
No one can force anyone to think or do what they don't want to do.
You had an enjoyable time in Russia?
And enjoyed meeting this chathost?
Focus on the enjoyable experiences you had!
People will change their minds and something like this
teaches you to accept this.
If she is friendly to you, be friends with her still.
In life we need don't need more hurt feelings and enemies!
Never let anyone walk over you though!
Cheer up! :)
You love and or care about someone and feel jealous.
We all (guys and gals) go through this at one time or another.
Remember what does not kill you makes you stronger....
and wiser too!
You have strong feelings now but they will change.
The freedom is yours to choose what you want to do!
There are many available women out there. If your
young don't be in too much of a rush to make a commitment.
Look into dating sites for women who are looking for the same
things you are.
Most importantly for now.
If you have a friendship with this chathost don't ruin it!
Everyone has the freedom to make their own choices.
No one can force anyone to think or do what they don't want to do.
You had an enjoyable time in Russia?
And enjoyed meeting this chathost?
Focus on the enjoyable experiences you had!
People will change their minds and something like this
teaches you to accept this.
If she is friendly to you, be friends with her still.
In life we need don't need more hurt feelings and enemies!
Never let anyone walk over you though!
Cheer up! :)
RE: My boring story
Why do people post these sad sack stories and don't ever mention the persons nick or anything. It's useless. No help to anyone.
RE: My boring story
In this case, he is admitting his stupidity in the situation and he doesn't accuse her of a scam or direct lies, only the fact that she didn't provide him with a list of her male friends and their visiting schedules.
She didn't really do anything wrong so why name her?
It seems that he admits that his trip was not to visit her exclusively and, unless he was part of a tour-group, it is likely he was visiting other chathost girls. I can relate to this.
He was using this girl as his primary romantic target with a couple back-ups he felt obligated to visit as well. This is wise, but also takes a chance if the cat gets out of the bag. How does he explain being in Russia when he leaves the primary girl to continue his journey?
What credible reason can he give? So, since she has a brain she knows he visits other girls, giving her upspoken "permission" to have other male guests.
In my case, I am visiting one of these countries soon and hope to meet a particular girl with whom I have had quite a hot little thing going on. I *wish* I could spend all my time there with her, as if the relationship takes the expected next step he could be on the way to quite a life-journey together.
But I have a number of charity sites I must visit that are spread over her whole country, as well as a wedding to attend so I *CAN'T* spend all my time with her.
Hint, hint: If you are American and itemize your taxes a trip such as mine which is essentially an inspection trip, is tax-deductible, giving an effective 20% or 30% discount to the whole thing. It's done by some of the guys who can justify it as a "business trip."
She didn't really do anything wrong so why name her?
It seems that he admits that his trip was not to visit her exclusively and, unless he was part of a tour-group, it is likely he was visiting other chathost girls. I can relate to this.
He was using this girl as his primary romantic target with a couple back-ups he felt obligated to visit as well. This is wise, but also takes a chance if the cat gets out of the bag. How does he explain being in Russia when he leaves the primary girl to continue his journey?
What credible reason can he give? So, since she has a brain she knows he visits other girls, giving her upspoken "permission" to have other male guests.
In my case, I am visiting one of these countries soon and hope to meet a particular girl with whom I have had quite a hot little thing going on. I *wish* I could spend all my time there with her, as if the relationship takes the expected next step he could be on the way to quite a life-journey together.
But I have a number of charity sites I must visit that are spread over her whole country, as well as a wedding to attend so I *CAN'T* spend all my time with her.
Hint, hint: If you are American and itemize your taxes a trip such as mine which is essentially an inspection trip, is tax-deductible, giving an effective 20% or 30% discount to the whole thing. It's done by some of the guys who can justify it as a "business trip."
RE: My boring story
You said "p.s. Being young and romantic sucks". Just being old sucks, don't even need romantic in the mix!
RE: My boring story
I am pleased that the fools are not beating you to death.
I have visited two Russian women from CC with high hopes. I have seen the second one twice and who knows if I can keep my jealous side under control this could be the real thing. I am crazy about this woman but I need to be realistic.
Relationships are relationship no matter if they are in 100 meters/feet away or they are several thousand kilometers/miles away. Pain of rejection from relationships is never pleasant.
I am learning myself about these long distance relationship situations and I may suggest the following advise.
1 Discuss completely your expectations about your meeting. Do not leave this to be a guessing game. False expectations are sure to create problems. There must be honestly from both sides from start to finish, or there is no hope for success. Be yourself online as you will be in person, don’t be an actor selling something you can’t provide.
2 No matter how badly you want to help your woman, reframe from trying to buy her love. She lived most of her life without your help and she will be fine until she is your woman in real life.
Remember, these are like first dates. Just because you know each other for months online does not make a woman your exclusive wife and hence the reason I say to be careful helping with financially. I speak from experience, having made every mistake possible.
I agree with the suggestion of not destroying what you might have unintentionally, you might loose either way, allow it to happen for being the better man and not the fool.
Also keep in mind; if you are looking for a serious relationship, then a long distance relationship only makes sense if there is some hope you will ultimately be together. This needs to be part of your expectations when you both talk.
I wish you luck.
I have visited two Russian women from CC with high hopes. I have seen the second one twice and who knows if I can keep my jealous side under control this could be the real thing. I am crazy about this woman but I need to be realistic.
Relationships are relationship no matter if they are in 100 meters/feet away or they are several thousand kilometers/miles away. Pain of rejection from relationships is never pleasant.
I am learning myself about these long distance relationship situations and I may suggest the following advise.
1 Discuss completely your expectations about your meeting. Do not leave this to be a guessing game. False expectations are sure to create problems. There must be honestly from both sides from start to finish, or there is no hope for success. Be yourself online as you will be in person, don’t be an actor selling something you can’t provide.
2 No matter how badly you want to help your woman, reframe from trying to buy her love. She lived most of her life without your help and she will be fine until she is your woman in real life.
Remember, these are like first dates. Just because you know each other for months online does not make a woman your exclusive wife and hence the reason I say to be careful helping with financially. I speak from experience, having made every mistake possible.
I agree with the suggestion of not destroying what you might have unintentionally, you might loose either way, allow it to happen for being the better man and not the fool.
Also keep in mind; if you are looking for a serious relationship, then a long distance relationship only makes sense if there is some hope you will ultimately be together. This needs to be part of your expectations when you both talk.
I wish you luck.
RE: My boring story
Thanks for the constructive replies, some of them made me think things over.
I did not visit any other girls while in Russia. Believe it or not, i have not seen any other hosts for years. I was in other cities because i always wanted to go to Russia, girl or not.
I know maybe i'm being stupid and over-reacting... If she met with a guy from here, in a friendship kind of way, i would not mind. I'd just let that go untroubled. It's the fact that she is doing it behind my back, thinking i would not get to know about it... Either she thinks i'm too stupid to find out, doesn't care, or is too worried to tell me about it.
About the age thing... sorry, i got carried away. It's just that i don't realize the girl i like with a guy who is the age of my father. Maybe the same way some of you would react if you saw the woman you like with someone the age of your son/nephew, whatever.
I think i will allow myself a little time get my cool back. Then talk to her 100% honestly, and being straightforward. After all, i only know some facts, and i'm assuming the other part. I could be entirely wrong, or i could be right, but there is no need to rush and ruin a relationship that has lasted for years.
I did not visit any other girls while in Russia. Believe it or not, i have not seen any other hosts for years. I was in other cities because i always wanted to go to Russia, girl or not.
I know maybe i'm being stupid and over-reacting... If she met with a guy from here, in a friendship kind of way, i would not mind. I'd just let that go untroubled. It's the fact that she is doing it behind my back, thinking i would not get to know about it... Either she thinks i'm too stupid to find out, doesn't care, or is too worried to tell me about it.
About the age thing... sorry, i got carried away. It's just that i don't realize the girl i like with a guy who is the age of my father. Maybe the same way some of you would react if you saw the woman you like with someone the age of your son/nephew, whatever.
I think i will allow myself a little time get my cool back. Then talk to her 100% honestly, and being straightforward. After all, i only know some facts, and i'm assuming the other part. I could be entirely wrong, or i could be right, but there is no need to rush and ruin a relationship that has lasted for years.
RE: My boring story
"It's the fact that she is doing it behind my back, thinking i would not get to know about it... Either she thinks i'm too stupid to find out, doesn't care, or is too worried to tell me about it. "
Unless both of you have agreed to an exclusive relationship she may consider it to be none of your business.
Unless you have studied the historical development of social customs and mores that includes a concentration on those of her particular city and social circle you have no reason to judge her by your standards.
"I think i will allow myself a little time get my cool back. Then talk to her 100% honestly, and being straightforward."
This is wise, but you should exclude all reference to other guys, Russian or foreign, except as hypothetical examples. You may be presuming far too much. Europeans often have quite a different perspective on acceptable relationship behavior.
Talk about yourself only and your feelings and emotions and gently prod her for her views and plans and feelings about relationships and what she sees in her future.
Explore, don't challenge.
Unless both of you have agreed to an exclusive relationship she may consider it to be none of your business.
Unless you have studied the historical development of social customs and mores that includes a concentration on those of her particular city and social circle you have no reason to judge her by your standards.
"I think i will allow myself a little time get my cool back. Then talk to her 100% honestly, and being straightforward."
This is wise, but you should exclude all reference to other guys, Russian or foreign, except as hypothetical examples. You may be presuming far too much. Europeans often have quite a different perspective on acceptable relationship behavior.
Talk about yourself only and your feelings and emotions and gently prod her for her views and plans and feelings about relationships and what she sees in her future.
Explore, don't challenge.
RE: My boring story
CC... it's no different to real life.
Women here as in life are to get a man who will PAY for their lifestyle. Some chathosts are damn right liars will make you feel like a king but in truth its just about having your money.
Many say they are single but have lovers. That is not unique to CC its the same in life as whole. Some want the fantasy of meeting a rich foriegner and starting a new better life. But think about it - women here are incredibly expensive and high maintenance. You want to pay the rates all your life to this woman !
At the end of the day be objective: you are here to pay them to entertain you. (FACT) whether that is in CC or in real. (such as restaurant meals / flowers / clothes / holidays etc)
If relationship is giving too much negative emotion then its time to leave her. Dont waste your life trying to make her change - she wont.
Think about it - if you are in a restaurant and the service is bad - do you stay??
Women here as in life are to get a man who will PAY for their lifestyle. Some chathosts are damn right liars will make you feel like a king but in truth its just about having your money.
Many say they are single but have lovers. That is not unique to CC its the same in life as whole. Some want the fantasy of meeting a rich foriegner and starting a new better life. But think about it - women here are incredibly expensive and high maintenance. You want to pay the rates all your life to this woman !
At the end of the day be objective: you are here to pay them to entertain you. (FACT) whether that is in CC or in real. (such as restaurant meals / flowers / clothes / holidays etc)
If relationship is giving too much negative emotion then its time to leave her. Dont waste your life trying to make her change - she wont.
Think about it - if you are in a restaurant and the service is bad - do you stay??
Quest for the squirters
I have been here for quite some time and have waisted some time with some ladies that say that they are squirters, and find out that I can squirt more out of my big toe than they can out of their p***. This has brought me to the forum for any ladies to please cum forward and show me and for any viewers that have had the same problem or know of a lady that can to let me know so that I can visit her site.
RE: Quest for the squirters
LMFAO....if that really came from inside her she needs to see a doctor as soon as possible!
RE: Quest for the squirters
its all about showmanship! make it look real, make it look authenic, make it look good! It is not really the squirt that im looking for, its more of the creamy substance that interest me more.
RE: Quest for the squirters
You really don't get it do you. "Make it look authentic" you say...well authenticity would be it not happening at all
Chathost rules
Can somebody direct me to the rules for hosts in Adult categories. I have been told that in certain categories chathosts are obligated to get naked if asked politely and in other categories they are not allowed to. All i have been able to find are desciptions for non-adult categories. Heck , I don't even know if "glamor" is adult or non-adult.
RE: Chathost rules
tThank you for the reply...Is this explained somewhere on the site? If so, where?
RE: Chathost rules
Glamour is not Non-Adult. CC host rules state "At this moment Glamour does not fit into the non-adult category even though the activity is non-adult in nature"
Currently it seems to be in a category by itself between full adult and non-adult. I feel it is what CC intended littleshy to be when they first introduced it.
Currently it seems to be in a category by itself between full adult and non-adult. I feel it is what CC intended littleshy to be when they first introduced it.
RE: Chathost rules
glamour is in a category all by itself in an area between non-adult and adult.
non-adult is where she wears to much clothes.lol but glamour is a little different. still non sexual nature but may include underwear, swimsuit or topless. just remember no full nudity and close up of intimate areas.
non-adult is where she wears to much clothes.lol but glamour is a little different. still non sexual nature but may include underwear, swimsuit or topless. just remember no full nudity and close up of intimate areas.
RE: Chathost rules
*ahem* non sexual activity in Glamour? heehee I am a naughty Glamour girl then LOL
RE: Chathost rules
Camcontacts does advise viewers to ask in free chat what a host will or will not do in paid videochat. That is in ALL adult categories. That way if the host does not make good on her promise in video, you can contact camcontacts for a refund.
RE: LOL....wtf???
maybe for the same reason that the ladies laugh when i say that i'm naked. LOL
RE: LOL....wtf???
Most hosts. Virtually all hosts pretend to be horny and most members treat the statement "I'm horny" the same way as they would..."Come to my video so I can make money". Nobody believes you are horny. If you are truly get horny on CC then either seek professional help or spend more time with your bf. I only met a few hosts in 5 years that I can say were truly horny. If you are like them let me know your name baby.
RE: LOL....wtf???
secunded that , personally im "lol" when a host say to me im horny and im sorry if its real but its just so classical that its making me laugh.. now if one is honest well im sorry to say that ..
regards
syl
regards
syl
RE: LOL....wtf???
It's true! She can also fold her p@#!y to look like a Terradactyl when she masturbates too! It's awesome!!!!!!!!!! lol
Master i Margarita
I just saw Master i Margarita russian production. I must say I was surprised how good it was. I am not a fan of russian movies, only because I don't have easy acces to them but will try to find more. Any recommandations please, except Tarkovski?
P.S. Anyone knows the name of TV series where Basilashvili played a german officer double agent or something like that?
P.S. Anyone knows the name of TV series where Basilashvili played a german officer double agent or something like that?
RE: Master i Margarita
I liked a Vladimir Menshov film called Moscow Does Not Believe in Tears, and would recommend it.
RE: Master i Margarita
Femina, I started to read Bulgakov's novel, but put it down after about 60 pages. He struck me as a poor man's Dostoyevsky. My old girlfriend--who gave me the Bulgakov novel--said the novel was a bit slow going and only half-funny, but insisted I should pick it up again because the action becomes more interesting after the first 60 pages. Perhaps it does, but I have yet to pick up the novel again. Perhaps a film version will motive me to finish the novel!
As for other Russian films, there are the classic older films of Eisenstein. A favorite of mine is "Alexander Nevsky" with a wonderful music score by Prokoviev.
There is also a wonderful film, a Russian/Japanese co-production, directed by Kurosawa called " Durzu Usala" (sp?)
As for other Russian films, there are the classic older films of Eisenstein. A favorite of mine is "Alexander Nevsky" with a wonderful music score by Prokoviev.
There is also a wonderful film, a Russian/Japanese co-production, directed by Kurosawa called " Durzu Usala" (sp?)
RE: Master i Margarita
Hmm get an Audio Book
If I have no time to read a big book I get Audio version of it.:)
If I have no time to read a big book I get Audio version of it.:)
RE: Master i Margarita
I remember a year or so ago, a Russian lady friend of mine, who's opinion I value highly, recommended a movie called "Barber of Siberia" (Sibirskiy Tsiryulnik, 1998) to me. The renowned Russian director, Nikita Mihalkov, directed it. I looked it up and it had received some really good reviews from the critics, but I never got around to buying it. Unfortunately, I coudn't find it available for rent where I live (Atlanta) or I would have already seen it. As I recall, it was available in both the English and the Russian audio versions, with subtitles, but I might be mistaken about that. Perhaps some of the Russian ladies here will enlighten us further :-)
RE: Master i Margarita
Thank you gent and Celena. I guess the only way to get them is internet?
RE: Master i Margarita
I don't know any Russian movies, but I've been told several times that I look like a Russian actor named Grigoriy Antipenko.
Yet another Bday with a difference
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO M................Y COCK
As its one year ago that the foreskin got pulled back, and low and behold a head popped out to greet the wonderous world of sex, and the poor little thing got sick on his first outting as well :( Ohhhhh the mess of it, it was everywhere, the wall, the ceiling, the monitor. But i will say one thing he had fun :D
As its one year ago that the foreskin got pulled back, and low and behold a head popped out to greet the wonderous world of sex, and the poor little thing got sick on his first outting as well :( Ohhhhh the mess of it, it was everywhere, the wall, the ceiling, the monitor. But i will say one thing he had fun :D
RE: may be it is magic?
That guy could make a fortune if he could bottle that stuff. Trust me, 100% of older men fantisize about getting it on with a girl half their age.
RE: may be it is magic?
It is proof that REAL PASSION is between the ears, not between the legs.
RE: may be it is magic?
Agree =D
to the detective:
yes. you think it`s too hard? you think it`s a way to lose them? -))) never. they are like a mould...the difference - they`re just enough choosy. and try to find better place to breed their opinions. u can call it in thousand words, but anyway it will be never more beautiful of that.
to femina:
relax.... if u aren`t old guy ....
to the detective:
yes. you think it`s too hard? you think it`s a way to lose them? -))) never. they are like a mould...the difference - they`re just enough choosy. and try to find better place to breed their opinions. u can call it in thousand words, but anyway it will be never more beautiful of that.
to femina:
relax.... if u aren`t old guy ....
RE: may be it is magic?
I agree wholeheartedly with you femina. It's Interesting how a spontaneous utterance can reveal a persons true character. Perhaps she should include the caveat, "I don't like older men", in her profile.
RE: may be it is magic?
These comments were directed to the post by horse-woman which stated : "Older men are gross". My agreement was with Femina's comment of, " that was a totally insensitive remark". I believe HW was the only one to make such a callous statement.. Other hosts , who
might share the sentiment, at least had the grace to not post it..
might share the sentiment, at least had the grace to not post it..
finding "the button"
It is wonderful to find each others "passion button" as long as both are honorable.
RE: may be it is magic?
I wish I could drive you crazy, but you are always in Recorded Program.
the magic of on-line
The magic of on-line relationships is that even with a photo they are text-based and it is a unique way to establish a relationship and begin the dance.
Girls are much more cerebral and can look past the physical appearance much more easily when the feeling created by the correspondence is strong enough.
Girls are much more cerebral and can look past the physical appearance much more easily when the feeling created by the correspondence is strong enough.
RE: may be it is magic?
Good point, but you could apply that reasoning to guys of all ages on this site.
RE: may be it is magic?
That's a cynical response. Maybe he likes her. Granted, odds are a guy twice her age is probably not sincere about "love" or "commitment" or any of that, but if it's understood what the rapport is, then what's the problem?
RE: may be it is magic?
hmmmm some of u have an great pleasure just being MEANNN.... if u dont know what to say , dont say nothing at all.... stay in your corner , and learn some manners.... have a wonderfull day all Dana
RE: may be it is magic?
Miss Asiangirl, other girls here may not tell you but you are not alone. I am an older man (a bit less than 50). I have a Russian girlfriend half my age. It may be magic from both your and his viewpoints. Ask yourself, is I love, real love? Is the relationship about more than about sex? Why do you only speak about sex? If this relationship is more then yes, you found the magic of love. Any man or woman, who feels 100% comfortable and trusted in a magic relationship will of course engage in the closeness of sex nearly automatically, our minds are programmed to reproduce with who we feel will be the best partner for us and our children. Sex is only on part of a relationship.
From the older man’s viewpoint, I struggled myself with the idea of age difference. Finally I realized, there were many reasons I wanted to be with this special woman and most of reasons had nothing to do sex or her physical beauty. In fact, be sure if I could change one part of my relationship. When I found her it was slow process and it took my by surprises and perhaps the same happened with her.
So, Enjoy what you have. I hope you both wish to make it a real relationship. You are not the first and you will not be the last to have an age difference this is not unique to CC. We are not all created the same. Just be sure in yourself and in him, and follow your heart. I wish you luck!
From the older man’s viewpoint, I struggled myself with the idea of age difference. Finally I realized, there were many reasons I wanted to be with this special woman and most of reasons had nothing to do sex or her physical beauty. In fact, be sure if I could change one part of my relationship. When I found her it was slow process and it took my by surprises and perhaps the same happened with her.
So, Enjoy what you have. I hope you both wish to make it a real relationship. You are not the first and you will not be the last to have an age difference this is not unique to CC. We are not all created the same. Just be sure in yourself and in him, and follow your heart. I wish you luck!
RE: may be it is magic?
Most issues of significant age difference revolve around the man's wealth and the woman's fidelity.
The fidelity is difficult to address, but the man's accumulated wealth can be protected by being placed into a trust and does not require a pre-nup.
Even if you don't anticipate a wedding, the trust can protect your assets easily and privately. Consult legal representation.
The fidelity is difficult to address, but the man's accumulated wealth can be protected by being placed into a trust and does not require a pre-nup.
Even if you don't anticipate a wedding, the trust can protect your assets easily and privately. Consult legal representation.
RE: may be it is magic?
while exceptions are always possible I would have to aggree and simply say; Very good advice .
RE: may be it is magic?
I did it because my only heir is my sister and she is an idiot with money so the trust will dole it out to her slowly. Unless I find a wife, in which case I will have to change the trust to instruct how she will be treated.
Of course a wife gets all the marital assets, it is the pre-accumulated assets that are protected, particularly in the case of a divorse.
Of course a wife gets all the marital assets, it is the pre-accumulated assets that are protected, particularly in the case of a divorse.
an advice need
need an advice bout shave asshole and pussy. what best way for u girls who shave that nasty hair?
RE: an advice need
No no no!
Wax doesn`t work! It`s too quick treatment.....
My advice is TWEEZER it!
Good luck!
Wax doesn`t work! It`s too quick treatment.....
My advice is TWEEZER it!
Good luck!
RE: What's the most you've paid?
About $500 not here and highest price
Here $250 maximum........ Start crying ** AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
Here $250 maximum........ Start crying ** AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
RE: What's the most you've paid?
No. I have half of common amount you pay on site.
Subbie put ur subject here too.
Subbie put ur subject here too.
RE: What's the most you've paid?
he probably stopped spending when he got his credit card bill!
RE: What's the most you've paid?
9 hours of nonstop live videochat? Was it really funny? You know hard to believe.... -/
RE: What's the most you've paid?
It's just under 5 hours. 60 minutes are used to denote hours everywhere in the world.
RE: What's the most you've paid?
I regularly used to spend 4 to 5 hours every Saturday in 121 with my GF at the time. The longest vid we had was lamost 6 hours in one day, but not continuous, cos she had ro reboot.
RE: What's the most you've paid?
Wow!! She was your gf and you were happy that she only got 24% of what you paid?
duh!!
How do you think the middlemen make money? Do you know how expensive it is to run an operation as big and compex as CC? Do you know the expenses a studio boss incurs? Nobody is in this as a charity.
in 1 session
i think it was $150+/-
under $1 i think
and if i could do it again, would i?
yes... twice :D
under $1 i think
and if i could do it again, would i?
yes... twice :D
RE: in 1 session
That was in the same area for myself, and I thought that was alot but looking at how much you guys spent I came out lucky!
RE: What's the most you've paid?
I've spent... I don't know, perhaps in the order of $200 once or twice.
But i've spent over $100 in a single session more times that i'd like to admit to myself... *SOB*
But i've spent over $100 in a single session more times that i'd like to admit to myself... *SOB*
RE: rating:))
it could be changed from a star rating to a nipple rating,the harder the nipple the better the viewer
Suntan Lotion
Advice on what Factor suntan lotion I need for my holiday. Temperature is likely to be mid-high 30's/
Any ideas?
Any ideas?
RE: Suntan Lotion
well if your going to put that poison on your skin use the highest factor you can find if you plan on being in the sun all day, remember to reapply it often.
better still just dont ''bake'' yourself all day in the sun
better still just dont ''bake'' yourself all day in the sun
RE: Suntan Lotion
A consumer magazine recently did scientific testing of sunscreens and found Neutrogena Ultra Sheer Dry Touch Sunblock SPF55 as the best.
Cost to send SMS from Turkey?
Question for the Russian Hosts who go to Turkey for rest.
How much does it cost to send SMS when you are in Turkey? I was told it was expensive. What is the cost to do this?
How much does it cost to send SMS when you are in Turkey? I was told it was expensive. What is the cost to do this?
yeasy -)
Depends on ur mobile provider and kind of number (direct city numb or federal one).
Ask ur provider. They`ll give u an answer.
Ask ur provider. They`ll give u an answer.
RE: Cost to send SMS from Turkey?
My Russian girl who is in Turkey tells me... it is too expensive for her to send me an SMS. I am thinking, this is only an excuse. You agree?
RE: Cost to send SMS from Turkey?
I would not want her to send me SMS if it was 5$. I can wait. Thanks for your answer.
RE: to MasterT head
I don't play games with hosts in non-adult. They are here to chat, and if I desire to chat with one of them, that's what I'll do, and nothing more.
RE: Why you do this?
Also because CC didn't enforce the rules strongly before and many many many "non-adult" hosts DID strip in one2one.
RE: Why you do this?
From a male perspective, at least mine, I agree with you CBT. I would encourage Celena to not take it to heart as. some ppl are simply not going to take what you say as the last word. In some cases , perhaps with older visitors, it may even be a leftover from the days, in a land far far away, where "no", depending on the inflection of the voice, might have meant, " I have to say that because I was taught this is wrong, but please don't stop" As odd as it sounds, it really was that way and everyone got along quite well. As long as they understood a real "no" of that day was the equivalent of caps lock 'no" of today. Asking them their age and if they think "no" means maybe might start a conversation leading away from confrontation. Either that or boot em...
RE: Why you do this?
More like the Aesop fable of sour grapes. A hungry fox was going through a harvest vineyard, having not eaten in a long time he hoped to find some grapes. Eventually he found one loan bunch of grapes but it was high on the vine. He jumps and jumps and jumps as high as he could but the grapes were just out of his reach. Finally he gives up and wanders away commenting, "They were probably sour anyway." Some people are like the fox, when they fail to obtain what they want they have to convince themselves they never "really" wanted it, some take it as far as insulting their previous goal.
RE: Why you do this?
Cos before "New Rules" many NonA hosts would get naked in 121. It became a game to see which hosts could be talked out of their panties. I guess it is a throw back to the good old days. And I have had hosts change from NonA to Adult for a show.
RE: Why you do this?
I think it is a need to ascertain a kind of sexual connection with a woman to feel secure. And this is more likely to happen with non adult or glamour hosts I think. But men who are rude and call names when are refused, are sick IMO. More or less. The good thing is that you are far far away from them. Smile.
RE: Why you do this?
Celena, This is among a handful of perrenial questions at CC. The simple answer is members--indeed most of us-- want what we can't have. The story is as old as Adam & Eve. What fruit did they want?---the one that was forbidden, which is always the sweetest. :)
I think many men also find it a challenge to get the nominally "innocent" girl (i.e. girl in Non-Adult) to disrobe. After all, there is little, if any challenge with a girl who promises "Instant Action."
I think many men also find it a challenge to get the nominally "innocent" girl (i.e. girl in Non-Adult) to disrobe. After all, there is little, if any challenge with a girl who promises "Instant Action."
RE: Another Happy Birthday
In a way, yes. He is at doggy day camp today, so he can play with dozens of other dogs. :)
RE: Another Happy Birthday
I'll have to remember to wash his nose tonight; I'm sure he will have sniffed a lot of butts.
RE: How would the perfect video chat session would be for you?
As a viewer, F R E E.
I haven't had the perfect session yet. LOL.
I haven't had the perfect session yet. LOL.
RE: How would the perfect video chat session would be for you?
Ahh yes, the uncanny ability of a woman to deftly deflect a an attempt to have it our way. Clever response...........
RE: How would the perfect video chat session would be for you?
Good ans.!we are all FREE!!!:P...hugzzz!!!
RE: How would the perfect video chat session would be for you?
Hi there, how are you?
The perfect video session would be one with Wanda.
Byyyyyyyyyyeeeeeeeeeeee
The perfect video session would be one with Wanda.
Byyyyyyyyyyeeeeeeeeeeee
well 4 me
she would be topless when i entered and cam should be set so i can see from her waist up. and she is sitting comfortably and lastly her atttention is on me not the clock or her phone.
complicated huh?
well not too many are able to please me anymore.
complicated huh?
well not too many are able to please me anymore.
RE: well 4 me
the sexy girl being in a wet tight white top highlighting her nipples would be a good start :oP~~
RE: How would the perfect video chat session would be for you?
The perfect chat is when you make a new friend, and you know that this friendship will be long term.
RE: How would the perfect video chat session would be for you?
Jute, I agree that if two people find "real" friendship here---or anywhere---they should count themselves fortunate. Since true friendship is a rare and precious thing, such fortune might approximate the "perfect" chat.
P.S. to Jute
Jute, though I agree with you, I am just curious how---by what faculty or sense--we "know" a frienship will be "long-term?" Also curious whether you have in fact found such a friend or friends here, and if so, did you find them in the Category, "Long Term, or Marriage", or somewhere else?
RE: P.S. to Jute
I'm my case I have met two girls that are now my friends, one in the "make new friends" and the other in "little shy".
One of these I first chatted with in February, and I have since met in person - in fact, she is here at my home right now visiting me, with her boyfriend, who is also now my good friend. (And before anyone asks, no I didn't fund a free holiday for them.)
I can't say exactly what it was about the nature of the first chat with her, other than somehow we just clicked, and found we could just talk and talk. And I got that feeling of the start of a friendship, when there is so much to find out about, all subjects are open for discussion, there is no baggage. That feeling is so wonderful, I wish it would last forever...
The other girl I have not met in person, I don't know if I ever will, although I have a fantasy to meet her for a nice, long chat in a coffee shop in her home town. But for 7 months we talk regularly (now on msn, not here).
I should emphasize these friendships are purely platonic, will always be so, and have always been so, even in the vid in "little shy".
I think I have been very lucky, and I still don't really consider CC to be a good place to make friends, since meeting people here is essentially paying for friendship which is not a sound basis for a relationship.
One of these I first chatted with in February, and I have since met in person - in fact, she is here at my home right now visiting me, with her boyfriend, who is also now my good friend. (And before anyone asks, no I didn't fund a free holiday for them.)
I can't say exactly what it was about the nature of the first chat with her, other than somehow we just clicked, and found we could just talk and talk. And I got that feeling of the start of a friendship, when there is so much to find out about, all subjects are open for discussion, there is no baggage. That feeling is so wonderful, I wish it would last forever...
The other girl I have not met in person, I don't know if I ever will, although I have a fantasy to meet her for a nice, long chat in a coffee shop in her home town. But for 7 months we talk regularly (now on msn, not here).
I should emphasize these friendships are purely platonic, will always be so, and have always been so, even in the vid in "little shy".
I think I have been very lucky, and I still don't really consider CC to be a good place to make friends, since meeting people here is essentially paying for friendship which is not a sound basis for a relationship.
RE: happy b'day
PACOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!.. We love you boy... happy birthday man:))))) ps,, Iwas first,, hehe
RE: happy b'day
So sad when people like getemoff and paco have to put there own birthday wishes and other "certain" members dont coz the hosts know exactly when it is
RE: happy b'day
paco i wish i was half as sad as you,then i would be twice as happy as i am now but not 1/4as happy as i was 1 year ago but still 1/8 as sad as i was 6 months ago & hopefully 1/10 as happy as i will be in 6 months.ohh happy sad birthday(belatedly)paco.ohhh & if you remember could you post a birthday wish for me when it is my birthday please.thanks
"not allowed" to yahoo messenger????
i have a mac, so i cam with hostesses through yahoo messenger. but today i had a hostesss who wouldn't do it, because she said she wasn't allowed, and that she could "get kicked off". Even though i explained to her that I was the one who would be on a yahoo cam, while I would see her on CC, she still wouldn't do it. I've never encountered this before. Is it normal? what's the deal?
RE:
Studio bosses have to pay for traffic. Too much traffic leads to suspicion. Suspicion isn't welcomed and could lead to interference from the Law.
RE:
I just ordered an iMAC. It can work here? I mean can I log on and see a host on cam? I'm not talking about 2 way video, just me seeing the host. How does it work?
RE: Freedom for Hosts :)))
What's the "deal" ??? Ask the studios bosses :))))
If girls can use Messenger, why not use it from home and make free or payed show... ??? No need for Bosses anymore :))) And girls with some regular viewers will earn more from home than from a studio :)))) All is a question of "money" and "Bosses" :)))
If girls can use Messenger, why not use it from home and make free or payed show... ??? No need for Bosses anymore :))) And girls with some regular viewers will earn more from home than from a studio :)))) All is a question of "money" and "Bosses" :)))
RE: "not allowed" to yahoo messenger????
As stated some studio bosses don't allow hosts to go to ANY site other than tyhe one(s) they work on.
And some hosts fein the situation so they don't get spammed by guys begging them for free videos.
And some hosts fein the situation so they don't get spammed by guys begging them for free videos.
RE:
but if the customer is still paying on cc, watching the host from cc, and she wants to cam with the customer, what's the harm in viewing him through a yahoo connection? NONE.
RE: it could be
then it could also be that her boss is a moron. if she was allowed to view me through a yahoo messenger connection, i would've stayed in chat with her, and she would made $$$. but since she wasn't, i DID move on, to someone else who would. she and her boss lost my business. it makes no sense.
RE:
she has had enough of seeing disgusting,naked old men & she was trying to be polite,LMAO!!
mines and caves
I just heard about those miners in the US and the collapse of rescue efforts which has guaranteed their slow death by starvation. :-(
At the same time I was reading about Soviet soldiers hiding in the mines near Rostov in WWII when the Germans found them and simply planted explosives at the openings. Those who didn't die starved there.
At the same time I was reading about Soviet soldiers hiding in the mines near Rostov in WWII when the Germans found them and simply planted explosives at the openings. Those who didn't die starved there.
RE: mines and caves
You can live a very long time without food. It's the lack of drinking water that will kill you.
RE: mines and caves
Most of us members here could probably live for a year or so without food.....it's the lack of beer and cigars that would do us in.....
Obversations
I have only recently begun to read the forums. In doing so , I have discovered some posts are not only entertaining, but insightful as well. I have found some are quite semtimental, perhaps, even a bit touching, and some are just plain good old fashioned bitchin.
For the most part there seems to be considerable talk about the hosts and the interaction with the viewer. Lots of whom was played and by whom and the related consequences. . There's also significant mention of what's fair, what is expected, by both viewer and host, and whether the expectations are realistic or not. I don't comment on those as I have no idea of the underlying reason for a viewer or host being here, their character or their agenda. I can only speak for myself and why I am here. Personally , and obvious to myself , it's the lack of something in my life. Is that a negative? Perhaps, but I don't see it that way. I simply find it relaxing and a respite from the dymamics of forced protocols I must deal with each day. Here, if it's not to my liking, I can switch to another venue at the touch of a button. I'm never rude and, while understanding of the rigors and emotions the hosts sometimes deal with, won't tolerate a player or rudeness either.
So, what's my point in this posting? Glad you asked. Since becoming acquaintaned with a few of the hosts I have experienced an unexpectedly broad range of personality, demeanor, opinion, education, ambition, talent, philosophy and more.
Here's my observation . Some of the hosts are not only quite attractive but very intuitive and intelligent as well. ( please don't hammer me for that comment as I simply did not expect what I have found ) . There are some really fine people , from literally all over the world, on CC. If T&A is your game, I'm sure there's some incredible talent in that department also as some of the pics are breathtaking. I just don't go that route.
So, with all of this said, I wish to compliment those of you who do
take pride in your endeavor and consider the feelings of those who come to visit. I also say to those whom I have visited and , for one reason or another, life seems to be a bit cruel, don't compare yourself with others. While we are all connected, no two are the same. Your time will come.
And to those with larcenous hearts, better get straight with yourself, as one day you will be asking, "What did I do to deserve this?".
Oh yes, and to the few special ladies I have had the pleasure of enjoying your company and shared thought, and also to my first host, whom I have always had a somewhat juvenile crush on, thank you all and keep smiling . ta ta .... I'm outta here....
For the most part there seems to be considerable talk about the hosts and the interaction with the viewer. Lots of whom was played and by whom and the related consequences. . There's also significant mention of what's fair, what is expected, by both viewer and host, and whether the expectations are realistic or not. I don't comment on those as I have no idea of the underlying reason for a viewer or host being here, their character or their agenda. I can only speak for myself and why I am here. Personally , and obvious to myself , it's the lack of something in my life. Is that a negative? Perhaps, but I don't see it that way. I simply find it relaxing and a respite from the dymamics of forced protocols I must deal with each day. Here, if it's not to my liking, I can switch to another venue at the touch of a button. I'm never rude and, while understanding of the rigors and emotions the hosts sometimes deal with, won't tolerate a player or rudeness either.
So, what's my point in this posting? Glad you asked. Since becoming acquaintaned with a few of the hosts I have experienced an unexpectedly broad range of personality, demeanor, opinion, education, ambition, talent, philosophy and more.
Here's my observation . Some of the hosts are not only quite attractive but very intuitive and intelligent as well. ( please don't hammer me for that comment as I simply did not expect what I have found ) . There are some really fine people , from literally all over the world, on CC. If T&A is your game, I'm sure there's some incredible talent in that department also as some of the pics are breathtaking. I just don't go that route.
So, with all of this said, I wish to compliment those of you who do
take pride in your endeavor and consider the feelings of those who come to visit. I also say to those whom I have visited and , for one reason or another, life seems to be a bit cruel, don't compare yourself with others. While we are all connected, no two are the same. Your time will come.
And to those with larcenous hearts, better get straight with yourself, as one day you will be asking, "What did I do to deserve this?".
Oh yes, and to the few special ladies I have had the pleasure of enjoying your company and shared thought, and also to my first host, whom I have always had a somewhat juvenile crush on, thank you all and keep smiling . ta ta .... I'm outta here....
RE: Obversations
Thank you 'realist' - nice to know the literary critic of The Times is here :)
RE: Obversations
I would think the writer of the topic was utilizing his, the gender assumed, experience in composing a post which dealt directly with those experiences. While it may have been slightly over the top on sentiment, I found it to be well written and rather refreshing. It is Interesting, however, you should mention the words "pretentious" and "crap" in the same sentence. One would seem to describe your demeanor toward others and the other your primary composition . Both, I think, would be indicative of what most hosts find distasteful and cause for the "bitchin" the writer mentioned. Humm, did you forget to take your meds today? Have a nice day..
RE: Obversations
Yes I've taken my meds today, but thanks for reminding me. Hope that you too have a nice day. :)
RE: Obversations
I have to say that over the 7 years I've been a member and reading the boards, that the bitching posts outnumber the insightfull ones by a wide margin. And I do agree that there is great diversity in the hosts and that in addtition to above average looks, there is also above average intelligence. And I do include the hosts in the adult section as well as the non adult hosts.
a host in video
I know if I am in open video with a host that I may not be the only viewer with her. But even then if she ignores me totally why should I stay in her video?
One recently asked me "why did you leave?" and when I told her because she wouldn't answer me she said "i was a lil busy." I asked if she was in other video and she said no, just textchatting.
I had to explain that the guy(s) giving money should supercede ALL textchatting and all her attention should go to paid video. She didn't seem to get it. All guys typing get equal attention to her.
One recently asked me "why did you leave?" and when I told her because she wouldn't answer me she said "i was a lil busy." I asked if she was in other video and she said no, just textchatting.
I had to explain that the guy(s) giving money should supercede ALL textchatting and all her attention should go to paid video. She didn't seem to get it. All guys typing get equal attention to her.
RE: a host in video
Yes it is gratifying to meet a host who want to communicate. I even very much enjoy that one host who puts everything through a translating program. Sometimes it so unwieldy, but I admire her for the fact she tries.
RE: a host in video
And what if you enter a video-in-progress in open session and the host asks you to leave? CC is so different like that.
Most sites sell the idea to the host of limitless income from multiple viewers and on CC a host might get pissed if you jump into video without textchat first.
Most sites sell the idea to the host of limitless income from multiple viewers and on CC a host might get pissed if you jump into video without textchat first.
RE: a host in video
and what about if you enter in a video and chathost admits other video with different nick in CC ?
RE: a host in video
Too many times you see type, but no text to you, they think you stupid and not see
RE: a host in video
Your words prove that is possible to have fun , to get money and at same time dont pissing off guy who joined first. Guy who joined later knows when click if you are in video or not , so it is his chance to wait paying minutes being a voyeur or to leave and be back later. True Karen , warning that only lastes 30 seconds or less.
that`s simply
If somebody can`t understand by words 'Sorry. I`m busy. Please come later' or can`t catch by momentan action of host (examples: host can be far from keyboard; to change clothes; to be in hardcore show).
It isn`t a question for any discuss.
Gentleman, if you speak by phone with somebody, you usualy answer to next person that you are busy and ask for conversation next. Right? It`s a life. Here is all like in your normal fucking life -) Kiss you
It isn`t a question for any discuss.
Gentleman, if you speak by phone with somebody, you usualy answer to next person that you are busy and ask for conversation next. Right? It`s a life. Here is all like in your normal fucking life -) Kiss you
RE: that`s simply
I usually try to avoid responding to these type of posts because they tend to end up in a war of insult-slinging and frivolous name calling that serves no purpose whatsoever. Unfortunately, I just can't hold my tongue on this one. Perhaps it's a result of having just read several of your other heartwarming posts. At any rate, in my "normal fucking life", I do my best to either prevent or change the things that regularly annoy me. In your case, it appears that having simultaneous multiple viewers annoys you tremendously. Might I suggest a few remedies to this situation? If it is possible, could you make your 1-2-1 price the same as your open video price? I would think that then your viewers would choose to visit you in 1-2-1 nearly every time and your simultaneous viewer aggravation would be reduced dramatically. If that price structure conflicts with CC's rules for 1-2-1 rates, there used to be an option here for a host to offer a private session, available to a viewer by invitation (and with the password protection of your choice) only. One of those two solutions should keep us from irritating you so badly. Believe me, horse-woman, if you don't need us pesky viewers and our "fucking normal lives", we can move on and find a more rewarding way to spend our money on a moment's notice. I don't have any idea for whom you work, but at the company I own, I and all those who work for me, "check our attitudes" at the door before we communicate with our valued customers. Our precious patrons are what puts the food on our tables.
RE: for Ibanez777
Thank you all so much !!!! Very nice and caring to receive such wishes. Wish each of you the best and all your dreams come true as well.
Hugs
Charles
Hugs
Charles