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Old couple
There was an old couple, in their 80's her husband had just passed away.
The womans daughter asked her mother how her father died.
The mom said he died of a heart attack as they were making love.
The daughters eyes got big, and she asked how they still were able to have sex at such age.
The mother said oh, it was great. Evan at their age he could still make love.
Usually it was on a Sunday morning, they would wake up and have sex with the rythem of the church bells.
Nice and slow
In the " Ding " Out with the " Dong "
Every Sunday was the same till last week, when that damn ice cream truck stopped in front of the house .
The womans daughter asked her mother how her father died.
The mom said he died of a heart attack as they were making love.
The daughters eyes got big, and she asked how they still were able to have sex at such age.
The mother said oh, it was great. Evan at their age he could still make love.
Usually it was on a Sunday morning, they would wake up and have sex with the rythem of the church bells.
Nice and slow
In the " Ding " Out with the " Dong "
Every Sunday was the same till last week, when that damn ice cream truck stopped in front of the house .
RE: wig
I never spotted one. I'd say as long as it didn't fly off during a show it wouldn't bother me. ;)
RE: wig
yup, and it wasnt very flattering. i didnt tell her, but someone else must have because she stopped wearing it the very next day.
RE: wig
Yes, I have seen a host with a wig, she looked beautiful with or without the wig...mmm, she was pretty hot though, and had the most beautiful smile!
RE: wig
Now, if she were wearing one during real sex, then I would be wondering what she is hiding. But, then, on the otherhand, in the virtual world, I'm still curious. LOL
Chathost(private): "Are you married?"
Hey Hosties! (K)
Why do you girls ask this? God I hate this question. :p It always puts me off balence, I always answer truthfully, (which is yes) but sometimes it seems to change the attitude of the host.
Lets face it, some put that they looking for a prefect guy here, and some actulally find it. But this would be the last place I'd start. Also lets face that 90% of the guys that say they're not married, are.
So why ask this? You really want to know? most that say no are lying and when I say yes, most host are put off by it. I've been trying to circumvent the question by pretending I didnt see it, but they ask again, even to the point of "you never answered my question, are you married?". Then they seem to get put off by saying yes, she looses interest and we stop chatting. Then they lose out. All my regs know I'm married and it doesnt seem to mind them. So whats up with the ones that get bent about it? Why ask it then if you dont want to hear the answer. No, these girls dont have "looking for my perfect guy" in thier profile.
Anyway... sorry for the rant. But if theres a CC Host manual somewhere that suggest asking this, maybe its time to rewrite it. ;)
Muah girls (K)
Why do you girls ask this? God I hate this question. :p It always puts me off balence, I always answer truthfully, (which is yes) but sometimes it seems to change the attitude of the host.
Lets face it, some put that they looking for a prefect guy here, and some actulally find it. But this would be the last place I'd start. Also lets face that 90% of the guys that say they're not married, are.
So why ask this? You really want to know? most that say no are lying and when I say yes, most host are put off by it. I've been trying to circumvent the question by pretending I didnt see it, but they ask again, even to the point of "you never answered my question, are you married?". Then they seem to get put off by saying yes, she looses interest and we stop chatting. Then they lose out. All my regs know I'm married and it doesnt seem to mind them. So whats up with the ones that get bent about it? Why ask it then if you dont want to hear the answer. No, these girls dont have "looking for my perfect guy" in thier profile.
Anyway... sorry for the rant. But if theres a CC Host manual somewhere that suggest asking this, maybe its time to rewrite it. ;)
Muah girls (K)
RE: Chathost(private):
members dont need to ask if the girls are horny, they tell us constantly and ask if we are......lol
RE: Chathost(private):
Always tell them in text chat before the video - your name, age, residence location, employement, marital status, what you look like, whether you are willing to send a photo, whether or not you have a cam, if you are horny, and precisely what you expect from the video. Then go to video. Makes things so much easier.
RE: Chathost(private):
DAMN. Don't u think u spend "too much" time in text chat??????????????:)))
RE: Chathost(private):
You've had a rough go at it then Alena... Sorry to hear. We've never had the pleasure of meeting. Maybe I can show you it can be better. Its not all about toys and time. (K)
Maybe you profile sends the wrong message:
"Passionate man who will use all my holes to fuck hard.Customer is always right, when he is paying // Sexy nude shows , Toys, the most fuckable and tasty holes you ever fucked.Instant play, i am up to all kind of fun, see you in chat."
Hope to see you soon. (K)
Maybe you profile sends the wrong message:
"Passionate man who will use all my holes to fuck hard.Customer is always right, when he is paying // Sexy nude shows , Toys, the most fuckable and tasty holes you ever fucked.Instant play, i am up to all kind of fun, see you in chat."
Hope to see you soon. (K)
RE: Chathost(private):
I like to know if u r married or not - i am single but i dont see any man that come to my chat as possible "soul mate" - and i like to get to know my viewers; i feel more comfortable with them if i do; if not, they are just another "ghost" and thats fine with me, but in that case they should not expect from me to open up in any way, private or in show; if you dont like that, u can just say so, "sorry dont like to talk about it"; as one viewer said to me, "its my money and i can choose for it what i want and dont want"; same for you! It seem here in virutal world we are all intimidated by what will happend, will i be approved, what will they think of me - I suppose it shouldnt be this way; as i see it, this should be one place we should feel free to be what ever we are; maybe you should think why is bothering you if girl dont accept you as you are?! muahaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
RE: Chathost(private):
True, I do have a little apprehension about a host accepting me to a point, but I think that also is good for the host, because I dont just come in and start demanding. I have a much more pleasurable experience with a session if I think the host is have at least a little fun. That might make me odd, but its just the way it is. Is it not good to care about a host a little? ;)
lol I tried the "lets not tallk about it", and the host said, "OK so you are." Damit.. Been nice talking to you. :p
Thanks for the answer (K)
lol I tried the "lets not tallk about it", and the host said, "OK so you are." Damit.. Been nice talking to you. :p
Thanks for the answer (K)
RE: Chathost(private):
(K) I don't really get upset, just worry about what will happen after I answer, I get upset at the host the seem to get put off by being married. There are the ones that it doesnt seem to matter and like you the ones that like it. Maybe I need to come see you. (K)
Thanks for the answer (K)
Thanks for the answer (K)
RE: Chathost(private):
When a model is really attractive and have nice personality then I might ask about a bf cause it amazes me she probably dates some poor looser without money - if her bf got money in his pockets she probably wouldnt be working here so I got mixed emotions about it ;)
RE: Chathost(private):
I never ask, even if I'm asked about marriage. I figure, just like annabunny, if they want to talk about it they will. There's plenty of other crap to talk about besides this.
and.. if she did have a bf or married, all the better. Because then we both have something in common and understanding seems to be a little easier cuz we're both here. :)
In my regs I got 1 thats married, 1 has a bf and 1 has aleast two kids. We all good friends, nothing changed. :)
and.. if she did have a bf or married, all the better. Because then we both have something in common and understanding seems to be a little easier cuz we're both here. :)
In my regs I got 1 thats married, 1 has a bf and 1 has aleast two kids. We all good friends, nothing changed. :)
RE: Chathost(private):
Why do guys always ask "Do you have a BF?" And what does it change?
I'll answer your question by asking the REAL question at the center of this whole topic -- why are so many people lying to each other? Just because this is a virtual world? Does that suddenly make lying okay?
Here, I'll put it to the test. Let's flip the "Are you married" question around and shine the light on the girls. If you girls feel it doesn't change anything -- that a show is just a show and you're just doing your job -- then why not simply admit upfront "Yes, I have a husband at home" or "Yes, I have a boyfriend in real life"?
I'll answer your question by asking the REAL question at the center of this whole topic -- why are so many people lying to each other? Just because this is a virtual world? Does that suddenly make lying okay?
Here, I'll put it to the test. Let's flip the "Are you married" question around and shine the light on the girls. If you girls feel it doesn't change anything -- that a show is just a show and you're just doing your job -- then why not simply admit upfront "Yes, I have a husband at home" or "Yes, I have a boyfriend in real life"?
RE: Chathost(private):
I could ask this question because for me it is an additional turn-on...;) mmmm, so you're married bb... want to f*ck me too?:D Or we could fantasize about threesome...
Funeral Rites
A cardiologist died and was given an elaborate funeral attended by
fellow physicians, family members, friends, etc. A huge heart covered
in flowers stood behind the casket during the service. Following the
eulogy, the heart opened, and the casket rolled inside. The heart then
closed, sealing the doctor in the beautiful heart forever.
At that point, one of the mourners burst into laughter. When all eyes
stared at him, he said, 'I'm sorry, I was just thinking of my own
funeral ...I'm a gynecologist.'
That's when the proctologist fainted.
fellow physicians, family members, friends, etc. A huge heart covered
in flowers stood behind the casket during the service. Following the
eulogy, the heart opened, and the casket rolled inside. The heart then
closed, sealing the doctor in the beautiful heart forever.
At that point, one of the mourners burst into laughter. When all eyes
stared at him, he said, 'I'm sorry, I was just thinking of my own
funeral ...I'm a gynecologist.'
That's when the proctologist fainted.
RE: About women
IT is the effect of the webcam i guess, seeing yourself all time on cam, posing, makes u see good parts of your body...and the bad ones. And you start working on it. You can say you discover yourself and develop the aesthetic eye :)
RE: About women
I think its a great confidence booster. I have a regular, we started talking her first day. Today she seems much happier and sure of herself, she still retains enough of her shyness to make her still her. But its good to see the positive change.
I think if it went too far into vanity and narcissism it would be sad to see. I'll tend to agree with you. A little vanity is good, just watch yourself simple host. (K)
Take Care.
I think if it went too far into vanity and narcissism it would be sad to see. I'll tend to agree with you. A little vanity is good, just watch yourself simple host. (K)
Take Care.
RE: About women
I know what you mean - dont know if my viewers notice that but I do notice how ive changed for better - feeling more free to be a woman, what ever that means for me - lol; Im still shy as "tooniceguy" said, but the very fact that some man like me, gives me courage to start seeing myself more positively; and yes, THANK GOD FOR THIS JOB in a way of learning to be more confidant - btw, i dont think real confidence has anything to do with vanity, if you notice vanity, its time to think again, AM I REALLY CONFIDANT :)?
RE: About women
yes...women that work here get to know men quite well...not that they r particularly complicated creature...lol...so they refine their tactics and instruments to better manipulate and caste their mysterious...huh?...spell on those willing to play the game.
RE: About women
u confused me?! replaying to my opinion or main thread? if its at mine, i can tell you, im sure i will never get to know man - or woman for that matter - they keep confusing me over and over again! and i thought we are talking about how this job influence us - woman, in the way to become more woman we can be, not about learing tactics or scamming:(
RE: About women
Everyone likes to feel sexy/handsome/pretty/desired (describe what you will). And usually people see themselves only in mirrors. Such chat gives an opportunity to study own movement, behaviour, look and seeing live how it affects other people. I think it is normal, when person changes and sees positive effects of such change, one tends to stick to it and try to do other things better - look, behaviour, clothes, makeup. It can be a great boost of confidence, or a total breakdown for someone who takes all jerks seriously ;)
the dollar
So now that the dollar has risen back in value - 6 month high against the euro, 21 month high against the pound - does this mean prices will fall here now?
RE: the dollar
sure, and now that the price of oil has fallen too, i'm sure lower gas prices are due any day now.
RE: the dollar
The answer and empatic "no". Once high, remain high. Sort of like the American government: you give them a foot and they will take a mile. LOL
for memebers:)
Im wondering - do members know how expensive living in Europe is?! I would love to lower my price, but it comes down to very simple question, "Am I here to earn my living, or waisting some of my free time!? WELL i dont have free time to waist- LOL
host from Montenegro ?
Are any host here who are from/in Montenegro ?
(asked the same in wievers only, but no reply)
(asked the same in wievers only, but no reply)
RE: Is $1.50 really so much for little shy?
I think the warm satisfaction a host gets from a completely naked show done well, one that she has really put that extra effort into, is something on which you just can't put a price.
RE: Is $1.50 really so much for little shy?
You're wrong Marybell. $0.10 is getting close to being ok but to really be okay it should be $0.01 or better still the host should pay me :D
RE: Is $1.50 really so much for little shy?
If at $1.50 a girl gives some sort of show in open seesion the price is reasonable. If to get any sort of show you have to go to 121 for over $2.00 this is high.
RE: Is $1.50 really so much for little shy?
Having read the thread I can see that she has shown poor business sense. She increased her price by 50% in one jump. If she had spread the increase over 5 months, going up by 0.10 each month I think there would be fewer complaints.
RE: Is $1.50 really so much for little shy?
She increased the price of her open session by a huge 50% making her 121 vid go to $2.00 If I would go to her now to her 121 as I usually did, I would spend about: $120.00 Compared to what she charged before: $90.00 Thats $30.00 or 1/3 difference that i could use for another vid session with another host. Most of us can afford a $5.00 a min host, but how many other hosts we would see after a half hour session with this host? zero - nada - nothing else for the rest of the month! LOL.
RE: Is $1.50 really so much for little shy?
I think you missing the point. $1.50 is not so expensive for not so shy but for the shy category it is since there is no guarantee of show.
RE: Is $1.50 really so much for little shy?
I dunno, I've gotten some pretty hot shows of a little shy. Must just be in the way you treat them. ;)
RE: Is $1.50 really so much for little shy?
I treat them better than anyone dude but there no guarantees no matter how nice you are. Get the point?
RE: Is $1.50 really so much for little shy?
Never said you didnt bro, I thought the point was if $1.50 was too much for little shy, not about a guarantee of a show. ;)
Peace ;)
Peace ;)
How much for womans Shoes in Russia?
One girl told me that she pays $200 for shoes in Russia.
If that realistic? How much do you pay for your shoes in Russia?
If that realistic? How much do you pay for your shoes in Russia?
RE: How much for womans Shoes in Russia?
That's a lot for shoes! How much are panties in Russia?
RE: How much for womans Shoes in Russia?
in cam i like girls without panties....so the price doesnt really matter...lol
RE: How much for womans Shoes in Russia?
We looked into a shoe shop when I was there last year and, as far as I could tell, the prices seemed on par with western prices.
RE: How much for womans Shoes in Russia?
$700 :( No wonder the prices on here are going up :P
I never pay more than £15 for a pair of shoes :)
I never pay more than £15 for a pair of shoes :)
RE: How much for womans Shoes in Russia?
15 quid? Nah, shoes are the one thing I don't skimp on - you should always try and wear good shoes. I think the lowest price I've paid in recent years for shoes is about 60 quid.
RE: How much for womans Shoes in Russia?
it's just like those rap artists who spend all their money on gold teeth and fleets of bentleys - it earns them such remarkable respect.
RE: How much for womans Shoes in Russia?
wildieeeeeeeeeeeeeeee, never see ya anymore...........
RE: How much for womans Shoes in Russia?
Russian women + shoes is a baaad comination in my experience
RE: How much for womans Shoes in Russia?
Yeah but I am pretty sure Russian women's shoe bugdet takes up more of their income (or their BF's income) than any other nationality. Just a guess - haven't reasearched this fully ))
RE: How much for womans Shoes in Russia?
When a Russian girl tells me she lives on $600 each month and spend $200 for shoes... I think that girl is crazy! I would prefer to eat good and have practical shoes and not spend so much for stylish fashion.
I see that CC must be a very good job in deed!
I see that CC must be a very good job in deed!
RE: How much for womans Shoes in Russia?
wow,i couldn t belive my eyes when i started reading this topic
$200 for a pair of shoes is way to much ..yes i would pay that much but not for day to day shoes ..maybe some sexy pumps or wtv
most of you girls are saying that it s worth starving for a pair of shoes ..why is that?
i m not russian but i m close by and let me tell you i see this happening every day in my country ,girls&guys that can t afford to have a soda in a steamy hot day but are wearing brand shoes that they probably need to save up months to get ..what s the point ?at the end of the day clothes and shoes don t make you a better person in the eyes of others maybe just in eyes of ppl that do the same thing,if you need brand designs to feel better about yourself then there must be something wrong with you ..as for the d&g shoes comment ..if you got them for 150 E they aren t great shoes ,designer labels have the top collections for ppl who can afford to spend that much money and the "cheap" collection for ppl who are just obssesed on wearing a brand ..so that 150 E pair of shoes is worth about 50 E the rest goes to the 2 letters D and G
it s time to shup up now so peace out
$200 for a pair of shoes is way to much ..yes i would pay that much but not for day to day shoes ..maybe some sexy pumps or wtv
most of you girls are saying that it s worth starving for a pair of shoes ..why is that?
i m not russian but i m close by and let me tell you i see this happening every day in my country ,girls&guys that can t afford to have a soda in a steamy hot day but are wearing brand shoes that they probably need to save up months to get ..what s the point ?at the end of the day clothes and shoes don t make you a better person in the eyes of others maybe just in eyes of ppl that do the same thing,if you need brand designs to feel better about yourself then there must be something wrong with you ..as for the d&g shoes comment ..if you got them for 150 E they aren t great shoes ,designer labels have the top collections for ppl who can afford to spend that much money and the "cheap" collection for ppl who are just obssesed on wearing a brand ..so that 150 E pair of shoes is worth about 50 E the rest goes to the 2 letters D and G
it s time to shup up now so peace out
RE: How much for womans Shoes in Russia?
corns, calluses, hammertoes, arthritis, chronic knee pain, sprained ankles, back problems..... high heels can be hell on a woman's health, but as a pig bastard male, i just want to thank you for sacrificing your health to stay looking sexy...... that's very generous of you.
RE: need advice
if you're married and have a child and looking to either cheat on him or trade him in for some other guy, how can you expect anyone to respect you?
if you're having problems with your husband, working those out and resolving them should take top priority.
reverse the situation and asked yourself one question: would you enter into a relationship that you hope to be meaningful with someone you know for a fact would cheat on his wife? wouldn't you recognize that that would most likely mean that you would end up being cheated on as well?
if you're having problems with your husband, working those out and resolving them should take top priority.
reverse the situation and asked yourself one question: would you enter into a relationship that you hope to be meaningful with someone you know for a fact would cheat on his wife? wouldn't you recognize that that would most likely mean that you would end up being cheated on as well?
RE: need advice
lets see if i got this one right. you met a wanker on-line and you think you want to leave husband & child for guy you never met in person. lol.
RE: need advice
I think you should tell the guy the truth and be prepared to accept what ever happens...... If he leaves and never returns then it was probably the best or if he still stays and still visits you online, you can go from there....Still consider your child and yourself in this whole picture as the top priority... good luck
RE: need advice
In my opinion AvrOra is looking at this in the most practical way.When a child is going to be involved in the decision you make,put your childs well fare above your own.That can somestimes mean "sacrifice" on a parents part.But ultimaltely the decision will be up to you.Not the CC forum.
RE: need advice
How well do you know "The charming man" ? If it is just from this site then you don't really know him at all. Even I can appear to be charming on this site sometimes :P
Does he tell you he loves you or indice he has any feelings for you at all ?
If it serious then I would say tell him as you have no chance of being with him without telling him. If it isn't serious then just go along as you are taking his money and spending it :)
Does he tell you he loves you or indice he has any feelings for you at all ?
If it serious then I would say tell him as you have no chance of being with him without telling him. If it isn't serious then just go along as you are taking his money and spending it :)
RE: need advice
I think there are several important things in your message.
First you say that you think you have already fallen out of love with your husband (before you met the charming guy), and this is an issue all by itself. I don't know what you have done to try and make tings work with your husband, do you know why you have fallen out of love, have you tried to relight the spark that brought you together before? How about your child...how important is the relationship between your husband and yourself for your child? Decide what you want to do with your husband totally seperate to any decision concerning the charming guy. Don't have the charming guy as any factor in this decision, as any new guy you meet can always just be a fleeting experience.
Secondly, if you speak to the charming guy, then hopefully he will already respect you as a friend, and he will be happy to keep you as a friend even if he knows you are married or if you have a child. If this is not the case, then maybe he is not as charming as he first appears!
I think first you need to make the decision regarding your husband...decide what you can do there, see if there is any way you can make it work together.
At the same time you can continue your friendship with the charming guy, but he does not need to know anything until you have decided what you are going to do about your husband. You may want to bring up the fact that you have a child if the conversation demands it - try not to deceive the charming guy, if he asks questions then you should either not answer, or answer truthfully. Lies are a sure way to destroy any relationship before it starts!
If (and it's a big IF) things totally break down between yourself and your husband and if (and again a big IF) you still feel that the charming guy is still charming and if (one more big IF) there is any chance of a relationship working (does he live close enough, and if not, would either of you be realistically able to travel to the other) then you can start to take the relationship with the charming guy forwards.
First you say that you think you have already fallen out of love with your husband (before you met the charming guy), and this is an issue all by itself. I don't know what you have done to try and make tings work with your husband, do you know why you have fallen out of love, have you tried to relight the spark that brought you together before? How about your child...how important is the relationship between your husband and yourself for your child? Decide what you want to do with your husband totally seperate to any decision concerning the charming guy. Don't have the charming guy as any factor in this decision, as any new guy you meet can always just be a fleeting experience.
Secondly, if you speak to the charming guy, then hopefully he will already respect you as a friend, and he will be happy to keep you as a friend even if he knows you are married or if you have a child. If this is not the case, then maybe he is not as charming as he first appears!
I think first you need to make the decision regarding your husband...decide what you can do there, see if there is any way you can make it work together.
At the same time you can continue your friendship with the charming guy, but he does not need to know anything until you have decided what you are going to do about your husband. You may want to bring up the fact that you have a child if the conversation demands it - try not to deceive the charming guy, if he asks questions then you should either not answer, or answer truthfully. Lies are a sure way to destroy any relationship before it starts!
If (and it's a big IF) things totally break down between yourself and your husband and if (and again a big IF) you still feel that the charming guy is still charming and if (one more big IF) there is any chance of a relationship working (does he live close enough, and if not, would either of you be realistically able to travel to the other) then you can start to take the relationship with the charming guy forwards.
RE: need advice
i cant believe this is really happening to me,that i let myself into this situation.Think i must add some details to the story...fact is i am depressed for awhile this happened during pregnancy when husband didnt understood my extra attention needs and it got only worse after birth, we tryed to make things work we did lots of talking but nothing changed i wanted to leave him but i cant because is more complicated if i would leave him i would have to go to my familly and thats far far away and dont want my baby not to have relations with his father...the charming guy is also far far far away so i could never move with him,and yet i am dreaming of some miracle solution:((((( the charming guy and i we dont talk about love,for love i think we would need to meet in real but there is atraction and he always makes me smile,this influenced also my day to day moods i become more happy more alive as if he brought me back the sparkle...there are other guys i could fall for,but i did for this one so i dont think was just my need of affection..i decided i will stop beeing selfish and think at him also and tell him the truth :((
RE: need advice
This is just as much as a fantasy for you as it may be for your charming friend. Be realistic. This is not the best place to seek love. In addition, many guys will accept a divorced woman but the child really complicates this issue. Some guys may accept you but not with a child. My advice is if you decide to leave husband, find an older gent who will accept your background and your child. Good luck.
RE: need advice
Tell him the truth, as others have already mentioned.
It will be a fire test for him... and if he passes, then it proves he's the right guy for you (at least for now :P).
It will be a fire test for him... and if he passes, then it proves he's the right guy for you (at least for now :P).
RE: need advice
I dont think your husband loves you anyway if he lets you work here so just get rid of him.
RE: need advice
Just go ahead and meet him and marry him...and pretend the kid was left on your doorstep...he will believe you...you work at CC.
RE: need advice
Tell your friend the truth and insist that you wish to start a real relationship on a concrete base without any lies or untruths!
If he leaves, he wasn't worth it anyway.
In any case start divorce proceedings before the meeting, I do not/or wish to, know your country, but you could be divorced for adultery and loose your child if you divorce after the meeting!
And as they say in a country very dear to me "bafta"! "noroc"!
If he leaves, he wasn't worth it anyway.
In any case start divorce proceedings before the meeting, I do not/or wish to, know your country, but you could be divorced for adultery and loose your child if you divorce after the meeting!
And as they say in a country very dear to me "bafta"! "noroc"!
RE: need advice
you have a dead marriage no matter who you meet. You should get divorced now; another man will show up one day..................
RE: need advice
you're telling her to bank on some foreign guy who she has only known through the internet to come to her and marry her and help raise her kid? and you're expecting him to do this after she tells him for the first time ever that, "oh, by the way i'm married and i have a child."
are you high?
are you high?
RE: need advice
it wouldn't be the first or last time. A few years ago I met a girl i chatted with for 1 year and 3 months. she always told me she was single and lived alone, but when i showed up at her city she told me the truth: she was married, but separated with a 3 year old kid. At this point everything was ok, but thats not all! she also had a guy she was dating, but she wasn't sure if she liked him or not! what a mess! girls say they are single, not dating anyone and dont like guys from their town, be careful, it can be all different!
YOU never had him
if you think you do then think again, chances are once he learns your really not single no child and now your married with a child. personally , id think you are a lier and untrustworthy.granted fantasy site we all lie so i think that lie is forgiven however if he is here looking for a gf then most likely he isnt looking for a ready made family.
good luck on everything
good luck on everything
RE: need advice
Hi, I dont envy what you must be feeling. Been there done that. :(
You're feeling caught up in an emotion of wonder and euphoria. Break is dowe to its components. The child. True a child is better of with his/her natural parents, but what life sill it be in a house without the parents loving each other. A non-biolocgical father can be as good if not better than a natural father in some situations. IMHO
Are you happy? Yes, it maybe be selfish to think of you, but without your happiness you can not achieve your full potential. Be it for your child or for your own well being. At the end of it all, will you say you lived a good life, or just dealt with it the way it was handed to you.
You asked a mans advice if you told us what you need to tell him. If it were me, and I cared for you as you seem to care for him. It wouldn't matter. I understand why you have to have secrets here. Anyone with any type of maturity has to realize the same. Some of my hard core regulars, who we are now good friends, were worried sick that I would be mad that there name wasn't what they first told me it was. I totally understood why they did it. Your guy should too, in fact, he should be flattered that you told him such a venerable part of your life.
You're worried about losing him. You have to take that chance. Now before you meet in real. If he leaves, it wasn't meant to be, You have to just believe that. If he doesn't run screaming, I would set up a meet. Don't tell anyone yet. But meet him, people are so different in RL than virtual. If you don't and he still wants to be with you, you will always wonder what if. The fact you were able to, and let yourself wonder this far, shows that you need to at least indulge the possibility. This could be the fairy tail ending we all seek.. It could be a fiery crash to hell also, but you owe it to yourself to see.
I wish you the best of luck sweety.
You're feeling caught up in an emotion of wonder and euphoria. Break is dowe to its components. The child. True a child is better of with his/her natural parents, but what life sill it be in a house without the parents loving each other. A non-biolocgical father can be as good if not better than a natural father in some situations. IMHO
Are you happy? Yes, it maybe be selfish to think of you, but without your happiness you can not achieve your full potential. Be it for your child or for your own well being. At the end of it all, will you say you lived a good life, or just dealt with it the way it was handed to you.
You asked a mans advice if you told us what you need to tell him. If it were me, and I cared for you as you seem to care for him. It wouldn't matter. I understand why you have to have secrets here. Anyone with any type of maturity has to realize the same. Some of my hard core regulars, who we are now good friends, were worried sick that I would be mad that there name wasn't what they first told me it was. I totally understood why they did it. Your guy should too, in fact, he should be flattered that you told him such a venerable part of your life.
You're worried about losing him. You have to take that chance. Now before you meet in real. If he leaves, it wasn't meant to be, You have to just believe that. If he doesn't run screaming, I would set up a meet. Don't tell anyone yet. But meet him, people are so different in RL than virtual. If you don't and he still wants to be with you, you will always wonder what if. The fact you were able to, and let yourself wonder this far, shows that you need to at least indulge the possibility. This could be the fairy tail ending we all seek.. It could be a fiery crash to hell also, but you owe it to yourself to see.
I wish you the best of luck sweety.
RE: need advice
i couldnt explain it any better then"2cents" did...thanks to everyone who took his or her time to read my message and reply to it...i just needed a double check if i did the right decision when i decided to tell him the truth,and looks like is the best choice to do right now after he will know the truth we will pick it up from there on...
RE: need advice
The only way is to tell him the truth. Have you considered the possibility that he may be keeping a secret/s from you? It is very, very, very easy to construct a fake profile or personality on a site like this or on the web in general This is true of both hosts & guests.
I once chatted with a girl who traveled to France to make a new life with a guy she met online. When she got there the first thing she finds out is that the guy is 48 & not 42. this she could live with. It was when the guys wife tuned up at knocking on the door that she realized that something was very wrong.
Be careful boys & girls!
I once chatted with a girl who traveled to France to make a new life with a guy she met online. When she got there the first thing she finds out is that the guy is 48 & not 42. this she could live with. It was when the guys wife tuned up at knocking on the door that she realized that something was very wrong.
Be careful boys & girls!
wedding dresses
I'd like to hear from any viewers out there who share my fetish for girls in wedding and prom dresses and any hosts who like dressing up! Hehe! Write to me at ccmail.
swimming
congrats to the US mens relay medley. they just barely beat France who was heavily favored. chalk up another gold for the US.
RIP Isaac Hayes (aka. "Chef" from "Southpark")
Isaac Hayes on his treadmill. First Bernie Mac, now him. Too bad. Good memories though...
RE: Whats happen in the sport?
Dont have internet - just a direct link to camcontacts from my pc - thats all i need :-)
ATTENTION COLUMBIA STUDIOS
Get the cams and terminals out of the closet and give the girls some room to move. i can't see more than the pussy and a corner of the tummy or the tits and maybe one arm at a time. Forget even seeing their faces and tits in the same frame.
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Did they close down the Uzbekistan studios? Those were some of the hottest girls I ever met!!!
why are they surprised...
when you can suss out that they are fibbing a bit when they claim to be only with you in video? can't they understand when they are typing typing typing and no words appear on my screen I know they are chatting with others in our "it's only you bb" vidoeo... either that or working on a term paper...
RE: why are they surprised...
...or how about when they don't realize they are broadcasting their audio and you hear "incoming contact" in the background?
RE: why are they surprised...
I think he was complaining about girls lieing about it. Some girls tell you when there are other members in vid which is better.
RE: why are they surprised...
I am not saying this is the case every time but sometimes the video and text can be a long way out of sync. What you see her typing may be the words that appeared on yr screen 10 seconds before.
RE: why are they surprised...
I forgot to also mention that some hosts use translation programs so their is a time lag between them typing in their language and sending the text to you. These programs sometimes generate gobbledygook which adds further delays.
RE: why are they surprised...
If she is in a studio that "incoming contact" could be from the pc of the girl working next to her.
RE: why are they surprised...
Some chathosts use video stream splitting programs and they are able to broadcast simultaneously to many accounts on many sites.
Some others might be responding on MSN or Yahoo pals.
Truth is that the ones that pay full attention to their visitors, regardless of how many accounts they have are the ones that are most successful and have loyal visitors.
Some others might be responding on MSN or Yahoo pals.
Truth is that the ones that pay full attention to their visitors, regardless of how many accounts they have are the ones that are most successful and have loyal visitors.
Question please?
Why is it that so many women from Romania are into domination? Just a question for members and hosts? Thanks for your answers.
RE: Question please?
i was just curious. all of the Romanian women i have met are attractive just was wondering why so many were in that category. thank you for your answer.
RE: Question please?
There are Romanian girls in all categories. Romanian girls have strong personalities and often a good level of english which means they can do well here as dommes.
RE: Question please?
and yet so many of them tell me it's easy work and they get to keep there clothes on mostly. oh
1 they are smart aren"t they?.....lol
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1 they are smart aren"t they?.....lol
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RE: Question please?
All beautiful women use their beauty to their advantage. Or, at least they try to.
However, beauty is not a litmus to intelligence.
Beauty with "smarts" (assuming academic inteligence, not street smarts) is a byproduct of a good upbringing, well read, and educated (or if unable to afford it, finds time to honorably and persistently pursue it within herself).
What was your question?
However, beauty is not a litmus to intelligence.
Beauty with "smarts" (assuming academic inteligence, not street smarts) is a byproduct of a good upbringing, well read, and educated (or if unable to afford it, finds time to honorably and persistently pursue it within herself).
What was your question?
RE: Question please?
Just be weary, Lorac. They may be cute, gorgeous, and sexy, but they are very cunning. If you are able to overlook this characteristic and be aware of it, you will do just fine.
However, don't give money even if you feel compelled to do so whether they ask or not.
And, by no means attempt to meet any one of them in real...that is, don't expect them to show up at OTP or even answer their phone when you arrive. They do not want to see you in real unless you are a rock star, movie star, or they know you are a rich American. Then, maybe!!!!! lol
The above has been my experience which ocurred a few years ago. Granted, two incidents does not make a crowd, but three might. lol
The majority here think they are above their raisin'.
However, don't give money even if you feel compelled to do so whether they ask or not.
And, by no means attempt to meet any one of them in real...that is, don't expect them to show up at OTP or even answer their phone when you arrive. They do not want to see you in real unless you are a rock star, movie star, or they know you are a rich American. Then, maybe!!!!! lol
The above has been my experience which ocurred a few years ago. Granted, two incidents does not make a crowd, but three might. lol
The majority here think they are above their raisin'.
RE: Question please?
>>wow ! Sir !!! Calm down !!! If you meet some "cute" women in your >>life doesnt meant we are all the same.
If you read the post properly, you will see I did not.
>>.A simple analogy lead us to the idea that this apply for men as >>well ... And as far as I lived I saw kinda same reaction on men 2
You must be referring to immature men....those that are younger or more prone to f**k and run. lol
>>men will meet you in real ..sure if they are over 50y.o. and can >>have a piece of fresh,young pussy
Your bias shows your true colors as well. What is wrong with a older man wanting to meet a younger woman? Huh?
>>Let's try to be less judgmental ! Hm ?Doesn't sound as a good >>idea for some "adult" people ...more for some "open minds" ?! ;-)
I am stating fact, from experience. It is you, Miss, who is being judgemental to think ALL men are as you say.
Good day to you. 'enuf said.
If you read the post properly, you will see I did not.
>>.A simple analogy lead us to the idea that this apply for men as >>well ... And as far as I lived I saw kinda same reaction on men 2
You must be referring to immature men....those that are younger or more prone to f**k and run. lol
>>men will meet you in real ..sure if they are over 50y.o. and can >>have a piece of fresh,young pussy
Your bias shows your true colors as well. What is wrong with a older man wanting to meet a younger woman? Huh?
>>Let's try to be less judgmental ! Hm ?Doesn't sound as a good >>idea for some "adult" people ...more for some "open minds" ?! ;-)
I am stating fact, from experience. It is you, Miss, who is being judgemental to think ALL men are as you say.
Good day to you. 'enuf said.
RE: Question please?
I eat. Sorry to hear of you striking out with Romanian girls.
I've met 8 of them so far in the past 4 years, most recently was just a few months ago. I've found them all to be incredibly beautiful and smart and each visit was fun and memorable.
Not that I've gone with any illusions of romance or expected sex from them, so maybe that might be where you fell over.
Always trust your instincts and have a backup plan! I guess I'm lucky that I already have some good friends there so should any meeting go awry I am covered.
Your mileage may vary, as they say.
I've met 8 of them so far in the past 4 years, most recently was just a few months ago. I've found them all to be incredibly beautiful and smart and each visit was fun and memorable.
Not that I've gone with any illusions of romance or expected sex from them, so maybe that might be where you fell over.
Always trust your instincts and have a backup plan! I guess I'm lucky that I already have some good friends there so should any meeting go awry I am covered.
Your mileage may vary, as they say.
RE: Question please?
Aussie:
My intentions were honorable. We had, up to that time, known each other for over a year. It was she, actually, who invited me. So, I was excited about the idea. However, when I arrived at OTP, she was not there to pick me up as she said she would. So, I called her cell phone. Got someone, who claimed to be her brother, that she went to the mountains. Oh, well!!
So, I caught a bus to the Continental Hotel, walked down the street and went to a prearranged breakfast house. The next morning, I paid the hostess, and then caught a taxi back to OTP. My backup plan was in Frankfurt. lol
Been there several times since then on work related business. Did some planning on a housing project in Buch. that was financed by the US and Israel. Nice housing, actually. And the pricing seemed reasonable, I guess. I was not aware, at the time, of the medium income level.
One thing is for sure, Romanian women do love to dress up just to walk to a grocery store. lol
My intentions were honorable. We had, up to that time, known each other for over a year. It was she, actually, who invited me. So, I was excited about the idea. However, when I arrived at OTP, she was not there to pick me up as she said she would. So, I called her cell phone. Got someone, who claimed to be her brother, that she went to the mountains. Oh, well!!
So, I caught a bus to the Continental Hotel, walked down the street and went to a prearranged breakfast house. The next morning, I paid the hostess, and then caught a taxi back to OTP. My backup plan was in Frankfurt. lol
Been there several times since then on work related business. Did some planning on a housing project in Buch. that was financed by the US and Israel. Nice housing, actually. And the pricing seemed reasonable, I guess. I was not aware, at the time, of the medium income level.
One thing is for sure, Romanian women do love to dress up just to walk to a grocery store. lol
RE: Question please?
I have met over 10 Romanian hosts in real, some more than once. I have never been stood up
RE: Question please?
Yep, I suffered repercussions. LOL The repercussion I suffered consists of not trusting you. LOL
RE: Question please?
>>Wrong guess ! It's our personality and not only. We're damn smart >>too , and when there's beauty + intelligence , there is POWER.
Your reply did not answer the original poster's question. I guess that goes to show that you may be smart in your own humble way, but not very attentive to others.
So, your answer to what now?
Your reply did not answer the original poster's question. I guess that goes to show that you may be smart in your own humble way, but not very attentive to others.
So, your answer to what now?
RE: Question please?
Lol, you have a great style and sharp mind. Shame everything has to be predicated on all this dom/submissive stuff, which does nothing for me at all, as i reckon you would be great company otherwise.
RE: Question please?
Just following your words. That is all!
BTW, I eat ginko all the time. LOL
And, BTW, your wording and sentence structure implies you are not from Romania. However, you previous posts do.
Perhaps someone with a higher level of English skills wrote it for you. Or, perhaps, Long Term Member did...it sure does read as if he did. LOL
And, answering indirectly is not answering at all.
Good day to you.
BTW, I eat ginko all the time. LOL
And, BTW, your wording and sentence structure implies you are not from Romania. However, you previous posts do.
Perhaps someone with a higher level of English skills wrote it for you. Or, perhaps, Long Term Member did...it sure does read as if he did. LOL
And, answering indirectly is not answering at all.
Good day to you.
RE: Question please?
please angell, don't flatter yourself too much. just because you can put a sentence together doesn't automatically qualify you for MENSA membership. Being the smartest Romanian domme isn't exactly a badge of honor. its like winning a gold medal at the Special Olympics,
RE: Question please?
I know what it means.
What invitation? I didn't see a invitation. Was I required to read your entire post as Long Time Member assumed we all would his?
What invitation? I didn't see a invitation. Was I required to read your entire post as Long Time Member assumed we all would his?
RE: Question please?
You're a real charm factory mate, maybe you should try using that scroll bar on the right, then you might be able to read the whole post! ;-)
RE: Question please?
I agree, beauty plus brains are the ingredients of a strong aphrodisiac named "Power", but it comes down on to whom and how such persons exercise that power, because at the end they might become victims of their self.
RE: Question please?
i am sorry i asked this question. i am going to set back international relations 100 years. lol
RE: Question please?
This battle has been raging for many years, at the least. LOL It was bound to flair up again sooner or later. Much prefer sooner just to get it out of the way. lol
RE: Question please?
From what I noticed, particularly the guys I met for business, they drink too much. I don't drink. So, anything past 5 bottles per hour is a bit too much. It hurt just to watch them. LOL
RE: Question please?
Thank you, dear. I hope I have succeeded in bing disliked. It has been a New Year's resolution to be disliked. Next year, I will be pushing for assh**e. Ah, I love goal setting. LOL
Cats
Cats
They’ll pay a visit to our place
Just when our eyes are free of pain,
Let pain appear, - they won’t remain:
The hearts of cats feel no disgrace!
It’s funny, poet, wouldn’t you say,
How hard we try to make them tame.
They will not play the roles of slaves:
The hearts of cats will not obey!
We can’t entice them quite enough,
It matters not what treats we feed them,
A moment - and they run to freedom:
The hearts of cats contain no love!
They’ll pay a visit to our place
Just when our eyes are free of pain,
Let pain appear, - they won’t remain:
The hearts of cats feel no disgrace!
It’s funny, poet, wouldn’t you say,
How hard we try to make them tame.
They will not play the roles of slaves:
The hearts of cats will not obey!
We can’t entice them quite enough,
It matters not what treats we feed them,
A moment - and they run to freedom:
The hearts of cats contain no love!
RE: Cats
The opening line, "They’ll pay a visit to our place" shows the author has no understanding of cats. All places are THEIR places, and if we please them they allow us to share that space with them.
My friend has a plaque hanging in his home that explains it quite nicely, "Dogs have owners, cats have staff."
My friend has a plaque hanging in his home that explains it quite nicely, "Dogs have owners, cats have staff."