General Forum
To all the hosts and viewers I have ever chatted to
Thanks for the good chats, and enjoyment over the months. Almost everyone here has been friendly and great to chat to, and I have enjoyed almost every minute. I am finding myself on CC more and more recently, hanging around in the community chat, the forums, or elsewhere. This has meant that I have been having less and less sleep too. I have reached the point where I acknowledge that if I want to get my sleep back, I must leave CC.
I have started to contact people to say bye, and offer alternative contact details for those that want it, so I can be reached after I am gone. If you are someone you think should have my contact info then let me know and I will try and let you have them.
I will still be around this week, and I aim to stop my account sometime this weekend - hopefully that will give me enough time to say goodbye to everyone I want to.
All the best for the future for all of you, and I hope life brings you everything you want from it,
Pete888.
I have started to contact people to say bye, and offer alternative contact details for those that want it, so I can be reached after I am gone. If you are someone you think should have my contact info then let me know and I will try and let you have them.
I will still be around this week, and I aim to stop my account sometime this weekend - hopefully that will give me enough time to say goodbye to everyone I want to.
All the best for the future for all of you, and I hope life brings you everything you want from it,
Pete888.
RE: To all the hosts and viewers I have ever chatted to
good luck to you pete. take care of yourself
RE: To all the hosts and viewers I have ever chatted to
My guess is that u will be back in a week or two if u havent got a sexy gf who keep u busy at home :-)
DO YOU THINK THIS IS TRUE?
Today a chathost on another site told me many Romanian girls pretend to be Russian. Do you think this is true? I do because it explains why some of the "Russians" I've spoken with have the same accent
RE: DO YOU THINK THIS IS TRUE?
might be true, doubt if many (any?) Romanians know Russian language these days
RE: DO YOU THINK THIS IS TRUE?
simple answer the want people to think roma ladies are nice girls...this was said to me...but i still do not understand?
RE: DO YOU THINK THIS IS TRUE?
I have heard this before but on another site. The reason I was given why the Romanian girls do this is because they have such a bad reputation for obtaining money by deceiptful means. i repeat that this was the reason told to me.....and not my own opinion.
RE: DO YOU THINK THIS IS TRUE?
It is true and some ukrainean i speak roma russian and some and when i speak in languie they look stunned and sometime admit were there from all men are not ...roma "Proost" russian "drua'n" forgive my spelling lol
RE: DO YOU THINK THIS IS TRUE?
Moldovans know Russian and Romanian, but younger people such as hosts that are from Romania generally do not know Russian. They often know (at least a little) Spanish, Portuguese, French, and / or Italian, but not Russian. Some may also know German. And of course, many know English.
The Repuclic of Moldova was part of Romania. In fact, Eastern Romania is called Moldova. But then the Soviet Union took control of the country Moldova. Russian is still spoken there by almost everyone. But many are ethnic Romanians so they speak both.
In the far eastern part of Moldova, there is a rebel government where they think it is 1950 and are Communist. They speak Russian there.
The Repuclic of Moldova was part of Romania. In fact, Eastern Romania is called Moldova. But then the Soviet Union took control of the country Moldova. Russian is still spoken there by almost everyone. But many are ethnic Romanians so they speak both.
In the far eastern part of Moldova, there is a rebel government where they think it is 1950 and are Communist. They speak Russian there.
RE: DO YOU THINK THIS IS TRUE?
The ones I've spoken too, all spoke English. But quite a few seemed to have exactly the same accent as the Romanian girls. I think that what Chris heard is right. That if some Romanians pretend to be Russians, it's because some people think Romanians are con artists.
RE: DO YOU THINK THIS IS TRUE?
Great!! Now the members will doubt if we are really Russians, lol...I have never thought that being Russian is that popular...
RE: DO YOU THINK THIS IS TRUE?:To Wanda22
You ask where a member is from for the same reason I ask a chathost if she's single. Just to make conversation. I really don't care about the marital status of a chathost & am really surprised at how many girls have told me that if they say they are married or have a bf, members won't come to videochat with them. I didn't start this thread because I'm trying to find out if I should avoid certain hosts. I know some members thought this site had too many Romanian girls, whatever that is. lol BRING ON THE ROMANIAN LADIES!!!
RE: DO YOU THINK THIS IS TRUE?
A Romanian accent sounds Spanish or Mexican? Hmmmm. More Italian in my experience. Maybe the ones that smoke a lot sound more Hispanic. :p Then again, when you are watching a woman put her legs behind her head, the nature of her accent might not be what you focus on.
By the way, you said someplace you are ugly.. You are an attractive woman with a sexy body. The glasses might make you not look as nice, but you still look good. I just happen to prefer you without glasses, just as I prefer you without clothes. :p And you are a very talented, creative woman.
By the way, you said someplace you are ugly.. You are an attractive woman with a sexy body. The glasses might make you not look as nice, but you still look good. I just happen to prefer you without glasses, just as I prefer you without clothes. :p And you are a very talented, creative woman.
RE: DO YOU THINK THIS IS TRUE?
I misread your initial post. I do not believe that I have had any Romanians say that they are Russians. Usually they will say that they are Italian or Spanish since they often know those languages at least a little.
I think that they do this to protect their identity, not because of scams. I have had hosts from Russia try to scam me just like hosts from Romania. And I am sure that if economic conditions were bad enough in western countries and a lot of hosts worked there, I am sure that there would be more hosts from those countries and that those hosts from western counrties would try to scam me more often as well.
People are people, in general. I don't think that Romanians or Russians are a bunch of scam artists. But in Eastern Europe, things like bribery are more common in day to day life. Things like that happen all over, but, for example, I have watched a taxi driver bribe a policeman while I was in Russia in front of everyone. In Romania, I have friends which must bribe their teachers to pass them for university even though their papers and tests are good enough to graduate.
That type of routine bribery does not happen in the western countries as much since economic conditions for the average person are better. This lack of economic opportunity causes issues with bribery and scams and a need to do what it takes to survive which is the exact same reason you have more chathosts from places like Eastern Europe as opposed to the West.
This day to day type of corruption of course can happen anywhere but generally in western countries, people hide it because it is not accepted or expected.. After all, a U.S. senator was in the news today for violating laws regarding reporting contributions so it happens all over. But, for example, countries like Romania and Bulgaria have problems that are so bad that there were issues about letting them into the European Union, (And no, it was not just some type of stereotype based on myth so please don't try posting that corruption in Romania is no worse than anywhere else.) In western countries, the scams and bribes occur at much higher levels whereas in other countries, they occur at both the high levels and with the average person at well. It is simply a function of the economic opportunities of the average person and what he or she must do to survive.
I would proceed with caution with any chathost regardless of where she is from. A woman's first instinct is not to get in front of a camera and make money by stripping. It is probably not an easy decision for her. And whatever motivated her to cross that ethical line in her head to allow her to work here, may well be why she thinks it is okay to scam you too. She may even resent you and blame you for her being here.
People will do what they must to survive. The only issue with Romania and Russia would be that more people from those countries are forced to do things that they might not otherwise do because of the economic conditions of the average person. That doesn't make scamming okay, but at least one can understand why a host may resort to that.
I think that they do this to protect their identity, not because of scams. I have had hosts from Russia try to scam me just like hosts from Romania. And I am sure that if economic conditions were bad enough in western countries and a lot of hosts worked there, I am sure that there would be more hosts from those countries and that those hosts from western counrties would try to scam me more often as well.
People are people, in general. I don't think that Romanians or Russians are a bunch of scam artists. But in Eastern Europe, things like bribery are more common in day to day life. Things like that happen all over, but, for example, I have watched a taxi driver bribe a policeman while I was in Russia in front of everyone. In Romania, I have friends which must bribe their teachers to pass them for university even though their papers and tests are good enough to graduate.
That type of routine bribery does not happen in the western countries as much since economic conditions for the average person are better. This lack of economic opportunity causes issues with bribery and scams and a need to do what it takes to survive which is the exact same reason you have more chathosts from places like Eastern Europe as opposed to the West.
This day to day type of corruption of course can happen anywhere but generally in western countries, people hide it because it is not accepted or expected.. After all, a U.S. senator was in the news today for violating laws regarding reporting contributions so it happens all over. But, for example, countries like Romania and Bulgaria have problems that are so bad that there were issues about letting them into the European Union, (And no, it was not just some type of stereotype based on myth so please don't try posting that corruption in Romania is no worse than anywhere else.) In western countries, the scams and bribes occur at much higher levels whereas in other countries, they occur at both the high levels and with the average person at well. It is simply a function of the economic opportunities of the average person and what he or she must do to survive.
I would proceed with caution with any chathost regardless of where she is from. A woman's first instinct is not to get in front of a camera and make money by stripping. It is probably not an easy decision for her. And whatever motivated her to cross that ethical line in her head to allow her to work here, may well be why she thinks it is okay to scam you too. She may even resent you and blame you for her being here.
People will do what they must to survive. The only issue with Romania and Russia would be that more people from those countries are forced to do things that they might not otherwise do because of the economic conditions of the average person. That doesn't make scamming okay, but at least one can understand why a host may resort to that.
RE: DO YOU THINK THIS IS TRUE?
Excellent and pertinent analyse! What's more members use nicknames to hide their identity! I being no different
RE: DO YOU THINK THIS IS TRUE?
Longtime member, You deserve kudos for your thoughtful, fair-minded analysis of the larger dynamic at work here. My experience mirrors your own: I've not found Romanian women given to scamming any more than any other group. As you've so well put it, it is economic conditions that compel people to do what they might not otherwise do under more favorable conditions. And given that Romania's economy is the most depressed among the former Soviet bloc countries, Romanians are disproportionately represented among Eastern Europeans.
In many ways sites like this are a microcosm of the global economy. The service providers come from depressed (i.e.Non-Western) economies and the customers from affluent ones. My admittedly inexact statistical analysis is: 70% of the hosts are from Russia and Ukraine; 10% Eastern European (principally Romanian); 10% Asian (principally Philippine); 10% Latina (principally Columbian).
As for Thread starter's initial post, I am puzzled why a Romanian host would want to pretend to be Russian, except perhaps to elude local authorities or, as you suggest, protect their identity. I also wonder whether the alleged reputation for "deceitful" ways might not come from the confusion between ethnic Romanians and Romany (gypsies).
In many ways sites like this are a microcosm of the global economy. The service providers come from depressed (i.e.Non-Western) economies and the customers from affluent ones. My admittedly inexact statistical analysis is: 70% of the hosts are from Russia and Ukraine; 10% Eastern European (principally Romanian); 10% Asian (principally Philippine); 10% Latina (principally Columbian).
As for Thread starter's initial post, I am puzzled why a Romanian host would want to pretend to be Russian, except perhaps to elude local authorities or, as you suggest, protect their identity. I also wonder whether the alleged reputation for "deceitful" ways might not come from the confusion between ethnic Romanians and Romany (gypsies).
RE: DO YOU THINK THIS IS TRUE?
Well, Moldova, not Romania, is routinely viewed as the poorest country in Europe, but the point is that the average person in Romania and Russia has more difficulty getting by each day than someone in a western country. And the same would be true for someone in Ukraine, Philippines and a number of countries which contain a lot of chathosts.
RE: DO YOU THINK THIS IS TRUE?
i never heard that and i dont belive it. i would never pretend to be russian, they are nothing better than romanians!
RE: DO YOU THINK THIS IS TRUE?
"For me pretending french is definitely very profitable."
Alors, pourquoi vous pensez c'est comme ca?
Alors, pourquoi vous pensez c'est comme ca?
RE: DO YOU THINK THIS IS TRUE?
I suppose this might happen occasionally but I doubt that many do this. Romanians are generally very proud of being Romanian. Russians have at least as bad a reputation for scamming as Romanians so if a Romanian wants to sat she is from another country she is more likely to chose Italy.
more golf
A Catholic priest,an indian doctor,a rich Chinese businessman & Jacko are waiting one morning for a particularly slow group of golfers in front of them.
Jacko"What the hell is wrong with those blokes?We musta been waiting for 15 minutes!"
The Indian doctor"I don't know,but i have never seen such poor golf!"
The Chinese businessman called out"Move it,time is money."
The Ctholic priest"Here comes George the greenkeeper.Let's have a word with him."
George the greenkeeper"They're blind.We always let them play for free." (A momentary silence falls on the group.)
The Catholic priest"That's so sad.I think i will say a special prayer for them tonight."
The Indian doctor"Good idea.I'm going to contact my ophthalmologist colleague & see if there's anything he can do for them."
The Chinese businessman"I think i'll donate $50 000 to blind research."
Jacko"Why the f..k can't they play at night?"
Jacko"What the hell is wrong with those blokes?We musta been waiting for 15 minutes!"
The Indian doctor"I don't know,but i have never seen such poor golf!"
The Chinese businessman called out"Move it,time is money."
The Ctholic priest"Here comes George the greenkeeper.Let's have a word with him."
George the greenkeeper"They're blind.We always let them play for free." (A momentary silence falls on the group.)
The Catholic priest"That's so sad.I think i will say a special prayer for them tonight."
The Indian doctor"Good idea.I'm going to contact my ophthalmologist colleague & see if there's anything he can do for them."
The Chinese businessman"I think i'll donate $50 000 to blind research."
Jacko"Why the f..k can't they play at night?"
dark room
Im serious so this is no joke. When some hosts have a room dark as a stoneage cave whats that all about? Especially if a model got dark skin its sometimes impossible see anything except a shadow moving there so please ladies use some lights.
RE: dark room
You make some very good aesthetic points Wanda. The proper lighting brings more distinct colours which is fine for basic representation. But the subdued lighting brings contrasts, the play of light and shade, which delineate the eroticism of the human shape.
RE: dark room
I can understand noone wants lights straight to eyes but mystery excitement at a paysite is nothing for me ill save it for real life. Im here to have sexy chat and see nude female, thats all. Anyway tx for reply and take care all of you
RE: dark room
One Asian girl I know, sometimes turns her light off if she hears her cousin coming because she doesn't want him to know she gets naked for strangers to earn money
Point system >:)
In the world of romance, one single rule applies to the men:
Make the woman happy. Do something she likes, and you get points. Do something she dislikes and points are subtracted.
You don't get any points for doing something she expects. Sorry, that's the way the game is played.
Here is a guide to the point system:
SIMPLE DUTIES
You make the bed (+1)
You make the bed, but forget the decorative pillow (0)
You throw the bedspread over rumpled sheets (-1)
You go out to buy her what she wants (+5)
In the rain (+8)
But return with Beer (-5)
You check out a suspicious noise at night (0)
You check out a suspicious noise, and it is nothing (0)You check out a suspicious noise and it is something (+5)
You pummel it with iron rod (+10)
It's her pet (-10)
SOCIAL ENGAGEMENTS
You stay by her side the entire party (0)
You stay by her side for a while, then leave to chat with a college buddy (-2)
Named Tina (-4)
Tina is a dancer (-6)
Tina has silicon implants (-80)
HER BIRTHDAY
You take her out to dinner (0)
You take her out to dinner and it's not a sports bar (+1)
Okay, it's a sports bar (-2)
And it's all-you-can-eat night (-3)
It's a sports bar, it's all-you-can-eat night, and your face is painted the colours of your favourite team (-10)
A NIGHT OUT
You take her to a movie (+2)
You take her to a movie she likes (+4)
You take her to a movie you hate (+6)
You take her to a movie you like (-2)
It's called 'DeathCop' (-3)
You lied and said it was a foreign film about orphans (-15)
YOUR PHYSIQUE
You develop a noticeable potbelly (-15)
You develop a noticeable potbelly and exercise to get rid of it (+10)
You develop a noticeable potbelly and resort to baggy jeans and baggy Hawaiian shirts (-30)
You say, "It doesn't matter, you have one too." (-8000)
ENJOY THE 'BIG' QUESTION
She asks, "Do I look fat?" (-5) [Yes, you LOSE points no matter WHAT]
You hesitate in responding (-10)
You reply, "Where?" (-35)
Any other response (-20)
COMMUNICATION
When she wants to talk about a problem , you listen, displaying what looks like a concerned expression (0)
You listen, for over 30 minutes (+50)
You listen for more than 30 minutes without looking at the TV (+500)
She realizes this is because you have fallen asleep (-10000)
Make the woman happy. Do something she likes, and you get points. Do something she dislikes and points are subtracted.
You don't get any points for doing something she expects. Sorry, that's the way the game is played.
Here is a guide to the point system:
SIMPLE DUTIES
You make the bed (+1)
You make the bed, but forget the decorative pillow (0)
You throw the bedspread over rumpled sheets (-1)
You go out to buy her what she wants (+5)
In the rain (+8)
But return with Beer (-5)
You check out a suspicious noise at night (0)
You check out a suspicious noise, and it is nothing (0)You check out a suspicious noise and it is something (+5)
You pummel it with iron rod (+10)
It's her pet (-10)
SOCIAL ENGAGEMENTS
You stay by her side the entire party (0)
You stay by her side for a while, then leave to chat with a college buddy (-2)
Named Tina (-4)
Tina is a dancer (-6)
Tina has silicon implants (-80)
HER BIRTHDAY
You take her out to dinner (0)
You take her out to dinner and it's not a sports bar (+1)
Okay, it's a sports bar (-2)
And it's all-you-can-eat night (-3)
It's a sports bar, it's all-you-can-eat night, and your face is painted the colours of your favourite team (-10)
A NIGHT OUT
You take her to a movie (+2)
You take her to a movie she likes (+4)
You take her to a movie you hate (+6)
You take her to a movie you like (-2)
It's called 'DeathCop' (-3)
You lied and said it was a foreign film about orphans (-15)
YOUR PHYSIQUE
You develop a noticeable potbelly (-15)
You develop a noticeable potbelly and exercise to get rid of it (+10)
You develop a noticeable potbelly and resort to baggy jeans and baggy Hawaiian shirts (-30)
You say, "It doesn't matter, you have one too." (-8000)
ENJOY THE 'BIG' QUESTION
She asks, "Do I look fat?" (-5) [Yes, you LOSE points no matter WHAT]
You hesitate in responding (-10)
You reply, "Where?" (-35)
Any other response (-20)
COMMUNICATION
When she wants to talk about a problem , you listen, displaying what looks like a concerned expression (0)
You listen, for over 30 minutes (+50)
You listen for more than 30 minutes without looking at the TV (+500)
She realizes this is because you have fallen asleep (-10000)
RE: BOOBS!!!
Hmmm. Green contacts? Implants? Still many love her.
Maybe her name should be Miss Plastic Fantastic
Maybe her name should be Miss Plastic Fantastic
RE: BOOBS!!!
So what guys, whats the matter? She looks gorgeous, maybe the best looking girl in CC. I think any man would love such a beautiful woman.
RE: BOOBS!!!
and to some people just the very idea of undergoing such an operation for nothing but vanity speaks to a character that isn't most attractive - to speak nothing of the health risks.
what about problems with back?
If not to say about problems with a back because the heavier and bigger the boobs are, the quickier one's back gets tired...I know a girl who had a surgery to get rif of her natural HUGE boobs and now she has the size B and she is very happy about it ))).
What matters is the shape and the firmness of the breasts... I would never have changed mine ....;)
What matters is the shape and the firmness of the breasts... I would never have changed mine ....;)
RE: BOOBS!!!
once saw a host do the same thing, littlesonya check out her early pics and last ones
what peaples general oppinion about urbestchoice?
is she friendly or just on here for money?
RE: what peaples general oppinion about urbestchoice?
isnt difficult to understand,just i told her i cant come to see her for a while & shes not bein so friendly thats all wonderd if anyone had the same experience with this host?
RE: what peaples general oppinion about urbestchoice?
when i first read the title to your posting, i read "urbestchoice" as "tuberculosis."
kooky.
kooky.
To hosts
How many hosts would stay here if they could make the same money in a regular job? I am especially curious about hosts that marry members but continue to work on sites.
I hear stories here about hosts that marry members and still work on the site (and the members keep coming to the site too. lol). I assume that many of these hosts are moving to more affluent countries, yet they remain here for some reason.
I know this job has its good points such as being your own boss, setting your own hours, and making good money, but given what the host must actually do in a lot of cases to make that money, I would think that she might want to find something else as soon as possible.
I hear stories here about hosts that marry members and still work on the site (and the members keep coming to the site too. lol). I assume that many of these hosts are moving to more affluent countries, yet they remain here for some reason.
I know this job has its good points such as being your own boss, setting your own hours, and making good money, but given what the host must actually do in a lot of cases to make that money, I would think that she might want to find something else as soon as possible.
RE: To hosts
Well I do have a regular job which is very well paid. I still work websites quite often when I have the time, because I actually find it fun. Been a host for almost 8 years now, and I am not planning to quit anytime soon. As for the things a host has to do in a lot of cases like you say, uhm, I feel sorry for those hosts. I never did anything I was not comfortable with for a few extra bucks, which is the main reason why i like what i do. Yes, i do like the extra money i make from chatting, but it's not the main reason i do this for at this point.
No one should ever pick a job they don't like/enjoy.
No one should ever pick a job they don't like/enjoy.
RE: To hosts
Well frankly "yes"...sounds like precisely the best of reasons. What can be better than doing things which one finds fun.
RE: To hosts
I agree. I dont think a job has to be painful or boring. Life is about having as much fun as possible and enjoying what you do.
RE: To hosts
Well, there are jobs...and then there are other jobs, might there be some distinctions implied in his statement ;)
RE: To hosts
I graduated of finance a year ago and I can find a job whenever I want, but then I will not have the freedom and money I make here. This job is easy and fun. I am not married and not planning to get married yet, but if i find husband and he doesn't like what i do, he can go somewhere else. Simply, I am independent and will not ask a man for money. I know he will not give me what I now make here. I will do this job for a couple of more years then I will worry finding a job somewhere else. I started working here in my free times just to get some extra money to buy anything I wanted, but ended up making real good salary so I decided to continue. It's great, I am really glad I found this job.
RE: To hosts
"but if i find husband and he doesn't like what i do, he can go somewhere else"
This sentence tells (almost) everything about you...God please save men from this girl!:D
This sentence tells (almost) everything about you...God please save men from this girl!:D
RE: To hosts
I agree, I mean a husband would have to be some jerk control freak to not want his wife inserting a dildo on camera for strangers...
RE: To hosts
This is some ruthless shit bb...god help all the fools here that love these femme fatale...you guys are in way over your heads!! lol...
Never say Ever ...
It's quite difficult to answer this question... To be here is fun and the fact that it is not the kind of a job you can tell your kids makes this job so attractive... So many good girls turn out to be bad girls... lol. On the other hand, I would like to do something more ...career-like...Something more challenging and eventually, respectful...This is why I am studying. But, again, life can turn out in such a funny way that all I can say is NEVER SAY EVER....;)
RE: Never say Ever ...
What you want and expect?
People find an easy way out of life and make money, not care of self respect and....well...
In life... You cant continue trying to find an easy way out, you cant live like this forever, theres always a time limit, when it goes away only then people learn that life is not about finding easy way out..
It will hit you dont worry!
And then you will feel sorry for the choices you made.. But! If your one of those people who would actually care. If not! Your filth then.
People find an easy way out of life and make money, not care of self respect and....well...
In life... You cant continue trying to find an easy way out, you cant live like this forever, theres always a time limit, when it goes away only then people learn that life is not about finding easy way out..
It will hit you dont worry!
And then you will feel sorry for the choices you made.. But! If your one of those people who would actually care. If not! Your filth then.
RE: what does poka poka mean?
But remember now, its not pronounced the way it looks. I don't want you guys to say it wrong and embarrass yourself. lol Hey I'm just looking out for you. :)
RE: what does poka poka mean?
Don't worry, you have been correctly informed about the translation. Stryker is making an attempt at humour.
RE: what does poka poka mean?
Another phrase commonly used instead of poka poka is pupa pupa.
Girls love it :)
Girls love it :)
Then again........
There are plenty of hosts that are within my personal guidelines to keep me busy for a while. God bless every one of you.
RE: Then again........
Oh, that is a shame for him. Never meeting my favorite bunny. Poor guy. :(
Mmmmmmmmmmmmm. I love my bunny and so does my carrot. Kisses for my bunny.
Mmmmmmmmmmmmm. I love my bunny and so does my carrot. Kisses for my bunny.
RE: Then again........
Is it Christmas time already? I thought I just heard Tiny Tim say something. We having a puzzle contest now?
RE: Then again........
Hmmmm. I have been the one using "Longtime member" the most for the last week, but I have seen others use it before. And my name is not Roger, lol. Maybe kahson3's name is Roger.
Anyway, while you are both free to fight over me, I do have to warn you, UrBrunette, that my bunny is correct, If she wants me, I am hers. :))
Anyway, while you are both free to fight over me, I do have to warn you, UrBrunette, that my bunny is correct, If she wants me, I am hers. :))
Not sure what to call this.......
Oh you silly ladies. Am I asking to much to ask for one picture in your profile that clearly shows your face?? I always like to know who I am chatting with before going to video. A nice clear picture of your face will do that for me.
I would also like to talk about pricing, but nobody seems to want to hear about this. Then again, it is only an opinion. So here goes:
For those hosts in not so shy charging more than say $1.50 per min, you gould get many more viewers (including me) if you dropped to that price. Same with Instant Action hosts charging more than $2 per min. Again, a lot more viewers if you do.
To the rest of you: God bless you and keep up the good work.
That is all. Thanks for your patience.
I would also like to talk about pricing, but nobody seems to want to hear about this. Then again, it is only an opinion. So here goes:
For those hosts in not so shy charging more than say $1.50 per min, you gould get many more viewers (including me) if you dropped to that price. Same with Instant Action hosts charging more than $2 per min. Again, a lot more viewers if you do.
To the rest of you: God bless you and keep up the good work.
That is all. Thanks for your patience.
RE: Not sure what to call this.......
Unfotunately many hosts don't like to show their face for privacy reasons until you are in video and you just need to take a chance. I can understand this, but sometimes I will select another host as a result. It depends on what else I see in the pics, comments in her forum, her star rating, and her attitude in text chat. What is worse is that a few of them won't show their face in video so make sure you ask first in text chat before jumping into video.
In terms of the price thing, duh!, lol Of course they would get more members, and of course I would like them to lower their price. But the question is, would they get enough additional members and longer videos to make it worth it.
For example, if a host charges $2,50/minute and gets one member to stay 20 minutes, she either needs one member to stay 25 minutes at $2.00 or two members to stay 12 1/2 minutes at two dollars. Only the host knows which work better for her.
She might also prefer to cater to one member at a higher price than two at a lower price and has no other choice but to make the open price higher because she cannot eliminate that option. Plus, hosts sometimes like member that are willing to spend more per minute because they actually will stay longer at a higher price and seem to be nicer, perhaps because they are older, have more money, and are more mature.
In terms of the price thing, duh!, lol Of course they would get more members, and of course I would like them to lower their price. But the question is, would they get enough additional members and longer videos to make it worth it.
For example, if a host charges $2,50/minute and gets one member to stay 20 minutes, she either needs one member to stay 25 minutes at $2.00 or two members to stay 12 1/2 minutes at two dollars. Only the host knows which work better for her.
She might also prefer to cater to one member at a higher price than two at a lower price and has no other choice but to make the open price higher because she cannot eliminate that option. Plus, hosts sometimes like member that are willing to spend more per minute because they actually will stay longer at a higher price and seem to be nicer, perhaps because they are older, have more money, and are more mature.
How fit are you
Just curious, It is obvious that some spend quite a long time in the gym in order to look attractive for the CC users - but how much? So, how many hours do you, as a host, spend in the gym in order to have the killer body that makes all your viewers moan?
RE: How fit are you
I hope you realise that the poor girl who was next in the queue after you only got A cups from nature as that was all that nature had left to give :P
Turning it around to the male perspective I know just how she feels :(
Turning it around to the male perspective I know just how she feels :(
RE: How fit are you
lol... damn... that must have been my Russian girlfriend after CrazyFrits! but looks like I was in LINE before INYF!.... lol
RE: How fit are you
u have a mother or cleaning lady?!! oh i envy you:((; i go to gym 3 times per week and that I hardly manage to fit into my life; and btw, fitness freak, its not all about looks - i need my health:) muahaaaaaaaaaa stay fit hon even if it kills you:)
hosts and undergarments
When in video, a lot of hosts always show their breasts just by pulling their bra down instead of taking it off. I always hate this. I like to see them swing freely and tell them to completely to remove their bra. Same thing for panties. When they just pull them to the side, I ask for them to take them off completely. I like to see them completely naked.
Are hosts doing this because they are lazy, and in the case of the bra, are they trying to have their breasts look bigger by pushing them up and also to hiide breasts which may be too limp?
Are hosts doing this because they are lazy, and in the case of the bra, are they trying to have their breasts look bigger by pushing them up and also to hiide breasts which may be too limp?
RE: hosts and undergarments
Oh, I am sorry. I thought that I was the customer and that reasonable requests were okay. You act like I wanted hosts to put a television set inside of her.
RE: hosts and undergarments
some members like to see panties moved aside, some members want to see a chathost in stockings, some want to see a chathost naked completely, some want something else... It's better if a member can give hints - what he likes, and what he does not ;) Believe me, chathosts will do their best to show you what you want and how you want))))
RE: hosts and undergarments
Yes teenbabe you are right. I tell the hosts what I like to see and I get to see it. It's simple really.
RE: hosts and undergarments
I rather feel it's the original poster's inability to talk & successfully interact with girls that he is here, and he finds it easier to bitch in the forums than just follow your advice and ask for what he wants, either before or during his videos.
RE: hosts and undergarments
Obviously, when they don't take off their clothes completely, I simply ask them to do it. I am just wondering if there is a strategic reason for their not taking them off completely or is it just they don't feel like it. Perhaps the answer is simply that most members like it that way, but that is the point of the question.
And just as obviously, if there is anyone who does not know how to speak to people, your post makes it clear that that person is you. Even INYF didn't attack me lilke you did. That's how far out-of-bounds your insult is, lol.
And just as obviously, if there is anyone who does not know how to speak to people, your post makes it clear that that person is you. Even INYF didn't attack me lilke you did. That's how far out-of-bounds your insult is, lol.
RE: hosts and undergarments
Lmao. Now chathosts are criticizing other chathosts! You always seem to back me up here when others attack me... Too bad I'm not a slave, lol.
Anyway, I doubt that is the reason. It would make more sense to do a slow strip rather than just quickly pulling the bra down and panties to the side.
Anyway, I doubt that is the reason. It would make more sense to do a slow strip rather than just quickly pulling the bra down and panties to the side.
RE: hosts and undergarments
Well,it would make more sense if u asked questions and needed answers.Coz all u do now is just prove ur own point,dont u?So y do u ask then if u know better what and y hosts do?If u think that would be better to do nice slow strip is ur opinion,and it has a right to be.And I have no idea about what "always" ur talking about.Seems to me and I am pretty sure,I am here not that often.
The Golf Game
Towards the end of the gold course, Jim hit his ball into the woods and found it in a patch of pretty yellow buttercups.
Trying to get his ball back in play, he ended up thrashing just
about every buttercup in the patch.
All of a sudden ......POOF!
In a flash and puff of smoke, a little old woman appeared.
She said, "I'm Mother Nature! Do you know how long it took
me to make those buttercups???
Just for doing what you have done, you won't have any butter for
your popcorn for the rest of your life: better still, you won't have
any butter for your toast for the rest of your life ..... As a matter of fact,
you'll never have any butter for anything for the rest of your life!!!
Then POOF! .... she was gone!
After Jim recovered from the shock, he hollered for his friend,
"Fred, where are you?"
Fred yells back, "I'm over here in the Pussy Willows."
Jim shouts back, "DON'T SWING, Fred; FOR THE LOVE OF GOD,
DON'T SWING!!!!
Trying to get his ball back in play, he ended up thrashing just
about every buttercup in the patch.
All of a sudden ......POOF!
In a flash and puff of smoke, a little old woman appeared.
She said, "I'm Mother Nature! Do you know how long it took
me to make those buttercups???
Just for doing what you have done, you won't have any butter for
your popcorn for the rest of your life: better still, you won't have
any butter for your toast for the rest of your life ..... As a matter of fact,
you'll never have any butter for anything for the rest of your life!!!
Then POOF! .... she was gone!
After Jim recovered from the shock, he hollered for his friend,
"Fred, where are you?"
Fred yells back, "I'm over here in the Pussy Willows."
Jim shouts back, "DON'T SWING, Fred; FOR THE LOVE OF GOD,
DON'T SWING!!!!
RE: The Golf Game
Not bad, but the problem with jokes like that is that you can anticipate the punchline too easily. I didn't know that "pussy willow" would be the key, but I knew something like that was going to happen.
RE: The Golf Game
It can be interesting, why we think something is funny.
For example I used to milk cows and make butter.
I still laugh when I read this joke.
The crazy connection of butter and buttercups! :)
For example I used to milk cows and make butter.
I still laugh when I read this joke.
The crazy connection of butter and buttercups! :)
curious
is like 80% of the girls here from romania? i met so many hosts here and most of them from romania. is the only job in romania for girls is a chat host? im not complaining im just wondering if it really is the chat host capital of the world?
RE: curious
Hosts here are from all over the world. The main countries are Brazil, Colombia, Philippines, Romania, and Russia. There are also a some from Moldova, Ukraine, USA, and some other countries.
In terms of percentages, Romania and Russia are probably at the top of the list, cloesly followed by Colombia and the Philippines. I cannot give numbers since I have never bothered to count.
There used to be more Russians than Romanians here, but because CC had blocked Romanians from opening new acconts. Romanians can now open accounts and may have taken the lead.
If you do decide to count, remember that some hosts have two accounts.
In terms of percentages, Romania and Russia are probably at the top of the list, cloesly followed by Colombia and the Philippines. I cannot give numbers since I have never bothered to count.
There used to be more Russians than Romanians here, but because CC had blocked Romanians from opening new acconts. Romanians can now open accounts and may have taken the lead.
If you do decide to count, remember that some hosts have two accounts.
RE: curious
im not from Romania:) heheeheh or Russia, even though most come and say "private" - when first happened i thought member is not speaking English good and he asks for private show - lol
Escort and Massage Hosts in USA
Are there any hosts in the USA where "escort and massage" is truly the correct category? A few years back, I saw one here but did not meet her, and now, all of them seem to be in Europe.
RE: Escort and Massage Hosts in USA
I must be missing something. Nobody in that category that states they are from USA has been on CC for over a month. Forgive my stupdity and be more specific. Thanks.
RE: Turkey Tongue Twister
I think that's a bit cruel making him tow all those turtles if he only has two toes :(
RE: Turkey Tongue Twister
Well it seems he towed twelve times ten (12x10) talking turtles, or he towed ten talking turtles twelve times...either way, it both works out to be the same.
RE: Turkey Tongue Twister
i am not a chicken plucker i am a chicken pluckers son i am only plucking chickens till the chicken plucker comes.......touche....or she sells sea shells on thew sea shore
RE: Any one plays hi lo any more?
I noticed the few times that I played it, the hosts get easy cards to choose from. They will either get very high or very low cards, while I get 7, 8, and 9's a lot of times. So IMO, it's a scam trying to drag the game out and cost more money. Never again
RE: Any one plays hi lo any more?
I played a few times and liked it but I was always afraid that if I won, host wouldn't show. I wrote to CC about this and they assured me that host must show or member gets credit. However since I dont trust hosts very well I was always afraid that host would close video before end of game and I don't like the hassle of writing for credit. Some hosts have as many as 6 pieces of clothing to be removed which is crazy, not to mention expensive. CC should limit the number of pieces of clothing to not more than 4 and then I would reconsider playing. Also I agree hosts get easy cards to select and we get lots of more difficult cards. I read 2 that some hosts stall picking cards although that was not my experience.
RE: Any one plays hi lo any more?
I have played a few times and I think it is a fair game. Sometimes I have won 3,4 or 5 rounds in succession. Other times it has taken longer
RE: Any one plays hi lo any more?
If you give it a moments thought you would realise hilo has to be 121. How can a host give a second member who entered an open session any attention if she is playing hilo?
Real Blondes
I will start by saying I like all women: shapes, sizes, hair, etc. But, I have noticed I can fine no "blonde...blondes". Are there any hosts who have blonde hair, blonde eyebrows and blonde pussy hair? I have only known one lady in my life whos pussy was blonde like her head. My point: Red is a more rare color, but the pussy often match. I quote Sean Connery in Diamonds are forever "The cuff should match the color!" (LOL)
RE: Real Blondes
Wow blond pussy!! I believe you mean blond pubic hair! head hair and body hair are not the same types of hair, so a REAL blond haired girl will not necessarily have blond pubic hair. With all due respect to the hostesses here, blond hair, red hair and blue eyes are Nordic, Scandinavian features and the majority of the hostesses here are Slavic or mitteleuropean types. All are beautiful all are delicious it's just a question of taste!
RE: Real Blondes
Right......I understand and agree...It is blonde pubic hair that is of my current quest. But...I know nothing about hair......why is it so often a red head hove all three of same.....but blondes not you much?
RE: Real Blondes
But as the Vikings spread throughout western Russia (Rus is a Valenginian Viking word) many Russians have Scandinavian blood (that's why so many blue and green eyes plus blonde hair). Viking artifacts have been found along many rivers, i can think of one at about 840 AD. The were also the people of Finland who traveled as far as the Urals. Then of course, later was the Golden Horde that led to the exotic eyes. All make for an interesting mix.
RE: Real Blondes
Thanks..great information. I agree. But, I have met several real Red's from Russia. If fun quest, thanks again. Rojo
RE: Real Blondes
But of course, the Scandavians (vis a vi Vikings) raided and settled throughout europe as well. Many true blondes (from those i've seen) have hair that gets darker, brownish as they get older.(mousy and you say)
RE: off topic - kid in StPete
You will have to forgive my skepticism, but after all of the bogus chain-letter emails that I get that sound just like that story, I have doubts as to the truthfulness of your post. Nevertheless, true of not, that definitely is a moviing and sad tale, and if true, I hope that you can find that girl and give her a good life.
RE: off topic - kid in StPete
Well, the older you are, the more cynical you will become.
In any event, I will bite. First, you could track this girl down with a private detective. You seem to have enough info. Second, you could talk to a lawyer in that country and ask what the best way to proceed would be. Maybe the lawyer could even find a way to approach the family and allow you to adopt the girl or at least get her out of those people's custody and into some type of foster carre (although that might be just as bad unless you could become the foster parents. Maybe a relatvie would take the girl.).
One thing not to do is give those parents' money for the girl since you know exactly where that money will go. But you could maybe suggest that you would help pay for a drug treatment progrram for them or at least do the background work and how to get into one.
The problem of course is that druggies or not, the parents are going to get very angry and defensive. I defintiely would not just approach them alone. Meeting in a public place would be a much better idea.
Hope this helps.
In any event, I will bite. First, you could track this girl down with a private detective. You seem to have enough info. Second, you could talk to a lawyer in that country and ask what the best way to proceed would be. Maybe the lawyer could even find a way to approach the family and allow you to adopt the girl or at least get her out of those people's custody and into some type of foster carre (although that might be just as bad unless you could become the foster parents. Maybe a relatvie would take the girl.).
One thing not to do is give those parents' money for the girl since you know exactly where that money will go. But you could maybe suggest that you would help pay for a drug treatment progrram for them or at least do the background work and how to get into one.
The problem of course is that druggies or not, the parents are going to get very angry and defensive. I defintiely would not just approach them alone. Meeting in a public place would be a much better idea.
Hope this helps.
RE: off topic - kid in StPete
very heartfelt story and I wish you luck in finding this little girl...do all you can to achieve this goal...I believe in dreams...and your dream was very important.
Glamour and A Little Shy Defined
We had a debate about the rules in Glamour in the member forum. I took the time to write to CC and what follows are the emails back and forth between us. I think that this is an important enough issue that it is worth posting here in the General Forum instead of allowing the topic to get lost in a giant thread that dealt with another topic....
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My initial email to CC:
Could you please send me any documentation about the distinction between all the categories, especially an explanation of Glamour and A Little Shy? I would be very interested in knowing the rules and distinction for each, especially about how much nudity is allowed and also the effect of a sesson being "restricted". Thank you.
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CC's initial response:
Dear Sir,
Thank you for contacting us.
Please be informed that our Chathosts perform not only on CamContacts, but we have other services as well where the rules are very strict ( so called restricted sessions). So in case the session is on CamContacts,' Glamour' is considered to be an adult category and even full nudity can be reached here with mutual agreement.
Hope this explains.
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My email asking for further information:
Thanks for your answer. But I needed some further clarification.
In terms of CC with an unrestricted session, what is the difference between Glamour and LIttle Shy?
I always had thought that Glarmour was topless only at most and at the host's discretion. No full nudity. No toys. No sexual positions. Just looking pretty and sexy like a swimsuit model with the host having the option of going topless.
In terms of A Little Shy, I thought that the host had the option of getting fully naked, but that nudity was not mandatory. I also thought that as with glamour, the host could not assume any sexual positions or use toys and would need to make sure that she didn't spread her legs while bottomless.
Now I have been told by you that Glamour is Adult on CC even though it is not listed as Adult Softcore or Adult Hardcore. Further, I have no idea what the difference between Glamour and A Little Shy is in terms of CC. In fact, since Glamour came well after A Little Shy, I don't even know why it exists. I had thought that it was created to keep nonadult sessions purely non-adult and leave the sexy poses with clothes to Glamour, but now I have no idea.
Please expalin, again in terms of a host working on CC in a non-restricted session. And by the way, was I ever correct in my belief in terms of what a host could do with Glamour versus A Little Shy and the rules simply changed?
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CC's response:
Dear Sir,
Generally your assumptions regarding Glamour and Little Shy are correct, only that the strict rules that exist for these categories in restricted sessions should serve only as guidelines for the Chathosts, in case the session takes place on CamContacts. This means that the Chathosts from these categories can get naked and pose in a sexual manner if they feel like it.
The main difference between Glamour and Little Shy is that Glamour is the link between Non-Adult and Adult. It is for Chathosts who feel like chatting and maybe stripping, but not doing a full show. Little Shy is more adult and you can expect a show, if both you and the Chathost agree on it. Provided that it is both the Viewer's and the Chathost's wish, they can go further than that, however no hardcore stuff is allowed as there are categories like Fetish or Dungeon for that.
We recall that when Glamour was first introduced the rules might have been a little stricter, but not now. Some Chathosts though get confused and decide to stick strictly to the rules regardless of the session, restricted or non-restricted, which is why you might hear about the rules from them.
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So there you go.
I am not sure of the technical definition of "hardcore" or a "show". Something tells me, however, that the hosts that use toys or masterbate in Glamour are taking it too far (not that I will be complaining any time soon, lol), and that toys and masterbation would be the most A Little Shy host can do. I guess that means that not so shy and instant action are guaranteed "shows" with not so shy giving the host some time to warm up.
Members shpuldn't be too hard on Glamour hosts in light of what CC told me here. Many hosts are legitimately concerned about what they can and cannot do in that category. Not all of them are trying to rip you off members or deceive them.
And if it gets to the point of a member arguing with a host about whether she is allowed to get naked, the member should just move on since the host is not going to do it anyway. Members should not just jump into video with a glamour or little shy host; rather, they should simply check in text chat first. If the host is vague in her answers or the member does not like what he hears, then he should see somebody else.
Hope this helps.
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My initial email to CC:
Could you please send me any documentation about the distinction between all the categories, especially an explanation of Glamour and A Little Shy? I would be very interested in knowing the rules and distinction for each, especially about how much nudity is allowed and also the effect of a sesson being "restricted". Thank you.
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CC's initial response:
Dear Sir,
Thank you for contacting us.
Please be informed that our Chathosts perform not only on CamContacts, but we have other services as well where the rules are very strict ( so called restricted sessions). So in case the session is on CamContacts,' Glamour' is considered to be an adult category and even full nudity can be reached here with mutual agreement.
Hope this explains.
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My email asking for further information:
Thanks for your answer. But I needed some further clarification.
In terms of CC with an unrestricted session, what is the difference between Glamour and LIttle Shy?
I always had thought that Glarmour was topless only at most and at the host's discretion. No full nudity. No toys. No sexual positions. Just looking pretty and sexy like a swimsuit model with the host having the option of going topless.
In terms of A Little Shy, I thought that the host had the option of getting fully naked, but that nudity was not mandatory. I also thought that as with glamour, the host could not assume any sexual positions or use toys and would need to make sure that she didn't spread her legs while bottomless.
Now I have been told by you that Glamour is Adult on CC even though it is not listed as Adult Softcore or Adult Hardcore. Further, I have no idea what the difference between Glamour and A Little Shy is in terms of CC. In fact, since Glamour came well after A Little Shy, I don't even know why it exists. I had thought that it was created to keep nonadult sessions purely non-adult and leave the sexy poses with clothes to Glamour, but now I have no idea.
Please expalin, again in terms of a host working on CC in a non-restricted session. And by the way, was I ever correct in my belief in terms of what a host could do with Glamour versus A Little Shy and the rules simply changed?
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CC's response:
Dear Sir,
Generally your assumptions regarding Glamour and Little Shy are correct, only that the strict rules that exist for these categories in restricted sessions should serve only as guidelines for the Chathosts, in case the session takes place on CamContacts. This means that the Chathosts from these categories can get naked and pose in a sexual manner if they feel like it.
The main difference between Glamour and Little Shy is that Glamour is the link between Non-Adult and Adult. It is for Chathosts who feel like chatting and maybe stripping, but not doing a full show. Little Shy is more adult and you can expect a show, if both you and the Chathost agree on it. Provided that it is both the Viewer's and the Chathost's wish, they can go further than that, however no hardcore stuff is allowed as there are categories like Fetish or Dungeon for that.
We recall that when Glamour was first introduced the rules might have been a little stricter, but not now. Some Chathosts though get confused and decide to stick strictly to the rules regardless of the session, restricted or non-restricted, which is why you might hear about the rules from them.
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So there you go.
I am not sure of the technical definition of "hardcore" or a "show". Something tells me, however, that the hosts that use toys or masterbate in Glamour are taking it too far (not that I will be complaining any time soon, lol), and that toys and masterbation would be the most A Little Shy host can do. I guess that means that not so shy and instant action are guaranteed "shows" with not so shy giving the host some time to warm up.
Members shpuldn't be too hard on Glamour hosts in light of what CC told me here. Many hosts are legitimately concerned about what they can and cannot do in that category. Not all of them are trying to rip you off members or deceive them.
And if it gets to the point of a member arguing with a host about whether she is allowed to get naked, the member should just move on since the host is not going to do it anyway. Members should not just jump into video with a glamour or little shy host; rather, they should simply check in text chat first. If the host is vague in her answers or the member does not like what he hears, then he should see somebody else.
Hope this helps.
RE: Glamour and A Little Shy Defined
Thanks that was very helpful. The only thing I'm slight;y confused about is the sentence that begins "Provided that it is both the Viewer's and the Chathost's wish". I had assumed that it was referring to the Little Shy hosts and therefore no masturbation or toys would be allowed. Although, once again, that is assuming that these acts are considered "hardcore"
RE: Glamour and A Little Shy Defined
Wow..... INYF liked my post. It must be a good one, maybe the best post ever that was not written by INYF. I take great pride in getting the INYF official seal of approval, as I am sure you feel that I should.
I too was a bit confused as you can tell by what I wrote at the end so we certainly shouldn't be too hard on hosts about their understanding of the rules. The only thing that makes sense to me is that maybe hardcore means some of the more bizarre stuff that might occur in Fetish and Dungeon and maybe also the use of certain toys. Maybe masterbation is not allowed in Glamour since that would be a "show" but masterbation is allowed in Little Shy if no toys are used.. Or maybe basic toys like dildos are allowed in Little Shy but not things like fruits, vegetables, and bottles.
Anyway, I guess that I could send another email, but all this thinking is really making it difficult to have fun here. I only have so much blood in me, and I can only allocate it to one head at a time.
I too was a bit confused as you can tell by what I wrote at the end so we certainly shouldn't be too hard on hosts about their understanding of the rules. The only thing that makes sense to me is that maybe hardcore means some of the more bizarre stuff that might occur in Fetish and Dungeon and maybe also the use of certain toys. Maybe masterbation is not allowed in Glamour since that would be a "show" but masterbation is allowed in Little Shy if no toys are used.. Or maybe basic toys like dildos are allowed in Little Shy but not things like fruits, vegetables, and bottles.
Anyway, I guess that I could send another email, but all this thinking is really making it difficult to have fun here. I only have so much blood in me, and I can only allocate it to one head at a time.
RE: Glamour and A Little Shy Defined
I had a chathost read the rules to me over the phone. Here's the bottom line:
Session are either restricted or non-restricted as to what a host may do. Sessions become restricted based upon factors such as a members location and how he connects to the host (CC, an affiliate, mobile phone).
Non-adult sessions (friends & family, make new friends, long-term/marriage) are always restricted. Every other category may be either restricted or non-restricted depending upon the situation.
Technically, a host can do whatever she wants in a non-restricted session except for things like child porn and certain fetish type activity which CC prohibits (cutting yourself to bleed for example). It doesn't matter what her category is as long as she is in a non-restricted session. (Remember, nonadult is always restricted.)
What this means is that technically speaking, a host in glamour or littleshy can in fact do the same things as a host in instant action, fetish, or dungeon if she is an non-restricted session. However, for non-restricted sessions, there are suggested guidelines for each category. If a host goes beyond these suggestions too often, she will be told to change categories. The suggested guidelines become mandatory for restricted sessions.
The suggested guidelines, by the way, are essentially the same as my first post in the viewer forum on this issue where I talk about things like a swimsuit model that is topless and stuff. For glamour, one suggested guideline, for example, is no full nudity. That means whiie a host can be nude in glamour if the session is non-restricted, the site suggest she not do it. If she does it too often, the site will tell her to change to a more liberal category. (I don't know how closely this is actually monitored.)
In terms of what a host must do, my friend did not read me anything regarding this, but I believe my basic understanding on this is correct: glamour and littleshy.... host and member must agree, not so shy and instant action.... host must get naked but can take more time doing it in not so shy. (I guess if a not so shy or instant action host is told by a member not to get naked, then this is okay unless another member enters the video and wants nudity. The first come, first served idea regarding open chat would probably not apply regardless of how many hosts and members like to preach such a philosophy.)
I am not sure why CC did not email me the rules as I stated them here, but perhaps their emails are a more practical statment of the rules whereas this summary is a technical, legal type analaysis.
Session are either restricted or non-restricted as to what a host may do. Sessions become restricted based upon factors such as a members location and how he connects to the host (CC, an affiliate, mobile phone).
Non-adult sessions (friends & family, make new friends, long-term/marriage) are always restricted. Every other category may be either restricted or non-restricted depending upon the situation.
Technically, a host can do whatever she wants in a non-restricted session except for things like child porn and certain fetish type activity which CC prohibits (cutting yourself to bleed for example). It doesn't matter what her category is as long as she is in a non-restricted session. (Remember, nonadult is always restricted.)
What this means is that technically speaking, a host in glamour or littleshy can in fact do the same things as a host in instant action, fetish, or dungeon if she is an non-restricted session. However, for non-restricted sessions, there are suggested guidelines for each category. If a host goes beyond these suggestions too often, she will be told to change categories. The suggested guidelines become mandatory for restricted sessions.
The suggested guidelines, by the way, are essentially the same as my first post in the viewer forum on this issue where I talk about things like a swimsuit model that is topless and stuff. For glamour, one suggested guideline, for example, is no full nudity. That means whiie a host can be nude in glamour if the session is non-restricted, the site suggest she not do it. If she does it too often, the site will tell her to change to a more liberal category. (I don't know how closely this is actually monitored.)
In terms of what a host must do, my friend did not read me anything regarding this, but I believe my basic understanding on this is correct: glamour and littleshy.... host and member must agree, not so shy and instant action.... host must get naked but can take more time doing it in not so shy. (I guess if a not so shy or instant action host is told by a member not to get naked, then this is okay unless another member enters the video and wants nudity. The first come, first served idea regarding open chat would probably not apply regardless of how many hosts and members like to preach such a philosophy.)
I am not sure why CC did not email me the rules as I stated them here, but perhaps their emails are a more practical statment of the rules whereas this summary is a technical, legal type analaysis.
or you could
have looked deeper into CCz page and found this..
http://www.camcontacts.com/chathost/html/adultratings.html
http://www.camcontacts.com/chathost/html/adultratings.html
RE: or you could
I didn't realize that I could access chathost pages like that. I checked the site map but couldn't find anything. I guess that I could have asked my friend for the link and tried it.
By the way, how did you know where to look?
By the way, how did you know where to look?
RE: Glamour and A Little Shy Defined
Excellent work, bravo! However..rules and regulations are fine for administrations not for the Adult entertainment business! In my philandering days before settling down with one extra special lady, I always chatted in "free" or in "text" hello blah blah, "what do you do?" I WANT/WISH /LIKE to do this/that" we agree and or not! and if agreement a pvt. or 121 session followed! if within a few minutes i discovered it was not that or she was stalling i cut my loses and left, if the site had a notation system, she received bad notes! and I never returned! To be honest I was here to screw, but sometimes was screwed!!!!!!
RE: Glamour and A Little Shy Defined
I find this whole string very interesting.. I will have to look at it in more detail, because it has me really thinking.. Thank you for your valuable legwork in checking.
RE: Glamour and A Little Shy Defined
You're totally right of course but crying "one star one star" makes them happy. At least for a short while.
RE: Glamour and A Little Shy Defined
Well, I never cry "one star, one star", lol, but I do get angry if the host is lying or scamming me in some way. First, I tell her what I think of her behavior and then I go vote one star, lol.
And if bad enough, I will obviously post a comment about her in the viewer forum to alert others. I know that some hosts think that there is no such thing as bad publicity, but that depends on how the post is crafted.
Plus, many, many hosts worry about their ratings. I am constantly asked to enter video for a minute and vote 5 stars by some hosts that I know. (Nobody, by the way, has sent me to go vote against another host, but I am sure that this happens.)
And the ratings are a factor for members. If I see a host with hot pics, has just 3 stars, I definitely will think twice before visiting her.
And if bad enough, I will obviously post a comment about her in the viewer forum to alert others. I know that some hosts think that there is no such thing as bad publicity, but that depends on how the post is crafted.
Plus, many, many hosts worry about their ratings. I am constantly asked to enter video for a minute and vote 5 stars by some hosts that I know. (Nobody, by the way, has sent me to go vote against another host, but I am sure that this happens.)
And the ratings are a factor for members. If I see a host with hot pics, has just 3 stars, I definitely will think twice before visiting her.
RE: Glamour and A Little Shy Defined
Some hosts know the rules and lie about it if they are not in the mood to strip or do some other requested activity. Instead of just being honest, for some reason, they think that it is beter to lie and use the rules as their excuse. Maybe it is that they are afraid that the member will leave, but lying is not fair to the member.
Personally, I think that lying always deserves one star. In fact it deserves negative 10.000.000 stars! I have never given a host one star for not stripping in little shy or glamour, but lying? Absolutely!
But no, if a glamour or littleshy host honestly does not know the rules or simply says "well, i am not sure of the rules, but in any case, I do not strip and that's why I chose this category", then I am okay with that. Sometimes I stay anyway if already in video, and sometimes I leave without voting, but I would never give her one star if she is being honest and just expressing her preferences.
The key issue is do I think she is lying to me not if she gets naked or is making an honest mistake or even if she strips for some, but not others.
Personally, I think that lying always deserves one star. In fact it deserves negative 10.000.000 stars! I have never given a host one star for not stripping in little shy or glamour, but lying? Absolutely!
But no, if a glamour or littleshy host honestly does not know the rules or simply says "well, i am not sure of the rules, but in any case, I do not strip and that's why I chose this category", then I am okay with that. Sometimes I stay anyway if already in video, and sometimes I leave without voting, but I would never give her one star if she is being honest and just expressing her preferences.
The key issue is do I think she is lying to me not if she gets naked or is making an honest mistake or even if she strips for some, but not others.
RE: Glamour and A Little Shy Defined
Well, obviously I have to use my instincts to determine if I think that she is lying. And of course, the issue is what is she lying about.
I lie about my name, locaton, and age too, lol, to stay anonymous so I get that hosts do that. I am not worrying about those types of "white lies". I worry about lies that affect the quality of the show, not a host giving me personal information to me.
And by the way, I don't think that I ever had a "I cannot strip under the rules" discussion with a host. I just ask "what can I expect from your show?", and if she doesn't get specific, then I will ask if she strips, for example. As long as she is honest and strips if she promises that she will, then all is okay.
So in my case, at least, I never need to judge her truthfulness on this issue. I ask her directly up front and don't discuss the rules. But if a host misquoted the rules, and I thought she did it intentionally to keep me as a customer and get away without stripping, then I would give her one star. But this has never happend since I almost always go to text chat first and simply ask what she does. I would not then jump into video and give her one star if she lied about the rules if I am not already there, lol.
By the way, the lies that I really upset me are things where the host is deceiving me about feeling some type of personal connection, even just a friendship, to get me into video. That type of manipulation is not a host just being a good host and making a member feel good in my view. That is a host using a member's feelings as a weapon against him to make more money and is inexcusable and cruel. Being nice is one thing, but don't act like I am important to you if I am just a wallet in your mind.
Things like that, or a rude or stalling host are what usually will get my one star, not an isolated lie. I rarely give one star just for a bad show, for example.
Bottom line: the second I think a host is trying to rip me off or manipulate me, she's got one star.
I lie about my name, locaton, and age too, lol, to stay anonymous so I get that hosts do that. I am not worrying about those types of "white lies". I worry about lies that affect the quality of the show, not a host giving me personal information to me.
And by the way, I don't think that I ever had a "I cannot strip under the rules" discussion with a host. I just ask "what can I expect from your show?", and if she doesn't get specific, then I will ask if she strips, for example. As long as she is honest and strips if she promises that she will, then all is okay.
So in my case, at least, I never need to judge her truthfulness on this issue. I ask her directly up front and don't discuss the rules. But if a host misquoted the rules, and I thought she did it intentionally to keep me as a customer and get away without stripping, then I would give her one star. But this has never happend since I almost always go to text chat first and simply ask what she does. I would not then jump into video and give her one star if she lied about the rules if I am not already there, lol.
By the way, the lies that I really upset me are things where the host is deceiving me about feeling some type of personal connection, even just a friendship, to get me into video. That type of manipulation is not a host just being a good host and making a member feel good in my view. That is a host using a member's feelings as a weapon against him to make more money and is inexcusable and cruel. Being nice is one thing, but don't act like I am important to you if I am just a wallet in your mind.
Things like that, or a rude or stalling host are what usually will get my one star, not an isolated lie. I rarely give one star just for a bad show, for example.
Bottom line: the second I think a host is trying to rip me off or manipulate me, she's got one star.
RE: Glamour and A Little Shy Defined
You should also consider that some studio owners/admin have their own rules, especially for new hosts. Rather than go into long explanations about restricted and unrestricted sessions they simply tell the host what she can and can't do in each category. Studios are often more nervous than hosts about rules being broken.and getting penalty points as if it happens to too many hosts the studio may be closed.
RE: Glamour and A Little Shy Defined
the best solution is for hosts to just say "i do not strip" instead of hiding behind any rules of studio or whatever. doing this prevents a lot of distrust.
RE: for members!
It is very, very bad!!! But I know how to fix the problem. May I demonstrate?
Seriously, it isn't a bad thing in terms of real life. In terms of being a chathost, I would hate to think that the first thing a woman put into her was a dildo so I think that she should stay in non-adult, glamour, or little shy. Anything beyond simply stripping and maybe masterbating without insertion would probably make me think that I was corrupting an innocent young woman, and I probably wouldn't want more than a strip in this case.
Seriously, it isn't a bad thing in terms of real life. In terms of being a chathost, I would hate to think that the first thing a woman put into her was a dildo so I think that she should stay in non-adult, glamour, or little shy. Anything beyond simply stripping and maybe masterbating without insertion would probably make me think that I was corrupting an innocent young woman, and I probably wouldn't want more than a strip in this case.
RE: for members!
Unusual might be a better word than strange. It certainly isn't a bad thing unless, of course, you don't want to be a virgin :P
But if you are happy then you keep a hold of it until your Prince Charming turns up.
Although if he hasn't turned up by the time you are 25 I think it's time to send for me :P
But if you are happy then you keep a hold of it until your Prince Charming turns up.
Although if he hasn't turned up by the time you are 25 I think it's time to send for me :P
RE: for members!
I know one who was a virgin at 19, but may not be now. it is not a bad thing, but personal choice, based upon background and upbringing. Also. opportunity has a lot to do with it. Again, it is freedom of choice, and it may be the choice of some girls to remain a virgin until they marry.
RE: for members!
A couple of generations ago if a young woman in her early twenties had given up her virginity people would whisper, "What's wrong with her?" Now if a girl in her early twenties IS a virgin people ask, "What's wrong with her?"
RE: Which hosts do you think have rates that are too high? from VOF
What 's your screen name? The only host with your name has not been online for 5 years. In any event, I wold not pay $5/minute for anyone whether for open or one to one. If you were very attractive and put on a good show, I might pay $2,50/min.
RE: Which hosts do you think have rates that are too high? from VOF
I usually charge the hosts $1.50 in open and $2.00 for 121 to let me watch them. I think that's pretty reasonable.
RE: Which hosts do you think have rates that are too high? from VOF
First off, I've stated in my thread that you are referencing, that if a chathost charges DOUBLE for one2one that is a red flag NOT to bother entering her open session unless I am willing to pay the one2one rate, because your open session will without fail suck horribly. If you have a doubled rate it is usually a trap. Not saying it's always the case. But if you have things you will only do in one2one then the rate shouldn't be double. because there is basically no need for you to run an open session. Now if it's something extreme, sure I understand. But for a simple strip it's ridiculous to expect to pay double. I'll move on and find another host.
And for all of you that feel like your high rates work out great for you, more power to you. You do what you do. But the rest of us are starting to notice, that we can get just as much at a far better rate elsewhere and you'll feel that in your wallet eventually. I have no problem pointing out hosts like AnitaBella or Av0ra who are GORGEOUS and very popular yet still maintain reasonable rates. Why would anyone pay 2 to 3 times that amount when they can see a girl like that? I just don't see the logic in it.
But, like I said, I'm not saying it's not fair, I'm not saying it's not right. I'm saying that WE the viewers, should simply demand more for the hard earned money we spend. And judging from the response here, I'd say that is starting to happen.
Have a great day!
And for all of you that feel like your high rates work out great for you, more power to you. You do what you do. But the rest of us are starting to notice, that we can get just as much at a far better rate elsewhere and you'll feel that in your wallet eventually. I have no problem pointing out hosts like AnitaBella or Av0ra who are GORGEOUS and very popular yet still maintain reasonable rates. Why would anyone pay 2 to 3 times that amount when they can see a girl like that? I just don't see the logic in it.
But, like I said, I'm not saying it's not fair, I'm not saying it's not right. I'm saying that WE the viewers, should simply demand more for the hard earned money we spend. And judging from the response here, I'd say that is starting to happen.
Have a great day!
RE: Which hosts do you think have rates that are too high? from VOF
if"...the rest of us are starting to notice that we can get just as much at a far better rate elsewhere...",why is there so much bellyaching going on? :--)
RE: Which hosts do you think have rates that are too high? from VOF
Because a good thing doesn't necessarily have to end, usually people can talk out differences. I mean that is the hope anyway right? I mean I'm sure i'm not the only person that came here because other sites got out of control with their prices. Well now it's pretty much equal so theres not nearly as much incentive to stay here. I mean I'm just saying, if you guys don't give a shit then it's not a big deal. We all just part ways i guess. I was just trying to present an argument to see if there is any incentive on the chathost end to try to understand. Maybe that is not correct.
RE: Which hosts do you think have rates that are too high? from VOF
if you're finding you can get just as much at a better rate elsewhere,it's logical to assume that is better than the good thing.so why the bellyaxhing :--)
RE: Forgot to mention that real paying members dont brag about prices in the forums !
Not even understanding what you are trying to say here hon. You may want to rephrase it. If you are saying i'm not a real paying member then you are very far off.
RE: Which hosts do you think have rates that are too high? from VOF
I know of at least three hosts set a 121 rate at double their open rate because they do not really like 121. They give good shows in open vid and if more than one guy wants to join this is fine with them.