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You like to be kicked in the balls . If anyone calls me pervert ever again ill refer them to you

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heheheehhe - yessssssssssss - I love you Diva:);
ive kicked some in my time, was teen and boys tried to take advatage of me, but just once- lol, second time was not even an option in their mind:); not anymore, no need too - god gave me perfect speech abilities and some intelligence:) so that i can defend with "love" or "straight talk":)

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it seems to me that that was an analogy or simaly of host working here...i visit ans they work(do a show) and i pay them and sometimes they dont feel well or other issues arose and they just chat.
or am i just here too much?

You need a haircut every 2 weeks? Either your hair grows very fast or Sal is not that good a barber.

or he likes sal a lot more than he claims.....lol

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A very good response Gio :)

If u will read the post it clearly states that I don't ask Sal to cut my hair for free and I don't give him money if he doesn't cut my hair. And I don't stop by the barber shop just to chat.

Maybe not you Trixster but there is obviously a lot of "Sal's customers" that do do these things.

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I got 4.. :-x

One is retired because of a crazed stalking host that has agents everywhere.
The other three TBH, to keep from making hard feeling amongst hosts in studios. More than a few times been asked why I visited so and so. I never say I'm a one host guy, but just makes things easier. A few of my regs know I have more than one. They understand the relationship. Others, is why I have a few names. ;)

Another reason is. Sometimes I become such good friends with a host, I cant ask for nudity. lol. Enter my alter ego.

:)

wow that's friendship..........lol

lol... its mainly just me. I worry too much about how people think of me. If she stated getting naked, I wouldn't stop her. ;)

I did have one of my regs though start a nudie session after we talked for a few days, and then after she was just about naked said, "have you ever made love to a friend?"

That was one of the best sessions ever!

:D

I have one.
Not sure why I would want more.

i only have one at a time. i close one, to take an out time. and open a new one, when i am in the mood again to join.

I just have one. That way those who know me know who I am.

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All members have more than 1 nick. Many members come to my chat pretending to be nice guys that only want to chat and be friendly. Then they switch names and come back asking for strips, hahahaha!

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i used to to this but hosts know If you chat to them often , who you are

Hey do I know you two? lol!!

Broad generalizations are usually wrong. I only have one.

That is not true in all cases. I am a member and I have and use only one nickname. Sorry, but your statement is not true for this member.

oh please, dont come here trying to play angel now. hahaha!

I guess I must be an angel...hahaha..."all" members do not use more than one nickname ... maybe "most"

Jenny,

How many screenhost names have got Jenny. More than 2, i'm guessing...see it can work both ways....

YMBK

I do it the other way round. Start of nasty and then go with my nice name :P

Jenny,

"All members have more than 1 nick."

BULLSHIT...I have so only 1, so apologize.


Aka to iMSandra above - see i told you hosts lie...FFS

rather harsh. no?

hmm,

Nope..Jenny makes a broad sweeping statement..."All members have more than 1 nick", based on what her experiences??????

I have 1 nick nd only ever had 1 nick so the statement is 100% wrong, misleading and inaccurate.

I actually thought i was rather tame.

Oh and btw same goes to "peppergirl" apologise, damn it

seems the hosts know better than one member?

Over 5 years I probably had 50 or more. Generally I don't have more than one active at any one time. I have quit CC so many times and then rejoined a few weeks, days or hours later. I did have 2 names at one time to check hosts mainly out of curiosity...or so I thought. I didn't expect to catch my "friends" in lies but I did. So I stopped doing it and came to the conclusion that all hosts are pretty much liars and they have a different story for every member. So now ignorance is bliss. I distrust everyone and I have been happy.

I know what you mean )) And if a host show some and not others I justs dont understand this . It wont be nessary if they told the truth for more than one nick

I hate saying this and it's a crappy thing to do...you feel bad doing it and it makes it seem as if all honesty and trust has been tossed out the window...but I have to say (based on my own experiences and those shared by a million other guys) that ANY customer who feels even the SLIGHTEST sort of feelings towards a Host -- whether its friendship or romantic -- should instantly create a second or third ID just to see what that Host will say when she doesn't know its you. Because that's when you'll truly find out the truth.

And I'm sure the Hosts hate hearing that. I'm sure they feel it's a dirty trick or some might feel betrayed or hurt, but let's be serious here. The truth is that when it comes to Cam Sites there's just too much game playing and lying that goes on, all in the name of a Host doing whatever it takes to get (and keep) a guy's wallet open and to keep the money flowing. So if nothing else, I'd argue that alternate IDs are a great self protection mechanism for guys before they get in over their heads.

As far as I'm concerned this goes back to a thread from a week or 2 ago where we all debated "How to tell if a Host is REALLY your Friend or Not." So I'll give the same answer now that I gave back then. I like Hosts I can trust. The ones who want to be friendly and who can be honest online with you. I can think of Hosts that have been total sweeties and who are truly very genuine...on the other hand I can think of total con artists that only care about making cash at any cost, even if it means telling lie after lie and eventually breaking his heart. I hate the idea of multiple IDs, but here's the truth -- its the absolute best way to throw a bucket of cold water on yourself and to get a reality check about a Host once any emotions start to enter the picture.

Why? Simply because once you talk to a Host under another ID (and she doesn't know it's you) the results can be startling, eye opening, and sadly they're also often totally heart breaking.

Yep i agree ))

Yep. Been there, done that and dumped the host. :D

What is the purpose of creating extra screen names if the member develops feelings for the host? What further truths might you find out? Surely the reason to have extra screen names is if the host starts claiming she has special feelings for the member. Then you can use the extra name to find out if she is saying this to all members. However i think there are better ways to check if the feelings are genuine than deceiving in this way.

How ltm

I'd be interested to also to know whatever ways there are to find out the truth. Hire an investigator?

I think there's alot to be said for both sides of the "nickname" argument. I've played the second nick name game a couple of times over the past years, and doubt I would do it again. It really upset the host and set our relationship back for months. I sitll think it's a justifiable thing to do, especially early in a relationship. I feel for those guys who found out the hard way, but better to know sooner than later. The downside is that the hosts DO eventually find out about the game, if especially if you visit more than once. These girls are not stupid, and sooner or later you'd give yourself away. So what, if she says she has feeling for you under your "new" screen name...what does that really tell you? Not a whole lot, I think! She can always make the argument that she's just trying to keep the "other guy" as a regular.

Sooner or later you'll know if you are being taken advantage of. I've been with the same host for a couple of years, and we meet regularly. We chat for hours every day in ym or on the phone, and she shares inimate details about her life. Working here as a host is simply paying her bills, and the "I have feelings for you!" game is a game most of them play. I don't condone it, but if I don't like it, I shouldn't have fallen for a cam girl. I think she's being genuine with me, and that's what matters, althought sometimes I wish she had other work options or would accept my support.

Do I still get sneaking suspicions some times? Of course, trusting someone blindly is not easy to do. I'd come to accept that there probably are some poor guys out there who think that my girlfriend is their sweetheart, and there's not much I can do about that. That is their choice, though, and they are the one's causing themselves pain. However, if or when we take the relationship to the next level, I would expect that to stop. As long as she does not meet them in person, I don't care, and I'm pretty sure that she doesn't. I prefer to believe that we're both lucky to have found each other, and if she chooses to throw that away, that is totally beyond my control.

yes i have a chathost who im involved with romanticly. in fact i only saw her a few times in video before we start our relationship. i ask her to date me but she said she had to think coz many guys ask her same thing. in fact i waited for long time to ask her agian. she talks to me in ym and such too and is so sweet. yes i have check her with another screename and found out she did not lie about me . but would only admit after in video. u have to understand if say she has bf many members wont go to pvt with a host before her it not matter to me but for many members it does. yes she found out and was not mad about me checking she was only mad at me coz i came to her video as normal man and had her play too i didnt want her to think it was me but she had her boss check computers ip.... was mad for few days but now is all forgiven and all good. like i said only mad coz i had her play for me to cover me but i think was too nice about it when i asked her too. but yes i found out she does really care for me. i checked her with two names she told me about having a bf after in video which was fine with me. she is there to make money but i asked her to date me too and thats is when she told me about me to those members. so she didnt lie and try to tell those screenames that she is single and looking yet while in video . that is when i would have a problem with it expecially if a guy shows an interest in her. i had it done to me too from another host and i dont want her to do same thing to someone else while he sees her regularlly...... i do feel bad i checked coz i found out she was truthful about me but u r right is really only way. but dont expect them to admit it the first min of video. but if host is truthful she should say it soon so she dont break guys heart. but i understand some members hosts do seriously fall in love with and members also lie to them and that is not right too. i would preferif hosts would never say i love u or members say it either and just have fun i know cam site and not dating site. it does happen sometimes human nature to fall in love........

agree

Loved your argument that multiple IDs are the best way to throw a bucket of water on yourself and to get a true reality check about how a Host REALLY feels. Spot on, Cam Guy. Truer words were never spoken. Wish someone had given me that tip when I first started visiting cam sites. Sure would've saved me alot of heartache.

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But that was a nice compliment. :-D

lol Pete. Yes you're right. These girls need to learn how to take a compliment :D

MS,

Yes i can understand yr situation about not wanting to share yr personal info, but not revealing whether you have a real b/f to yr viewer's is really misleading and is why many viewers ask this question. On the flip side why do female hosts ask male viewers "do you have g/f, wife etc?"

If yr real b/f did come into yr room under the 2nd nick and you said "i am single", you are taking a very big risk in that:

1. He might just blurt it out then and there saying "This is so and so why are you lying to me"

or-------

2. That you possibly risk destroying yr relationship with yr b/f in that he might go away and then never return and might be left hanging wondering what happened to yr "love".

And as to ""Lucky bastard...." comment, take it from me thou i have not seen you.. that he was just expressing his bold opinion (was prob horny at the time) and more than likely meant it has huge compliment to you and yr looks and that he would like to exchange positions with yr b/f....

Good luck
Kiss
YMBK

Best to tell the truth and deal with it. Only speaking from my experience if "my love" had lied to me I don't think i could have continued with my relationship with her, after all had she been telling me the whole truth about other things. It all gets down to trust imo.

ECG,

Great post.

I fell in love with a host from another cam site head over heels stuff.

Eventually after 10 months of using the 1 chatname, thou i hated it i created another chat name and went into video and asked all the same questions , even asking "Do u have a virtual b/f" and she replied yes told me a lil about him and that she was very much in love with him etc etc .

So, much to my amazement everything was spot on. She gave me show with 2nd name but told me she did not like doing it cause of her virtual relationship, but the studio had a strict rule that if asked for show they should try to give one.

Under my usual screen name, she gave me good shows, thou as my love for grew stronger for her i did not feel the need for the shows. I did ask her (with ususal chat name) did she feel gulity having to give shows and she said yes she but no show no work...so i accepted it. She told me that although the number of shows she gave me with 1st name was not as many as when we first started chatting she said that if i really wanted one she would more than happy to offer and anyway she said "would rather have you get yr rocks off with me than any other girl"

After 5-6 visits using the 2nd name I stopped going to see her using that name.

BTW: we are still in love thou she now away from that site :)

That is Awsome!! Seriously!

GD4U!! :)

i had same thing with me it only took about a month and she didnt even want me to use site even for her. i think its awesome for u and me and any others who have the same thing. i had host before her use me for money so i decided to try another screename and got my answer and now very happy and still together after 7 months and no use site no more

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Yes i was totally surprised as well.

What made things hard for me was that she worked for studio where contact outside that studio ie via ym was just forbidden, so she was taking a huge risk. This outside contact was going to cost the chathost her job if really found out.

Well as it happens her ym account got hacked. Studio boss well really never knew but it was very suspicious. Studio immediatedly fined her 500$ and said "do it again and you are finished". Well ofc she could not tell me in paid chat at site but i knew something was not right for well over a week or so. Then we were speaking in paid chat on site and much to my surprise she buzzed me in ym, and told me what had occurred. God first i was furious with the studio for taking action against this host whom in my mind i was now clearly falling for.

But more importantly now very worried she was risking her job to stay in contact, and i told her that she should never contact me again in ym it will cost you your job. She then told me in ym that now she was so much in love with me that she really she could not care. I felt so guilty, that offered some $ to help offset her lost income, as really it was partly my fault that i kept talking to her on ym.

She was very surprised by my offer and accepted. So we continued to talk across ym. Things got seriously bad for her as the site admin then fined her again reduced her hrs and she then asked me that
now she was starting to struggle to live could I help out again. At this point i thought, hang on is this one of those scams. I could be part of really big scam here. So i told her i would need to think about for a day or so. She got a lil narky saying dont u love me etc etc. I said yes but i would need to think about this. so, I umm and arrrd for day or so and eventually thought ok i'll help, thou it was in small amounts.

To cut a long story she eventually said one day in paid chat that she going out on yr own. Now i knew what was coming, she had lil $ to do so could i help. I agreed, but i told this was different story this was serious $ even for me. She told me that she would pay me back ever last cent once she got her feet on ground and was away from studio. Well you know the rest story, the studio found out what she was doing and fired her.

When she told me in paid chat i was very surprised thinking there goes our relationship i will not hear from her and my $. Well ofc i was sad, and despite trying to contact her in ym nothing. Not a single hi or such. After 5-6 weeks had past i thought gosh was I dumb , it was great scam. I will never ever ever give a host any $...nothing I have learnt my leason.

2 months had past, then one night i was playing around on computer cleaning stuff off you know the usual stuff and i thought i have not checked my ym for a while, i better check it. Well ofc i open it up and there was about 200 offline messages from her, asking where i was why no contact etc etc she even gave me her home phone number, cell number 2 other addresses. pls contact me etc etc She had not contacted me as she was very worried about all that happened and was recultant to contact me straight away after she studio. She had started out on her own and was doing much better than studio though it had been very hard at first. She not only wanted to resume our friendship/relationship but wanted to pay back half my $ now as a sign of her trust.

She really threw a curve ball at me, and asked did i still love her and did i have any friends at other sites. Did i still love her yes, friends yes. I then told her that i have some friends here and i use cc for the virtual sex. Did i like the friends or more pointly did i love any of them. Nope i told her you still have that special place in my heart. Great she told me, and i asked what about the virtual sex. She understood but as long no other girl took her place in my heart she was fine with it, after all she told me she doing it as part of her job. I told her half jokingly that if we get together physically we will have to do couple shows. She said "YOU BET"...i was just floored by her reply. We laugh very long and loud.

I guess we both knew that our love for each other was cast in stone from that day onwards. She works well now about 5-6 months on her own. My $ are now all but paid back. We chat nearly ever day across
ym, and sometimes i give her paid vid-chat just show that i'm not just a prick.

Distance is problem for us, but our love is strong and we are planning to meet as soon as we can. Will it last forever who knows, maybe maybe not. But i think if we do meet it would need something extra-ordinary for us not to like each other. We know everything about each other there are no hidden secrets. However we both know that it might not work out, but i think deep down we hope it will. i know i want to spend the rest of my life with her, how that is possible not too sure, but where there is love there's always a chance.

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Tks MS for yr reply.

Don't worry I'm working on it as fast as i can, and so is she...:)

Kiss

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If I have feelings for a woman of course I will care what she does or doesn't. I dont want to love someone who doesn't deserve my trust that must be based on truth. How can you know the truth is spoken if you dont see facts to support it? Of course I check on the woman i love, I dont want that anybody lie to me.

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There comes a time when one has to 'go with the flow' show some trust & respect & see where it takes us.

Honesty is the key ingredient. Reading the comments here it seems that multiple logins are being used in a less than honest manner.

However it does seem that the guys who are using multiple ids to test hosts have been bitten & have been treated in a less than honest manner by hosts.

Catch 22?

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)) tHX MY POINT EXACT

It all boils down to trust . If you tell the truth you dont have to worry

IF YOU SHOW AND SAY THE TRUTH NO MATTER HOW IT HURTS SOMEONE WHO FEELS FOR YOU . IF HE HAS TRUE FEELINGS AND YOU EXPLAIN IT .WHY YOU DO THEN HE WILL UNDERSTAND IF YOU LIE ITS WORSE

i tried that with my first host but she lie to me so not true. only reason i checked the second one is coz i do love her and didnt want my heart broken a second time. or yes i would have never done it

good answer...2nd time maybe being just being cautious???

I just have 1 name.

it seems that the level of mistrust between members & hosts is being used to justify deceit on both sides.

To become supposed 'friends' with a host & then use a different screen name to 'test' her surely suggests that no friendship exists in the first place.

An essential ingredient of friendship is trust.

I would also suggest that any smart host would be able to recognise the writing & conversational style of member who is her 'friend'.

never been caught yet.

How do you know that you have never been cought ?

Is not a double bluff possible?

because she did 2 very different shows for each ID.

But how can you b e sure that the 2 different shows were not a 'double bluff'

Have you considered the possibility that this host knew exactly what you were doing & performed 2 different shows in order to maintain the upper hand?

Of course i am not party to what went on between you & this host. However If you play these games you must cover all the angles & possibilities. As such you should take into account the possibility that the host maybe smarter than you are .

So do you think that a host that just chats with a member will "punish" that member when he enters her video with a second name by doing a hot nasty sex show ?

If so I'm going to start being much nicer to the hosts. :D

actually very close to the truth. first session was friend (who doesnt strip) lol. second she did .......although it cost more.

Exactly one. I cannot see a host doing that just so that she "maintains the upper hand".

I did not say that. I suggested that the host may go along with the guests game knowing full well what the guest is up to. IE the guest is using to 2 logins & is requesting a different type of show for each of his logins. Therefore the host provides 2 different shows.

I do not recall using the word 'punish' or even suggesting that punishment was part of the scenario.

Okay replace the word punish with maintaining the upper hand. How exactly does a host, who tells a member she does not strip, maintain the upper hand by stripping when the same member logs on and she realises it is the same member with a different name ?

As I said if that is all it takes I'll create a new nickname just for being nice to all the glamour hosts and then they can all laugh at me when they give me a hot strip show with this nickname because they realise it is still me.

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"How exactly does a host, who tells a member she does not strip, maintain the upper hand by stripping when the same member logs on and she realises it is the same member with a different name ?"

1 I do not recall this being the issue but she does get paid twice

2 As far as aim aware the issue is not if the host strips. The issue is members pretending to 2 or 3 different people in order to 'test host.

3 However i did suggest that a smart host will probably know what the member is doing. You have chosen to twist my words.

"one" said to you he knew the host did not know it was him because she did two completely different shows. That suggests to me one was a non adult type show and one was an adult type show (and "one" confirmed this in his later post replying to me.

You then replied saying that maybe it was a double bluff. So I fail to see how I twisted your words as my reply was directly to your comments rather than the general thread.

I just think that your scenario is highly unlikely as surely the host would maintain the upper hand a lot better by telling the member that she still does not strip thus making him think that she really is the sweet girl he thinks she is rather than stripping just to stop him from realising she has sussed him out.

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if aguest travels halfway across the earth to see you .And you still ?
if ihe is your friend or not ?

i agree you just know

I always chat with cam on and showing my face, so no use to have several nicknames. But here in Forums, it could be another matter! :-)

very funny.

tisme I liked that one a lot :D

Funny one, tisme!

Tisme...... Tis a goodone.... lol

Explain the humor to non-english girl, please?

The humour is in whether the woman meant the one word "infrequently" or the two words "in frequently".

"I would like it infrequently" - meaning she would like sex very occasionally or
"I would like it in frequently" - meaning she would like it (his penis) in her a lot of times.

Remember the old man is supposed to be hearing what we see written. If it was two words he hears "like it *in frequently*" means he's being offered plently of sex; if it is one word "infrequently" means he's being offered very little sex. No joke survives being minutely analysed, but hope it may now still raise a chuckle to you.

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Boom boom...good one tisme :)

100% NOOOOO......for toes :--)

that's the last question they asked jesus.

Not ;)

On feet no wayyyyyyyy ((((((((( hands ok ))

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Thank god it was a joke ))

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As long as you're wearing that little pink skirt you can have long nails, short nails, dirty nails or no nails at all. I wouldn't care :P

No... I scratch myself up terribly with long nails.

I never got the fetish for nails. I think medium length, well manicured and nicely colored is very feminine and sexy. Women who totally focus on their nails are too self centered for me. But part of the total package it is nice. Long nails also limit how much self stimulation a host is willing to do and that is understandable. So regular length nails with some color. I like French Tips...very sexy.

And just to add to your confusion, a banana is not botanically a fruit:-)

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I suspect that that labeling the tomato a fruit is a cunning marketing ploy used by unscrupulous tomato merchants. A tomato is & always will be a vegetable.

The tomato is a member of the nightshade family and is not a vegetable at all but the berry fruit of a vine native to South America and was known to the Aztecs who called it xitomatl, a generic word for any globulous fruit such as berries. Eventually it made its way further north into the Central Americas who dubbed it tomati and to the Yucatan where the early European explorers first encountered it.

In the early colonial days of America the tomato - being in the nightshade family - was thought to be poisonous and was successfully put in some of George Washington's food to poison him. If it had been poisonous history would have changed.

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I am currently trying to cross-breed a tomato with a jalapeno pepper.
It will be named the jalamato. It's main purpose will be to slip into an unsuspecting victim's bacon-lettuce-tomato sandwich for your amusement. Also, when you throw it at someone, it will burn their skin like a pepper does, as well as splatter them with juice like a tomato.
It will be neither vegetable, nor fruit, but simply 'edible weapon.'

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Tomatoes re botanically a fruit. But, in 1893, the U. S. Supreme court ruled them to be a vegetable. Thr ruling was bsed on how they were used and how most people considered them.

that someone was reffering to the botanical sense of the notion "fruit" which means the part of the plant which contains its seeds and helps to perpetuate the specie...It has nothing to do with the general meanning of "fruits" we all use in common language, as well as "vegetable" is not a part of a plant, but a classification. Hope it helps.

The confusion about 'fruit' and 'vegetable' arises because of the differences in usage between scientists and cooks. Scientifically speaking, a tomato is definitely a fruit. True fruits are developed from the ovary in the base of the flower, and contain the seeds of the plant (though cultivated forms may be seedless). Blueberries, raspberries, and oranges are true fruits, and so are many kinds of nut. Some plants have a soft part which supports the seeds and is also called a 'fruit', though it is not developed from the ovary: the strawberry is an example. As far as cooking is concerned, some things which are strictly fruits may be called 'vegetables' because they are used in savoury rather than sweet cooking. The tomato, though technically a fruit, is often used as a vegetable, and a bean pod is also technically a fruit. The term 'vegetable' is more generally used of other edible parts of plants, such as cabbage leaves, celery stalks, and potato tubers, which are not strictly the fruit of the plant from which they come. Occasionally the term 'fruit' may be used to refer to a part of a plant which is not a fruit, but which is used in sweet cooking: rhubarb, for example. So a tomato is the fruit of the tomato plant, but can be used as a vegetable in cooking.

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tomatoes are known as love apples :--)

all vegetable that contains seeds are fruits, Tomato, pepper, cocumber, banana, ananas, are all fruits!!!

I'm never away from here so I thought I would post a message saying hiya back to you. ^_^

So .... hiya back to you :o)

INYF xx

welcome aboard

fetish category now olivia?plaster & crutch shows :--)

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sorry juggler i'm a bad tis.over a year ,i reckon might be time for a move.with your injury.you can go from fetish to footitch :--)

ha ha yeah actually it is very itchy !

Always knew you were a bit top heavy , :-)
get well soon..

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thanks xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Now would be a good time to take you out dancing. I would then only marginally be the worst dancer in the club.

But I agree those high heels can be a killer especially when you have big men feet like me :(

I am very sorry that it happened to you. I hope you get better soon.. Crutches are not fun to use

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Hi there tisme :-) Not sure where I found this one but ill post it here - numbers involved now also

From a strictly mathematical viewpoint it goes like this:-

What makes 100%?

What does it mean to give MORE than 100%?
Ever wonder about these people who say they are giving more than 100%? We have all been to these meetings where someone wants you to give over 100%

How about achieving 103%? What makes up 100% in life?

Here's a little mathematical formula that might help you answer these question.

If:
A B C D E F G H I J K L M N O P Q R S T U V W X Y Z is represented as:
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26.

Then:

H A R D W O R K

8+18+4+23+15+18+11 = 98%

K N O W L E D G E

11+14+15+23+12+5+4+7+5 = 96%

But:

A T T I T U D E

1+20+20++9+20+21+4+5 = 100%

And:

B U L L S H I T

2+21+12+12+19+8+9+20 =103%

AND, Look how far ass kissing will take you.

A S S K I S S I N G

1+19+19+11+9+19+19+9+14+7 =118%

tisme there's absolutely nothing wrong with a bit of creative accounting :D

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Honey... You fell to us from heaven (K)(K)

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u can try do you best to yourself (treat yourself as you would like others to treat you) and everyone else and expect nothing in return - for me that works to gain what i want or best that i can get this time on planet earth :) btw- karma is not one life issue, but general - if you are going through rough time in this life and u avoid to face it, just think twice: "would i like worst in next"?, if not, CHANGE yourself, and all changes starts with "I love and approve of myself; I respect and apreciet myself"; in my opinion your friend is just one more frighten or "scared to death" person on this planet - its up to you to see why you atract people like that, which in this case, couse you say she is your friend, indicates: she is your mirror, u just need to realize which part of you she is reflecting; good luck, and take it easy:) muahaaaaaaaaaaa

Hey JerkBoy mate :) , heard what lady Sandra said ? " take it easy " haha...I always thought you complain too much considering how easy you take it , i don't even need to push too hard :D
BTW....speaking of Karma...did i read right ? that you get violence, aggressivity ? rudeness ?bad vibes towards ur ass...hmmm...Doesnt this mean that " what goes around comes around" ? Why are you wondering...you are the best example, confirming the theory :).
Now be good, go against the wall, bend over...spread...:P

I'm a big believer in Karma. If you don't hurt others than you will live a good or at least normal life. If you are selfish and say bad things about other people(even if it's true) behind their back, lie or be hurtful to others then bad things will happen to you.

There was time when I thought more about my career than my friendships. I had a friend help me with several different things, but one time when he asked me to help him with something I agreed but I never did it. I didn't really value our friendship and we lost touch. About a year later I had sudden pain in my feet because of swelling. I got some pills and didn't have any more problem for 10 years. I don't think I was a bad person. I was just selfish and thought more about myself than friends or family. I asked for help more than I helped others. The foot pain 10 years before was the first sign of heart failure. I was told if medicine didn't work I would need heart transplant. I think I became a kinder and less selfish after that. It's been 8 years now and hopefully my heart will last much longer.

I have friend who I met on cam site. I think in general she is good person, but is very selfish and not honest about love. She's a bit vain and I think has taken more from her friends then she has given back. I think it was more important for her to travel and have fun than to have steady job and long time friends. She's probably broken a few hearts of guys she met on cam sites(some guys still miss her on CC).

Her bad Karma has been a number of health problems, several different failed jobs and business ideas. Having to move back with parents. BF's who didn't see same future together. Lost friendships and depression.

I believe she'll have better Karma if she is less selfish and vain.

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No there is no such thing as karma. For every post in this thread supporting it there are just as many stories disproving it.

so you think it's not karma inyf but the old scientific theory.for every action there is an equal & opposite reaction(or something similar) :--)

or maybe he simply thinks that any superstitious explanation of any series of events is just a silly thing to believe in.

Yes John you got it in one.

superstitious explanation,scientific theory.not much difference between them when you put it that way john :--)

Well INYF, they do say payback is a bitch! :D

i always thought it was playback of the bitch topa :--)

Good=naked beauty
bad = credit card bill

Ying + Yang ie for every positive there is a negative is also highly relevant.

positive = naked beauty
Negative = credit card statement


OOOOhhh is that the time? Must dash , I have to be at my meditation class in 30 mins

The moral of this post?

Even wannabe gurus jack off?

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What goes around comes around
You reap what you sow
Karma

Sure Karma, or what ever you call it, its real. Think about it. How could so many sayings over so much time not be something to be considered.

As for scientific proof? They scientist can't even cure the common cold. Why would I suspend my experiences and observations to wait for a group of people like that to prove it. :p Even if is there was enough "proof" they still say something to still not except it. Like it was a collection of random events that happen to collide with the initiation of this test. lol!!

Karma Rocks!!

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...is one scary prospect. I was going to start a similar thread.

dumbest theory of modern times. the old testament is almost that old

Check out site Evolution of a Creationist, just search for that, it has some interesting ideas there.

The bible is all I believe in - when 100 years pass historians traditionally have changed their believes to something new that suits the rulers of their time.

No. There's as much sense and reality to this as in the myths of the ancient greeks, romans and egyptians (which is not to say all of it is senseless and unreal.) These are tales used to illustrate the human condition, and provide guidance and philosophy of life and death, but not a literal account of historical events. Christianity itself is built of a patchwork of pieces taken from older belief systems.
Terms like creationism and intelligent design are now most associated with (american) christian fundamentalist groups attempting to pass religion as science (thereby allowing it to be taught as fact in the school systems.) Of course, Creationism in the broader sense of the word isn't limited to just christianity because muslims and jews can also have similar beliefs.

Personally, I think it comes down to this:
Yer readin the words, but yer missin the point.

dirty punk i'd like to buy you a drink or 10.that was a great explanation but i liked your phrasing of the icing on that cake you baked. congratulations & thanks for the laugh finale :--) p.s to collect the drinks either find me in commchat or cc mail me

Hey! I wanna buy him a drink too)) And i was first!)

moni you can go buy him the drink first.can only think of 2 things better than watching your back :--) xxx

haha.
Let's all drink together. :D

Why you'd limit creation myth to only the Abrahamic religions, I'm not sure, but whatever....
I'm not up on Christinaity at all, but I'm curious - how do you think the account of Creation in the Bible should be read? Briefly, what do you feel is it's figurative/metphorical/allegorical point?

I am concerned about the growing intolerence in the world.
And that we are not going forward enough in respecting all
human life and the earth.
Much has been done in the past to bring peace and co-operation
between nations. We can not allow these efforts to be stopped or
reversed!

I feel foolish. I had assumed from your postings you were Hungarian or Polish perhaps. Now I see is actually Topaz...Sky. Doh (hangs his head) ! Agree with your comments btw.

your not very well informed - dinosaurs are mentioned in the bible several times!

I believed what you have described is based upon a literal or fundamentalist interpretation of the creation story in the Book of Genesis. Most educated Christians today believe that the Genesis creation story is allegoric, or symbolic and therefore, the literal dating of creation at 4000 BC is an erroneous interpretation. The allegoric interpretation of the creation story simply indicates that plants and animals, including man, were created by God.

I believe that the creationist explanation, or even “intelligent design”, which attempts to remove religious overtones from the debate, is a superior argument to evolution.

The concept of evolution was born when Darwin published his book, On the Origin of Species, in 1859. A key aspect of Darwin’s theory was that natural selection would act, in his own words, “slowly by accumulating slight, successive, favorable variations” and that “no great or sudden modifications” were possible. Darwin’s “Tree of Life” illustrated that all living creatures had a common ancestor and that natural selection drove the eventual development of the countless animals in the modern world. Darwin believed that future discoveries in the fossil records would prove his theory correct.

Unfortunately, in the 150 years since his book was published, the scentific discovery of millions of fossil records have actualy proven Darwin’s theory wrong. During the Cambrian period, (about 540 million years ago) almost all of the major animal phyla that are still alive today, suddenly appeared in the fossil record as well as some animal phyla that are extinct today. The Cambrian period has been called the “Biological Big Bang”. This is in direct contradiction to Darwin’s theory that changes would occur slowly.

Although it is scientifically difficult to believe Darwin’s theory today,. our modern media and even university text books incorrectly present his theory as an explanation as to the origin of life.

I think most people have missed the point . The issue I have is would it be good for america have someone who believes in creationism in position of vice president .......
As regards creationists and people who believe in intelligent design they are people searching for an explanation of god that fights universally accepted scientific theory .
For many centuries now man has explained the unexplained as God and as the centuries have rolled by scientists and facts have proven otherwise so the people with faith cling to what they can to explain as god and this is certainly the truth with creationists and people who believe in intelligent design .
Your arguments regarding Darwin and dinosaurs and periods of history which disprove scientific theory if not explained yet by science will be ........as in the past .

My opinion is that how can a creationist from Alaska have any understanding of other nations , peoples , religions and have tolerance and understanding when they are believers in creationism . They are no different than the fundamentalists in islamic countries .

JB... you've hit the nail on the head. The point of "theory" is that it should be questioned, debated, modified to fit the facts better, and Darwin, working with scientific methods, should have understood this.

I have no use for the fantasies, myths, and religious power politics devised by mere earthlings. Any one group that believes they have ME on THIER side is sadly naive.

Well......I got a member once who i really desired, and i mean REALLY.He appeared when i just started working here. Oh boy...Handsome (for my liking at least,he looked exactly like Carlos Salis from Desperate Housewives lol), real man. He was comming regulary, and we were just talking for hours in vid, i was watching him and omg, he was so sexy, acting like he doesnt really care, i mean not worshiping me, like others (arrogant, i know), wasnt telling me stuff like-ohhh ure so hot and sexy and bla bla. We were just friends but of course we were attracted to each other. .There was some sexual tension..Maybe it sounds wierd but for me he was such a turn on...Real man, no bla bla, just actions, he was helping me in some situations altho i didnt even ask...I had butterflies in my tummy)))) Now we are still friends on msn and when i think of those times...Ehhhhhhh......

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Come on now lets face it we are all loosers here why not get a sexy partner in real life instead ;)

You need to realize internet is fantasy (anyway for me it is), in real life you can deliver pizza but when you come here you can be a girl’s White Knight. You are definitely not a loser I think you have friends, family like all of us and you have a dirty sparkling mind, that’s not a bad thing.)) Let’s go back to my question a hidden fantasy that is already fulfilled? I know you have one, will you share it with us the “losers”? (k)

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For me it is simultaneous masturbation. It has to be a host who is new to CC, a bit shy or reserved yet fascinated by sex and the power she discovers she has over members. She should look young and innocent. Video with phone. She does it. I do it. We hear each other with, if possible, a nicely timed finish. In 5 years I only was successful 3 times. I am not talking about the phony oh baby yes baby. I realize in those 3 times I could have been duped but I dont think so.

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would be Tellmemoree in panties and bra! a looooonnnng video for sure

been there. done that.

weren t we talking about proper fantasy???
well that for me would be me and 5 other guys,all wanking in from of me ,LIVE and then i d bj all of them ,one by one,then they d all hold me and fuck me
mmmm
fantasy world.
hahaha

Now -that-....is hot. Whew.

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what category are you in

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face, face and face.

I agree with "me". I want to see the face. I do not like a whole bunch of photos with no photos of the face.

Some good shots of your face, some good shots of your body, lingerie, bikini or sexy outfit is a plus, even some shots of you outside of CC...normal everyday pictures...don't overdo it. Give a sense of your personality, what you look like and to an extent the limits of your video. I have seen little shy hosts with very sexy pic who will not do anything in video and the opposite...very conservative pics in a profile and two minutes into the video the girl is going to town. Consistency is a plus too.

Has anyone mentioned face yet? lol (K)

A nice face and litte torso. But definatly face. Like seeing a nice tight bum too. (K)

I dislike the nudy shots, just me maybe, but kinda spoils the mystery. (K)

Takecare hun (K)

Pics of hair, face, body, ass and legs. Also i like when see some skin ;)

i think stylish is good as long as they are special- personaly i like facesand yes i think we do like to look at pics before we enter

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definitely the face
sexy pics, but ones that do not show to much. make us pay to see more. ;)
and
pictures taken outside of the studio are always great.

I like to see an honest depiction of what I'm likely to see in video. ie actually taken from the webcam.

94 pics of your face each day with little or no pose change from the previous one.....i know we all love that.

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Make sure you include yr face...just posting this incase you did not get the hint in the last 3456 posts that u must include piccys of yr face....hahahaha

Take care bb

Most important is a picture of your face. I know that I like to see who I'm talking to in advance. Also, a full body shot would be nice. Other than that just be yourself and have some fun.

Ahahahaha))))))And u sowre that u just loved me:(((((((((((( Naughty naughty))))))

Well my answer has nothing to do with the question but..Speaking or left and right..Eyelashes on my right eye seem to be more beautiful than on the left eye..Left one always pisses me offfffff)))

Did I swear to that? wow...I must have been hypnotized by your left eyelashes :P

Ye ye...Men..."Ure EYES are so beautiful"(Staring at smth a lil below eyes)))))))

Which boob do you put in the bra first?

put a sock in it ))

haha - not sure about "in" it...but sometimes I put one "on" it :))) (Less friction) ;)

Hmmm...i thought that the friction is all the fun! If the humidity level is the right one ofcourse !E.T. confused now.E.T. phone home to ask dad.

i must learn to put a sock in it ))) I talk too much

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This brings back memories. :) :D

I put the middle one on first. :))

bin ther and done that = you sound as if you need to think before you talk we all make mistakes but you sound more prone to them - do not forget EVERYONE HAS FEELINGS

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I am glad to say i have been there and only need one these days and she is pefect after many years I am sure of this

i felt the same old timer .i felt the same (( But i could not share , that is my problem.

its hard but I have learnt these past years and i am sure she is worth it

all i say is I have been here and done that and my lady is worth all the enevitable problems but you mustttake care and tread gvery ently to win the prize

well old timer i once ran over my dog i could not fix it it is the same here . I cant fix

met a very lovely lady back in spring time,was going to pay my way to her.then i found out she had a bf .in real.so i i said some bad things,we finally stated talkingagain good luck to u

Just out of curiousity, how did you find out she had a bf in real? Also, you said you just started talking again...does that mean she blocked you from her room, or did she leave cc? Also, I assume the bf is out of the picture now. Are you still planning to see her? I'm curious, because I had a similar experience about a year ago. In my case, even after we had started talking again, I kind of lost interest.

So hard to tell here just use your gut feel . But dont get too close you will crash and burn

yes i do have feelings for her,we have started talking again,the thing is u have alot of jealous ppl on these sites,and ppl will say stuff to the host and next thing u know the host belives her newer friends than yourself.i found out she had a bf when a certain host who k new her in real sent photos .but i as wrong at doing that myself.so we didnt speak for 3 months.now its like starting over agin,and now i have great respect for her and i hope it leads to better things with herand me

I appreciate the well intended advice, but I'm happy I didn't follow my gut feeling...if I had, I would have crashed and burned a long time ago. Unfortunately, as a trade-off...I find that I've gotten a bit cynical

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We were split long before and it was not all my fault

Does that sound familiar. My suggestion is to get on with your life in your own country. Settle things with your wife one way or the other. Get your life in order, physically, financially and emotionally. Then start considering a new relationship. A long distance relationship with a foreign girl barely out of her teens would present problems to anyone. To a guy in the midst of a marital breakup....it would turn out to be a nightmare or just an awful experience.

!.finacially im more than sound
2 wife we are separated for 20 months
3. Country i dont really have i travel and work in 2 countries
4. I was not looking for this it hapened

sounds like u made up ur mind already. these people have good advice, but if u want someone to tell u to go and do it then here u go. go and do it.

just be prepared if she has a real bf in life.then u struck out

"I have been camming 8 months. I grew more than fond of one host
I think she felt the same. I have just split up with wife. And i thought i found waht i was looking for."

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it is amazeing ,the friend who i had on here for 6 months we did start talking again only after i prt her,that doesnt sound like love to me but only for money,get real most are on here for money,if i had a true gf would u really want her on here lol

avenge

Tough one. Without knowing alot I'd say

Forget. Getting back never seems to end, you him then him you, it goes goes on and on.

Be the better person.

Although I'd have to admit to a few avengings myself. Hard to say without all the facts.

Good Luckk dear!

Did you hurt his feelings. ignore him and lie to him ? If yes forget

i forget for a few months ,then come back and talk things over,sometimes its better to back off then to regret things we say

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I avenged and regret it

was it me? if so , I would say you should forgive and forget :)

You work here. You are a professional. As such you will have to deal with the good and the bad. Remember the good, forget the bad and keep saying...this is just a job.

Remeber the good i agree forget the bad

I think it depends on the story. First, it's a question of WHAT he did -- for example did he say bad things in a chat, lower your stars, post bad things in your forum? But Second and just as important, it's a question of WHY he did something. Was it because he was just being a jerk OR (and you may not want to hear this, Peppergirl) because he felt you had hurt him first? So in HIS mind he was just striking back.

That's the problem with the question like yours. People often think they've been attacked for no reason...they feel they are the victim...but often times a fight starts over something that one person wasn't even aware of. So I'm not blaming you, Peppergirl. Then again, I'm not blaming him yet either. I'm saying it's hard to choose between "ignore" or "avenge" without knowing what actually happened.

So what did you do pepper avenge or forget

Face is 90% for me. So no, wouldn't go or come back.

For me... Even when a host and I start to play, some will focus or zoom in on, ummm, well, your happy place? (here was that thread about what we call those things) anyway, I ask to bump it back up to their face. I seeing my partner.

Thats me. 2cents

Takecare

no face. no show. since the most important for me is face.

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no - it would make it much more impersonal - and there is porn you can watch for that

No I wouldn't . Sorry if that is not what you want to hear.

depends on what her boobs look like and everything else too, is she smart and able to discuss events or is this just a sex show?
many models photo set i have have very pleasing body shapes but faces arent too nice to see, so there are hundreds of other detail i see , so if she had no face but nice everything else, id see her at least once.

if the host shows no face, I do not stay and I will not return. I like to see face and pretty smile as I chat

Generally a host is hiding her face for a good reason....good for her..not for the member. A body without a face is like breakfast without orange juice. Just wouldn't work. I often get hosts who pull the cam in close so all I see is their body and I say...wait...I need to see your face. I actually prefer to see the face and upper body if that is the choice. Sometimes the studio rooms are so small you can't see a host from top to bottom. The face and eyes are as much a part of the turn on as the body. So no...I probably would not see you in video just for the bod nor would I return.

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shy but in IA?????

i think you dont want your existing fans to know who you are )))

never

If she didn't show her face I'd immediately end the session.

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im the bad group ))

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is that so really?!! I love to see man on cam! its much better feeling for me, im talking to a person not a ghost:); but i suppose girls are more into looks, imagining some handsome knight on the other side; lol; my knight was never beautiful but loving, maybe thats why i love cam2cam:)
dont let this get you down - there are girls that love seeing you and your reaction on them:) muahaaaaaaaa

Actually for me its on the contrary...When a guy turns on his cam and i see a hot guy (rarely) or even cute guy, i become shy, cuz i like him. And even worse when a guy comes to vid, turns on his cam i see him and i like him a lot, and in 15-20 mins he asks if he can see more of me, i get so confused and not comfy. But if a guy behind the screen isnt attractive, or average looking-i have no probs with doing a show for him. Im just doing my job, nothing personal...

Have we talked? lol

Maybe, bb:)))))))

hmmm...maybe eh? I'll remember to turn my cam off then :P

U know how super emotional i am last days.....:(((((Wanna make me cry????????:))))))

Hahaha...just enjoy your special moments of emotion!!! We all have them! :P

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That is a really great outlook. Will you marry me? :-)

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Yes...so long as its not the only playing you'll do:)))

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I think you would probably eat me for breakfast!!

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<raises hand> Eats Pineapple!! lol


-waits to see who gets it. :-x

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because they can ))))
they feel powerfu;l here
let them have their glory . I feel degraded here and i pray no one everfinds out

I dunno why people have to do this. Maybe the power thing is the best answer a stupid one, but the only I can think of as well.

Same stupid reason people feel it nessesary to degrade and treat girls like crap. Just cuz your paying for their time doesnt make them slaves or any less a person.

One of my dear regs, Y'd me one day in tears. She wouldn't do something as a viewer demanded so the viewer started with hurtful insults call her a fat pig and worse things. Whats that all about?

Then returned with several different screen name lowering her stars. Really? Someone that goes to that much trouble to cause someone else greif shouldn't be in the gene pool.

Maybe hes visiting you too curvyss.
Hang tough girl. (K)

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all i do here
is say sorry i never did anything wrong. These girls are good

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Why should she forgive you?
if you said bad things last time that were so hurtful that she doesnt want to be with you.
should she just think ... oh well he said sorry so it must be true and his hurtful words didnt hurt me so much.
Both of you have just learned a valueable lesson
you are better then just a fool maam
and you mister may be talldarkandhandsome but notarealgentleman.

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oh, is it me?!! if I was that host, I would want you to come and tell me, at least write me mail or something, couse posting here its, in my opinion totaly impersonal - all read and all had similar things happend, anyone can find him/herself in this story:(; let her now the truth, no matter what happen u will feel better for having courage to say - yes i did wrong - we are so strange too often, wanted to be right instead of happy!!!
go for it:)

Don't think she does Glamour

never mind. i found it.

I wonder what name she uses in Instant Action ;)

Would that not be the best!! Find a hot host in friends or glamor and just dial up the catagory to your liking.. :D

lol

so what is it?

I don't think she wants many to know her alternate name.

she would never go there

go where?

wait i think i found her in dungeon opps wrong gal

all wishful thinking. she would never

An attractive enough girl but why would anyone who was not into domination visit a mistress ?

i was over whelmed by her beauty. i am a sucker for beautiful blondes.

hey limey it is doungeonmiss

hey limey you are right she is hot.

"slutty talk. obedient slaves, polite people, money slaves"

lol money slaves...

She does look pretty, Romanian too. Nice!!

But dungeon??? (scared)

dont be afraid she only takes you where you want to go. she is worth it.

22?!

what makes her so hot if not into domination

she can be tough and she can be sweet it depends on what you are into.

well if this is omp (the original) and not omt like u wrote, then i miss u too

i thought ohmypussie and ohmyprecious was same person

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i mizz you too:d(K)

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crasyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy(K)(K)(K) i mizzz you takecare

many kisses back to my angel.:))))

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i told you everything be okie dokie--big bro--this time dont fut it up-

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