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years? thousands of dollars and can't seem to make a life with you is frustrating? should be more than that by now....lol

sounds like a mistress (the "woman on the side "type not the dominating type)

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Yeah I agree with 2togoxxx, when the money is taken out of the equation you get thrust into reality real quick. Only problems I ever had with a host was after the money flow slowed. If your brain is getting fucked then I suggest moving on.

Counselor, take the advice that everyone is giving you. They're all telling you the same thing, and they're all correct.

If you've spent THOUSANDS upon THOUSANDS of dollars on this girl...right down to giving her a monthly allowance...and if you DON'T see this relationship moving forward the way that YOU want, then cut off her money COMPLETELY and you'll learn instantly (for better or for worse) just how much she really cares about you.

I know it's tough. Trust me, I've been there. So have a lot of guys around here. And I know you must really care for her -- after all, you laid it on the line and you put your money where your heart is to prove it. But here's the cold, hard truth: Do you really want to be out even MORE thousands of dollars only to learn THEN that this was going nowhere?

You said it's frustrating because when she can make the time, then she'll fuck your brains out. But come on, snap out of it -- that's her JOB to come online and perform that way. And from the sounds of things, if she's playing the old game that she can only "make time" here and there for you, that alone should tell you something. Not to mention it should serve as a warning bell about what she's REALLY doing in her private life when she's not working online. In other words, as much as this might hurt for you to realize, she's off seeing her real boyfriend or dating other guys -- but clearly you're NOT the person she keeps most in her mind or in her heart.

So cut her off and learn the truth. She'll yell, scream, cry, pout, stamp her feet, get angry, say things to you, all because she's suddenly seeing a major source of income drying up. But if any guy has spent years (as you said) courting a girl and also spent "thousands upon thousands of dollars" on her as well (as you also said) and things are still not progressing...she still won't commit to making a life with you...then you seriously need a bucket of ice water thrown in your face to get a reality check on this whole relationship.

Or think of it this way: If she WASN'T a cam girl...and if you had NOT met her online...in other words, if she were a flesh and blood woman you could touch and date on the weekends in-between both of your jobs...would you accept this kind of treatment or behavior from her? Or would you call it quits and walk away realizing it's all going nowhere? Ask yourself THAT and you'll already be coming around to reality.

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If i understood women id help you what can i say :)))

Just get on with life it dont help to think about it . Pleenty fish in the sea dont fish in this sea ))

This is not a sea, its a pay-per-view fish tank, lol

i remember you told me,i think you need to move to other girl.

You have a point to make?

it is time to move on and stop the flow of money in that direction.

i d try to stop her or him but if its not possible i give up because its clearly that she or he found someone else -wich is more then obvious-if you hurt her once why she didnt leave you then why now???because it was revenge untill she found someone new she stayed and took you for a fool so?i d let it go and forget it

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When a person hurts another, the 1st thing they say to make the other stay is "I promise i will never hurt you again". Some say it without meaning it, some don't even believe themselves when they say it, others really mean it... and all, but all do it again sooner or later. It's been tested.
If i would hurt someone in such a way that they would get up and leave, never to come back again then i must have done something really bad, in which case i myself prefer everything to end before i would get the chance to hurt my partner again, which, inevitably, i would do. It works the other way around, if i am the one getting hurt so badly then i would end the relationship right there and then, no matter how much i would love someone.
Been there, done that, got the t-shirt (in both situations, aka a guy leaving me/me leaving a guy).
If you really feel like you wanna try and make her stay, good luck:)

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Stop her, but if she wont stop, let her go.

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nothing good.$$$ is growing,but prices on food and everything is growing on 30% too.will be a big bank defoult soon.

As long as the world's economies as a whole continue to suffer, the US$$ will continue to be the safest and most 'in demand' currency in the world. This isn't just a US crisis. Look at the European bank failures and bailouts in recent days. You think people will be running to the Euro so fast? I doubt it.

hahaha!!! I hear ya...My stocks/funds are getting smoked up here in Canada too :((

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I've been able to get it up for years. Thank You Viagra :P

The main thing that I know about the US Dollar and the stock market right now is that it will change tomorrow.. Which way I can guess with a flip of a coin (If I have any left) and be as accurate in my prediction

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So with stock prices down, isn't now the best time to buy? Buy low-sell high

no, silly. now is the time to panic.

yesss. like sheep the masses panic in times like these, it's the cool head with a smarts that will prevail in the end.

but who found it and what they will buy with your lost dollar

I dont see a roblem i see opportunity

yeah...opportunity and greed is what go everyone in this mess !!

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better to save money in ruble in russia.dollar can crash in 1 second.

And the ruble is that rock steady bastion of capitalism that I look for when I choose to invest.

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REAL REAL REAL )))

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My guess would be if everything were going great in the real world CC would be a lonely place. Clearly people come here because they find something better than the real world. Sure there is some guilt involved but then what good things don't involve a little guilt?

I wish my virtual becomes real :)))

There is no real World. It is a myth perpetuated by Government.

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I wish I had you....

in virtual i'm 25, handsome, rich and oh yeah did i mention my 10 inches.....lol

I feel good in both worlds because they are different worlds of different friends

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lol!!!

yes

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do you talk to your friends every day & if you miss talking to them one day,does that mean they are no longer your friend? :--)

odd, two members are the only ones answering question to hosts....lol

lol, maybe thier reading skills need some work

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agree

There is something to that, perhaps

For someone who thinks nothing of the little lies, it would follow that the guilt from a larger lie would be somewhat suppressed. That is not to say a white lie is bad, per se, only that a lie without conscience is bad.

Sometimes it is necessary to hold onto the truth because it is not always welcome.Not everyone is equipped to handle the truth all the time.

Thoughtful question, thanks.

TNT

i tend to think that everyone lies.

agree

I disagree, some people I lie to, others I always tell the truth. of course this staement could be a lie also lol

agree

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spoken like an expert :--)

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ii think it was george costanza who said(not verbatim)"if you believe it,it's not really a lie.." :--)

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I am not talking about CC. I am talking about normal life! I have discovered that one girl I know tells alot of lies, and now I question how many lies she says to me! I think if you routinely make lies you will lie to anyone for any reason. The problem with lies is that you must remember who you told lies or you will be caught!

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When a Host meets a guest for a first time, I have no problems with a white lie. I consider that a professional courtesy to START from. And I think guests can understand and appreciate how a host needs to protect her identity and location to begin with, for her own personal safety or private reasons.

The small white lies only become a problem when a Host becomes extra close with a guest (or tells him that she feels an extra strong attraction) and romance enters the equation. When that happens and she STILL continues the white lies...when she won't tell the truth like a real woman in love should, and she holds back all sorts of information about herself...THAT'S when problems (and eventual heart break) are sure to follow.

i never lie...Told my wife i was researching offshore drilling when i am actually here at CC. i guess this is a form of "offshore drilling" so not a lie

chances are senator that ur lying about ur accomplishments at cc too.

Just remember, he's not visiting CC and he won't be raising taxes either...

I think casual and white lies and totally different than big lies. A casual lie is one thats made out of purpose, either for protection or security or when taking ones fellings into account. (not to the extent of lying about an affair cuz it would hurt the other person) :p thats a big lie.

Anyway, a big lie is total and intentional deception for one own benifit. So no I disagree. I think a bigger lie carries more guilt than a casual lie.

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now akina that is a lie

I have no idea... but after looking at her pics... I miss her too! Some luck guy married her... I would not be surprised...

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yes. what u need to know?

Hello,
I am located in Jacksonville, Florida. I am a host here so you can send me CC mail if you have any questions.
Charles

I've been to Jacksonvile Fl (not the same thing I know) I quite liked it, though I was only passing and it was a long time ago. Has it changed much I wonder? Hmmm

TNTWTACAKAW

Rive Gauche (by YSL) on a girl does the business for me:-)

when a girl wears "oldspice" it just drives me crazy lol :)

"Envy me" by Gucci ;"Hypnose" by Lancome:Bulgari "Rose essential" and"Bulgari for Woman:

my favourite is VERSACE"women"

i use paco rabanne ultraviolet and armani code..i been told ange ou demon is nice on a woman..but i never been close enough to a woman to know :(

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looks like we finally have smth in common :D

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High Karate for men and Tidy Bowl Toilet water for women

Damn baby...still asking that question. I told you CK...anything CK...clean yet enticing..and honey...you are so hot you dont need a perfume...trust me...but wear one just in case you have that persistent gas problem again.....kisses

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Opium by Yves St. Laurent

What does it matter online? We can't smell you.

It would really depend on the price difference between open and 121. If is not very much then the chances are I would have been in 121 anyway. If it was around 50% more I may consider it if I found the girl really attractive but if it was 100% more then I would probably not go. These figures are just guidelines as obviously the two prices have to be considered along with the % difference.

sure...I mean in "open" I wouldn't ask to strip - would change to 121 when we get to that point. I do need myself an imagination of privacy and... tenderness(?) If the price seems to high for my "investment" - I don't invest.... :-)

I always prefer to do the show in open chat. If the host insists, then I suggest she open a private session w/password. I dont feel I should have to pay up to twice so she can have privacy. I didnt ask for it, I shouldnt have to pay for it.

i d never want u as my viwer baby thats too much hassle to please u lol

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sorry but i dont understand the logique of your post

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ok i got it sorry i m a bit late in thinking properly today lol

You're funny. You're in Instant Action. The topic of one2one shouldn't even come up. Unless of course I bring it up, which I wouldn't. No need, you're in Instant Action.

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what is all this????
Its up to the lady and what she charges and it is her business - you cant generalise in such things -if you like her and the price is ok whats the problem!!! dont go if you dont wnat just dont make a fuss

not just no but, hell NO

for me money its not a problem,121 or not 121,its not matter,im coming on cc to relax,not to count money,if i want to get pleasure with a girl i will come 121.

It would depend on the cost. If the difference was too great I would pass on the video. There are still several very hot hosts who strip in open video at a reasonable price. And more arrive every day. It still amazes me that hosts will sit all not with no videos because they only do 121 while they could be making money doing it in open.

I go to 121. But I always consider it a favor or special treament if I get treated to one in open.

I would not go to 121, she should provide the same show in open as in pvt. Now if I wanted privacy, I would go to 121 not at her request.

sure i will go 121 for full show,but at first she need to show me underwear in open:)

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nice!!

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Definitely not too skinny dear. I'll come to your video next time I see you online to get a better look.

i wish i was too skinny loool unfortunately i m not!

I meet the most skinny girl in the world at CC. Now she do not work at CC any more. She is my wife. Your loss. Not mine.

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Disagree.

Or perhaps it's called Martini, if they still use the same slogan as they did in the 70s:-)

Damn Buckland you beat me to it :(

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lol!!!

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Can I peek in your Windows!!??

lol (K)

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the eyes... yes... love a set of soul revealing eyes... (K) Deep, dark, endless...

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(K)

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strip club )))

Rocket scientist

Jet pilot )))

President of usa))

Princess of a rich kingdom.

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if you find this job tell me i also want ))

Game ranger, i like wild ))

Neuro surgeon and part time bikini model. I will invest all my earnings to start my own business - a luxury brothel on the 1st floor and porn studio on the 2nd one. LOL

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whatever u decide, i'll hire u :P

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damn! i just noticed im blocked from ur viewing area. well, the opportunity is available if ur still willing. in the meantime, i'll be feeling sorry for myself knowing i wont have the pleasure of getting to know u. :P

Maybe a state by state block, shes from US as am I, and not blocked. ;) Worth a look, maybe sweet talk her into dropping the block. ;)

i dream to have my own sport club,gym,

TV- star or journalist

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hahaha :)))))

heheee

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It all ends with us to... for all you woMEN.. :P

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So, I'll take that as a "no", huh?

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surrrrrrrreeeeeeeeee

men's logic is like women's silence.a contradiction :--)

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Somedays I have different moods. Some days I just like to chat and other days I like ......So it depends on when I visit you no matter what the category

sometimes men have no logic sweetheart! dont bother trying to figure it out the unexplaineble!

Not really sure myself dear. I could guess a couple reasons. Maybe they like a challenge, I mean to get a non adult to do adult a win or something.
Another reason, hard to think of anything else but adult on an adult site.
Yet another reason, maybe they pulled up in a search where the catagory isnt easily seen and they didnt know ( I know that one was lame ) :p
Maybe your one of those girls that switch catagories and they just asking.

As side from all that, I do respect the catogories for what they are, along that line, a funny story, I was hanging in Comm Chat and a host PM'd me with the usual. "Hi, I'm buffy, hur" thing. I check the profile quick and she was form Long term and marrage. I said, "Hi, I'm good, how are you? We chated for another 5 minutes or so, small talk.

Then she says, "why dont you come see me?" I said politly "Just so you know I'm not looking to get married" Figured she'd should know so theres no question about any intentions. She replys" Oh, so your not happy if you dont get to play.." :o whoa!! I tried to explain, thats not it at all, just not looking for a spouse. Went down hill from there. If she has in Glamor, or friends, never would of said anything about not getting married. But she got all bent about it.

I think she was as confused about the catagories as some guys get.

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LOL,imagine paying a compliment to a woman who is the size of a small mountain.

twin peaks?

Unfortunately, least for me, this is more of an alternative more than a inspiration. Admittedly some times I try to bring this, umm, "excitement" home with me to no avail.

Things change in relationships. Keeping it new, Keeping it exciting works for a while. But it eventually the "new becomes old. Oh sure, done the flowers, candy and, how about a date thing. After 20 years, you get in reply, They're just gonna die, you want me fatter than I am, and we cant afford to go out. So you all but give up. ;)

Dont be discouraged though. again, for me, at least I can "vent my frustration" here and still be faithful.

Take Care
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When you are here you are not faithful so dont try to fool us ;)

Then... I should leave my wife and run away with Rosie Palm. Fine!!

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OMG!!! What about our wedding on the beach ? I knew that you were a bluffer...and you even dared to complain that i am the one bluffing tzk-tzk-tzk....men...you can't trust them !

Who said I was a man? :P But its ok my love.. I'm a mormon, I can have many wifes. (K)

This is the place to visit when ur bored because just a click away you can get sex easy. Most girls videos i visit im not especially attracted to even here but at least its pussy... Its same thing as watch a pornomovie or a magasine with nude girls.

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wow you are a real Romeo!

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No. Playing games with teenage girls online in no way prepares most members for dealing with their more mature wives or gfs. We come here to enjoy a fantasy. In the fantasy we are young, sexy and horny again...and we seduce you and you excite us. Unless you know a way of turning our wives and gfs into 18 year old girls....then no...you dont help...in fact you may make us more sad and nostalgic for the lost days of youth.

oh poor meeeeeeee:(( im more then 18:((((( boo hooooooooooo:((

I don't know whether or not you restrict yourself to videos with teenage girls, but in my experience all the best times here have been with women in their 30s or 40s. They have reached an age when they know how their body works, what it responds too, and how to get the best from it. And is great to participate in it with them.

I understand what you are saying. However, women in that age range are readily available to me and many of the men here. I think the appeal of CC to a large extent is the large group of young women in the 18-25 age group. That is a group that is realistically unobtainable for most men in real life if they are in the 40's or 50's. Unless they want to pay dearly or shove them in the trunk of your car.

wow - man you are right and lucky:) having them all! :P sorry couldnt resist
muahaaaaaaaaaa

Hi Nata. Your pictures look just great too me, but then I am from europe:)) You should resist any outside pressure to change your shape. If you like how you look, and so long as it is a healthy weight, nobody's opinion counts except yours.

Definitely not too skinny. Some guys seem to be confusing "well toned" with skinny. However the camera angle in some pics makes your butt and legs look thinner then they are.

Wow I think your pics look great :))))))))))
You are not to skinny LOL, just a very fit girl :)))))

nata, another from europe here, and i think you look just fine, nothing to change, interesting face, cool body, nice legs, tempting bottom, wow, bisous

Your pictures are fine and show your body type to its best advantage. You might want to add some different style pics. I personally like some shots taken in normal life. At the beach, in a dress, in jeans. Not too many but just a few to show how you look everyday outside of CC and to give members an idea of your personality.

well im not sure if being american is good or bad by how you put it
but i think you look really good.

From the US here. I think you look just fine!

I think I see were some may think your too skinny. JMHO, the "Tue 30 Sep 2008 04:36" in the 29 Sept folder. You're arching backwards and your ribs showing alot.

I think this is where some may think you look malnourished. But its because your stretching tight this area making it just look this way. The rest of the pics show a well fit girl.

HTH .02
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Soooooo Clever to get guys to see you well done )) You are a buisinesswomen

I am from the uk and think you look good but you are very slim and are getting possibly close to the too skinny point. I think it is partly the problem that very slim women look better than women who have a bit of weight on them (normal women, possibly slightly overweight but not actually fat) when they are wearing clothes like models but once they don't have the clothes on they can sometimes look a bit too slim/bony/angular whereas the woman with a bit more fat on her can look much sexier/curvier then. I think some of the gymnastic type positions you are posing in in some of the pictures make you look even slimmer than you are - the first 3 sets of photos you have look much healthier/better to me than the 3 more recent ones. Sorry if this sounds too critical - it is just my opinion and you asked for opinions. You are very pretty with a very fit slim body and what I have said is just really a small "but...." at the end of that. Put it this way if I saw you at the beach or in the street I don't think my first thought would be "she is too skinny" ;)

Hi,
I am not from USA. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. In my eyes you are skinny...but what is too skinny. As long as you are ot obsessed with your weight and you eat healthy then its okay i guess. You have a skinny build...nothing wrong with that.

Goodluck

I think you need to eat more pies.

i can cook for her some pies and she will be BBW like me:)))hihi

I am from US and i think you look very beautiful.Would you consider marriage with a skinny man from USA?

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I am from the usa... I say you are not too skinny

Why can you not see how? You think the fact a guy masturbates means he does not deserve respect? How many guys are there who have never masturbated? How many hosts do you think have never tried masturbating? (I don't mean while on cam) As probably almost all members have masturbated here at some time you are effectively saying you can't see how hosts can respect members.

just asking ok ill do it too now ))

I would put it rather differently. As you say, almost all adult humans male and female (host and member) masturbate, and have done so throughout the ages. And always they have used aids as a stimulus to the body or the imagination. CC is merely the 21st century method of preference.

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That is because you are the hottest girl on CC...but then you knew that already didn't you?

I think hosts learn a lot about men when they work here. They realize how central the sexual urge is for many men. They also realize that not every man can satisfy that urge in real life. They are married or in a relationship with a woman who cannot or will not get it done for them, or they physically not as attractive as they should be or once were (older, fatter, balder), or they have or always had problems communicating with women on all levels in real life....emotional, social, psychological. These are not bad men just men with a need that the host is able and willing to meet for a fee. But it is just that. A business transaction. Try to build more into it and you will be disappointed. And lets face it outside of the money these girls would not give you the time of day and would probably call you sir and make a face behind your back. Thus is life.

any human that claims they never masturbate is either frigid, dead, or a liar.

or a limbless wonder :--)

yes we respect them almost as much they respect us!

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anitabella and anitabella:))what about you?

Mursica and Chickory Blue.... I assume we are talking girl girl. A close second would be bonbonx and me but I digress. Kazooooooooooooooooooooo.

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to XextasyX and her friend Monikababe.WOWOWOW...I'll be dreaming for the rest of my life.

Hey amigo...You read my mind. (sorry ladies...I couldn't bite my tongue on this one...lol)

No problem :), i can bite your tongue...gently, slowly...my tongue tracing the shape of your lips :).I can ask my friend if she agrees aswell :) ;)...
Yummmm

YES YES YES YES YES ! WHEN????????
I go fishing today hoping I catch the golden fish

Amen to that! =P

where are the two lush ladies ?

JFYI the 2 hot ones are togheter at the mo Wink-Wink .Now let's start dreamin' hahahahahaha!

We are in bed, having non stop wild sex, i hardly stopped from cumming to write this quick post.Must hurry back...she is an insatiable little hot beast!

i dreaming about 3 some:)some nice combination with inotanangel,anitabella and casablancka.deal?ohh i forget about annabunny;)

How about Annabunny and Annbunny's ego?

Fantasy21 looking in a mirror ))) would be mine

Stefany21 and Glamorous

all think just in sex trust me

everyone i met from here wanted one thing only:sex

that doesnt mean they also got it from me lol

I met someone just as friends.
(:

I went to russia 16 hours of travel for 2 days to meet host as friend no sex )) and it was great the best . If i had choice id do it again .

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only tea sorry i cant meet you ))

Lets face it men are attracted to CC for the beautiful women and the prospect of them getting naked. Friendship...though it happens...is not the main objective. Hosts are also a bit wary of members and to a great extent hold them in contempt. Do you really think women think guys who pay money to masturbate are cool? But I digress. In 5 years of experience here I thought I was friends with a few hosts only to find out that they were entertained by me, or liked the fact I was a regular in their video, or I was there to listen to their problems. Real friendship is a rare thing in any environment...here it is like trying to grow an orchid in the middle of a desert. Miracles happen but not often. If you are going to visit someone do it for sex and save yourself the heartbreak.

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Depends on what you want if you want a fling and never see her again fine . If you want more it will happen when time is right

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what's wrong with sex?

true - but i have met about 25 hosts and none of them fucked me

yea... you're crazy. But you're not alone bro.

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But after dinner who knows )))

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Im trying to figure it out too )))

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In addition to the money I have wasted hundreds maybe thousands of hours here. It has curtailed I lot of things I used to do. Going to the Gym, going out with friends, reading, doing a lot of simple things I enjoyed. A curse.

My Point exactly ))