General Forum
RE: Reasons too
as a great man once said, "I'm not paying for the sex; I can find plenty of girls to have sex with me. I'm paying for her to go away after"
RE: Actions and reactions
Why you want a man from here? Most men dont want long relationship with a woman they know is or have been model to many guys. I dont know any of my friends or from my work who would accept it. Its better look somewhere else to find a man where they dont know much about your work here.
RE: Actions and reactions
I think it's easier to find a man from here because he already knows what you are doing and there is no need to explain and I am pretty sure many guys are ok with it as long as it's only on cam and the girl wouldn't meet her viewers when in a relationship.
Polish girls
not to stereotype but what i find weirdis i will meet a polish girl on a site in nonadult. She is there like a few days and dissappears. Do they switch to a adult group or what.
RE: Polish girls
Some girls come and go on CC. It is truly a part time job for some. They either decide it is not worth it, they make the money they needed for something special, their real life schedule or living situation has changed...lots of reasons. The cool part is now and then a long gone fav returns....
RE: Polish girls
dont wrry about Polish girls here - do yourself a favor and get to Warsaw. By FAR the best city in Europe for girls. BAR NONE. Oh, the stories I could tell....
big money in non adult
Guys want what they can't have. I can't believe these hosts can make a fortune by just smiling and saying sorry I won't do that. If they sometimes slip across to glamour guys see it and try even harder.
God bless c.c.!!
God bless c.c.!!
RE: big money in non adult
fionochka, naughtybunny - not in ia at present, sweetpeggy, MYBEATY4U, pussycatdoll, xlucylovex, hotsonya
RE: big money in non adult
Err...McFly....many of the non-adult hosts will glady move to Glamour or other adult category on request. In non-adult they have less competition from other hosts and allow you to believe you are seducing a "nice" girl who show nothing into a nude private show just for you. It is a great marketing idea and it works. The number of true nonadult hosts is quite small...but their personalities, english skills, and low price keep them busy and making money.
RE: big money in non adult
I don't need tits and pussies to be happy as well - and i am a man! Sort of ... :)
Joke
Brenda and Steve took their six-year-old son to the doctor.
With some hesitation, they explained that although their
little angel appeared to be in good health, they were concerned about his rather small penis.
After examining the child, the doctor confidently declared, 'Just feed him pancakes. That should solve the problem.'
The next morning when the boy arrived at breakfast, there
was a large stack of warm pan cakes in the middle of the table.
'Gee, Mom,' he exclaimed. 'For me?'
'Just take two,' Brenda replied. 'The rest are for your father
With some hesitation, they explained that although their
little angel appeared to be in good health, they were concerned about his rather small penis.
After examining the child, the doctor confidently declared, 'Just feed him pancakes. That should solve the problem.'
The next morning when the boy arrived at breakfast, there
was a large stack of warm pan cakes in the middle of the table.
'Gee, Mom,' he exclaimed. 'For me?'
'Just take two,' Brenda replied. 'The rest are for your father
This is a different request.
I have enjoyed meeting and talking to many people here. Can you tell me in one sentence something special about your country. This is to all members and hosts.
RE: This is a different request.
The food is great indeed)))) Meat omg)))) Ah and there is smth special abt ur country also))) Alex)))
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Bebe you flatter me, i'm just one of the black sheeps here lol...but this place became better when your plane landed and you stepped on Romanian groud :-)( the guys from Trattoria Il calcio are witnesses lol)...pity u had to go back (K)
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The food in romania is good? That is an overstatement. But ofcourse if you are from Romania you should be proud of what your country has to offer...Anyway the woman and the nature are beautifull
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from USA... at our best, we are a warm and embracing people, respectful of diversity and differing views. In my children's schools there are dozens of nationalities represented; they count among their friends kids of ethnically diverse backgrounds: Pakistanis, Indians, Central Americans, South Americans, Africans, African-Americans, Vietnamese, Filipino, Samoans, Chinese, western Europeans, eastern Europeans... it goes on.
And I myself am Okinawan, Swedish, & English/Scottish, the child of deaf parents who is a musician.
We are a nation of mutts :)))))
And I myself am Okinawan, Swedish, & English/Scottish, the child of deaf parents who is a musician.
We are a nation of mutts :)))))
RE: This is a different request.
I agree with HooDooBoy. I am also from USA and I see the diversity of the people here in the USA. Several of the individuals within my small range of friends are descendents of mexican, canadian, russian, dutch, german, native american, chinese, japanese, pacific island, romanian, french, and many more cultures. The diversity does not end there, but includes diversity of religion and other areas. That is the reason it appears that we differ in our wishes, but if needed we are known as the United States of America, That is what unites us in times of problems.
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born in Germany and living here: because of our bear especially in Bavaria :D
Croatia: warm, lovely, loud, bubbly and passionate people with a big heart...wonderful country side and the adria :)
Croatia: warm, lovely, loud, bubbly and passionate people with a big heart...wonderful country side and the adria :)
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i am from malta but i gues most of you dont know where its is since it is so small island.
about my country i can say that it is very small compared to most counties but even though it is so small, we have a very interisting history....from prehistoric temples which are amongst the oldest man made buildings(much older than the pyramids of egypt)...knights of malta(of the order of st john)...and also history which we got from the many civilizations that ruled our country throughout the past ages.
we have also wonderful beaches and very good weather for people who want some sun in summer. also the people here are very kind and criminality rate is very low...so it is one of the safest countries i know.
for persons who want night life we have good discos...etc
i will stop here about my country because i cannot tell all, but i hope it is enough special like u wanted
about my country i can say that it is very small compared to most counties but even though it is so small, we have a very interisting history....from prehistoric temples which are amongst the oldest man made buildings(much older than the pyramids of egypt)...knights of malta(of the order of st john)...and also history which we got from the many civilizations that ruled our country throughout the past ages.
we have also wonderful beaches and very good weather for people who want some sun in summer. also the people here are very kind and criminality rate is very low...so it is one of the safest countries i know.
for persons who want night life we have good discos...etc
i will stop here about my country because i cannot tell all, but i hope it is enough special like u wanted
RE: This is a different request.
France..... with our good way of life, the best food of the world..... nice monuments (especially in Paris, but not only), each region totally different (mountains, sea, ocean...), old culture with litterature, philosophy, science...., our hard but beautiful language, our democratie and our stupid president, the famous romantism.... hehe, and me...... :P
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oooh, i also forgot for the cliches..... that we eat frog legs and snails.......
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I said best food of the world hehe...... and yes, it includes our famous cheese which smells bad but taste good and wine..... :P
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serbia - lil country where east and west meet - ruled by Turks for 500 years but still kept its tradition and habits (proud and stubborn but open to all cultures); orthodox and celebrating old gods as new saints - lol
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England...no generalisations can be wholly accurate, but our tolerance, eccentricity, and self-deprecation
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Russian strong spirit)))) Nothing and noone can break it)))))
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I add for Russia:
Russian incredible history and lovely nature...People with big giving hearts...Their ability to survive in conditions when no one else could.
Oh...and something special in my opinion: "to make a sweet from the shit"...it is a Russian saying, means the one can create something almost from nothing...or fix almost everything without having the proper instruments )))
Russian incredible history and lovely nature...People with big giving hearts...Their ability to survive in conditions when no one else could.
Oh...and something special in my opinion: "to make a sweet from the shit"...it is a Russian saying, means the one can create something almost from nothing...or fix almost everything without having the proper instruments )))
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Thank you everyone for a great post. One thing is sure I wish i had the money to travel to all of your countries and them. We are all richly blessed with special things. Thanks again.
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We are in love with life, unyielding in a crisis, ready to spill our blood and sweat for anyone's freedom. We are passionate, even fearsome in numbers but gentle and charming alone. We celebrate success as hard as we lament hardship. We are everywhere but we still belong in Ireland.
Síochán leat
Síochán leat
RE: This is a different request.
Your post makes me remember of a old'ish portuguese joke i heard ages ago. It will be hard to translate, but it goes something like this...
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So we have some sinner mofo who died and went straight to the gates of hell. In there, he found a little devil who asked him:
- So, do you want to go to the portuguese or the german (insert whatever country here) hell?
So the bugger asked him what the difference was.
- Well, there is a wall that separates both hells. In the portuguese hell, you will have to eat a bucket of sh*t for breakfast, lunch and dinner. Every single day. Then the devil himself will drag you to the hell's fire, roast you, and afterwards you are allowed to go to sleep. The german hell is pretty much the same, but instead of a bucket of sh*t you will only get a small plate of it.
The silly mofo didn't even think twice and chose the german hell.
When he finally got there, he noticed that everybody on his side was felling down and sad, whereas on the other side of the wall you could hear a huge party and lots of laughter going on.
Since he couldn't help himself, he climbed the wall and yelled for someone:
- Hey, guys! Why are you so happy? On this side, we get to eat a small plate of sh*t and we all feel miserable, while you, despite having to eat a bucket of it, party all the time...
- Well, this is Portugal: One day you miss the bucket, on the other day you miss the sh*t... sometimes the devil doesn't even show up, while on the next day you have some lame holiday going on. And we lack the wood to make the fire quite often. This is how we live, constant partying!
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This is not to be taken literally lol, we do have some great food ;-)
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So we have some sinner mofo who died and went straight to the gates of hell. In there, he found a little devil who asked him:
- So, do you want to go to the portuguese or the german (insert whatever country here) hell?
So the bugger asked him what the difference was.
- Well, there is a wall that separates both hells. In the portuguese hell, you will have to eat a bucket of sh*t for breakfast, lunch and dinner. Every single day. Then the devil himself will drag you to the hell's fire, roast you, and afterwards you are allowed to go to sleep. The german hell is pretty much the same, but instead of a bucket of sh*t you will only get a small plate of it.
The silly mofo didn't even think twice and chose the german hell.
When he finally got there, he noticed that everybody on his side was felling down and sad, whereas on the other side of the wall you could hear a huge party and lots of laughter going on.
Since he couldn't help himself, he climbed the wall and yelled for someone:
- Hey, guys! Why are you so happy? On this side, we get to eat a small plate of sh*t and we all feel miserable, while you, despite having to eat a bucket of it, party all the time...
- Well, this is Portugal: One day you miss the bucket, on the other day you miss the sh*t... sometimes the devil doesn't even show up, while on the next day you have some lame holiday going on. And we lack the wood to make the fire quite often. This is how we live, constant partying!
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This is not to be taken literally lol, we do have some great food ;-)
Lifechanging
What is the one single thing that could make your life so much better and what stops you from achieving it?
RE: Lifechanging
My first thought was a wife I love and find amazingly sexy but then I realised that I have become too selfish and am so used to just doing things when I want without having to consider another person's feelings. What stopped me achieving it is I am a right ugly bugger.
So being a multi millionaire. Then I could have the advantages of having a beautiful sexy wife without the hassles (i.e. sex). What is stopping me acheiving it is I am a right lazy bugger. Plus I haven't won the Euro lottery yet :(
But, ally, just in case you meant something else other than just money. Being able to write music that people wanted to hear (and to be able to sing it would be good). What is stopping me achieving it is I am a right talentless bugger.
Ally I only think it's fair that the person who poses the question also answers it. So lets hear yours.
So being a multi millionaire. Then I could have the advantages of having a beautiful sexy wife without the hassles (i.e. sex). What is stopping me acheiving it is I am a right lazy bugger. Plus I haven't won the Euro lottery yet :(
But, ally, just in case you meant something else other than just money. Being able to write music that people wanted to hear (and to be able to sing it would be good). What is stopping me achieving it is I am a right talentless bugger.
Ally I only think it's fair that the person who poses the question also answers it. So lets hear yours.
RE: Lifechanging
For me it would be to start my life again from age 11 knowing what I know now, i.e. it would have been better since then to have engaged my brain first before speaking, spending money, fucking etc...... Everything was ok up to 11, then downhill ever since. :-(
RE: Lifechanging
I would re-start my life ... live in a place that no one would know me and b the person i know that i really could b if i was given the chance
RE: Lifechanging
An interesting and thought provoking response I think.
Please tell, if you would, what would you be, which you are not now, and what now stops you from so being? Best wishes to you.
Please tell, if you would, what would you be, which you are not now, and what now stops you from so being? Best wishes to you.
RE: Lifechanging
i would live on a farm....i could grow grapes...my vineyard would be small my vintages coveted my family...all of them...barefoot....and i would wake up each day to the smell of dew on soil.....or i would have a life as a produce grocer.....my shop would be small and tucked away on a lazy street....it would be infamous because each piece of fruit and every single vegetable would be hand selected by me.....i would get up before the sunrise each day....i would joke with my regulars and make an honest living.....each day i would close up shop shortly after the lunch hour rush share a fresh mango with my wife and then make lazy afternoon love to her before my siesta.....however this wont happen as it is impossible to trade lives overnight and requires a lot of dedication to make a change...im not that kinda person
RE: Lifechanging
hang upside down for 15 mins every day for 2 weeks and u'll get that extra cm.....i tried doin that to make my cock bigger but it didnt work :(
RE: Lifechanging
how can hanging upsides down from your feet make your cock bigger?i think i see a proplem in you plan shy.
RE: Lifechanging
Coz hangin upside down by a small cock can mean you swing and hang the right way up by merely coughing ..... ruins the whole geometric karma ...... thought everyone would know that!
RE: Lifechanging
Keep trying, being a cabin crew member is a fun job. I know, I've done it for 17 years!
RE: Lifechanging
The one thing that could make my life better and truly worthwhile isn't an object or a thing. I know a lot of people will read the question and then pick the usual obvious choices. They'll say fame or money or shallow things like that. But time moves on and fame is always fleeting. And no matter how big your bank account is, money can't buy you real inner happiness or give you true spiritual peace. Those things can only come from within the human heart.
So, if we're comparing wishes, the ONE thing that would make MY life so much better would be having back the heart and love of a girl I once lost. The most special woman I've ever been blessed to know, who was beautiful both inside and out. As for the other half of the question -- what stops me from achieving that? Well, there was another man in her life as well. And for reasons that I won't bore you with here, she chose to be with him instead.
Is he better looking than me? Well, I don't know. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Will he be more successful than me? Maybe...then again, maybe not. The way I see it, money can always be made one way or another. So that brings up the most important question of all. Will he love her more than me?
Well, I can promise you this -- Never. Not in a million years. No one will ever love her more than I did then... than I do now... and that I will love her for all the days to come and till the stars grow cold.
So, if we're comparing wishes, the ONE thing that would make MY life so much better would be having back the heart and love of a girl I once lost. The most special woman I've ever been blessed to know, who was beautiful both inside and out. As for the other half of the question -- what stops me from achieving that? Well, there was another man in her life as well. And for reasons that I won't bore you with here, she chose to be with him instead.
Is he better looking than me? Well, I don't know. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Will he be more successful than me? Maybe...then again, maybe not. The way I see it, money can always be made one way or another. So that brings up the most important question of all. Will he love her more than me?
Well, I can promise you this -- Never. Not in a million years. No one will ever love her more than I did then... than I do now... and that I will love her for all the days to come and till the stars grow cold.
RE: Lifechanging
i would wait for love...insist on being with my soulmate or staying alone...she exists...i know her...she is my best friend...she is beautiful inside and out, and oh so very smart....she shares her soul with me,,,and yet the obstacles to a relationship in the real world are overwhelming it seems in this lifetime...and so i remain as best i can... her friend. (for now...hehe)
RE: Brasil vs Italy
yes, good luck to both!
and please Italy, let's be good sports and play respectfully okay?:)
and please Italy, let's be good sports and play respectfully okay?:)
RE: Brasil vs Italy
Do you really think the Italian National Team footballers read this forum??? :)
RE: Brasil vs Italy
Beware the next games! Spain just won its 15th game in a row (a World record) and was undefeated for 35 games in a row. USA in semi-final, Brazil next? Who is betting?
question
what would you do if you find out your husband is lying to you???with little things not big things?
RE: question
there is a saying"from small things,big things grow.":in my opinion best to nip it in the bud,confront him.even telling you small lies is a sign of disrespect but in the end only you know the best way for you to handle it.good luck whatever you decide :--)
RE: question
Depends on how you define "little things" for example. My wife (at the time) at I were getting ready to go out for evening and much to my surprise she was dressed and ready nearly an hour ahead of time. She asked, "How do I look?" to which I responded, "You look great tonight. I love the dress." So she did exactly what I should have expected, she went and changed. Again she asked, "How do I look" by know figuring she's fishing for compliments "You look good" and left it at that. Again she went and changed. Again she asks and by now I'm down to, "You look OK" the scenerio repeated itself 3 more times, each answer getting less complimentary. Finally she comes out from changing yet again and asks "How do I look" so I decide it's time for complete honesty, "You look 10 years older and 20 pounds heavier, but there's no time left to change -- get in the car." A word to the wise, never say this to a woman unless your health insurance is paid up and you don't mind being incapacitated for several weeks.
RE: question
Maybe you can ask yourself whether it happens to you to do it and for which reasons. It may then give you a hint about the course of action you'd like to take. He may have reasons to hide you some things to which you over-react and that he doesn't find important. Best is to clarify, but not as at police station, try to find a smiling way to do it gently
RE: question
Ask yourself if you also sometimes make small lies, if not then confront him with it and ask him why he does it, either do it in a easy going no big deal way or next time your having your bdsm session and you have him handcuffed to the bed with his balls in a pair of pliers.
RE: question
If I found out my HUSBAND was telling me lies the thing I would do is to quit drinking now.
And Tisme I have something which disproves your rule :D
And Tisme I have something which disproves your rule :D
RE: question
Sometimes we men are very busy and forget to do things we said we would.
Sometimes we men know damn well that admitting that our excuse of being too busy to do that small thing will lead to our poor busy balls being chewed off and having a stupid fight over a stupid oversight.
Sometimes we busy men love our partners just too much to cause ill feeling and will make amends to do the task later quietly.
Sometimes we men however are just born to sit around and scratch ourselves .....
We men are just complex creatures that are so easily misunderstood and hurt .... you should just forgive us poor men at every possible opportunity!
Sometimes we men know damn well that admitting that our excuse of being too busy to do that small thing will lead to our poor busy balls being chewed off and having a stupid fight over a stupid oversight.
Sometimes we busy men love our partners just too much to cause ill feeling and will make amends to do the task later quietly.
Sometimes we men however are just born to sit around and scratch ourselves .....
We men are just complex creatures that are so easily misunderstood and hurt .... you should just forgive us poor men at every possible opportunity!
RE: question
And what was his reaction when you lied to him? Or are you a saint and never did so?
hmm..
hmm,i've been noticing all if the talk about finding a gf here.you mean to tell me after all of this time that i've been here,it's true?now you tell me.guess i better start looking then.any takers? lol
RE: hmm..
I've been considering it too. Going so long without a GF I've nearly forgotten what it was like to be dumped -- maybe it's time for a refresher course.
RE: hmm..
Oh, you dont know what you've been missing. I find a gf here every week and get dumped every weekend. Feels great! Anybody beat my record?
RE: hmm..
Me. I get 15-20 bfs every day and the majority dump me after a few sessions of up to half an hour lol
RE: hmm..
wow.now that's pretty sad.with all of the lovely ladies here i haven't had one offer to be my gf.i'm pathetic.lol
chathost request - three lovely ladies together
hi. i would very much like to have a show with three lovely ladies, all in same room. nothing too crazy, really just want them to watch me. willing to pay $5/min... if interested, write me email at cc. :)
For those who remember me
It has been 5 longs years since I went crazy and this place is not to blame but was just the catalyst and along the jouney I have grown and learned lots...
I am glad to say my father has not passed away yet due to cancer so I get to spend this fathers day with him and woman were hard for me to develope relationships with but I have a full time job I got a promotions in 6 months with and I have two amazing friends in Vanessa and Samantha :-)
I hope everyone else is doing well also....
I am glad to say my father has not passed away yet due to cancer so I get to spend this fathers day with him and woman were hard for me to develope relationships with but I have a full time job I got a promotions in 6 months with and I have two amazing friends in Vanessa and Samantha :-)
I hope everyone else is doing well also....
RE: For those who remember me
my impression from reading your post is,more importantly than those things you mentioned is you are at peace & content with yourself. anyway happy to read your optimism & happiness.may it last long :--)
RE: For those who remember me
Cool.....Live long and prosper!!!!!....That includes your father and the rest of your family too!!!!!.
RE: For those who remember me
Host or member? What was your screen name if a host? Just curious. I have been here a long time but I went crazy long before my first video here.
RE: For those who remember me
Yes I remember you (I used to post as AssMan). Glad to hear that you both you and your father are okay. But you still owe Psy and I a kitkat :P
Oh and some of your posts on here certainly were crazy lol.
Oh and some of your posts on here certainly were crazy lol.
RE: Frienship with benefits
friendship has intangible benefits as a given,not sure there are any tangible benefits as a given :--)
RE: Frienship with benefits
no strings attached f**k buddies...or some might say, "a perfect relationship".
MyLoveDreamStory
Real love story memb / host is possible... I met my fav host for real, and OMG !!! OMG ! OMG !!! ... she is even much more beautiful in real ...
fall in love, make love with her... and make cum such dream creature, it's a true love dream for me,... I'm full of love now ...
Now she starts have strong feels too and she wants move to my country for real too, to live with me...
I'm very happy boy ever. I'm just a little afraid she can move so fast, and leave all her family, friends, country and culture ... Here, she will know only me, she does not know my language, my country ... she will be like lost without me all time ...
I want she comes live with me... but... am I true to think it is too fast for her ? ...
any good advices, girls ?
fall in love, make love with her... and make cum such dream creature, it's a true love dream for me,... I'm full of love now ...
Now she starts have strong feels too and she wants move to my country for real too, to live with me...
I'm very happy boy ever. I'm just a little afraid she can move so fast, and leave all her family, friends, country and culture ... Here, she will know only me, she does not know my language, my country ... she will be like lost without me all time ...
I want she comes live with me... but... am I true to think it is too fast for her ? ...
any good advices, girls ?
RE: MyLoveDreamStory
What countries are we talking about here? Wont she be able to talk english in your country? How long do you know each other? Why dont you try first a shorter period (like a month) or something to see how it goes?
RE: MyLoveDreamStory
yes you are right, me ... good idea a month first, me and her, together ... just... She wants move fast fast, and cant" wait for ...
btw... she is from Eastern Europe, and me Western ...
btw... she is from Eastern Europe, and me Western ...
RE: MyLoveDreamStory
let her get a holiday visa first, 3 months maximum allowed i believe, btw are you sure your western?
RE: MyLoveDreamStory
if ur not sure about it dont go ahead so fast coz ur only gonna regret it when it goes tits up and u realise she only used u for a way out of her country
RE: MyLoveDreamStory
well I know her since many months before I met her once in real... She asked me first fior meeting, and she is nice mind and honest girl, so ... she does not try abuse me, and she never asked me money or try me go in video all times ....
and she so wants be here ... live new life ... new love ....
and she so wants be here ... live new life ... new love ....
if...
you found out u had only a 1 month to live what would your thoughts b who would u tell and what would u do till ur final day?
RE: if...
to the guys: i got one month to live so don't fuck with me! or i'll take you down too! hahaha
to the gals: comon baby! i only got one month to live! ))))))
to the gals: comon baby! i only got one month to live! ))))))
RE: if...
my brother in law's sister's boyfriend had 6 months most to live from a brain tumour.. and she just lost her brother last year :((( i really can't imagine what she is gonig through
RE: if...
I would apply for a dozen credits cards and do days on end of 121 videos with Monica.....
RE: if...
why put off til tomorrow(or in a month)what you can do today,is the saying. i'd commit suicide save a lot of time & trouble :--)
RE: if...
As far as I know breast cancer can be treated with surgery and after you get well surgeons can "repair" the missing breast...
as for the subject...I wouldnt want to think or live the situation. Although we should live every second and minute of each day as are the last...
as for the subject...I wouldnt want to think or live the situation. Although we should live every second and minute of each day as are the last...
RE: if...
U r kidding isnt it. Do u think is the best solution, go to a hospital with pacients in terminal stage and u'll get over this non-sense. I saw them is not a great picture. I know u think is the best solution but it isnt. Go and treat yourself, go now, maybe they can still save ur breast. I'm not very good with words, but please go there and treat yourself, is not that bad, u can live many years after the operation, and u have only one life. Please go to a doctor do at least the treatement if u dont want to do the operation, but dont stay home, it's suicide. Kisses girl
RE: if...
if i found out i had only a 1 month to live i would spend it with my dear peoples,with my famaly.no others ways more,
RE: if...
Assuming I was going to be in good health right up to the point I died I would take a few daya alone to let the idea sink in. Then I would tell my family, go away for a week and spend every penny I have save on high class escorts. Once that had gone I would have one final blow out on my credit cards or any loans I could get on hiring 5 - 8 high class escorts for a round 8 hours,
Then I'd come home and spend my last few days with family and friends and reflect on the pretty good life I have had :)
Then I'd come home and spend my last few days with family and friends and reflect on the pretty good life I have had :)
Any potential gf here?
My gf havent been so honest to me about her past to me and im dissapointed so im thinking become member here maybe find other gf an visit her this summer. Any nice single girls here?
RE: Any potential gf here?
Yes and despite them being so gorgeous, almost none of them have a man in their life. Well, except their fav viewers in 1-2-1 ofc.
RE: Any potential gf here?
i see u already learnt to b like us other members and tell the only lie we need
RE: Any potential gf here?
Although unfortunately not young enough or good looking enough to keep the girl :P
RE: Any potential gf here?
wait...........you mean to tell me that i can actually find a gf here? after so many years of being here,you tell me this now?lol wish i could find a gf here. :( lol
RE: Any potential gf here?
Short answer no. Anything is possible but there is so much to overcome (age, distance, language, culture, visas, trust, expense, family, etc) it is unlikely. If you mean short term gf to chat with online or even to visit for frienship with benefits...then sure. That has happened quite a few times here. If you are talking about love, marriage, children and a long happy life together...that is as elusive as the truth on CC.
RE: Any potential gf here?
I know who I am looking for...Triksy...and she is gone from CC ....
RE: Any potential gf here?
never say never Darling...so don't be so sure that you will stay singel....i am working on you...and i am the real angeldash lover so.....you can't not resite me to long
RE: Any potential gf here?
are you working on me??? ok show me what you have? i am curious to know....so work on me prety baby
RE: Any potential gf here?
you not avaible dash my angel????? so it means you will not work on me and tease me???? to bad i at enjoy your teasing and flirthing
RE: Any potential gf here?
WOOOHOOOOO!!!!!!!!!! Please flirt with me, I love it. :P Although I am pretty good at teasing too. ;)
RE: Any potential gf here?
so beter you tease me, and who say i wanted you as my gf?? maybe i want you as my .............
RE: Any potential gf here?
so don't read if it border you.......don't be so curious to read every thinks you see
RE: Any potential gf here?
You might think that you know who I am although, I doubt it. I am very mysterious.... You are correct though my teasing is not that great. Now that I think about it, I am not good at flirting also. I guess I will just be quiet and observe so I can learn. :)
RE: Any potential gf here?
Hey ! Take care !! of course you can find your gf here but take care , i had a story IRL with a girl here and she was not honnest with me. Of course there are a lot of good girsl here but dont forget than first most of them come here to win their life not to find love.
RE: Any potential gf here?
what i like in this question is the "nice" potential gf ;) we now where is the interest ;)
RE: Any golfers out there?
If i took part in the competition i sure wud beat him, but those golf pants are not my style)))) Ure lucky this time, Adam))))
RE: Any golfers out there?
Hey Monika, If you're fit to hoist my bag and slip the hood off my wood you could caddy for me!
I'm usually straight up the middle, but do tend to get stuck in the rough now and again
I'm usually straight up the middle, but do tend to get stuck in the rough now and again
RE: Any golfers out there?
I only golfed once and was thrown off the course and banned for fighting (Hey, hockey's in my blood, what can I say..)
I may go streaking at one of the tournaments some time though.
I may go streaking at one of the tournaments some time though.
RE: Any golfers out there?
LOL - you'd fit right in with my crowd. You Canadian too? Go LEAFS Go!!! ;))
RE: Any golfers out there?
Get your mind out of the gutter K. I hope you're talking "platonically" :P lol
It takes the STRONGEST heart of all...
Down below, Redandmad reacted to "Miserable Gutted Member's" post by saying "I'm really sorry for you, but everybody said how bad all hosts are! Anyone counted how many host's hearts were hurt?
Mine too!" Well, you know something? She's right. There ARE skunky guys who will come to a Host and say all kinds of things. And then they don't follow through on any of their promises. So, Redandmad, you have a good reason to go "Grrrrrr" and be mad because of the times you've been hurt. As I said the other day in the Viewer's Forum, we have a problem here and there's no easy answer to it. And it goes like this...
Every so often a guy meets a Host. They are both single (or perhaps they're seeing someone, but they're open to the idea of possibly moving on)... sparks fly between them... talks about a REAL romance start to fill the air... and that's when trouble sets in. And that's because so many guys have met Hosts who will say "Baby, you're not like the other guys. YOU are very special to me." And that's when we -- as guys -- start to give in to our feelings and wildest dreams. Deep inside we KNOW we should stay cool and calm. We KNOW the odds are against us for meeting a single, beautiful Host who romantically likes us back. But maybe...just maybe...this time we've met someone really special. Sure, it may seem crazy at first to meet the girl of your dreams while she works as a cam girl -- to meet the girl you want to spend the rest of your life with while she's chatting up or stripping for LOTS of other guys -- but sometimes fate and magic step in.
And for the Host, it's a chance -- yes, that one in a million chance -- to also meet the man of her dreams. Someone who will love her for who she really is... no matter what country she comes from or what her life and background is. It's a chance to BE in love… it's a chance at a fresh start… and best of all, it's a chance to actually BUILD a life with someone she cares about. And that's something we all want, no? So who could blame a Host (or any woman) for having a romantic dream like that?
Unfortunately, the guy has heard the "Baby, YOU are special to me" line so many times, from all the other Hosts who were only after his money or who finally revealed that she really does have a BF or husband in her life. So, now as he meets this NEW host, he finds it very hard to believe that he's REALLY so special to her. So now his sense of distrust...his need to protect himself…blocks out the love that he wants to feel and give into so much.
Meanwhile, the Host has heard so many promises from so many guys, she figures this New Guy -- who is saying he really, really cares for her -- is just going to be another disappointment. She figures she might as well say and do whatever it takes to make money while she can. After all, she figures he's just going to dump her and move on to another Host the first chance he gets. So now she does the same thing -- to protect herself, she closes a big part of her heart TOO.
And that's when the SADDEST thing happens. Because that's when two people who had a real chance at love start going around in circles... like a dog chasing his own tail... because each one WANTS to trust the other... each one is HOPING its love... yet each one is SO skeptical from all of their previous heartbreaks and disappointments that they're just waiting for the other person to screw up.
No, it's worse than that -- they're counting on it. And that's when they start to play silly mind games on each other, just waiting to see when the other person will say or do something that will allow them to say "AHA! I KNEW I couldn't trust you! I KNEW you were lying to me!" And that's when they go their separate ways -- angry and hurt--- and the Guy kicks a rock in the road and grumbles "All hosts are alike" and the girl turns off her computer and sheds a tear and says "All guests are alike." And sadly, two people who COULD have found love break up just because they couldn't get past their trust issues.
And THAT is the curse of falling in love online. NOT because the girl works as a Host showing her goodies to lots of guys, and NOT because the guy came here initially looking for some sexy fun. Deep inside, BOTH of them could actually be very good people. The curse is that when you fall in love online -- whether you are a Host or a Guest -- you need to have the strongest will of all to make it work, and you need to trust in another person more than you've probably ever believed in someone in your entire life. And I've said this before and I'll say it again: THAT takes the STRONGEST heart of all.
Mine too!" Well, you know something? She's right. There ARE skunky guys who will come to a Host and say all kinds of things. And then they don't follow through on any of their promises. So, Redandmad, you have a good reason to go "Grrrrrr" and be mad because of the times you've been hurt. As I said the other day in the Viewer's Forum, we have a problem here and there's no easy answer to it. And it goes like this...
Every so often a guy meets a Host. They are both single (or perhaps they're seeing someone, but they're open to the idea of possibly moving on)... sparks fly between them... talks about a REAL romance start to fill the air... and that's when trouble sets in. And that's because so many guys have met Hosts who will say "Baby, you're not like the other guys. YOU are very special to me." And that's when we -- as guys -- start to give in to our feelings and wildest dreams. Deep inside we KNOW we should stay cool and calm. We KNOW the odds are against us for meeting a single, beautiful Host who romantically likes us back. But maybe...just maybe...this time we've met someone really special. Sure, it may seem crazy at first to meet the girl of your dreams while she works as a cam girl -- to meet the girl you want to spend the rest of your life with while she's chatting up or stripping for LOTS of other guys -- but sometimes fate and magic step in.
And for the Host, it's a chance -- yes, that one in a million chance -- to also meet the man of her dreams. Someone who will love her for who she really is... no matter what country she comes from or what her life and background is. It's a chance to BE in love… it's a chance at a fresh start… and best of all, it's a chance to actually BUILD a life with someone she cares about. And that's something we all want, no? So who could blame a Host (or any woman) for having a romantic dream like that?
Unfortunately, the guy has heard the "Baby, YOU are special to me" line so many times, from all the other Hosts who were only after his money or who finally revealed that she really does have a BF or husband in her life. So, now as he meets this NEW host, he finds it very hard to believe that he's REALLY so special to her. So now his sense of distrust...his need to protect himself…blocks out the love that he wants to feel and give into so much.
Meanwhile, the Host has heard so many promises from so many guys, she figures this New Guy -- who is saying he really, really cares for her -- is just going to be another disappointment. She figures she might as well say and do whatever it takes to make money while she can. After all, she figures he's just going to dump her and move on to another Host the first chance he gets. So now she does the same thing -- to protect herself, she closes a big part of her heart TOO.
And that's when the SADDEST thing happens. Because that's when two people who had a real chance at love start going around in circles... like a dog chasing his own tail... because each one WANTS to trust the other... each one is HOPING its love... yet each one is SO skeptical from all of their previous heartbreaks and disappointments that they're just waiting for the other person to screw up.
No, it's worse than that -- they're counting on it. And that's when they start to play silly mind games on each other, just waiting to see when the other person will say or do something that will allow them to say "AHA! I KNEW I couldn't trust you! I KNEW you were lying to me!" And that's when they go their separate ways -- angry and hurt--- and the Guy kicks a rock in the road and grumbles "All hosts are alike" and the girl turns off her computer and sheds a tear and says "All guests are alike." And sadly, two people who COULD have found love break up just because they couldn't get past their trust issues.
And THAT is the curse of falling in love online. NOT because the girl works as a Host showing her goodies to lots of guys, and NOT because the guy came here initially looking for some sexy fun. Deep inside, BOTH of them could actually be very good people. The curse is that when you fall in love online -- whether you are a Host or a Guest -- you need to have the strongest will of all to make it work, and you need to trust in another person more than you've probably ever believed in someone in your entire life. And I've said this before and I'll say it again: THAT takes the STRONGEST heart of all.
RE: It takes the STRONGEST heart of all...
Nice post, RC, and very romantic...
Not all of us are looking for our true loves here :P
Perhaps the best we can do is to realize that each person is an individual, with his or her own dreams and flaws, and to avoid lumping a host or viewer with the "rest of them." And to remain open-hearted to possibilities, despite the hurts inflicted by others.
Forgiveness, no less than trust, takes a strong heart.
Not all of us are looking for our true loves here :P
Perhaps the best we can do is to realize that each person is an individual, with his or her own dreams and flaws, and to avoid lumping a host or viewer with the "rest of them." And to remain open-hearted to possibilities, despite the hurts inflicted by others.
Forgiveness, no less than trust, takes a strong heart.
RE: It takes the STRONGEST heart of all... ~ Reality Check
Aye RC, tis true and many a year have I known it to be so.
True, not everyone here is a romantic. In fact I'd be surprised if the first thing that draws people to this place was the idea of romance. But love and loss are universal constants and so why should CC be any different?
The thing about long distance, long term relationships is that they require a little more than just faith, trust and understanding. They require commitment, vision and a whole load of luck as well.
Sadly though, even with the miracle of meeting, or the miracle of finding someone who would be just perfect for you, it does not actually mean that is how the story is going to end. I know I have said it before but I feel it is worth mentioning again that sometimes, just sometimes, not matter how madly you fall for each other, sometimes love itself, is just not enough.
But c'est la vie, ne pas? Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. no?
It is everyone's fate to feel their heart bleeding once in a while, but it takes a true romantic to suffer the cuts, the stings and the pain to want to try it all again.
That was a nice post RC. Thanks :)
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True, not everyone here is a romantic. In fact I'd be surprised if the first thing that draws people to this place was the idea of romance. But love and loss are universal constants and so why should CC be any different?
The thing about long distance, long term relationships is that they require a little more than just faith, trust and understanding. They require commitment, vision and a whole load of luck as well.
Sadly though, even with the miracle of meeting, or the miracle of finding someone who would be just perfect for you, it does not actually mean that is how the story is going to end. I know I have said it before but I feel it is worth mentioning again that sometimes, just sometimes, not matter how madly you fall for each other, sometimes love itself, is just not enough.
But c'est la vie, ne pas? Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. no?
It is everyone's fate to feel their heart bleeding once in a while, but it takes a true romantic to suffer the cuts, the stings and the pain to want to try it all again.
That was a nice post RC. Thanks :)
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RE: It takes the STRONGEST heart of all... ~ Reality Check
Romance to me means kissing while you have lots of sex :)
RE: It takes the STRONGEST heart of all... ~ Reality Check
i just made a note of that thx...if it doesnt work i blame u!!!
RE: It takes the STRONGEST heart of all...
It's interesting to know that guys like you come here with such thoughts.
RE: It takes the STRONGEST heart of all...
CC 101. Men will say anything to gain an advantage in a video (hotter show, lower price, true emotions expressed in actions). Hosts will say anything to gain an advantage (longer video, higher price, emotional addiction to host and her videos). Between this two truths is very little room for honesty. So there are members and hosts who are quite skunky. I like the phrase she or he who is without sin cast that first stone. Most here have done things in their own personal interests. After all this is a business and business has risks and rewards.
RE: It takes the STRONGEST heart of all...
what a cold hearted woman you are, then while peddeling this fantasy and illusion, you are taking part in a big dishonesty
RE: It takes the STRONGEST heart of all...
NO. Pity U... you are wrong on this. Sasha is one of the sweetest and nicest hosts I know. Cold-hearted is far far from the truth about her.
A member enters a host's room, has a great time, and then indicates he might be looking for something more. How is being honest then with a member about his chances cold-hearted? A cold-hearted host would lead the member to drain his wallet, when in reality he has absolutely no chance with her.
I think Sasha's approach is a compassionate one, actually. She knows that the member might never return, so she is giving up potential income to tell him she is involved already. And if he decides to visit her again, the relationship is an honest one, at least in the sense that a member cannot expect more from her than a hot show.
I fail to see how this is deceptive or illusory.
A member enters a host's room, has a great time, and then indicates he might be looking for something more. How is being honest then with a member about his chances cold-hearted? A cold-hearted host would lead the member to drain his wallet, when in reality he has absolutely no chance with her.
I think Sasha's approach is a compassionate one, actually. She knows that the member might never return, so she is giving up potential income to tell him she is involved already. And if he decides to visit her again, the relationship is an honest one, at least in the sense that a member cannot expect more from her than a hot show.
I fail to see how this is deceptive or illusory.
RE: It takes the STRONGEST heart of all...
I stand corrected. She never mentioned in her post she was involved already with someone, I read it three times. So you are correct, she is honest
password protected
what is this that a host is password protected for videochat? I never seen such before
RE: password protected
Host faq;
*Private access code* is a password that you set yourself (it can be different each time you have a private Videosession for different Viewers), and you should give this password to the Viewer who requested a private video session. Make sure that you will give this password in a private message!
*Private access code* is a password that you set yourself (it can be different each time you have a private Videosession for different Viewers), and you should give this password to the Viewer who requested a private video session. Make sure that you will give this password in a private message!
RE: password protected
sometimes we,hosts,give passwords for our best friends,good guys,who care of us.and visiting us often..instead of 121.couse 121 cost more,and password cost same as open session,so guy can econom on it:P .but guy pay lesss+gave privatness and nobofdy cant disturbe us.
RE: password protected
That is also how 121 was done in the past. There was one price per minute for video but if you wanted to have private time the host would set up a password, log off and typically change her price (higher) and you were all set.
RE: Get Naked!
I prefer fully clothed to start with but ending up with either naked or semi naked (as long as the inportant bits are naked :P).
When I go to glamour I want to see fullly naked and will only video with hosts that provide this.
But you're not missing much. As the girls keep telling me in comm chat I'm a cheap pervert :D
In fact I'm going to get a badge made.
When I go to glamour I want to see fullly naked and will only video with hosts that provide this.
But you're not missing much. As the girls keep telling me in comm chat I'm a cheap pervert :D
In fact I'm going to get a badge made.
RE: Get Naked!
well, I was always prefering Glam and Little shy...I don't like entering a video and the first thing I see, are spread legs and full nudity.
In fact, I like some nice talking, flirting and teasing....and later the whole package :P ...full nudity, playing and so on. And I always ask the girls what they would do in private...if a girl says no nudity or only lingerie or topless - sorry, that's not enough for me :D
In fact, I like some nice talking, flirting and teasing....and later the whole package :P ...full nudity, playing and so on. And I always ask the girls what they would do in private...if a girl says no nudity or only lingerie or topless - sorry, that's not enough for me :D
RE: Get Naked!
In any Adult category I expect full naked. In Glamour or Little Shy, I would expect fully clothed to begin with, but working to full naked, since it, of course, is not the same as Instant Action where you go for.... instant action.
There really shouldn't be any confusion. An Adult category should mean the host and customer are prepared for an Adult show.
There really shouldn't be any confusion. An Adult category should mean the host and customer are prepared for an Adult show.
RE: Get Naked!
It depends on the girl and how skilled and sexy she is at teasing, dancing and stripping. I prefer naked except for panties though if the moment is right a host who takes them off slowly or touches herself in a gentle sexy way is also appreciated.
RE: Get Naked!
I was born a nudiest and have never had any problem comming out of my clothes and that as caused some problems in the past nothing I cant handle.
RE: Get Naked!
No to the girls that refuse nudity , it's a job 100% of benefit or easy money never exist. for the rest it's a question of manners
a thanks and an update
first of all thank you to all of you that replied and gave comment on my earlier (and for what it's worth my first ever) post. since then I have had a few heart to hearts with the host (who btw I personally haven't seen here for 4 months) seems that all the "feelings" from her side over the past 2 1/2 years were false, she doesn't find me attractive in any way, she was playing me along cos she could....she also doesn't want to see me in work (which is something I will respect) either but wants to remain friends and chat about the weather etc when she is bored in work.....
Shes a nice girl, hard working, but I've developed very strong feelings for her over all this time and frankly feel a bit used now.
I'm not really sure what I ever expected to find in CC but I didn't want an expensive penfriend.....
My though is to try and walk away, at least until I no longer miss her... but it's not gonna be easy..........
'm not gonna badmouth hosts because this has happened to me, but I would like to say that playing with peoples feelings and emotions for a long period of time only ever ends in hurting someone who genuinely cares about you.......
people like that don't impact on your life that often, less and less as you grow older so you might want to think of that before you try and squeeze that extra dollar out of one of your regulars...
Shes a nice girl, hard working, but I've developed very strong feelings for her over all this time and frankly feel a bit used now.
I'm not really sure what I ever expected to find in CC but I didn't want an expensive penfriend.....
My though is to try and walk away, at least until I no longer miss her... but it's not gonna be easy..........
'm not gonna badmouth hosts because this has happened to me, but I would like to say that playing with peoples feelings and emotions for a long period of time only ever ends in hurting someone who genuinely cares about you.......
people like that don't impact on your life that often, less and less as you grow older so you might want to think of that before you try and squeeze that extra dollar out of one of your regulars...
RE: a thanks and an update
First of all I am really sorry to hear of your hurt feelings...
Wicked has it right: Reality Check's post in the Viewer's Forum should be required reading for both hosts and viewers.
Whether for two weeks or two years, relationships on CC are uncertain, at least until you can confirm them in reality, on the ground... until then, it's best I think to be light and nimble while you're in the air. And kindness always helps...
All the Best to you Sir.
Wicked has it right: Reality Check's post in the Viewer's Forum should be required reading for both hosts and viewers.
Whether for two weeks or two years, relationships on CC are uncertain, at least until you can confirm them in reality, on the ground... until then, it's best I think to be light and nimble while you're in the air. And kindness always helps...
All the Best to you Sir.
RE: a thanks and an update
im kinda guessing that host wants this fiendship to remain so you dont name and shame her...just wondering how many other guys she has or is doing the same too? Thats the way of the world i guess
RE: a thanks and an update
I must admit I never considered that....you don't like to think someone you felt close to could be so deceitful, and honestly, I don't think that is the case purely down to the ammount of time we did spend together, but I've been wrong about so much that nothing would suprise me now. Meanwhile I'n never give out her name cos it's her livelyhood we are talking about here and just cos she was good at hooking me and took it too far shouldn't mean I can fuck with her only means of income. Plus, I'm not vindictive, just dissappointed.....
RE: a thanks and an update
I'm not saying it doesn't happen both ways and I did say
"'i'm not gonna badmouth hosts because this has happened to me, but I would like to say that playing with peoples feelings and emotions for a long period of time only ever ends in hurting someone who genuinely cares about you......." the real point being the length of time she carried this for does not lend to being friends at the end of it all. A lie is a lie but to carry it so far is a show of the nature and true character of the person. If the member has spent so long being friends with the host then you can be pretty sure it is genuine affection he feels, and the host knows that. The lie could have been revealed or confessed much earlier on and possibly forgiven but to drag it out for so long is just wrong and hurtful.
I understand that hosts get hurt to but I'm willing to bet that the general motivation for a host to be here is to earn a living not fall in love whilst I'd also bet that most members are here cos they are lonely and/or frustrated in their lives and are actively , but maybe not always consiously, looking for a new love, a new direction. It therefore always puts the position of power with the host and not the member in any relationship that starts here.
I genuinely cared about her, still do, but the feelings I thought were reciprocated were false from day one. Regardles of the fact that over time she has decided to think of me as a friend and want to stay friends. the whole relationship has been built on a lie of her creation.
By all means be mad that it has happened to you as well, I would be to, but remember that you always hold the upper hand in the beginning of any relations formed here not the member.
"'i'm not gonna badmouth hosts because this has happened to me, but I would like to say that playing with peoples feelings and emotions for a long period of time only ever ends in hurting someone who genuinely cares about you......." the real point being the length of time she carried this for does not lend to being friends at the end of it all. A lie is a lie but to carry it so far is a show of the nature and true character of the person. If the member has spent so long being friends with the host then you can be pretty sure it is genuine affection he feels, and the host knows that. The lie could have been revealed or confessed much earlier on and possibly forgiven but to drag it out for so long is just wrong and hurtful.
I understand that hosts get hurt to but I'm willing to bet that the general motivation for a host to be here is to earn a living not fall in love whilst I'd also bet that most members are here cos they are lonely and/or frustrated in their lives and are actively , but maybe not always consiously, looking for a new love, a new direction. It therefore always puts the position of power with the host and not the member in any relationship that starts here.
I genuinely cared about her, still do, but the feelings I thought were reciprocated were false from day one. Regardles of the fact that over time she has decided to think of me as a friend and want to stay friends. the whole relationship has been built on a lie of her creation.
By all means be mad that it has happened to you as well, I would be to, but remember that you always hold the upper hand in the beginning of any relations formed here not the member.