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I got more of a dozen of offers myself to meet some nice girls. Some are 18 year olds. I am maybe rich, but I am old, bald, fat, and ugly. I know it and I come here just for fantasy. I know I can't get a hot woman to love me for real and it sucks, but thats life. The girls here are just teasing you. You'll be surprised the things they say to me: Oh, I dont look for a handsome boy. I want a real smart and powerful man with experience that can take care of me. It's all empty words and a strategy to keep you coming back. Don't bite the bait :-P

Where I live in USA there are many, I repeat many, much older, not so handsome guys with young Russian wives. We call them Russian trophy wives, but this phenomena is real. Think about it...

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totally agreed :) i LOVE RU guys :)

Rusiian guys are not bad at all ! Many of them appreciate their women...There are good and bad guys in any country I suppose. May be Those russian girls who marry old fat american guys are from small towns or villages? There the level of living can be really low... but in big cities its ok

I prefer my young nice looking russian men instead of any american. My ex-bf is young and doesnt drink or smoke and he is a great man. We seperated becuase i was not truthful with him. There are many intelligent nice looking good men in russia. I dont understand why should i marry any old man from other country?!?!?!

For opportunity

What oportunity? I study in university a career i love so much and i only have 1 year to get my diploma. Why would i want to go to a strange country to learn new language and start all again from the base? many not true things said about how russian people in this forum. There is russian men that drink and other men that never drink and there are poor people and rich people in the world. any part of this world have bad and good people. Not all girls in russia want to marry a man from abroad. The men in russia sure are not the best in the world, but they are our men and "most" of them are great men. Be careful, many of the girls that want to marry americans are lazy and only want the easy things in life. Today they accept any ugly man, but then they go with nice looking man later. I dont need this type of oportunity. Thanks, but no thanks!

Well said)))

Dunno where do u living Slave89 but now i realise why ALL americans think it russian guys just drink and doing nothing.
HIGH LIE.
Dunno why u told such things maybe to get more american guys . but it not true at all.
maybe 7%????
Cause it lie about 70.
Rusian guys same as anywhere.
Some drink .others a great guys who knows how treat girls and even wont drink ever.
Same as guys in other countrys.
So please stop lie about russian guys.
There it many a great guys of them.
If u in trouble with russian guys. Keep it for self ,but stop lie it 70% of russian guys drink.
Goodluck

Cmon ure ruining her business here haha)))))

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Listen, dont like it-dont read it, its a general forum for everyone to post. Seriously. Ah and get glasses if u think that i reply to ever post here or, okay almost every post. Geeee...

Please keep posting. Do not let one narrow-minded fool discourage you at all. I happen to enjoy reading your opinion on the variety of topics that get covered and find it refreshing to find somebody as educated and informed as you are.

keep posting monika. i'm starting to get a crush on you though never been in video yet.

Lool thx guys))) Positive reviews on my posts? Thats smth new)))) Mwa)

Btw each of us attracts ppl of a particular type for some reason. If u meet only such guys who drink and lay on the sofa doing nothing, have u ever thought abt changing something in YOURSELF? Me personally dont like russian guys in general, not because they drink, beat women, dont work, ets (i was never with a guy like this lol why i wonder?)), im just not attracted to them sexually, i like 'exotic' type. But i have lots of male freinds in my city and they are great. So stop generalizing, and change smth in urself, and ull start attracting better men maybe.

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i agree with you. I have been to Russia 5 times. I think that Russian guys dont value you so much because there are SOO many beautiful girls..they always know they can find another. In the US it is the opposite. American girls are way too fat and out of shape, and want too much..

Toro, I would say from my experience that "looks" are far less important to women (in finding a partner) than to a man. If you're kind, respectful and take care of them .... looks will come way down the list, is just my view.

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im 45 and ive met three girls from CC. Two ended up being pretty hot liasons. The third was just nice. All three had bodies to kill for..Im in decent shape and tall, but I believe that if you have money they can be open to a relationship that takes them places. They tend not to be very shallow, but also good to lose weight and at least not be fat, and dress nice..you will get farther than you think..

im hot russian girl,and very soon i will meet my favourite member.he will come2 me in russia.IM SO HAPPY that at least it will happend after 1 year of waiting:) wish u luck with it2

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Well russian girls are mostly always eager of meeting members. I never heard about romanian,french ,german ex girlfriends here. All are from Russia .

I dont think so that russian girls want american guys in love but probably want money yes :( I checked out with bride russiagirl and i see many girls wrote me in email and asked me for money for need help like airlines tickets, visa and documents too. I told her no thanks because i knew that if i give money to her then she would not buy tickets and visa too! Be careful guys but i know some russian girls are nice but hard to find one out there.

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Yeah, i still remember when i said i am russian to one canadian guy, next day he brought big bottle of vodka "Absolut" and offered me to share it together lol...isn't it funny?

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i think you are right, Of course there are many fine Russian men, but there are SOO many beautiful russian women, that most are taken. Here most of the beautiful women are taken, so American men look at Russians. Also i find Russians have a better education, and are more interesting than American girls. As I am an attorney, educated at university, this is important to me.

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again agreed with u :)

Yes, I do hear a lot of women that are friend and that are not just asking me into video complain about Eastern European men and want nothing to do with them. And no, don't be so hard on yourself and don't be too hard on all the hosts here either. Some hosts are definitely playing games so always be careful. But it is possible that some are seriously interested in you as a person and not just a wallet or a green card.

When you are "in real life", at a bar, party, work, et cetera, it is a very different dynamic and you may not be able to feel comfortable so it is harder to be yourself. On CC, there is no pressure. There are no expectations. You can relax, be natural, and show the host who you really are as a person. If things don't work out, you simply move on to the next host until you find someone that you click with. It is sort of like speed dating.

Also remember that women are a lot less visually oriented than men. Of course everyone wants a hot partner, but women are not as demanding as men. Women want someone that is nice, that would be a good parent, that they can trust.... You know, all the things that men should want too, but we think of sex first. Plus, you are probably older than almost every host you talk to and it is refreshing to them to talk to someone that is a lot more mature than people their own age. And it seems to be much less uncommon for a woman in Eastern Europe to marry and older man than it might be in the West from what I hear.

Your real concerns should be three. First, is she just trying to get you video over and over again? Only time and a lot of experience as a member will answer that question, but usually, you can figure out her true motives. Unfortunately, I cannot give you a magic formula to make that determination, however. It is not always as obvious as some may think.

Second, is she serious about being with you but has some other agenda, namely to get out of a bad economic situation and to get a green card, et cetera. That doesn't mean she will necessarily leave you the second you are married, but things will probably not work out in the long run. Again, only time and experience can protect you here, although some hosts are a lot more expressive in terms of how much they dislike their country so while that is not a definite sign of an improper motive, it is a warning sign.

Third, even if you truly love each other, there is probably a big age difference so you are fighting an uphill battle in terms of long term success of the relationship. That doesn't mean it annot work out, but I could give you a list of reasons that it won't. Among them are 1) she could have a poor relationship with her father and is using you to replace him, 2) she wants to be taken care of and won't be a giving partner 3) it will be socially awkward for you to be with someone a lot younger 4) you will not have enough in common with her since you are in dfferent points in your lives. The point is, what seems perfectly fine today, might not be so good in time. But things could still work out with the right person, regardless of age.

Good luck.

I agree, well said. I personally have witnessed many such relationships while abroad on business, and most were clearly a benefits exchange...but, like you mention, some can be truly sincere. A little love and compassion can be all that is needed.

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It always comes to this: you don't marry a "Russian, " or an "American," you marry an individual with whom you hope beyond hope you can enjoy a life, a love, and a partnership together. Maybe it's harder when two individuals come from different cultures. I think if that's so it is only because it is hard enough to discern another person's inner life when they are familiar to you... perhaps it's that much harder when they are foreign.

It is difficult to move to a foreign country, for love or for any reason! It is an enormous sacrifice to make. In your case, I have never doubted your motives. All the best to you dear...

You mentioned you have met one or two hosts, is that correct?
I would be interested in hearing how the encounter/s went, as I am considering meeting a girl myself.

If u want meet one girl from cc, at first respect her cos she isn't a doll, and try to sure that she is really interested to u. I met one girl that i found i glamour, and she offered me to perform, i didn't ask her to do it. When I asked her to meet she agreed soon. We had a great week together, but fall in love so far is awfull, cos distance doesn't help. The second one doesn't deserve to be mentioned.

Better life????
Come on guys in Russia we have a great life!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
If u had to meet 2% suck girls of Russia who ready for EVERYTHING for money , don't say same about ALL.
I love Russia and i love my life here.
Easy thing u guys LOVE russian more then others , it why now u all talking about russians hahha
WE ARE BEST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
So better check self
GOODLUCK

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well...i couldn't see there are plenty of russian wives in US, but i saw many phillipinos yes, they are...It's all depends on which side you are looking at;))))

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Heres another fact for you russian girls...its really not that great over here...I'm from canada and I hear about russian families moving back to russia all the time. Having spent alot of time in your most interesting and beautiful country, it always baffled me how many wanted to leave and move to Canada.
Come and visit ..please do...and maybe meet man of your dreams. But dont be so quick to pack up and leave that great Russia.

You do not say so about all Russian women. I love my country and I love my life here. I love our guys. For all the money I will not go to live abroad, for example. Million dollars come on, but I will not go.... Therefore, not all Russian women are so easy to marry a foreigner and move to another country. Good lucky :)

I suppose there are women in every country who don't like the men in their own country just as there are men who don't like the women in their own country. Perhaps their own negative attitude attracts equally negative people which reinforces such crazy ideas. I'd be careful of anyone who says that the men or women in her or his country are no good because it may reflect their own character. Kinda like when you date a woman and all she can do is talk about the jerks she dated before, it is a sign of trouble to come.

Doesn't hurt to be a little skeptical of anyone who asks for money. Some people on here (hosts and members) will mislead others to get what they want.

Good psychological approach. Never thought of that before. Of course, we look at the positive side of things and see an opportunity instead of the potential trouble ahead. Actually, I never like people who just talks negative things about her past relationships. Those who see only the bad will always see the bad. It's a sing a conflicting personality and we should stay away. Thanks for the mind opening post!!!

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Each gets here what he wants.

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I want anal, any offers

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LOL

Girl..get out before u get hurt!! Think about where you wanna be 3 years from now.

Yeah, yeah, its not you who moves to glamour and little shy at times. Sorrry, it must be your twin, hahahaha! :-P

YES! Pass by PLEASE. I don't understand why we even have a non adult section here. As if there aren't enough girls who don't strip in glamour.

Are you also saying that Old Member's comment that you sometimes switch categories (though not to instant action) is not correct?

1. The fellow was asking for a recommendation. We gave it.
2. You were in Glamour when I talked to you. Glamour is not in "Non-
Adult" but rather between Adult and Non.
3. This is a sex site.
4. If you don't like what you read in the Viewer Forum just, as you put it, "pass it by". Perhaps General Forum or Tech Forum would be more to your liking.

Sure, I am sure its your sister that I saw the other day in Glamour and u closed ur session since I came right after ur 121 viewer left and u weren't fully clothed when I entered. Funny girl :-P

Don't be silly!! CC is a sex site and all girls know it perfectly. That's why the biggest part of girls in non adult switch in other cathegories, maybe not for all members, but they do. So don't be so sure that u'll never do. Take care!

Thats what i say.If u need sex n shows ,stay away from non adult.Its up to cc -they have this category or not.I move to glam and those who i do it with deserve it and are satisfied.otherwise wouldnt come back,no?and its up to me who i spend time with in glam .For all others im available in Non adult only .Dont complain as while im NN i have the right to refuse .
Take care

Well your certainly very pretty so if you ever do decide to go to Instant Action please drop me a mail :P

Good for you seamaiden!
There are guys that visit this site, that do appreciate women.
I wish you all the best and hope to visit you sometime.

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Funny indeed :-P

Heard that joke about 10 years ago, did it take that long to get to your part of the world?

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I visit only her in video, but i chat in community and in text chat with others

I talk to many in free and only cam with one ))

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As my favourite girl is the one who is currently stripping for me in her video I can say that I only ever visit my favourite host :P

that would depend if i was her favourite or just one of her many admirers, i would come here only to see and chat with her for awhile to show she is special to me, if that had no real effect on her i would realise i'm not going to be special to her and so i would visit as many other girls as i wish

I video chat with her and with other girls too. After all, she also chats with other guys. I know its her job, but she's honest told me she likes other guys here too. At least she says the truth....

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But Marrgo my queen, you know I am only for you ..... :)

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.... only when the waters are very deep :))))

But is anywhere safe from the fisherman?

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I used to visit just one favorite girl then all of the sudden she increased her price by 50%. Hate to admit it but the price I guess is part of the equation. So I am currently shopping for a new favorite.

It means you liked her ( ex-host ) sooooo much that any money (price tag) started the end your relationship. :D

I have become quite fond of one girl, and dont feel the need to visit other hosts. I do chat now and then with one other ( not here ) whom I consider to be a friend.

Sounds funny...and I can see the jokes cumming...but have yet to find a woman like this russian beauty can make me....

Have nails clipped by your vet ot a professiona;.

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First, don't hit your cat!!! That is cruel!! It isn't like hitting a dog (not that you should hit a dog). Cats are little and you can easily hurt them. Believe me, I have been bitten very hard by a cat a few times and wanted to kick it across the room so I know the feeling, but it is wrong to hurt an animal, especially a small one. (And no, I didn't kick it across the room.)

Second, cats are very smart and definitely trainable. But it is not like training a dog. You will need a lot more time and patience. Cats are like women... They do what they want, lol, so be patient.

In terms of the cat scratching u, I supposed u could have it declawed but that is cruel. It is like ripping out the cats fingernails. And once declawed, they are more likely to bite you. If you do declaw ur cat, I would only do it to the front claws, and I probably wouldn't do this to an older cat. And once again, I would never do it at all. It is too mean but it seems to be accepted.

In terms of training your cat not to scratch, I don't know any specific method for that particular behavior, and any type of training will take time. But showing your anger and yelling at it will be effective over time unless your cat is an idiot. Animals understand when you are not happy so your cat will understand that it should not scratch you if you are always yelling. It might even get scared and hiss at you when you yell, but 5 minutes later when you are opening a can of food it will be rubbing up against you. And when you yell at it, always use the same words... Something simple like "Bad cat!" so that when it hears those words and hears your angry tone, it knows it did something wrong and should stop.

You could spray it with water when it is bad if you are intent on physically punishing it. I guess this isn't too cruel. But don't use a fine stream like a water pistol would squirt and hit the eyes and hurt it.. just a light spray... Keep a bottle next to your bed and next to your chair. It will stop most cats pretty quickly, but you must do it immediately after it scratches you so it makes the connection. You can also yell "bad cat" too.

You could also close your bedroom door by the way, lol.

basically ur right except

1. while declawing is cruel, cats do not tend to bite mjore, theynever seem to realize they dont have those claws anymore. however, they also if outside cant defend themselve as well

3. teaching them not to scratch WILL involve light hitting( sort of a tap) on the offending paw when they bare their claws at you. it is about the only way they learn over time that it is not acceptable behavior

I didn't hurt the cat!!! My smacking him was with a couple of fingers and was just an instant reaction to him having his claws dug into my hand. I will not have him declawed. I will not spray him with water. I am not "intent on physically punishing him" as you put it. wtf is that supposed to mean? I love the little guy. As I said he is not doing it intentionally, he just gets a little rough sometimes. I am sure he'd rather have someone to play with who has fur and doesn't bleed so easily. I'll try something verbal. Just wanted to ask what cats respond to best. I just remembered that my sister in law had a cat that would occasionally bite her. She would immediately bite the cat back. He'd look at her like wtf?.... but he wouldn't bite her again for about a year. Thanks for the tips!

he...i like how you called him "a little guy" :))))

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I like that. I am practicing disapproving faces in the mirror.

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Sorry to hear you lost your cat. She' sounds like a lot of fun.....and pain lol.

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Good advice thanks.

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Also very good advice. Thanks.

Bottom Line... Cats are a pain in the ass....They're great for controlling rodents,but little else... Unless they want something. Sound familiar?

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omg. Thanks for the great stories of your cat and Vitamin C tip. That picture of him clinging to your naked back is hilarious but obviously very painful for poor you. Also, as of now my blood levels are remaining constant but I'll keep your offer in mind :)

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It is a real tradgedy. I just found out that she was a close friend to a host that I have been talking to for a couple of years now. She is in shock at the news.

These will be hard times for everyone that that knew her. My sympathies and prayers go out to her friends family and loved ones. We should be there to give what support we can during this time of mourning.

Rest in Peace Juliya

I didnt know her,
but may she be in a better world now....

I really find comments like this, suggesting that someone in their twenties who was in good health is better off dead than alive, offensive.

The wish is that she is heaven and has found peace with our Maker. If you think this earth is better than Heaven then you are right. But most of us think Heaven is a better place.

I'm sorry, but your mis-interpreting of what the previous post-er wrote is sad in my opinion. The longtime member is simply wishing her heaven or something like it. Personally, i find great solace in the hope of heaven, which I do believe will be a far superior better place than this earthly life.

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I am deeply sorry to hear of her tragic death, along with the many others who perished with her.

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Do you know the host Saosin? I have not seen her online since Dec. 4...

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this is what you have to realize.when you enter a hosts room (it doesnt matter where he/shes from) theres a real good chance your not the only 1 in the room.just because you dont see anyone else there dosent mean your alone.there can be a unlimited amount of people there and the host has to try and talk with everone.if theres alot of members in the room theres alos i chance the host didnt see what you wrote.

also if its really a matter of life and death try useing some common sence and call for a ambulance.why ask a host for help.what in the hell can the host do?is the host gonna give you C.P.R.think about it...if your really in need of help what can someone on the other side of the world do??

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why u say that russian are selfish? hosts cant b just busy.and if in my room 5 guys in text even chat,why i will b chat with a host? all u need u can google:)

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So I guess you will spend time talking to people in your text chat. I will be there the next time you are online. :)

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Yes, clearly I have a fat forehead.... Guess that you missed the sarcasm in my post but thats ok, it takes an educated person to be able to understand the language of sarcasm...

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I heard that most funerals will take place tomorrow on the 7th dec, or the day after, so i really dont know how ure gng to make it..

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Pefect argument

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I just heard on the news that the people at the club didn't know about the second exit and that there was no announcement regarding it. I think that they were just told to calmly use the one exit.

In the USA, exit signs are usually illuminated (lighted) so that you can see them in the dark and so that they are obvious at all times. For example, in a movie theater, you will usually see one or two exits where the screen is and of course the entrance where you came in. I am not sure about the laws in Russia or other countries.

Again, it is very important to look for other exits in such situations. Even if there is not an obvious sign that says "exit", most businesses have a front and back entrance so there are probably at least two exits. And if you only see one, you should not be shy about asking someone about others. It is your life at stake.

be careful

People naturally try to escape by the way they came in - same things happened in 2003 at "The Station" in West Warwick Rhode Island where again 100 people died after the band "Great White"'s pyrotechnics started the fire.

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Of course you need to take into account the reason for the US has regulations regarding signs etc. The tragedy at the Boston Mass club the Coconut Grove in 1942. Apparently a busboy used a match to see while he changed a lighbulb in a crepe paper covered coconut tree. Though nobody noticed it at the time the match started the paper smouldering. When the fire broke out there the club goers who headed for the side exits discovered all except the main entrance/exit were chained and padlocked to prevent people from sneeking in without paying the cover charge. It also prompted regulations requiring streamers and similar decorations to be treated for fire retardance. 492 died and many more were injured to prompt the passing of the legislations.

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poor man

yes boss :--)

ok: our hearts and prayers are with the families. tisme; has somebody step on your territory

me want to send my thoughts, prayers and heavy heart that is burdon with this tragedy to all the families who lost son, daughters, wifes, husbands, mothers and fathers, etc.. me hate when i see things like this happen around the world-lets all have peace and love and get along with each other

ummm,no but i'm sorry i missed your point.i was just being a bit sarcastic because i thought it was a bit presumptuous of the op to tell how,where & when people should express their feelings on a general forum.yes even a little bossy,emotions are a personal thing & how,where & when individuals express themselves is their choice.it's not something to be bottled up until we are marched indian file to write condolences on a single"wailing wall".damn, all this from"yes boss".que sera sera :--)

Ditto.

I did see one host from Perm online today. Glad to see she's okay.

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I am glad you were not there and that you are okay...I hope none of your friends were

My friend from France called me and told me abt what happened in my city, asking if im okay, and i was just working and had no idea...

omg every week somthing terrible is happends,:((((

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at least one was... :-(

Yes... xCandyLadyx also know xVirusx, immaculate, WithSisley or as xIRIAx was killed on December 5th. Noone here on CC can be more sad than me or her real friends in Perm. She was 26 years old, nearly finished with her University work, and planning to leave Russia and all its dangers. Unfortunately she will never leave Russia now. May she rest in happiness as she showed to others she loved.

it always happen... Club owners have these great ideas and bring the best firework shows and the night clubs end up being a deadly trap for everyone in it.... This is not the first time nor it will be the last. When will they learn to be more careful? Never, they want to have the best shows and bring more attention taking all and any risks regardless any hazzards.

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From what i have read the problem was not primarily with the fireworks, although these may not have been suitable for indoor use, but that the material of the ceiling, and possibly in the rest of the club, was too combustible. There were clearly many secondary factors too.

Some would say Health and Safety has gone too far in Western Europe and they are probably right. If you've been to Russia, however, you'll see the total disregard for fire regulations and the safety of people in clubs and bars. So many are just blatant fire traps.

For as long as the inspection of premises works on a system of bribery/backhanders, people in Russia will continue to die in fires when they could so easily have been saved by a few basic safety measures.

Very well said! When I took a friend to my home country he was shocked to see a person in a chair hanging on a rope painting the side of a tall building, he even took a picture of it. No health and safety in eastern europe! :( God bless

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It is a tragedy and my heart goes out to all who were affected. This time it appears to be the result of negligence, not terrorism. That is, of course, little consolation to families that lost loved ones.

I agree...I hope none of our hosts were there or any of their friends

at least I have heard from my Perm friend, and all is ok. It is such a relief.

It was an anniversary party at a popular nightclub. I'm sure at least a few hosts know someone who was affected by this.

May the memory of the victims be eternal.

This night club is mostly for older ppl, 30+ not a lot of young ppl there..Its a type of restraunt-club.

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I do not live in Perm but i work in air traffic system and we with co-workers had some secret materials about it. We actually did, listened recordes where pilot-in-command was just....f***g drunk! If you would listen it too, you would believe that and not fact of terrorism. By the way, the documents weren't find, it's just people's gossiping. When the plane was supposed to land, it required control of 2(!) pilots, because the aircraft was not new and had some problems like unstable rudder, and young co-pilot couldn't do it only by himself. And also plane was far off the track when was landing... By the way it couldn't be terrorism by another reason..there is some secret phrase which pilot had to spell to air traffic controller, if terrorists would be on board..and it didn't happen... I know it's better to believe in fact of terrorism, otherwise nobody would fly anymore...
Also, do you know why "Aeroflot" rejected to support "Aeroflot-North" after that case???
Any way, even if i do not live in Perm, i still can't believe this crash happened, and i really feel sorry for those people who were just KILLED by one guy who took their lives in his hands and didn't save it....