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advice about theft
Guys i know it is a long shot but i thought I might go ahead and ask,
Recently there has been a theft at my workplace.
We have 2 safes and one of them i only have the key however you can slide your hand and pull the envelopes with the cash put in .
I discovered there were several envelopes missing and there are about 5 suspects including .
We don't have cctv in the back office so it is diffuclt to actually try and find out who actually did it.
Whoever did it probably thought they will get away with it and it will be put all behind with no fuss.
As it happenes in the same day i discovered the missing money we had a finance audit and it was a BIG FAT FAIL.
My question is how could i actually find out who did it ? For my team it is all good and they can just move on from this is no culprit is found but it has affected all my hard work in the last few months and my career it might be affected and my relationship with the team will never be the same.
I always trusted them and given them the liberty to take decissions and by being too nice now they went and did this on me.
Do you have any tips on figuring out who did it ?
As i am a suspent in this one as well this investigation will be condcted by a area manager and i don't know how things will develop. Now all my team members call to make sure i am ok and o explain how it couldn't be them. So of course everyone will say it's not them but it is difficult for me to even talk to them.
No sniffy remarks needed just some advice on how to deal with this please
Thanks you !
Recently there has been a theft at my workplace.
We have 2 safes and one of them i only have the key however you can slide your hand and pull the envelopes with the cash put in .
I discovered there were several envelopes missing and there are about 5 suspects including .
We don't have cctv in the back office so it is diffuclt to actually try and find out who actually did it.
Whoever did it probably thought they will get away with it and it will be put all behind with no fuss.
As it happenes in the same day i discovered the missing money we had a finance audit and it was a BIG FAT FAIL.
My question is how could i actually find out who did it ? For my team it is all good and they can just move on from this is no culprit is found but it has affected all my hard work in the last few months and my career it might be affected and my relationship with the team will never be the same.
I always trusted them and given them the liberty to take decissions and by being too nice now they went and did this on me.
Do you have any tips on figuring out who did it ?
As i am a suspent in this one as well this investigation will be condcted by a area manager and i don't know how things will develop. Now all my team members call to make sure i am ok and o explain how it couldn't be them. So of course everyone will say it's not them but it is difficult for me to even talk to them.
No sniffy remarks needed just some advice on how to deal with this please
Thanks you !
RE: advice about theft
so actually there are four suspects to consider if you are included and not the one that did it.
Now without proof it will be very hard for you to figure out which one actually did it, its more a case of speculation on the possible person who did it.
How much money are we talking about, if its a rather large amount you could look to see if any of the possible suspects have any financial problems, thats not to say they did it but could be a more likely suspect.
is there anyway you could trace the money?, look at serial numbers and trace it back to whoever spends it or do a search of each persons property ( this would require Police involvement and a court order.)
Basically its going to be tough to work out who did it, unless they are a moron and start advertising the fact that they have money.
if you understand body language then there are key tells to when some one is lying, but if you know what these tells are you can double bluff.
have you asked all involved who they think it is?, the fact they have all called you means they do not think its you, so you can ask them who they think it is maybe one name will keep popping up. Good luck its not pleasant to have your trust and judgement tested like this, it makes you question everything.
Now without proof it will be very hard for you to figure out which one actually did it, its more a case of speculation on the possible person who did it.
How much money are we talking about, if its a rather large amount you could look to see if any of the possible suspects have any financial problems, thats not to say they did it but could be a more likely suspect.
is there anyway you could trace the money?, look at serial numbers and trace it back to whoever spends it or do a search of each persons property ( this would require Police involvement and a court order.)
Basically its going to be tough to work out who did it, unless they are a moron and start advertising the fact that they have money.
if you understand body language then there are key tells to when some one is lying, but if you know what these tells are you can double bluff.
have you asked all involved who they think it is?, the fact they have all called you means they do not think its you, so you can ask them who they think it is maybe one name will keep popping up. Good luck its not pleasant to have your trust and judgement tested like this, it makes you question everything.
RE: advice about theft
As porndisciple said it will be very difficult to prove. But I would suggest that you ask your line manager for a new safe that cannot be accessed once it has been locked.
RE: advice about theft
I hope you come out of this ok. I don't know where these big companies came up with this concept of teams in the work place. It only takes one bad apple to make the whole bunch look bad. Once you leave your house you have to be sure to cover your ass at all times. I have been in your situation and it sucks. I wish you good luck.
RE: advice about theft
because a box where you can slide your hand inside even when locked is not a safe!
RE: advice about theft
Try one of those small, barely noticeable, or well-hidden web security cams, or even a web cam. Can't be too hard to figure out.
RE: advice about theft
it will be tough. i know it wasnt me plus i didnt leave the building for 24 hours and when i discovred the missing money i asked my top manager to call the police straight away. I had my meeting and at the end my line manager said he desnt thinks its me but he needs to investigate everyone. Its odd as 1 of the people could of taken the money only on the day she knew i am back into work and i tend to think she wouldnt of risked as i could of called police on the spot and have a search etc. from all the other 4 suspents there is only 1 person i havent heard anything from. Fair enough she might not care about me as a person but she could of droped a line to say sorry we failed our finance control etc. I am trying to figure out who it is my elimination. No one has a clue who could have been and it sucks.
BUT THANKS SO MUCH FOR UR KIND REPLIES
BUT THANKS SO MUCH FOR UR KIND REPLIES
RE: advice about theft
As others said, you could torture yourself with this as - even if u figured it out that one person was prime suspect to satisfy yourself that's far from having legally admissible proof and you could slander someone, get it wrong or cause even more division.
The classic method involves identifying who has motive & means & opportunity. Motive (well, money) could be anyone but it strikes me that if most of these workers are long-serving and previously there's been no dishonesty then it points to whoever is newest (or otherwise has particular money motives, changed circumstances - or maybe someone THINKS they can pin it on the newest person?). They clearly put the opportunity to make however much money it was above their fellow workers and don't care that they'll have to go on working beside people under suspicion - but maybe there's someone with a grudge against the company? It's easy for people to justify petty theft if they think they're getting payback for perceived slights and injustices.
Means and opportunity - you don't really indicate but presumably some more than others have access to the room and the safe, more or less opportunity to have seen how insecure it is and whatever the time-frame was (between the money being in the safe and the time its absence was discovered) some would have had more access than others?
The classic method involves identifying who has motive & means & opportunity. Motive (well, money) could be anyone but it strikes me that if most of these workers are long-serving and previously there's been no dishonesty then it points to whoever is newest (or otherwise has particular money motives, changed circumstances - or maybe someone THINKS they can pin it on the newest person?). They clearly put the opportunity to make however much money it was above their fellow workers and don't care that they'll have to go on working beside people under suspicion - but maybe there's someone with a grudge against the company? It's easy for people to justify petty theft if they think they're getting payback for perceived slights and injustices.
Means and opportunity - you don't really indicate but presumably some more than others have access to the room and the safe, more or less opportunity to have seen how insecure it is and whatever the time-frame was (between the money being in the safe and the time its absence was discovered) some would have had more access than others?
RE: About hosts and members
Thank you to you and all your fellow hosts too :) You cheer an old man up with your beautiful faces and curvy bottoms :D
RE: About hosts and members
Sorry for not answering below! The idea of beauty here on CC is a fickle one. You may be too fat or too skinny or too chatty or too intense or... take your pick. But your kindness and thoughtfulness would go a long way with me. Thank you for your post.
How to know what to put for body...?
how do you decide for profile ....if your curvy or slim....some members say I am skinny some say I am just slim and some say I am curvy lol
RE: How to know what to put for body...?
there are many methods to measure of ideal weight, minus 100 from height i'ts not right, because in that case tall girls have to be 75-80 kg and thats a lottt ))
RE: How to know what to put for body...?
I am 90kg and super sexy :) I've got boobs, tummy and a nice round ass. I am quite strong too!
RE: How to know what to put for body...?
Dammit, girls! would you please give your screennames? You've got me so horny and I want to see your pics!
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RE: How to know what to put for body...?
Would be helpful if you put bust waist hips but I would guess you are borderline between curvy and slim
RE: How to know what to put for body...?
This is a very good point. Evrery host I have met looks slimmer in real than they do on cam.
RE: How to know what to put for body...?
Oh, i know what you mean. Every picture I see of myself, I look a huge fat slob. But in reality, I am built like an oiled-down muscle builder. At least that's what I tell the hosts when i'm in videochat, (I don't do cam2cam) :)
RE: How to know what to put for body...?
As long as your photos show a true reflection of what you currently look like I honestly do not care what you put in that slot.
RE: How to know what to put for body...?
Thank you for all the responses...i am 5 foot 4 and a half inches tall..between 110 and 118pds...depending on the water retention and such...my weight goes up and down throughout the month...
I see one person say as long as pics match it not matter...but to many it does matter as i read last week i think it was a member saying dont put slim in ur profile if you are curvey... some days i have a lil tummy at beginning of day but it is gone by late afternoon...and other times it is not there at beginning but if i eat in the day then it is there ..loool...such hard decisions...lool.
bottom line is i just not want to false advertise myself ...nor put something wrong that will be a turn off.
I see one person say as long as pics match it not matter...but to many it does matter as i read last week i think it was a member saying dont put slim in ur profile if you are curvey... some days i have a lil tummy at beginning of day but it is gone by late afternoon...and other times it is not there at beginning but if i eat in the day then it is there ..loool...such hard decisions...lool.
bottom line is i just not want to false advertise myself ...nor put something wrong that will be a turn off.
RE: How to know what to put for body...?
5' 4" and 110-118? and someone thinks you are "curvy"? Hon, that sounds quite slim to me. put on another 20 -30 pounds and I'll consider you curvy
RE: How to know what to put for body...?
ok ok ...sometimes i reach 120 pds loool ohh and dont forget the 1/2 inch that makes a difference as to whether i can reach a cup of the top shelf or not loool...
RE: How to know what to put for body...?
well, slim or curvy, 110 or 130, I bet you would still look great. (even though I have no idea how you look)
RE: How to know what to put for body...?
Thank you LIG, very nice of you to say....nothing against curvy, but I try very hard to not go near 130,.. :)
Thank you to everyone who responded..it is nice to post and to actually get helpful responses....best wishes to everyone...:)
Thank you to everyone who responded..it is nice to post and to actually get helpful responses....best wishes to everyone...:)
RE: for guys with huge cocks
their ego is too big...I get those members and they think that because they are big that we should praise them just because they are big and tell them how we really want to have sex with them..and then they expect you to start playing with yourself to prove how they are turning you on just by looking at it.....I not very good at telling a guy I want to do him and that he is God's gift to women just because he is big...loool
RE: for guys with huge cocks
If you saw my socks, you'd be awed... but, alas, it is a myth, what they say about big feet and big socks.
RE: for guys with huge cocks
I am over 6 feet tall, size 13 shoes, and my cock is at best 6 inches, which is about average. So tall and big feet do not always mean big cock.
RE: for guys with huge cocks
I'm a bloater with a tiny cock, but as I have no cam, I'm a fit triathlete with a massive cock, big girth as well. Is this better?
RE: for guys with huge cocks
Any guy with a truly big dick (9 inches or more) has no problem getting laid in the real world. He doesn't need to pay a girl to look at his dick and heap praise on him. The truth is, members on this and other sites have issues with their dick size. It's either average size (6 inches) or smaller. And that would explain the popularity of CBT and SPH.
On cam sites the only real thing that matters when it comes to size is the size of the member's credit card limit.
On cam sites the only real thing that matters when it comes to size is the size of the member's credit card limit.
RE: for guys with huge cocks
I have seen many many cocks here, more than 500...and all are different, from tiny to huge.
Please members if you never been in hosts place don't say what kind of members come here, you really can't know it! Simple. :)
Please members if you never been in hosts place don't say what kind of members come here, you really can't know it! Simple. :)
RE: for guys with huge cocks
"Please members if you never been in hosts place don't say what kind of members come here, you really can't know it! Simple. :)"
True. But as good business women, you know how to flatter your paying customers. I have to confess to reading my wife's magazines
and have read many sex surveys over the years by these women's magazines and they all show the vast majority of women desiring a huge cock to satisfy them. So that means that for a man to have a chance with an attractive woman, he must either possess a large cock or a large bank account. In surveys most women prefer both but the latter can buy them all the large cocks they need on the side. Yes women cheat as much as men, but it's not talked about as much.
True. But as good business women, you know how to flatter your paying customers. I have to confess to reading my wife's magazines
and have read many sex surveys over the years by these women's magazines and they all show the vast majority of women desiring a huge cock to satisfy them. So that means that for a man to have a chance with an attractive woman, he must either possess a large cock or a large bank account. In surveys most women prefer both but the latter can buy them all the large cocks they need on the side. Yes women cheat as much as men, but it's not talked about as much.
RE: for guys with huge cocks
"you know how to flatter your paying customers"
For sure. But on the forum I am anonymous as you can see, so I don't need anyone flatter. Doh! Second, stop reading stupid magazines. ))
For sure. But on the forum I am anonymous as you can see, so I don't need anyone flatter. Doh! Second, stop reading stupid magazines. ))
RE: for guys with huge cocks
Yes you are anonymous here, but you can still flatter the membership in general. I've seen it many times. But it is far better to do what you do than make a negative post trashing the membership in general.
RE: for guys with huge cocks
tiny hands = tiny feet; tiny feet = tiny cock; tiny cock = red face in the Men's Locker Room. I know.
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RE: for guys with huge cocks
It's great to be a realist -- if only you knew what you were talking about.
RE: for guys with huge cocks
that is not always true mr realist...I often get guys who are big penis and they ask if I like and if i want it and they want to hear the praise..and when I say size does not mean that he knows how to use it or knows how to treat a woman...and when I say that it takes more than just seeing a big penis ..then the person gets angry and leaves...lool.
RE: for guys with huge cocks
yes, I am slim and in good shape. I run about 15 miles a week. Not that I see why that affects the size of my cock! If it did, all men would be in great shape!
RE: for guys with huge cocks
Because when a man is very fat, the fat rolls engulf the penis, and it "appears" to be smaller than it is.
RE: for guys with huge cocks
Women get breast enhancement and reduction. I need get cock reduction it is too big and a hassle
RE: for guys with huge cocks
I am so sick and tired of women asking me, "Is that a third leg you got there, horsey?"
RE: for guys with huge cocks
in real world big cocks and very small cocks are not really good, but in virtuality every cock is ok. :)
RE: Questions for members
I prefer slim/petite to average body. I do not care for girls with extra weight. I do try to read as many profiles as possible but , there are some that are too long and others that are blank and still others that do not make any sense.
The profile picture along with others that are recent photos are very important to me since there is no free public video on this site. And of course free chat is important assuming the host does not have a password protected session or a note in free chat stating "video only". So I can decide on a combination of all these things or just one of them. A low price in open makes it easier for me to decide to take a chance. And sometimes I just shop for price , then check out everything else.
The profile picture along with others that are recent photos are very important to me since there is no free public video on this site. And of course free chat is important assuming the host does not have a password protected session or a note in free chat stating "video only". So I can decide on a combination of all these things or just one of them. A low price in open makes it easier for me to decide to take a chance. And sometimes I just shop for price , then check out everything else.
RE: Questions for members
I prefer her to be non-fat.
I do read profiles to ensure that she is non-fat.
I do read profiles to ensure that she is non-fat.
RE: Questions for members
I like sexy women. thin or curvey or tall or short, just act sexy. if u r healthy, you can be sexy in any shape. only thing I dont like are anorexic or grossly fat women.
RE: Questions for members
post your real name. I will visit you. I'm sure I would find you very atractive.
RE: Questions for members
Personal prefrence on body type varies greatly. In my case, Im looking for young and cute..which often is slim, petite body type, though it dosen't have to be; Or full figured, busty ladies..two totally different body types, that I like equally. Basically, you're either hot or you're not. However I definitely do Not like too thin, or overweight.
What brings me in the room: Price more than almost anything. To me it's simple: with so many girls on here, I have no problem finding plenty of hot girls at lower price, so why pay more for basically the same thing. I definitely look at the pictures...if they are not very recent, that makes me hesitant...because if they're say a year old, you may look entirely different now. And yes I definitely read your profile as well..basically wanting to know if you will be responisive and Do anything...if it's just a vague statement like Come in and find out...that's at the very least, Not encouraging. Points in your favor, would be the opposite: those that say something to the effect of: Im here to please you..or Whatever you want, etc. My requests are pretty simple and basic, but at least I know you're open to them.
What brings me in the room: Price more than almost anything. To me it's simple: with so many girls on here, I have no problem finding plenty of hot girls at lower price, so why pay more for basically the same thing. I definitely look at the pictures...if they are not very recent, that makes me hesitant...because if they're say a year old, you may look entirely different now. And yes I definitely read your profile as well..basically wanting to know if you will be responisive and Do anything...if it's just a vague statement like Come in and find out...that's at the very least, Not encouraging. Points in your favor, would be the opposite: those that say something to the effect of: Im here to please you..or Whatever you want, etc. My requests are pretty simple and basic, but at least I know you're open to them.
RE: Questions for members
I prefer slim girls with a curvy bottom. Pictures are what make me enter a video (I read the profile only to see if it gives an indication that the girl will get naked) and price.
RE: Questions for members
For me one of the great things about CC is that this is a fantasy site. My fantasies involve things I cannot or may not even want to experience in real and vary according to my mood. Sometimes I visit a curvy or even BBW host. Other times I am in the mood for a slim or skinny host. I may want to chat and be teased or I may want a quickie. Other times I want a girl who is submissive. I can find all of these on CC but of course it is not possible for one host to fulfil all of these fantasies so I have no consistent preferences.
RE: Questions for members
I like all sorts of women, it depends of the person if i like her or not. If its a skinny girl or not doesnt matter to me
A quote
“ Anyone who stops learning is old, whether at twenty or eighty. Anyone who keeps learning stays young. The greatest thing in life is to keep your mind young. ”
― Henry Ford
― Henry Ford
RE: A quote
To sum up the post and the post below- a man needs a student looking like a model preferably from Russia or Ukraine... who has to stay a riddle to keep him fit.
RE: Another quote
“ My formula for living is quite simple. I get up in the morning and I go to bed at night. In between, I occupy myself as best I can. ”
― Cary Grant
― Cary Grant
RE: Another quote
Nothing bad in that unless you occupy yourself with cheating on your 5 subsequent wives.
So I was watching Dr. Phil on TV and ...................
I just caught the last few minutes of his program. But there was some average looking dude who had wound up homeless in Ukraine. An American that went there to live there for awhile with the hope of meeting a marrying a local woman to bring back to the US with him. Well as I said I missed most of the program but the reason for my post to illustrate the fact that many American men are unhappy with dating and or marrying American women and want to meet and marry women from other cultures.
The feminist movement of the last 40 plus yeas has left many American men emasculated. That is how we now have so many sissy boys/slaves etc that love the CBT, SPH and other things that humiliate men. And in case anyone is interested, I'm an old married man from another generation. Back in the day I was one of LBJ's hired guns (38 confirmed kills). But in many ways I can understand what young American men are dealing with these days when it comes to dating American girls. And I have no doubt that much of the appeal of this site is the large number of Russian and other European women as well as many Asian girls too. So I can understand the many posts by members telling of traveling to meet girls in far off lands.
So good luck to those guys wanting to change the status quo.
The feminist movement of the last 40 plus yeas has left many American men emasculated. That is how we now have so many sissy boys/slaves etc that love the CBT, SPH and other things that humiliate men. And in case anyone is interested, I'm an old married man from another generation. Back in the day I was one of LBJ's hired guns (38 confirmed kills). But in many ways I can understand what young American men are dealing with these days when it comes to dating American girls. And I have no doubt that much of the appeal of this site is the large number of Russian and other European women as well as many Asian girls too. So I can understand the many posts by members telling of traveling to meet girls in far off lands.
So good luck to those guys wanting to change the status quo.
RE: So I was watching Dr. Phil on TV and ...................
Why don't you wish a good luck to all girls who exactly will meet all that humilated sissyboys/slaves/turned on CBT/SPH? I think they need it more
RE: So I was watching Dr. Phil on TV and ...................
This is laughable on so many levels. Are we to yearn for a time forty years ago when men were men and women were... what? Doormats? You really don't say.
The feminist movement of the last forty years was and is about empowering women to become equals in society, as is their due. Does that mean that men need to evaluate what it is that defines a man? Yes, I think so; you can't rely on the old stereotypes. But if as a man this makes you feel "emasculated," that is your personal problem.
The feminist movement of the last forty years was and is about empowering women to become equals in society, as is their due. Does that mean that men need to evaluate what it is that defines a man? Yes, I think so; you can't rely on the old stereotypes. But if as a man this makes you feel "emasculated," that is your personal problem.
RE: So I was watching Dr. Phil on TV and ...................
Spoken like a true mangina. I support equality for all, but the feminists want control. There are definite links to Marxism. Do some research.
RE: So I was watching Dr. Phil on TV and ...................
It did go under his first post :)
RE: So I was watching Dr. Phil on TV and ...................
That's rather funny. Most of the mature level headed women I know actually hate the feminists. Most think the feminists are ruining a good thing. Why wouldn't a woman rather have a man that would hold the door for them and be courteous. To think that a woman has to be "liberated" or in some position of leadership to be respected is silly.
RE: So I was watching Dr. Phil on TV and ...................
Where did you get the idea that somehow feminism is incompatible with courtesy? And feminists think every woman has to be a CEO? Do you learn everything from cartoons?
RE: So I was watching Dr. Phil on TV and ...................
I suspect it actually has more to do with guys not being able to get a girl in their home country and thinking they will have better luck in an Eastern European country. With the number of Russian dating sites they may be right (although they could all be a scam).
RE: So I was watching Dr. Phil on TV and ...................
James, Dr. Phil is your doctor! lol
RE: So I was watching Dr. Phil on TV and ...................
He's a dude who has a daytime T.V. show in the US. He gives advise to nitwit guests and enthralls his zombified audience with half-baked, pop psych babble and tough love and shit. In short: he's the bomb, yo.
RE: So I was watching Dr. Phil on TV and ...................
Yes I admit I got sidetracked and tried to cover too much in one post, but the fact is there are a good number of American men drawn to women of other cultures due to problems they are having when dating or trying to date American women. There are other cam sites that feature many more American girls than cc, but there are many men, including myself that prefer the girls here that are primarily Russian and eastern European. And yes as an old man I like younger girls and that has been going on for centuries.
Again my apologies for going off track on the feminism thing, which needs to be a post or even many separate posts. But one thing is true, there are man American men that are trying to meet and marry girls from other countries and cultures, but I am not aware of let's say Russian men wanting to find and marry American women and bring them back to Russia.
Again my apologies for going off track on the feminism thing, which needs to be a post or even many separate posts. But one thing is true, there are man American men that are trying to meet and marry girls from other countries and cultures, but I am not aware of let's say Russian men wanting to find and marry American women and bring them back to Russia.
RE: So I was watching Dr. Phil on TV and ...................
Please, for those of us who may have an erroneous understanding of exactly what the ideology entails, could you kindly explain what feminism means to you?
RE: So I was watching Dr. Phil on TV and ...................
Well said. You have more patience than I do, I think lol, and you've articulated beautifully.
A response to little sy host's post
I for one never use C2C so I never have entered a video waving my dick. I am never rude no matter what category I am in. Most hosts do ask for my cam and I politely say no thanks. Most hosts say ok and we move on, but there are a few that keep insisting to see my cam.
So for all of those hosts that insist on C2C, you reap what you sow.
So for all of those hosts that insist on C2C, you reap what you sow.
I do no understand..
Do guys in thier early 20's really think that entering video in little shy category..showing no respect at all....not even enough to say a few polite words....showing their dick..and moving thier tongue around like they are catching flies is really arousing...and not even saying hello..even tho it is said to them 5 times...and then finally saying hello...then saying tits...is really going to get them a good response...why in the world do members come into little shy categoryamd do this...not only do they not pay attention to the category they r in but they dont even read the profile when the profile cleary says if u gonna treat us like something u stepped in the stay away...if u members really want a host that will see ur dick and start jumpin on a toy and pretending to be aroused by that then you need to go to instant action category...because that is exactly what that category is for...dont get me wrong just cos I am in little shy category does not mean that I do not do a full show...I get naked...and I do play and yes I do get aroused and I do very much enjoy when I get wet and let myself go ...but not when someone like that comes along....
RE: I do no understand..
even that is more polite than...Hello...lonnnnng pause...and then tits? lol
RE: I do no understand..
Sorry you had to put up with that idiot..sadly there's a ton of em out there. I always try to be nice and respectful to you ladies. If one of you was rude to me first for some reason, then I'd say something back, but otherwise there's no excuse for that sort of behavior.
RE: I do no understand..
I agree, common courtesy is the only way to go. That having been said , there are many other sites where the host begins her show as soon as you enter with no words being exchanged. So if a viewer has only seen this, I can understand his seemingly rude behavior.
RE: I do no understand..
I for one don't think it's a "site" where hosts start as soon as you enter. I think it is a "host" who makes that determination. I can't name one site I've ever been to where the host doesn't have some measure of decision about how or what she will show (or not show). If that was your experience on that site, then I suggest it was coincidental that you did not get the host who took a bit of time and chat before starting.
The point I'm making is that there are many, many hosts here, too, who do just as you described: start the moment you enter the room. As a man who enjoys chatting and getting to know the host at least a little, that immediately getting down to business really turns me off.
The other point I'm getting at is that I agree with you wholeheartedly about courtesy. It is important, whether in real life social situations, or on a cam site. People are first of all people, human beings, and should be treated as such, not objects, no matter how much one is paying. But I can't agree that with you that rude behavior is ever justified by experience from other sites. In fact, my experience has been (quite extensively) that viewers on EVERY site have scores and scores of rude viewers, demanding "TITS!" or "ASS!" without so much as a "how do you do?" or a "Hi! How are ya?" I think the only explanation for that, is that there are just plain rude people everywhere in the world. CC by no means has a monopoly on them. (And in my opinion, those who have the verbal acuity of a moron --, that is, "TITS!" "ASS!" -- have the intellectual and emotional development to go along with it.)
The point I'm making is that there are many, many hosts here, too, who do just as you described: start the moment you enter the room. As a man who enjoys chatting and getting to know the host at least a little, that immediately getting down to business really turns me off.
The other point I'm getting at is that I agree with you wholeheartedly about courtesy. It is important, whether in real life social situations, or on a cam site. People are first of all people, human beings, and should be treated as such, not objects, no matter how much one is paying. But I can't agree that with you that rude behavior is ever justified by experience from other sites. In fact, my experience has been (quite extensively) that viewers on EVERY site have scores and scores of rude viewers, demanding "TITS!" or "ASS!" without so much as a "how do you do?" or a "Hi! How are ya?" I think the only explanation for that, is that there are just plain rude people everywhere in the world. CC by no means has a monopoly on them. (And in my opinion, those who have the verbal acuity of a moron --, that is, "TITS!" "ASS!" -- have the intellectual and emotional development to go along with it.)
RE: I do no understand..
"I for one don't think it's a "site" where hosts start as soon as you enter. I think it is a "host" who makes that determination. I can't name one site I've ever been to where the host doesn't have some measure of decision about how or what she will show (or not show)."
Feel free to think as you may, but there are such sites. You just haven't been to them. I was not condoning any rude behavior, but rude behavior happens all the time on and off line. It's called life. And we all have to deal with life, bot the good and the bad.
Feel free to think as you may, but there are such sites. You just haven't been to them. I was not condoning any rude behavior, but rude behavior happens all the time on and off line. It's called life. And we all have to deal with life, bot the good and the bad.
RE: I do no understand..
Wow...thank you soo much all of you who have answered..this is the first time that I have seen so many positive and supportive responses...thank you waking up this morning and seeing all positive responses and yes LIG I took your response as a joke and as a positive one...thank you sooo much...you have really started my day of as a bright positive one...
Have great day everyone.....:)
Have great day everyone.....:)
RE: I do no understand..
Thank you for painting the picture lol. You have my sympathy.
I am no white knight, but I am surprised at how grateful some hosts are when I just try to be decent.
I am no white knight, but I am surprised at how grateful some hosts are when I just try to be decent.
RE: I do no understand..
I always wondered if the host found me rude as I do ask for sexy things but I always say hi, chat a little and always say bye. Then I saw someone doing exactly what you said. "Tits" Panties Off" "Pussy" "open legs" "rub pussy" etc and realised maybe I am not that bad after all :P
RE: I do no understand..
Sadly it seems the youngest generation coming up now have been taught that only they matter and everyone else owes them something. Common curtsey hardly exists now in the 20 something crowd and chivalry is laughed at. I really feel sorry for the next generation that follows them, if they are worse who knows what will happen.
RE: I do no understand..
I've given up on trying to understand people like that. It's a waste of time, you might as well wonder why a pig likes mud.
The sad truth is that many men here think of the hosts as sex toys, not people. Don't let it bother you, their attitude is their problem, not yours.
*hug*
The sad truth is that many men here think of the hosts as sex toys, not people. Don't let it bother you, their attitude is their problem, not yours.
*hug*
RE: I do no understand..
I wish I could just say it's always the guys in their 20s who act like that, but I've seen the same attitude from men in their 50s. Who were married! My guess is that someone who acts like that when he's 20 will still be a deeply unpleasant person when he's 50...
Should this be banned?
After the success below of the thread regarding waste water, let me propose another concern: DIHYDROGEN MONOXIDE.
Dihydrogen Monoxide (DHMO) is a colorless and odorless chemical compound, Its basis is the highly reactive hydroxyl radical, a species shown to mutate DNA, denature proteins, disrupt cell membranes, and chemically alter critical neurotransmitters. The atomic components of DHMO are found in a number of caustic, explosive and poisonous compounds such as Sulfuric Acid, Nitroglycerine and Ethyl Alcohol.
DHMO is a constituent of many known toxic substances, diseases and disease-causing agents, environmental hazards and can even be lethal to humans in quantities as small as a thimbleful.
What are some of the dangers associated with DHMO?
Each year, Dihydrogen Monoxide is a known causative component in many thousands of deaths and is a major contributor to millions upon millions of dollars in damage to property and the environment. Some of the known perils of Dihydrogen Monoxide are:
+Death due to accidental inhalation of DHMO, even in small quantities.
+Prolonged exposure to solid DHMO causes severe tissue damage.
+Excessive ingestion produces a number of unpleasant though not typically life-threatening side-effects.
+DHMO is a major component of acid rain.
+Gaseous DHMO can cause severe burns.
+Contributes to soil erosion.
+Leads to corrosion and oxidation of many metals.
+Contamination of electrical systems often causes short-circuits.
+Exposure decreases effectiveness of automobile brakes.
+Found in biopsies of pre-cancerous tumors and lesions.
+Given to vicious dogs involved in recent deadly attacks.
+Often associated with killer cyclones in the U.S. Midwest and elsewhere, and in hurricanes including deadly storms in Florida, New Orleans and other areas of the southeastern U.S.
+Thermal variations in DHMO are a suspected contributor to the El Nino weather effect.
What are some uses of Dihydrogen Monoxide?
Despite the known dangers of DHMO, it continues to be used daily by industry, government, and even in private homes across the U.S. and worldwide. Some of examples are:
+ as an industrial solvent and coolant,
+ in nuclear power plants,
+ by elite athletes to improve performance,
+ in the production of Styrofoam,
+ in biological and chemical weapons manufacture,
+ in the development of genetically engineering crops and animals,
+ as a spray-on fire suppressant and retardant,
+ as a major ingredient in many home-brewed bombs,
+ as a byproduct of hydrocarbon combustion in furnaces and air conditioning compressor operation,
+ in community swimming pools to maintain chemical balance,
+in day care centers, purportedly for sanitary purposes,
+ in animal research laboratories, and
+ in pesticide production and distribution.
What about accidental overdose of DHMO?
You may not always recognize that you have been a victim of accidental DHMO overdose, so here are some signs and symptoms to look for.
+ Excessive sweating
+ Excessive urination
+ Bloated feeling
+ Nausea
+ Vomiting
+ Electrolyte imbalance
+ Hyponatremia (serum hypotonicity)
+ Dangerously imbalanced levels of ECF and ICF in the blood
+ Degeneration of sodium homeostasis
;-D
RE: Should this be banned?
hmm--and I thought I had to much time on my hand to write messages-anyway to answer your question-yes should be banned.
RE: Should this be banned?
YESSSSS, that is one of its names. Also, Hydronium Hydroxide, or simply Hydric acid
RE: Should this be banned?
You are a day late. All April Fools should have been posted by 12:00 noon on Sunday.
RE: Should this be banned?
I propose a tral ban for all males within a 200 mile radious of me 80pct of females under the age of 35 and all females above that age. I am prepared to act as a control and coninue to subject myself to the risks of exposure to dihydro Monoxide provided I can personally select the 20pct of females under 35 who will share these risks with me :)
RE: Should this be banned?
Did you consider the fact that humour is a thing which varies much from person to person? If your definition of humour is that you will laugh your balls off if someone gets a pie thrown in their face or falls into a swimming pool - enjoy it, but not all will. They still do not qualify as failures...
RE: Should this be banned?
However, one should at least still be able to recognize humor for humor, even if it isn't one's particular style of humor
RE: Should this be banned?
Working with chemistry every day myself too, I have often asked that question lol.
RE: Should this be banned?
watering the grass is not a waste of water. It just goes up then slowly back down into the water table. A bit does evaporate into the sky but then it rains back down.....
Question for old
I can understand why host act in-mature being young and all. But why do grown older men act so in-mature when chatting, could if be a fetish, could it be they think its smart, could it be their going back to their youth days, could it be drugs, could it be just think its cute, or just something to think about.
RE: Question for old
Exactly.
And there are countless members who become putty in the hands of a woman half their age. You start to wonder who is really the more "mature" of the two. It's a formula for success on CC.
And there are countless members who become putty in the hands of a woman half their age. You start to wonder who is really the more "mature" of the two. It's a formula for success on CC.
RE: Question for old
I wonder on which basis you ask the question, Marc. Your name suggests you are a male, I'd rather expect such question on part of chathosts... so on which basis are you thinking old chatters act in the way you describe?
RE: Question for old
I can't speak on behalf of the original poster, and fail to see the relevance of whether "Marc" is male or female, but their is merit in the comments. There is far more 'omg' and 'lol' etc. being used in the member's forum than one would consider appropriate. And given there is no shortage of space, some of the abbreviated textspeak also seems a bit unnecessary. As, presumably, the demographic of the membership tends towards the middle-aged, there seems to be a deliberate attempt to adopt the language of a younger generation.
RE: Question for old
Hey, I'm not the one judging you, you will be judge by the one above when it becomes time, then have your fun, enjoy and peace and as you would say having fun, let the force be with you
RE: Question for old
is it okie for us almost middle age people-oh nevermind-don't answer that one-I do find this topic very interesting-I sit back and see what others say about it-cool
RE: Question for old
Casual, flirtatious banter always reads as being childish. Read the logs of some on your own chats.
RE: Question for old
I have said some of the most outrageous and perverted and juvenile things in chat that you could imagine in a hundred years. But it's just talk and it's funny and fun. I wouldn't do 80% of the stuff I say I wanna do in chat. LOL
Host: Post Photos of Someone Else
One entertaining thing you can do is to change your name and completely replace all your photos with pictures of someone else. The only problem with this prank is that you’re going to need to go back and find all the photos of the real you once the joke is over. The only way this joke will work is if people are regularly checking your profile. Additionally, your friends will probably think that you’ve simply unfriended them when they search for your name and you don’t show up.
RE: Host: Post Photos of Someone Else
Before or after CC bans the host for posting pics of someone else? ;-)
RE: Quote for the day
or as Rabbie Burns said
O wad some Pow'r the giftie gie us
To see oursels as others see us
O wad some Pow'r the giftie gie us
To see oursels as others see us
RE: Quote for the day
amen to that one INYF and good one hosty-also remember do not cut a man down until you have walk in his shoes for a year.
RE: Quote for the day
That would be a mile, not a year. As in, walk a mile in a man's shoes.
By then, of course, you're a mile away from him, and you've got his shoes, so what the hell?
As the saying goes...
By then, of course, you're a mile away from him, and you've got his shoes, so what the hell?
As the saying goes...
RE: Quote for the day
I do think he meant walk in his shoes for a year. You got to remember he is in Alaska. Only way around is by walking.
why some members lie that they meet hosts?
tell to others hosts like ohhhh i did meet host xxx and we had sex bla bla.. pffff so annoying..
RE: why some members lie that they meet hosts?
becoz i didnt meet them but they said to all i did)))
RE: why some members lie that they meet hosts?
Anyone can hide behind the impenetrable defense known as....a computer keyboard - and pretend to be someone they aren't.
RE: why some members lie that they meet hosts?
Could easily be argued that a model would deny any said meeting took place to protect an income coming in from other members.
RE: why some members lie that they meet hosts?
not exactly sure,but i guess it's partly because we lie about everything here.all our inadequacies in reality,become our most vehement fabrications :--)
RE: why some members lie that they meet hosts?
I doubt members lie more than hosts who pretend they meet members to keep the business flowing..
RE: why some members lie that they meet hosts?
usualy hosts say that never meet... to avoid this impudent invitations:))
RE: why some members lie that they meet hosts?
any member who has really met hosts wouldnt go around boasting about it.
RE: why some members lie that they meet hosts?
well when PFF and I met for sex, it was a fantastically great time. Pure fantasy! mmmmm
RE: why some members lie that they meet hosts?
I've never seen anyone who claimed to meet hosts "boasting" about it. Rather, it has always come up in response to one of these threads about "meetings" started by a different member. If someone asks a question about members and hosts meeting, and a member offers his own experience I don't label that boasting - it's merely answering the original poster's question and/or participating on-topic in the original poster's observation. It seems like in almost every one of the threads on this topic the vast majority of the members don't want to accept the reality that members and hosts meet. It's that simple.
RE: why some members lie that they meet hosts?
Some hosts dont mind meeting even I dont have that interest
RE:I can't meet any hosts
For a number of reasons I won't got into, I'm not able to meet any hosts. Would I like to? Yes of course. But in my situation, it simply is not possible. And it is my opinion that man y members are in a similar position and are not able to meet hosts. And it does not mean there is anything wrong with the hosts, it is just not something that is a possibility for me.
For me there is no reason to lie, as I have nothing to gain from lying. I do not feel the need to try and impress anyone. I am here to pay the per minute rate and have some on line fun, nothing more.
For me there is no reason to lie, as I have nothing to gain from lying. I do not feel the need to try and impress anyone. I am here to pay the per minute rate and have some on line fun, nothing more.
RE:I can't meet any hosts
I did not say it was impossible for a member to meet a host in person. I was saying it was impossible for me and in my opinion, many other members as well. And I know my situation much better than anyone.
RE:I can't meet any hosts
so i met a few hosts while traveling in their country. so what? jealous? these aren't goddesses - they are women just like any other. if you are nice and somewhat interesting instead of just some 5 min jerk off guy, and have known them for a long time, why wouldn't they say yes to meet you for a drink? well, if you are on this site because you can't date women in your town, it stands to reason women elsewhere may not want to meet you either...
RE: why some members lie that they meet hosts?
Everyone lies even hosts, shocking I know. For every lie there are a million different reasons. So be cynical and trust no one. :)))))
RE: why some members lie that they meet hosts?
..to said verse:
All women are liars as well, they are just better. And deny it when they're caught.
All women are liars as well, they are just better. And deny it when they're caught.
RE: why some members lie that they meet hosts?
My take is that generally the man is telling a tall tale..because.as others said, its not impossible, but unlikely; from two perspectives; one obviously is finance...flying to another country just to meet this person; very expensive..the other...If I was a host..a woman..and some guy wanted to meet me from a cam site...Are you kidding..I'd be creeped out as hell..No Way, Id do that :) lol.
Course as a guy, Id love to meet any number of you hosts, and would do so in a second..if I could just casually decide I wanted to fly over to Russia or Romania or wherever, that would be great. :)
Course as a guy, Id love to meet any number of you hosts, and would do so in a second..if I could just casually decide I wanted to fly over to Russia or Romania or wherever, that would be great. :)
RE: why some members lie that they meet hosts?
<<one obviously is finance...flying to another country just to meet this person; very expensive>>
Why do people always write on the premiss that circumstances which apply to them apply to everybody, and then generalise. If you are in the US then what you say is true, but only for US members. I'm in England and depending on the season an air return to Sofia (there are some stunning Bulgarian hosts here, but they are rather discreet about it) can be as little as £50...or to put it another way, the price of a video session.
Why do people always write on the premiss that circumstances which apply to them apply to everybody, and then generalise. If you are in the US then what you say is true, but only for US members. I'm in England and depending on the season an air return to Sofia (there are some stunning Bulgarian hosts here, but they are rather discreet about it) can be as little as £50...or to put it another way, the price of a video session.
RE: why some members lie that they meet hosts?
Ah, the good old "too socialistic country known as Europe".
Not so bad after all, is it...
Not so bad after all, is it...
RE: why some members lie that they meet hosts?
Funny. This is a PERFECT example of response to something taken out of context and not paying attention to:
1. I never said Europe was a country...I mentioned flying to another country in General. So ie Russia OR Columbia, or wherever.
2. More importantly: Didn't say there was danger or that it was creepy to meet someone in Europe, or Any Place at all..Actually said I would consider it creepy if I were a host to meet a viewer from CC....ie off of a sex based web site. Never mentioned Europe AT ALL. Everyone is entitled to their own views..but if you're going to respond to something, then for goodness sakes, know what you're responding to in the first place.
1. I never said Europe was a country...I mentioned flying to another country in General. So ie Russia OR Columbia, or wherever.
2. More importantly: Didn't say there was danger or that it was creepy to meet someone in Europe, or Any Place at all..Actually said I would consider it creepy if I were a host to meet a viewer from CC....ie off of a sex based web site. Never mentioned Europe AT ALL. Everyone is entitled to their own views..but if you're going to respond to something, then for goodness sakes, know what you're responding to in the first place.
RE: why some members lie that they meet hosts?
No worries. :) Total truth...mostly don't care, just find it all interesting and kind of funny. Take care.
RE: why some members lie that they meet hosts?
I think many find it funny and interesting that it's so expensive to fly to another country.
RE: why some members lie that they meet hosts?
Point missed. It was a fart in the general direction of those with little geography knowledge ;)
RE: why some members lie that they meet hosts?
Indeed a perfect example of actually not paying attention.
Is there such ppl here?))))
sapiosexual - a person who is sexually attracted to intelligence in others
RE: Is there such ppl here?))))
Hell yeah.. smart is seriously sexy.. nothing better than a woman who can serious fuck your mind as well as your body.. I hate dumb and women who play it...
RE: Is there such ppl here?))))
That reminds me of an old joke. A guy is trying to choose between three girlfriends. He gives each of them $100) to spend as they see fit. After a week he asks how they spent it.
The first spent it on herself, to make herself as attractive as possible for him. The second spent it on gifts for him. The third invested it in the stock market and doubled it.
So he marries the one with the largest breasts.
The first spent it on herself, to make herself as attractive as possible for him. The second spent it on gifts for him. The third invested it in the stock market and doubled it.
So he marries the one with the largest breasts.
RE: Is there such ppl here?))))
if that's your standard inyf,i have a brother you might like to meet :--)
RE: Is there such ppl here?))))
Definition of sapiosexuality :.
(sā-pē-ō-sĕk-shü-ăl'ĭ-tē)
1. (n.) A behavior of becoming attracted to or aroused by intelligence and its use.
Origins: From the Latin root sapien, wise or intelligent, and Latin sexualis, relating to the sexes.
Example: Me? I don't care too much about the looks. I want an incisive, inquisitive, insightful, irreverent mind. I want someone for whom philosophical discussion is foreplay. I want someone who sometimes makes me go ouch due to their wit and evil sense of humor. I want someone that I can reach out and touch randomly. I want someone I can cuddle with. I decided this all means that I am sapiosexual.
(sā-pē-ō-sĕk-shü-ăl'ĭ-tē)
1. (n.) A behavior of becoming attracted to or aroused by intelligence and its use.
Origins: From the Latin root sapien, wise or intelligent, and Latin sexualis, relating to the sexes.
Example: Me? I don't care too much about the looks. I want an incisive, inquisitive, insightful, irreverent mind. I want someone for whom philosophical discussion is foreplay. I want someone who sometimes makes me go ouch due to their wit and evil sense of humor. I want someone that I can reach out and touch randomly. I want someone I can cuddle with. I decided this all means that I am sapiosexual.
RE: Is there such ppl here?))))
In this case I have the following question..are you expecting find smart, intelegence woman here, or for this place brains dont play any role and appereance is most important thing=)
RE: Is there such ppl here?))))
just a guess inyf,but is appearance most important for you because,smart,intelligent women have too much class,taste & self-respect to give you the time of day?
just using my experience as a guide :--)
just using my experience as a guide :--)
RE: Is there such ppl here?))))
tisme all women have too much class,taste & self-respect to give me the time of day. But at least with appearance I can look at a beautiful woman whilst she is not giving me the time of day :D
RE: Is there such ppl here?))))
Brains are not the selling point of sex sites, unless your brains have nipples on them.
RE: Is there such ppl here?))))
I've always wondered what those two bumps were on my favorite host's head :D
RE: Is there such ppl here?))))
In a relationship Im looking for someone who is: attractive, fun, and ....indeed; intelligent. However..for something strictly on a sexual level..such as here at CC...intelligence enters into it...zero. It's all about looks, willingness (profile info) and price.
RE: what i want
Couldn't disagree more. I have stopped visiting any sites where you have to pay in advance, buy credits etc. Nothing worse that having to keep an eye on the clock and monitor the time remaining when you want both eyes focussed on the host!!
RE: what i want
I agree with you. The fact that there is no prepay option is one of the reasons I like CC
RE: what i want
"Options" are "options" not requirements. A tip option would be nice if it were to go to the host herself without a cut to CC or a studio.
RE: what i want
cc does have other sites with most of the same girls there with a prepay option , mail me .
RE: what i want
If I understand correctly how they work, the sister sites of CC are merely different doors used to enter the same universe of hosts.
If true, listing them them in the open would be permissible. If this post passes the CC censors you can assume it's ok to mention CC sister sites.
If true, listing them them in the open would be permissible. If this post passes the CC censors you can assume it's ok to mention CC sister sites.
RE: what i want
Let's see if you're theory works, the sites are as follows;
striphilo.com
camcontacts.fr
camcontactos.es
camcontact.com
webcamlife.com
allcams.com
topteenwebcams.com
findloves.com
russianwomancam.com
lesbianrooms.com
camsexnow.com
dungeonvideochat.com
I think that's all of them, will it appear? Let's find out.
striphilo.com
camcontacts.fr
camcontactos.es
camcontact.com
webcamlife.com
allcams.com
topteenwebcams.com
findloves.com
russianwomancam.com
lesbianrooms.com
camsexnow.com
dungeonvideochat.com
I think that's all of them, will it appear? Let's find out.
RE: what i want
Nope, that's not all of them. Type your favorite host's screenname into Google, and see how many different sites come up. Click on them, and you'd be surprised how many of them are just variations of the old CC site, just different name, maybe different appearance, but down at the bottom of the page you'll see the words "powered by camcontacts". They must spend a fortune designing niche sites for just about every category multiple times over. The name of the game is get the customer. If one name doesn't catch him, maybe another will. :)
RE: what i want
niches are what it's all about - the tranny/shemale niche popped-up a few months ago - i am grateful many of them put TS in their screen name
RE: what i want
What's all the juvenile drama about, you can simply link to these names from the Site Map here, so of course it was never going to be blocked!!!
RE: what i want
I assume a host can opt out of being on all the rooms. You forgot to note which of them allow pre-pay.
RE: what i want
I personally think an option to choose between pre-pay or per-minute pay would be nice.
Pre-pay is nice if you want better control of your spending, and if you are prone to lose track of time when in videochat. It's downside is that you feel pressured to "get it done" before your credit runs out.
Per Minute is nice because it allows you to be more relaxed, and take your time, as long as you want. It's downside is that if you are prone to losing track of your time, and get caught up in the action or interaction, you can run up a super huge bill before you know it.
The ideal site, IMO, is the one that offers both options. I have as yet to find such a site. One advantage to the Pre-pay sites, though, is that all of them to which I have gone, offer a sort of compromise: If your pre-pay credit is not enough, you have the option to "add more credit" while in videochat, thus you can extend your session if need be. But in my opinion, the Pre-pay site offers more control for those who lack self-control.
Pre-pay is nice if you want better control of your spending, and if you are prone to lose track of time when in videochat. It's downside is that you feel pressured to "get it done" before your credit runs out.
Per Minute is nice because it allows you to be more relaxed, and take your time, as long as you want. It's downside is that if you are prone to losing track of your time, and get caught up in the action or interaction, you can run up a super huge bill before you know it.
The ideal site, IMO, is the one that offers both options. I have as yet to find such a site. One advantage to the Pre-pay sites, though, is that all of them to which I have gone, offer a sort of compromise: If your pre-pay credit is not enough, you have the option to "add more credit" while in videochat, thus you can extend your session if need be. But in my opinion, the Pre-pay site offers more control for those who lack self-control.
RE: what i want
I agree with other comments made that it's not nice keeping an eye on the clock... or having a chat interrupted because of failing to keeping an eye!
But an option limiting spending per day or session (a profile parameter) could be helpful to some users
But an option limiting spending per day or session (a profile parameter) could be helpful to some users
joke
a thief steals his wifes purse, with her credit card. But the husband decides not to report the theft, because the thief spends less than his wife!
RE: thanks in advance for replies)
Stars - I only take note of these if they are very low, say less than three - as means there is a problem with this host.
I do not ever enter a host's room unless I have seen a picture of her face. Note that the profile pic does not have to show face, but there need to be at least one face photo in her portfolio.
Ideal price for Glamour is about $1.20
I do not care what the host is wearing. I do care that she smiles when I join her vid. A smile sets the tone. Northing worse than a stony faced host.
I do not ever enter a host's room unless I have seen a picture of her face. Note that the profile pic does not have to show face, but there need to be at least one face photo in her portfolio.
Ideal price for Glamour is about $1.20
I do not care what the host is wearing. I do care that she smiles when I join her vid. A smile sets the tone. Northing worse than a stony faced host.
RE: thanks in advance for replies)
You disagree with what Hake wants and is contented with? Or you don't share his preferences?
RE: thanks in advance for replies)
i check out glam girls if the 121 price is $1.00 or less. If u r higher, I just go to not shy
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Perhaps I should clarify that my resistance level is $1.20 in Glamour not what I want to pay. What this means is that if the host charges $0.90 or $1.10 then the price makes no difference to me deciding whether or not to visit. So for the host it is better if she charges $1.10 as otherwise she loses $0.20 per minute for no effect on my decision to visit or the length of time I will stay in vid. But above $1.20 this is not true in Glamour - that is why I call it my resistance level. Above this price I will hesitate to visit at all and even if I did visit and the host became a favourite I would not visit as often as I might otherwise do. So I said $1.20 is the best price for the host - as it is the highest price she can charge before the price effects my viewing decision. This resistance price will obviously be different for each viewer.
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The MOST important thing any host in any category can do is pay attention to paying viewers. When a guy clicks into your roon all chatting in text on other sites should stop. A member must put up with some distractions if there is more than one viewer, but once the meter is ticking all the hosts' attention belongs to paying customers. Close other rooms if you have to.
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$1.20 is not high, it is low. It is not the lowest this site offers, but anyone who thinks it is high, needs to take a long hard look at reality.
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1. I am only here to see naked girls so if I visit a girl in glamour I would expect to see her naked (after checking with her in free chat first).
2. I normally like the same clothes in Glamour as I do in any other category (yes even Instant Action) which is every day clothes (especially jeans).
3. My opinion is $1.00 - $1.50 for just chatting and $1.50 - $2.00 for stripping. But the reality is that whatever you can charge and still get enough visitors is the correct price.
4. Only if they are below 3 (although if the price isn't too high I may still take a gamble).
5. The quality of the cam is very important to me.
2. I normally like the same clothes in Glamour as I do in any other category (yes even Instant Action) which is every day clothes (especially jeans).
3. My opinion is $1.00 - $1.50 for just chatting and $1.50 - $2.00 for stripping. But the reality is that whatever you can charge and still get enough visitors is the correct price.
4. Only if they are below 3 (although if the price isn't too high I may still take a gamble).
5. The quality of the cam is very important to me.
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1. I've learned not to have any expectations in Glamour.
2. Whatever clothes the host is the most comfortable with.
3. For chat I prefer $1.00. For 121 $2 to $3 is best but have paid more if a host really grabbed my attention.
4. The ratings system here is greatly flawed, but I have to confess I am affected by it and find it difficult to get interested in any host below 4.5 stars. But for a low price, I do gamble every now and then.
5. Cam quality is important but not as important as lighting.
2. Whatever clothes the host is the most comfortable with.
3. For chat I prefer $1.00. For 121 $2 to $3 is best but have paid more if a host really grabbed my attention.
4. The ratings system here is greatly flawed, but I have to confess I am affected by it and find it difficult to get interested in any host below 4.5 stars. But for a low price, I do gamble every now and then.
5. Cam quality is important but not as important as lighting.
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I never check girls in glamour category because dont expect anything but faking from them
Dear hosts
There have been some recent posts about what viewers like, pricing and other related matters. I only speak for myself, but a genuine smile in paid video and a thank you for taking the host pvt has a very big impact on me. It may not sound important to many, but I can tell you for me , it's a mood changer. It makes me feel welcome in that host's room. It sets the tone for how the whole video will go. It relaxes me and gives me a general good feeling. And I get the same feeling regardless of the category or site I happen to be on.
RE: Dear hosts
So you are able to overcome your pride and show your secret parts, but too proud to say "Thank You"?
I don`t like you, you sound like hating your job and the men that enable to earn your money.
I don`t like you, you sound like hating your job and the men that enable to earn your money.
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"this is not my dream job,soon I'll get ridd of it"
Thats good news, so i will never meet you.
Thats good news, so i will never meet you.
RE: Dear hosts
Reasons for an abrupt exit without a goodbye or thanks.
* Wife/gf/boss just walked in.
* Computer crash.
* Laptop battery died.
* Time ran out in netcafe.
* Viewer is rude.
* Wife/gf/boss just walked in.
* Computer crash.
* Laptop battery died.
* Time ran out in netcafe.
* Viewer is rude.
RE: Dear hosts
Kind of interesting. My take is this: it never Hurts to be nice...no acutally it does sometimes :)
However: here's some common sense: if the host is nice to me afterwards as well..it increases the chance of my Returning.
There is a very successful NW USA company: Nordstroms. It's a department store with high prices..clothes, etc. They have a unique but now often copied rule which helped make them successful: After each customer has made their purchase, you come around the counter, personally hand them their bag, and Thank them. Simple; but proven to be effective. Same basic idea. If you smile and thank the customer, that might just be what gets you a return customer. It may not, either, but it sure won't hurt.
However: here's some common sense: if the host is nice to me afterwards as well..it increases the chance of my Returning.
There is a very successful NW USA company: Nordstroms. It's a department store with high prices..clothes, etc. They have a unique but now often copied rule which helped make them successful: After each customer has made their purchase, you come around the counter, personally hand them their bag, and Thank them. Simple; but proven to be effective. Same basic idea. If you smile and thank the customer, that might just be what gets you a return customer. It may not, either, but it sure won't hurt.
^-^
Every guy thinks that every girls dream is to find the perfect guy,
Bullshit! Every girls dream is to eat without getting fat!!
Bullshit! Every girls dream is to eat without getting fat!!
Playboy playmate l
What if a girl that looks exactly lyke Playmate of the year Buffy Tyler face,body,hair,breasts, would be online here would u pay more to see her? i know one and she looks amazing, like her twin
RE: Playboy playmate l
It is not unheard-of for a low level porn actress to open a room on some sites. I don't know why more don't do it. I also wonder why girls working in Nevada don't open rooms in their down time. They'd have to be careful not to offer services directly, but they could make some great money on the side.
Sneak Previews
This site doesn't seem to have that feature, other than checking out photos, which I find amazing. Other sites have free video...I can see arguments against that...but most sites also have a simple feature, where you can put your mouse over the performers splash photo, and it will show the performer live in her room, or at least a video teaser. In any case, you get to see the real her. Reason I mention this is because I've found many, many times, the photos don't match the performer, so it's a nice, quick, easy way to at least see what you're getting for real.
So this is basically just a major vote for CC to add that feature, that I hope gets enough support that perhaps will be noticed and followed up on by CC. Thanks.
So this is basically just a major vote for CC to add that feature, that I hope gets enough support that perhaps will be noticed and followed up on by CC. Thanks.
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hosts might agree to it if they not have to deal with members saying if u show me something I will do video with you which most often is a big fat lie. lool
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Agree completely, which is why I said originally:
"Other sites have free video...I can see arguments against that..."
As I said, I just want to be able to put my mouse over your photo and get a peek at what you actually look like...I frequent several other sites..this is common on pretty much all of them..and thank goodness, because it is amazing how often the picture dosen't match the person..hot picture..then once you get in..completely different..so the hover feature would just save alot of time and disappointment.
Fyi: I know what you mean of course, about members..beggers..always asking for this or that for free, and promising to take you to private if you do it..Im with you totally on that..it's a bunch of crap, and must get real tiring...which is why I never do it...on sites that have free video before private, I just want to verify that you indeed have the look I want, and I'll ask to see your face if you're not showing it, and tha'ts it...if you indeed look like your picture then Im in :) But it's just so dissappointing to see something completely different than what you expected, which is why the hover feature which is so common on other sites would be great here.
"Other sites have free video...I can see arguments against that..."
As I said, I just want to be able to put my mouse over your photo and get a peek at what you actually look like...I frequent several other sites..this is common on pretty much all of them..and thank goodness, because it is amazing how often the picture dosen't match the person..hot picture..then once you get in..completely different..so the hover feature would just save alot of time and disappointment.
Fyi: I know what you mean of course, about members..beggers..always asking for this or that for free, and promising to take you to private if you do it..Im with you totally on that..it's a bunch of crap, and must get real tiring...which is why I never do it...on sites that have free video before private, I just want to verify that you indeed have the look I want, and I'll ask to see your face if you're not showing it, and tha'ts it...if you indeed look like your picture then Im in :) But it's just so dissappointing to see something completely different than what you expected, which is why the hover feature which is so common on other sites would be great here.
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I'm a member of "another site" and I have to admit it's often a lot more fun to chat up a host as a guest than as a member. I don't ask them to show anything but it's amusing to see all the desperate guests saying "show this" "show that" lol! Some hosts actually handle it all quite well, and are usually the most succesful. In CC one has to take a blind leap of faith to go into video with a host one has never seen.
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I do not think it is reasonable to push for this feature on CC.
Most (I would say all but I am sure some wise will find an exception). of the sites offering this feature have minimum prices significantly higher than those of CC. After checking a hosts profile and pics are you really so hard up you can't risk a couple of dollars to find out how a host actually looks in video?
Most (I would say all but I am sure some wise will find an exception). of the sites offering this feature have minimum prices significantly higher than those of CC. After checking a hosts profile and pics are you really so hard up you can't risk a couple of dollars to find out how a host actually looks in video?
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Not at all, just hate misrepresentation...and since money situation is fine, can certainly say sadly, that I have experienced Many times jumping in to private where looks were nowhere near what was expected by looking at picture. Nowhere near. It's just....disappointing. A dissappointment that seems could easily be avoided by a simple feature.
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spend a bit ur time in host's archive of photos, you get a clue what host is like, if not, just move to other host.
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yes, but it's easy to say....waste 1-2$ just for 1 host, if he want to check 15 it's already 15-30$$ for nothing...I still think that checking host's archive with a lot of her photos can give the truthful picture, without wasting any money.
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It's not hard, if there many photos with clearly visible face from different sides....Im sure everyone can understand how the person look like. If there no photos with face, dont go to her...simple.
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ok so viewer go in video for 1 - 2 minutes, notice he dont like this host and give 1 star for rating... do u really want this?
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If I were a member and noticed host fooled me with fake photos I would give 1 star for sure.
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Well let's see were do I begin with this. Host that have photos in their profiles that are not them, all I can say shame on you for misleading us and when I do get into a video and discovered this it's for sure a rating of 1 and a ccmail to the site telling them they are misleading and using someone else's photos. You know now days you have to be careful with that with age restrictions, copyright laws and such. As for free video teasers I see nothing wrong why cc can not provide this feature since many other sites do, but I do understand they try to be different and don't like changes and well we the members don't have to be here if we don't want to, but we still are here and still not happy with it (go figure) another thing do you find it interesting that some host here take photos of them picking their noses and putting in their profiles.
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"As for free video teasers I see nothing wrong why cc can not provide this feature since many other sites do"
Because cc is cc and shouln't just copy other sites, it's all about privacy, after all we hosts hate free teaser, we have to sit tbefore computer hrs and dealing with losers without any money, that when someone get us in pvt we will be tired and angry. Is that you want? I guess, no. I would agree about recorded short video for members with credit only, but not with free-teaser!
Because cc is cc and shouln't just copy other sites, it's all about privacy, after all we hosts hate free teaser, we have to sit tbefore computer hrs and dealing with losers without any money, that when someone get us in pvt we will be tired and angry. Is that you want? I guess, no. I would agree about recorded short video for members with credit only, but not with free-teaser!
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"Because cc is cc and shouln't just copy other sites, it's all about privacy, (well privacy can be use here, because you must be a member and have a log in name and password name to get in, so we can see you are not, don't see where privacy comes into play here) after all we hosts hate free teaser, we have to sit tbefore computer hrs and dealing with losers without any money,(losers, well you better be glad you didn't use your screen name here-smart woman, but losers are not it's our money and we shop for deals, previews, just like going to the mall, anyway, I'm a loser and proud of it) that when someone get us in pvt we will be tired and angry.(maybe you need to exercise more) Is that you want? I guess, no. ( my guess is no if your that tired at that early of age) I would agree about recorded short video for members with credit only, (cc already has this feature call playback) but not with free-teaser! (well after reading all this my vote is yes) it's a site for members pleasure and a site for host to work, if host don't like the change if cc makes, their are other sites to for them, wait a minute, 90% already on one or more sites including sites that show free video teasers. Now I get your point it will be to hard for host to be showing free video teasers at more then two sites, will get tired. But my answer is still yes cc and thanks for listening to us value losers members.
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looooooool you are funny, indeed. you didn't get my point at all. first of all when I said about losers in free-chat I mean those guys who come there and demand from girls to do something for them without any intentions go in pvt simply beacuse the have no money for that, get it? how it going with your "but losers are not it's our money and we shop for deal" ???
Then, when I said about short recorded preview video I meant maid it free , as of course I know about prerecorded category. So before so easy to jugde read my more careful!
Then, when I said about short recorded preview video I meant maid it free , as of course I know about prerecorded category. So before so easy to jugde read my more careful!
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ooooooool you are funny, indeed. you didn't get my point at all. (oh yes I got your point very well and you didn't get my point of view, thank goodness for point of views) first of all when I said about losers in free-chat I mean those guys who come there and demand from girls to do something for them without any intentions go in pvt (well why do you show naked then if this happens and if it bothers you that much there is a ignore button to click on, so you don't have to sit there and read it all) simply beacuse the have no money for that, get it? (and oh yes again I got it, they made have more money then you think, the losers are not going to spend it on some smart mouth host and sorry I said that) how it going with your "but losers are not it's our money and we shop for deal" ??? (and host shops for rates increases)
Then, when I said about short recorded preview video I meant maid it free , as of course I know about prerecorded category. So before so easy to jugde read my more careful! (you also need to read more careful to)
Then, when I said about short recorded preview video I meant maid it free , as of course I know about prerecorded category. So before so easy to jugde read my more careful! (you also need to read more careful to)
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Erm am I said I get naked in free chat? I never ever said I ever been in free chat as a model! But I seen it at those sites, when I came there as a guest, like anyone else. And I seen how beggers disturb models in all that free chats, I dont want it for myself. Have they money or not, they clearly not going to spend it there, so the sites and models don't get anything from them anyway. The ignore button can be good if its not 1000 guests in one room! ))
And yes I am very smart, any problem?
And yes I am very smart, any problem?
RE: Sneak Previews
OK, nevermind than, I rest my case, not going to take this discussion any further with you, not knowing if you are one host or several other host here responding to my point of view, it's just like fake photos in profiles, when a person doesn't put his/her screenname here I'm feeling a little bit more of a loser, anyway have a nice day and made all your education get you far in life smart woman. Peace, Love and Happiness.
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One more, my privacy here is higher than on other sites exactly because "you must be a member and have a log in name and password name to get in".
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there are other sites with the same thing, log in names and member names but can hide as guest which is cool, but host can click ignore and not listening to them, even the basics and members if they wish and still show free teasers, anyway, so be it, I give up on this, cc stay the way you are and watch out, someday things will change and the other sites will keep getting bigger. Take it from members advice and not host (well host does need input to they are collecting and wanting more privacy) which I guess makes your site different, good luck
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Dont talk for all members please. I have read myself at this forum some time ago that some members say NO to free -teaser, exactly because they want more privacy and hate how it in other sites, because many beggers in rooms, not possible even to have some short chat with a model before pvt. From other side I dont mind from sneak preview if it recorded (!) short teaser video, I even suggested it myself about 1 year ago.
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If cc does to the sneak previews you can bet the hosts prices will sky rocket...or they will simply go to the other sites that already have this feature, altho I am sure many on here already are on those other sites, i like it here but if cc does do sneak previews then members will complain about the prices going up...altho they already do complain about the prices on here even tho this is one of the cheaper sites.
If a host has daily pictures and many pictures then it is not hard to tell that if it is her or not. but I do understand that telling a member to take a chance to spend one or two dollars and he does this with 15 hosts then yes it will add up for him, and if the host is no where near what her pictures show then report her an give her one star....but if you enter a video and dont like how the host looks that is no reason to give her one star just because she does not suit your taste. a one star should only be for if she lies or diesrespects you or is rude to you or does something intentional to misrepresent herself, but not just because she is not your taste in looks.
there are good argurments for having the sneak previewsand good arguements for not having it. and yes Steve you are entitled to your opinion. have a great day everyone...:)
If a host has daily pictures and many pictures then it is not hard to tell that if it is her or not. but I do understand that telling a member to take a chance to spend one or two dollars and he does this with 15 hosts then yes it will add up for him, and if the host is no where near what her pictures show then report her an give her one star....but if you enter a video and dont like how the host looks that is no reason to give her one star just because she does not suit your taste. a one star should only be for if she lies or diesrespects you or is rude to you or does something intentional to misrepresent herself, but not just because she is not your taste in looks.
there are good argurments for having the sneak previewsand good arguements for not having it. and yes Steve you are entitled to your opinion. have a great day everyone...:)
RE: Sneak Previews
I do not think it is fair to force something on all hosts just because some hosts are not honest and misrepresent themselves, when you can simply report them to cc and ask for a refund. It is the resonsibility of the site to make sure that a host is not using fake pictures. it would be better if the site would simply have someone monitor every now and then the hosts to make sure the pictures match the person.
RE: eeeewwwwwwwwwww
This has been suggested before and gotten many negative comments from hosts and members alike. I like free video preview, voyeur view etc, but I'm not holding my breath waiting for it to happen here. I simply take this site at face value. It is what it is. Luckily we viewers have many choices these days when it comes to cam sites. I often have 5 or 6 windows open , all on cam sites at the same time. When I comparison shop I do not restrict myself to just one cam site. I've seen hosts post here many times if you don't like a particular host just move on to the next host. And I do just that , but to a host on other sites.
RE: eeeewwwwwwwwwww
yes they do, price ranges from .50 to .99 you need to check out dude or mistress
RE: eeeewwwwwwwwwww
wasn't commenting on your post was commenting on the girl post above and saying to all dudes and mistress prices are lower at other site, not just here
RE: eeeewwwwwwwwwww
i noticed that it is allowed to say here that other sites dont have 0.50 minute price... well lets try again is it allowed to speak the truth and say that yes they have.
Is it ok to lie here, but not ok to tell the truth?
Is it ok to lie here, but not ok to tell the truth?
RE: eeeewwwwwwwwwww
Hmmm...Lots of sites out there..This is a great one..but if there's another one out there with prices that low I'd Love to know about it.
RE: eeeewwwwwwwwwww
this information is not allowed to talk in here, and i understand that.
so you just need to find out yourself, it should not be too hard thou, and keep in mind that not all hosts here either have price at 0.50 so dont bother to look for sites where all prices are that low (even there is one that i know)
so you just need to find out yourself, it should not be too hard thou, and keep in mind that not all hosts here either have price at 0.50 so dont bother to look for sites where all prices are that low (even there is one that i know)
RE: Sneak Previews
One of the problems with having sneak previews is that when no one is in my video or my text I do things around the house..etc wash dishes or clean up or what ever needs doing.
so if someone is havin a sneak preview then he wont see much and that will then cause complaints that hosts are not sitting in front of their computer the whole time when on here even if no one is in the video or text.
I am sure that I am not the only host that does not sit constantly sit in front of the computer when no one is in video or text, just like members who are on here do not sit in front of the computer the whole time, they too go and do things that need doing while chatting with a host in text as well as when in video, like answer the door or the phone, or put laundry in dryer or what ever needs doing. Now I am not saying that in video a host should get up and start doing things I am only talking about when no one is in video or text chat.
so if someone is havin a sneak preview then he wont see much and that will then cause complaints that hosts are not sitting in front of their computer the whole time when on here even if no one is in the video or text.
I am sure that I am not the only host that does not sit constantly sit in front of the computer when no one is in video or text, just like members who are on here do not sit in front of the computer the whole time, they too go and do things that need doing while chatting with a host in text as well as when in video, like answer the door or the phone, or put laundry in dryer or what ever needs doing. Now I am not saying that in video a host should get up and start doing things I am only talking about when no one is in video or text chat.
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Hey folks; many good, healthy, insightful responses...very good..cool, and thanks.
Feel I should clarify one detail..and appologize to some hosts, that I was not clear enough on one aspect of this...I just advocate the hover feature, not free chat..but to clarify..and I said this wrong the first time..I forgot the specifics of it when I first wrote this..I didn't after all design the tech, just use it :) ...but it dosen't show you live..it's just a teaser...so the way it seems to work..is when you as the host log on...you hit record and let it run for 10-20 sec or whatever, then turn it off...That's what people see when they hover over your splash picture..very brief prerecorded same day video of you...That way, no worries about stepping away from cam, being caught picking nose as someone said, etc.
So again appologies for not being as clear as I should've and meant to be on that..also thanks to members who obviously knew what I was refering to, and helped clarify a bit as well.
Last point to restate..Very much advocate teaser only...have seen...many, many times free Video chat and all the beggers who pester you hosts to death making false promises ..if you do this, I'll take you private...etc. That is so lame of them.
So I advocate only free video teaser...which again is prerecorded by you that day, not live. Just thought of this, while editing: That video teaser that I can see so quickly and easily by just hovering over your splash picture: not only serves to verify that you really do look like what I see in the picture; but on the very positive side for you hosts: often if well done, that video teaser is what will draw me in :) So the picture will look good...then hover and get quick video, and it's like Wow, she is Really hot..and the way she is moving there...omg..definitelyy gotta see her...so it can very much work in your favor as well.
By the way..video teasers is just a suggestion, all in all I think CC is a great site. As several of you have said, it does indeed seem to have the very best prices out there...also alot of sites don't have both the live community Chat, and Forums like these, which I certainly am glad cc has both. Thanks again everyone, take care.
Feel I should clarify one detail..and appologize to some hosts, that I was not clear enough on one aspect of this...I just advocate the hover feature, not free chat..but to clarify..and I said this wrong the first time..I forgot the specifics of it when I first wrote this..I didn't after all design the tech, just use it :) ...but it dosen't show you live..it's just a teaser...so the way it seems to work..is when you as the host log on...you hit record and let it run for 10-20 sec or whatever, then turn it off...That's what people see when they hover over your splash picture..very brief prerecorded same day video of you...That way, no worries about stepping away from cam, being caught picking nose as someone said, etc.
So again appologies for not being as clear as I should've and meant to be on that..also thanks to members who obviously knew what I was refering to, and helped clarify a bit as well.
Last point to restate..Very much advocate teaser only...have seen...many, many times free Video chat and all the beggers who pester you hosts to death making false promises ..if you do this, I'll take you private...etc. That is so lame of them.
So I advocate only free video teaser...which again is prerecorded by you that day, not live. Just thought of this, while editing: That video teaser that I can see so quickly and easily by just hovering over your splash picture: not only serves to verify that you really do look like what I see in the picture; but on the very positive side for you hosts: often if well done, that video teaser is what will draw me in :) So the picture will look good...then hover and get quick video, and it's like Wow, she is Really hot..and the way she is moving there...omg..definitelyy gotta see her...so it can very much work in your favor as well.
By the way..video teasers is just a suggestion, all in all I think CC is a great site. As several of you have said, it does indeed seem to have the very best prices out there...also alot of sites don't have both the live community Chat, and Forums like these, which I certainly am glad cc has both. Thanks again everyone, take care.
RE: Sneak Previews
The problem with sneak previews is that the room is always filled with guys begging/demanding free flashes of tit/ass/pussy that the host is so busy trying to control th room that you don't get a chance to establish any rapport in text before going to video. I think a free 10 second sample clip would be enough to check a host out.
RE: cheap=bad?
" no traffic at all "
Well that says it all. I think raising your price is counterproductive for your current situation. Normally when goods or services are not selling in the real world, prices are lowered or there is a sale. A higher price does not mean the quality is better, especially on a cam site.
I think hosts should be allowed to advertise in this forum. They should be able to display their prices and comments from their personal forum made by real viewers. I am 100% behind all hosts who are actually trying to please their paying customers as opposed to some of the prima donnas who act like they are doing their customers a favor by talking to them in paid video at very high prices.
Your price seems very fair to me.
Well that says it all. I think raising your price is counterproductive for your current situation. Normally when goods or services are not selling in the real world, prices are lowered or there is a sale. A higher price does not mean the quality is better, especially on a cam site.
I think hosts should be allowed to advertise in this forum. They should be able to display their prices and comments from their personal forum made by real viewers. I am 100% behind all hosts who are actually trying to please their paying customers as opposed to some of the prima donnas who act like they are doing their customers a favor by talking to them in paid video at very high prices.
Your price seems very fair to me.
RE: cheap=bad?
I am 100% behind all hosts who are actually trying to please their paying customers as opposed to some of the prima donnas who act like they are doing their customers a favor by talking to them in paid video at very high prices.
RE: cheap=bad?
Nooooooo Nooooooooo NOOOOOOOOOOOOO! Once the door is opened for hosts to advertise in here, it will be the end of the forum. There will cease to be meaningful communication and dialogue, it will become harder and harder to find the thread that is about a legitimate topic amidst all the self-promotion. If hosts want to advertise, then let there be a specific forum just for that purpose, but don't destroy what we have here. I speak from experience.
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I would not be put off by the low price. I have found that, in a large number of cases, the price charged does not relate to the quality of the show.
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"So please stop judging the way we sell ourselves,nothing is as it seems".
Lol, it was host who asked men's opinion about her price! She doesn't ask other hosts either.
Lol, it was host who asked men's opinion about her price! She doesn't ask other hosts either.
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i just discussed this recently with another host. before i answer the initial price question from a viewers opinion first of all you really should not be so harsh to yourself with you thinking and writing that you 'sell ourselves' on a sex site. and camcontacts here is one of the best and reputable with mostly polite well bred members anyway. and in general what is so bad being a little cheap and slutty in your very professional ways? not every girl can overcome herself and do this 'job' here and keep it professional like a good prostitute or even a glamorous escort.it is all the same in the sex business. it is sexual satisfaction for dollars and you are right all are satisfied. it is easy since it is like on a free self regulatory economy here. we men in control need your sex services since most women in the real world are not so cool and easy like you girls in here to be used and serving what a paying stranger tells them to do. we buy. sometimes we men need and demand and take somegirl to listen to us and sometimes somegirl to please and watch us and then we pay almost every price. you offer. so your price is not so much an issue for a gentleman like me when we want to have you.
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camcontacts here is one of the best and reputable with mostly polite well bred members"
And you know this how? I've had many hosts tell me about half of their viewers are polite and the other half rude.
And you know this how? I've had many hosts tell me about half of their viewers are polite and the other half rude.
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There's something called (by me anyway) the Stella effect, named after Stella Artois beer. Its not very good beer, and not rated highly in the country where its brewed, but marketed overseas with a premium price and effective advertising, it has a reputation as a first-rate product far in excess of its actual merits. Moral is judge the product not the hype.
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To answer yr basic question I would not be put off coming to yr room because yr price is too low.
You do not say how long you have been hosting here but if it is not long and hardly any members are coming to video for even a few minues or trying to chat in text then you should probably look at your pics and profile. Also the "DEscription" which is what appears on tthe "who is one line" list. Many hosts refine the details in the profile but leave this description unchanged. Yet this along with the profile pic is the first thing about you that members see. Ther are several that say "new" or even "Fist day on line" and when look at their archive pics I find they have been hosting for months.
There may be members who have a policy of not going to video witth any low priced host but if your profile and pics are not generating some traffic at 1.20 I doubt this would change at (say) 2.00. If you do decide to significantly raise yr open video price i would suggest decreasing the 121 percentage to 20 or 30pct.
You do not say how long you have been hosting here but if it is not long and hardly any members are coming to video for even a few minues or trying to chat in text then you should probably look at your pics and profile. Also the "DEscription" which is what appears on tthe "who is one line" list. Many hosts refine the details in the profile but leave this description unchanged. Yet this along with the profile pic is the first thing about you that members see. Ther are several that say "new" or even "Fist day on line" and when look at their archive pics I find they have been hosting for months.
There may be members who have a policy of not going to video witth any low priced host but if your profile and pics are not generating some traffic at 1.20 I doubt this would change at (say) 2.00. If you do decide to significantly raise yr open video price i would suggest decreasing the 121 percentage to 20 or 30pct.
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there are probably some things you can try to raise awareness of your room.
1) you might try visiting Community Chat. Use it to interact, and get to know the customers there. However, I don't recommend going there and inviting people to come see your pictures or visit you in videochat. Viewers tend to look down on those hosts who do that, as it violates the basic intent of Community Chat, which is for hosts and members to interact apart from regular videochat experience. Be part of the conversation there, not someone advertising herself there. Be likable, interesting, fun, and you may draw some to your room.
2) I believe it can still be done here: offer free videochat sessions so folks can get to know you, but keep a limit on them
3) Use your actual host name when posting here. Some say it is self-promotion, but I don't believe that is the case. I think all viewers and hosts should use their ID here. That way people know who they are talking with here in the forum and who is expressing what.
4) When not online, offer pre-recorded videos at reasonable price. My personal opinion, is that Pre-records should be less than the Live performance. They should also be worthwhile. Think about what the viewer wants, and if within the scope of your category and your values, offer it in a pre-record. But don't over do it. One host I wanted to visit was almost never live, but constantly in pre-recorded session. I lost interest, because I come here for live interaction, not to watch some video, no matter how hot and steamy it may have been (and it was)
5) When Members do visit you in videochat, follow up with a CCMail to tell them thanks. Don't make like you love them, or they are the answer to all your fantasies. Just a simple straightforward "Thank you, it was nice to have you in my videochat, and I hope you'll come again soon" --- that, for me, is always appreciated. Yes, I am enjoying you in videochat, but I am also spending my hard-earned money to do so. It's nice to know that you as host appreciate my business. Also, be personable, friendly; be sensitive to and attentive to the customer's needs and desires (within the scope of what is acceptable to you, of course.)
6) Be aware of price. Cheap doesn't always mean bad. I've been to some super expensive hosts who were just plain crappy. And some super cheap hosts who were outstanding. But by and large, the higher the price, the less chance there is I will come in for a visit. Track what kind of business you have at certain prices, and go with the price that offers you the best response. May take some time to figure out your optimum price.
7) Miscellaneous thoughts: Seek advice from more popular hosts. Always look your best. Be upbeat when people visit, look like you enjoy your work and are glad the customer has come to visit you. Always give a great show. Don't look bored, tired, or like you can't be bothered.
1) you might try visiting Community Chat. Use it to interact, and get to know the customers there. However, I don't recommend going there and inviting people to come see your pictures or visit you in videochat. Viewers tend to look down on those hosts who do that, as it violates the basic intent of Community Chat, which is for hosts and members to interact apart from regular videochat experience. Be part of the conversation there, not someone advertising herself there. Be likable, interesting, fun, and you may draw some to your room.
2) I believe it can still be done here: offer free videochat sessions so folks can get to know you, but keep a limit on them
3) Use your actual host name when posting here. Some say it is self-promotion, but I don't believe that is the case. I think all viewers and hosts should use their ID here. That way people know who they are talking with here in the forum and who is expressing what.
4) When not online, offer pre-recorded videos at reasonable price. My personal opinion, is that Pre-records should be less than the Live performance. They should also be worthwhile. Think about what the viewer wants, and if within the scope of your category and your values, offer it in a pre-record. But don't over do it. One host I wanted to visit was almost never live, but constantly in pre-recorded session. I lost interest, because I come here for live interaction, not to watch some video, no matter how hot and steamy it may have been (and it was)
5) When Members do visit you in videochat, follow up with a CCMail to tell them thanks. Don't make like you love them, or they are the answer to all your fantasies. Just a simple straightforward "Thank you, it was nice to have you in my videochat, and I hope you'll come again soon" --- that, for me, is always appreciated. Yes, I am enjoying you in videochat, but I am also spending my hard-earned money to do so. It's nice to know that you as host appreciate my business. Also, be personable, friendly; be sensitive to and attentive to the customer's needs and desires (within the scope of what is acceptable to you, of course.)
6) Be aware of price. Cheap doesn't always mean bad. I've been to some super expensive hosts who were just plain crappy. And some super cheap hosts who were outstanding. But by and large, the higher the price, the less chance there is I will come in for a visit. Track what kind of business you have at certain prices, and go with the price that offers you the best response. May take some time to figure out your optimum price.
7) Miscellaneous thoughts: Seek advice from more popular hosts. Always look your best. Be upbeat when people visit, look like you enjoy your work and are glad the customer has come to visit you. Always give a great show. Don't look bored, tired, or like you can't be bothered.
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"Easy to offer advices, especially when they are on the other side...."
==> First, my response wasn't to you, but to the original poster. Second. I couldn't care less if you take my "advices" or not.
"or u ever worked as host?"
=>Yes, actually, 6 months on another site. I was much more comfortable in the role as viewer, so I discontinued being a host.
"Anyway this post is kind of useless instead u don't wanna offer free services,of course members think the cheaper the better!!!"
==> Not really sure what exactly you are saying here.
"Can't u see all the high priced hosts are bad,very bad,lol,but at the end they are happy with full pockets and u,girls with low price cry on forum."
==> Are they? Are you?
"I am really curious how many guys who post here actually visit video rooms"
==>I have no idea. I only know my habits.
"All I got from community chat were free loaders and I mean ALLL!"
==> Well you didn't have me visit you. I don't freeload. Never have, never will.
==> First, my response wasn't to you, but to the original poster. Second. I couldn't care less if you take my "advices" or not.
"or u ever worked as host?"
=>Yes, actually, 6 months on another site. I was much more comfortable in the role as viewer, so I discontinued being a host.
"Anyway this post is kind of useless instead u don't wanna offer free services,of course members think the cheaper the better!!!"
==> Not really sure what exactly you are saying here.
"Can't u see all the high priced hosts are bad,very bad,lol,but at the end they are happy with full pockets and u,girls with low price cry on forum."
==> Are they? Are you?
"I am really curious how many guys who post here actually visit video rooms"
==>I have no idea. I only know my habits.
"All I got from community chat were free loaders and I mean ALLL!"
==> Well you didn't have me visit you. I don't freeload. Never have, never will.
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If I knew who you were, Id check you out right now..if I liked what I saw, Id put you in favorites, and then definitely visit you at 1.21.
It's definitely true, that low price girls can be awesome, and high price girls can be horrible as far as attitude and performance. As far as looks go, you either have it or you don't, but the other you have more control over.
In any case, my finances are okay...not poor, not rich...but I definitely pay attention to price. To a certain degree it's priciple. Meaning, basically if you can buy for example a shirt for 20.00, why on Earth would you buy the same shirt for 50.00 somewhere else. Or pay 9.00 for Milk, when right next to it is 3.00. There are a ton of girls on this site...if I can find great ones at the lower prices, why should I just more or less throw money away on the higher priced ones.
So in answer to your question, I think lower price is a good thing.
Bottom line for you though, honestly is simple: does it work for you. Experiment til you find the price that works best.
One problem with site though, is that there does not appear to be a way to search by price...it's just hit or miss...check each performer until you find a price you can live with.
It's definitely true, that low price girls can be awesome, and high price girls can be horrible as far as attitude and performance. As far as looks go, you either have it or you don't, but the other you have more control over.
In any case, my finances are okay...not poor, not rich...but I definitely pay attention to price. To a certain degree it's priciple. Meaning, basically if you can buy for example a shirt for 20.00, why on Earth would you buy the same shirt for 50.00 somewhere else. Or pay 9.00 for Milk, when right next to it is 3.00. There are a ton of girls on this site...if I can find great ones at the lower prices, why should I just more or less throw money away on the higher priced ones.
So in answer to your question, I think lower price is a good thing.
Bottom line for you though, honestly is simple: does it work for you. Experiment til you find the price that works best.
One problem with site though, is that there does not appear to be a way to search by price...it's just hit or miss...check each performer until you find a price you can live with.
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just because she is glam category does not mean she should lower her price...you really do not know all that she does...not all hosts in glam category only sit and talk.. just like not all hosts in lil shy only sit and talk and not all hosts in the hardcore category do hardcore shows...so it is not fair to tell a host that she is too high priced just because of the category she is in until you know for sure all that she does do.. maybe she does get naked and play at times...
I am in lil shy category and I do more than sit and talk..I dont go to the hard core category because when there before it was expected that you be wet and ready to ride even if your dryer than the sand dunes...loool.
I am in lil shy category and I do more than sit and talk..I dont go to the hard core category because when there before it was expected that you be wet and ready to ride even if your dryer than the sand dunes...loool.
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Most hosts just sit in front of a terminal and wait for guys to come to them. What is your marketing plan? How do you advertise/promote yourself? What do you offer others do not?