General Forum
RE: Age differences
If one partner is 18 and the other 30, I'd say that's pretty creepy, but if one is 30 and the other 42, that's acceptable as far as I'm concerned, My point being, the "acceptable difference" is a dependent variable, determined by the maturity and experience of the two (or more) individuals in the equation.
RE: Age differences
What is our age difference? I can be any age you want on the internetz... I can haz perfect age bb....
RE: Age differences
Why you care about what people think its an acceptable age difference in a relationship?No matter what you do/dont people will always find something to gossip about. If you marry when your young they would think your stupid or was forced into it.If you are in your 40's and not married they would probably think your gay.What is an acceptable age difference for you ?In the end thats what matters.
Good night everyone!
I dont find the topic interesting since i dont care about age difference or about what others do with their life and relationships.The reason i answered is because i thought u have a dilemma and my point ,shortly was do what u want and go for what you wish and stop asking what people would think of it. If i knew you were just asking for the sake of it because ur bored and you have nothing better to do i would not have bothered.Seems the concept older and wiser doesnt apply to all!DUH
RE: Age differences
Good answer. I feel the actual age difference is not so important. What matters is if two people can communicate on the same level and with common understanding, even intimately. That is of course more difficult as the age difference gets larger.
But maybe I am just creepy.
But maybe I am just creepy.
RE: Age differences
I like older men as talk companions, stealing knowdleges from them and not only, and for sure they knows how to treat a woman, in plus I feel much safer with them around me. And I like younger men as play buddies, if you know what I mean (lol) but ... in the end I think a long time relation as lover stands still only if the two involved in the relation has not so many years between them, otherwise against all at some point the relation will go down in pieces.
RE: Age differences
Well, I have read all your comments and mostly I agree it gets creepy if the guy is too old and the woman is too young.
But anyway I read the following formula somewhere for an acceptable age difference for what it is worth (not much).
Take the guys age and divide it by two....and then add 10. That is "acceptable."
Age of Man/2 + 10 = Age of woman.
So for example if the man is 50, an acceptable age for the woman would be 35. Personally I think the whole thing comes down to evolution. Men want women of good child bearing age and women want a man who can support them all.
But anyway I read the following formula somewhere for an acceptable age difference for what it is worth (not much).
Take the guys age and divide it by two....and then add 10. That is "acceptable."
Age of Man/2 + 10 = Age of woman.
So for example if the man is 50, an acceptable age for the woman would be 35. Personally I think the whole thing comes down to evolution. Men want women of good child bearing age and women want a man who can support them all.
RE: Age differences
Connection is the key......and if we are talking about two consenting age adults...then fundamentally it is no one else's business. But ofc, people love to gossip when there is a big age difference.
How come an older woman who attracts a younger man is called a Cougar...and an older man who gets a younger woman is considered either a pig or an old goat? :)
Athough some would call the old guy with a younger woman ...Damn Lucky.
How come an older woman who attracts a younger man is called a Cougar...and an older man who gets a younger woman is considered either a pig or an old goat? :)
Athough some would call the old guy with a younger woman ...Damn Lucky.
RE: Age differences
OMG, we have now a mathematic approach on CC, Jack? OK, I'll start my Odyssee to find a lady of 40.5 years young? And abandon all the remainders. I'll be back in 1 year or so.....;-) Fil
RE: Age differences
If you are a man, half your age and add 7. If you're a woman, stop trying to be a cougar :)
RE: Age differences
It was more a joke about generally held views. Sorry if you took offence. I guess you like younger men :-)
RE: Age differences
Age is but a number, so I just like my woman to love me. :)
p.s. I like me sexy/smart A--- very much :)
p.s. I like me sexy/smart A--- very much :)
RE: Age differences
Age difference is a personal preference to each person, what one finds desirable another may not. There are those who will be with a person because of the age as well as other reasons. Usually, not always but usually, with age comes maturity, experience, they have been thru more and have had the time to learn more and they certainly know for sure what they don't want, as well as many other good qualities.
All thru time many men, not all but many, have gone for much younger females, be it for the youth in the female, or a mid life crisis in the male, or simply he is attracted to that female. Just like there are women that will be with a younger male, be it because this younger man makes her feel younger or because she is just attracted to that male. Yes there are women who will be with a very much older man for his money, just like there are men who will be with a much older women for her money. Altho money pays the bills and will give material things, money does not and never will equal nor measure up to the love between two people.
The age of a person should not come into play when it comes to adults, but it does. As long as both people are legal adults, happy and consent to be with each other, that is all that matters.
Unfortunately there are those that make a big deal about a person's age, bragging that because they are younger or older that they are better than someone who is not. Some will even judge and form an opinion about a person without even talking to them simply because of their age. I learned that a person's age alone does not determine who nor how they are as a person.
Personally, if a much younger person wants to be with a much older person, or a much older person wants to be with a much younger person, that is their business and they should not be judged nor critisized for it.
For myself, it would be unrealistic and I would be leery of being in a relationship with a person who is much younger than myself. Due to that fact that... at 18-30 this age most, not all but most are still figuring out their life, thinking of what they want, educating themselves for the career of their choice, still at the partying all night stage, sewing those wild oats, putting notches in their head boards, etc. and what they want changes constantly.
Between about 31 to 40 many have started and/or are in their careers, and are starting to be or are ready for a relationship and having kids, if they not already have kids. 50 and up most are past all that and altho many still work, they are ready to enjoy all that they have worked hard for.
In a perfect world age would not matter as long as both people are legal age. But we don't live in a perfect world. So age has to be considered, but for the right reasons. A person should not be thrown to the curb nor cut down nor thought nor treated any less of just because of their age by anyone. Everyone becomes older not only in number but also in other ways.
There are 20 yr olds that look like they are 30, there are 30 yrs olds that look like they are 40 and so on. Just like there are 30 and 40 yr olds that look 20 and 30, and there are 50 yr olds and up that look younger then what they are. You can not always judge a person just by looking at the number, those who judge, toss away, critisizes and think less of those who are older will some day become older themselves.
That's my two cents worth in novel form. lool Now when talking sexually, welll that is another novel altogether. loool
All thru time many men, not all but many, have gone for much younger females, be it for the youth in the female, or a mid life crisis in the male, or simply he is attracted to that female. Just like there are women that will be with a younger male, be it because this younger man makes her feel younger or because she is just attracted to that male. Yes there are women who will be with a very much older man for his money, just like there are men who will be with a much older women for her money. Altho money pays the bills and will give material things, money does not and never will equal nor measure up to the love between two people.
The age of a person should not come into play when it comes to adults, but it does. As long as both people are legal adults, happy and consent to be with each other, that is all that matters.
Unfortunately there are those that make a big deal about a person's age, bragging that because they are younger or older that they are better than someone who is not. Some will even judge and form an opinion about a person without even talking to them simply because of their age. I learned that a person's age alone does not determine who nor how they are as a person.
Personally, if a much younger person wants to be with a much older person, or a much older person wants to be with a much younger person, that is their business and they should not be judged nor critisized for it.
For myself, it would be unrealistic and I would be leery of being in a relationship with a person who is much younger than myself. Due to that fact that... at 18-30 this age most, not all but most are still figuring out their life, thinking of what they want, educating themselves for the career of their choice, still at the partying all night stage, sewing those wild oats, putting notches in their head boards, etc. and what they want changes constantly.
Between about 31 to 40 many have started and/or are in their careers, and are starting to be or are ready for a relationship and having kids, if they not already have kids. 50 and up most are past all that and altho many still work, they are ready to enjoy all that they have worked hard for.
In a perfect world age would not matter as long as both people are legal age. But we don't live in a perfect world. So age has to be considered, but for the right reasons. A person should not be thrown to the curb nor cut down nor thought nor treated any less of just because of their age by anyone. Everyone becomes older not only in number but also in other ways.
There are 20 yr olds that look like they are 30, there are 30 yrs olds that look like they are 40 and so on. Just like there are 30 and 40 yr olds that look 20 and 30, and there are 50 yr olds and up that look younger then what they are. You can not always judge a person just by looking at the number, those who judge, toss away, critisizes and think less of those who are older will some day become older themselves.
That's my two cents worth in novel form. lool Now when talking sexually, welll that is another novel altogether. loool
RE: Age differences
Just my 2 cents...I met my wife on a site similar to CC a few years ago, in fact I introduced her to CC. I'm now 56 and she is 31. We met for a vacation twice in a sweet tropical setting, then she came to the US on a fiance visa. The relationship has been very rewarding for both of us and the citizen process very smooth. Age difference is only an issue when it creates a division..be it emotional, experiential or whatever. Of course there have been challenges, but every challenge brings with it a chance for growth. We are quite happy and strive to live in the moment.
RE: Age differences
Apologies if someone else already made this observation. I once heard a formula, goes like this; Take the older partner's age, divide by 2 then add 7 to determine the minimum "acceptable" age for the younger partner. eg. 50/2+7=32, 18/2+7=16, 70/2 +7=42 etc. I'm not promoting this as, obviously, there is no formula and every situation is different but the numbers do seem reasonable.
sexting?
An elderly couple had just learned how to send text messages on their cell phones.
The wife was a romantic type and the husband was more of a no-nonsense guy. One afternoon the wife went out to meet a friend for coffee. She decided to send her husband a romantic text message and she wrote:
"If you are sleeping, send me your dreams.
If you are laughing, send me your smile.
If you are eating, send me a bite.
If you are drinking, send me a sip.
If you are crying, send me your tears.
I love you."
The husband texted back to her: "I'm on the toilet. Please advise”.
The wife was a romantic type and the husband was more of a no-nonsense guy. One afternoon the wife went out to meet a friend for coffee. She decided to send her husband a romantic text message and she wrote:
"If you are sleeping, send me your dreams.
If you are laughing, send me your smile.
If you are eating, send me a bite.
If you are drinking, send me a sip.
If you are crying, send me your tears.
I love you."
The husband texted back to her: "I'm on the toilet. Please advise”.
RE: Cock ring and Tattoo
You promised me you would never ever talk about my "sex garage" tattoo. It was a college and I was dared... :P
RE: Cock ring and Tattoo
I used to have a sex van, I parked it in the garage. does that count?
RE: Cock ring and Tattoo
if i had a wish to use it would be for her butt on my head not a tattoo of it.
wish i had a £ for every time i've wished that.
if wishes were fishes i'd have an ocean of them swimming around in my head.
wish i had a £ for every time i've wished that.
if wishes were fishes i'd have an ocean of them swimming around in my head.
Text a postcard
Sending all my love to you..........CC hostsssssss(L)
kissesssssssssssssssssssssssssssss and take care all CC
kissesssssssssssssssssssssssssssss and take care all CC
RE: Text a postcard
Thank you Tony and may you always be surrounded with much love too.
Take care and try to stay out of trouble if possible. lool hugggggggg
Take care and try to stay out of trouble if possible. lool hugggggggg
Question for the lovely ladies out there in ccland
Ladies, we have had the best summer for years here, and as there are lots of hunnies wearing hardly anything I hae noticed something
There are more hunies with amazing sexy legs than I thought. This has prompted me to ask the ever knowledgable crowd here:
Ladies that have amazing sexy legs, is this because you work out and sculpt your legs, or is it genetics and you were just born lucky?
There are more hunies with amazing sexy legs than I thought. This has prompted me to ask the ever knowledgable crowd here:
Ladies that have amazing sexy legs, is this because you work out and sculpt your legs, or is it genetics and you were just born lucky?
RE: Question for the lovely ladies out there in ccland
when you are young good genetic is a big benefit, but if you want something you have to work on it... so work out is a must ;)
RE: Question for the lovely ladies out there in ccland
Do not eat too much and hard work in gym. And legs'll be perfect a whole life not only in youth
RE: Question for the lovely ladies out there in ccland
I can tell you aren't in your 50's or 60's yet. Varicose veins, spider veins. Whether work out/eat right or not, these can still come on you. Some of the worst legs I've ever seen was from someone who did just as you said, all her life.
RE: Question for the lovely ladies out there in ccland
If you worry about spider veins. We live in 21 century and veins are treated with laser in the hospital for three hours easily.
RE: Question for the lovely ladies out there in ccland
I have to say ladies thank you very much for your responses, it is very enlightning, and I look forward to continuing my studies on lovely legs with much more knowledge. I have only one more small question:
Which do you think creates the most shapely leg, 3 inch heels or 4 inch heels???
Which do you think creates the most shapely leg, 3 inch heels or 4 inch heels???
I'm on the 4th Floor<-------
A group of girlfriends is on vacation when they see a 5-story hotel with a sign that reads: "For Women Only". Since they are without their boyfriends and husbands, they decide to go in.The bouncer, a very attractive guy, explains to them how it works..."We have 5 floors. Go up floor by floor, and once you find what you are looking for, you can stay there. It's easy to decide since each floor has a sign telling you what's inside.
"So they start going up and on the first floor the sign reads:"All the men on this floor are short and plain." The friends laugh and without hesitation move on to the next floor.
The sign on the second floor reads: "All the men here are short and handsome."Still, this isn't good enough, so the friends continue on up.
They reach the third floor and the sign reads: "All the men here are tall and plain."They still want to do better, and so, knowing there are still two floors left, they continued on up.
On the fourth floor, the sign is perfect: "All the men here are tall and handsome."The women get all excited and are going in when they realize that there is still one floor left. Wondering what they are missing, they head on up to the fifth floor.
There they find a sign that reads: "There are no men here.This floor was built only to prove that there is no way to please a woman!
"So they start going up and on the first floor the sign reads:"All the men on this floor are short and plain." The friends laugh and without hesitation move on to the next floor.
The sign on the second floor reads: "All the men here are short and handsome."Still, this isn't good enough, so the friends continue on up.
They reach the third floor and the sign reads: "All the men here are tall and plain."They still want to do better, and so, knowing there are still two floors left, they continued on up.
On the fourth floor, the sign is perfect: "All the men here are tall and handsome."The women get all excited and are going in when they realize that there is still one floor left. Wondering what they are missing, they head on up to the fifth floor.
There they find a sign that reads: "There are no men here.This floor was built only to prove that there is no way to please a woman!
RE: I'm on the 4th Floor<-------
lol, if it was for men only, I'm staying in the basement. I was hoping to come up from there if this hotel was for women only.
RE: I'm on the 4th Floor<-------
it is for women only skinwalker I think sosubmissive was hoping no other women were allowed she just wanted to me the only woman, anyway I have been sent to the 6th floor call the private room for that one special woman-take care the others for me-thanks
RE: Tanlines: sexy or not?
Tanlines are not sexy at all. Not only do the uneven skin tones look bad; the tanning itself is really bad for the skin. Girls that spend lots of time tanning will look much older at a much younger age and have a much higher risk of cancer and premature death. Tanning is one of those fads that should be dumped into the dustbin of history.
RE: Tanlines: sexy or not?
Regarding the hazards of tanning: good points.
Regarding the sexiness of tanlines: speak for yourself :) I like them!
Regarding the sexiness of tanlines: speak for yourself :) I like them!
RE: Tanlines: sexy or not?
Yes, I find tan lines sexy....................they tell me where I shouldn't be!
Most Anazing butt <-------
I must have an AMAZING butt-because every time I finish talking to someone and turn to walk away, I hear them whisper, "What an ass"
RE: Most Anazing butt <-------
And thank you to you too bushwacker1...kitty even got her claws filed too...lool...hugggggggg
RE: Most Anazing butt <-------
well thank you naked4me01, very nice of you to say...hugggggggg
RE: Most Anazing butt <-------Ashley
agree with bushwacker and chekybratt- Ashely you butt is amazing
RE: Most Anazing butt <-------Ashley
Well thank you very much for your compliment AustinPP... hugggggggg
Thank you again to those who complimented my bum and my other parts, I very much appreciate such kindness. A wonderful evening to all hugggggggggg
Thank you again to those who complimented my bum and my other parts, I very much appreciate such kindness. A wonderful evening to all hugggggggggg
RE: Most Anazing butt <-------
sorry dude whomever you change your screen name from--the joke was about being a ass not about the ass it-self--
RE: Most Anazing butt <-------
I understood the joke, but still think you have amazing ass :) Kissss
RE: Most Anazing butt <-------
I think you have a friend in Thomas there PP, watch your butt and by the way kisses from Tina and have a great time on your trip.
RE: inflatable bra
I dated a girl who used one. Very tragic. One day she was mending some clothes and accidentally punctured the bra with the needle. She did a few pffffffffft pffffffft around the room then flew out the window, never to be seen again.
RE: inflatable bra
I think the older you people get and the longer you stay here you are running out of topics to talk about
theMaskMan
Where are you sweetheart I'm missing you and besides that you need to come back it's getting very bored and I missed your humour
A member Profile thought.........
What really turn me on: are smart women, interesting women, funny women, just women who enjoy life in the same way I do here. If you one of them, your man is waiting you
RE: A member Profile thought.........
I can see it now. All the profiles are different but they all use the same porn star cock picture...
RE: A member Profile thought.........
No that is not right. not every guy without a cam. I'm honest. Mine is 15 inches
RE: Heya CC ! :D
Welcome ......again Jessy. Im sure it should be "imshy" here first but he failed to see this from you. Just a hug from me to you.
RE: Heya CC ! :D
to all the gang in the cc room---right from the start you were a thief you stole my heart-and I your willing victim L let you see the parts of me that weren't all that pretty and with every touch you fixed them--damn I love cc and "Pink"
RE: what about my english?
Vacation? What is that? I don't remember ever taking one of those, just work work work :(
RE: what about my english?
JImb--vacation (take one and enjoy it) they say work doesn't help when time comes to a end.
Happy Birthday
Happy Birthday Paco. They say that people get wiser with age. I guess the people who have said that have not met you... Have a good day my friend!!
RE: Happy Birthday
thanks brews. and i am wiser with age but i also forget more with age so it evens out.
RE: Happy Birthday
opps belated hb paco---just think its wiser to forget some things-age does help
man runs into his ex at a bar
A man runs into his ex-girlfriend at a bar.
“I had sex with another woman last night,” he tells her. “But I was thinking of you the whole time.”
“You miss me that much?” she asks.
“No,” he says. “But it kept me from cuming too fast.”
“I had sex with another woman last night,” he tells her. “But I was thinking of you the whole time.”
“You miss me that much?” she asks.
“No,” he says. “But it kept me from cuming too fast.”
Invitation 1
The pleasure of your company is requested- Please celebrate with us the freshness of new life and new love as we-Two lives, two hearts
joined together in friendship united forever in love........(I'm asking some of you lovers here what do you think does this sound good or do I need to put some more thought into it),
joined together in friendship united forever in love........(I'm asking some of you lovers here what do you think does this sound good or do I need to put some more thought into it),
RE: Invitation 1
that sounds like a nice Invitation Austin, not sure if you are asking for suggestions, but if I may.....
The pleasure of your company is requested as two lives and two hearts joined in friendship, now celebrate unite our new life and new love together as one forever in love. or... as one in love forever.
We request the pleasure of your company as we celebrate the freshness of new life and new love as two lives and two hearts joined in friendship now unite in love forever.
We insert names here, request the pleasure of your company as we celebrate the freshness of two lives and two hearts joined in friendship, begin our new life and new love unite together as one forever in love.
We request the pleasure of your company as we celebrated the freshness of two lives and two hearts joined in friendship, unite our new life and new love as one forever in love.
The pleasure of your company is requested as two lives and two hearts joined in friendship, now celebrate unite our new life and new love together as one forever in love. or... as one in love forever.
We request the pleasure of your company as we celebrate the freshness of new life and new love as two lives and two hearts joined in friendship now unite in love forever.
We insert names here, request the pleasure of your company as we celebrate the freshness of two lives and two hearts joined in friendship, begin our new life and new love unite together as one forever in love.
We request the pleasure of your company as we celebrated the freshness of two lives and two hearts joined in friendship, unite our new life and new love as one forever in love.
RE: Invitation 2
OK I thought about it: Dress as you wish, dine as you like, dance as you please. Please join us for dinner, dancing & dalliance!
RE: Invitation 2
How about?
"Oh, you all know what we are doing, Get your asses over here and join us for the party!" Simpler, but more to the point ;)
"Oh, you all know what we are doing, Get your asses over here and join us for the party!" Simpler, but more to the point ;)
RE: hi,im new here,
welcome to cc Anelize- only advice I have is have fun-keep on smiling and sorry your cam not working.
RE: hi,im new here,
Hello Anelize, welcome to the site, I get that happen often and it is not in use anywhere else either. I have a second cam hooked up for back up and I either switch back and forth till it doesn't say it no more or I have to log out of room and back in again until it does no say that any more. Yes you can use SplitCam, I have used it before and it works fine for me.
Good luck to you and have fun. hugggggggg
Good luck to you and have fun. hugggggggg
RE: hi,im new here,
Ashley your always so sweet-one of these days you need to take a trip to Alaska,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
RE: hi,im new here,
awww thank you for the compliment Austin, I came close to Alaska, when I use to go to Fort St. John, Loyddminster,, Dawson Creek, Wainright, St. Paul and that area a lot. I have some friends that go to alaska often when they go panning for gold, they bug me to go with them, but I think that is only so I can do the cooking for them loool. huggggggg
I greet all of the forum!
I would ask if you could help me with an answer, I would like to put my pictures stored in my computer the profile picture and I do not know if you can? From what I read on here I think you can only do your picture with the web site and then placed in profile, but do not understand why I can not save the file to your computer pictures made of computer memory, thank it if you could help me with an answer!