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meeting hosts...
ive been talkin to this 1 host for a couple years n we really fell for each other. we talked bout seein each other and have started plannin our lives together but come to find out she actually married n just now tellin me. she says she leave him n be with me. anyone ever met for a host that was married n did it ever work out? i not sure what 2 do n would luv if any1 been in same situation on here since i read many stories of meetin up. thx
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if she has been lying to u for over 2 yrs and only just now "telling the truth" she is bound to lie again...and the fact she says she is gonna leave her husband for u...well...no doubt she'll do the same again IF she did get with u
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Hate to do it, but got to agree with shy. Most of this site is living a lie to some extent or another. There have been some "success" stories here, but, I think, not as many as would have liked.
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It may be that she truly likes you. And there is no doubt that love disappears after a while. Maybe she is experiencing it with her husband now. But telling you that she would leave him although she has never met you for real...it goes a bit too far.
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Exactly as imshy put it. Also, there is absolutely nothing guaranteed in a relation that started off with a lie. Especially that she was able to keep the lie for 2 years! Geez! I wish I could keep a lie for so long, lol.
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Imshy's reply is absolutely correct. Anyone, regardless if male or female, who can hold such a lie for so long has now taught themselves how to use it again for their own benefit at the expense of the unsuspected.
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I wanna put anoher point of view. She may have atarted off saying she she was single, as many hosts do. Once you two began to get more serious it becomes hard to admit she has been lying. She may also have wondered about your own commitment. Now that you are seriously talking about meeting for real she has admitted the truth. If had continued to lie after real meetings i would be inclined to agree with Shy and Mondo but as you have not yet met I would still consider going ahead and meeting.
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Better to find out now than when you're in the netcafe in the hotel lobby telling her you arrived as promised and she asks if she can bring her boyfriend to come meet you. It happened to me.
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... and it happened to me too... 15 months of chatting, romantic letters, gifts, sms, and phone calls bothways. She always told me she was single living with mom and dad. I thought I had found the love of my life so I traveled to russia to meet her. I got to the hotel and called her to let her know. She sounded so excited to know I was there. Then half an hour later she showed up with a young guy. I didn't know who he was and I never thought it was her bf since he even smiled at me. She greeted me with a nice hug and a fast kiss to my lips then I shook hands with the young man. He was polite. I thought he was a friend to her. She then said: He is my bf with who I live for 3 years and we will get marry soon, but we need your help to get visa to USA... I felt a bucket of cold water on my head to my toes. Well, that was the only day we met. She text me to meet again without her bf, but no thanks! I told her I was actually meeting someone else that was really single and not a lier as her. I had a nice necklace that I had bought for her and decided to give it to another host friend of mine that happened to live in the same town... but dont get me wrong. My other friend always told me about her husband and family and she didnt ask for any visa help.
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This is Fantasy Island. Slam Bam thank you mam. Over and out. Case Closed.
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Were it not for the crushed heart you were nursing I would have said to meet her, pressure her for a bit of "fun" and after a couple days without her bf around stop answering her calls.
I was in a certain East European city for matters other than meeting hosts and I put out a few calls to meet for coffee. I met one and had a pleasant visit. Another simply said "I'd love to but don't have time." One sent a request for an advance payment of 200 euros for a night of fun. And one sent me on a wild goose chase for an hour trying to find the meeting place until she finally texted me and said: "sorry my mom is sick, I can't come." Some of these girls love to play you.
Funny thing is the one that didn't have time actually IMed me a few months later asking for a loan. I told her that it was unfortunate that she didn't have an hour or so for a coffee and - isn't it odd - I just didn't know where my wallet was just now.
Bottom line, never go on such a trip with the sole intention of meeting only a single, particular girl. Don't go expecting a sure-thing hook-up. Have a back-up plan and be ready to simply play tourist with solo visits to museums and castles, if it comes to that.
I was in a certain East European city for matters other than meeting hosts and I put out a few calls to meet for coffee. I met one and had a pleasant visit. Another simply said "I'd love to but don't have time." One sent a request for an advance payment of 200 euros for a night of fun. And one sent me on a wild goose chase for an hour trying to find the meeting place until she finally texted me and said: "sorry my mom is sick, I can't come." Some of these girls love to play you.
Funny thing is the one that didn't have time actually IMed me a few months later asking for a loan. I told her that it was unfortunate that she didn't have an hour or so for a coffee and - isn't it odd - I just didn't know where my wallet was just now.
Bottom line, never go on such a trip with the sole intention of meeting only a single, particular girl. Don't go expecting a sure-thing hook-up. Have a back-up plan and be ready to simply play tourist with solo visits to museums and castles, if it comes to that.
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You need to revise you life and analyse why do you always fall for a certain type of girls that "play" you. I know many girls on here (including myself) who definitely don't play such "cheap" games. And I actually know a few cases when girls got married to the guys they met here. You simply have to be honest with yourself- analyse your age, appearance and level of intelligence. Maybe it would be useful to read about the history of the country the girl is from. But not what you read in usual papers (mostly all the same and often bullshit)...maybe better talk to a person from that country originally and that moved to your country- ask her how it was there... You will be better prepared for a meeting.
Ciao.
Ciao.
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man sounds like a bad ride but at least u get to see the country. what country and city did this happen in?
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Something I always thought about in that situation, if she will leave another man for you, what is to keep her from leaving you for another man? Honestly, unless he is abusing her, if she is willing to leave someone so easily, how could you trust her later. Same goes for a guy willing to leave his wife, how can there be trust in the future?
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I agree, the girl is not worth your trust or doesn't mean it seriously if she wants to leave you. I don't approve of her promises but if you look at the situation from a new angle, it may be that she has lost some sense of reality talking to so many men here. When you work as a host and are married, you may not separate as clearly: "This is my husband and I do sexual things for him only and those are all other men". She may be hiddenly unsatisfied with the fact that he lets her work as a chathost and is searching for a more "traditional" relationship... The question is whether you are able to support her financially and emotionally while she will try to find a new job in a new for her country or will you let her work here as her husband..? I don't say he abuses her by letting her work but we don't know how she feels about it. Will you always suspect her of of wanting to leave you? And will she always have to prove you she is not a bad person despite she has left her husband?...(I can imagine it may be tiresome for her in the long run).
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Reminds me of Jesse James and Sandra Bullock. He was married when they met and he left his wife for Sandra. And then Sandra gets all upset when he commits infidelity. lol What a joke.
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So is there a big difference between a married person and a person with a steady bf? If a girl leaves her bf for you, you will not think that she might cheat on you as well but if she has left your husband for you, she cannot be trusted?
What is better, a girl without children who got divorced for you or a single mum not in a relation?
Mmm and what about the age gap? If the guy is wealthy and she is not and she is considerably younger, she is only after his money and cannot be trusted as well?
And if she is Russian/ Romanian and you are from the UK / US etc. than the same rule applied?
I think you can always find something why you cannot trust somebody.
That is why chathosts don't disclouse much information about themselves in chat - in real life many are normal people in different situations and not "ideal chathosts" to become your gf. And people they meet on the internet cannot be trusted right away to provide them with the "right information". Perhaaps it is better to talk about all those differences in a normal face to face talk. But then the problem is that the moment the married person starts talking to you about the possibility of being together - she moves to the category of possible cheaters :))
What is better, a girl without children who got divorced for you or a single mum not in a relation?
Mmm and what about the age gap? If the guy is wealthy and she is not and she is considerably younger, she is only after his money and cannot be trusted as well?
And if she is Russian/ Romanian and you are from the UK / US etc. than the same rule applied?
I think you can always find something why you cannot trust somebody.
That is why chathosts don't disclouse much information about themselves in chat - in real life many are normal people in different situations and not "ideal chathosts" to become your gf. And people they meet on the internet cannot be trusted right away to provide them with the "right information". Perhaaps it is better to talk about all those differences in a normal face to face talk. But then the problem is that the moment the married person starts talking to you about the possibility of being together - she moves to the category of possible cheaters :))
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Met host here in 2002 and in her city later that year. Got visa in 2003 ,she came here ( USA),,,been married 7 years now. It can work . with eyes wide open .
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i wouldnt give up just yet. i once met a girl off the internet ( a long long time ago and not from a website like this) and as it turned out, she lied to me also. however i decided to give her a chancea dn things worked out really good for us. we were together for 7 years and i will say she is still the love of my life and ill never love another like her. nothing ventured, nthing gained friend.
RE: concerned girl ELISA test - Interested member statement/question
Stick to the Technical Forum please, you're adept at this side of the forums
RE: concerned girl ELISA test - Interested member statement/question
I think you made a mistake. Its not a lady. Its just a HIV test called ..."Elisa test".
Hope it helps.
Hope it helps.
RE: concerned girl ELISA test - Interested member statement/question
I suppose you meant "not adept" or "inept", but there is a pot calling the kettle color names. lol
RE: concerned girl ELISA test - Interested member statement/question
USE CONDOM or Use plastic bag with rubber band either way u can do that for sex
Collagen Lips
I can't stand collagen lips. Well, maybe slightly done ones, to give them more sexy, puffy look. But I can't believe how many women I see who seem to have fallen asleep during the injection process and woke up to look like some kind of sucker-fish. One woman I saw, I swear, if you smacked her face up against a wall, her lips would have suctioned cupped her there until next July comes round again.
concerned girl
Hey! Did someone of you have the AIDS test "ELISA" positive and Westernblot (the more thorough test) negative? I have had the same reaction one year ago and the current ELISA and then Westernblot test are the same. So I 100% have no AIDS, the doc said, but I wonder why the f... do I belong to the 1% of the people who have this "false positive" first reaction:( ?
RE: concerned girl
You learn something new on this site every day.
But the reason may be (from Wikipedia) "the most controversial aspect of this test is determining the "cut-off" point between a positive and negative result."
But the reason may be (from Wikipedia) "the most controversial aspect of this test is determining the "cut-off" point between a positive and negative result."
RE: concerned girl
shamefully enough only one for many years. And hundreds of cyberguys... maybe even thousands O:)
RE: concerned girl
Unfortunately, false positives happen. The tests are not perfect. They also occur in home pregnancy tests.
RE: concerned girl
better false positives than false negatives,
Also ELISA tests are not as specific as the other, they respond only to antibodies for HIV and not HIV itself, your body may be making the antibodies even though you dont have HIV.
My mother has the same problem with TB tests. She always tests positive on the simple test, but never positive when an x-ray is done. Working in the schools system and food service she has had to take the test several times in the past.
Also ELISA tests are not as specific as the other, they respond only to antibodies for HIV and not HIV itself, your body may be making the antibodies even though you dont have HIV.
My mother has the same problem with TB tests. She always tests positive on the simple test, but never positive when an x-ray is done. Working in the schools system and food service she has had to take the test several times in the past.
RE: concerned girl
Thank you for your replies.
I wonder...if one day I meet another guy and we like each other etc. (life is long), would I have to tell him before sex that I have the test results? Or not mention at all? What would you prefer, guys?
I wonder...if one day I meet another guy and we like each other etc. (life is long), would I have to tell him before sex that I have the test results? Or not mention at all? What would you prefer, guys?
RE: concerned girl
...and what would be your reaction/decision given the fact that it is "negative" after all? I guess smart people first do the tests and then have sex. Condoms protect but not from all sexaully transmitted deseases...
(reality is sometimes less romantic than cybersex:) )
(reality is sometimes less romantic than cybersex:) )
RE: concerned girl
it happened to my bf. we lived together for 4 years and was happy couple, but he met a girl at work and had one time sex with her. he didnt know until someone else told him that the girl was HiV positive. he asked the girl and the girl confessed she had the virus. he went to test with doctor and the result was positive. then he came home and confessed he was unfaithful to me with this girl and that he was afraid that i got the virus too, but my results were negative. he was very sad for very long time and he thought he could die, but i told him to go to other doctor and this new doctor say he was fine and that his test before was a false positive. i am with him becuase i love him much and i know he learned from his mistake.
RE: concerned girl
wow thank you for sharing. Did your bf try to find out what the reason of such a reaction was? My doc told me that one of the genes may act strange to give the "false positive" reaction. And also if you have allergies, the "false positive" may occur.
Not sure whether I should try to find out what the reason is. I will have to have all the genes and the allergies and the infections checked...
Not sure whether I should try to find out what the reason is. I will have to have all the genes and the allergies and the infections checked...
RE: concerned girl
If you are satisfied that you are genuinely negative, then I should just rejoice in that fact and not worry too much about the cause of the false positive. Brooding on the past will only compromise your enjoyment of the present and future. Try to put it behind you and have fun.
Split pictures
Why are pictures in host's photo galleries sometimes split? One host I looked at (Miss Luna) the picture is split in three parts: the bottom left part is moved to the far right, the bottom right part moved to the far left, and the top section as it should be. Most of the time, however, the picture just looks like someone cut it with a knife and taped it back together but didn't get it lined up right. Not every pic, just some look that way.
RE: Split pictures
Must be your bifocals gramps...I looked at her pics and they look fine. I don't see what you mean. Take any LSD lately?
RE: Split pictures
The first pic in MissLuna's 8th August archive is split into 3 parts. At least on my PC. Perhaps it is you who needs bifocals. Either that or I have accidentally swallowed some LSD.
RE: Split pictures
Well I suggest opening your eyes next time. First three pics on 8 August are as I said.
RE: Split pictures
true. its happends. its somthing like ERROR... :((((( i wish our pics were in better quality on cc..:(
RE: Split pictures
I suspect it is meant to be artistic. Either that or there camera is fucked or I have, still, accidentally swallowed some LSD.
RE: Split pictures
if a host uploads a pic thru the cc server by way of splitcam this sometimes happens...it isnt anything to do with her cam just the way it uploads and there is nothing the host can do about it
The Old Man
Harold is 95 and lives in a Senior Citizen Home.
Every night after dinner, Harold goes to a secluded garden behind the Centre to sit and ponder his accomplishments and long life.
One evening, Mildred, age 87, wanders into the garden. They begin to chat and before they know it, several hours have passed.
After a short lull in their conversation, Harold turns to Mildred and asks, 'Do you know what I miss most of all?'
She asks, 'What?'
'Sex!!' he replies,
Mildred exclaims, 'Why you old fart. You couldn't get it up if I held a gun to your head!'
'I know,' Harold says, 'but it would be nice if a woman could just hold it for a while.'
Well, I can oblige,' says Mildred, who unzips his trousers, removes his manhood and proceeds to hold it. Afterward, they agree to meet secretly each night in the garden where they would sit and talk and Mildred would hold Harold's manhood.
Then one night Harold didn't show up at their usual meeting place. Alarmed, Mildred decided to find Harold and make sure he was O.K.
She walked around the Senior Citizen Home where she found him sitting by the pool with Ethel, another female resident, who was holding Harold's manhood!
Furious, Mildred yelled, 'You two-timing son of a bitch! What does Ethel have that I don't have?'
Old Harold smiled happily and replied, 'Parkinson's.'
Every night after dinner, Harold goes to a secluded garden behind the Centre to sit and ponder his accomplishments and long life.
One evening, Mildred, age 87, wanders into the garden. They begin to chat and before they know it, several hours have passed.
After a short lull in their conversation, Harold turns to Mildred and asks, 'Do you know what I miss most of all?'
She asks, 'What?'
'Sex!!' he replies,
Mildred exclaims, 'Why you old fart. You couldn't get it up if I held a gun to your head!'
'I know,' Harold says, 'but it would be nice if a woman could just hold it for a while.'
Well, I can oblige,' says Mildred, who unzips his trousers, removes his manhood and proceeds to hold it. Afterward, they agree to meet secretly each night in the garden where they would sit and talk and Mildred would hold Harold's manhood.
Then one night Harold didn't show up at their usual meeting place. Alarmed, Mildred decided to find Harold and make sure he was O.K.
She walked around the Senior Citizen Home where she found him sitting by the pool with Ethel, another female resident, who was holding Harold's manhood!
Furious, Mildred yelled, 'You two-timing son of a bitch! What does Ethel have that I don't have?'
Old Harold smiled happily and replied, 'Parkinson's.'
Michela Quattrociocche wowwwww
think Michela Quattrociocche just extremaly beautiful .how do u think?
RE: Michela Quattrociocche wowwwww
Looks like Famke Janssen, but Famke is hotter:)
Not bad but too simple looking for my liking:)
Not bad but too simple looking for my liking:)
Alexa, have you seen it?
Has some interesting information about our beloved site here. For example, TS Marinaa was the 7th most popular searched item in 2009. Killerbody20 was #6. The largest group of people visiting here are males, ages 40-54, Single, no children, and without college education. CC ranks something like almost 38000th-something, compared to all internet sites (not only adult ones).
RE: Alexa, have you seen it?
Where do you get these stats? I never gave this site anything but a credit card number when I signed up
RE: Alexa, have you seen it?
i guess you haven't realized yet that manually entering personal data on a per site basis is no longer required - the internet already knows everything about you.
RE: Alexa, have you seen it?
TS Marinaa was the 7th most popular searched item in 2009. Killerbody20 was #6. , Marinaa last online was on 2005, killerbody20 last online was 2006.. funny stats.
Futon Fetish
Ok, I admit, I'm probably a bit strange. But my fetish is a futon fetish. Something about seeing a hot girl on a pulled out futon sends me through the ceiling. I'm at the point now where I can't even get excited unless there's a futon in the picture. I go to furniture stores and it's all I can do to make it through the futon section without creamin my jeans, and if some hot babe happens to be trying one out, I just give up!
Problem is I can't find any futon girls here. Either they are on actual beds, or in chairs. But I want a futon. Please, anyone, if you know of a girl using a futon here please post it and let me know!
Problem is I can't find any futon girls here. Either they are on actual beds, or in chairs. But I want a futon. Please, anyone, if you know of a girl using a futon here please post it and let me know!
Meeting hosts in person?
Just kidding, but I got you to look. OK really this gets posted over time more than anything. But lets take a look at the viewers. OK take out the non traditional types and focus mainly on the average Joe logging in here on a regular basis. What if the opportunity arose to actually meet his favorite or one of his favorite hosts in person. Ok ok this is a huge what if, but hang in there with me. To log in here and go to a video with one of his favorite hosts is very easy and very convenient for him to, money invested yes but no emotional capital and no performance obligation. All he has to worry about is his own satisfaction, does not have to worry about the girl's happiness at all. Afterall she is getting paid to make him happy. Its not a give and take situation that an actual real world relationship requires. How am I doing so far?
Ok and if the video is not going as he thinks it should, well there's always the internet connection to blame for a disconnect. In other words a quick escape is very easy to do on line, but in person, not so much. So in conclusion, I am quite certain that the vast, vast majority of guys here would ever really go through with a face to face meeting with his favorite host if that possibility presented itself.
In the interest of transparency, I actually did meet a host in 2005 from another site, who did have a room here but rarely used it. But 212 miles is not exactly the girl next door. So you might say LTRs are like real estate, location, location, location.
Well I could go on, but I'll stop here. I don't want to say anything that will keep cc from posting this.
Ok and if the video is not going as he thinks it should, well there's always the internet connection to blame for a disconnect. In other words a quick escape is very easy to do on line, but in person, not so much. So in conclusion, I am quite certain that the vast, vast majority of guys here would ever really go through with a face to face meeting with his favorite host if that possibility presented itself.
In the interest of transparency, I actually did meet a host in 2005 from another site, who did have a room here but rarely used it. But 212 miles is not exactly the girl next door. So you might say LTRs are like real estate, location, location, location.
Well I could go on, but I'll stop here. I don't want to say anything that will keep cc from posting this.
RE: Meeting hosts in person?
Many of the hosts in college have had an opportunity to work and live in the USA over the summer. They are placed in cities all over the US. I have known at least a dozen girls from here who have taken advantage of the program. Some more than once. Now what would you to with that opportunity?
RE: Meeting hosts in person?
I think the US Department of State would look askance at anyone here on a J-1 Visa or any other type of Visa here in the states and working on this or any other similar site!
RE: Meeting hosts in person?
Not sure what visa they are are on but the hosts I know who did this did not work on CC while they were in US. They did do temporary work for companies. I have no idea whether this was legal or not.
RE: Meeting hosts in person?
With over 20 million illegals in the US now, a few smoking hot Russian cam girls is ok by me.
RE: Meeting hosts in person?
A girl on a J-1 visa in the US is specifically prohibited from working in any adult entertainment field, but since she's registered from her home country and paid from a non-US account there would be very very little chance of her ever being caught on CC unless she announced it in open chat along with her name, work place and social security number.
But most of them live crammed 4 or more in an apartment paying with little chance at more than a few minutes privacy at a time. They could never open a room for an adult show.
They come to the US for the experience, the chance to improve their English, add to their CV and maybe make some money. Though most generally only make enough to pay their expenses unless they are able to get a second job.
But most of them live crammed 4 or more in an apartment paying with little chance at more than a few minutes privacy at a time. They could never open a room for an adult show.
They come to the US for the experience, the chance to improve their English, add to their CV and maybe make some money. Though most generally only make enough to pay their expenses unless they are able to get a second job.
RE: Meeting hosts in person?
Not quite. The F-1 visa is for students; the J-1 is for "exchange visitors" and is a bit more stringent. It's typically granted to researchers or scholars.
RE: Why do white women love rich men?
Why not fall in love with a rich man rather than a poor man if a woman
has what it takes? Love, financial security, options, fun places and being pampered with things you couldn't have otherwise sounds like
a perfect package to me if you're happy!! Not all women qualify for that attraction so if you have what it takes to attract a rich man. So my question back to you is why not fall in love with a rich man :P
has what it takes? Love, financial security, options, fun places and being pampered with things you couldn't have otherwise sounds like
a perfect package to me if you're happy!! Not all women qualify for that attraction so if you have what it takes to attract a rich man. So my question back to you is why not fall in love with a rich man :P
RE: Why do white women love rich men?
i recently heard someone define love as caring more for another's happiness than your own. simply put and really true, i thought.
anyway, thanks for reminding me just how rare that kind of caring really is - good luck in finding your sugar daddy.
anyway, thanks for reminding me just how rare that kind of caring really is - good luck in finding your sugar daddy.
RE: Why do white women love rich men?
No one is capable of bringing happiness to another......if they are not happy you can't fix it. One who is an ideal mate for someone can add to their existing happiness. A rich man is usually pretty happy with his accomplishments and if single the only thing he can't buy is love. When he is looking for love it is generally to share his lifestyle with the person he falls in love with......seems very simple if she loves back and is happy. If he has all the other.....love is all she can provide to him.
RE: Why do white women love rich men?
All, my post was a sarcastic come back to the one below on black men! LOL But I love all the replies!
RE: Why do white women love rich men?
white women love something more than money - BBC (big black co**).
question for Russian girls, and others
almost all of you have shaved or waxed pussy, which I love! I am just wondering if this is now the norm for all young russian women? Or only for cam girls? Same question for other countires. In usa, most girls still do not shave all, (At least from my limited experience.)
RE: question for Russian girls, and others
yes,most girls are shaving their pussies>:)maybe 90% ,or so.,thouse who are 16-35 at least... think older women mostly dont. at least its what i seen on the beach:P
RE: question for Russian girls, and others
Ahh the taste and smell of hair, stale with the woman's scent.
Ahh the feel of hair stuck to the back of the throat or using it as floss between your teeth.
nothing better than unshaved woman!
Ahh the feel of hair stuck to the back of the throat or using it as floss between your teeth.
nothing better than unshaved woman!
RE: question for Russian girls, and others
I shave my balls for the same feeling, women love it!
RE: question for Russian girls, and others
You like Cheetah? or Cheetah likes Jane? What kind of a jungle are you running there, Tarzan?
RE: question for Russian girls, and others
Yes, it is way too limited! Please help me broaden it! It might be mutually beneficial.
RE: question for Russian girls, and others
mmmm A dirty, sweaty, hairy, unhygienic woman. Also give her bad breath and you'll have my ideal woman :P
RE: question for Russian girls, and others
Oh give me a good German girl with hairy legs and armpits any day!
BTW my favorite president is BUSH! lol
BTW my favorite president is BUSH! lol
Why do white women love black men?
Why do white women love black men
70% of black/white relationships are black male & white woman. A poll said that 78% of white woman ages 15-30 are attracted to black men. But its just not the u.s, russian women tend to like african american men alot. In germany and australia IR dating is big. Alot of Eastern European women do seem to take alot of interest in bm. It seems that the black male/white woman is very common nowadays. Even in the south in places like ga, tn, sc, nc, miss, la, or tx you can find bm/ww.
Does anybody know why this is happening? I have a co-worker who told me to hook her up with a black dude. I did now thats all she talks about everyday at work all day long. How great he is & how much fun she is having since they started dating. She told me she even has gotten her girlfriends to date black men and they like it to.
70% of black/white relationships are black male & white woman. A poll said that 78% of white woman ages 15-30 are attracted to black men. But its just not the u.s, russian women tend to like african american men alot. In germany and australia IR dating is big. Alot of Eastern European women do seem to take alot of interest in bm. It seems that the black male/white woman is very common nowadays. Even in the south in places like ga, tn, sc, nc, miss, la, or tx you can find bm/ww.
Does anybody know why this is happening? I have a co-worker who told me to hook her up with a black dude. I did now thats all she talks about everyday at work all day long. How great he is & how much fun she is having since they started dating. She told me she even has gotten her girlfriends to date black men and they like it to.
RE: Why do white women love black men?
Wrong ! Never felt attracted by black /mulatto men and not even one of girls i know is intrested about them .
RE: Why do white women love black men?
good idea. i might find myself a black lover then :D im a white girl from eastern europe age under 30 and i always liked them. they are hot, sexy, funny and some of them smart too :)) (not to mention good in bed as i heard, and romantic -- Boys II Men..WOW)
RE: Why do white women love black men?
That's the problem with statistics. They can easily be manipulated to give the answer that you want depending on the question asked. having said that I also agree with you that it doesn't really matter.
RE: Why do white women love black men?
I being from the South agree with this assessment. White females, particularly in the South, have always been intrigued with black males. However, many BM's have told me that being with a WF serves two purposes: an ego trip; and to get away from BFs because they keep reminding them of their roots. But, and this is a big but, BMs will harass a BF when found dating a WM. I have seen this happen several times. And, when I ask a WF why she prefers BM, well, the answer is always the same: size. Not sure if the same is true in all cases in other parts of the US, and other countries. Just know what it is like in the southern states; particularly La., Miss., and Ala. But, in all, WMs are very frustrated with all this which is why quite a few try to imitate the BMs' personality and outward characteristics.
RE: Why do white women love black men?
Is this why Tiger Woods is so successful with white chicks????
RE: Why do white women love black men?
I think not !!! The ladies love Tiger for his good looks, charm, wit & above all his skin colour. If he was a mega rich & white no way would be be such a babe magnet.
RE: Why do white women love black men?
it's just a rumour put about by black men & white liberals.
perhaps someone couild provide us with the divorce stats for black/white couples? Of course if i were to say many white women dislike black men i would be labeled a racist.
I hear hosts at cc like fat middle aged bald men? Well, fat middle aged and bald describes most of the members... I am sure the stats will back me up on this !
conclusion,
if you're fat bald, middel aged & have a credit card skin colour is not important.
happy wanking !!!
What a dumb post.
perhaps someone couild provide us with the divorce stats for black/white couples? Of course if i were to say many white women dislike black men i would be labeled a racist.
I hear hosts at cc like fat middle aged bald men? Well, fat middle aged and bald describes most of the members... I am sure the stats will back me up on this !
conclusion,
if you're fat bald, middel aged & have a credit card skin colour is not important.
happy wanking !!!
What a dumb post.
RE: Why do white women love black men?
Its true, what i like about girls here is that they are smart and know what they want... They all love me! Life is wonderful :-D
RE: Why do white women love black men?
I can't beleive no one has said it,
I've not only heard it but also I've read it,
An axiom true, observable in life,
Don't ask just me, go ask your wife,
They say: "When you go black,
You'll never go back."
I've not only heard it but also I've read it,
An axiom true, observable in life,
Don't ask just me, go ask your wife,
They say: "When you go black,
You'll never go back."
RE: Why do white women love black men?
the first statistic if actually acurate could also mean that a high percentage of white men dont find black women attractive thus providing some answer for your first statistic.
RE: Why do white women love black men?
i do not think we are suppose to talk about this. In my humble opinion, there is no way we should stereotype people. White people cannot jump or dance, black people are not as smart as whites, asians are small and cannot see well, i have met many people from all ethnic groups are i have found some great people and some not so great people. There is no norm for any group. Thanks
RE: Why do white women love black men?
Bro, there is a lot of things white men can't do. Even their legs are weak especially when making love to their white chicks!
RE: Why do white women love black men?
Yeah there is no freedom of speech for white people in UK. I once got a warning at work after saying the kitchen in our office building looks like a moroccan market sometimes. Can you imagine LOL
RE: Why do white women love black men?
Actually there is soo much black men gay porn all over the place.
RE: Why do white women love black men?
Black women are very attractive and are typically more lovable and loving than their white colleagues.
RE: Why do white women love black men?
Personally, sometimes when I see a beautiful white woman with a black man I wonder what she sees in him. It has been my observation also, that there are more white woman/black man couples than there are black woman/white man couples.
RE: Why do white women love black men?
Think that you are incorrect in your presumption that white women love black men. I think the LARGE majority of white women (like other women) are attracted to their own race.
RE: Why do white women love black men?
And who said women like HUGE dicks?! Average size is the best for me!
RE: Why do white women love black men?
and what about smaller cocks? Do you also prefer these? Do any women like the smaller guys?
RE: Why do white women love black men?
The overall fact is that women seek rich men with big co*cks. Period. Doesn't matter if he is white or black.
If you are well endowed male with no money, you will have a better chance of having a woman -- particularly, the rich man's wife. If, however, you are a rich male with a little guy, you will be constantly in a state of curiosity if your wife is screwing the gardener.
If you are well endowed male with no money, you will have a better chance of having a woman -- particularly, the rich man's wife. If, however, you are a rich male with a little guy, you will be constantly in a state of curiosity if your wife is screwing the gardener.
RE: Why do white women love black men?
I don't like big dicks, medium size is the best for me. :P
how do u enlarge a picture????
if i got a pic that like lets say 35kb and i need to to be 250 kb how do i make it bigger???
i know there is a way of doing it but i cannot figure it out.
many thanks in advance
i know there is a way of doing it but i cannot figure it out.
many thanks in advance
RE: how do u enlarge a picture????
You have applications as GIMP that can resize the picture or if you have windows 7 you can do that in Paint also.
Hope it helps
Hope it helps
RE: how do u enlarge a picture????
you can't make a 25kb photo much bigger, it will always be poor quality
RE: how do u enlarge a picture????
well try the dreaded photoshop :P, there are lots of freeware stuff around that have the same ability, but if the picture is already low resolution then there is a limit to enlarging it before you just think, ok need a better picture to start with
RE: how do u enlarge a picture????
True, an image that is only 25kb does not have enough information stored in it to make it into a 250kb image without losing a lot of resolution and looking terrible.
I am curious though, why would you need the file size to be larger? Or are you just needing the size of the image to be larger as in pixel by pixel size? Once it has been compressed the information is lost that was taken away to make it smaller, or if small to begin with the information was never there.
I am curious though, why would you need the file size to be larger? Or are you just needing the size of the image to be larger as in pixel by pixel size? Once it has been compressed the information is lost that was taken away to make it smaller, or if small to begin with the information was never there.
RE: how do u enlarge a picture????
probably has a scan of photo from an earlier age when was skinny and handsome, and wants to enlarge it for FaceBook porfile page
RE: how do u enlarge a picture????
Well, on my droid if you "pinch" the picture and then spread your fingers....
that usually does it
that usually does it
RE: how do u enlarge a picture????
i have an old picture with an awesome view behind me . im nothing special but the image behind is breath taking and i wanted to have a canvas done with it
happy now?
lol
happy now?
lol
Childbirth at 65
With all the new technology regarding fertility recently, a 65-year-old friend of mine was able to give birth. When she was discharged from the hospital and went home, I went to visit.
'May I see the new baby?' I asked.
'Not yet,' She said 'I'll make coffee and we can visit for a while first.'
Thirty minutes had passed, and I asked, 'May I see the new baby now?'
'No, not yet,' She said.
After another few minutes had elapsed, I asked again, 'May I see the baby now?'
'No, not yet,' replied my friend.
Growing very impatient, I asked, 'Well, when can I see the baby?'
'WHEN HE CRIES!' she told me.
'WHEN HE CRIES?' I queried. 'Why do I have to wait until he CRIES?'
'BECAUSE I FORGOT WHERE I PUT HIM, O.K.?!!'
'May I see the new baby?' I asked.
'Not yet,' She said 'I'll make coffee and we can visit for a while first.'
Thirty minutes had passed, and I asked, 'May I see the new baby now?'
'No, not yet,' She said.
After another few minutes had elapsed, I asked again, 'May I see the baby now?'
'No, not yet,' replied my friend.
Growing very impatient, I asked, 'Well, when can I see the baby?'
'WHEN HE CRIES!' she told me.
'WHEN HE CRIES?' I queried. 'Why do I have to wait until he CRIES?'
'BECAUSE I FORGOT WHERE I PUT HIM, O.K.?!!'
RE: Childbirth at 65
Hey look, you young whippersnapper, just because you are in your 20's and I'm in my 60's does not make me senile! 40 years age difference might seem old to you but I assure you it is not. . Maybe my penis doesn't grow quite so hard as it used to, and I huff and puff and little more when I go up the steps to the bedroom and I have to stop midway to catch my breath, But rest assured, sonny boy, that I am as young inside and mentally alert as I was when I was your age.
And besides...
and besides...
Oh dammit, now what was I going to say? I can't remember.
And besides...
and besides...
Oh dammit, now what was I going to say? I can't remember.
I wish we could do a poll in this furom
And ask both members and hosts why they came to this site in the first place.
After you sift through all of the horseshit you see posted in these forums in the final analysis the members (the st8 men, not the assorted wierdos) it is to see young pretty girls get naked and nasty.
And the hosts are here to make money. As much money as they can.
Period! Case closed. No spin. No bullshit.
After you sift through all of the horseshit you see posted in these forums in the final analysis the members (the st8 men, not the assorted wierdos) it is to see young pretty girls get naked and nasty.
And the hosts are here to make money. As much money as they can.
Period! Case closed. No spin. No bullshit.
RE: I wish we could do a poll in this furom
This information is not new... and it's clear...
But there are additional things for both: people need attention, they feel lonely, they want to laugh, they just want to talk to someone and complain about the life and so on...
But the main reasons still are to watch and to earn
But there are additional things for both: people need attention, they feel lonely, they want to laugh, they just want to talk to someone and complain about the life and so on...
But the main reasons still are to watch and to earn
RE: I wish we could do a poll in this furom
If you need a simple answer, yes, I suppose you're right. No need to do a poll. I'm not sure why you even bother reading the forums. Something to do while waiting, i suppose.
RE: I wish we could do a poll in this furom
And it makes good sense.....why else would girls show their body to
a complete stranger??? Men are definitely different and would probably come on a site and be entertained by showing their nude bodies to girls if they could find an audience and for free. That's what makes them men. If men think girls think like they do then that is the first problem and must be why this is constantly coming up as such an irritant for men. It is fact that is the prime reason that any female is here and also with the female way of thinking they also like to get to know who they are showing their beautiful bodies to!! That doesn't make us cons or manipulators....it makes us FEMALES!! The creatures that you think about night and day!!
The girls on this site are either blessed with great bodies and good looks or they work hard to have it. It isn't cheap either to maintain above average looks and bod and clothes and bling so why wouldn't girls charge to show men??
This is so simple I just don't understand why it is even discussed over and over again and the girls are even chastised for being in this business and charging......amazing!! Quit thinking like a man and you'll understand a woman....the end!
a complete stranger??? Men are definitely different and would probably come on a site and be entertained by showing their nude bodies to girls if they could find an audience and for free. That's what makes them men. If men think girls think like they do then that is the first problem and must be why this is constantly coming up as such an irritant for men. It is fact that is the prime reason that any female is here and also with the female way of thinking they also like to get to know who they are showing their beautiful bodies to!! That doesn't make us cons or manipulators....it makes us FEMALES!! The creatures that you think about night and day!!
The girls on this site are either blessed with great bodies and good looks or they work hard to have it. It isn't cheap either to maintain above average looks and bod and clothes and bling so why wouldn't girls charge to show men??
This is so simple I just don't understand why it is even discussed over and over again and the girls are even chastised for being in this business and charging......amazing!! Quit thinking like a man and you'll understand a woman....the end!
good memories
Writing an article about the history of the internet, I’m thinking about my own history on internet and the many great hours I spend on this site. It seems the best girls of the world are gathered here. My favorites were not only a source of joy and pleasure, but also a great emotional help in difficult times. They made special time for me (without pay :) ) to comfort me and to talk to me when my first wife was dying of cancer. I made real friends here.
Now I’m married again and I can’t spend much time here, that’s the reason I want to say “hi” to some of you which I can’t reach anymore by another way. I also want to apologize myself to a real lady of Romania. I must have hurt her a lot. Things were happening too quickly for me at that time. I guess would all have happened a year later all would turn out quite differently.
To end on a lighter note some memories:
1) A Russian girl gave me a good job description for the girls here: “entertaining men”. I think those two words describe exactly what is happening on this site. The girl is not working here anymore but – although she was only 19 and 20 years old, she had not only a great body, but also a great wisdom, especially on that age. She was also one of the two girls I had the honor to meet in real.
2) I asked another Russian girl why she always was asking to open my cam when we were in a session. Her answer was: “because I like to see the result of my work”. Of course, no problem for me, I like c2c very much :)
3) My ultimate favourite is russian also. She is litteraly my obsession. You will recognize her on her name.
Now I’m married again and I can’t spend much time here, that’s the reason I want to say “hi” to some of you which I can’t reach anymore by another way. I also want to apologize myself to a real lady of Romania. I must have hurt her a lot. Things were happening too quickly for me at that time. I guess would all have happened a year later all would turn out quite differently.
To end on a lighter note some memories:
1) A Russian girl gave me a good job description for the girls here: “entertaining men”. I think those two words describe exactly what is happening on this site. The girl is not working here anymore but – although she was only 19 and 20 years old, she had not only a great body, but also a great wisdom, especially on that age. She was also one of the two girls I had the honor to meet in real.
2) I asked another Russian girl why she always was asking to open my cam when we were in a session. Her answer was: “because I like to see the result of my work”. Of course, no problem for me, I like c2c very much :)
3) My ultimate favourite is russian also. She is litteraly my obsession. You will recognize her on her name.
RE: good memories
I admit describing camcontacts as the gathering of the best girls of the world is is a big exaggeration, but all the rest is the truth. I even think it is all not so special. I didn't expect those reactions. Of course it is a fantasy site, girls are paid here to fulfill the desires of men but the contacts are real with real people.
RE: good memories
Don't worry, the people who don't believe you are only those who will never be able to get all that is gloriously possible from this site, and will never understand what it is they cannot be part of.
RE: good memories
I can appreciate your story; certainly some of the hosts here I've met are sensitive & capable of great compassion. As has been said, the cynics on this site won't have the chance to experience this, limited as they are by their own perceptions, or expectations, as it were.
All the best to you in your new life.
All the best to you in your new life.
RE: good memories
There is perception and there is reality. Everyone acknowledges this is a fantasy site. Mainstream porn is fantasy. The American Dream for most, is fantasy. There is not a host on site qualified to be a therapist. I suggest sir , that you arrange an appointment with mental health professionals in your area.
RE: good memories
Actually there are several hosts on site who are qualfied to be therapists, as well as at least one fully qualified doctor, plus many nurses and teachers.
RE: good memories
Of course there is. Also marine biologists, chemists, Nobel Prize Winners, lawyers , judges, governors, senators, and at least 2 heads of state.
RE: good memories
It's funny that you call yourself realist when it is you that do not accept reality.
RE: good memories
If you had read what I actually said, instead of reacting and attacking, I made no mention of therapy. You've just illustrated my point.
Sure, this is a fantasy site. But behind the masks are people with real lives, feelings, thoughts and insights drawn from their own experience. You don't have to bother with all that; it is your choice to make. But there is no confusing fantasy with reality in recognizing that truth.
As for seeking therapy, mind your own damn business.
Sure, this is a fantasy site. But behind the masks are people with real lives, feelings, thoughts and insights drawn from their own experience. You don't have to bother with all that; it is your choice to make. But there is no confusing fantasy with reality in recognizing that truth.
As for seeking therapy, mind your own damn business.
RE: good memories
and sadly, there are members who eagerly exploit those hosts who are most compassionate and kind. the stories i've heard of some the sad lies some members tell here to manipulate hosts emotions are disgraceful.
RE: good memories
That's a good one, manipulated (members) manipulating the manipulators (hosts)! Thanks for a good chuckle.
RE: good memories
Sure, I am only here to see the shows from naked ladies. If I want understanding and compasion I can get it from a Priest, a Pastor, or a Relative. This is a sex site, not a psychology center.
RE: good memories
What is the name of Number 3 Russian girl :)? Is it literally "Obsession" or "Love"? Maybe a small hint;)
French men
During years i noticed that indeed , men DO have several defining features ,depenting on country of origin. ''All people are diferent no matter of religion,country ,race ...'' works till to a point ,after that i would say ''people are more alike than different'' . And by far ,french men are the most complicated men i ever seen. Why is that ?
RE: French men
I am a french Guy maybe you re right we are little bit complicated and some really good lovers (or the opposite sometimes too) but it s because we spent our youth with French Girls and OMG they are fucking complicated....
RE: French men
Regarding French gals, I cannot disagree with you on that one. The same holds true with the Cajun ladies down here: extraordinarily beautiful but excessively complicated with a touch of obsessiveness.
RE: French men
Sooo true (the lovers part). May be that's the reason why all other guys hate them:) JEALOUS!)
RE: French men
There different because the only brush there teeth once a week and dont use deodorant !
RE: French men
We are great lovers because we eat a lot of brie and have you ever noticed that brie smells like semen?.......that is the secret!
RE: French men
:))) Yes i noticed that mostly slaves are from France and Uk . But mostrly from France . Well ... not for nothing Marquise de Sade left his name to the entire phenomenon :P
two rules i would like to see
1. when a host starts a session, she has to take just one photo of what she looks like at that moment and post it for the session. she can keep all of her photoshopped stuff i am fine with that. i am saying that we as viewers deserve to see at least one photo of what she looks like for the current session.
2. i think that all photos should have to include the face. i am sick and tired of all these photos of bodies that do not belong to the host that have the head cut off the photo.
2. i think that all photos should have to include the face. i am sick and tired of all these photos of bodies that do not belong to the host that have the head cut off the photo.
RE: two rules i would like to see
so should i assume that you both are the kind of host that posts photos of other women and cuts off the head of the photo, hoping to trick members into coming in to your video?
RE: two rules i would like to see
No, you should assume they are both concerned for your health, because you are sick and tired.
RE: two rules i would like to see
you all win then. let's continue the practice of chathosts using photos of other women to get members to come into video.
RE: two rules i would like to see
If this is happening then deal with it through CC. I can not believe it is that common. If so alert the people that can do something about it. The need to come here an whine does nothing about the situation.
RE: two rules i would like to see
LOL
don't you love them using photos that are 15kg lighter?
don't you love them using photos where they actually used make-up?
don't you love them using photos when they had the better camera?
don't you love them using photos that are 15kg lighter?
don't you love them using photos where they actually used make-up?
don't you love them using photos when they had the better camera?
RE: cc or no cc???
Turn him in to a cuck. Just Google cuckold to learn more about the lifesyle. And your troubles will go away forever.
RE: cc or no cc???
I think the answer to your question depends on how much you care for this boyfriend. If he's somebody you have a future with, then perhaps it would be a good thing to do what's needed to calm his fears. It's not about the job, it's about your desire for the relationship to continue, and your respect for your partner's feelings.
And moreover, I think those feelings are justified. CC is a porn site. There aren't many men that would accept their girlfriends parading around naked for anybody except them (and rightly so). Even if you're not stripping, you're almost certainly spending a good deal of time handling men that have that objective in mind for you. Or men with relatively more money, making love declarations, marriage proposals (however serious or not), and etc. I'd be upset too.
Viewing this as a matter of control is a mistake. It's a matter of love, and a story of sacrifice.
Good luck to you.
And moreover, I think those feelings are justified. CC is a porn site. There aren't many men that would accept their girlfriends parading around naked for anybody except them (and rightly so). Even if you're not stripping, you're almost certainly spending a good deal of time handling men that have that objective in mind for you. Or men with relatively more money, making love declarations, marriage proposals (however serious or not), and etc. I'd be upset too.
Viewing this as a matter of control is a mistake. It's a matter of love, and a story of sacrifice.
Good luck to you.
RE: cc or no cc???
it s not really a matter of you support me or i keep doing it. he s not a guy i meet on cc and it s not really the case. of course i love him and i want to spend the rest of my life with him , but as someone else says , it s his nature to be super jealose , he would acuse me of flirting with the postman / milkman if i change more then 2 words. i know i d be going mental if he d be on cc . and indeed anything can happen here , but i would never do anything like that to him. Now if i say i ll quit for him , he of course says no coz he thinks if i get grumpy i ll get angry at him coz he made me stop. so it s a case of he doesn t likes it and tells me bad words about it when we fight but when we ok he says he can cope with it. so kinda tough
RE: cc or no cc???
If he gets jealous of many males around you without cause that can be flattering in the beginning BUT it also can become insane jealousy. It progresses to the waiter, the checker at the grocery store, the cop that stopped you and only gave you a warning.....hope you get my drift. If that is the kind of jealousy he has......RUN!! Anyway that is a whole different kind of jealousy than not feeling good about you working on CC. I think Jim Kirk explained the respect of his feelings well. There are different work opportunities for attractive girls that don't include sex ;)) I always try and reverse the situation to put myself in the other persons place and quite honestly I can understand how he could feel uncomfortable with you working on here and even though he might want to change his feelings.....it probably will not happen but the situation will come up more often and many hurt feelings.
RE: cc or no cc???
From what you say my guess is that CC is a convenient thing for him to use against you whenever he feels jealous. If you quit working on here he would find one or more other things. The one thing you should not do is say you stopped working on here and then come back on sometimes to make extra money. He may find out and then he would remind of it forever. Your strong point is that so far you have been open and honest woth him.
RE: cc or no cc???
it s not really a matter of you support me or i keep doing it. he s not a guy i meet on cc and it s not really the case. of course i love him and i want to spend the rest of my life with him , but as someone else says , it s his nature to be super jealose , he would acuse me of flirting with the postman / milkman if i change more then 2 words. i know i d be going mental if he d be on cc . and indeed anything can happen here , but i would never do anything like that to him. Now if i say i ll quit for him , he of course says no coz he thinks if i get grumpy i ll get angry at him coz he made me stop. so it s a case of he doesn t likes it and tells me bad words about it when we fight but when we ok he says he can cope with it. so kinda tough
RE: men make me understand
women absolutely do the same thing. we all take for granted and lose interest in those we feel we know and we have for the thrill and the risk of going after the alluringly new. it's our nature.
RE: men make me understand
Seven years ago, I met my wife at work. When brought her a flower and asked her if she wanted to go out to dinner with me, her eyes lit up and there was this big smile. Yes, she said, as if I'd just offered her her very own star. When I picked her up, she wore the most incredible dress, got all "dolled up", and we had a great time before and after.
Four days ago, Friday evening, I came home from work with a rose and presented it to my wife with an invitation to dinner and dancing. She gave me a quick flash of a smile and a quicker peck on the cheek, and put the rose in vase. Said she'd love dinner since she had no mood for cooking, but didn't want to go dancing. Someplace simple she requested.
So she went to change into her jeans and a simple blouse. No magnificent smile, no done up hair, not even a little cosmetic work. And no sex after dinner. "I'm full" she said.
I haven't cheated on her (unless you count CC as cheating), but sometimes the big smile of a woman that knows your interested can be intoxicating. There's NOTHING more attractive for a man than succeeding, and nothing more destructive to his psyche than failure (at whatever he deems important).
I wish I could make my wife smile like she used to when we met. But she doesn't. So you'll have to forgive me for enjoying it when somebody else does.
Four days ago, Friday evening, I came home from work with a rose and presented it to my wife with an invitation to dinner and dancing. She gave me a quick flash of a smile and a quicker peck on the cheek, and put the rose in vase. Said she'd love dinner since she had no mood for cooking, but didn't want to go dancing. Someplace simple she requested.
So she went to change into her jeans and a simple blouse. No magnificent smile, no done up hair, not even a little cosmetic work. And no sex after dinner. "I'm full" she said.
I haven't cheated on her (unless you count CC as cheating), but sometimes the big smile of a woman that knows your interested can be intoxicating. There's NOTHING more attractive for a man than succeeding, and nothing more destructive to his psyche than failure (at whatever he deems important).
I wish I could make my wife smile like she used to when we met. But she doesn't. So you'll have to forgive me for enjoying it when somebody else does.
RE: men make me understand
That was so nice to share and let us know how a husband feel...but my husband didn t bringed me flowers since ages...your wife is lucky :)
RE: men make me understand
While reading I thought:"Oops, this is my husband writting!"..and I read it again and I am in peace, I received flowers last time in June and I made love with him in August..I react slowly.LOL
Give a bit time to your wife, Sir!..After a certain age, women are harder to start than an engine, trust me.
Give a bit time to your wife, Sir!..After a certain age, women are harder to start than an engine, trust me.
RE: men make me understand
it s true he does needs attention and sometimes he complains i don t tell him how gorgeous he is and how much he means to me enough so probably he does feels quite high for any attention he d get. but still ...you say you madly love someone and you would go for that thriving thing someone else? i always dress up for my partner, always smell and look good , always up for after dinner plenty of fun and he does knows he is my soul mate just as he says im his soul mate. but reading the post about the wife i can see how it can look sometime. Men need to understand tha sometimes women kinda tend to fotget about themselves for a while. i think i almost did for a while then stright after the incident happened i woke up and thought as someone told me ; if i don t look after my man someone else will , so now i make sure i always look good for him , not just for him of course , i do it for me in the first place , but you know sometimes after a long day busy with work , housework , etc you kinda feel lazy and u wanna lazy in ur jogging bottoms and watch some shitty soap without having to worry u need to rush and get urself ready coz ur man is coming home
RE: men make me understand
Very well written and will keep those things in mind!
Thanks! (Even if you made it up :)
Thanks! (Even if you made it up :)
RE: men make me understand
Well said, Jim. Most women don't understand this or feel it's necessary.
RE: men make me understand
And you think that men with huge belly and a remote
control do? LOL
control do? LOL
RE: men make me understand
Well, that did it. No more cam to cam for those unfortunate hosts who have endured my freckled co*k.
RE: men make me understand
For the preservation of the species and for the preservation of the blood line human males have been breeding with eligible females for 100,000 years...our civilized man has existed a fraction of that time...the primal urge to breed with many is often overwhelming.
what can b a reason?
guy is nice smart funny cool. chating with him many mounths.... he tell u r u so nice and iportant4 him.chat everyday.non stop,.want meet him..u like him alot.imagine u will b making lov in future..u never argue... he say good night sweety. and HE DISAPEAR. NOT APEAR MORE AT ALL... but visit others stilll.. what can it be?
RE: what can b a reason?
not want say here. couse all girks know him i think.....i just found out he doing it with all...
RE: what can b a reason?
Perhaps it is something you said or did that he doesn't want to discuss so as to avoid a fight or to embarrass you.
RE: what can b a reason?
There can be numerous reasons either positive or negative. Perhaps she stopped smiling.
RE: what can b a reason?
he wins when he makes you fall for him. after winning, what point is there in continuing to play?
RE: what can b a reason?
Maybe he discovered he is gay! Or maybe he fell in love with a dominatrix on site and is now her loyal slave?
RE: what can b a reason?
Could also be that friendship makes it harder to conduct the business of the site. It's easy, after 5 minutes, to say to the girl you just met "Sweetie, please take off your bra, your panties, and start plunging yourself with that dildo over there until I cum in fifteen minutes and leave in a hurry to avoid spending money."
It's a lot more difficult to say and do that with a friend because you don't want to insult them with the usual treatment. I'll grant that disappearing is stupid, but it can be a difficult and confusing situation for men.
It's a lot more difficult to say and do that with a friend because you don't want to insult them with the usual treatment. I'll grant that disappearing is stupid, but it can be a difficult and confusing situation for men.
RE: what can b a reason?
could be he got fed up waiting for you to get serious in the relationship and meet and moved over to someone that does want to meet him in this century. Strange how almost every reply assumes it's the guy that's the jerk when there are two sides to every coin.
RE: what can b a reason?
And most women complicate a relationship to death. An hereditary trait.
RE: what can b a reason?
Damn!!! What a novel approach! Maybe she will hear what she initially didn't want to hear. Much easier to blame others, though.
getting hotter in real life?
Hosts, has working on CC improved your real sex life? Do you try more new things with yr bf (s)?
RE: getting hotter in real life?
bf? what bf?
we are all single..we work too much, not time to bfs...geeezzzzz
we are all single..we work too much, not time to bfs...geeezzzzz
RE: getting hotter in real life?
liar liar liar!!! many girls work here already has bf or hubby in real life!
RE: getting hotter in real life?
its normal. not many men will let to his gf or wife to work on such sites.... plus cc girls are2 busy 4 bfs..
RE: getting hotter in real life?
This is interesting. In what way has it damaged your sex life?
RE: getting hotter in real life?
Agree with other girls....single, no bf and no sex!
When I do decide to have a bf again I am sure that I will feel
much more confident about my body and also more aware of
what turns him on :))
When I do decide to have a bf again I am sure that I will feel
much more confident about my body and also more aware of
what turns him on :))
RE: getting hotter in real life?
If you need confidence move to instant action. That category separates the women from the little girls
A new option for hosts
I would like to suggest all hosts be able to control access to their videochats. That way no viewer can enter unannounced. The host has to approve all members before they can enter live videochat.
RE: A new option for hosts
A new type of "censorship"?
I'm not sure if CC would go for censoring our wallets
I'm not sure if CC would go for censoring our wallets
RE: A new option for hosts
Yes if you totally ignore the small facts that she can boot you out of her video any time she likes and ban your member id from ever being able to enter her video again then you are right. The member chooses.
RE: A new option for hosts
Totally agree... hosts should admit members to their rooms. Of course, a member, once refused, may never come back. But that should the host's risk to bear.
RE: A new option for hosts
so if a host is in open session with a guy she has to stop whatever she may be doing to approve any other members who want to enter the open session too? that sounds like a recipe to annoy the hell out of the first member there.
RE: A new option for hosts
if he wants not to be interrupted he should just go to 121 from the start
RE: A new option for hosts
Yes it works great for 2 other sites i go on-line on. This way noone can enter when I'm not in front of the cam or I'm busy and can't handle another viewer, it saves disappointment, a few cents and bad ratings.
RE: A new option for hosts
personally, the only reason i ever enter an open session already in progress is the hope that the host is already 'busy' - is there any other reason? do members enjoy paying to group chat with hosts or something?
RE: A new option for hosts
Yes and the reason I like the idea is quite often when I am in open video and having a great time with a member.....others come in and
it is very awkward to ignore the new ones and continue the conversation or show or whatever. I wouldn't want it to be used in a negative way but only when it is awkward.
it is very awkward to ignore the new ones and continue the conversation or show or whatever. I wouldn't want it to be used in a negative way but only when it is awkward.
RE: A new option for hosts
just write in your profile that you give priority attention to the first member to enter into an open session. that, and you might want to suggest that if a member wants your undivided attention, that he should pony up and pay for a one2one session. do that, and your ass is covered no matter what.
RE: A new option for hosts
"it is very awkward to ignore the new ones and continue the conversation or show or whatever"
Oh please a show in Glamour open video? Man its getting deep in here.
Oh please a show in Glamour open video? Man its getting deep in here.
RE: A new option for hosts
Well it is not my choice to choose 121 and I think members come into open to see if it is going to be a good time and then we forget about 121.
It actually happened the other day and his video froze and it was great time for both and he was trying to straighten it out and another member came in and started with his video. The first one was frustrated and I believe he thought there was something that I could do about it.....it was completely out of my hands. If I could of blocked the second one then he could have come right back in and I could suggested 121 but instead he left and was frustrated. I did write and explain. There are several times that happens with the new one coming in and thinking there is something that I can do to release the session or block the next one so that we can continue in 121 and hurt feelings until I explain in a follow-up email and moment is lost :(
It actually happened the other day and his video froze and it was great time for both and he was trying to straighten it out and another member came in and started with his video. The first one was frustrated and I believe he thought there was something that I could do about it.....it was completely out of my hands. If I could of blocked the second one then he could have come right back in and I could suggested 121 but instead he left and was frustrated. I did write and explain. There are several times that happens with the new one coming in and thinking there is something that I can do to release the session or block the next one so that we can continue in 121 and hurt feelings until I explain in a follow-up email and moment is lost :(
RE: A new option for hosts
Yes, and you give a perfect example of why this would be helpful. Sure, 121 is an option, but it doesn't always go that way at first; your example is typical of the way things go I think.
And, since when is giving a host more control over her room somehow harmful to members? A good host wants to entertain her viewer, keep him/her wanting more (or less :P ), and also returning again and again. A regular viewer = regular income. I say give the host more options, not less.
And, since when is giving a host more control over her room somehow harmful to members? A good host wants to entertain her viewer, keep him/her wanting more (or less :P ), and also returning again and again. A regular viewer = regular income. I say give the host more options, not less.