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Can we please stop using ~ ?
Since I left the forum and then came back the other day to it, people have started using this ad nauseum
1st, ~ does NOT mean "to"
2nd ~ as a mathetical symbol it means "approximately" and is also used in
3rd in some languages' usage it was originally used over a letter to indicate abbreviation, or in some other languages to denote pitch
It never means "to"
It is the mark of laziness, in my opinion. An old saying says that the Lazy person ends up working harder than the industrious person. and in this case it is true: To type the word "to" requires only one more keystroke, than to type "~" and actually is easier to type the full word since the keyboard characters are designed with the ~ out of the way and requiring the SHIFT key in addition to the ~ key
Also, with so many (I assume) different people using ~ and Previous Poster's name, we have no sense as to whom we are replying. Is ~host, the same person as ~So, or is it two different persons.
All you do with your usage is to create more confusion on the forums.
If you don't want to use your own name, at least use something consistently that is uniquely your own, so the rest of us at least have an idea whom we are talking to.
PLEASE!!!
1st, ~ does NOT mean "to"
2nd ~ as a mathetical symbol it means "approximately" and is also used in
3rd in some languages' usage it was originally used over a letter to indicate abbreviation, or in some other languages to denote pitch
It never means "to"
It is the mark of laziness, in my opinion. An old saying says that the Lazy person ends up working harder than the industrious person. and in this case it is true: To type the word "to" requires only one more keystroke, than to type "~" and actually is easier to type the full word since the keyboard characters are designed with the ~ out of the way and requiring the SHIFT key in addition to the ~ key
Also, with so many (I assume) different people using ~ and Previous Poster's name, we have no sense as to whom we are replying. Is ~host, the same person as ~So, or is it two different persons.
All you do with your usage is to create more confusion on the forums.
If you don't want to use your own name, at least use something consistently that is uniquely your own, so the rest of us at least have an idea whom we are talking to.
PLEASE!!!
RE: Can we please stop using ~ ?
I was serious. Thanks for your smart ass reply, though. The tilde usage is annoying, and prevents good communication and creates misunderstanding in that sometimes you think you are replying to one person when you may be replying to someone else. I use RomanHoliday when I post. Though you may not "know" me, you have a sense of who I am when I post something or when you reply to me. But who is ~____?
btw thank you for using SundaySmile. When I see posts with that name, I will know it is most likely the same person making those posts. (unless of course, people are unscrupulous enough to use someone else's name -- I suppose that happens)
btw thank you for using SundaySmile. When I see posts with that name, I will know it is most likely the same person making those posts. (unless of course, people are unscrupulous enough to use someone else's name -- I suppose that happens)
RE: Can we please stop using ~ ?
I am sorry that such a trivial thing is getting you so annoyed. Have you considered stress management? It obviously works well here and we all including you are aware of it's purpose.
You would go totally ape if you were in New England and when they go to order a "hamburger" they refer to it as "hamburg" Or how the word idea is mispronounced often and called and pronounced "idear".
Sorry Roman but I think to change the use of it hear would be very self centered since you are the only one that it annoys and yet it is effective. Also never go to New England, USA you will go crazy :))
You would go totally ape if you were in New England and when they go to order a "hamburger" they refer to it as "hamburg" Or how the word idea is mispronounced often and called and pronounced "idear".
Sorry Roman but I think to change the use of it hear would be very self centered since you are the only one that it annoys and yet it is effective. Also never go to New England, USA you will go crazy :))
RE: Can we please stop using ~ ?
It\'s silly to give out information likes this on the internet. Now we know what annoys you and we will use it against you until we have drive you away from these forums - be sure of that. That\'s the rule of modern communications.<br />
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~TGJ
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~TGJ
RE: Can we please stop using ~ ?
Who made you in charge of how we / others speak?
If "~" anoys you it is your problem and no one elzes, why do you expect everyone else to change to illeviate your annoyance??
Maybe you need some professional counsilingz. ~~~~~
If "~" anoys you it is your problem and no one elzes, why do you expect everyone else to change to illeviate your annoyance??
Maybe you need some professional counsilingz. ~~~~~
RE: Can we please stop using ~ ?
it is not mistreatment it is expansion, stretching to new limits. going where no verb has gone before......
RE: Can we please stop using ~ ?
Solution: why don't we all just start posting in the "From:" line "~ " to the previous poster, Then none of us will have any idea who is posting. (good post btw, I happen to agree with you, although it is useless to request such a thing and even more unrealistic to expect it to change)
RE: Can we please stop using ~ ?
" although it is useless to request such a thing and even more unrealistic to expect it to change)"
For once we agree.
For once we agree.
RE: Can we please stop using ~ ?
So was it a crime that he express his annoyance with it and make his request?
And btw, I doubt you agree with all I say, only what you have picked and chosen. You'd make a great politician
And btw, I doubt you agree with all I say, only what you have picked and chosen. You'd make a great politician
RE: Can we please stop using ~ ?
I finally agree and you have to argue! You just love to argue.
RE: Can we please stop using ~ ?
Well let's just put it this way: I'm wary of your "agreement." You tend to pull things out of context or twist them around to support your positions.
RE: Can we please stop using ~ ?
we could replace it by ==> (too long) or @ (well, at is too static), so why not ¬ ? it looks like a poke sign in FB ;-)
RE: Can we please stop using ~ ? ~ RomanHoliday
I feel I have to confess that is it my use of the tilde that kicked off the rather poor imitations of it use. However I defend my use of it as a clarification of posts going back a long long time into the dim distant past of Usenet.
I think though it is fair to say that when I use the tilde to define a reply to a single person (as oppose to a group) in the subject, it is clear enough that is what I am doing because I don't try and confuse it with my member name when I do it. I suppose the "~" member thinks he/she/it is being clever. Personally I think it demonstrates completely the opposite.. Just another AC in a long line of AC's
I cannot of course speak for other posters but I find it slightly ignominious to see, what is supposed to be a simplification of thought, being used so fatuously. Tis a pity to be sure.
TNTHJBMTM
I think though it is fair to say that when I use the tilde to define a reply to a single person (as oppose to a group) in the subject, it is clear enough that is what I am doing because I don't try and confuse it with my member name when I do it. I suppose the "~" member thinks he/she/it is being clever. Personally I think it demonstrates completely the opposite.. Just another AC in a long line of AC's
I cannot of course speak for other posters but I find it slightly ignominious to see, what is supposed to be a simplification of thought, being used so fatuously. Tis a pity to be sure.
TNTHJBMTM
RE: Can we please stop using ~ ? ~ RomanHoliday
Speaking of things fatuous, what exactly is "TNTHJBMTM" supposed to mean?
Thanks for keeping it real, mate.
Thanks for keeping it real, mate.
RE: Can we please stop using ~ ? ~ RomanHoliday
Since RH has grown silent (LOL) and I am championing the cause for him, let me say, your explanation is a good one. Thanks for showing another perspective to the issue. It makes sense.
However... (you knew that was coming, didn't you?) ... wouldn't it still be less confusing (as to who is replying) to post something like TNT ~ previous poster, or (as RH obviously would prefer) TNT to previous poster ?
My agreement with him is that no one knows who is posting what.
I, for one, would have appreciated knowing that TNT was one of the posters of many of the comments. Whether it was your particular posts with which I often took issue, I may never know.
Anyway, I'm tired of the issue. RH, you can have it back.
However... (you knew that was coming, didn't you?) ... wouldn't it still be less confusing (as to who is replying) to post something like TNT ~ previous poster, or (as RH obviously would prefer) TNT to previous poster ?
My agreement with him is that no one knows who is posting what.
I, for one, would have appreciated knowing that TNT was one of the posters of many of the comments. Whether it was your particular posts with which I often took issue, I may never know.
Anyway, I'm tired of the issue. RH, you can have it back.
RE: Can we please stop using ~ ? ~ MyHeart4Yours
Well it might surprise you to know that I try to take time and effort to make my posting clear in that you will always see when I am posting because my posting name will always be a different colour from the subject.
That being said though, I think where the confusion stems from is because of 2 phenomena.
1) I post increasingly rarer these days than has been known in the past and hence I no longer provide any example ( good or bad) for anyone to follow.
2) People are inherently lazy in their writing. For me I find it logical to change a subject heading when I want to redirect a conversation to a particular point or just start a new thread. Most people will just click reply and be done.
It is not a recent phenomenon of course. Back in the day we had RFC 1855 - Netiquette Guidelines.
Perhaps it is confusing, I cannot really say. I know I prefer to see a members name nice, clear and easily identifiable as I rarely find time to search through posts to find any worthy gems .So instead I just look for familiar names of people who have shown to have wit, intelligence or original thought.
Can't say I have found too many of those lately but oh well.. sign of the times I guess...
TNTRTGODWETEL
That being said though, I think where the confusion stems from is because of 2 phenomena.
1) I post increasingly rarer these days than has been known in the past and hence I no longer provide any example ( good or bad) for anyone to follow.
2) People are inherently lazy in their writing. For me I find it logical to change a subject heading when I want to redirect a conversation to a particular point or just start a new thread. Most people will just click reply and be done.
It is not a recent phenomenon of course. Back in the day we had RFC 1855 - Netiquette Guidelines.
Perhaps it is confusing, I cannot really say. I know I prefer to see a members name nice, clear and easily identifiable as I rarely find time to search through posts to find any worthy gems .So instead I just look for familiar names of people who have shown to have wit, intelligence or original thought.
Can't say I have found too many of those lately but oh well.. sign of the times I guess...
TNTRTGODWETEL
RE: Can we please stop using ~ ? ~ MyHeart4Yours
From the Wikipedia entry for Netiquette:
"When someone makes a mistake – whether it's a spelling error or a spelling flame, a stupid question or an unnecessarily long answer – be kind about it. If it's a minor error, you may not need to say anything. Even if you feel strongly about it, think twice before reacting. Having good manners yourself doesn't give you license to correct everyone else. If you do decide to inform someone of a mistake, point it out politely, and preferably by private email rather than in public. Give people the benefit of the doubt; assume they just don't know any better. And never be arrogant or self-righteous about it. Just as it's a law of nature that spelling flames always contain spelling errors, notes pointing out Netiquette violations are often examples of poor Netiquette."
So does your constant whinging about how so many others here have no respect for netiquette in fact make you a violator of netiquette too? And if so, are you at all afraid that someone might very well call you out for being such a hypocrite?
"When someone makes a mistake – whether it's a spelling error or a spelling flame, a stupid question or an unnecessarily long answer – be kind about it. If it's a minor error, you may not need to say anything. Even if you feel strongly about it, think twice before reacting. Having good manners yourself doesn't give you license to correct everyone else. If you do decide to inform someone of a mistake, point it out politely, and preferably by private email rather than in public. Give people the benefit of the doubt; assume they just don't know any better. And never be arrogant or self-righteous about it. Just as it's a law of nature that spelling flames always contain spelling errors, notes pointing out Netiquette violations are often examples of poor Netiquette."
So does your constant whinging about how so many others here have no respect for netiquette in fact make you a violator of netiquette too? And if so, are you at all afraid that someone might very well call you out for being such a hypocrite?
RE: Can we please stop using ~ ? ~ MyHeart4Yours
Looking for smart or intelligent posts on a porn site forum? You've got to be kidding! LMAO!
RE: Can we please stop using ~ ? ~ MyHeart4Yours
Yeh, we're all stupid idiots who can't hope to have an IQ above 60. But hey, we can spend money. (Said sarcastically for OMG's benefit)
RE: Can we please stop using ~ ? ~ MyHeart4Yours
Who in their right mind would expect intelligence in a place like this?
As Spock said: "Beam me up Scotty. There is no intelligent life down here."
As Spock said: "Beam me up Scotty. There is no intelligent life down here."
RE: Can we please stop using ~ ? ~ MyHeart4Yours
Why not expect intelligence? Only unintelligent people can visit a porn site? or are you saying that when we enter the porn site, our reasoning capacity, our common sense, our wisdom, and smarts, are all checked at the door?
I've read some exceptionally brilliant, well-written posts in here (by me mostly hahaha) no, but seriously, you don't have to be an ignoramus to come to a site like this. If that's your opinion, then I feel sorry for you.
I've read some exceptionally brilliant, well-written posts in here (by me mostly hahaha) no, but seriously, you don't have to be an ignoramus to come to a site like this. If that's your opinion, then I feel sorry for you.
RE: Can we please stop using ~ ? ~ MyHeart4Yours
Possibly they were referring to the bigger brain that tends to take the back seat when the smaller brain is being entertained....lol.
I agree with you that there are some very intelligent people that come to this porn site. When they post they must be using the larger brain :))
I agree with you that there are some very intelligent people that come to this porn site. When they post they must be using the larger brain :))
RE: Can we please stop using ~ ? ~ MyHeart4Yours
You mean the little head guides you in to this site and its wonder and the bigger head is "sometimes" used by "some" when posting :-P
RE: Can we please stop using ~ ? ~ MyHeart4Yours
The phrase is actually "Beam me up Mr Speaker" used by former US Congressman from Ohio James Califant., which he used to say in the well of the House of Representatives years ago before he went to jail.
RE: Can we please stop using ~ ? ~ MyHeart4Yours
Actually OMG and ~OMG are both wrong.
OMG -- it was not Spock, but Captain Kirk, and "Beam me up, Scotty" is a misquote... that particular phrase never said. And "There's no intelligent life down here," was a marketing ploy by a clever T-shirt-maker.
~OMG -- it is James Traficant, not Califant. You can hear his usage in You Tube search "My favorite Democrat James Traficant - Farm Animals" But even so, it was based on the Star Trek misquote, which, btw, is the title of James "Scotty" Doonan's memoirs.
OMG -- it was not Spock, but Captain Kirk, and "Beam me up, Scotty" is a misquote... that particular phrase never said. And "There's no intelligent life down here," was a marketing ploy by a clever T-shirt-maker.
~OMG -- it is James Traficant, not Califant. You can hear his usage in You Tube search "My favorite Democrat James Traficant - Farm Animals" But even so, it was based on the Star Trek misquote, which, btw, is the title of James "Scotty" Doonan's memoirs.
RE: Can we please stop using ~ ? ~ MyHeart4Yours
Me thinks you spend too much time Googling things in the internet :-P
RE: Can we please stop using ~ ? ~ MyHeart4Yours
methinks it only took 5 minutes of googling.
me_also_thinks, you shouldn't be so quick to judge
me_also_thinks, you shouldn't be so quick to judge
RE: Can we please stop using ~ ? ~ MyHeart4Yours
5 minutes less off ur human life you will never recup plus another min. reading this post :+)
RE: Can we please stop using ~ ? ~ MyHeart4Yours
About 2 seconds, actually, to read your post, but hey, I decided to linger on it awhile so that I took the full minute :)
you are right, I never will gain back the 5 minutes I took to google that bit of trivia, but hey, it was 5 minutes of trivializing worth spent. Better than 5 minutes lost from smoking, or some other bad habit ;)
you are right, I never will gain back the 5 minutes I took to google that bit of trivia, but hey, it was 5 minutes of trivializing worth spent. Better than 5 minutes lost from smoking, or some other bad habit ;)
RE: Can we please stop using ~ ?
We all know what we are referring to here and you obviously figured it out too so think you should just go with the flow....Just call it a CC thing!
I don't think all should stop because you think it is improper...that is a bit much to ask....lol
I don't think all should stop because you think it is improper...that is a bit much to ask....lol
RE: Can we please stop using ~ ?
I can't believe the childish, even hostile responses in this thread!
I wasn't being a "speach dictator" or requiring people to do anything, let alone trying to "force" my way on anyone.
I was simply making a request, a simple request, a request which, as far as I can see, is reasonable. Yes, of course people will continue doing it. But maybe some will stop and try for better communication.
If it is not allowed to make such requests, and hope for the best, then forgive me for breaking some unwritten law here at CC.
I'm enough of an optimist to actually believe some people will want to better themselves. But maybe I'm wrong there too. Obviously I was wrong for the majority of people who responsed to this thread.
I wasn't being a "speach dictator" or requiring people to do anything, let alone trying to "force" my way on anyone.
I was simply making a request, a simple request, a request which, as far as I can see, is reasonable. Yes, of course people will continue doing it. But maybe some will stop and try for better communication.
If it is not allowed to make such requests, and hope for the best, then forgive me for breaking some unwritten law here at CC.
I'm enough of an optimist to actually believe some people will want to better themselves. But maybe I'm wrong there too. Obviously I was wrong for the majority of people who responsed to this thread.
RE: Can we please stop using ~ ?
It is very typical here. A person can see all the way through the forums where a simple question is asked and is met with many hostile responses. Often the topic is thrown completely off track.
This forum is suppose to be for everyone to post thoughts, questions, suggestions or anything at all thinking that helpful, useful responses will be given, and even maybe with some humor. Unfortunately that is not always the case. As often a person has to go through hostile responses before the real responses regarding the topic are seen.
It is such a shame as this could be a very fun, informative, interesting place.
Alright now that I have said my five cents worth, I am sure I will get met with some heavy sticks. :)
This forum is suppose to be for everyone to post thoughts, questions, suggestions or anything at all thinking that helpful, useful responses will be given, and even maybe with some humor. Unfortunately that is not always the case. As often a person has to go through hostile responses before the real responses regarding the topic are seen.
It is such a shame as this could be a very fun, informative, interesting place.
Alright now that I have said my five cents worth, I am sure I will get met with some heavy sticks. :)
RE: Why Men Are Happier
Amusing. But got me thinking, do men really have one mood all the time?
RE: Why Men Are Happier
Here toilet paper pass to Tisme now, Because u kept saying "shit" So i thought u need one by right now? :P
RE: Why Men Are Happier
i stand corrected.2 moods with 3 shades of each.the above & horny,hornier & horniest.the shitty shades usually happen if these shades aren't satisfied! :--)
RE: Why Men Are Happier
And yet women live longer.
Of course most Darwin award winners are men.
Of course most Darwin award winners are men.
RE: Why Men Are Happier
You wrote: "Men can do their Christmas shopping for 25 relatives on Christmas Eve in 25 minutes"
Actually, it takes me 35 minutes. But that's only because the wife does most of the shopping. I just have to buy for her. She's already bought my parents, my kids, my aunts and uncles, my secretary, my friends. In fact, I don't think I've had the slightest idea what gifts we have given to all of them, and when they say, "Why thank you for such a thoughtful gift" I just look at them and smile, and say "you're welcome."
Ahhhh, to be a man!
Actually, it takes me 35 minutes. But that's only because the wife does most of the shopping. I just have to buy for her. She's already bought my parents, my kids, my aunts and uncles, my secretary, my friends. In fact, I don't think I've had the slightest idea what gifts we have given to all of them, and when they say, "Why thank you for such a thoughtful gift" I just look at them and smile, and say "you're welcome."
Ahhhh, to be a man!
RE: love hits u like a truck
are we talking about romance or the kind of love you need to clean up with a mop and bucket?
RE: love hits u like a truck
I always thought of it as being hit by a wave....first there are few smaller waves and then...you see the big one is coming and it washes over you and you are totally soaked and in love.
joke
An executive with a new young wife and a yen for golf decided about December one year that he couldn't take it any longer.
So he said to his wife one evening, "Honey, next Friday we're going to Hilton Head for the weekend. We'll get a condo on the golf course and I'm going to play golf all weekend."
"That sounds fine," she purred. And, sure enough, next Saturday morning at 6 a.m., found him on the golf course, all alone.
After playing two holes, he noticed a man carrying a golf bag walking toward him across a fairway.
The exec. waited, and the other man arrived, saying, "Mind if I play along?"
The exec. said, "Fine. Glad to have the company."
All went well for a couple of holes, until each approached the sixth green. When the new fellow laid down his clubs, the cover came off one club.
The exec. noticed, however, that it wasn't a club at all. It was a high powered rifle.
"Whoa," he said. "That's a high powered rifle!"
"Look," said the other man. "I'm not out to cause any trouble. If you want me to leave, I will. No hard feelings."
"No. No," said the exec. "I'm just curious as to why you have a high-powered rifle in your bag."
The other man pondered for a moment and then said, "Well, I'll tell you. It's my business. It's what I do for a living."
"Wow," said the other. "I've heard about guys like you, but I've never met one before."
"Still want me to play?" said the other.
"Sure," said the Erie exec. "As a matter of fact, you know, I do a little hunting. Would you mind if I look at it?"
The other man showed him the rifle. It was beautiful--an inlaid Weatherby with a huge powerful scope mounted on it.
The exec. picked it up, looked through the scope, and said, "Gee, I can see the window of my condo with this thing. Matter of fact, there's my wife." He lowered the gun for a moment and said, "she doesn't have any clothes on." He looked through the scope again. "Damn, there's a guy with her."
The Erie exec. lowered the rifle and looked at the other man. "How much do you charge?"
"$10,000 a bullet," said the man.
The Erie man thought for a moment, and said, "Do it."
"Which one?" said the hit man.
"Both," said the exec.
"That's $20,000, you know."
"I don't care, hit 'em both."
The hit man took two cartridges from his bag and loaded the rifle. "Where do you want me to get the man?" he asked.
"Blow his nuts off" said the exec.
"How about the woman?"
"In the mouth. She's always flapping her gums anyway."
"Ok," said the hit man as he raised the rifle. Taking careful aim, he clicked off the safety, but then he paused and chuckled. "Mister," he said, "I think I'm going to be able to save you ten thousand dollars."
So he said to his wife one evening, "Honey, next Friday we're going to Hilton Head for the weekend. We'll get a condo on the golf course and I'm going to play golf all weekend."
"That sounds fine," she purred. And, sure enough, next Saturday morning at 6 a.m., found him on the golf course, all alone.
After playing two holes, he noticed a man carrying a golf bag walking toward him across a fairway.
The exec. waited, and the other man arrived, saying, "Mind if I play along?"
The exec. said, "Fine. Glad to have the company."
All went well for a couple of holes, until each approached the sixth green. When the new fellow laid down his clubs, the cover came off one club.
The exec. noticed, however, that it wasn't a club at all. It was a high powered rifle.
"Whoa," he said. "That's a high powered rifle!"
"Look," said the other man. "I'm not out to cause any trouble. If you want me to leave, I will. No hard feelings."
"No. No," said the exec. "I'm just curious as to why you have a high-powered rifle in your bag."
The other man pondered for a moment and then said, "Well, I'll tell you. It's my business. It's what I do for a living."
"Wow," said the other. "I've heard about guys like you, but I've never met one before."
"Still want me to play?" said the other.
"Sure," said the Erie exec. "As a matter of fact, you know, I do a little hunting. Would you mind if I look at it?"
The other man showed him the rifle. It was beautiful--an inlaid Weatherby with a huge powerful scope mounted on it.
The exec. picked it up, looked through the scope, and said, "Gee, I can see the window of my condo with this thing. Matter of fact, there's my wife." He lowered the gun for a moment and said, "she doesn't have any clothes on." He looked through the scope again. "Damn, there's a guy with her."
The Erie exec. lowered the rifle and looked at the other man. "How much do you charge?"
"$10,000 a bullet," said the man.
The Erie man thought for a moment, and said, "Do it."
"Which one?" said the hit man.
"Both," said the exec.
"That's $20,000, you know."
"I don't care, hit 'em both."
The hit man took two cartridges from his bag and loaded the rifle. "Where do you want me to get the man?" he asked.
"Blow his nuts off" said the exec.
"How about the woman?"
"In the mouth. She's always flapping her gums anyway."
"Ok," said the hit man as he raised the rifle. Taking careful aim, he clicked off the safety, but then he paused and chuckled. "Mister," he said, "I think I'm going to be able to save you ten thousand dollars."
wondering...
Do members have a problem when a hosts asks what he is into and what he is wanting in a video.,..so that both are sure the member is not disappointed..?
RE: wondering...
While it may remove some of the mystique if one intends to fantasize the encounter as being "conquest' , it's a rather thoughtful gesture in my opinion.
RE: wondering...
I can understand that, and agree...but at the same time once u agree to do one thing they have asked and then the person changes their mind and their request...then starts telling you to do things other than agreed upon and you say well I am sorry I dont do that...bingo they get mad, disappointed and say "well why did you not tell me that before"...which I would have if he had told me what kind of show he wanted when he was asked. rather than "well we will start with you showing me your bush and go from there"...loool...it is not like I am in a hardcore category...
RE: wondering...
I have same problem......it very difficult when that happen...........I say ok to one thing they change mind and want different in show..........then I stuck with angry veiwer.
RE: wondering...
I think its a case of once they get you going, then they ask for what they really wanted in the first place hoping your now suddenly horny and in the mood to play.. and that you will loose your principles and say yessss BB Ill "insert what ever pervy request here" myself for you now that you asked so nicely...
RE: wondering...
You are right you can do that! And for the Alpha it also works good! But you must ask the camgirl slow and the camgirl must do all you ask or you leave again and can report her because you are the viewer! I am right?
RE: wondering...
Yes Alpha the host is obligated to do what you agreed to before the session started.
"But you must ask the camgirl slow"
If you mean while in the session she is moving too fast then you can ask her to slow down. or If you mean to talk to the host slow, then yes, with the language barriers it is good idea to speak slowly so that you understand what is being said.
Enjoy your time with the host of your choice....:)
"But you must ask the camgirl slow"
If you mean while in the session she is moving too fast then you can ask her to slow down. or If you mean to talk to the host slow, then yes, with the language barriers it is good idea to speak slowly so that you understand what is being said.
Enjoy your time with the host of your choice....:)
RE: wondering...
I have never had a shy host ask me what I was into. I usually get the 20 question routine, name, location, marital status, my job, my cam, my bank balance, my credit card limit etc.
RE: wondering...
Really? wow...I mean i usually ask how are you, location, not the other stuff unless I am asked that, but yes I always ask what a person is into and what they are wanting in a session. How else is one to know what to do in a session and what a viewer is wanting. Viewers have different requests, so one needs to know what to do and not just guess and hope to get it right....
Have a nice Sunday...
Have a nice Sunday...
RE: wondering...
" Viewers have different requests, so one needs to know what to do and not just guess and hope to get it right.... "
When I ask a shy host for show in pvt, a few do one, but most tell me to go to IA for show.
When I ask a shy host for show in pvt, a few do one, but most tell me to go to IA for show.
RE: wondering...
Well the answer will depend on what is it you are asking them to do in a show. That is why it is important to know and ask what the viewer is asking the host to do in a show. I would think that asking a viewer what he is into and what he wants her to do in a show would be one of the main questions asked...
RE: wondering...
Well the answer will depend on what is it you are asking them to do in a show" I agree, but in little shy I only ask for naked show and many times am told to go to IA or hell a few times. And it even happened a time or 2 with hosts that play Strip Hi Lo.
RE: wondering...
Well if all you are asking for is nude show, then that seems rather harmless. if the host you ask does not do nude then simply letting you know is all that is needed...and as for asking for it in strip hi lo, if the host does not want to be nude then she should not be playing that game.
RE: wondering...
Girls in softcore do not generally do a "show" but rather just flirt and tease with the member individually. That is what softcore viewers enjoy because it is more like they are seducing the host rather than her just doing a pre-designed show with little interaction as in hardcore.
RE: wondering...
After a few mintues of converstaion I think a good host is smart to ask the member what he is looking for in video. That gives the member the opportunity to specifically say what he wants in detail...and the host can say yes or come back with a counter offer.
Remember...repeat what you want and make sure the host says Yes I will do that...not...come and well' find out, or maybe, or depends on you, or depends on my mood, or depends if you turn me on.... get a yes or no. No...either renegotiate until a yes or leave. Avoid the scam.
Remember...repeat what you want and make sure the host says Yes I will do that...not...come and well' find out, or maybe, or depends on you, or depends on my mood, or depends if you turn me on.... get a yes or no. No...either renegotiate until a yes or leave. Avoid the scam.
RE: wondering...
Thank you "So" I could not have said it better, that is exactly the reason that I ask, some members get annoyed when I ask and come back with, "well surprise me" or "do what you do best" or "guess" or "you know what I want" or :well what do you like (as if there is one or two standard things that I like..) and many like that which really do not help me to be able to say yes or no thank you.
If the member is not going to tell us what he wants then how can he expect us to know, heck if I was able to read minds, not only would that be a miracle but I really do not think I would be here...loool
Be well everyone :)
If the member is not going to tell us what he wants then how can he expect us to know, heck if I was able to read minds, not only would that be a miracle but I really do not think I would be here...loool
Be well everyone :)
RE: wondering...
The only thing that ruins that is the fact we are men. And we think we are clever and charming and sexy. Most of us are not. Once we have a girl agree to something...it is in out nature to try and persuade her to give more....I am sure you have heard...Oh Baby...please show me more or I won't be able to cum...or...Show me I will come to your video every day for the rest of my life.....or the mean spiritied...come on baby or I will give you 1 star and trash you in the forums.... So...what did we learn...men are pigs...and despite that...it is always good for the member and host to understand what is expected in the show...and stick to it...we hold the host to it...she should be able to hold the member to the agreement too....
RE: wondering...
Actually, no I have not heard any of those statements....knock on wood...but I have heard that we are no more than "online prostitutes" and yes I have heard those exact two words a number of times..I don't think there are many hosts have not been trashed in the forums, even a compliment there is usually someone fast to turn it into an insult, even if they have not seen you...lol...I know very well about the mean men, which is why I its important to know what is wanted before agreeing to a video...as for holding the member to what was agreed upon...I agree but that is easier said then done, and often if they do not get what they want, they get angry and rate you low anyway, and some will post negative about you in forum.
I do not think men are pigs, some simply let their hormones take over and then instead of seeing us as a person we become objects. but then to be fair, some on here see members as money signs and not as people..I hope the day never comes that I stop seeing people as people no matter how they are... :)
I do not think men are pigs, some simply let their hormones take over and then instead of seeing us as a person we become objects. but then to be fair, some on here see members as money signs and not as people..I hope the day never comes that I stop seeing people as people no matter how they are... :)
RE: qoute for the day
Good evening Mr. Rockefuller,
pls allow me to remind u that only the coins have 2 faces, while people and diamonds have more.
Violence is most likely an effect of something and not a cause of it. Sometimes it's an effect of low glicemy or of a mental disease, simple as that.
Violence has minimum 3 major genres: the attack, the revenge and the self-defence. Not all of them are to be blamed.
Violence is also the ultimate reaction in front of extinction. Of LIFE.
U seem to be a bit bored this evening Sir, but pls be carefull because such minimal philosophy can be considered as superiour, arrogant or even violent by other human beens.
pls allow me to remind u that only the coins have 2 faces, while people and diamonds have more.
Violence is most likely an effect of something and not a cause of it. Sometimes it's an effect of low glicemy or of a mental disease, simple as that.
Violence has minimum 3 major genres: the attack, the revenge and the self-defence. Not all of them are to be blamed.
Violence is also the ultimate reaction in front of extinction. Of LIFE.
U seem to be a bit bored this evening Sir, but pls be carefull because such minimal philosophy can be considered as superiour, arrogant or even violent by other human beens.
RE: qoute for the day
While I think the response is rather heavy in dissecting the premise, it is indeed well stated. ........................
Men strike back..
If your dog is barking at the back door and your wife is yelling at the front door, who do you let in first?
The dog, of course. He'll shut up once you let him in.
The dog, of course. He'll shut up once you let him in.
RE: Men strike back..
Who are you striking back at, the host that said thank you for the tip, or the one that stated a fact that there are men who intentionally will read a profile and try to force the host to change her mind?
Profile Photo Tip
When you take photos for your profile pics...look at the camera...not your monitor. The photos where the host is looking at the camera are really more appealing and sexier in my opinion. Just look at the camera and take a bunch of pics...then you can delete the ones you don't like.
RE: Profile Photo Tip
Thank you for the tip "So"...... I will give that a try......
Have a nice weekend.. :)
Have a nice weekend.. :)
RE: Profile Photo Tip
might have been meant as helpful advice but comes across as an instruction, I'd suggest you don't apply for that job in the diplomatic service just yet.
Read profiles, pls!
Dear members, why don`t u read hosts` profiles? It`s not too hard to do it, it will take just 3 minutes of yr time! In my profile it`s written I DON`T STRIP!, so why hundreds of members come into My room and ask Meto take clothes off?! And when I refuse, they just go away and rate Me bad. Really annoying!
RE: Read profiles, pls!
that's because many girls just do it!and they are getting frustrated if someone doesn't do it!no matter what u will write in yr profile or the category u are in!i think it's a new "fetish".they might get turned on because they rate u bad:)))
RE: Read profiles, pls!
this happen bcs many Mistress accept to be also slaves, and do everything for some extra money, is not only the members mistake, everything start from the girls who choose the wrong category and if few do everything the members will think all of as are the same :-(, sad but happen
RE: Read profiles, pls!
I think most profiles are pretty generic and don't give you much insight into the host or her show...so members generally don't read them. I have no doubt you took time to write specifically what you do or don't in your profile but again...members are used to ignoring them. I wish CC added an Icon.....a no-nudity icon...that is easy to see that says...host does not provide nudity in her shows. Easy.
RE: Read profiles, pls!
reading Profiles will schock u discovering how some of us are working on them, giving u a sample of how we talk or how we are, trying to help u to avoid spending money in vane and funny but after all these good intentions all we get from some guys are ... bad ratings :))))))
RE: Read profiles, pls!
I read proflies, but I do not believe them until I meet the host. Some profiles are written by the studio, and the host doesn't know what it says! One new girl had "double penatration" on profile in little shy, and then said she did not strip at all!
RE: Read profiles, pls!
Some members do read the profiles, and then intentionally try to convince, pressure and force a host to do the things that she has said no to...
We are screwed no matter what we do ....lol...
We are screwed no matter what we do ....lol...
RE: Read profiles, pls!
The terms softcore and hardcore and the alignment of the categories is confusing. CC informed me the only nude required categories are Strip Hi Lo, Not So Shy and Instant Action. Period! That's it! In my opinion ,they should list Glamour and Little Shy in softcore and Not So Shy and Instant Action in hardcore. And list all other categories separately.
RE: Read profiles, pls!
And here I always thought
that hardcore was far more than baring one's all.
that softcore was oft for not doing it all
A matter of degrees, from sex act to tease
at least, that's how I was taught.
that hardcore was far more than baring one's all.
that softcore was oft for not doing it all
A matter of degrees, from sex act to tease
at least, that's how I was taught.
RE: Read profiles, pls!
Taught? They had to teach you the difference between Softcore and Hardcore? Geez! and I though I was a loser for not noticing the difference between glamour and Not so Shy!
RE: smarty2
Not sure I'll still visit your room after such a post...
And about its contents, knowing the job you perform, I didn't expect you to mention milking the cow free of charge. Don't you think chathosts are doing it at a given price per minute? Nice week-end Sarah ;-)!
And about its contents, knowing the job you perform, I didn't expect you to mention milking the cow free of charge. Don't you think chathosts are doing it at a given price per minute? Nice week-end Sarah ;-)!
RE: smarty2
But what if the pig has a fine mansion , a Rolls Royce , a full domestic staff, a second home at the water and loves to buy expensive jewelry for his girl? Is he still a "pig"?
joke
The Pope was cruising along the beach in the Pope-mobile when there was a frantic commotion just off-shore. A helpless man, wearing an English rugby jersey, was struggling frantically to free himself from the jaws of a 25 foot shark.
As the Pope watched in horror, a speedboat pulled up with three men wearing Welsh, Irish and Scottish rugby jerseys. One quickly fired a harpoon into the shark's side while the other two reached out and pulled the hapless English fan from the water. Then, using long clubs, the three beat the shark to death and hauled it into the boat.
Immediately the Pope shouted and summoned them to him. "I give you my blessing for your brave actions. I heard that there were some bitter hatred between the Celts and England rugby fans, but now I have seen with my own eyes that this is not true."
As the Pope drove off, the harpooner asked his buddies: "Who was that?"
"It was the Pope," one replied. "He is in direct contact with God and has access to all of God's wisdom."
"Well" the harpooner said, "he may have access to God and his wisdom, but he doesn't know anything about shark fishing. Is the bait holding up OK or do we need to get another one?"
As the Pope watched in horror, a speedboat pulled up with three men wearing Welsh, Irish and Scottish rugby jerseys. One quickly fired a harpoon into the shark's side while the other two reached out and pulled the hapless English fan from the water. Then, using long clubs, the three beat the shark to death and hauled it into the boat.
Immediately the Pope shouted and summoned them to him. "I give you my blessing for your brave actions. I heard that there were some bitter hatred between the Celts and England rugby fans, but now I have seen with my own eyes that this is not true."
As the Pope drove off, the harpooner asked his buddies: "Who was that?"
"It was the Pope," one replied. "He is in direct contact with God and has access to all of God's wisdom."
"Well" the harpooner said, "he may have access to God and his wisdom, but he doesn't know anything about shark fishing. Is the bait holding up OK or do we need to get another one?"
Mexico City considers fixed-term marriage licences
Interested in peoples views on this news today... Progressive or the begining of the end....
Mexico City politicians want to help newlyweds avoid the hassle of divorce by giving them an easy exit strategy: temporary marriage licences.
The minimum marriage contract would be for two years and could be renewed if the couple stays happy. The contracts would include provisions on how children and property would be handled if the couple splits.
"The proposal is, when the two-year period is up, if the relationship is not stable or harmonious, the contract simply ends," said Leonel Luna, the Mexico City assembly member who co-authored the bill.
"You wouldn't have to go through the tortuous process of divorce," said Luna, from the lefwing Party of the Democratic Revolution, which has the most seats in the 66-member chamber. Luna says the proposed law is gaining support and he expects a vote by the end of this year.
Mexico City politicians want to help newlyweds avoid the hassle of divorce by giving them an easy exit strategy: temporary marriage licences.
The minimum marriage contract would be for two years and could be renewed if the couple stays happy. The contracts would include provisions on how children and property would be handled if the couple splits.
"The proposal is, when the two-year period is up, if the relationship is not stable or harmonious, the contract simply ends," said Leonel Luna, the Mexico City assembly member who co-authored the bill.
"You wouldn't have to go through the tortuous process of divorce," said Luna, from the lefwing Party of the Democratic Revolution, which has the most seats in the 66-member chamber. Luna says the proposed law is gaining support and he expects a vote by the end of this year.
lol
Wikipedia:I know everything!!!
Google:I have everything!!!
Facebook:I know everyone!!!
Internet:Without me u r nothing
The electricity: Continue talking, idiots :))
Google:I have everything!!!
Facebook:I know everyone!!!
Internet:Without me u r nothing
The electricity: Continue talking, idiots :))
Euro 2012
Euro 2012 is next summer in Poland & Ukraine. Is there excitement? England may even qualify this time....
CC and other cam sites from a viewer's persepective
Cam sites have always been for me an escape from reality. I can log on and see a stranger get naked for me by asking(in the appropriate categories). I try that in the real world and I'm headed for jail. And if I just want to chat with a pretty girl I can do that too. Again chatting up a stranger can get you in jail too. It is impossible to contract STDs on line. It is the ultimate in safe sex. I remain anonymous. To me being anonymous is the biggest draw of the internet.
RE: CC and other cam sites from a viewer's persepective
Being anonymous can be pretty lonely, though.
RE: CC and other cam sites from a viewer's persepective
Agree with you, minus the safe sex, because I can't see how masturbating in front of your computer can be called that. Self-gratification is safe by definition, since you're the only one involved, cam sites or not.
RE: CC and other cam sites from a viewer's persepective
No STD's is safe sex and with a naked lady chatting with you can be very stimulating....
RE: CC and other cam sites from a viewer's persepective
Safe sex? Try empty, unfulfilled sex.
Sex is meant to be an interaction between two people, not a mutual wank in front of a PC monitor.
The problem with cam sites is it becomes a poor substitute for the real thing, it's easier because it doesn't involve intimacy. It doesn't involve having to go beyond the sexual encounter with real day to day life. It doesn't have to put up with a partners idiosyncracies which make him or her unique but which also can test a relationship to the fullest. It doesn't require respect, and truly seeking to satisfy the partner, only oneself. It doesn't require truly knowing, and being known, with all of our zits, warts, moles, both physical and personally. And by its nature -- quick and immediate -- it can rob one of the desire and/or the ability to have lasting sexual gratification with a spouse or partner, which requires time, sensitivity, foreplay and a desire to please as well as be pleased.
Camsite sex is okay as far as it goes, for a short-term fix, but if the virtual fantasy is becoming your reality, then you have definite problems. And, if that is all you have, then you are to be pitied. And Real life, with real person in person, is where it's at, not on the other side of a computer screen.
Camsite sex is lazy sex for the person who can't or won't put forth effort in real life relationship; uncommitted, impersonal sex, that doesn't require the investment of oneself in a relationship.
It's okay for occasionial fun, but not for a lifestyle.
-- Submitted by one who knows he spends way too much time on sites like this
Sex is meant to be an interaction between two people, not a mutual wank in front of a PC monitor.
The problem with cam sites is it becomes a poor substitute for the real thing, it's easier because it doesn't involve intimacy. It doesn't involve having to go beyond the sexual encounter with real day to day life. It doesn't have to put up with a partners idiosyncracies which make him or her unique but which also can test a relationship to the fullest. It doesn't require respect, and truly seeking to satisfy the partner, only oneself. It doesn't require truly knowing, and being known, with all of our zits, warts, moles, both physical and personally. And by its nature -- quick and immediate -- it can rob one of the desire and/or the ability to have lasting sexual gratification with a spouse or partner, which requires time, sensitivity, foreplay and a desire to please as well as be pleased.
Camsite sex is okay as far as it goes, for a short-term fix, but if the virtual fantasy is becoming your reality, then you have definite problems. And, if that is all you have, then you are to be pitied. And Real life, with real person in person, is where it's at, not on the other side of a computer screen.
Camsite sex is lazy sex for the person who can't or won't put forth effort in real life relationship; uncommitted, impersonal sex, that doesn't require the investment of oneself in a relationship.
It's okay for occasionial fun, but not for a lifestyle.
-- Submitted by one who knows he spends way too much time on sites like this
RE: CC and other cam sites from a viewer's persepective
Nope, sorry, my heart is someone else's
RE: CC and other cam sites from a viewer's persepective
Very good insight. Having befriended a very popular host from another site (but also on here) I asked her what she thought about guys paying money to see them. She replied that she can't believe they do it (women just really aren't interested on this) but she's glad they do it!
RE: Tampa Bay
Yankees played AAA players vs Tampa while Phillies played first team vs Atlanta ...... yankees are a NO CLASS group I hope Phillies win it all ...Respect to Philly in how the games should be played season is 162 games ! YANKEES SUCK
RE: Tampa Bay
Wouldn't it just be the coolest to be able play a little kids' game for a living? And to make millions doing it?
Man, oh man, kind of makes a person wonder a little bit about society's values.
Man, oh man, kind of makes a person wonder a little bit about society's values.
RE: Tampa Bay
no problem, just tell them to pay their fair share......jeez, no one can say anything anymore about anything without some one making a political bunch of shit out of it
RE: Tampa Bay
I bet you say the same thing about your favorite left wing actor when you pay your $15 to see some bad movie they made with the help of generous tax breaks............easy answer to all the mone either of them make....don't buy tickets
RE: Tampa Bay
damn, i forgot to mention how much money they get paid to make those wretched movies
RE: Tampa Bay
But really, why do adults, adult males in particular, follow sports at all? Beyond a certain age, the kind of hero worship displayed for other guys chasing around balls has to speak to a certain kind of latent homosexual thrill, doesn't it?
RE: Tampa Bay
Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhh! you're a shrink too. Guess you never played the game as kid. Too busy in the library? I suppose the only fun you get in life is watching girls in cc vids. How sad is that?
RE: Tampa Bay
So you follow professional sports now precisely because they play the same games you played as a child. I ask you, what could be any more sad than a broken old man getting some kind of vicarious thrill from watching a group of grown over-paid men playing a game he played back when he was ten years old?
RE: Tampa Bay
how about a man looking at naked women 30 years younger hoping to relive his youth .
Time
Time to get a life----we come here to be kings, we come here to think we are studs, we come here to take a break from our real wives, we come here to spend a lot of money (that later some we regret, but not me), we come here to see naked women, we come here to chat (due to we tired of our daily life), anyway you get the picture now, thanks cc for the many years providing me with all the lust I can handle, been a blast, but time to move on and get a life, and by the way I will let the door hit me in the ass on the way out--many kisses and always wish you the best today and in the future....time to get a life
Jurassic Discovery
Paleontologists have made an amazing find -- two fossilized female dinosaurs in 69 position. Scientists have determined that this was the first case of lesbian dinosaurs. They have named the species: Lickalotapus
RE: smarty
Happy to see you post ... many on site were sincerely worried about the reasons for your absence ... glad you are back and spirited with your "Touche" ...
RE: smarty
reasons for her absence? she is usually on ever day apart from the weekends (sometimes she comes on) so what "absence" are you talking about?
Boxing - Too many Champions
I can understand different weight limits, but having all these governing bodies has devalued the name world champion.
Any views? Too serious for here? Oh well, back to the rooms for a tug then
Any views? Too serious for here? Oh well, back to the rooms for a tug then
RE: Boxing - Too many Champions
the worse thing about boxing is you see your favorite maybe once a year in a match.
RE: Boxing - Too many Champions
and as in all sports boxing is nothing more than a showbiz circus. The champion is not really the best fighter, instead is the chose one by big people in the showbiz to be the marketing puppet.
RE: Boxing - Too many Champions
if this is even close to the truth, boxing is doing a terrible job picking a puppet , since its been going down hill since the the great middleweights of the 80s.
RE: Boxing - Too many Champions
I don't really care, I just enjoy watching people incur brain damage.
does anyone feel the same
isn't it all becoming a bit samey..same type of girls same script...all been fake and pretending they not what they are...
..which is a shame cos mostly tey nice girls..
..but i gettiong bored think i'll be leaving soon....
anyone elses thoughts
..which is a shame cos mostly tey nice girls..
..but i gettiong bored think i'll be leaving soon....
anyone elses thoughts
RE: does anyone feel the same
Not for me, I've lost many a load of baby batter here, teen girls, older women, athletic girls, larger girls, big titties, bee sting titties, even muscly girls here, all mean the same result for me, any type of women for any type of perv, Brilliant
RE: does anyone feel the same
Well, I see your maturity level hasn't improved while I was away. Nice to know that some things in life never change.
INTEREST? Why not discuss what only we really can ... CC
Why not talk about why we come here ... some of us for years and tens of thousands ... what is the draw of the Beauty we find on cc ... what is it that makes some hosts so intriguing that what begins as a break in the life to relax into ready pleasure becomes a most wonderful conversation, a sensually magical experience becomes months of connecting, then meeting in non virtual reality and creating a relationship that ends in the best of friendships ... how.. with what feminine instincts ... do some hosts create everything that is virtually possible intimacy ............ wouldn't it be so incredibly instructive to guests and hosts alike .... if such a Conversation could "happen" here ............ interested anyone???????????
RE: INTEREST? Why not discuss what only we really can ... CC
I think the main draw is youth and everything that being young entials...soft beautiful hair, bright eyes, flawless skin, a lean tight body, a nice smile, a degree of innocence and naivete. Youth is so fleeting and as many members are not as young as they once were it is precious. In real life if an older member were to approach a young woman they would get nowhere...perhaps jail if they are too forward. Here...they can chat with a host, pretend to seduce her and have her tease him and excite him to orgasm. Impossible in the real world...here...it happens all the time. So sure..members come here for other reasons but most I think it is the certainty that a young woman will entertain you regardless of your age, appearance or personal life and that is the magic of CC.
RE: INTEREST? Why not discuss what only we really can ... CC
Many young members here, I even think most of the members about 25-40 y.o. they can have young women in real, the reasons why they come here different.
RE: INTEREST? Why not discuss what only we really can ... CC
Maybe there...but a man 30 or over who tries to hit on an 18-19 year old girl in the USA generally gets laughed at. Once you get too old to go clubbing the source of hot young woman dries up. But...like everything...I am sure there are a lot of reasons why people do things including coming to CC.
RE: INTEREST? Why not discuss what only we really can ... CC
30+ men so need to date 18-20 girls? lol 25-30 yo girls look the same in now days but much more interesting to have relationship...no problems here
RE: INTEREST? Why not discuss what only we really can ... CC
ahhhh .... the conversation evolves ... a host has joined ... thank you
RE: INTEREST? Why not discuss what only we really can ... CC
i have found young girls the world over to be most open to the gifts an older man may bring into her life .... and of course it is a mutual giving
RE: INTEREST? Why not discuss what only we really can ... CC
"Many young members here, I even think most of the members about 25-40 y.o. they can have young women in real"
Sorry but I disagree. If they could get young women in real world , they would not be here!
Sorry but I disagree. If they could get young women in real world , they would not be here!
RE: INTEREST? Why not discuss what only we really can ... CC
ahhh so agreed ... i might add i've been blessed with several wonderful in-the-real-world relationships with our cc host beauties ... Life Is Good !
RE: INTEREST? Why not discuss what only we really can ... CC
there are some nice looking females on here that are 30+ and 40+ that still look good and some do not even look their age. that are independent, do not look at a man for what he can buy her...plus they can hold a conversation. But unfortunately the mature/older men tend to look for the younger age and looks...if the age does not show under 30 then those females are not wanted....I am more attracted to a older/mature man.
But then there are also more and more younger men that are wanting older females...is a strange world we live in....lool
But then there are also more and more younger men that are wanting older females...is a strange world we live in....lool
RE: INTEREST? Why not discuss what only we really can ... CC
I get both young and older members and I have no problem having my room very busy so I guess it depends on who is experiencing. I also get some women who come to my video's and couples too so there is a very large crowd that is very diverse.
I think older men that come to this site assume that all are looking for younger girls like he might be thinking but it certainly is not the case. Enjoy all there is something for all!
I think older men that come to this site assume that all are looking for younger girls like he might be thinking but it certainly is not the case. Enjoy all there is something for all!
RE: INTEREST? Why not discuss what only we really can ... CC
Do you often have these conversations with yourself?
RE: INTEREST? Why not discuss what only we really can ... CC
That is purely from your perspective as most guys proclaim when they post here for the simple reason that it is their interest. Believe it or not there are many different interests for what draws to CC or other similar sites.
I think it would be nice instead of members proclaiming to be experts in their personal knowledge to simple say what their personal reasons are. The hosts know best what her audience is attracted to and there are many different scenarios and it is not just old men looking for young flesh...lol
I think it would be nice instead of members proclaiming to be experts in their personal knowledge to simple say what their personal reasons are. The hosts know best what her audience is attracted to and there are many different scenarios and it is not just old men looking for young flesh...lol
RE: INTEREST? Why not discuss what only we really can ... CC
"...there is my favorite group of intellectual members in late thrities till old age who come to have a nice conversation. those become my friends..."
Exactly!! thank you! It's not like I don't want to have fun, but I've met some extremely bright women on CC, anywhere from 20 to early 30's in my case. Do I turn off my brain? NO!
Exactly!! thank you! It's not like I don't want to have fun, but I've met some extremely bright women on CC, anywhere from 20 to early 30's in my case. Do I turn off my brain? NO!
RE: INTEREST? Why not discuss what only we really can ... CC
There are intelligent women here beyond 30's too from your limited experience that is what you have experienced :)
RE: INTEREST? Why not discuss what only we really can ... CC
So you stop at the early 30's age and beyond that you have no interest right ? lol
RE: INTEREST? Why not discuss what only we really can ... CC
Pfffft... you're only interested in picking words apart. I do not practice age discrimination, if that is your point. That is simply the age range of the hosts I have visited. YMMV
RE: INTEREST? Why not discuss what only we really can ... CC
No I was not picking words apart, was just asking...sorry if I offended you with my question. I will not say anything any more in this forum, again sorry for offending by asking a question...
RE: INTEREST? Why not discuss what only we really can ... CC
Ah, no, please don't stop posting because of me... it's difficult to judge the tone of a question sometimes, and I got a bit prickly lol. Especially because I have no idea who you are! That is just the nature of this kind of discourse, anonymous or partially so...
No offense intended, and none taken.
No offense intended, and none taken.
RE: INTEREST? Why not discuss what only we really can ... CC
wonderful, caring response! APPLAUSE
RE: INTEREST? Why not discuss what only we really can ... CC
misunderstandings occur all the time when there is not an active real time back and forth conversation.... please do not feel any blame or need to withdraw from this conversation ... obviously .... and for myself I had no idea ... that age is a big issue .... so it's worth discussing this way = openly
RE: INTEREST? Why not discuss what only we really can ... CC
"intellectual members", I kinda like that)))
RE: INTEREST? Why not discuss what only we really can ... CC
yes, yes i get much more from one sharing what they absolutely know about themselves, their needs and wants than from someone's 'expert' opinion on the world-at-large
RE: INTEREST? Why not discuss what only we really can ... CC
How wonderfully and honestly written ... for myself it what i was hoping from another guest ... an intelligent, self-reflective assessment of how cc serves us ... i hope hosts will also respond as candidly and sensitively what brings them to cc ... needs or wants ... hopes or fantasies ... do they surprise themselves that it is not just money that they gain from their hosting ... is it self revealing or exciting or an invaluable classroom .. and if so ... what does it teach ... ideally what could it teach ...are the profile statements about 'looking for a soulmate' true or just good copy .... hmmmmmn
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I have learned a lot from being on here...both good and bad...
I have learned that there are some very cold, cruel, mean, vengeful people on here (both male and female)
I have also learned that there are some very warm, caring, thoughtful people on here..as well as lonely people...
I have learned that you have to be very careful with your heart..and what you say and how you say it.....
I have learned that there are some very smart intelligent people on here..I have learned that not all men see us as trash and street walkers....
I have learned that on here it is possible to actually enjoy the pleasure...and that one does not have to pretend to enjoy....not that I would win any awards at it anyway...lol....
I have learned that it is ok to be different...I have learned that it is ok to speak my mind, even when I do get shot down.....
I learned that taking that time to lend and ear and listen to someone who needs it, makes a big difference...
I already knew that money was not everything, yes it pays the bills and puts food on the table...but it will never take the place of loving caring people....
One thing I did learn is that after my world fell apart and not wanting to let anyone else in...iI learned that to love someone again is a very special and wonderful thing....
I learned to let someone in and to trust them and for 5+ yrs only one person on this whole site was willing to accept me the way I am.. no matter what mood I am in...
I learned that it is ok to be human and that it is ok to cry...and that I do not always have to laugh...I learned that there are good qualities about me...sometimes they even out weigh my flaws...lool...
I learned that one minute you can have many and in a blink of the eye..you they can be gone......
I learned that both men and women are good at leading you to believe you matter, when they only care about the money they can get from you (that would be many of the females on here) and that all that matters is if you are young enough and under a certain age (that would be a number of male viewers on here)..
I have learned just how many look at that age rather than the person and that for many age really does matter.....
I came here because I really did not have any other choice nor option for the situation I was in at the time...and my time here has taught me soooooo much...
Thank you to everyone on here hat I have come in contact with in one way or another has taught me something....
I have learned that there are some very cold, cruel, mean, vengeful people on here (both male and female)
I have also learned that there are some very warm, caring, thoughtful people on here..as well as lonely people...
I have learned that you have to be very careful with your heart..and what you say and how you say it.....
I have learned that there are some very smart intelligent people on here..I have learned that not all men see us as trash and street walkers....
I have learned that on here it is possible to actually enjoy the pleasure...and that one does not have to pretend to enjoy....not that I would win any awards at it anyway...lol....
I have learned that it is ok to be different...I have learned that it is ok to speak my mind, even when I do get shot down.....
I learned that taking that time to lend and ear and listen to someone who needs it, makes a big difference...
I already knew that money was not everything, yes it pays the bills and puts food on the table...but it will never take the place of loving caring people....
One thing I did learn is that after my world fell apart and not wanting to let anyone else in...iI learned that to love someone again is a very special and wonderful thing....
I learned to let someone in and to trust them and for 5+ yrs only one person on this whole site was willing to accept me the way I am.. no matter what mood I am in...
I learned that it is ok to be human and that it is ok to cry...and that I do not always have to laugh...I learned that there are good qualities about me...sometimes they even out weigh my flaws...lool...
I learned that one minute you can have many and in a blink of the eye..you they can be gone......
I learned that both men and women are good at leading you to believe you matter, when they only care about the money they can get from you (that would be many of the females on here) and that all that matters is if you are young enough and under a certain age (that would be a number of male viewers on here)..
I have learned just how many look at that age rather than the person and that for many age really does matter.....
I came here because I really did not have any other choice nor option for the situation I was in at the time...and my time here has taught me soooooo much...
Thank you to everyone on here hat I have come in contact with in one way or another has taught me something....
RE: INTEREST? Why not discuss what only we really can ... CC
what an interesting, very real world we have all co-created in this cc space ... it seems that when you take the two strongest pulls ... sex and money ... and you put people with more than enough of both to offer each other ... a learning comes possible for all ... that shows that nakedness in all forms, sex, sensuality, intimacies ... given ... received/ paid for ... in abundance ... brings about interactions ... that are as interesting, as painful, as joyful, as informing, wounding and healing ... as i ever imagined a human community to be .... it really makes one recall those "60's In America" simple truths we've ... some of us ... heard/know of ... like "Make Love Not War" ... and see /feel in cc... what a universe ... a world ... mainly mainly focused on sexual pleasure for mutual pleasure and individual security gained ... can be ... cc ... i like it
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""Make Love Not War"
I was one of those that was required to "make war". I didn't burn my draft card and flee to Canada like so many cowards did.
I was one of those that was required to "make war". I didn't burn my draft card and flee to Canada like so many cowards did.
RE: INTEREST? Why not discuss what only we really can ... CC
ahhh how some old slogans carry such mixed feelings .... i was not making an anti war statement ... i lost two marine brothers in that hell ... i was simply wanting to talk about the effects of a love-sex-based site ... and i obviously chose a poor cliche to make my point .... i would hope you agree that the nature of cc is far more nurturing to all of us ... those that served in action or did not or served other causes or in other ways ... the needs served on cc seem simply far more satisfying to the heart and soul as well as the body than those served by war = my only point
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Oh it's just a riotous conflagrational joyous excess here with hosts waving their knickers in the air and members their cocks. So, what's to discuss?
RE: INTEREST? Why not discuss what only we really can ... CC
your wonderfully humorous depiction for one .... thanks :)))))
RE: INTEREST? Why not discuss what only we really can ... CC
Sorry but the word Knickers sounds like something I would never wear...I visualize something white and fluffy made of cotton with ruffles down to my knees kinda like what my great great granny would wear. Isn't panties a global word? Seems that all members know what to say to get the panties off...hehe
RE: INTEREST? Why not discuss what only we really can ... CC
knickers is a British term for panties....I find it gets a laugh when I tell a male not to get his man knickers in a knott....lol...
many words mean different things to different people...depending on where they are from...
So to a British person knickers does not only mean nor always mean something your granny would wear.... lol
have a great weekend everyone ... :)
many words mean different things to different people...depending on where they are from...
So to a British person knickers does not only mean nor always mean something your granny would wear.... lol
have a great weekend everyone ... :)